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 The scripture reading comes from Romans chapter 12. Please follow along on the screen, the bulletin, or your own Bible.

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 Starting in verse 1, we read,

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 I appeal to you, therefore, brothers, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable to God, which is your spiritual worship.

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 Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.

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 For by the grace given to me, I say to everyone among you, not to think of himself more highly than he ought to think, but to think with sober judgment, each according to the measure of faith that God has assigned.

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 For as in one body we have many members, and the members do not all have the same function, so we, though many, are one body in Christ, and individually members one of another.

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 Having gifts that differ according to the grace given to us, let us use them.

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 Thank you, Betty.

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 Great. Good morning, everybody.

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 Good morning.

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 My name is Chris.

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 This is the day the Lord has made, and we will rejoice in it, because England won last night.

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 So, miracles happen.

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 Miracles happen.

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 So, this is probably the last time you'll see me this happy.

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 Let me pray for us as we begin.

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 Father, thank you that we stand in the presence of an awesome God.

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 And thank you that we come with nothing in our hands, but knowing that you are a good and a gracious king,

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 who is so full of mercy and so full of kindness that you continually, every morning, lavish new grace upon us.

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 Lord, I pray for us as a church family.

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 I pray, Lord, that you would help us to see the grace of each other.

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 Help us to see the grace that you have given us in abundance.

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 Lord, I pray that even this morning, as I know different people are struggling in different ways.

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 I know there are different challenges we're going through.

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 Father, I pray that your mercy and your kindness would just minister to us.

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 That you come and speak to us.

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 Open our ears.

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 Open our hearts, Lord.

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 That we would see you and not be the same again.

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 We love you.

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 In Jesus' name.

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 Amen.

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 Amen.

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 Great.

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 So we're going through this series in Romans.

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 And as I was thinking about this series, I remembered back at a previous church that there was an older lady called, let's call her Jean.

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 And she thought that men wearing hats in church was of the devil.

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 Edward.

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 You'd not be in a good place.

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 And one Sunday, a teenager came in to the Sunday service wearing a baseball cap.

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 And do you know what happened?

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 Jean went straight up to him and said, take it off.

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 And the teenager refused.

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 And there was this showdown, this kind of standoff.

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 And eventually the teenager just kind of stormed out.

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 This was Sunday morning.

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 And the lady gathered her friends together and started complaining about the youth these days.

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 And then the young people gathered together in their tribe

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 to complain about how legalistic all these old people were.

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 And it's fascinating, isn't it?

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 Because I noticed something.

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 That diversity is really hard.

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 When you have people from different expectations,

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 different backgrounds, different traditions

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 coming together in one place,

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 it's hard work, right?

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 And we like to go with people who think like us,

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 who act like us, who dress like us,

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 who do the same things as us,

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 because that feels a little bit safer

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 and a little bit easier at times.

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 And when we often hit up against the rub of diversity,

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 what happens is we often end up looking down

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 and judging each other.

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 Don't we? Anyone done that?

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 Okay, maybe I'm the only one.

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 And so what we often tend to do that moment,

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 we then retreat into our little tribe,

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 whether it's politically, whether it's age,

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 whether it's life stage,

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 because it's much easier to be uniform than to be diverse.

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 Right?

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 And, you know, as you look out into the world

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 and you see people love talking about diversity in our world,

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 but actually the world is as polarized

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 into our little tribes as ever.

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 And this is actually one of the key issues

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 for the church in Rome

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 as we're looking in the book of Romans.

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 Because the book of Romans was not primarily just written

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 to give you some, like a nice theology textbook.

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 It was written to help a polarized church

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 split into different tribes

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 of the minority Jewish Christians

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 and the majority Gentile non-Jewish Christians.

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 And it was written to show them

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 that the gospel and the doctrine of what you believe

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 can heal and unite even divided people.

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 And it calls us and everyone

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 to stop placing our identity in our ethnicity,

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 even in our religiosity,

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 in anything else.

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 Because the only identity that we have now,

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 if you are a believer in Christ,

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 is a gospel identity in Jesus.

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 And he's gone through the book of Romans

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 showing how God has taken,

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 if you have trusted in him,

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 put your faith in Christ's death for you,

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 he has taken you from being God's enemies

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 to being his friends,

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 to being outside the family,

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 to being adopted into his multinational,

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 multigenerational family.

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 And it's all because of Jesus.

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 And it's all the glory to him.

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 It's all because of his mercy.

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 And that's what we've been talking about, isn't it?

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 By the mercies of God.

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 And you know, a couple of weeks ago,

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 we talked about in verse 1 how Paul has said,

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 as a response to what God has done for us,

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 therefore lay your lives down on the altar

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 to live all of life as worship to him.

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 And he's then said, we looked at last week,

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 and he said, so in light of that,

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 don't conform to the way everyone else is thinking,

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 but get your minds renewed and transformed

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 through the word of God,

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 so that you live as this different kind of people

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 that I've made you to be.

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 So stop judging each other.

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 Start loving each other.

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 And this is where the rest of Romans 12

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 is going to flow out in some very practical ways.

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 Because you see,

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 the God of the Bible is a Trinitarian God.

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 He's a God of unity and diversity.

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 One God, three persons.

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 And we as his people are supposed to reflect that.

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 So how, and here's the big question,

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 how do you get unity without crushing diversity?

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 Or how do you get diversity

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 without creating tribal warfare and destroying unity?

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 Well, Paul is going to go into this passage.

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 And so if you've got it in front of you,

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 we're just going to kind of check it out.

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 Romans 12, starting at verse 3.

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 He says, and I've got three things.

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 He says, think straight.

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 Then he's going to say, think team.

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 And then think grace.

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 Okay?

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 So let's start.

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 Think straight.

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 He starts off saying,

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 by the grace given to me,

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 I say to everyone among you,

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 not to think of himself or herself more highly

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 than he ought to think,

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 but to think with sober judgment or sober thinking

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 is actually what it says in Greek,

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 each according to the measure of faith

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 that God has assigned.

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 Do you notice he says to everyone,

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 not just the minority,

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 not just the majority,

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 he says to everyone

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 that the healing process

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 is going to start in your community

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 when you start renewing your thinking.

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 He's saying you've got way too high

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 a view of yourselves.

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 You've got to sober up.

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 You need sober thinking.

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 Do you know, when you're drunk,

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 what happens to you?

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 You start thinking that a lamppost is your best friend.

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 You lose touch with reality.

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 Have you ever seen like X Factor

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 or one of those programs

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 where someone really believes

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 that they are the next Taylor Swift,

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 but they cannot sing to save their lives?

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 It's just excruciating, right?

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 But you know, I've seen so many marriages

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 falling apart where both sides claim

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 the other person is the problem.

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 And Paul Tripp says,

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 two perfectly righteous people

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 in a terrible marriage,

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 how does that happen?

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 It happens when we make our thinking about us

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 and our thinking about others

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 more important than God's thinking about us

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 and God's thinking about others.

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 You see, tribalism happens

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 when you get stinking thinking,

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 which leads you to elevate yourself

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 and diminish other people.

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 That's what Paul's saying.

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 You know, one translation of this verse

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 actually says,

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 take a sane view of yourself.

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 Think straight.

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 But how do you do that?

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 How do you do that?

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 Well, he says,

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 according to the measure of faith

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 that God has assigned.

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 Well, the word measure

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 can either mean,

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 like if you take this and you go,

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 okay, 1.5 meters,

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 it can either be your height,

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 what you measure,

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 so in this case, your faith,

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 okay, the amount of faith you've got,

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 or it can actually be the tape measure itself.

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 And so what I think Paul is saying is,

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 he's saying the latter,

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 he's saying there is a tape measure,

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 there is a measure that God has assigned to you.

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 That is, it's the gospel of Jesus Christ.

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 It's not your own view of your own faith

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 because you've got stinking thinking,

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 so how are you going to get a right assessment?

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 He's saying,

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 no, you've got to use God's assessment tool,

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 which is his tape measure,

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 which is Christ.

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 And Christ is like,

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 I can't go any higher.

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 He's like 25 meters high.

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 I mean, just take the image.

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 But what does that do to us

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 when we come against that measure?

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 Well, the first thing it does,

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 it actually humbles our pride.

