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 reading today comes from 1st Corinthians chapter 10 verse 23 going all the way to chapter 11 verse

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 1 and if you're using one of our blue pew bibles it's on page 958 i'll give you a moment to find

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 it page 958 in your pew bibles 1st Corinthians 10 23 to 11 1

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 let me pray for the reading and preaching of god's word

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 heavenly father we pray that you will now address us from your word

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 let all that is of you land on our hearts with force the power of the spirit

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 and let all that is not of you fade recede into the background and not be uttered lord from this

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 pulpit and we pray lord that as we are addressed by you we will draw closer to you that we'll become

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 more like you grow as a church to be able to glorify you in all things and to work for the good of our

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 neighbors as your people so meet with us in jesus name we pray amen 1st corinthians 10 23 to 11 1

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 all things are lawful but not all things are helpful all things are lawful but not all things

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 build up let no one seek his own good but the good of his neighbor eat whatever is sold in the market

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 without raising any question on the ground of conscience for the earth is the lord's and the

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 fullness thereof if one of the unbelievers invites you to dinner and you are disposed to go eat

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 whatever is set before you without raising any question on the ground of conscience but if someone

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 says to you this has been offered in sacrifice then do not eat it for the sake of the one who informed

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 you and for the sake of conscience i do not mean your conscience but his for why should my liberty be

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 determined by someone else's conscience if i partake with thankfulness why am i denounced because of

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 that for which i give thanks so whether you eat or drink or whatever you do do all to the glory of god

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 give no offense to jews or to greeks or to the church of god just as i try to please everyone in

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 everything i do not seeking my own advantage but that of many that they may be saved be imitators of

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 me as i am of christ the word of the lord thanks be to god we all consider a variety of factors

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 when making decisions sometimes our decisions are deliberate and logical sometimes they are spontaneous

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 and intuitive sometimes we think that they are deliberate and logical but they are more intuitive

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 and subconscious than we know usually they are a mix of both and sometimes we make altruistic decisions

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 and sometimes we make selfish decisions that advance our own agendas but in all that we do

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 there are a couple overarching principles that must govern all of our habits and all of our decisions as

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 christians and in first 10 23 to 11 one apostle paul teaches us that we are to imitate christ

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 and do all things to the glory of god and the good of our neighbors that's the main point of this

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 passage and i will talk about that in two parts the first part of the sermon will be covering verses

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 23 to 30 about the good of our neighbors in the second part we'll talk about the glory of god from

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 chapter 10 31 to 11 one paul begins in verse 23 by quoting the often used slogan of the corinthians

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 which we've seen before in this uh letter all things are lawful right we saw that earlier in

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 chapter 6 when the corinthians were using that slogan to justify sexual immorality

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 so they mistakenly believed that because of their newfound spiritual freedom in christ

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 that they now all things were permissible for them lawful for them to do so on the surface that

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 sounds similar to paul's own teaching he says in galatians 5 18 that christians who are led by the

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 spirit are not under the law so we no longer have the the binding force of the law on us with its

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 penalties that are threatened against us that's no longer on us because christ has fulfilled the law

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 but that's still a distortion of paul's teaching to say that because of christ now i can do all things

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 all things are lawful for me because paul also says specifically in romans 6 14 to 16 for sin will

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 have no dominion over you since you are not under law but under grace what then are we to sin because we

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 are not under law but under grace by no means do you not know that if you present yourselves to

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 anyone as obedient slaves you are slaves of the one whom you obey either of sin which leads to death

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 or of obedience which leads to righteousness so while it is true that those who are in christ because

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 christ fulfilled the law perfectly on our behalf are no longer under the law in terms of its legal and

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 penal demands this did not mean that we could go on sinning as christians because to do so would mean

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 that we are still enslaved to sin when christ died to save us to free us from sin and so this freedom

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 in christ was an opportunity to keep in step with the holy spirit and to follow god not to do whatever

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 we please to be lawless and that's the difference right between a christian between a legalist and a

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 lawless person and a christian the lawless person doesn't want to follow god's law he does not follow

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 it the legalist does not want to follow god's law but he follows it anyway because he has to

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 the christian on the other hand follows the law because he wants to the law of god is written on

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 his heart and the spirit of god enlivens him and leads him and so the mindset really of doing what

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 is lawful is fitting for a pharisee a legalist but woefully inadequate for the christian that's why

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 jesus said in his sermon on the mountain matthew 5 20 i tell you that unless your righteousness exceeds

