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 Well folks, let me invite you to grab a Bible and come with me to Genesis chapter 27, which

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 is where we're going to be this morning.

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 And the Lord has so much to teach us in this section.

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 Just a heads up, we're going to read it together in about 10 minutes time.

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 I just thought it'd be useful to get a bit of a run up to it so that we kind of know

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 what we're looking out for so that we can see the wood from the trees.

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 So, there were 3,326 of them when I counted them this week.

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 That is episodes of the Jeremy Kyle show, which aired on British telly between 2005 and 2019.

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 Now, Jeremy Kyle was a show, if you don't know, that basically got people on to explore, and

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 you could argue exploit, their mess.

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 Okay, strained relationships, dashed dreams, neighbourhood dramas, and it was watched at

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 its peak by an average of 1 million people, they estimated, in the UK on a daily basis.

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 Now, here's the thing about shows like that.

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 Meet Jesus in the Gospels, and he'll tell you why they will never be short of guests nor material.

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 And encounter him in the Gospels, and he'll tell you why, in all honesty, any of us could

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 be on a show like that, and they would have plenty to talk about.

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 And it's all because of where Jesus says the biggest problem facing human beings is.

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 And it's not primarily the stuff that goes on outside of us.

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 Meet Jesus, and he says that it's the stuff that goes on inside each of our hearts,

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 which runs counter-cultural, doesn't it, in terms of what we are told each day in our

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 world, that the answer is inside of us, and the problems are outside of us.

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 Jesus says, no, no, no, you've got it all wrong.

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 And one of Jesus' most piercing and his sobering of remarks is that it is out of the abundance

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 of the heart that the mouth speaks, and human beings think and act.

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 And that might come at you this morning as a revolutionary idea.

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 And I take it it should, in every single generation and every single culture, that Christ should

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 never fit comfortably into any culture if we've got them right.

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 I think, though, it is one, if we are honest with ourselves in one way or another, we all know

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 this is kind of true.

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 Do you know there's a French philosopher called Émile Calais, I think I've got that right,

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 who was born in 1894, right?

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 This guy grows up with zero interest in the Christian faith.

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 He grows up with absolutely no interest in the notion of God.

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 But it was after spending time sitting in the trenches during World War I, makes him stop

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 and ask some pretty big questions of his atheistic worldview.

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 And I guess that kind of is what happens when you must have seen bullet after bullet and

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 casualty after casualty and friend after friend die.

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 It all made him ask, why, right?

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 Why do human beings do these kind of things to each other?

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 And he gets back to France after the war is finished and he goes searching for answers

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 and he's reading book after book.

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 He's talking to person after person on a quest to find it.

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 And he's got nothing.

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 And then one day a friend hands him a Bible and he opens it and he begins to read it and

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 he says of it, he says, at last, this was a book that would understand me.

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 So what he says is he opens the Bible.

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 It's a book that understands me.

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 In other words, Calais founded the pages of the Bible, a book that explained him, explained the world.

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 I must say it was one of my, my testimony coming to the Christian faith, met Jesus, heard him speak,

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 never heard anything like this before.

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 But the map that he's putting out in front of me seems to be what I'm seeing around me and is definitely what I'm seeing inside of me.

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 Here's a book that explains us.

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 And logically, we'd expect nothing else from the word of our creator.

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 Who made us in his image.

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 Right.

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 We are like if you go to the Louvre, you pick up a copy of the Mona Lisa.

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 Right.

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 We're like walking little copies of the Mona Lisa that people are meant to look at and think, oh, that's great.

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 But I tell you what, it really wants me to get to know the original.

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 OK, that's what we're meant to do.

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 We're meant to image God's greatness to the world.

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 But the problem is by nature, by very nature, we've all turned away from our creators.

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 What sin is.

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 It's our rebellion against and our defiance of our maker and his ways.

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 And if that's what sin is, then what sin has does is it has curved us in on ourselves.

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 And so instead of being that image that glorifies God, what we are about is self-seeking.

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 So our loves are disordered.

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 Our desires are tainted.

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 Our wants are twisted.

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 And here's what I love about Jesus.

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 He doesn't just tell me about my heart problem.

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 Right.

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 We've all got those friends, haven't we, who love to say after the event, I told you that was going to happen.

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 But Jesus does way more than that.

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 He doesn't just tell me I've got a heart problem.

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 He's come to die for my heart problem.

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 And in by doing so, he's come to change and transform my heart and free me and free you from the things that naturally grip and have a stranglehold on our hearts.

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 But talking of heart problems, here's what we're going to read.

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 Come with me to Genesis 27.

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 We'll start at the end of 26 and we'll work all the way through to the beginning of chapter 28.

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 This is where we're going to be.

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 This is what we're going to see today.

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 You might remember a few weeks ago we said that Moses, as he writes this, doesn't want his generation of Israelites who are wandering in the desert, nor does he want any of the readers of this book in the years to come to watch this and look at this like a play or a movie.

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 Remember that?

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 But sitting back, popcorn out, laughing and cringing away, what can only be described as we read it in a minute is absolute car crash telly.

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 No, he wants us to look deep into this like we would a mirror.

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 And he wants us to ask, do you see your heart?

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 Do you see yourself?

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 And I think the big message of this is that the only hope for human beings is not that we'd get our act together and start playing happy families.

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 Because that's never going to happen.

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 No, Moses' point is our only hope is that this God would keep his promises.

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 And he would send the serpent crusher promised in Genesis 3 who would come and who would defeat the devil, who would defeat our sin and our darkness and would free us from these things.

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 That's our only hope, that God is true to his promises.

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 So here's what I want you to do as we read this together.

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 And Sarah and Olivia are going to come up.

