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 Good morning, everyone. Great to see you today. That was a really good response. Very loud,

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 lots of volume. I feel like I don't even really need to preach anymore after

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 Oti and Lorna is sharing just now. We're talking about the church being family today,

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 and I think they pretty much covered most of it, right? But no, we'll still do the sermon.

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 Um, for those of you who have seen me between Friday night around 6.45 and five minutes before

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 service started today, you would have noticed something weird about me. Either you saw me

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 bleeding profusely out of my finger, or you saw me with a huge bandage on my finger. And that was

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 because right as we were about to start CG together on Friday night, I caught my finger on something and

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 sliced it open and had to go get stitches in the hospital. And I figure everyone who's seen me

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 during that time probably deserves a little explanation. I'm doing okay. I got three stitches.

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 Um, and it's more just annoying than anything, you know, like I was supposed to help out with some

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 stuff at CG together and couldn't because I was bleeding all over the place. And, you know, having

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 to keep my hand dry is annoying, but it's fine. It's healing up. It's, yeah, the big bandage is off.

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 We've got a small bandage now. And, you know, as we, as we come to talk about family today, I actually

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 can't think of a better time for an injury like that to have happened to me because I got to experience

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 the reality of the church being a family on Friday night. I had people rush in and start helping me

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 clean up the wound as soon as it happened. I had people step in and cover for me in the roles that

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 I was supposed to do as CG together. I had people messaging and asking, do you need me to come wait

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 in the emergency room with you? And I was like, no, I'm fine. And I had one friend who just ignored me

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 and came anyway and made the waiting so much better. And so I just want to say thank you to everyone who

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 asked about how I was doing and took care of me during that time. I really experienced the church as a

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 family through that experience and doing much better now. So that's the nice, fluffy, friendly

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 welcome. And it's not going to stay that way the rest of our time together this morning.

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 I've also had bronchitis this week. So if my voice goes weird, that's why. The past couple weeks,

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 we've been looking at what it means for us to be God's people. Who are we as Christians? A couple

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 weeks ago, we started out by looking at what it means for us to be disciples. And we said that

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 Christ's call to us is a call to come and die. That it means giving up our way that we want the world

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 to work and instead pursuing God's way of the world working. And we saw that being a Christian is

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 something that's supposed to rule over our lives in their entirety. Last week, we talked about being

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 saints. And we said a saint isn't just some super Christian, but actually all Christians are saints.

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 Saint just means that we're a people set apart as a special possession for God. And when we become

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 Christians, we are set apart as a special possession for God. And we saw that being a Christian, it's not

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 just about following a set of rules, but it's about pursuing this relationship with God. And the Bible

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 uses a lot more images to describe who we are as Christians. In the next few weeks, we're going to be

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 looking through some of those. But today, we're going to look at what it means for us to be a family. And we're

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 going to see that there was a former hostility between us and God and us and one another. But Christ has

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 brought reconciliation, and that requires a response from us. So we have a former hostility, a current

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 reconciliation, and a required response. And before we start talking about that, let's just pray. Father, we thank

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 you. We thank you for the fact that we as your people are a family. We pray that you would draw us together and

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 help our love for you and for one another grow through this time together today. We pray that you would speak to us, that you

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 would speak powerfully, that you would transform us as we come under the teaching of your word. And in Jesus' name,

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 amen. So first off, we said we have former hostility. If you look at the first couple verses of this passage,

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 there's a lot of hostility going on here. Paul's writing to a group of Gentiles, which basically means

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 non-Jews. And he says that their former state, they were, in verse 12, separated from Christ,

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 alienated from the commonwealth of Israel, that's God's people, and strangers to the covenants of

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 promise. They were apart from God, apart from God's people, and apart from the pathway that could bring

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 them to God. And because of that, they were without God and without hope in the world. It's a pretty bleak

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 outlook for them. However, the Jews, who are God's people, weren't actually much better off, according to

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 Paul. He writes it, he writes this passage in a way that makes it sound like they're better off, but if

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 you look more closely at what he's saying, he's actually saying they thought they were better off,

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 but they weren't. He says that in verse 11, the Jews were called the circumcision. In other places,

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 he refers to Christians as the true circumcision. Circumcision, if you don't know, was a ceremony that

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 the Jews did that set them apart from other people, where every boy on the eighth day of his life would

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 have his foreskin chopped off, and that would set them apart so they knew this is a Jewish boy. And

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 what Paul is saying is that when we become Christians, God does something to our hearts that

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 transforms us in a similar way, that we become his people. And that's why he says the church is the

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 true circumcision. But here, referring to the Jews, he says they're called the circumcision. That's different

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 than being the true circumcision. So he says they think they're better off, but they're really not.