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 that of the pharisees and the scribes you will never enter the kingdom of heaven sometimes we

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 mistakenly think that these pharisees held to a higher standard than we can keep but the pharisees

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 kept to a lower standard than we can keep and that's why jesus says you unless your righteousness

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 exceeds theirs then you will not enter the kingdom of god because the mindset of a legalist of a pharisee

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 is essentially self-serving and self-preservationist their goal is to pass right their goal is to not

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 mess up to meet the minimum requirement so they can enter the kingdom of heaven that's the mindset of a

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 legalist they're just trying not to disqualify themselves but that's different from the christian's mindset

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 because the christian's mindset is not simply to pass for one's own sake but to please god to honor god

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 to glorify god so by definition a christian is a maximalist and not a minimalist like a pharisee

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 it's the difference between really a student who is trying to do the minimum requirement and pass and

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 graduate and compare that to a straight a student who loves learning i am wants to please the student

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 that's the difference that's the pharisee's righteousness and the christian's righteousness

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 so for paul the corinthian slogan all things are lawful is misleading and inadequate and he qualifies

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 it in verse 23 he says all things are lawful but not all things are helpful sure you might have the right

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 or authority to do such things but that does not mean that such things are helpful or beneficial

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 for paul it's not enough that we can we can do something we need to ask whether we should do

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 something and then paul continues all things are lawful but not all things build up so the christian

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 life is not about claiming our rights but it's about doing things that benefit and build up the church

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 so that means our decision making process and everything that we do should never be purely self-centered

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 but oriented toward helping and building others up that's paul's first qualification the proper

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 christian attitude is one of service selflessness so and that's why even though it might be lawful for

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 you when you return home from a long day at work to seat yourself on the couch to put your feet up on

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 the table and relax unwind watch tv but i'm sure it will do you i'm sure that will do some good

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 to rest and relax but is that what is most helpful for you in that moment is that helpful to your spouse

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 is that helpful to your children does it build up your children yes it's lawful for you do that but is

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 it helpful yes it's lawful for you to spend hundreds of dollars on that latest gadget or that latest design

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 that came out of your favorite clothing shop and i'm sure it will do you some good because it's beautiful

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 and useful to have those things but is that the most helpful way for you in that time of your life

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 to spend that money does it benefit only you or does it build up others is there a better way you can

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 spend that money everyone in the world looks out naturally for their own interests but christians are

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 called to not only look out for our own interests but also for the interests of others that's why it says

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 in verse 24 let no one seek his own good but the good of his neighbor this is another way to state

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 the second half of the greatest commandment that jesus taught us you shall love your neighbor as

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 yourself because love is by nature self-giving and self-sacrificing and one of the defining

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 characteristics of love as paul writes later in chapter 13 verse 5 is that it does not insist on its own way

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 we're supposed to look out for the other's interests and it's amazing that we as humans

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 selfishly can even turn the greatest commandment uh to our own end for our own selfish purposes

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 because how many times have you heard this in order to love your neighbor as yourself you need to first

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 love yourself so take care of yourself treat yourself serve yourself then you will know how to love your

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 neighbor as yourself have you heard that before i've heard that before that's pop psychology nonsense

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 that's we know very well how to love ourselves that's taken for granted even the people with the

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 lowest self-esteem in the world they who hate themselves they love themselves in fact it's because

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 precisely because they love themselves so much that they hate with such hatred the things that they

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 don't like about themselves that's why they pity themselves it's because they love themselves

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 that's why the greatest commandment assumes our self-love and then it tells us to love our neighbor

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 as we love ourselves self-love is not the foundation of neighbor love it is the impediment to neighbor love

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 that must be overcome that's why paul says let no one seek his own good but the good of his neighbor

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 because seeking our own good is often at odds with seeking the good of our neighbor

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 and who is the neighbor whose good we must seek jesus answered this question in luke chapter 10 25 to 37

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 in the parable of the good samaritan and there even though in that time and age the samaritans and jews

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 hated each other refused to congregate with each other in this story jesus taught the jews who were listening

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 that even a samaritan is a neighbor so that shows us that a neighbor is not someone who has the same

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 ethnic heritage or racial heritage as you it's not someone who was born in the same decade as you

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 part of the same generation it's not someone who has the same academic pedigree as you it's not someone

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 that shares your preferences opinions and interests a neighbor is anyone you come into contact with

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 a neighbor is literally your neighbor the ones you're rubbing shoulders with

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 and this is so insightful because given the busyness of urban living and the transience of the city that