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 You guys can come up just now.

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 And they're going to read us this for us in a moment in kind of two sections.

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 Here's what I want you to look for.

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 There's four characters in this section.

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 We've got Isaac.

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 We've got his wife, Rebecca.

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 And then we've got the two boys who are Esau and Jacob.

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 And all make, you've got that phrase in our culture, a pig's ear of things, okay?

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 They get it completely wrong.

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 Here's the challenge.

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 See if you can count and try and name the problems in the hearts that are arising as we read about these people here.

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 Okay, folks, I hope you got that.

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 Imagine this family on Jeremy Cowell.

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 Imagine the viewing figures for this episode.

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 Imagine these four on a psychologist's couch being told to,

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 how are you feeling?

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 What's going on?

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 You would be there for a long, long time.

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 The kind of passage I remember first reading this to myself as a new Christian and thinking,

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 are you seriously telling me that this is in the Bible?

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 And it's times at this that we're reminded that the Bible is not first and foremost a moral guide, right?

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 It's about what God has done to save people from the effects of their sin.

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 What are the problems?

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 Well, here's, let's rattle through them quickly.

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 Isaac.

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 Isaac is so stubborn that he won't obey, right?

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 Verse 1 of chapter 27.

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 Come with me.

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 Let's explore this guy a bit more.

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 Isaac's getting older.

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 And he knows that his days are few.

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 Now, remember that God had said to Rebecca in the context of this story,

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 back at verse 23 of chapter 25,

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 that these two boys in the womb,

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 the older shall serve the younger.

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 Remember that?

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 The blessing was to pass from the,

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 to the youngest son and through his line.

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 But Jacob,

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 verse 28 of chapter 5,

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 he loved Esau.

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 Do you remember that implication?

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 He loved him more than his other son, Jacob.

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 Now, why did he love him more?

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 Well, I think you can read between the lines

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 that Jacob's a hunter.

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 Jacob's got muscles.

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 Jacob's good at catching animals.

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 Jacob's good at cooking.

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 And Isaac loves to eat.

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 Yeah?

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 And that's why he wants one more taste of this stew.

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 And it's unsurprisingly then,

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 when it comes to officially passing the baton of blessing on,

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 that he is backing Esau.

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 He wants this line to continue through Esau.

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 Now, custom in this day was to gather the whole family together for the blessing.

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 And I guess that way you know where everyone stands.

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 Everybody's heard everything.

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 But do you notice in the text how Isaac's gone ahead

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 and he's arranged a private one-to-one?

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 Do you see that?

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 Because he's so determined that Esau's getting this blessing,

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 not Jacob.

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 Now, what's his heart problem?

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 He's just really stubborn.

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 I know what God has said,

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 but I'm going to go with my gut on this one.

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 Subtext, God,

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 I'm pretty sure that I'm smarter than you.

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 I've got to say as we read this,

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 it's a mirror.

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 Do we see that in our own hearts?

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 I know what you've said, Lord,

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 but I'm backing myself to make a good decision here.

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 As Isaac, what about Rebecca?

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 Rebecca is so bitter that she won't trust.

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 So verse five,

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 while this little one-to-one is going on,

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 Rebecca is eavesdropping at the door.

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 Right?

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 I always remember trying that as a kid,

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 that old cup against the wall trick

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 to try and hear what people were saying in the next room.

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 Still to this day,

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 no idea if that works or not.

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 But Rebecca's having a shot.

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 You see it?

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 It's what she's doing.

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 She's paranoid.

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 She's listening.

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 She doesn't trust anyone.

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 And how did she get there

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 is the question I think we're meant to ask.

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 Well, not only has she had years and years

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 of living with Isaac's favoritism of Esau,

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 but she's had years and years

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 of living with the hurt of Esau's flagrant disregard

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 for the things of the Lord.

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 Notice the details we're told in the text.

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 You see it verse 34 of chapter 26.

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 How Esau took Hittite wives.

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 So Esau knows what God has said

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 about how he's to only marry an Israelite gal

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 so that his heart would not go astray.

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 But he thinks I'm wiser

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 and I prefer it my way.

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 And he thinks nothing of it

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 as he goes and marries these people outside of Israel.

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 And these women,

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 what do they make life for Isaac and Rebecca?

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 And I take it they're just flaunting the fact

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 that they've got the heart of his son.

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 They make her,

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 do you see the word?

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 Bitter.

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 So whatever they're doing,

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 they're ripping her apart inside

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 to the point that she says right at the end of verse 46.

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 She says,

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 I loathe my life.

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 And you've got to hear the angst in her voice

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 as she says that.

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 Rebecca's really deeply hurt.

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 And she's carrying wounds around with her.

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 And we've all got hurt wounds in our lives,

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 but I think this is what we need to see

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 from how Rebecca acts here.

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 What the hurt has done

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 as it eats away

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 and burrows itself through her heart

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 is it's birthed in her

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 a deep hardness

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 and a cynicism

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 towards the Lord

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 and his care of her.

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 You know, Alex, my wife,

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 she spends a long time each night

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 brushing our girls' hair.

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 Right?

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 Daddy's been told so often,

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 I don't get to do their hair.

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 Okay?

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 The girls, let me do their hair.

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 Alex is brushing their hair.

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 So the jobs at night are,

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 I do brushing of teeth,

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 Alex does brushing of hair.

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 And every night,

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 let me tell you,

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 she gets the far harder job.

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 Because we sit there

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 and every single brush,

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 you hear it,

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 ow, ow, ow,

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 ow, why are you doing it?

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 Ow, why are you doing it?

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 And the reason that they're ow-ing

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 is because their hair's got so knotted.

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 You kind of brush the knots out

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 and it's sore,

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 but it's just knotted everywhere.

