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 Sorry.

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 If you want one of these, there's a water fountain in the back.

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 If you're dying of heat, please know that I won't be offended if you get up to get a

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 drink of water so that you can stay awake and alert.

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 And if you really need help, downstairs is still a little cooler.

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 So if you need to escape to that, again, please know that we do what you need to do this morning

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 to be able to engage as we look at God's Word together.

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 Will you pray with me?

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 Lord, this morning we come to you needy.

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 Lord, we need you to speak to us.

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 Lord, we need you to help us because our minds are unclear.

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 Our wills are stubborn and rebellious.

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 Our hearts run after many other things instead of you.

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 And Lord, I pray this morning as we look at your Word, Lord, that you will help us this morning.

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 Help us to hear what you have to say to us.

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 Lord, I ask for your help that you may speak through me.

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 Lord, I pray that together, Lord, we would learn from you this morning more of the way of wisdom

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 that you have set forth for us and of the great love you've shown us in the gospel.

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 We pray this in Jesus' name.

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 Amen.

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 Well, his words hit me like a slap in the face.

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 No, he won't, Matt.

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 I was a 21-year-old senior in college standing outside of Brown Hall, my dormitory.

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 I was in a serious dating relationship and had been processing with my discipler and mentor

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 about this relationship.

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 He was counseling me to not be foolish because I was being nitpicky and critical of a godly

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 woman who I was dating, someone who was worthy of better than me.

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 And I had just told him, well, I guess God will make it clear to me as I was weighing

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 my confusion of, do I keep doing this or not as we often do when we're young?

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 I guess God will just show me the way.

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 And he looked at me and he said, no.

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 No, he won't, Matt.

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 His words were a loving rebuke to me to not pass the buck of my responsibility to make

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 a mature decision in this situation to God.

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 They were wise words.

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 They were lovingly given.

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 And they stung.

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 And I wish I could tell you I listened.

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 But in the process, it felt like a slap in the face.

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 And that's what it feels like when someone challenges us, doesn't it?

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 Whether we call it correction, rebuke, reproof, or even just instruction, all those words are

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 words that the book of Proverbs uses, they still sting at the time.

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 But as some of my seminary friends would remind me, reality is your friend even when it hurts.

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 And it's better to know the truth about yourself particularly than it is to live in ignorance

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 and delusion.

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 We come this morning to the next sermon in our Proverbs series.

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 On the way of wisdom, on how is it that God has designed the world for us to walk rightly

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 before him.

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 What are the dynamics of his wisdom that shape our lives?

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 And we're into the topical part of our series.

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 Nick explained it last week.

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 I won't rehash it, but go back and listen to his sermon about why as we're looking at Proverbs

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 10 through 31, we're doing it topically.

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 And this morning, the topic is correction.

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 And again, that's the word I'll use, although there are many different words that the book

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 of Proverbs uses for it.

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 Even discipline, we heard it in the passage from Hebrews earlier this morning.

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 And what is this?

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 What is this correction, right?

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 Particularly in this context, it's a subset of words in the book of Proverbs.

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 It's how we use words to come to someone else.

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 Words help us.

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 Correction is words that help us by correcting our understanding, our assumptions, and our

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 perspectives, often about ourselves and how we live and relate to others.

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 In correction, truth is brought to bear to change us by helping us see things as they

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 really are.

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 So they're words that will challenge us in all sorts of areas of our lives.

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 How do we use our words?

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 How do we live out our relationships?

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 How do we steward our money, our wealth, our sex, our power, our entertainment?

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 Correction comes in every sphere of life with words to help us see what is really true and

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 right.

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 And so we hear from the book of Proverbs.

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 And because we're jumping around, I'll try to carefully enunciate what the references

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 are.

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 But if you're trying to take notes, I would recommend writing them down rather than trying

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 to flip through Proverbs to get them.

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 But you can also ask me afterwards.

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 I'll send you a list of the Proverbs that I'm using in the sermon if you need that.

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 Proverbs 13.1 says, a wise son hears his father's instruction, but a scoffer does not listen to

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 rebuke.

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 And Proverbs 12.1, which I think might be my favorite, whoever loves discipline loves knowledge,

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 but he who hates reproof is stupid.

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 Very blunt, isn't it?

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 Very straightforward.

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 This is what we're going to see.

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 That the book of Proverbs, in the book of Proverbs, God speaks to us words of wisdom saying that

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 correction is important in our lives.

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 As we explore it, we're going to answer two simple questions.

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 One, why do we need correction?

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 And two, what does godly correction look like?

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 So those are the two questions.

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 Hopefully you'll walk away with a little bit more understanding about those things.

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 So to begin with, let's answer the question from Proverbs.

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 Why do we need correction?

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 Well, I have three reasons for you.

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 The first reason is because we are by nature fools.

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 This is the word Proverbs uses for people who don't know God rightly and don't live

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 according to his ways in the world.

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 That is, because of our sinful nature, we have an unerring disposition to stray from God.

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 And in doing so, we are fools.

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 And so Proverbs 12, 15 says,

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 The way of a fool is right in his own eyes, but a wise man listens to advice.

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 How true is this?

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 One of the reasons we need correction is because we think we're right all the time.

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 Have you ever thought about that?

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 As you enter into a conversation, as you try to solve a problem,

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 when you're doing it, even if you're uncertain,

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 at the end of the day, you're going to think,

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 Well, this is the best I could do, but this is the right thing to do.

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 Or I think I'm right about this situation.

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 We rarely think, I don't know anything.

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 I can't do anything.

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 We are right in our own eyes far too often.

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 The pride that rose up in Adam as he stood in the garden

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 and saw the temptation to doubt God and to think that he could be the one

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 who would know right and wrong, good and evil,

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 is in all of our hearts.

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 We foolishly believe that we're doing everything right,

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 and we desperately justify ourselves and our actions over and over again.

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 In a two-year-old, it looks like this.

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 No, daddy, do it myself.

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 In a teenager, it's the eye roll.

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 There aren't even words to express it.

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 Yes, dad.

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 I can't even do it.

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 In an adult, it might look like whatever.

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 But so easily, we dismiss other people

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 because we are so convinced that we're right.

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 And yet, in recognizing that folly,

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 we recognize this is why we need correction.

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 The second thing is because without correction,

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 folly leads to destruction.

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 So, Proverbs 13, 18.

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 Poverty and disgrace come to him who ignore instruction,

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 but whoever heeds reproof is honored.

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 Poverty and disgrace,

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 the breakdown of our normal provision of our life

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 and of our relationships.

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 When we lack correction in our life,

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 when we want to go at our own and do it our own way,

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 the Bible tells us over and over again,

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 it does not lead to life, but to death.

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 And this is the foolishness of it.

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 Because we keep pursuing it,

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 thinking it's going to get us what we want.

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 And instead, what we reap is something much worse.

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 So, Proverbs 15, 10.

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 There is severe discipline for him who forsakes the way.

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 Whoever hates reproof will die.

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 That's a strong word, isn't it?

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 But Proverbs says this over and over again.

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 The way of wisdom leads to life.

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 The way of foolishness leads to death.

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 And why is that?

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 Go back, listen to my sermon on Proverbs 8.

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 But it's because foolishness,

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 living apart from God,

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 is against the grain of the very world that he created.

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 And the very way that he created us to be and to live.

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 And so when we live against the grain of God's created order,

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 we live against the grain of the very things that God created

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 to be life-giving.

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 And so we end up in places of death,

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 relational death,

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 spiritual death,

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 financial death,

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 and literal death.

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 At times.

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 We need correction because we are by nature fools

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 who think highly of ourselves.

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 We need correction because without it,

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 we end up in destruction.

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 And thirdly,

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 we need correction because it's good for us.

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 Proverbs not only points out the bad thing

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 that we're headed to if we don't have it,

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 but it points out the good.

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 So Proverbs 6, 23 and 24.

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 For the commandment is a lamp and the teaching a light.

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 And the reproofs of discipline are the way of life.

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 To preserve you from the evil woman

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 and from the smooth tongue of the adulteress.

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 If you remember back in chapter 6,

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 there were these women crying out.

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 These women who are images of wisdom and foolishness,

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 crying out and calling us to follow them.

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 They were seeking to entice us.

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 He says,

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 correction,

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 instruction.

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 Here,

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 you see the commandments and the reproofs of discipline

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 lead us in the right way.

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 It puts us in along the grain of God's created order

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 and it leads us to life.

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 And then Proverbs 24, 5 and 6.

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 A wise man is full of strength

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 and a man of knowledge enhances his might.

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 For by wise guidance,

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 you can wage your war

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 and in abundance of counselors,

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 there is victory.

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 So here the Proverbs remind us

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 that as we live out our lives

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 with the battles that we're facing,

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 the challenges that we're facing,

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 the things we have to overcome,

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 that wisdom gives us what?

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 Strength.

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 Knowledge that enhances our might.

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 And in an abundance of counselors,

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 there is victory.

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 The Bible knows very little

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 of the Lone Ranger

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 in American folklore.

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 The man who will go off,

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 the independent, strong man

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 who can go and do everything himself.

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 Instead, it says,

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 no, we need other people in our lives.

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 The abundance of counselors

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 brings blessing to us.

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 Think about this

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 in some other contexts in life.

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 If you want to be a ranger,

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 are you going to go like Rambo

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 and go train in the forest

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 or in the jungle by yourself

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 and think you can do it?

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 Even Rocky had a coach.

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 You know?

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 The ranger goes to training

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 where he has officers

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 and where he has others,

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 and they're telling him,

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 no, if you put your gun together like that,

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 it won't work.

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 If you try to kill a man like that,

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 he's going to kill you instead.

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 He needs that correction

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 so that he can be trained

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 that in the moment of battle,

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 he is now instinctively doing

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 what is going to be right and good

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 for him to do

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 what he needs to do.

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 Or think about a gymnast.

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 A gymnast jumps onto the balance beam.

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 He or she doesn't know.

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 She doesn't,

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 I guess he doesn't do balance beam.

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 So she doesn't know

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 how to do that herself.

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 She needs a coach to show her.

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 No, the line goes like this.

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 This is how you keep your balance.

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 Do these over and over and over again

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 with constant input.

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 Because then,

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 at the Olympics,

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 when they get up on the balance beam

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 with all the pressure,

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 this instinctive,

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 learned behavior

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 that's been corrected

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 and refined over time

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 by the constant input of a coach

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 produces the beauty and elegance

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 desired.

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 Maybe some of you are pianists.

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 My kids have been taking piano lessons

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 and it's been fun to watch them do it.

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 But one of the things that's amazing is,

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 right,

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 basic piano skills

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 have to do with things like

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 sitting up straight,

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 positioning your body right,

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 putting your hands.

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 You know,

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 this is not a piano player.

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 This is a piano player

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 for those of you who,

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 right,

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 they're very basic things.

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 But if you don't do them,

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 as you learn,

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 as you grow,

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 you might get away with it

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 for a while.

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 But as you try and continue

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 to progress,

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 you find out you can't become

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 a good piano player

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 when your form is terrible.

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 Without those basic skills

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 that are drilled into you

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 by practice

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 and with a coach

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 who's reminding you,

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 a teacher who's saying,

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 do this and this,

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 and here's the next step,

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 and here's the next step.

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 All sorts of areas

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 in our lives,

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 we require training

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 because it produces

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 what we desire

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 and what we long for.

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 And this is what the Proverbs

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 are saying

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 that God is doing for us.

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 Counsel and correction

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 are necessary for us

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 and they lead to good things.

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 Not only do they lead

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 to good things

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 in terms of the pattern

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 of our lives,

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 but also they,

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 lead to something better.

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 We experience love,

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 God's love,

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 and the love of others

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 in correction.

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 And so,

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 Proverbs 3, 11, and 12,

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 my son,

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 do not despise

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 the Lord's discipline

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 or be weary

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 of his reproof.

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 For the Lord reproves

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 him whom he loves

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 as a father,

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 the son,

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 in whom he delights.

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 Friends,

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 do you hear this?

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 When God disciplines us,

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 it is a sign

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 that we are his daughter,

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 we are his son.

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 It means we belong

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 and it means

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 that he has set

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 his love on us.

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 This is an amazing truth.

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 And when God uses

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 the instruments

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 of people around us,

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 the friends

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 who are better

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 than a brother,

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 who speak hard words

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 at time for us,

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 it is then we know

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 that they really

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 love us.

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 We don't always

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 respond to it well,

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 do we?

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 There are times

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 when just playing

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 in our pride,

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 we don't like it

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 when our faults

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 are pointed out,

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 when our shortcomings

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 are exposed.

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 We often feel

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 attacked or threatened.

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 We resist it

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 because we feel

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 like our identity

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 or our reputation

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 is at stake

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 in what the other person

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 is saying.

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 I do want to recognize,

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 too,

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 that some of us

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 struggle with correction

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 because you've grown up

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 in a place

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 where it wasn't

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 really correction

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 at all.

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 What you experienced

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 were harsh

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 and demanding,

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 condemning words,

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 words not to build up

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 but to tear down

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 and to destroy,

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 words of anger

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 and frustration

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 and of hatred.

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 And you may have

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 a hard time hearing

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 words of correction

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 because that's been

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 the pattern

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 that you've heard

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 all your life.

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 But I want you

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 to hear this morning,

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 those things

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 are not

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 biblical correction

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 and that is not love.

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 That is hatred

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 when we use our words

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 to attack

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 and to belittle

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 and to destroy others.

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 But godly correction

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 is actually a sign

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 of God's love for us.

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 And so,

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 for all of these reasons,

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 we need correction.

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 For all of these reasons,

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 we need this

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 in our lives.

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 leads us to the question,

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 do you think

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 that's true?

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 Do you believe

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 that when your friend

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 comes to you

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 and says,

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 hey Nick,

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 you were kind of

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 harsh in staff meeting,

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 something going on?

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 Did you mean

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 to say it that way?

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 Is that really

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 what you wanted to do?

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 This is hypothetical,

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 by the way,

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 not real.

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 Didn't happen this week,

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 so,

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 want to dispel

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 any rumors

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 that might be

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 forming in your mind.

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 But do you love it

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 when someone comes to you

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 and says something like that?

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 Do you welcome it?

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 Do you see it

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 as God's gift to us

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 and a treasure?

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 Listen to Proverbs 25,

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 12.

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 Like a gold ring

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 or an ornament of gold

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 is a wise reprover

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 to a listening ear.

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 Correction is a gift,

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 my friends.

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 It is a good thing.

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 So what then

00:20:06.379 --> 00:20:07.119
 does it look like?

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 What does godly correction

00:20:08.359 --> 00:20:09.000
 look like?

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 There are two aspects to it.

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 There has to be a heart

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 and there has to be

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 a pattern.

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 So we're going to talk

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 a little bit about the heart

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 and then about the pattern.

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 starting with the heart

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 then

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 Proverbs 27,

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 5 and 6.

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 Better is open rebuke

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 than hidden love.

00:20:26.859 --> 00:20:28.059
 Faithful are the wounds

00:20:28.059 --> 00:20:28.779
 of a friend.

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 Profuse are the kisses

00:20:30.359 --> 00:20:31.240
 of an enemy.

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 So this is now

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 putting yourself

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 not on the receiving

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 but on the giving end of it.

00:20:40.039 --> 00:20:41.059
 What is the heart

00:20:41.059 --> 00:20:41.640
 of correction?

00:20:42.000 --> 00:20:43.359
 It is the heart of love.

00:20:43.359 --> 00:20:46.240
 It is I love you too much

00:20:46.240 --> 00:20:47.579
 to see you continue

00:20:47.579 --> 00:20:49.659
 in this destructive pattern.

00:20:50.059 --> 00:20:51.399
 I love you too much

00:20:51.399 --> 00:20:52.859
 to let you continue

00:20:52.859 --> 00:20:53.919
 in your ignorance

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 that those words

00:20:55.740 --> 00:20:56.899
 or those actions

00:20:56.899 --> 00:20:57.959
 were good

00:20:57.959 --> 00:20:58.939
 or right

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 or productive

00:20:59.919 --> 00:21:01.039
 in your life.

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 It is not

00:21:04.259 --> 00:21:05.639
 fixing a problem.

00:21:06.579 --> 00:21:07.719
 What you did

00:21:07.719 --> 00:21:08.439
 bugged me

00:21:08.439 --> 00:21:09.379
 and I didn't like it

00:21:09.379 --> 00:21:09.939
 so I'm going to

00:21:09.939 --> 00:21:10.939
 correct you.

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 No,

00:21:11.720 --> 00:21:13.440
 that's not godly correction.

00:21:14.640 --> 00:21:15.799
 Faithful are the wounds

00:21:15.799 --> 00:21:16.759
 of a friend.

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 Someone who is committed

00:21:18.680 --> 00:21:19.339
 to you.

00:21:20.420 --> 00:21:20.720
 Someone

00:21:20.720 --> 00:21:22.380
 who is not your enemy

00:21:22.380 --> 00:21:23.480
 but your friend.

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 Do you see what

00:21:24.160 --> 00:21:25.059
 your enemies do?

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 Your enemies

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 don't say anything.

00:21:28.240 --> 00:21:28.940
 Your enemies

00:21:28.940 --> 00:21:30.539
 flatter you

00:21:30.539 --> 00:21:31.220
 and say

00:21:31.220 --> 00:21:32.120
 you're the best.

00:21:33.500 --> 00:21:34.059
 You never do

00:21:34.059 --> 00:21:34.839
 anything wrong.

00:21:35.539 --> 00:21:36.140
 We think you're

00:21:36.140 --> 00:21:37.160
 the most wonderful person

00:21:37.160 --> 00:21:38.059
 in the whole world.

00:21:38.380 --> 00:21:39.019
 You could never

00:21:39.019 --> 00:21:40.000
 do anything bad.

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 And as much

00:21:41.880 --> 00:21:42.480
 as our ego

00:21:42.480 --> 00:21:43.019
 would love

00:21:43.019 --> 00:21:43.579
 to have people

00:21:43.579 --> 00:21:44.180
 in our lives

00:21:44.180 --> 00:21:45.400
 who say that to us

00:21:45.400 --> 00:21:47.220
 that's not love.

00:21:47.319 --> 00:21:47.839
 In fact

00:21:47.839 --> 00:21:50.359
 Proverbs calls that

00:21:50.359 --> 00:21:51.660
 what an enemy

00:21:51.660 --> 00:21:52.740
 does to us.

00:21:54.119 --> 00:21:55.519
 They butter us up

00:21:55.519 --> 00:21:56.700
 so that we'll

00:21:56.700 --> 00:21:57.799
 continue to like them.

00:21:59.140 --> 00:21:59.920
 Real love

00:21:59.920 --> 00:22:00.440
 is willing

00:22:00.440 --> 00:22:02.539
 to expose truth

00:22:02.539 --> 00:22:04.299
 for the sake

00:22:04.299 --> 00:22:05.119
 of that person

00:22:05.119 --> 00:22:06.299
 and for their good.

00:22:06.299 --> 00:22:09.460
 I remember once

00:22:09.460 --> 00:22:10.539
 when I was on staff

00:22:10.539 --> 00:22:11.859
 I was challenged

00:22:11.859 --> 00:22:12.879
 to move positions

00:22:12.879 --> 00:22:13.639
 and to leave

00:22:13.639 --> 00:22:14.339
 one team

00:22:14.339 --> 00:22:15.539
 and go to the next one

00:22:15.539 --> 00:22:17.500
 and I was deeply

00:22:17.500 --> 00:22:18.639
 conflicted about it.

00:22:19.319 --> 00:22:20.039
 I had committed

00:22:20.039 --> 00:22:20.779
 to this team.

