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 no, you can't do that.

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 You're not good enough.

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 You will stuff it up again.

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 I don't have the time to teach you how to do that.

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 You are just not worthy of my time.

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 Have you ever had someone speak to you like that?

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 Have you ever felt pushed down,

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 like you were the last one chosen?

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 Don't you hate it when other people think less of you

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 and treat you like scum?

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 We would call people in these positions toxic.

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 They're arrogant.

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 They don't understand people's value.

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 In year six and early in year seven,

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 when I was a young man, old boy, one of those two,

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 I was quite short and quite round.

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 And I was always the last picked for any team.

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 And then puberty hit and I just put on like a foot and a half.

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 But we so hate it when this is done to us,

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 when people don't consider us,

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 when we are pushed down, when we are humiliated.

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 And yet I wonder if we do it to other people

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 and we don't even realise it.

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 Friends, come and ask us for help

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 and we just say,

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 oh look, I'd really like to help you,

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 but I'm sorry, I just don't have time.

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 Kids, come and ask for attention.

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 No, I'm busy.

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 Go away.

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 Here's a screen.

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 People at work.

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 I need help with this.

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 Oh, look, that's your job.

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 I don't have time for that.

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 And in effect, are we saying,

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 I'm more important than you.

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 You are not good enough for my time.

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 Do we count others as more worthy?

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 Or are we good at making excuses and conditions

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 as to why they don't deserve our time and attention and money?

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 This week we come to Philippians chapter 2.

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 Paul, the author of the letter,

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 has called us to be united by joy.

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 And the key here for us is humility.

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 If we are arrogant and we are putting others down,

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 we will not have unity.

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 But if we value others like we want to be valued,

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 like Jesus valued us to go to the cross and die for us,

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 then we can have unity.

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 So today, as we look at Philippians chapter 2,

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 we will see how humility leads to unity with joy.

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 And I'm going to pray and I'm going to ask my dear wife,

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 actually, if you can grab that clicker that I think is on my chair

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 and just send one of the children up.

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 Oh, yourself, that'd be wonderful.

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 I thank you.

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 What a humble servant my dear wife is.

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 Thank you.

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 Let's give her a round of applause.

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 Yes.

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 Thank you, my dear, my dear wife.

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 Let me pray.

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 Heavenly Father, I thank you for partners in ministry.

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 Like my wife, I thank you for partners in ministry

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 that we've seen like the Sandtiches, the McGrathes, and the Lowe's.

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 And Lord, I thank you that we get to have church partnerships.

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 Lord, as we look at Philippians chapter 2 this morning,

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 I ask that you would help us to understand how to be humble

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 so that we can have unity as a church and with church partners

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 and more broadly as well, Lord.

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 And we pray this in Jesus' name.

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 Amen.

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 Now, I've got the clicker.

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 Let's see if the clicker works.

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 Yes, there we go.

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 First of all, we're going to see that we are to be humble.

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 So before calling the Philippians to humility,

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 Paul reminds the Philippians of why they should be humble.

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 And he uses the word if four times here.

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 And these questions assume a yes answer.

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 It's like when a child is complaining that their parents never do anything

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 and the parent says something like,

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 I don't ever do anything for you.

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 Well, the answer is, of course, yes.

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 I do many things for you.

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 And so the answer to all of these if questions is a positive yes.

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 These do happen.

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 So therefore, if you have any encouragement from being united with Christ,

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 because you are,

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 if you have any comfort from his love,

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 if there is any common sharing in his spirit,

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 if there is any tenderness and compassion,

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 if there's an encouragement from being united with Christ,

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 if the Jesus who left heaven to come alongside us to bring salvation,

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 but also now continues to strengthen and lift us up when we are discouraged and downhearted,

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 if we have this Jesus,

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 if we have comfort from his love,

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 comfort, the sense of lessening of anxiety,

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 a comfort for a trembling heart,

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 comfort for a heart worried about the future,

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 about children's future,

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 if there is common sharing in the spirit.

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 And this language is the same business term we saw last week.

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 If there is a partnership with the Holy Spirit

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 to bring the comfort of Jesus to the very depths of our heart,

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 if there's any tenderness and compassion,

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 the spirit causing the blessings of Jesus to be experienced,

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 if there is these.

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 And do you know what church?

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 I'm sure that if I sat down with each of you for a couple of moments,

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 you would be able to think of a time when God has picked you up.

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 That his love came to you at the very right time.

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 That his fellowship and faithfulness have been real when everyone else has deserted you.

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 If there is this experience of love and comfort from the Lord Jesus,

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 and there is,

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 we should share it.

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 We should share it.

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 We should be united in this love and comfort and sharing.

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 Verse 2,

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 Then make my joy complete by being like-minded,

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 having the same love,

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 having the same spirit,

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 and the same mind.

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 Paul says,

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 share this experience of love that you've got from God,

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 and Paul will get joy.

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 He will get joy because he's seeing the work of God in the church.

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 It's not just thinking the same thing or doing the same thing.

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 It is the full body.

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 Their hearts and their affections are going in the same way.

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 This is a picture of true church partnership.

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 And so on the basis of Christ's love and affection and comfort,

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 we are called to share love and comfort and affection.

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 The challenge to this, though, is how we view other people

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 because some people are hard to show love and affection and unity to.

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 So Paul says in verse 3,

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 Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit.

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 Rather, in humility, value others above yourselves.

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 Last week, we saw that Paul's ambition was to see the gospel go out,

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 to see as many people come to know and love Jesus as possible.

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 And now he says, watch out for a selfish ambition

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 about building up our own little kingdom instead of God's kingdom,

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 a kingdom that is self-seeking and self-promoting,

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 pride that says, I am worth promoting.

