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 Good morning, everyone. My name is James. It's nice to be with you this morning. Let me pray for us.

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 Heavenly Father, I thank you for your word to us. Thank you for that part of Romans 12, which Flora has just read.

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 Be with us this morning as we look at your word for us today. Amen.

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 There is a man here whose insecurity causes him to question his place before God.

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 And so he acts to please people and to please God.

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 There's a sister here who questions her value and feels the need to talk herself up in front of other people and before God.

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 There's a mom here who sees her sin and thinks that she is the very worst mom.

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 And she's constantly comparing herself to others.

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 And there's a brother here who feels that God is so awesome and is so good that God is demanding more and more of him.

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 And he feels like he should be doing more as a Christian, but ends up feeling guilty.

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 We have a distorted view of God.

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 And it distorts our view of ourselves and our relationship with other people.

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 One of my temptations, one of the things that I do personally is that it can lead me to, my view of myself can lead me to question my value.

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 It can lead me to think, does God really want me?

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 Do people actually want to hang out with me?

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 Do my friends really want to hang out to me?

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 Or am I just a burden on them?

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 We are in the book of Romans.

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 We're in a series called Made New and we're up to chapter 12.

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 We've seen over the last number of weeks how good God has been.

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 That God shows his goodness and his love and mercy to a people who are undeserving.

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 And now we see at the start of chapter 12, the first word that Flora read for us before was therefore.

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 Therefore, what is the impact of all that God has done through us in Jesus?

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 How does it change our lives?

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 Paul is going to start with our relationships with God.

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 And then our view of ourselves and then others.

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 Because we have a distorted view of our God.

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 And it impacts all of our relationships.

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 And the challenge will be today to see how when we have a clear view of our relationship with God,

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 it helps us to see ourselves right.

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 And it shapes every relationship we have.

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 There are three points this morning that you'll be able to find in the St. Paul's app.

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 And if you don't have that app, you can scan the QR code in front of you.

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 The three points, new life, a new view of ourselves and new service.

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 But I'm going to spend the majority of our time together on that first point.

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 Those first two verses, I was tempted to just preach on just those two verses.

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 Because I think it has so much there for us.

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 I'm going to spend the majority of our time in those first two verses

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 before I quickly move through the second and third point.

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 So have Romans 12 open with you this morning on a phone or in your Bible.

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 Be taking notes.

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 That is good for us.

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 This passage starts with that word that I mentioned, therefore.

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 And you always need to question what the therefore is.

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 Therefore.

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 Paul has told us about the good news which comes to a people who don't deserve it.

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 How we can totally trust in God, the one who makes salvation possible.

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 And now he says, therefore.

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 Because of God's great love for you, therefore.

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 Because of salvation by faith, therefore.

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 Because of justification by grace alone, therefore.

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 Live differently.

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 The next two verses, verse 1 and 2, are a summary of the entire Christian life

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 following all that God has done in these last 11 chapters.

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 So, verse 1.

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 Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God's mercy,

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 to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God.

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 This is your true and proper worship.

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 Therefore, because of all that Paul has said about what God has done,

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 live a radical life as a Christian.

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 And the motivation is God's mercy.

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 It's the only sufficient motivation for a life of gratitude.

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 Back in Romans 8, Paul argued that a Christian cannot lose their salvation.

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 And so mercy and grace is our only motivation to have a radically different life.

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 If a Christian could lose their salvation,

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 then our motivation would be fear or guilt.

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 I'm not living right.

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 I'm not living as God wants me to.

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 I need to work harder so I can make sure I'm saved.

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 And then, how does that work out in other relationships?

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 I feel guilty before God that I'm not working hard enough.

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 And then I see the people around me.

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 Well, they're still sinning.

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 You know, I need to tell my kids.

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 I need to tell people around you, you need to be doing better.

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 You need to be reading your Bible more.

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 Aren't you worried about this sin that you're still holding on to?

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 This is where religious guilt comes in.

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 This inner view that I'm not accepted and loved by God

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 and I always need to do more and more.

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 It leads to anxiety.

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 It leads to fear.

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 And the person who relates to God out of fear

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 believes that they will get what they deserve in a season.

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 Have you ever had that thought, you know, that kind of calmer thought?

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 Ah, do you know what?

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 I haven't really gone to church recently.

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 And, you know, I've gotten sick.

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 I've gotten COVID.

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 Maybe this is God punishing me because I haven't been obeying Him.

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 Fear leads us to think that we get what we deserve in a season.

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 It leads to anxiety before God and other people.

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 But this is not the gospel.

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 God has already given us mercy.

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 He already chooses to love us.

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 And so Paul encourages us that we are motivated by mercy,

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 not by fear, not by guilt, not by needing to do anything.

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 That's been the point of the last 11 chapters.

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 We're motivated not by that.

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 We're motivated by God's mercy.

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 Live differently.

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 Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters,

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 in view of God's mercy,

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 in view of God's wonderful mercy,

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 offer your bodies as a living sacrifice,

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 holy and pleasing to God.

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 This is your true and proper worship.

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 Offer your body as a living sacrifice.

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 The first call for us in view of God's mercy is to live as a living sacrifice.

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 Paul is using Old Testament language here of sacrifice.

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 It's the image of a worshiper coming in and bringing an offering.

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 It's not an offering that would deal with sin.

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 We already have that.

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 That's Jesus.

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 But this offering was a burnt offering.

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 This was the best a person had.

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 They would bring their very best animal,

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 the one without blemish,

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 the one without defect.

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 It was the most expensive and best they had.

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 It was not their leftovers.

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 And this offering was always completely burnt.

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 And it represented a complete devotion to God.

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 And so what Paul is saying for our lives is

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 that we ought to be offering everything.

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 We ought to be offering every aspect of our lives.

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 We ought to be offering everything.

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 We ought to be offering everything.

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 We ought to be offering everything.

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 We ought to be offering everything.

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 We ought to be offering everything.

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 We ought to be offering everything.

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 And he specifically mentions bodies.

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 Now for us that might seem fairly normal,

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 but this is into a Greco-Roman context.

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 And they believed that what happened in the body

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 did not actually matter.

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 The religious and philosophical Romans and Greeks,

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 what they pursued was purity of the mind.

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 And so they thought that,

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 you know what,

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 what happens with the body doesn't matter.

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 If I choose to pursue anything I like with my body,

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 sexual depravity,

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 it doesn't matter as long as I'm pursuing purity of the mind.

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 But Paul is being inclusive of everything.

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 We are to offer everything to God as living sacrifices.

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 We don't just divide parts of our lives out.

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 We're not to think like the ancient Romans and Greeks

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 and separate what happens.

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 I'll offer some of my life,

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 my money,

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 my Sunday mornings to God,

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 but I'm going to pursue the job that I want.

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 I'm going to pursue the sexual experiences that I want.

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 I'll parent as I fit.

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 Paul calls us,

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 in view of God's mercies,

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 to offer our bodies,

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 our minds,

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 our thoughts,

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 our hopes,

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 and our dreams to God.

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 God wants everything.

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 Now it sounds a bit greedy for God to want everything.