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 And then he says it's made in the flesh by hands. Again and again in the Bible, you see,

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 we can't do anything through our efforts to earn or merit a relationship with God. So the fact that

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 they are relying on their own accomplishments shows that they are just as far from God as the Gentiles.

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 So the Gentiles are separated from God. The Jews are separated from God. And then the Jews and the

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 Gentiles are separated from each other as well. Again, we saw this in verse 12. The Gentiles were

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 alienated from the commonwealth of Israel. They, the Jews, basically saw themselves as better than the

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 Gentiles because they had God's law. They were obedient to God's law, and they looked down on anyone else

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 who wasn't as obedient to God's law as they were. And so we have just brokenness. We have

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 alienation and hostility. And in our world today, we have plenty of brokenness and alienation and

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 hostility. Now, it's not mostly along the lines of Jews versus Gentiles like it was in this passage,

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 but it's still there. And C.S. Lewis, the author of The Chronicles of Narnia, says that at the root of

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 this hostility is pride. Here's what pride does. Pride turns life into a competition. So rather than

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 looking at everyone else and seeing them as people who share the image of God with me and deserve my

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 love, I instead see them as competitors that I need to beat. And so when you're prideful, you're not

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 content with having lots of money or being really intelligent or having a very beautiful spouse.

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 You have to define yourself against everyone else. And so you only become content if you have more

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 money and more intelligence and a more beautiful spouse than everyone else. And I saw a post online

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 this week that it's wonderful. It just shows this principle so clearly. I'm going to read it to you

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 so you can hear it and see if you notice what I noticed in this post. This guy said,

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 I need to understand whether this is normal in Manhattan. I thought I made a very good income.

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 It's been around a million U.S. dollars a year for the past couple of years,

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 and I have about three million dollars invested. Now, does anyone think that's a lot of money?

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 A couple of us. A couple of us think that's a lot of money. I think a couple more probably do,

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 but didn't want to raise their hands. So he has all this money, yet I feel like I'm living in the

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 middle class. Every parent at my kid's school is running around buying six million dollar condos

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 like it's the standard, literally. We rent a nice place, which saves money, but my wife is frustrated

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 because she can't make it her own space. What's going on here? I just need to know if I'm delusional

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 or what does it take to live comfortably in New York City? I thought I was doing pretty well,

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 but I realize I can't afford a five million dollar condo like apparently all these other people around

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 me can. It's wonderful. And here's why. This guy is making a lot of money, and he's complaining about

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 not having enough. That's pride. He's not content with what he has. He has to define himself

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 against everyone else around him. And you know, as someone who makes a tiny fraction of what this guy

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 makes, it's easy for me to look at him and be like, yes, you're right, you are delusional. But

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 here's what I love about this post. If I was in that guy's shoes, I would feel the exact same way.

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 I'd probably be too embarrassed to actually say it, but I'd be thinking all these things too. Like,

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 I thought I was making a lot of money. How come everyone else seems to still have more than me?

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 That's what pride does to us. It forces us to compare ourselves to everyone around us. I mean,

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 think about it. This guy makes more money in one year than most people in his city will make in the

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 next 15 to 20 years combined. And he's still complaining that he doesn't have enough. By any

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 objective standard, he's set for life. He could literally give away 80 to 90% of his salary and

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 still have more left over than most people in his city make. And instead of focusing on how blessed he

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 is, he complains about the $6 million condo that he can't afford. He's saying it's not okay to have

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 more than enough if more than enough is less than the person next door. Michael Lewis, the author of

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 Moneyball, The Big Short, The Blind Side, he actually started his career on Wall Street.

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 And he wrote a book about his time on Wall Street. And in that book, he said, in reference to banking,

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 you don't get rich in this business. You only attain new levels of relative poverty.

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 And what he meant is, if you get a $100,000 bonus at the end of the year, and the guy next to you gets

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 a million dollar bonus, $100,000 doesn't really feel like that much anymore. And if you get the

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 million dollar bonus and your boss gets the $10 million bonus, a million dollars doesn't feel

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 like that much. And I'm not saying this is any type of slam on bankers or anything. I just think it

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 beautifully illustrates the point that we define ourselves against one another. I think banking is a

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 very important industry. If you work in banking, I have nothing against you. But I think Michael

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 Lewis's comment beautifully illustrates this point, that pride makes us define ourselves against one

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 another. We no longer see people as made in the image of God and deserving our love. We see them as

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 a standard that I have to beat to have worth and value in life. And it leads us to have this separation

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 between us and one another. And here's the thing, all of us suffer from pride. All of us, at some way,

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 on some level, define ourselves against one another. If you think that's not true of you, just think,

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 when do you get upset because something good happened to someone else?