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 we live in and our relative anonymity in the city because there's so many people it's so easy for us to

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 ignore the neighbors that are immediately within our reach isn't that true many of us have have more

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 social interactions with facebook friends that we hardly know and we have never met than our actual

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 neighbors

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 because and because our time and resources and our emotional capacities are all limited we could only

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 really love a handful of people in a tangible way each day so while it is true that we should love

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 everyone the bible is so wise that god jesus is so wise to command us not to just love everyone in

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 general but to say love your neighbor because in trying to love everyone in general can make we can

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 love no one in particular because loving everyone is so general and abstract and so he says concretely

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 love your neighbor and that's what paul saying paul is saying here let no one seek his own good

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 but the good of his neighbor do you love your neighbors do you know your neighbors

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 do you make an effort to say hi to your neighbors and introduce yourselves to them

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 because you can say hey uh i see you around quite often but i've never had a chance to introduce myself

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 to you my name is sean what's your name you get to know them talk to them ask them questions how they're

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 doing and once you get to know them and that you're in have enough relational grounds you could ask them

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 to come over for dinner talk to them

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 see what their hopes and fears are

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 and speak the truth of the gospel over that

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 please don't say you don't have time to get to know your neighbors

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 the bible doesn't call this the polite suggestion this is the greatest commandment

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 it's the matter of priority

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 in keeping to our own busy schedules we are being selfish with our time and we are seeking our own

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 good rather than the good of our neighbor that's part of it let no one seek his own good but the good of his

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 neighbor in verses 25 to 28 paul uses an example to illustrate what this principle looks like

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 in application he writes in verses 25 to 26 eat whatever is sold in the meat market without raising

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 any question on the ground of conscience for the earth is the lord's and the fullness thereof

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 in paul's day much the meat that was sold in the markets were actually from

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 animals that had been sacrificed at the pagan feasts

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 so for this reason the jews abstained generally from eating meat whose origin they did not know

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 they refused to buy meat from the meat markets

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 however paul says that this should not be an issue for the christian for the conscience of the christian

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 because there is no need to be concerned about eating such food

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 and the reason paul gives for this is psalm 24 1 which he quotes

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 he says the earth is the lord's and the fullness thereof

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 this is the verse that jews often cited to say that whenever you eat something before you eat you should thank god for it

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 because it came ultimately from him he's the origin he's the source so to not acknowledge him and to thank him for it is like defrauding him

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 and not not giving him the due that the thanks that is due to him so the jews often use this verse before they ate

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 and paul is not using this for another purpose he's saying that if this is true that the earth is the lord's and the fullness thereof

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 if the whole earth belongs to god and everything that's contained therein

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 then all the animals in the world belong to god and it doesn't matter who butchered it it's ultimately from him

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 and so you should be able to eat it with a clean conscience

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 it doesn't matter that people in their ignorance had offered these animals as sacrifice to idols

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 these idols are nothing at all and since god alone is creator

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 all that is part of creation belongs to him

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 so believers should partake and freely eat the meat as gifts from the lord

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 now some of you might be thinking about our previous passage and raising some questions

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 because this case is a bit different from what paul just addressed earlier in chapter 10

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 because in the first part of chapter 10 he instructed the corinthian believers

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 not to participate in the pagan festivals and to eat the meat that's sacrificed there

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 so the difference here is that those those people in the first case people are actually going to

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 and participating in the sacrifices and in the pagan feasts therefore partaking what is essentially

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 worship of demons in idolatry and so paul says don't do that don't participate however in this case

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 he's not talking about being at the feast but rather buying meat from the market and the meat that had come

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 from a feast but it was sold just at a market he's saying for those things it's fine to consume

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 so this is really helpful actually when you think about christian ethics because it seems that in terms of

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 indirect and secondary and tertiary association with the sins of this world the bible seems to

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 afford considerable liberty to the christian he's saying no that's not an issue as long as you're

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 not directly participating in the feast you can eat that meat so that's why paul says in verse 27

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 if one of the unbelievers invites you to dinner and you are disposed to go

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 eat whatever is set before you without raising any question on the ground of conscience

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 so paul recognizes it as a distinct possibility that christians

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 might be invited to unbelievers houses for dinner he says that if they are disposed to go

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 that they should and not only are they free to join unbelievers for a meal uh he expects that in the

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 likely event that a meat that is served in that in that setting is a meat that had been formally

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 purchased purchased from the market that was sacrificed to an idol he said there's no need to

