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 Verse 30, Psalm 69, verse 30, I will praise the name of God with a song, I will magnify Him

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! I will magnify Him with thanksgiving. This will please the Lord more than an ox or a bull with horns

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! Let's pray. Our Father God, this morning as we take the word in

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 hand, we are mindful that you have given to us scriptures as a blessing, as an incredible

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 encouragement, as instruction that we who are your children may be fully equipped for all good works.

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 And we want to be a people that this morning, through the enabling of the Spirit of God, both

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 cure the word and also apply the word in practical, daily, Christ-honoring behavior and thinking.

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 Furthermore, and it is our heart together, that those who are here this morning that do not know

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 Christ, who at this moment have no eternal reason to be thankful by the working of your Spirit would

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 be drawn to the cross and leave here, knowing Christ as their Savior, rejoicing forevermore

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 in the blessing of complete forgiveness for sins and for the joy of knowing you as their God and Savior.

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 We ask this this morning for the glory of Christ. Amen.

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 So here we are. This is the Thanksgiving service that we do before Thanksgiving.

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 And the reason we do that is because we want to kind of remind you, not that you'd forget about Thanksgiving.

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 I mean, it's all out there, right? Everybody knows about Thanksgiving.

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 Thanksgiving, I am getting slammed in my inbox with all kinds of announcements about how important

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 not actually Thanksgiving is, but Black Friday. It's like, give me a break, you know?

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 And it's all, we're aware of that. And so one of the things that we have done over the years is

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 we've taken the time, this service in particular, to kind of focus our hearts and remind ourselves

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 of just how significant the issue of Thanksgiving is in the believer's life.

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 And so in addition to the dinner that we're going to enjoy, we take the time in a service to look

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 at the Word of God and say, well, okay, how important is Thanksgiving to the believer?

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 And so we're going to think this morning, we're going to step away from the book of John that we

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 have been working our way through, and we're going to just think in practical, in a topical fashion,

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 looking at the subject of Thanksgiving.

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 Thanksgiving. And so let me draw attention, first of all, to the fact that a characteristic of the

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 believer's faith and worship is this attitude of Thanksgiving. So keep in your mind, a characteristic,

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 if I'm a believer, then Thanksgiving is to be one of the markers of my life.

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 I'm a parent. And thankfully, I'm past the stage. By the way, being an empty nester is not all that bad,

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 just in case you're wondering. I'm past the stage where I am coaching my children on a regular basis

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 to say thank you, thank you, thank you. How many of you are still doing that? You know, it's like,

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 and they didn't get it the first or the second or third or, you know, and you just keep on doing it.

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 It reminds me of a situation that I heard about once where a grandmother was in a room and happened

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 to be tottering around in the kitchen, and a little granddaughter came in and said,

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 give me a glass of water. Well, you know how it is with parents, you know. Grandparents are about the

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 same way. It's like, give me a glass of water. No, that doesn't work. And so grandmother just kind of

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 played on loud. She didn't hear it. And so the little girl dialed it up a little bit. Get me

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 a glass of water. Grandmother just didn't respond. And so the grandmother thought it would be appropriate

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 to coach. And what kind of things would you coach? It's like, what's the magic word? How many of you

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 use that magic word? Anybody ever done that? Okay. I'm waiting for something, you know, and you're kind

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 of trying to nurture it out so you don't have to get right in the face. You know, it's like,

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 trying to be gentle. And finally, it got to the point that grandmother said, so

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 what should you say? A little granddaughter turned towards one of the brothers and said,

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 give me a glass of water right now, pointing to the brother. The expectation was, hey, I don't need

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 to be coached on the issue of thankfulness and was unwilling to accommodate the grandmother in this

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 particular case. And we can kind of identify, we who are parents, we've been there. We're trying to

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 work on that because being thankful is something that good parents try to weave into the fabric of

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 their children's lives. Am I right or wrong? Now, this morning, I am not interested in weaving

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 thankfulness into your life as a matter of good behavior. That's pretty important to understand.