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 And that's Rebecca's heart.

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 It's just knotted.

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 It's callous.

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 Right?

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 She's wearing the religious t-shirt,

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 but deep down she's thinking,

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 I'm wasting my time

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 praying and trusting the Lord.

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 It makes zero difference.

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 Friends, that might be exactly

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 where you are today.

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 She thinks,

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 I'm taking this into my own hands

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 and she comes up with this scheme,

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 channeling her inner Lady Macbeth,

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 Cruella de Vil,

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 mashed into one

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 to outwit her husband.

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 And it centers on,

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 and see her manipulation here,

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 it centers on what she knows

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 is the way to her husband's heart,

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 which is through what?

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 His stomach.

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 And she'll have planned this

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 in her mind for years

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 and years and years.

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 Rehearsing every move,

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 fine-tuning the conversation,

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 playing it out.

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 So when the moment comes,

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 she takes her opportunity.

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 And you've got to say,

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 that's what hurt does

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 so often in our lives.

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 We just rehearse conversations.

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 We play out how we're going

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 to speak back to people.

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 I know what my own life is so true.

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 What is her heart problem?

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 It's bitterness.

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 What about Jacob?

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 Well, he's so weak

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 that he won't challenge.

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 His mum's come up with this plan.

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 And do you notice how he doesn't say,

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 mum, you're a genius.

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 I would never have thought of that myself.

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 Let's go.

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 What does he say?

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 He says, verse 11,

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 mum, this is never going to work.

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 I might bring a curse on myself.

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 He knows that he's in the wrong,

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 but he doesn't have the courage to say,

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 this is not the right thing to do.

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 The ends do not justify the means

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 before the Lord.

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 Knowing what the right thing is to do,

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 but being too cowardly to do it,

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 that is how he has so easily

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 been led astray.

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 And what happens in this guy's life

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 is that lie that he tells

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 because he's been led astray,

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 what happens to it?

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 It spirals and it spirals

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 and it spirals out of control.

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 And he finds himself in a hole

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 that he cannot get himself out of.

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 And it resorts just to bare face lying.

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 Right?

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 And time and time again,

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 like a jet pilot,

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 he could have pressed that ejector seat button

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 and boom, he would have got out of there.

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 But he chooses not to do it.

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 It's so often what we say of politicians,

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 isn't it?

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 Right?

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 Imagine the hypothetical situation.

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 There's a PR manager for the PM

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 who takes a drive

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 to another part of the country

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 to test their eyesight, hypothetically.

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 And when quizzed on it,

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 they just will not say,

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 I got it wrong.

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 I got it wrong.

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 I'm sorry, I made a mistake.

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 And it just gets further

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 and further and further,

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 deep down into the hole.

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 And before you know it,

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 everyone's falling out over this lie

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 that could have been sorted like that.

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 The devil will convince us,

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 dear friends,

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 that it's safer to live in the lie.

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 It is better to be in the darkness.

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 It is safer to live your life in the hole.

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 But the gospel says

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 that while the consequences for that are real,

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 and hear me right on that,

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 true freedom is to be found

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 by coming into the light

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 and saying,

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 God, I've got it wrong.

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 I am coming to you

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 and asking for your wisdom

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 and forgiveness and grace.

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 What is his heart problem?

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 His heart problem is fear.

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 It's fear.

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 I know the right thing to do,

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 but I'm too scared of my mom,

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 too scared of human beings

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 to do the right thing

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 in the sight of the Lord.

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 And what about Esau?

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 Well, he's so angry

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 that he won't change.

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 When he learns he's been double-crossed,

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 this is like the ultimate version

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 of the hustle, right?

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 He cries, verse 36.

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 He cries.

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 He's angry.

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 But I think you read the New Testament

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 and it forces us to see

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 that his tears are crocodile tears,

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 not true repentance before the Lord.

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 Right?

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 He's way more upset

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 that he's been conned

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 than it is that he's sinned

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 against the Lord.

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 And so hear and feel the ice

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 in those three chilling words

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 you get at verse 41.

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 How did he feel towards his brother?

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 He hated Jacob.

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 And there's murder in his heart

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 and there's revenge in his mind.

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 And Rebecca gets Jacob out of there

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 because verse 42, she says,

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 Esau is comforting himself

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 by planning to kill you.

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 Why did she send him away?

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 Verse 45, what's her hope?

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 That buying time

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 will mean that he will do what?

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 He will forget.

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 Forget that he was angry

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 against his brother.

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 We've got that phrase in our culture,

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 don't we, that time is a healer?

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 Friends, if you've ever been wronged,

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 you know that that is not the case.

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 Yes, it's wise not to hit send

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 quickly on an angry email.

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 Don't hear me wrong.

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 Sometimes it is wise to step back

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 and just cool down.

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 But hear me right in saying that

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 amnesia is never the cure to anger.

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 And so do you see yourself

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 in the hearts of these people?

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 Imagine these four on Jeremy Kyle.

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 Imagine these four trying to talk out

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 their problems.

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 Pride, deceit, cowardice, lies, anger, doubt.

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 And what we're going to see

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 in the rest of Genesis

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 is that this stuff,

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 it spreads like wildfire

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 through this family

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 and it causes utter chaos everywhere.

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 This is in the Bible,

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 you better believe that it is.

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 And Moses is saying to this generation

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 who are wandering in the wilderness,

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 our hope is not that we are going to get

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 our hearts act together.

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 Kidding ourselves into thinking,

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 and we do this every single year,

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 don't we,

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 in January the 1st,

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 thinking this year is going to be different.

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 This year I'm going to turn over

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 our new leaf.

