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 Good morning again. Welcome again to those who are joining us for the first time. We have one

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 final Sunday to remember and celebrate Christmas. Some of you know I'm from North Carolina and our

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 license plates all say first in flight. And there's a reason for that. It's because in December 1903,

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 Orville and Wilbur Wright made the first sustained, powered, controlled flight in human history in the

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 dunes at Kitty Hawk on the Outer Banks of North Carolina. Now, this was a major event.

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 No one in history had ever accomplished this, and it's clear to us looking back that this event

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 changed everything. The ability to traverse the globe physically connected our world in ways that

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 went beyond anything anyone could have imagined at the turn of the 20th century. But here's the thing.

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 At that time, almost no one cared. No one cared. Their hometown newspaper in Dayton, Ohio,

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 thought it was so insignificant they didn't even report on it. It wasn't worth the ink in the paper

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 to print. At the turn of the 20th century, all of the educated people and all of the most respected

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 national newspapers like the New York Times were openly skeptical that human beings could ever

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 actually achieve flight. So when they heard this story stirring, they assumed this is just a handful

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 of nobodies in a remote town making outlandish claims. Story not even worth telling. And that is

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 not unlike the events of the first Christmas. There were no front page articles, no press conferences.

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 Most of the world had no idea anything was amiss. The people who did hear something assumed this is

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 probably just a handful of nobodies in a remote town making outlandish claims. Only later did it start to

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 become clear that something significant had occurred. In fact, something extraordinary had happened. It was

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 something that would go on to change the world. And that only became clear when a new kind of community

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 began to emerge. Here's a letter from the second century AD that describes this new community.

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 The writer says,

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 Christians are indistinguishable from other people either by nationality, language, or customs.

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 They do not inhabit separate cities of their own or speak a strange dialect or follow some outlandish

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 way of life. With regard to dress, food, and manner of life in general, they follow the customs of

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 whatever city they happen to be living in. And yet, there is something extraordinary about their lives.

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 They live in their own countries as though they were only passing through. They play their full role

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 as citizens but labor under all the disabilities of aliens. Any country can be their homeland, but for them,

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 their homeland, wherever it may be, is a foreign country. Like others, they marry and have children,

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 but they do not expose them. They share their tables, but not their beds. They live in the flesh,

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 but they're not governed by the desires of the flesh. They pass their days upon earth,

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 but they are citizens of heaven. In many ways, this new community, these Christians,

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 were indistinguishable from other people. They blended into the culture. They had normal jobs.

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 They had typical families. And yet, there was something extraordinary about their lives.

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 Something had happened that transformed these people to make them into something new.

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 So the question before us is, what was it? What happened? And in Titus chapter 3, Paul gives us

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 the answer. In short, these are people who have been reborn. They have been reborn.

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 And when we talk about being reborn, we're really talking about three things. The dawning of a new

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 perspective, the gaining of a new identity, and then the joining of a new community. So a new perspective,

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 a new identity, and a new community. Let's pray, and we'll look at these words together.

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 Our Heavenly Father, as you have come to be with us, what we celebrate at Christmas, so now we believe

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 that you dwell with us, that you are Emmanuel. You are God with us. So now we ask, Lord, not because

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 we deserve it, but because of your grace, that you would illuminate your word for us, that you would

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 speak to our hearts in ways that we desperately need to hear this morning. And we pray this in your

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 Son's holy name. Amen. A new perspective. Titus, if you're not familiar, a lot of people have never

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 even heard a sermon on the book of Titus. It's a little book, one of Paul's pastoral epistles.

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 Titus is a man who served as a bishop, the first bishop, over a network of churches in Crete.

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 And Paul had left him in charge. And so this letter is something that Paul wrote later to encourage

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 Titus in his ministry. And Crete was a challenging place. It was a lot of upheaval. It was a lot of

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 animosity. Cretans had a bad reputation for all kinds of reasons, some of it justified.

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 And so it was a kind of rough area. And Titus's job is not an easy one. He has to oversee these

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 churches in this very challenging sort of crossroads for the Mediterranean.

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 In verse 3, Paul reflects on his earlier life. And he says this,

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 For we ourselves were once foolish, disobedient, led astray, slaves to various passions and pleasures,

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 passing our days in malice and envy, hated by others, and hating one another.

