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 You are listening to a message from Southwood Presbyterian Church in Huntsville, Alabama.

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 Our passion is to experience and express grace.

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 Join us.

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 Amen.

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 That was one of the great, great joys of this week was seeing kids see a God that big.

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 It's in their story, the hero of their story.

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 It's a real joy.

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 We're talking this summer about one-anothering, the beauty, the challenge of true gospel community,

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 the relationships that are shaped by Jesus that He's brought us into.

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 We started with love one another.

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 Last week we saw how hard it can be to rejoice and weep with one another.

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 And now today we move from hard to downright uncomfortable.

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 We're going to talk for the next two Sundays about confess and forgive.

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 Turn to James chapter 5.

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 I'm going to read a few verses that talk about our life together in community.

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 And the last one highlights our focus for today.

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 Confess your sins to one another.

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 James 5 at verse 13.

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 Is anyone among you suffering?

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 Let him pray.

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 Is anyone cheerful?

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 Let him sing praise.

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 Is anyone among you sick?

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 Let him call for the elders of the church and let them pray over him,

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 anointing him with oil in the name of the Lord.

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 And the prayer of faith will save the one who is sick and the Lord will raise him up.

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 And if he has committed sins, he will be forgiven.

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 Therefore, confess your sins to one another and pray for one another that you may be healed.

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 The prayer of a righteous person has great power as it is working.

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 The word of God for the people of God to shape our hearts and our lives together.

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 Thanks be to God.

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 Let's pray.

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 Father, we do give you thanks.

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 In particular now for your word.

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 And we ask for your spirit to work in particular through it to conform us to your likeness.

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 And in this passage particularly to make us like what you would have us to be as individuals.

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 And especially together as your people.

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 Help us, Holy Spirit.

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 We ask in Jesus' name.

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 Amen.

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 Perhaps more than many other issues.

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 When you hear James say, confess your sins to each other.

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 You may have all sorts of objections pop into your head.

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 But do you mean, how could I possibly?

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 Yeah, but what about?

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 And there are a lot of those ways to finish those sentences.

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 So I want to start by briefly mentioning three things that this does not mean.

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 What's three things not being said here in this passage.

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 This is going to put the command in the context of the whole of God's word.

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 And help us see what God is after in our community in this area.

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 First, this confessing our sins to one another is not a substitute for confessing to God.

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 All of our sin is first and foremost against God, right?

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 Psalm 51.

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 Hearts turned away from relationship with Him that He created us to have and enjoy.

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 And so the Bible speaks much more often about the importance of confessing sins to God than to anyone else.

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 You can go to Him anytime and we should.

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 This is not that.

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 And this doesn't replace that.

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 Second, confessing our sins to one another is not self-promoting.

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 Here's what I mean.

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 Sometimes in a church that is so committed to grace as we are,

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 confessing sins can be thought of as a badge of honor.

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 This shows how wonderful and spiritual I am.

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 And you might get the idea that the goal is merely to earn points for transparency.

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 The most vulnerable person is the most spiritual person.

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 And that's all that really matters.

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 We'll see that certainly transparency and vulnerability can be and should be fruits of the gospel working in our hearts and in our community.

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 But we confess together, James says, that we would experience what?

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 The healing of God.

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 It's not primarily about us being proved wonderful.

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 It's so that our hearts would be turned to find hope in Him.

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 And therefore, this is not promoting self.

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 It's promoting Jesus and His grace.

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 Not us and our excellent confessing skills.

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 It's not about that.

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 Third, confessing our sins to one another is not every sin confessed to everybody, for which you're probably thankful.

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 Confess your sins to one another is stated in the context of meaningful relationships in the family of God.

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 Ask the elders to pray, James says, and we love to do that with you, by the way.

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 And yes, when he gets to confess your sins, it's broader than just to the elders.

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 It's beyond that.

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 But the clear idea is that the people who hear the confession will actually pray with and for you.

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 That they know you and love you.

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 They don't condemn you, on the one hand, and they don't let you off the hook, on the other hand.

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 So wisdom must be exercised in the audience of the confession, right?

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 And no, Facebook is not what I mean by wisdom.

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 You can take that to the bank pretty much every time.

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 And for many of us, that's really good, right?

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 I mean, that's quite enough on confession.

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 We can stop right there.

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 Because honestly, I'm not really sure who someone is like that that I could confess to.

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 So I just play it safe, right?

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 Wisdom.

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 I heard him say wisdom.