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 Instead, have humility.

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 We can often think that humility is about lowering ourselves,

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 but that's not a good biblical definition.

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 Humility is considering ourselves right.

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 Doing some math on who we are and understanding who we are before God.

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 And so firstly, we would understand that we deserve nothing good from God.

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 And yet, because he is good, he chooses to value us and love us.

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 In relationships, we cause problems.

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 We cause conflicts.

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 We are prickly.

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 We are exhausting.

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 We're people who only talk about ourselves.

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 We need to know who we are.

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 That is what humility is.

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 Knowing who we are and what we deserve.

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 To view ourselves rightly.

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 And so Paul is calling on us to have humility where we understand who we are,

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 but then to value others.

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 To view others.

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 And so he has this mathematical language, to value others.

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 It's as if, I'm not sure if anybody here is particularly good at math,

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 but it would be considering your value

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 and considering somebody else's value

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 and seeing that somebody else is actually quite significant.

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 Seeing that, do you know what?

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 I don't deserve anything good from God and yet he chooses to love me.

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 This other person, do you know what?

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 They're loved by God too.

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 And so I need to consider them highly.

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 So verse four,

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 Paul is stressing here that Christians must take the concerns for themselves

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 and apply it to others.

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 To look out for the interests of others.

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 C.S. Lewis has a wonderful quote about humility.

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 Humility is not thinking less of yourself,

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 but thinking of yourself less.

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 We are very good at thinking of our own needs.

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 What do I need to do today?

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 What do I want to do for me?

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 But what would it look like for us to think about others' needs

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 more than ourselves?

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 Everything in the Christian's life

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 is to bring humility

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 and greater care for other people.

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 Jesus' death on the cross

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 tells us that all we bring to salvation

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 is our need for it.

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 It's impossible to enter the Christian life with pride.

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 The cross sends us to our knees

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 with open and empty hands.

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 Now I'm sure all of us here would say

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 that we are pretty humble.

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 I know you all,

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 you're all very nice people.

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 None of you would go around

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 saying how great you are.

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 I'm just checking.

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 I don't think there's anybody who I know here

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 who would go around saying,

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 do you know what?

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 I'm really excellent.

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 And I wonder how cultures do humility differently.

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 Americans,

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 they have a different way of doing humility

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 which has positives and negatives.

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 they are very good at self-promotion.

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 They like to talk themselves up.

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 And this can be a bit jarring for Australians

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 because we don't like to talk ourselves up.

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 But Americans like to talk themselves up a lot.

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 And so it can appear that they don't have humility.

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 However, one thing they do

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 is they will talk up other people very well.

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 They will actually say,

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 you are great,

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 you are excellent at this.

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 We don't self-promote.

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 Australians,

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 in Australia,

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 if we compliment somebody,

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 we have false modesty

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 and say,

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 oh no,

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 I'm not that great.

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 So, you know,

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 if I was to say,

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 oh,

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 who can I pick on?

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 I'll pick on James Cason.

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 You know,

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 there's James Cason.

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 He's,

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 oh,

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 James,

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 I saw you do this

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 and that was really excellent.

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 Now,

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 what's the normal response going to be?

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 No,

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 no,

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 it's not.

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 No,

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 it was,

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 I'm just okay at it.

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 Even if he knows that he is excellent.

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 So,

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 let's just say James Cason runs a running race

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 and I say,

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 James,

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 you ran so well today.

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 He's not going to say,

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 yes,

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 I did so well.

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 The Australian culture

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 must have a false sense of modesty,

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 which is,

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 no,

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 even though I came first,

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 oh,

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 I've got room to improve.

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 This is just how Australian culture works.

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 As I've been learning the Chinese language,

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 I've been learning about the Chinese culture as well.

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 And so,

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 I often have this strange thing

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 where I try and speak Chinese

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 and people say,

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 oh,

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 your Chinese is so good.

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 And it's,

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 that's a strange thing.

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 But one of the things I've been told to say,

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 instead of just saying,

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 oh,

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 thanks,

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 you say,

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 gnarly,

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 gnarly,

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 where?

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 Where is this?

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 Again,

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 I think it comes back to,

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 it's,

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 it's not humility,

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 it's modesty.

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 Australians and Chinese

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 are far more modest than Americans,

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 but neither of these are humility.

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 So we can think as a culture,

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 we're very humble,

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 we're not self-promoting

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 compared to say the Americans.

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 We're very unassuming,

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 but humility is actually valuing someone else more.

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 Understanding my value

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 and understanding someone else's value.

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 Modesty is not shouting about your greatness,

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 but humility is celebrating someone else.

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 And so Paul here,

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 he's not calling on Christians to be modest.

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 No,

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 this is real humility.

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 Understanding that I am not great

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 and anything great is a gift from God,

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 but to value my neighbor.

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 We have a wonderful example here.

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 Jesus.

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 Real humility

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 and valuing others is hard.

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 Paul gives us

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 one of the earliest descriptions

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 of the awesomeness of Jesus,

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 his life and death and resurrection

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 summed up in a couple of verses.

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 And it calls us to humility.

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 And so verse five,

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 in your relationships with one another,

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 have the same mindset as Christ.

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 No greater model.

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 This humble Jesus,

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 who being in very nature God,

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 did not consider equality with God

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 something to be used to his own advantage.

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 Again,

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 Jesus is not modest.

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 He never says he's not powerful.

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 Jesus doesn't walk across the water

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 and get on the boat

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 and go,

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 oh,

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 actually,

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 it was mostly ice.

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 It was pretty straightforward.

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 It was just really shallow.

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 He knew who he was

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 and he would say,

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 I and the Father are one.