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 But when we remember how deep God's mercies are for us,

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 that his mercy in Jesus,

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 we only have anything because of God's mercy to us.

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 And so the most obvious response to God's mercy

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 is to offer everything as a living sacrifice.

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 And it's living.

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 It's not just a once-off,

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 I have done that.

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 It is a living thing.

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 We continue to offer it.

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 It's a daily giving.

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 As we continue to read God's word,

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 we are reminded of his mercy.

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 And we continue to bring our whole lives before him.

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 On Wednesday afternoon this week,

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 of the week just past,

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 I had to take my youngest to soccer.

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 I know,

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 and it's this 45-minute thing

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 that happens on a Wednesday afternoon.

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 And Wednesdays,

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 as we all know,

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 is the worst day of the week.

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 It's hump day.

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 And I feel tired by five o'clock on a Wednesday.

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 And I had to take him.

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 And I have this 45-minute window

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 where I thought,

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 do you know what?

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 Do you know what would be really good to do right now?

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 It would be really good to just drop Micah

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 and then go and sit in the car and have a nap.

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 That would be so delightful.

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 Or maybe even read a book

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 or just do anything I like.

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 That would be really good.

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 And do you know what?

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 If I chose to do that,

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 if I needed to rest,

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 that would be a good thing as well.

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 Rest is a good thing that God gives us.

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 But on Wednesday morning,

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 I'd also been reading my Bible

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 and I'd been praying for a dad from soccer.

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 I've had a couple of little conversations with him

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 about religion.

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 And I'd be praying that I'd have an opportunity

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 to talk to him on Wednesday afternoon about Jesus.

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 And there's this really dangerous thing

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 that happens when you pray.

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 God answers our prayers.

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 So sometimes it's just easier.

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 Maybe I shouldn't pray that

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 because God might actually put that situation before me.

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 So Wednesday afternoon,

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 I'm thinking,

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 it would really be good

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 to do whatever I like right now,

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 to have that little piece of rest.

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 But I made the decision,

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 actually, do you know what?

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 I should go.

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 I should see if I can stand there

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 and encourage my son while he plays soccer

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 and maybe even see if I can have

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 a little conversation with this other dad.

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 And I ended up having a 45-minute conversation

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 about life, religion, Jesus,

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 his religion, his background, his thoughts,

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 and we're catching up this Wednesday for lunch.

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 Now, you might expect me to do that

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 as the missions pastor.

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 I really didn't want to do that.

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 And it was also a very easy and simple thing.

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 Now, this is just a very small example

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 of what it means to be a living sacrifice.

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 There is the living sacrifice

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 of offering our lives

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 and choosing to put our pride

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 and our lust

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 and our greed away

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 and offering ourselves to God.

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 But there is also

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 those small things.

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 Because we can make our lives

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 look pretty Christian,

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 but also continue to be self-centered.

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 Will I sacrifice my hopes

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 and my dreams

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 and my rest

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 and that little 45 minutes I had?

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 There is that inner battle.

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 Because rest in that moment

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 would have been good,

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 but God actually said

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 there is something better here.

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 Here, Paul says,

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 this living sacrifice,

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 this life that we have,

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 we can live it

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 and it's pleasing to God.

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 Pleasing to God.

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 I think this is amazing.

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 God is already pleased with us.

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 He said to Jesus at his baptism,

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 this is my son

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 in whom I am well pleased.

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 And God

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 makes us his children

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 and he is pleased with us.

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 It's a delight

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 to be pleased with my kids

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 and to enjoy them

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 and see that

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 they are enjoying me

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 being pleased with them.

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 But can you imagine

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 that we can actually

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 enjoy this

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 with the God of the universe?

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 The God of the universe

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 is actually already

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 pleased with us.

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 Not because of us,

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 but because of him.

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 Speaking of soccer,

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 as I go to soccer

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 on a Saturday morning,

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 there are some parents

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 who look pleased

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 with their kids.

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 And there are some parents

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 who are only pleased

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 with their kids

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 when they're scoring goals,

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 when they're, you know,

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 kicking the ball

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 in the right direction

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 and not going

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 in the wrong direction.

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 You know, this is under sixes,

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 so any small win is a win.

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 I work hard

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 to be the parent

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 shouting encouragement.

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 There are some parents

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 who are shouting

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 abusive encouragement

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 on the sidelines.

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 God is the parent

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 who is pleased

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 with their children

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 whether they are

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 scoring a goal

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 or whether they are

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 chasing butterflies

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 in the wrong direction.

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 God is already

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 pleased with us

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 and he invites us

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 to be in a relationship

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 with him

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 where we continue

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 to follow him,

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 where we offer

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 our entire lives

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 as a living sacrifice

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 because it is pleasing

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 to him.

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 What a wonderful delight

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 that is.

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 The second aspect

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 of this radical

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 Christian life

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 is that

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 as we go through

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 life as a living sacrifice,

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 it is to be transformed

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 but not conformed.

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 Verse 2.

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 Do not conform

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 to the pattern

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 of this world

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 but be transformed

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 by the renewing

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 of your mind.

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 Then you will be able

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 to test and approve

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 what God's will is,

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 his good,

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 pleasing

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 and perfect will.

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 Paul holds up

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 two ways to live,

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 two patterns of life,

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 the pattern

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 of the world

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 and the pattern

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 of God's will

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 and they are always

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 set against each other.

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 Living a pleasing,

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 sacrificial life

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 to God

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 means to see

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 the patterns

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 of thinking

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 of the world

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 and not conform

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 to them

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 but to see

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 the patterns

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 and thinking

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 of God

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 and be transformed

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 to live in that way.

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 The world

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 says to us,

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 you deserve this,

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 treat yourself.

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 The world

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 says you are

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 the most important.

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 Everyone else

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 is wrong.

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 Don't listen

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 to them.

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 The world

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 says you can

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 be whatever

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 you want

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 and you can

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 do whatever

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 you want.

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 The world

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 says that

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 we should

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 celebrate this

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 and if you

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 don't,

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 well we will

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 reject you.

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 You should

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 chase the dream,

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 put yourself

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 first and be

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 the best version

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 of whoever

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 you want to be.

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 That is the

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 pattern of the

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 world that we

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 live in at the

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 moment.

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 But the gospel

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 tells us

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 that we

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 don't deserve

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 anything good

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 but God

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 gives us

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 mercy and

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 grace.

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 We don't

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 deserve anything

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 good but we

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 are loved

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 and valued.

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 We can do

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 whatever we

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 want because

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 we are

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 forgiven

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 but we can

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 choose to

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 love and

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 obey Jesus

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 out of love

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 and thanks to

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 God in his

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 mercy.

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 being the

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 best version

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 of me is

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 not actually

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 whatever is

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 in me,

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 it is Jesus.

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 That is the

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 best version

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 of me so

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 that is the

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 version I

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 pursue.

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 That is an

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 identity that

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 will stand the

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 test of time

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 that will not

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 be shaken by

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 the changing

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 shifting pattern

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 of the world

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 around me.

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 When our

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 identity is

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 first found

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 and defined

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 by God,

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 it helps us

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 to see everything

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 else clearly.

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 We can see

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 the patterns

00:17:48.240 --> 00:17:49.120
 of the world

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 and we can

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 test them.