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 That's what I'm going to do.

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 I'm going to be wise and just keep it to myself, right?

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 Listen, if you feel that, it's not just you.

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 Y'all, most of us are more comfortable there.

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 I don't have time to list all of the things that we in this room would rather do than confess our sins to one another.

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 But the list includes rooting for your rival's football team.

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 Eating a plate full of broccoli.

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 Disgusting.

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 And singing a solo in front of a large audience.

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 All of those, for many of us, are more appealing and safer than this.

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 We don't like sharing our real heart-level idols and struggles, do we?

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 And yet, God says, confess your sins to one another.

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 He directs us towards this.

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 What does confessing to one another look like?

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 Well, think of it this morning in terms of picking a fight.

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 Now, we usually don't condone fighting.

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 It's not something that we recommend a lot.

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 But, please understand, the Bible talks a lot about spiritual warfare.

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 And says we must understand that we're in it.

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 And we must engage in it.

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 That's what I mean here.

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 Our passage in James 5 indicates that the implications of this warfare in which we're engaged are both physical and spiritual.

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 But, regardless, sin is the real enemy.

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 We talked about that with the kids at VBS this week.

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 That sin is what has messed everything up, right?

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 The world.

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 You.

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 Me.

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 Our relationship with God.

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 Our relationship with each other.

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 And so, when we identify a villain.

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 When we see who the bad guy is.

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 We must engage him or it.

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 It's not enough merely to go around cleaning up the messes that the villain creates.

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 We must actually confront our sin itself.

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 Wherever we see it.

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 Confessing our sins to one another begins with being willing to see sin in ourselves.

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 And really to hate sin enough to pick the fight.

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 Hate it enough.

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 To see that we're in spiritual warfare.

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 And I'm not going to call a truce on sin.

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 Just so that I can get on with living the way that I want to and not be bothered for a while.

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 No.

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 There's no such thing in God's word.

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 Sin is an enemy to be fought against.

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 Confess.

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 The word for confess.

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 Actually there in verse 16.

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 Means speaking the truth.

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 Speaking the truth about our sins.

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 Confess.

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 Are you willing to do that?

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 Are you willing to admit even to yourself that that's what's going on in your heart?

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 Confession begins with identifying the villain.

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 Picking a fight with your sin.

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 If you're willing to do that secondly.

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 It means inviting a friend to the fight.

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 James says confess your sins to one another.

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 This is really the crux of what we're talking about this morning.

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 Actually verbalizing to a friend or brother or sister.

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 The darkness you're beginning to see in your own heart and life.

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 It's a way of acknowledging I can't fight this on my own.

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 And I was never meant to.

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 I mean think about it.

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 You would not go alone to a fist fight with a dangerous enemy.

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 Right?

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 You'd bring someone with you.

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 You wouldn't fight a serious medical condition without getting help from a doctor.

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 You wouldn't respond to a call where gunshots had been fired without dialing in for backup.

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 Right?

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 So why would we approach sin more casually than that?

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 We all need a sidekick as it were.

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 In our fight against sin.

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 Because see sin always wants the fight to be in secret.

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 That's where sin gets stronger.

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 In the darkness.

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 When you're alone.

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 Pastor John MacArthur on this verse writes about how important it is to confess sins to one another.

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 He says sin is most dangerous to the isolated believer.

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 Sin seeks to remain private and secret.

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 But God wants it exposed and dealt with in the loving fellowship of other believers.

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 Dragging our sin into the light as God tells us to over and over.

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 Doing that weakens sin.

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 It weakens sin and it also removes our aloneness.

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 I had lunch with a friend this week who asked me how things were going in my life.

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 Just wanted to know.

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 I said pretty good.

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 It's a great week.

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 VBS is super.

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 But since you're actually really asking deeper.

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 I'm actually really frustrated with how I've seen my selfishness showing up lately.

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 Especially in ways I've been unthoughtful and unloving toward my wife.

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 A few minutes later I confess to him.

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 I've seen my idol of control negatively impacting my parenting.

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 Both of those times he was able to say two things really.

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 First, oh man, me too.

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 And he was able to say, hey, let me share with you some things God's been showing me about that in my life.

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 And all of a sudden, a struggle that I hadn't shared with anyone yet particularly.

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 That had just been in my heart kind of being ignored a bit honestly.

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 It can go there and be alone and fester.

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 All of a sudden it was dragged out into the open.

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 And guess what else?

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 I wasn't alone in it anymore.

