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 I'm going to read the Bible, so take out your devices or your Bibles and turn to Matthew

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 chapter 13 verse 53.

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 If you haven't had a chance to see the visual summary by the Bible Project that we posted

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 on Facebook this week, I encourage you to watch it.

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 It's really great to get an overview of the first half of Matthew and the big themes there.

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 And now we've come to the middle of Matthew and Jesus has been teaching about the kingdom

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 of God and he's been teaching in parables and also in miracles.

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 So reading from verse 53.

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 And when Jesus had finished these parables, he went away from there.

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 And coming to his hometown, he taught them in their synagogue, so that they were astonished

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 and said, where did this man get this wisdom and these mighty works?

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 Is this not the carpenter's son?

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 Is his mother not called Mary?

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 And are his brothers not James and Joseph and Simon and Judas?

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 And are not all his sisters with us?

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 When then, where then did this man get all these things?

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 And they took offence at him.

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 But Jesus said to them, a prophet is not without honour except in his hometown and in his own

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 household.

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 And he did not do many mighty works there because of their unbelief.

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 At that time, Herod the Tetrarch heard about the fame of Jesus and he said to his servants,

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 this is John the Baptist.

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 He's been raised from the dead.

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 That's why these miraculous powers are at work with him.

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 For Herod had seized John and bound him and put him in prison for the sake of Herodias,

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 his brother Philip's wife.

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 Because John had been saying to him, it's not lawful for you to have her.

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 And though he wanted to put him to death, he feared the people because they held him

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 to be a prophet.

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 But when Herod's birthday came, the daughter of Herodias danced before the company and pleased

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 Herod.

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 So he promised with an oath to give her whatever she might ask.

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 Prompted by her mother, she said, give me the head of John the Baptist here on a platter.

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 And the king was sorry, but because of his oaths and his guests, he commanded it to be

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 given.

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 He sent and had John beheaded in the prison, and his head was brought on a platter and given

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 to the girl, and she brought it to her mother.

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 And the disciples came and took the body and buried it, and they went and told Jesus.

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 Well, good morning, everyone.

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 Yeah, a few years ago at Youth Group, we played a game that made me realise that I was officially

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 old.

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 Some of you may not think so, but the youth certainly think so.

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 I've handed over the old title to Matt Hand now, who's the youth claim.

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 He's definitely in his late 30s.

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 Anyway, we played this game where we had to identify these memes.

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 I can't even describe a meme, because it's pictures and it's got a caption to it.

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 I was useless.

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 I was absolutely useless.

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 And I knew in that moment that I no longer fitted in, if I ever did, into cool, young society.

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 I didn't fit in.

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 I can live with that.

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 But then there's been another moment where I've realised that I don't think I fit into

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 society at all.

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 Well, not just cool, young society, but society generally.

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 I read or listened to this book recently, and I know some of you have been reading it as

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 well.

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 And I'm going to just read a few paragraphs from it and see if you have the sickening feeling

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 that I experienced listening to this book.

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 Because up until a couple of weeks ago, reading this book, I thought, as long as I live, I'm

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 a respectable person in society, I live a respectable Christian life, okay, maybe people will find

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 me weird, a bit odd.

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 Maybe they'll find me a bit rude if I bring up Jesus and God in conversation every so often.

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 But overall, I'll fit in.

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 Maybe a bit odd.

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 Maybe a bit rude.

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 But then reading this book, A Strange New World by Carl Truman, our society thinks very differently

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 to Christian belief.

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 Now, it's talking, I think the transgender debate going on in sport.

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 So think about that.

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 That's in the media at the moment.

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 So although it talks here about sexuality, please hear this quote saying the problem is

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 a lot deeper than that.

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 So please, please understand that.

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 So let me quote.

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 So to tolerate somebody is by definition to disapprove of them, albeit in a rather passive

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 way.

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 But it is also not to recognise them.

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 It is not to affirm their identities as they wish to be affirmed.

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 At best, it is to keep them in place as second class members of society.

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 This in turn explains why such things as cake baking has become so contentious.

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 A Christian baker who refuses to bake a cake for a gay marriage celebration is doing so because

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 her conscience would regard such an act as supporting a relationship that she regards

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 as fundamentally immoral.

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 The gay couple, however, regard her refusal as a denial of their fundamental and constitutionally

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 protected identities.