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 You see, when we really think about the matter of thankfulness, I want you to understand that

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 biblical thankfulness is more than good manners. And the truth of the matter is, if you're sitting

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 here this morning and the truth is, and you can kind of nudge your wife or your husband and say,

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 hey, how am I doing at this later on? In fact, if you're really nervy, do you know what I mean by

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 really nervy? If you've got the guts to hear the truth, say to those who are fairly close to you

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 after the service, so how thankful am I as a general rule? Write that down in the margin somewhere so you

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 don't forget it. It's not a little bad takeaway. How thankful am I as a general rule? Write that down.

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 Back we come. Biblical thankfulness is more than good manners. Thankfulness really is a reflection

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 of our view of God. Remember I said, I'm not interested in kind of coaching you manners so

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 that you go around, oh, thank you. I'm looking for a change in the way you think about God that

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 produces a thankful spirit on a consistent basis without coaching. I want to go a little further

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 on this issue and help you understand that thankfulness really is also a reflection of

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 our relationship with God. For one, it says what we think about God, but it also shows our relationship

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 with God. Do you understand that? Thankfulness shows relationship. Would you agree with that?

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 Thankfulness shows relationship. Let me illustrate it this way, and I'm hesitant to use this illustration,

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 but it serves well, and my wife is in Texas. I am very thankful for Judith. I am very thankful to

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 Judith. I thank her for the fact that she is who she is and the blessings that she is to me, and I thank

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 her all the time. I thank her for the meals she cooks. I thank her for the organization that she

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 brings to our home. I almost sent her a picture of the kitchen counter this morning to show her

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 that the kitchen counter is in relatively the same shape as when she left. She went to Texas on Saturday,

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 and I thought, you know, I probably should just run the camera like this so that she sees that when

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 she comes back. It's not a disaster yet. I'm thankful that she makes the bed in the morning.

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 I get up quite a bit earlier than she does, but I thank her for that. I thank her for doing my laundry.

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 It's an amazing thing. We have a clothes shoot on the second floor, and I put the things. It drops

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 down there. It's gone, and then it comes back in a basket that I have to carry up, but it comes back

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 folded. And every now and then, she goes back through, and I'm an organizational disaster.

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 She goes back through and organizes my sock drawer. Do you know how it gets organized? Colors.

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 She organizes my underwear. You don't need to know about that, okay?

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 But organization. I got to tell you, the first thing I thanked Judith for when we were dating

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 was her laundry skills. I was in college, and I don't want to talk about my dressing behavior and

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 habits, but let me tell you, it was very limited. And I remember that laundry was done. It got thrown

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 into a net bag, and then the net bag, without unpacking, got thrown into a heavy-duty washer and

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 just kind of thumped its way through, and whatever came out, that's what it was. Now, I know,

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 none of you ever there, but when Judith came into my life, the first thing she did is that she took

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 my laundry, and things went from dark, dull gray to actual white. I didn't know they made shirts that

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 way. And I got to thinking the other day as I was studying and praying about this, why is it?

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 Why is it that I am consistently thankful to Judith? I got to tell you, for one reason, it is because of who

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 she is, but another is because of the relationship we have. And so, if you're sitting here this morning,

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 and the fact of the matter is this, you do not have a very thankful spirit. Part of the problem really is

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 your relationship. Let's just cut to the chase. That's where it's at. Part of the problem is your

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 relationship. And in relationship to this matter of thanksgiving, I do want you to understand that

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 the Bible has a lot to say about it. It's filled with examples. This passage that I read there in

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 Psalm 69, verse 30,

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 I will praise the name of God with a song. I will magnify Him with thanksgiving,

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 is just one of many, many verses that have to do with the matter of thanksgiving.

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 When we think about the matter of thanks, I do want you to understand that it really is a central

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 feature of our faith. In fact, it is one of the things that is a marker of where you are. Let's

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 try it this way. So, how are you doing in your walk? Well, I read the Bible.

