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 This morning I'd like us to turn back to the passage which we read as we continue our study

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 in the Gospel of Matthew. I want us to look at the whole section that we read, but we

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 can read again from verses 16 and 17. Jesus said, No one puts a piece of unshrunk cloth

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 on an old garment, for the patch tears away from the garment, and a worse tear is made.

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 Neither is new wine put in old wine skins. If it is, the skins burst, and the wine is

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 spilled, and the skins are destroyed. But new wine is put into fresh wine skins, and

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 so both are preserved. Our title today is Thinking the Worshed, Thinking the Best. And

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 I've chosen that title for two reasons. One, because as I hope we'll see, I think that

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 this title sums up one of the key emphasis of this passage. And two, because in life,

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 the way we think is incredibly important. And whether it's in regard to ourselves, or

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 to others, or to our circumstances, or even to God, it's crucial that we ask ourselves,

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 am I thinking the worst, or am I thinking the best? So that's what I want us to think

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 about today. And because in this passage in Matthew 9, one of the things that we see is

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 people coming to Jesus who are thinking the worst. But at the same time, we also see that

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 the Christian message gives us reason not to think the worst, but to think the best.

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 So that's our title, and these are our two headings. Thinking the worst, thinking the

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 best. In verses 1 to 17 of Matthew 9, we have three examples of people who are thinking

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 the worst. In verses 1 to 8, a paralytic is taken to Jesus. And in verse 2, we have that

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 remarkable moment when the paralysed man is lying before Jesus. But instead of Jesus

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 saying rise up and walk, Jesus says, your sins are forgiven. And that's reminding us

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 that our need for our sins to be forgiven is more urgent than any physical or material

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 need that we have. But in terms of verification, someone could say your sins are forgiven.

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 And there's no really obvious way of knowing whether that has actually happened or not.

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 But to say to somebody who's paralysed, rise up and walk, is in a sense a lot harder because

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 the validity of the statement is immediately put to the test. If you say rise up and walk

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 and nothing happens, then your words are undermined. Jesus therefore uses this miracle of healing

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 to powerfully show that the even greater miracle of forgiveness of sins is actually true.

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 But in the process, the scribes think the worst of Jesus. In verse 3, we see that their immediate

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 response is to say, this man is a blasphemer. To them, Jesus is saying the wrong thing.

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 And as Jesus's ministry continued, even though the religious leaders saw the miracles happening

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 in front of them, in front of their own eyes, they still thought the worst of Jesus. And

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 they even accused him of using demonic power to do these miracles. And they refused to

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 recognize his authority. In verses 9 to 13, Jesus calls Matthew, a tax collector, to follow

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 him as one of his disciples. Now today, when we think of inland revenue, we think of it

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 as a really important and a very well respected part of our society. But back in 1st century

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 Judea, it was not like that at all. Judea was under Roman rule, and they resented that

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 imperial rule greatly. But the tax collectors worked for the Romans to gather their money.

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 Therefore a tax collector to the Jews was a traitor because they were working for the

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 enemy. And on top of that, the tax collectors were often very corrupt, and they would exploit

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 their role in order to enrich themselves. And the result of that was that tax collectors

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 were despised by the general public. But Jesus goes and has dinner at this tax collector's

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 house, and a group of other sinners come along too. And these are people whose lives did not

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 match up to the religious expectations of the community. Yet Jesus goes and eats with

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 them. The Pharisees, however, think the worst. In verse 11, they say to the disciples, why

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 does your teacher eat with tax collectors and sinners? To them, Jesus is mixing with the

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 wrong people. And throughout his ministry, Jesus was accused of being a glutton, a drunkard,

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 a friend of tax collectors, and sinners. And then in verses 14 to 17, we have the question

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 about fasting, which comes from the disciples of John the Baptist. Now, it's hard to know

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 whether that question is just a simple inquiry. Why do we fast, but your disciples don't?

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 Or is it more of a kind of veiled criticism, where they're saying, why aren't you fasting

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 in the way that we are? I'm not actually sure which one it is. Maybe it's a bit of both.

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 But what is clear is that the question itself arose from a negative mindset. For the disciples

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 of John and for the Pharisees, fasting was associated with sorrow and calamity. You

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 see that back in the Old Testament, when something awful happens, people fast in response. So

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 these disciples of John who came to Jesus, they fasted because they could see everything

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 that was wrong with their circumstances. And that's confirmed by what Jesus says to them,

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 because he describes their fasting in terms of mourning in verse 15. To these people,

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 Jesus had the wrong mindset. They thought that he should have been mourning and fasting

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 instead of rejoicing. In each of these situations, then, we see people who are thinking the worst.