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 Equality requires equal recognition of a kind that tolerance just doesn't provide.

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 If we are, above all, what we think and what we feel and what we desire, then anything that

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 interferes, that obstructs these thoughts and feelings and desires, it inhibits us as people.

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 It prevents us from being ourselves who we are convinced we are.

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 A person who objects to homosexuality, he may think he is objecting to a set of sexual desires

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 or sexual practices, but the gay man sees these desires as a part of who he is.

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 It is his very essence.

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 So the old chestnut of love the sinner, but hate the sin simply does not work in a world

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 where the sin is the identity of the sinner and the two can't be separated.

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 To hate the sin is to hate the sinner.

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 But Christians who fail to note this are going to find themselves very confused by the incomprehension

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 and indeed the easy offence taken by the world around them.

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 End quote.

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 That was the moment I realised all my words of going,

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 I believe you're made in the image of God.

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 I just don't agree with what you're doing.

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 That just, it won't be enough.

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 They won't hear me loving if I say that.

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 It will be deeply offensive to not affirm a person's identity.

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 So putting, in one sense this is nothing new, is it?

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 It's a new cultural expression, but there's nothing new in a sense

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 because when we say Jesus is Lord, that moves the centre of reality from ourselves.

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 So that's always been threatening.

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 We've just got a new expression of it today.

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 We can't be safe and accepted in this society.

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 So we're entering a new section of Matthew.

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 The bulk of Matthew is made up of these five sections.

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 So you get this block of story or narrative and then it concludes with a block of teaching.

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 So we're entering the narrative section again.

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 And Matthew wants us to see something.

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 I think there's lots of themes going on in this section,

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 but I think he wants us to focus primarily on the goal of Jesus' mission.

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 And I think these two stories that we're going to look at today

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 are starting to prepare us for understanding why Jesus came.

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 We've got the two stories.

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 Even those who knew him best took deep offence in him.

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 He was rejected by his own.

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 And John's death is a foretaste of him dying at the hands of his own people.

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 So I think these two stories are meant to kind of shock us

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 and prepare us for understanding the goal of why Jesus came,

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 to be rejected by his own.

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 So let's get into the first story.

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 He comes to his hometown, Nazareth.

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 Think Dungok.

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 Like pretty small.

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 That's probably offensive to speaking of offence,

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 but if you come from Dungok, it's just...

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 Think Townworth.

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 There you go.

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 I can offend myself.

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 This community grew up, a small community,

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 and they didn't move around like we do today.

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 Nowhere near to the same extent.

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 They grew up with this young, prepubescent and then adolescent

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 and then young adult Jesus up until he's 30 years old.

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 And now the famous son comes home.

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 Now they could have celebrated him.

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 Like sports stars, when they play in their hometown,

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 the town rallies around them.

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 They celebrate them.

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 So if Jesus was just claiming to be another rabbi,

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 even if he was claiming to be the top rabbi,

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 I reckon they would have celebrated him.

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 He would have put Nazareth on the map.

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 At first they are astonished by what they see and what they hear,

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 verse 44.

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 Where did this man get this wisdom and these mighty works from?

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 They are astonished by...

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 They're seeing, struggling to comprehend.

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 What's the source?

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 Who is the authority empowering this guy?

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 And it's a very good question.

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 It's not a wrong question to ask.

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 It should have led them to faith, asking that question.

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 They ask five rhetorical questions,

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 all presuming the answer is yes.

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 Is not this the carpenter's son?

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 Yes.

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 Is not his mother called Mary?

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 Yep.

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 His brothers James and Joseph, Simon, Judas, his sisters with us?

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 Where does this man get his authority from?

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 Some people today will use the excuse,

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 we can't even know if Jesus really existed.

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 These people back then, they lived with him.

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 They lived with his brothers and sisters.

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 They knew personally his mum and dad.

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 But Jesus sat in that very synagogue listening to the teaching.

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 They didn't throw up that excuse.

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 Others today, they use the excuse that Jesus adopted teaching

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 from other people, other religions.

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 These people, they knew Jesus had no education.

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 He was a carpenter's son.

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 He did not have formal training like the Apostle Paul under Gamaliel.

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 He did not have any education.

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 They knew.

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 He had no education.