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 Is it actually

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 going to help

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 me to conform

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 to this pattern

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 of the world

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 or am I

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 going to be

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 transformed

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 to live and

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 follow God's

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 good and

00:18:02.319 --> 00:18:02.920
 perfect will?

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 And so,

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 we see God's

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 mercy to us.

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 We dwell on

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 God's mercy.

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 It helps us

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 understand how

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 good he is to

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 us, how he

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 is pleased

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 with us in

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 Jesus, how

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 we choose to

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 live for him.

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 And then it

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 helps us to

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 see ourselves

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 for who we

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 truly are.

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 It's our

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 second point

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 today.

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 If I can get

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 the buttons

00:18:28.279 --> 00:18:28.840
 to work,

00:18:29.000 --> 00:18:29.380
 Wendy, I

00:18:29.380 --> 00:18:29.799
 might get you

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 to push the

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 button.

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 Thank you,

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 sister.

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 Now we can

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 have a new

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 view of

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 ourself.

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 Our primary

00:18:37.320 --> 00:18:38.039
 relationship is

00:18:38.039 --> 00:18:38.539
 with God.

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 That is the

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 most important

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 one with us.

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 When we have

00:18:42.420 --> 00:18:43.200
 that primary

00:18:43.200 --> 00:18:43.740
 relationship,

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 we can

00:18:44.640 --> 00:18:45.420
 understand who

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 we are.

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 And so,

00:18:46.720 --> 00:18:47.220
 verse 3,

00:18:48.000 --> 00:18:48.779
 by the grace

00:18:48.779 --> 00:18:49.480
 given me,

00:18:49.560 --> 00:18:50.120
 I say to

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 every one of

00:18:50.759 --> 00:18:51.800
 you, do not

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 think of

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 yourselves more

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 highly than

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 you ought,

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 but rather

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 think of

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 yourself with

00:18:56.360 --> 00:18:57.120
 sober judgment

00:18:57.120 --> 00:18:58.259
 in accordance

00:18:58.259 --> 00:18:58.700
 with the

00:18:58.700 --> 00:18:59.360
 faith God

00:18:59.360 --> 00:19:00.259
 has distributed

00:19:00.259 --> 00:19:01.160
 to each of

00:19:01.160 --> 00:19:01.420
 you.

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 Do not

00:19:02.880 --> 00:19:03.120
 think of

00:19:03.120 --> 00:19:03.420
 your health

00:19:03.420 --> 00:19:04.039
 more highly

00:19:04.039 --> 00:19:04.360
 than you

00:19:04.360 --> 00:19:05.360
 ought, but

00:19:05.360 --> 00:19:05.720
 think of

00:19:05.720 --> 00:19:06.500
 yourself with

00:19:06.500 --> 00:19:07.240
 sober judgment.

00:19:08.340 --> 00:19:08.860
 Paul has

00:19:08.860 --> 00:19:09.480
 shown us

00:19:09.480 --> 00:19:10.740
 that we

00:19:10.740 --> 00:19:11.519
 are to

00:19:11.519 --> 00:19:12.619
 live in

00:19:12.619 --> 00:19:13.039
 light of

00:19:13.039 --> 00:19:13.359
 God's

00:19:13.359 --> 00:19:13.839
 mercies.

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 That's how

00:19:15.759 --> 00:19:16.279
 we live in

00:19:16.279 --> 00:19:17.059
 right relationship

00:19:17.059 --> 00:19:17.480
 with him.

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 You only need

00:19:18.139 --> 00:19:18.579
 to be reading

00:19:18.579 --> 00:19:18.940
 the Old

00:19:18.940 --> 00:19:19.539
 Testament to

00:19:19.539 --> 00:19:20.079
 see how

00:19:20.079 --> 00:19:21.440
 constantly the

00:19:21.440 --> 00:19:22.259
 people would

00:19:22.259 --> 00:19:22.779
 remember,

00:19:23.200 --> 00:19:23.539
 this is what

00:19:23.539 --> 00:19:24.059
 God has done

00:19:24.059 --> 00:19:24.440
 for us.

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 This is the

00:19:25.319 --> 00:19:26.059
 God who has

00:19:26.059 --> 00:19:27.160
 saved us from

00:19:27.160 --> 00:19:28.279
 Egypt, living

00:19:28.279 --> 00:19:28.779
 in light of

00:19:28.779 --> 00:19:29.480
 God's mercies,

00:19:30.220 --> 00:19:32.099
 living sacrificially,

00:19:32.480 --> 00:19:33.200
 transformed by

00:19:33.200 --> 00:19:33.759
 his mercy.

00:19:34.599 --> 00:19:35.480
 And now he

00:19:35.480 --> 00:19:36.119
 shows us how

00:19:36.119 --> 00:19:36.460
 we are to

00:19:36.460 --> 00:19:36.859
 relate to

00:19:36.859 --> 00:19:37.500
 ourselves.

00:19:38.579 --> 00:19:39.000
 And he

00:19:39.000 --> 00:19:39.460
 uses the

00:19:39.460 --> 00:19:40.039
 language of

00:19:40.039 --> 00:19:41.039
 sober judgment.

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 Think of

00:19:43.299 --> 00:19:43.819
 a person

00:19:43.819 --> 00:19:44.519
 who is

00:19:44.519 --> 00:19:45.180
 not sober,

00:19:45.759 --> 00:19:46.500
 who is

00:19:46.500 --> 00:19:47.000
 under the

00:19:47.000 --> 00:19:47.799
 influence of

00:19:47.799 --> 00:19:48.759
 alcohol or

00:19:48.759 --> 00:19:49.220
 drugs,

00:19:49.799 --> 00:19:50.420
 someone who

00:19:50.420 --> 00:19:50.799
 is not

00:19:50.799 --> 00:19:51.200
 thinking

00:19:51.200 --> 00:19:51.660
 clearly.

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 They will

00:19:53.579 --> 00:19:54.420
 often, in

00:19:54.420 --> 00:19:55.420
 my limited

00:19:55.420 --> 00:19:56.059
 experience,

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 act in one

00:19:57.619 --> 00:19:57.980
 of two

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 ways.

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 They will

00:20:00.660 --> 00:20:02.079
 either become

00:20:02.079 --> 00:20:03.180
 very boastful,

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 they will

00:20:04.259 --> 00:20:04.779
 think that they

00:20:04.779 --> 00:20:05.099
 can do

00:20:05.099 --> 00:20:05.740
 anything, I

00:20:05.740 --> 00:20:06.799
 can jump

00:20:06.799 --> 00:20:07.240
 over that

00:20:07.240 --> 00:20:08.119
 wall, I

00:20:08.119 --> 00:20:08.720
 can fight

00:20:08.720 --> 00:20:09.420
 that crocodile,

00:20:09.960 --> 00:20:10.700
 I can drive

00:20:10.700 --> 00:20:11.759
 a car, I

00:20:11.759 --> 00:20:12.080
 can do

00:20:12.080 --> 00:20:12.460
 anything.