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 Maybe there's a coworker and they get a promotion. It's not even a promotion that you were like

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 eligible for. You're like, oh, they've been at the company less time than me and now they have a higher

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 rank than me. That's not right. That's pride. Or who are the people that you have a hard time seeing as

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 truly equals in life? I realize this about myself, that for a huge part of my life, I've been very

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 happy to go serve in different ministries that reach out to less privileged people than myself.

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 And I will go there and I will serve with a smile on my face and I will care for them like nothing

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 else. But I actually don't see them as equals. And here's how I can tell. Because if I was having

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 trouble, I wouldn't reach out to them and ask for help. There's this part of me that for so much of

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 my life, it said I'm above being helped by the people that I'm helping. And so even though I was

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 willing to go and interact with them and have a smile on my face, there's this part of me that says

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 I'm doing this because I'm better than you. And that's this attitude that's going on in this passage

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 between the Jews and the Gentiles. This failure to see people as truly equal with us and truly

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 sharing the image of God with us. And all of us struggle with this. It can come in different ways.

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 It can be based on ethnic differences. We see this with things like the Black Lives Matter movement in

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 the States. It can be religious differences. I mean, you look at the Rohingyas in Myanmar right now,

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 and they're suffering from that. It can be political differences. You know, in Hong Kong, we have

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 the pro-independence camp and the pro-Beijing camp. And if me mentioning either of those parties made your

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 blood pressure rise a little bit, that might be a sign that you have pride against them.

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 But I think, this is a guess, I could be wildly wrong. I think in our context, the biggest area

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 where this happens is the socioeconomic level. My guess would be for most of us in this room,

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 and again, I could be wrong, my guess would be for most of us, it's far easier to connect with and

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 see as equal someone with a different skin color from a different country who has a similar level of

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 education and makes a similar amount of money with us than it is for us to connect and see

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 ourselves as truly equal with someone who has the same skin color as us, comes from the same country,

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 but makes a very different amount of money and has a very different level of education.

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 Again, I could be wrong about that, but I think that is, you know, I look around our city and I see

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 people from all different backgrounds coming together, but they have that in common so often.

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 The background of similar education, similar jobs, similar income. And I think that's one of the

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 biggest areas in our society that these lines get drawn along. And what Paul is saying in this passage

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 is that this attitude of pride, when we put our identity in ourselves being better than others,

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 it shows the fact that there's separation not only between us and each other, but between us and God

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 as well. Because each of us is relying on our own efforts to make us better than everyone else. And as

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 long as we're focused on our own efforts and our own achievements, we're not going to truly have a

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 relationship with God. We're not going to have the deep type of relationship with each other that God

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 wants us to have. And Paul, he starts out the passage by telling them to remember this. Remember

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 your former state. Because when you see that, you can see how great and amazing the work of Christ at

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 transforming us truly is. Which brings us to the current reconciliation. And here's what Paul says,

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 Christ tears down the dividing wall. In Ephesians 2, 1 through 10, which we don't have time to look at

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 today, he talks about how Christ tears down the wall between us and God. And here in verses 11 through 22,

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 he's talking about how Christ tears down the wall between us and one another.

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 In verse 14, it says that he has made us both one and he has torn down or broken down in his flesh,

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 the dividing wall of hostility. The gospel, he is saying, tears down the things that we build up

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 that keep us apart from one another. And here's why that happens. Because when I'm consumed with pride,

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 I want to be better than everyone else. And so what I do is I stand up here on the stage of my life

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 and I look down on everyone else. And all of us do this. We create a stage so we can be higher than

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 everyone else. We set a standard that's completely arbitrary and subjective of what it takes to get up

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 on the stage that allows us to stand there and no one else to meet that standard. And then we look

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 down on everyone else. And as long as our focus is looking down on everyone else, we can keep creating

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 this totally subjective, totally arbitrary standard that allows us to look down on the rest of the world.

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 But here's what the gospel does. When I look up and I see how amazing God is, there's no more room for me

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 on this stage. I have to be down on an equal level with everyone before God. Because with God,

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 there is nothing, nothing that I can do that sets me any higher than anyone else. When I look at God,

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 I see a God who I deserve to be crushed by instantly.