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 I was there and had someone with me.

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 You remember the loneliness we talked about a couple weeks ago?

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 That can be so devastating to us?

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 Confessing our sins to one another may remove that loneliness better than anything else we can do.

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 Because all of us are wracked with sin.

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 We know in many different ways what that feels like.

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 And so in this instance, confessing removed my loneliness.

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 And at the same time, it opened the door for him to confess.

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 And for him to have his loneliness removed as well as we shared and prayed in that together.

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 Maybe you've been in a small group where you've seen that happen.

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 One person is finally willing to share an honest struggle.

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 And it enables others to be able to start coming out of hiding, as it were.

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 To share their own struggles.

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 And you leave the evening with multiple people drawn out of their loneliness and into community.

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 I love that.

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 I love when that happens.

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 But there's one more really important thing that happens in this verse.

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 When God tells us to confess our sins to one another, he continues and pray for one another.

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 You see, as any kid in VBS this week could tell you, there is one superhero.

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 Kids, you awake?

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 Superhero.

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 It's on your list.

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 One superhero who can deal with the problem of sin.

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 We can't handle it on our own.

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 Jesus didn't merely deal with sin once for all on the cross.

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 He continues fighting sin in us.

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 Fighting with us, in fact.

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 And he's the one who gives us the power to defeat sin.

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 And so we pray.

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 That's why.

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 That's the context, actually, of this whole section in James, isn't it?

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 It's about prayer.

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 Pray about the physical difficulties you're facing.

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 Pray about the spiritual struggles.

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 Because that is where your hope for healing truly lies.

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 See, confessing your sin to someone else does drag the sin out of the darkness into the light where it gets weaker.

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 It does remove aloneness and give you someone to fight with you.

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 And what a blessing that is.

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 But most importantly, it gives you both the chance to call out to Jesus together.

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 To live practically dependent upon his help and deliverance.

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 And to go there together.

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 It's not just you praying to God.

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 Not just a pastor praying for you.

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 But brothers and sisters praying with you to the one who rules over sin.

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 And that's gospel community, isn't it?

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 Isn't that what we long to see happen?

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 That we would together run to Jesus and find our hope in him?

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 That's what it means.

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 Boiled down to the basics, right?

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 And our sin is perhaps the best occasion, if you can call it best.

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 To remember that.

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 To remember how much we need him.

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 And to drive us together to run to him.

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 That's what this family, these relationships we're talking about are all about.

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 Us going to Jesus together.

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 Prayer is the primary way we fight against sin.

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 It has real power, James says.

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 How does prayer have power?

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 Well, because King Jesus, the one to whom we pray, is the one who has conquered sin.

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 And so we ask for his help.

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 To believe the truth of his word rather than the lies of Satan.

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 We ask for his help to stand firm against the temptations of the devil.

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 We ask for his help to value the eternal riches of God over the fleeting pleasures of sin that are so appealing to us.

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 And so together with brothers or sisters as we plead with God over and over, we see our hearts reoriented.

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 Our attitudes adjusted.

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 Our longings actually fulfilled by him, not something else.

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 Now God's word doesn't spell out all the ways this must look as we confess to one another.

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 But for most of us, it's pretty hard to imagine what this could look like.

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 Because we haven't ventured into it very often.

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 What could it look like for a whole community, a whole church to be marked by confession?

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 One morning, Kathy, I guessed her age at 35, joined us for the first time.

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 One look at her face caused me to conclude that she must have been Hollywood beautiful at 21.

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 Now her face was swollen, her eyes red, her teeth rotting.

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 Her hair looked unwashed, uncombed for who knows how long.

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 I've been in five states in the past month, she said.

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 I've slept under bridges on several nights, been arrested, raped, robbed.

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 Now she's weeping.

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 I don't know what to do.

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 I don't want to be homeless anymore.

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 But I can't stop drinking.

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 I can't stop.

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 I can't.

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 Next to Kathy was a rather large woman, Marilyn, who had been sober for more than a dozen years.

00:20:07.960 --> 00:20:12.740
 She reached out to Kathy with both arms and pulled her close so her head was on her chest.

00:20:14.380 --> 00:20:17.920
 I was close enough to hear Marilyn speak quietly into Kathy's ear.

00:20:18.660 --> 00:20:21.260
 Honey, you're going to be okay.

00:20:22.020 --> 00:20:23.060
 You're with us now.

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 We can deal with this together.

