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 Good morning again.

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 I need to grow a little.

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 My name's Chris.

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 It's just a great...

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 This is one of the great days in the life of the church.

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 We've got five people getting baptized later on.

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 Please just stay around.

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 There's going to be food.

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 It's going to be an amazing time together.

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 The sun is kind of trying to come out as well.

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 So I'm hoping the water's not going to be cold.

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 But it's a great thing because as a church, we are not just about being religious.

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 We're not just about having a meeting.

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 We're a community, a broken community, but we're going on a journey together.

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 And wherever you are on that journey, you're just welcome to come and be involved

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 and to share, talk with each other afterwards, share food together, get to know each other,

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 and enjoy being part of the community today.

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 When you're a kid, I don't know if you had a dream.

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 Some of you did.

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 When I was a kid, I had two dreams.

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 They kind of followed after each other.

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 My first dream was I wanted to play cricket for England.

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 Okay?

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 My second dream, which kind of came afterwards because I realized that wasn't going to happen,

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 was I wanted to be a professional rock guitarist.

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 And that didn't happen either.

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 And, you know, but I think if I look through what I was wanting and dreaming about when I was young,

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 I had this deep longing to do something significant in my life.

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 Right?

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 We all want to do something significant.

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 And I think most of us are the same.

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 Right?

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 We all want to live a life which counts for something.

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 I have met people who have said, when I was young, I had no dream.

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 I just had homework.

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 But that's sad.

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 Right?

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 We want to have a dream of something that our lives want to count for something.

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 None of us want to get to the end of our lives.

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 And as one of my students that I had, a 70-year-old guy once said, he said,

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 I've wasted my life.

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 And that's really sad.

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 None of us want to say that.

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 And so we've been looking at a series on faith and work because, frankly,

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 most of our lives are spent working.

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 Like, particularly here in Hong Kong, we work the longest hours of any city in the world.

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 Right?

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 It doesn't matter whether you're a student, whether you're a professional.

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 You know, from the age of three, you already need a CV to get into kindergarten.

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 Right?

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 So we're all working all the time.

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 And if we don't want to see on our tombstone the words wasted, we've got to work out,

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 we've got to have a bigger vision for our work, which consumes so much of our life,

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 than simply getting money or status.

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 Because all research shows that, actually, the only work that is meaningful is one which

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 has a higher purpose behind it.

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 And that's what we've been talking about.

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 We've been talking about how our faith combines with our work.

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 Now, the thing is, whether you're a Christian or not, everybody takes their faith to work.

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 Did you know that?

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 If your faith is money, if your faith is in yourself, if your faith is in your reputation,

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 that's what your work will be about.

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 Yourself, your money, reputation.

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 If you're a Christian, your faith is meant to be about the worship of God.

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 And that's also what your work is meant to be about.

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 And the calling that we have, and we've talked over the last couple of weeks, is how the

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 worship of God is to be our goal, our motivation, which then leads us into serving other people

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 in our work through taking pride in the way we do our work, and also serving, seeing the

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 people beyond the tasks in our work.

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 You know, work is a bit like the MasterChef kitchen, we said, where God gives you the ingredients

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 and says, okay, now make something beautiful out of that this week.

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 That's what work is meant to be like.

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 So work is good.

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 Work reflects a God who works.

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 So therefore, Monday morning should be your favorite time of the week.

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 Right?

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 It is for me because it's my day off.

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 And maybe for some of you because it's like, give me a break from the kids.

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 But why is it that there's, why did you laugh?

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 Why do we laugh?

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 Because there's a gap between what work is supposed to be and our kind of everyday experience of

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 it, right?

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 There is this gap.

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 And today we're going to kind of talk, we're going to get real and talk about the frustration

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 of work.

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 Okay?

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 The frustration of work.

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 And if you're like, I love my work.

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 Great.

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 Listen in.

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 But at some point, all of our aspirations in work will experience frustration.

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 I, even in preparing this talk, experienced the frustration of work.

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 So let's kind of have a look at it.

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 Remember we said work is anything that's not leisure.

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 Okay?

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 Anything that's not leisure.

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 So we're going to look in just a couple of parts.

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 We're going to look at what's wrong with work.

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 Okay?

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 And then finding hope for work.

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 What's wrong with work?

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 And finding hope for work.

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 Okay?

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 So have a look in your bulletin.

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 There's just a couple of passages there.

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 We'll kind of, we'll flick through a little bit those two passages.

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 So what's wrong with work?

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 Genesis 3.

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 God makes this incredible, beautiful garden.

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 And he tells humans to go and create, like to have fun and create culture out of this garden.

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 Create society.

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 And he said, everything in this garden is on the menu except one tree.

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 Okay?

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 You can eat from anything.

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 But don't eat from that one tree.

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 Because I want you to listen to my voice.

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 I want you to trust me.

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 Don't eat that one.

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 Everything else is yours.

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 There came another voice which said, God doesn't want your best.

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 He's lying to you.

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 You know, you could have a better way, a better life if you do things your way.

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 Live your way.

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 And so Adam and Eve listen to that voice.

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 They choose to listen to the voice of Satan, eat from the forbidden tree, and it rips apart

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 their relationship with God.

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 It rips apart their relationships with each other and their relationships with the creation

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 around them.

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 You know, J.R. Tolkien, who wrote The Lord of the Rings, after writing it, he wrote another

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 book which is called The Cimmerillion.

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 It kind of has some of the background to The Lord of the Rings.