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 And the fact that he looked down at me and rather than crushing me, sent his son to rescue me.

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 And then when I had this heart that hated his son and wanted nothing to do with him,

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 he sent his spirit to open my eyes and show me how beautiful and amazing he is. There's nothing

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 about me or my greatness in that process. And when I'm looking up and I see God and I see who he really

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 is and I see the beauty of the gospel and what he has done to rescue me, I no longer have any grounds

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 for being on the stage and looking down at everyone else. I'm at the very least an equal, if not lower,

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 than everyone else. Because I can see how totally messed up my own heart is. I can't see that depth

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 of brokenness in each of you. When I see the gospel, I have no grounds for seeing myself as better

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 than anyone else. That's how Christ breaks down the walls. The walls that I build up that allow me

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 to stay here rather than be on a level platform with everyone are torn down by the gospel. When I see

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 that it's not about me and what I do, but it's all God.

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 And so for the Jews in this passage, that wall was the law.

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 They had God's law, which was a good gift to them, and they did their best to keep God's law.

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 But they took that good gift that God had given them and they made it ultimate in their lives.

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 They basically said, we keep the law, you don't. So we're going to stand on the stage,

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 and what it takes to get on this stage is keeping the law. If you want to keep the law,

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 you can be on the stage with us, maybe. We might throw in a couple extra things you need to do to get

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 up here also. But the law, which God gave them as a good gift so that they could know him,

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 all of a sudden became the barrier that kept them apart from everyone else. That's why it says in

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 this passage that Christ tore down the law. He abolished the law because this good gift that

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 God had given them had become a bad thing that allowed them to set themselves apart from everyone

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 else. And that's how it works in our lives too. We take good things, and rather than seeing them as

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 good things, we use them to set ourselves apart from the rest of the world. Maybe it's a good

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 work ethic. You know, if you have a good work ethic, that's awesome. But if you look down on anyone else

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 who doesn't work as hard as you and see them as less worthy as a human being because they don't work

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 as hard, your good thing has become a bad thing. It could be prioritizing your family. If you

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 prioritize your family, that's very important. That's great. But if you look at someone who

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 doesn't prioritize their family as much as you and see them as less of a human being because of that,

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 your good thing has become a bad thing. And here's the nature of the way that we judge ourselves and

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 the way that we set these standards. Like I said, it's completely arbitrary and subjective.

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 So if you're the guy who's working really hard, you're going to look at the guy who

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 prioritizes his family and be like, he's a loser. He doesn't work as hard as me. And if you're the

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 guy who prioritizes his family, you're going to look at the guy who works really hard and be like,

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 what a punk. He doesn't prioritize his family. Everyone sets their own standard that allows

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 them to stay on the stage while everyone else has to stay off of it. And we do this with so many good

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 things in our lives. It could be our education. It can be our jobs. It can be our morality. That's what it

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 was for the Jews in this passage. But whenever we take these good things in our lives and we use them

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 as a basis for judging someone's merit and whether they deserve our love and whether they deserve to be

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 treated as just a fellow human being, we've taken this good thing that God has given us

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 and we've used it in a terrible, terrible way. And Jesus comes to tear down those walls.

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 And in doing that, he, it says in verse 18, that through him, we both have access in one spirit

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 to the father. That when we come to Christ, he makes God our father. And here's the thing about a father.

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 Father, if you and I have the same father, what does that make us?

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 Brothers and sisters. When Christ comes and he tears down these walls and he gives us access to

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 God, that makes us family. That makes us brothers and sisters. We have a new reality. We're no longer

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 divided from each other by these walls that we set up. The walls have been torn down and we now have

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 a common family because we share a father. We are brothers and sisters in Christ.

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 And that requires a response from us.

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 You know, this, this new reality, it's true. We are brothers and sisters. It's not a question of

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 whether we'll become brothers and sisters by trying hard enough. The question is,

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 now that we are brothers and sisters, are we actually going to live like it?

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 Or are we going to continue living in our old ways? This guy, Dietrich Bonhoeffer, he was a German

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 theologian in the early 1900s. He got killed in the Holocaust. He wrote a lot of awesome stuff about

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 Christian community. And he said, Christian brotherhood is not an ideal which we must realize.

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 It is rather a reality created by God in Christ in which we may participate. The reality is already

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 there in what Jesus has accomplished. The question that remains is whether we're going to live as if that

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 reality is true. So how should our lives be different because of this new reality?

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 First off, it's a call to actively reject individualism.

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 To actively reject individualism.