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 Now, he could very easily be describing any of his Cretan neighbors. That was probably a pretty apt

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 description. There was a lot of animosity, a lot of infighting. It was a hotbed for rebellion

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 against the government. There was a lot of hatred to go around. The thing we need to recognize,

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 though, is that Paul is talking about himself. And at first, this seems like a fairly harsh

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 self-assessment. Most people, if you said that this was their background, would probably be offended by

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 today's standards. We also need to remember that Paul had probably been one of the most respected,

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 upstanding people in his day. Paul had devoted himself to living an upright and a pure and a

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 righteous life. He had memorized vast sections of the Old Testament. He was a rising star in the

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 religious world. And yet, this is what he says about his past. And what we realize is this, at some

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 point, the Apostle Paul, before he was the Apostle Paul, when he was still the Pharisee Saul,

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 began to look under the surface. He began to self-reflect. He began to look under all of the

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 religiosity, all of the performative righteousness, all of the virtue signaling that characterized the

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 culture of the religious leaders. And he began to actually see and admit the truth about himself

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 love. And so, in this moment, he's saying, essentially, you know, Titus, when I look inside,

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 when I looked inside, I saw a lot of things that I'm not very proud of.

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 And to be honest, as much as I like to seem in control, there were passions and desires in me

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 that I had no control over. And if I'm being totally honest, they controlled me. And my best hope was just

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 to hope that nobody found out. And then I saw other things. I saw envy. I saw resentment.

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 Maybe when he looked at other people who were further ahead in their careers, but younger.

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 People who got more respect. People who got more recognition. And he says, and then I saw anger.

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 And then I saw hatred. I saw all of this when I looked inside. And Paul looks inside. He begins

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 to realize that there is this disconnect between the outward persona that he projects into the world

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 and the inner reality. And he began at some point to realize the truth about himself that inside,

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 he was spiritually dead, which is a way of saying spiritually helpless and unable to change.

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 All of those years of religious study had done nothing to curb those passions.

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 And once Paul realized that, Christmas began to take on a whole new meaning.

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 This man had persecuted Christians, dragged them out of their homes,

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 arrested them for the things they said about Jesus. But once he began to realize the truth about

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 himself, he began to realize the truth about Christmas. Here's how he talks about it in verse 4.

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 You ask the Apostle Paul, what happened on Christmas? Paul says in verse 4,

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 that's when the goodness and loving kindness of God our Savior appeared. The goodness and loving

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 kindness of God our Savior appeared, and he saved us. See, Paul realizes God has sent his goodness and

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 loving kindness in the flesh. He realizes Jesus is God's goodness. Jesus is God's loving kindness

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 in the flesh. And that changes everything in Paul's life. And see, this is how Christian rebirth begins.

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 It begins with a new perspective that we gain on ourselves.

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 If you read the conversion stories of people all throughout history, whether it's people in ancient

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 history like St. Augustine or a little more recent, people like John Newton, people like C.S. Lewis,

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 people like Lee Strobel or Lacey Mosley, Jackie Hill Perry, all the conversion stories that are out there

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 for us to read and ponder. You'll notice that they're different in lots of ways, but they all, if people are

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 honest, they all have at least one thing in common, and that is that at some point, before these people came to

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 faith, their perspective changed. All these people I mentioned started out thinking fairly certainly about

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 themselves as being good, self-sufficient, decent people. These are all people who thought, on balance, I'm probably one of the

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 good guys. Upper 50%, at least, if not upper 25% of human beings. And then these people started to look inside.

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 And with the help of the Holy Spirit, they began to see the truth about themselves.

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 And this is the thing we need to realize. Only when we see the truth about ourselves,

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 only then will Christmas become something more than just a sentimental holiday.

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 Only when we realize the truth about ourselves will we realize the truth about what actually happened

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 on that first night. But that means something very challenging.

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 That means admitting that our only hope is to be rescued. It means admitting

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 our powerlessness, that we need someone to save us. And I don't know about you, but that runs against

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 everything in my being. And it runs against everything in our culture. Because we live in a culture that

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 defines adulthood, that defines success as self-sufficiency. We live in a culture that

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 prioritizes and is obsessed with self-optimization. You know the Cambridge Dictionary Word of the Year

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 for this past year? The word manifest. Now, it's not the older use of the word manifest. It's the

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 newer use of the word manifest. It's a word that's been popularized by gurus and celebrities.