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 care about its origins you can just eat it with a clear conscience

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 this is quite liberal uh for for paul's day uh it's hard to uh um grasp how difficult this would

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 have been for for the jews the christian jews at the time because around this time the jewish manual

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 called the jubilees book of jubilees which is from about the first century bc uh it says this

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 chapter 22 verse 16 separate yourself from the gentiles and do not eat with them and do not perform

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 deeds like theirs and do not become associates of theirs because their deeds are defiled and all of

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 their ways are contaminated and despicable and abominable that's crystal clear right and so and

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 but but for the christian paul says it's okay and here's the reason if you look at acts 10 you see an

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 actual example of this principle being applied by jews and because in the god shows a peter apostle peter a

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 vision of of unclean all kinds of unclean ceremonially unclean animals uh being lowered on a sheet uh and

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 then he tells peter kill and eat and peter of course being the observant jew that he is he responds by no

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 means lord for i have never eaten anything that is common or unclean but then god says to him what god

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 has made clean do not call common the purpose of that vision was to show peter that god has made the

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 gentiles clean and that his salvation plan is not just for the jews no longer just for the jews

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 but includes all the nations of earth and because he had been prepared ahead of time by that vision

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 when cornelius a gentile military commander in the roman army asks him to come and teach him and his

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 household about god peter accepts the invitation to go to his house and when he gets there this is what

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 he says he says you yourselves know how unlawful it is for a jew to associate with or to visit anyone

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 of another nation but god has shown me that i should not call any person common or unclean

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 so when i was sent for i came without objection and then peter preaches the gospel to them the holy

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 spirit falls on the gentiles and they are all baptized as a result so in the old testament right the primary

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 concern the religious concern of the old testament was to preserve israel's integrity and their

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 religious purity and the reason for that was because they were the nation the people from whom

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 jesus christ the savior of the world would come for this reason non-jews could be saved only by

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 joining the jews becoming a jew by being a part of the nation of israel but that was only the half of

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 the promise that god had given to abraham god promised abraham that he would be made into a great nation

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 but he also said in genesis 12 in abraham all the families of the earth shall be blessed

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 salvation is from the jews but it is not exclusively for the jews and so after christ comes to save his

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 people and after his death and resurrection he instructs his disciples then to go and make disciples

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 of all nations that's what happened when christ came and that's why paul's posture toward gentiles

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 is radically different from the posture that his fellow jews had in his day and so he's able to say

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 if one of the unbeliever invites you to dinner and you are disposed to go eat whatever is set before you

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 without raising any question on the ground of conscience do you eat with unbelievers

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 when you share a home-cooked meal with someone you're going beyond a mere acquaintance to friendship

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 and paul expects believers to have that kind of table fellowship with unbelievers

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 is there an unbelieving neighbor who knows you and trust you enough to invite you over for dinner

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 as christians we are called to be set apart but not to be separatistic we're called to be distinct

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 from the world but not distant from our neighbors how can we share the gospel with our neighbors if we

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 don't befriend them and if we don't befriend them how can we claim to love them and because love not

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 liberty is the basis for christian behavior because we're not supposed to seek our own good but the

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 good of our neighbors paul adds verse 28 read with me verse 28 but if someone says to you this has been

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 offered in sacrifice then do not eat it for the sake of the one who informed you and for the sake of

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 conscience it's not exactly clear of who this someone might be some people assume that because paul had

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 mentioned in the previous chapters a christian brother who has a weaker conscience for whom you

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 need to you need to whose conscience you need to guard he thinks that some some people think that

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 another fellow believer with a weaker conscience was invited along with you and they object saying oh

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 this is sacrifice this was the meat that was sacrificed to idols so i there's a couple reasons why i don't

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 think that's likely first is that it says this has been offered in sacrifice a more literal translation

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 of that is this is sacrifice meat there's a specific word that means sacrifice meat and that's a word that

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 the pagans used unbelievers used to refer to meat that was sacrificed in pagan worship sacrifice meat

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 the jews and christians had another word for the exact same type of meat they called it idol meat

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 and so the fact that this person is saying this is this is sacrifice meat suggests that it's likely to be

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 an unbeliever who is informing the christian and then secondly not only is a fellow christian that is coming

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 with the weaker conscience not even mentioned in this context it's unlikely that a fellow guest along with you

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 would along with this person would know the sacrificial origin of the meat how would they know this meat came

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 from the the sacrifice was sacrificed to the to the idols they wouldn't know i mean it's not like they mark it

