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 to the Gospel of John.

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 And for some of you who are new or visiting,

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 we have been working through the Gospel of John.

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 I actually look back to see when the start of this series was,

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 and it looks like it was the start of January 2020.

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 So we've actually been working through this Gospel

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 for three years now, and here we are going on to year four.

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 So there's a lot in this book of the Bible,

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 and we've tried to really slow it down and linger

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 over the words that are here.

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 We want to understand what did Jesus mean

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 when he said some of the things that he said,

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 when he did some of the things that he did.

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 What's it all about?

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 Right now, we're in John chapter 15,

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 and this is where we're at in the story of Jesus,

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 in case you're kind of just joining us this morning.

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 Jesus is right now speaking to his disciples

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 on the evening prior to his crucifixion.

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 So all the public ministry of Jesus,

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 that's already all happened.

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 We heard John talk about the many miraculous signs

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 that Jesus did,

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 and the teachings that he gave to the crowds.

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 We heard about the tensions rising

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 between Jesus and the religious leaders.

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 It's estimated that from the time that Jesus was baptized

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 in the Jordan River and began his public ministry

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 till this point in the story,

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 it's been about three years,

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 and Jesus has now made his last trip

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 down to Jerusalem

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 for the week-long Passover festival.

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 He entered the city to joyful shouts

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 of, blessed is the king of Israel.

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 But then all through the week,

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 tensions have been rising

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 between Jesus and the religious leaders

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 and some of the Jews who were there.

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 And we're here now at the end of the week,

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 and Jesus has just eaten that Passover meal

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 with his disciples.

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 Judas has left

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 to put his plan into motion

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 to betray Jesus.

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 Jesus has been giving some of his last words

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 to the disciples before his death.

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 He's been encouraging them.

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 He's been comforting them.

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 He's been giving them instructions

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 about how to live in these days

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 that are upon them.

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 First, they were at the place

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 where the supper was eaten.

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 Now they're likely somewhere else in the city

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 or just outside the city,

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 perhaps at a vineyard

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 where they stopped

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 before heading to the Garden of Gethsemane.

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 So we pick it up this morning

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 in John chapter 15, verse 9.

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 I'm just going to read this paragraph

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 so we can get a little bit of context here.

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 This is Jesus talking to the disciples.

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 As the Father has loved me,

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 so have I loved you.

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 Now remain in my love.

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 If you keep my commands,

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 you will remain in my love

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 just as I have kept my Father's commands

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 and remain in His love.

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 I have told you this

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 so that my joy may be in you

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 and that your joy may be complete.

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 My command is this.

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 Love each other

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 as I have loved you.

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 Greater love has no one than this

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 to lay down one's life

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 for one's friends.

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 You are my friends

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 if you do what I command.

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 I no longer call you servants

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 because a servant does not know

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 his master's business.

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 Instead, I have called you friends

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 for everything that I learned from my Father

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 I have made known to you.

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 You did not choose me

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 but I chose you

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 and appointed you

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 so that you might go and bear fruit.

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 Fruit that will last

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 and so that whatever you ask

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 in my name

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 the Father will give you.

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 This is my command.

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 Love each other.

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 As usual, there is a lot here

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 that we could ponder

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 but this morning

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 we want to focus in on one thing

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 Jesus seems to emphasize

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 perhaps the most

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 in this paragraph

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 and it's this command

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 that He gives to His disciples

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 in verse 12.

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 Love each other

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 or love one another

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 as I have loved you.

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 Now you might be thinking

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 oh man

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 love each other?

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 That's the most obvious thing here.

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 We all know what that means.

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 Let's go on to the

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 other interesting things

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 that Jesus has to say here.

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 I mean we already talked about

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 love one another

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 back in chapter 13

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 verse 34.

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 If you'll recall

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 Jesus earlier this evening

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 said

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 a new command I give you

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 love one another

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 as I have loved you

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 so you must love one another.

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 So why do we need to hear

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 this same basic thing

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 again?

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 Well

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 maybe you could tell me

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 why does Jesus

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 the master teacher

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 the greatest teacher

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 who ever walked the earth

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 feel the need

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 to repeat Himself

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 and tell them

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 to love each other

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 three times

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 in the same evening?

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 There's this one

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 in 1334

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 it's here again

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 in 15

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 verse 12

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 and it's there again

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 in 15

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 verse 17

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 this is my command

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 love each other.

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 Why does Jesus say it

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 three times

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 to the men

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 who are with Him

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 that night?

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 Well I'll tell you one thing

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 He doesn't have

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 short term memory loss

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 it's not as though

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 He forgot

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 that He said it earlier

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 it's that we

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 the disciples of Jesus

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 need to understand

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 the importance

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 of this.

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 Probably

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 like the disciples

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 we too

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 are prone to thinking

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 that we've already got it

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 we've already understood it

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 when maybe we haven't

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 or

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 we already know that

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 but are we doing it?

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 So saying it

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 three times

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 in one evening

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 I hope

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 gets your attention

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 it sends a clear message

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 to us

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 this command

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 to love one another

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 is very dear

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 to the heart of Christ

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 it's of the utmost

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 importance

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 to us living

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 as followers of Jesus

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 in this world

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 now

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 I already explained

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 in my previous message

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 on June 19th

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 2022

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 you can find that sermon

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 on the church website

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 I already explained

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 what makes this command

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 new

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 we talked about this

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 I'm not going to

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 re-preach the whole thing

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 but basically

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 the command to love

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 people is old

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 God gave that command

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 a long time ago

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 at Mount Sinai

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 through Moses

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 love your neighbor

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 as yourself

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 and

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 in that previous message

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 I said that

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 what makes this command

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 new

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 is that we are now

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 called to

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 love one another

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 by a new standard

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 not as

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 we love ourselves

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 but as

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 I have loved

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 you

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 said Jesus

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 there's a new standard

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 Christ has defined

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 he has modeled

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 how we should love

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 one another

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 and if you were here

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 in that sermon

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 on June 19th

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 you'll recall

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 that I opened it

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 right up for discussion

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 in the middle of the sermon

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 and I asked the question

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 how did Jesus love

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 his disciples

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 and you guys were

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 telling me all kinds of things

