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 This is the fourth Sunday of Advent.

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 Each week of Advent, we prepare to celebrate Jesus' birth by lighting a candle and focusing on different themes of Christ's coming.

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 So far, we have lit the candles of hope, peace, and joy.

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 This week, we light the candle of love.

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 During the time of the Old Testament, God had revealed himself to his people through the law.

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 The law told the people what God expected of them in their day-to-day conduct.

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 It was a loving gift from a good God intended to show his people how to love him and how to love one another.

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 By the time Jesus was born, however, the law had been usurped by the religious leader of the day,

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 who used the law to oppress those who couldn't keep its rules as perfectly as they could.

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 When Jesus came into the world, he came reminding everyone that the goal of the law was not conformity to a set of rules,

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 but rather love, both for God and for our neighbors.

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 The law's goal of helping us love God is somewhat ironic,

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 since in reality, the law shows us all of our imperfections

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 and reminds us just how short we fall of truly being able to love God as we should.

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 When he came into the world, Jesus came to remedy this problem as well.

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 By dying on the cross for us and bearing the punishment for our sins,

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 Jesus showed us God's love and gave us a way that we can now properly love God and others.

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 Please join me for the reading of God's Word, found in Matthew 22, 35-40.

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 The passage is also located on the screens.

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 And one of them, a lawyer, asked him a question to test him.

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 Teacher, which is the greatest commandment in the law?

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 And he said to him,

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 You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.

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 This is the great and first commandment.

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 And the second is like it.

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 You shall love your neighbor as yourself.

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 And these two commandments depend on all the law and the prophets.

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 Please pray with me.

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 Dear Father, thank you for your love for us.

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 Thank you for showing us your love through Jesus' perfect life,

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 death on the cross for our sins and resurrection.

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 Please be with us as we go throughout our weeks,

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 allowing us to fix our eyes on you,

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 to love you with all our hearts, souls, and minds,

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 and to love our neighbors as we love ourselves.

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 In Jesus' name we pray.

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 Amen.

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 Before you're seated,

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 please take a moment to meet and greet members of your Watermark community standing next to you.

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 Okay.

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 And after you've met at least one person,

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 you can,

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 or two people,

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 or three people,

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 sit down.

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 Thank you.

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 Yeah.

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 How you guys doing?

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 Okay.

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 Hey,

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 I noticed that

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 there are a lot of,

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 I want to be politically correct,

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 so,

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 my mother is here,

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 joining us,

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 and so I noticed,

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 so I noticed that there's a lot of people who had

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 more senior members in their family joining them today,

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 and so,

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 if you could say it that way,

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 I don't know if you can.

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 So if you have a grandmother,

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 a mother,

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 a dad,

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 or somebody like that,

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 would you,

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 envision us today,

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 would you raise your hand?

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 I know you're not supposed to do that,

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 but just raise your hand.

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 Come on,

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 SV.

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 Okay,

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 well,

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 we'd like to welcome you guys today,

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 so you're about to see,

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 if you haven't heard about what the church is like,

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 you're about to see it in real life time right now,

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 and it's,

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 I use the word raw,

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 but some people say you can't use raw,

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 you have to use the word organic,

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 and so we use organic or just chaos,

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 and so what I'd like to do is,

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 I'd like to invite all the Watermark kids up here,

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 and they're going to do a special performance for us.

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 Conducted by Natalie,

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 conductor.

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 Okay,

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 here we go.

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 That is right.

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 Thank you.

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 Thank you.

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 Thank you.

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 Thank you.

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 Thank you.

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 Thank you.

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 Thank you.

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 Thank you.

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 The bells of Jesus are sweet for the rain.

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 The candles are waiting for the rain.

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 The bells of Jesus are bright.

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 He makes a aixòり love to hear the sun and by the sphere, the thuy?

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 The psalm of the surf.

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 Hear me, O Lord, hear thy sky.

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 I see to save those times forever and love me I pray.

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 Let us know the dear children who can die tender care.

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 And take us to heaven to live with me there.

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 Take us to heaven to live with me there.

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 Hear our songs!

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 Here we go!

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 In the sun the started night

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 The land of Israelisoft interact

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 And grace began, screaming calm and still.

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 And in the path of shame, in the nature,

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 For the world was born in all the world.

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 I've been praying for days, our Lord was born in all the world.

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 And in the path of shame, in the path of shame, in the path of shame,

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 For the world was born in all the world.

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 Here we go.

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 Then the shepherds came away, where God gave His name,

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 And said, we live, and kneeling upon His side.

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 And I'm part of the heart of the land, for the peace of land,

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 And for the world was born in all the world.

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 Angels and men, the land and the land, for the world was born in all the world.

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 Only if you'll say, my name, and love you, and the land and the land, for the world was born in all the world.

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 And that's what I want to say.

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 And that's what I want to say.

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 Great job, you guys.

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 Thank you guys.

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 Thank you guys.

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 I want to thank you guys.

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 I want to thank you guys for reading and loudly, okay?

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 You guys know this one.

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 Le sex is a light.

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 You få sushi.

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 You are not a God, it depends on all that we have.

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 You are a God, it needs a plan, anything we can give by a plan,

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 that's just the way it is.

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 You are a God, it needs a plan, that you can't have.

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 You are not a God, it depends on any one of them.

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 You are not a God, it needs a plan, anything we can give by a plan,

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 that's just the way it is.

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 I need you guys to be really loud here.

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 Let's see.

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 You are God alone, God's happy day.

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 You are not alone, you are not alone.

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 And right now, in the middle of the mountain,

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 you are not alone, you are God alone.

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 You are not alone, you are not alone.

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 Right now, in the middle of the mountain,

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 you are not alone, you are not alone.

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 You are not alone, you are not alone, you are not alone.

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 You are not alone, you are not alone.

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 You are not alone, you are not alone, you are not alone.

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 Oh, God, you have our arms and our children's name.

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 You are all God, you can live and live and never end.

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 And you are all God, you can live and let him be a gift.

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 You are God, you have just the way it is.

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 We are God of love, from what I've been there.

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 You are all God, you are God alone.

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 And right now, loose hands and bed, you are all God alone.

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 You are God alone.

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 Unstoppable, unshakable, unstoppable.

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 Unchangeable, unshakable.

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 Unstoppable, that's what you are.

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 You are God alone.

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 Unweetened when you're free of love and never end.

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 You are all God, you have just the way it is.

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 And right now, in the go-times and best

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 You are on the tour

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 You are God alone

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 Amazing!

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 That was great, guys.

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 Thanks for doing that.

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 Hey, I'm going to pray for us, okay?

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 Can you guys pray with me?

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 I'm going to pray for us

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 And then you guys are going to be dismissed to your class, okay?

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 So let's pray, okay?

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 Dear God, thank you for this day.

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 Thank you for my friends here.

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 Thank you for your son, Jesus.

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 We just pray that we would continue to fall more in love with him

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 as we see him in your word,

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 in your world,

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 in the family around us.

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 We love you.

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 We pray for these children as they go off to their Sunday school classes.

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 Pray for the teachers.

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 Just pray for mercy and for grace on the teachers.

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 We pray that the kids would just fall in love with Christ

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 and know him at an early age and do mighty things for his kingdom.

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 And so we love you and we thank you for these precious gifts.

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 Amen.

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 Amen.

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 Okay, Watermark kids, you guys are dismissed.

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 Time to go to Sunday school class.

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 Good morning, Watermark.

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 My name is Chris and I help oversee the community groups here in Watermark.

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 I'm glad you've made it through the end of the world and you're still here.

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 I don't know about you, but I've got a memory like a goldfish at times.

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 I forget lots of things.

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 I'm halfway through a sentence and I forget what I was going to say.

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 I go into the kitchen to get something and as I get in there, I think,

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 why did I come in here?

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 Or maybe I go out shopping, maybe go Christmas shopping

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 and I'm there, I'm looking at all the different things that are on offer

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 and I think there was someone I needed to buy a gift for.

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 And I get back home and then suddenly I realized that it was someone I really love,

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 like maybe my fiance or someone who you don't want to forget a gift for.

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 And if you're like me, you need reminders.

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 Reminders of why you're here, what you're doing, what things are really all about.

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 I need a note on my desk.

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 I need an alarm on my phone.

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 I need a text message from my fiance just to keep me doing what I'm meant to be doing.

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 And I think all of us in some ways are forgetters.

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 We naturally, in the busyness of life, even at this Christmas season,

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 we get so wrapped up in all the things we have to do, in our schedules, in our work, in our preparations,

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 that sometimes we lose sight of what we're here for, of who we really are, of what really defines us.