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 The concept is manifesting. It's a new age concept that if I know the things that I want in my life,

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 I can focus on those things and send them like vibrations out into the universe,

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 and that if I do that successfully, the universe, whatever that means, will return those things to me,

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 that I can manifest the life that I want. So we live in a culture where people actually believe

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 that they can control reality with their minds. The truth is, we are spiritually helpless.

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 Now, that's the opposite message. That's the opposite message. So one of them is true,

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 and one of them is not. The truth is, we need someone to save us. And this is what Jesus came

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 to do by offering us not just a sentimental holiday, but a new identity. That's what Paul

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 means when he talks about the washing of regeneration and renewal of the Holy Spirit.

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 The Holy Spirit begins to work in you, begins to regenerate you, begins to illuminate the truth

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 about yourself to you. And then you begin to see the truth of the gospel. You begin to see that God

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 saves us, not because we deserve it, but because of his mercy. And then we are baptized. This is what

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 Titus almost certainly has in mind when he talks about the washing of regeneration.

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 And in baptism, our old identity is washed away. And we are given a new identity. Paul says,

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 heirs according to the hope of eternal life. And you need to understand this new identity is

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 something that God has promised his people for centuries. It's what people have been waiting on.

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 And we actually see a beautiful reference to it in our Old Testament reading for this morning.

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 Listen to what God says.

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 Behold, the Lord has proclaimed to the end of the earth. Say to the daughter of Zion,

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 behold, your salvation comes. Behold, his reward is with him and his recompense before him.

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 And they shall be called, here's the new identity, the holy people, the redeemed of the Lord.

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 And you shall be called, sought out, a city not forsaken.

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 That's what the new identity means. It means that no matter what you've done, no matter who you were,

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 no matter what used to be true about you, when you come to faith, when you're baptized,

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 you are no longer that person. God has renamed you. And from here on out,

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 you shall be called holy, redeemed, sought out. Now imagine how different your life would be

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 if these were the things that you rooted yourself in, if these were the things that you most believed

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 to be true about you. How much easier would it be to admit your mistakes or to receive criticism

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 if your identity was rooted in the truth that you have been made holy?

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 All of your defensiveness, all of your self-justification would evaporate.

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 You know, if you're rooted in that, then you're more likely, if somebody criticizes you,

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 instead of defending and justifying yourself, your response is probably going to be,

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 you don't know the half of it. You think that's the worst thing about me?

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 Man, I could tell you some stories. But I've been made holy. Not because I deserve it. I clearly

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 don't. But because God is that kind of God. How much easier would it be to forgive other people,

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 to seek reconciliation, if our identity was rooted in being redeemed? If that was your name,

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 I'm redeemed. If the deepest truth about you is that the God of the universe paid an unimaginable

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 price to forgive you and to purchase you, how could you not forgive somebody for whatever trifle

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 they committed against you? And imagine just for a minute how different our lives would be

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 if the thing that we most believed to be true about ourselves was this, you are sought after.

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 You're sought after. In Jane Austen's book, Persuasion, I think it's her last book,

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 a woman named Anne is engaged to Captain Wentworth, but her family and friends persuade her to break it

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 off. Can't imagine anybody doing that kind of thing. But they break it off. If you know anything

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 about our background, same thing happened to Laura and me. That's a different sermon.

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 But in Jane Austen's book, they break off the engagement. They don't think he's a good enough

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 social standing for her. It's a more practical decision to marry somebody else. And then years

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 go by. Years go by. And she can't stop thinking about him. And she's still in love with him. And no

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 matter what happens, her heart remains firmly turned in his direction. But she assumes that he's angry.

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 She assumes that he resents her. She assumes all the worst things. And at the pivotal moment in the

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 book, she is at a writing desk. She's been over her writing desk. And she discovers a letter

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 that he has left for her. And she opens the letter. And here's a section of that letter.

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 This is from Captain Wentworth to her after over eight years. He says,

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 I can listen no longer in silence. I must speak to you by such means as are within my reach.

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 You pierce my soul. I'm half agony, half hope. Tell me not that I am too late, that such precious

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 feelings are gone forever. I offer myself to you again with a heart even more your own than when

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 you almost broke it eight years and a half ago. Dare not say that man forgets sooner than woman

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 that his love has an earlier death. I have loved none but you.