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 we talked about

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 how he

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 washed their feet

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 how he spent time

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 with them

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 how he chose them

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 and initiated

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 with them

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 how he was patient

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 with them

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 when they didn't get it

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 how he spoke the truth

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 to them

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 even when it was hard

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 for them to hear it

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 we talked about

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 how he

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 kind of just

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 invited them along

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 for the ride

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 for this great adventure

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 wherever they went

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 he revealed

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 who he was to them

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 he encouraged them

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 like a father

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 does his children

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 one day he made

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 breakfast for them

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 on the beach

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 a little thing

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 but a token of love

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 he forgave them

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 when they sinned

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 against him

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 he cared about

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 their needs

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 even when he was

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 going through

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 his own time

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 of struggle

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 and suffering

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 he did all kinds

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 of wonderful things

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 for them

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 he loved them humbly

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 rather than

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 lording it over them

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 he cared for them

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 when they were sick

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 he loved them

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 when they were proud

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 and argumentative

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 having fights

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 with each other

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 he bore with them

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 when they said

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 hurtful things

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 behind his back

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 he went to their

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 funerals

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 and cried

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 with them

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 he went to their

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 weddings

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 he celebrated

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 with them

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 he helped out

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 with that supply

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 shortage in the back

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 without drawing

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 attention to himself

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 there were some

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 who followed Jesus

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 who were considered

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 untouchables

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 unclean

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 Jesus was not

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 afraid to touch

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 them

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 to give that

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 human contact

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 and connection

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 that we all

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 need

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 he loved them

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 despite their

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 lowly professions

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 he loved them

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 despite their

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 low social status

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 he never played

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 favorites

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 he didn't give

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 extra time and

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 attention to the

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 wealthy or the

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 prominent ones

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 he spent time

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 with the kids

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 and loved the

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 kids

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 he treated the

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 women with

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 absolute purity

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 he kept his

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 promises

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 and the list

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 goes on and on

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 and on

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 we could just

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 go on all day

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 here

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 these are all

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 the ways in

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 which Jesus

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 loved his

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 disciples

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 and of course

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 most important

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 of all

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 he died for

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 them

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 he gave up

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 his life

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 for them

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 to atone

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 for their

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 sins

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 so

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 what's new

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 about this

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 command to

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 love one

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 another

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 is that we're

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 commanded

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 by Jesus

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 now to

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 love one

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 another

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 as he

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 has loved

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 us

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 and as I

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 said in that

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 previous message

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 this is it

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 this is the

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 most important

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 thing in the

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 Christian life

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 except of course

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 for the call to

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 love God

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 himself

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 this is it

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 this is

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 Christianity

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 at its core

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 this is why

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 Jesus says

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 it

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 commands them

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 three times

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 in the same

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 evening

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 because once

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 and even

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 twice

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 isn't enough

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 this is just

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 too important

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 to say just

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 once or

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 twice

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 this is the

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 thing that I

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 want my

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 followers to

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 keep coming

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 back to

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 as the most

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 important command

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 I've given

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 aside from

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 loving God

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 love one

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 another

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 as I have

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 loved you

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 it's one of

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 the most

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 important

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 and at the

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 same time

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 it's one of

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 the things that

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 we just struggle

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 with at times

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 and wrestle

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 with

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 I know

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 if I was

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 to ask

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 any of

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 you

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 what does

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 it mean

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 to love

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 one another

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 what does

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 that look

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 like

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 I'm sure

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 that probably

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 all of you

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 could answer

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 that question

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 even the

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 kids

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 we know

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 what that

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 means

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 we know

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 what love

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 looks like

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 but this

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 is a command

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 we need to

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 go beyond

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 understanding

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 the question

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 is are we

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 actually living

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 this command

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 are we

00:11:39.139 --> 00:11:39.699
 loving one

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 another

00:11:40.079 --> 00:11:41.939
 like Jesus

00:11:41.939 --> 00:11:43.480
 has loved

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 us

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 you know

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 what really

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 struck me

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 as I was

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 meditating on

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 this in the

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 shower

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 I do a lot

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 of meditation

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 in the shower

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 it's a great

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 place of

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 solitude

00:11:54.439 --> 00:11:57.959
 there's a

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 direct

00:11:58.299 --> 00:11:58.899
 connection

00:11:58.899 --> 00:11:59.360
 here

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 between

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 our

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 relationship

00:12:01.439 --> 00:12:02.279
 with Jesus

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 and our

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 relationship

00:12:04.559 --> 00:12:06.299
 with each

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 other

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 do you see

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 that

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 there's

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 meant to be

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 a flow

00:12:12.199 --> 00:12:12.759
 here

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 as I

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 know and

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 experience

00:12:15.899 --> 00:12:16.819
 Jesus love

00:12:16.819 --> 00:12:17.399
 for me

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 it comes

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 to me

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 first

00:12:20.980 --> 00:12:21.879
 and then

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 it's meant

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 to flow

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 out of me

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 to you

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 to one

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 another

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 do you

00:12:28.240 --> 00:12:28.679
 see that

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 here

00:12:28.960 --> 00:12:31.340
 I'm

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 commanded

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 to love

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 you

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 Charles

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 and my

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 template

00:12:36.799 --> 00:12:37.840
 my example

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 is right

00:12:39.360 --> 00:12:39.720
 here

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 in how

00:12:40.220 --> 00:12:40.679
 Christ

00:12:40.679 --> 00:12:41.199
 has loved

00:12:41.199 --> 00:12:41.600
 me

00:12:41.600 --> 00:12:44.919
 there's a

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 flow

00:12:45.299 --> 00:12:46.100
 there's a

00:12:46.100 --> 00:12:46.580
 connection

00:12:46.580 --> 00:12:47.360
 here

00:12:47.360 --> 00:12:49.259
 but here's

00:12:49.259 --> 00:12:49.759
 the trouble

00:12:49.759 --> 00:12:51.399
 all too

00:12:51.399 --> 00:12:51.860
 easily

00:12:51.860 --> 00:12:53.100
 we as

00:12:53.100 --> 00:12:53.519
 followers

00:12:53.519 --> 00:12:54.179
 of Jesus

00:12:54.179 --> 00:12:55.319
 struggle

00:12:55.319 --> 00:12:56.480
 with

00:12:56.480 --> 00:12:57.379
 a

00:12:57.379 --> 00:12:57.879
 disconnect

00:12:57.879 --> 00:12:58.840
 here

00:12:58.840 --> 00:13:00.860
 we want

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 to enjoy

00:13:01.720 --> 00:13:03.000
 and live

00:13:03.000 --> 00:13:03.360
 in

00:13:03.360 --> 00:13:04.659
 Christ's

00:13:04.659 --> 00:13:05.299
 wonderful

00:13:05.299 --> 00:13:05.879
 love for

00:13:05.879 --> 00:13:06.220
 us

00:13:06.220 --> 00:13:07.460
 but then

00:13:07.460 --> 00:13:08.980
 sometimes

00:13:08.980 --> 00:13:09.659
 the flow

00:13:09.659 --> 00:13:10.360
 stops

00:13:10.360 --> 00:13:11.259
 right there

00:13:11.259 --> 00:13:13.480
 and we

00:13:13.480 --> 00:13:14.059
 don't treat

00:13:14.059 --> 00:13:14.559
 one another

00:13:14.559 --> 00:13:15.000
 the same

00:13:15.000 --> 00:13:15.419
 way

00:13:15.419 --> 00:13:17.399
 Jesus

00:13:17.399 --> 00:13:17.799
 was the

00:13:17.799 --> 00:13:18.120
 one to

00:13:18.120 --> 00:13:18.439
 highlight

00:13:18.439 --> 00:13:18.779
 this

00:13:18.779 --> 00:13:19.220
 problem

00:13:19.220 --> 00:13:19.940
 this

00:13:19.940 --> 00:13:20.519
 tendency

00:13:20.519 --> 00:13:21.240
 in all

00:13:21.240 --> 00:13:21.700