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 And Jesus instituted a meal as a reminder to us of who we are, of what defines us,

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 and of what we're here for.

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 It was a meal that had been celebrated for hundreds of years by the Jews.

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 It was a meal that celebrated when God had rescued his people out of slavery in the land of Egypt,

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 and he brought them into freedom.

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 He brought them into freedom to know God, to live for God.

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 And to bring them into this freedom, what God did is,

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 he said, I'm going to bring judgment on the people in the land of Egypt.

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 But you, my people, I want you to kill a lamb and place its blood on the doorposts of your houses.

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 And when my judgment comes, it will pass over you, and you can escape to freedom.

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 Jesus, on the night before he died, also ate that meal.

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 That meal is called the Passover.

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 He ate that meal, but when he ate it, he said,

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 that lamb a long time ago, that lamb was pointing towards me,

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 because I am going to die to bring you out of slavery and into freedom.

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 Out of slavery for all the things which consume us in our lives.

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 Out of slavery to maybe what people think about us.

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 Out of slavery to our schedules.

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 Out of slavery to unforgiveness, to anger, to bitterness.

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 He said, I've come to bring you freedom.

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 Freedom to live for God.

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 Freedom to know God.

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 Freedom to be who you are meant to be.

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 And so as we come to communion, this is a reminder to all of us,

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 because I don't know what's happened in your week,

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 but actually, we all at times forget who we are.

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 We forget that it's Jesus who defines us.

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 We forget that we're here for him.

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 And as we come to eat of it, I want you to think about this week.

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 What is it that maybe you've lost sight of who you're here for?

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 You've lost sight of Jesus.

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 You've lost sight of freedom.

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 And this meal reminds you that you're not a slave anymore.

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 We were once slaves to all kinds of things,

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 but God says you're not a slave anymore.

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 You can live free.

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 And here's a reminder that Jesus' death brings freedom

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 to all who will follow and trust in him.

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 So as we come to take of it, this is a family meal,

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 which means if you have not yet trusted in Jesus

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 as the one who can set you free from those things which enslave us,

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 then we just ask you, we're so glad you're here,

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 we just ask you to watch, observe, and ask questions.

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 If you're here with someone who's brought you,

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 don't let them go away without you asking,

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 what is Jesus' death really all about?

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 If you've got children and they're still in,

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 we ask you that you please bring them up,

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 but if you know where they are spiritually,

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 and if you still have the children in here,

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 let them take communion if you think they have trusted in Jesus.

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 But if not, use it as a teaching time

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 just to help them know what it is to really put their trust in Jesus.

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 So if the community students could come up,

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 and I'd like you to just have a moment to think about,

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 even this past week,

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 where are the areas where maybe you've been slaved to different things?

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 You've taken your focus off of God.

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 And take this moment just to reflect on that,

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 and to reflect on what Jesus has done.

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 And then when you're ready, come up and take the elements.

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 On that night of that meal,

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 Jesus took some bread,

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 and he gave it to his disciples.

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 And he said,

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 this is my body,

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 which is given for you.

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 Take this as a reminder

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 that I am who defines you,

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 that my death is what saves you.

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 The body of Christ.

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 Amen.

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 And on that same night,

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 he also took a cup,

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 and he gave it to his disciples,

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 and said,

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 this is my blood,

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 the blood of a new covenant,

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 which I give for you for the forgiveness of your sins.

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 For all those times where you have gone away and forgotten,

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 here is forgiveness for you.

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 Drink this.

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 Let me just pray for us.

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 Father, I thank you so much

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 that at Christmas time,

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 we remember that you came to die for us.

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 You came to release us from slavery,

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 to bring us into freedom.

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 And I pray, Lord,

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 that as Tobin comes to speak to us,

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 that you would also speak to us,

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 that you would also show us more about yourself,

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 that you would help us to make you the center of our lives,

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 and to realize that everything is all about you.

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 So we pray these things in your name.

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 Amen.

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 Amen.

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 Today's scripture reading come from the Gospel of Luke, chapter 2.

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 Please follow along in your bulletin.

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 Now his parents went to Jerusalem every year at the Feast of Passover.

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 And when he became twelve,

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 they went up there according to the custom of the feast.

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 And as they were returning,

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 after spending the full number of days,

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 the boy Jesus stayed behind in Jerusalem.

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 But his parents were unaware of it,

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 but supposed him to be in the caravan and went a day's journey.

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 And they began looking for him among their relatives and acquaintances.

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 When they did not find him,

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 they returned to Jerusalem looking for him.

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 Then, after three days,

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 they found him in the temple,

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 sitting in the midst of the teachers,

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 both listening to them and asking them questions.

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 And all who heard him were amazed at his understanding and his answers.

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 When they saw him,

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 they were astonished.

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 And his mother said to him,

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 Son, why have you treated us this way?

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 Behold, your father and I have been anxiously looking for you.

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 And he said to them,

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 Why is it that you are looking for me?

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 Did you not know that I had to be in my father's house?

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 But they did not understand the statement which he had made to them.

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 And he went down with them and came to Nazareth.

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 And he continued in subjection to them.

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 And his mother treasured all these things in her heart.

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 And Jesus kept increasing in wisdom and stature,

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 in favor with God and men.

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 This is God's word.

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 That was great.

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 Thanks, guys.

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 Thanks, Natalie, for controlling the kids.

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 And one mom on the way up, the kids said,

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 I don't know if I know that song.

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 She said, just sing Watermelon, Watermelon, Watermelon.

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 Move your lips and you'll be okay.

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 So, yeah.

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 So now you get a little idea of what the kids are learning in Sunday school also

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 as we teach them and bring them in this up on what it means to know Christ.

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 If you're here for the first time, I'd like to welcome you to Watermark Community Church.

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 Our focus is to point people to Christ.

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 That they would fall in love with him.

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 They would walk a lifetime with him.

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 That would be the most important thing in their life.

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 Christmas is upon us.

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 So I think we have two more days of shopping.

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 It was incredible.

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 I love this time of the season.

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 I love being out there.

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 I love, though I have certain rules, like don't go down to Causeway Bay on the weekends

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 or things like that.

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 But I love just the music and the sound.

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 We had the church-wide lunch last Sunday.

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 And I went up to a three-year-old.

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 And I said, I love asking kids, you know, what about Christmas and things like that.

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 And I said, three-year-old.

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 I said, so what do you want for Christmas?

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 And the three-year-old looked at me and said, I want an iPad.

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 Three years old.

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 I want an iPad.

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 I was like, whoa, okay.

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 I just got like little blocks or things like that.

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 So I think times have really changed nowadays.

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 So we think about Christmas and being a parent.

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 And it's kind of got our, yeah, we got our work cut out for us.

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 It's interesting to me also when the Christmas music starts in late April or early May.

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 It's hard to get into the season then, too, because you're used to it starting in November

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 or December, the very first part of December.

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 But here it just starts anytime.

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 So you walk into the mall and it's always Christmas.

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 So it's kind of interesting to be a part of that.

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 But to see the trees and to hear the music and to reflect back on why do we come together today?

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 Why are we here to worship?

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 It's reminded of this story of three men who died during Christmas.

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 And they went up to heaven.

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 And they met St. Peter there.

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 And Peter looked at them and said, well, since it's Christmas time, I'm not going to ask you the normal questions.

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 I'm going to ask you special questions.

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 I'd like for you just to produce something that symbolizes Christmas for you.

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 Bring out something that you have on your person that shows the meaning or what Christmas is about to you.

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 The first guy I thought really panicking.

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 He was trying to think about what he was going to do.

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 What did he have on him that represented Christmas?

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 What could he produce so that he could get into heaven?

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 Now, this isn't real.

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 You don't produce things to get into heaven.

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 This is his story.

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 Just follow me, okay?

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 And so he pulls out this big lighter and he lights it.

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 And he goes, this represents the candles that we light and the stars at night and all the light in the midst of darkness.

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 And Peter will go, that's pretty good.

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 And he looked at the second guy.

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 And the second guy was kind of panicking.

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 And he didn't know what to produce.

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 And all of a sudden he, okay, okay, I got it, I got it.

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 And so he reaches into his pocket and he pulls out his keys.

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 And he jingles them.

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 And the keys jingling represents the sound of music and carols and the bells jinging and do-do-do-do and all this stuff.

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 And Peter goes, that's pretty good.

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 Okay.

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 Third guy, he's like, he's white.

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 He's like, he has no idea what he's going to do, how he's going to produce.

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 He just, you know, he has, he doesn't know how he's going to get into heaven.