00:22:20.919 --> 00:22:21.440
 We were building

00:22:21.440 --> 00:22:22.639
 something that was exciting

00:22:22.639 --> 00:22:22.960
 and I

00:22:22.960 --> 00:22:24.839
 we had talked

00:22:24.839 --> 00:22:25.720
 a lot about

00:22:25.720 --> 00:22:26.799
 doing it together

00:22:26.799 --> 00:22:27.819
 for a long time

00:22:27.819 --> 00:22:28.639
 and about the value

00:22:28.639 --> 00:22:29.559
 of working together

00:22:29.559 --> 00:22:30.379
 with other people.

00:22:30.380 --> 00:22:32.800
 But then

00:22:32.800 --> 00:22:34.300
 leadership came along

00:22:34.300 --> 00:22:34.900
 and they said

00:22:34.900 --> 00:22:35.940
 there's a whole campus

00:22:35.940 --> 00:22:37.020
 there are 100 students

00:22:37.020 --> 00:22:38.260
 there's lots of opportunity

00:22:38.260 --> 00:22:40.220
 we think you can do this

00:22:40.220 --> 00:22:40.720
 you'll be the

00:22:40.720 --> 00:22:41.720
 you'll get to call

00:22:41.720 --> 00:22:42.460
 your own shots

00:22:42.460 --> 00:22:43.400
 there are all sorts

00:22:43.400 --> 00:22:44.200
 of different things

00:22:44.200 --> 00:22:44.860
 that rose up

00:22:44.860 --> 00:22:45.640
 in my mind.