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 Eleven minutes. I pray over a list that has 15 items on it. I remember our missionaries once a

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 month. You know how we tend to be very compartmentalized with how we're doing at our

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 walk. Am I right or wrong? How are you doing in your relationship with Christ? I am incredibly

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 thankful. Well, let's think about this a little bit more. Actually, in the Old Testament,

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 there were some sacrifices that were required. Does anybody have an idea what kind of sacrifices

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 were required? Sin sacrifices. You sin, you sacrifice. Thanksgiving sacrifices were not

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 obligations. Let me have you look just for a moment. Turn back, if you would, to Leviticus. You are there

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 in Psalms. But go back to Leviticus chapter 7, verse 12 and 13. If, what does if mean?

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 Not an obligation. If you do this, if he offers it for a thanksgiving, then he shall offer with the

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 thanksgiving sacrifice unleavened loaves mixed with oil, unleavened wafers smeared with oil, and loaves

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 of fine flour. The issue that I draw attention to here is that in the Old Testament, there were

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 thanksgiving offerings. Giving thanks was a part of corporate worship. It's something that was actually

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 woven into the order of service. People came together, and one of the things that they did

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 was they offered thanks to God. You're there in Psalm 69. I want you to turn over to Psalm 95, verse 2.

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 Let me begin there in verse 1.

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 O come, let us sing to the Lord. Let us make a joyful noise to the rock of our salvation.

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 Let us come into his presence with thanksgiving. Let us make a joyful noise to him with songs of praise.

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 What do you think?

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 This passage is telling us one of the characteristics of the true worship of people

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 who know Christ.

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 Not only was it a characteristic of corporate worship, but there were actually individuals

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 who were appointed with the formal responsibility of offering songs of thanksgiving.

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 John, we will sing three thanksgiving songs.

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 That's David appointed people to sing songs of thanksgiving.

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 Nehemiah appointed specific named individuals in the Old Testament.

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 Your responsibility is to have thanksgiving songs.

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 They could be recognized as that.

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 There were songs that expressed thanks specifically.

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 It's interesting also to see that giving thanks to God was a command in some portions of the text.

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 Over in Psalm 50, verse 14, it says,

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 You, you, offer to God a sacrifice of thanksgiving.

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 Offer to God a sacrifice of thanksgiving.

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 Here's what you should do.

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 I want you to understand, moving into the New Testament, recognizing this continuing theme,

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 we see that in the New Testament, thanksgiving is to be the lifestyle of the believer.

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 It is the lifestyle of the believer.

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 You're there in Psalms, but I want you to turn now, if you will, to Colossians chapter 2.

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 It is the lifestyle of the believer.

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 Hey, what is it that really characterizes you to the neighbors that you have?

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 I hope you don't tell me it's your hairstyle.

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 Colossians chapter 2, verse 6 and 7.

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 What's abounding mean?

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 Abounding means it just happens all the time.

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 How many of you have been around people that are abounding with enthusiasm over their first grandchild?

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 You ever been there?

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 I mean, you try to avoid them in the lobby because you're showing the same pictures.

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 They forgot they showed you last week and the week before and the week before.

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 Hey, I have one, finally.

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 Here it is.

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 They're abounding with enthusiasm for that particular thing they're really interested in.

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 Here's the Bible telling us, hey, listen, guys.

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 The characteristic of the believer is to be abounding, abounding in thanksgiving.

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 Abounding means that it's happening all the time.

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 It's part of who you are.

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 It's the lifestyle of the believer.

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 Furthermore, I want you to understand that thanksgiving is also woven in and inseparable from our prayer life.

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 By the way, how important is a prayer life for a believer?

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 Answer is what?

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 It's essential.

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 In fact, I got to tell you, you don't get to start being a believer apart from prayer.

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 Am I right?

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 How do you come to Christ?

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 You just think deep thoughts.

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 No.

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 Hey, I am a sinner who has been destroyed by my own heart and sinfulness.