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 We live in a culture that says everything in my life should be about me.

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 You have no right to tell me what to do or say something to me that I don't want to hear.

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 And if you do say it, I can leave. I don't need to be tied down to things that are inconvenient or

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 uncomfortable. If we get in a situation where things are uncomfortable or inconvenient, we just

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 get out of there. If I'm at a church for the good preaching and the preacher leaves and there's going

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 to be a period of potentially mediocre preaching while they find a new good preacher, I'll just go to

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 the church down the street where they already have a good established preacher. If I'm in a CG and they're

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 calling out sin in my life that I don't want to deal with, just stop going to CG or change churches.

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 I'm in control. Life is about me. And that's the way that culture tells us to live.

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 There's a guy, Jonathan Lehman, and he wrote a book and he summarized the view of ourselves that

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 culture has. And this is what he said. He said, for the average person today, every attachment is

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 negotiable. We're all free agents and every relationship and life station is a contract

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 that can be renegotiated or canceled. I'm principally obligated to myself and maximizing my life, liberty,

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 and pursuit of happiness. Among my various relationships, I may choose to identify with

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 another party, but only so long as doing so clearly gives me a personal advantage.

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 I retain veto power over everything.

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 And here's the thing. If the ultimate good in the world is our own individual autonomy,

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 this is the right attitude to have. We keep veto power over everything so we can pursue

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 what is most convenient for us. But if we're called to something bigger,

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 if we're called to live not just as individuals but as a family,

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 then this cannot be the way that we approach our church community.

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 You know, last week, Chris was talking about the church as saints.

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 And he talked about how our glorious God created us in his image. And part of being in the image of God

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 is that we were created to be glorious. And every time that God calls us to obey him,

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 it's because he wants us to be glorious. And when we choose to obey him, we're choosing to become

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 more glorious. And when we disobey and choose our way rather than God's, we're rejecting that and

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 choosing to be less glorious than we were made to be. And this may come as a surprise to you because of

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 the individualistic nature of our culture. But that sermon and this sermon actually go hand in hand.

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 You know, I think if we think about becoming disciples as our goal,

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 and we talk about the different aspects of what it means to be a disciple,

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 we can see over here we have saints. That's one attribute of a disciple. And down here we have

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 family. And the next couple weeks we're going to talk about servants and ambassadors too.

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 But if you think about this as a wheel, if I'm spending lots of time reading my Bible,

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 and I'm spending lots of time trying to deal with sin in my life and to pursue God individually,

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 and I'm growing so much over on this side, but I'm not growing down here, I'm going to have a really,

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 really lopsided wheel. You know, if you think of it as like a car, you're putting air in your tire.

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 And as you put air in the tire, this side of the tire just gets really, really big,

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 and this side of the tire stays the same. You're not thinking, oh, this is great. My tire is getting

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 more air in it. You're thinking, uh-oh, something's wrong. And if you try to drive on that tire,

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 at best, you're going to have a bumpy ride. At worst, your tire is going to blow out and you're

00:28:12.539 --> 00:28:17.019
 going to crash your car because the tire had something terribly wrong with it. And either way,

00:28:17.019 --> 00:28:20.879
 you're probably going to do hundreds, if not thousands of dollars in screwing up your car's

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 alignment as you drive on that wheel. And it's not just that we have this cool graphic that fits in,

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 that makes them go together, but actually the very nature of what it means to be a saint and to be a

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 member of God's family goes hand in hand. If you look at, so in verse 18, he says that we're family.

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 We have access to the Father together. Verse 19, we're members of the household of God. Again,

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 a family image. And then in verse 21, he says we're being joined together and we're growing into a

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 holy temple in the Lord. And we can't see this in our English translation, but in the original language,

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 this word for holy right here is the same word used for saints. So God brings us together into a family

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 so that we can grow as saints. You need one for the other to happen. And it makes sense if you think

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 about what it means for us to be saints. See, part of the problem of my sin is that I'm blind to the fact

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 that I'm a sinner. And I mean, there are parts of it that I can recognize, but there are huge parts of

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 my life and my heart that are totally broken by sin and I'm completely blind to them.

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 And as long as I'm pursuing God on my own, I'm going to stay blind to those and I'm not going to

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 be able to deal with those areas of my heart. And I'm not going to be able to bring those areas of my

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 heart under what Christ wants me to be. But when I engage in community and I have family around me,

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 family who's going to, you know, if you think about family, the thing about family is with friends,

00:30:05.620 --> 00:30:09.580
 someone does something that annoys you, you can just get out of there. With family,

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 you have to stick with everyone even when you know their crap.