00:20:14.039 --> 00:20:14.559
 None of

00:20:14.559 --> 00:20:14.960
 these are

00:20:14.960 --> 00:20:16.340
 good decisions,

00:20:16.980 --> 00:20:17.600
 but also

00:20:17.600 --> 00:20:20.860
 impacted by

00:20:20.860 --> 00:20:21.759
 alcohol or

00:20:21.759 --> 00:20:22.519
 drugs, the

00:20:22.519 --> 00:20:23.039
 opposite can

00:20:23.039 --> 00:20:23.319
 happen.

00:20:24.819 --> 00:20:25.580
 Alcohol is a

00:20:25.580 --> 00:20:26.620
 depressant, and

00:20:26.620 --> 00:20:27.740
 so people can be

00:20:27.740 --> 00:20:28.720
 depressed, unwilling

00:20:28.720 --> 00:20:29.660
 to do anything,

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 or thinking

00:20:30.860 --> 00:20:31.400
 lowly of

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 themselves.

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 And so Paul

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 is saying,

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 don't react in

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 either of those

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 ways, think

00:20:37.100 --> 00:20:38.400
 clearly of

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 yourself.

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 Think of

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 yourself with

00:20:41.180 --> 00:20:42.140
 sober judgment,

00:20:42.420 --> 00:20:42.980
 in accordance

00:20:42.980 --> 00:20:43.360
 with the

00:20:43.360 --> 00:20:43.840
 faith given

00:20:43.840 --> 00:20:44.160
 you by

00:20:44.160 --> 00:20:44.580
 God.

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 We only

00:20:45.600 --> 00:20:45.980
 need to go

00:20:45.980 --> 00:20:46.400
 back to

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 Romans 3,

00:20:47.759 --> 00:20:48.360
 which has a

00:20:48.360 --> 00:20:49.320
 wonderful contrast

00:20:49.320 --> 00:20:49.880
 that demonstrates

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 this.

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 We have

00:20:52.440 --> 00:20:53.640
 all sinned and

00:20:53.640 --> 00:20:54.300
 fallen short of

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 God's glory.

00:20:55.080 --> 00:20:55.380
 Think of

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 yourselves as

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 incredibly low.

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 We all

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 deserve his

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 punishment.

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 It would be

00:21:01.460 --> 00:21:02.140
 right to think

00:21:02.140 --> 00:21:03.140
 of ourselves as

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 the lowest of

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 the lows.

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 And yet the

00:21:05.460 --> 00:21:06.040
 very next

00:21:06.039 --> 00:21:07.180
 verse, we

00:21:07.180 --> 00:21:07.899
 are all

00:21:07.899 --> 00:21:08.720
 justified

00:21:08.720 --> 00:21:09.559
 freely by

00:21:09.559 --> 00:21:10.279
 his grace

00:21:10.279 --> 00:21:11.059
 through the

00:21:11.059 --> 00:21:11.579
 redemption that

00:21:11.579 --> 00:21:12.039
 came in

00:21:12.039 --> 00:21:12.680
 Christ Jesus.

00:21:13.259 --> 00:21:13.799
 How can we

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 think lowly of

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 ourselves when

00:21:15.240 --> 00:21:15.899
 God has said

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 that his son

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 has died for

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 us and that

00:21:18.000 --> 00:21:18.799
 he values us

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 so highly?

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 It is this

00:21:21.220 --> 00:21:22.159
 wonderful

00:21:22.159 --> 00:21:24.039
 contradiction of

00:21:24.039 --> 00:21:24.639
 holding these

00:21:24.639 --> 00:21:25.259
 two together.

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 We have

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 sinned and

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 fallen far

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 short of the

00:21:28.180 --> 00:21:28.519
 glory of

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 God, and

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 yet in

00:21:29.799 --> 00:21:30.359
 Jesus he

00:21:30.359 --> 00:21:31.119
 redeems us

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 and values

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 us.

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 And so we

00:21:34.420 --> 00:21:34.799
 need to hold

00:21:34.799 --> 00:21:35.200
 these two

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 together because

00:21:36.079 --> 00:21:36.720
 Paul has

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 warned us

00:21:37.500 --> 00:21:38.279
 of the

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 danger of

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 conforming

00:21:40.419 --> 00:21:40.919
 ourselves to

00:21:40.919 --> 00:21:41.220
 the pattern

00:21:41.220 --> 00:21:41.440
 of the

00:21:41.440 --> 00:21:41.779
 world.

00:21:42.879 --> 00:21:43.480
 Our culture

00:21:43.480 --> 00:21:44.399
 gives warnings

00:21:44.399 --> 00:21:45.519
 to low

00:21:45.519 --> 00:21:46.159
 self-esteem.

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 But really

00:21:48.220 --> 00:21:48.700
 the biggest

00:21:48.700 --> 00:21:49.539
 issue of

00:21:49.539 --> 00:21:49.919
 the world

00:21:49.919 --> 00:21:51.279
 is egocentrism

00:21:51.279 --> 00:21:53.159
 and self-centeredness.

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 Having an

00:21:54.879 --> 00:21:55.799
 inflated ego,

00:21:56.599 --> 00:21:57.480
 thinking too

00:21:57.480 --> 00:21:58.279
 highly of

00:21:58.279 --> 00:21:58.859
 ourselves.

00:22:00.619 --> 00:22:01.500
 But we are

00:22:01.500 --> 00:22:02.019
 called to have

00:22:02.019 --> 00:22:02.720
 sober judgment,

00:22:03.000 --> 00:22:03.500
 to think

00:22:03.500 --> 00:22:04.539
 clearly about

00:22:04.539 --> 00:22:04.920
 who we

00:22:04.920 --> 00:22:06.299
 are, in

00:22:06.299 --> 00:22:07.019
 accordance with

00:22:07.019 --> 00:22:07.480
 the faith

00:22:07.480 --> 00:22:08.099
 given us.

00:22:08.940 --> 00:22:09.920
 Now, when I

00:22:09.920 --> 00:22:10.920
 first read this,

00:22:11.000 --> 00:22:11.740
 I thought, in

00:22:11.740 --> 00:22:12.359
 accordance with

00:22:12.359 --> 00:22:13.460
 the faith, it

00:22:13.460 --> 00:22:14.359
 seems like it's

00:22:14.359 --> 00:22:15.160
 about the amount

00:22:15.160 --> 00:22:16.220
 of faith that

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 God has given

00:22:16.880 --> 00:22:17.339
 to me.

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 And so if God

00:22:18.240 --> 00:22:18.859
 has given me

00:22:18.859 --> 00:22:20.240
 much faith, I

00:22:20.240 --> 00:22:21.000
 can think highly

00:22:21.000 --> 00:22:21.700
 of myself.

00:22:22.180 --> 00:22:22.960
 I'm so

00:22:22.960 --> 00:22:24.380
 faithful, I'm

00:22:24.380 --> 00:22:25.019
 really great

00:22:25.019 --> 00:22:25.619
 because of how

00:22:25.619 --> 00:22:26.380
 much faith God

00:22:26.380 --> 00:22:27.079
 has given me.

