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 You are listening to a message from Southwood Presbyterian Church in Huntsville, Alabama.

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 I need God just as much as you do. So let's talk about this together.

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 So it's summertime right now, correct? And you may have felt that outside.

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 It's the dog days of summer. Now for me, when I look at summertime, I think of movies.

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 And my first job ever was in a movie theater. And my second job was at a rental, a movie rental place.

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 A lot of y'all don't know what that is, kids. We used to have to go rent movies physically.

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 And it was really fun. But there were always these blockbuster movies.

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 And I remember waiting for Batman to come out when I was working at the theater.

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 And I got to get the poster. And I still have the poster at my house.

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 And it was wonderful. Like that anticipation of the next big movie.

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 And this summer, we've had Jurassic Park. Spoiler alert, it could have been 30 minutes.

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 So maybe watch that one on Netflix.

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 I saw Superman. I really enjoyed Superman.

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 And recently I watched, it was one of those rent at home, but it was still in the theater movies.

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 Another superhero movie that I didn't know anything about.

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 And it really caught me off guard.

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 And it's about this group of misfits.

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 And they're haunted by their dark pasts.

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 And they're kind of the leftovers of the superheroes.

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 The not-so-superheroes.

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 And they're trying to figure out if they can make a difference at all in this world.

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 Do anything more than make mistakes.

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 And it was really great.

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 And what surprised me about it was how it unexpectedly explored loneliness.

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 And when speaking about loneliness, one of the main characters says,

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 You can't stuff it down.

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 You can't hold it in all alone.

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 No one can.

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 We have to let it out.

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 We have to spend time together.

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 And even if it doesn't make the emptiness go away,

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 I promise you, it will feel lighter.

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 And then there's this chilling scene where one of the main characters is trapped by his own loneliness.

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 And he has to fight himself to battle the loneliness.

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 And the movie does this great job of showing the battle by turning them into two characters

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 that are literally fighting with their fists, but also with their words.

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 And it goes like this.

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 He says, I was going to show everyone that I was more than something.

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 You know, and they're fighting.

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 Boom, boom.

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 To which the loneliness responds.

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 The most shameful thing of all is thinking that you could be anything more than nothing.

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 You don't matter to anyone.

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 And then for a moment, you see this glimmer of hope.

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 And the character gets this gumption up to strike back.

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 And he says, I'm stronger than you.

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 To which the loneliness replies, let's see.

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 You thought you were going to be some great man, some savior.

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 You can't even save yourself.

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 We will always be alone.

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 You ever felt alone?

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 Right now, connection is supposedly easier than ever before.

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 Because we are more digitally connected than any generation before us.

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 But somehow, we are more divided, more suspicious of one another, more isolated, and more alone than ever before.

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 Recent studies have found that nearly half of U.S. adults say that they feel lonely.

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 Among younger adults, nearly 30% feel lonely on a weekly basis.

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 In 2023, the U.S. Surgeon General declared loneliness a public health epidemic.

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 Citing its health impact as equivalent to smoking 15 cigarettes a day.

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 One in five practicing Christians report feeling lonely every day and 10% constantly lonely.

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 And among pastors, 65% admit to feeling lonely and isolated.

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 One time, I was in a spin class, the bike class.

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 And the teacher decided to only play Taylor Swift songs for the entire hour or 45 minutes.

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 I was the only guy in the class.

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 And I don't know if you've listened to Taylor Swift, but I don't think she likes dudes that much in her songs.

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 So, I'll never forget three songs in.

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 And after the song ended, one of the girls looks at me.

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 All I've been doing, mind you, is just riding a spin bike.

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 She looks over at me after the song's over and goes, yeah, Derek!

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 All of that angst channeled right at me because I was the only guy in the room.

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 And I felt alone.

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 Very alone.

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 Nowhere to go.

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 Strapped to a spin bike.

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 One time, though more serious, I wrongfully lost a job.

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 I'd be up in the middle of the night.

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 I couldn't sleep.

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 Feeling sad.

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 Feeling alone.

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 Feeling like there's nobody that I could talk to.

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 What do you do with your loneliness?

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 How do you deal with your loneliness?

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 One of the common ways that people deal with their loneliness is through distractions.

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 Like keeping busy and just not thinking about it.

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 As someone in our church once said to me,

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 we spend money we don't have to buy things we don't need to impress people we don't like.

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 Sometimes we scroll.