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 with the stamp right so it's it's it only makes sense that this is probably the host the unbelieving host who is

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 saying that this meat was sacrificed to idols then at this point of course we could ask uh why uh

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 uh why is the host would inform the christian of such a thing that this is sacrificed meat

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 and it seems to me like much like a host you know when you go over to someone's house a host can uh

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 realize that he cooked food with nuts in it and and realize that you know someone might be allergic

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 to nuts and so he said hey this has nuts in it by the way as a way of a service as a way of courtesy

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 informing the guests in a similar way it seems that this gentile who has invited a christian over for

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 dinner has prepared meat like he normally does from the meat purchase from the market it's meat that

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 will sacrifice the idols but then he realized that as a christian the christian might have an objection

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 to it because this was maybe he thinks that to eat such a meat is to partake in idolatry and the

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 worship that was part of the meat sacrifice so for the sake of christian this unbeliever says do not eat

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 it i mean so he says this is sacrificed meat and in such a case paul says do not eat it for the sake of

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 the one who informed you and for the sake of conscience because the unbeliever thinks that to

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 eat that for the christian would be to condone idolatry or to partake in it and note that paul

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 doesn't say hey in that context if they serve you serve it to you just explain to them that it's not

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 idolatry he doesn't say that right because maybe that's not the best context to explain it to them and

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 how can you be guaranteed that they will believe what you say or be convinced of it do you know

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 where they are in their conscience right now they think that it's inappropriate for you to eat it as a christian

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 so don't use your liberty to eat it abstain from it for the sake of the person who informed you

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 because this might prove to be a stumbling block they might think that idolatry is okay

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 and not come to know the lord we are to do all things for the good of our neighbors that's the first

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 principle but what exactly is the good of our neighbors who defines this good that first

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 principle can't stand alone and that's why we turn to the second point the glory of god in verse 31 he

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 teaches us a second and more fundamental principle that's supposed to govern and ground our first

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 principle so he writes this follow with me verse 31 so whether you eat or drink or whatever you do

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 do all to the glory of god so paul mentions eating and drinking specifically because that fits the

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 illustration that he just used but and and uh but the principle applies beyond eating and drinking of

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 course that's why he adds the phrase whatever you do this principle this principle is pervasive it

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 concerns everything that we do whatever we do from the slightest thing to the weightiest thing

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 from the smallest to the biggest from the most trivial to the most important everything in our lives is to be

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 done to the glory of god even insignificant details like what you eat and drink must be made

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 to the service of the glory of god that these are what is the glory of god exodus 33 18 19 when moses

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 asks god please show me your glory god answers i will make all my goodness pass before you and will

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 proclaim before you my name the lord so god's glory is a manifestation of god's goodness it is the

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 manifestation of god's character and attributes the glory of god is the display of divinity therefore

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 it's unique to god it's what makes god god so then to glorify god that means to acknowledge who he is to

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 ascribe glory that is already his to him that's why psalm 29 2 says ascribe to the lord the glory

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 do his name worship the lord in the splendor of holiness it's not something that we give to him

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 that he doesn't have it's something that we ascribe to him because it's due to him it's owed to him it

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 already belongs to him that's what it means to glorify him and so isaiah 43 and and that's what we're

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 created to do as people we are created to glorify god to ascribe to him glory so isaiah 43 7 says

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 everyone who is called by my name whom i created for my glory whom i formed and made god created each

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 of us uniquely like a facet of a prism and when the light of god's glory shines on it we are supposed

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 to reflect the light of the glory of god and in all its glorious colors that's humanity's purpose

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 that's the reason you are alive that's the meaning of our lives so eat to the glory of god

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 read to the glory of god bleed to the glory of god please bogate to the glory of god

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 read to the glory of godiec to the glory of god babysit to the glory of god sell and buy to the glory of god

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 teach to the glory of god cook to the glory of god change diapers to the glory of god talk to the glory

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 of God. Listen to the glory

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 of God.

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 Tweet to the glory of God.

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 Everything we think,

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 everything we feel,

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 everything we

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 say, everything

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 we do should be for

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 the singular purpose

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 of glorifying God.

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 And there's such freedom

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 in living that way.

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 It simplifies your life.

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 It's important that we get this because

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 without seeking the glory of God first, we will not

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 know how to seek the good of our neighbors.

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 Those two things go hand in hand. That's why

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 the greatest commandment has two parts. First,

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 to love the Lord your God with all your heart, soul,

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 mind, and strength. And then to love your neighbor

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 as yourself. Love for God is the

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 reason behind one's love for our neighbor.