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 And Anne can hardly breathe, let alone speak. There's a kind of agony in her. There's a joy that

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 is so overwhelming it almost breaks her. And also a remorse for all of the time that they could have

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 been together that has been lost. And this realization that she is still and perhaps always has been,

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 the sole object of Wentworth's undying affection fills her with an overpowering joy.

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 And I would submit to you that that is just a glimpse, just the faintest glimmer

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 of what God has in mind when he looks at us and says, you are sought after.

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 Now, this is one of the most famous passages in all of Austin's writing. And I think that one of

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 the reasons it's so famous is because it resonates with us. And I think the reason it resonates is

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 because somewhere deep down, this is what all human beings long for. This is what we all want to hear.

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 Deep down, I think we're all longing for someone to tell us, you are sought after. I think that's why

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 we strive for the things that we strive for. Now, men and women, we may do this differently.

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 We may feel it and experience it differently. But I think this is why we strive for success

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 at work and for attention and recognition and approval and affirmation, the attention of other

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 people. I think this is the reason we long for these things. I think it's because deep down,

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 we know that this is what we were made for. And here's what the gospel says.

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 Long ago, humans were in relationship with a God, but we broke it off because we thought our lives

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 would be better. It was a very practical decision. We could make our own decisions about where we want

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 to go and how we want to live. But God never stopped loving us. And the gospel says that God's goodness

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 and loving kindness has now appeared. And we got more than a letter. We got God in the flesh.

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 And that God has come to say, I have loved none but you. I have always loved you. And he has come to

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 offer himself for those who would receive him. And so in this way, we see that when we begin to gain that new

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 perspective on our hearts, that begins to shift how we see Christmas and we begin to realize that

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 Christmas is actually telling us that the thing that we're most longing for has happened. The God

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 who made us and loved us has been seeking after us and now he's here. And when that realization hits

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 you, and for some of us, it is the slow dawning of dusk turning to day. For others, it is like an earthquake.

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 But however that realization hits you, when it does, your identity completely changes.

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 But the problem is that new identity in us is very, very, very fragile.

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 And so we need the support of a community to sustain it. The new identity is fragile. It is so easy to

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 come to faith, to receive this new identity, to have a few days of, or a few weeks, or maybe a year

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 of feeling on top of the world. I see this a lot with people who come to faith. They come to faith and

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 they're exhilarated for a season. But then there's a kind of falling off of the excitement.

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 And people tend to forget very quickly. We tend to go back to living the way we used to live,

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 as though nothing happened. Just as a child needs the love and support of a family, a Christian

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 needs the love and support of a church. We're not designed to live out of this new identity in a vacuum.

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 And this is why the bulk of this letter is Paul instructing Titus to do everything he can

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 to safeguard this community so this new identity of God's people will be protected and nurtured and

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 strengthened. Verse 1, remind them of these things. Verse 8, insist on these things. Verse 9, avoid

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 unprofitable controversies that will distract from these things. Paul's saying, you have no idea how

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 precious this is. Your job as a pastor, your job as a bishop is to do everything you can to do

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 to safeguard that in your community. And he says, you know, there may even be some situations where

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 someone in the community represents such a threat to this new culture. They represent such a threat

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 to this new way of life that they need to be removed. There may be a situation where somebody is living

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 so against these truths that they need to be removed, hopefully temporarily. You know, verses 10 and 11

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 refer to a situation where someone's behavior is so harmful and divisive that for the good of the

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 whole, that person needs to be removed. Now, whenever this is done, it is always done with a hope and the

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 prayer that that person will be restored to the community, that they will repent. This is referring

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 in many cases to what we call these days church discipline. This may sound harsh to people if you've never

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 heard any reference to this before. But imagine you're an alcoholic and you're trying to get sober

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 after years and years and years of addiction. And you go to an AA meeting hoping to find support from

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 other people who are doing the same thing. They're committed to the same journey of freedom as you are.

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 And imagine someone shows up to that AA meeting not long after you start, and that person claims to be in

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 recovery. They claim to be sober just like you, but they bring a big cooler of beer with them to the AA

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 meeting. And they start handing out beers to everybody in the meeting while they're talking

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 about their story of sobriety. Right? You'd pull that person aside and you'd say, hey, this isn't in line

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 with the journey of freedom that all these people are on. You're actually doing something that's

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 actually going to get people moving in the other direction. You're putting people at risk of going back

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 into slavery. And after again and again and again admonishing that person, please don't keep doing

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 this. If they kept doing it, you would have no choice. For the good of the group, you would say,

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 hey, until you're serious about sobriety, you can't come to this meeting. And what we need to understand

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 is that the church is that kind of place. The church is a place for people who are serious about

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 spiritual transformation, who have looked at that old life and have said, I don't want that anymore.