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 Sometimes we swipe and we search.

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 And we're really longing to belong.

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 And even inside the church, people sit next to each other right now.

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 And they may feel very, very unknown.

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 Maybe that's you.

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 Where do you feel lonely?

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 Maybe it is that thought in the middle of the night.

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 Is everything going to be okay?

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 Or that weight of I just lost my job and feel like a failure.

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 Or maybe you're angry and you feel alone in your anger.

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 You're jealous of people that are happier than you.

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 Maybe you've had a fight with your spouse and you feel alone in it.

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 Maybe it's something good.

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 Like you're starting something new in your life or career.

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 And you just feel alone and isolated.

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 People can't understand.

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 Or maybe you've lost a loved one.

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 And you just feel lonely or that shame from doing something wrong.

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 And you don't feel like you can talk about it.

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 So you just don't.

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 And you just keep going.

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 Alone.

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 Superheroes feel it.

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 You and I feel it.

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 Church feels it.

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 And there's good news that it's into this world of loneliness and isolation that Jesus prays for something totally different.

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 Something better.

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 Something complete.

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 Not rooted in screens or likes or comments or failures or shame or isolation.

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 But something rooted only in him.

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 So it's right after the Last Supper.

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 To give you context to where we're jumping in.

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 It's right before Jesus goes to the Garden of Gethsemane.

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 And then is arrested and taken to be crucified.

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 And he knew what was coming.

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 And when you know that your life is about to be over.

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 You think about the most important things.

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 And here we get a glimpse of what Jesus is thinking about through the words in his prayer.

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 So I want you to imagine that you're there listening in.

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 Now he's prayed right before this.

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 He's going to pray after this.

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 We're jumping in to a little piece of that.

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 We're just listening to this piece of the prayer.

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 What's he praying?

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 What's he thinking about?

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 What's he praying for?

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 Let's listen in.

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 I do not ask for these only.

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 But also for those who will believe in me through their word.

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 That they may all be one.

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 Just as you, Father, are in me.

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 And I in you.

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 That they also may be in us.

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 So that the world may believe that you have sent me.

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 Now this is an excerpt of what's called the high priestly prayer.

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 Jesus has been praying for his apostles.

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 Who are going to bring the word all around the world.

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 He's been praying that he would be glorified with his father.

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 With the glory that he had before the world was created.

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 And now he's moved on to pray for who?

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 Who's he praying for here?

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 I'll watch the clock.

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 Anybody?

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 Us.

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 This prayer is for us.

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 Those who will believe through the words of those.

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 The apostles.

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 Okay.

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 And that's us.

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 We're here gathered today.

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 We're reading this.

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 This is for us.

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 So this prayer is pulling into a much bigger story.

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 All right.

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 And it's the origin story of union.

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 Union.

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 Okay.

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 What does that mean when I say union?

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 Union is this spiritual oneness that believers have with Jesus.

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 The resurrected Jesus.

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 The glorified Jesus.

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 With God.

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 It's more than merely an association or like a friendship.

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 Jesus is my friend.

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 And I can talk to him.

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 There's this mysterious, inseparable connection that's beautiful.

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 Because God is spirit.

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 Okay.

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 So there's this interconnectedness.

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 Union is a oneness that mirrors the union that God has with himself.

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 You've heard of this referred to as the Holy Trinity.

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 Okay.

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 Where God is one.

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 God is three.

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 Each of the persons is fully God.

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 And each person is distinct from the others.

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 And the three persons are eternally related to one another as father and son and Holy Spirit.

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 And when you believe in Jesus, you are supernaturally joining the family of the Godhead.

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 And becoming then spiritually knit together, not only with Jesus through the Holy Spirit, but also with each other.

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 That's where you get that phrase born again.

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 Jesus comes into your heart and you're made new.

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 New life.

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 The old is gone.

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 The new has come.

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 And nothing can separate you from that spiritual oneness with him.

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 He's in you.

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 You're in him.

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 He's in the Father.

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 The Father's in him.

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 The Holy Spirit's in him.

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 Everybody's together.

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 Okay.

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 And he dwells in you.

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 This is why Galatians 2.20 says,

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 I've been crucified with Christ and it's no longer I who live, but Christ who lives in me.

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 Right?

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 The life I now live in the flesh, I live by faith in the Son of God who loved me and gave himself for me.

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 So in the Trinity, there's always been this perfect union.

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 Okay?