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 Because doesn't the world measure us

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 according to our status,

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 according to our achievements,

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 according to how well you've done in your workplace,

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 according to your appearance?

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 You know, so if you've got a good job,

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 say you're a lawyer or a doctor

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 or something like that,

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 then people might look at you and go,

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 oh, you're about five meters.

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 And when people say that about us,

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 we can begin to own that for ourselves.

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 Oh, we can.

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 Pretty good.

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 You know, even in church,

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 you know, if you're the pastor

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 or you're serving all the time,

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 people can look at you and go,

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 oh, five meters.

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 But when you look at God's measure in the gospel,

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 it's going to get dangerous.

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 You see that actually God's measure in the gospel

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 says that actually connected to that,

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 if I can get this working.

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 These things weren't made for sermon illustrations.

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 He says, actually, you're more like that.

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 You know, you're way smaller,

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 you're way more fragile,

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 you're way more sinful than you think you are.

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 And that humbles us

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 from looking down on other people.

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 But then it doesn't just do that.

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 It does a second thing.

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 It also lifts up those who are crushed.

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 Because, you know,

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 some of us, society tells you,

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 you're that small.

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 Or you tell yourself you're that small.

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 And what the gospel says,

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 in Christ, because of his death for you,

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 if you put your faith in him,

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 you go from that to actually being like this,

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 because your measure now is not yourself,

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 it's Christ.

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 So he says,

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 your identity is no longer based on your performance

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 and based on my performance,

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 and my performance is 25 meters.

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 You see, you're now no longer a loser,

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 you're a saint.

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 You're no longer an outsider and rejected.

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 You are welcomed into the family of the king of kings.

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 You belong.

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 Measure yourself against that.

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 So that means in Christ,

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 a faithful pastor of 50 years

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 has no more personal merit in the kingdom of God

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 than somebody who's a new believer.

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 Isn't that extraordinary?

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 You don't get that out in the world,

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 but you get that when you measure it

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 against God's measure.

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 And that means this.

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 It means the same for you,

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 and it means the same for the person

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 sitting next to you if they're in Christ.

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 And that means that grace

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 is what brings unity to the church

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 because grace levels the playing field of all of us.

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 It doesn't matter whether you're black,

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 white, green, yellow, pink.

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 It doesn't matter whether you're an England fan

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 or a Ukraine fan.

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 It even doesn't matter about that.

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 It doesn't matter whether you're married,

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 whether you're single,

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 whether you've got a great job,

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 whether you're unemployed.

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 Grace is the only gateway

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 into the family of the kingdom of God.

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 It's the only measure of your value

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 that doesn't crush others or crush you.

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 Grace brings unity to us.

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 So what that means is,

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 if Christ is our measure,

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 and that grace that we have in him

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 is the unity which unites us together as one,

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 Paul is then going to go and say,

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 since we neither elevate ourselves

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 nor we just over-diminish ourselves,

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 don't think too highly of ourselves,

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 don't think too lowly of ourselves,

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 then he's going to say,

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 grace doesn't just bring unity.

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 Grace also brings diversity too.

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 And that's my second thing.

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 So think straight.

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 Think team or body is the next thing.

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 For he says in verse four,

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 he says,

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 What's he saying here?

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 It's actually not a difficult point that he's making.

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 He's actually saying,

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 instead of looking down on each other

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 and judging each other,

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 there's a shift of direction to see yourself

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 as a team,

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 as a body,

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 united together.

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 And there's three things about this.

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 One is, yes,

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 you are unified.

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 You are unified.

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 That's what he says.

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 We're one body.

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 Okay, let me emphasize that again.

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 Everyone who trusts in Christ,

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 you're united to him vertically

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 and you're united to each other

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 horizontally in his church family.

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 So if your hand slaps your face,

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 who suffers?

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 You do.

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 If somebody looks down,

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 if you look down on a brother or sister

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 in the body of Christ

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 and you just either withdraw to your own circle,

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 social circle and complain,

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 who suffers?

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 We do.

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 You do.

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 All of us do.

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 Do you see the image that he's saying?

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 You are not an independent,

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 like,

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 we're not just an individual,

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 like,

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 bunch of little toes

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 that come together on a Sunday.

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 It's one toes

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 and then we go and amputate ourselves

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 for the rest of the week.

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 That's painful.

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 That's going to die.

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 That's actually one of the reasons,

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 and Kevin mentioned it earlier,

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 we want to move away from live streaming

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 to actually in-person gathering.

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 Because church isn't just sitting on your sofa

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 and just watching a message.

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 Church is living,

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 breathing a body together.

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 Your absence affects me

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 just as your presence,

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 your physical presence affects me.

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 That's amazing.

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 You know,

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 it's like if there's two people in a room,

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 if there's a hundred people in a room,

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 it makes a difference to you,

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 doesn't it?

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 And actually,

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 if you think about it,

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 church is then intrinsic to your identity.

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 It's intrinsic to who you are.

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 So live and make decisions

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 as if your church family

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 is not an optional extra,

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 but actually it's intrinsic

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 to who you are as a human being.

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 And so,

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 that means like things like CGs,

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 family groups,

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 if you're a family

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 and you're struggling to get in,

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 come and see me

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 so you can actually get connected.

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 We're unified,

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 but we're also connected with that,

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 we're interdependent.

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 And so,

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 that's kind of the same point

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 that I was making.

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 As we're interdependent,

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 what that means is,

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 when you come together

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 and I hear you singing,

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 that encourages my heart.

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 When you pray for me,

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 that encourages me.

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 Do you know,

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 you can't give hugs by live stream,

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 but you can do that with each other.

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 That is actually,

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 when you welcome me,

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 I experience the love of Christ through you.

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 Do you see how it works?

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 And I know how hard this is.

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 I've got two kids,

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 like young kids,

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 and I know coming on Sunday,

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 coming to see,

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 it's hard work.

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 But let me tell you,

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 if you know that this is who you are,

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 you're going to get here

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 and we're going to help you get here

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 whatever way possible.

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 So we're unified,

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 we're interdependent,

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 but we're also diverse.

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 And by the way,

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 that also means that actually,

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 you matter,

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 right?

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 You matter when you're here.

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 So don't just rock up for the sermon

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 and then just rush out afterwards.

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 Actually come to be with your family.

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 But we are diverse as well.

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 And he says this,

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 he says,

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 we're not just unified,

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 we're not just interdependent,

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 we're diverse.

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 He says,

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 having gifts that differ

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 according to the grace given to us.

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 And I just want to unpack this a little bit.

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 I'm just going to put this under another title,

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 which is Think Grace.

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 Okay?

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 Think Grace.

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 So think straight,

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 think team,

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 think grace.

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 Okay.

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 He says,

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 God has given us different gifts.

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 And he says,

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 they're grace.

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 It's the word charismata,

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 which comes from the word charis,

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 which is the word for grace.

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 It's the same root family.

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 And grace is not just for salvation.

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 Grace is here for blessing other people.

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 You know,

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 our gifts are grace to us from God

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 and grace from God to others through us.

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 They're grace to us and grace through us.

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 You see,

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 you won't get the full extent of the mercies of God

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 by just sitting reading your Bible in your room.

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 Reading a Bible is really important.

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 It's crucial.

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 But it's not enough.

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 Because God's design that is alongside his word,

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 we experience grace through each other.

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 And it's not about us.

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 It's not so we get exalted.

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 So Jesus gets the glory

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 and others experience his goodness through us.

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 And so he says,

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 use whatever gifts God has given you

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 for others.

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 You see,

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 it's no longer focused on yourself.

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 It's for others.

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 Now,

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 some people get really hung up on that word gift

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 because we go,

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 oh,

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 I don't know what my gifts are.

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 I'm not sure I've got any gifts.

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 Things like that.

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 And Paul would say,

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 hey,

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 that's not the point.

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 This gift list,

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 he's basically saying,

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 use whatever God has given you.

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 And he's just giving you,

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 actually,

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 and this is not an exhaustive list.

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 It's an example list

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 of some things that God has given

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 to the church in Rome.

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 And the reason we know that

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 is because there's two other lists

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 in the New Testament of gifts

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 and none of them are exactly the same.

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 These are examples.