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 And all of a sudden he, and he reaches deep into his pocket and he pulls out a pair of women's reading glasses.

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 And he lays them on the table.

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 And Peter looks at him going, okay, you got to, you got to help me out.

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 How does this represent Christmas?

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 He says, those are carols.

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 Okay.

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 The red and yellows in you are going to be thinking about that.

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 All your discernment, those are carols.

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 What does that mean?

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 So, but that's, that's what I love.

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 You know, Christmas is about having fun.

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 It's about thinking about things.

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 It's an amazing time to me.

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 But Christmas is also this paradox to me.

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 It's an anomaly to me.

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 It's, it's, it's craziness.

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 As I think about it, it's a story of amazing highs amidst amazing lows.

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 It's a story of light in the middle of darkness.

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 It's, it's a story of hope when there was no hope in the history of the world.

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 It's a story of life that will be centered on death.

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 We're celebrating a baby that we're going to kill so that we might have life.

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 And every time I think of that, I wonder.

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 I was at a party last night.

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 I don't make these stories up.

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 You can ask me.

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 And Tim was there.

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 My wife was there.

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 We were talking to our neighbors down below.

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 And it was a great party.

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 I mean, the people that are not churchgoers, if they were churchgoers, it would have been

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 the most amazing evangelistic outreach party ever.

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 There was about 80 little kids running around and Santa Claus came in.

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 We were singing songs and we were, we were doing all these carols.

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 And it was just incredible.

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 And in the midst of this time, I looked at one of the ladies and we're talking and I'm saying,

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 isn't this amazing?

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 This is amazing.

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 And all of a sudden she just looked at me and I don't know if it's something happened.

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 And she goes, yep, you know, there's something very dark about this season.

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 There's something very sad about this season.

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 There's something that when I think about it, she's telling me this and I'm just sitting

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 there and just nodding my head.

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 There's something very sad when I think about this time of year.

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 And I just feel lonely.

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 Now you and I know what she's missing.

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 But she doesn't.

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 Christmas is a story full of people who miss the meaning of Christmas and they lose everything.

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 It's a story of people who get the meaning of Christ and Christmas and they gain everything.

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 Christmas is a very, very interesting time.

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 And the thing that perplexes me and amazes me is that story continues today.

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 And so what I want to do is very briefly, I want to look at a story of people who found Christ

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 and lost him.

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 You heard it read.

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 It's in your bulletin.

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 Today's passage is the go-to passage for all Christmas passages.

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 Whenever you go to a church for the first time, chances are pretty high during Christmas

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 you're going to hear Luke chapter 2 verses 1 through 19 read.

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 Because it's the go-to passage.

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 You probably will not hear the passage that we're going to talk about read today.

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 Because it's not seen as a traditional Easter or Christmas passage.

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 But what I've been experiencing in my life is that it is a go-to passage for me.

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 It's a think about God and what he means and how we do that.

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 You read in the bulletin that it is the Passover.

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 Now the Passover was very, very special.

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 It was a celebration that usually happened in March or April.

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 And it was a flashback to God redeeming his people from Egypt.

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 It was a massive, massive celebration where all the people of God were required by religious

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 law to go back to Jerusalem to celebrate the Passover.

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 All Jewish males 13 years or older had to be at the Passover.

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 It was one of three holidays they had to celebrate.

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 So that the minute a boy turned 13, he was required by law to go to Jerusalem and participate

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 in the Passover and to sacrifice and to make sacrifices for his sin.

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 We're told that Jerusalem, which is only one square kilometer.

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 Now think about this.

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 One square kilometer at this time.

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 Now Hong Kong Island is 80 square kilometers.

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 Jerusalem was one square kilometer.

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 But on this celebration, on this day, the population of Jerusalem was larger than the population of Hong Kong Island.

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 1.5 million people squeezed into a place about the size of Cyberport and Sandy Bay to fulfill their religious duty to sacrifice and to worship.

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 The Passover lasted about a week.

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 It was usually tacked on to the Feast of Unleavened Bread.

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 And so the Jewish people would go there and they would partake in this ceremony and this festival.

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 On this Passover, we're told that 270,000 lambs were killed to atone for the people of God's sin.

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 We have records of it.

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 You can go back and you can read them.

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 270,000 people.

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 And as we look at this passage, you've got to ask yourself some questions.

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 Why did God put this passage here?

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 Because we're told at the end of Scripture that the stories of Jesus were so many that if you wrote them all down, the books of the world could not contain it.

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 And so you have to ask the question, why did God put this passage here?

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 What's so special about this passage that he wants us to know?

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 What does he want us to learn from this?

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 And I think there are several things that I learned from this passage.

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 The first thing that I learned is that Mary and Joseph, they were good parents.

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 They were good Jews.

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 They brought their kids up into the tradition of the religious household of that day.

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 They kept all the sacrifices.

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 They did all the laws.

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 They took the journey to Jerusalem every year.

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 Now, from Nazareth to Jerusalem, it was a three-day journey.

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 Typically, people would go on this journey in a community, in a family, for protection.

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 And so they would take three days to travel to Jerusalem.

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 They would partake in about a seven- to eight-day ceremony.

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 And then they would take three days to travel back.

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 And in this ceremony, that's how long it took.

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 In other ceremonies, it took longer.

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 But we're told that Jesus' parents were good Jewish parents.

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 And they did this all the time.

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 Another thing that sticks out here in verse 42 is this.

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 This is really important.

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 Because when a Jewish boy turned 12, it was a start of one year of intensive internship.

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 For one year, his dad took him along and mentored him and taught him everything about his profession,

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 about being a husband, about being a dad, about the family of God, about the religious aspects.

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 For that one year, beginning now, when Jesus turned 12, his dad would have had him under intense mentorship,

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 been with him all the time, teaching him and explaining to him.

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 Because when Jesus turned 13, he got bar mitzvahed.

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 Bar means son.

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 Mitzvah means commandment.

00:34:08.039 --> 00:34:09.940
 He became a son of the commandment.

00:34:10.619 --> 00:34:11.599
 He became an adult.

00:34:12.319 --> 00:34:14.940
 So at 13 years old, he was a man.

00:34:15.940 --> 00:34:19.880
 And so we know that this is Jesus' last year before he becomes a man.

00:34:20.099 --> 00:34:23.139
 And it would have been a time when he would have stayed very close to his dad.

00:34:23.380 --> 00:34:24.980
 He would have never ventured from his dad.

00:34:25.239 --> 00:34:26.920
 His dad would have been talking to him all the time.

00:34:26.920 --> 00:34:34.480
 This passage is also interesting because it's the only time in all of the scripture where you see Jesus as a boy.

00:34:35.920 --> 00:34:39.420
 All the other times in the Bible, we see that Jesus is a baby or that Jesus is a man.

00:34:39.599 --> 00:34:41.380
 But this is the only time that Jesus is a boy.

00:34:41.720 --> 00:34:48.460
 And this is the first words that are recorded in all the Bible that Jesus speaks.

00:34:50.320 --> 00:34:53.780
 So we get excited sometimes when we say, Daddy, Mommy, and all these things.

00:34:53.780 --> 00:35:05.360
 And these weren't his first words, but these are the first words that God chose to record for us so that we could learn about God during this season and during this time.

00:35:06.420 --> 00:35:08.980
 And then in verse 43 and 44, we see something amazing.

00:35:10.300 --> 00:35:13.680
 In verse 43 and 44, we see that the ceremony is over.

00:35:13.960 --> 00:35:15.000
 The celebration is over.

00:35:15.280 --> 00:35:16.320
 People are on this high.

00:35:16.440 --> 00:35:17.080
 They're on this religious.

00:35:17.360 --> 00:35:19.040
 This is the greatest retreat ever.

00:35:19.340 --> 00:35:19.980
 This is amazing.

00:35:19.980 --> 00:35:21.980
 They all pack up and they leave.

00:35:23.880 --> 00:35:25.460
 And they leave Jesus behind.

00:35:27.760 --> 00:35:29.559
 The words are very specific.

00:35:29.699 --> 00:35:38.119
 It says that they left him behind, supposing that he was with them, thinking that he was there, taking it for granted that Jesus was with them.

00:35:40.119 --> 00:35:41.780
 His family left them behind.

00:35:41.780 --> 00:35:50.000
 And they go on this journey for one day before they stop and they realize, what have we done?

00:35:51.940 --> 00:35:53.060
 We've left our son.

00:35:54.460 --> 00:35:55.540
 But this isn't just our son.

00:35:55.620 --> 00:35:57.120
 This is the son of God.