 of us

00:13:21.700 --> 00:13:22.379
 listen to

00:13:22.379 --> 00:13:22.720
 what he

00:13:22.720 --> 00:13:23.040
 said

00:13:23.040 --> 00:13:23.220
 in

00:13:23.220 --> 00:13:23.540
 Matthew

00:13:23.540 --> 00:13:23.980
 chapter

00:13:23.980 --> 00:13:24.660
 18

00:13:24.660 --> 00:13:26.320
 verse

00:13:26.320 --> 00:13:26.840
 23

00:13:26.840 --> 00:13:27.180
 to

00:13:27.180 --> 00:13:27.660
 35

00:13:27.660 --> 00:13:28.000
 it's

00:13:28.000 --> 00:13:28.180
 the

00:13:28.180 --> 00:13:28.620
 parable

00:13:28.620 --> 00:13:29.220
 of the

00:13:29.220 --> 00:13:29.840
 unmerciful

00:13:29.840 --> 00:13:30.399
 servant

00:13:30.399 --> 00:13:31.440
 he said

00:13:31.440 --> 00:13:31.779
 therefore

00:13:31.779 --> 00:13:32.360
 the kingdom

00:13:32.360 --> 00:13:32.879
 of heaven

00:13:32.879 --> 00:13:33.300
 is like

00:13:33.300 --> 00:13:33.879
 a king

00:13:33.879 --> 00:13:34.660
 who wanted

00:13:34.660 --> 00:13:35.160
 to settle

00:13:35.160 --> 00:13:35.680
 accounts

00:13:35.680 --> 00:13:36.080
 with his

00:13:36.080 --> 00:13:36.519
 servants

00:13:36.519 --> 00:13:38.019
 as he

00:13:38.019 --> 00:13:38.340
 began

00:13:38.340 --> 00:13:38.560
 the

00:13:38.560 --> 00:13:38.960
 settlement

00:13:38.960 --> 00:13:40.060
 a man

00:13:40.060 --> 00:13:40.519
 who owed

00:13:40.519 --> 00:13:40.740
 him

00:13:40.740 --> 00:13:42.379
 10,000

00:13:42.379 --> 00:13:42.779
 bags

00:13:42.779 --> 00:13:43.360
 of gold

00:13:43.360 --> 00:13:44.580
 was brought

00:13:44.580 --> 00:13:45.019
 to him

00:13:45.019 --> 00:13:46.720
 since he

00:13:46.720 --> 00:13:47.120
 was not

00:13:47.120 --> 00:13:47.540
 able to

00:13:47.540 --> 00:13:47.840
 pay

00:13:47.840 --> 00:13:48.680
 the

00:13:48.679 --> 00:13:49.099
 master

00:13:49.099 --> 00:13:49.659
 ordered

00:13:49.659 --> 00:13:50.279
 that he

00:13:50.279 --> 00:13:50.719
 and his

00:13:50.719 --> 00:13:51.139
 wife

00:13:51.139 --> 00:13:52.219
 and his

00:13:52.219 --> 00:13:52.879
 children

00:13:52.879 --> 00:13:53.979
 and all

00:13:53.979 --> 00:13:54.359
 that he

00:13:54.359 --> 00:13:54.779
 had

00:13:54.779 --> 00:13:56.279
 be sold

00:13:56.279 --> 00:13:57.519
 to repay

00:13:57.519 --> 00:13:58.059
 the debt

00:13:58.059 --> 00:14:00.719
 at this

00:14:00.719 --> 00:14:01.259
 the servant

00:14:01.259 --> 00:14:01.919
 fell on his

00:14:01.919 --> 00:14:02.159
 knees

00:14:02.159 --> 00:14:02.919
 before him

00:14:02.919 --> 00:14:04.219
 be patient

00:14:04.219 --> 00:14:04.739
 with me

00:14:04.739 --> 00:14:05.279
 he begged

00:14:05.279 --> 00:14:06.199
 and I will

00:14:06.199 --> 00:14:06.679
 pay back

00:14:06.679 --> 00:14:07.219
 everything

00:14:07.219 --> 00:14:10.459
 the servant's

00:14:10.459 --> 00:14:10.839
 master

00:14:10.839 --> 00:14:11.579
 took pity

00:14:11.579 --> 00:14:12.299
 on him

00:14:12.299 --> 00:14:14.019
 canceled

00:14:14.019 --> 00:14:14.679
 the debt

00:14:14.679 --> 00:14:15.979
 and let

00:14:15.979 --> 00:14:16.500
 him go

00:14:16.500 --> 00:14:19.339
 but when

00:14:19.339 --> 00:14:20.000
 that servant

00:14:20.000 --> 00:14:20.679
 went out

00:14:20.679 --> 00:14:21.839
 he found

00:14:21.839 --> 00:14:22.339
 one of his

00:14:22.339 --> 00:14:23.039
 fellow servants

00:14:23.039 --> 00:14:23.599
 who owed him

00:14:23.599 --> 00:14:24.319
 100 silver

00:14:24.319 --> 00:14:24.879
 coins

00:14:24.879 --> 00:14:26.459
 he grabbed

00:14:26.459 --> 00:14:26.639
 him

00:14:26.639 --> 00:14:27.099
 and began

00:14:27.099 --> 00:14:28.179
 to choke

00:14:28.179 --> 00:14:28.399
 him

00:14:28.399 --> 00:14:29.419
 pay back

00:14:29.419 --> 00:14:29.819
 what you

00:14:29.819 --> 00:14:30.379
 owe me

00:14:30.379 --> 00:14:32.079
 he demanded

00:14:32.079 --> 00:14:34.599
 his fellow

00:14:34.599 --> 00:14:35.059
 servant

00:14:35.059 --> 00:14:35.919
 fell to his

00:14:35.919 --> 00:14:36.159
 knees

00:14:36.159 --> 00:14:36.759
 and begged

00:14:36.759 --> 00:14:37.079
 him

00:14:37.079 --> 00:14:38.219
 be patient

00:14:38.219 --> 00:14:38.679
 with me

00:14:38.679 --> 00:14:39.059
 and I will

00:14:39.059 --> 00:14:39.399
 pay it

00:14:39.399 --> 00:14:39.819
 back

00:14:39.820 --> 00:14:41.360
 but he

00:14:41.360 --> 00:14:41.960
 refused

00:14:41.960 --> 00:14:43.379
 instead

00:14:43.379 --> 00:14:43.800
 he went

00:14:43.800 --> 00:14:44.020
 off

00:14:44.020 --> 00:14:44.340
 and had

00:14:44.340 --> 00:14:44.680
 the man

00:14:44.680 --> 00:14:44.980
 thrown

00:14:44.980 --> 00:14:45.600
 into prison

00:14:45.600 --> 00:14:46.900
 until he

00:14:46.900 --> 00:14:47.160
 could

00:14:47.160 --> 00:14:47.879
 pay the

00:14:47.879 --> 00:14:48.180
 debt

00:14:48.180 --> 00:14:50.480
 when the

00:14:50.480 --> 00:14:50.660
 other

00:14:50.660 --> 00:14:51.060
 servants

00:14:51.060 --> 00:14:51.520
 saw what

00:14:51.520 --> 00:14:51.660
 had

00:14:51.660 --> 00:14:51.980
 happened

00:14:51.980 --> 00:14:52.340
 they were

00:14:52.340 --> 00:14:52.940
 outraged

00:14:52.940 --> 00:14:53.220
 and went

00:14:53.220 --> 00:14:53.520
 and told

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 their

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 master

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 everything

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 that had

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 happened

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 then the

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 master

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 called

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 the servant

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 in

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 you wicked

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 servant

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 he said

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 I canceled

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 all that

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 debt of

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 yours

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 because you

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 begged

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 me to

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 shouldn't

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 you have

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 had mercy

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 on your

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 fellow

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 servant

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 just as

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 I had

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 on you

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 in anger

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 his master

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 handed him

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 over to

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 the jailers

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 to be

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 tortured

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 until he

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 should pay

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 back

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 all he

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 owed

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 this

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 is how

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 my heavenly

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 father

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 will treat

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 each of

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 you

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 unless

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 you

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 forgive

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 your

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 brother

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 or sister

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 from

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 your

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 heart

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 wow

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 what

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 was

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 Jesus

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 getting

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 at

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 when

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 he

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 told

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 this

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 parable

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 of

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 the

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 unmerciful

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 servant

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 I mean

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 isn't it

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 ironic

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 that

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 a man

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 who had

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 been

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 forgiven

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 a massive

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 debt

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 10,000

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 bags

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 of gold

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 was

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 unwilling

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 to forgive

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 the much

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 smaller

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 debt

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 of his

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 buddy

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 in

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 this

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 parable

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 we

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 see

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 the

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 disconnect

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 between

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 the

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 king's

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 mercy

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 coming

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 to

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 that

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 servant

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 and

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 the

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 mercy

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 flowing

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 from

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 that

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 servant

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 to

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 his

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 fellow

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 servant

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 Jesus

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 is

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 saying

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 this

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 disconnect

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 that

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 happens

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 with

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 people

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 it's

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 a

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 problem

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 in

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 fact

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 he

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 says

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 it's

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 wicked

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 God's

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 love

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 God's

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 mercy

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 has been

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 given

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 to you

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 so

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 graciously

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 so

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 freely

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 so

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 generously

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 would

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 you

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 now

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 withhold

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 love

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 and

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 mercy

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 from

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 your

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 brother

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 or

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 your

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 sister

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 now

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 it's

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 easy

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 for us

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 to look

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 at this

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 little

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 parable

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 and

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 agree

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 and

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 say

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 how

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 could

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 he

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 do

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 such

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 a

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 thing

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 what

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 a

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 wicked

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 servant

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 but

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 you

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 know

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 this

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 is

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 not

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 a

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 story

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 that

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 Jesus

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 you

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 know

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 he

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 didn't

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 see

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 somebody

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 that

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 actually

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 did

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 this

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 he

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 made

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 this

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 parable

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 up

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 to

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 teach

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 us

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 a

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 point

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 the

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 point

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 of this

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 parable

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 is to

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 tell

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 you

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 and

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 me

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 what

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 we

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 all

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 too

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 easily

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 do

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 it's

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 to

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 convict

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 us

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 of

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 our

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 lack

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 of

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 love

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 toward

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 one

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 another

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 it's

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 to

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 show

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 us

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 the

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 irony

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 and

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 the

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 audacity

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 of

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 our

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 own

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 attitudes

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 and

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 behaviors

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 when

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 we

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 have

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 been

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 loved

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 and

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 forgiven

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 by

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 God

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 so

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 much

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 and

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 yet