00:20:25.579 --> 00:20:36.779
 And then others began sharing their struggles, asking for help as Marilyn kissed the top of Kathy's head.

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 It's an account from an AA group.

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 I wonder, could it happen here at Southwood?

00:20:49.240 --> 00:20:55.000
 Marilyn's response, the beautiful picture of aloneness being removed.

00:20:55.579 --> 00:20:58.519
 We can deal with this together.

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 As Kathy confesses, I can't stop.

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 I can't stop.

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 And we actually have resources in the gospel, and we're talking about it in a second, to go even further than they did.

00:21:14.259 --> 00:21:16.960
 We can do even more.

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 And I think as God shapes Southwood increasingly with these gospel realities, we'll see things like this.

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 You'll have more small group times where you say, does anybody have anything we can pray for?

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 And it sounds like this.

00:21:33.060 --> 00:21:37.520
 Yeah, I just can't stop lying all the time.

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 Can we pray about that?

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 I've got some big health issues coming up, but the bigger issue, honestly, is that I can't stop worrying.

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 Will you all pray for me?

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 I think we'll have groups of guys sit around a table, and one will say, I can't stop looking.

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 I need help.

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 And another one will respond, hey, I know what you mean.

00:22:06.160 --> 00:22:07.259
 We need to be praying.

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 By the way, I'm so glad you came tonight.

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 You're with us now.

00:22:12.460 --> 00:22:13.700
 We can deal with this together.

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 I think there will be conversations after a worship service in the prayer room, in the hallways, in the pews, perhaps,

00:22:25.640 --> 00:22:27.460
 where rather than just, hey, how you doing?

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 Well, one person will say, the Spirit is just convicting me about my selfishness.

00:22:34.680 --> 00:22:35.920
 I wanted to tell you that.

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 Or I'm just so tired of the way pride is harming my relationships.

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 And as we confess this morning, God just put that on my heart, and I wanted to share that with you.

00:22:48.400 --> 00:22:49.259
 Will you pray with me?

00:22:50.180 --> 00:22:54.420
 I've just seen how my desire for control is keeping me from trusting God.

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 I needed to share that with someone.

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 Can we pray?

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 And a brother or sister will actually stop right there and say, why don't we pray about that together?

00:23:05.480 --> 00:23:06.619
 Why don't we pray now?

00:23:06.619 --> 00:23:18.059
 See, it will be picking a fight with sin and then inviting a friend into that fight and calling out to Jesus together.

00:23:18.179 --> 00:23:20.979
 I think it will happen over and over and over.

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 It actually becomes normal and a way of life and the thing we most need.

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 Kids confessing your sin to your parents may look like coming to them and saying,

00:23:37.780 --> 00:23:41.360
 hey, I'm being really mean to my brother or sister.

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 And I know you didn't see it, but I just hate how my selfishness is messing up my relationship with them and making me so mean.

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 Can we pray and ask Jesus to help me with that?

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 Parents, if you were like me and you want to hear those words just once,

00:24:02.200 --> 00:24:05.220
 they'll usually come sometime after the time when you say,

00:24:06.660 --> 00:24:11.680
 hey, sweet girl, daddy's so sorry for losing his temper.

00:24:12.480 --> 00:24:14.779
 I should never yell at you like that.

00:24:15.500 --> 00:24:17.340
 Can we pray for Jesus to help daddy?

00:24:17.339 --> 00:24:24.159
 I'll be honest, it's a bit scary to me too.

00:24:24.899 --> 00:24:28.439
 I don't run towards this the way I wish I would,

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 but it's a beautiful thing to experience when this happens.

00:24:34.599 --> 00:24:40.139
 You can confess to God in this service, as we did earlier this morning,

00:24:40.140 --> 00:24:48.360
 but to confess to one another, we all need those smaller group relationships where people know us

00:24:48.360 --> 00:24:52.980
 and really listen to us and actually pray for us.

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 And y'all, if you don't have any of those relationships,

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 places where you could confess your sins to someone else

00:25:01.100 --> 00:25:05.280
 and be honest about your real sins,

00:25:05.400 --> 00:25:07.580
 not just the ones you want to sound good sharing about,

00:25:07.579 --> 00:25:12.319
 I want you to know, if you've never had a relationship like that,

00:25:12.379 --> 00:25:13.960
 those relationships are precious.

00:25:15.399 --> 00:25:16.419
 You'll love them.

00:25:17.240 --> 00:25:18.740
 You'll want to be around them all the time.