00:35:58.060 --> 00:35:59.400
 I mean, they knew all the stories.

00:35:59.500 --> 00:36:00.040
 They were ready.

00:36:00.160 --> 00:36:00.880
 They were protecting him.

00:36:01.080 --> 00:36:01.840
 They were guarding him.

00:36:02.100 --> 00:36:05.519
 I mean, on my way to the community center this week, I went by a school.

00:36:05.519 --> 00:36:11.599
 And in the school, there was lined up all these parents outside waiting to pick their kids up because our kids are special.

00:36:11.719 --> 00:36:12.300
 We protect them.

00:36:12.380 --> 00:36:12.980
 We guard them.

00:36:13.280 --> 00:36:16.840
 But here, you have a very special kid.

00:36:16.940 --> 00:36:18.340
 You have the ultimate kid.

00:36:18.679 --> 00:36:20.920
 You have the kid who's going to save us all.

00:36:21.079 --> 00:36:22.639
 And they leave them behind.

00:36:22.759 --> 00:36:24.259
 And you wonder what his parents were thinking.

00:36:25.420 --> 00:36:32.920
 You wonder if they were thinking, I hope Herod doesn't get a hold of him because Herod's already killed all those little babies before his birth.

00:36:33.420 --> 00:36:34.840
 If Herod finds him, he's dead.

00:36:34.840 --> 00:36:41.160
 I hope the Romans don't get a hold of him because if the Romans find out about him, they're going to kill him.

00:36:41.320 --> 00:36:48.180
 I hope the leaders of the Sanhedrin don't get a hold of him because they know in the stars there's predicted a ruler that's going to usurp their power.

00:36:48.480 --> 00:36:50.800
 And we are really worried about what's going to happen.

00:36:51.140 --> 00:36:52.320
 What is going to happen here?

00:36:54.140 --> 00:37:01.740
 And so they, one day out, one day back, one day searching, frantically trying to figure out what it was all about.

00:37:03.039 --> 00:37:04.500
 Can you imagine what that would have been like?

00:37:04.840 --> 00:37:13.420
 Can you imagine just the anger, the pain, the suffering, the, I thought you did this.

00:37:13.480 --> 00:37:16.720
 How come, you're the dad, you're supposed to be with him.

00:37:17.740 --> 00:37:19.880
 Well, I thought he was with you.

00:37:20.160 --> 00:37:22.300
 And where's Jesus?

00:37:24.160 --> 00:37:25.200
 We thought he was with us.

00:37:25.199 --> 00:37:31.319
 Can you, sidebar here, I got to think this.

00:37:32.319 --> 00:37:34.239
 Can you imagine what it was like to have Jesus as a child?

00:37:38.079 --> 00:37:39.059
 Have you ever thought about that?

00:37:39.059 --> 00:37:48.079
 I mean, you're in your room and you hear this crash in the kid's room and you run in there and my response is, who did this?

00:37:49.219 --> 00:37:50.559
 Which I've been told is wrong.

00:37:50.639 --> 00:37:52.679
 My wife comes in and she tells me, don't do that.

00:37:53.420 --> 00:37:57.019
 You should come in and say, hmm, how did this happen?

00:37:57.019 --> 00:38:05.000
 Well, when Jesus is your kid and you hear the crash and you run into the room, what do you do?

00:38:05.000 --> 00:38:07.900
 Jesus, who did this?

00:38:10.059 --> 00:38:10.980
 Okay, I trust him.

00:38:12.400 --> 00:38:14.460
 Because usually at my house, when I go in, who did this?

00:38:14.480 --> 00:38:16.199
 The fingers are going, you know.

00:38:16.639 --> 00:38:20.780
 And it's interesting because we're always told we don't compare our kids to each other.

00:38:21.719 --> 00:38:28.139
 But if Jesus is your son, you'd be going, hey, Isaac, why don't you be more like Jesus?

00:38:28.139 --> 00:38:31.019
 And it would be a good thing, wouldn't it?

00:38:31.980 --> 00:38:33.739
 It would be a great thing.

00:38:34.960 --> 00:38:38.299
 I mean, it would be a great thing to have him as a role model for your kids.

00:38:39.599 --> 00:38:42.039
 And then I get in a fight with my wife.

00:38:44.219 --> 00:38:45.799
 And I lose my temper.

00:38:47.179 --> 00:38:51.319
 And I'm just being not nice, carnal, sinful.

00:38:52.500 --> 00:38:57.059
 And I walk into my room and one of my kids follows me in there and says, dad.

00:38:58.139 --> 00:38:59.960
 You were really hard on mom.

00:39:01.239 --> 00:39:02.799
 You should apologize to her.

00:39:04.179 --> 00:39:07.639
 And in my mind, I'm thinking, yeah, but you don't understand, right?

00:39:07.779 --> 00:39:10.159
 Because she did this and I was expecting this.

00:39:10.219 --> 00:39:13.099
 And it's really not my fault because it was really her fault.

00:39:13.159 --> 00:39:14.599
 And you still understand because you're a kid.

00:39:15.599 --> 00:39:21.719
 But if Jesus were your son, he would know everything, right?

00:39:23.159 --> 00:39:25.739
 And he's like, okay, dad, before you bring up that excuse,

00:39:25.739 --> 00:39:30.000
 I know that you're just really struggling with identity issues.

00:39:33.119 --> 00:39:36.919
 You're really struggling with who you are and how I've made you.

00:39:38.199 --> 00:39:39.439
 You need to lighten up a little.

00:39:40.619 --> 00:39:42.279
 And really, it's not just because of you.

00:39:42.579 --> 00:39:43.500
 It's not her fault.

00:39:43.619 --> 00:39:44.759
 It's your fault, right?

00:39:45.239 --> 00:39:46.939
 So, dad, I think you should go back.

00:39:47.019 --> 00:39:49.179
 I think you should go apologize to your mom.

00:39:49.179 --> 00:39:52.739
 And, oh, yeah, after you do that, you can come repent to me.

00:39:54.559 --> 00:39:55.579
 Not good, right?

00:39:56.259 --> 00:39:58.419
 You don't ever want your kids saying that at all, right?

00:39:58.619 --> 00:40:01.980
 But here, Jesus' parents lose him.

00:40:02.219 --> 00:40:03.579
 And they go on this journey.

00:40:03.799 --> 00:40:05.019
 And they try to find him.

00:40:05.279 --> 00:40:10.480
 And as I read this passage, I wonder what it would have been like to be without Jesus for three days.

00:40:10.480 --> 00:40:18.260
 And then I realize that often in my life,

00:40:19.320 --> 00:40:24.000
 I'm without him for three days.

00:40:28.500 --> 00:40:30.960
 Sometimes I lose him in my work.

00:40:32.099 --> 00:40:33.880
 Sometimes I lose him in my marriage.

00:40:34.920 --> 00:40:36.679
 Sometimes I lose him in life.

00:40:36.679 --> 00:40:39.359
 And I go on this journey.

00:40:39.480 --> 00:40:42.379
 And I think that Christ is traveling with me.

00:40:45.219 --> 00:40:46.559
 And I misplace him.

00:40:49.559 --> 00:40:53.199
 Taking it for granted that he was with me.

00:40:57.000 --> 00:40:57.879
 He wasn't.

00:40:57.880 --> 00:41:08.000
 This passage, to me, speaks over and over about how we sometimes misplace Christ in our life,

00:41:08.079 --> 00:41:09.619
 especially during this Christmas season.

00:41:11.640 --> 00:41:12.260
 You know, sometimes,

00:41:13.320 --> 00:41:18.780
 sometimes we misplace him because we're too busy.

00:41:20.860 --> 00:41:24.599
 There have been several times this week where I've gone to three different Christmas parties,

00:41:24.599 --> 00:41:26.960
 running from place to place.

00:41:27.360 --> 00:41:28.880
 I've got him to get to where I'm going to go.

00:41:29.400 --> 00:41:31.179
 Supposing that he's with me as I go there.

00:41:31.299 --> 00:41:32.420
 But I'm really busy.

00:41:32.519 --> 00:41:33.639
 I've got to get these things done.

00:41:34.039 --> 00:41:35.299
 I have the best intentions.

00:41:35.739 --> 00:41:37.500
 I want to get up and I want to pray.

00:41:37.779 --> 00:41:39.639
 But my schedule is different today.

00:41:39.719 --> 00:41:40.739
 It's too busy.

00:41:40.839 --> 00:41:42.059
 I don't have time to pray.

00:41:42.360 --> 00:41:43.739
 I don't have time to read my Bible.