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 No, our hope is in the Lord

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 and Him alone being faithful

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 to His promise to save

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 His wayward people.

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 To bless the nation,

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 says Moses,

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 not because of who we are,

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 but despite of who we are,

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 to send someone to both deal with

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 and free us from the sin

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 that ravages our hearts.

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 And here's what I love

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 as you read the prophets

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 in the Old Testament.

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 One of the things that God says

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 He's going to do for His people,

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 the blessings of the new covenant,

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 what Jesus is going to bring in,

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 is He's going to give them,

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 He's going to give them new hearts.

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 Hearts that long not to live for themselves.

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 Hearts that long to lovingly obey Him

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 and worship Him.

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 And that's what Jesus is.

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 And that's what Jesus does.

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 He comes from this line

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 into this mess

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 and He sets His face like flint

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 to go to the cross

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 for all the dross,

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 for all the ugliness

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 that centers in my heart

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 and in my life.

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 He dies for it.

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 That sin that I should have been paying for

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 before a holy God,

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 Jesus pays His penalty on my behalf

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 and your behalf.

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 And in so doing,

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 He breaks,

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 and if you picked this up

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 in the first song that we sang,

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 He breaks the power of sin

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 and darkness.

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 He wrestles control

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 from sin that it had on my life.

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 He wrestles control

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 and He says,

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 you are mine.

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 I set you free to live and worship me.

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 And here's what I mean by that.

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 He changes us.

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 He's in the business

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 by His Spirit living in us

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 of transforming our hearts

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 to be more like His.

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 It's what they often say,

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 isn't it,

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 that happens when mothers,

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 they hold their infants

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 close to their chest.

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 The baby's heartbeat

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 begins to match

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 the pace of mums.

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 I always love that scene in Narnia.

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 Maybe you can think of it

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 this way as well.

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 The place in Narnia.

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 I love C.S. Lewis.

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 You might have picked that up

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 over the years.

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 Lewis writes to the Narnia,

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 it's always winter

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 but never Christmas.

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 But when Aslan comes on the scene,

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 things begin to melt.

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 And it's the warmth of his breath

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 as he goes around the statues,

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 it's the warmth of his breath

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 that begins to free

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 and bring statues to life.

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 What is the cure for people like Isaac

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 with hearts who are just full of pride

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 is knowing the forgiveness

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 and the changing power

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 of the effect of the humility of Jesus.

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 What's the cure for deeply hurt hearts

00:23:43.759 --> 00:23:44.900
 like Rebekah's?

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 It's knowing the peace of Jesus

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 that transcends all understanding.

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 What's the cure for people

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 who are weak like Isaac

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 is the truth of Jesus.

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 What is the cure for hearts

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 that are brimming with anger

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 like Esau's?

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 It's the forgiveness

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 and the melting grace of Jesus.

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 And on that one,

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 let me just do some pastoral

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 and apologetic work

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 on this whole issue of forgiveness

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 because I understand

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 that it's really hard

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 for many of us.

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 I say as Christians,

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 we want to really care about justice.

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 I think we're called to do that

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 as we read the Bible

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 to really care about justice.

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 But all wrongs being put to right.

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 We really care about justice.

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 But we should also really care

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 about forgiveness.

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 These should be like two train tracks

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 running right next to each other

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 in our lives.

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 Our culture says it's one or the other.

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 Pick which one you're going for.

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 But the Christian says

00:24:47.599 --> 00:24:49.599
 we want to and we can do both.

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 Is forgiveness just brushing things

00:24:53.179 --> 00:24:54.039
 under the carpet?

00:24:54.179 --> 00:24:56.099
 Does it ignore the wrongdoing?

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 Can I suggest that it doesn't?

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 Forgiveness doesn't undermine it.

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 No, it underlines it.

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 The cross of Jesus says to you

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 that what happened to you

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 is not trivial.

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 That it was so serious, in fact,

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 that it required the suffering

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 and death of the Son of God

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 to pay for it.

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 It really matters.

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 But we should look at Jesus

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 on the cross

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 and we should almost hear him say,

00:25:24.980 --> 00:25:26.700
 I know what it is to be wronged.

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 I know what it is to have people

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 who were closest to me betray me.

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 I know what it is to have family

00:25:32.559 --> 00:25:34.059
 think I'm crazy.

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 And it's only because of our belief

00:25:38.859 --> 00:25:40.839
 in the eternal justice of God

00:25:40.839 --> 00:25:44.019
 that one day we can know for certain

00:25:44.019 --> 00:25:45.220
 that he will come back

00:25:45.220 --> 00:25:47.700
 in the person of Jesus

00:25:47.700 --> 00:25:49.759
 and he will have all wrongs righted.

00:25:49.840 --> 00:25:51.240
 And that's why we can

00:25:51.240 --> 00:25:53.019
 leave it with him.

00:25:55.340 --> 00:25:57.039
 And it's only the grace of Jesus

00:25:57.039 --> 00:25:59.019
 that says it may be a very long

00:25:59.019 --> 00:26:01.240
 and it may be a very painful road.

00:26:02.299 --> 00:26:03.920
 But today can be the day

00:26:03.920 --> 00:26:04.940
 as we look to him

00:26:04.940 --> 00:26:06.759
 that we turn

00:26:06.759 --> 00:26:09.279
 and we say,

00:26:09.359 --> 00:26:10.440
 I do not want my life

00:26:10.440 --> 00:26:11.900
 to be dominated by anger

00:26:11.900 --> 00:26:12.460
 and bitterness

00:26:12.460 --> 00:26:13.420
 and hate.

00:26:15.500 --> 00:26:16.000
 Dear friends,

00:26:16.039 --> 00:26:16.859
 that may be exactly

00:26:16.859 --> 00:26:17.599
 what you need to do

00:26:17.599 --> 00:26:19.019
 off the back of this sermon today.