00:22:28.339 --> 00:22:28.940
 But if you've

00:22:28.940 --> 00:22:30.079
 been with us over

00:22:30.079 --> 00:22:30.839
 the last three

00:22:30.839 --> 00:22:32.519
 weeks, Paul has

00:22:32.519 --> 00:22:33.119
 been talking

00:22:33.119 --> 00:22:33.639
 about the

00:22:33.639 --> 00:22:34.680
 Christians and

00:22:34.680 --> 00:22:35.539
 the Jews and

00:22:35.539 --> 00:22:36.879
 the Gentiles and

00:22:36.879 --> 00:22:37.700
 how salvation

00:22:37.700 --> 00:22:39.220
 works for these

00:22:39.220 --> 00:22:39.819
 groups coming

00:22:39.819 --> 00:22:40.119
 in.

00:22:41.160 --> 00:22:41.539
 And so it's

00:22:41.539 --> 00:22:42.099
 not about how

00:22:42.099 --> 00:22:43.920
 much faith I

00:22:43.920 --> 00:22:44.480
 have.

00:22:45.480 --> 00:22:46.460
 Paul is calling

00:22:46.460 --> 00:22:47.779
 on the Jews not

00:22:47.779 --> 00:22:48.379
 to think too

00:22:48.379 --> 00:22:48.920
 highly of

00:22:48.920 --> 00:22:49.299
 themselves.

00:22:49.740 --> 00:22:50.319
 They have come

00:22:50.319 --> 00:22:50.859
 from a long

00:22:50.859 --> 00:22:51.879
 lineage of people

00:22:51.879 --> 00:22:53.019
 following God.

00:22:53.359 --> 00:22:54.240
 Don't think that

00:22:54.240 --> 00:22:55.059
 you're better because

00:22:55.059 --> 00:22:55.779
 you have this.

00:22:56.160 --> 00:22:57.299
 And Gentiles, just

00:22:57.299 --> 00:22:57.980
 because you've been

00:22:57.980 --> 00:22:58.720
 Christian for about

00:22:58.720 --> 00:22:59.400
 half an hour,

00:22:59.759 --> 00:23:00.319
 don't think of

00:23:00.319 --> 00:23:00.980
 yourselves too

00:23:00.980 --> 00:23:02.819
 lowly, God

00:23:02.819 --> 00:23:03.960
 has given the

00:23:03.960 --> 00:23:06.000
 same faith to

00:23:06.000 --> 00:23:06.679
 each of you.

00:23:07.659 --> 00:23:08.659
 God is the one

00:23:08.659 --> 00:23:09.480
 who gives faith,

00:23:10.179 --> 00:23:10.919
 regardless of

00:23:10.919 --> 00:23:12.119
 background, regardless

00:23:12.119 --> 00:23:13.059
 of abilities and

00:23:13.059 --> 00:23:13.659
 giftings.

00:23:14.279 --> 00:23:15.119
 God loves us

00:23:15.119 --> 00:23:16.179
 equally in Jesus.

00:23:17.700 --> 00:23:18.019
 And so the

00:23:18.019 --> 00:23:20.179
 gospel prevents us

00:23:20.179 --> 00:23:21.539
 from thinking more

00:23:21.539 --> 00:23:22.879
 lowly of ourselves

00:23:22.879 --> 00:23:24.399
 and more highly

00:23:24.399 --> 00:23:25.179
 of ourselves.

00:23:26.159 --> 00:23:27.299
 It's a call to

00:23:27.299 --> 00:23:28.119
 remember who we

00:23:28.119 --> 00:23:28.879
 are in the gospel,

00:23:29.819 --> 00:23:30.759
 valued and loved

00:23:30.759 --> 00:23:31.319
 by God.

00:23:32.339 --> 00:23:34.039
 And so when we

00:23:34.039 --> 00:23:34.859
 are sitting in

00:23:34.859 --> 00:23:35.539
 God's mercy,

00:23:36.299 --> 00:23:37.339
 understanding of

00:23:37.339 --> 00:23:38.859
 who we are,

00:23:39.439 --> 00:23:40.759
 undeserved and

00:23:40.759 --> 00:23:41.719
 yet valued and

00:23:41.719 --> 00:23:44.459
 loved, we

00:23:44.459 --> 00:23:45.579
 understand how we

00:23:45.579 --> 00:23:46.299
 relate to other

00:23:46.299 --> 00:23:46.619
 people.

00:23:47.399 --> 00:23:48.199
 Because we are

00:23:48.199 --> 00:23:49.000
 not saved to be

00:23:49.000 --> 00:23:49.539
 an island.

00:23:50.879 --> 00:23:51.919
 Christians have

00:23:51.919 --> 00:23:53.319
 an interdependent

00:23:53.319 --> 00:23:54.059
 relationship with

00:23:54.059 --> 00:23:54.319
 others.

00:23:54.739 --> 00:23:55.659
 We have a new

00:23:55.659 --> 00:23:56.119
 service.

00:23:56.319 --> 00:23:57.519
 Verse 4 and 5.

00:23:57.519 --> 00:23:58.799
 For just as

00:23:58.799 --> 00:23:59.839
 each of us has

00:23:59.839 --> 00:24:01.119
 one body with

00:24:01.119 --> 00:24:01.859
 many members,

00:24:02.379 --> 00:24:02.819
 and these

00:24:02.819 --> 00:24:03.639
 members do not

00:24:03.639 --> 00:24:04.279
 all have the

00:24:04.279 --> 00:24:04.920
 same function,

00:24:05.680 --> 00:24:06.879
 so in Christ

00:24:06.879 --> 00:24:08.259
 we though many

00:24:08.259 --> 00:24:09.460
 form one body

00:24:09.460 --> 00:24:10.759
 and each member

00:24:10.759 --> 00:24:11.839
 belongs to all

00:24:11.839 --> 00:24:12.299
 the others.

00:24:13.059 --> 00:24:13.619
 We have

00:24:13.619 --> 00:24:14.180
 different gifts,

00:24:14.759 --> 00:24:14.960
 different

00:24:14.960 --> 00:24:15.619
 personalities,

00:24:15.960 --> 00:24:16.579
 different histories

00:24:16.579 --> 00:24:17.379
 and abilities

00:24:17.379 --> 00:24:18.799
 that equip us

00:24:18.799 --> 00:24:19.700
 to serve each

00:24:19.700 --> 00:24:20.379
 other differently.

00:24:21.460 --> 00:24:22.180
 God has

00:24:22.180 --> 00:24:23.139
 deliberately

00:24:23.139 --> 00:24:24.119
 created his

00:24:24.119 --> 00:24:25.500
 church to be

00:24:25.500 --> 00:24:26.319
 a beautiful

00:24:26.319 --> 00:24:27.179
 tapestry of

00:24:27.179 --> 00:24:28.039
 uniqueness and

00:24:28.039 --> 00:24:28.579
 difference.

00:24:29.740 --> 00:24:30.879
 A place where

00:24:30.879 --> 00:24:31.460
 that difference

00:24:31.460 --> 00:24:32.939
 is needed and

00:24:32.939 --> 00:24:34.220
 celebrated and

00:24:34.220 --> 00:24:35.359
 not just ironed

00:24:35.359 --> 00:24:36.200
 out so everybody

00:24:36.200 --> 00:24:37.099
 would look like

00:24:37.099 --> 00:24:38.740
 me because that

00:24:38.740 --> 00:24:39.200
 would be a

00:24:39.200 --> 00:24:39.899
 terrible thing.