00:25:18.819 --> 00:25:20.819
 You'll want to pour into those kind of relationships.

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 They're precious and also they're possible.

00:25:26.359 --> 00:25:27.119
 They are.

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 Because the gospel makes relationships like that possible.

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 See, the reason why we back away from confessing to others

00:25:39.000 --> 00:25:43.420
 is that we know it might cost us something, don't we?

00:25:44.519 --> 00:25:47.019
 I don't know what it is that slows you down.

00:25:47.180 --> 00:25:49.599
 Maybe it's you know it'll cost you your reputation,

00:25:51.299 --> 00:25:54.440
 your credibility with them,

00:25:54.940 --> 00:25:57.359
 some position you feel like you have.

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 It might cost you feeling the shame of your sin

00:26:02.799 --> 00:26:05.959
 that already is frustrating you.

00:26:06.319 --> 00:26:10.179
 It may cost you feeling like a failure to yourself

00:26:10.179 --> 00:26:12.679
 and we hate that, don't we?

00:26:15.059 --> 00:26:17.659
 One of our previous pastors, Bill Nash,

00:26:17.719 --> 00:26:18.939
 used to say all the time,

00:26:19.359 --> 00:26:20.419
 because of Jesus,

00:26:21.099 --> 00:26:23.179
 we have nothing to lose,

00:26:23.779 --> 00:26:25.000
 nothing to hide,

00:26:25.000 --> 00:26:26.960
 nothing to protect,

00:26:27.799 --> 00:26:29.599
 nothing to fear.

00:26:30.460 --> 00:26:31.539
 That's really true.

00:26:32.000 --> 00:26:34.500
 Jesus is the source of our safety

00:26:34.500 --> 00:26:36.119
 to confess sin

00:26:36.119 --> 00:26:38.980
 because he has the solution for sin.

00:26:39.160 --> 00:26:40.660
 It's why heaven rejoices

00:26:40.660 --> 00:26:42.380
 when a sinner repents.

00:26:43.880 --> 00:26:45.240
 See, the good news of the gospel

00:26:45.240 --> 00:26:46.660
 is that you and I

00:26:46.660 --> 00:26:49.460
 have the righteousness of Christ,

00:26:50.539 --> 00:26:53.779
 the best reputation possible.

00:26:53.779 --> 00:26:54.779
 security.

00:26:55.279 --> 00:26:55.720
 Security.

00:26:55.879 --> 00:26:58.559
 It can never be lost

00:26:58.559 --> 00:27:00.220
 because it's his

00:27:00.220 --> 00:27:04.019
 and it's kept in heaven for us, right?

00:27:05.440 --> 00:27:05.960
 Nothing.

00:27:06.079 --> 00:27:07.480
 Not even your sin

00:27:07.480 --> 00:27:09.259
 or confessing it to someone else

00:27:09.259 --> 00:27:10.160
 could take that away.

00:27:10.619 --> 00:27:11.720
 And so my value

00:27:11.720 --> 00:27:14.539
 is not in what you think of me.

00:27:15.339 --> 00:27:16.920
 It's not in how impressive

00:27:16.920 --> 00:27:18.879
 I am to someone else.

00:27:18.880 --> 00:27:22.900
 My value is that I'm completely righteous

00:27:22.900 --> 00:27:26.140
 before God in Jesus.

00:27:28.540 --> 00:27:30.840
 Do you let that sink in sometimes?

00:27:31.840 --> 00:27:33.720
 Because we live with ourselves

00:27:33.720 --> 00:27:35.700
 and we don't feel

00:27:35.700 --> 00:27:38.100
 completely righteous,

00:27:38.740 --> 00:27:39.360
 valued,

00:27:39.800 --> 00:27:40.260
 precious,

00:27:40.860 --> 00:27:40.880
 treasured,

00:27:41.640 --> 00:27:44.440
 and no one can remove it from me.

00:27:44.440 --> 00:27:47.000
 Do you let that sink in?

00:27:47.220 --> 00:27:48.160
 That that's true?

00:27:50.259 --> 00:27:51.660
 It's the only thing

00:27:51.660 --> 00:27:53.660
 that sometimes will open me up

00:27:53.660 --> 00:27:56.019
 to confess some things.

00:27:57.279 --> 00:27:59.840
 You know where I sometimes find my value?

00:28:00.820 --> 00:28:01.620
 My worth?

00:28:02.860 --> 00:28:05.480
 I like to find myself valuable

00:28:05.480 --> 00:28:08.519
 as a caring pastor.