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 I don't know if anyone's read it.

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 But he tells of, in this story, he tells of this place called Villanore, which is this

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 kind of beautiful paradise.

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 And then Sauron, who if you know, he's the bad guy, okay, Sauron tries to win over all

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 the elves to himself.

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 And he says this.

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 He says,

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 The elves listened to Sauron.

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 He was still fair in that time, and his motives and those of the elves seemed to go together.

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 The healing of the desolate lands.

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 They all wanted a great life.

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 Sauron found their weak point in suggesting that helping one another, they could make western

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 Middle-earth as beautiful as Valinor.

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 It was really a veiled attack on the gods.

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 An incitement to try and make a separate, independent paradise.

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 What he's saying is this.

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 He's saying, what happened in the garden was just like that.

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 Sin is basically trying to set up a rival kingdom to God and saying, hey, we as humans,

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 we can rely on ourselves to make the perfect world for ourselves, and we don't need God

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 to help us with that.

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 Thank you very much.

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 You see, we want a kind of little vision of heaven on earth.

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 And that's kind of what sin, the Bible calls sin, is.

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 We set ourselves up as God, and God can kind of be on the side.

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 How do we do this?

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 Well, I mean, there's an atheist writer called Alan de Botton.

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 He wrote a book, a very interesting book, called Religion for Atheists.

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 And in it, he says this.

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 He says,

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 It's the secular whose longing for perfection has grown so intense as to lead them to imagine

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 that paradise might be realized on this earth after just a few more years of financial growth

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 and medical research.

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 We sincerely trust that the combined powers of the IMF, the medical research establishment,

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 Silicon Valley, and democratic politics could together cure all the problems of mankind.

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 We want to make kind of heaven on earth.

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 And though we might not just kind of have those big visions,

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 we all have our own little world that we want to have, don't we?

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 You know, a way that we think life should be and how we can make a difference.

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 You know, if you're young, you may think you can change the world.

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 If you're a little more seasoned, you may be a little bit more cynical, okay?

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 And you may be just thinking about, okay, I just want to create my world for my kids

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 and make my life a little bit happier and my family.

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 Some of us are so lost in the busyness of life that the world that we're trying to create

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 is like, I just hope I meet that deadline.

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 I just hope my test results are good.

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 I just hope I get to level three in that game.

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 And that's our world, the perfect world that we're trying to create.

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 But there's a problem.

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 There's a problem.

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 And you run into it in verse 17 in the passage.

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 It says this.

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 To Adam, he said,

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 What's he saying?

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 He's saying,

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 Work was good, but now the ground is cursed.

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 Work is cursed.

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 Work is good.

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 It's not a curse, but it's a curse.

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 It's painful.

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 It's hard.

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 It's difficult.

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 You know what I mean?

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 You know, there are thorns and thistles now in work.

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 What once was perfect gardening, pure joy, now is kind of a mix of pleasure and frustration.

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 This world can never fully be the paradise that we want it to be.

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 If you don't believe me, just look in your workplace.

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 Right?

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 When I was growing up, I experienced some of these thorns and thistles.

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 Because Romans 8 verse 17 says,

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 Creation was subjected to frustration.

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 Another translation says futility.

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 Work can sometimes feel pointless.

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 Because growing up, I used to have a garden.

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 We used to grow vegetables in our garden.

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 And my job was to weed the garden.

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 Okay?

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 I know many people in Hong Kong don't have gardens, but I used to weed the garden.

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 And there's something beautiful and satisfying about when you've just cleared everything and it's just nothing there left.

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 It's beautiful.

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 Perfect.

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 No more weeds.

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 Just vegetables.

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 So I'd go back.

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 The next day, I'd come back.

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 And there were these little tiny green shoots growing again.

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 Little weeds.

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 And you'd be like, oh.

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 And then you'd go out.

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 But the next time, I was like, okay, I'm going to try and get all the deep roots out.

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 So I'd go deeper.

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 Try and get all the roots out.

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 I'd go away.

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 Come back the next day.

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 And there was nothing there.

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 And I was like, this is great.

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 And then it rained.

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 And I came back the next day.

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 And triple the number of weeds were there than before.

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 And, you know, if you do that again and again, eventually you come to the point of saying, well, what's the point?

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 What's the point of doing it?

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 Right?

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 And that's gardening.

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 But isn't it the same with your garden, maybe your email inbox?

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 You know, you clear it on Friday.

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 Come back again Monday.

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 10,000 emails.

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 Right?

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 You know, sometimes work can feel pointless.

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 I read about this amazing mobile app, which has been downloaded over a million times.

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 It's called Don't Get Fired.

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 Has anyone played it?

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 Okay.

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 You can download it afterwards.

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 Okay.

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 Let me give you a little kind of a little sneak preview.

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 Basically, it simulates the struggles of retaining your job in a Korean working environment.

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 Okay?

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 Okay?

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 Stay with me.

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 In the game, what you've got to do, you've got to advance at a snail's pace through completely fruitless internship interviews,

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 not knowing why you're not getting the result you wanted, until finally you get a job and you start right at the bottom.

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 Okay?

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 And everybody treats you like dirt, and you're doing ridiculous hours for demanding bosses who show you no appreciation at all,

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 and you have to kind of suck up to them just to get more work from them.

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 And you don't really know what the work's about anyway, and who's benefiting.

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 And then afterwards, they give you projects which you've almost completed, and then they scrap them because they changed their mind.