00:41:43.980 --> 00:41:45.659
 I don't have time to go to community group.

00:41:45.900 --> 00:41:47.500
 I don't have time to prepare for things.

00:41:47.920 --> 00:41:49.500
 But God is with me.

00:41:49.940 --> 00:41:51.079
 And I'm going to do it tomorrow.

00:41:51.079 --> 00:41:53.460
 But all of a sudden, that one day turns to two.

00:41:53.539 --> 00:41:54.920
 And the two days turns to a week.

00:41:55.119 --> 00:41:56.440
 And the week turns to a month.

00:41:56.639 --> 00:41:58.960
 And the month turns to a year.

00:42:01.840 --> 00:42:03.420
 And I'm wandering around,

00:42:04.759 --> 00:42:08.819
 supposing that God is with me.

00:42:10.139 --> 00:42:11.980
 But in reality, I'm missing him.

00:42:13.840 --> 00:42:16.000
 There's an amazing passage in Matthew 7.

00:42:16.079 --> 00:42:17.159
 Go back tonight and check it out.

00:42:17.460 --> 00:42:18.739
 But it says, Jesus is talking.

00:42:18.739 --> 00:42:21.479
 And he says, in the end, people are going to come to me.

00:42:22.219 --> 00:42:24.399
 And they're going to say, Lord, Lord, didn't I do this?

00:42:24.419 --> 00:42:25.319
 And didn't I do that?

00:42:25.500 --> 00:42:26.639
 And I should be able to get into heaven.

00:42:26.899 --> 00:42:28.119
 And Jesus is going to look at them.

00:42:28.139 --> 00:42:30.599
 And he's going to say, depart from me.

00:42:30.639 --> 00:42:34.039
 For I never knew you.

00:42:36.419 --> 00:42:39.539
 I was never with you.

00:42:41.599 --> 00:42:44.519
 You're too busy doing your stuff, your life.

00:42:44.519 --> 00:42:46.880
 You're too busy to think about these things.

00:42:47.019 --> 00:42:48.119
 And you've missed me.

00:42:48.199 --> 00:42:49.759
 And sometimes I miss him in my busyness.

00:42:51.860 --> 00:42:55.699
 Sometimes I miss him when I have the wrong focus.

00:42:55.800 --> 00:42:58.280
 And this is the biggest and the most scariest thing for me at all.

00:42:58.400 --> 00:42:59.739
 Because you see it in this passage.

00:43:00.059 --> 00:43:05.539
 It always amazes me that they lose Jesus at the height of their religious experience.

00:43:07.099 --> 00:43:08.199
 It's not in the gutters.

00:43:08.300 --> 00:43:09.179
 It's not when it's dark.

00:43:09.259 --> 00:43:10.059
 It's not when it's hard.

00:43:10.119 --> 00:43:10.860
 It's not when it's difficult.

00:43:10.860 --> 00:43:13.820
 They lose Jesus when it's the best of times.

00:43:15.820 --> 00:43:17.900
 They've been focused on doing the religious things.

00:43:18.000 --> 00:43:19.260
 They're going to the temple.

00:43:19.400 --> 00:43:20.140
 They're sacrificing.

00:43:20.640 --> 00:43:21.700
 They're tithing.

00:43:22.019 --> 00:43:22.620
 They're serving.

00:43:23.400 --> 00:43:24.140
 They're getting clean.

00:43:24.440 --> 00:43:28.559
 They're doing all the things that they're supposed to do as religious people, as good Jews.

00:43:28.720 --> 00:43:29.920
 And they lose him.

00:43:29.920 --> 00:43:38.860
 And I realize that's me sometimes.

00:43:41.599 --> 00:43:51.539
 So sometimes I can be so focused on doing and doing and doing that I forget to be and to be and to be with God.

00:43:51.539 --> 00:43:54.860
 And the scary thing is sometimes those things are religious things.

00:43:57.139 --> 00:43:59.039
 I do all the right religious things.

00:43:59.119 --> 00:44:01.039
 We do all the things that God has called us to do.

00:44:01.199 --> 00:44:08.019
 But in we're doing them, we've lost focus on who we've done them for.

00:44:08.019 --> 00:44:23.099
 And the passage says, be careful that you don't lose Jesus because you're focused on a religious experience or something different or something that's good, but it's not an ultimate thing.

00:44:25.980 --> 00:44:28.460
 I went home this summer and talking to a buddy who's a pastor.

00:44:28.559 --> 00:44:31.440
 And we were talking about the life of churches in America and what's going on in churches.

00:44:31.800 --> 00:44:36.340
 And how churches want to get bigger and popular and more name branding and just bigger and expanding.

00:44:36.340 --> 00:44:43.920
 And he looked at me and he said, you know, the problem with the church in America is that we've lost our focus.

00:44:46.720 --> 00:44:50.000
 We've forgotten why we do things the way we do.

00:44:50.079 --> 00:44:51.960
 We've forgotten who we do things for.

00:44:52.760 --> 00:44:56.120
 We just do, do, do, thinking that if we do, then God will show up.

00:44:57.220 --> 00:44:59.260
 But this passage says that's not true.

00:45:02.720 --> 00:45:05.100
 I worry about us as a church sometimes.

00:45:06.340 --> 00:45:09.420
 That we don't head down this road of doing, doing, doing.

00:45:10.700 --> 00:45:13.380
 But our focus is not where God wants us to be.

00:45:16.180 --> 00:45:21.460
 What would it look like for you today to have the wrong focus in your life?

00:45:23.460 --> 00:45:26.220
 You came and you came to worship with us, which is an amazing thing.

00:45:26.280 --> 00:45:27.260
 We're really glad you're here.

00:45:27.680 --> 00:45:29.240
 We'd rather have you no other place.

00:45:29.239 --> 00:45:38.500
 But what would it look like for you right now to be doing all these good things for the wrong reasons?

00:45:44.399 --> 00:45:45.500
 I was talking to my buddy.

00:45:45.659 --> 00:45:46.859
 We were rugby coaches.

00:45:48.179 --> 00:45:50.079
 We were talking about the craziness of the season.

00:45:51.879 --> 00:45:54.339
 He said, man, I got to go to communion.

00:45:54.439 --> 00:45:54.899
 He's Catholic.

00:45:54.900 --> 00:45:56.280
 I got to go to communion.

00:45:56.440 --> 00:45:57.180
 Wednesday night, I got to go.

00:45:57.320 --> 00:45:57.740
 I got to go.

00:45:58.240 --> 00:46:00.300
 And for some reason, God just kind of stopped me.

00:46:02.059 --> 00:46:05.800
 And I looked at him and I said, why?

00:46:05.800 --> 00:46:10.480
 Why do you have to go to communion?

00:46:12.420 --> 00:46:14.100
 And he just kind of looked at me dumbfounded.

00:46:18.120 --> 00:46:19.220
 He didn't say anything.

00:46:21.280 --> 00:46:22.580
 I don't know.

00:46:23.000 --> 00:46:25.360
 It's just something I have to do.

00:46:25.360 --> 00:46:35.500
 Sometimes in the Christmas season, sometimes as we walk with the Lord, sometimes we can lose our focus on who we're doing everything for.

00:46:36.380 --> 00:46:38.740
 Because we're focused on really, really good things.

00:46:40.519 --> 00:46:42.900
 But we forget the person who gave us those good things.

00:46:42.900 --> 00:46:53.420
 The last thing that sticks out to me and hits me like a hammer in the head, if I'm honest, this is something that is, and you got to look at it here.

00:46:53.480 --> 00:46:58.220
 Because this passage is full of things that we need to keep coming back to.

00:46:59.820 --> 00:47:00.800
 Verse 48.

00:47:00.800 --> 00:47:05.519
 When they saw him, they were astonished.

00:47:06.560 --> 00:47:09.860
 In Greek, the word is close to being flabbergasted.

00:47:10.300 --> 00:47:13.980
 If that's a word in your culture, it's in Texas language it is.

00:47:15.200 --> 00:47:21.140
 And his mother said to him, which mothers would never talk to the sons, especially sons who are about to become men.

00:47:21.400 --> 00:47:23.039
 It was always the father's responsibility.

00:47:23.280 --> 00:47:25.460
 So you know that Mary is a very strong woman here.

00:47:26.920 --> 00:47:28.260
 She's very strong.

00:47:28.260 --> 00:47:36.680
 And she looks at him and she says, son, why have you treated us this way?

00:47:39.020 --> 00:47:45.820
 Behold, your father, your mentor, the one you're supposed to be looking up to, the one you're not supposed to leave his side,

00:47:46.100 --> 00:47:50.740
 the one you're supposed to be doing everything this year with, your father and I were so worried.