00:28:08.519 --> 00:28:11.519
 someone who cares for people,

00:28:11.700 --> 00:28:13.480
 who loves everybody.

00:28:15.240 --> 00:28:16.139
 Not long ago,

00:28:16.220 --> 00:28:17.559
 I found myself wrestling

00:28:17.559 --> 00:28:19.779
 with the fact that I had sinned

00:28:19.779 --> 00:28:21.039
 against someone

00:28:21.039 --> 00:28:22.599
 and really hurt them.

00:28:23.879 --> 00:28:25.460
 But the root of it was,

00:28:25.559 --> 00:28:26.299
 as I reflected,

00:28:26.519 --> 00:28:26.879
 honestly,

00:28:27.039 --> 00:28:28.819
 I just didn't care about them

00:28:28.819 --> 00:28:30.000
 in that moment.

00:28:30.799 --> 00:28:31.740
 There were a lot of other things

00:28:31.740 --> 00:28:33.119
 I was more interested in

00:28:33.119 --> 00:28:35.079
 and I really just didn't care

00:28:35.079 --> 00:28:35.980
 about them.

00:28:35.980 --> 00:28:39.360
 I did not want to confess that

00:28:39.360 --> 00:28:41.200
 and didn't feel like I needed to,

00:28:41.339 --> 00:28:41.740
 honestly.

00:28:42.120 --> 00:28:44.180
 I thought I really needed

00:28:44.180 --> 00:28:45.720
 that person to think of me

00:28:45.720 --> 00:28:46.960
 as a caring pastor.

00:28:48.059 --> 00:28:49.360
 I can't give them evidence

00:28:49.360 --> 00:28:50.200
 to the contrary.

00:28:51.599 --> 00:28:52.500
 Maybe what I could do

00:28:52.500 --> 00:28:53.440
 is I could pass it off

00:28:53.440 --> 00:28:54.240
 as an oversight,

00:28:54.360 --> 00:28:54.539
 you know,

00:28:54.579 --> 00:28:55.140
 as an accident.

00:28:55.240 --> 00:28:56.400
 I'm so sorry you got hurt.

00:28:57.299 --> 00:28:57.440
 You know,

00:28:57.460 --> 00:28:58.400
 it's one of those terrible things

00:28:58.400 --> 00:28:59.259
 that happens sometimes.

00:28:59.660 --> 00:29:00.099
 Cyberspace,

00:29:00.200 --> 00:29:01.039
 things get lost.

00:29:01.380 --> 00:29:02.180
 Terrible phone,

00:29:03.180 --> 00:29:03.900
 technology,

00:29:04.519 --> 00:29:04.960
 you know,

00:29:04.960 --> 00:29:06.120
 that's what happened.

00:29:08.680 --> 00:29:10.299
 God and I had to talk

00:29:10.299 --> 00:29:11.799
 about whether the righteousness

00:29:11.799 --> 00:29:13.279
 of Jesus

00:29:13.279 --> 00:29:16.420
 was enough for me.

00:29:16.420 --> 00:29:19.279
 The approval of my heavenly Father,

00:29:19.360 --> 00:29:21.860
 was that enough for me?

00:29:22.019 --> 00:29:23.700
 Or whether I needed to have

00:29:23.700 --> 00:29:25.579
 some caring pastor righteousness

00:29:25.579 --> 00:29:26.759
 to feel better.

00:29:27.660 --> 00:29:29.160
 Whether I needed the approval

00:29:29.160 --> 00:29:31.480
 of this person as well

00:29:31.480 --> 00:29:33.180
 for me to be able to be okay.

00:29:33.180 --> 00:29:35.180
 See,

00:29:35.900 --> 00:29:38.279
 Jesus had to be really big.

00:29:39.000 --> 00:29:40.180
 And his righteousness

00:29:40.180 --> 00:29:42.519
 had to be actually enough for me

00:29:42.519 --> 00:29:43.880
 before I would confess

00:29:43.880 --> 00:29:45.140
 the real sin.

00:29:45.340 --> 00:29:47.180
 And only once I saw him clearly

00:29:47.700 --> 00:29:50.060
 could I confess to her honestly

00:29:50.060 --> 00:29:51.660
 what really was going on.

00:29:52.019 --> 00:29:53.840
 And have her pray for me

00:29:53.840 --> 00:29:55.259
 in my real sin.