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 And one's love for neighbor is a necessary

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 expression of our love for God.

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 And that's why he says here, in order

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 to seek the good of our neighbors, we need to seek

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 the glory of God. Now, if we don't hold

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 those two things together, we will misunderstand

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 verses 32 to 33.

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 Read that with me.

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 Give no offense to Jews or to Greeks

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 or to the church of God, just as I

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 try to please everyone in

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 everything I do, not seeking my own

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 advantage, but that of many, that they

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 may be saved.

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 That can be misinterpreted if you're

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 merely thinking about the good of our neighbor

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 without thinking about the glory of God.

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 Because Paul's not saying here

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 that we should sacrifice our Christian

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 convictions in order to please our neighbors.

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 We live among

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 people whose sensibilities

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 are frequently offended, whose feelings

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 are easily hurt. And Paul's

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 not saying that we shouldn't ever say

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 or do anything to offend anyone

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 in that kind of superficial sense.

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 The gospel of Jesus

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 Christ itself teaches

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 us that we are sinners in need of a Savior

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 and that truth alone is offensive

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 to the vast majority of unbelievers.

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 If we

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 are so concerned about not offending them,

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 then we would never share the gospel with them.

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 That's not what Paul is talking

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 about. Our neighbors have all kinds of wrong ideas

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 about what is true and just

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 and right, and it would be sinful

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 for us to compromise our convictions.

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 That's not what Paul is talking about.

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 The word give offense here literally

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 means give no cause for

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 stumbling. It's the

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 negative form of the word that Paul used

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 a stumbling block in chapter

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 8 verse 9 where he said,

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 But take care that this right of yours

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 does not somehow become a stumbling

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 block to the weak.

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 So it means when he says give no

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 cause for stumbling, when he says give no

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 offense to anyone, he means don't

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 put up any unnecessary obstacles

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 to people coming to Christ.

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 Don't make them stumble

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 in their pathway, in their way to

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 Christ. That's what Paul means by give no

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 offense. And this is confirmed by the

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 purpose clause at the end of verse 33.

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 33, what is the purpose for which we

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 should give no offense to anyone?

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 That they may be

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 saved. That's the goal. That's the driving

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 purpose of not giving offense is that

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 they may be saved.

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 So Paul's really kind of reiterating

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 what he already said in chapter 9,

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 20 to 22 where he said,

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 to the Jews I became as a Jew

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 in order to win Jews, to those

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 under the law I became as one under

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 the law though not being myself

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 under the law, that I might win those

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 under the law. To those outside the law

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 I became as one outside the law, not

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 being outside the law of God but under

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 the law of Christ, that I might win

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 those outside the law. To the weak

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 I became weak, that I might win

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 the weak. I become all things to all

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 people that by all means I might

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 save some. Paul's not trying to please people for the sake of pleasing people. He's trying to please

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 people for the sake of pleasing God, for the sake of saving them. That's why in another context in

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 Galatians, Paul says, like, I'm not seeking the approval of man. He says, am I trying to please man?

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 If I were still trying to please man, I would not be a servant of Christ. That's what Paul says in

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 Galatians 1. This is not a contradiction. So if you're a people pleaser and you avoid

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 confrontations like a plague, so much so that you would never dare to share the gospel of Jesus Christ

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 with anyone lest you offend them, then you're definitely not pleasing people as Paul is talking

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 about. He said that he was not seeking his own interest, own advantage, but that of many that

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 they may be saved. People pleaser, on the other hand, are seeking their own interest and their

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 own advantage so that they could be thought well of, so that they could be not thought of as foolish,

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 so they could avoid being embarrassed. That's self-seeking.

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 To interpret these verses in that way, to try not to be afraid of offending anyone in the possible

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 order, to try to please them in that sense, that's a total distortion of what Paul's teaching in this

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 passage. That's self-serving cowardice, not self-sacrificing courage, which is what Paul's

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 calling us to. So the ultimate good of our neighbors, because we see it in the context of

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 the glory of God, is their salvation. Trying to please everyone in everything, everyone in everything

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 one does, that parallels doing all to the glory of God. Doing all to the glory of God parallels doing

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 everything for everyone to please them. And note the categorical nature of Paul's statement. He doesn't

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 say that he tries to please some people in some things. He says he tries to please everyone in

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 everything so that he might save them. Do you make your everyday decisions with the salvation of your

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 neighbors in mind? Do you do everything that is within your power to do it for everyone that is in your

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 life? When you decide where you're going for dinner, who you invite to your house, which community

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 events to attend, where to send your kids to school, where to go to school, do you have the salvation of

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 your neighbors in mind? Or do you have only your interest in mind? Are you content with being on

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 friendly terms with your neighbors without ever sharing the saving use of Jesus Christ with them?