00:22:48.380 --> 00:22:49.680
 So I made the decision

00:22:49.680 --> 00:22:50.300
 to go

00:22:50.300 --> 00:22:51.580
 and my friend

00:22:51.580 --> 00:22:52.200
 called me

00:22:52.200 --> 00:22:53.460
 and believe me

00:22:53.460 --> 00:22:54.420
 it was not convenient

00:22:54.420 --> 00:22:55.460
 it was the night

00:22:55.460 --> 00:22:56.380
 before I was leaving

00:22:56.380 --> 00:22:57.060
 on an overseas

00:22:57.060 --> 00:22:57.860
 missions trip

00:22:57.860 --> 00:22:59.000
 he was far away

00:22:59.000 --> 00:23:00.059
 so I was having this

00:23:00.059 --> 00:23:02.160
 literally a conversation

00:23:02.160 --> 00:23:03.119
 in a phone booth

00:23:03.119 --> 00:23:03.680
 alright

00:23:03.680 --> 00:23:05.059
 they don't even exist anymore

00:23:05.059 --> 00:23:06.539
 I was in a phone booth

00:23:06.539 --> 00:23:10.579
 and he lovingly said

00:23:10.579 --> 00:23:11.519
 Matt I don't think

00:23:11.519 --> 00:23:12.660
 this is the right decision

00:23:12.660 --> 00:23:14.079
 I don't think

00:23:14.079 --> 00:23:15.119
 your motives are good

00:23:15.119 --> 00:23:16.400
 I understand

00:23:16.400 --> 00:23:17.420
 why it's compelling

00:23:17.420 --> 00:23:19.519
 but I'm really

00:23:19.519 --> 00:23:20.539
 concerned for you

00:23:20.539 --> 00:23:22.700
 this doesn't seem good

00:23:22.700 --> 00:23:24.759
 and not because

00:23:24.759 --> 00:23:25.819
 we're losing you

00:23:25.819 --> 00:23:27.599
 but because it doesn't

00:23:27.599 --> 00:23:28.799
 seem like a good thing

00:23:28.799 --> 00:23:31.159
 will you

00:23:31.159 --> 00:23:32.339
 will you reconsider

00:23:32.339 --> 00:23:37.279
 and I listened to him

00:23:37.279 --> 00:23:37.819
 that time

00:23:37.819 --> 00:23:39.059
 at least for a little while

00:23:39.059 --> 00:23:40.379
 I still made the decision

00:23:40.379 --> 00:23:40.819
 to go

00:23:40.819 --> 00:23:42.519
 and you know

00:23:42.519 --> 00:23:43.339
 what my friend did

00:23:43.339 --> 00:23:44.559
 he loved me anyway

00:23:44.559 --> 00:23:45.919
 I came back

00:23:45.919 --> 00:23:46.779
 from the mission trip

00:23:46.779 --> 00:23:47.899
 having made the decision

00:23:47.899 --> 00:23:49.200
 and we sat down

00:23:49.200 --> 00:23:50.299
 and we talked about it

00:23:50.299 --> 00:23:52.440
 and years later

00:23:52.440 --> 00:23:53.440
 he married me

00:23:53.440 --> 00:23:54.940
 and today

00:23:54.940 --> 00:23:55.500
 he's still

00:23:55.500 --> 00:23:56.279
 the person

00:23:56.279 --> 00:23:57.379
 that I pick up the phone

00:23:57.380 --> 00:23:58.360
 when I have a major

00:23:58.360 --> 00:23:59.160
 life decision

00:23:59.160 --> 00:24:00.240
 to call

00:24:00.240 --> 00:24:01.620
 because he loved me

00:24:01.620 --> 00:24:02.540
 as a friend enough

00:24:02.540 --> 00:24:03.520
 to challenge me

00:24:03.520 --> 00:24:05.360
 and I was so thankful

00:24:05.360 --> 00:24:05.980
 for that

00:24:05.980 --> 00:24:09.000
 so part of the heart

00:24:09.000 --> 00:24:10.020
 dynamic

00:24:10.020 --> 00:24:12.860
 is this real love

00:24:12.860 --> 00:24:15.080
 seeking someone else's good

00:24:15.080 --> 00:24:17.720
 not just trying to fix

00:24:17.720 --> 00:24:18.200
 a problem

00:24:18.200 --> 00:24:19.360
 not just trying to remove

00:24:19.360 --> 00:24:20.120
 an annoyance

00:24:20.119 --> 00:24:21.799
 but for their good

00:24:21.799 --> 00:24:25.679
 Proverbs 29 1

00:24:25.679 --> 00:24:26.759
 exposes another

00:24:26.759 --> 00:24:27.500
 heart dynamic

00:24:27.500 --> 00:24:28.679
 we need to recognize

00:24:28.679 --> 00:24:29.979
 he who is often

00:24:29.979 --> 00:24:30.599
 reproved

00:24:30.599 --> 00:24:31.979
 yet stiffens his neck

00:24:31.979 --> 00:24:33.979
 will suddenly be broken

00:24:33.979 --> 00:24:35.459
 beyond healing

00:24:35.459 --> 00:24:40.359
 stiff necked is a great phrase

00:24:40.359 --> 00:24:40.859
 in the Bible

00:24:40.859 --> 00:24:41.379
 isn't it

00:24:41.379 --> 00:24:42.939
 being stiff necked

00:24:42.939 --> 00:24:43.399
 means

00:24:43.399 --> 00:24:44.539
 that you are

00:24:44.539 --> 00:24:45.359
 unteachable

00:24:45.359 --> 00:24:45.659
 and

00:24:45.659 --> 00:24:46.479
 un

00:24:46.479 --> 00:24:47.479
 un

00:24:47.480 --> 00:24:47.920
 unbeatable

00:24:47.920 --> 00:24:49.240
 I think it actually

00:24:49.240 --> 00:24:50.620
 is an agricultural image

00:24:50.620 --> 00:24:51.339
 that has to do

00:24:51.339 --> 00:24:52.740
 with a horse

00:24:52.740 --> 00:24:53.860
 that you can't turn

00:24:53.860 --> 00:24:54.259
 the neck

00:24:54.259 --> 00:24:55.039
 one way or the other

00:24:55.039 --> 00:24:55.880
 he will just go

00:24:55.880 --> 00:24:56.740
 the way he's going to go

00:24:56.740 --> 00:24:57.380
 no matter what

00:24:57.380 --> 00:24:58.880
 I'm not positive

00:24:58.880 --> 00:24:59.299
 about that

00:24:59.299 --> 00:24:59.839
 but I think

00:24:59.839 --> 00:25:01.000
 that's where it comes from

00:25:01.000 --> 00:25:04.420
 but being stiff necked

00:25:04.420 --> 00:25:05.460
 is pride

00:25:05.460 --> 00:25:07.539
 it's a great picture

00:25:07.539 --> 00:25:08.539
 of what pride is

00:25:08.539 --> 00:25:09.180
 I'm going to do

00:25:09.180 --> 00:25:09.860
 my own thing

00:25:09.860 --> 00:25:10.700
 in my own way

00:25:10.700 --> 00:25:13.259
 and Proverbs warns us

00:25:13.259 --> 00:25:14.539
 that in the dynamics

00:25:14.539 --> 00:25:15.299
 of correction

00:25:15.299 --> 00:25:17.519
 pride will ruin

00:25:17.519 --> 00:25:18.720
 the dynamics

00:25:18.720 --> 00:25:19.960
 on both sides

00:25:19.960 --> 00:25:21.779
 pride of the reprover

00:25:21.779 --> 00:25:23.299
 the one who's bringing correction

00:25:23.299 --> 00:25:25.319
 will bring condemnation

00:25:25.319 --> 00:25:26.159
 arrogance

00:25:26.159 --> 00:25:28.940
 all sorts of negative

00:25:28.940 --> 00:25:29.379
 content

00:25:29.379 --> 00:25:30.480
 pride on the one

00:25:30.480 --> 00:25:31.680
 who's receiving it

00:25:31.680 --> 00:25:33.720
 will make us fools

00:25:33.720 --> 00:25:34.960
 who refuse

00:25:34.960 --> 00:25:36.379
 to accept it

00:25:36.379 --> 00:25:40.059
 but when there's humility

00:25:40.059 --> 00:25:44.079
 when there's humility

00:25:44.079 --> 00:25:46.000
 correction works beautifully

00:25:46.000 --> 00:25:48.039
 when our hearts are right

00:25:48.039 --> 00:25:49.619
 we humbly give correction

00:25:49.619 --> 00:25:51.940
 that will invite someone

00:25:51.940 --> 00:25:53.220
 to respond

00:25:53.220 --> 00:25:54.599
 to process

00:25:54.599 --> 00:25:56.319
 and to change

00:25:56.319 --> 00:25:58.539
 and when our hearts are right

00:25:58.539 --> 00:26:00.500
 we can humbly

00:26:00.500 --> 00:26:02.000
 receive correction

00:26:02.000 --> 00:26:05.079
 receive it

00:26:05.079 --> 00:26:06.839
 and seek to

00:26:06.839 --> 00:26:08.359
 for it to do good

00:26:08.359 --> 00:26:09.439
 in our lives

00:26:09.439 --> 00:26:11.779
 so humility

00:26:11.779 --> 00:26:13.819
 is a critical part

00:26:13.819 --> 00:26:15.439
 love and humility

00:26:15.439 --> 00:26:16.059
 together

00:26:16.059 --> 00:26:17.039
 when they are working

00:26:17.039 --> 00:26:17.819
 in this process

00:26:17.819 --> 00:26:18.299
 of correction

00:26:18.299 --> 00:26:19.439
 is a beautiful thing

00:26:19.439 --> 00:26:21.719
 so that's the heart issue

00:26:21.719 --> 00:26:22.339
 now what about

00:26:22.339 --> 00:26:23.059
 the practice

00:26:23.059 --> 00:26:24.479
 well here we go

00:26:24.479 --> 00:26:25.479
 alright

00:26:25.479 --> 00:26:26.939
 if you're taking notes

00:26:26.939 --> 00:26:28.240
 here's where

00:26:28.240 --> 00:26:29.379
 the rubber meets

00:26:29.379 --> 00:26:29.859
 the road

00:26:29.859 --> 00:26:32.319
 these are pastoral

00:26:32.319 --> 00:26:33.179
 thoughts for you

00:26:33.179 --> 00:26:33.899
 Proverbs

00:26:33.899 --> 00:26:34.859
 even at this level

00:26:34.859 --> 00:26:35.699
 doesn't lay out

00:26:35.699 --> 00:26:36.500
 so much of a

00:26:36.500 --> 00:26:37.199
 paradigm

00:26:37.200 --> 00:26:39.059
 but this is what

00:26:39.059 --> 00:26:39.519
 happens

00:26:39.519 --> 00:26:40.380
 this is what

00:26:40.380 --> 00:26:40.759
 happens

00:26:40.759 --> 00:26:41.620
 when we practice

00:26:41.620 --> 00:26:42.200
 it well

00:26:42.200 --> 00:26:43.000
 in the giving

00:26:43.000 --> 00:26:43.819
 of correction

00:26:43.819 --> 00:26:44.559
 okay

00:26:44.559 --> 00:26:45.860
 it is spoken

00:26:45.860 --> 00:26:46.580
 humbly

00:26:46.580 --> 00:26:47.720
 that is

00:26:47.720 --> 00:26:48.240
 acknowledge

00:26:48.240 --> 00:26:48.980
 you are not

00:26:48.980 --> 00:26:49.500
 perfect

00:26:49.500 --> 00:26:50.100
 acknowledge

00:26:50.100 --> 00:26:50.740
 that you don't

00:26:50.740 --> 00:26:51.700
 know everything

00:26:51.700 --> 00:26:53.200
 be careful

00:26:53.200 --> 00:26:53.680
 to check

00:26:53.680 --> 00:26:54.519
 your own heart

00:26:54.519 --> 00:26:55.059
 so that you're

00:26:55.059 --> 00:26:55.680
 not doing it

00:26:55.680 --> 00:26:56.420
 for selfish

00:26:56.420 --> 00:26:57.100
 motives

00:26:57.100 --> 00:26:57.779
 we don't want

00:26:57.779 --> 00:26:58.680
 any church ladies

00:26:58.680 --> 00:26:59.279
 going around

00:26:59.279 --> 00:26:59.559
 going

00:26:59.559 --> 00:27:00.460
 tsk tsk

00:27:00.460 --> 00:27:01.299
 don't do that

00:27:01.299 --> 00:27:01.860
 tsk tsk

00:27:01.860 --> 00:27:02.600
 don't do that

00:27:02.599 --> 00:27:03.740
 that's not

00:27:03.740 --> 00:27:04.199
 helpful

00:27:04.199 --> 00:27:07.159
 and it's not

00:27:07.159 --> 00:27:07.559
 humble

00:27:07.559 --> 00:27:11.480
 so it needs

00:27:11.480 --> 00:27:12.079
 to be spoken

00:27:12.079 --> 00:27:12.679
 humbly

00:27:12.679 --> 00:27:13.719
 it also needs

00:27:13.719 --> 00:27:14.459
 to be spoken

00:27:14.459 --> 00:27:15.219
 clearly

00:27:15.219 --> 00:27:17.019
 you did

00:27:17.019 --> 00:27:18.019
 these things

00:27:18.019 --> 00:27:19.139
 you said

00:27:19.139 --> 00:27:20.459
 these words

00:27:20.459 --> 00:27:21.519
 you acted

00:27:21.519 --> 00:27:22.419
 in these

00:27:22.419 --> 00:27:23.119
 ways

00:27:23.119 --> 00:27:24.959
 that seemed

00:27:24.959 --> 00:27:25.480
 to me

00:27:25.480 --> 00:27:26.219
 to not be

00:27:26.219 --> 00:27:26.579
 right

00:27:26.579 --> 00:27:27.279
 or good

00:27:27.279 --> 00:27:29.399
 maybe

00:27:29.399 --> 00:27:29.859
 I didn't

00:27:29.859 --> 00:27:30.539
 understand

00:27:30.539 --> 00:27:31.440
 maybe

00:27:31.440 --> 00:27:32.000
 I miss

00:27:32.000 --> 00:27:33.160
 saw

00:27:33.160 --> 00:27:33.599
 maybe

00:27:33.599 --> 00:27:34.279
 there's

00:27:34.279 --> 00:27:34.879
 a sense

00:27:34.879 --> 00:27:35.079
 of

00:27:35.079 --> 00:27:36.079
 I'm going

00:27:36.079 --> 00:27:36.379
 to bring

00:27:36.379 --> 00:27:36.720
 you what

00:27:36.720 --> 00:27:37.160
 I saw

00:27:37.160 --> 00:27:37.519
 I'm going

00:27:37.519 --> 00:27:39.000
 to acknowledge

00:27:39.000 --> 00:27:39.519
 I might

00:27:39.519 --> 00:27:39.920
 have gotten

00:27:39.920 --> 00:27:40.579
 it wrong

00:27:40.579 --> 00:27:41.480
 but I'm

00:27:41.480 --> 00:27:41.660
 going to

00:27:41.660 --> 00:27:42.019
 bring it

00:27:42.019 --> 00:27:42.619
 as clearly

00:27:42.619 --> 00:27:43.519
 as I can

00:27:43.519 --> 00:27:44.779
 and in

00:27:44.779 --> 00:27:45.539
 that clarity

00:27:45.539 --> 00:27:46.079
 one of the

00:27:46.079 --> 00:27:46.519
 things I'm

00:27:46.519 --> 00:27:46.819
 going to

00:27:46.819 --> 00:27:47.220
 do is

00:27:47.220 --> 00:27:47.680
 avoid

00:27:47.680 --> 00:27:48.099
 the

00:27:48.099 --> 00:27:49.180
 you always

00:27:49.180 --> 00:27:50.279
 and you

00:27:50.279 --> 00:27:50.660
 never

00:27:50.660 --> 00:27:51.680
 this is

00:27:51.680 --> 00:27:52.099
 marriage

00:27:52.099 --> 00:27:52.559
 counseling

00:27:52.559 --> 00:27:52.899
 101

00:27:52.899 --> 00:27:53.379
 friends

00:27:53.379 --> 00:27:53.660
 if you

00:27:53.660 --> 00:27:53.879
 didn't

00:27:53.879 --> 00:27:55.059
 you always

00:27:55.059 --> 00:27:55.480
 and you

00:27:55.480 --> 00:27:55.859
 never

00:27:55.859 --> 00:27:56.139
 are

00:27:56.139 --> 00:27:56.879
 poison

00:27:56.880 --> 00:27:57.640
 in any

00:27:57.640 --> 00:27:58.320
 relationship

00:27:58.320 --> 00:27:59.220
 and particularly

00:27:59.220 --> 00:27:59.940
 in correction

00:27:59.940 --> 00:28:01.040
 you always

00:28:01.040 --> 00:28:01.420
 do it

00:28:01.420 --> 00:28:01.860
 this way

00:28:01.860 --> 00:28:02.620
 you never

00:28:02.620 --> 00:28:03.420
 do that

00:28:03.420 --> 00:28:07.220
 it's not

00:28:07.220 --> 00:28:07.600
 helpful

00:28:07.600 --> 00:28:08.140
 correction

00:28:08.140 --> 00:28:08.660
 when we

00:28:08.660 --> 00:28:09.000
 talk

00:28:09.000 --> 00:28:09.560
 in

00:28:09.560 --> 00:28:10.580
 generalities

00:28:10.580 --> 00:28:12.660
 it is

00:28:12.660 --> 00:28:12.960
 helpful

00:28:12.960 --> 00:28:13.500
 to talk

00:28:13.500 --> 00:28:13.720
 in

00:28:13.720 --> 00:28:14.460
 specifics

00:28:14.460 --> 00:28:18.040
 thirdly

00:28:18.040 --> 00:28:19.140
 I've already

00:28:19.140 --> 00:28:19.660
 referred to

00:28:19.660 --> 00:28:19.860
 this

00:28:19.860 --> 00:28:20.200
 but it

00:28:20.200 --> 00:28:20.520
 should be

00:28:20.520 --> 00:28:20.920
 spoken

00:28:20.920 --> 00:28:21.300
 without

00:28:21.300 --> 00:28:21.880
 assumption

00:28:21.880 --> 00:28:22.740
 of motive

00:28:22.740 --> 00:28:23.540
 or intent

00:28:23.539 --> 00:28:28.139
 I don't

00:28:28.139 --> 00:28:28.539
 know what

00:28:28.539 --> 00:28:29.139
 you meant

00:28:29.139 --> 00:28:31.059
 but when

00:28:31.059 --> 00:28:31.440
 you did

00:28:31.440 --> 00:28:31.899
 this

00:28:31.899 --> 00:28:32.359
 or when

00:28:32.359 --> 00:28:32.819
 you said

00:28:32.819 --> 00:28:33.159
 this

00:28:33.159 --> 00:28:33.399
 it

00:28:33.399 --> 00:28:34.000
 communicated

00:28:34.000 --> 00:28:34.559
 this

00:28:34.559 --> 00:28:35.099
 to me

00:28:35.099 --> 00:28:36.039
 is that

00:28:36.039 --> 00:28:36.440
 what you

00:28:36.440 --> 00:28:36.799
 meant

00:28:36.799 --> 00:28:37.500
 is that

00:28:37.500 --> 00:28:37.879
 what you

00:28:37.879 --> 00:28:38.319
 wanted

00:28:38.319 --> 00:28:40.039
 that's a

00:28:40.039 --> 00:28:40.480
 helpful

00:28:40.480 --> 00:28:41.119
 way of

00:28:41.119 --> 00:28:41.619
 correcting

00:28:41.619 --> 00:28:43.619
 it's a

00:28:43.619 --> 00:28:43.920
 helpful

00:28:43.920 --> 00:28:44.379
 way of

00:28:44.379 --> 00:28:44.980
 rebuking

00:28:44.980 --> 00:28:45.859
 or reproving

00:28:45.859 --> 00:28:46.879
 it invites

00:28:46.879 --> 00:28:47.659
 a relationship

00:28:47.659 --> 00:28:48.039
 and a

00:28:48.039 --> 00:28:48.799
 conversation

00:28:48.799 --> 00:28:52.460
 spoken

00:28:52.460 --> 00:28:52.980
 humbly

00:28:52.980 --> 00:28:53.779
 clearly

00:28:53.779 --> 00:28:54.460
 without

00:28:54.460 --> 00:28:55.039
 assumption

00:28:55.039 --> 00:28:56.119
 it is

00:28:56.119 --> 00:28:56.460
 spoken

00:28:56.460 --> 00:28:57.220
 aptly

00:28:57.220 --> 00:28:57.980
 this is

00:28:57.980 --> 00:28:58.339
 Nick's

00:28:58.339 --> 00:28:58.519
 word

00:28:58.519 --> 00:28:59.079
 from last

00:28:59.079 --> 00:28:59.399
 week

00:28:59.399 --> 00:29:00.299
 but

00:29:00.299 --> 00:29:01.079
 specifically

00:29:01.079 --> 00:29:01.639
 that is

00:29:01.639 --> 00:29:02.079
 timing

00:29:02.079 --> 00:29:02.839
 and setting

00:29:02.839 --> 00:29:03.779