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 how

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 easily

00:17:40.639 --> 00:17:40.899
 we

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 stop

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 the

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 flow

00:17:42.079 --> 00:17:42.819
 of

00:17:42.819 --> 00:17:43.219
 love

00:17:43.219 --> 00:17:44.000
 and

00:17:44.000 --> 00:17:44.459
 forgiveness

00:17:44.459 --> 00:17:45.679
 to

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 one

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 another

00:17:46.219 --> 00:17:48.819
 so

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 this

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 is

00:17:49.299 --> 00:17:49.579
 why

00:17:49.579 --> 00:17:49.759
 I

00:17:49.759 --> 00:17:49.980
 think

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 Jesus

00:17:50.359 --> 00:17:50.899
 repeats

00:17:50.899 --> 00:17:51.159
 this

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 simple

00:17:51.480 --> 00:17:51.980
 command

00:17:51.980 --> 00:17:52.819
 three

00:17:52.819 --> 00:17:53.440
 times

00:17:53.440 --> 00:17:54.019
 in

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 one

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 night

00:17:54.740 --> 00:17:56.160
 love

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 one

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 another

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 as

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 I

00:17:58.500 --> 00:17:58.720
 have

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 loved

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 you

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 because

00:18:00.700 --> 00:18:01.000
 it's

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 rooted

00:18:01.220 --> 00:18:01.440
 in

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 our

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 sin

00:18:01.880 --> 00:18:02.299
 nature

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 to

00:18:02.940 --> 00:18:04.000
 turn

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 off

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 the

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 taps

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 towards

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 one

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 another

00:18:07.299 --> 00:18:09.819
 and

00:18:09.819 --> 00:18:09.960
 the

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 disciples

00:18:10.360 --> 00:18:10.640
 of

00:18:10.640 --> 00:18:10.940
 Jesus

00:18:10.940 --> 00:18:11.299
 did

00:18:11.299 --> 00:18:11.519
 this

00:18:11.519 --> 00:18:11.680
 a

00:18:11.680 --> 00:18:11.960
 lot

00:18:11.960 --> 00:18:13.759
 they

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 fought

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 with

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 each

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 other

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 they

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 argued

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 with

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 each

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 other

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 they

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 jockeyed

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 for

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 position

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 amongst

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 each

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 other

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 wanting

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 to

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 be

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 first

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 wanting

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 to

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 be

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 the

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 greatest

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 and

00:18:25.880 --> 00:18:26.040
 it

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 broke

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 Jesus

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 heart

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 when

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 they

00:18:28.780 --> 00:18:29.000
 did

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 that

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 because

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 it

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 was

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 so

00:18:31.640 --> 00:18:31.900
 out

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 of

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 sync

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 with

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 the

00:18:33.140 --> 00:18:33.340
 love

00:18:33.340 --> 00:18:33.540
 of

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 God

00:18:33.940 --> 00:18:35.220
 and

00:18:35.220 --> 00:18:35.360
 with

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 the

00:18:35.520 --> 00:18:35.700
 love

00:18:35.700 --> 00:18:35.900
 of

00:18:35.900 --> 00:18:36.260
 Jesus

00:18:36.260 --> 00:18:37.620
 here

00:18:37.620 --> 00:18:37.780
 he

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 was

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 loving

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 them

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 so

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 purely

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 so

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 deeply

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 despite

00:18:41.320 --> 00:18:42.040
 who

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 they

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 were

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 despite

00:18:42.880 --> 00:18:43.200
 the

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 things

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 that

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 they

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 had

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 done

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 and

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 there

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 they

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 were

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 all

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 too

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 happy

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 to

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 soak

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 in

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 Jesus

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 great

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 love

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 for

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 them

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 but

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 then

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 turn

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 around

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 and

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 treat

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 each

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 other

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 with

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 contempt

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 harboring

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 grudges

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 getting

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 into

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 fights

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 and

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 arguments

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 giving

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 each

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 other

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 the

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 cold

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 shoulder

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 and

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 silent

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 treatment

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 and

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 it

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 wasn't

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 just

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 back

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 then

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 that

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 this

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 disconnect

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 happened

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 in

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 the

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 hearts

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 of

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 Jesus

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 followers

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 it

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 happened

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 years

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 later

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 among

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 the

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 Jesus

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 followers

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 in

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 Corinth

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 Paul

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 wrote a

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 letter

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 to

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 address

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 the

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 divisions

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 that

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 were

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 going

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 on

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 in

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 the

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 church

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 there

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 it

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 happened

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 also

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 among

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 Jesus

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 followers

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 in

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 Philippi

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 maybe

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 you

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 remember

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 some

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 of

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 those

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 words

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 in

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 Philippians

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 where

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 Paul

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 urges

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 them

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 to

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 not

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 just

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 think

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 of

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 their

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 own

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 interests

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 but

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 think

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 of

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 the

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 interests

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 of

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 one

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 another

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 have

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 the

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 same

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 mind

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 in

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 you

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 that

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 was

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 also

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 in

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 Christ

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 Jesus

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 that

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 humble

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 love

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 and

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 I

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 plead

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 with

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 Iodia

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 and

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 Syntyche

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 to

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 agree

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 with

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 each

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 other

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 many

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 of

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 the

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 New

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 Testament

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 letters

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 were

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 written

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 to

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 churches

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 and

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 highlighted

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 interpersonal

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 conflict

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 within

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 the

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 church

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 caused

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 by

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 sinful

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 and

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 selfish

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 attitudes

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 and

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 in

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 many

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 of

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 them

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 instruction

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 was

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 given

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 again

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 and

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 again

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 for

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 the

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 people

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 of

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 the

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 church

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 to

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 love

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 one

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 another

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 sincerely

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 from

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 the

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 heart

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 this

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 disconnect

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 was

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 there

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 and

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 it's

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 been

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 happening

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 ever

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 since

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 then

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 among

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 the

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 followers

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 of

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 Jesus

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 throughout

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 church

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 history

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 and

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 this

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 disconnect

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 happens

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 even

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 here

00:20:27.119 --> 00:20:28.559
 among

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 us

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 followers

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 of

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 Jesus

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 here

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 in

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 Davidson

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 right

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 here

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 in

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 our

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 own

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 church

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 it's

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 something

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 that we

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 participate

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 in

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 on a

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 regular

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 basis

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 every

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 time you