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 And one of the examples of that

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 is to show that diverse grace

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 moves us out of tribal thinking,

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 individualistic thinking,

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 and moves us to unified

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 serving and blessing each other

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 kind of thinking.

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 You know,

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 and if you're going,

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 I don't know what my gifts are,

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 just try stuff out of serving other people

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 and you'll find where your sweet spot is

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 as you learn how to serve.

00:22:36.579 --> 00:22:36.839
 You know,

00:22:36.859 --> 00:22:38.960
 and he mentions like practical things.

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 He calls serving here

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 and that's a very practical thing

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 like setting up the sound system,

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 those kind of things.

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 He mentions relational stuff,

00:22:46.059 --> 00:22:47.299
 the exhortation,

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 like encouraging,

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 listening,

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 consoling,

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 comforting people.

00:22:52.339 --> 00:22:53.319
 But he's using,

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 he uses a body analogy.

00:22:55.680 --> 00:22:56.000
 Okay?

00:22:56.079 --> 00:22:56.960
 We've talked about that.

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 But I think many of us

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 are actually very familiar

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 with the body analogy.

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 So I want to change the analogy.

00:23:02.700 --> 00:23:02.960
 Okay?

00:23:03.680 --> 00:23:04.940
 It's not a perfect analogy.

00:23:06.299 --> 00:23:08.200
 But I want to say

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 that Christian community

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 is actually making

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 a beautiful,

00:23:12.599 --> 00:23:13.919
 delicious chocolate cake.

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 This one,

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 if we can have it on the screen,

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 this one is gluten-free for me.

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 But it's meant to be

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 this mouth-watering demonstration

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 of the goodness and glory of God

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 so that others can see

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 and experience it.

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 Now,

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 and what he does,

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 he privileges you and me

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 and every believer

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 of being a partner

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 in him making

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 and creating this masterpiece.

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 He doesn't have to.

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 But he privileges us

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 with the opportunity to.

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 And so,

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 what do you need

00:23:49.619 --> 00:23:52.420
 when you make a chocolate cake?

00:23:53.319 --> 00:23:54.720
 I've got a few different ingredients.

00:23:57.680 --> 00:23:58.119
 Okay.

00:24:00.019 --> 00:24:00.900
 I've got some,

00:24:01.139 --> 00:24:02.480
 I'm actually missing some ingredients.

00:24:02.480 --> 00:24:02.620
 ingredients.

00:24:03.099 --> 00:24:04.000
 And by the way,

00:24:04.920 --> 00:24:05.480
 you know when you have

00:24:05.480 --> 00:24:06.160
 different ingredients

00:24:06.160 --> 00:24:06.839
 in a cake,

00:24:06.880 --> 00:24:07.640
 if you miss some out,

00:24:07.680 --> 00:24:08.160
 what happens?

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 It's not good, right?

00:24:12.220 --> 00:24:13.700
 They're kind of interdependent,

00:24:13.759 --> 00:24:14.039
 right?

00:24:14.160 --> 00:24:15.380
 To make something unified,

00:24:15.620 --> 00:24:15.880
 right?

00:24:17.480 --> 00:24:17.839
 Well,

00:24:18.099 --> 00:24:18.960
 I'm actually missing

00:24:18.960 --> 00:24:19.640
 cocoa powder

00:24:19.640 --> 00:24:20.860
 and I'm missing

00:24:20.860 --> 00:24:21.579
 vegetable oil,

00:24:21.660 --> 00:24:22.680
 but let's pretend

00:24:22.680 --> 00:24:23.339
 that we have them.

00:24:23.480 --> 00:24:23.620
 Okay,

00:24:23.759 --> 00:24:24.259
 let me give you,

00:24:24.319 --> 00:24:25.099
 that's some baking powder

00:24:25.099 --> 00:24:25.839
 for you.

00:24:28.039 --> 00:24:28.860
 Can I give you,

00:24:29.120 --> 00:24:29.620
 there's an egg,

00:24:29.700 --> 00:24:30.599
 hold it very carefully,

00:24:30.599 --> 00:24:31.199
 okay?

00:24:33.719 --> 00:24:34.159
 Donna,

00:24:34.299 --> 00:24:35.000
 can I give you,

00:24:35.459 --> 00:24:36.199
 that's some sugar.

00:24:37.240 --> 00:24:37.559
 More woolly,

00:24:37.639 --> 00:24:38.279
 there's some flour

00:24:38.279 --> 00:24:38.899
 for you.

00:24:40.039 --> 00:24:40.480
 Now,

00:24:41.059 --> 00:24:43.159
 did you pay for that?

00:24:45.459 --> 00:24:46.599
 Did you earn it?

00:24:48.159 --> 00:24:49.139
 What is it?

00:24:49.939 --> 00:24:50.839
 It's a gift.

00:24:51.480 --> 00:24:52.240
 It's a gift

00:24:52.240 --> 00:24:53.139
 of pure grace

00:24:53.139 --> 00:24:53.639
 to you.

00:24:54.959 --> 00:24:55.399
 Okay?

00:24:56.039 --> 00:24:57.279
 And as you got

00:24:57.279 --> 00:24:58.000
 the gift,

00:24:58.000 --> 00:25:03.640
 you got to go,

00:25:03.779 --> 00:25:04.000
 hmm,

00:25:04.380 --> 00:25:05.079
 why have I got

00:25:05.079 --> 00:25:05.619
 this gift?

00:25:06.660 --> 00:25:07.079
 You see,

00:25:07.200 --> 00:25:07.880
 you can lead

00:25:07.880 --> 00:25:08.700
 a Bible study,

00:25:09.619 --> 00:25:10.700
 you can give

00:25:10.700 --> 00:25:11.839
 people lifts

00:25:11.839 --> 00:25:12.740
 to help others

00:25:12.740 --> 00:25:13.539
 and that's grace.

00:25:14.900 --> 00:25:15.660
 Do you know that?

00:25:17.059 --> 00:25:17.819
 You can work

00:25:17.819 --> 00:25:18.319
 at your gifts,

00:25:18.420 --> 00:25:18.920
 you can develop

00:25:18.920 --> 00:25:19.339
 your gifts,

00:25:19.440 --> 00:25:20.099
 but ultimately

00:25:20.099 --> 00:25:21.519
 it's all a gift.

00:25:22.420 --> 00:25:22.880
 That's why

00:25:22.880 --> 00:25:23.619
 it's called a gift.

00:25:24.920 --> 00:25:25.480
 And it's glory

00:25:25.480 --> 00:25:25.859
 to him,

00:25:25.859 --> 00:25:26.439
 it's grace

00:25:26.439 --> 00:25:27.799
 which is spring-loaded

00:25:27.799 --> 00:25:28.419
 for the worship

00:25:28.419 --> 00:25:28.899
 of Jesus.

00:25:29.479 --> 00:25:30.019
 That's what

00:25:30.019 --> 00:25:30.819
 your gift is.

00:25:32.240 --> 00:25:33.279
 But don't we

00:25:33.279 --> 00:25:34.679
 often then turn

00:25:34.679 --> 00:25:35.359
 what is meant

00:25:35.359 --> 00:25:35.979
 to be given

00:25:35.979 --> 00:25:36.719
 for the worship

00:25:36.719 --> 00:25:37.259
 of Jesus

00:25:37.259 --> 00:25:38.199
 into like

00:25:38.199 --> 00:25:39.779
 a comparison thing?

00:25:40.539 --> 00:25:40.919
 So like

00:25:40.919 --> 00:25:41.740
 the eggs,

00:25:42.139 --> 00:25:42.839
 look over

00:25:42.839 --> 00:25:44.659
 at the other eggs

00:25:44.659 --> 00:25:45.119
 and say,

00:25:45.240 --> 00:25:45.879
 I'm not like

00:25:45.879 --> 00:25:46.459
 other eggs.

00:25:47.119 --> 00:25:48.019
 I'm a double yoker.

00:25:49.159 --> 00:25:49.699
 You know,

00:25:49.740 --> 00:25:50.459
 I got talent.

00:25:50.799 --> 00:25:51.279
 I'm not like

00:25:51.279 --> 00:25:52.000
 those other ones.