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 But he was humble.

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 God himself was made nothing.

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 Not literally nothing,

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 but a human.

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 He took on the nature of a servant

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 or more literally a slave.

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 And one of the defining characteristics

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 of a slave

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 is that they are worth nothing.

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 They have no rights.

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 They are no bodies.

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 Slaves can be bought or sold.

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 But this is the eternal son

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 who has all the rights to deity.

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 But he valued us more than himself.

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 Jesus,

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 the son of God,

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 who had always existed

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 with the father and the spirit,

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 took on the limitations of humanity.

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 Staying fully God,

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 he takes on humanity.

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 He was a man who hungered

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 and thirsted,

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 who got tired,

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 he worked,

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 he was tempted

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 and he was pressured.

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 And he humbled himself.

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 Verse 8,

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 being found in appearance

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 as a man,

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 he humbled himself

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 by becoming obedient

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 to death,

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 even death on a cross.

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 the Jesus that we are called

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 to follow

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 and to worship

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 and to serve

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 made himself a nobody,

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 becoming a slave

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 to death for us.

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 And then humbled himself

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 even further

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 by becoming bound

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 to a body

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 for us,

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 us sinful,

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 rebellious,

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 worthless people.

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 He said,

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 I will give you worth.

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 He obeyed his father

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 and valuing us so much,

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 he died on the cross.

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 Verse 9,

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 therefore God

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 exalted him

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 to the highest place

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 and gave him the name

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 that is above every name,

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 that at the name of Jesus

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 every knee should bow

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 in heaven and earth

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 and under the earth.

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 And every tongue

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 acknowledge that Jesus Christ

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 is Lord

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 to the glory

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 of God the Father.

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 This Jesus is amazing

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 who now sits

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 at the right hand of God.

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 It challenges

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 our thoughts

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 of pride

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 when we think,

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 do you know what?

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 I deserve better.

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 Everyone around me

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 needs to know

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 how great I am.

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 The people at work,

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 they should be paying me more.

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 How dare they treat me

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 like this?

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 That the Jesus

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 who was in heaven

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 for eternity

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 allowed himself

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 to be treated

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 the very worst.

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 And he did it

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 because he valued us

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 more than himself.

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 And so then,

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 we start with humility

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 and we move on

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 to obedience.

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 Jesus in humility

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 obeyed his father

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 and Paul calls us

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 to do the same.

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 My dear friends,

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 as you have always

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 obeyed,

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 not only in my presence

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 but now much more

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 in my absence,

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 continue to work out

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 your salvation

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 with fear and trembling.

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 For it is God

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 who works in you

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 to will

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 and to act

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 in order to fulfill

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 his good purpose.

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 The call to obedience

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 here is twofold.

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 God is working

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 to change our will

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 so we can press on

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 in obedience.

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 obedience.

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 There is no fight

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 here in these verses

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 about what people

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 do for salvation

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 versus what God

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 does.

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 We do not work

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 at all for our salvation

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 but we are working

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 out what God

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 has already worked

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 in.

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 It's a call

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 to obedience

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 and holiness

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 that requires work.

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 Every Christian

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 is called

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 to resist temptation,

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 to avoid sin

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 and to pursue

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 the love of others.

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 We do it

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 not out of

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 dread to God

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 but reverence

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 and a sober realization

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 that we need to take

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 this God seriously.

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 Maybe you have been

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 following God

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 for a long time

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 and you were once

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 a more serious Christian.

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 Maybe you sought

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 to get to know him,

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 to obey,

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 read his word

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 and now maybe

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 you're feeling like

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 you're going

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 through the motions

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 and the fear

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 and awe of God

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 have gone

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 and God has just

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 become sanitized

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 and he is in a box

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 and he's more

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 like a teddy bear God,

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 one who just

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 brings comfort

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 or he's a kind

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 grandfather

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 who helps

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 or he's a puppy dog

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 to give you comfort.

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 This is a reminder

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 that our God

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 is far beyond us

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 and it calls

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 for a serious devotion

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 to faith

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 and our walk

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 but this is also

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 a book about joy

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 and so it's a serious faith

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 but it's also

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 a joyful faith.

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 It is a joyful

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 trembling

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 following God

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 and this humility

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 leads to obedience,

00:19:45.779 --> 00:19:46.639
 leads to unity

00:19:46.639 --> 00:19:47.679
 in the church

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 so do everything

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 without grumbling,

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 without arguing

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 so you may become

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 blameless and pure.

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 grumbling

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 and arguing

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 are the products

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 of contentious spirits

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 that feel need

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 to constantly question

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 what is being done.

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 Do you know what?

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 My ideas aren't being

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 listened to.

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 I'm not catered here.

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 Everyone is wrong

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 except me.

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 It's the attitude

00:20:12.699 --> 00:20:13.339
 of heart

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 and the tone

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 of voice

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 that lifts

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 themselves

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 above everyone else.

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 But these behaviours

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 can't exist,

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 can't coexist

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 when there's humility.

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 These are the

00:20:26.120 --> 00:20:27.500
 secret displeasures

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 not spoken about openly.

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 Maybe you

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 complain at community group

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 or you whinge

00:20:32.920 --> 00:20:34.660
 about that person

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 on the way home

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 from church

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 grumbling about people

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 oh they don't,

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 they don't get it

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 how dare they do that.

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 Grumbling about people

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 and complaining

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 won't happen

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 if we value

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 other people

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 more highly

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 than ourselves.

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 Paul has called

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 on the church

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 to have humility.

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 Humility that leads

00:20:56.320 --> 00:20:56.980
 to obedience

00:20:56.980 --> 00:20:57.540
 which leads

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 to unity.