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 And Jesus, in many ways, sums it all up in verse 9 when he says, why do you think evil

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 in your hearts? And the consequence of that mindset is that all of these people are missing

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 the amazing truth that's in front of them. So with the healing of the paralytic, we see

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 a very clear demonstration of Jesus' authority. He's the Son of Man. He has power and authority

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 to forgive sins, and he proves it by healing the paralysed man. With the dinner at Matthew's

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 house, we see that Jesus has come to help people who are in need, to help people whose

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 lives are in a mess, and he wants to extend his friendship to everyone, even to the outcasts

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 of society. And in regard to fasting, Jesus uses the image of a wedding to speak of the

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 joy and the celebration that we should be experiencing, because Jesus, the Savior, has

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 come. All of these great theological truths are being set before the people in this passage,

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 and yet they are being missed because people are thinking the worst. And often we can fall

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 into exactly the same trap. So like the disciples of John, we can think the worst of our circumstances.

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 That's true in lockdown, but even without that, we can have a very negative view of our circumstances.

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 That doesn't mean that our circumstances are never bad. Often they are, and that can be

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 incredibly difficult for people in so many different ways. But what I mean is that whatever

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 our circumstances are, often our mind and our attention is drawn to everything that's

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 bad, and we can easily forget about the good. Like the Pharisees at Matthew's house, we

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 can easily think the worst of others. So we can look at politicians and think that every

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 action is bad. We can look at colleagues and be convinced that they're out to hurt us and

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 give us a hard time. We can look at drivers on the road and think that they're just an

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 enormous collection of idiots. And we can even look at other churches and find a hundred

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 things that are wrong with them. It's so easy to view other people as a threat, as a problem,

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 or as an inconvenience. But we can also very easily think the worst of ourselves. And I'm

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 quite sure that many of the sinners who were eating with Jesus at Matthew's house would

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 have felt a huge sense of failure and regret about how their lives had turned out. And

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 it's so easy for that to be true of us. We can look at ourselves and see somebody who

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 has mucked up in the past and somebody who's probably going to fail again in the future.

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 And like the scribes who are watching the paralytic, it's also very easy to think the

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 worst of Jesus. We see that around us just now because we live in what's more or less

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 a non-Christian society, or certainly in lots of ways it's become a non-Christian society.

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 Jesus is seen as irrelevant. His name is used as a swear and a lot of people don't want

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 Jesus to have any influence in our society. But it's not just at a kind of national level,

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 at a personal level, it's also easy to think the worst of Jesus. So you might be thinking

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 about whether or not you want to be a Christian. And in that situation, it's so easy to think

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 that Jesus is going to make your life worse. But equally, even as Christians, we can have

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 a negative view of Jesus. So we can easily think that he's like a really strict headmaster

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 who's always verging on being angry with us. Or we can think of him as a kind of scary

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 personal trainer who's only going to be impressed if you're pushing yourself beyond your limits.

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 Or maybe even we can think of him as like a kind of embarrassing relative who we're

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 connected to, but we don't really want other people to know. Jesus is none of these things,

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 but it's easy for us to think the worst of him. It's very easy to have a negative mindset

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 towards our circumstances, towards others, towards ourselves, and towards Jesus. And

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 all of that, of course, is a direct result of sin. Central to the fall of humanity, central

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 to sin coming into humanity's experience was a mindset that thought the worst. That's

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 how the serpent deceived Eve all the way back in Genesis chapter three. He got her to think

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 the worst of God. And you can read Genesis three to see how he did that. And ever since

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 then throughout history, people have been continually drawn towards thinking evil in

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 our hearts, just as Jesus speaks of in Matthew chapter nine. And many massive problems have

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 arisen in the world because of this. So racism thinks the worst of another ethnic group. Xenophobia

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 thinks the worst of another nationality. Bullying and exploitation thinks the worst of people

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 because you think, well, they don't really deserve to be treated well. I can just use

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 and abuse them. Gossip and tabloid media looks for the worst in people's lives. And

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 the result of all these things is that precious people who are made in the image of God get

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 hurt. And that makes perfect sense because that's exactly what sin wants. Sin wants to

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 damage you. Sin wants to destroy humanity. And one of the best tactics it uses is to

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 get people to think the worst. So you take things like war, terrorism, bullying, corruption,

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 exploitation, self harm, hatred. When you think about all of those things, if you think about

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 the chain of events that leads up to all of these things taking place, what's the first

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 step in that chain? The first step is thinking the worst of either yourself or of others.