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 Sure, you might be seeking their good in some smaller ways, but are you seeking their ultimate good?

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 Are you seeking to save them? What would it look like then for us to try to please everyone in

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 everything? Not seeking our own advantage, but that of many that they may be saved. So this is a little

00:35:16.900 --> 00:35:21.559
 bit hard to apply, right? Because Paul's talking about meat, sacrificed meat that's being sold in the

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 marketplace. He says, I will go to an unbeliever's house and eat it, but if they mention that it was

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 sacrificed to idols for his conscience sake, I will refrain from eating it. So that's what Paul,

00:35:30.759 --> 00:35:37.659
 that's the principle that Paul's teaching us. How does this apply to us? Maybe some of your

00:35:37.659 --> 00:35:45.099
 coworkers invite you to work social at a local bar. You can go and enjoy yourself

00:35:45.099 --> 00:35:53.179
 and drink in moderation, right? And that's a great opportunity to share the gospel with them.

00:35:53.839 --> 00:35:59.119
 There's nothing inherently sinful about drinking. And as long as you stay sober and as long as you're

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 not leading any other weak believer with the weaker conscience into sin by doing so,

00:36:04.440 --> 00:36:10.440
 the Christian has the liberty to do so. Like Paul, we can go over to an unbeliever's house and eat his

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 meat with a clear conscience. For another example, many of our neighbors in Cambridge and greater

00:36:14.700 --> 00:36:22.820
 Boston area are very environmentally conscious. And you might have a neighbor who is very mindful of

00:36:22.820 --> 00:36:29.119
 her own carbon footprint, and she might think that using styrofoam cups is destroying our environment.

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 I have a lot of neighbors who think that way, so this is not just a hypothetical situation.

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 And so this might be a non-issue for you. You might agree with her, you might not. Maybe you're aware

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 that if foam cups are recycled, which you can't do through the Massachusetts system, but you can by

00:36:45.579 --> 00:36:50.360
 taking it to recycling companies like RefoamIt in Newton. If you actually recycle it, it has a much

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 less, it's much better in terms of carbon footprint than actual paper cups. So maybe you're aware of

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 that and you have freedom with regard to using styrofoam cups. But regardless, because you know of

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 your neighbor's convictions and his or her conscience sake, for the sake of your neighbor, you choose not to

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 put that stumbling block when you have that person over to your house for a party and have styrofoam cups

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 sitting on that table. I know that seems like a really small thing, right? But eating meat,

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 sacrificed idol, was a very small thing for Apostle Paul. It doesn't matter. I could eat that whenever

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 I want, Paul said, but for the sake of that person, I will not eat it. If it's an important issue for your

00:37:27.320 --> 00:37:33.660
 neighbor, it's an important issue for you for the sake of removing the stumbling block. Or maybe your

00:37:33.659 --> 00:37:38.819
 unbelieving neighbor invites you to a TV viewing party, but because he knows you're a Christian,

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 he warns you, just so you know, there's a lot of graphic and gratuitous sex and violence in this show.

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 Now, there are a lot of good biblical reasons not to watch a TV show that has a lot of graphic and

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 gratuitous sex and violence. So this may not be something that you could do with a clear conscience

00:37:59.539 --> 00:38:07.219
 anyway. But let's imagine that you can. You're one of those people who are not affected by these

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 things, or you're at least convinced that you're not affected by these things, and you don't think

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 that it's sinful to watch it. Even if you have the liberty regarding an issue, because your neighbor

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 has warned you for the sake of your conscience, not for your conscience' sake, for the sake of his

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 conscience, so you don't put a stumbling block in front of him by showing that person that it's okay

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 for Christians to participate in gratuitous sex and violence, so you don't put a stumbling block in

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 front of your neighbor, refrain from going to the party, and use that opportunity to say no as an

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 opportunity to share the gospel and the hope that you have in Christ. If we're honest with ourselves,

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 it was really hard to come up with examples that might be relevant to you, but you could probably

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 think of more in your life as things come up as you relate to your neighbors. But if we're honest