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 He's given

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 the life-changing

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 example of Jesus

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 and now he gives

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 the example of Paul

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 and Timothy

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 and Epaphroditus

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 because it's almost

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 as if

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 the example

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 of Jesus

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 is too hard

00:21:10.460 --> 00:21:10.860
 to follow.

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 He's too perfect.

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 He's too God

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 and so I

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 can't really

00:21:15.440 --> 00:21:16.940
 follow his example.

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 I recently heard

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 someone talk

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 about

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 WWJD bands.

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 I'm not sure

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 if you were

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 a young person

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 in the late 90s

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 or early 2000s.

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 I definitely

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 was

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 and I had

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 this bit of fabric

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 that I wore

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 on my wrist

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 that had stitched

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 into it

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 the letters

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 WWJD.

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 What would

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 Jesus do?

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 And I'm concerned

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 looking at some

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 of the young faces

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 in the room

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 scratching their heads

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 because it makes me

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 feel very old

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 that you don't

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 know what that is.

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 And this was a fad

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 for a little while.

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 I'm pretty sure

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 I actually still

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 have one at home.

00:21:51.579 --> 00:21:52.440
 I couldn't find it.

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 The idea was

00:21:54.480 --> 00:21:55.680
 that you wore

00:21:55.680 --> 00:21:56.680
 this on your wrist

00:21:56.680 --> 00:21:58.599
 and as you went

00:21:58.599 --> 00:21:59.160
 to sin

00:21:59.160 --> 00:22:00.319
 you would be

00:22:00.319 --> 00:22:00.799
 reminded

00:22:00.799 --> 00:22:01.839
 oh hang on

00:22:01.839 --> 00:22:02.819
 what would Jesus

00:22:02.819 --> 00:22:03.900
 do in this situation?

00:22:04.379 --> 00:22:05.319
 Oh I won't do

00:22:05.319 --> 00:22:05.799
 the sin.

00:22:06.559 --> 00:22:07.240
 And that worked

00:22:07.240 --> 00:22:08.599
 for about 38 seconds

00:22:08.599 --> 00:22:09.980
 and then it just

00:22:09.980 --> 00:22:10.799
 became another thing

00:22:10.799 --> 00:22:11.639
 you wore on your wrist.

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 Jesus' example

00:22:14.920 --> 00:22:15.780
 is wonderful

00:22:15.780 --> 00:22:16.520
 and helpful

00:22:16.520 --> 00:22:19.000
 but it's almost

00:22:19.000 --> 00:22:19.840
 like his example

00:22:19.840 --> 00:22:20.720
 is too hard

00:22:20.720 --> 00:22:22.160
 and so Paul

00:22:22.160 --> 00:22:22.780
 gives us

00:22:22.780 --> 00:22:23.540
 another couple

00:22:23.540 --> 00:22:24.600
 of examples

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 of Christians

00:22:25.520 --> 00:22:26.720
 having humility

00:22:26.720 --> 00:22:27.540
 that leads to

00:22:27.540 --> 00:22:28.000
 obedience

00:22:28.000 --> 00:22:28.680
 that leads to

00:22:28.680 --> 00:22:29.980
 church unity.

00:22:31.640 --> 00:22:32.920
 Paul, Timothy

00:22:32.920 --> 00:22:33.880
 and Epaphroditus.

00:22:34.440 --> 00:22:35.560
 Paul was sending

00:22:35.560 --> 00:22:36.600
 Timothy to the church

00:22:36.600 --> 00:22:37.460
 in Philippi

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 and he says

00:22:38.500 --> 00:22:39.039
 of Timothy

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 I have no one

00:22:40.799 --> 00:22:42.000
 else like him

00:22:42.000 --> 00:22:43.200
 who will show

00:22:43.200 --> 00:22:44.279
 genuine concern

00:22:44.279 --> 00:22:45.279
 for your welfare.

00:22:46.380 --> 00:22:47.480
 Paul would value

00:22:47.480 --> 00:22:48.759
 the Philippian church

00:22:48.759 --> 00:22:49.980
 over himself

00:22:49.980 --> 00:22:50.700
 so he would

00:22:50.700 --> 00:22:51.680
 send Timothy.

00:22:51.860 --> 00:22:52.500
 Remember Paul

00:22:52.500 --> 00:22:53.420
 is in jail

00:22:53.420 --> 00:22:54.079
 he's in prison

00:22:54.079 --> 00:22:54.600
 at the moment.

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 He has very little

00:22:56.600 --> 00:22:57.940
 and he has

00:22:57.940 --> 00:22:58.980
 Timothy and Epaphroditus

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 and he's going

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 to send Timothy

00:23:00.160 --> 00:23:01.299
 back because

00:23:01.299 --> 00:23:02.519
 Timothy

00:23:02.519 --> 00:23:03.880
 has genuine

00:23:03.880 --> 00:23:04.700
 concern

00:23:04.700 --> 00:23:05.519
 for their welfare.

00:23:05.519 --> 00:23:07.400
 he is valuing

00:23:07.400 --> 00:23:07.940
 them more

00:23:07.940 --> 00:23:08.500
 than himself.

00:23:11.379 --> 00:23:11.980
 And they also

00:23:11.980 --> 00:23:13.180
 the Philippian church

00:23:13.180 --> 00:23:13.960
 have sent to him

00:23:13.960 --> 00:23:14.839
 Epaphroditus.