00:25:52.079 --> 00:25:52.179
 You know,

00:25:52.219 --> 00:25:53.159
 I shouldn't have

00:25:53.159 --> 00:25:53.659
 to put up

00:25:53.659 --> 00:25:54.099
 with guys

00:25:54.099 --> 00:25:54.459
 who are not

00:25:54.459 --> 00:25:55.719
 quite as good

00:25:55.719 --> 00:25:56.699
 musicians as me

00:25:56.699 --> 00:25:57.359
 or quite as

00:25:57.359 --> 00:25:58.119
 competent at

00:25:58.119 --> 00:25:58.879
 leading Bible study

00:25:58.879 --> 00:25:59.299
 as me.

00:26:00.819 --> 00:26:01.859
 And then the flower,

00:26:02.740 --> 00:26:03.079
 actually no,

00:26:03.139 --> 00:26:03.799
 let's not do the flower.

00:26:03.959 --> 00:26:04.799
 The vegetable oil,

00:26:04.879 --> 00:26:05.719
 which I forgot to bring,

00:26:05.859 --> 00:26:06.159
 but hey,

00:26:06.379 --> 00:26:07.379
 the vegetable oil

00:26:07.379 --> 00:26:08.439
 looks over at the sugar

00:26:08.439 --> 00:26:10.819
 and says,

00:26:10.959 --> 00:26:12.939
 you're so sweet.

00:26:14.319 --> 00:26:14.679
 You know,

00:26:14.719 --> 00:26:15.619
 everybody loves you.

00:26:16.480 --> 00:26:17.419
 Everybody just talks

00:26:17.419 --> 00:26:18.539
 about you all the time.

00:26:19.099 --> 00:26:20.099
 But I'm just greasy.

00:26:20.099 --> 00:26:24.039
 Nobody notices me.

00:26:24.459 --> 00:26:25.179
 I don't get any

00:26:25.179 --> 00:26:26.500
 appreciation around here.

00:26:26.559 --> 00:26:27.639
 Maybe what's the point

00:26:27.639 --> 00:26:28.879
 in me kind of

00:26:28.879 --> 00:26:30.059
 coming into this?

00:26:30.219 --> 00:26:30.879
 Because what have I

00:26:30.879 --> 00:26:31.259
 got to offer?

00:26:31.299 --> 00:26:32.139
 No one will miss me.

00:26:33.519 --> 00:26:35.000
 And then the baking powder

00:26:35.000 --> 00:26:35.839
 pipes up

00:26:35.839 --> 00:26:37.039
 and says to the vegetable oil

00:26:37.039 --> 00:26:37.659
 and says,

00:26:37.839 --> 00:26:39.359
 it's all right for you.

00:26:40.099 --> 00:26:41.639
 They get half a cup of you.

00:26:42.379 --> 00:26:43.099
 But they only get

00:26:43.099 --> 00:26:44.279
 like a half a teaspoon

00:26:44.279 --> 00:26:45.399
 kind of girl for me.

00:26:46.519 --> 00:26:47.480
 And have you tried

00:26:47.480 --> 00:26:48.299
 tasting me?

00:26:48.299 --> 00:26:53.740
 I'm not anything special.

00:26:54.960 --> 00:26:56.559
 And you see what's happening

00:26:56.559 --> 00:26:58.359
 as we do all of this.

00:26:59.500 --> 00:27:01.279
 Where does the focus come?

00:27:02.799 --> 00:27:03.279
 You see,

00:27:03.359 --> 00:27:04.159
 when we lose,

00:27:04.460 --> 00:27:05.619
 we start comparing

00:27:05.619 --> 00:27:06.919
 and wishing our gifts away

00:27:06.919 --> 00:27:07.139
 and going,

00:27:07.240 --> 00:27:07.419
 oh,

00:27:07.460 --> 00:27:08.019
 they've got something

00:27:08.019 --> 00:27:08.480
 better than me

00:27:08.480 --> 00:27:09.299
 or I'm better than them.

00:27:09.480 --> 00:27:10.740
 When we start doing that,

00:27:10.980 --> 00:27:12.059
 our eyes go off

00:27:12.059 --> 00:27:13.059
 the worship of Jesus

00:27:13.059 --> 00:27:14.720
 and they begin to focus on

00:27:14.720 --> 00:27:16.539
 ourselves.

00:27:17.539 --> 00:27:17.980
 Right?

00:27:18.299 --> 00:27:19.500
 Anyone done that?

00:27:21.480 --> 00:27:22.159
 Man,

00:27:22.220 --> 00:27:23.299
 I do this all the time.

00:27:24.659 --> 00:27:25.720
 And what happens is

00:27:25.720 --> 00:27:26.460
 our thinking

00:27:26.460 --> 00:27:27.519
 becomes stinking

00:27:27.519 --> 00:27:30.299
 because we either

00:27:30.299 --> 00:27:31.279
 elevate or diminish

00:27:31.279 --> 00:27:32.240
 ourselves in ways

00:27:32.240 --> 00:27:33.539
 that we need renewal

00:27:33.539 --> 00:27:34.720
 of the gospel

00:27:34.720 --> 00:27:36.279
 to transform our minds

00:27:36.279 --> 00:27:37.059
 against the measure

00:27:37.059 --> 00:27:37.759
 of God.

00:27:39.159 --> 00:27:40.359
 And we forget

00:27:40.359 --> 00:27:41.559
 the incredible grace

00:27:41.559 --> 00:27:42.599
 that God has entrusted

00:27:42.599 --> 00:27:43.339
 us with

00:27:43.339 --> 00:27:46.379
 because it's not about us.

00:27:46.379 --> 00:27:47.119
 It's about the worship

00:27:47.119 --> 00:27:47.639
 of Jesus,

00:27:47.640 --> 00:27:47.740
 Jesus,

00:27:47.840 --> 00:27:48.060
 right?

00:27:49.140 --> 00:27:49.820
 And you know,

00:27:49.960 --> 00:27:52.300
 so before you come

00:27:52.300 --> 00:27:52.860
 and serve,

00:27:53.000 --> 00:27:53.759
 before you come

00:27:53.759 --> 00:27:54.920
 and whatever you do

00:27:54.920 --> 00:27:56.060
 for somebody else,

00:27:56.320 --> 00:27:57.820
 I encourage you,

00:27:58.860 --> 00:27:59.259
 stop.

00:27:59.320 --> 00:28:00.000
 I used to do this

00:28:00.000 --> 00:28:00.740
 when I had to clean

00:28:00.740 --> 00:28:01.780
 toilets for somebody.

00:28:02.060 --> 00:28:02.740
 I used to stop

00:28:02.740 --> 00:28:02.940
 and say,

00:28:03.020 --> 00:28:03.400
 thank you,

00:28:03.440 --> 00:28:03.759
 Jesus,

00:28:04.220 --> 00:28:05.440
 that I get the privilege

00:28:05.440 --> 00:28:06.380
 of serving you.

00:28:06.380 --> 00:28:07.140
 I pray this would be

00:28:07.140 --> 00:28:08.420
 worship to you today.

00:28:09.880 --> 00:28:11.460
 Every time do that

00:28:11.460 --> 00:28:12.580
 because your heart

00:28:12.580 --> 00:28:13.140
 is going to get

00:28:13.140 --> 00:28:13.940
 tempted

00:28:13.940 --> 00:28:15.800
 to start comparing.

00:28:16.740 --> 00:28:17.140
 Remember,

00:28:17.260 --> 00:28:17.860
 it's gift.

00:28:18.560 --> 00:28:18.960
 Worship.

00:28:20.640 --> 00:28:21.540
 Don't compare.

00:28:23.220 --> 00:28:24.160
 And then third thing,

00:28:24.280 --> 00:28:25.740
 check your own heart.

00:28:27.280 --> 00:28:27.700
 You see,

00:28:27.760 --> 00:28:28.460
 what he says here

00:28:28.460 --> 00:28:29.220
 with some of these gifts,

00:28:29.320 --> 00:28:29.680
 he says,

00:28:29.680 --> 00:28:31.140
 the one who contributes,

00:28:31.779 --> 00:28:32.860
 do it in generosity,

00:28:33.779 --> 00:28:34.920
 the one who leads

00:28:34.920 --> 00:28:35.840
 with zeal,

00:28:36.299 --> 00:28:37.360
 the one who with acts

00:28:37.360 --> 00:28:38.100
 of mercy,

00:28:38.460 --> 00:28:39.420
 with cheerfulness.