 are important

00:29:03.779 --> 00:29:04.859
 generally

00:29:04.859 --> 00:29:05.500
 correction

00:29:05.500 --> 00:29:06.019
 should be

00:29:06.019 --> 00:29:06.339
 done

00:29:06.339 --> 00:29:07.099
 in private

00:29:07.099 --> 00:29:07.819
 not in

00:29:07.819 --> 00:29:08.279
 public

00:29:08.279 --> 00:29:09.879
 this is

00:29:09.879 --> 00:29:10.159
 why

00:29:10.159 --> 00:29:10.599
 moms

00:29:10.599 --> 00:29:10.960
 you should

00:29:10.960 --> 00:29:11.200
 take

00:29:11.200 --> 00:29:11.339
 your

00:29:11.339 --> 00:29:11.700
 child

00:29:11.700 --> 00:29:12.079
 out

00:29:12.079 --> 00:29:12.259
 of

00:29:12.259 --> 00:29:12.399
 the

00:29:12.399 --> 00:29:12.720
 grocery

00:29:12.720 --> 00:29:13.180
 store

00:29:13.180 --> 00:29:13.819
 to

00:29:13.819 --> 00:29:14.259
 discipline

00:29:14.259 --> 00:29:14.619
 them

00:29:14.619 --> 00:29:15.159
 even

00:29:15.159 --> 00:29:15.500
 if it

00:29:15.500 --> 00:29:15.740
 means

00:29:15.740 --> 00:29:15.899
 you

00:29:15.899 --> 00:29:16.200
 leave

00:29:16.200 --> 00:29:16.399
 the

00:29:16.399 --> 00:29:16.659
 cart

00:29:16.659 --> 00:29:16.980
 full

00:29:16.980 --> 00:29:17.099
 of

00:29:17.099 --> 00:29:17.299
 ice

00:29:17.299 --> 00:29:17.579
 cream

00:29:17.579 --> 00:29:18.200
 you

00:29:18.200 --> 00:29:18.519
 just

00:29:18.519 --> 00:29:18.840
 do

00:29:18.840 --> 00:29:19.059
 it

00:29:19.059 --> 00:29:19.440
 because

00:29:19.440 --> 00:29:19.720
 it's

00:29:19.720 --> 00:29:20.100
 better

00:29:20.100 --> 00:29:21.620
 because

00:29:21.620 --> 00:29:22.240
 public

00:29:22.240 --> 00:29:22.980
 correction

00:29:22.980 --> 00:29:23.940
 brings

00:29:23.940 --> 00:29:24.559
 shame

00:29:24.559 --> 00:29:25.299
 very

00:29:25.299 --> 00:29:25.740
 quickly

00:29:25.740 --> 00:29:26.740
 and

00:29:26.740 --> 00:29:27.080
 shame

00:29:27.080 --> 00:29:27.360
 can

00:29:27.360 --> 00:29:28.059
 destroy

00:29:28.059 --> 00:29:28.819
 the

00:29:28.819 --> 00:29:29.240
 ability

00:29:29.240 --> 00:29:29.500
 for

00:29:29.500 --> 00:29:29.759
 someone

00:29:29.759 --> 00:29:29.960
 to

00:29:29.960 --> 00:29:30.420
 receive

00:29:30.420 --> 00:29:30.600
 it

00:29:30.600 --> 00:29:30.900
 well

00:29:30.900 --> 00:29:33.480
 it

00:29:33.480 --> 00:29:33.980
 also

00:29:33.980 --> 00:29:34.819
 needs

00:29:34.819 --> 00:29:35.140
 to be

00:29:35.140 --> 00:29:35.480
 said

00:29:35.480 --> 00:29:35.940
 in as

00:29:35.940 --> 00:29:36.480
 timely

00:29:36.480 --> 00:29:37.039
 a manner

00:29:37.039 --> 00:29:37.319
 as

00:29:37.319 --> 00:29:37.840
 possible

00:29:37.840 --> 00:29:38.500
 do

00:29:38.500 --> 00:29:38.680
 you

00:29:38.680 --> 00:29:39.140
 remember

00:29:39.140 --> 00:29:39.900
 three

00:29:39.900 --> 00:29:40.259
 years

00:29:40.259 --> 00:29:40.720
 ago

00:29:40.720 --> 00:29:41.220
 last

00:29:41.220 --> 00:29:41.680
 Thursday

00:29:41.680 --> 00:29:42.100
 when

00:29:42.100 --> 00:29:42.319
 you

00:29:42.319 --> 00:29:42.660
 said

00:29:42.660 --> 00:29:43.220
 this

00:29:43.220 --> 00:29:44.259
 no

00:29:44.259 --> 00:29:45.200
 well

00:29:45.200 --> 00:29:45.380
 it

00:29:45.380 --> 00:29:45.559
 was

00:29:45.559 --> 00:29:45.840
 really

00:29:45.840 --> 00:29:46.100
 not

00:29:46.100 --> 00:29:46.380
 good

00:29:46.380 --> 00:29:46.640
 can

00:29:46.640 --> 00:29:46.819
 you

00:29:46.819 --> 00:29:47.080
 fix

00:29:47.080 --> 00:29:47.380
 that

00:29:47.380 --> 00:29:48.000
 I

00:29:48.000 --> 00:29:48.160
 don't

00:29:48.160 --> 00:29:48.340
 even

00:29:48.340 --> 00:29:48.660
 remember

00:29:48.660 --> 00:29:48.880
 what

00:29:48.880 --> 00:29:49.040
 I

00:29:49.040 --> 00:29:49.460
 did

00:29:49.460 --> 00:29:52.540
 timeliness

00:29:52.540 --> 00:29:53.900
 is part

00:29:53.900 --> 00:29:54.160
 of it

00:29:54.160 --> 00:29:54.460
 being

00:29:54.460 --> 00:29:54.680
 an

00:29:54.680 --> 00:29:55.020
 apt

00:29:55.020 --> 00:29:55.480
 word

00:29:55.480 --> 00:29:56.200
 so

00:29:56.200 --> 00:29:56.460
 don't

00:29:56.460 --> 00:29:56.620
 let

00:29:56.620 --> 00:29:56.780
 it

00:29:56.780 --> 00:29:57.200
 fester

00:29:57.200 --> 00:29:57.720
 maybe

00:29:57.720 --> 00:29:57.920
 you

00:29:57.920 --> 00:29:58.080
 need

00:29:58.080 --> 00:29:58.220
 a

00:29:58.220 --> 00:29:58.360
 little

00:29:58.360 --> 00:29:58.500
 bit

00:29:58.500 --> 00:29:58.640
 of

00:29:58.640 --> 00:29:58.920
 time

00:29:58.920 --> 00:29:59.100
 to

00:29:59.100 --> 00:29:59.480
 process

00:29:59.480 --> 00:29:59.840
 it

00:29:59.840 --> 00:30:00.280
 to

00:30:00.280 --> 00:30:00.800
 evaluate

00:30:00.800 --> 00:30:01.260
 whether

00:30:01.260 --> 00:30:01.540
 this

00:30:01.540 --> 00:30:01.840
 something

00:30:01.840 --> 00:30:02.180
 needs

00:30:02.180 --> 00:30:02.480
 to be

00:30:02.480 --> 00:30:02.700
 said

00:30:02.700 --> 00:30:03.020
 or not

00:30:03.020 --> 00:30:03.480
 but

00:30:03.480 --> 00:30:03.700
 if

00:30:03.700 --> 00:30:03.900
 you're

00:30:03.900 --> 00:30:04.200
 bringing

00:30:04.200 --> 00:30:04.580
 it

00:30:04.580 --> 00:30:06.180
 do

00:30:06.180 --> 00:30:06.320
 it

00:30:06.320 --> 00:30:06.420
 in

00:30:06.420 --> 00:30:06.560
 a

00:30:06.560 --> 00:30:06.900
 timely

00:30:06.900 --> 00:30:07.360
 manner

00:30:07.360 --> 00:30:10.640
 needs

00:30:10.640 --> 00:30:10.900
 to be

00:30:10.900 --> 00:30:11.180
 spoken

00:30:11.180 --> 00:30:11.420
 in

00:30:11.420 --> 00:30:11.860
 person

00:30:11.860 --> 00:30:13.620
 maybe

00:30:13.620 --> 00:30:13.880
 in

00:30:13.880 --> 00:30:14.040
 a

00:30:14.040 --> 00:30:14.320
 letter

00:30:14.319 --> 00:30:15.059
 if

00:30:15.059 --> 00:30:15.279
 you

00:30:15.279 --> 00:30:15.720
 have

00:30:15.720 --> 00:30:16.439
 a

00:30:16.439 --> 00:30:17.019
 fear

00:30:17.019 --> 00:30:17.439
 that

00:30:17.439 --> 00:30:17.659
 it's

00:30:17.659 --> 00:30:17.839
 going

00:30:17.839 --> 00:30:18.099
 to be

00:30:18.099 --> 00:30:18.359
 so

00:30:18.359 --> 00:30:19.039
 explosive

00:30:19.039 --> 00:30:19.559
 or so

00:30:19.559 --> 00:30:20.079
 difficult

00:30:20.079 --> 00:30:21.099
 that you

00:30:21.099 --> 00:30:21.279
 need

00:30:21.279 --> 00:30:21.659
 to write

00:30:21.659 --> 00:30:21.779
 it

00:30:21.779 --> 00:30:21.939
 down

00:30:21.939 --> 00:30:22.099
 but

00:30:22.099 --> 00:30:22.399
 even

00:30:22.399 --> 00:30:22.599
 if

00:30:22.599 --> 00:30:22.819
 you're

00:30:22.819 --> 00:30:23.059
 writing

00:30:23.059 --> 00:30:23.279
 it

00:30:23.279 --> 00:30:23.599
 down

00:30:23.599 --> 00:30:23.759
 in

00:30:23.759 --> 00:30:23.899
 a

00:30:23.899 --> 00:30:24.159
 letter

00:30:24.159 --> 00:30:24.679
 you

00:30:24.679 --> 00:30:24.899
 want

00:30:24.899 --> 00:30:25.059
 to

00:30:25.059 --> 00:30:25.539
 invite

00:30:25.539 --> 00:30:25.859
 then

00:30:25.859 --> 00:30:26.039
 a

00:30:26.039 --> 00:30:26.259
 face

00:30:26.259 --> 00:30:26.419
 to

00:30:26.419 --> 00:30:26.659
 face

00:30:26.659 --> 00:30:27.439
 conversation

00:30:27.439 --> 00:30:27.879
 as

00:30:27.879 --> 00:30:28.059
 a

00:30:28.059 --> 00:30:28.359
 follow

00:30:28.359 --> 00:30:28.619
 up

00:30:28.619 --> 00:30:28.879
 to

00:30:28.879 --> 00:30:29.139
 it

00:30:29.139 --> 00:30:31.539
 friends

00:30:31.539 --> 00:30:31.819
 maybe

00:30:31.819 --> 00:30:32.079
 this

00:30:32.079 --> 00:30:32.399
 doesn't

00:30:32.399 --> 00:30:32.539
 need

00:30:32.539 --> 00:30:32.639
 to

00:30:32.639 --> 00:30:32.779
 be

00:30:32.779 --> 00:30:33.039
 said

00:30:33.039 --> 00:30:33.259
 but

00:30:33.259 --> 00:30:33.619
 Twitter

00:30:33.619 --> 00:30:33.960
 is

00:30:33.960 --> 00:30:34.139
 a

00:30:34.139 --> 00:30:34.460
 really

00:30:34.460 --> 00:30:34.839
 bad

00:30:34.839 --> 00:30:35.039
 way

00:30:35.039 --> 00:30:35.200
 to

00:30:35.200 --> 00:30:35.399
 do

00:30:35.399 --> 00:30:35.799
 this

00:30:35.799 --> 00:30:36.619
 social

00:30:36.619 --> 00:30:37.039
 media

00:30:37.039 --> 00:30:37.419
 is

00:30:37.419 --> 00:30:37.859
 not

00:30:37.859 --> 00:30:38.079
 the

00:30:38.079 --> 00:30:38.319
 right

00:30:38.319 --> 00:30:38.740
 forum

00:30:38.740 --> 00:30:38.980
 to

00:30:38.980 --> 00:30:39.240
 bring

00:30:39.240 --> 00:30:39.759
 correction

00:30:39.759 --> 00:30:40.019
 to

00:30:40.019 --> 00:30:40.180
 one

00:30:40.180 --> 00:30:40.720
 another's

00:30:40.720 --> 00:30:41.240
 lives

00:30:41.240 --> 00:30:42.920
 it

00:30:42.920 --> 00:30:43.259
 just

00:30:43.259 --> 00:30:43.819
 isn't

00:30:43.819 --> 00:30:44.180
 it's

00:30:44.180 --> 00:30:44.380
 not

00:30:44.380 --> 00:30:44.720
 made

00:30:44.720 --> 00:30:44.920
 for

00:30:44.920 --> 00:30:45.279
 that

00:30:45.279 --> 00:30:47.940
 don't

00:30:47.940 --> 00:30:48.180
 let

00:30:48.180 --> 00:30:48.339
 it

00:30:48.339 --> 00:30:48.940
 become

00:30:48.940 --> 00:30:49.220
 your

00:30:49.220 --> 00:30:49.500
 main

00:30:49.500 --> 00:30:49.799
 means

00:30:49.799 --> 00:30:49.960
 of

00:30:49.960 --> 00:30:50.599
 communication

00:30:50.599 --> 00:30:50.920
 with

00:30:50.920 --> 00:30:51.259
 people

00:30:51.259 --> 00:30:51.779
 because

00:30:51.779 --> 00:30:51.940
 it

00:30:51.940 --> 00:30:52.099
 will

00:30:52.099 --> 00:30:52.819
 disallow

00:30:52.819 --> 00:30:53.859
 healthy

00:30:53.859 --> 00:30:54.400
 correction

00:30:54.400 --> 00:30:55.180
 in

00:30:55.180 --> 00:30:55.339
 your

00:30:55.339 --> 00:30:55.839
 life

00:30:55.839 --> 00:31:00.160
 in

00:31:00.160 --> 00:31:00.500
 person

00:31:00.500 --> 00:31:00.900
 allows

00:31:00.900 --> 00:31:01.200
 us

00:31:01.200 --> 00:31:01.740
 to

00:31:01.740 --> 00:31:02.120
 see

00:31:02.120 --> 00:31:02.579
 the

00:31:02.579 --> 00:31:02.960
 facial

00:31:02.960 --> 00:31:03.880
 expressions

00:31:03.880 --> 00:31:04.640
 to

00:31:04.640 --> 00:31:05.059
 hear

00:31:05.059 --> 00:31:05.339
 the

00:31:05.339 --> 00:31:05.839
 tone

00:31:05.839 --> 00:31:06.400
 to

00:31:06.400 --> 00:31:06.940
 feel

00:31:06.940 --> 00:31:07.440
 the

00:31:07.440 --> 00:31:07.900
 impulse

00:31:07.900 --> 00:31:08.120
 and

00:31:08.120 --> 00:31:08.380
 maybe

00:31:08.380 --> 00:31:08.759
 even

00:31:08.759 --> 00:31:08.960
 the

00:31:08.960 --> 00:31:09.340
 hug

00:31:09.340 --> 00:31:10.240
 that

00:31:10.240 --> 00:31:10.519
 needs

00:31:10.519 --> 00:31:10.680
 to

00:31:10.680 --> 00:31:10.860
 go

00:31:10.860 --> 00:31:11.140
 along

00:31:11.140 --> 00:31:11.360
 with

00:31:11.360 --> 00:31:11.500
 the

00:31:11.500 --> 00:31:11.660
 word

00:31:11.660 --> 00:31:11.800
 of

00:31:11.800 --> 00:31:12.240
 correction

00:31:12.240 --> 00:31:13.460
 so

00:31:13.460 --> 00:31:13.660
 do

00:31:13.660 --> 00:31:13.780
 it

00:31:13.780 --> 00:31:13.920
 in

00:31:13.920 --> 00:31:14.300
 person

00:31:14.300 --> 00:31:15.300
 and

00:31:15.300 --> 00:31:15.780
 finally

00:31:15.780 --> 00:31:16.660
 correction

00:31:16.660 --> 00:31:17.140
 means

00:31:17.140 --> 00:31:17.560
 speaking

00:31:17.560 --> 00:31:18.440
 courageously

00:31:18.440 --> 00:31:19.140
 because

00:31:19.140 --> 00:31:19.440
 you know

00:31:19.440 --> 00:31:19.620
 what

00:31:19.620 --> 00:31:19.840
 this

00:31:19.840 --> 00:31:19.980
 is

00:31:19.980 --> 00:31:20.400
 hard

00:31:20.400 --> 00:31:21.420
 it's

00:31:21.420 --> 00:31:21.900
 out

00:31:21.900 --> 00:31:22.180
 of

00:31:22.180 --> 00:31:22.820
 practice

00:31:22.820 --> 00:31:23.120
 in

00:31:23.120 --> 00:31:23.300
 our

00:31:23.300 --> 00:31:23.680
 culture

00:31:23.680 --> 00:31:23.900
 we

00:31:23.900 --> 00:31:24.300
 don't

00:31:24.300 --> 00:31:24.519
 live

00:31:24.519 --> 00:31:24.620
 in

00:31:24.620 --> 00:31:24.720
 a

00:31:24.720 --> 00:31:24.960
 culture

00:31:24.960 --> 00:31:25.200
 that

00:31:25.200 --> 00:31:25.500
 does

00:31:25.500 --> 00:31:25.759
 this

00:31:25.759 --> 00:31:26.180
 well

00:31:26.180 --> 00:31:28.700
 and

00:31:28.700 --> 00:31:28.880
 so

00:31:28.880 --> 00:31:29.100
 it's

00:31:29.100 --> 00:31:29.560
 hard

00:31:29.560 --> 00:31:30.120
 and

00:31:30.120 --> 00:31:30.320
 we're

00:31:30.320 --> 00:31:30.680
 afraid

00:31:30.680 --> 00:31:30.900
 of

00:31:30.900 --> 00:31:31.380
 rejection

00:31:31.380 --> 00:31:31.800
 we're

00:31:31.800 --> 00:31:32.180
 afraid

00:31:32.180 --> 00:31:32.380
 of

00:31:32.380 --> 00:31:32.980
 conflict

00:31:32.980 --> 00:31:33.940
 and

00:31:33.940 --> 00:31:34.440
 often

00:31:34.440 --> 00:31:35.240
 in

00:31:35.240 --> 00:31:35.440
 our

00:31:35.440 --> 00:31:35.960
 fear

00:31:35.960 --> 00:31:36.519
 we

00:31:36.519 --> 00:31:36.800
 don't

00:31:36.800 --> 00:31:37.040
 do

00:31:37.040 --> 00:31:37.200
 it

00:31:37.200 --> 00:31:37.460
 well

00:31:37.460 --> 00:31:37.759
 either

00:31:37.759 --> 00:31:38.019
 we

00:31:38.019 --> 00:31:38.539
 speak

00:31:38.539 --> 00:31:38.880
 either

00:31:38.880 --> 00:31:39.240
 too

00:31:39.240 --> 00:31:39.840
 strongly

00:31:39.840 --> 00:31:40.120
 or

00:31:40.120 --> 00:31:40.420
 too

00:31:40.420 --> 00:31:41.100
 weakly

00:31:41.100 --> 00:31:41.900
 in

00:31:41.900 --> 00:31:42.059
 the

00:31:42.059 --> 00:31:42.440
 moment

00:31:42.440 --> 00:31:42.940
 because

00:31:42.940 --> 00:31:43.160
 of

00:31:43.160 --> 00:31:43.539
 fear

00:31:43.539 --> 00:31:44.259
 so

00:31:44.259 --> 00:31:44.440
 we

00:31:44.440 --> 00:31:44.580
 need

00:31:44.580 --> 00:31:44.720
 to

00:31:44.720 --> 00:31:44.940
 ask

00:31:44.940 --> 00:31:45.120
 the

00:31:45.120 --> 00:31:45.259
 Lord

00:31:45.259 --> 00:31:45.420
 to

00:31:45.420 --> 00:31:45.640
 help

00:31:45.640 --> 00:31:45.799
 us

00:31:45.799 --> 00:31:46.019
 be

00:31:46.019 --> 00:31:46.539
 courageous

00:31:46.539 --> 00:31:47.799
 be

00:31:47.799 --> 00:31:48.259
 courageous

00:31:48.259 --> 00:31:48.660
 enough

00:31:48.660 --> 00:31:48.860
 to

00:31:48.860 --> 00:31:49.039
 be

00:31:49.039 --> 00:31:49.660
 calm

00:31:49.660 --> 00:31:51.500
 and

00:31:51.500 --> 00:31:51.640
 to

00:31:51.640 --> 00:31:51.819
 be

00:31:51.819 --> 00:31:52.380
 loving

00:31:52.380 --> 00:31:54.900
 and

00:31:54.900 --> 00:31:55.019
 to

00:31:55.019 --> 00:31:55.420
 invite

00:31:55.420 --> 00:31:56.460
 relationship

00:31:56.460 --> 00:31:58.080
 while

00:31:58.080 --> 00:31:58.519
 speaking

00:31:58.519 --> 00:31:58.960
 hard

00:31:58.960 --> 00:31:59.380
 truths

00:31:59.380 --> 00:31:59.580
 of

00:31:59.580 --> 00:32:00.100
 correction

00:32:00.100 --> 00:32:03.140
 all

00:32:03.140 --> 00:32:03.380
 right

00:32:03.380 --> 00:32:05.539
 that's

00:32:05.539 --> 00:32:05.759
 how

00:32:05.759 --> 00:32:06.279
 that's

00:32:06.279 --> 00:32:06.400
 how

00:32:06.400 --> 00:32:06.519
 it

00:32:06.519 --> 00:32:06.640
 could

00:32:06.640 --> 00:32:06.819
 look

00:32:06.819 --> 00:32:07.019
 like

00:32:07.019 --> 00:32:07.259
 that's

00:32:07.259 --> 00:32:07.420
 my

00:32:07.420 --> 00:32:07.779
 advice

00:32:07.779 --> 00:32:07.960
 to

00:32:07.960 --> 00:32:08.099
 you

00:32:08.099 --> 00:32:08.240
 on

00:32:08.240 --> 00:32:08.420
 how

00:32:08.420 --> 00:32:08.559
 it

00:32:08.559 --> 00:32:08.700
 could

00:32:08.700 --> 00:32:08.960
 look

00:32:08.960 --> 00:32:09.759
 when

00:32:09.759 --> 00:32:09.900
 you

00:32:09.900 --> 00:32:10.139
 say

00:32:10.139 --> 00:32:10.299
 it

00:32:10.299 --> 00:32:10.599
 well

00:32:10.599 --> 00:32:12.059
 how

00:32:12.059 --> 00:32:12.259
 about

00:32:12.259 --> 00:32:12.720
 receiving

00:32:12.720 --> 00:32:12.960
 it

00:32:12.960 --> 00:32:13.200
 well

00:32:13.200 --> 00:32:13.440
 what