00:23:15.799 --> 00:23:16.700
 I think it is

00:23:16.700 --> 00:23:17.619
 necessary to send

00:23:17.619 --> 00:23:18.519
 back to you

00:23:18.519 --> 00:23:19.339
 Epaphroditus

00:23:19.339 --> 00:23:20.819
 my brother

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 my co-worker

00:23:21.799 --> 00:23:22.740
 and fellow soldier

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 who is also

00:23:23.720 --> 00:23:24.319
 your messenger

00:23:24.319 --> 00:23:25.039
 whom you sent

00:23:25.039 --> 00:23:25.700
 to take care

00:23:25.700 --> 00:23:26.879
 of my needs

00:23:26.879 --> 00:23:28.220
 so that when

00:23:28.220 --> 00:23:29.000
 you see him

00:23:29.000 --> 00:23:29.559
 again you may

00:23:29.559 --> 00:23:30.400
 be glad

00:23:30.400 --> 00:23:31.319
 and I may

00:23:31.319 --> 00:23:31.799
 have less

00:23:31.799 --> 00:23:32.460
 anxiety.

00:23:32.879 --> 00:23:33.379
 Paul sends

00:23:33.379 --> 00:23:35.319
 back Epaphroditus

00:23:35.319 --> 00:23:36.700
 he was there

00:23:36.700 --> 00:23:37.279
 to care for

00:23:37.279 --> 00:23:37.579
 Paul

00:23:37.579 --> 00:23:38.720
 but he values

00:23:38.720 --> 00:23:39.139
 them more

00:23:39.139 --> 00:23:39.700
 than himself.

00:23:41.119 --> 00:23:41.819
 He would send

00:23:41.819 --> 00:23:42.559
 Timothy back

00:23:42.559 --> 00:23:43.019
 he would send

00:23:43.019 --> 00:23:43.819
 Epaphroditus

00:23:43.819 --> 00:23:44.259
 back

00:23:44.259 --> 00:23:46.399
 Timothy had

00:23:46.399 --> 00:23:47.299
 genuine care

00:23:47.299 --> 00:23:48.539
 Epaphroditus

00:23:48.539 --> 00:23:49.019
 would bring

00:23:49.019 --> 00:23:49.799
 joy to them.

00:23:51.799 --> 00:23:52.359
 Humility

00:23:52.359 --> 00:23:53.299
 or valuing

00:23:53.299 --> 00:23:53.720
 others

00:23:53.720 --> 00:23:54.980
 leads to

00:23:54.980 --> 00:23:55.720
 obedience

00:23:55.720 --> 00:23:56.579
 before God

00:23:56.579 --> 00:23:57.579
 and it

00:23:57.579 --> 00:23:58.539
 builds unity

00:23:58.539 --> 00:24:00.059
 in the church.

00:24:02.200 --> 00:24:03.039
 Which of

00:24:03.039 --> 00:24:03.519
 these

00:24:03.519 --> 00:24:04.419
 is getting

00:24:04.420 --> 00:24:04.880
 in the way

00:24:04.880 --> 00:24:05.259
 for you?

00:24:06.840 --> 00:24:07.519
 Which of

00:24:07.519 --> 00:24:08.039
 these is

00:24:08.039 --> 00:24:08.440
 your real

00:24:08.440 --> 00:24:08.900
 challenge

00:24:08.900 --> 00:24:09.240
 today?

00:24:10.100 --> 00:24:10.400
 Is it

00:24:10.400 --> 00:24:10.880
 the humility?

00:24:11.759 --> 00:24:12.279
 You need

00:24:12.279 --> 00:24:12.600
 to be

00:24:12.600 --> 00:24:13.120
 practicing

00:24:13.120 --> 00:24:13.940
 and asking

00:24:13.940 --> 00:24:14.460
 God to

00:24:14.460 --> 00:24:14.800
 help you

00:24:14.800 --> 00:24:15.180
 to value

00:24:15.180 --> 00:24:15.539
 others

00:24:15.539 --> 00:24:15.880
 more than

00:24:15.880 --> 00:24:16.240
 yourselves?

00:24:16.940 --> 00:24:17.560
 Or is it

00:24:17.560 --> 00:24:18.120
 the obedience?

00:24:19.720 --> 00:24:20.240
 Or is it

00:24:20.240 --> 00:24:20.680
 the church

00:24:20.680 --> 00:24:21.120
 unity?

00:24:22.460 --> 00:24:23.080
 I wonder

00:24:23.080 --> 00:24:23.800
 if for most

00:24:23.800 --> 00:24:24.039
 of us

00:24:24.039 --> 00:24:24.420
 the real

00:24:24.420 --> 00:24:24.720
 issue

00:24:24.720 --> 00:24:25.120
 is

00:24:25.120 --> 00:24:26.019
 humility.

00:24:27.759 --> 00:24:28.440
 I wonder

00:24:28.440 --> 00:24:28.759
 if it's

00:24:28.759 --> 00:24:29.039
 possible

00:24:29.039 --> 00:24:29.360
 that we've

00:24:29.360 --> 00:24:29.920
 gotten so

00:24:29.920 --> 00:24:30.320
 used to

00:24:30.320 --> 00:24:30.779
 the idea

00:24:30.779 --> 00:24:31.399
 that Jesus

00:24:31.399 --> 00:24:32.259
 died for

00:24:32.259 --> 00:24:32.539
 me

00:24:32.539 --> 00:24:34.059
 that we've

00:24:34.059 --> 00:24:35.039
 internalized

00:24:35.039 --> 00:24:35.259
 it

00:24:35.259 --> 00:24:35.980
 and the

00:24:35.980 --> 00:24:37.279
 world view

00:24:37.279 --> 00:24:38.279
 around us

00:24:38.279 --> 00:24:38.700
 that we

00:24:38.700 --> 00:24:39.700
 earn things

00:24:39.700 --> 00:24:40.740
 has so

00:24:40.740 --> 00:24:41.500
 crept in

00:24:41.500 --> 00:24:43.399
 that we

00:24:43.399 --> 00:24:44.079
 start to

00:24:44.079 --> 00:24:44.559
 think that

00:24:44.559 --> 00:24:45.399
 we deserve

00:24:45.399 --> 00:24:46.059
 our position

00:24:46.059 --> 00:24:46.379
 as a

00:24:46.379 --> 00:24:46.660
 Christian.