00:26:19.920 --> 00:26:21.240
 To come to Jesus

00:26:21.240 --> 00:26:22.039
 and say,

00:26:22.299 --> 00:26:23.220
 Lord Jesus,

00:26:23.599 --> 00:26:24.879
 help me with this.

00:26:26.460 --> 00:26:27.440
 So much of my thinking

00:26:27.440 --> 00:26:28.339
 on this has been shaped

00:26:28.339 --> 00:26:29.079
 by two people.

00:26:29.240 --> 00:26:29.599
 Firstly,

00:26:29.720 --> 00:26:30.460
 by Tim Keller.

00:26:31.460 --> 00:26:32.279
 He's got a great book

00:26:32.279 --> 00:26:32.759
 that he released

00:26:32.759 --> 00:26:33.379
 before he died

00:26:33.379 --> 00:26:34.180
 called Forgiveness.

00:26:34.180 --> 00:26:35.880
 I lent my copy away to someone

00:26:35.880 --> 00:26:36.779
 so I can't get it to you.

00:26:36.820 --> 00:26:37.320
 I don't know what it is,

00:26:37.440 --> 00:26:39.400
 but wonderful book

00:26:39.400 --> 00:26:40.840
 thinking about this whole topic.

00:26:41.400 --> 00:26:42.200
 And another lady

00:26:42.200 --> 00:26:43.980
 is called Amy Orr Ewing.

00:26:44.460 --> 00:26:45.500
 She gave an address

00:26:45.500 --> 00:26:46.960
 at the National Parliamentary

00:26:46.960 --> 00:26:47.620
 Prayer Breakfast

00:26:47.620 --> 00:26:48.820
 this week down in London.

00:26:49.880 --> 00:26:50.620
 In the audience

00:26:50.620 --> 00:26:51.740
 was a complete mixture

00:26:51.740 --> 00:26:52.900
 of church leaders,

00:26:53.120 --> 00:26:54.240
 parliamentary leaders,

00:26:54.240 --> 00:26:54.980
 and she's speaking

00:26:54.980 --> 00:26:55.920
 about this whole issue

00:26:55.920 --> 00:26:56.519
 of forgiveness.

00:26:57.680 --> 00:26:58.620
 And she said this,

00:26:58.640 --> 00:26:59.259
 and I think she is

00:26:59.259 --> 00:27:00.180
 bang on the money.

00:27:00.340 --> 00:27:01.039
 She said,

00:27:01.039 --> 00:27:03.639
 I believe the power

00:27:03.639 --> 00:27:04.500
 to forgive

00:27:04.500 --> 00:27:06.899
 and receive forgiveness

00:27:06.899 --> 00:27:08.700
 may just be

00:27:08.700 --> 00:27:10.099
 the greatest power

00:27:10.099 --> 00:27:12.099
 the Christian story

00:27:12.099 --> 00:27:13.599
 can offer

00:27:13.599 --> 00:27:15.039
 our age.

00:27:16.119 --> 00:27:16.920
 And into a world

00:27:16.920 --> 00:27:17.619
 that seems to be

00:27:17.619 --> 00:27:18.980
 increasingly divided

00:27:18.980 --> 00:27:20.980
 and just becoming

00:27:20.980 --> 00:27:22.159
 more increasingly

00:27:22.159 --> 00:27:23.079
 polar opposite

00:27:23.079 --> 00:27:23.659
 on things

00:27:23.659 --> 00:27:25.220
 and just throwing rocks

00:27:25.220 --> 00:27:26.159
 at each other

00:27:26.159 --> 00:27:27.420
 rather than lovingly

00:27:27.420 --> 00:27:28.000
 dialoguing

00:27:28.000 --> 00:27:28.619
 with each other.

00:27:29.000 --> 00:27:29.619
 Do you see how we've got

00:27:29.619 --> 00:27:30.940
 a wonderful opportunity here

00:27:30.940 --> 00:27:32.019
 as the church of Jesus

00:27:32.019 --> 00:27:33.580
 to demonstrate

00:27:33.580 --> 00:27:34.259
 the difference

00:27:34.259 --> 00:27:34.779
 that he makes

00:27:34.779 --> 00:27:35.440
 in our lives?

00:27:37.380 --> 00:27:38.140
 I always love it

00:27:38.140 --> 00:27:38.700
 and you can have this

00:27:38.700 --> 00:27:39.200
 for free.

00:27:40.460 --> 00:27:41.460
 I was thinking this week,

00:27:41.640 --> 00:27:42.019
 we get,

00:27:42.640 --> 00:27:43.380
 as Jesus works

00:27:43.380 --> 00:27:44.019
 in our lives,

00:27:44.700 --> 00:27:45.600
 I love how Paul

00:27:45.600 --> 00:27:47.059
 in Galatians chapter 5,

00:27:47.320 --> 00:27:48.360
 just to stretch you a bit,

00:27:48.900 --> 00:27:50.019
 he contrasts

00:27:50.019 --> 00:27:51.440
 the works of the flesh

00:27:51.440 --> 00:27:52.880
 with the fruit

00:27:52.880 --> 00:27:53.519
 of the Spirit.

00:27:54.400 --> 00:27:55.200
 Right at the end

00:27:55.200 --> 00:27:56.480
 of chapter 5.

00:27:57.059 --> 00:27:57.680
 And my attention

00:27:57.680 --> 00:27:58.660
 had always gone to

00:27:58.660 --> 00:27:59.920
 the flesh and the Spirit,

00:27:59.920 --> 00:28:01.900
 but actually

00:28:01.900 --> 00:28:02.800
 I was encouraged

00:28:02.800 --> 00:28:03.140
 this week

00:28:03.140 --> 00:28:03.620
 to think about

00:28:03.620 --> 00:28:04.519
 the adjectives,

00:28:05.360 --> 00:28:05.539
 right?