00:29:57.640 --> 00:29:58.420
 Do you begin to see

00:29:58.420 --> 00:29:59.180
 how the gospel produces

00:29:59.840 --> 00:30:01.700
 community like this?

00:30:01.700 --> 00:30:03.980
 If we'll really believe it?

00:30:04.380 --> 00:30:06.039
 If we'll really let it impact

00:30:06.039 --> 00:30:07.140
 the way we relate

00:30:07.140 --> 00:30:08.180
 to each other?

00:30:08.620 --> 00:30:08.840
 See,

00:30:08.900 --> 00:30:10.539
 I didn't lose my value.

00:30:11.660 --> 00:30:12.759
 I didn't lose

00:30:12.759 --> 00:30:13.559
 my righteousness

00:30:13.559 --> 00:30:14.720
 when I confessed

00:30:14.720 --> 00:30:16.700
 that awful reality

00:30:16.700 --> 00:30:17.680
 to her.

00:30:17.980 --> 00:30:18.319
 Why?

00:30:18.700 --> 00:30:20.319
 Because my righteousness

00:30:20.319 --> 00:30:21.640
 is in heaven.

00:30:22.700 --> 00:30:24.240
 It wasn't touched by that.

00:30:24.600 --> 00:30:25.420
 I have nothing

00:30:25.420 --> 00:30:26.360
 to hide,

00:30:26.759 --> 00:30:27.900
 nothing to protect,

00:30:28.279 --> 00:30:29.799
 nothing to lose.

00:30:29.799 --> 00:30:32.159
 I can see my sin

00:30:32.159 --> 00:30:33.440
 as big and awful.

00:30:33.779 --> 00:30:34.599
 The gospel says

00:30:34.599 --> 00:30:36.220
 Jesus had to go to the cross

00:30:36.220 --> 00:30:37.419
 for it.

00:30:37.819 --> 00:30:38.720
 Because it breaks

00:30:38.720 --> 00:30:39.879
 my relationship with God

00:30:39.879 --> 00:30:40.519
 and with others.

00:30:40.759 --> 00:30:41.700
 It's that big.

00:30:43.299 --> 00:30:44.899
 And I can see Jesus

00:30:44.899 --> 00:30:47.039
 as big and amazing

00:30:47.039 --> 00:30:49.139
 because his righteousness

00:30:49.139 --> 00:30:50.799
 clothes me perfectly

00:30:51.559 --> 00:30:53.680
 and I don't need anything else.

00:30:53.680 --> 00:30:57.580
 so I can confess

00:30:57.580 --> 00:30:58.740
 to you

00:30:58.740 --> 00:31:02.039
 and actually expect

00:31:02.039 --> 00:31:03.500
 that this is a family

00:31:03.500 --> 00:31:05.440
 not of judgment

00:31:05.440 --> 00:31:08.019
 but of grace

00:31:08.019 --> 00:31:11.080
 because Jesus makes it

00:31:11.080 --> 00:31:12.080
 one like that.

00:31:12.320 --> 00:31:13.120
 If we're willing

00:31:13.120 --> 00:31:14.140
 to confess

00:31:14.140 --> 00:31:15.600
 our sins,

00:31:15.700 --> 00:31:16.799
 it's because Jesus

00:31:16.799 --> 00:31:17.680
 has become big

00:31:17.680 --> 00:31:18.220
 in our eyes.

00:31:18.560 --> 00:31:18.700
 Y'all,

00:31:18.759 --> 00:31:20.000
 if we're not confessing

00:31:20.000 --> 00:31:21.039
 our sins to each other,

00:31:21.039 --> 00:31:22.440
 I'm more concerned

00:31:22.440 --> 00:31:23.299
 not about our view

00:31:23.299 --> 00:31:25.019
 of sin specifically

00:31:25.019 --> 00:31:26.220
 but about our view

00:31:26.220 --> 00:31:26.779
 of Jesus.

00:31:27.799 --> 00:31:29.099
 Is he not big enough?

00:31:29.359 --> 00:31:30.319
 Is his righteousness

00:31:30.319 --> 00:31:31.099
 not enough

00:31:31.099 --> 00:31:32.259
 to cover us?

00:31:32.460 --> 00:31:33.659
 Are we not rejoicing

00:31:33.659 --> 00:31:34.359
 in him

00:31:34.359 --> 00:31:35.779
 deeply enough?

00:31:36.299 --> 00:31:37.659
 Is he not enough

00:31:37.659 --> 00:31:38.920
 for us?