00:24:47.299 --> 00:24:47.920
 We'd never

00:24:47.920 --> 00:24:48.720
 say that I'm

00:24:48.720 --> 00:24:49.279
 saved by

00:24:49.279 --> 00:24:50.019
 what I do

00:24:50.019 --> 00:24:50.920
 but I

00:24:50.920 --> 00:24:51.119
 think

00:24:51.119 --> 00:24:52.019
 I wonder

00:24:52.019 --> 00:24:52.359
 if we've

00:24:52.359 --> 00:24:53.039
 become so

00:24:53.039 --> 00:24:53.819
 used to

00:24:53.819 --> 00:24:54.740
 this world

00:24:54.740 --> 00:24:55.079
 view that

00:24:55.079 --> 00:24:56.079
 we earn

00:24:56.079 --> 00:24:56.639
 our good

00:24:56.639 --> 00:24:57.160
 things that

00:24:57.160 --> 00:24:57.740
 we start to

00:24:57.740 --> 00:24:58.019
 think we

00:24:58.019 --> 00:24:58.639
 have some

00:24:58.639 --> 00:24:59.119
 value

00:24:59.119 --> 00:25:00.759
 and it

00:25:00.759 --> 00:25:01.180
 can lead

00:25:01.180 --> 00:25:01.539
 us to

00:25:01.539 --> 00:25:02.279
 looking down

00:25:02.279 --> 00:25:03.019
 on others.

00:25:05.319 --> 00:25:05.720
 Are we

00:25:05.720 --> 00:25:06.279
 valuing

00:25:06.279 --> 00:25:07.000
 people

00:25:07.000 --> 00:25:08.079
 based on

00:25:08.079 --> 00:25:08.440
 what the

00:25:08.440 --> 00:25:09.220
 world says

00:25:09.220 --> 00:25:09.839
 about people

00:25:09.839 --> 00:25:10.639
 or are we

00:25:10.639 --> 00:25:11.700
 valuing people

00:25:11.700 --> 00:25:12.680
 based on

00:25:12.680 --> 00:25:13.220
 how God

00:25:13.220 --> 00:25:13.859
 has valued

00:25:13.859 --> 00:25:14.319
 us?

00:25:15.400 --> 00:25:16.079
 If we are

00:25:16.079 --> 00:25:17.000
 lacking humility

00:25:17.000 --> 00:25:17.700
 before God

00:25:17.700 --> 00:25:18.099
 and other

00:25:18.099 --> 00:25:19.139
 people there

00:25:19.139 --> 00:25:19.960
 is no way

00:25:19.960 --> 00:25:20.779
 we can obey

00:25:20.779 --> 00:25:21.420
 God's call

00:25:21.420 --> 00:25:21.900
 to love

00:25:21.900 --> 00:25:22.099
 them.

00:25:22.920 --> 00:25:23.460
 How can

00:25:23.460 --> 00:25:23.960
 we love

00:25:23.960 --> 00:25:24.500
 our neighbours

00:25:24.500 --> 00:25:25.200
 as ourselves

00:25:25.200 --> 00:25:25.720
 if we

00:25:25.720 --> 00:25:27.180
 don't value

00:25:27.180 --> 00:25:27.480
 them?

00:25:28.740 --> 00:25:29.339
 It's a

00:25:29.339 --> 00:25:29.879
 challenge to

00:25:29.879 --> 00:25:30.379
 view others

00:25:30.379 --> 00:25:31.039
 highly

00:25:31.039 --> 00:25:31.779
 and to

00:25:31.779 --> 00:25:32.000
 have

00:25:32.000 --> 00:25:32.420
 humility.

00:25:33.359 --> 00:25:33.660
 And so a

00:25:33.660 --> 00:25:33.940
 couple of

00:25:33.940 --> 00:25:34.319
 thoughts for

00:25:34.319 --> 00:25:34.680
 us today.

00:25:35.900 --> 00:25:36.579
 This morning

00:25:36.579 --> 00:25:39.099
 take real

00:25:39.099 --> 00:25:39.779
 time to

00:25:39.779 --> 00:25:40.279
 get to

00:25:40.279 --> 00:25:40.879
 know people.

00:25:41.940 --> 00:25:42.539
 You can't

00:25:42.539 --> 00:25:43.339
 value them

00:25:43.339 --> 00:25:44.359
 more highly

00:25:44.359 --> 00:25:44.779
 than yourself

00:25:44.779 --> 00:25:45.119
 if you

00:25:45.119 --> 00:25:45.619
 don't know

00:25:45.619 --> 00:25:45.859
 them.

00:25:46.400 --> 00:25:46.559
 And so

00:25:46.559 --> 00:25:47.619
 the very

00:25:47.619 --> 00:25:49.759
 simplest thing

00:25:49.759 --> 00:25:50.259
 we can do

00:25:50.259 --> 00:25:51.799
 is value

00:25:51.799 --> 00:25:52.599
 time with

00:25:52.599 --> 00:25:53.420
 them to

00:25:53.420 --> 00:25:53.900
 get to

00:25:53.900 --> 00:25:54.400
 know people.