00:28:05.720 --> 00:28:06.240
 The works

00:28:06.240 --> 00:28:06.840
 and the fruit.

00:28:06.920 --> 00:28:07.380
 Have you ever wondered

00:28:07.380 --> 00:28:08.160
 why he doesn't call them

00:28:08.160 --> 00:28:08.980
 the works of the flesh

00:28:08.980 --> 00:28:09.940
 and the work of the Spirit?

00:28:10.060 --> 00:28:10.460
 He says,

00:28:10.820 --> 00:28:11.660
 the works of the flesh

00:28:11.660 --> 00:28:12.800
 and the fruit of the Spirit.

00:28:13.080 --> 00:28:13.539
 In other words,

00:28:13.620 --> 00:28:15.160
 the works of the flesh,

00:28:15.380 --> 00:28:16.279
 these things,

00:28:16.519 --> 00:28:17.140
 are the things

00:28:17.140 --> 00:28:18.160
 that we just work out,

00:28:18.440 --> 00:28:19.640
 just come naturally to us

00:28:19.640 --> 00:28:21.240
 and what comes out of us,

00:28:21.500 --> 00:28:22.340
 that's works.

00:28:22.800 --> 00:28:23.480
 But fruit

00:28:23.480 --> 00:28:25.240
 is something

00:28:25.240 --> 00:28:25.860
 that grows

00:28:25.860 --> 00:28:26.600
 and comes

00:28:26.600 --> 00:28:27.560
 out of us

00:28:27.560 --> 00:28:28.620
 as Jesus changes us

00:28:28.619 --> 00:28:29.359
 by his Spirit.

00:28:30.359 --> 00:28:31.479
 Because all glory

00:28:31.479 --> 00:28:32.159
 goes to him

00:28:32.159 --> 00:28:33.000
 and you start reading

00:28:33.000 --> 00:28:33.439
 those words

00:28:33.439 --> 00:28:34.939
 in Galatians chapter 5,

00:28:35.319 --> 00:28:36.219
 the fruit of the Spirit

00:28:36.219 --> 00:28:37.459
 is love

00:28:37.459 --> 00:28:38.479
 and it's joy

00:28:38.479 --> 00:28:39.539
 and it's peace

00:28:39.539 --> 00:28:40.579
 and it's patience

00:28:40.579 --> 00:28:41.519
 and it's kindness

00:28:41.519 --> 00:28:43.339
 and it's gentleness

00:28:43.339 --> 00:28:45.019
 and it's self-control.

00:28:45.139 --> 00:28:46.000
 And you read those words

00:28:46.000 --> 00:28:46.419
 and you think,

00:28:46.599 --> 00:28:47.979
 I want them in my life.

00:28:49.239 --> 00:28:50.399
 And the only way

00:28:50.399 --> 00:28:51.459
 that it can happen

00:28:51.459 --> 00:28:53.639
 is if the Spirit of God

00:28:53.639 --> 00:28:54.779
 works in us

00:28:54.779 --> 00:28:55.859
 and we produce

00:28:55.859 --> 00:28:56.439
 the fruit

00:28:56.439 --> 00:28:57.639
 to Jesus' glory,

00:28:58.639 --> 00:29:01.119
 that he would come in

00:29:01.119 --> 00:29:02.079
 and he would change my heart

00:29:02.079 --> 00:29:02.959
 because I see this stuff

00:29:02.959 --> 00:29:03.799
 all over my heart

00:29:03.799 --> 00:29:04.619
 all the time

00:29:04.619 --> 00:29:05.439
 and I hate it.

00:29:06.219 --> 00:29:06.919
 And I take it

00:29:06.919 --> 00:29:07.639
 the very fact

00:29:07.639 --> 00:29:08.319
 that you see it

00:29:08.319 --> 00:29:08.859
 in your life

00:29:08.859 --> 00:29:09.719
 and you hate it

00:29:09.719 --> 00:29:10.299
 is a sign

00:29:10.299 --> 00:29:10.879
 of the Spirit

00:29:10.879 --> 00:29:11.879
 working in you.

00:29:15.019 --> 00:29:16.279
 Now just as we close

00:29:16.279 --> 00:29:16.559
 and

00:29:16.559 --> 00:29:18.899
 can I just tell you

00:29:18.899 --> 00:29:19.879
 about what I've been

00:29:19.879 --> 00:29:20.979
 really struggling with

00:29:20.979 --> 00:29:21.399
 in June?

00:29:21.400 --> 00:29:24.780
 And lots of you

00:29:24.780 --> 00:29:25.500
 will be in the trenches

00:29:25.500 --> 00:29:26.640
 with me here

00:29:26.640 --> 00:29:28.120
 as we bring Lys to a close.

00:29:28.620 --> 00:29:30.080
 I have been struggling

00:29:30.080 --> 00:29:30.860
 so much

00:29:30.860 --> 00:29:31.660
 with my hay fever.

00:29:32.920 --> 00:29:33.940
 Anyone else struggling

00:29:33.940 --> 00:29:34.660
 with their hay fever

00:29:34.660 --> 00:29:35.080
 in June?

00:29:36.800 --> 00:29:37.240
 Right?

00:29:37.340 --> 00:29:37.980
 I feel like I'm

00:29:37.980 --> 00:29:38.600
 every night

00:29:38.600 --> 00:29:39.100
 I'm hunting

00:29:39.100 --> 00:29:40.519
 for an antihistamine tablet.