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 say

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 something

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 nasty

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 to

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 hurt

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 someone

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 every

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 time you

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 attempt

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 to

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 control

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 or

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 manipulate

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 someone

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 every

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 time we

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 say

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 something

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 in

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 pride

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 or

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 arrogance

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 standing

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 in

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 judgment

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 over

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 someone

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 every

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 time

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 we

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 act

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 selfishly

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 out

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 of

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 disregard

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 for

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 others

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 what I'm

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 trying to

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 say is

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 that this

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 is a

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 pervasive

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 problem

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 it's not

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 as though

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 some of

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 us are

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 loving

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 like

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 Jesus

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 did

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 and

00:21:12.279 --> 00:21:12.919
 others

00:21:12.919 --> 00:21:13.079
 are

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 not

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 and

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 let's

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 figure

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 out

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 who's

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 doing

00:21:14.959 --> 00:21:15.139
 a

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 good

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 job

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 and

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 who's

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 not

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 no

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 we

00:21:16.759 --> 00:21:17.379
 all

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 wrestle

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 with

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 this

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 disconnect

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 at

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 some

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 level

00:21:20.039 --> 00:21:22.640
 or

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 in

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 some

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 relationships

00:21:24.119 --> 00:21:25.740
 in

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 our

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 lives

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 and

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 some

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 of us

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 maybe

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 still

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 don't

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 think

00:21:29.579 --> 00:21:29.740
 we

00:21:29.740 --> 00:21:30.079
 have

00:21:30.079 --> 00:21:30.359
 this

00:21:30.359 --> 00:21:30.799
 disconnect

00:21:30.799 --> 00:21:32.799
 maybe

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 we're

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 still

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 pointing

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 the

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 finger

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 at

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 somebody

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 else

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 it's

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 their

00:21:36.879 --> 00:21:37.379
 fault

00:21:37.379 --> 00:21:39.980
 it's

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 the

00:21:40.079 --> 00:21:40.279
 things

00:21:40.279 --> 00:21:40.579
 they're

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 doing

00:21:40.879 --> 00:21:41.059
 and

00:21:41.059 --> 00:21:41.299
 they're

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 saying

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 I've

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 been

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 treating

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 them

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 well

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 I've

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 been

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 loving

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 them

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 ironically

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 just

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 like

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 with

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 the

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 parable

00:21:49.080 --> 00:21:49.280
 of

00:21:49.280 --> 00:21:49.420
 the

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 unmerciful

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 servant

00:21:50.400 --> 00:21:50.640
 there

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 seems

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 to be

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 a

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 sort

00:21:51.519 --> 00:21:51.720
 of

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 blindness

00:21:52.580 --> 00:21:54.019
 towards

00:21:54.019 --> 00:21:54.420
 this

00:21:54.420 --> 00:21:55.060
 disconnect

00:21:55.060 --> 00:21:55.880
 in

00:21:55.880 --> 00:21:56.040
 our

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 lives

00:21:56.560 --> 00:21:57.720
 the

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 servant

00:21:58.019 --> 00:21:58.200
 in

00:21:58.200 --> 00:21:58.320
 the

00:21:58.320 --> 00:21:58.700
 parable

00:21:58.700 --> 00:21:59.140
 seemed

00:21:59.140 --> 00:22:00.300
 to

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 feel

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 absolutely

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 justified

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 to

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 throttle

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 the

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 neck

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 of

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 his

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 fellow

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 servant

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 even

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 after

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 his

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 own

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 neck

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 had

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 just

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 been

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 spared

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 it's

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 like

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 he

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 couldn't

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 even

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 see

00:22:09.900 --> 00:22:10.120
 what

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 he

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 was

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 doing

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 how

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 out

00:22:12.120 --> 00:22:12.259
 of

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 sync

00:22:12.480 --> 00:22:12.700
 that

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 was

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 with

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 what

00:22:13.259 --> 00:22:13.400
 he

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 just

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 received

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 amazingly

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 when we

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 lack

00:22:17.779 --> 00:22:18.319
 love

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 it

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 often

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 seems

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 that

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 along

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 with

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 that

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 we

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 aren't

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 aware

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 of

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 it

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 we're

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 blind

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 to

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 it

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 I'll

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 give you

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 an

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 example

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 isn't

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 it

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 amazing

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 for

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 those

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 of us

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 who

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 have

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 been

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 parents

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 how

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 we

00:22:36.799 --> 00:22:36.960
 can

00:22:36.960 --> 00:22:37.220
 feel

00:22:37.220 --> 00:22:37.500
 so

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 justified

00:22:38.099 --> 00:22:38.440
 in

00:22:38.440 --> 00:22:38.619
 our

00:22:38.619 --> 00:22:39.319
 frustration

00:22:39.319 --> 00:22:40.379
 and

00:22:40.379 --> 00:22:40.920
 anger

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 and

00:22:41.339 --> 00:22:42.160
 impatience

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 towards

00:22:42.940 --> 00:22:43.299
 our

00:22:43.299 --> 00:22:43.819
 children

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 even

00:22:45.980 --> 00:22:46.359
 saying

00:22:46.359 --> 00:22:46.900
 things

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 unkindly

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 rudely

00:22:48.879 --> 00:22:51.579
 we

00:22:51.579 --> 00:22:51.720
 can

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 be

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 harsh

00:22:52.319 --> 00:22:54.079
 you

00:22:54.079 --> 00:22:54.180
 know

00:22:54.180 --> 00:22:54.279
 what

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 I'm

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 talking

00:22:54.660 --> 00:22:54.980
 about

00:22:54.980 --> 00:22:55.599
 I

00:22:55.599 --> 00:22:55.940
 told

00:22:55.940 --> 00:22:56.079
 you

00:22:56.079 --> 00:22:56.339
 that

00:22:56.339 --> 00:22:56.779
 once

00:22:56.779 --> 00:22:57.180
 already

00:22:57.180 --> 00:22:57.440
 how

00:22:57.440 --> 00:22:57.680
 many

00:22:57.680 --> 00:22:58.019
 times

00:22:58.019 --> 00:22:58.160
 do

00:22:58.160 --> 00:22:58.259
 I

00:22:58.259 --> 00:22:58.440
 have

00:22:58.440 --> 00:22:58.579
 to

00:22:58.579 --> 00:22:58.799
 tell

00:22:58.799 --> 00:22:59.099
 you

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 it's

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 like

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 we're

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 expecting

00:23:01.839 --> 00:23:02.079
 their

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 hearts

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 to

00:23:02.559 --> 00:23:02.920
 change

00:23:02.920 --> 00:23:03.379
 overnight

00:23:03.380 --> 00:23:05.340
 or

00:23:05.340 --> 00:23:05.560
 them

00:23:05.560 --> 00:23:05.700
 to

00:23:05.700 --> 00:23:05.980
 become

00:23:05.980 --> 00:23:06.400
 mature

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 by the

00:23:07.100 --> 00:23:07.200
 end

00:23:07.200 --> 00:23:07.300
 of

00:23:07.300 --> 00:23:07.420
 the

00:23:07.420 --> 00:23:07.760
 week

00:23:07.760 --> 00:23:10.460
 meanwhile

00:23:10.460 --> 00:23:12.020
 we're

00:23:12.020 --> 00:23:12.220
 not

00:23:12.220 --> 00:23:12.660
 becoming

00:23:12.660 --> 00:23:13.100
 mature

00:23:13.100 --> 00:23:13.720
 by the

00:23:13.720 --> 00:23:13.820
 end

00:23:13.820 --> 00:23:13.920
 of

00:23:13.920 --> 00:23:14.040
 the

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 week

00:23:14.340 --> 00:23:16.060
 we

00:23:16.060 --> 00:23:16.260
 hear

00:23:16.260 --> 00:23:16.580
 God

00:23:16.580 --> 00:23:16.900
 saying

00:23:16.900 --> 00:23:17.100
 all

00:23:17.100 --> 00:23:17.380
 kinds

00:23:17.380 --> 00:23:17.520
 of

00:23:17.520 --> 00:23:17.760
 things

00:23:17.760 --> 00:23:17.940
 to

00:23:17.940 --> 00:23:18.260
 us

00:23:18.260 --> 00:23:18.400
 and

00:23:18.400 --> 00:23:18.600
 giving

00:23:18.600 --> 00:23:18.860
 us

00:23:18.860 --> 00:23:19.040
 his

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 commands

00:23:19.380 --> 00:23:19.720
 and

00:23:19.720 --> 00:23:20.100
 yeah

00:23:20.100 --> 00:23:20.340
 I'm

00:23:20.340 --> 00:23:20.540
 still

00:23:20.540 --> 00:23:21.000
 struggling

00:23:21.000 --> 00:23:21.200
 I'm

00:23:21.200 --> 00:23:21.380
 still

00:23:21.380 --> 00:23:21.680
 wrestling

00:23:21.680 --> 00:23:21.880
 with

00:23:21.880 --> 00:23:22.060
 that

00:23:22.060 --> 00:23:22.260
 be

00:23:22.260 --> 00:23:22.680
 patient

00:23:22.680 --> 00:23:22.880
 with

00:23:22.880 --> 00:23:23.060
 me

00:23:23.060 --> 00:23:23.420
 God

00:23:23.420 --> 00:23:24.060
 thank

00:23:24.060 --> 00:23:24.160
 you

00:23:24.160 --> 00:23:24.320
 for

00:23:24.320 --> 00:23:24.480
 your

00:23:24.480 --> 00:23:25.060
 patience

00:23:25.060 --> 00:23:26.140
 but

00:23:26.140 --> 00:23:26.260
 then

00:23:26.260 --> 00:23:26.400
 we

00:23:26.400 --> 00:23:26.620
 turn

00:23:26.620 --> 00:23:26.920
 around

00:23:26.920 --> 00:23:27.040
 and

00:23:27.040 --> 00:23:27.140
 we

00:23:27.140 --> 00:23:27.360
 don't

00:23:27.360 --> 00:23:27.560
 show

00:23:27.560 --> 00:23:27.760
 that

00:23:27.760 --> 00:23:28.040
 same

00:23:28.040 --> 00:23:28.500
 patience

00:23:28.500 --> 00:23:28.780
 to

00:23:28.780 --> 00:23:28.920
 our

00:23:28.920 --> 00:23:29.080
 own

00:23:29.080 --> 00:23:29.500
 kids

00:23:29.500 --> 00:23:33.039
 it's

00:23:33.039 --> 00:23:33.200
 just

00:23:33.200 --> 00:23:33.400
 one

00:23:33.400 --> 00:23:33.880
 example

00:23:33.880 --> 00:23:34.259
 this

00:23:34.259 --> 00:23:35.259
 disconnect

00:23:35.259 --> 00:23:35.559
 is

00:23:35.559 --> 00:23:35.839
 something

00:23:35.839 --> 00:23:36.059
 we

00:23:36.059 --> 00:23:36.319
 all

00:23:36.319 --> 00:23:36.720
 struggle

00:23:36.720 --> 00:23:37.099
 with

00:23:37.099 --> 00:23:38.319
 and

00:23:38.319 --> 00:23:38.500
 how

00:23:38.500 --> 00:23:38.880
 easy

00:23:38.880 --> 00:23:39.059
 it

00:23:39.059 --> 00:23:39.240
 is

00:23:39.240 --> 00:23:39.380
 to

00:23:39.380 --> 00:23:39.539
 be

00:23:39.539 --> 00:23:39.819
 blind

00:23:39.819 --> 00:23:39.980
 to

00:23:39.980 --> 00:23:40.180
 this

00:23:40.180 --> 00:23:40.599
 disconnect

00:23:40.599 --> 00:23:40.880
 in

00:23:40.880 --> 00:23:41.019
 our

00:23:41.019 --> 00:23:41.220
 own

00:23:41.220 --> 00:23:41.660
 lives

00:23:41.660 --> 00:23:45.420
 if

00:23:45.420 --> 00:23:45.540
 you

00:23:45.540 --> 00:23:45.720
 want

00:23:45.720 --> 00:23:45.840
 to

00:23:45.840 --> 00:23:46.200
 grow

00:23:46.200 --> 00:23:47.060
 and

00:23:47.060 --> 00:23:47.320
 become

00:23:47.320 --> 00:23:47.500
 a

00:23:47.500 --> 00:23:47.779
 more

00:23:47.779 --> 00:23:48.720
 loving

00:23:48.720 --> 00:23:49.259
 person

00:23:49.259 --> 00:23:49.759
 just

00:23:49.759 --> 00:23:50.000
 like

00:23:50.000 --> 00:23:50.340
 Jesus

00:23:50.340 --> 00:23:50.840
 commands

00:23:50.840 --> 00:23:51.180
 here

00:23:51.180 --> 00:23:53.840
 would

00:23:53.840 --> 00:23:53.960
 you

00:23:53.960 --> 00:23:54.120
 do

00:23:54.120 --> 00:23:54.380
 this

00:23:54.380 --> 00:23:54.720
 thing

00:23:54.720 --> 00:23:57.540
 would

00:23:57.540 --> 00:23:57.680
 you

00:23:57.680 --> 00:23:57.920
 ask

00:23:57.920 --> 00:23:58.180
 someone

00:23:58.180 --> 00:23:58.380
 in

00:23:58.380 --> 00:23:58.500
 your

00:23:58.500 --> 00:23:58.900
 life

00:23:58.900 --> 00:24:00.040
 perhaps

00:24:00.040 --> 00:24:00.240
 a

00:24:00.240 --> 00:24:00.540
 family

00:24:00.540 --> 00:24:00.920
 member

00:24:00.920 --> 00:24:02.180
 or

00:24:02.180 --> 00:24:02.320
 a

00:24:02.320 --> 00:24:02.580
 close

00:24:02.580 --> 00:24:03.000
 friend

00:24:03.000 --> 00:24:04.420
 ask

00:24:04.420 --> 00:24:04.620
 them

00:24:04.620 --> 00:24:04.860
 this

00:24:04.860 --> 00:24:05.360
 question

00:24:05.360 --> 00:24:08.320
 am

00:24:08.320 --> 00:24:08.460
 I

00:24:08.460 --> 00:24:08.620
 a

00:24:08.620 --> 00:24:08.820
 loving

00:24:08.820 --> 00:24:09.360
 person

00:24:09.359 --> 00:24:11.740
 do

00:24:11.740 --> 00:24:11.859
 you

00:24:11.859 --> 00:24:12.019
 see

00:24:12.019 --> 00:24:12.199
 me

00:24:12.199 --> 00:24:12.339
 as

00:24:12.339 --> 00:24:12.579
 a

00:24:12.579 --> 00:24:12.919
 truly

00:24:12.919 --> 00:24:13.339
 loving

00:24:13.339 --> 00:24:13.879
 person

00:24:13.879 --> 00:24:16.219
 what

00:24:16.219 --> 00:24:16.339
 do

00:24:16.339 --> 00:24:16.459
 you

00:24:16.459 --> 00:24:16.699
 see

00:24:16.699 --> 00:24:16.839
 in

00:24:16.839 --> 00:24:17.000
 my

00:24:17.000 --> 00:24:17.339
 life

00:24:17.339 --> 00:24:17.599
 that

00:24:17.599 --> 00:24:18.439
 that

00:24:18.439 --> 00:24:18.559
 I

00:24:18.559 --> 00:24:18.759