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 Right? And if someone does something that bothers you, you have to deal with it. You can't just ignore it.

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 Or it's, you can't ignore it, but it's going to be just really awkward for a long time. Right?

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 And so when I'm living in family with the church, I'm going to do things that annoy people and hurt

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 people. And when that happens, I'm going to realize parts of my heart that are broken.

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 This happened a couple of years ago. I was a very sarcastic person. Didn't think it was a big deal.

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 Until I made a sarcastic comment to someone that I really cared about one day and hurt this person

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 a lot with my comment. And rather than just running off and ignoring me because I had hurt them,

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 this person came to me and talked to me about it and said, you know, I think there's something going

00:31:00.400 --> 00:31:06.759
 on, Eric. I think you think your sarcasm is this innocent thing, but it's not. I think there's some

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 hurt going on inside you and you're using your sarcasm to cover it up. And they were right.

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 I was using my sarcasm as a defense mechanism because I didn't want to say something you did

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 hurt me. It was much easier to just do something that would hurt them back.

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 And through that experience, through that encounter, I was able to grow because I was living in community

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 as a family and had people who were willing to point out the sin in my life. But family also helps us to

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 grow as saints because not just we do things that hurt other people and annoy them, but other people

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 do things that annoy us. And we get frustrated and annoyed, but actually that's a gift from God. Have

00:31:52.079 --> 00:31:56.979
 you ever thought about that? In chapter four of Ephesians, Paul says to bear with one another.

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 And as Chris always points out, Paul says we need to bear with one another because people in the

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 church are unbearable. When I am praying with God in the morning, it's so easy to think that I am the

00:32:11.540 --> 00:32:17.380
 most forgiving and loving person in the world. And then I go talk to someone and they say something

00:32:17.380 --> 00:32:25.360
 that's just so annoying. And all of a sudden I realize I'm not as loving and forgiving as I thought

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 I was. And here's the thing. In that moment when they say something that's really annoying,

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 and I realize I'm not as loving and forgiving as I thought I was, the way I want to respond is in

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 anger. Because they hurt me, they annoyed me, they offended me. But here's how seeing the church as a

00:32:50.000 --> 00:32:55.539
 family and seeing family as a tool to help us grow closer to God changes our perspective. When they do

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 something that hurts me, rather than being annoyed, frustrated, angry, I can be thankful. Because I

00:33:01.480 --> 00:33:07.380
 recognize that God's using this to draw me to himself and to point out areas of my heart where I still

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 need growth, where I still need to become more like Jesus. And this type of growth is something that only

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 happens when we're engaging in family at a deep level that's willing to be uncomfortable and awkward

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 around each other and show each other all our junk. Because that's how God is going to transform our

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 lives. And even further, this engagement and acceptance that we have for one another within the

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 church, it should go beyond the typical extent to which acceptance goes in the world.

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 If you think about it, in the world, people are really happy having a group of people around

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 them that they love. But what our tendency is, is to get all of our friends up on the stage with us,

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 and then we as a group create a wall that separates us from everyone else and lets us look down on them.

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 So it could be a hobby like, oh, me and my friends all love model trains. And if you don't love model

00:34:09.960 --> 00:34:18.460
 trains, you're just not good enough to be up here on the stage with us. Or it could be, again, like I

00:34:18.460 --> 00:34:24.460
 said, things like work ethic, prioritizing family. You know, if you have an office full of hard workers,

00:34:24.679 --> 00:34:28.619
 it's very easy for your office to be like, we're up here on the stage, our company is better than

00:34:28.619 --> 00:34:34.579
 anyone else. If you're not working for our company, working however many hours a week, you're just not as

00:34:34.579 --> 00:34:40.000
 good. And we remain faithful to the people who are like us and share that trait that sets us apart.

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 But there's a whole world of people that we set out as below us and separate from us.

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 And just like what Jesus did with the Jews and the Gentiles in this passage,

00:34:52.699 --> 00:35:00.019
 Jesus tears down the walls that keep us from one another. If we are Christians, there is no

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 grounds. There's no grounds for us seeing ourselves as better than anyone else on the basis of our

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 accomplishments or what we've done. There's a guy named Miroslav Volf. He wrote a book called

00:35:15.719 --> 00:35:22.679
 Exclusion and Embrace, and he outlines four ways that we exclude others. The first, he calls it decimation.