00:24:40.980 --> 00:24:41.439
 And then verse

00:24:41.439 --> 00:24:41.759
 6.

00:24:42.179 --> 00:24:42.779
 We have

00:24:42.779 --> 00:24:44.279
 different gifts

00:24:44.279 --> 00:24:46.200
 according to the

00:24:46.200 --> 00:24:47.559
 grace God gives

00:24:47.559 --> 00:24:47.899
 us.

00:24:48.899 --> 00:24:50.259
 God is the one

00:24:50.259 --> 00:24:50.960
 who makes us

00:24:50.960 --> 00:24:51.759
 righteous by his

00:24:51.759 --> 00:24:53.079
 grace and he

00:24:53.079 --> 00:24:53.960
 gives us gifts

00:24:53.960 --> 00:24:55.039
 by that same

00:24:55.039 --> 00:24:55.519
 grace.

00:24:56.660 --> 00:24:57.180
 But these

00:24:57.180 --> 00:24:58.160
 aren't for our

00:24:58.160 --> 00:24:59.120
 benefit, these

00:24:59.120 --> 00:25:00.799
 are to be given

00:25:00.799 --> 00:25:01.519
 to others.

00:25:02.000 --> 00:25:02.460
 They are for

00:25:02.460 --> 00:25:02.779
 others.

00:25:03.519 --> 00:25:04.660
 We all have a

00:25:04.660 --> 00:25:05.920
 role to play in

00:25:05.920 --> 00:25:06.460
 the church.

00:25:07.120 --> 00:25:08.299
 We need others

00:25:08.299 --> 00:25:09.539
 and others

00:25:09.539 --> 00:25:10.559
 need us.

00:25:11.440 --> 00:25:12.180
 When we see

00:25:12.180 --> 00:25:12.900
 ourselves with

00:25:12.900 --> 00:25:13.700
 sober judgment,

00:25:14.240 --> 00:25:14.860
 when we see

00:25:14.860 --> 00:25:15.900
 ourselves rightly,

00:25:16.900 --> 00:25:18.539
 we see that we

00:25:18.539 --> 00:25:19.259
 are not to be on

00:25:19.259 --> 00:25:19.620
 our own.

00:25:19.740 --> 00:25:21.039
 We belong to God

00:25:21.039 --> 00:25:21.980
 as his children,

00:25:22.839 --> 00:25:23.460
 but we also

00:25:23.460 --> 00:25:24.240
 belong to the

00:25:24.240 --> 00:25:24.700
 church.

00:25:25.920 --> 00:25:26.440
 And Paul goes

00:25:26.440 --> 00:25:27.200
 on to list a

00:25:27.200 --> 00:25:27.980
 number of gifts.

00:25:28.339 --> 00:25:28.960
 It's similar to

00:25:28.960 --> 00:25:29.639
 the list in 1

00:25:29.639 --> 00:25:30.700
 Corinthians 12 and

00:25:30.700 --> 00:25:31.420
 Ephesians 4.

00:25:31.599 --> 00:25:32.279
 I'm not going to

00:25:32.279 --> 00:25:33.259
 extensively look at

00:25:33.259 --> 00:25:34.099
 this list today,

00:25:34.920 --> 00:25:35.700
 but you can see

00:25:35.700 --> 00:25:36.680
 that as we go

00:25:36.680 --> 00:25:37.059
 through this,

00:25:37.359 --> 00:25:38.460
 these are gifts

00:25:38.460 --> 00:25:39.519
 for others.

00:25:40.019 --> 00:25:40.759
 These are other

00:25:40.759 --> 00:25:41.519
 person-centered.

00:25:42.599 --> 00:25:43.139
 And so if your

00:25:43.139 --> 00:25:44.240
 gift is prophesying,

00:25:44.859 --> 00:25:45.740
 then prophesy in

00:25:45.740 --> 00:25:46.240
 accordance with

00:25:46.240 --> 00:25:46.740
 your faith.

00:25:46.960 --> 00:25:47.759
 If it's serving,

00:25:47.879 --> 00:25:48.240
 then serve.

00:25:48.319 --> 00:25:48.960
 If it's teaching,

00:25:49.079 --> 00:25:49.619
 then teach.

00:25:49.619 --> 00:25:50.959
 If it's to

00:25:50.959 --> 00:25:51.399
 encourage,

00:25:51.539 --> 00:25:52.079
 then give

00:25:52.079 --> 00:25:52.859
 encouragement.

00:25:53.719 --> 00:25:54.519
 If it's giving,

00:25:54.639 --> 00:25:55.359
 then give generously.

00:25:56.039 --> 00:25:56.719
 If it's to lead,

00:25:56.799 --> 00:25:57.379
 do it diligently.

00:25:57.659 --> 00:25:58.239
 If it's to show

00:25:58.239 --> 00:25:59.959
 mercy, do it

00:25:59.959 --> 00:26:00.579
 cheerfully.

00:26:02.279 --> 00:26:03.939
 I recently did a

00:26:03.939 --> 00:26:04.699
 gifts assessment.

00:26:05.719 --> 00:26:06.479
 It's one of the

00:26:06.479 --> 00:26:08.059
 things that we are

00:26:08.059 --> 00:26:08.879
 working on as a

00:26:08.879 --> 00:26:09.159
 church.

00:26:09.899 --> 00:26:11.379
 I have done these

00:26:11.379 --> 00:26:12.179
 gifts assessment in

00:26:12.179 --> 00:26:12.699
 the past.

00:26:12.879 --> 00:26:13.799
 If you don't know

00:26:13.799 --> 00:26:14.399
 of them, what you

00:26:14.399 --> 00:26:15.779
 do is you go

00:26:15.779 --> 00:26:16.419
 through a bunch of

00:26:16.419 --> 00:26:18.479
 questions just to

00:26:18.480 --> 00:26:19.960
 see and help you

00:26:19.960 --> 00:26:23.019
 identify how God

00:26:23.019 --> 00:26:24.420
 has gifted you

00:26:24.420 --> 00:26:25.319
 because he has

00:26:25.319 --> 00:26:26.559
 gifted us all very

00:26:26.559 --> 00:26:27.000
 differently.

00:26:27.920 --> 00:26:28.579
 And two of the

00:26:28.579 --> 00:26:29.420
 main gifts that

00:26:29.420 --> 00:26:30.779
 stuck out to me

00:26:30.779 --> 00:26:31.720
 this time as I

00:26:31.720 --> 00:26:33.559
 did it was hosting

00:26:33.559 --> 00:26:35.380
 and evangelism.

00:26:36.360 --> 00:26:37.000
 And I think that's,

00:26:37.400 --> 00:26:37.860
 it was really

00:26:37.860 --> 00:26:38.559
 helpful for me to

00:26:38.559 --> 00:26:39.319
 do that because it's

00:26:39.319 --> 00:26:40.240
 reminded me of one

00:26:40.240 --> 00:26:41.519
 of my great loves,

00:26:42.059 --> 00:26:43.380
 being part of the

00:26:43.380 --> 00:26:45.019
 church, having people

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 at my house and

00:26:46.279 --> 00:26:47.559
 eating food together.