00:47:52.500 --> 00:47:53.860
 How could you do this to us?

00:47:58.260 --> 00:48:04.660
 In Texas language, she probably would have said, boy, why you do your mama like that?

00:48:05.860 --> 00:48:07.680
 Don't you know your daddy and me have been really upset?

00:48:09.060 --> 00:48:09.840
 Shame on you.

00:48:12.720 --> 00:48:13.680
 Verse 49.

00:48:14.840 --> 00:48:18.620
 And he said to them, why is it that you are looking for me?

00:48:18.619 --> 00:48:23.859
 Did you not know that I had to be in my father's house?

00:48:25.779 --> 00:48:29.079
 There's a play on words and ideas, father and father.

00:48:30.079 --> 00:48:32.619
 And at 12, he knows his father.

00:48:34.139 --> 00:48:39.880
 And he's basically reteaching his mom something she learned at his birth.

00:48:39.880 --> 00:48:43.280
 There's an implied statement after that.

00:48:43.559 --> 00:48:48.780
 Not only do I have to be in my father's house, but I have to be about doing my father's business.

00:48:52.440 --> 00:49:00.320
 And the thing that sticks out to me as I wander through Christmas sometimes is sometimes my priorities are all wrong.

00:49:00.320 --> 00:49:07.600
 And the question that Christ asked here, why are you looking at me?

00:49:07.700 --> 00:49:08.960
 Why didn't you know I was here?

00:49:09.240 --> 00:49:12.320
 Are the questions that we need to continually ask ourselves.

00:49:13.539 --> 00:49:19.620
 And we need to question and see, are we doing the father's business?

00:49:23.820 --> 00:49:28.600
 As we walk with God this season, are our priorities right?

00:49:30.320 --> 00:49:32.380
 Are our priorities true?

00:49:33.519 --> 00:49:39.940
 Have we ever stopped for just a second during the holidays and said, God, what are your priorities right now?

00:49:42.800 --> 00:49:44.260
 What do you want me to do?

00:49:48.160 --> 00:49:52.900
 Have we ever stopped and said, God, you've given me this amazing job.

00:49:54.100 --> 00:49:56.820
 Am I bringing glory to you right now?

00:49:56.820 --> 00:50:01.700
 Am I fulfilling your priorities or am I fulfilling my priorities?

00:50:05.559 --> 00:50:17.539
 God, you've given me this amazing family, amazing mind, amazing heart, amazing resources, amazing time, amazing relationships.

00:50:17.539 --> 00:50:31.599
 During this Christmas time, do we ever stop and ask, am I doing what you want me to do?

00:50:38.099 --> 00:50:39.920
 Am I fulfilling your priorities?

00:50:39.920 --> 00:50:46.079
 Am I building your kingdom?

00:50:48.880 --> 00:50:50.860
 Or am I fulfilling my priorities?

00:50:53.059 --> 00:50:55.280
 And am I building my kingdom?

00:50:56.720 --> 00:51:02.380
 And I realized during the holidays that when I don't focus on these things, I get lost.

00:51:02.380 --> 00:51:13.099
 And in the midst of this incredible celebration, sometimes I feel like I'm walking in darkness.

00:51:16.700 --> 00:51:17.820
 Have you ever felt that way?

00:51:17.820 --> 00:51:32.620
 The amazing thing to me about this passage is that he gives us a solution to that.

00:51:35.019 --> 00:51:37.160
 He helps us reprioritize.

00:51:37.440 --> 00:51:38.660
 He helps us refocus.

00:51:38.659 --> 00:51:42.420
 He helps us not be so busy and focus on the right things.

00:51:43.199 --> 00:51:47.920
 But the choice is, do we want that to happen this holiday season?

00:51:50.859 --> 00:51:57.299
 I realize as I share right now, there are people in here who at one time made a commitment to Christ.

00:51:57.420 --> 00:51:59.000
 You invited Jesus Christ into your life.

00:51:59.279 --> 00:52:00.279
 You're walking with him.

00:52:00.280 --> 00:52:07.900
 And all of a sudden, in this time, you feel emptiness.

00:52:10.820 --> 00:52:12.040
 You feel darkness.

00:52:13.080 --> 00:52:16.620
 You wonder why you feel this way when everything is going so well.

00:52:16.820 --> 00:52:18.560
 It is the best of seasons.

00:52:19.680 --> 00:52:21.560
 It's the perfect time.

00:52:22.420 --> 00:52:25.380
 But instead, you feel lost.

00:52:25.600 --> 00:52:26.620
 You feel empty.

00:52:26.619 --> 00:52:30.619
 Maybe you wonder, how long is this going to take?

00:52:31.559 --> 00:52:33.500
 So I just get back to my normal day.

00:52:37.719 --> 00:52:39.460
 Maybe you've become too busy.

00:52:39.599 --> 00:52:41.420
 Maybe you have lost your focus.

00:52:42.259 --> 00:52:44.719
 Maybe your priorities are all wrong.

00:52:46.619 --> 00:52:49.920
 Maybe you have health issues.

00:52:50.679 --> 00:52:53.579
 Or you've lost somebody very close to you.

00:52:54.199 --> 00:52:56.480
 And that death has changed your life.

00:52:56.619 --> 00:53:01.199
 Maybe this last week, you just found out that you lost your job.

00:53:03.559 --> 00:53:05.500
 And you're wondering what you're going to do next.

00:53:08.000 --> 00:53:16.119
 And that joy, and that feeling, and that comfort that you once had, you don't have anymore.

00:53:17.299 --> 00:53:19.599
 And you struggle, and you wonder, why?

00:53:19.839 --> 00:53:20.099
 Why?

00:53:20.099 --> 00:53:20.159
 Why?

00:53:20.159 --> 00:53:20.299
 Why?

00:53:21.099 --> 00:53:21.420
 Why?

00:53:21.420 --> 00:53:26.339
 And the passage here, for me, tells me why.

00:53:26.340 --> 00:53:30.220
 It tells me that I've become so busy.

00:53:31.320 --> 00:53:32.740
 That I've lost my focus.

00:53:32.840 --> 00:53:34.039
 That my priorities have changed.

00:53:34.240 --> 00:53:37.320
 And I need to come back to where I lost Christ.

00:53:39.079 --> 00:53:41.460
 And start my relationship back up with Him again.

00:53:41.460 --> 00:54:04.019
 The message of Christmas is no matter where you are on your journey, no matter how far that you feel like you've gone from Christ, no matter how empty or no matter how much you feel like you walk in the darkness, the message of Christmas, the message of the manger, the message of Jesus, the message of this passage of losing Him and finding Him, is that as you turn around, as you come back to Him, He's right there.

00:54:04.019 --> 00:54:15.360
 It's us who've walked away, but Christ has been waiting in the temple, doing the things of God, waiting for us to come back to Him.

00:54:18.679 --> 00:54:20.059
 The question is, will we do that?

00:54:22.039 --> 00:54:26.139
 I realize as I share that there's probably some people in here who've never started on the journey.

00:54:26.440 --> 00:54:28.019
 You don't even know what I'm talking about.

00:54:28.099 --> 00:54:29.639
 You've come because a friend has asked you.

00:54:29.880 --> 00:54:31.619
 You're wondering what it means to follow Christ.

00:54:31.619 --> 00:54:33.719
 You wonder why the true meaning of Christmas.

00:54:34.039 --> 00:54:41.380
 You're wondering, why is it bad to walk in darkness and hopelessness?

00:54:42.199 --> 00:54:43.900
 Isn't that what life is all about?

00:54:45.559 --> 00:54:53.799
 And my prayer for you is that you would not leave here until you took and looked at the people who brought you and you asked them questions about Jesus Christ.

00:54:54.799 --> 00:54:57.440
 You asked them questions about why we celebrate this season.

00:54:57.699 --> 00:54:59.739
 You asked them questions about what our hope is.

00:54:59.739 --> 00:55:02.500
 You asked them questions about why they do these things.

00:55:03.759 --> 00:55:09.739
 Because chances are they're afraid to tell you right now because they don't want to offend you, even though they know that you need it.

00:55:10.379 --> 00:55:12.459
 And it's the thing that's going to change your life.

00:55:13.759 --> 00:55:22.799
 And so maybe you, as the visitor, should turn the tables on them and ask them why they brought you here today.

00:55:22.800 --> 00:55:26.480
 And why Christmas is so important to them.

00:55:27.760 --> 00:55:33.160
 I'm going to end our time right now and we'll try something I don't think we tried one time any years ago, two years ago.