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 And for Jesus, it was actually no different because the evil that these people began to

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 think in their hearts in Matthew chapter nine, that went on to a chain of events that culminated

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 in his crucifixion. Thinking the worst is incredibly easy and it's incredibly dangerous. And the

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 question I have to ask myself is, do I default to thinking the worst? And for me, I think

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 far too often the answer is yes. So the next question I have to ask is, how do I evolve

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 thinking the worst? And what I want us to see is that I think the answer to that question

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 is found in the little illustration that Jesus gives in verses 16 and 17. Now you might be

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 thinking to yourself, what on earth has this got to do with all that I've been saying?

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 Well, what I hope that we're going to see is that these verses, verses 16 and 17 highlight

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 the fact that the Christian faith is not about thinking the worst, it is about thinking the

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 best. In these verses, Jesus uses two very simple illustrations and in it he's saying

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 that he talks about putting a patch on clothing and he talks about putting wine in wineskins.

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 And he says, you can't put a new patch of cloth onto old clothing. And that's because

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 when the new patch shrinks, it's going to tear away from the old material that's long

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 since already shrunk and that can't move with it. Likewise, you can't put new wine in

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 old wineskins because as the new wine ferments and as it releases gas and causes expansion,

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 the old wineskins will crack because they've lost the flexibility that a new wineskin has.

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 Now, within these verses, Jesus is drawing two important comparisons and I want us just

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 to think about these together for a moment. First comparison is old versus new. Jesus

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 is using this illustration to say that in terms of God's plan of salvation, something

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 new has come. So if you take the image of wine and wineskins, you see that at one level,

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 there's similarity and continuity. Both the old and the new are wine. But there's also

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 a difference. One is old, one is new and therefore you need to act appropriately to each. And

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 that image is very helpful in terms of understanding how the Old Testament and the New Testament

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 fit together, which is really what Jesus is talking about. At one level, there is continuity.

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 It's not that the Old Testament is being completely abandoned by Jesus and radically replaced

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 by something different. There is continuity, but at the same time, there is also change.

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 And now that Jesus has come, things are different. And the key difference is that the shadow

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 of the Old Testament is now a reality in the new. The expectation of the old is now being

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 fulfilled in the new. In other words, the Old Testament said, a Savior is coming. The

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 New Testament is saying the Savior is here. And the point that Jesus is making is to say

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 that you can't take the message, the Savior has come and put it back into the old wineskin

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 that says the Savior is coming. When fulfillment comes, expecting stops and that inevitably

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 means that you have to approach things differently. And that shift in mindset was very relevant

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 to these disciples of John and to all the people who lived at the same time as Jesus'

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 ministry on earth. They needed to recognize that an amazing change has taken place right

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 in front of them. They have gone from waiting for the Savior to come to realizing that He

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 has come. The old has passed, the new is here. And the fact that the new has come is incredibly

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 good, positive, wonderful news. And the fact that the coming of Jesus and the fulfillment

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 of all the old promises is good news is reminding us that the gospel of Jesus Christ is the

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 very opposite of thinking the worst. Because if you think about God and think about how

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 God could view humanity, He can see a million things that are wrong. He can see all the

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 ways in which humanity has rejected Him as Creator. He can see every single way in which

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 we have failed Him. In other words, God has every reason to think the worst of us. And

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 yet the whole reason that Jesus has come is because God looks at a broken humanity and

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 He sees people who are so precious and who need to be rescued. In other words, the whole

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 gospel is motivated by the fact that when God looks at you, He sees the best in you.