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 with ourselves, we don't do this perfectly, and we are to do all things to the glory of God and the

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 good of our neighbors, but often we do things for our own glory and our own good. And that's where the

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 chief problem of humanity lies. Human beings are by default glory thieves. We steal the glory that is due

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 to God and live to glorify ourselves. We're like that brat that goes to a friend's birthday party and then

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 makes the party all about himself. Even though all indications, the signs on the walls, the name

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 written on the cake, all the gifts, everything points to the fact that it's your friend's birthday,

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 but that brat must make that party all about himself. That's us in this world with all creation

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 pointing to the glory of God, saying that it was all created for him, and we want to make it all about

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 us live for our own glory. Or we're like that rude conference attendee who during the Q&A session

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 after the talk, instead of asking a question like he's supposed to, gives a 10-minute monologue as if

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 he were the expert on subject and the speaker of the topic. We're vain. We have illusions of grandeur,

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 and we live like we are unimpressed with and unaware of God's presence. We ought to be learning from him

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 and submitting to him, but we presume to teach God and make him fit our narrow and erroneous view of life.

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 That's why Romans 3.23, which we read from, says,

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 all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God. Instead of doing all things to the glory of God,

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 we have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God. And because of that, we can't do all things

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 for the good of our neighbors either. I used that analogy of the prism earlier, that we're supposed to

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 reflect the glory of God in our unique way in which God created us. But instead of reflecting

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 and displaying the light of God's glory, we have become chipped and clouded prisms that distort the

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 light of God's glory, that block it and not let it through. That's the biggest problem facing humanity,

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 the sin that separates us from God. And if you are not yet a follower of Jesus Christ,

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 please pay attention to this. Until you deal with this issue, until you make this right,

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 your life will always feel off kilter. You will feel like a misshapen puzzle piece that you're unable

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 to make fit into the grand scheme of God's plan for your life and for this world.

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 You will be successful and accomplished without feeling fulfilled. You will be wealthy and well-fed,

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 but you will feel empty. You will have many friends and admirers yet feel lonely and not fully known.

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 You will be recognized and esteemed yet feel like an imposter and a hypocrite.

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 That's because you're not fulfilling the purpose for which you were created.

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 Your life needs to be realigned and reordered according to God's will for you.

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 But none of you can make this right in your own strength. We can't restore our relationship with

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 God on our own, and that's why God the Father sent his Son, Jesus Christ, to save us. In 2 Corinthians 4,

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 4-6, Paul writes that what saves us is the light of the gospel of the glory of Christ, who is the image

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 of God. And later in the same chapter, he writes, God has shown in our hearts to give the light of the

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 knowledge of the glory of God in the face of Jesus Christ. How do we get restored to that place where

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 we're giving glory to God? How do we get restored to that place where we are doing all things to his

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 glory? And we're no longer falling short of the glory of God. It's the gospel of the glory of Christ.

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 It's by looking into the face of Jesus Christ who came to save us, though we fell short of God's glory.

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 Christ was the perfect embodiment of God's glory. And even though he alone deserved that glory,

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 he didn't glorify himself, he humbled himself, even to the point of dying on the cross for our sins,

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 so that we can share in his glory.

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 Paul told us to try to please everyone that they might be saved. That's what Christ did for us.

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 Romans 15, 1-3 tells us what Christ did. He says, we who are a strong have an obligation to pair with

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 the failings of the weak and not to please ourselves. Let each of us please his neighbor for his good to

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 build him up. For Christ did not please himself. But as it is written, the reproaches of those who

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 reproached you fell on me. Christ traded his glory for our reproach. Christ deserved honor. He deserved

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 praise. He deserved glory.

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 Christ should not have been reproached. Christ had every right to please himself.

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 But he chose not to please himself. To please, to please, to please his father. To please us.

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 To save us. And that's why Paul closes this section with chapter 11, verse 1.

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 Be imitators of me as I am of Christ.

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 Christ, in his self-giving love, became the paradigm by which all of us are supposed to live.

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 So, before we have a moment of silence to reflect on this, let me ask you some questions.

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 What rights can you give up for the sake of your neighbors?

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 What condenses can you give up for their sake?

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 In what ways have you been living for your own glory?

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 How can you reform your life?

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 So that you can live for God's glory.

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 Let's imitate Christ and do all things to the glory of God and the good of our neighbors.

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 Please take a moment in silence to reflect on this and to respond to this in prayer.

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 Amen.

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 Amen.

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 Amen.

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 Amen.

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 Amen.