 need

00:24:18.759 --> 00:24:18.959
 to

00:24:18.959 --> 00:24:19.319
 grow

00:24:19.319 --> 00:24:19.599
 in

00:24:19.599 --> 00:24:21.219
 to

00:24:21.219 --> 00:24:21.519
 become

00:24:21.519 --> 00:24:21.719
 a

00:24:21.719 --> 00:24:22.019
 more

00:24:22.019 --> 00:24:22.699
 loving

00:24:22.699 --> 00:24:23.259
 person

00:24:23.259 --> 00:24:24.879
 to

00:24:24.879 --> 00:24:25.139
 become

00:24:25.139 --> 00:24:25.379
 more

00:24:25.379 --> 00:24:25.659
 like

00:24:25.659 --> 00:24:26.059
 Jesus

00:24:26.059 --> 00:24:26.399
 to

00:24:26.399 --> 00:24:26.639
 love

00:24:26.639 --> 00:24:26.819
 more

00:24:26.819 --> 00:24:27.079
 like

00:24:27.079 --> 00:24:27.279
 he

00:24:27.279 --> 00:24:27.619
 does

00:24:27.619 --> 00:24:29.979
 am

00:24:29.979 --> 00:24:30.139
 I

00:24:30.139 --> 00:24:30.639
 kind

00:24:30.639 --> 00:24:33.359
 am

00:24:33.359 --> 00:24:33.519
 I

00:24:33.519 --> 00:24:34.019
 slow

00:24:34.019 --> 00:24:34.439
 to

00:24:34.439 --> 00:24:34.839
 anger

00:24:34.839 --> 00:24:37.439
 am

00:24:37.439 --> 00:24:37.599
 I

00:24:37.599 --> 00:24:37.879
 quick

00:24:37.879 --> 00:24:38.099
 to

00:24:38.099 --> 00:24:38.479
 listen

00:24:38.480 --> 00:24:40.680
 am

00:24:40.680 --> 00:24:40.860
 I

00:24:40.860 --> 00:24:41.599
 compassionate

00:24:41.599 --> 00:24:43.900
 what

00:24:43.900 --> 00:24:44.000
 do

00:24:44.000 --> 00:24:44.140
 you

00:24:44.140 --> 00:24:44.480
 see

00:24:44.480 --> 00:24:45.400
 in

00:24:45.400 --> 00:24:45.559
 my

00:24:45.559 --> 00:24:45.980
 life

00:24:45.980 --> 00:24:48.480
 now

00:24:48.480 --> 00:24:48.740
 don't

00:24:48.740 --> 00:24:48.940
 ask

00:24:48.940 --> 00:24:49.220
 someone

00:24:49.220 --> 00:24:49.420
 who

00:24:49.420 --> 00:24:49.539
 you

00:24:49.539 --> 00:24:49.680
 know

00:24:49.680 --> 00:24:49.839
 will

00:24:49.839 --> 00:24:50.000
 just

00:24:50.000 --> 00:24:50.200
 tell

00:24:50.200 --> 00:24:50.339
 you

00:24:50.339 --> 00:24:50.460
 what

00:24:50.460 --> 00:24:50.579
 you

00:24:50.579 --> 00:24:50.799
 hope

00:24:50.799 --> 00:24:50.960
 to

00:24:50.960 --> 00:24:51.240
 hear

00:24:51.240 --> 00:24:52.079
 I

00:24:52.079 --> 00:24:52.220
 think

00:24:52.220 --> 00:24:52.360
 you

00:24:52.360 --> 00:24:52.620
 probably

00:24:52.620 --> 00:24:52.880
 know

00:24:52.880 --> 00:24:53.059
 who

00:24:53.059 --> 00:24:53.259
 some

00:24:53.259 --> 00:24:53.360
 of

00:24:53.360 --> 00:24:53.559
 those

00:24:53.559 --> 00:24:53.880
 people

00:24:53.880 --> 00:24:54.240
 are

00:24:54.240 --> 00:24:55.360
 ask

00:24:55.360 --> 00:24:55.700
 someone

00:24:55.700 --> 00:24:55.900
 you

00:24:55.900 --> 00:24:56.059
 know

00:24:56.059 --> 00:24:56.240
 will

00:24:56.240 --> 00:24:56.440
 tell

00:24:56.440 --> 00:24:56.559
 you

00:24:56.559 --> 00:24:56.740
 the

00:24:56.740 --> 00:24:57.099
 truth

00:24:57.099 --> 00:24:58.000
 and

00:24:58.000 --> 00:24:58.140
 then

00:24:58.140 --> 00:24:58.360
 just

00:24:58.360 --> 00:24:58.700
 humbly

00:24:58.700 --> 00:24:59.100
 listen

00:24:59.100 --> 00:24:59.480
 and

00:24:59.480 --> 00:24:59.759
 thank

00:24:59.759 --> 00:24:59.920
 them

00:24:59.920 --> 00:25:00.080
 for

00:25:00.080 --> 00:25:00.380
 whatever

00:25:00.380 --> 00:25:00.640
 they

00:25:00.640 --> 00:25:00.920
 share

00:25:00.920 --> 00:25:01.160
 with

00:25:01.160 --> 00:25:01.580
 you

00:25:01.580 --> 00:25:03.720
 blindness

00:25:03.720 --> 00:25:04.120
 is a

00:25:04.120 --> 00:25:04.559
 problem

00:25:04.559 --> 00:25:05.880
 where

00:25:05.880 --> 00:25:06.299
 love

00:25:06.299 --> 00:25:06.640
 is

00:25:06.640 --> 00:25:07.080
 lacking

00:25:07.080 --> 00:25:10.059
 over

00:25:10.059 --> 00:25:10.220
 the

00:25:10.220 --> 00:25:10.519
 past

00:25:10.519 --> 00:25:10.799
 year

00:25:10.799 --> 00:25:11.059
 we

00:25:11.059 --> 00:25:11.900
 conducted

00:25:11.900 --> 00:25:12.080
 a

00:25:12.080 --> 00:25:12.420
 membership

00:25:12.420 --> 00:25:12.880
 review

00:25:12.880 --> 00:25:13.200
 here

00:25:13.200 --> 00:25:13.319
 at

00:25:13.319 --> 00:25:13.440
 the

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 church

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 we

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 sat

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 down

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 with

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 all

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 of

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 our

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 church

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 members

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 and

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 we

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 asked

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 them

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 a

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 series

00:25:18.259 --> 00:25:18.460
 of

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 questions

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 we

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 just

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 wanted

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 to

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 get

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 a

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 sense

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 of

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 where

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 people

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 were

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 at

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 and

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 how

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 things

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 are

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 going

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 with

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 people

00:25:23.360 --> 00:25:23.519
 in

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 the

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 church

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 and

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 of

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 course

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 as

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 we

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 began

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 to

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 do

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 that

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 we

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 started

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 thinking

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 about

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 everybody

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 who

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 comes

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 here

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 and

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 where

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 are

00:25:30.180 --> 00:25:30.299
 we

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 at

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 as

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 a

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 church

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 what

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 are

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 those

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 areas

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 in

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 which

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 we

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 need

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 to

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 grow

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 and

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 it

00:25:36.279 --> 00:25:36.400
 was

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 really

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 good

00:25:36.839 --> 00:25:36.980
 we

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 had

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 many

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 good

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 conversations

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 we're

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 still

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 reflecting

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 on

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 those

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 we're

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 still

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 processing

00:25:41.700 --> 00:25:42.860
 those

00:25:42.860 --> 00:25:44.079
 and

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 as

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 we

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 were

00:25:47.380 --> 00:25:47.600
 going

00:25:47.600 --> 00:25:47.799
 through

00:25:47.799 --> 00:25:48.019
 this

00:25:48.019 --> 00:25:48.480
 process

00:25:48.480 --> 00:25:48.799
 one

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 thing

00:25:49.100 --> 00:25:50.539
 just

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 kind

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 of

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 came

00:25:51.460 --> 00:25:51.819
 into

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 my

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 heart

00:25:52.299 --> 00:25:52.460
 as

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 we

00:25:52.559 --> 00:25:52.700
 were

00:25:52.700 --> 00:25:52.960
 doing

00:25:52.960 --> 00:25:53.319
 this

00:25:53.319 --> 00:25:54.700
 and

00:25:54.700 --> 00:25:54.819
 I

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 have

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 to

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 say

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 it

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 it's

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 that

00:25:57.200 --> 00:25:57.460
 we

00:25:57.460 --> 00:25:57.920
 here

00:25:57.920 --> 00:25:58.220
 at

00:25:58.220 --> 00:25:58.360
 the

00:25:58.360 --> 00:25:58.700
 Davidson

00:25:58.700 --> 00:25:59.279
 Community

00:25:59.279 --> 00:25:59.640
 Bible

00:25:59.640 --> 00:26:00.120
 Church

00:26:00.120 --> 00:26:01.660
 we

00:26:01.660 --> 00:26:02.000
 need

00:26:02.000 --> 00:26:02.200
 to

00:26:02.200 --> 00:26:02.580
 grow

00:26:02.580 --> 00:26:04.180
 in

00:26:04.180 --> 00:26:04.340
 our

00:26:04.340 --> 00:26:04.539
 love

00:26:04.539 --> 00:26:04.720
 for

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 one

00:26:04.900 --> 00:26:05.279
 another

00:26:05.279 --> 00:26:08.120
 don't

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 get

00:26:08.279 --> 00:26:08.440
 me

00:26:08.440 --> 00:26:08.740
 wrong

00:26:08.740 --> 00:26:09.360
 there

00:26:09.360 --> 00:26:09.500
 were

00:26:09.500 --> 00:26:09.720
 many

00:26:09.720 --> 00:26:10.039
 good

00:26:10.039 --> 00:26:10.420
 things

00:26:10.420 --> 00:26:10.680
 many

00:26:10.680 --> 00:26:11.299
 encouraging

00:26:11.299 --> 00:26:11.700
 things

00:26:11.700 --> 00:26:11.860
 that

00:26:11.860 --> 00:26:12.080
 we

00:26:12.080 --> 00:26:12.720
 we

00:26:12.720 --> 00:26:13.059
 we've

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 been

00:26:13.200 --> 00:26:13.779
 looking

00:26:13.779 --> 00:26:14.019
 at

00:26:14.019 --> 00:26:14.180
 over

00:26:14.180 --> 00:26:14.460
 the

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 past

00:26:15.180 --> 00:26:15.460
 year

00:26:15.460 --> 00:26:15.640
 and

00:26:15.640 --> 00:26:16.100
 seeing

00:26:16.100 --> 00:26:18.080
 but

00:26:18.080 --> 00:26:18.299
 this

00:26:18.299 --> 00:26:18.539
 thing

00:26:18.539 --> 00:26:18.720
 of

00:26:18.720 --> 00:26:19.059
 loving

00:26:19.059 --> 00:26:19.279
 one

00:26:19.279 --> 00:26:19.640
 another

00:26:19.640 --> 00:26:19.900
 as

00:26:19.900 --> 00:26:20.240
 Jesus

00:26:20.240 --> 00:26:20.640
 has

00:26:20.640 --> 00:26:20.980
 loved

00:26:20.980 --> 00:26:21.340
 us

00:26:21.340 --> 00:26:21.860
 it's

00:26:21.860 --> 00:26:22.019
 an

00:26:22.019 --> 00:26:22.519
 area

00:26:22.519 --> 00:26:23.600
 where

00:26:23.600 --> 00:26:23.759
 we

00:26:23.759 --> 00:26:23.940
 need

00:26:23.940 --> 00:26:24.100
 to

00:26:24.100 --> 00:26:24.440
 grow

00:26:24.440 --> 00:26:25.279
 as

00:26:25.279 --> 00:26:25.440
 a

00:26:25.440 --> 00:26:25.779
 church

00:26:25.779 --> 00:26:27.559
 now

00:26:27.559 --> 00:26:27.740
 that

00:26:27.740 --> 00:26:28.000
 doesn't

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 mean

00:26:28.160 --> 00:26:28.299
 that

00:26:28.299 --> 00:26:28.480
 there's

00:26:28.480 --> 00:26:28.680
 no

00:26:28.680 --> 00:26:29.019
 love

00:26:29.019 --> 00:26:29.360
 flowing

00:26:29.360 --> 00:26:29.680
 between

00:26:29.680 --> 00:26:30.100
 us

00:26:30.100 --> 00:26:31.519
 that

00:26:31.519 --> 00:26:31.680
 we're

00:26:31.680 --> 00:26:32.019
 totally

00:26:32.019 --> 00:26:32.759
 loveless

00:26:32.759 --> 00:26:33.519
 no

00:26:33.519 --> 00:26:34.580
 there

00:26:34.580 --> 00:26:34.799
 is

00:26:34.799 --> 00:26:35.100
 love

00:26:35.100 --> 00:26:35.220
 and

00:26:35.220 --> 00:26:35.440
 we've

00:26:35.440 --> 00:26:35.640
 seen

00:26:35.640 --> 00:26:35.960
 lots

00:26:35.960 --> 00:26:36.100
 of

00:26:36.100 --> 00:26:36.240
 that

00:26:36.240 --> 00:26:36.380
 over

00:26:36.380 --> 00:26:36.539
 the

00:26:36.539 --> 00:26:36.840
 past

00:26:36.840 --> 00:26:37.100
 year

00:26:37.100 --> 00:26:37.400
 we've

00:26:37.400 --> 00:26:37.620
 seen

00:26:37.620 --> 00:26:37.960
 people

00:26:37.960 --> 00:26:38.299
 caring

00:26:38.299 --> 00:26:38.539
 for

00:26:38.539 --> 00:26:38.740
 each

00:26:38.740 --> 00:26:38.960
 other

00:26:38.960 --> 00:26:39.320
 we've

00:26:39.320 --> 00:26:40.440
 watched

00:26:40.440 --> 00:26:40.660
 as

00:26:40.660 --> 00:26:41.059
 people

00:26:41.059 --> 00:26:41.820
 go

00:26:41.820 --> 00:26:42.019
 and

00:26:42.019 --> 00:26:42.340
 meet

00:26:42.340 --> 00:26:42.519
 the

00:26:42.519 --> 00:26:42.799
 needs

00:26:42.799 --> 00:26:42.960
 of

00:26:42.960 --> 00:26:43.320
 others

00:26:43.320 --> 00:26:43.880
 in

00:26:43.880 --> 00:26:44.019
 the

00:26:44.019 --> 00:26:44.380
 church

00:26:44.380 --> 00:26:44.680
 we've

00:26:44.680 --> 00:26:44.860
 seen

00:26:44.860 --> 00:26:45.140
 people

00:26:45.140 --> 00:26:45.559
 serving

00:26:45.559 --> 00:26:45.840
 each

00:26:45.840 --> 00:26:46.059
 other

00:26:46.059 --> 00:26:46.360
 doing

00:26:46.360 --> 00:26:46.759
 sweet

00:26:46.759 --> 00:26:47.120
 things

00:26:47.120 --> 00:26:47.340
 for

00:26:47.340 --> 00:26:47.539
 each

00:26:47.539 --> 00:26:47.759
 other

00:26:47.759 --> 00:26:48.220
 offering

00:26:48.220 --> 00:26:48.600
 words

00:26:48.600 --> 00:26:48.779
 of

00:26:48.779 --> 00:26:49.400
 encouragement

00:26:49.400 --> 00:26:49.779
 to

00:26:49.779 --> 00:26:50.019
 each

00:26:54.440 --> 00:26:54.640
 but

00:26:54.640 --> 00:26:54.799
 there

00:26:54.799 --> 00:26:54.960
 is

00:26:54.960 --> 00:26:55.279
 still

00:26:55.279 --> 00:26:55.779
 room

00:26:55.779 --> 00:26:56.279
 for

00:26:56.279 --> 00:26:56.460
 us

00:26:56.460 --> 00:26:56.640
 to

00:26:56.640 --> 00:26:56.940
 grow

00:26:56.940 --> 00:26:58.360
 in

00:26:58.360 --> 00:26:58.539
 our

00:26:58.539 --> 00:26:58.799
 love

00:26:58.799 --> 00:26:58.980
 for

00:26:58.980 --> 00:26:59.160
 one

00:26:59.160 --> 00:26:59.519
 another

00:26:59.519 --> 00:27:00.799
 here

00:27:00.799 --> 00:27:00.920
 in

00:27:00.920 --> 00:27:01.039
 the

00:27:01.039 --> 00:27:01.360
 Davidson

00:27:01.360 --> 00:27:01.980
 Community

00:27:01.980 --> 00:27:02.340
 Bible

00:27:02.340 --> 00:27:02.779
 Church

00:27:02.779 --> 00:27:05.860
 one

00:27:05.860 --> 00:27:05.960
 of

00:27:05.960 --> 00:27:06.080
 the

00:27:06.080 --> 00:27:06.320
 things

00:27:06.320 --> 00:27:06.559
 that

00:27:06.559 --> 00:27:07.200
 I

00:27:07.200 --> 00:27:07.380
 have

00:27:07.380 --> 00:27:07.559
 been

00:27:07.559 --> 00:27:07.940
 noticing

00:27:07.940 --> 00:27:08.240
 is

00:27:08.240 --> 00:27:08.420
 that

00:27:08.420 --> 00:27:08.740
 we

00:27:08.740 --> 00:27:09.100
 and

00:27:09.100 --> 00:27:09.259
 I'm

00:27:09.259 --> 00:27:09.380
 going

00:27:09.380 --> 00:27:09.440
 to

00:27:09.440 --> 00:27:09.740
 include

00:27:09.740 --> 00:27:10.200
 myself

00:27:10.200 --> 00:27:10.420
 in

00:27:10.420 --> 00:27:10.640
 this

00:27:10.640 --> 00:27:11.000
 many

00:27:11.000 --> 00:27:11.240
 of

00:27:11.240 --> 00:27:11.539
 us

00:27:11.539 --> 00:27:12.140
 are

00:27:12.140 --> 00:27:12.420
 just

00:27:12.420 --> 00:27:12.860
 not

00:27:12.860 --> 00:27:14.039
 good

00:27:14.039 --> 00:27:15.519
 at

00:27:15.519 --> 00:27:15.920
 handling

00:27:15.920 --> 00:27:16.680
 conflict

00:27:16.680 --> 00:27:20.680
 and

00:27:20.680 --> 00:27:20.860
 I'll

00:27:20.860 --> 00:27:20.960
 be

00:27:20.960 --> 00:27:21.120
 the

00:27:21.120 --> 00:27:21.320
 first

00:27:21.320 --> 00:27:21.480
 to

00:27:21.480 --> 00:27:21.860
 acknowledge

00:27:21.860 --> 00:27:22.120
 that

00:27:22.120 --> 00:27:22.539
 conflict

00:27:22.539 --> 00:27:22.759
 with

00:27:22.759 --> 00:27:22.940
 other

00:27:22.940 --> 00:27:23.279
 people

00:27:23.279 --> 00:27:23.480
 is

00:27:23.480 --> 00:27:23.920
 hard

00:27:23.920 --> 00:27:26.340
 nobody

00:27:26.340 --> 00:27:26.759
 likes

00:27:26.759 --> 00:27:27.400
 conflict

00:27:27.400 --> 00:27:28.660
 we

00:27:28.660 --> 00:27:28.900
 want

00:27:28.900 --> 00:27:29.400
 peace

00:27:29.400 --> 00:27:30.279
 we

00:27:30.279 --> 00:27:30.519
 want

00:27:30.519 --> 00:27:31.039
 unity

00:27:31.039 --> 00:27:33.740
 but

00:27:33.740 --> 00:27:33.880
 we

00:27:33.880 --> 00:27:34.120
 see

00:27:34.120 --> 00:27:34.400
 these

00:27:34.400 --> 00:27:34.940
 dynamics

00:27:34.940 --> 00:27:35.240
 at

00:27:35.240 --> 00:27:35.680
 times

00:27:35.680 --> 00:27:37.039
 people

00:27:37.039 --> 00:27:37.519
 afraid

00:27:37.519 --> 00:27:37.820
 to

00:27:37.820 --> 00:27:38.140
 speak

00:27:38.140 --> 00:27:38.340
 the

00:27:38.340 --> 00:27:38.680
 truth

00:27:38.680 --> 00:27:38.880
 and

00:27:38.880 --> 00:27:39.220
 love

00:27:39.220 --> 00:27:39.700
 worried

00:27:39.700 --> 00:27:39.880
 that

00:27:39.880 --> 00:27:40.039
 it's

00:27:40.039 --> 00:27:40.160
 going

00:27:40.160 --> 00:27:40.259
 to

00:27:40.259 --> 00:27:40.539
 start

00:27:40.539 --> 00:27:40.680
 an

00:27:40.680 --> 00:27:41.060
 argument

00:27:41.060 --> 00:27:41.360
 or

00:27:41.360 --> 00:27:41.640
 start

00:27:41.640 --> 00:27:41.800
 a

00:27:41.800 --> 00:27:42.200
 fight

00:27:42.200 --> 00:27:46.019
 I

00:27:46.019 --> 00:27:46.240
 hear

00:27:46.240 --> 00:27:46.700
 people

00:27:46.700 --> 00:27:47.259
 tell

00:27:47.259 --> 00:27:47.460
 me

00:27:47.460 --> 00:27:47.860
 things

00:27:47.860 --> 00:27:48.160
 about

00:27:48.160 --> 00:27:48.519
 other

00:27:48.519 --> 00:27:49.000
 people

00:27:49.000 --> 00:27:52.519
 that's

00:27:52.519 --> 00:27:52.680
 kind

00:27:52.680 --> 00:27:52.759
 of

00:27:52.759 --> 00:27:52.880
 what

00:27:52.880 --> 00:27:53.279
 happens

00:27:53.279 --> 00:27:53.460
 when

00:27:53.460 --> 00:27:53.579
 you're

00:27:53.579 --> 00:27:53.720
 the

00:27:53.720 --> 00:27:54.160
 pastor

00:27:54.160 --> 00:27:55.980
 and

00:27:55.980 --> 00:27:56.119
 I

00:27:56.119 --> 00:27:56.319
 hold

00:27:56.319 --> 00:27:56.559
 those

00:27:56.559 --> 00:27:56.779
 things

00:27:56.779 --> 00:27:56.960
 in

00:27:56.960 --> 00:27:57.539
 confidence

00:27:57.539 --> 00:28:01.180
 oftentimes

00:28:01.180 --> 00:28:02.220
 it

00:28:02.220 --> 00:28:02.399
 goes

00:28:02.399 --> 00:28:02.720
 something

00:28:02.720 --> 00:28:03.019
 like

00:28:03.019 --> 00:28:03.399
 this

00:28:03.399 --> 00:28:04.160
 somebody

00:28:04.160 --> 00:28:05.039
 did

00:28:05.039 --> 00:28:05.200
 or

00:28:05.200 --> 00:28:05.579
 said

00:28:05.579 --> 00:28:06.079
 something

00:28:06.079 --> 00:28:07.519
 and

00:28:07.519 --> 00:28:07.779
 I'm

00:28:07.779 --> 00:28:08.279
 upset

00:28:08.279 --> 00:28:08.680
 about

00:28:08.680 --> 00:28:08.839
 it

00:28:08.839 --> 00:28:10.000
 it

00:28:10.000 --> 00:28:10.379
 offended

00:28:10.379 --> 00:28:10.779
 me

00:28:10.779 --> 00:28:12.700
 and

00:28:12.700 --> 00:28:12.819
