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 Good morning again, welcome to Church of the Advent.

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 My name is Jeff, I'm one of the pastors here.

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 A warm welcome to you, especially if you're new

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 or this is your first time joining us.

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 We'd love to meet you after the service

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 and get to know more about you and hear more of your story.

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 So please come say hello after the service.

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 In the summer and fall of last year, 2023,

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 during the Writers Guild strike in the entertainment industry,

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 five of the late night TV show hosts,

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 Jimmy Fallon, Jimmy Kimmel, Seth Meyers,

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 John Oliver, and Stephen Colbert,

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 these five TV show hosts got together and started a podcast.

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 Maybe a few of you may have heard of it.

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 The podcast is called Strike Force Five.

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 The idea is that while their shows were off the air

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 due to the industry strike,

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 that they would get together and do a show

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 and talk and produce some content.

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 And then they would donate all the proceeds

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 from the sponsors of the podcast

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 to people who worked on their show

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 and were out of work because of the strike.

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 And it was a cool idea.

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 And this past week, I started listening to it

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 and I started listening to the first episode.

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 And interestingly enough, in part of the first episode,

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 these five late night TV show hosts

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 started talking about,

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 I just came up in conversation,

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 what they wanted to be when they were kids,

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 what they wanted to be when they grew up,

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 when they were kids.

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 And interestingly enough,

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 four of the five hosts said that when they were kids,

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 they had the thought about someday

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 working in a church as pastors or priests.

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 I've actually heard Jimmy Fallon on a number of occasions

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 actually tell a story about how he,

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 for a while as a kid,

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 thought about being a priest.

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 John Oliver, who's British,

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 who grew up in the UK,

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 said that he told his dad one day

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 that he wanted to be a vicar.

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 And John Oliver's dad said to him,

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 no, you don't.

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 You just want people to listen to you.

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 And I think that's pretty appropriate

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 given what he does for his vocation today.

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 This is an interesting data point,

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 I think for a lot of reasons,

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 that four out of five late night TV talk shows,

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 all at one point when growing up,

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 thought about going into ordained ministry.

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 That's pretty fascinating.

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 In many ways, being a pastor or priest

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 is very far, very different

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 from being a late night talk show host.

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 But there's at least one thing

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 that they have in common.

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 And what they both have in common

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 is they both involve a lot of speaking.

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 They both involve a lot of talking.

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 And if I had to guess,

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 I would guess that these talk show hosts,

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 very on in their life,

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 understood something at a very young age.

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 They understood something

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 about the power of words,

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 about the ability for words

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 to influence and shape people

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 in the world around them.

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 The power of words

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 is what our New Testament passage,

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 James chapter three,

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 is about this morning.

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 In this passage,

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 James is talking about

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 about the power of the tongue,

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 the power of speech,

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 the power of words,

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 and also the need for the tongue,

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 the need for our words

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 to be mastered and tamed and healed.

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 And so that's what we're gonna look at this morning.

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 We're gonna look at the power of the tongue

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 and the healing of the tongue.

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 The power of the tongue

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 and the healing of the tongue.

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 In the first several verses

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 here in James chapter three,

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 in verses three through six,

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 James gives us a series of illustrations

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 to talk about the power of the tongue.

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 So in verse three,

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 he compares the tongue

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 to the power of a bit over a horse.

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 A bit is that piece of metal

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 that is put into the horse's mouth

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 and attached to the reins

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 so the rider can direct the horse.

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 In verse three, he says,

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 if we put bits into the mouths of horses

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 so that they obey us,

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 we guide their whole bodies as well.

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 In verse four,

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 he compares the tongue

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 to the power of a rudder over a ship.

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 Verse four, he says,

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 look at the ships also.

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 Though they are so large

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 and driven by strong winds,

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 they are guided by a very small rudder

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 wherever the will of the pilot directs.

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 And then in verses five and six,

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 James compares the tongue

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 to the power of a small fire over a forest.

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 He says,

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 how great a forest is set ablaze

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 by such a small fire.

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 And the tongue is a fire,

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 a world of unrighteousness.