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 I'm not sure if

00:26:48.679 --> 00:26:49.299
 you've done that

00:26:49.299 --> 00:26:49.799
 with me.

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 I'm not going to

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 ask for a show of

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 hands.

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 If you haven't been

00:26:52.659 --> 00:26:53.279
 to my house and

00:26:53.279 --> 00:26:54.480
 eaten food, I'd love

00:26:54.480 --> 00:26:55.119
 you to come to my

00:26:55.119 --> 00:26:55.980
 house and eat food.

00:26:56.779 --> 00:26:57.500
 Hosting is one of

00:26:57.500 --> 00:26:58.339
 my favorite things.

00:26:59.419 --> 00:27:00.799
 I saw these two

00:27:00.799 --> 00:27:01.960
 gifts, hosting and

00:27:01.960 --> 00:27:02.819
 evangelism, and I

00:27:02.819 --> 00:27:04.240
 thought, yes, this

00:27:04.240 --> 00:27:05.099
 is something I love

00:27:05.099 --> 00:27:05.599
 to do.

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 And I saw this as

00:27:08.940 --> 00:27:09.720
 also a wonderful

00:27:09.720 --> 00:27:11.339
 combination in a way

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 that I haven't really

00:27:11.980 --> 00:27:12.940
 done it, done it in

00:27:12.940 --> 00:27:13.980
 an evangelistic way.

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 And so as I

00:27:15.079 --> 00:27:15.619
 mentioned, I'm having

00:27:15.619 --> 00:27:16.359
 lunch with this guy

00:27:16.359 --> 00:27:17.240
 on Wednesday, I

00:27:17.240 --> 00:27:17.879
 really want to have

00:27:17.879 --> 00:27:18.939
 him and his family

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 over and eat food

00:27:21.000 --> 00:27:22.939
 with them and share

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 not just bread, but

00:27:25.399 --> 00:27:26.799
 also the good news

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 of Jesus.

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 And so that's one

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 thing that's

00:27:29.939 --> 00:27:31.319
 encouraging me, this

00:27:31.319 --> 00:27:32.119
 other person

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 centeredness of these

00:27:33.139 --> 00:27:33.399
 gifts.

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 Do you know what

00:27:35.539 --> 00:27:36.500
 your gifts are?

00:27:38.519 --> 00:27:39.539
 Do you know how

00:27:39.539 --> 00:27:40.559
 God has uniquely

00:27:40.559 --> 00:27:42.699
 created you as part

00:27:42.699 --> 00:27:43.879
 of the church to

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 love and serve other

00:27:45.700 --> 00:27:46.100
 people?

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 Now, I know

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 because I've done

00:27:49.700 --> 00:27:50.620
 these in the past.

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 I know how God

00:27:52.440 --> 00:27:53.940
 has gifted me and

00:27:53.940 --> 00:27:54.779
 it's led me into

00:27:54.779 --> 00:27:55.920
 pastoral ministry.

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 But I still needed

00:27:58.640 --> 00:28:00.600
 that reminder to

00:28:00.600 --> 00:28:01.840
 encourage me to lean

00:28:01.840 --> 00:28:03.019
 into that, to be

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 doing that more.

00:28:05.640 --> 00:28:06.700
 Come and talk with me

00:28:06.700 --> 00:28:07.400
 after church.

00:28:08.120 --> 00:28:09.720
 I've got a test that

00:28:09.720 --> 00:28:10.559
 I can get you to do

00:28:10.559 --> 00:28:11.680
 if you would like to

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 do that.

00:28:12.980 --> 00:28:13.319
 That would be

00:28:13.319 --> 00:28:14.299
 wonderful and helpful

00:28:14.299 --> 00:28:14.899
 to be thinking

00:28:14.899 --> 00:28:15.579
 about this.

00:28:17.319 --> 00:28:18.740
 A reordered view

00:28:18.740 --> 00:28:20.879
 of God, a reordered

00:28:20.879 --> 00:28:22.019
 view of ourselves,

00:28:22.799 --> 00:28:24.059
 helps us to have a

00:28:24.059 --> 00:28:25.159
 healthy Christian life

00:28:25.159 --> 00:28:26.720
 to serve others as

00:28:26.720 --> 00:28:27.500
 part of the church.

00:28:28.539 --> 00:28:29.460
 It presents a

00:28:29.460 --> 00:28:30.700
 wonderful picture of

00:28:30.700 --> 00:28:31.839
 the church's family,

00:28:32.899 --> 00:28:34.720
 where we know our

00:28:34.720 --> 00:28:36.200
 place, we know our

00:28:36.200 --> 00:28:37.460
 roles, and know the

00:28:37.460 --> 00:28:38.619
 one who is directing

00:28:38.619 --> 00:28:39.299
 things.

00:28:39.299 --> 00:28:42.200
 And the key to all of

00:28:42.200 --> 00:28:43.399
 it is our relationship

00:28:43.399 --> 00:28:44.839
 with the head, with

00:28:44.839 --> 00:28:46.819
 God, the one who is

00:28:46.819 --> 00:28:47.819
 directing all things.

00:28:49.099 --> 00:28:50.159
 Because when we don't

00:28:50.159 --> 00:28:51.279
 have that relationship

00:28:51.279 --> 00:28:53.019
 first, it all falls

00:28:53.019 --> 00:28:53.339
 apart.

00:28:54.299 --> 00:28:55.899
 I did a funeral last

00:28:55.899 --> 00:28:56.159
 week.

00:28:56.639 --> 00:28:57.779
 I haven't done funerals

00:28:57.779 --> 00:28:59.700
 for a while, but I was

00:28:59.700 --> 00:29:00.500
 involved in a funeral,

00:29:00.639 --> 00:29:02.559
 and it reminded me of the

00:29:02.559 --> 00:29:04.180
 impact that happens on a

00:29:04.180 --> 00:29:06.700
 family when a patriarch or

00:29:06.700 --> 00:29:08.299
 a matriarch dies.

00:29:08.860 --> 00:29:09.960
 I'm not sure if you've

00:29:09.960 --> 00:29:10.980
 seen this before, but

00:29:10.980 --> 00:29:12.620
 there's often in families

00:29:12.620 --> 00:29:14.319
 one key person that's

00:29:14.319 --> 00:29:15.680
 holding things together.

00:29:16.340 --> 00:29:16.680
 You know, you think

00:29:16.680 --> 00:29:17.519
 about Christmas time,

00:29:17.779 --> 00:29:18.740
 all of the different

00:29:18.740 --> 00:29:19.620
 families get together

00:29:19.620 --> 00:29:20.519
 because they have to

00:29:20.519 --> 00:29:21.500
 spend time with that

00:29:21.500 --> 00:29:23.059
 one key person.

00:29:23.519 --> 00:29:24.580
 It's the grandmother

00:29:24.580 --> 00:29:25.840
 who's making sure that

00:29:25.840 --> 00:29:27.019
 everybody brings the

00:29:27.019 --> 00:29:27.860
 food and everybody

00:29:27.860 --> 00:29:28.299
 gathers.