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 The Father, the Son, the Holy Spirit, they delight in each other in perfect love, perfect glory.

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 In the Garden of Eden, even, okay?

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 God shared his space with humanity.

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 Adam and Eve walked and talked with God in perfect fellowship and they were unashamed and they were not afraid and they were fully known and they were fully loved.

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 But then something happened, right?

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 Sin entered the world.

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 Union was shattered.

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 Death entered through that sin and loneliness was not far behind.

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 Adam and Eve then hid in shame.

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 They blamed one another.

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 They covered themselves.

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 Their connection with God and each other was broken.

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 And ever since then, we've been living in the ache of that loss.

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 So God is the origin story of union.

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 And Eden is the origin story of loneliness.

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 And Jesus is praying for the complete reversal of that loss.

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 He's praying for a restoration that will happen through a oneness with him, leading to a oneness with one another.

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 A connection that is not merely superficial, but it is supernatural.

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 It's not just an association.

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 It's something where you can be fully known and fully loved in all of your mistakes, still accepted and loved far greater than you could possibly imagine.

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 Because it's the love that God himself has with himself shared through his people to one another and to the world.

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 Now, the Bible gives us examples of how this looks.

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 If you've read the book of Acts, you will see this.

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 It's that believers started to share their possessions and see them as not their own.

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 And they started to share their burdens and their failures.

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 And there was a connection that led towards restoration with one another.

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 So they could bear truth to one another.

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 Hard truths.

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 They could carry burdens with each other.

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 All for the sake of becoming more like Jesus and sharing his love into this world.

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 Now, don't you long for those kinds of friendships?

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 I do.

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 And the reason we long for them is because they're true.

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 They do exist.

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 And that's God's original design.

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 Okay?

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 And Jesus is now praying it forward into this reality that can be lived out through us with one another.

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 Okay, but his prayer's not over.

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 Let's keep listening into this prayer.

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 He says,

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 He doesn't ask for these only, but also for those who will believe in me through their word,

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 that they may all be one, just as you, Father, are in me, and I in you,

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 that they also may be in us, so that the world may believe that you've sent me.

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 So he prays for lonely hearts to be restored to God's original design of union.

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 But he's also praying for his church, his people, the holy Catholic church, as we said earlier,

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 to be a home for the lonely.

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 A preview of heaven.

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 Okay?

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 So that the world may believe that you have sent me.

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 So here it's interesting.

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 Jesus is giving the answer to the why of everything that he did.

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 Through the church, the world gets a preview of heaven.

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 A place where God's love is really felt.

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 Where there's a connection to Christ and to each other.

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 And it becomes a home where people don't have to fight their battles alone.

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 God gives us himself.

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 God gives us each other.

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 Now, if you look in the front of your bulletin, it's not the sticky note.

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 We'll tell you about that later.

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 If you look at the front of your bulletin, there's a quote.

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 I'm going to read that.

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 This is from a guy named Sam Alberry.

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 And speaking of this togetherness, here's what he says.

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 Through being in Christ, we come to know God as our Father.

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 Which also means coming to know his people as our brothers and sisters.

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 Being part of the people of God is not some optional in-app purchase we can choose to make

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 after we've already become Christians.

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 Being in Christ means being a part of others who are also in him.

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 We don't get him without them.

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 We don't get him without them.

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 You see that?

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 That union with Christ always has in mind and includes union with his people.

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 And that kind of oneness is not optional.

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 It's also not easy.

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 Okay?

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 But it is essential.

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 And the world offers a counterfeit.

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 Tim Keller puts it bluntly like this.

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 The world says be careful who you hang out with.

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 Make sure you only hang out with people of the same income level so nobody's asking you for money.

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 Make sure you hang out with people with the same golf handicap and dress size so you don't feel too inferior.

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 Hang out with people who are connected so they can help you with your agenda in life.

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 Hang out with people who aren't too messed up so they won't always be calling you and talking about their problems.

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 That's what the world says.

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 Do you know what happens though?

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 When the bottom falls out of your life you'll find that there's nobody there for you.

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 Do you know why?

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 Because all of your so-called friends were friends you chose.

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 People you didn't have to invest in.

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 Because you didn't invest anything.

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 Now that you have a need there's nothing to withdraw.

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 They're not committed to you and you're not radically committed to them.

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 Christians are different.

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 They love with their things.

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 That's why it's visible.

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 Do we?

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 Do we?

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 Do we?