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 He was from a poor family, not royal family.

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 His parents were ordinary.

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 His brothers were ordinary.

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 His sisters were ordinary.

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 And yet, this incredible teaching and these powerful works,

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 where did they come from?

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 Now, what's their choice?

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 I think it's the same choice for us today.

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 Believe that he is unique and that he is sent by God as he claims

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 or throw up some excuse.

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 Find something about him to object to.

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 I can't see why familiarity with Jesus leads to their unbelief.

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 I don't think it's the knowing him that leads to unbelief.

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 They know more than anyone else how ordinary his upbringing was.

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 They know that.

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 They were in a great place to realise if he's got this authority,

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 it must have come from outside of him, somewhere from above.

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 And I reckon their first-hand knowledge of him and his family

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 would be a great starting point for trust in him.

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 So I don't see how knowing him leads to unbelief.

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 This rejection must have been, from a humour point of view,

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 just incredibly painful for Jesus.

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 I heard this week of Christians who had to flee the Taliban in Afghanistan.

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 Imagine your own family reporting you to the Taliban

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 because they found a Christian app on your phone.

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 They would rather you imprisoned, maybe die,

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 than keep owning you as part of the family,

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 putting you outside, knowing that you might be hunted down.

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 That is pretty deep rejection.

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 This must have been really painful.

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 He knows firsthand this rejection.

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 And Jesus, he exposes why they are slow to trust him.

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 So we've got that response.

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 A prophet is not without honour except in his hometown and in his own household.

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 We've got this same phrase in John's Gospel in Chapter 4,

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 and I think it's interesting there that the context there is about the Samaritans.

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 The Samaritans rally to Jesus, and yet the Jews don't.

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 And here in Matthew's Gospel, in this section that we're coming into,

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 even the disciples are pretty slow to believe.

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 Like, they confess Jesus to be Messiah.

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 Next minute Jesus says, I'm going to die.

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 Peter goes, no way.

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 They're slow to believe.

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 There's one person who understands Jesus properly in this section,

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 and it's a foreign Canaanite woman.

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 That is the highlight of this section in Matthew.

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 So why did Jesus say this to them?

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 A prophet is not without honour except in his hometown, his own household.

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 At first, I've always thought it's to console himself.

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 It's kind of like, it's okay, Jesus.

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 You're rejected here.

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 Incredibly painful.

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 But don't worry.

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 Others will accept you.

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 But that just, like, another thought.

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 You think about that, that can't be right.

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 An insecure person has to justify themselves saying to other people,

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 he's not consoling himself.

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 So why did he say it to them?

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 It must be for their sake.

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 I think he's answering their question.

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 Where did I get my wisdom and mighty works from?

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 Can't you see I'm sent by God?

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 The obvious answer is I'm a prophet.

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 Not just any prophet.

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 A prophet like Moses, who was promised to come.

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 I think the cause of their offence was they've always known him as this ordinary guy,

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 but now his authority is demanding that they come under his authority.

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 They've got to treat him completely differently, submitting to his authority.

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 I think that's where the offence is.

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 It's not because he's familiar to them, but he's now saying,

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 you need to come under my authority.

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 He had come to give them eternal life, but only, we've got in verse 58,

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 he did not do many mighty works there because of their unbelief.

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 He had come to give them eternal life, and only a few people accepted him.

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 So him not being able to do many mighty works, I'm going to quote Carson here just to explain that.

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 The could not is related to Jesus' mission.

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 Just as Jesus could not turn stones into bread when he was being tempted in the wilderness,

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 that would be violating his mission.

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 So he could not do miracles indiscriminately without turning his mission into a sideshow.

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 The lack of faith of the people was doubtless a source of profound grief and frustration for Jesus,

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 rather than something that stripped him of power.

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 So I think what's going on, if Jesus had just done miracles without people depending on him,

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 coming to him in faith, that would be suggesting that you can have life outside of coming to Jesus,

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 and that would not be a loving thing to do, because it's just not true.

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 Another thought is, maybe he didn't do the miracles so he didn't add guilt to their unbelief.

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 It would have made them more guilty.

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 So, I can't think of a more devastating story of rejection than his own people, his own family.

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 Now, James comes to believe after the resurrection, but his own family at this point,

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 his own community, don't believe.