 you

00:28:12.819 --> 00:28:13.059
 weren't

00:28:13.059 --> 00:28:13.399
 able

00:28:13.399 --> 00:28:13.619
 to

00:28:13.619 --> 00:28:13.879
 just

00:28:13.879 --> 00:28:14.339
 overlook

00:28:14.339 --> 00:28:14.660
 it

00:28:14.660 --> 00:28:14.799
 and

00:28:14.799 --> 00:28:14.940
 let

00:28:14.940 --> 00:28:15.079
 it

00:28:15.079 --> 00:28:15.319
 go

00:28:15.319 --> 00:28:15.819
 because

00:28:15.819 --> 00:28:16.279
 you're

00:28:16.279 --> 00:28:16.559
 still

00:28:16.559 --> 00:28:16.940
 hanging

00:28:16.940 --> 00:28:17.279
 on

00:28:17.279 --> 00:28:17.480
 to

00:28:17.480 --> 00:28:17.639
 it

00:28:17.639 --> 00:28:17.920
 even

00:28:17.920 --> 00:28:18.139
 at

00:28:18.139 --> 00:28:18.379
 this

00:28:18.379 --> 00:28:18.700
 point

00:28:18.700 --> 00:28:19.139
 as

00:28:19.139 --> 00:28:19.599
 I'm

00:28:19.599 --> 00:28:19.940
 hearing

00:28:19.940 --> 00:28:20.660
 about

00:28:20.660 --> 00:28:20.859
 it

00:28:20.859 --> 00:28:21.519
 and

00:28:21.519 --> 00:28:21.799
 instead

00:28:21.799 --> 00:28:22.000
 of

00:28:22.000 --> 00:28:22.240
 going

00:28:22.240 --> 00:28:22.399
 to

00:28:22.399 --> 00:28:22.599
 that

00:28:22.599 --> 00:28:23.039
 person

00:28:23.039 --> 00:28:23.259
 and

00:28:23.259 --> 00:28:23.619
 talking

00:28:23.619 --> 00:28:23.899
 with

00:28:23.899 --> 00:28:24.079
 them

00:28:24.079 --> 00:28:24.379
 telling

00:28:24.379 --> 00:28:24.599
 them

00:28:24.599 --> 00:28:24.759
 how

00:28:24.759 --> 00:28:24.959
 you're

00:28:24.959 --> 00:28:25.439
 feeling

00:28:25.439 --> 00:28:26.059
 how

00:28:26.059 --> 00:28:26.259
 what

00:28:26.259 --> 00:28:26.439
 they

00:28:26.439 --> 00:28:26.799
 said

00:28:26.799 --> 00:28:26.979
 or

00:28:26.979 --> 00:28:27.279
 did

00:28:27.279 --> 00:28:27.839
 hurt

00:28:27.839 --> 00:28:28.099
 you

00:28:28.099 --> 00:28:28.379
 or

00:28:28.379 --> 00:28:29.219
 offended

00:28:29.219 --> 00:28:29.599
 you

00:28:29.599 --> 00:28:30.359
 you've

00:28:30.359 --> 00:28:30.500
 been

00:28:30.500 --> 00:28:30.819
 kind of

00:28:30.819 --> 00:28:30.979
 just

00:28:30.979 --> 00:28:31.419
 holding

00:28:31.419 --> 00:28:31.779
 on

00:28:31.779 --> 00:28:32.139
 to

00:28:32.139 --> 00:28:32.359
 that

00:28:32.359 --> 00:28:32.819
 offense

00:28:32.819 --> 00:28:35.000
 and

00:28:35.000 --> 00:28:35.159
 it's

00:28:35.159 --> 00:28:35.339
 been

00:28:35.339 --> 00:28:36.000
 festering

00:28:36.000 --> 00:28:40.539
 and

00:28:40.539 --> 00:28:40.900
 suddenly

00:28:40.900 --> 00:28:41.279
 the way

00:28:41.279 --> 00:28:41.700
 you see

00:28:41.700 --> 00:28:41.940
 that

00:28:41.940 --> 00:28:42.299
 brother

00:28:42.299 --> 00:28:42.559
 or

00:28:42.559 --> 00:28:42.900
 sister

00:28:42.900 --> 00:28:43.279
 is

00:28:43.279 --> 00:28:44.420
 in

00:28:44.420 --> 00:28:44.539
 a

00:28:44.539 --> 00:28:44.859
 negative

00:28:44.859 --> 00:28:45.359
 light

00:28:45.359 --> 00:28:46.480
 without

00:28:46.480 --> 00:28:46.740
 even

00:28:46.740 --> 00:28:47.359
 realizing

00:28:47.359 --> 00:28:47.720
 it

00:28:47.720 --> 00:28:49.980
 you

00:28:49.980 --> 00:28:50.759
 misinterpret

00:28:50.759 --> 00:28:51.180
 things

00:28:51.180 --> 00:28:51.359
 that

00:28:51.359 --> 00:28:51.539
 they

00:28:51.539 --> 00:28:52.039
 say

00:28:52.039 --> 00:28:54.019
 assume

00:28:54.019 --> 00:28:54.259
 the

00:28:54.259 --> 00:28:54.759
 worst

00:28:54.759 --> 00:28:55.740
 of

00:28:55.740 --> 00:28:55.920
 their

00:28:55.920 --> 00:28:56.539
 intentions

00:28:56.539 --> 00:28:57.440
 become

00:28:57.440 --> 00:28:58.140
 suspicious

00:28:58.140 --> 00:29:00.259
 suddenly

00:29:00.259 --> 00:29:00.480
 there

00:29:00.480 --> 00:29:00.859
 becomes

00:29:00.859 --> 00:29:01.180
 a whole

00:29:01.180 --> 00:29:01.500
 list

00:29:01.500 --> 00:29:01.680
 of

00:29:01.680 --> 00:29:02.000
 things

00:29:02.000 --> 00:29:02.220
 that

00:29:02.220 --> 00:29:02.359
 you

00:29:02.359 --> 00:29:02.599
 start

00:29:02.599 --> 00:29:02.799
 to

00:29:02.799 --> 00:29:03.079
 notice

00:29:03.079 --> 00:29:03.339
 about

00:29:03.339 --> 00:29:03.619
 this

00:29:03.619 --> 00:29:04.059
 person

00:29:04.059 --> 00:29:04.259
 and

00:29:04.259 --> 00:29:05.039
 it's

00:29:05.039 --> 00:29:05.480
 growing

00:29:05.480 --> 00:29:05.680
 and

00:29:05.680 --> 00:29:05.840
 it's

00:29:05.840 --> 00:29:06.360
 affecting

00:29:06.360 --> 00:29:07.120
 your

00:29:07.120 --> 00:29:07.720
 relationship

00:29:07.720 --> 00:29:08.060
 with

00:29:08.060 --> 00:29:08.279
 that

00:29:08.279 --> 00:29:08.740
 person

00:29:08.740 --> 00:29:09.380
 the way

00:29:09.380 --> 00:29:09.539
 you

00:29:09.539 --> 00:29:10.039
 interact

00:29:10.039 --> 00:29:10.259
 with

00:29:10.259 --> 00:29:10.380
 them

00:29:10.380 --> 00:29:10.539
 and

00:29:10.539 --> 00:29:10.779
 treat

00:29:10.779 --> 00:29:11.019
 them

00:29:11.019 --> 00:29:11.160
 and

00:29:11.160 --> 00:29:11.400
 suddenly

00:29:11.400 --> 00:29:11.560
 you

00:29:11.560 --> 00:29:11.759
 don't

00:29:11.759 --> 00:29:12.019
 want

00:29:12.019 --> 00:29:12.120
 to

00:29:12.120 --> 00:29:12.259
 be

00:29:12.259 --> 00:29:12.560
 around

00:29:12.560 --> 00:29:12.900
 them

00:29:12.900 --> 00:29:13.799
 or

00:29:13.799 --> 00:29:14.160
 talk

00:29:14.160 --> 00:29:14.360
 with

00:29:14.360 --> 00:29:14.640
 them

00:29:14.640 --> 00:29:14.980
 at

00:29:14.980 --> 00:29:15.259
 church

00:29:15.259 --> 00:29:15.620
 anymore

00:29:15.620 --> 00:29:15.980
 or

00:29:15.980 --> 00:29:16.160
 if

00:29:16.160 --> 00:29:16.320
 you

00:29:16.320 --> 00:29:16.820
 have

00:29:16.820 --> 00:29:17.039
 to

00:29:17.039 --> 00:29:18.039
 keep

00:29:18.039 --> 00:29:18.220
 it

00:29:18.220 --> 00:29:18.600
 shallow

00:29:18.600 --> 00:29:19.860
 keep

00:29:19.860 --> 00:29:20.019
 it

00:29:20.019 --> 00:29:20.460
 pleasant

00:29:20.460 --> 00:29:23.200
 some

00:29:23.200 --> 00:29:23.440
 of you

00:29:23.440 --> 00:29:23.560
 are

00:29:23.560 --> 00:29:23.820
 holding

00:29:23.820 --> 00:29:24.080
 on

00:29:24.080 --> 00:29:24.259
 to

00:29:24.259 --> 00:29:24.580
 bitterness

00:29:24.580 --> 00:29:26.279
 and

00:29:26.279 --> 00:29:26.940
 grievances

00:29:26.940 --> 00:29:28.759
 some

00:29:28.759 --> 00:29:28.940
 of you

00:29:28.940 --> 00:29:29.080
 may

00:29:29.080 --> 00:29:29.299
 think

00:29:29.299 --> 00:29:29.460
 I'm

00:29:29.460 --> 00:29:29.779
 singling

00:29:29.779 --> 00:29:29.940
 you

00:29:29.940 --> 00:29:30.120
 out

00:29:30.120 --> 00:29:30.340
 in front

00:29:30.340 --> 00:29:30.420
 of

00:29:30.420 --> 00:29:30.519
 the

00:29:30.519 --> 00:29:30.960
 church

00:29:30.960 --> 00:29:31.180
 right

00:29:31.180 --> 00:29:31.340
 now

00:29:31.340 --> 00:29:31.500
 but

00:29:31.500 --> 00:29:31.620
 I

00:29:31.620 --> 00:29:32.019
 promise

00:29:32.019 --> 00:29:32.279
 I'm

00:29:32.279 --> 00:29:32.580
 not

00:29:32.579 --> 00:29:35.539
 I've

00:29:35.539 --> 00:29:35.699
 heard

00:29:35.699 --> 00:29:35.879
 and

00:29:35.879 --> 00:29:36.099
 seen

00:29:36.099 --> 00:29:36.279
 and

00:29:36.279 --> 00:29:36.579
 watched

00:29:36.579 --> 00:29:36.919
 this

00:29:36.919 --> 00:29:37.839
 similar

00:29:37.839 --> 00:29:38.199
 kind

00:29:38.199 --> 00:29:38.339
 of

00:29:38.339 --> 00:29:38.579
 thing

00:29:38.579 --> 00:29:39.000
 happen

00:29:39.000 --> 00:29:39.299
 quite

00:29:39.299 --> 00:29:39.579
 a few

00:29:39.579 --> 00:29:39.919
 times

00:29:39.919 --> 00:29:40.240
 between

00:29:40.240 --> 00:29:40.439
 a

00:29:40.439 --> 00:29:41.000
 variety

00:29:41.000 --> 00:29:41.259
 a

00:29:41.259 --> 00:29:41.599
 number

00:29:41.599 --> 00:29:41.859
 of

00:29:41.859 --> 00:29:42.179
 people

00:29:42.179 --> 00:29:42.439
 in

00:29:42.439 --> 00:29:42.720
 our

00:29:42.720 --> 00:29:42.939
 midst

00:29:42.939 --> 00:29:43.159
 over

00:29:43.159 --> 00:29:43.339
 the

00:29:43.339 --> 00:29:43.679
 past

00:29:43.679 --> 00:29:44.079
 five

00:29:44.079 --> 00:29:44.539
 years

00:29:44.539 --> 00:29:46.579
 and

00:29:46.579 --> 00:29:46.960
 I

00:29:46.960 --> 00:29:47.220
 don't

00:29:47.220 --> 00:29:47.440
 want

00:29:47.440 --> 00:29:47.559
 you

00:29:47.559 --> 00:29:47.700
 to

00:29:47.700 --> 00:29:47.940
 start

00:29:47.940 --> 00:29:48.240
 looking

00:29:48.240 --> 00:29:48.500
 around

00:29:48.500 --> 00:29:48.700
 the

00:29:48.700 --> 00:29:48.920
 room

00:29:48.920 --> 00:29:49.099
 and

00:29:49.099 --> 00:29:49.519
 wondering

00:29:49.519 --> 00:29:50.480
 who

00:29:50.480 --> 00:29:50.659
 are

00:29:50.659 --> 00:29:50.799
 the

00:29:50.799 --> 00:29:51.200
 offended

00:29:51.200 --> 00:29:51.799
 and

00:29:51.799 --> 00:29:51.980
 who

00:29:51.980 --> 00:29:52.119
 are

00:29:52.119 --> 00:29:52.279
 the

00:29:52.279 --> 00:29:52.740
 offenders

00:29:52.740 --> 00:29:53.799
 instead

00:29:53.799 --> 00:29:54.039
 I

00:29:54.039 --> 00:29:54.180
 want

00:29:54.180 --> 00:29:54.299
 to

00:29:54.299 --> 00:29:54.740
 encourage

00:29:54.740 --> 00:29:55.079
 each

00:29:55.079 --> 00:29:55.319
 one

00:29:55.319 --> 00:29:55.460
 of

00:29:55.460 --> 00:29:55.559
 you

00:29:55.559 --> 00:29:55.759
 to

00:29:55.759 --> 00:29:56.099
 pray

00:29:56.099 --> 00:29:57.019
 and

00:29:57.019 --> 00:29:57.180
 to

00:29:57.180 --> 00:29:57.500
 ask

00:29:57.500 --> 00:29:57.899
 God

00:29:57.899 --> 00:29:59.019
 about

00:29:59.019 --> 00:29:59.559
 yourself

00:29:59.559 --> 00:30:02.720
 I

00:30:02.720 --> 00:30:02.879
 want

00:30:02.879 --> 00:30:03.000
 you

00:30:03.000 --> 00:30:03.159
 to

00:30:03.159 --> 00:30:03.480
 ask

00:30:03.480 --> 00:30:03.799
 God

00:30:03.799 --> 00:30:04.119
 about

00:30:04.119 --> 00:30:04.879
 your

00:30:04.879 --> 00:30:05.619
 relationships

00:30:05.619 --> 00:30:06.039
 with

00:30:06.039 --> 00:30:06.440
 each

00:30:06.440 --> 00:30:06.839
 other

00:30:06.839 --> 00:30:07.399
 person

00:30:07.399 --> 00:30:09.099
 in

00:30:09.099 --> 00:30:09.339
 this

00:30:09.339 --> 00:30:09.619
 room

00:30:09.619 --> 00:30:09.940
 in

00:30:09.940 --> 00:30:10.159
 this

00:30:10.159 --> 00:30:10.559
 church

00:30:10.559 --> 00:30:13.480
 I

00:30:13.480 --> 00:30:13.619
 want

00:30:13.619 --> 00:30:13.720
 to

00:30:13.720 --> 00:30:14.059
 encourage

00:30:14.059 --> 00:30:14.200
 you

00:30:14.200 --> 00:30:14.359
 to

00:30:14.359 --> 00:30:14.659
 humble

00:30:14.659 --> 00:30:15.159
 yourself

00:30:15.159 --> 00:30:15.379
 and

00:30:15.379 --> 00:30:15.720
 ask

00:30:15.720 --> 00:30:16.039
 God

00:30:16.039 --> 00:30:16.220
 where

00:30:16.220 --> 00:30:16.440
 the

00:30:16.440 --> 00:30:16.879
 disconnect

00:30:16.879 --> 00:30:17.419
 has

00:30:17.419 --> 00:30:17.579
 been

00:30:17.579 --> 00:30:18.119
 happening

00:30:18.119 --> 00:30:19.139
 in

00:30:19.139 --> 00:30:19.440
 your

00:30:19.440 --> 00:30:19.899
 life

00:30:19.899 --> 00:30:21.279
 between

00:30:21.279 --> 00:30:21.639
 his

00:30:21.639 --> 00:30:21.940
 love

00:30:21.940 --> 00:30:22.279
 coming

00:30:22.279 --> 00:30:22.599
 in

00:30:22.599 --> 00:30:23.720
 and

00:30:23.720 --> 00:30:23.960
 your

00:30:23.960 --> 00:30:24.419
 love

00:30:24.419 --> 00:30:25.359
 going

00:30:25.359 --> 00:30:25.700
 out

00:30:25.700 --> 00:30:26.859
 to

00:30:26.859 --> 00:30:27.039
 one

00:30:27.039 --> 00:30:27.399
 another

00:30:27.399 --> 00:30:29.200
 don't

00:30:29.200 --> 00:30:29.480
 assume

00:30:29.480 --> 00:30:29.679
 it's

00:30:29.679 --> 00:30:29.859
 all

00:30:29.859 --> 00:30:30.099
 someone

00:30:30.099 --> 00:30:30.379
 else

00:30:30.379 --> 00:30:30.659
 that's

00:30:30.659 --> 00:30:30.799
 at

00:30:30.799 --> 00:30:31.099
 fault

00:30:31.099 --> 00:30:32.220
 you

00:30:32.220 --> 00:30:32.379
 know

00:30:32.379 --> 00:30:32.980
 some

00:30:32.980 --> 00:30:33.139
 of

00:30:33.139 --> 00:30:33.419
 these

00:30:33.419 --> 00:30:34.639
 conflicts

00:30:34.639 --> 00:30:35.139
 have

00:30:35.139 --> 00:30:35.339
 been

00:30:35.339 --> 00:30:35.839
 resolved

00:30:35.839 --> 00:30:36.299
 and

00:30:36.299 --> 00:30:36.519
 that's

00:30:36.519 --> 00:30:36.679
 a

00:30:36.679 --> 00:30:36.960
 joy

00:30:36.960 --> 00:30:37.240
 for

00:30:37.240 --> 00:30:37.419
 me

00:30:37.419 --> 00:30:37.619
 to

00:30:37.619 --> 00:30:37.919
 see

00:30:37.919 --> 00:30:38.240
 and

00:30:38.240 --> 00:30:38.579
 watch

00:30:38.579 --> 00:30:38.720
 as

00:30:38.720 --> 00:30:38.839
 a

00:30:38.839 --> 00:30:39.220
 pastor

00:30:39.220 --> 00:30:40.500
 people

00:30:40.500 --> 00:30:40.679
 have

00:30:40.679 --> 00:30:40.879
 had

00:30:40.879 --> 00:30:41.019
 the

00:30:41.019 --> 00:30:41.200
 heart

00:30:41.200 --> 00:30:41.359
 to

00:30:41.359 --> 00:30:41.500
 heart

00:30:41.500 --> 00:30:42.240
 conversation

00:30:42.240 --> 00:30:43.079
 they've

00:30:43.079 --> 00:30:43.399
 admitted

00:30:43.400 --> 00:30:44.160
 fault

00:30:44.160 --> 00:30:44.420
 to

00:30:44.420 --> 00:30:44.600
 one

00:30:44.600 --> 00:30:44.980
 another

00:30:44.980 --> 00:30:46.100
 apologized

00:30:46.100 --> 00:30:46.560
 and

00:30:46.560 --> 00:30:46.880
 asked

00:30:46.880 --> 00:30:47.080
 for

00:30:47.080 --> 00:30:47.500
 forgiveness

00:30:47.500 --> 00:30:49.820
 but it's

00:30:49.820 --> 00:30:50.340
 interesting

00:30:50.340 --> 00:30:50.740
 to me

00:30:50.740 --> 00:30:51.220
 how many

00:30:51.220 --> 00:30:51.640
 times

00:30:51.640 --> 00:30:52.040
 in those

00:30:52.040 --> 00:30:52.700
 situations

00:30:52.700 --> 00:30:56.680
 the

00:30:56.680 --> 00:30:57.000
 person

00:30:57.000 --> 00:30:57.220
 that

00:30:57.220 --> 00:30:58.000
 said

00:30:58.000 --> 00:30:58.360
 something

00:30:58.360 --> 00:30:58.519
 or

00:30:58.519 --> 00:30:58.740
 did

00:30:58.740 --> 00:30:59.059
 something

00:30:59.059 --> 00:30:59.340
 to

00:30:59.340 --> 00:30:59.720
 offend

00:30:59.720 --> 00:31:00.720
 they

00:31:00.720 --> 00:31:00.960
 weren't

00:31:00.960 --> 00:31:01.180
 even

00:31:01.180 --> 00:31:01.519
 aware

00:31:01.519 --> 00:31:01.759
 that

00:31:01.759 --> 00:31:01.920
 they

00:31:01.920 --> 00:31:03.380
 offended

00:31:03.380 --> 00:31:03.700
 you

00:31:03.700 --> 00:31:04.600
 or

00:31:04.600 --> 00:31:04.799
 did

00:31:04.799 --> 00:31:05.120
 something

00:31:05.120 --> 00:31:05.340
 to

00:31:05.340 --> 00:31:05.640
 offend

00:31:05.640 --> 00:31:05.819
 you

00:31:05.819 --> 00:31:06.160
 or hurt

00:31:06.160 --> 00:31:06.720
 you

00:31:06.720 --> 00:31:08.860
 misunderstanding

00:31:08.860 --> 00:31:09.819
 creeps in

00:31:09.819 --> 00:31:10.580
 so easily

00:31:10.580 --> 00:31:11.900
 and the

00:31:11.900 --> 00:31:12.140
 enemy

00:31:12.140 --> 00:31:12.680
 loves to

00:31:12.680 --> 00:31:13.039
 take a

00:31:13.039 --> 00:31:13.380
 hold of

00:31:13.380 --> 00:31:13.600
 those

00:31:13.600 --> 00:31:13.900
 things

00:31:13.900 --> 00:31:14.299
 and run

00:31:14.299 --> 00:31:14.519
 with

00:31:14.519 --> 00:31:14.779
 them

00:31:14.779 --> 00:31:15.640
 to

00:31:15.640 --> 00:31:16.019
 divide

00:31:16.019 --> 00:31:16.380
 us

00:31:16.380 --> 00:31:18.380
 the

00:31:18.380 --> 00:31:18.660
 kind

00:31:18.660 --> 00:31:18.819
 of

00:31:18.819 --> 00:31:19.039
 love

00:31:19.039 --> 00:31:19.240
 that

00:31:19.240 --> 00:31:19.500
 Jesus

00:31:19.500 --> 00:31:19.880
 has

00:31:19.880 --> 00:31:20.100
 for

00:31:20.100 --> 00:31:20.400
 us

00:31:20.400 --> 00:31:21.580
 it's

00:31:21.580 --> 00:31:21.840
 not

00:31:21.840 --> 00:31:22.320
 easy

00:31:22.320 --> 00:31:23.500
 to love

00:31:23.500 --> 00:31:23.900
 each other

00:31:23.900 --> 00:31:24.460
 like that

00:31:24.460 --> 00:31:25.300
 it takes

00:31:25.300 --> 00:31:25.759
 effort

00:31:25.759 --> 00:31:27.040
 it takes

00:31:27.040 --> 00:31:27.519
 courage

00:31:27.519 --> 00:31:27.920
 it takes

00:31:27.920 --> 00:31:28.820
 intentionality

00:31:28.820 --> 00:31:30.200
 it takes

00:31:30.200 --> 00:31:30.640
 heart

00:31:30.640 --> 00:31:32.420
 but

00:31:32.420 --> 00:31:32.700
 that's

00:31:32.700 --> 00:31:32.820
 what

00:31:32.820 --> 00:31:33.120
 Christ

00:31:33.120 --> 00:31:33.300
 has

00:31:33.300 --> 00:31:33.680
 commanded

00:31:33.680 --> 00:31:33.960
 and

00:31:33.960 --> 00:31:34.220
 that's

00:31:34.220 --> 00:31:34.360
 what

00:31:34.360 --> 00:31:34.580
 he

00:31:34.580 --> 00:31:34.940
 has

00:31:34.940 --> 00:31:35.640
 demonstrated

00:31:35.640 --> 00:31:36.600
 to

00:31:36.600 --> 00:31:36.860
 each

00:31:36.860 --> 00:31:37.080
 one

00:31:37.080 --> 00:31:37.220
 of

00:31:37.220 --> 00:31:37.560
 us

00:31:37.560 --> 00:31:40.180
 would

00:31:40.180 --> 00:31:40.320
 you

00:31:40.320 --> 00:31:40.740
 receive

00:31:40.740 --> 00:31:41.060
 that

00:31:41.060 --> 00:31:41.520
 wonderful

00:31:41.520 --> 00:31:41.840
 love

00:31:41.840 --> 00:31:42.040
 from

00:31:42.040 --> 00:31:42.320
 him

00:31:42.320 --> 00:31:43.940
 and

00:31:43.940 --> 00:31:44.120
 yet

00:31:44.120 --> 00:31:44.560
 withhold

00:31:44.560 --> 00:31:44.840
 it

00:31:44.840 --> 00:31:45.880
 from

00:31:45.880 --> 00:31:46.000
 a

00:31:46.000 --> 00:31:46.300
 brother

00:31:46.300 --> 00:31:47.500
 or

00:31:47.500 --> 00:31:47.900
 sister

00:31:47.900 --> 00:31:50.560
 the

00:31:50.560 --> 00:31:50.900
 gospel

00:31:50.900 --> 00:31:51.120
 is

00:31:51.120 --> 00:31:51.340
 not

00:31:51.340 --> 00:31:51.520
 that

00:31:51.520 --> 00:31:51.660
 we

00:31:51.660 --> 00:31:51.840
 will

00:31:51.840 --> 00:31:52.120
 ever

00:31:52.120 --> 00:31:52.340
 be

00:31:52.340 --> 00:31:52.520
 good

00:31:52.520 --> 00:31:52.820
 enough

00:31:52.820 --> 00:31:53.780
 to

00:31:53.780 --> 00:31:54.160
 deserve

00:31:54.160 --> 00:31:54.580
 God's

00:31:54.580 --> 00:31:54.880
 love

00:31:54.880 --> 00:31:55.320
 or

00:31:55.320 --> 00:31:55.660
 each

00:31:55.660 --> 00:31:56.040
 other's

00:31:56.040 --> 00:31:56.320
 love

00:31:56.319 --> 00:31:58.039
 the gospel

00:31:58.039 --> 00:31:58.659
 is that

00:31:58.659 --> 00:31:59.099
 God

00:31:59.099 --> 00:31:59.539
 has

00:31:59.539 --> 00:31:59.939
 loved

00:31:59.939 --> 00:32:00.299
 us

00:32:00.299 --> 00:32:00.700
 through

00:32:00.700 --> 00:32:01.279
 Christ

00:32:01.279 --> 00:32:02.179
 and

00:32:02.179 --> 00:32:02.539
 made

00:32:02.539 --> 00:32:02.980
 us

00:32:02.980 --> 00:32:03.559
 one

00:32:03.559 --> 00:32:04.439
 with

00:32:04.439 --> 00:32:04.659
 each

00:32:04.659 --> 00:32:04.939
 other

00:32:04.939 --> 00:32:05.240
 in

00:32:05.240 --> 00:32:05.579
 him

00:32:05.579 --> 00:32:07.359
 one

00:32:07.359 --> 00:32:07.819
 body

00:32:07.819 --> 00:32:08.980
 one

00:32:08.980 --> 00:32:09.500
 faith

00:32:09.500 --> 00:32:10.039
 one

00:32:10.039 --> 00:32:10.439
 Lord

00:32:10.439 --> 00:32:10.899
 one

00:32:10.899 --> 00:32:11.779
 spirit

00:32:11.779 --> 00:32:14.279
 okay

00:32:14.279 --> 00:32:14.740
 okay

00:32:14.740 --> 00:32:15.279
 I get

00:32:15.279 --> 00:32:15.519
 it

00:32:15.519 --> 00:32:16.039
 yes

00:32:16.039 --> 00:32:16.639
 I need

00:32:16.639 --> 00:32:17.099
 to love

00:32:17.099 --> 00:32:18.179
 my

00:32:18.179 --> 00:32:18.460
 fellow

00:32:18.460 --> 00:32:18.980
 Christians

00:32:18.980 --> 00:32:22.039
 but that

00:32:22.039 --> 00:32:22.279
 doesn't

00:32:22.279 --> 00:32:22.539
 mean I

00:32:22.539 --> 00:32:22.819
 need to

00:32:22.819 --> 00:32:23.120
 like

00:32:23.120 --> 00:32:23.400
 them

00:32:23.400 --> 00:32:23.860
 right

00:32:23.860 --> 00:32:25.680
 that

00:32:25.680 --> 00:32:25.900
 doesn't

00:32:25.900 --> 00:32:26.140
 mean I

00:32:26.140 --> 00:32:26.360
 need to

00:32:26.360 --> 00:32:26.759
 be best

00:32:26.759 --> 00:32:27.079
 friends

00:32:27.079 --> 00:32:27.279
 with

00:32:27.279 --> 00:32:27.420
 them

00:32:27.420 --> 00:32:27.740
 right

00:32:27.740 --> 00:32:30.519
 this

00:32:30.519 --> 00:32:30.759
 is an

00:32:30.759 --> 00:32:31.059
 attitude

00:32:31.059 --> 00:32:31.440
 I've

00:32:31.440 --> 00:32:31.620
 heard

00:32:31.620 --> 00:32:32.019
 and seen

00:32:32.019 --> 00:32:32.319
 in our

00:32:32.319 --> 00:32:32.620
 church

00:32:32.620 --> 00:32:33.279
 as well

00:32:33.279 --> 00:32:34.140
 and it

00:32:34.140 --> 00:32:34.519
 too

00:32:34.519 --> 00:32:35.539
 falls

00:32:35.539 --> 00:32:35.920
 short

00:32:35.920 --> 00:32:37.039
 of the

00:32:37.039 --> 00:32:37.279
 love

00:32:37.279 --> 00:32:37.480
 that

00:32:37.480 --> 00:32:37.819
 Christ

00:32:37.819 --> 00:32:38.079
 has

00:32:38.079 --> 00:32:38.500
 commanded

00:32:38.500 --> 00:32:40.380
 you've

00:32:40.380 --> 00:32:40.660
 heard it

00:32:40.660 --> 00:32:40.900
 said

00:32:40.900 --> 00:32:41.160
 that

00:32:41.160 --> 00:32:42.420
 we

00:32:42.420 --> 00:32:42.880
 are

00:32:42.880 --> 00:32:43.059
 the

00:32:43.059 --> 00:32:43.420
 Bible

00:32:43.420 --> 00:32:43.720
 that

00:32:43.720 --> 00:32:43.980
 most

00:32:43.980 --> 00:32:44.360
 people

00:32:44.360 --> 00:32:44.759
 read

00:32:44.759 --> 00:32:48.779
 I

00:32:48.779 --> 00:32:48.960
 wonder

00:32:48.960 --> 00:32:49.140
 what

00:32:49.140 --> 00:32:49.339
 kind

00:32:49.339 --> 00:32:49.480
 of

00:32:49.480 --> 00:32:49.779
 Bible

00:32:49.779 --> 00:32:50.220
 people

00:32:50.220 --> 00:32:50.960
 outside

00:32:50.960 --> 00:32:51.220
 this

00:32:51.220 --> 00:32:51.519
 church

00:32:51.519 --> 00:32:51.700
 are

00:32:51.700 --> 00:32:52.039
 reading

00:32:52.039 --> 00:32:52.400