00:55:33.159 --> 00:55:45.500
 As we enter into this season and this time of being lost and being found and what it means to walk with God and what it means to become unbusy and what it means to reprioritize,

00:55:46.059 --> 00:55:49.039
 I'm going to ask Jeremy and Celeste to come up.

00:55:49.039 --> 00:55:53.880
 In front of you, there are tables of candles here.

00:55:57.400 --> 00:56:01.440
 They're going to come up and they're going to start playing some music right now.

00:56:01.440 --> 00:56:09.019
 And when they come up, what I would like for you to do is to think about this message.

00:56:10.619 --> 00:56:16.539
 I'd like for you to ask God where you're at right now in the quietness of your share.

00:56:17.920 --> 00:56:19.639
 Where are you on the journey with him?

00:56:21.639 --> 00:56:28.340
 I'd like for you to ask God right now, are you feeling the type of relationship with him that he's made you for?

00:56:31.440 --> 00:56:46.559
 I'd like for you to think of people in your life who, like my friend last night at the party, was very, very far away from God.

00:56:48.780 --> 00:56:55.720
 But you knew that God was pursuing them because he was on her heart.

00:56:55.719 --> 00:57:05.899
 And when you're done praying, coming before the Lord, asking him to examine your heart, confessing, repenting,

00:57:06.659 --> 00:57:11.639
 which the amazing thing to me about this passage is it's okay to lose him.

00:57:11.879 --> 00:57:13.519
 Actually, it's normal as his children.

00:57:15.679 --> 00:57:17.679
 And he continues to bring us back to him.

00:57:17.679 --> 00:57:27.099
 And if you want, we would like for you to come up and just light a candle.

00:57:28.359 --> 00:57:32.319
 This isn't a Catholic thing, but this is a thing of remembrance.

00:57:33.559 --> 00:57:34.519
 And it's a commitment.

00:57:35.759 --> 00:57:39.119
 And as you light this candle, we would like for you to commit to pray for your friend.

00:57:39.119 --> 00:57:43.299
 We'd like for you to commit to pray for them this year.

00:57:43.839 --> 00:57:48.239
 We'd like for you to commit to present to them the message of the gospel.

00:57:49.839 --> 00:57:54.219
 Whether you bring them to church, you do it at home, you take them out to a nice dinner, whatever that looks like.

00:57:54.480 --> 00:57:57.159
 But we would like for you to be praying for these people in your life

00:57:57.159 --> 00:58:03.000
 who need to be here next Christmas

00:58:03.000 --> 00:58:08.859
 to celebrate this amazing, amazing gift.

00:58:12.059 --> 00:58:14.239
 I'll come back up in a couple minutes and close this.

00:58:19.839 --> 00:58:22.839
 There's a lot of neat opportunities for people to invite friends

00:58:22.839 --> 00:58:26.219
 to hear about the true meaning of Christmas and to meet Christ going on.

00:58:26.219 --> 00:58:29.119
 You see these red flyers out there on the desk.

00:58:29.219 --> 00:58:35.659
 We've been having a fair here at Cyberport from 2 to 5 starting on Friday, last Friday.

00:58:35.779 --> 00:58:37.179
 And it's going all the way through Christmas.

00:58:37.899 --> 00:58:40.139
 So my family is going to be out there today hanging out

00:58:40.139 --> 00:58:42.579
 and taking pictures with little kids in front of a nativity scene

00:58:42.579 --> 00:58:46.459
 and handing out books about Christ and like these mangas,

00:58:46.579 --> 00:58:47.919
 which are at the bookstore for free,

00:58:48.039 --> 00:58:51.439
 just so people have opportunity to do that and to hear about Christ.

00:58:51.440 --> 00:58:57.000
 And so I would like to encourage you to pray for the outreach out there right now.

00:58:57.039 --> 00:58:59.340
 And if you want to come out and join us, be a part of it, that's great.

00:58:59.420 --> 00:59:01.440
 Just an opportunity to meet people in the community.

00:59:02.420 --> 00:59:07.659
 Also on the 25th, we are going to do a Christmas service here at 1030.

00:59:08.400 --> 00:59:10.519
 So it's going to be from 1030 to 1130.

00:59:11.039 --> 00:59:15.220
 So for those of you who come at 11, you're only going to get half of it.

00:59:15.219 --> 00:59:20.879
 So I encourage you to come early to be a part of that service.

00:59:21.759 --> 00:59:25.559
 Last week, someone, I was at a party and they asked me their first time here,

00:59:25.619 --> 00:59:27.239
 they said, okay, you didn't take an offering.

00:59:27.539 --> 00:59:28.239
 What's up with that?

00:59:29.159 --> 00:59:30.319
 We've been in the last three churches.

00:59:30.399 --> 00:59:31.439
 All they do is talk about money.

00:59:31.500 --> 00:59:32.319
 How come you didn't do that?

00:59:32.619 --> 00:59:33.679
 And I didn't know what to say.

00:59:33.739 --> 00:59:36.119
 I just said, but we don't right now.

00:59:36.239 --> 00:59:38.159
 We're on a step of faith and a journey with God.

00:59:38.459 --> 00:59:42.419
 And so we have these blue envelopes that are around in a little kiosk.

00:59:42.420 --> 00:59:48.079
 But we think that there's probably no greater indicator to your spiritual health

00:59:48.079 --> 00:59:50.420
 than your generosity.

00:59:51.920 --> 00:59:55.619
 Because if you look at Christ and God, he is very generous.

00:59:56.500 --> 00:59:57.820
 And he continues to be generous.

00:59:58.920 --> 01:00:02.400
 So as you focus on the Christmas season and what the gospel and Christ means to you,

01:00:02.440 --> 01:00:06.119
 we would just ask for you to give and proportion in response to that.

01:00:06.119 --> 01:00:10.360
 And knowing that your ties go to help us do these outreaches

01:00:10.360 --> 01:00:12.640
 and everything that we're about as a church.

01:00:13.539 --> 01:00:15.400
 Also, there's some great books for sale.

01:00:15.519 --> 01:00:17.059
 Some of them are for seekers.

01:00:18.300 --> 01:00:21.220
 And some of them are for people who are on the journey for a while.

01:00:21.700 --> 01:00:23.039
 I want to encourage you out there.

01:00:24.340 --> 01:00:27.260
 We are selling them all at 20% loss at least.

01:00:27.400 --> 01:00:29.079
 But we just want to get them into your hands.

01:00:30.599 --> 01:00:35.760
 You know, one of the things I love about Christmas is the movies.

01:00:35.760 --> 01:00:42.740
 And so there are about six movies that my family watches throughout Christmastime.

01:00:43.500 --> 01:00:46.180
 I'm afraid to tell you those things because you'll laugh.

01:00:47.000 --> 01:00:50.020
 But we watch things like It's a Wonderful Life by Frank Capra,

01:00:50.860 --> 01:00:54.340
 Little Women, which I kind of get my way through

01:00:54.340 --> 01:00:58.020
 because I want to be a good dad and be there with my wife and my daughters.

01:00:58.019 --> 01:01:02.139
 We watch Santa Claus is Coming to Town.

01:01:02.280 --> 01:01:04.199
 We watch Elf with a Youth Friday night.

01:01:05.340 --> 01:01:11.320
 We watch Sound of Music, which is an act of love to my wife.

01:01:12.139 --> 01:01:14.119
 Last night, we watched Sound of Music.

01:01:15.059 --> 01:01:18.719
 I went to bed about 40 minutes left because I just couldn't.

01:01:18.840 --> 01:01:20.500
 I wanted to pray, right?

01:01:24.239 --> 01:01:25.860
 But hear me on this.

01:01:28.019 --> 01:01:31.519
 Christmas shows are amazing and songs are great,

01:01:31.619 --> 01:01:33.500
 but sometimes they have poor theology.

01:01:35.059 --> 01:01:36.300
 Very poor theology.

01:01:37.380 --> 01:01:41.320
 And so I left last night when Captain Von Trapp

01:01:41.320 --> 01:01:44.380
 was in a gazebo with Maria.

01:01:45.800 --> 01:01:47.679
 Maria had run off to the abbey.

01:01:47.960 --> 01:01:49.059
 She falls in love with him.

01:01:49.159 --> 01:01:51.559
 The evil baroness tried to break him up.

01:01:52.000 --> 01:01:53.639
 Now the evil baroness has stepped aside

01:01:53.639 --> 01:01:56.079
 because, you know, plenty of nothing they don't have.

01:01:56.079 --> 01:01:57.759
 They can't offer anything to each other.