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 And then they blame you when your colleagues are not working enough, and you're not working enough.

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 But if you find that you're working too much, your health score goes down to zero.

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 Okay?

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 And then after battling through all of that, you get fired for working too hard.

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 And that's the game.

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 Go and download it afterwards.

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 Go and download it afterwards.

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 And I read one Reddit user who said, I don't have to play this game.

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 I'm living it.

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 And the article that I read, I mean, his comment was, it's all but impossible to fulfill one's ambitions while staying sane and healthy at the same time.

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 In this respect, as pre-professional training goes, high school kids could do worse.

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 In other words, every job has some aspects of it where you feel like, what's the point of this?

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 Is this really my life?

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 Work can sometimes feel pointless.

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 And even if you do love your job, and I hope you do, Ecclesiastes 2 says,

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 I hated all the things that I had told for under the sun because I must leave them to the one who comes after me.

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 And who knows whether that person will be wise or foolish.

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 You may have done a great job in your work.

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 You may be a great manager putting a bad company to rights.

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 But then sooner or later you'll move on.

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 And you have no idea if the next guy is going to completely destroy all the work that you've done.

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 Right?

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 We have no idea.

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 Work can feel pointless.

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 That's one thorn.

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 Another thorn that comes in.

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 It's okay, if you're feeling depressed now, we're going to get to some hope later.

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 Another thorn, it's not just pointless sometimes, but it can sometimes feel fruitless.

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 If you look in the passage again, Romans 8.22 says,

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 What's it saying?

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 It's saying, in creation and in our lives, there are some things we envision doing.

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 We want to give birth to.

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 Right?

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 I don't know what your dream is.

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 You want to give birth to.

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 But we never seem to quite fully be able to get it out, to give birth to.

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 And we're in pain.

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 It causes you to go, oh.

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 And Pastor Tim Keller illustrates this kind of sense of feeling of like, I'm not being as productive as I want to be.

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 But we're in pain.

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 And he's trying to protect this one leaf.

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 Just trying to get it right.

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 Every time it's just a little thing he's got to work on.

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 And it just takes him longer than he expects.

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 And every time he tries to get on with the painting, something interrupts him all the time.

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 Maybe it's a sick neighbor's wife he's got to go take to the hospital.

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 And he's a kind person, so he tries to help out.

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 But all the time, just something stops him from getting on with this.

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 And finally, when he gets to nearing his death, he starts weeping.

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 And he says, as he realizes, I'm never going to finish all I wanted to do.

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 At his death, the new occupants of his house find the canvas.

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 And in the middle of this huge canvas, all there is, is one little leaf that he's done.

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 That's the sum of his life's work.

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 And it's hung in an obscure gallery where very few people ever notice it.

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 And aren't many of our plans a little bit like that?

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 You know, how many, like even as Angeline was saying, how many weeks can you honestly say,

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 everything I wanted to get done this week I managed to do?

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 Right?

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 There are so many interruptions that come in.

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 Kids get sick.

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 TV shows distract us.

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 You know, and we wonder, am I actually getting anywhere?

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 You know, people used to talk about midlife crisis.

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 You know, now they're talking about quarter life crisis.

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 Right?

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 Because we feel like, am I achieving?

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 I even have a pastor friend.

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 He's written about 10 best-selling books.

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 He's, and he's in his late 40s.

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 I spoke to him.

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 He said, you know, sometimes I feel like I just haven't done anything with my life.

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 And I'm like, but I haven't even written one book.

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 But, you know, it doesn't matter how successful you are.

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 You listen to people who are geniuses, and they all say this.

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 I just can't quite get there.

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 Yeah.

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 And, and to be honest, it's not just work circumstances.

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 The worst thing about work is people.

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 Right?

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 Wouldn't work be wonderful without the people?

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 You know, have you ever tried doing a group project with people?

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 There's always someone who's a slacker.

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 Someone who's a control freak.

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 Someone who points out everybody else's problems but won't admit their own.

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 And someone who gossips behind your back.

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 Even thinking the work of parenting.

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 You know, you're trying to help your kids.

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 They have an important test.

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 You know that they need to study.

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 And so you're trying to help them to study.

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 But for some reason, they just don't want to study.

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 They resist.

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 They refuse.

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 And so inside, you're trying to help them.

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 They're not helping themselves.

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 Where do you get to?

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 Do you ever get frustrated?

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 And then in frustration, we often lose our temper.

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 And we shout.

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 And then you feel bad about yourself.

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 Because that's not the kind of parent you wanted to be.

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 And it kind of, the cycle goes on.

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 Because the thorns are not just other people.

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 They're also ourselves.

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 Right?

00:20:06.819 --> 00:20:08.140
 They're also ourselves.

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 Sometimes we don't even match up to our own expectations of ourselves.

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 And as I think through so many things, like, all of these different things, I don't know how often you've said, I'm just so frustrated.

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 Ever said that?

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 Have you said that this week?

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 I've said that this week.

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 And do you know what that actually means?

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 Frustrated is just a kind of polite way of saying, I'm angry.

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 Right?

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 It is.

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 And Romans is saying to us, you know, we're angry because the world is not the way I want it to be.

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 It's not the way it should be.

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 And the passage in Romans is saying, that's right.

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 It's not the way it should be.

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 That's why we groan.

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 And you're not alone in groaning.

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 You're not alone because the whole of creation groans.

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 God, the Spirit, even groans because it's not the way it should be.