00:32:13.440 --> 00:32:13.599
 does

00:32:13.599 --> 00:32:13.839
 this

00:32:13.839 --> 00:32:14.119
 look

00:32:14.119 --> 00:32:14.519
 like

00:32:14.519 --> 00:32:15.119
 well

00:32:15.119 --> 00:32:15.200
 you

00:32:15.200 --> 00:32:15.279
 know

00:32:15.279 --> 00:32:15.440
 it's

00:32:15.440 --> 00:32:15.799
 fascinating

00:32:15.799 --> 00:32:15.980
 because

00:32:15.980 --> 00:32:16.139
 when

00:32:16.139 --> 00:32:16.240
 you

00:32:16.240 --> 00:32:16.420
 look

00:32:16.420 --> 00:32:16.599
 through

00:32:16.599 --> 00:32:16.980
 the

00:32:16.980 --> 00:32:17.400
 Proverbs

00:32:17.400 --> 00:32:17.619
 they

00:32:17.619 --> 00:32:17.779
 have

00:32:17.779 --> 00:32:18.079
 a lot

00:32:18.079 --> 00:32:18.379
 more

00:32:18.379 --> 00:32:18.859
 to

00:32:18.859 --> 00:32:19.059
 say

00:32:19.059 --> 00:32:19.259
 about

00:32:19.259 --> 00:32:19.379
 how

00:32:19.379 --> 00:32:19.519
 to

00:32:19.519 --> 00:32:19.859
 receive

00:32:19.859 --> 00:32:20.039
 it

00:32:20.039 --> 00:32:20.339
 but

00:32:20.339 --> 00:32:20.460
 it's

00:32:20.460 --> 00:32:20.759
 almost

00:32:20.759 --> 00:32:21.000
 all

00:32:21.000 --> 00:32:21.339
 negative

00:32:21.339 --> 00:32:21.759
 what

00:32:21.759 --> 00:32:21.879
 does

00:32:21.879 --> 00:32:22.059
 that

00:32:22.059 --> 00:32:22.299
 say

00:32:22.299 --> 00:32:22.539
 about

00:32:22.539 --> 00:32:22.759
 us

00:32:22.759 --> 00:32:23.019
 right

00:32:23.019 --> 00:32:23.819
 this

00:32:23.819 --> 00:32:24.599
 is

00:32:24.599 --> 00:32:24.779
 the

00:32:24.779 --> 00:32:25.200
 problem

00:32:25.200 --> 00:32:25.440
 that

00:32:25.440 --> 00:32:25.879
 Proverbs

00:32:25.879 --> 00:32:26.480
 exposes

00:32:26.480 --> 00:32:26.779
 more

00:32:26.779 --> 00:32:26.980
 than

00:32:26.980 --> 00:32:27.500
 anything

00:32:27.500 --> 00:32:27.879
 else

00:32:27.880 --> 00:32:28.100
 so

00:32:28.100 --> 00:32:28.320
 we'll

00:32:28.320 --> 00:32:28.540
 look

00:32:28.540 --> 00:32:28.680
 at

00:32:28.680 --> 00:32:28.880
 some

00:32:28.880 --> 00:32:29.020
 of

00:32:29.020 --> 00:32:29.180
 the

00:32:29.180 --> 00:32:30.060
 ways

00:32:30.060 --> 00:32:30.240
 that

00:32:30.240 --> 00:32:30.560
 Proverbs

00:32:30.560 --> 00:32:31.200
 exposes

00:32:31.200 --> 00:32:31.420
 our

00:32:31.420 --> 00:32:31.960
 negative

00:32:31.960 --> 00:32:32.500
 reception

00:32:32.500 --> 00:32:32.780
 then

00:32:32.780 --> 00:32:33.060
 we'll

00:32:33.060 --> 00:32:33.560
 end

00:32:33.560 --> 00:32:33.720
 with

00:32:33.720 --> 00:32:34.020
 something

00:32:34.020 --> 00:32:34.540
 positive

00:32:34.540 --> 00:32:35.340
 right

00:32:35.340 --> 00:32:35.580
 how

00:32:35.580 --> 00:32:35.720
 do

00:32:35.720 --> 00:32:35.860
 we

00:32:35.860 --> 00:32:36.120
 do

00:32:36.120 --> 00:32:36.300
 it

00:32:36.300 --> 00:32:36.960
 badly

00:32:36.960 --> 00:32:37.780
 well

00:32:37.780 --> 00:32:38.260
 as

00:32:38.260 --> 00:32:38.540
 we've

00:32:38.540 --> 00:32:38.740
 read

00:32:38.740 --> 00:32:38.940
 we

00:32:38.940 --> 00:32:39.440
 stiffen

00:32:39.440 --> 00:32:39.600
 our

00:32:39.600 --> 00:32:40.020
 necks

00:32:40.020 --> 00:32:40.880
 we

00:32:40.880 --> 00:32:41.480
 become

00:32:41.480 --> 00:32:42.200
 defensive

00:32:42.200 --> 00:32:43.320
 I

00:32:43.320 --> 00:32:43.540
 didn't

00:32:43.540 --> 00:32:43.700
 do

00:32:43.700 --> 00:32:44.000
 that

00:32:44.000 --> 00:32:45.100
 what

00:32:45.100 --> 00:32:45.140
 are

00:32:45.140 --> 00:32:45.220
 you

00:32:45.220 --> 00:32:45.420
 talking

00:32:45.420 --> 00:32:45.700
 about

00:32:45.700 --> 00:32:46.780
 I

00:32:46.780 --> 00:32:46.940
 didn't

00:32:46.940 --> 00:32:47.120
 say

00:32:47.120 --> 00:32:47.460
 that

00:32:47.460 --> 00:32:48.280
 no

00:32:48.280 --> 00:32:48.400
 I

00:32:48.400 --> 00:32:48.880
 didn't

00:32:48.880 --> 00:32:50.180
 my

00:32:50.180 --> 00:32:50.460
 six

00:32:50.460 --> 00:32:50.580
 year

00:32:50.580 --> 00:32:50.780
 old

00:32:50.780 --> 00:32:50.920
 is

00:32:50.920 --> 00:32:51.120
 very

00:32:51.120 --> 00:32:51.300
 good

00:32:51.300 --> 00:32:51.420
 at

00:32:51.420 --> 00:32:51.740
 this

00:32:51.740 --> 00:32:53.759
 did

00:32:53.759 --> 00:32:54.279
 you

00:32:54.279 --> 00:32:55.420
 leave

00:32:55.420 --> 00:32:55.640
 the

00:32:55.640 --> 00:32:56.120
 refrigerator

00:32:56.120 --> 00:32:56.700
 open

00:32:56.700 --> 00:32:58.160
 no

00:32:58.160 --> 00:33:00.799
 did

00:33:00.799 --> 00:33:01.059
 anyone

00:33:01.059 --> 00:33:01.380
 else

00:33:01.380 --> 00:33:01.680
 touch

00:33:01.680 --> 00:33:01.880
 the

00:33:01.880 --> 00:33:02.359
 refrigerator

00:33:02.359 --> 00:33:02.759
 besides

00:33:02.759 --> 00:33:03.299
 you

00:33:03.299 --> 00:33:04.000
 no

00:33:04.000 --> 00:33:06.920
 the

00:33:06.920 --> 00:33:07.339
 refrigerator

00:33:07.339 --> 00:33:07.680
 door

00:33:07.680 --> 00:33:07.819
 is

00:33:07.819 --> 00:33:08.279
 open

00:33:08.279 --> 00:33:10.220
 I

00:33:10.220 --> 00:33:10.440
 don't

00:33:10.440 --> 00:33:10.900
 know

00:33:10.900 --> 00:33:14.180
 we're

00:33:14.180 --> 00:33:14.500
 so

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 prone

00:33:14.859 --> 00:33:15.039
 to

00:33:15.039 --> 00:33:15.200
 just

00:33:15.200 --> 00:33:15.359
 say

00:33:15.359 --> 00:33:15.640
 no

00:33:15.640 --> 00:33:18.099
 we

00:33:18.099 --> 00:33:18.420
 become

00:33:18.420 --> 00:33:18.940
 defensive

00:33:18.940 --> 00:33:20.059
 stiffen

00:33:20.059 --> 00:33:20.180
 our

00:33:20.180 --> 00:33:20.380
 necks

00:33:20.380 --> 00:33:20.539
 say

00:33:20.539 --> 00:33:20.740
 no

00:33:20.740 --> 00:33:20.880
 I

00:33:20.880 --> 00:33:21.019
 don't

00:33:21.019 --> 00:33:21.220
 I'm

00:33:21.220 --> 00:33:21.380
 not

00:33:21.380 --> 00:33:21.500
 going

00:33:21.500 --> 00:33:21.559
 to

00:33:21.559 --> 00:33:21.900
 receive

00:33:21.900 --> 00:33:22.120
 that

00:33:22.120 --> 00:33:22.259
 I'm

00:33:22.259 --> 00:33:22.440
 not

00:33:22.440 --> 00:33:22.559
 going

00:33:22.559 --> 00:33:22.660
 to

00:33:22.660 --> 00:33:22.980
 allow

00:33:22.980 --> 00:33:23.240
 that

00:33:23.240 --> 00:33:23.420
 to

00:33:23.420 --> 00:33:23.579
 be

00:33:23.579 --> 00:33:23.940
 true

00:33:23.940 --> 00:33:26.420
 second

00:33:26.420 --> 00:33:26.680
 thing

00:33:26.680 --> 00:33:26.839
 we

00:33:26.839 --> 00:33:27.120
 do

00:33:27.120 --> 00:33:27.839
 is

00:33:27.839 --> 00:33:28.000
 we

00:33:28.000 --> 00:33:28.400
 lash

00:33:28.400 --> 00:33:28.740
 out

00:33:28.740 --> 00:33:29.220
 at

00:33:29.220 --> 00:33:29.319
 the

00:33:29.319 --> 00:33:29.600
 person

00:33:29.600 --> 00:33:29.779
 who

00:33:29.779 --> 00:33:30.100
 brings

00:33:30.100 --> 00:33:30.500
 us

00:33:30.500 --> 00:33:31.180
 Proverbs

00:33:31.180 --> 00:33:31.380
 is

00:33:31.380 --> 00:33:31.680
 very

00:33:31.680 --> 00:33:32.319
 it

00:33:32.319 --> 00:33:32.579
 says

00:33:32.579 --> 00:33:32.720
 this

00:33:32.720 --> 00:33:32.819
 a

00:33:32.819 --> 00:33:33.000
 number

00:33:33.000 --> 00:33:33.120
 of

00:33:33.120 --> 00:33:33.420
 times

00:33:33.420 --> 00:33:33.960
 Proverbs

00:33:33.960 --> 00:33:34.519
 9

00:33:34.519 --> 00:33:34.980
 7

00:33:34.980 --> 00:33:35.220
 through

00:33:35.220 --> 00:33:36.460
 8

00:33:36.460 --> 00:33:36.779
 says

00:33:36.779 --> 00:33:37.319
 whoever

00:33:37.319 --> 00:33:38.100
 corrects

00:33:38.100 --> 00:33:38.299
 a

00:33:38.299 --> 00:33:38.819
 scoffer

00:33:38.819 --> 00:33:39.400
 gets

00:33:39.400 --> 00:33:39.799
 himself

00:33:39.799 --> 00:33:40.380
 abuse

00:33:40.380 --> 00:33:41.140
 and he

00:33:41.140 --> 00:33:41.339
 who

00:33:41.339 --> 00:33:41.799
 reproves

00:33:41.799 --> 00:33:41.920
 a

00:33:41.920 --> 00:33:42.120
 wicked

00:33:42.120 --> 00:33:42.519
 man

00:33:42.519 --> 00:33:43.220
 incurs

00:33:43.220 --> 00:33:43.940
 injury

00:33:43.940 --> 00:33:44.839
 do

00:33:44.839 --> 00:33:45.079
 not

00:33:45.079 --> 00:33:45.660
 reprove

00:33:45.660 --> 00:33:45.940
 a

00:33:45.940 --> 00:33:46.420
 scoffer

00:33:46.420 --> 00:33:46.640
 or

00:33:46.640 --> 00:33:46.799
 he

00:33:46.799 --> 00:33:46.980
 will

00:33:46.980 --> 00:33:47.240
 hate

00:33:47.240 --> 00:33:47.559
 you

00:33:47.559 --> 00:33:48.460
 reprove

00:33:48.460 --> 00:33:48.619
 a

00:33:48.619 --> 00:33:48.879
 wise

00:33:48.879 --> 00:33:49.200
 man

00:33:49.200 --> 00:33:49.460
 and

00:33:49.460 --> 00:33:49.619
 he

00:33:49.619 --> 00:33:49.819
 will

00:33:49.819 --> 00:33:50.059
 love

00:33:50.059 --> 00:33:50.339
 you

00:33:50.339 --> 00:33:52.359
 put

00:33:52.359 --> 00:33:52.519
 the

00:33:52.519 --> 00:33:52.700
 other

00:33:52.700 --> 00:33:52.960
 shoe

00:33:52.960 --> 00:33:53.159
 on

00:33:53.159 --> 00:33:53.339
 that

00:33:53.339 --> 00:33:53.679
 proverb

00:33:53.679 --> 00:33:53.919
 what

00:33:53.919 --> 00:33:54.059
 does

00:33:54.059 --> 00:33:54.200
 it

00:33:54.200 --> 00:33:54.500
 mean

00:33:54.500 --> 00:33:55.079
 and

00:33:55.079 --> 00:33:55.299
 we

00:33:55.299 --> 00:33:55.579
 know

00:33:55.579 --> 00:33:55.919
 we've

00:33:55.919 --> 00:33:56.119
 done

00:33:56.119 --> 00:33:56.559
 this

00:33:56.559 --> 00:33:58.139
 well

00:33:58.139 --> 00:33:58.279
 who

00:33:58.279 --> 00:33:58.399
 are

00:33:58.399 --> 00:33:58.500
 you

00:33:58.500 --> 00:33:58.679
 to

00:33:58.679 --> 00:33:58.980
 correct

00:33:58.980 --> 00:33:59.220
 me

00:33:59.220 --> 00:34:00.220
 I

00:34:00.220 --> 00:34:00.379
 know

00:34:00.379 --> 00:34:00.579
 you're

00:34:00.579 --> 00:34:00.779
 not

00:34:00.779 --> 00:34:01.220
 perfect

00:34:01.220 --> 00:34:01.639
 you

00:34:01.639 --> 00:34:01.799
 want

00:34:01.799 --> 00:34:01.919
 me

00:34:01.919 --> 00:34:02.039
 to

00:34:02.039 --> 00:34:02.159
 go

00:34:02.159 --> 00:34:02.379
 down

00:34:02.379 --> 00:34:02.579
 your

00:34:02.579 --> 00:34:02.919
 fault

00:34:02.919 --> 00:34:03.179
 can

00:34:03.179 --> 00:34:03.319
 I

00:34:03.319 --> 00:34:03.539
 point

00:34:03.539 --> 00:34:03.679
 out

00:34:03.679 --> 00:34:03.839
 all

00:34:03.839 --> 00:34:03.940
 the

00:34:03.940 --> 00:34:04.159
 ways

00:34:04.159 --> 00:34:04.419
 you're

00:34:04.419 --> 00:34:04.619
 not

00:34:04.619 --> 00:34:04.879
 doing

00:34:04.879 --> 00:34:05.200
 things

00:34:05.200 --> 00:34:05.500
 right

00:34:05.500 --> 00:34:07.259
 we

00:34:07.259 --> 00:34:07.799
 shift

00:34:07.799 --> 00:34:08.119
 into

00:34:08.119 --> 00:34:08.639
 attack

00:34:08.639 --> 00:34:08.960
 mode

00:34:08.960 --> 00:34:09.400
 so

00:34:09.400 --> 00:34:09.920
 quickly

00:34:09.920 --> 00:34:10.219
 when

00:34:10.219 --> 00:34:10.539
 someone

00:34:10.539 --> 00:34:10.860
 brings

00:34:10.860 --> 00:34:11.340
 correction

00:34:11.340 --> 00:34:11.619
 into

00:34:11.619 --> 00:34:11.780
 our

00:34:11.780 --> 00:34:12.039
 life

00:34:12.039 --> 00:34:12.320
 don't

00:34:12.320 --> 00:34:12.519
 we

00:34:12.519 --> 00:34:14.960
 and

00:34:14.960 --> 00:34:15.079
 we

00:34:15.079 --> 00:34:15.420
 often

00:34:15.420 --> 00:34:15.679
 try

00:34:15.679 --> 00:34:15.860
 to

00:34:15.860 --> 00:34:16.280
 shift

00:34:16.280 --> 00:34:16.539
 the

00:34:16.539 --> 00:34:16.960
 attention

00:34:16.960 --> 00:34:17.260
 in

00:34:17.260 --> 00:34:17.480
 order

00:34:17.480 --> 00:34:17.699
 to

00:34:17.699 --> 00:34:18.079
 hide

00:34:18.079 --> 00:34:18.420
 our

00:34:18.420 --> 00:34:19.019
 shame

00:34:19.019 --> 00:34:22.539
 we

00:34:22.539 --> 00:34:23.099
 attack

00:34:23.099 --> 00:34:24.780
 often

00:34:24.780 --> 00:34:25.619
 in a

00:34:25.619 --> 00:34:25.980
 desire

00:34:25.980 --> 00:34:26.219
 that

00:34:26.219 --> 00:34:26.380
 the

00:34:26.380 --> 00:34:26.699
 person

00:34:26.699 --> 00:34:26.900
 who

00:34:26.900 --> 00:34:27.139
 came

00:34:27.139 --> 00:34:27.320
 with

00:34:27.320 --> 00:34:27.760
 correction

00:34:27.760 --> 00:34:28.079
 will

00:34:28.079 --> 00:34:28.440
 run

00:34:28.440 --> 00:34:28.760
 away

00:34:28.760 --> 00:34:29.159
 in

00:34:29.159 --> 00:34:29.500
 fear

00:34:29.500 --> 00:34:30.780
 and

00:34:30.780 --> 00:34:31.000
 think

00:34:31.000 --> 00:34:31.139
 I

00:34:31.139 --> 00:34:31.440
 can't

00:34:31.440 --> 00:34:31.599
 do

00:34:31.599 --> 00:34:31.820
 that

00:34:31.820 --> 00:34:32.159
 anymore

00:34:32.159 --> 00:34:32.599
 I

00:34:32.599 --> 00:34:32.719
 have

00:34:32.719 --> 00:34:32.960
 nothing

00:34:32.960 --> 00:34:33.219
 else

00:34:33.219 --> 00:34:33.440
 to

00:34:33.440 --> 00:34:33.760
 say

00:34:33.760 --> 00:34:35.820
 so

00:34:35.820 --> 00:34:35.960
 we

00:34:35.960 --> 00:34:36.300
 stiffen

00:34:36.300 --> 00:34:36.420
 our

00:34:36.420 --> 00:34:36.700
 necks

00:34:36.700 --> 00:34:36.960
 we

00:34:36.960 --> 00:34:37.340
 lash

00:34:37.340 --> 00:34:37.680
 out

00:34:37.680 --> 00:34:38.260
 the

00:34:38.260 --> 00:34:38.480
 third

00:34:38.480 --> 00:34:38.760
 thing

00:34:38.760 --> 00:34:39.000
 this

00:34:39.000 --> 00:34:39.160
 is

00:34:39.160 --> 00:34:39.780
 fascinating

00:34:39.780 --> 00:34:40.320
 Hebrews

00:34:40.320 --> 00:34:41.060
 are

00:34:41.060 --> 00:34:41.380
 not

00:34:41.380 --> 00:34:42.300
 Proverbs

00:34:42.300 --> 00:34:43.680
 18

00:34:43.680 --> 00:34:44.060
 2

00:34:44.060 --> 00:34:44.480
 a fool

00:34:44.480 --> 00:34:44.820
 takes

00:34:44.820 --> 00:34:45.040
 no

00:34:45.040 --> 00:34:45.420
 pleasure

00:34:45.420 --> 00:34:45.580
 in

00:34:45.580 --> 00:34:46.200
 understanding

00:34:46.200 --> 00:34:46.860
 but

00:34:46.860 --> 00:34:47.200
 only

00:34:47.200 --> 00:34:47.460
 in

00:34:47.460 --> 00:34:47.960
 expressing

00:34:47.960 --> 00:34:48.320
 his

00:34:48.320 --> 00:34:48.800
 opinion

00:34:48.800 --> 00:34:49.700
 so

00:34:49.700 --> 00:34:49.860
 what

00:34:49.860 --> 00:34:50.260
 happens

00:34:50.260 --> 00:34:50.460
 when

00:34:50.460 --> 00:34:50.820
 someone

00:34:50.820 --> 00:34:51.240
 brings

00:34:51.240 --> 00:34:51.700
 correction

00:34:51.700 --> 00:34:52.000
 we

00:34:52.000 --> 00:34:52.280
 start

00:34:52.280 --> 00:34:52.820
 talking

00:34:52.820 --> 00:34:54.600
 wow

00:34:54.600 --> 00:34:55.120
 yeah

00:34:55.120 --> 00:34:55.400
 but

00:34:55.400 --> 00:34:55.700
 let me

00:34:55.700 --> 00:34:56.400
 explain

00:34:56.400 --> 00:34:56.900
 let me

00:34:56.900 --> 00:34:57.160
 try

00:34:57.160 --> 00:34:57.320
 to

00:34:57.320 --> 00:34:57.500
 get

00:34:57.500 --> 00:34:57.980
 you

00:34:57.980 --> 00:34:58.180
 know

00:34:58.180 --> 00:34:58.480
 and

00:34:58.480 --> 00:34:59.100
 15

00:34:59.100 --> 00:34:59.520
 minutes

00:34:59.520 --> 00:35:00.000
 later

00:35:00.000 --> 00:35:01.960
 the

00:35:01.960 --> 00:35:02.260
 person

00:35:02.260 --> 00:35:02.440
 who's

00:35:02.440 --> 00:35:02.620
 brought

00:35:02.620 --> 00:35:02.800
 the

00:35:02.800 --> 00:35:03.140
 correction

00:35:03.140 --> 00:35:03.320
 is

00:35:03.320 --> 00:35:03.460
 saying

00:35:03.460 --> 00:35:03.920
 did you

00:35:03.920 --> 00:35:04.179
 even

00:35:04.179 --> 00:35:04.460
 hear

00:35:04.460 --> 00:35:04.639
 me

00:35:04.639 --> 00:35:04.780
 at

00:35:04.780 --> 00:35:05.139
 all

00:35:05.139 --> 00:35:07.159
 because

00:35:07.159 --> 00:35:07.420
 it's

00:35:07.420 --> 00:35:07.559
 been

00:35:07.559 --> 00:35:07.960
 so

00:35:07.960 --> 00:35:08.720
 confounded

00:35:08.720 --> 00:35:08.980
 and

00:35:08.980 --> 00:35:09.240
 so

00:35:09.240 --> 00:35:09.940
 clouded

00:35:09.940 --> 00:35:10.240
 by

00:35:10.240 --> 00:35:10.880
 many

00:35:10.880 --> 00:35:11.679