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 That's convicting isn't it?

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 But Jesus doesn't just leave us sitting there in conviction.

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 He prays for a better way here.

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 A way that starts when we're rooted in him.

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 We've got this new tree that we put in place of an old playground.

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 And the most important thing about Princess is her name is that she establishes roots.

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 And from those roots she will grow.

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 And that's the most important thing.

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 And it's no different with us.

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 When we establish ourselves and our roots in our union with Christ provided through his Holy Spirit.

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 Then his love is going to show and it's going to flow through us.

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 Southwood, how are we doing with that?

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 Does our union with Christ make a difference in how we live?

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 Does our unity show the love of God to the world?

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 Are we really places of restoration for one another in this world of shame and failure and loneliness?

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 And what does that mean?

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 Think about God's love.

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 Are we a place for God's love to each other?

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 I like to ask myself this question.

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 What does that mean?

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 What does God's love, what does that feel like?

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 What does that look like lived out?

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 I mean, you see it in the book of Acts.

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 But for me, I have to go to things that happen in my life.

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 These little snapshots.

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 And underneath them, I can see God in them.

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 And I think he's given me a glimpse of what it could be in a bigger way.

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 For example, a newborn baby.

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 If any of you have ever held a newborn baby, there's a peace feeling that comes from that, right?

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 If it's your own, you're like, nobody's mad at each other.

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 Nobody's hurt each other's feelings yet.

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 I still remember holding John Paul like that when he was little.

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 And I was like, man, I have not screwed this up yet.

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 And there was just peace.

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 And I think that's a glimpse of God's love that we can experience in his people.

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 That there's no enmity and that by the power of God, we can be at peace with one another.

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 And that's something that everybody needs in this world.

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 We can look at each other without enmity.

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 We have to go through forgiveness trials to get there.

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 But we can actually live and feel that little peace that you might see when you see a baby.

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 That you can feel that when you see somebody else.

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 Animals.

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 I think animals, God uses animals in incredible ways.

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 For me, I like to go stick my head on the couch between my two dachshunds and just sit there.

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 And there's this security and acceptance and joy and happiness that comes in that little moment.

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 And animals, you know, they love you unconditionally.

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 Right?

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 God loves you unconditionally.

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 He gives us these creatures to show us things about himself.

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 And so animal snuggles to me are rest.

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 Okay?

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 And I really think that by the power of God, we can be a place of rest.

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 That when you see someone or you're at dinner with that person, you're not afraid about going to dinner with them.

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 And you're like, oh, man, I love to be around them.

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 Right?

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 God gives us a glimpse of that.

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 And it comes from a rest in Christ.

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 But we can be a place of rest in the chaos for each other and for this world.

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 And then also a house.

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 Think about when you were a kid.

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 Maybe some of you experienced this.

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 Some may not have.

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 But let's imagine that you were a kid.

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 And you were able to go out and play all day.

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 And no matter what happened, you knew that you could come back home.

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 Okay?

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 Because it was going to be safe at home.

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 And you were going to be accepted and at peace and rested.

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 And that home was committed to you.

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 And I think that by the power of God, that's a little bit of a glimpse of God's love, too, that we can be.

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 Where we can be at rest and at peace and committed to each other no matter what.

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 We have the best interests of each other's in mind.

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 And when you go through a problem, you're not afraid to talk about it.

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 Because you know someone's going to be there to help you get to the other side of it.

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 And that all mirrors the love of God.

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 And that helps me think about what we could maybe be to each other by his power.

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 And you might be hearing this and thinking, man, I feel that.

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 I want to help make this church better.

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 I want more people to know Jesus.

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 But honestly, I'm overwhelmed.

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 I'm tapped out.

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 I'm burnt out.

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 I feel guilty about what I'm not doing.

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 I really want this.

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 But I don't even know where to start, Derek.

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 And maybe your thoughts sound more like this.

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 I can't do this.

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 Thank you so much for telling me another thing I can't do, Derek.

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 I don't even know how to be a safe place to my own friends or my own family.

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 And how am I supposed to be a preview of heaven to a broken world?

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 Really?

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 And listen, I get that.

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 If that's where your mind is right now, one of those places somewhere in between, I get that.

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 But I want to gently say that you're probably missing the point of Jesus' prayer.

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 If that's where you're staying in your head.

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 Because he's not asking you to be the answer to his prayer.

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 He's saying you already are the story that he's telling.

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 Okay?