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 I need forgiveness for my sins.

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 Will you please?

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 You pray.

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 Thanksgiving is woven, woven, and is inseparable in our prayer life.

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 A couple passages to kind of hammer that point home.

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 You're there in Colossians 2, but look over, if you will, at Colossians 4, verse 2.

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 Continue steadfastly in prayer, being watchful in it with thanksgiving.

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 Now, that's an interesting combination, and because of the significance of the combination,

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 I want you to turn back.

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 You're there in Colossians.

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 Just skip back a couple books to Philippians.

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 One book.

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 Philippians 4, verse 6.

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 Philippians 4, verse 6.

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 Do not be anxious about everything.

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 How many of you are anxiety specialists?

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 You know, you don't have to warm up.

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 You're right up to speed immediately, and you can kind of circle the drain without any practice.

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 Oh, here we go.

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 Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication, what?

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 Look at that.

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 Look at that.

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 With thanksgiving, the let your requests be made known unto God.

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 Now, how does prayer and thanksgiving go together?

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 Here's how our prayers usually are.

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 I mean, I'm not talking about you, but I'm talking about me.

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 You know, it's like, oh, Lord, I'm really having a problem with this.

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 I really need you to do something about it.

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 You know, are you aware of this problem going on?

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 I've been thinking about this a lot, and I'm not sure you're picking up on this.

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 You guys don't pray that way.

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 I understand.

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 But my point is what?

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 You're not doing the other part of it.

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 Lord, I'm having a problem here.

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 This is a mess.

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 But you know what?

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 I'm really glad you're on the throne.

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 And you know what?

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 I haven't figured out how this is going to work out, but I know how the story ends,

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 so I really don't need to be overworked about the detail.

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 Is that right?

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 But I've got to tell you, if we were biblical in our prayer life,

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 Thanksgiving would be integrated in more often than it is.

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 And so I want to challenge you to kind of think carefully about the matter of where Thanksgiving is in your prayers.

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 Well, let's go beyond that.

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 Let's talk about not only is it woven into our prayer life, but Thanksgiving is to flavor our conversations.

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 Stop just for a moment.

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 Replay the audio on the last dozen conversations you've had.

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 Think about it.

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 Thanksgiving is to flavor our conversations.

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 And so you're thinking to yourself, can you prove that, Pastor?

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 Or are you just kind of making this up?

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 Well, let's go to Ephesians 5, verse 4.

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 I want you to look at the passage.

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 I don't want you to take my word for it.

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 Ephesians 5, verse 4.

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 Let there be no filthiness, no foolish talk, nor crude joking.

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 We're pretty good with that for the most part, right?

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 Smile.

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 Yeah, you are.

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 Okay.

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 Okay.

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 No filthiness, no foolish talk, no crude joking, which is out of place.

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 But instead, let there be Thanksgiving.

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 Is that the way it is with you?

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 I like being around him.

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 Most of the time when we talk, he's thankful.

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 How many of you have been around people that are just incessantly down?

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 I mean, which one of the Peanuts individuals was it that just pigpen?

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 Remember pigpen?

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 No matter where he went, there was a cloud of dust.

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 I mean, there are some people that kind of carry an aura.

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 I mean, you know what I mean?

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 They carry an aura of just depressive, moody thinking.

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 And they're always unhappy.

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 You know, sometimes you have to talk to him, but you know how it's going to go, right?

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 Here's what the Bible says to all of us.

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 Let me read it again.

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 Let there be no filthiness, no foolish talk, no crude joking, which is out of place, but

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 instead, let there be Thanksgiving.

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 Now, I know some of you are going to give a temporary run at this in the church dinner.

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 I know Pastor said this.

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 Hey, I'm really thankful for pie.

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 Stretch it out a little bit beyond the meal, okay?

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 Will you please?

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 But here, point, it's to be a part of our conversation.

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 Another point in relationship to this is Thanksgiving is to be part of our eternal worship.