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 He sees someone who is worth saving. Now, that doesn't mean that God ignores our sin

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 and everything else that's wrong with us. That's not the case at all. God knows better

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 than any of us that we are sinners and that we are broken. But the key point is that God

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 recognizing our sin is not a criticism. It's a diagnosis. And the difference is crucial

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 because a criticism is aiming to harm you. A diagnosis is aiming to heal you. And the

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 amazing truth of the gospel is that God's thoughts of you are so good and so positive

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 that He gave His only Son to die so that you might be saved. Now, when you think the worst

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 of people, you'll find any reason you can so that you can give up on them. But when

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 you think the best of people, you will find any reason you can so that you'll never have

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 to give up on them. And that is exactly how God thinks of you. And that's the mindset

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 that lies at the heart of Jesus' mission. In many ways, the Old Testament is a story

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 of failure. God's people kept on mucking up. And even the good times and good things in

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 the Old Testament never lasted long. But that's because the Old is only ever at best a shadow

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 of what God's plan of salvation is really going to be. And when that plan of salvation

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 is fulfilled in the coming of Jesus, when the shadow of the Old becomes the reality

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 in the new, we see the incredible, wonderful, positive, good news of Jesus Christ. And it's

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 all grounded on the fact that when it comes to you, ultimately God does not think the

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 worst. He thinks the best. Because the whole reason He gave His Son to be born in Bethlehem

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 and to walk among us on this earth and to be arrested and beaten and betrayed and ultimately

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 to die on a cross, the whole reason that God gave His Son to do all of that is because

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 to God you are worth dying for. And that brings us to the second comparison that Jesus makes

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 in this parable. He compares the Old and the New, but He also compares rigidness and stretchiness.

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 Now, what do I mean by that? Well, in both examples that Jesus gives in these verses,

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 a key point in the illustration is that the Old is rigid. So for the patch that gets put

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 on the piece of clothing, as the new bit shrinks, the Old can't stretch because it's rigid.

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 And so as the new piece shrinks, the Old just tears because it can't move along with it.

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 With the wineskins, it's the same. The new wine needs to go into a new wineskin because

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 as the wine ferments, it needs to be able to stretch. Old wineskins have become rigid.

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 So instead of expanding, they just crack and all the wine will fall out and both wine and

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 wineskin are ruined. Now, I think that this comparison between rigidness and stretchiness

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 is very important. That's because the negative mindset of the people in these passages arose

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 from a rigidness in their minds. So the scribes were rigid in their opposition to the idea

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 that Jesus could forgive sins. The Pharisees were rigid in their opinion that you should

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 not be friends with tax collectors and sinners. And even the disciples of John were rigid

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 in their view that their circumstances were bad and that we should not be celebrating,

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 we should be fasting and mourning. And I think that Jesus is telling them and he's telling

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 us that if we want to really understand the gospel, we need to resist the temptation to

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 be rigid and instead we need to be ready to stretch. In other words, if we want to

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 stop thinking the worst and start thinking the best, then we need to stretch our minds.

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 So when Matthew 9 talks about Jesus having the authority to forgive sins in verses 128,

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 we need to stretch our minds to see how amazing that is. Think of your own life. Think of

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 every way in which you are conscious of your sin. Think of every failure in your life,

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 every mistake you've made as a child or as an adult, all the things that you wish you

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 hadn't said or wish you hadn't done. Think of everything that weighs heavily on your

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 conscience. And all of these things can be lined up together into this big panorama of

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 failure in our minds. And all of these mistakes that seem to just stretch out further and

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 further and further, we bring all of that before Jesus and he says, forgiven. And the

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 whole lot is wiped out. It's like on a computer when you do select all, delete and it's gone.

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 Jesus looks at that massive list of mistakes in your life and he says, forgiven. If you

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 are a Christian or if you become one, every mistake you have ever made in your past or

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 that you will ever make in your future is forgiven. And Jesus has the authority to do that. So

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 your forgiveness is not just based on the kindness of Jesus or on his patience or his

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 niceness. It is based on his eternal, unchangeable authority. Now that authority of Jesus is

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 the authority under which every other authoritative structure in the universe lies. So think of

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 all the different authoritative structures that are in existence. You think of political,

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 financial, cosmological, biological, intellectual, spiritual, all the different areas of authority

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 that we can see around it. At the pinnacle of that authority is Jesus. Every other knee

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 bows before him. Nothing can threaten him. His authority is the highest, the greatest,

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 the strongest. He is at the top. He has authority that no one else has. And it is his authority

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 that looks at you and says forgiven forever. Matthew nine speaks about Jesus eating with

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 tax collectors and sinners. And again, we need to stretch your minds to think about

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 this. So often we can look at ourselves and we can feel worthless and inadequate. We can

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 think that God would not want to be anywhere near us. Matthew nine is telling you that no

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 matter who you are, no matter what failures or mistakes you've had in your life, Jesus

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 wants your friendship. Now stretch your mind to think about that. That means that Jesus

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 doesn't just want to be that it means that Jesus that he doesn't want to just have some