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 Isn't it the people closest who can hurt us the most?

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 They saw God with their eyes, they heard him with their ears, with Jesus in front of them.

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 His power, his word, his character.

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 They got a foretaste of him, but they didn't embrace him.

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 I think Matthew is preparing us for what Jesus came to do, to be rejected by his own people.

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 God came to his own, and his own didn't receive him.

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 I find it super encouraging that Jesus actually went to Nazareth.

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 He would have known the rejection that was awaiting him.

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 He would have entered it willingly, as painful as it was.

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 And why did he do it?

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 To give them eternal life.

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 He entered that town knowing he would be rejected, but he did it out of compassion.

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 Then we're shown this next story, this gruesome end to John the Baptist.

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 King Herod offers his opinion about who Jesus is.

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 John risen from the dead, which just seems to be this superstitious belief.

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 And then verse 3, we're kind of like, the camera fades, the tone of the scene changes.

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 We're going back in time a few months.

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 I'm wondering why verses 3 to 12, why do we have this long description of John's death?

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 It seems to be taking the spotlight off of Jesus for a time.

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 It seems to wreck the flow.

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 It could have been summed up in one sentence.

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 But we've already seen in Matthew's Gospel how closely John and Jesus are tied.

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 John was the forerunner of Jesus, pronouncing that the kingdom of heaven is at hand.

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 You need to repent.

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 And then Jesus himself comes under his baptism, identifying with sinful Israel, taking on their sin.

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 So these guys are linked.

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 Their ministry is linked.

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 Jesus has already said in Matthew's Gospel that John is the Elijah that was promised to come before the great day of the Lord.

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 And it's interesting because here we've got someone who's very similar in character to King Ahab and Jezebel.

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 You've got a weak leader and you've got this ruthless wife.

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 Both wicked.

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 I'm not sure what the implication of that is, but it's interesting that they had similar experiences.

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 So John is at the end of this long line of prophets who have died at the hands of God's people.

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 He's at the end of a long line.

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 But it's not the end of the line.

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 He is the bridge into Jesus' ministry.

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 He is the forerunner of the suffering of Christ.

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 And then Christ tells his disciples, follow me, take up your cross.

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 There's this long line of suffering prophets and then it prepares us for Christ's own suffering, his own mission to come and suffer and die.

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 So getting into the story a bit, Herod was a tetrarch.

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 So there was four kings in that region.

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 That's what that means.

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 So Rome split up the power.

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 Now, Galilee and Perea was his jurisdiction.

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 So John and Jeze's ministry was under Herod's jurisdiction.

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 And apparently his court was known for just being wild and lawless, like not trying to follow God's law.

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 And then he does something just incredibly politically and morally, religiously scandalous.

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 He takes his own brother, who is still living, as his wife.

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 So divorce, not just the divorce, but taking that wife.

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 And that wife came from the neighbouring, she was the daughter of the neighbouring official.

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 I should probably read my notes.

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 The king of the Nebuchadnezzar.

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 It eventually led to war, but the Romans came and saved Herod's...

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 Saved Herod.

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 So John was crying out like the prophets of old.

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 The prophets were above the kings in terms of authority.

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 And then Herod puts him in prison because of it.

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 He wants to continue his lawless living.

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 Let's not be confused here.

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 Verse 5 tells us plainly what Herod wanted to do with John.

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 He wanted to put John to death.

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 But he feared the people because they held him to be a prophet.

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 And then in a drunken, probably drunken, birthday party in front of his important guests,

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 Herodias' daughter, probably 12 to 14 years old, danced and pleased Herod in the crowd.

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 And pretending to be some great monarch, he publicly promises up to half the kingdom.

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 He shouldn't have given the oath and he shouldn't have followed through on the oath even more.

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 But he feared those important people in front of him.

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 He feared the crowd because the crowd held John to be a prophet.

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 But in that moment, he feared his guests even more.

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 He didn't want to come across as some weak ruler, not coming through with his oath.

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 I think we've watched too many movies.

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 And this whole idea of beheading is not gruesome enough, I thought.

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 But as John serves coffee this morning, just imagine my head next to those coffees.

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 Someone's not liking what I'm saying.

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 And so they cut off my head and put it on a silver platter.

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 It's a gruesome picture.

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 This is the greatest prophet, Jesus has said.