00:35:23.159 --> 00:35:28.239
 It's like genocide. Hopefully that's not happening in the church. But if you want examples of that,

00:35:28.299 --> 00:35:34.439
 that's like the Holocaust or what's happening with the Rohingyas in Myanmar right now. But the other

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 three, I think we can see fairly easily in the church. The second is assimilation, which says,

00:35:41.500 --> 00:35:46.960
 I will accept you if you become just like me. This is what's happening in this passage with the Jews.

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 They have the law, and they basically say to the Gentiles, if you will get circumcised,

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 if you will keep the law, you can come stand on the stage with us. But until you do that,

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 you're below us. And this is what happens in the church when we have a CG full of married people,

00:36:02.380 --> 00:36:08.219
 and a random single person joins the group. Now, we as the married people in the group,

00:36:08.420 --> 00:36:11.659
 we're excited to have a new person in the group who's different than us,

00:36:11.699 --> 00:36:16.179
 and we'll get to know their name, and we'll invite them to hang out with us. But when it comes time for

00:36:16.179 --> 00:36:21.859
 serious discussion, we're always talking about marriage problems. And it's not something we're

00:36:21.859 --> 00:36:27.279
 doing consciously, but we're subconsciously sending this message that if you want to be fully included

00:36:27.279 --> 00:36:32.879
 in this group, you've got to change your relationship status. And that's not to say that

00:36:32.879 --> 00:36:38.699
 this group should all of a sudden stop talking about marriage issues, but how often do we take a step back

00:36:38.699 --> 00:36:44.299
 and just say, how can we lovingly, intentionally engage this person without saying to them, you have to

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 change and be like us in order to earn our acceptance. The third way we exclude people,

00:36:53.039 --> 00:36:59.519
 he says, is subjugation, which is what happened in segregation in America. It's where we say,

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 you know, you can be here, but you can't have these jobs. You can't live in these places. You can't go to

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 these schools. And I think this is what happens in a church when a new mom with two kids and a helper

00:37:13.460 --> 00:37:18.420
 walks into the service. And we walk over and we're so excited and we say, hey, it's great to have you

00:37:18.420 --> 00:37:22.880
 here. My name's Eric. And we shake the mom's hand and we learn her name and we shake the kids' hands

00:37:22.880 --> 00:37:28.019
 and we learn their name. And then we just give a little smile and nod to the helper. You know, you can

00:37:28.019 --> 00:37:35.659
 be here. You're an employee, not part of the family. So we're not going to really give you the full

00:37:35.659 --> 00:37:41.480
 rights and privileges of being here with us. And when we invite the family to lunch with us after

00:37:41.480 --> 00:37:46.980
 church, you can join us for lunch, but you're at the kids' table because that's your job.

00:37:48.719 --> 00:37:58.659
 You can be here, but you can't really be equal with us. And again, there's no place for that type of

00:37:58.659 --> 00:38:04.839
 attitude among God's people when Christ has torn down the walls. The final way he says we exclude

00:38:04.839 --> 00:38:11.259
 people is simply ignoring them. We pretend like they don't exist. We overlook them. We don't engage

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 them at all. And honestly, I think that's probably the most common way that we exclude people as

00:38:16.639 --> 00:38:22.099
 good, respectable Christians. If I don't talk to you, I'm not going to say anything mean to you.

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 If I don't talk to you, you're not going to annoy me and get some bad reaction out of me.

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 So I'm just going to avoid you. And what Paul is saying in this passage is that as people who

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 have been purchased by the blood of Christ, there is no room for any of that in the church.

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 There's no room for forcing people to assimilate or be subjugated or ignoring them as the body of

00:38:46.480 --> 00:38:55.340
 Christ. Because Christ died to tear down these walls. He made us a family. And as the family of Christ,

00:38:55.340 --> 00:39:02.720
 if you are a Christian, you have more in common with a Christian living in some small remote village

00:39:02.720 --> 00:39:08.780
 who has never been to school and can't read and can't do math out in some remote village of some

00:39:08.780 --> 00:39:16.460
 obscure country than you do with the non-Christian who sits next to you at work. Because what you share

00:39:16.460 --> 00:39:21.700
 with that Christian in that small remote village is that Christ has purchased you and made you

00:39:21.699 --> 00:39:26.879
 brothers and sisters and you're going to spend eternity together. And Paul's saying, look,

00:39:27.079 --> 00:39:32.179
 this is reality. We're spending eternity together as God's children. Let's live like it now.