01:01:58.019 --> 01:01:58.920
 And so she leaves.

01:01:58.980 --> 01:02:02.320
 And so Captain Von Trapp is going there to talk to Maria

01:02:02.320 --> 01:02:03.480
 because Maria has come back.

01:02:03.639 --> 01:02:05.380
 And he's in love with her and they're in love with her.

01:02:05.400 --> 01:02:06.900
 And I'm teasing Rachel, my daughter.

01:02:07.259 --> 01:02:09.780
 And I'm singing the song to Rachel as we're doing these things.

01:02:09.840 --> 01:02:10.940
 And she's like, oh, come on.

01:02:10.940 --> 01:02:13.360
 But there's a line in there.

01:02:13.940 --> 01:02:17.240
 As they face each other and make googly eyes.

01:02:19.119 --> 01:02:21.460
 Nothing comes from nothing.

01:02:22.440 --> 01:02:24.619
 Nothing seldom does.

01:02:25.579 --> 01:02:28.360
 Somewhere in my youthful childhood,

01:02:29.079 --> 01:02:33.740
 I must have done something good.

01:02:33.739 --> 01:02:37.619
 And she says that's the reason why she got the captain.

01:02:38.719 --> 01:02:40.019
 Because she did something good.

01:02:41.000 --> 01:02:42.719
 And I kept singing that over and over.

01:02:42.839 --> 01:02:43.399
 And I'm looking at her.

01:02:43.619 --> 01:02:44.500
 That's terrible.

01:02:45.619 --> 01:02:46.879
 I usually do it at a movie theater.

01:02:46.979 --> 01:02:47.779
 And Christina goes, shh.

01:02:49.879 --> 01:02:50.819
 But that's terrible.

01:02:52.699 --> 01:02:54.799
 Because the message of Christmas

01:02:54.800 --> 01:02:59.420
 is that nowhere in our past

01:02:59.420 --> 01:03:02.280
 did we do anything good.

01:03:06.760 --> 01:03:08.420
 But God looked at us.

01:03:09.960 --> 01:03:11.220
 And he loved us.

01:03:12.660 --> 01:03:15.380
 And he sent the most precious thing in his life.

01:03:16.380 --> 01:03:16.700
 Jesus.

01:03:18.840 --> 01:03:20.240
 To come as a man.

01:03:20.660 --> 01:03:22.220
 To live a perfect life.

01:03:22.219 --> 01:03:25.459
 To be an example for us.

01:03:25.539 --> 01:03:26.739
 To die on the cross.

01:03:27.019 --> 01:03:28.619
 To be the perfect sacrifice.

01:03:28.919 --> 01:03:29.799
 So that there no longer had to be

01:03:29.799 --> 01:03:32.519
 270,000 lambs

01:03:32.519 --> 01:03:34.500
 sacrificed on Passover.

01:03:35.480 --> 01:03:36.299
 Just one.

01:03:38.239 --> 01:03:40.199
 So that whoever will believe in him

01:03:40.199 --> 01:03:42.299
 put their faith

01:03:42.299 --> 01:03:44.639
 and trust in him.

01:03:45.599 --> 01:03:47.559
 Turn from their self-righteousness.

01:03:48.519 --> 01:03:49.519
 Their pride.

01:03:49.679 --> 01:03:50.219
 Their arrogance.

01:03:51.319 --> 01:03:51.959
 That whoever

01:03:51.960 --> 01:03:53.099
 would do that

01:03:53.099 --> 01:03:55.519
 would be saved.

01:03:57.039 --> 01:03:58.519
 It has nothing to do

01:03:58.519 --> 01:03:59.420
 with what you've done

01:03:59.420 --> 01:04:01.179
 or didn't do

01:04:01.179 --> 01:04:03.460
 in your youthful childhood.

01:04:04.800 --> 01:04:06.159
 It has all to do

01:04:06.159 --> 01:04:07.720
 about an amazing God

01:04:07.720 --> 01:04:10.139
 and his son Jesus Christ.

01:04:12.260 --> 01:04:13.400
 That's why we're here.

01:04:14.500 --> 01:04:15.880
 That's why this church exists.

01:04:16.760 --> 01:04:17.740
 To point people

01:04:17.740 --> 01:04:18.720
 who don't know him yet

01:04:18.720 --> 01:04:20.840
 to that amazing son.

01:04:20.840 --> 01:04:22.539
 Amen?

01:04:23.980 --> 01:04:24.539
 Let's pray.

01:04:25.820 --> 01:04:27.240
 Father, we thank you for this day.

01:04:27.340 --> 01:04:28.300
 We thank you for these privileges,

01:04:28.539 --> 01:04:29.300
 these opportunities

01:04:29.300 --> 01:04:31.680
 to just walk with you.

01:04:32.820 --> 01:04:34.420
 Lord, I pray for all of us,

01:04:34.460 --> 01:04:35.200
 especially myself,

01:04:35.460 --> 01:04:36.460
 that we would continue

01:04:36.460 --> 01:04:37.420
 to remember the gospel,

01:04:38.220 --> 01:04:39.280
 the message of grace

01:04:39.280 --> 01:04:40.079
 and of mercy,

01:04:40.860 --> 01:04:42.480
 that when we become flustered,

01:04:43.300 --> 01:04:44.460
 when we become distant,

01:04:44.760 --> 01:04:45.920
 when we become arrogant,

01:04:45.920 --> 01:04:48.000
 when we become self-sufficient

01:04:48.000 --> 01:04:48.940
 and self-righteous,

01:04:49.139 --> 01:04:49.260
 Lord,

01:04:49.860 --> 01:04:51.139
 Lord, just show us your son

01:04:51.139 --> 01:04:51.940
 and what he did

01:04:51.940 --> 01:04:53.980
 and to help us to realize

01:04:53.980 --> 01:04:54.920
 that nothing

01:04:54.920 --> 01:04:57.280
 in our youthful childhood

01:04:57.280 --> 01:04:58.059
 or past

01:04:58.059 --> 01:05:00.280
 could compare to him.

01:05:00.280 --> 01:05:02.760
 bring us to you.

01:05:04.840 --> 01:05:05.880
 It's only about your son,

01:05:05.920 --> 01:05:06.600
 Jesus Christ.

01:05:07.880 --> 01:05:09.100
 Lord, we pray as a church

01:05:09.100 --> 01:05:10.360
 as we go on this journey together

01:05:10.360 --> 01:05:11.700
 that we would encourage each other,

01:05:12.080 --> 01:05:13.100
 that we lift up each other,

01:05:13.180 --> 01:05:14.800
 we would point to each other

01:05:14.800 --> 01:05:15.680
 to your grace

01:05:15.680 --> 01:05:16.400
 and your mercy

01:05:16.400 --> 01:05:18.560
 and just your word,

01:05:18.920 --> 01:05:20.140
 and we do it as a community

01:05:20.140 --> 01:05:21.280
 so that people look at us

01:05:21.280 --> 01:05:22.040
 at Cyberport

01:05:22.040 --> 01:05:23.000
 and wherever we go

01:05:23.000 --> 01:05:23.740
 and they say,

01:05:23.840 --> 01:05:25.280
 wow, there is something amazing

01:05:25.820 --> 01:05:27.240
 about those people

01:05:27.239 --> 01:05:29.139
 that even in the midst of darkness,

01:05:29.639 --> 01:05:31.399
 they have hope

01:05:31.399 --> 01:05:33.439
 and they have light.

01:05:34.659 --> 01:05:35.519
 And so we come before you

01:05:35.519 --> 01:05:36.079
 as your people

01:05:36.079 --> 01:05:38.059
 this two days

01:05:38.059 --> 01:05:39.539
 before we celebrate

01:05:39.539 --> 01:05:40.599
 the birth of your son

01:05:40.599 --> 01:05:41.779
 who changes everything

01:05:41.779 --> 01:05:44.459
 and we worship you

01:05:44.459 --> 01:05:46.759
 and we love you

01:05:46.759 --> 01:05:49.279
 and we need you desperately.

01:05:50.279 --> 01:05:51.500
 We pray all these things

01:05:51.500 --> 01:05:52.599
 in Jesus' holy name.

01:05:53.719 --> 01:05:53.979
 Amen.

01:05:54.679 --> 01:05:55.579
 God bless you.

01:05:55.959 --> 01:05:57.019
 We'll see you back here

01:05:57.019 --> 01:05:57.699
 Christmas Day

01:05:57.699 --> 01:05:58.960
 hopefully with some friends

01:05:58.960 --> 01:06:01.159
 and have a great week.