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 Sometimes work can feel pointless, fruitless, frustrating.

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 Now, if there's no God or no other hope beyond this world, then that anger is completely irrational.

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 Okay?

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 It's a bit like shaking your fist at a mountain for getting in the way of blocking the sunset.

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 Okay?

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 It's like, that's the way the world is.

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 But we've all got to deal with this.

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 And we have, there are so many great things in our work.

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 But when these frustrations come, how do we deal with them?

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 Some people try to escape.

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 You know, self-medicating.

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 Do you know the rate of alcoholism among NGO workers is huge?

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 Did you know that?

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 Because what they have is they start with this dream of trying to make a difference in the world.

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 And then they come up against governments and systems and the people themselves who don't want to help.

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 And where do they go?

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 They turn to alcohol.

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 And some of us here know that same thing.

00:22:02.220 --> 00:22:06.599
 Some of us here are turning to alcohol to help us with that frustration.

00:22:07.299 --> 00:22:11.019
 Others turn to coffee, chocolate, living for the weekend.

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 You know, I've got one friend who works simply to go on holiday.

00:22:15.519 --> 00:22:15.740
 Okay?

00:22:16.039 --> 00:22:22.019
 No sooner has she come back from holiday than she's booking the next holiday because that's why she works.

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 But if you do that, then you're failing to face reality.

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 The problems, the thorns are still going to be there.

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 Right?

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 Still going to be there.

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 And what this passage is telling us is God subjects the world to frustration in hope of something.

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 Because when you're frustrated, when things are not going your way, that's God's megaphone calling to you to take a step back and say,

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 you're not God and it's not your world and you can't be the king of your world.

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 Because making a perfection out of this world is not going to happen.

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 C.S. Lewis once said,

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 Frustration is that thing telling you don't put your hope in your work to satisfy you.

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 That's like taking an elephant ice skating on a frozen pond.

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 It's not going to hold the weight of your expectations.

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 So you might have a great job.

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 You might have great colleagues and a great boss, great kids.

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 And you feel like, oh, that sounds very depressing today.

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 What does the Bible say?

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 The Ecclesiastes 4 says,

00:23:54.259 --> 00:23:55.779
 Enjoy what you've got.

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 Enjoy what you've got.

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 It's not all bad.

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 There is fruit in the garden.

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 There is beauty.

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 Enjoy.

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 It's a gift of grace.

00:24:03.859 --> 00:24:04.059
 Okay?

00:24:04.119 --> 00:24:06.159
 So don't go away thinking, oh, life's terrible.

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 No, there's a gift of grace.

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 Take pleasure in your work.

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 But realize that sooner or later, you're going to experience the thorns.

00:24:14.880 --> 00:24:15.080
 Right?

00:24:15.540 --> 00:24:16.920
 You're going to experience the thorns.

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 If you want to know what your thorns are in life, complete this sentence.

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 My work would be great if...

00:24:25.920 --> 00:24:27.279
 Fill in the blank.

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 If that colleague just wasn't there.

00:24:30.340 --> 00:24:32.940
 If I finally managed to finish that project.

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 If...

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 Fill in the blank.

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 That's your thorn.

00:24:36.859 --> 00:24:37.859
 Fill in the blank.

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 Fill in the blank.

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 So...

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 That's really the problem.

00:24:41.259 --> 00:24:42.500
 That's what's wrong with work.

00:24:43.259 --> 00:24:44.139
 It's fruitless.

00:24:44.219 --> 00:24:45.599
 It's pointless sometimes.

00:24:46.359 --> 00:24:49.579
 There are thorns which get in the way of us really enjoying it.

00:24:50.259 --> 00:24:55.359
 But now, how do we deal with it to find meaning and meaningful work in this?

00:24:55.559 --> 00:24:56.359
 You need hope.

00:24:56.899 --> 00:24:57.139
 Okay?

00:24:57.419 --> 00:24:58.219
 You need hope.

00:24:59.159 --> 00:25:00.139
 So here's the second thing.

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 Finding hope for your work.

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 You know, even writing this sermon, many of us will have forgotten it by lunchtime.

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 So why would you bother persevering to do it?

00:25:14.839 --> 00:25:16.199
 Verse 20 says,

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 For the creation was subjected to frustration, not by its Joan's choice, but by the will of the one who subjected it,

00:25:24.259 --> 00:25:31.159
 in hope that the creation itself will be liberated from its bondage to decay,

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 and brought into the freedom and glory of the children of God.

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 You see, every thorn you face is an opportunity for you to find hope in God's work, not your work.

00:25:46.040 --> 00:25:51.259
 Because there is hope which lies outside of this frustrating world.

00:25:51.259 --> 00:25:56.539
 It's a glory where there will be a freedom to work without pain.

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 There will be companies which truly function and don't have employees which take sick leave just at deadline time.

00:26:03.400 --> 00:26:06.900
 There will be a place with no thorns, no thistles.

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 It's a paradise where God dwells supremely in his glory and beauty,

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 and he's going to put the world to rights.

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 Work will be satisfying.

00:26:17.119 --> 00:26:19.559
 You will look forward to going to work on Monday morning.

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 And those deep aspirations, those longings to be significant in our lives,

00:26:27.859 --> 00:26:31.119
 God says, I am going to fulfill those.

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 I will fulfill those.