00:29:29.680 --> 00:29:31.039
 But what can happen is

00:29:31.039 --> 00:29:33.059
 that when that person

00:29:33.059 --> 00:29:35.980
 passes, there can be

00:29:35.980 --> 00:29:37.940
 bickering and infighting.

00:29:38.200 --> 00:29:39.039
 People don't know how

00:29:39.039 --> 00:29:39.900
 to relate to each other

00:29:39.900 --> 00:29:40.940
 anymore because there

00:29:40.940 --> 00:29:42.180
 is that one person

00:29:42.180 --> 00:29:43.259
 holding everything

00:29:43.259 --> 00:29:43.900
 together.

00:29:45.539 --> 00:29:47.380
 And slowly the families

00:29:47.380 --> 00:29:48.200
 pull apart.

00:29:49.299 --> 00:29:50.680
 What used to hold them

00:29:50.680 --> 00:29:53.640
 together now has gone

00:29:53.640 --> 00:29:54.440
 and so they're just

00:29:54.440 --> 00:29:54.920
 divided.

00:29:55.880 --> 00:29:57.920
 I wonder if we can view

00:29:57.920 --> 00:29:59.200
 Christianity as just

00:29:59.200 --> 00:30:01.680
 people who are similar

00:30:01.680 --> 00:30:02.900
 and so we just spend

00:30:02.900 --> 00:30:05.160
 time together, but other

00:30:05.160 --> 00:30:06.200
 than a Sunday, you

00:30:06.200 --> 00:30:07.060
 know, we're not really

00:30:07.060 --> 00:30:08.420
 in each other's lives

00:30:08.420 --> 00:30:09.180
 and that's not

00:30:09.180 --> 00:30:09.640
 important.

00:30:10.440 --> 00:30:11.700
 We can try and hold

00:30:11.700 --> 00:30:12.800
 our Christianity

00:30:12.800 --> 00:30:16.220
 together without God

00:30:16.220 --> 00:30:17.180
 at the centre.

00:30:19.080 --> 00:30:20.100
 It's going to be useless

00:30:20.100 --> 00:30:21.220
 to try and do that as a

00:30:21.220 --> 00:30:21.860
 Christian community

00:30:21.860 --> 00:30:23.220
 without God at the

00:30:23.220 --> 00:30:23.440
 centre.

00:30:23.580 --> 00:30:24.420
 He is the key.

00:30:24.779 --> 00:30:25.680
 He is the one who

00:30:25.680 --> 00:30:27.480
 defines our relationships.

00:30:28.300 --> 00:30:29.259
 And thankfully, he'll

00:30:29.259 --> 00:30:30.100
 never pass away because

00:30:30.100 --> 00:30:30.700
 he's eternal.

00:30:30.700 --> 00:30:33.880
 But he is the one who

00:30:33.880 --> 00:30:34.680
 is over all our

00:30:34.680 --> 00:30:35.120
 relationships.

00:30:35.259 --> 00:30:35.960
 He is the one who

00:30:35.960 --> 00:30:38.000
 gives shape to who we

00:30:38.000 --> 00:30:39.539
 are and who we are as a

00:30:39.539 --> 00:30:39.900
 church.

00:30:41.279 --> 00:30:42.920
 Knowing how good he has

00:30:42.920 --> 00:30:45.539
 been through much sin

00:30:45.539 --> 00:30:47.299
 and much rebellion

00:30:47.299 --> 00:30:49.840
 shapes us and calls us

00:30:49.840 --> 00:30:51.019
 to forgive one another.

00:30:52.019 --> 00:30:53.720
 Knowing his undeserved

00:30:53.720 --> 00:30:55.860
 loves give shape to our

00:30:55.860 --> 00:30:56.460
 identity.

00:30:56.460 --> 00:30:56.519
 mercy.

00:30:58.019 --> 00:30:59.900
 And so, brothers and

00:30:59.900 --> 00:31:01.920
 sisters, tonight,

00:31:02.440 --> 00:31:04.259
 tomorrow, sometime this

00:31:04.259 --> 00:31:06.400
 week, let me call you to

00:31:06.400 --> 00:31:08.340
 do what Paul did in verse

00:31:08.340 --> 00:31:11.680
 one, to meditate on God's

00:31:11.680 --> 00:31:12.140
 mercies.

00:31:12.880 --> 00:31:14.240
 When we meditate on God's

00:31:14.240 --> 00:31:15.660
 mercies, it gives shape to

00:31:15.660 --> 00:31:16.680
 our relationship with him.

00:31:16.940 --> 00:31:18.340
 It gives shape to who we

00:31:18.340 --> 00:31:20.039
 are as his people and how we

00:31:20.039 --> 00:31:20.960
 serve everyone else.

00:31:21.860 --> 00:31:24.240
 And so this week, sit in

00:31:24.240 --> 00:31:25.000
 his mercies.

00:31:25.599 --> 00:31:26.519
 Read a psalm.

00:31:27.400 --> 00:31:28.980
 Go through the last 11

00:31:28.980 --> 00:31:29.819
 chapters of Romans.

00:31:29.920 --> 00:31:30.720
 Just flick through them.

00:31:31.539 --> 00:31:32.039
 Find a heading.

00:31:32.180 --> 00:31:32.859
 Read a part.

00:31:33.220 --> 00:31:34.319
 And just remind yourself of

00:31:34.319 --> 00:31:36.859
 how good God has been to

00:31:36.859 --> 00:31:37.140
 you.

00:31:38.920 --> 00:31:40.500
 Even remember your story.

00:31:41.420 --> 00:31:43.519
 Sit in your story as a

00:31:43.519 --> 00:31:45.259
 Christian and meditate on

00:31:45.259 --> 00:31:46.620
 his mercies and love to

00:31:46.620 --> 00:31:46.819
 you.

00:31:47.299 --> 00:31:48.240
 Let me pray for us.

00:31:48.240 --> 00:31:53.920
 Heavenly Father, we thank

00:31:53.920 --> 00:31:56.559
 you for your love and your

00:31:56.559 --> 00:31:57.579
 mercy in Jesus.

00:31:58.059 --> 00:31:59.480
 That while we were still

00:31:59.480 --> 00:32:02.440
 far off, you sent Jesus to

00:32:02.440 --> 00:32:05.380
 die, to come to life, to

00:32:05.380 --> 00:32:06.480
 give us life in you.

00:32:07.279 --> 00:32:08.960
 Father, help us never be far

00:32:08.960 --> 00:32:09.400
 from you.

00:32:10.720 --> 00:32:12.900
 Help us to draw close to you

00:32:12.900 --> 00:32:14.960
 by remembering your mercy so

00:32:14.960 --> 00:32:16.019
 that it would shape our

00:32:16.019 --> 00:32:17.160
 relationship with you.

00:32:17.960 --> 00:32:19.420
 Shape who we are as your

00:32:19.420 --> 00:32:21.200
 people and us as your

00:32:21.200 --> 00:32:21.599
 church.

00:32:22.400 --> 00:32:24.240
 We pray this in Jesus' name.

00:32:24.759 --> 00:32:25.079
 Amen.