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 And it's not easy, but there's a pastor, John Piper. He gives six steps that I think if we can

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 incorporate these into the way that we interact with each other will make a huge difference in us

00:39:44.900 --> 00:39:50.700
 taking a step in the right direction of including and having a community that goes beyond just people

00:39:50.700 --> 00:39:56.800
 like us to a community that's different than us. So the six steps, the first, avoid gossiping.

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 You know, when someone's different, it's so easy to just complain about their differences to everyone

00:40:02.500 --> 00:40:10.059
 and nothing tears about a community quicker than gossiping. Step two, identify evidences of grace in

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 each other and speak them to each other and about each other. Instead of looking for what's wrong with

00:40:15.340 --> 00:40:20.980
 someone, look for what God's doing in their life. And when you see it, tell them, you know, Chris, I see

00:40:20.980 --> 00:40:27.400
 you becoming so much more patient these days. Or Ed, I see you really caring for your family. These types

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 of things. And then don't just say them to that person. But then when you're having a conversation with

00:40:31.719 --> 00:40:38.759
 Michelle, be like, you know, God's doing some amazing things in Chris. Not in a way that like betrays

00:40:38.760 --> 00:40:44.240
 confidence or anything, but in a way that celebrates the fact that God is working in our family and that

00:40:44.240 --> 00:40:51.640
 he's bringing all of us closer to him. Step three, if we feel the need to communicate criticism, speak

00:40:51.640 --> 00:40:56.960
 it directly to the person. If I have a problem with Chris, don't talk to Graham and Oti and Joyce and

00:40:56.960 --> 00:41:05.100
 everyone else about it and avoid Chris. Just say it to Chris. Step four, look for and assume the best

00:41:05.099 --> 00:41:10.980
 motive in the other's viewpoint, especially when we disagree. This can be tough because when we

00:41:10.980 --> 00:41:16.099
 disagree, I'm right, you're wrong. Obviously, that's why we're disagreeing. And you're wrong

00:41:16.099 --> 00:41:22.719
 because you have bad motives. But that's usually not the case. That's usually just an interpretation

00:41:22.719 --> 00:41:28.400
 of the case that I give. And so when we look for and assume the best motives, we're going to be able

00:41:28.400 --> 00:41:34.659
 to engage with each other much more lovingly. Five, think often of the magnificent things we have in

00:41:34.659 --> 00:41:41.559
 common. You know, if I spend my days daydreaming about how wonderful and amazing it is that God

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 has rescued not only me, but also Sherman and Steven and Carlo, then when I'm having a conversation with

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 one of those guys and, you know, something goes wrong in the conversation, my mind's going to

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 automatically snap back to, wow, we have so much in common. We have Christ in common. This little thing

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 that separates us is so trivial in comparison to the fact that we have Christ in common and we are

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 family. And that is magnificent. And when that's at the center of my mind, I'm not going to exclude

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 people. I'm not going to look down on people. I'm not going to think I'm better than people.

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 And finally, be more amazed that we're forgiven than that we're right. I love being right.

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 It's one of the walls that I build up. I can stand on the stage because I'm right.

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 But when I'm more amazed that Christ has forgiven me than I am about being right,

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 I'm going to take the time to forgive others, to love others, to accept others.

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 And guys, if we just kept going through this passage and the ways that it should impact our

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 community, we could be here for weeks. And I've already run way over the time that I have right now.

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 But Christ has torn down the walls. Christ has made us a family. I want you to do something

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 really quick in closing. I want you to say out loud, Christ died for me so that I can be part of his

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 family. Now, look to the person to your left. I know you're looking at the back of their head,

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 but you can still see them. I want you to say, Christ died for him or her so they can be my brother

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 or sister. Now you're going to look to your right. Christ died for him or her so he or she can be my

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 brother or sister. And now the person in front of you. Christ died for him or her so he or she can be

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 my brother or sister. And now just to get the full circle, the person behind you. Christ died for him

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 or her so he or she can be my brother or sister. Guys, do we believe that's true?

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 Will we live like that's true this week?

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 That's the call that Christ has for us. We're a family. Let's live like it. Let's pray.

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 Father, we thank you for your love. We thank you that you are an awesome God who sent your son to

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 rescue us when we were far away from you. And we thank you that by doing that, you have made us a

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 family with one another. We thank you for the glorious things that we have in common, for the fact

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 that Christ unites us, that Christ brings us together and makes us brothers and sisters in you.

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 We pray that you forgive us for the times that we forget these truths and rebuild the walls that you

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 died to tear down. God, we love you. Teach us to love one another.

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 Teach us to interact with one another based on the love that you have for us.

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 Jesus' name. Amen.