00:26:36.200 --> 00:26:41.119
 You see, Viktor Frankl, who was a Jewish survivor of concentration camp,

00:26:41.679 --> 00:26:42.099
 he said,

00:26:42.099 --> 00:26:44.960
 Life is never made unbearable by circumstances,

00:26:45.740 --> 00:26:48.679
 but only by lack of meaning and purpose.

00:26:48.680 --> 00:26:53.140
 You see, when you see that God is working a bigger plan,

00:26:53.200 --> 00:26:55.660
 like Angeline said, there is an eternal plan.

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 There is something which is so much greater than just the little moments of frustration that we go through.

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 That he is bringing you into a paradise,

00:27:05.519 --> 00:27:07.580
 and he says he's going to work it all for good.

00:27:08.039 --> 00:27:09.840
 He's going to turn everything around.

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 He's going to redeem it.

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 When you see that that is not wasted,

00:27:14.500 --> 00:27:15.980
 no thorn is wasted,

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 then it gives you power to wait patiently and to persevere,

00:27:21.259 --> 00:27:23.039
 which is what he says in verse 25,

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 to hold on to him and his work.

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 Because you see, in that story that Tolkien told when Niggle dies,

00:27:32.319 --> 00:27:35.120
 he's put on a train to the heavenly country.

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 And just as he's nearing the station,

00:27:38.079 --> 00:27:39.519
 out of the corner of his eye,

00:27:40.019 --> 00:27:40.939
 he sees a tree.

00:27:42.479 --> 00:27:43.039
 Finished.

00:27:45.059 --> 00:27:46.379
 And he runs out.

00:27:47.159 --> 00:27:48.459
 And that's the tree.

00:27:48.939 --> 00:27:50.219
 There's his tree.

00:27:51.059 --> 00:27:51.659
 Complete.

00:27:52.299 --> 00:27:52.859
 Full.

00:27:53.699 --> 00:27:55.699
 The wind is blowing through it,

00:27:55.719 --> 00:27:57.319
 just as he'd imagined it would be.

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 But he'd never been able to get there.

00:28:02.419 --> 00:28:04.639
 You see, his dream hadn't died.

00:28:05.519 --> 00:28:08.859
 Because there is a heavenly city

00:28:08.859 --> 00:28:12.500
 where NGO workers who want to see healing and justice

00:28:12.500 --> 00:28:14.200
 will see healing and justice.

00:28:14.639 --> 00:28:17.700
 Where whatever the deepest aspirations and frustrations

00:28:17.700 --> 00:28:19.200
 and things you're longing for,

00:28:19.399 --> 00:28:20.379
 whether it's your family,

00:28:20.720 --> 00:28:21.639
 whether it's a project,

00:28:21.980 --> 00:28:23.319
 God will work through,

00:28:24.319 --> 00:28:26.460
 and you will see there will be a birth.

00:28:27.319 --> 00:28:29.019
 There will be a birth.

00:28:30.240 --> 00:28:32.240
 And God will be the one who does it.

00:28:33.159 --> 00:28:34.460
 That's what he's saying.

00:28:35.439 --> 00:28:39.220
 There will be a freedom and a glory of the children of God.

00:28:42.519 --> 00:28:43.819
 Someone once said,

00:28:44.720 --> 00:28:46.879
 with hope comes inevitable letdown.

00:28:47.960 --> 00:28:50.419
 Therefore, one will stop being so angry

00:28:50.419 --> 00:28:51.939
 when one stops being so hopeful.

00:28:52.319 --> 00:28:54.460
 Just assume that life is going to be pretty crap

00:28:54.460 --> 00:28:55.700
 and you won't be disappointed.

00:28:55.700 --> 00:28:58.580
 But the Christian message says,

00:28:58.700 --> 00:28:58.900
 no.

00:28:59.680 --> 00:29:00.880
 The Christian message says,

00:29:01.240 --> 00:29:02.360
 be hopeful.

00:29:02.819 --> 00:29:03.840
 Not in now.

00:29:04.500 --> 00:29:05.740
 Put your hope in God

00:29:05.740 --> 00:29:07.039
 and what he's working out

00:29:07.039 --> 00:29:08.460
 because his plans are for good.

00:29:08.700 --> 00:29:11.620
 That means you can work with your ambitions,

00:29:11.900 --> 00:29:13.819
 with whatever you're wanting to do right now,

00:29:13.940 --> 00:29:14.980
 with purpose,

00:29:15.140 --> 00:29:16.400
 knowing that it's not wasted,

00:29:16.480 --> 00:29:18.680
 no matter how frustrated you feel at times.

00:29:18.840 --> 00:29:19.980
 It is not wasted.

00:29:19.980 --> 00:29:25.220
 You will see the fruit one day.

00:29:25.759 --> 00:29:28.500
 And that gives you strength to persevere.

00:29:28.620 --> 00:29:29.599
 It's not pointless.

00:29:30.140 --> 00:29:31.599
 It's not fruitless.

00:29:31.599 --> 00:29:35.859
 I don't know if you're a perfectionist,

00:29:36.519 --> 00:29:41.740
 but hope frees you from being a perfectionist now.

00:29:42.379 --> 00:29:42.559
 You know,

00:29:42.599 --> 00:29:43.559
 because what perfectionists,

00:29:44.099 --> 00:29:46.899
 they take doing something well to an extreme.

00:29:47.939 --> 00:29:48.259
 You see,

00:29:48.339 --> 00:29:49.419
 we look for the perfect job.