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 One of the things I'll never forget, forget who was the one that made the comment, but well

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 placed said that what we're doing here is just warm up for the main event, right?

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 Isn't that true?

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 When we get together to worship, and I enjoy our time together, I'm blessed by it.

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 I don't know if you ever noticed I kind of turn around sometimes.

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 I just want to see your faces.

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 And I just enjoy listening to our fellowship as we're together.

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 But this place is not the main event.

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 It's warm-ups.

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 The day is coming when we're going to enjoy the very presence of Christ.

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 We're going to enjoy eternity forever, and we will worship Him and delight in Him, and

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 we will be absolutely fully satisfied.

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 We'll be thankful.

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 So think with me just for a moment.

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 Turn in your Bible back to Revelation chapter 11.

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 Revelation chapter 11, verse 17.

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 Begin there in verse 16.

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 And the 24 elders who sat on their thrones before God fell on their faces and worshiped

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 God, saying, We give thanks to you, Lord God Almighty, who was, who is, and who was, for

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 you have taken your great power and begun to reign.

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 Now, just a little sidebar here, because I suppose it's going to happen.

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 There are different perspectives on the issue of what we have to say about God.

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 For one, we can praise Him.

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 For another, we can thank Him.

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 And I don't want to overly complicate life.

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 But as a general rule, we thank God for things He's done, and we praise God for who He is.

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 But there are also times in Scripture where, because of who God is, it's pretty hard to

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 separate from what He's doing or has done.

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 Does that make sense?

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 I mean, it's a little bit like, go back to that very simplistic illustration of my relationship

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 with Judith.

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 You know, I thank her all the time for lots of things.

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 But it's not just, you know what, I don't care about you.

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 I'm just really happy about laundry.

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 It's just too complex.

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 And so I don't get wrapped up about, well, you should have thanked Him in that case.

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 You shouldn't have praised Him.

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 Oh, that should have been praised.

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 That's not thanks.

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 Give it a rake.

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 Here it is.

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 Read it.

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 Man, I, is that the way it is for you?

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 That the Spirit, now I got to say, I want you to think about this.

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 Ask yourself the question, the last five conversations I've had,

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 was there anything in them that had anything to do with thankfulness?

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 Thanksgiving is more than a holiday.

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 It's the lifestyle and mindset of the believer in sweet communion and relationship with the Lord Jesus.

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 You got that, right?

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 Well, let me take it a little further and say that Thanksgiving really is a reflection of our view of God.

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 Let's start by reminding ourselves of where we all were prior to our conversion.

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 And I want you to turn in your Bibles to Romans 1.

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 How did it used to be?

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 How did it used to be before we were saved?

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 We all started in the same place.

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 Romans 1, verse 23 says this.

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 Just a second.

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 Verse 21.

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 For although they knew God, they did not honor Him as God, nor give Him what?

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 What's it say?

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 Romans 1.

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 You can scratch a line through the 23.

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 That's my typo error.

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 It's 21.

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 321.

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 They didn't thank Him.

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 That's where we were prior to our conversion.

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 We were unthankful people most of the time, except for occasions.

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 We weren't thankful.

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 We started out that way.

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 For although they knew God, they did not honor Him as God or give thanks to Him,

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 but they became futile in their thinking, and their foolish hearts were darkened.

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 And so here's a little pop quiz that it's unexpected, but I think it'll be beneficial.

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 Let's just ask a couple questions.

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 I want you to ask them.

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 I want you to write them down.

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 I want you to think about these.

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 How often do I thank God in my prayer life?

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 How often do I thank God in my prayer life?

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 How often do I do that?

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 Second, how often do others who know me hear me thank God?

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 How often do those who know me hear me thank God?

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 Third, when was the last time someone commented on my joy and spirit of thankfulness?

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 When was the last time someone commented on my joy and spirit of thankfulness?

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 Listen to me.

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 A genuinely thankful spirit is very unusual.

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 It is atypical in an unbelieving world.

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 Am I right or wrong?