00:29:40.680 --> 00:29:41.100
 I feel like

00:29:41.100 --> 00:29:42.120
 the Met Office website

00:29:42.120 --> 00:29:43.340
 is now in my bookmarks

00:29:43.340 --> 00:29:44.120
 on my phone.

00:29:44.600 --> 00:29:45.360
 My nose

00:29:45.360 --> 00:29:46.640
 was like a tap

00:29:46.640 --> 00:29:47.220
 in June.

00:29:47.640 --> 00:29:48.660
 Felt like I was Rudolph

00:29:48.660 --> 00:29:49.720
 walking about everywhere

00:29:49.720 --> 00:29:50.640
 with a red nose.

00:29:51.400 --> 00:29:53.540
 But the question is

00:29:53.540 --> 00:29:54.100
 why?

00:29:54.880 --> 00:29:56.040
 Why was that

00:29:56.040 --> 00:29:57.000
 happening in June?

00:29:57.340 --> 00:29:57.460
 Right?

00:29:57.640 --> 00:29:58.860
 And the answer is

00:29:58.860 --> 00:29:59.900
 really simply

00:29:59.900 --> 00:30:00.500
 I think

00:30:00.500 --> 00:30:02.320
 that the sun

00:30:02.320 --> 00:30:02.840
 was out.

00:30:04.220 --> 00:30:05.200
 And because the sun

00:30:05.200 --> 00:30:05.740
 was out

00:30:05.740 --> 00:30:07.660
 the flowers

00:30:07.660 --> 00:30:08.620
 began to open.

00:30:08.800 --> 00:30:08.900
 Yeah?

00:30:10.019 --> 00:30:10.960
 And because the flowers

00:30:10.960 --> 00:30:11.700
 began to open

00:30:11.700 --> 00:30:13.320
 pollen began to spread

00:30:13.320 --> 00:30:14.340
 everywhere.

00:30:15.259 --> 00:30:16.420
 And it only happened

00:30:16.420 --> 00:30:17.720
 because the sun

00:30:17.720 --> 00:30:18.160
 was out.

00:30:18.280 --> 00:30:18.400
 Now

00:30:18.400 --> 00:30:19.720
 think about

00:30:19.720 --> 00:30:20.880
 Genesis 27

00:30:20.880 --> 00:30:21.420
 the verses

00:30:21.420 --> 00:30:21.940
 that we've taken

00:30:21.940 --> 00:30:22.440
 in today.

00:30:22.640 --> 00:30:23.660
 Here is the response

00:30:23.660 --> 00:30:24.260
 I think we need

00:30:24.260 --> 00:30:24.900
 to make to this

00:30:24.900 --> 00:30:25.260
 today.

00:30:26.560 --> 00:30:27.360
 Keep that image

00:30:27.360 --> 00:30:27.880
 in your head.

00:30:28.060 --> 00:30:29.260
 Sun hits the flowers

00:30:29.260 --> 00:30:30.380
 flowers open.

00:30:32.160 --> 00:30:33.180
 The only thing

00:30:33.180 --> 00:30:33.920
 that's going to birth

00:30:33.920 --> 00:30:34.680
 this kind of stuff

00:30:34.680 --> 00:30:35.280
 in our lives

00:30:35.280 --> 00:30:35.700
 that's going to

00:30:35.700 --> 00:30:36.880
 help us change

00:30:36.880 --> 00:30:39.660
 is us

00:30:39.660 --> 00:30:40.260
 like the flower

00:30:40.260 --> 00:30:41.380
 looking at the sun

00:30:41.380 --> 00:30:44.560
 and allowing the sun

00:30:44.560 --> 00:30:45.420
 to open us.

00:30:46.740 --> 00:30:47.540
 That's what the Bible

00:30:47.540 --> 00:30:48.540
 means when it says

00:30:48.539 --> 00:30:49.899
 behold the sun

00:30:49.899 --> 00:30:51.339
 behold the glory

00:30:51.339 --> 00:30:51.920
 of God

00:30:51.920 --> 00:30:52.639
 in other words

00:30:52.639 --> 00:30:53.740
 look at him

00:30:53.740 --> 00:30:55.379
 and as you take him

00:30:55.379 --> 00:30:56.420
 in allow him

00:30:56.420 --> 00:30:57.639
 to transform you

00:30:57.639 --> 00:30:59.619
 into his likeness.

00:30:59.720 --> 00:31:00.339
 And so that's what

00:31:00.339 --> 00:31:00.899
 we need to do

00:31:00.899 --> 00:31:01.359
 off the back

00:31:01.359 --> 00:31:02.039
 of this today.

00:31:02.740 --> 00:31:03.819
 Not try harder.

00:31:05.000 --> 00:31:05.139
 Right?

00:31:05.180 --> 00:31:05.680
 Not come up with

00:31:05.680 --> 00:31:06.440
 a swear jar

00:31:06.440 --> 00:31:07.079
 so that every time

00:31:07.079 --> 00:31:07.559
 we get something

00:31:07.559 --> 00:31:08.139
 wrong we chuck

00:31:08.139 --> 00:31:08.339
 something.

00:31:08.460 --> 00:31:08.819
 No, no, no.

00:31:09.079 --> 00:31:10.240
 The application of this

00:31:10.240 --> 00:31:11.399
 is to look to the sun

00:31:11.399 --> 00:31:12.099
 and to live.

00:31:14.200 --> 00:31:14.960
 In case you're wondering

00:31:14.960 --> 00:31:15.559
 where I've got that

00:31:15.559 --> 00:31:16.119
 imagery from

00:31:16.119 --> 00:31:16.599
 I've nicked it

00:31:16.599 --> 00:31:17.079
 from one of the

00:31:17.079 --> 00:31:18.399
 greatest Christian hymns

00:31:18.399 --> 00:31:19.220
 down the ages.