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 I don't want the slavery to those desires. I don't want the slavery to those passions.

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 I don't want the slander. I don't want the bitterness. I don't want the false accusations.

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 I don't want the misinformation. I don't want all the ways people talk about each other behind each

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 other's backs and assume the worst about their motives and say horrible things about them.

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 I don't want all of the conflict and all of the bitterness.

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 I want to live out of a new identity. I want to live out of the reality that I'm holy, that I'm

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 redeemed, that I'm sought after. And I want to be around people who are going to encourage me to stay

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 rooted in that because everyone else in my life is trying to pull me back to the way I used to be,

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 and I want to be free. So the church is a place for people who are serious about spiritual

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 transformation, who are serious about learning how to live out of a new identity, people who want to

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 know what life looks like when we're rooted in the truth that we really are all of these things.

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 Now, that doesn't mean that the church is full of perfect people.

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 That's very important to understand. Sometimes you hear people say, well, I don't go to church

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 because it's full of hypocrites. You know, that's like saying I don't go to the gym because there's

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 people who are out of shape there. I don't like going to the hospital because there are some sick

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 people in the hospital. You would only want to go to a gym where there's fit people or a hospital

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 where there's well people? I don't think so. Why does a gym exist? Why is the hospital even there?

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 It exists for the people who need it. It's the same as a church. A church exists because, hey,

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 in different ways, we are all hypocrites. There's just people who have the guts to admit it and the

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 people who don't and the people who like to pretend we can control the universe with our minds.

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 The church is a place for people who are serious about spiritual transformation.

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 Doesn't mean it's full of perfect people. Quite the opposite. But it means if you're somebody who

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 wants to be free, who wants to live out of a new identity, wants to know that you're holy and

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 redeemed and sought after, that's where you need to be. And what we see in this passage, last thing

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 we want to look at is that when you have a church full of people like this, they look like what we

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 see in verses one and two. I mean, just look at this just snapshot. These are the people who make the

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 most ideal citizens wherever they live because they have a very balanced view of politics. That

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 would be really helpful in the coming weeks. These are people who engage. They vote their conscience,

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 maybe even run for office. They're willing to submit to the local authorities.

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 Now, people in Crete were very likely to try to overthrow the government. Most cases, they don't do that.

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 They submit. On the other hand, they don't worship the local authorities. There's a big cult of emperor

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 worship in Crete and other places. So they don't worship and idealize their political leaders. They

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 don't demonize their political leaders. They know that they're just normal, sinful people like everybody

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 else. They vote, they engage, they move on. They seek the common good. He says they're always ready to do

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 good work. They're very careful to use their words in ways that build others up. They never use

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 words in ways that tear people down either to their face or behind their back. They're peacemakers.

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 They're reconcilers. They assume the best about other people and their motives. When there's a

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 vacuum of information and they don't know what's going on, they assume the best about everyone

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 involved. They treat everyone with dignity and respect. And I got to say, wherever churches like this

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 are located, those neighborhoods benefit. Those cities benefit. All of the residents benefit,

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 regardless of whether they ever darken the door of that church. And Paul says, we got to safeguard that.

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 So as this Christmas season comes to a close, as we take down the lights, as we sweep up our pine

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 needles, as we make our resolutions, the question remains, what do the events of the first Christmas

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 mean for us personally? Was it just a handful of nobodies in a remote town making outlandish claims?

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 Or are we open to the possibility that the goodness and loving kindness of God has actually appeared?

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 That now it is possible for us to be reborn, to become something altogether new,

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 to know that the thing most true about us is that we are holy, that we are redeemed, and that we are

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 sought after. Let's pray. Our Lord and Heavenly Father, we thank you for the truth at the heart of

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 this. And know that this is a truth that has to be spiritually pressed into our hearts for it to

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 change us. And so we pray that as we continue in our prayers, in our confession, and as we gather

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 around your table, that we would encounter you, the God who wrote these words for us, now that you

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 have kindled a hope in us, be true to your word, and meet us, those of us who open ourselves to you,

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 with a fresh realization of what these things mean for us. We pray this for our good,

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 in your glory, in your Son's name. Amen.