00:25:54.819 --> 00:25:55.079
 So a

00:25:55.079 --> 00:25:55.599
 challenge this

00:25:55.599 --> 00:25:55.839
 morning.

00:25:56.619 --> 00:25:56.940
 Talk to

00:25:56.940 --> 00:25:57.359
 somebody you

00:25:57.359 --> 00:25:57.819
 don't know.

00:25:58.980 --> 00:25:59.319
 Talk to

00:25:59.319 --> 00:25:59.660
 someone you

00:25:59.660 --> 00:26:00.079
 don't know.

00:26:01.639 --> 00:26:02.420
 Another thing

00:26:02.420 --> 00:26:03.160
 to do this

00:26:03.160 --> 00:26:03.480
 week,

00:26:04.259 --> 00:26:05.559
 sacrifice time

00:26:05.559 --> 00:26:06.259
 to help

00:26:06.259 --> 00:26:07.059
 someone.

00:26:07.960 --> 00:26:09.019
 Time is

00:26:09.019 --> 00:26:10.279
 very precious

00:26:10.279 --> 00:26:10.960
 in our

00:26:10.960 --> 00:26:11.460
 society.

00:26:12.599 --> 00:26:13.059
 We are

00:26:13.059 --> 00:26:13.700
 busy with

00:26:13.700 --> 00:26:14.119
 work,

00:26:14.839 --> 00:26:15.299
 we are

00:26:15.299 --> 00:26:15.960
 busy with

00:26:15.960 --> 00:26:16.559
 our rest,

00:26:16.920 --> 00:26:17.440
 and when we're

00:26:17.440 --> 00:26:17.879
 not busy

00:26:17.879 --> 00:26:18.400
 with those,

00:26:18.500 --> 00:26:18.900
 we're busy

00:26:18.900 --> 00:26:19.460
 looking at a

00:26:19.460 --> 00:26:19.819
 screen.

00:26:21.000 --> 00:26:21.519
 And so to

00:26:21.519 --> 00:26:22.259
 actually choose

00:26:22.259 --> 00:26:23.660
 to sacrifice a

00:26:23.660 --> 00:26:24.460
 chunk of time

00:26:24.460 --> 00:26:24.860
 to help

00:26:24.860 --> 00:26:25.460
 someone else

00:26:25.460 --> 00:26:26.920
 is a

00:26:26.920 --> 00:26:27.819
 practical way

00:26:27.819 --> 00:26:28.259
 to value

00:26:28.259 --> 00:26:28.779
 someone more

00:26:28.779 --> 00:26:29.259
 than ourselves.

00:26:31.200 --> 00:26:32.100
 Third thing

00:26:32.100 --> 00:26:33.100
 is to ask

00:26:33.100 --> 00:26:34.519
 what is

00:26:34.519 --> 00:26:35.160
 taking your

00:26:35.160 --> 00:26:35.600
 attention?

00:26:36.720 --> 00:26:37.440
 What is

00:26:37.440 --> 00:26:38.240
 grabbing your

00:26:38.240 --> 00:26:38.680
 attention?

00:26:39.539 --> 00:26:39.920
 And I

00:26:39.920 --> 00:26:40.640
 wonder if

00:26:40.640 --> 00:26:41.140
 for many

00:26:41.140 --> 00:26:41.759
 people it

00:26:41.759 --> 00:26:42.960
 is technology

00:26:42.960 --> 00:26:43.819
 or phones.

00:26:44.400 --> 00:26:45.019
 I read

00:26:45.019 --> 00:26:45.360
 about a

00:26:45.360 --> 00:26:46.259
 study done

00:26:46.259 --> 00:26:47.400
 recently that

00:26:47.400 --> 00:26:49.180
 was targeted

00:26:49.180 --> 00:26:49.700
 at teenagers

00:26:49.700 --> 00:26:50.940
 asking teenagers

00:26:50.940 --> 00:26:52.840
 about their

00:26:52.840 --> 00:26:53.360
 parents.

00:26:54.360 --> 00:26:54.720
 And the

00:26:54.720 --> 00:26:55.420
 majority of

00:26:55.420 --> 00:26:56.200
 responses came

00:26:56.200 --> 00:26:57.299
 back and

00:26:57.299 --> 00:26:58.240
 teenagers said

00:26:58.240 --> 00:26:59.920
 they wanted

00:26:59.920 --> 00:27:00.640
 more attention

00:27:00.640 --> 00:27:01.059
 from their

00:27:01.059 --> 00:27:01.680
 parents because

00:27:01.680 --> 00:27:02.140
 their parents

00:27:02.140 --> 00:27:02.559
 are looking at

00:27:02.559 --> 00:27:03.100
 their phones

00:27:03.100 --> 00:27:03.779
 too much.

00:27:06.460 --> 00:27:07.200
 Have you

00:27:07.200 --> 00:27:08.160
 ever had a

00:27:08.160 --> 00:27:09.019
 conversation with

00:27:09.019 --> 00:27:09.940
 someone and

00:27:09.940 --> 00:27:11.160
 they're looking

00:27:11.160 --> 00:27:12.100
 at their phone,

00:27:12.259 --> 00:27:12.640
 they're doing

00:27:12.640 --> 00:27:13.340
 these ones?

00:27:13.660 --> 00:27:14.200
 This is not a

00:27:14.200 --> 00:27:15.759
 phone, but what

00:27:15.759 --> 00:27:16.559
 does that say?

00:27:17.920 --> 00:27:19.680
 I value this,

00:27:19.700 --> 00:27:21.360
 and I don't

00:27:21.360 --> 00:27:22.200
 value you.

00:27:24.200 --> 00:27:25.039
 It says it

00:27:25.039 --> 00:27:25.660
 immediately.