00:29:49.679 --> 00:29:50.799
 We look for the perfect strategy,

00:29:50.939 --> 00:29:52.759
 the perfect technique to make your family right.

00:29:53.759 --> 00:29:54.199
 Perfectionism

00:29:54.200 --> 00:29:54.840
 perfectionism

00:29:54.840 --> 00:29:56.720
 is about trying to control your world

00:29:56.720 --> 00:29:59.420
 to make it like a little heaven on earth.

00:30:00.080 --> 00:30:00.519
 Do you know that?

00:30:02.059 --> 00:30:03.340
 That's what perfectionism is.

00:30:03.580 --> 00:30:04.259
 And what you're doing,

00:30:04.319 --> 00:30:05.400
 you've crossed the line

00:30:05.400 --> 00:30:06.319
 from doing work well

00:30:06.319 --> 00:30:07.259
 to trying to be God.

00:30:08.360 --> 00:30:08.580
 Okay?

00:30:09.400 --> 00:30:09.799
 Now,

00:30:09.920 --> 00:30:10.400
 trying to be God

00:30:10.400 --> 00:30:12.039
 is a pretty stressful job description.

00:30:13.120 --> 00:30:14.319
 And if you're a perfectionist,

00:30:14.380 --> 00:30:15.720
 you'll know that your stress levels

00:30:15.720 --> 00:30:17.220
 get high at certain moments.

00:30:17.440 --> 00:30:17.680
 Right?

00:30:19.620 --> 00:30:20.019
 Because

00:30:20.019 --> 00:30:23.019
 much of my frustration

00:30:23.019 --> 00:30:24.080
 with other people

00:30:24.079 --> 00:30:27.599
 comes from the fact

00:30:27.599 --> 00:30:28.480
 that they're not living up

00:30:28.480 --> 00:30:29.799
 to my expectations

00:30:29.799 --> 00:30:31.179
 of how the world should be.

00:30:32.619 --> 00:30:33.019
 Right?

00:30:35.059 --> 00:30:36.199
 But I'm not God

00:30:36.199 --> 00:30:38.039
 and it's not my world

00:30:38.039 --> 00:30:40.419
 and He's going to fix the world.

00:30:40.720 --> 00:30:42.220
 It's not for me to fix the world.

00:30:43.039 --> 00:30:44.720
 So I can leave that job to Him

00:30:44.720 --> 00:30:45.960
 and get on and work well.

00:30:48.039 --> 00:30:49.519
 Some of us here remember,

00:30:50.720 --> 00:30:52.720
 you need to remember this hope

00:30:52.720 --> 00:30:54.900
 because you feel like

00:30:54.900 --> 00:30:56.500
 the monotony of work.

00:30:56.500 --> 00:30:58.140
 You feel lost in your work.

00:30:58.360 --> 00:30:59.279
 You feel frustrated

00:30:59.279 --> 00:31:00.559
 where you are in your career.

00:31:02.319 --> 00:31:04.200
 Some of you need to remember

00:31:04.200 --> 00:31:05.740
 there is a tree that is coming.

00:31:06.880 --> 00:31:09.200
 Some of you love your work too much.

00:31:09.860 --> 00:31:12.240
 You put your hope all in your work.

00:31:13.360 --> 00:31:15.380
 And it's not just you who feel the form.

00:31:15.519 --> 00:31:16.880
 Your family and other people

00:31:16.880 --> 00:31:17.779
 feel the forms,

00:31:17.880 --> 00:31:19.180
 the choices that you're making.

00:31:19.180 --> 00:31:22.460
 You know, I can be so concentrated

00:31:22.460 --> 00:31:23.340
 on my work

00:31:23.340 --> 00:31:25.140
 that I make other people

00:31:25.140 --> 00:31:26.320
 feel like they're an interruption.

00:31:27.539 --> 00:31:27.820
 Right?

00:31:28.340 --> 00:31:29.740
 Even those closest to me.

00:31:29.820 --> 00:31:31.000
 And you know, when it gets like that,

00:31:31.240 --> 00:31:32.539
 people, you know,

00:31:32.600 --> 00:31:33.539
 begin to lash out,

00:31:33.620 --> 00:31:34.480
 begin to say things

00:31:34.480 --> 00:31:34.940
 that I shouldn't

00:31:34.940 --> 00:31:36.120
 because they're frustrating me.

00:31:36.279 --> 00:31:37.039
 You're stopping me

00:31:37.039 --> 00:31:38.180
 from doing my work.

00:31:39.000 --> 00:31:40.460
 And I've stopped seeing people.

00:31:42.680 --> 00:31:43.740
 That's a lot of what

00:31:43.740 --> 00:31:45.799
 workplace demands and abuse is about,

00:31:45.880 --> 00:31:46.779
 trying to use people

00:31:46.779 --> 00:31:48.200
 to make your world work

00:31:48.200 --> 00:31:49.420
 the way you want it to.

00:31:49.980 --> 00:31:50.240
 Right?

00:31:51.740 --> 00:31:53.500
 And we've stopped loving people.

00:31:54.399 --> 00:31:55.819
 And we've become a thorn.

00:31:56.539 --> 00:31:57.399
 And your frustration,

00:31:57.740 --> 00:31:58.759
 I don't know what your frustration

00:31:58.759 --> 00:31:59.680
 has been this week,

00:32:00.200 --> 00:32:01.859
 but your frustration and anger,

00:32:01.980 --> 00:32:03.019
 if you've had that this week,

00:32:03.099 --> 00:32:03.859
 that's probably because

00:32:03.859 --> 00:32:04.700
 you're trying to be God.