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 How many of you?

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 Where you work?

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 Most of you work.

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 Do you work around people that are just usually pretty thankful?

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 I mean, you know, come in Monday.

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 It's a woohoo, Monday.

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 It's I'm here.

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 I'm happy.

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 You know, how many are going to have that happen on Monday?

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 Maybe not.

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 Tuesday?

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 They're better, right?

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 And by Friday, they're on top of it.

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 They're so full of exuberant thankfulness that it's infectious.

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 Everybody wants to be thankful.

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 Is that that way?

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 Come back again.

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 When was the last time?

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 When was the last time someone else commented on your spirit and thankfulness?

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 Now, listen, we can bend over backwards to be good witnesses.

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 We can roll out all kinds of things to show kindness, and I'm in favor of that.

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 But if you want people to ask you a reason for the hope that lies within you, you cannot be a grumpy, unhappy person.

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 And all God's people said, it just doesn't work.

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 You know, people are looking at the way you live your life, and they're thinking, you know, that may get them to heaven,

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 but it sure doesn't look like fun.

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 Right?

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 I got to tell you, I love, I love being around unbelievers because for the most part,

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 you don't have to listen very long before they share with you that the wheels are coming off.

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 I mean, you don't have to tell me your deep, dark secrets.

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 You just have to be willing to listen with a heart, and it comes out.

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 They are blown away.

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 The unbelieving world is blown away by genuine, persistent thankfulness.

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 Isn't that right?

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 Right?

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 So thankfulness is really a reflection of our view of God.

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 Let me come to the last point here.

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 Thankfulness makes much of God.

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 You wonder, why do you start with Psalm 69 and then just not stay there?

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 Well, change of plans.

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 I'll do that next week when we get back into John, but I just wanted to kind of give you something to hold on to,

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 but we're coming back to it.

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 Psalm 69, verse 30.

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 I will magnify him with thanksgiving.

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 I will magnify him with thanksgiving.

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 Question.

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 Can I make God bigger?

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 There is a sense in which, no.

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 No.

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 You know, God's not up there in heaven wringing his hands, saying,

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 you know, I need 17 more people to really help me with how big I need to be today.

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 How many of you have ever been around people that have come to you and said,

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 I'm really having a real deep problem, and I need 20 people to pray for me?

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 I mean, is 20 better than one good man?

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 I mean, you know what it says?

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 The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man.

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 One can get it done.

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 Now, don't dismiss this and go off the page on me, but here's my point.

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 There's an aspect to which you and I can't make God bigger.

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 But the text says you magnify God with thanksgiving.

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 How is it that we magnify God?

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 Well, it helps to understand that what the word means is that we amplify,

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 we draw further attention to, we make much of him.

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 And so you stop and realize that he is indeed glorious.

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 He is worthy of all adoration and praise.

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 And when we admit that and we say that, what we do is we help people see who he is.

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 We lift him up in the eyes of broken and hurting people,

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 and we let them know there is hope and there is joy in God and in Christ.

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 I got to tell you, I'm hesitant to do this, but I will.

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 One of the things that I really enjoy about ministry is being around people that are hurting.

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 And the main reason I like being around people that are hurting is because I know the one who can make a difference.

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 I know the one.

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 Talking with a guy yesterday, he'd spent the night outside.

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 And as I was talking with him, he came out, here's a guy that has a brother that lives here in town in Columbus.

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 If I had the choice to choose between staying in my brother's house and sleeping under the bridge,

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 you know, guess what I would do?

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 How many of you know how cold it was last night?

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 You went outside to let the dog out, and you came back in and you said to yourself,

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 Oh, I'm really glad, you know.

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 Would you stay with your brother?

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 Has a daughter that lives in Worthington or, yeah, lives in Worthington,

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 and the other one is in Grandview.

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 A daughter in Worthington and a son in Grandview.

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 Outside.

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 Do you know what I can say to that man?

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 I can say I know the only person who can change your life.

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 I love saying that.