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 He's prayed that forward.

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 And yes, this world is a mess.

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 He knows that.

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 The church is imperfect.

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 And nobody is meant to do this on their own.

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 But here's the good news.

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 Jesus is not confused.

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 He's not wringing his hands.

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 He's not disappointed in your exhaustion.

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 He knew exactly who he was praying for.

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 And he prayed anyway.

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 Because you are precious to him.

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 Like that newborn.

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 And you're not the light.

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 You're the lamp that he fills.

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 You're the vessel.

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 Okay?

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 So maybe instead of trying harder, let's let ourselves off the hook here a little bit.

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 And maybe we just need to come closer.

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 Because here's the deep truth beneath all of it.

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 Loneliness is not the end of the story.

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 Jesus is.

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 Loneliness may be loud.

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 But it is not final.

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 And Jesus' prayer is already answered.

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 He prayed union into our separation and loneliness.

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 And you might wonder, okay then.

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 So where do I start?

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 And I could tell you, you just need to lead a grace group and join a grace group.

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 And then all of that will happen.

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 I could.

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 I could say go help with the children's ministry.

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 And the kids that you stand up every time somebody gets baptized.

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 I'm going to help raise them.

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 What's their name again?

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 You know, I could say go do all those things.

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 And they're very good things.

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 And we need to do those things.

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 But I don't think it's where you start necessarily.

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 Okay?

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 You got to start at the most important thing and then flow from there.

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 The roots.

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 Okay?

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 And what did Jesus start with?

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 Rather than focusing on what he said in this passage, what is he doing?

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 He's praying, right?

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 He's about to die.

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 And he's crying out to his father in the midst of that chaos.

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 And I think that's where we start in our chaos.

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 And all of those things I mentioned about church are so important to find community in different things.

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 But we've got to start with our roots where Jesus was showing us.

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 Crying out to our father in the chaos.

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 Okay?

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 That's not easy to do for me.

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 If you look in your bulletin, there's a QR code in the notes section.

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 And I made a resource for myself that shows all the things, or at least like, I think it's like 50 things, that are true when I'm in Jesus.

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 That I don't necessarily believe.

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 And with all the bad in the world that I could talk about that's not really good that is also true, simultaneously true at the same time, are the things that are given as gifts to us through Christ.

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 Who we are.

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 And so I'm trying to just, you might see me taking this piece of paper around with me when I'm in a meeting or in a moment and my head goes south.

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 I've got to look at this and remember, this is who I am at the same time.

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 So I'm offering that to you as a resource if it helps you.

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 There's, I think, some in the back.

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 But in case that's helpful.

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 Oh, you're welcome.

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 Because it's hard for me.

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 Thank you.

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 And so that's what I'm trying to do to get my head to remember who I am in Jesus and remember these truths simultaneously in the midst of the chaos.

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 And then bring him in there.

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 But also, what does it look like to go to him in prayer, you know, and start with prayer and go from there, so to speak.

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 It may be that you don't have union with him.

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 I don't know.

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 Like, if you've never given your life to Jesus, that's a start.

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 That's the place to start.

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 And it's a long journey.

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 I did that when I was 16.

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 And think about this.

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 This verse is what I've been praying, Acts 4.13, for this church recently and for myself.

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 Because you think sometimes you've got to have it all together.

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 You've got to have everything in your head figured out and how to talk about Jesus.

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 No.

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 Now, when they saw the boldness of Peter and John and perceived that they were uneducated common men.

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 Thank you.

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 Thank you.

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 I don't have to have chat GPT to make you think that I know everything.

00:27:13.420 --> 00:27:13.660
 Right?

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 They were uneducated common men.

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 They were astonished.

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 Why?

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 And they recognized that they had been with Jesus.

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 That's my prayer for this church.

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 That's my prayer for me.

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 That's my prayer for my family, my friends.

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 That people would know that we've been with Jesus.

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 That it would make a difference.

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 It's not by intellect and all the things we got together and the careers and all this and that.

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 But by Jesus.

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 It makes a difference.

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 So what if you said, Lord, let me believe the things that are true about me that I forget.

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 By the power of your Holy Spirit, Lord, would you be tangibly present with me today?

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 Help me to be sensitive to the people around me that you are using me to encourage.

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 And please send people to me to encourage me with your love.

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 Replace my loneliness with your comfort and your presence.

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 And help me notice when I need to cry out to you in the chaos.