00:32:06.119 --> 00:32:06.639
 You know,

00:32:06.740 --> 00:32:07.879
 and we don't do a good job of it.

00:32:10.519 --> 00:32:11.480
 So where do we go?

00:32:12.839 --> 00:32:14.299
 When frustration, anger,

00:32:14.299 --> 00:32:15.220
 that's the sign.

00:32:15.700 --> 00:32:17.279
 You've gone from doing your job well

00:32:17.279 --> 00:32:18.980
 to looking to be God.

00:32:19.099 --> 00:32:20.480
 The world is frustrating.

00:32:20.960 --> 00:32:22.339
 It's a call in the frustration

00:32:22.339 --> 00:32:23.480
 to turn to Him.

00:32:23.740 --> 00:32:25.299
 But when I turn and lash out

00:32:25.299 --> 00:32:27.119
 and I get angry with other people,

00:32:27.220 --> 00:32:27.940
 that's the sign.

00:32:28.519 --> 00:32:29.680
 I've gone too far.

00:32:30.559 --> 00:32:31.379
 Work hard.

00:32:31.759 --> 00:32:33.539
 Don't place your hope in your work

00:32:33.539 --> 00:32:34.639
 because there are thorns.

00:32:40.639 --> 00:32:41.639
 So what do we do?

00:32:42.159 --> 00:32:43.159
 We need to surrender.

00:32:43.160 --> 00:32:44.960
 The Bible calls us,

00:32:45.060 --> 00:32:46.279
 whether you're a Christian or not,

00:32:46.340 --> 00:32:48.220
 to surrender your hopes

00:32:48.220 --> 00:32:49.380
 in your work to Him

00:32:49.380 --> 00:32:50.500
 and allow Him

00:32:50.500 --> 00:32:51.960
 to take your dreams and ambitions

00:32:51.960 --> 00:32:53.840
 and you just get on and work

00:32:53.840 --> 00:32:55.440
 to His praise and glory.

00:32:56.920 --> 00:32:58.480
 Verse 32 says this,

00:32:59.440 --> 00:33:00.720
 If God is for us,

00:33:01.000 --> 00:33:02.460
 who can be against us?

00:33:02.900 --> 00:33:05.340
 He who did not spare His own Son

00:33:05.340 --> 00:33:06.960
 but gave Him up for us all,

00:33:07.220 --> 00:33:08.180
 how will He,

00:33:08.440 --> 00:33:09.440
 not along with Him,

00:33:09.800 --> 00:33:13.140
 graciously give us all things?

00:33:14.160 --> 00:33:14.540
 You see,

00:33:14.880 --> 00:33:16.540
 the reason why you can say,

00:33:16.620 --> 00:33:16.800
 God,

00:33:16.920 --> 00:33:18.580
 I can leave it to you

00:33:18.580 --> 00:33:19.900
 to fix the world

00:33:19.900 --> 00:33:22.360
 is because God has seen

00:33:22.360 --> 00:33:23.620
 the thorns and the thistles

00:33:23.620 --> 00:33:24.420
 in your life.

00:33:25.120 --> 00:33:26.960
 He knows the frustrations

00:33:26.960 --> 00:33:27.940
 that you go through.

00:33:28.740 --> 00:33:28.960
 You know,

00:33:29.000 --> 00:33:29.460
 there are things

00:33:29.460 --> 00:33:31.140
 which stand against us,

00:33:32.120 --> 00:33:33.000
 things of accusing us

00:33:33.000 --> 00:33:34.060
 not of doing a good job,

00:33:34.400 --> 00:33:35.660
 not being where we should be.

00:33:35.660 --> 00:33:37.680
 whatever the thorns are for you.

00:33:41.720 --> 00:33:42.000
 I,

00:33:42.620 --> 00:33:45.320
 just a few weeks ago,

00:33:46.100 --> 00:33:47.740
 there were a couple of instances

00:33:47.740 --> 00:33:50.160
 where I was feeling frustrated

00:33:50.160 --> 00:33:51.580
 and overwhelmed

00:33:51.580 --> 00:33:52.860
 with a particular task

00:33:52.860 --> 00:33:53.620
 that I had to do.

00:33:54.040 --> 00:33:56.040
 And I felt only I could do it.

00:33:56.620 --> 00:33:57.680
 Only I could do it.

00:33:57.680 --> 00:34:01.740
 And then a friend came along

00:34:01.740 --> 00:34:02.580
 and said to me,

00:34:03.060 --> 00:34:03.460
 hey Chris,

00:34:03.500 --> 00:34:03.920
 it's okay.

00:34:04.860 --> 00:34:05.700
 I'll hand you that.

00:34:06.180 --> 00:34:06.980
 I'll deal with that.

00:34:07.400 --> 00:34:08.159
 You leave it to me.

00:34:10.280 --> 00:34:11.559
 Do you know what that was like?

00:34:11.680 --> 00:34:12.340
 It was like,

00:34:12.820 --> 00:34:14.440
 light came into my world.

00:34:15.200 --> 00:34:16.059
 It's like freedom.

00:34:16.059 --> 00:34:16.779
 Oh,

00:34:17.059 --> 00:34:18.460
 you mean I don't have to do it?