00:27:26.759 --> 00:27:27.580
 You are not

00:27:27.580 --> 00:27:28.160
 important.

00:27:29.700 --> 00:27:30.819
 Me and my

00:27:30.819 --> 00:27:31.880
 time and this

00:27:31.880 --> 00:27:32.480
 thing is more

00:27:32.480 --> 00:27:32.940
 important.

00:27:33.380 --> 00:27:33.740
 Now I know

00:27:33.740 --> 00:27:34.259
 we're busy, I

00:27:34.259 --> 00:27:34.620
 know we've got

00:27:34.620 --> 00:27:35.259
 to do things, I

00:27:35.259 --> 00:27:35.840
 know phones are

00:27:35.840 --> 00:27:37.120
 a useful tool,

00:27:38.819 --> 00:27:40.000
 but they can

00:27:40.000 --> 00:27:42.240
 say so much

00:27:42.240 --> 00:27:42.920
 about how we

00:27:42.920 --> 00:27:43.259
 view other

00:27:43.259 --> 00:27:43.600
 people.

00:27:44.319 --> 00:27:44.860
 Imagine if

00:27:44.860 --> 00:27:46.319
 Jesus came and

00:27:46.319 --> 00:27:46.799
 he's standing

00:27:46.799 --> 00:27:47.220
 there at the

00:27:47.220 --> 00:27:47.539
 foot of the

00:27:47.539 --> 00:27:48.039
 cross going,

00:27:48.220 --> 00:27:48.660
 oh sorry, I

00:27:48.660 --> 00:27:49.160
 don't have time

00:27:49.160 --> 00:27:49.539
 to get on

00:27:49.539 --> 00:27:49.660
 that.

00:27:49.700 --> 00:27:49.980
 I've got to

00:27:49.980 --> 00:27:50.460
 do this.

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 And so take

00:27:53.500 --> 00:27:55.620
 one step in

00:27:55.620 --> 00:27:56.440
 humility this

00:27:56.440 --> 00:27:57.380
 week, one step

00:27:57.380 --> 00:27:58.160
 closer to loving

00:27:58.160 --> 00:27:58.720
 other people.

00:27:59.440 --> 00:28:00.360
 Our great God

00:28:00.360 --> 00:28:01.299
 who loves us

00:28:01.299 --> 00:28:02.400
 has valued us.

00:28:02.860 --> 00:28:03.559
 Jesus didn't

00:28:03.559 --> 00:28:04.480
 just take one

00:28:04.480 --> 00:28:05.299
 step to value

00:28:05.299 --> 00:28:05.900
 us, he took

00:28:05.900 --> 00:28:07.259
 every step to

00:28:07.259 --> 00:28:08.799
 that cross to

00:28:08.799 --> 00:28:09.940
 show his love

00:28:09.940 --> 00:28:10.580
 and value for

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 us.

00:28:11.259 --> 00:28:11.840
 Let me pray.

00:28:13.039 --> 00:28:13.660
 Dear Heavenly

00:28:13.660 --> 00:28:14.860
 Father, I thank

00:28:14.860 --> 00:28:16.140
 you for your

00:28:16.140 --> 00:28:16.920
 word and for

00:28:16.920 --> 00:28:17.580
 your reminder

00:28:17.579 --> 00:28:18.720
 reminder about

00:28:18.720 --> 00:28:19.220
 the humility

00:28:19.220 --> 00:28:19.859
 of Jesus

00:28:19.859 --> 00:28:22.539
 that he would

00:28:22.539 --> 00:28:23.199
 humble himself

00:28:23.199 --> 00:28:24.839
 by taking on

00:28:24.839 --> 00:28:26.279
 humanity, by

00:28:26.279 --> 00:28:27.460
 obeying you

00:28:27.460 --> 00:28:29.240
 and going to

00:28:29.240 --> 00:28:30.039
 the cross and

00:28:30.039 --> 00:28:30.839
 dying in our

00:28:30.839 --> 00:28:31.279
 place.

00:28:32.000 --> 00:28:32.679
 Lord, I thank

00:28:32.679 --> 00:28:33.139
 you for the

00:28:33.139 --> 00:28:33.699
 unity that

00:28:33.699 --> 00:28:34.779
 brings, that we

00:28:34.779 --> 00:28:35.859
 get to be a

00:28:35.859 --> 00:28:36.639
 church together.

00:28:37.919 --> 00:28:38.579
 Heavenly Father,

00:28:38.579 --> 00:28:39.599
 I ask that we

00:28:39.599 --> 00:28:40.339
 would not be a

00:28:40.339 --> 00:28:41.379
 church in name

00:28:41.379 --> 00:28:43.960
 only, but that

00:28:43.960 --> 00:28:45.179
 we would value

00:28:45.180 --> 00:28:46.279
 each other over

00:28:46.279 --> 00:28:48.200
 ourselves, that

00:28:48.200 --> 00:28:48.940
 we would show

00:28:48.940 --> 00:28:50.279
 real Christ-like

00:28:50.279 --> 00:28:52.880
 love, that we

00:28:52.880 --> 00:28:53.460
 would be growing

00:28:53.460 --> 00:28:54.720
 more like him

00:28:54.720 --> 00:28:55.440
 and growing

00:28:55.440 --> 00:28:56.620
 closer together in

00:28:56.620 --> 00:28:57.160
 love for each

00:28:57.160 --> 00:28:57.900
 other today, Lord.

00:28:58.500 --> 00:28:59.140
 I ask this in

00:28:59.140 --> 00:28:59.700
 Jesus' name.

00:29:00.060 --> 00:29:00.320
 Amen.

00:29:00.320 --> 00:29:00.420
 Amen.