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 And Herod has just cut off the mouthpiece of God's head.

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 Like Jesus, there's no legal trial here.

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 There is no justice.

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 And like John, Jesus' execution comes from a leader who gives in to the crowds.

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 I think we're just being painted here that John is a forerunner for Jesus' suffering

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 so that we can understand his suffering when we see it.

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 I think the most disturbing detail in this story is what isn't said.

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 God could have struck down Herod like he does in Acts.

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 He could have struck him down before he had the chance to do this and save his prophet.

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 He could have opened the prison cell doors like he does in Acts.

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 But he doesn't.

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 What is Jesus doing?

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 We're not told.

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 I think what we're not told is some of the most disturbing part of this.

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 This was no mere accident on God's watch.

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 It must have grieved God's heart and yet it was God's will for John to die like this.

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 It prepares us for that greater injustice, that greater will of God,

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 that he sent his son to experience this same kind of fate.

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 It was God's will, God's plan for his son to be rejected by his own people,

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 even at the point of death.

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 Why would God do that?

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 Well, with Herod, we get an insight into his motives for why he did it.

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 And I think that helps us examine our motives and how we can be reluctant to put our trust in Jesus.

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 We're told he feared the crowd, he feared the people, and he wanted to avoid being ashamed before his guests.

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 Herod believed that people could give him the respect and the admiration and the love and acceptance he craved.

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 And I think the great irony is that as lawless as Herod was, the Pharisees who were obsessed with keeping the law

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 had more in common with Herod than they did with the prophets.

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 We get later in the Gospel, in chapter 22, they're attacking Jesus and they're questioning where his authority has come from.

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 And listen to what happens.

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 Jesus goes, or answered this question first.

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 The baptism of John, where did it come from?

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 From heaven or from man?

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 And they discussed it among themselves, saying,

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 If we say from heaven, he will say to us,

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 Then why didn't you believe in him?

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 But if we say from man, we are afraid of the crowd.

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 For they all hold that John was a prophet.

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 So they answered Jesus,

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 We don't know.

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 For as much as they think they're obeying the law of God,

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 really they're acting in fear of people.

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 Wanting the praise of people.

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 Like we heard in the Sermon on the Mount,

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 they practice their religion for the audience of others.

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 Whether someone is lawless or trying to be law-keeping,

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 if they're doing that for the praise of people,

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 they're not serving God.

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 And it's actually that seeking that praise from people is a huge barrier to putting our trust in Jesus.

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 It's a huge barrier to living a faithful life,

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 wanting to please God the Father.

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 Jesus points this out pointedly in John chapter 5.

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 He says,

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 How can you believe when you receive glory from one another

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 and do not seek the glory that comes only from God?

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 We might think that this is a problem for timid people,

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 being people pleasers,

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 but this was a problem for Peter.

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 He was a bold person.

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 And what do we see him doing at the end of the Gospel?

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 Before a servant girl,

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 he's denying Christ.

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 He's saying an oath.

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 He's calling curses down on himself.

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 I do not know Jesus.

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 This is Peter,

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 the one who speaks before he thinks.

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 This is all of our problem.

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 Whether we're people pleasers or really bold and rash,

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 we can all be seeking the praise of others.

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 So can I pause and let us reflect on where in your life you are seeking the acceptance of people?

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 And remember, I'm asking this because it can be a huge barrier to us putting our trust in Jesus.

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 I think we should look for where we feel compelled to act in a certain way.

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 Look at areas of our life where we don't even ask the question whether it pleases God or not,

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 because it's going well for us.

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 We don't even ask the question.

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 We don't care.

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 I think we should look for areas in our life where we feel trapped by the opinion of a person,

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 as if somehow that person is making us respond in a certain way.

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 I think all those things are indicators that we actually think those people can give us

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 the praise and glory we seek.

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 So to use a book titled by Edward Welch,

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 When People Are Big, God Is Small,

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 which makes it a massive barrier to trust in Christ

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 and a massive barrier of living for Christ and stepping out in risk.

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 I'm going to share a few things that Welch says in his book to help us understand

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 just a little bit more how this works.

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 He says this,

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 We fear people because they can expose and humiliate us.

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 They can reject and ridicule or despise us.

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 They can hunt, attack or threaten us.

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 And then he says this.