 when they

00:32:52.400 --> 00:32:52.940
 interact

00:32:52.940 --> 00:32:53.299
 with you

00:32:53.299 --> 00:32:53.619
 outside

00:32:53.619 --> 00:32:54.000
 these

00:32:54.000 --> 00:32:54.420
 walls

00:32:54.420 --> 00:32:55.359
 do they

00:32:55.359 --> 00:32:55.660
 read

00:32:55.660 --> 00:32:56.000
 from your

00:32:56.000 --> 00:32:56.379
 life

00:32:56.379 --> 00:32:57.480
 a love

00:32:57.480 --> 00:32:57.799
 like

00:32:57.799 --> 00:32:58.279
 Jesus

00:32:58.279 --> 00:32:59.000
 has

00:32:59.000 --> 00:32:59.660
 for us

00:32:59.660 --> 00:33:02.500
 or in

00:33:02.500 --> 00:33:02.859
 the Bible

00:33:02.859 --> 00:33:03.359
 they read

00:33:03.359 --> 00:33:03.680
 from you

00:33:03.680 --> 00:33:04.119
 did Jesus

00:33:04.119 --> 00:33:04.400
 say

00:33:04.400 --> 00:33:04.819
 this is

00:33:04.819 --> 00:33:05.039
 my

00:33:05.039 --> 00:33:05.480
 command

00:33:05.480 --> 00:33:07.839
 just

00:33:07.839 --> 00:33:08.420
 tolerate

00:33:08.420 --> 00:33:08.779
 each

00:33:08.779 --> 00:33:09.119
 other

00:33:09.119 --> 00:33:12.000
 yes

00:33:12.000 --> 00:33:12.740
 I have

00:33:12.740 --> 00:33:12.980
 seen

00:33:12.980 --> 00:33:13.299
 and heard

00:33:13.299 --> 00:33:13.579
 this

00:33:13.579 --> 00:33:14.099
 expressed

00:33:14.099 --> 00:33:14.439
 in our

00:33:14.439 --> 00:33:14.659
 own

00:33:14.659 --> 00:33:15.059
 church

00:33:15.059 --> 00:33:16.240
 just

00:33:16.240 --> 00:33:16.779
 tolerate

00:33:16.779 --> 00:33:17.119
 each

00:33:17.119 --> 00:33:17.399
 other

00:33:17.399 --> 00:33:19.480
 that's

00:33:19.480 --> 00:33:19.639
 good

00:33:19.639 --> 00:33:20.000
 enough

00:33:20.000 --> 00:33:20.679
 that's

00:33:20.679 --> 00:33:21.279
 that's

00:33:21.279 --> 00:33:22.139
 that's

00:33:22.139 --> 00:33:22.359
 being

00:33:22.359 --> 00:33:22.819
 faithful

00:33:22.819 --> 00:33:25.459
 and it

00:33:25.459 --> 00:33:25.639
 might

00:33:25.639 --> 00:33:25.959
 actually

00:33:25.959 --> 00:33:26.419
 describe

00:33:26.419 --> 00:33:26.799
 many of

00:33:26.799 --> 00:33:26.899
 the

00:33:26.899 --> 00:33:27.480
 relationships

00:33:27.480 --> 00:33:28.019
 that some

00:33:28.019 --> 00:33:28.279
 of us

00:33:28.279 --> 00:33:28.599
 are used

00:33:28.599 --> 00:33:29.039
 to having

00:33:29.039 --> 00:33:29.240
 with

00:33:29.240 --> 00:33:29.559
 difficult

00:33:29.559 --> 00:33:30.099
 people

00:33:30.099 --> 00:33:31.559
 in

00:33:31.559 --> 00:33:32.199
 families

00:33:32.199 --> 00:33:33.439
 or

00:33:33.439 --> 00:33:33.980
 friends

00:33:33.980 --> 00:33:34.719
 but it

00:33:34.719 --> 00:33:35.099
 still

00:33:35.099 --> 00:33:35.559
 falls

00:33:35.559 --> 00:33:35.980
 short

00:33:35.980 --> 00:33:37.139
 of how

00:33:37.139 --> 00:33:37.579
 Jesus

00:33:37.579 --> 00:33:38.059
 has

00:33:38.059 --> 00:33:38.559
 loved

00:33:38.559 --> 00:33:39.559
 us

00:33:39.559 --> 00:33:41.919
 did he

00:33:41.919 --> 00:33:42.500
 just put

00:33:42.500 --> 00:33:42.879
 up with

00:33:42.879 --> 00:33:43.099
 those

00:33:43.099 --> 00:33:43.439
 twelve

00:33:43.439 --> 00:33:43.779
 men

00:33:43.779 --> 00:33:44.240
 did he

00:33:44.240 --> 00:33:44.420
 just

00:33:44.420 --> 00:33:45.039
 tolerate

00:33:45.039 --> 00:33:45.460
 them

00:33:45.460 --> 00:33:48.319
 we know

00:33:48.319 --> 00:33:48.779
 his love

00:33:48.779 --> 00:33:49.559
 went way

00:33:49.559 --> 00:33:50.399
 way

00:33:50.399 --> 00:33:51.339
 beyond

00:33:51.339 --> 00:33:51.720
 that

00:33:51.720 --> 00:33:53.059
 we just

00:33:53.059 --> 00:33:53.500
 saw how

00:33:53.500 --> 00:33:54.160
 he washed

00:33:54.160 --> 00:33:54.799
 the feet

00:33:54.799 --> 00:33:55.639
 of Judas

00:33:55.639 --> 00:33:57.920
 knowing

00:33:57.920 --> 00:33:58.420
 what was

00:33:58.420 --> 00:33:58.700
 in his

00:33:58.700 --> 00:33:59.039
 heart

00:33:59.039 --> 00:34:02.079
 and Jesus

00:34:02.079 --> 00:34:02.559
 is saying

00:34:02.559 --> 00:34:02.920
 here that

00:34:02.920 --> 00:34:03.480
 our love

00:34:03.480 --> 00:34:04.359
 it must

00:34:04.359 --> 00:34:04.859
 go beyond

00:34:04.859 --> 00:34:05.420
 that too

00:34:05.420 --> 00:34:06.519
 not just

00:34:06.519 --> 00:34:07.000
 tolerate

00:34:07.000 --> 00:34:07.980
 but love

00:34:07.980 --> 00:34:08.599
 one another

00:34:08.599 --> 00:34:09.739
 as I

00:34:09.739 --> 00:34:10.440
 have loved

00:34:10.440 --> 00:34:11.179
 you

00:34:11.179 --> 00:34:13.599
 doesn't

00:34:13.599 --> 00:34:13.800
 mean

00:34:13.800 --> 00:34:14.099
 that there

00:34:14.099 --> 00:34:14.280
 won't

00:34:14.280 --> 00:34:14.440
 be

00:34:14.440 --> 00:34:14.940
 conflict

00:34:14.940 --> 00:34:15.220
 it

00:34:15.220 --> 00:34:15.519
 doesn't

00:34:15.519 --> 00:34:15.740
 mean

00:34:15.740 --> 00:34:15.980
 that

00:34:15.980 --> 00:34:16.440
 we

00:34:16.440 --> 00:34:16.619
 will

00:34:16.619 --> 00:34:16.860
 never

00:34:16.860 --> 00:34:17.240
 say

00:34:17.240 --> 00:34:17.539
 things

00:34:17.539 --> 00:34:17.840
 or do

00:34:17.840 --> 00:34:18.240
 things

00:34:18.240 --> 00:34:19.139
 to hurt

00:34:19.139 --> 00:34:19.500
 or offend

00:34:19.500 --> 00:34:19.900
 each other

00:34:19.900 --> 00:34:20.519
 we will

00:34:20.519 --> 00:34:21.820
 things won't

00:34:21.820 --> 00:34:22.300
 always be

00:34:22.300 --> 00:34:22.720
 pleasant

00:34:22.720 --> 00:34:24.840
 but yes

00:34:24.840 --> 00:34:25.280
 it does

00:34:25.280 --> 00:34:25.599
 mean

00:34:25.599 --> 00:34:25.940
 that we

00:34:25.940 --> 00:34:26.340
 have to

00:34:26.340 --> 00:34:26.500
 be

00:34:26.500 --> 00:34:27.019
 friends

00:34:27.019 --> 00:34:29.559
 it does

00:34:29.559 --> 00:34:29.840
 mean

00:34:29.840 --> 00:34:30.099
 that we

00:34:30.099 --> 00:34:30.539
 have to

00:34:30.539 --> 00:34:30.800
 be

00:34:30.800 --> 00:34:31.480
 in each

00:34:31.480 --> 00:34:31.820
 other's

00:34:31.820 --> 00:34:32.079
 lives

00:34:32.079 --> 00:34:32.400
 more

00:34:32.400 --> 00:34:32.860
 than that

00:34:32.860 --> 00:34:33.920
 it means

00:34:33.920 --> 00:34:34.179
 that we

00:34:34.179 --> 00:34:34.300
 are

00:34:34.300 --> 00:34:34.920
 family

00:34:34.920 --> 00:34:36.200
 in the

00:34:36.200 --> 00:34:36.400
 Lord

00:34:36.400 --> 00:34:36.940
 Jesus

00:34:36.940 --> 00:34:38.159
 brothers

00:34:38.159 --> 00:34:38.800
 and sisters

00:34:38.800 --> 00:34:39.340
 forever

00:34:39.340 --> 00:34:41.539
 and here's

00:34:41.539 --> 00:34:41.880
 the good

00:34:41.880 --> 00:34:42.260
 news

00:34:42.260 --> 00:34:44.240
 with God's

00:34:44.240 --> 00:34:44.659
 help

00:34:44.659 --> 00:34:45.619
 by the

00:34:45.619 --> 00:34:46.059
 power of

00:34:46.059 --> 00:34:46.700
 his spirit

00:34:46.700 --> 00:34:47.220
 that lives

00:34:47.220 --> 00:34:47.599
 in us

00:34:47.599 --> 00:34:48.340
 we don't

00:34:48.340 --> 00:34:48.720
 have to

00:34:48.720 --> 00:34:49.039
 be a

00:34:49.039 --> 00:34:50.019
 dysfunctional

00:34:50.019 --> 00:34:51.099
 and divided

00:34:51.099 --> 00:34:52.240
 arguing

00:34:52.240 --> 00:34:52.780
 fighting

00:34:52.780 --> 00:34:53.500
 family

00:34:53.500 --> 00:34:54.659
 we see

00:34:54.659 --> 00:34:55.760
 that happen

00:34:55.760 --> 00:34:56.200
 in our

00:34:56.200 --> 00:34:56.539
 world

00:34:56.539 --> 00:34:57.680
 that's

00:34:57.680 --> 00:34:58.059
 normal

00:34:58.059 --> 00:34:58.619
 for many

00:34:58.619 --> 00:35:00.200
 but with

00:35:00.200 --> 00:35:00.579
 God's

00:35:00.579 --> 00:35:00.980
 power

00:35:00.980 --> 00:35:01.900
 with his

00:35:01.900 --> 00:35:02.220
 spirit

00:35:02.220 --> 00:35:02.639
 in us

00:35:02.639 --> 00:35:03.039
 we can

00:35:03.039 --> 00:35:03.840
 actually rise

00:35:03.840 --> 00:35:04.420
 above that

00:35:04.420 --> 00:35:07.740
 but it

00:35:07.740 --> 00:35:08.240
 starts with

00:35:08.240 --> 00:35:08.599
 all of

00:35:08.599 --> 00:35:08.980
 us

00:35:08.980 --> 00:35:09.920
 humbly

00:35:09.920 --> 00:35:10.599
 admitting

00:35:10.599 --> 00:35:13.139
 to God

00:35:13.139 --> 00:35:15.019
 that we

00:35:15.019 --> 00:35:15.720
 fall short

00:35:15.720 --> 00:35:16.300
 of this

00:35:16.300 --> 00:35:17.200
 glorious

00:35:17.200 --> 00:35:18.220
 kind of

00:35:18.220 --> 00:35:18.480
 love

00:35:18.480 --> 00:35:18.860
 that he

00:35:18.860 --> 00:35:19.099
 has

00:35:19.099 --> 00:35:19.539
 commanded

00:35:19.539 --> 00:35:20.420
 it starts

00:35:20.420 --> 00:35:20.860
 with all

00:35:20.860 --> 00:35:21.200
 of us

00:35:21.200 --> 00:35:21.840
 asking him

00:35:21.840 --> 00:35:22.380
 to change

00:35:22.380 --> 00:35:22.960
 our hearts

00:35:22.960 --> 00:35:25.720
 to teach

00:35:25.720 --> 00:35:26.180
 us that

00:35:26.180 --> 00:35:26.840
 way of

00:35:26.840 --> 00:35:27.440
 real

00:35:27.440 --> 00:35:28.460
 authentic

00:35:28.460 --> 00:35:30.200
 kindness

00:35:30.200 --> 00:35:32.599
 gentleness

00:35:32.599 --> 00:35:34.200
 compassion

00:35:34.199 --> 00:35:34.819
 compassion

00:35:34.819 --> 00:35:37.259
 humility

00:35:37.259 --> 00:35:40.519
 and so

00:35:40.519 --> 00:35:40.879
 this is

00:35:40.879 --> 00:35:41.159
 something

00:35:41.159 --> 00:35:41.599
 that I

00:35:41.599 --> 00:35:42.000
 especially

00:35:42.000 --> 00:35:42.359
 want to

00:35:42.359 --> 00:35:42.659
 grow in

00:35:42.659 --> 00:35:43.139
 myself

00:35:43.139 --> 00:35:44.119
 this year

00:35:44.119 --> 00:35:44.939
 in 2023

00:35:44.939 --> 00:35:46.079
 by God's

00:35:46.079 --> 00:35:46.279
 grace

00:35:46.279 --> 00:35:46.819
 I'm praying

00:35:46.819 --> 00:35:47.299
 that God

00:35:47.299 --> 00:35:47.779
 will make

00:35:47.779 --> 00:35:48.319
 me

00:35:48.319 --> 00:35:49.599
 a more

00:35:49.599 --> 00:35:50.319
 loving

00:35:50.319 --> 00:35:51.079
 person

00:35:51.079 --> 00:35:53.239
 more like

00:35:53.239 --> 00:35:53.599
 Jesus

00:35:53.599 --> 00:35:54.199
 in the way

00:35:54.199 --> 00:35:54.480
 that I

00:35:54.480 --> 00:35:54.980
 think about

00:35:54.980 --> 00:35:55.960
 and treat

00:35:55.960 --> 00:35:56.939
 each one

00:35:56.939 --> 00:35:57.299
 of you

00:35:57.299 --> 00:35:58.980
 the way

00:35:58.980 --> 00:35:59.259
 I think

00:35:59.259 --> 00:35:59.659
 about and

00:35:59.659 --> 00:35:59.939
 treat

00:35:59.940 --> 00:36:01.099
 each

00:36:01.099 --> 00:36:01.400
 person

00:36:01.400 --> 00:36:01.700
 in my

00:36:01.700 --> 00:36:02.079
 family

00:36:02.079 --> 00:36:05.220
 I want

00:36:05.220 --> 00:36:05.679
 to encourage

00:36:05.679 --> 00:36:06.039
 you to

00:36:06.039 --> 00:36:06.400
 make it

00:36:06.400 --> 00:36:06.900
 your prayer

00:36:06.900 --> 00:36:07.360
 too

00:36:07.360 --> 00:36:09.460
 in this

00:36:09.460 --> 00:36:09.720
 year

00:36:09.720 --> 00:36:11.280
 is there

00:36:11.280 --> 00:36:11.740
 someone in

00:36:11.740 --> 00:36:12.179
 this church

00:36:12.179 --> 00:36:12.659
 who you need

00:36:12.659 --> 00:36:12.980
 to sit

00:36:12.980 --> 00:36:13.539
 down with

00:36:13.539 --> 00:36:15.500
 and apologize

00:36:15.500 --> 00:36:15.940
 to

00:36:15.940 --> 00:36:17.880
 is there

00:36:17.880 --> 00:36:18.320
 someone in

00:36:18.320 --> 00:36:18.720
 this church

00:36:18.720 --> 00:36:19.099
 who you need

00:36:19.099 --> 00:36:19.639
 to talk to

00:36:19.639 --> 00:36:20.280
 because they've

00:36:20.280 --> 00:36:20.780
 wronged you

00:36:20.780 --> 00:36:23.240
 and you

00:36:23.240 --> 00:36:23.700
 can't seem

00:36:23.700 --> 00:36:24.380
 to overlook

00:36:24.380 --> 00:36:24.720
 it

00:36:24.720 --> 00:36:27.019
 maybe there's

00:36:27.019 --> 00:36:27.460
 something they

00:36:27.460 --> 00:36:27.920
 said or

00:36:27.920 --> 00:36:28.320
 did

00:36:28.320 --> 00:36:30.880
 it's just

00:36:30.880 --> 00:36:31.740
 eating you up

00:36:31.740 --> 00:36:32.160
 inside

00:36:32.160 --> 00:36:32.960
 it's festering

00:36:32.960 --> 00:36:34.600
 what did

00:36:34.600 --> 00:36:35.240
 Jesus say

00:36:35.240 --> 00:36:36.260
 Matthew 18

00:36:36.260 --> 00:36:36.980
 verse 15

00:36:36.980 --> 00:36:37.600
 if your brother

00:36:37.600 --> 00:36:38.060
 or sister

00:36:38.060 --> 00:36:38.560
 sins

00:36:38.560 --> 00:36:39.840
 go and point

00:36:39.840 --> 00:36:40.300
 out their

00:36:40.300 --> 00:36:40.580
 fault

00:36:40.580 --> 00:36:41.640
 just between

00:36:41.640 --> 00:36:42.060
 the two

00:36:42.060 --> 00:36:42.440
 of you

00:36:42.440 --> 00:36:43.800
 if they

00:36:43.800 --> 00:36:44.300
 listen to

00:36:44.300 --> 00:36:44.460
 you

00:36:44.460 --> 00:36:44.780
 you have

00:36:44.780 --> 00:36:45.140
 won them

00:36:45.140 --> 00:36:45.519
 over

00:36:45.519 --> 00:36:47.280
 or Colossians

00:36:47.280 --> 00:36:47.920
 3 13

00:36:47.920 --> 00:36:49.400
 bear with

00:36:49.400 --> 00:36:50.000
 each other

00:36:50.000 --> 00:36:51.340
 it's another

00:36:51.340 --> 00:36:51.739
 word for

00:36:51.739 --> 00:36:52.119
 tolerate

00:36:52.119 --> 00:36:52.699
 so yes

00:36:52.699 --> 00:36:53.119
 tolerate

00:36:53.119 --> 00:36:53.619
 is part

00:36:53.619 --> 00:36:53.840
 of it

00:36:53.840 --> 00:36:54.659
 bear with

00:36:54.659 --> 00:36:55.119
 each other

00:36:55.119 --> 00:36:56.239
 and forgive

00:36:56.239 --> 00:36:56.920
 one another

00:36:56.920 --> 00:36:57.639
 if any of

00:36:57.639 --> 00:36:57.960
 you has

00:36:57.960 --> 00:36:58.940
 a grievance

00:36:58.940 --> 00:37:00.559
 against

00:37:00.559 --> 00:37:01.460
 someone

00:37:01.460 --> 00:37:02.360
 forgive as

00:37:02.360 --> 00:37:02.679
 the Lord

00:37:02.679 --> 00:37:03.280
 forgave you

00:37:03.280 --> 00:37:03.579
 do you

00:37:03.579 --> 00:37:03.860
 have a

00:37:03.860 --> 00:37:04.340
 grievance

00:37:04.340 --> 00:37:04.719
 against

00:37:04.719 --> 00:37:05.260
 someone

00:37:05.260 --> 00:37:06.179
 in this

00:37:06.179 --> 00:37:06.639
 church

00:37:06.639 --> 00:37:08.440
 that you've

00:37:08.440 --> 00:37:08.900
 been carrying

00:37:08.900 --> 00:37:09.579
 for a while

00:37:09.579 --> 00:37:12.320
 I want to

00:37:12.320 --> 00:37:12.800
 say to each

00:37:12.800 --> 00:37:13.280
 one of you

00:37:13.280 --> 00:37:14.039
 this morning

00:37:14.039 --> 00:37:15.920
 if there is

00:37:15.920 --> 00:37:16.579
 anything that

00:37:16.579 --> 00:37:17.780
 I have said

00:37:17.780 --> 00:37:18.400
 or done

00:37:18.400 --> 00:37:18.820
 that has

00:37:18.820 --> 00:37:19.440
 offended or

00:37:19.440 --> 00:37:19.980
 hurt you

00:37:19.980 --> 00:37:21.960
 please

00:37:21.960 --> 00:37:24.139
 tell me

00:37:24.139 --> 00:37:24.740
 come talk

00:37:24.740 --> 00:37:25.280
 to me

00:37:25.280 --> 00:37:27.940
 as far as

00:37:27.940 --> 00:37:28.340
 it depends

00:37:28.340 --> 00:37:28.679
 on me

00:37:28.679 --> 00:37:29.079
 I want to

00:37:29.079 --> 00:37:29.840
 take responsibility

00:37:29.840 --> 00:37:30.599
 for that

00:37:30.599 --> 00:37:31.099
 and I want

00:37:31.099 --> 00:37:31.380
 to make

00:37:31.380 --> 00:37:31.840
 it right

00:37:31.840 --> 00:37:35.599
 this is so

00:37:35.599 --> 00:37:36.240
 important for

00:37:36.240 --> 00:37:36.699
 us as a

00:37:36.699 --> 00:37:37.039
 church

00:37:37.039 --> 00:37:39.820
 if we grow

00:37:39.820 --> 00:37:40.480
 in every

00:37:40.480 --> 00:37:41.300
 other way

00:37:41.300 --> 00:37:42.099
 as a church

00:37:42.099 --> 00:37:43.139
 but fail

00:37:43.139 --> 00:37:43.980
 in this way

00:37:43.980 --> 00:37:45.380
 to love

00:37:45.380 --> 00:37:45.940
 one another

00:37:45.940 --> 00:37:46.980
 as Christ

00:37:46.980 --> 00:37:47.420
 has loved

00:37:47.420 --> 00:37:47.719
 us

00:37:47.719 --> 00:37:48.159
 it can

00:37:48.159 --> 00:37:48.599
 spoil

00:37:48.599 --> 00:37:49.659
 and hinder

00:37:49.659 --> 00:37:50.759
 everything

00:37:50.759 --> 00:37:52.439
 as Paul

00:37:52.439 --> 00:37:52.879
 says in

00:37:52.879 --> 00:37:53.339
 that famous

00:37:53.339 --> 00:37:54.000
 love chapter

00:37:54.000 --> 00:37:54.659
 1st Corinthians

00:37:54.659 --> 00:37:55.119
 13

00:37:55.119 --> 00:37:56.039
 we could have

00:37:56.039 --> 00:37:56.559
 all the

00:37:56.559 --> 00:37:57.699
 faith in

00:37:57.699 --> 00:37:58.059
 the world

00:37:58.059 --> 00:37:58.579
 faith enough

00:37:58.579 --> 00:37:59.079
 to move

00:37:59.079 --> 00:37:59.599
 mountains

00:37:59.599 --> 00:38:00.059
 we could

00:38:00.059 --> 00:38:01.019
 understand all

00:38:01.019 --> 00:38:01.519
 mysteries

00:38:01.519 --> 00:38:02.039
 have all

00:38:02.039 --> 00:38:02.619
 knowledge

00:38:02.619 --> 00:38:03.339
 we could have

00:38:03.339 --> 00:38:03.699
 all the

00:38:03.699 --> 00:38:04.279
 giftedness

00:38:04.279 --> 00:38:04.679
 all the

00:38:04.679 --> 00:38:05.039
 self

00:38:05.039 --> 00:38:05.899
 sacrifice

00:38:05.899 --> 00:38:07.119
 and devotion

00:38:07.119 --> 00:38:07.739
 to God

00:38:07.739 --> 00:38:08.439
 but if we

00:38:08.439 --> 00:38:09.019
 don't have

00:38:09.019 --> 00:38:09.519
 love

00:38:09.519 --> 00:38:10.819
 it all

00:38:10.819 --> 00:38:11.439
 amounts to

00:38:11.439 --> 00:38:11.919
 nothing

00:38:11.920 --> 00:38:15.700
 everything

00:38:15.700 --> 00:38:16.139
 is at

00:38:16.139 --> 00:38:16.500
 stake

00:38:16.500 --> 00:38:16.900
 with this

00:38:16.900 --> 00:38:17.159
 one

00:38:17.159 --> 00:38:17.579
 command

00:38:17.579 --> 00:38:18.960
 of

00:38:18.960 --> 00:38:19.420
 Christ

00:38:19.420 --> 00:38:22.440
 love

00:38:22.440 --> 00:38:22.960
 one

00:38:22.960 --> 00:38:23.340
 another

00:38:23.340 --> 00:38:24.079
 as I

00:38:24.079 --> 00:38:24.320
 have

00:38:24.320 --> 00:38:24.659
 loved

00:38:24.659 --> 00:38:25.380
 you

00:38:25.380 --> 00:38:26.039
 it has

00:38:26.039 --> 00:38:26.599
 to flow

00:38:26.599 --> 00:38:27.460
 from him

00:38:27.460 --> 00:38:28.260
 to us

00:38:28.260 --> 00:38:28.900
 and from

00:38:28.900 --> 00:38:29.300
 us

00:38:29.300 --> 00:38:30.659
 to each

00:38:30.659 --> 00:38:30.940
 other

00:38:30.940 --> 00:38:32.740
 it's by

00:38:32.740 --> 00:38:33.280
 this that

00:38:33.280 --> 00:38:33.860
 everyone will

00:38:33.860 --> 00:38:34.139
 know

00:38:34.139 --> 00:38:35.539
 that we

00:38:35.539 --> 00:38:35.960
 are

00:38:35.960 --> 00:38:37.360
 disciples

00:38:37.360 --> 00:38:38.139
 of

00:38:38.139 --> 00:38:38.500
 Jesus

00:38:38.500 --> 00:38:42.280
 let's

00:38:42.280 --> 00:38:42.579
 pray

00:38:42.579 --> 00:38:50.480
 father in

00:38:50.480 --> 00:38:50.860
 heaven we

00:38:50.860 --> 00:38:51.260
 want to

00:38:51.260 --> 00:38:51.880
 confess we

00:38:51.880 --> 00:38:52.260
 want to

00:38:52.260 --> 00:38:54.039
 admit our

00:38:54.039 --> 00:38:55.659
 own failings

00:38:55.659 --> 00:38:56.980
 to you

00:38:56.980 --> 00:38:59.440
 forgive us

00:38:59.440 --> 00:38:59.780
 for the

00:38:59.780 --> 00:39:00.260
 times when

00:39:00.260 --> 00:39:00.619
 we have

00:39:00.619 --> 00:39:01.460
 not shown

00:39:01.460 --> 00:39:02.400
 the love

00:39:02.400 --> 00:39:02.940
 you modeled

00:39:02.940 --> 00:39:03.579
 to one

00:39:03.579 --> 00:39:03.940
 another

00:39:03.940 --> 00:39:06.519
 forgive us

00:39:06.519 --> 00:39:06.780
 for the

00:39:06.780 --> 00:39:07.260
 times we've

00:39:07.260 --> 00:39:07.880
 hurt people

00:39:07.880 --> 00:39:10.300
 said things

00:39:10.300 --> 00:39:10.680
 we shouldn't

00:39:10.680 --> 00:39:11.140
 have said

00:39:11.140 --> 00:39:11.760
 done things

00:39:11.760 --> 00:39:12.140
 we shouldn't

00:39:12.140 --> 00:39:12.519
 have done

00:39:12.519 --> 00:39:15.099
 thank you

00:39:15.099 --> 00:39:15.900
 Lord Jesus

00:39:15.900 --> 00:39:16.420
 that you

00:39:16.420 --> 00:39:16.840
 died

00:39:16.840 --> 00:39:18.200
 so that we

00:39:18.200 --> 00:39:18.500
 could be

00:39:18.500 --> 00:39:19.140
 forgiven of

00:39:19.140 --> 00:39:19.680
 all of it

00:39:19.680 --> 00:39:22.980
 and now we

00:39:22.980 --> 00:39:23.720
 pray and ask

00:39:23.720 --> 00:39:24.099
 that you

00:39:24.099 --> 00:39:24.360
 would

00:39:24.360 --> 00:39:25.940
 you would

00:39:25.940 --> 00:39:26.680
 come and

00:39:26.680 --> 00:39:27.920
 fix that

00:39:27.920 --> 00:39:28.500
 disconnect

00:39:28.500 --> 00:39:29.400
 in our

00:39:29.400 --> 00:39:29.720
 hearts

00:39:29.720 --> 00:39:30.300
 more and

00:39:30.300 --> 00:39:30.720
 more so

00:39:30.720 --> 00:39:31.300
 that more

00:39:31.300 --> 00:39:31.740
 and more

00:39:31.740 --> 00:39:34.900
 we would

00:39:34.900 --> 00:39:35.200
 be a

00:39:35.200 --> 00:39:35.460
 living

00:39:35.460 --> 00:39:36.099
 testimony

00:39:36.099 --> 00:39:38.360
 to your

00:39:38.360 --> 00:39:38.819
 love for

00:39:38.819 --> 00:39:39.119
 us

00:39:39.119 --> 00:39:39.920
 your

00:39:39.920 --> 00:39:40.460
 awesome

00:39:40.460 --> 00:39:41.480
 love for

00:39:41.480 --> 00:39:41.799
 us

00:39:41.799 --> 00:39:43.519
 please do

00:39:43.519 --> 00:39:44.000
 that work

00:39:44.000 --> 00:39:44.339
 in us

00:39:44.339 --> 00:39:45.119
 we we

00:39:45.119 --> 00:39:45.639
 ask and

00:39:45.639 --> 00:39:46.500
 pray for

00:39:46.500 --> 00:39:47.159
 your glory

00:39:47.159 --> 00:39:47.539
 and for

00:39:47.539 --> 00:39:48.079
 your joy

00:39:48.079 --> 00:39:48.679
 Jesus

00:39:48.679 --> 00:39:50.239
 amen

00:39:50.239 --> 00:39:52.339
 happen

00:39:52.339 --> 00:39:53.679
 you

00:39:53.679 --> 00:39:54.219
 yeah

00:39:54.219 --> 00:39:54.359
 you

00:39:54.359 --> 00:39:58.339
 amen