 words

00:35:11.679 --> 00:35:14.059
 that

00:35:14.059 --> 00:35:14.159
 are

00:35:14.159 --> 00:35:14.400
 not

00:35:14.400 --> 00:35:15.079
 receiving

00:35:15.079 --> 00:35:15.360
 the

00:35:15.360 --> 00:35:15.539
 word

00:35:15.539 --> 00:35:15.699
 of

00:35:15.699 --> 00:35:16.119
 correction

00:35:16.119 --> 00:35:16.960
 but

00:35:16.960 --> 00:35:17.099
 are

00:35:17.099 --> 00:35:17.440
 trying

00:35:17.440 --> 00:35:17.659
 to

00:35:17.659 --> 00:35:18.139
 actually

00:35:18.139 --> 00:35:18.659
 evade

00:35:18.659 --> 00:35:18.940
 it

00:35:18.940 --> 00:35:20.199
 by

00:35:20.199 --> 00:35:20.559
 talking

00:35:20.559 --> 00:35:20.820
 about

00:35:20.820 --> 00:35:20.960
 our

00:35:20.960 --> 00:35:21.179
 own

00:35:21.179 --> 00:35:21.619
 opinion

00:35:21.619 --> 00:35:22.340
 yeah

00:35:22.340 --> 00:35:22.559
 but

00:35:22.559 --> 00:35:22.780
 let

00:35:22.780 --> 00:35:22.880
 me

00:35:22.880 --> 00:35:23.380
 explain

00:35:23.380 --> 00:35:26.320
 and

00:35:26.320 --> 00:35:26.960
 fourthly

00:35:26.960 --> 00:35:28.659
 some

00:35:28.659 --> 00:35:28.820
 of the

00:35:28.820 --> 00:35:28.980
 ways

00:35:28.980 --> 00:35:29.119
 we

00:35:29.119 --> 00:35:29.380
 don't

00:35:29.380 --> 00:35:29.720
 receive

00:35:29.720 --> 00:35:29.880
 it

00:35:29.880 --> 00:35:30.220
 well

00:35:30.220 --> 00:35:31.199
 we

00:35:31.199 --> 00:35:31.599
 avoid

00:35:31.599 --> 00:35:33.059
 proverbs

00:35:33.059 --> 00:35:33.739
 15

00:35:33.739 --> 00:35:34.279
 12

00:35:34.279 --> 00:35:34.920
 a

00:35:34.920 --> 00:35:35.360
 scoffer

00:35:35.360 --> 00:35:35.579
 does

00:35:35.579 --> 00:35:35.819
 not

00:35:35.819 --> 00:35:36.219
 like

00:35:36.219 --> 00:35:36.460
 to

00:35:36.460 --> 00:35:36.599
 be

00:35:36.599 --> 00:35:37.360
 reproved

00:35:37.360 --> 00:35:37.639
 he

00:35:37.639 --> 00:35:37.880
 will

00:35:37.880 --> 00:35:38.159
 not

00:35:38.159 --> 00:35:38.559
 go

00:35:38.559 --> 00:35:38.880
 to

00:35:38.880 --> 00:35:39.059
 the

00:35:39.059 --> 00:35:39.539
 wise

00:35:39.539 --> 00:35:40.659
 so

00:35:40.659 --> 00:35:40.839
 one

00:35:40.839 --> 00:35:40.940
 of

00:35:40.940 --> 00:35:41.059
 our

00:35:41.059 --> 00:35:41.299
 best

00:35:41.299 --> 00:35:41.819
 tactics

00:35:41.819 --> 00:35:42.119
 is

00:35:42.119 --> 00:35:42.380
 simply

00:35:42.380 --> 00:35:42.559
 to

00:35:42.559 --> 00:35:42.880
 avoid

00:35:42.880 --> 00:35:43.099
 them

00:35:43.099 --> 00:35:44.239
 that

00:35:44.239 --> 00:35:44.639
 person

00:35:44.639 --> 00:35:44.980
 spoke

00:35:44.980 --> 00:35:45.159
 to

00:35:45.159 --> 00:35:45.279
 me

00:35:45.279 --> 00:35:45.619
 once

00:35:45.619 --> 00:35:45.759
 and

00:35:45.759 --> 00:35:45.880
 they

00:35:45.880 --> 00:35:46.139
 tried

00:35:46.139 --> 00:35:46.279
 to

00:35:46.279 --> 00:35:46.519
 correct

00:35:46.519 --> 00:35:46.779
 me

00:35:46.779 --> 00:35:47.199
 well

00:35:47.199 --> 00:35:47.299
 I'm

00:35:47.299 --> 00:35:47.440
 not

00:35:47.440 --> 00:35:47.639
 going to

00:35:47.639 --> 00:35:47.819
 talk

00:35:47.819 --> 00:35:47.940
 to

00:35:47.940 --> 00:35:48.059
 them

00:35:48.059 --> 00:35:48.299
 again

00:35:48.299 --> 00:35:49.319
 I'm

00:35:49.319 --> 00:35:49.480
 going to

00:35:49.480 --> 00:35:49.880
 only be

00:35:49.880 --> 00:35:50.000
 in

00:35:50.000 --> 00:35:50.219
 group

00:35:50.219 --> 00:35:50.579
 settings

00:35:50.579 --> 00:35:50.819
 I'm

00:35:50.819 --> 00:35:51.019
 only

00:35:51.019 --> 00:35:51.339
 talk

00:35:51.339 --> 00:35:51.559
 about

00:35:51.559 --> 00:35:52.239
 superficial

00:35:52.239 --> 00:35:52.819
 things

00:35:52.819 --> 00:35:53.360
 I'm

00:35:53.360 --> 00:35:53.559
 going to

00:35:53.559 --> 00:35:53.819
 run

00:35:53.819 --> 00:35:54.059
 as

00:35:54.059 --> 00:35:54.400
 fast

00:35:54.400 --> 00:35:54.579
 as

00:35:54.579 --> 00:35:54.719
 I

00:35:54.719 --> 00:35:55.099
 can

00:35:55.099 --> 00:35:56.659
 that

00:36:01.599 --> 00:36:05.519
 friends

00:36:05.519 --> 00:36:05.900
 our

00:36:05.900 --> 00:36:06.440
 hearts

00:36:06.440 --> 00:36:07.619
 so

00:36:07.619 --> 00:36:08.400
 resist

00:36:08.400 --> 00:36:09.839
 this

00:36:09.839 --> 00:36:10.619
 dynamic

00:36:10.619 --> 00:36:12.059
 and

00:36:12.059 --> 00:36:12.319
 yet

00:36:12.319 --> 00:36:12.579
 when

00:36:12.579 --> 00:36:12.799
 it's

00:36:12.799 --> 00:36:13.019
 done

00:36:13.019 --> 00:36:13.400
 well

00:36:13.400 --> 00:36:14.219
 when

00:36:14.219 --> 00:36:14.420
 it's

00:36:14.420 --> 00:36:14.839
 received

00:36:14.839 --> 00:36:15.179
 well

00:36:15.179 --> 00:36:15.460
 it can

00:36:15.460 --> 00:36:15.619
 be

00:36:15.619 --> 00:36:15.880
 such

00:36:15.880 --> 00:36:16.039
 a

00:36:16.039 --> 00:36:16.339
 beautiful

00:36:16.339 --> 00:36:16.759
 thing

00:36:16.759 --> 00:36:18.139
 so

00:36:18.139 --> 00:36:18.299
 the

00:36:18.299 --> 00:36:18.500
 flip

00:36:18.500 --> 00:36:18.759
 side

00:36:18.759 --> 00:36:18.940
 of

00:36:18.940 --> 00:36:19.319
 those

00:36:19.319 --> 00:36:19.639
 what

00:36:19.639 --> 00:36:19.779
 does

00:36:19.779 --> 00:36:19.900
 it

00:36:19.900 --> 00:36:20.159
 look

00:36:20.159 --> 00:36:20.559
 like

00:36:20.559 --> 00:36:21.699
 it

00:36:21.699 --> 00:36:21.900
 looks

00:36:21.900 --> 00:36:22.099
 like

00:36:22.099 --> 00:36:22.259
 a

00:36:22.259 --> 00:36:22.579
 soft

00:36:22.579 --> 00:36:23.039
 heart

00:36:23.039 --> 00:36:25.960
 brother

00:36:25.960 --> 00:36:26.460
 sister

00:36:26.460 --> 00:36:26.819
 I'm

00:36:26.819 --> 00:36:27.039
 so

00:36:27.039 --> 00:36:27.319
 glad

00:36:27.319 --> 00:36:27.519
 you

00:36:27.519 --> 00:36:27.759
 said

00:36:27.759 --> 00:36:28.199
 something

00:36:28.199 --> 00:36:29.639
 I

00:36:29.639 --> 00:36:29.900
 didn't

00:36:29.900 --> 00:36:30.539
 realize

00:36:30.539 --> 00:36:31.000
 or

00:36:31.000 --> 00:36:31.519
 you're

00:36:31.519 --> 00:36:31.900
 right

00:36:31.900 --> 00:36:32.460
 or

00:36:32.460 --> 00:36:33.340
 I

00:36:33.340 --> 00:36:33.840
 don't

00:36:33.840 --> 00:36:34.059
 even

00:36:34.059 --> 00:36:34.639
 know

00:36:34.639 --> 00:36:36.679
 what

00:36:36.679 --> 00:36:36.820
 I

00:36:36.820 --> 00:36:37.000
 was

00:36:37.000 --> 00:36:37.440
 doing

00:36:37.440 --> 00:36:38.460
 but

00:36:38.460 --> 00:36:38.579
 I

00:36:38.579 --> 00:36:38.719
 know

00:36:38.719 --> 00:36:38.840
 I

00:36:38.840 --> 00:36:38.980
 need

00:36:38.980 --> 00:36:39.139
 to

00:36:39.139 --> 00:36:39.400
 think

00:36:39.400 --> 00:36:39.719
 about

00:36:39.719 --> 00:36:39.980
 it

00:36:39.980 --> 00:36:41.219
 and

00:36:41.219 --> 00:36:41.500
 here's

00:36:41.500 --> 00:36:41.639
 the

00:36:41.639 --> 00:36:41.920
 thing

00:36:41.920 --> 00:36:42.519
 even

00:36:42.519 --> 00:36:42.820
 if

00:36:42.820 --> 00:36:43.760
 50%

00:36:43.760 --> 00:36:44.800
 no

00:36:44.800 --> 00:36:45.139
 even

00:36:45.139 --> 00:36:45.380
 if

00:36:45.380 --> 00:36:46.440
 80%

00:36:46.440 --> 00:36:47.179
 no

00:36:47.179 --> 00:36:47.599
 even

00:36:47.599 --> 00:36:47.820
 if

00:36:47.820 --> 00:36:48.840
 90%

00:36:48.840 --> 00:36:49.039
 of

00:36:49.039 --> 00:36:49.159
 it

00:36:49.159 --> 00:36:49.320
 is

00:36:49.320 --> 00:36:49.960
 communicated

00:36:49.960 --> 00:36:50.440
 poorly

00:36:50.440 --> 00:36:50.760
 to

00:36:50.760 --> 00:36:51.039
 you

00:36:51.039 --> 00:36:51.440
 and

00:36:51.440 --> 00:36:51.599
 the

00:36:51.599 --> 00:36:51.960
 content

00:36:51.960 --> 00:36:52.360
 isn't

00:36:52.360 --> 00:36:52.599
 even

00:36:52.599 --> 00:36:53.139
 true

00:36:53.139 --> 00:36:54.719
 a

00:36:54.719 --> 00:36:55.119
 humble

00:36:55.119 --> 00:36:55.539
 heart

00:36:55.539 --> 00:36:55.980
 says

00:36:55.980 --> 00:36:56.400
 if

00:36:56.400 --> 00:36:57.199
 10%

00:36:57.199 --> 00:36:57.380
 of

00:36:57.380 --> 00:36:57.559
 that

00:36:57.559 --> 00:36:57.719
 is

00:36:57.719 --> 00:36:58.039
 true

00:36:58.039 --> 00:36:58.300
 I

00:36:58.300 --> 00:36:58.519
 want

00:36:58.519 --> 00:36:58.619
 to

00:36:58.619 --> 00:36:58.820
 know

00:36:58.820 --> 00:36:59.000
 it

00:36:59.000 --> 00:37:00.219
 and

00:37:00.219 --> 00:37:00.400
 I'm

00:37:00.400 --> 00:37:00.519
 going

00:37:00.519 --> 00:37:00.559
 to

00:37:00.559 --> 00:37:01.019
 receive

00:37:01.019 --> 00:37:01.240
 the

00:37:01.240 --> 00:37:01.940
 100%

00:37:01.940 --> 00:37:02.599
 and

00:37:02.599 --> 00:37:02.780
 I'm

00:37:02.780 --> 00:37:02.860
 going

00:37:02.860 --> 00:37:02.980
 to

00:37:02.980 --> 00:37:03.400
 process

00:37:03.400 --> 00:37:03.680
 it

00:37:03.680 --> 00:37:03.880
 with

00:37:03.880 --> 00:37:04.059
 the

00:37:04.059 --> 00:37:04.360
 Lord

00:37:04.360 --> 00:37:04.579
 I'm

00:37:04.579 --> 00:37:04.639
 going

00:37:04.639 --> 00:37:04.740
 to

00:37:04.740 --> 00:37:05.079
 process

00:37:05.079 --> 00:37:05.260
 it

00:37:05.260 --> 00:37:05.400
 with

00:37:05.400 --> 00:37:05.660
 other

00:37:05.660 --> 00:37:06.019
 people

00:37:06.019 --> 00:37:06.519
 so

00:37:06.519 --> 00:37:06.740
 I

00:37:06.740 --> 00:37:06.900
 can

00:37:06.900 --> 00:37:07.320
 find

00:37:07.320 --> 00:37:07.480
 the

00:37:07.480 --> 00:37:08.000
 10%

00:37:08.000 --> 00:37:08.240
 that

00:37:08.240 --> 00:37:08.579
 really

00:37:08.579 --> 00:37:08.880
 is

00:37:08.880 --> 00:37:09.300
 true

00:37:09.300 --> 00:37:13.880
 a

00:37:13.880 --> 00:37:14.160
 humble

00:37:14.160 --> 00:37:14.480
 heart

00:37:14.480 --> 00:37:15.059
 receives

00:37:15.059 --> 00:37:15.340
 it

00:37:15.340 --> 00:37:16.059
 even

00:37:16.059 --> 00:37:16.300
 when

00:37:16.300 --> 00:37:16.519
 it's

00:37:16.519 --> 00:37:16.880
 mixed

00:37:16.880 --> 00:37:17.079
 and

00:37:17.079 --> 00:37:17.340
 even

00:37:17.340 --> 00:37:17.559
 when

00:37:17.559 --> 00:37:17.780
 it's

00:37:17.780 --> 00:37:17.980
 not

00:37:17.980 --> 00:37:18.220
 well

00:37:18.220 --> 00:37:18.559
 done

00:37:18.559 --> 00:37:20.119
 being

00:37:20.119 --> 00:37:20.519
 thankful

00:37:20.519 --> 00:37:20.920
 for

00:37:20.920 --> 00:37:21.180
 it

00:37:21.180 --> 00:37:23.099
 the

00:37:23.099 --> 00:37:23.360
 second

00:37:23.360 --> 00:37:23.780
 thing

00:37:23.780 --> 00:37:24.619
 is

00:37:24.619 --> 00:37:26.180
 receiving

00:37:26.180 --> 00:37:26.400
 it

00:37:26.400 --> 00:37:26.660
 well

00:37:26.660 --> 00:37:27.039
 means

00:37:27.039 --> 00:37:27.340
 giving

00:37:27.340 --> 00:37:27.539
 a

00:37:27.539 --> 00:37:27.860
 gentle

00:37:27.860 --> 00:37:28.519
 response

00:37:28.519 --> 00:37:28.780
 to

00:37:28.780 --> 00:37:28.980
 the

00:37:28.980 --> 00:37:29.639
 messenger

00:37:29.639 --> 00:37:31.460
 I'm

00:37:31.460 --> 00:37:31.639
 so

00:37:31.639 --> 00:37:32.000
 thankful

00:37:32.000 --> 00:37:32.239
 you

00:37:32.239 --> 00:37:32.500
 said

00:37:32.500 --> 00:37:32.940
 something

00:37:32.940 --> 00:37:34.239
 this

00:37:34.239 --> 00:37:34.400
 is

00:37:34.400 --> 00:37:34.639
 really

00:37:34.639 --> 00:37:34.940
 hard

00:37:34.940 --> 00:37:35.139
 for

00:37:35.139 --> 00:37:35.279
 me

00:37:35.279 --> 00:37:35.440
 to

00:37:35.440 --> 00:37:35.779
 hear

00:37:35.779 --> 00:37:36.679
 but

00:37:36.679 --> 00:37:37.059
 I'm

00:37:37.059 --> 00:37:37.299
 glad

00:37:37.299 --> 00:37:37.500
 you

00:37:37.500 --> 00:37:38.679
 did

00:37:38.679 --> 00:37:40.900
 now

00:37:40.900 --> 00:37:41.139
 let me

00:37:41.139 --> 00:37:41.420
 put in

00:37:41.420 --> 00:37:41.639
 one

00:37:41.639 --> 00:37:41.859
 little

00:37:41.859 --> 00:37:42.239
 caveat

00:37:42.239 --> 00:37:42.679
 here

00:37:42.679 --> 00:37:43.179
 and

00:37:43.179 --> 00:37:43.339
 that

00:37:43.339 --> 00:37:43.500
 is

00:37:43.500 --> 00:37:43.639
 that

00:37:43.639 --> 00:37:43.819
 there

00:37:43.819 --> 00:37:43.980
 is

00:37:43.980 --> 00:37:44.119
 a

00:37:44.119 --> 00:37:44.379
 time

00:37:44.379 --> 00:37:44.539
 to

00:37:44.539 --> 00:37:44.940
 consider

00:37:44.940 --> 00:37:45.199
 the

00:37:45.199 --> 00:37:45.639
 source

00:37:45.639 --> 00:37:47.079
 this

00:37:47.079 --> 00:37:47.219
 is

00:37:47.219 --> 00:37:47.379
 where

00:37:47.379 --> 00:37:47.539
 the

00:37:47.539 --> 00:37:47.839
 internet

00:37:47.839 --> 00:37:48.319
 like

00:37:48.319 --> 00:37:49.179
 people

00:37:49.179 --> 00:37:49.379
 are

00:37:49.379 --> 00:37:49.739
 correcting

00:37:49.739 --> 00:37:49.940
 you

00:37:49.940 --> 00:37:50.099
 over

00:37:50.099 --> 00:37:50.299
 the

00:37:50.299 --> 00:37:50.639
 internet

00:37:50.639 --> 00:37:50.879
 you

00:37:50.879 --> 00:37:51.059
 can

00:37:51.059 --> 00:37:51.599
 probably

00:37:51.599 --> 00:37:51.940
 just

00:37:51.940 --> 00:37:52.259
 shut

00:37:52.259 --> 00:37:52.379
 it

00:37:52.379 --> 00:37:52.619
 down

00:37:52.619 --> 00:37:52.980
 like

00:37:52.980 --> 00:37:53.159
 just

00:37:53.159 --> 00:37:53.440
 don't

00:37:53.440 --> 00:37:53.779
 listen

00:37:53.779 --> 00:37:54.420
 right

00:37:54.420 --> 00:37:55.119
 because

00:37:55.119 --> 00:37:55.599
 trolls

00:37:55.599 --> 00:37:55.879
 and

00:37:55.879 --> 00:37:56.159
 everyone

00:37:56.159 --> 00:37:56.480
 else

00:37:56.480 --> 00:37:56.639
 are

00:37:56.639 --> 00:37:56.759
 going

00:37:56.759 --> 00:37:56.819
 to

00:37:56.819 --> 00:37:56.940
 be

00:37:56.940 --> 00:37:57.440
 criticizing

00:37:57.440 --> 00:37:58.320
 it's

00:37:58.320 --> 00:37:58.579
 become

00:37:58.579 --> 00:37:58.800
 an

00:37:58.800 --> 00:37:59.220
 industry

00:37:59.220 --> 00:37:59.940
 of

00:37:59.940 --> 00:38:00.200
 being

00:38:00.200 --> 00:38:00.619
 critical

00:38:00.619 --> 00:38:00.820
 and

00:38:00.820 --> 00:38:01.360
 unhelpful

00:38:01.360 --> 00:38:01.500
 and

00:38:01.500 --> 00:38:01.880
 destructive

00:38:01.880 --> 00:38:02.460
 ways

00:38:02.460 --> 00:38:03.200
 right

00:38:03.200 --> 00:38:03.740
 so

00:38:03.740 --> 00:38:04.159
 consider

00:38:04.159 --> 00:38:04.420
 that

00:38:04.420 --> 00:38:04.780
 it

00:38:04.780 --> 00:38:05.039
 also

00:38:05.039 --> 00:38:05.380
 means

00:38:05.380 --> 00:38:05.519
 that

00:38:05.519 --> 00:38:05.639
 the

00:38:05.639 --> 00:38:05.820
 man

00:38:05.820 --> 00:38:06.200
 walking

00:38:06.200 --> 00:38:06.559
 by

00:38:06.559 --> 00:38:08.159
 walking

00:38:08.159 --> 00:38:08.480
 by

00:38:08.480 --> 00:38:09.579
 your

00:38:09.579 --> 00:38:10.039
 life

00:38:10.039 --> 00:38:10.480
 you

00:38:10.480 --> 00:38:10.659
 know

00:38:10.659 --> 00:38:10.980
 just

00:38:10.980 --> 00:38:11.480
 passing

00:38:11.480 --> 00:38:11.940
 through

00:38:11.940 --> 00:38:12.420
 if

00:38:12.420 --> 00:38:12.599
 he

00:38:12.599 --> 00:38:13.039
 lobs

00:38:13.039 --> 00:38:13.179
 a

00:38:13.179 --> 00:38:13.420
 grenade

00:38:13.420 --> 00:38:13.700
 of

00:38:13.700 --> 00:38:14.079
 correction

00:38:14.079 --> 00:38:14.320
 in

00:38:14.320 --> 00:38:14.440
 your

00:38:14.440 --> 00:38:14.760
 life

00:38:14.760 --> 00:38:15.300
 you

00:38:15.300 --> 00:38:15.500
 want

00:38:15.500 --> 00:38:15.619
 to

00:38:15.619 --> 00:38:15.820
 take

00:38:15.820 --> 00:38:16.039
 that

00:38:16.039 --> 00:38:16.200
 to

00:38:16.200 --> 00:38:16.340
 the

00:38:16.340 --> 00:38:16.519
 Lord

00:38:16.519 --> 00:38:16.679
 and

00:38:16.679 --> 00:38:16.820
 say

00:38:16.820 --> 00:38:17.039
 Lord

00:38:17.039 --> 00:38:17.220
 is

00:38:17.220 --> 00:38:17.360
 there

00:38:17.360 --> 00:38:17.700
 truth

00:38:17.700 --> 00:38:17.960
 here

00:38:17.960 --> 00:38:18.539
 but

00:38:18.539 --> 00:38:18.740
 if