00:34:20.539 --> 00:34:21.320
 The Bible says,

00:34:21.420 --> 00:34:22.099
 if you're a Christian,

00:34:22.219 --> 00:34:23.139
 if you're not a Christian,

00:34:23.940 --> 00:34:25.219
 you've got to let go

00:34:25.219 --> 00:34:26.860
 of trying to fix the world

00:34:26.860 --> 00:34:29.139
 because God has already come down

00:34:29.139 --> 00:34:30.719
 and he's worked for us.

00:34:31.039 --> 00:34:32.460
 He's done that task

00:34:32.460 --> 00:34:34.259
 of being able to fix the world

00:34:34.259 --> 00:34:35.279
 that we could never do.

00:34:35.380 --> 00:34:36.139
 On the cross,

00:34:36.500 --> 00:34:38.019
 he's the only one who said,

00:34:38.179 --> 00:34:39.019
 it is finished.

00:34:40.199 --> 00:34:41.360
 He's finished his work.

00:34:41.779 --> 00:34:42.500
 He's done it.

00:34:42.840 --> 00:34:43.639
 On the cross,

00:34:43.639 --> 00:34:45.440
 Jesus had thorns

00:34:45.440 --> 00:34:47.360
 put into his head

00:34:47.360 --> 00:34:48.300
 in a crown.

00:34:48.780 --> 00:34:50.139
 The thorns that you and I

00:34:50.139 --> 00:34:52.480
 face on a daily basis.

00:34:52.740 --> 00:34:53.460
 He took them.

00:34:54.619 --> 00:34:56.280
 And he offers a great exchange.

00:34:56.579 --> 00:34:57.099
 He says,

00:34:57.639 --> 00:34:58.860
 give me your frustrations.

00:34:59.659 --> 00:35:01.039
 Give me your thorns.

00:35:01.760 --> 00:35:02.760
 Give me whatever

00:35:02.760 --> 00:35:04.360
 is getting you down

00:35:04.360 --> 00:35:05.260
 right at this moment.

00:35:05.400 --> 00:35:06.260
 Give it to me.

00:35:08.380 --> 00:35:09.480
 Your selfishness,

00:35:09.559 --> 00:35:10.139
 your anger,

00:35:10.280 --> 00:35:11.059
 whatever it is,

00:35:11.139 --> 00:35:12.579
 and I can provide rest

00:35:12.579 --> 00:35:13.980
 for your soul

00:35:13.980 --> 00:35:15.539
 in the midst

00:35:15.539 --> 00:35:16.840
 of the difficulties

00:35:16.840 --> 00:35:19.800
 because you don't have

00:35:19.800 --> 00:35:20.760
 to fix the world

00:35:20.760 --> 00:35:22.780
 because that's my job.

00:35:23.159 --> 00:35:24.320
 I'll do it for you.

00:35:27.000 --> 00:35:27.780
 You see,

00:35:28.900 --> 00:35:30.960
 there's true rest

00:35:30.960 --> 00:35:32.699
 if you come to Christ

00:35:32.699 --> 00:35:34.760
 and he's saying to you,

00:35:35.300 --> 00:35:36.320
 will you come?

00:35:36.860 --> 00:35:38.119
 Will you come?

00:35:38.539 --> 00:35:39.539
 Will you come?

00:35:39.760 --> 00:35:40.440
 Rest from trying

00:35:40.440 --> 00:35:41.400
 to fix your world.

00:35:41.400 --> 00:35:42.320
 Rest from trying

00:35:42.320 --> 00:35:43.780
 to create everything perfectly.

00:35:44.220 --> 00:35:45.260
 Rest from the stress

00:35:45.260 --> 00:35:45.780
 of trying to be

00:35:45.780 --> 00:35:46.900
 God of your universe.

00:35:48.320 --> 00:35:49.200
 Surrender to me.

00:35:49.800 --> 00:35:50.920
 You can trust me

00:35:50.920 --> 00:35:52.340
 because if I have overcome

00:35:52.340 --> 00:35:53.360
 the greatest thorn,

00:35:53.640 --> 00:35:55.059
 which is death itself,

00:35:55.940 --> 00:35:58.180
 if I can do that,

00:35:58.340 --> 00:35:58.840
 don't you think

00:35:58.840 --> 00:35:59.380
 I'm big enough

00:35:59.380 --> 00:36:00.340
 to handle the thorns

00:36:00.340 --> 00:36:01.200
 in your own life?

00:36:02.180 --> 00:36:02.880
 Come to me

00:36:02.880 --> 00:36:03.940
 and find rest

00:36:03.940 --> 00:36:05.080
 for your soul.

00:36:05.600 --> 00:36:06.140
 No matter

00:36:06.140 --> 00:36:08.019
 what the frustrations

00:36:08.019 --> 00:36:08.980
 in your work are,

00:36:09.100 --> 00:36:09.760
 there is hope

00:36:09.760 --> 00:36:10.540
 that he's going

00:36:10.540 --> 00:36:11.700
 to make it all new.

00:36:12.040 --> 00:36:12.980
 He's going to use it.

00:36:13.240 --> 00:36:14.180
 But right now,

00:36:14.440 --> 00:36:16.160
 he is here for you.

00:36:16.360 --> 00:36:17.100
 He knows you.

00:36:17.400 --> 00:36:18.220
 He hears you.

00:36:18.780 --> 00:36:19.420
 Come to him.

00:36:19.900 --> 00:36:20.440
 Let's pray.

00:36:20.440 --> 00:36:20.480
 Let's pray.