00:28:40.779 --> 00:28:41.220
 Guys,

00:28:41.299 --> 00:28:41.740
 would you like to

00:28:41.740 --> 00:28:43.039
 just kind of come up?

00:28:43.440 --> 00:28:43.799
 But Donna,

00:28:43.900 --> 00:28:44.960
 I'd like you to come up

00:28:44.960 --> 00:28:48.080
 really cheerfully.

00:28:48.079 --> 00:28:51.079
 And Mawali,

00:28:52.039 --> 00:28:53.919
 I'd like you to just

00:28:53.919 --> 00:28:55.359
 come up really reluctantly.

00:28:57.220 --> 00:28:57.879
 Because, you know,

00:28:57.980 --> 00:28:58.720
 if you can do it

00:28:58.720 --> 00:28:59.179
 with zeal,

00:28:59.240 --> 00:29:00.399
 then why is he telling you that?

00:29:00.460 --> 00:29:01.339
 Because you can do it

00:29:01.339 --> 00:29:02.319
 reluctantly, right?

00:29:03.259 --> 00:29:05.319
 Or you can contribute

00:29:05.319 --> 00:29:06.720
 but stingily, right?

00:29:07.339 --> 00:29:10.079
 Or you can have compassion

00:29:10.079 --> 00:29:11.399
 and listen and care for people

00:29:11.399 --> 00:29:12.319
 but just do it out of

00:29:12.319 --> 00:29:13.240
 this sense of guilt

00:29:13.240 --> 00:29:14.019
 and burden

00:29:14.019 --> 00:29:14.939
 and like, oh.

00:29:15.419 --> 00:29:15.699
 So,

00:29:16.259 --> 00:29:16.939
 could you come up,

00:29:17.079 --> 00:29:17.339
 please?

00:29:17.339 --> 00:29:19.299
 And can I have the others

00:29:19.299 --> 00:29:20.059
 come up as well?

00:29:24.559 --> 00:29:25.079
 It's okay,

00:29:25.159 --> 00:29:25.939
 it's not too far.

00:29:26.319 --> 00:29:27.240
 It's, uh...

00:29:27.240 --> 00:29:28.139
 Yes!

00:29:28.599 --> 00:29:28.779
 Woo!

00:29:33.139 --> 00:29:33.579
 Thank you.

00:29:33.659 --> 00:29:34.099
 Do you want to put it

00:29:34.099 --> 00:29:34.379
 in the bowl?

00:29:35.279 --> 00:29:35.899
 You can open it.

00:29:36.619 --> 00:29:37.399
 You can actually put it in.

00:29:38.319 --> 00:29:38.919
 Come up, yeah.

00:29:43.599 --> 00:29:43.919
 Okay.

00:29:44.919 --> 00:29:45.779
 Now the egg's the one

00:29:45.779 --> 00:29:46.179
 we're going to have

00:29:46.179 --> 00:29:46.899
 to be careful with.

00:29:47.339 --> 00:29:47.619
 Okay.

00:29:49.759 --> 00:29:50.119
 Ooh!

00:29:51.539 --> 00:29:52.899
 Too much watching Jamie Oliver.

00:29:53.379 --> 00:29:53.779
 There you go.

00:29:54.759 --> 00:29:55.039
 Okay.

00:29:55.559 --> 00:29:55.879
 Yeah.

00:29:56.679 --> 00:29:57.519
 I put a little bit in.

00:29:58.659 --> 00:29:59.059
 Okay.

00:29:59.539 --> 00:29:59.819
 Mauli.

00:30:01.240 --> 00:30:01.839
 Come on, Mauli.

00:30:01.939 --> 00:30:02.459
 You can do it.

00:30:02.539 --> 00:30:03.019
 You can do it.

00:30:03.079 --> 00:30:03.379
 Come on.

00:30:03.859 --> 00:30:04.359
 Put it in.

00:30:04.579 --> 00:30:04.859
 Great.

00:30:07.439 --> 00:30:07.959
 Thank you.

00:30:08.119 --> 00:30:08.899
 You guys can...

00:30:08.899 --> 00:30:09.779
 Actually, let me take the flower

00:30:09.779 --> 00:30:11.439
 unless you want it.

00:30:11.779 --> 00:30:12.099
 Thank you.

00:30:12.099 --> 00:30:13.199
 You guys, thank you.

00:30:13.259 --> 00:30:14.000
 Give them a round of applause.

00:30:18.740 --> 00:30:20.019
 But actually, you know,

00:30:20.079 --> 00:30:21.399
 we have so many people.

00:30:21.939 --> 00:30:23.159
 And why do we get people involved?

00:30:23.219 --> 00:30:23.639
 Because actually,

00:30:23.699 --> 00:30:24.699
 we have so many people

00:30:24.699 --> 00:30:26.219
 in Watermark doing amazing serving.

00:30:26.480 --> 00:30:27.359
 Like, even this morning,

00:30:27.619 --> 00:30:28.559
 like, a ton of you

00:30:28.559 --> 00:30:29.399
 have just been serving.

00:30:29.519 --> 00:30:30.419
 People are serving your kids.

00:30:30.500 --> 00:30:31.439
 People are serving everywhere.

00:30:31.440 --> 00:30:33.799
 And we just have such an amazing church

00:30:33.799 --> 00:30:34.259
 we're serving.

00:30:34.900 --> 00:30:37.080
 I think we are so blessed by you guys.

00:30:37.180 --> 00:30:38.019
 So blessed.

00:30:38.660 --> 00:30:39.340
 It's amazing.

00:30:41.220 --> 00:30:42.360
 And I hear people, you know,

00:30:42.420 --> 00:30:43.759
 you're serving in just, you know,

00:30:43.820 --> 00:30:45.480
 cooking meals for newborns.

00:30:45.539 --> 00:30:46.259
 You know, you're serving

00:30:46.259 --> 00:30:47.420
 and grabbing coffee

00:30:47.420 --> 00:30:48.500
 with people who are struggling.

00:30:49.080 --> 00:30:50.779
 You serve by setting up early.

00:30:52.580 --> 00:30:53.920
 But I think we have a danger.

00:30:55.700 --> 00:30:56.640
 We have a danger

00:30:56.640 --> 00:30:57.640
 that when we serve a lot,

00:30:57.700 --> 00:30:58.519
 we can get jaded.

00:30:58.519 --> 00:31:01.460
 Because sometimes when we serve,

00:31:01.539 --> 00:31:02.420
 we can actually expect

00:31:02.420 --> 00:31:04.180
 as you put the gifts in the bowl,

00:31:04.740 --> 00:31:08.099
 that others are going to appreciate you.

00:31:09.519 --> 00:31:11.279
 Or others are going to treat you well.

00:31:11.660 --> 00:31:12.539
 And what happens

00:31:12.539 --> 00:31:13.619
 when the flour

00:31:13.619 --> 00:31:15.359
 just kind of messes up your eggshell?

00:31:18.579 --> 00:31:19.940
 You know, some of you

00:31:19.940 --> 00:31:23.099
 are, like,

00:31:23.299 --> 00:31:24.740
 have been stewarding with the parking.

00:31:24.920 --> 00:31:26.779
 Actually, who's been stewarding,

00:31:26.779 --> 00:31:28.160
 like, done over the last couple of months,

00:31:28.160 --> 00:31:29.700
 just doing parking stewarding?

00:31:30.860 --> 00:31:31.680
 Okay, don't be shy.

00:31:31.860 --> 00:31:32.380
 Come on, guys.

00:31:32.560 --> 00:31:33.560
 Let's give them a round of applause.

00:31:33.660 --> 00:31:34.160
 Let's just...

00:31:34.160 --> 00:31:36.960
 Thank you.

00:31:37.620 --> 00:31:38.360
 Thank you for that.

00:31:38.360 --> 00:31:39.660
 That is just an important job.

00:31:39.920 --> 00:31:41.040
 It's not a glamorous job.

00:31:41.440 --> 00:31:42.220
 It's an important job.

00:31:42.259 --> 00:31:43.060
 But just imagine

00:31:43.060 --> 00:31:46.060
 that you're showing people

00:31:46.060 --> 00:31:47.000
 to their spot,

00:31:47.640 --> 00:31:48.440
 the car parks.