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 The tongue is set up among our members,

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 stating the whole body,

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 setting on fire the entire course of life

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 and set on fire by hell.

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 Strong words.

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 All three illustrations hang together

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 in what James says in verse five.

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 So also,

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 the tongue is a small member

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 and yet,

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 it boasts of great things.

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 Although the tongue is a small thing,

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 it has a powerful effect in the world.

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 It has a powerful effect on our lives

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 and in the lives of others.

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 You can accomplish a lot of good things

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 if you channel the power of a horse.

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 If you,

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 you can travel long distances,

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 you can plow a field,

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 but you can also use a horse to trample somebody.

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 You can accomplish a lot of good things

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 if you channel the power of a ship.

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 You can cross oceans.

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 You can transport goods and grow an economy.

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 You can also run a ship aground.

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 You can accomplish a lot of great things

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 if you channel the power of a small fire.

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 You can bring warmth on a cold day.

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 You can cook a meal,

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 but you can also set a forest on fire.

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 Our words are the same way.

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 They can be used to bring life

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 and flourishing into the world.

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 They can be used to build someone up,

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 to encourage them,

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 honor them,

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 comfort them.

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 They can be used to teach a congregation

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 or a small group or a class

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 in the truth of God's word.

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 There's lots of ways we can use words

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 to bring life to other people,

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 but can also have the opposite effect.

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 Our words can be used to harm

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 and to hurt others as well.

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 Not to build somebody up,

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 but to tear them down.

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 Not to encourage somebody,

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 but to discourage somebody.

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 Not to honor somebody,

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 but to dishonor them.

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 Not to heal,

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 but to destroy.

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 And this is why James

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 has an incredibly sober tone

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 in this passage,

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 and his words are full of warning

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 and caution about our speech.

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 If our words are not harnessed

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 and controlled,

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 they can be like a fire

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 that can set our relationships

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 and our families

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 and our workplace

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 and our churches ablaze.

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 And so because the tongue

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 has such great power,

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 we all need to master it.

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 We all need to have

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 self-discipline over it.

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 Now notice,

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 in verse one,

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 that James says,

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 one of the first applications

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 given the power of the tongue

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 is to teachers and pastors

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 in the church.

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 In verse one,

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 he says,

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 not many of you

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 should become teachers,

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 my brothers,

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 for you know that we who teach

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 will be judged

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 with greater strictness.

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 He's not talking about

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 the ultimate day of judgment,

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 but he's referring to the fact

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 that those who teach

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 and lead in the church

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 will one day have to give

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 an account to God

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 for whether they were faithful

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 to teach sound doctrine

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 and shepherd those

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 under their care faithfully.

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 Listen to the words

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 of Hebrews chapter 13,

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 verse 17.

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 Obey your leaders

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 and submit to them,

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 for they are keeping watch

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 over your souls

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 as those who will have

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 to give an account,

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 as those who will have

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 to give an account.

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 And so how does this relate

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 to what James is saying

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 in this passage

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 about the power of the tongue?

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 Well, as those in authority,

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 the words of pastors

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 and teachers

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 and leaders

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 have a powerful impact

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 on the lives of others,

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 on the lives of those

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 they lead.

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 Not only are teachers

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 in the church

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 called to rightly handle

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 the word of God,

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 they are also called

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 to live up to that teaching

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 with their lives.

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 This is why Jesus

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 so many times

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 in the gospel

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 has strong words

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 for the Pharisees,

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 the scribes

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 and the Pharisees

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 who take great pride

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 in their knowledge

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 and their teaching

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 and yet don't follow through,

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 who don't live up

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 to that in practice.

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 And those who teach,

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 those who lead,

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 are especially prone

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 to sins of the tongue

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 because they spend

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 so much time talking.

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 My professor

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 from Covenant Seminary,

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 Dr. Dan Doriani,

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 a New Testament professor,

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 puts it this way.

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 He says,

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 teachers are especially vulnerable

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 to failures of speech

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 because their role demands

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 that they speak so much.

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 More words

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 mean more errors.

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 As we grow accustomed

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 to public speaking,

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 we can become careless.