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 kind of acquaintance of you. He wants to be your friend. He wants to be associated with

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 you. He is not ashamed of you. He actually really likes you. Now for anyone who has been

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 on the receiving end of rejection in their life, which is probably all of us at some

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 point or another, for anyone who's experienced that we need to understand this, Jesus wants

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 your friendship. He wants to eat with you and he doesn't care for one second. Supposing

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 there's a thousand people watching on saying, why is he eating with him or with her? And

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 if you think that you are outside the circle of friends that Jesus wants to have, then

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 you need to stretch that circle because no matter who you are, you are in it. No matter

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 your circumstances, no matter what mistakes you've made, no matter who you are, Jesus

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 thinks the best of you and he wants your friendship. So we need to stretch our minds to see that,

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 but maybe we also need to stretch our minds to see how much value Jesus places on everyone

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 else. So when we look at colleagues at work or people at school or people in society or

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 people of other faiths, people who have no faith, people who are in a mess, people who

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 think completely differently to us, maybe we need to stretch our minds to see how precious

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 they are to God as well. And finally in verse 15, Jesus describes himself as a bridegroom.

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 And the reason Jesus calls himself a bridegroom is because he has a bride. And the bride is

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 the church. In other words, if you are a Christian or if you become one, the bride is you. Now

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 there's two amazing things about that image. The first is that the bridegroom loves his

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 bride. Now you've maybe heard that a thousand times, but please stretch your mind to try

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 and grasp a little more of this. Jesus loves you. He's always loved you and he always will

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 love you and he loves you so much that he died for you. And in Ephesians chapter three,

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 Paul prays that we might have strength to comprehend the height and breadth and length

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 and depth and to know the love of Christ that surpasses knowledge. So you need to stretch

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 your mind as far as you can to understand Jesus' love for you. So let's try and do it.

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 Let's stretch our minds. Try and think of a tank or a bath and make it as big as you possibly

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 can. Make it as big as Edinburgh, as big as Scotland, as big as the world. Make it as big as

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 the solar system. Make it as big as the universe. Stretch out your mind. Make it huge in width,

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 in length, in depth. Now in that massive tank is the love of Jesus Christ for you. And you

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 can picture in your mind that tank being filled with something that represents Jesus' love for

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 you. I don't mind what you think. You can think of it as water. You can think of it as hot chocolate.

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 You can think of it as strawberry sauce, whatever it is that comes to your mind. But as you think

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 of that image of that massive tank that stretched out as far as your mind can possibly imagine,

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 as it's been filled with the love of Jesus, there is one thing that has to be in your image

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 for it to be accurate. The tank has to be overflowing because that is how much Jesus loves

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 you. And the only way to get a glimpse of that is to stretch your mind. The bridegroom loves his

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 bride. But the second thing that we see in the bridegroom image is celebration. And at the heart

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 of our lives as Christians, there should be massive celebration because Jesus has come and Jesus

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 has risen. And in him, if we trust in him, we can have eternal life and we will be with him and

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 we'll be with one another forever because through Jesus, all the brokenness of sin will be healed.

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 Everything that's wrong is going to be fixed. Every tear will be wiped from her eyes and everything

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 that makes us think the worst will be gone. In the gospel of Jesus, there is so much to celebrate.

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 And the amazing thing is that to Jesus, you are a reason to celebrate. So often, our minds are

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 imprisoned in a rigid box of negativity. Jesus is saying, I have news that is so good. You need

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 to stretch your mind as far as you can if you're going to grasp it. All of that means that in a

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 world that so often thinks the worst, Jesus gives us every reason to think the best. And in response

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 to that, I look at myself and pray, Lord, when I look at my circumstances, when I look at others,

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 when I look at myself and when I look at you, please help me to always think the best. And if

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 you're not yet a Christian, I really don't know what else I can say. Jesus thinks the best of you.

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 And Jesus wants the best for you. And all you have to do is put your trust in him. And the only

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 thing that can spoil it is if you think the worst of him. Please don't do that. Amen. Let's pray.

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 Lord Jesus, we rejoice in everything that you have done for us and for the fact that you give us

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 every reason to think the best. And we just acknowledge that you have given us such good news,

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 such amazing hope, such wonderful joy. And we are so thankful to you for everything that you've done

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 for us. And we pray that we would think the best of our circumstances, of one another, of ourselves,

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 and above all of you. Help us all to see just how incredibly good the good news of the gospel is. Amen.