00:31:49.279 --> 00:31:50.200
 You've got a system

00:31:50.200 --> 00:31:50.680
 that's all...

00:31:50.680 --> 00:31:51.440
 You've worked it out.

00:31:51.440 --> 00:31:52.440
 But then one driver

00:31:52.440 --> 00:31:53.580
 just ignores you completely

00:31:53.580 --> 00:31:53.900
 and says,

00:31:54.019 --> 00:31:54.900
 this is my spot.

00:31:57.400 --> 00:31:58.000
 And you're, like,

00:31:58.039 --> 00:31:58.940
 trying to explain to them.

00:31:58.960 --> 00:31:59.200
 And they say,

00:31:59.240 --> 00:31:59.600
 no, no, no.

00:31:59.660 --> 00:32:01.080
 I've got to get out of here first.

00:32:02.820 --> 00:32:05.440
 And they're rude to you afterwards.

00:32:06.500 --> 00:32:07.920
 They act a bit more like

00:32:07.920 --> 00:32:09.080
 an amputated toe

00:32:09.080 --> 00:32:10.299
 than the body of Christ.

00:32:13.160 --> 00:32:14.140
 How do you feel

00:32:14.140 --> 00:32:14.820
 when you do that?

00:32:14.819 --> 00:32:17.539
 And by the way,

00:32:17.599 --> 00:32:18.460
 if you are a driver,

00:32:19.579 --> 00:32:20.879
 this is not a dig at you,

00:32:20.980 --> 00:32:21.319
 but actually,

00:32:21.439 --> 00:32:22.779
 just remember to worship God

00:32:22.779 --> 00:32:24.779
 and treat and encourage

00:32:24.779 --> 00:32:26.659
 the parking stewards well.

00:32:27.339 --> 00:32:27.519
 Okay?

00:32:28.639 --> 00:32:29.939
 But how do you feel?

00:32:30.599 --> 00:32:31.339
 Aren't we tempted to go,

00:32:31.419 --> 00:32:32.200
 well, what's the point?

00:32:32.919 --> 00:32:33.439
 Aren't we tempted

00:32:33.439 --> 00:32:34.799
 to just begin to grumble

00:32:34.799 --> 00:32:36.039
 in our own hearts?

00:32:37.480 --> 00:32:38.119
 Aren't we tempted

00:32:38.119 --> 00:32:39.119
 to just maybe put in

00:32:39.119 --> 00:32:40.299
 only half the flour

00:32:40.299 --> 00:32:41.179
 the next time

00:32:41.179 --> 00:32:43.200
 because we are just...

00:32:43.200 --> 00:32:44.500
 Why do I have to deal with this?

00:32:44.819 --> 00:32:47.960
 And you know what happens

00:32:47.960 --> 00:32:48.980
 is if someone

00:32:48.980 --> 00:32:50.119
 that you're serving with,

00:32:50.339 --> 00:32:50.939
 that somebody goes

00:32:50.939 --> 00:32:52.000
 and thanks them,

00:32:52.159 --> 00:32:52.980
 but you've been doing

00:32:52.980 --> 00:32:53.919
 exactly the same thing

00:32:53.919 --> 00:32:54.799
 and they ignore you.

00:32:56.279 --> 00:32:57.439
 How does that feel?

00:32:59.299 --> 00:33:00.679
 Can we, at that moment,

00:33:00.799 --> 00:33:02.339
 rejoice with those who rejoice?

00:33:02.480 --> 00:33:04.259
 Is their success my success?

00:33:06.259 --> 00:33:09.000
 Or have we forgotten

00:33:09.000 --> 00:33:09.759
 that we're one body?

00:33:12.220 --> 00:33:13.579
 And it's hard, right?

00:33:13.579 --> 00:33:16.220
 And it can eat away at you.

00:33:16.720 --> 00:33:18.579
 Or we can end up serving,

00:33:18.720 --> 00:33:20.119
 but it forgets about worship

00:33:20.119 --> 00:33:20.939
 and it just becomes

00:33:20.939 --> 00:33:21.779
 about obligation.

00:33:24.779 --> 00:33:26.199
 Sometimes we just withdraw,

00:33:26.399 --> 00:33:27.379
 but the mercies of God

00:33:27.379 --> 00:33:28.339
 come to us

00:33:28.339 --> 00:33:29.740
 and reminding us,

00:33:30.279 --> 00:33:31.199
 serving is grace.

00:33:32.699 --> 00:33:33.299
 And you know,

00:33:33.539 --> 00:33:36.539
 I delight in your service to me.

00:33:36.539 --> 00:33:39.740
 Even if everyone else ignores you,

00:33:39.799 --> 00:33:40.799
 I do not ignore.

00:33:41.180 --> 00:33:42.740
 I hear, I see,

00:33:42.960 --> 00:33:44.559
 and it delights my heart.

00:33:44.680 --> 00:33:45.920
 So do it for me.

00:33:47.440 --> 00:33:49.019
 And in the midst of that,

00:33:49.579 --> 00:33:51.259
 just remember that it is grace

00:33:51.259 --> 00:33:52.740
 that you're even part of this family.

00:33:55.680 --> 00:33:57.180
 That's what I'm doing for you.

00:33:57.399 --> 00:33:59.079
 Don't become tribal and withdraw.

00:33:59.319 --> 00:34:00.940
 Receive my love for you.

00:34:00.940 --> 00:34:02.380
 And get up again

00:34:02.380 --> 00:34:04.680
 and use your gifts to serve.

00:34:06.980 --> 00:34:08.159
 So we've said,

00:34:08.559 --> 00:34:09.700
 remember it's a gift.

00:34:10.760 --> 00:34:11.720
 Worship, don't compare.

00:34:11.860 --> 00:34:12.579
 Check your own heart.

00:34:12.720 --> 00:34:13.240
 Final thing.

00:34:14.679 --> 00:34:16.900
 Find your identity in Christ.

00:34:16.900 --> 00:34:19.800
 You see,

00:34:19.880 --> 00:34:21.139
 many of us can serve

00:34:21.139 --> 00:34:23.340
 because it becomes

00:34:23.340 --> 00:34:24.940
 a bit of an identity to serve.

00:34:25.960 --> 00:34:26.700
 And some of us,

00:34:26.780 --> 00:34:26.960
 you know,

00:34:27.059 --> 00:34:29.400
 you've been pouring out

00:34:29.400 --> 00:34:30.340
 and pouring out

00:34:30.340 --> 00:34:31.300
 and pouring out

00:34:31.300 --> 00:34:32.300
 and pouring out

00:34:32.300 --> 00:34:33.180
 and pouring out

00:34:33.180 --> 00:34:34.019
 and actually you just,

00:34:34.360 --> 00:34:35.360
 you feel like you're empty.

00:34:36.320 --> 00:34:36.940
 And you feel like

00:34:36.940 --> 00:34:38.280
 you're still meant to be pouring out,

00:34:38.360 --> 00:34:38.780
 but you feel like

00:34:38.780 --> 00:34:39.619
 you've got nothing else.

00:34:39.700 --> 00:34:40.840
 You can't even open the bag.

00:34:43.960 --> 00:34:45.240
 And the mercies of God

00:34:45.240 --> 00:34:46.220
 come to us.

00:34:47.860 --> 00:34:49.019
 And sometimes you keep going,

00:34:49.099 --> 00:34:49.300
 oh,

00:34:49.380 --> 00:34:50.079
 I can't believe

00:34:50.079 --> 00:34:51.220
 I've got to keep doing this.

00:34:51.400 --> 00:34:52.500
 And the mercies of God

00:34:52.500 --> 00:34:53.340
 come to you

00:34:53.340 --> 00:34:54.200
 and say,

00:34:55.220 --> 00:34:56.160
 humble yourself.

00:34:57.099 --> 00:34:58.300
 You're not omnipotent.

00:34:59.820 --> 00:35:01.000
 Receive my grace

00:35:01.000 --> 00:35:01.880
 through others.

00:35:03.680 --> 00:35:05.180
 Some of us don't receive

00:35:05.180 --> 00:35:06.059
 the grace of God

00:35:06.059 --> 00:35:07.579
 because he's designed grace

00:35:07.579 --> 00:35:08.880
 to come through somebody else,

00:35:08.960 --> 00:35:10.400
 but we never ask anybody for help.