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 Just like that song said.

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 I will trust in you.

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 Lord, you promised never to leave me lonely.

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 So I'm going to leave it all right here.

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 I will trust in you.

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 Cry out to the Father in the chaos.

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 Okay, so plot twist though.

00:28:31.860 --> 00:28:32.720
 Like any good movie.

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 You're not the answer to Jesus' prayer.

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 I guess you're an outflowing of it.

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 But he answered his own prayer.

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 Think of that.

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 Hours after he prayed this, he goes to the cross.

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 You were on his mind clearly before he died.

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 And then he goes to the cross.

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 The payment for sin is made by his death.

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 The invitation into union with God is restored.

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 Reversing what happened in Eden.

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 Giving eternal belonging and security.

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 Loneliness is reversed.

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 And through faith in him, just believing that it's true.

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 And giving your life to it.

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 He says, you are now one with me the way that I'm one with God.

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 The way that I am God.

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 God is now in you.

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 You're in me.

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 We're in each other.

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 I'm here all the time.

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 As his precious and beloved creation.

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 So that prayer has been answered.

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 Which is why Galatians 3.28 says this.

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 There's neither Jew nor Greek nor slave nor free.

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 Nor male nor female.

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 But you are all one.

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 In who?

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 Christ.

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 It's not on us.

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 He took it on him.

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 He's already paved the way.

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 It's already a done deal.

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 Do we believe it?

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 Will we live out of that?

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 So just like any good movie though, there's a little bit more.

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 Right?

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 The credits are rolling.

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 And what happens after that end of a superhero movie?

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 What do you wait for?

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 Get out your phone.

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 Is there an after credit sequence on this?

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 Is there another scene after the credits?

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 And there is in this one.

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 And it's Revelation 21.

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 One day he's going to wipe away every tear.

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 And death will be no more.

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 Behold, I am making all things new.

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 It is done.

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 I'm the alpha and the omega.

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 The beginning and the end.

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 Jesus is the beginning and the end.

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 Loneliness isn't.

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 And one day all that loneliness that we've battled.

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 And all that broken relationships and mess.

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 That you're living in.

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 All the shame and the isolation.

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 They're going to be gone.

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 Loneliness is not the end of the story.

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 Jesus is.

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 And his story never ends.

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 And through faith, his story becomes our story.

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 And in that way we become one.

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 With God and with each other.

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 And that makes a difference in how we live.

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 So back to that superhero movie.

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 The main character is fighting against his own loneliness.

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 And the more he fights it alone, the worse it gets.

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 And he grows darker and darker.

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 And it starts to control him.

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 And is almost going to take complete control of him where he's completely gone.

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 And his loneliness says, it will always be just us.

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 And then right at the climax of that battle, one of those not so superheroes who's full of mistakes shows up and says, I'm here.

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 You're not alone.

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 And at that moment he receives that strength to overcome the loneliness that he's been fighting alone.

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 And as powerful, as moving as that was to me, like it really caught me off guard.

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 I got emotional.

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 It was incomplete.

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 It was incomplete because they were fighting in their own strength.

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 Okay.

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 And as we leave today, I want you to remember this in your loneliness or whatever the loneliness is you're in.

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 Whatever, fill in the blank.

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 Christ not only says, I'm here.

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 You're not alone.

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 But he says, I've already won the battle for you.

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 And as believers, we don't fight for victory.

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 Okay.

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 We live from it.

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 And because of that, we can cry out to him at any moment.

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 Help me live as a victor in this moment.

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 And when we do, we're not just practicing true community.

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 We're practicing eternity with Christ and with each other.

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 And through that oneness, the world gets a glimpse of the kingdom of heaven.

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 I'm with you in it.

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 We're with you in it.

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 God's doing something big with you.

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 Don't forget it.

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 Let me pray for us.

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 Father, I pray for your spirit to make these things true and lived out in us.

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 That we may be the love of God to one another, living from your victory.

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 Praise you, Jesus, for what you did.

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 Thank you for praying for us and answering the prayer yourself.

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 God, you always answer and provide on your own.

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 And you give us the gifts of your provision.

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 Make a difference in our life.

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 May we look forward to the kingdom of heaven.

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 And may some today put their faith in you for the first time.

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 And experience that union.

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 Let us be rooted in you.

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 Thank you, Lord Jesus.

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 We praise you and give you all the glory in Christ's holy name.

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 Amen.

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 Amen.

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