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 I think this is the key.

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 People are our idol of choice.

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 So when we think idolatry, we often think money.

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 He's claiming people are our idol of choice.

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 We worship them as ones who have God-like exposing gazes.

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 We worship them as having God-like ability to fill us with esteem and love and admiration

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 and acceptance and respect.

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 Other psychological desires.

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 And the whole strategy backfires.

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 We never expect that using people to meet our desires leaves us enslaved to them.

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 In the biblical sense, what we fear shows our allegiance.

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 It shows where we put our trust.

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 It shows who is big in our lives.

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 So how do we fix this?

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 What's the remedy for this?

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 How do we make Jesus big and put people's opinions in their proper place?

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 I think it's by looking for our safety and acceptance, not in other people, not even in our own people,

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 whether that's family or our own community.

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 Not looking for our safety and acceptance in people,

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 but looking for it in the one who is rejected by the whole world.

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 It seems counterintuitive.

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 The one who is rejected, that is the one we will find.

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 Our acceptance.

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 If you knew everything about me, you would probably find reasons to avoid me.

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 You'd find reasons to cut me off.

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 I wouldn't blame you.

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 But that's not the case with Jesus.

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 His character, his truthfulness, the gracious words out of his mouth,

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 the fact that he puts his life on the line,

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 he knowingly moves towards our rejection so that he can give us life.

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 Everyone should accept this man.

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 He deserves full acceptance.

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 I think we read this story of being rejected at Nazareth and like,

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 okay, other people who reject Jesus.

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 How are they rejecting this man?

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 He's God in the flesh.

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 We need to look for our acceptance in him.

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 And I think key to it is owning our rejection of him.

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 Owning the fact that we can be hesitant to trust him.

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 Owning and confessing the fact that we can fail to see him as big as he is.

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 Owning the fact that we seek praise from others instead.

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 But then we need to see his great compassion.

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 He doesn't cut us off for that like other people would.

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 He moves towards us.

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 He moves towards our rejection of him.

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 Willingly being cut off, not only by his own people,

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 but as we learn later on, even cut off by God the Father.

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 He moves towards our rejection.

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 And he gets cut off so that we might come to share the acceptance he has by God the Father.

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 Fully filled with total love, total acceptance, total safety,

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 that he enjoys for eternity.

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 If we see Jesus like that, then we see him as big as he is.

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 And people will be put in their place.

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 Then we can follow him as he calls us to take up our cross

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 and willingly risk rejection by our own people

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 so that they might know the acceptance that we have found in God and Christ.

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 We'll only do that if we see Jesus as big.

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 We'll only do it if we feel how fully and permanently we are safe in him.

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 We'll only do it if we don't actually see it as shameful to be rejected by people.

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 That's actually sharing in our Messiah's suffering.

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 It's not shameful if we're seeking their eternal good.

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 So I don't think I belong in this society that rejects God.

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 And I don't think we're meant to.

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 The Bible is very clear on it, isn't it?

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 There is no safe haven on earth if you're a follower of Christ.

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 With everyone backing their own opinion rather than submitting to Jesus' wisdom,

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 with everyone seeking affirmation from people rather than from God,

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 you cannot live a godly life in Christ Jesus and expect to be safe and belong.

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 But in Jesus' rejection, we have full acceptance.

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 In him, we have full safety.

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 And that's when we can have the resources to risk our lives for the sake of others and follow him.

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 We need to find in him, in his rejection, full acceptance by God.

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 So let's see God as big and people as needing to see God and Jesus as big.

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 Will you pray with me?

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 Let's pray.

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 Father, I pray that your words would sink deep into our hearts,

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 that you would help us to celebrate just how loving you are,

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 that you have moved towards us, that you sent your son knowing that he would be rejected by the entire world,

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 ourselves included.

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 But you did it.

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 You did it.

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 Because you are that kind of God who loves out of your freedom to love.

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 Help us to see just how incredible you are that you have loved us in this way.

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 And I pray, Lord, that you would help us to be satisfied in the safety that we have in Jesus,

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 that we are fully accepted by you, our Father in heaven.

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 Please help us to know we belong to you so that we might risk our lives for the sake of others

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 who need to come and see you for who you are.

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 In Jesus' name I pray.

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 Amen.

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 Amen.

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 Amen.