00:35:11.940 --> 00:35:12.420
 Right?

00:35:14.000 --> 00:35:15.260
 Some of us go,

00:35:15.260 --> 00:35:15.340
 well,

00:35:15.880 --> 00:35:17.240
 but I don't want to disturb everyone.

00:35:17.380 --> 00:35:18.100
 Everyone's busy.

00:35:18.700 --> 00:35:19.120
 But actually,

00:35:19.200 --> 00:35:20.060
 sometimes that's because

00:35:20.060 --> 00:35:21.660
 our identity is an independence

00:35:21.660 --> 00:35:24.160
 rather than actually being willing

00:35:24.160 --> 00:35:25.540
 to ask others for help.

00:35:26.500 --> 00:35:27.840
 I've just experienced that

00:35:27.840 --> 00:35:28.980
 so much in my life.

00:35:29.380 --> 00:35:29.860
 When,

00:35:29.980 --> 00:35:30.200
 you know,

00:35:30.300 --> 00:35:30.680
 he's going,

00:35:30.820 --> 00:35:32.180
 I've given grace to Donna

00:35:32.180 --> 00:35:33.400
 for you.

00:35:33.800 --> 00:35:34.580
 So ask her.

00:35:35.360 --> 00:35:36.100
 Ask her.

00:35:36.100 --> 00:35:36.200
 Ask her.

00:35:39.300 --> 00:35:40.300
 The mercies of God

00:35:40.300 --> 00:35:41.020
 give you courage

00:35:41.019 --> 00:35:42.199
 to disturb other people.

00:35:43.219 --> 00:35:44.099
 But you know what?

00:35:44.840 --> 00:35:45.920
 What can sometimes happen

00:35:45.920 --> 00:35:46.679
 is maybe the flower

00:35:46.679 --> 00:35:47.340
 goes to the egg

00:35:47.340 --> 00:35:48.079
 and asks to help,

00:35:48.159 --> 00:35:49.400
 but the egg is too busy

00:35:49.400 --> 00:35:51.440
 trying to find their identity

00:35:51.440 --> 00:35:54.360
 in decorating their own shell

00:35:54.360 --> 00:35:55.759
 with their career ambitions,

00:35:56.119 --> 00:35:57.139
 with their kids' education,

00:35:57.320 --> 00:35:58.380
 with a whole load of other things,

00:35:58.460 --> 00:35:59.139
 social calendar,

00:35:59.280 --> 00:35:59.960
 packed schedule.

00:36:00.179 --> 00:36:01.300
 I've got no time for anyone

00:36:01.300 --> 00:36:02.719
 because I've got goals.

00:36:02.719 --> 00:36:03.039
 goals.

00:36:05.759 --> 00:36:06.679
 And we've forgotten

00:36:06.679 --> 00:36:07.919
 that God has invited us

00:36:07.919 --> 00:36:08.859
 to be part of the cake

00:36:08.859 --> 00:36:09.539
 that he's making.

00:36:10.619 --> 00:36:11.519
 So he says,

00:36:11.879 --> 00:36:13.439
 in the view of God's mercies,

00:36:13.599 --> 00:36:14.279
 offer yourself

00:36:14.279 --> 00:36:15.339
 as a living sacrifice

00:36:15.339 --> 00:36:15.939
 and be willing

00:36:15.939 --> 00:36:16.759
 to be disturbed.

00:36:17.119 --> 00:36:17.899
 And put yourself

00:36:17.899 --> 00:36:18.919
 in relationships

00:36:18.919 --> 00:36:19.839
 in CG

00:36:19.839 --> 00:36:20.679
 or in other places

00:36:20.679 --> 00:36:21.219
 where you're able

00:36:21.219 --> 00:36:22.399
 to see the needs of others

00:36:22.399 --> 00:36:23.059
 so you know how

00:36:23.059 --> 00:36:23.939
 you can serve them

00:36:23.939 --> 00:36:25.199
 and can be disturbed.

00:36:29.699 --> 00:36:30.539
 But finally,

00:36:30.539 --> 00:36:32.779
 if we're going to find

00:36:32.779 --> 00:36:33.779
 our identity in Jesus,

00:36:33.980 --> 00:36:35.719
 not actually in what we're doing,

00:36:36.380 --> 00:36:38.059
 not in our careers,

00:36:38.880 --> 00:36:40.820
 and not in our serving

00:36:40.820 --> 00:36:44.599
 because if you can't say no sometimes,

00:36:45.320 --> 00:36:46.860
 if you feel guilty

00:36:46.860 --> 00:36:48.159
 at saying no all the time,

00:36:48.199 --> 00:36:48.759
 and you're somebody

00:36:48.759 --> 00:36:50.279
 who's pausing all the time,

00:36:51.079 --> 00:36:52.179
 then the mercies of God

00:36:52.179 --> 00:36:53.159
 come to you and says,

00:36:53.519 --> 00:36:54.659
 take a break.

00:36:55.860 --> 00:36:56.139
 Sabbath.

00:36:57.259 --> 00:36:58.360
 Enjoy my goodness.

00:36:59.099 --> 00:36:59.960
 It's not about you.

00:36:59.960 --> 00:37:01.659
 Enjoy worshipping me

00:37:01.659 --> 00:37:03.420
 so that you can be refilled,

00:37:03.599 --> 00:37:05.260
 that your bag can be replenished

00:37:05.260 --> 00:37:06.579
 so that you can pour out again.

00:37:09.280 --> 00:37:10.760
 And God,

00:37:10.840 --> 00:37:11.960
 in his amazing mercy,

00:37:13.000 --> 00:37:14.240
 you know what he does?

00:37:14.300 --> 00:37:15.800
 He takes this complete mess.

00:37:16.119 --> 00:37:16.260
 I mean,

00:37:16.340 --> 00:37:18.619
 I don't know what the recipe was,

00:37:18.679 --> 00:37:19.380
 but it wasn't this.

00:37:21.199 --> 00:37:21.840
 And you know,

00:37:21.880 --> 00:37:22.579
 he has a whisk.

00:37:23.619 --> 00:37:24.559
 It's the whisk

00:37:24.559 --> 00:37:26.099
 of his spirit of grace,

00:37:26.099 --> 00:37:26.599
 forgiveness,

00:37:26.599 --> 00:37:28.380
 which is he pours

00:37:28.380 --> 00:37:29.500
 and he whisks

00:37:29.500 --> 00:37:31.179
 all the messiness together.

00:37:33.239 --> 00:37:34.380
 And he brings us

00:37:34.380 --> 00:37:35.900
 to remember the gospel again

00:37:35.900 --> 00:37:37.159
 and he causes us to repent

00:37:37.159 --> 00:37:38.039
 and he reminds us

00:37:38.039 --> 00:37:39.339
 of how kind he is.

00:37:41.679 --> 00:37:42.519
 It's going to get messier.

00:37:44.839 --> 00:37:46.480
 He then puts it in the oven

00:37:46.480 --> 00:37:48.519
 of his gracious,

00:37:48.920 --> 00:37:50.599
 sovereign plan.

00:37:50.599 --> 00:37:52.440
 the circumstances,

00:37:52.739 --> 00:37:53.579
 the experiences,

00:37:53.779 --> 00:37:55.059
 the things that he just brings

00:37:55.059 --> 00:37:55.980
 in life.

00:37:57.400 --> 00:37:58.279
 And then,

00:37:59.599 --> 00:38:01.559
 miraculously,

00:38:02.799 --> 00:38:05.199
 out of just the most incredible,

00:38:05.659 --> 00:38:08.420
 incredible mercy and grace,

00:38:09.420 --> 00:38:11.079
 you see what appears.

00:38:11.079 --> 00:38:24.579
 is this glorious cake.

00:38:25.340 --> 00:38:26.360
 And when you look at it

00:38:26.360 --> 00:38:26.599
 and you say,

00:38:26.719 --> 00:38:28.440
 how did it get from that

00:38:28.440 --> 00:38:29.699
 to this?

00:38:30.799 --> 00:38:32.299
 And then you look down

00:38:32.299 --> 00:38:34.980
 at the baker's hands

00:38:34.980 --> 00:38:38.000
 and there are nail prints there.