00:38:18.740 --> 00:38:18.980
 it's

00:38:18.980 --> 00:38:19.099
 your

00:38:19.099 --> 00:38:19.500
 best

00:38:19.500 --> 00:38:19.960
 friend

00:38:19.960 --> 00:38:20.179
 if

00:38:20.179 --> 00:38:20.519
 it's

00:38:20.519 --> 00:38:20.860
 your

00:38:20.860 --> 00:38:21.480
 spouse

00:38:21.480 --> 00:38:22.019
 if

00:38:22.019 --> 00:38:22.420
 it's

00:38:22.420 --> 00:38:23.019
 someone

00:38:23.019 --> 00:38:23.420
 who

00:38:23.420 --> 00:38:24.180
 knows

00:38:24.180 --> 00:38:24.360
 you

00:38:24.360 --> 00:38:24.539
 and

00:38:24.539 --> 00:38:24.820
 loves

00:38:24.820 --> 00:38:24.980
 you

00:38:24.980 --> 00:38:25.119
 and

00:38:25.119 --> 00:38:25.260
 they

00:38:25.260 --> 00:38:25.519
 bring

00:38:25.519 --> 00:38:25.760
 it

00:38:25.760 --> 00:38:26.639
 man

00:38:26.639 --> 00:38:27.440
 treasure

00:38:27.440 --> 00:38:27.880
 it

00:38:27.880 --> 00:38:28.820
 welcome

00:38:28.820 --> 00:38:29.180
 it

00:38:29.180 --> 00:38:30.400
 don't

00:38:30.400 --> 00:38:30.860
 attack

00:38:30.860 --> 00:38:31.320
 them

00:38:31.320 --> 00:38:33.059
 but

00:38:33.059 --> 00:38:33.519
 receive

00:38:33.519 --> 00:38:33.800
 them

00:38:33.800 --> 00:38:33.920
 and

00:38:33.920 --> 00:38:34.059
 be

00:38:34.059 --> 00:38:34.539
 thankful

00:38:34.539 --> 00:38:34.840
 for

00:38:34.840 --> 00:38:35.220
 them

00:38:35.220 --> 00:38:39.059
 so

00:38:39.059 --> 00:38:39.559
 a

00:38:39.559 --> 00:38:39.820
 soft

00:38:39.820 --> 00:38:40.099
 heart

00:38:40.099 --> 00:38:40.320
 a

00:38:40.320 --> 00:38:40.579
 gentle

00:38:40.579 --> 00:38:41.260
 response

00:38:41.260 --> 00:38:42.559
 third

00:38:42.559 --> 00:38:42.840
 a

00:38:42.840 --> 00:38:43.260
 commitment

00:38:43.260 --> 00:38:43.680
 to

00:38:43.680 --> 00:38:44.320
 listening

00:38:44.320 --> 00:38:44.940
 rather

00:38:44.940 --> 00:38:45.180
 than

00:38:45.180 --> 00:38:45.920
 explanation

00:38:45.920 --> 00:38:47.280
 oh

00:38:47.280 --> 00:38:48.600
 I

00:38:48.600 --> 00:38:48.760
 don't

00:38:48.760 --> 00:38:48.920
 know

00:38:48.920 --> 00:38:49.040
 what

00:38:49.040 --> 00:38:49.260
 you're

00:38:49.260 --> 00:38:49.580
 I'm

00:38:49.580 --> 00:38:49.720
 not

00:38:49.720 --> 00:38:49.940
 quite

00:38:49.940 --> 00:38:50.140
 sure

00:38:50.140 --> 00:38:50.320
 what

00:38:50.320 --> 00:38:50.500
 you're

00:38:50.500 --> 00:38:50.860
 saying

00:38:50.860 --> 00:38:51.140
 but

00:38:51.140 --> 00:38:52.460
 explain

00:38:52.460 --> 00:38:52.640
 it

00:38:52.640 --> 00:38:52.800
 to

00:38:52.800 --> 00:38:52.960
 me

00:38:52.960 --> 00:38:53.320
 more

00:38:53.320 --> 00:38:53.740
 can

00:38:53.740 --> 00:38:53.900
 you

00:38:53.900 --> 00:38:54.140
 tell

00:38:54.140 --> 00:38:54.320
 me

00:38:54.320 --> 00:38:54.620
 more

00:38:54.620 --> 00:38:54.900
 about

00:38:54.900 --> 00:38:55.160
 what

00:38:55.160 --> 00:38:55.360
 that

00:38:55.360 --> 00:38:55.620
 looked

00:38:55.620 --> 00:38:55.940
 like

00:38:55.940 --> 00:38:56.400
 what

00:38:56.400 --> 00:38:56.580
 did

00:38:56.580 --> 00:38:56.740
 you

00:38:56.740 --> 00:38:57.200
 see

00:38:57.200 --> 00:38:57.780
 how

00:38:57.780 --> 00:38:57.960
 did

00:38:57.960 --> 00:38:58.140
 that

00:38:58.140 --> 00:38:58.519
 affect

00:38:58.519 --> 00:38:58.860
 you

00:38:58.860 --> 00:39:00.120
 follow

00:39:00.120 --> 00:39:00.400
 up

00:39:00.400 --> 00:39:00.580
 by

00:39:00.580 --> 00:39:01.019
 asking

00:39:01.019 --> 00:39:01.480
 questions

00:39:01.480 --> 00:39:01.660
 and

00:39:01.660 --> 00:39:01.820
 it's

00:39:01.820 --> 00:39:02.000
 the

00:39:02.000 --> 00:39:02.280
 hardest

00:39:02.280 --> 00:39:02.540
 thing

00:39:02.540 --> 00:39:02.660
 to

00:39:02.660 --> 00:39:02.840
 do

00:39:02.840 --> 00:39:02.940
 in

00:39:02.940 --> 00:39:03.060
 the

00:39:03.060 --> 00:39:03.320
 moment

00:39:03.320 --> 00:39:03.620
 isn't

00:39:03.620 --> 00:39:03.780
 it

00:39:03.780 --> 00:39:04.300
 because

00:39:04.300 --> 00:39:04.700
 you

00:39:04.700 --> 00:39:05.080
 all

00:39:05.080 --> 00:39:05.260
 your

00:39:05.260 --> 00:39:05.660
 defense

00:39:05.660 --> 00:39:06.220
 mechanisms

00:39:06.220 --> 00:39:06.400
 are

00:39:06.400 --> 00:39:06.560
 going

00:39:06.560 --> 00:39:07.800
 I'm

00:39:07.800 --> 00:39:07.960
 putting

00:39:07.960 --> 00:39:08.120
 up

00:39:08.120 --> 00:39:08.260
 all

00:39:08.260 --> 00:39:08.420
 my

00:39:08.420 --> 00:39:08.880
 walls

00:39:08.880 --> 00:39:09.060
 and

00:39:09.060 --> 00:39:09.480
 you

00:39:09.480 --> 00:39:09.560
 know

00:39:09.559 --> 00:39:09.739
 the

00:39:09.739 --> 00:39:10.019
 doors

00:39:10.019 --> 00:39:10.179
 are

00:39:10.179 --> 00:39:10.500
 shutting

00:39:10.500 --> 00:39:10.759
 and

00:39:10.759 --> 00:39:10.980
 the

00:39:10.980 --> 00:39:11.739
 guns

00:39:11.739 --> 00:39:11.900
 are

00:39:11.900 --> 00:39:12.059
 getting

00:39:12.059 --> 00:39:12.320
 pulled

00:39:12.320 --> 00:39:12.599
 out

00:39:12.599 --> 00:39:12.699
 and

00:39:12.699 --> 00:39:12.820
 you're

00:39:12.820 --> 00:39:13.019
 like

00:39:13.019 --> 00:39:14.019
 I

00:39:14.019 --> 00:39:14.360
 can't

00:39:14.360 --> 00:39:14.599
 handle

00:39:14.599 --> 00:39:14.940
 this

00:39:14.940 --> 00:39:15.699
 and

00:39:15.699 --> 00:39:15.860
 to

00:39:15.860 --> 00:39:16.079
 turn

00:39:16.079 --> 00:39:16.239
 and

00:39:16.239 --> 00:39:16.559
 say

00:39:16.559 --> 00:39:17.159
 tell

00:39:17.159 --> 00:39:17.340
 me

00:39:17.340 --> 00:39:17.739
 more

00:39:17.739 --> 00:39:18.599
 it's

00:39:18.599 --> 00:39:19.019
 tearing

00:39:19.019 --> 00:39:19.299
 all

00:39:19.299 --> 00:39:19.440
 of

00:39:19.440 --> 00:39:19.639
 those

00:39:19.639 --> 00:39:20.019
 defense

00:39:20.019 --> 00:39:20.460
 mechanisms

00:39:20.460 --> 00:39:20.880
 now

00:39:20.880 --> 00:39:21.099
 it's

00:39:21.099 --> 00:39:21.320
 putting

00:39:21.320 --> 00:39:21.519
 the

00:39:21.519 --> 00:39:21.759
 guns

00:39:21.759 --> 00:39:22.159
 away

00:39:22.159 --> 00:39:22.639
 and

00:39:22.639 --> 00:39:22.799
 saying

00:39:22.799 --> 00:39:23.159
 okay

00:39:23.159 --> 00:39:24.019
 this

00:39:24.019 --> 00:39:24.159
 is

00:39:24.159 --> 00:39:24.500
 really

00:39:24.500 --> 00:39:24.920
 hard

00:39:24.920 --> 00:39:25.539
 but

00:39:25.539 --> 00:39:26.980
 I

00:39:26.980 --> 00:39:27.179
 don't

00:39:27.179 --> 00:39:27.699
 understand

00:39:27.699 --> 00:39:28.039
 yet

00:39:28.039 --> 00:39:28.360
 can

00:39:28.360 --> 00:39:28.519
 you

00:39:28.519 --> 00:39:29.059
 help

00:39:29.059 --> 00:39:29.219
 me

00:39:29.219 --> 00:39:29.840
 understand

00:39:29.840 --> 00:39:34.719
 so

00:39:34.719 --> 00:39:35.139
 commitment

00:39:35.139 --> 00:39:35.420
 to

00:39:35.420 --> 00:39:35.980
 listening

00:39:35.980 --> 00:39:36.519
 rather

00:39:36.519 --> 00:39:36.779
 than

00:39:36.779 --> 00:39:37.340
 explaining

00:39:37.340 --> 00:39:37.719
 because

00:39:37.719 --> 00:39:38.299
 explaining

00:39:38.299 --> 00:39:38.519
 is

00:39:38.519 --> 00:39:39.059
 putting

00:39:39.059 --> 00:39:39.219
 up

00:39:39.219 --> 00:39:39.440
 those

00:39:39.440 --> 00:39:39.860
 walls

00:39:39.860 --> 00:39:40.099
 and

00:39:40.099 --> 00:39:40.340
 pulling

00:39:40.340 --> 00:39:40.539
 out

00:39:40.539 --> 00:39:40.699
 the

00:39:40.699 --> 00:39:41.059
 guns

00:39:41.059 --> 00:39:41.960
 and

00:39:41.960 --> 00:39:42.440
 fourthly

00:39:42.440 --> 00:39:42.619
 it's

00:39:42.619 --> 00:39:42.759
 a

00:39:42.759 --> 00:39:43.079
 commitment

00:39:43.079 --> 00:39:43.380
 to

00:39:43.380 --> 00:39:43.759
 pursue

00:39:43.759 --> 00:39:44.599
 people

00:39:44.599 --> 00:39:46.059
 who

00:39:46.059 --> 00:39:46.219
 will

00:39:46.219 --> 00:39:46.460
 speak

00:39:46.460 --> 00:39:46.799
 truth

00:39:46.799 --> 00:39:47.019
 to

00:39:47.019 --> 00:39:47.299
 you

00:39:47.299 --> 00:39:49.719
 friends

00:39:49.719 --> 00:39:50.039
 this

00:39:50.039 --> 00:39:50.259
 is

00:39:50.259 --> 00:39:51.159
 I

00:39:51.159 --> 00:39:51.599
 think

00:39:51.599 --> 00:39:53.039
 what

00:39:53.039 --> 00:39:53.259
 the

00:39:53.259 --> 00:39:54.360
 writer

00:39:54.360 --> 00:39:54.559
 of

00:39:54.559 --> 00:39:54.960
 Proverbs

00:39:54.960 --> 00:39:55.400
 wants

00:39:55.400 --> 00:39:55.579
 us

00:39:55.579 --> 00:39:55.779
 to

00:39:55.779 --> 00:39:56.079
 get

00:39:56.079 --> 00:39:57.799
 this

00:39:57.799 --> 00:39:58.259
 correction

00:39:58.259 --> 00:39:58.579
 is

00:39:58.579 --> 00:39:59.000
 so

00:39:59.000 --> 00:39:59.380
 life

00:39:59.380 --> 00:39:59.699
 giving

00:39:59.699 --> 00:39:59.980
 it

00:39:59.980 --> 00:40:00.159
 is

00:40:00.159 --> 00:40:00.519
 so

00:40:00.519 --> 00:40:00.980
 good

00:40:00.980 --> 00:40:01.500
 it

00:40:01.500 --> 00:40:01.659
 is

00:40:01.659 --> 00:40:01.880
 so

00:40:01.880 --> 00:40:02.460
 beautiful

00:40:02.460 --> 00:40:02.799
 for

00:40:02.799 --> 00:40:03.039
 us

00:40:03.039 --> 00:40:03.239
 it

00:40:03.239 --> 00:40:03.679
 brings

00:40:03.679 --> 00:40:03.900
 us

00:40:03.900 --> 00:40:04.099
 from

00:40:04.099 --> 00:40:04.480
 death

00:40:04.480 --> 00:40:04.739
 to

00:40:04.739 --> 00:40:05.099
 life

00:40:05.099 --> 00:40:05.579
 it

00:40:05.579 --> 00:40:05.880
 brings

00:40:05.880 --> 00:40:06.039
 us

00:40:06.039 --> 00:40:06.219
 from

00:40:06.219 --> 00:40:06.860
 against

00:40:06.860 --> 00:40:07.099
 the

00:40:07.099 --> 00:40:07.400
 grain

00:40:07.400 --> 00:40:07.559
 of

00:40:07.559 --> 00:40:07.960
 God's

00:40:07.960 --> 00:40:08.259
 world

00:40:08.259 --> 00:40:08.779
 to

00:40:08.780 --> 00:40:09.120
 with

00:40:09.120 --> 00:40:09.320
 the

00:40:09.320 --> 00:40:09.620
 grain

00:40:09.620 --> 00:40:09.800
 of

00:40:09.800 --> 00:40:10.180
 God's

00:40:10.180 --> 00:40:10.740
 creation

00:40:10.740 --> 00:40:13.320
 this is

00:40:13.320 --> 00:40:13.900
 so good

00:40:13.900 --> 00:40:14.620
 so pursue

00:40:14.620 --> 00:40:14.980
 it

00:40:14.980 --> 00:40:16.080
 find

00:40:16.080 --> 00:40:16.720
 friends

00:40:16.720 --> 00:40:17.060
 who will

00:40:17.060 --> 00:40:17.360
 speak

00:40:17.360 --> 00:40:17.900
 the truth

00:40:17.900 --> 00:40:18.480
 to you

00:40:18.480 --> 00:40:20.140
 because

00:40:20.140 --> 00:40:20.640
 you need

00:40:20.640 --> 00:40:20.840
 it

00:40:20.840 --> 00:40:21.360
 desperately

00:40:21.360 --> 00:40:22.840
 and because

00:40:22.840 --> 00:40:23.120
 it's

00:40:23.120 --> 00:40:23.440
 good

00:40:23.440 --> 00:40:24.040
 for you

00:40:24.039 --> 00:40:27.659
 so

00:40:27.659 --> 00:40:29.679
 we come

00:40:29.679 --> 00:40:29.820
 to

00:40:29.820 --> 00:40:30.219
 Proverbs

00:40:30.219 --> 00:40:30.840
 15

00:40:30.840 --> 00:40:31.599
 31

00:40:31.599 --> 00:40:31.880
 through

00:40:31.880 --> 00:40:32.460
 33

00:40:32.460 --> 00:40:33.139
 the

00:40:33.139 --> 00:40:33.420
 ear

00:40:33.420 --> 00:40:33.619
 that

00:40:33.619 --> 00:40:34.000
 listens

00:40:34.000 --> 00:40:34.279
 to

00:40:34.279 --> 00:40:34.559
 life

00:40:34.559 --> 00:40:34.840
 giving

00:40:34.840 --> 00:40:35.440
 reproof

00:40:35.440 --> 00:40:35.619
 will

00:40:35.619 --> 00:40:35.960
 dwell

00:40:35.960 --> 00:40:36.239
 among

00:40:36.239 --> 00:40:36.460
 the

00:40:36.460 --> 00:40:36.960
 wise

00:40:36.960 --> 00:40:37.920
 whoever

00:40:37.920 --> 00:40:38.519
 ignores

00:40:38.519 --> 00:40:39.340
 instruction

00:40:39.340 --> 00:40:40.099
 despises

00:40:40.099 --> 00:40:40.820
 himself

00:40:40.820 --> 00:40:41.739
 but he

00:40:41.739 --> 00:40:42.360
 who listens

00:40:42.360 --> 00:40:43.119
 to reproof

00:40:43.119 --> 00:40:43.579
 gains

00:40:43.579 --> 00:40:44.239
 intelligence

00:40:44.239 --> 00:40:45.920
 the fear

00:40:45.920 --> 00:40:46.300
 of the

00:40:46.300 --> 00:40:46.639
 Lord

00:40:46.639 --> 00:40:47.320
 is

00:40:47.320 --> 00:40:47.880
 instruction

00:40:47.880 --> 00:40:48.519
 and wisdom

00:40:48.519 --> 00:40:49.800
 and humility

00:40:49.800 --> 00:40:50.900
 comes

00:40:50.900 --> 00:40:51.599
 before

00:40:51.599 --> 00:40:52.119
 honor

00:40:52.119 --> 00:40:59.000
 friends

00:40:59.000 --> 00:40:59.420
 here's the

00:40:59.420 --> 00:40:59.880
 good news

00:40:59.880 --> 00:41:00.179
 of the

00:41:00.179 --> 00:41:00.559
 gospel

00:41:00.559 --> 00:41:02.019
 correction

00:41:02.019 --> 00:41:02.500
 is

00:41:02.500 --> 00:41:04.219
 embedded

00:41:04.219 --> 00:41:05.119
 it flows

00:41:05.119 --> 00:41:05.659
 from the

00:41:05.659 --> 00:41:06.519
 very fountain

00:41:06.519 --> 00:41:07.259
 of the

00:41:07.259 --> 00:41:07.619
 gospel

00:41:07.619 --> 00:41:08.079
 truth

00:41:08.079 --> 00:41:08.719
 itself

00:41:08.719 --> 00:41:09.880
 because

00:41:09.880 --> 00:41:10.380
 God

00:41:10.380 --> 00:41:10.880
 does not

00:41:10.880 --> 00:41:11.380
 come to

00:41:11.380 --> 00:41:11.599
 us

00:41:11.599 --> 00:41:11.839
 with

00:41:11.839 --> 00:41:12.539
 flattery

00:41:12.539 --> 00:41:13.299
 oh

00:41:13.299 --> 00:41:13.639
 you

00:41:13.639 --> 00:41:13.880
 are

00:41:13.880 --> 00:41:14.319
 such

00:41:14.319 --> 00:41:14.460
 a

00:41:14.460 --> 00:41:14.619
 good

00:41:14.619 --> 00:41:14.980
 person

00:41:14.980 --> 00:41:15.179
 of

00:41:15.179 --> 00:41:15.679
 course

00:41:15.679 --> 00:41:15.900
 I

00:41:15.900 --> 00:41:16.319
 accept

00:41:16.319 --> 00:41:16.500
 you

00:41:16.500 --> 00:41:16.639
 and

00:41:16.639 --> 00:41:16.859
 bring

00:41:16.859 --> 00:41:17.000
 you

00:41:17.000 --> 00:41:17.219
 into

00:41:17.219 --> 00:41:17.579
 heaven

00:41:17.579 --> 00:41:18.599
 because

00:41:18.599 --> 00:41:19.000
 that's

00:41:19.000 --> 00:41:19.279
 not

00:41:19.279 --> 00:41:19.519
 the

00:41:19.519 --> 00:41:20.039
 truth

00:41:20.039 --> 00:41:21.940
 but

00:41:21.940 --> 00:41:22.259
 God

00:41:22.259 --> 00:41:22.599
 comes

00:41:22.599 --> 00:41:22.799
 to

00:41:22.799 --> 00:41:23.019
 us

00:41:23.019 --> 00:41:23.360
 with

00:41:23.360 --> 00:41:23.759
 truth

00:41:23.759 --> 00:41:24.139
 you

00:41:24.139 --> 00:41:24.400
 are

00:41:24.400 --> 00:41:24.639
 a

00:41:24.639 --> 00:41:24.880
 sinner

00:41:24.880 --> 00:41:25.460
 you

00:41:25.460 --> 00:41:25.599
 are

00:41:25.599 --> 00:41:26.199
 fallen

00:41:26.199 --> 00:41:26.579
 and

00:41:26.579 --> 00:41:26.759
 you

00:41:26.759 --> 00:41:26.920
 are

00:41:26.920 --> 00:41:27.539
 willful

00:41:27.539 --> 00:41:27.739
 and

00:41:27.739 --> 00:41:27.900
 you

00:41:27.900 --> 00:41:28.059
 are

00:41:28.059 --> 00:41:28.539
 broken

00:41:28.539 --> 00:41:31.779
 you

00:41:31.779 --> 00:41:32.219
 don't

00:41:32.219 --> 00:41:32.460
 know

00:41:32.460 --> 00:41:32.920
 God

00:41:32.920 --> 00:41:33.139
 and

00:41:33.139 --> 00:41:33.279
 you

00:41:33.279 --> 00:41:33.619
 don't

00:41:33.619 --> 00:41:33.840
 know

00:41:33.840 --> 00:41:34.059
 his

00:41:34.059 --> 00:41:34.659
 ways

00:41:34.659 --> 00:41:35.279
 and

00:41:35.279 --> 00:41:35.539
 therefore

00:41:35.539 --> 00:41:35.779
 you

00:41:35.779 --> 00:41:36.159
 don't

00:41:36.159 --> 00:41:36.480
 live

00:41:36.480 --> 00:41:36.659
 as

00:41:36.659 --> 00:41:36.819
 you

00:41:36.819 --> 00:41:37.099
 ought

00:41:37.099 --> 00:41:37.380
 to

00:41:37.380 --> 00:41:38.079
 as

00:41:38.079 --> 00:41:38.219
 you

00:41:38.219 --> 00:41:38.360
 were

00:41:38.360 --> 00:41:38.840
 created

00:41:38.840 --> 00:41:39.139
 to

00:41:39.139 --> 00:41:39.360
 as

00:41:39.360 --> 00:41:39.480
 you

00:41:39.480 --> 00:41:39.639
 were

00:41:39.639 --> 00:41:40.179
 redeemed

00:41:40.179 --> 00:41:40.679