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 And do you know why I can say it?

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 It's not a line that I learned in seminary.

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 It's something I know Jesus did for me.

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 Yeah.

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 I go to bed at night thankful.

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 And it's not my nature.

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 Do you understand that?

00:34:51.759 --> 00:34:58.199
 If Tim Kenoyer is ever on occasion a little dismissive of being a naturally depressed person,

00:34:58.299 --> 00:34:58.759
 I am.

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 But I can tell you this.

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 I know what it is to enjoy the power of the Spirit of God and salvation through the Lord Jesus Christ.

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 And I love talking about Him.

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 I got to tell you that our great duty of thankfulness is not a dull obligation

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 or a device to get a glass of water in the kitchen

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 or a means of getting blessing.

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 But biblical thankfulness is seeing our God properly and saying so truthfully.

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 So, a practical question and I'll close with this.

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 Is your life marked by thankfulness?

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 Here's what I want you to do.

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 I want you to ask someone really close to you and say this,

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 really be honest with me.

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 See, until you get the diagnosis from the physician,

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 you probably aren't going to practice the protocol or follow the prescription, right?

00:36:17.360 --> 00:36:19.819
 So, you say to someone pretty close to you,

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 am I really a pretty thankful person?

00:36:23.480 --> 00:36:25.699
 Am I a thankful person?

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 Tell me the truth, right?

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 And if the person looks up at you and says,

00:36:31.460 --> 00:36:34.640
 well, I'm a little hesitant to tell you, you got the idea.

00:36:36.660 --> 00:36:37.360
 Oh, yeah.

00:36:37.580 --> 00:36:38.720
 I like being around you.

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 You're always thankful.

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 You're not grumpy.

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 You find the neatest things to be thankful for.

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 I mean, you know, and if you are a believer here, listen to me carefully,

00:36:50.420 --> 00:36:53.500
 if you're a believer here that has much to thank Christ for

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 and you've kind of lost your way,

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 today's the day to repent.

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 And go ahead and add this to your prayer line.

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 Lord, drive home the point that thankfulness

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 is the characteristic of a thoughtful and appreciative believer.

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 And go ahead and do whatever it takes.

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 Change me from being a self-focused, unhappy believer

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 to one who is thankful.

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 There are some of you here today that don't know Christ.

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 I've got to tell you, you have no reason to be thankful at this moment.

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 The fact of the matter is, is that you have a cloud that hangs just over your shoulder.

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 It's a cloud of shame and sin, of a fear of judgment.

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 It's a cloud of impending doom and there is no remedy for that in anything you may ever do.

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 But Christ Jesus came into the world.

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 Do you know why He came?

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 To save sinners.

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 And the Bible makes it undeniably plain and clear

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 that the Spirit of God, first of all, works to convict us of our sin.

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 And I would pray that there is no need for further evidence of the nastiness of your heart.

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 How many of you understood what I just said?

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 You don't need anybody else or any other experience to help you understand just how dark and hopeless you are.

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 And when you come to the place that you understand that, here's what you do.

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 You cry out and say,

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 Jesus, I believe you died for my sins upon the cross.

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 You satisfied the judgment of God.

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 And you offer me salvation to whosoever will call upon the name of the Lord.

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 Listen.

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 Don't go out of here.

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 Don't go out of here as an unrepentant and hardened sinner who refuses the grace of God.

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 Don't go out of here as a believer who knows better.

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 Because if you are a believer, He is bound and determined to help you grow to be a more, guess what?

00:39:24.559 --> 00:39:25.720
 Like Jesus person.

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 Come at it a little easier.

00:39:28.619 --> 00:39:28.780
 Amen?

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 Let's close in prayer.

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 John's going to come and lead us.

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 Father God, take your word.

00:39:38.460 --> 00:39:39.160
 Drive it home.

00:39:40.260 --> 00:39:40.960
 Make us thankful.

00:39:41.840 --> 00:39:42.119
 Amen.

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 John.

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 John.