00:38:39.299 --> 00:38:40.519
 There are scars

00:38:40.519 --> 00:38:40.980
 and he says,

00:38:41.059 --> 00:38:42.039
 this is the fruit

00:38:42.039 --> 00:38:44.480
 of what I have done for you.

00:38:45.800 --> 00:38:47.300
 And what it means

00:38:47.300 --> 00:38:49.900
 is that grace comes to us

00:38:49.900 --> 00:38:52.059
 but glory goes to Jesus

00:38:52.059 --> 00:38:53.759
 because there is no one else

00:38:53.759 --> 00:38:54.619
 who can take that

00:38:54.619 --> 00:38:55.480
 and make this.

00:38:56.300 --> 00:38:57.280
 And that is what God

00:38:57.280 --> 00:38:58.559
 is trying to do with us,

00:38:58.659 --> 00:38:59.539
 brothers and sisters.

00:39:00.199 --> 00:39:01.420
 Wherever you are,

00:39:02.300 --> 00:39:02.860
 some of you,

00:39:02.940 --> 00:39:03.619
 he's calling you

00:39:03.619 --> 00:39:04.500
 to start serving

00:39:04.500 --> 00:39:06.019
 in ways you haven't served before.

00:39:06.380 --> 00:39:07.079
 Some of you,

00:39:07.139 --> 00:39:07.980
 he's just calling you

00:39:07.980 --> 00:39:09.280
 to use your service

00:39:09.280 --> 00:39:09.960
 and come back

00:39:09.960 --> 00:39:10.880
 to worshiping

00:39:10.880 --> 00:39:13.140
 and joy in serving him.

00:39:13.600 --> 00:39:14.200
 Some of you,

00:39:14.260 --> 00:39:14.780
 he's calling you

00:39:14.780 --> 00:39:15.580
 to stop thinking

00:39:15.580 --> 00:39:16.920
 it's individualistic

00:39:16.920 --> 00:39:18.060
 but actually remember

00:39:18.060 --> 00:39:18.820
 you're a body.

00:39:20.700 --> 00:39:22.620
 And it's the glory of Jesus

00:39:22.620 --> 00:39:25.440
 and it's all fueled by grace.

00:39:26.360 --> 00:39:28.260
 It's not this burden on us.

00:39:29.340 --> 00:39:30.660
 And he's calling us

00:39:30.660 --> 00:39:32.260
 to be a unified

00:39:32.260 --> 00:39:34.340
 yet diverse community.

00:39:34.340 --> 00:39:36.860
 Let's pray.

00:39:36.860 --> 00:39:36.920
 Let's pray.

00:39:48.600 --> 00:39:50.140
 Maybe as we pray,

00:39:51.559 --> 00:39:53.620
 I just want you to think

00:39:53.620 --> 00:39:54.400
 we've been looking

00:39:54.400 --> 00:39:55.820
 at the three kind of responses

00:39:55.820 --> 00:39:58.240
 that God might be calling you to.

00:39:59.900 --> 00:40:00.559
 Some of you,

00:40:00.620 --> 00:40:01.220
 God's calling you

00:40:01.220 --> 00:40:02.460
 to actually thankfulness

00:40:02.460 --> 00:40:03.880
 and praise

00:40:03.880 --> 00:40:04.679
 that actually you've

00:40:04.679 --> 00:40:05.679
 lost sight

00:40:05.679 --> 00:40:07.340
 of the glory

00:40:07.340 --> 00:40:07.940
 of the community

00:40:07.940 --> 00:40:08.740
 God has given you

00:40:08.740 --> 00:40:10.220
 and God just wants to say

00:40:10.220 --> 00:40:11.900
 you to worship him

00:40:11.900 --> 00:40:12.820
 and thank him

00:40:12.820 --> 00:40:14.199
 for the grace

00:40:14.199 --> 00:40:15.099
 that he has bestowed

00:40:15.099 --> 00:40:15.860
 both upon you

00:40:15.860 --> 00:40:16.519
 and his community.

00:40:17.800 --> 00:40:18.420
 Some of us,

00:40:18.519 --> 00:40:19.260
 we need to repent

00:40:19.260 --> 00:40:20.699
 that we've made

00:40:20.699 --> 00:40:21.320
 so many things

00:40:21.320 --> 00:40:22.099
 about ourselves

00:40:22.099 --> 00:40:24.699
 and some of us

00:40:24.699 --> 00:40:25.539
 just need to

00:40:25.539 --> 00:40:26.579
 step out

00:40:26.579 --> 00:40:28.199
 and obey

00:40:28.199 --> 00:40:29.079
 what he's calling you

00:40:29.079 --> 00:40:29.460
 to do.

00:40:29.460 --> 00:40:31.820
 So I want to give you

00:40:31.820 --> 00:40:32.519
 just a minute

00:40:32.519 --> 00:40:34.820
 to go and work with God

00:40:34.820 --> 00:40:35.940
 on what's he calling you

00:40:35.940 --> 00:40:36.699
 to right now.

00:40:38.920 --> 00:40:40.139
 What's he calling you to?

00:40:41.079 --> 00:40:42.079
 Maybe it's the musicians

00:40:42.079 --> 00:40:43.079
 just start to play.

00:40:44.059 --> 00:40:45.460
 Just respond to God

00:40:45.460 --> 00:40:46.619
 to whatever he's calling you

00:40:46.619 --> 00:40:47.220
 to right now.

00:40:47.220 --> 00:40:47.420
 Amen.

00:40:47.420 --> 00:40:47.780
 Amen.

00:40:47.780 --> 00:40:47.840
 Amen.

00:40:47.840 --> 00:40:47.920
 Amen.

00:40:47.920 --> 00:40:48.380
 Amen.

00:40:48.380 --> 00:40:48.420
 Amen.

00:40:48.420 --> 00:40:48.519
 Amen.

00:40:48.519 --> 00:40:48.920
 Amen.

00:40:48.920 --> 00:40:49.420
 Amen.

00:40:49.420 --> 00:40:49.480
 Amen.

00:40:49.480 --> 00:40:49.519
 Amen.

00:40:49.519 --> 00:40:49.920
 Amen.

00:40:49.920 --> 00:40:50.519
 Amen.

00:40:50.519 --> 00:40:51.519
 Amen.

00:40:51.519 --> 00:40:51.599
 Amen.

00:40:51.599 --> 00:40:51.639
 Amen.

00:40:51.639 --> 00:40:51.679
 Amen.

00:40:51.679 --> 00:40:51.720
 Amen.

00:40:59.460 --> 00:41:00.000
 Amen.

00:41:02.220 --> 00:41:02.639
 Amen.

00:41:02.639 --> 00:41:02.940
 Amen.

00:41:03.280 --> 00:41:03.599
 Amen.

00:41:10.599 --> 00:41:11.619
 Amen.

00:41:11.619 --> 00:41:12.179
 Amen.

00:41:12.199 --> 00:41:12.639
 Amen.

00:41:12.639 --> 00:41:13.019
 Amen.

00:41:13.019 --> 00:41:13.659
 Amen.

00:41:13.659 --> 00:41:14.460
 Father, I just thank you

00:41:14.460 --> 00:41:16.199
 for this amazing church, Lord.

00:41:19.139 --> 00:41:20.559
 Thank you for your amazing

00:41:20.559 --> 00:41:21.579
 mercies to us.

00:41:23.300 --> 00:41:24.780
 That we could even be

00:41:24.780 --> 00:41:26.159
 a member of your family.

00:41:26.360 --> 00:41:27.400
 Lord, what a privilege.

00:41:27.400 --> 00:41:27.679
 Amen.

00:41:29.460 --> 00:41:34.579
 But Lord, I pray that your mercies would not just be in our heads, but they would thrill our hearts.

00:41:35.159 --> 00:41:46.240
 So that as we look around and we see each other, we see ways that we can bring your grace through the gifts that you've given us to serve one another.

00:41:48.240 --> 00:41:49.380
 Change us, we pray.

00:41:50.840 --> 00:41:52.659
 Fill us with joy, I pray.

00:41:54.960 --> 00:41:56.980
 What a wonderful Savior you are.

00:41:56.980 --> 00:42:01.360
 In Jesus' name, amen.