00:31:20.799 --> 00:31:21.619
 It goes like this

00:31:21.619 --> 00:31:22.639
 joyful, joyful

00:31:22.639 --> 00:31:23.779
 we adore you

00:31:23.779 --> 00:31:25.460
 God of glory

00:31:25.460 --> 00:31:26.599
 Lord of love

00:31:26.599 --> 00:31:28.299
 hearts unfold

00:31:28.299 --> 00:31:29.339
 like flowers

00:31:29.339 --> 00:31:30.159
 before you

00:31:30.159 --> 00:31:31.359
 opening to

00:31:31.359 --> 00:31:32.240
 the sun above

00:31:32.240 --> 00:31:33.980
 melt the clouds

00:31:33.980 --> 00:31:34.519
 of sin

00:31:34.519 --> 00:31:35.200
 and sadness

00:31:35.200 --> 00:31:36.740
 drive the dark

00:31:36.740 --> 00:31:37.720
 of doubt away

00:31:37.720 --> 00:31:39.039
 giver of

00:31:39.039 --> 00:31:40.579
 immortal gladness

00:31:40.579 --> 00:31:42.240
 fill us

00:31:42.240 --> 00:31:42.839
 with the light

00:31:42.839 --> 00:31:43.220
 of day

00:31:43.220 --> 00:31:43.799
 they don't like

00:31:43.799 --> 00:31:44.799
 writing like the old ones

00:31:44.799 --> 00:31:45.379
 now do they?

00:31:45.559 --> 00:31:46.819
 How incredible is that?

00:31:47.879 --> 00:31:48.980
 Fill us with the light

00:31:48.980 --> 00:31:49.440
 of day

00:31:49.440 --> 00:31:51.539
 that's what we need

00:31:51.539 --> 00:31:52.279
 to do in response

00:31:52.279 --> 00:31:52.779
 to this.

00:31:53.899 --> 00:31:54.779
 We're going to pray

00:31:54.779 --> 00:31:55.980
 and then we're going

00:31:55.980 --> 00:31:56.460
 to spend a little

00:31:56.460 --> 00:31:57.419
 time taking communion

00:31:57.419 --> 00:31:57.899
 together

00:31:57.899 --> 00:31:59.839
 to allow us a bit

00:31:59.839 --> 00:32:00.819
 more time to think

00:32:00.819 --> 00:32:01.700
 about the gospel

00:32:01.700 --> 00:32:02.680
 today

00:32:02.680 --> 00:32:03.659
 and listen

00:32:03.659 --> 00:32:04.299
 if you want to pray

00:32:04.299 --> 00:32:04.859
 about anything

00:32:04.859 --> 00:32:05.519
 that we've talked

00:32:05.519 --> 00:32:06.019
 about there

00:32:06.019 --> 00:32:06.599
 because I realise

00:32:06.599 --> 00:32:08.119
 we covered a lot

00:32:08.119 --> 00:32:08.599
 of ground

00:32:08.599 --> 00:32:10.879
 and I take it

00:32:10.879 --> 00:32:11.480
 one of the reasons

00:32:11.480 --> 00:32:12.519
 that this is here

00:32:12.519 --> 00:32:13.419
 is to say

00:32:13.420 --> 00:32:14.539
 it's okay

00:32:14.539 --> 00:32:15.640
 to come to me

00:32:15.640 --> 00:32:17.320
 as in God

00:32:17.320 --> 00:32:18.519
 with your mess

00:32:18.519 --> 00:32:20.340
 and I care enough

00:32:20.340 --> 00:32:21.200
 this is real life

00:32:21.200 --> 00:32:22.519
 to transform you

00:32:22.519 --> 00:32:23.220
 we'd love to

00:32:23.220 --> 00:32:24.180
 as an elders team

00:32:24.180 --> 00:32:24.539
 or anyone

00:32:24.539 --> 00:32:25.039
 that you've seen

00:32:25.039 --> 00:32:25.560
 here today

00:32:25.560 --> 00:32:26.680
 we'd love to pray

00:32:26.680 --> 00:32:27.220
 and think about

00:32:27.220 --> 00:32:28.160
 that more with you

00:32:28.160 --> 00:32:29.440
 so please do grab us

00:32:29.440 --> 00:32:30.180
 after the service

00:32:30.180 --> 00:32:30.840
 and we'll make that

00:32:30.840 --> 00:32:31.200
 happen

00:32:31.200 --> 00:32:31.820
 but let's pray

00:32:31.820 --> 00:32:32.180
 will we?

00:32:33.740 --> 00:32:34.720
 Father we thank you

00:32:34.720 --> 00:32:35.779
 so much for this

00:32:35.779 --> 00:32:36.140
 morning

00:32:36.140 --> 00:32:36.759
 we thank you

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 for your word

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 Father thank you

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 that you love us

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 and Father thank you

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 for your commitment

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 to us

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 your people

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 in the person

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 of Jesus

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 and so Father

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 we look to him

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 today

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 our all conquering

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 champion

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 we look to him

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 today as the one

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 who has paid

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 the penalty

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 of our sin

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 on the cross

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 as we're going to

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 remember in just a moment

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 and we look to him

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 as the one

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 who is able

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 to transform

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 our hearts

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 that we would

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 bear more

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 of his image

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 in our lives

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 and so Father

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 by your spirit

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 be moving amongst us

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 this morning

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 be convicting

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 be challenging

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 be comforting

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 as we pray

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 for the glory

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 of Jesus

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 in our lives

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 and in this city

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 we pray

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 in his precious name

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 Amen