00:31:41.399 --> 00:31:42.299
 Several years ago,

00:31:42.339 --> 00:31:42.960
 I got a note

00:31:42.960 --> 00:31:43.819
 from a former

00:31:43.819 --> 00:31:44.680
 Southwood member

00:31:44.680 --> 00:31:47.319
 who had decided

00:31:47.319 --> 00:31:48.859
 Jesus was enough

00:31:48.859 --> 00:31:50.179
 and she could confess

00:31:50.179 --> 00:31:51.859
 the ugly reality

00:31:51.859 --> 00:31:52.799
 of her sin

00:31:52.799 --> 00:31:54.519
 and addiction.

00:31:55.819 --> 00:31:56.699
 With some of her

00:31:56.699 --> 00:31:57.819
 brothers and sisters here,

00:31:57.919 --> 00:31:58.459
 she decided

00:31:58.459 --> 00:31:59.459
 she had to

00:31:59.459 --> 00:32:00.079
 no matter how

00:32:00.079 --> 00:32:01.219
 they responded

00:32:01.219 --> 00:32:03.899
 and they surprised her.

00:32:05.639 --> 00:32:06.419
 She writes,

00:32:06.740 --> 00:32:08.199
 I thought guilt

00:32:08.199 --> 00:32:09.139
 and shame

00:32:09.139 --> 00:32:10.539
 would absolutely

00:32:10.539 --> 00:32:11.519
 kill me

00:32:11.519 --> 00:32:13.839
 but not one person

00:32:13.839 --> 00:32:14.459
 looked on me

00:32:14.459 --> 00:32:15.119
 with judgment,

00:32:15.619 --> 00:32:16.539
 only love

00:32:16.539 --> 00:32:18.339
 and grace.

00:32:20.339 --> 00:32:21.240
 She ran into

00:32:21.240 --> 00:32:22.259
 some Maryland's

00:32:22.259 --> 00:32:23.019
 here

00:32:23.019 --> 00:32:24.740
 who pointed her

00:32:24.740 --> 00:32:25.500
 to rehab

00:32:25.500 --> 00:32:27.099
 but especially

00:32:27.099 --> 00:32:28.619
 to Jesus.

00:32:29.399 --> 00:32:30.659
 They prayed

00:32:30.659 --> 00:32:31.799
 a lot.

00:32:33.139 --> 00:32:34.379
 They cried

00:32:34.379 --> 00:32:34.920
 with her

00:32:34.920 --> 00:32:35.980
 into the early hours

00:32:35.980 --> 00:32:36.559
 of the morning.

00:32:37.299 --> 00:32:38.099
 They prayed.

00:32:39.099 --> 00:32:40.379
 They watched her kids

00:32:40.379 --> 00:32:41.180
 for her

00:32:41.180 --> 00:32:42.460
 while she was getting help

00:32:42.460 --> 00:32:43.740
 and they prayed.

00:32:43.740 --> 00:32:47.859
 I found

00:32:47.859 --> 00:32:48.359
 there are many

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 Maryland's

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 here.

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 I'd love for you

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 to find one

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 if you don't have one.

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 People who know

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 the righteousness

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 of Jesus

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 is enough

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 for all of us.

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 The help

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 of Jesus

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 is what we all

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 need

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 in all

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 of our sin

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 struggles.

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 Dear friends,

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 let's confess

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 our sins

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 to one another

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 so that we can

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 run

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 to Jesus

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 together.

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 Pray with me.

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 Jesus,

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 we want

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 to be with you.

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 We want

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 to be together

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 with you

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 with these people

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 we love.

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 Sometimes

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 we just want

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 to feel

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 safe

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 more than

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 we want that.

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 We just want

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 to feel

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 good about

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 ourselves.

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 We just want

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 others to think

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 highly of us.

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 Would you

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 forgive us

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 for that?

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 For our

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 tendency

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 to isolate,

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 to hide

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 with the truth

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 of your

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 gospel,

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 of the love

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 of a father

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 for us,

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 of perfect

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 robes of

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 righteousness

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 that no one

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 can take away.

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 Would it

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 overwhelm the

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 lies we believe?

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 Would you

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 remind us

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 of the

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 glories

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 of Jesus

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 that you

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 might move

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 us towards

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 each other

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 and that we

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 might run

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 to him

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 together.

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 Give us

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 great joy

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 in that.

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 We ask

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 for his

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 sake.

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 Amen.

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 For more

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 information,

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 visit us

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 online at

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 southwood.org.