 to

00:41:40.679 --> 00:41:44.019
 and

00:41:44.019 --> 00:41:44.139
 he

00:41:44.139 --> 00:41:44.500
 speaks

00:41:44.500 --> 00:41:44.779
 this

00:41:44.779 --> 00:41:45.239
 hard

00:41:45.239 --> 00:41:45.619
 word

00:41:45.619 --> 00:41:45.919
 to

00:41:45.919 --> 00:41:46.219
 us

00:41:46.219 --> 00:41:46.419
 in

00:41:46.419 --> 00:41:46.579
 the

00:41:46.579 --> 00:41:47.000
 gospel

00:41:47.000 --> 00:41:47.879
 of

00:41:47.879 --> 00:41:48.519
 you

00:41:48.519 --> 00:41:48.659
 are

00:41:48.659 --> 00:41:48.839
 a

00:41:48.839 --> 00:41:49.059
 sinner

00:41:49.059 --> 00:41:49.279
 and

00:41:49.279 --> 00:41:49.559
 under

00:41:49.559 --> 00:41:50.039
 God's

00:41:50.039 --> 00:41:50.919
 condemnation

00:41:50.919 --> 00:41:53.899
 and

00:41:53.899 --> 00:41:54.039
 it

00:41:54.039 --> 00:41:54.299
 helps

00:41:54.299 --> 00:41:54.480
 us

00:41:54.480 --> 00:41:54.779
 see

00:41:54.779 --> 00:41:55.399
 well

00:41:55.399 --> 00:41:55.539
 we

00:41:55.539 --> 00:41:55.719
 need

00:41:55.719 --> 00:41:56.099
 help

00:41:56.099 --> 00:41:56.579
 how

00:41:56.579 --> 00:41:56.759
 do

00:41:56.759 --> 00:41:56.879
 we

00:41:56.879 --> 00:41:57.039
 get

00:41:57.039 --> 00:41:57.319
 out

00:41:57.319 --> 00:41:57.899
 where

00:41:57.899 --> 00:41:58.079
 is

00:41:58.079 --> 00:41:58.259
 our

00:41:58.259 --> 00:41:58.719
 rescue

00:41:58.719 --> 00:42:01.819
 and

00:42:01.819 --> 00:42:01.940
 the

00:42:01.940 --> 00:42:02.219
 gospel

00:42:02.219 --> 00:42:02.579
 meets

00:42:02.579 --> 00:42:02.759
 us

00:42:02.759 --> 00:42:03.099
 there

00:42:03.099 --> 00:42:03.339
 in

00:42:03.339 --> 00:42:03.539
 that

00:42:03.539 --> 00:42:04.019
 moment

00:42:04.019 --> 00:42:04.679
 as

00:42:04.679 --> 00:42:04.919
 Tim

00:42:04.919 --> 00:42:05.219
 Keller

00:42:05.219 --> 00:42:05.579
 says

00:42:05.579 --> 00:42:05.759
 the

00:42:05.759 --> 00:42:06.139
 gospel

00:42:06.139 --> 00:42:06.399
 is

00:42:06.399 --> 00:42:06.719
 this

00:42:06.719 --> 00:42:07.419
 we

00:42:07.419 --> 00:42:07.519
 are

00:42:07.519 --> 00:42:07.679
 more

00:42:07.679 --> 00:42:08.139
 sinful

00:42:08.139 --> 00:42:08.419
 and

00:42:08.419 --> 00:42:08.859
 flawed

00:42:08.859 --> 00:42:09.039
 in

00:42:09.039 --> 00:42:09.480
 ourselves

00:42:09.480 --> 00:42:09.719
 than

00:42:09.719 --> 00:42:09.879
 we

00:42:09.880 --> 00:42:10.039
 had

00:42:10.039 --> 00:42:10.420
 ever

00:42:10.420 --> 00:42:10.800
 dared

00:42:10.800 --> 00:42:11.440
 believe

00:42:11.440 --> 00:42:12.240
 yet

00:42:12.240 --> 00:42:12.400
 at

00:42:12.400 --> 00:42:12.559
 the

00:42:12.559 --> 00:42:12.820
 very

00:42:12.820 --> 00:42:13.200
 same

00:42:13.200 --> 00:42:13.579
 time

00:42:13.579 --> 00:42:13.780
 we

00:42:13.780 --> 00:42:13.900
 are

00:42:13.900 --> 00:42:14.260
 more

00:42:14.260 --> 00:42:14.860
 loved

00:42:14.860 --> 00:42:15.420
 and

00:42:15.420 --> 00:42:15.940
 accepted

00:42:15.940 --> 00:42:16.220
 in

00:42:16.220 --> 00:42:16.480
 Jesus

00:42:16.480 --> 00:42:17.099
 Christ

00:42:17.099 --> 00:42:17.720
 than

00:42:17.720 --> 00:42:17.920
 we

00:42:17.920 --> 00:42:18.400
 ever

00:42:18.400 --> 00:42:19.280
 dare

00:42:19.280 --> 00:42:19.960
 hope

00:42:19.960 --> 00:42:21.140
 when

00:42:21.140 --> 00:42:21.280
 we

00:42:21.280 --> 00:42:21.619
 know

00:42:21.619 --> 00:42:21.920
 our

00:42:21.920 --> 00:42:22.480
 sin

00:42:22.480 --> 00:42:23.019
 we

00:42:23.019 --> 00:42:23.519
 finally

00:42:23.519 --> 00:42:24.380
 understand

00:42:24.380 --> 00:42:24.700
 how

00:42:24.700 --> 00:42:25.180
 great

00:42:25.180 --> 00:42:25.420
 the

00:42:25.420 --> 00:42:25.720
 love

00:42:25.720 --> 00:42:26.059
 is

00:42:26.059 --> 00:42:26.260
 that

00:42:26.260 --> 00:42:26.579
 God

00:42:26.579 --> 00:42:26.780
 has

00:42:26.780 --> 00:42:27.039
 shown

00:42:27.039 --> 00:42:27.280
 for

00:42:27.280 --> 00:42:27.599
 us

00:42:27.599 --> 00:42:28.099
 by

00:42:28.099 --> 00:42:28.440
 sending

00:42:28.440 --> 00:42:28.680
 his

00:42:28.680 --> 00:42:28.920
 son

00:42:28.920 --> 00:42:29.280
 Jesus

00:42:29.280 --> 00:42:29.599
 to

00:42:29.599 --> 00:42:29.840
 die

00:42:29.840 --> 00:42:29.960
 on

00:42:29.960 --> 00:42:30.059
 the

00:42:30.059 --> 00:42:30.380
 cross

00:42:30.380 --> 00:42:30.619
 for

00:42:30.619 --> 00:42:30.980
 us

00:42:30.980 --> 00:42:31.800
 he

00:42:31.800 --> 00:42:32.240
 takes

00:42:32.240 --> 00:42:32.460
 the

00:42:32.460 --> 00:42:33.039
 penalty

00:42:33.039 --> 00:42:33.460
 and

00:42:33.460 --> 00:42:33.619
 the

00:42:33.619 --> 00:42:34.680
 punishment

00:42:34.680 --> 00:42:35.380
 he

00:42:35.380 --> 00:42:35.920
 walks

00:42:35.920 --> 00:42:36.160
 the

00:42:36.160 --> 00:42:36.539
 path

00:42:36.539 --> 00:42:36.720
 of

00:42:36.720 --> 00:42:36.920
 the

00:42:36.920 --> 00:42:37.260
 fool

00:42:37.260 --> 00:42:37.500
 to

00:42:37.500 --> 00:42:37.700
 the

00:42:37.700 --> 00:42:38.039
 end

00:42:38.039 --> 00:42:38.240
 of

00:42:38.240 --> 00:42:38.740
 death

00:42:39.880 --> 00:42:40.260
 us

00:42:40.260 --> 00:42:41.140
 and

00:42:41.140 --> 00:42:41.539
 therefore

00:42:41.539 --> 00:42:42.240
 redeems

00:42:42.240 --> 00:42:42.500
 us

00:42:42.500 --> 00:42:42.880
 from

00:42:42.880 --> 00:42:43.160
 that

00:42:43.160 --> 00:42:43.519
 foolish

00:42:43.519 --> 00:42:43.820
 way

00:42:43.820 --> 00:42:44.000
 of

00:42:44.000 --> 00:42:44.360
 life

00:42:44.360 --> 00:42:45.079
 from

00:42:45.079 --> 00:42:45.300
 our

00:42:45.300 --> 00:42:45.840
 sinful

00:42:45.840 --> 00:42:46.680
 proud

00:42:46.680 --> 00:42:47.340
 stiff

00:42:47.340 --> 00:42:47.940
 necked

00:42:47.940 --> 00:42:48.480
 rejection

00:42:48.480 --> 00:42:48.820
 of

00:42:48.820 --> 00:42:49.280
 God

00:42:49.280 --> 00:42:50.000
 and

00:42:50.000 --> 00:42:50.220
 in

00:42:50.220 --> 00:42:50.660
 love

00:42:50.660 --> 00:42:50.840
 he

00:42:50.840 --> 00:42:51.400
 calls

00:42:51.400 --> 00:42:51.579
 us

00:42:51.579 --> 00:42:51.740
 into

00:42:51.740 --> 00:42:52.280
 relationship

00:42:52.280 --> 00:42:52.619
 with

00:42:52.619 --> 00:42:52.900
 him

00:42:52.900 --> 00:42:53.680
 whereby

00:42:53.680 --> 00:42:54.079
 now

00:42:54.079 --> 00:42:54.280
 we

00:42:54.280 --> 00:42:54.460
 have

00:42:54.460 --> 00:42:54.619
 a

00:42:54.619 --> 00:42:54.920
 new

00:42:54.920 --> 00:42:55.360
 life

00:42:55.360 --> 00:42:55.559
 that

00:42:55.559 --> 00:42:55.920
 comes

00:42:55.920 --> 00:42:56.119
 from

00:42:56.119 --> 00:42:56.440
 Jesus

00:42:56.440 --> 00:42:56.960
 rising

00:42:56.960 --> 00:42:57.200
 from

00:42:57.200 --> 00:42:57.380
 the

00:42:57.380 --> 00:42:57.760
 dead

00:42:57.760 --> 00:42:59.460
 and

00:42:59.460 --> 00:42:59.780
 from

00:42:59.780 --> 00:43:00.019
 that

00:43:00.019 --> 00:43:00.360
 life

00:43:00.360 --> 00:43:00.559
 then

00:43:00.559 --> 00:43:00.740
 we

00:43:00.740 --> 00:43:00.920
 have

00:43:00.920 --> 00:43:01.079
 the

00:43:01.079 --> 00:43:01.380
 new

00:43:01.380 --> 00:43:01.760
 power

00:43:01.760 --> 00:43:01.880
 of

00:43:01.880 --> 00:43:02.000
 the

00:43:02.000 --> 00:43:02.200
 Holy

00:43:02.200 --> 00:43:02.460
 Spirit

00:43:02.460 --> 00:43:02.640
 to

00:43:02.640 --> 00:43:02.880
 help

00:43:02.880 --> 00:43:03.039
 us

00:43:03.039 --> 00:43:03.780
 walk

00:43:03.780 --> 00:43:03.960
 in

00:43:03.960 --> 00:43:04.160
 these

00:43:04.160 --> 00:43:04.800
 paths

00:43:04.800 --> 00:43:06.280
 of

00:43:06.280 --> 00:43:06.740
 correction

00:43:06.740 --> 00:43:08.300
 and

00:43:08.300 --> 00:43:08.460
 of

00:43:08.460 --> 00:43:09.000
 growth

00:43:09.000 --> 00:43:09.960
 towards

00:43:09.960 --> 00:43:11.820
 this

00:43:11.820 --> 00:43:12.300
 life

00:43:12.300 --> 00:43:12.639
 that we

00:43:12.639 --> 00:43:12.820
 can

00:43:12.820 --> 00:43:13.099
 have

00:43:13.099 --> 00:43:13.320
 with

00:43:13.320 --> 00:43:13.780
 God

00:43:13.780 --> 00:43:14.559
 with

00:43:14.559 --> 00:43:14.760
 the

00:43:14.760 --> 00:43:15.260
 grain

00:43:15.260 --> 00:43:15.920
 the

00:43:15.920 --> 00:43:16.179
 way

00:43:16.179 --> 00:43:16.380
 of

00:43:16.380 --> 00:43:16.719
 wisdom

00:43:16.719 --> 00:43:17.980
 which

00:43:17.980 --> 00:43:18.179
 is

00:43:18.179 --> 00:43:18.400
 the

00:43:18.400 --> 00:43:18.699
 life

00:43:18.699 --> 00:43:18.920
 that

00:43:18.920 --> 00:43:19.179
 Jesus

00:43:19.179 --> 00:43:19.699
 promised

00:43:19.699 --> 00:43:19.880
 when

00:43:19.880 --> 00:43:19.980
 he

00:43:19.980 --> 00:43:20.119
 said

00:43:20.119 --> 00:43:20.380
 I've

00:43:20.380 --> 00:43:20.659
 come

00:43:20.659 --> 00:43:20.820
 that

00:43:20.820 --> 00:43:20.960
 they

00:43:20.960 --> 00:43:21.139
 may

00:43:21.139 --> 00:43:21.300
 have

00:43:21.300 --> 00:43:21.719
 life

00:43:21.719 --> 00:43:22.320
 and

00:43:22.320 --> 00:43:22.840
 life

00:43:22.840 --> 00:43:23.719
 abundantly

00:43:23.719 --> 00:43:26.459
 but

00:43:26.459 --> 00:43:26.619
 we

00:43:26.619 --> 00:43:26.859
 need

00:43:26.859 --> 00:43:27.019
 the

00:43:27.019 --> 00:43:27.419
 correction

00:43:27.419 --> 00:43:27.659
 of

00:43:27.659 --> 00:43:27.799
 the

00:43:27.799 --> 00:43:28.159
 gospel

00:43:28.159 --> 00:43:28.399
 if

00:43:28.399 --> 00:43:28.500
 we

00:43:28.500 --> 00:43:28.639
 will

00:43:28.639 --> 00:43:28.879
 ever

00:43:28.879 --> 00:43:29.179
 get

00:43:29.179 --> 00:43:29.500
 there

00:43:29.500 --> 00:43:30.359
 and

00:43:30.359 --> 00:43:30.500
 if

00:43:30.500 --> 00:43:30.619
 it

00:43:30.619 --> 00:43:30.779
 will

00:43:30.779 --> 00:43:31.000
 be

00:43:31.000 --> 00:43:31.219
 for

00:43:31.219 --> 00:43:31.419
 the

00:43:31.419 --> 00:43:31.779
 very

00:43:31.779 --> 00:43:32.319
 salvation

00:43:32.319 --> 00:43:32.519
 of

00:43:32.519 --> 00:43:32.719
 our

00:43:32.719 --> 00:43:33.139
 souls

00:43:33.139 --> 00:43:33.799
 don't

00:43:33.799 --> 00:43:33.959
 you

00:43:33.959 --> 00:43:34.319
 think

00:43:34.319 --> 00:43:35.719
 it's

00:43:35.719 --> 00:43:36.239
 worthwhile

00:43:36.239 --> 00:43:36.539
 in

00:43:36.539 --> 00:43:36.859
 all

00:43:36.859 --> 00:43:37.039
 the

00:43:37.039 --> 00:43:37.279
 other

00:43:37.279 --> 00:43:37.679
 areas

00:43:37.679 --> 00:43:37.919
 of

00:43:37.919 --> 00:43:38.079
 our

00:43:38.079 --> 00:43:38.439
 life

00:43:38.439 --> 00:43:39.399
 to

00:43:39.399 --> 00:43:39.899
 embrace

00:43:39.899 --> 00:43:40.179
 this

00:43:40.179 --> 00:43:40.579
 pattern

00:43:40.579 --> 00:43:40.779
 of

00:43:40.779 --> 00:43:41.259
 correction

00:43:41.259 --> 00:43:42.139
 because

00:43:42.139 --> 00:43:42.439
 in

00:43:42.439 --> 00:43:42.579
 it

00:43:42.579 --> 00:43:42.839
 God

00:43:42.839 --> 00:43:43.000
 is

00:43:43.000 --> 00:43:43.259
 doing

00:43:43.259 --> 00:43:43.519
 this

00:43:43.519 --> 00:43:44.219
 redemptive

00:43:44.219 --> 00:43:44.480
 work

00:43:44.480 --> 00:43:44.719
 in

00:43:44.719 --> 00:43:45.019
 us

00:43:45.019 --> 00:43:45.859
 of

00:43:45.859 --> 00:43:46.119
 helping

00:43:46.119 --> 00:43:46.319
 us

00:43:46.319 --> 00:43:46.679
 grow

00:43:46.679 --> 00:43:49.480
 let's

00:43:49.480 --> 00:43:49.779
 pray

00:43:49.780 --> 00:43:54.700
 Lord

00:43:54.700 --> 00:43:54.860
 we

00:43:54.860 --> 00:43:55.060
 do

00:43:55.060 --> 00:43:55.360
 ask

00:43:55.360 --> 00:43:55.640
 this

00:43:55.640 --> 00:43:56.019
 morning

00:43:56.019 --> 00:43:57.240
 that

00:43:57.240 --> 00:43:57.400
 you

00:43:57.400 --> 00:43:57.560
 would

00:43:57.560 --> 00:43:57.840
 humble

00:43:57.840 --> 00:43:58.100
 us

00:43:58.100 --> 00:43:58.480
 before

00:43:58.480 --> 00:43:58.820
 you

00:43:58.820 --> 00:44:00.280
 Lord

00:44:00.280 --> 00:44:00.540
 help

00:44:00.540 --> 00:44:00.700
 us

00:44:00.700 --> 00:44:00.900
 to

00:44:00.900 --> 00:44:01.440
 embrace

00:44:01.440 --> 00:44:01.980
 the

00:44:01.980 --> 00:44:03.300
 sometimes

00:44:03.300 --> 00:44:03.980
 prickly

00:44:03.980 --> 00:44:04.380
 gift

00:44:04.380 --> 00:44:04.699
 of

00:44:04.699 --> 00:44:05.179
 correction

00:44:05.179 --> 00:44:05.679
 in

00:44:05.679 --> 00:44:05.860
 our

00:44:05.860 --> 00:44:06.340
 lives

00:44:06.340 --> 00:44:08.539
 Lord

00:44:08.539 --> 00:44:08.860
 help

00:44:08.860 --> 00:44:09.240
 us

00:44:09.240 --> 00:44:10.019
 to

00:44:10.019 --> 00:44:10.159
 be

00:44:10.159 --> 00:44:10.539
 those

00:44:10.539 --> 00:44:10.760
 who

00:44:10.760 --> 00:44:11.139
 love

00:44:11.139 --> 00:44:11.360
 one

00:44:11.360 --> 00:44:11.679
 another

00:44:11.679 --> 00:44:11.980
 well

00:44:11.980 --> 00:44:12.240
 enough

00:44:12.240 --> 00:44:12.480
 to

00:44:12.480 --> 00:44:12.860
 speak

00:44:12.860 --> 00:44:13.199
 words

00:44:13.199 --> 00:44:13.360
 of

00:44:13.360 --> 00:44:13.840
 correction

00:44:13.840 --> 00:44:14.960
 help

00:44:14.960 --> 00:44:15.219
 us

00:44:15.219 --> 00:44:15.579
 Lord

00:44:15.579 --> 00:44:16.300
 to

00:44:16.300 --> 00:44:16.519
 be

00:44:16.519 --> 00:44:16.860
 humble

00:44:16.860 --> 00:44:17.360
 enough

00:44:17.360 --> 00:44:19.719
 to

00:44:19.719 --> 00:44:19.980
 give

00:44:19.980 --> 00:44:20.119
 and

00:44:20.119 --> 00:44:20.460
 receive

00:44:20.460 --> 00:44:20.639
 it

00:44:20.639 --> 00:44:20.840
 as

00:44:20.840 --> 00:44:21.179
 well

00:44:21.179 --> 00:44:22.460
 Lord

00:44:22.460 --> 00:44:22.719
 for

00:44:22.719 --> 00:44:22.940
 our

00:44:22.940 --> 00:44:23.340
 good

00:44:23.340 --> 00:44:23.599
 that

00:44:23.599 --> 00:44:23.740
 we

00:44:23.740 --> 00:44:23.920
 may

00:44:23.920 --> 00:44:24.519
 grow

00:44:24.519 --> 00:44:26.420
 in

00:44:26.420 --> 00:44:26.519
 the

00:44:26.519 --> 00:44:26.699
 way

00:44:26.699 --> 00:44:26.860
 of

00:44:26.860 --> 00:44:27.260
 wisdom

00:44:27.260 --> 00:44:29.420
 in

00:44:29.420 --> 00:44:29.920
 righteousness

00:44:29.920 --> 00:44:30.840
 and

00:44:30.840 --> 00:44:31.039
 being

00:44:31.039 --> 00:44:31.320
 like

00:44:31.320 --> 00:44:31.480
 your

00:44:31.480 --> 00:44:31.719
 son

00:44:31.719 --> 00:44:32.260
 Jesus

00:44:32.260 --> 00:44:34.080
 Lord

00:44:34.080 --> 00:44:34.220
 we

00:44:34.220 --> 00:44:34.380
 know

00:44:34.380 --> 00:44:34.540
 we

00:44:34.540 --> 00:44:34.820
 can't

00:44:34.820 --> 00:44:34.960
 do

00:44:34.960 --> 00:44:35.200
 this

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 apart

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 from

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 you

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 and

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 your

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 help

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 in

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 the

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 gospel

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 so

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 we

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 ask

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 for

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 that

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 we

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 pray

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 these

00:44:41.740 --> 00:44:42.040
 things

00:44:42.040 --> 00:44:42.220
 in

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 Jesus

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 name

00:44:42.820 --> 00:44:43.960
 amen