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 When asked to offer an opinion,

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 we tend to comply

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 even if we don't have

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 the qualifications

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 or expertise.

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 Humor

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 can be a dangerous gift.

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 It pleases the crowd,

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 but can easily wound

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 or mislead.

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 Too many laughs

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 come at someone else's expense.

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 More words

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 mean more errors.

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 The encouragement

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 to exercise caution

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 over the tongue

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 and self-discipline

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 with our words

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 is first and foremost

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 directed at people like me,

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 at leaders and teachers

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 and pastors in the church.

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 But it also

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 applies to everyone.

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 If you notice

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 what comes next

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 in verse two,

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 James says,

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 for we all stumble

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 in many ways.

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 And if anyone

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 does not stumble

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 in what he says,

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 he is a perfect man,

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 able also to bridle

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 his whole body.

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 Listen,

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 do you want to live

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 a life of

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 self-mastery?

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 Do you want to live

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 a life of discipline

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 in various areas

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 of your life?

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 Do you want to be

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 a more disciplined person?

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 Learn to come

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 control your tongue.

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 James says,

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 if you can control

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 your tongue,

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 you can control

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 your whole life.

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 If you can master

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 your words,

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 you can master

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 your whole life.

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 Why?

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 Because the tongue

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 has incredible power.

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 It's like a bit

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 in a horse's mouth.

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 It's like the rudder

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 of a ship.

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 It's like a small spark

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 in a forest.

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 It can do amazing good.

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 It can also do great harm.

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 And therefore,

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 it's absolutely critical

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 that we master our tongue,

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 that we practice

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 self-discipline

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 over our words,

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 that we become aware

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 of our worst

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 and most common

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 tendencies and impulses,

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 our particular

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 sins of speech.

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 Given how powerful

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 the tongue is,

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 where and when

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 do you need

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 to speak less?

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 Where do you need

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 to practice

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 more restraint

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 and self-discipline

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 with your words?

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 We would all do well

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 to apply James'

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 encouragement

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 two chapters earlier

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 in James 1,

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 verse 19.

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 Let everyone

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 be quick to listen,

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 slow to speak,

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 and slow to become angry.

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 Where do you need

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 to speak less?

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 But also,

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 given the power

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 of the tongue,

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 we could also ask

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 the flip side question.

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 Given the power

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 of the tongue,

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 where do you need

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 to speak more?

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 Where do you need

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 to speak more

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 with words of life

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 and hope

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 and encouragement

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 and comfort?

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 Where are you

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 holding back?

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 Who in your life

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 today or this week

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 needs to receive

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 an encouraging note

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 or email

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 or text from you?

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 How can you

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 blow wind

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 into somebody's sails

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 through your words?

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 Now, having said all that,

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 if we just stop there,

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 in verse 6,

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 we would miss

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 something really important

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 because we would miss

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 what James shows us next,

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 the connection

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 between the tongue

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 and the heart.

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 If you're going

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 to master your tongue,

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 you need self-discipline,

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 but self-discipline alone

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 isn't all you need.

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 You need to address

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 actually what's going

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 underneath,

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 what's going on

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 underneath at the heart level

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 because the tongue

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 is connected

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 connected to the heart.

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 And that's what James

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 looks at next

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 in the next five verses.

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 And so we want to look

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 at the healing

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 of the tongue.

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 The healing of the tongue.

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 Next in verse 7,

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 James continues

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 with these words.

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 He says,

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 for every kind

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 of beast and bird,

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 a reptile and sea creature

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 can be tamed

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 and has been tamed

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 by mankind,

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 but no human being

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 can tame the tongue.

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 It is a restless evil

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 full of deadly poison.

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 You would think

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 that wild animals

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 would be way more difficult

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 to tame

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 than something like

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 our tongues.

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 But James says,

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 we've tamed every wild animal

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 and yet no one

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 can tame the tongue.

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 Why?

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 Because the tongue

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 is connected to the heart.

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 Because it's a restless evil.

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 It's full of deadly poison.

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 What does he mean?

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 Well, he tells us

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 in verses 9 and 10,

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 with it,

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 we bless our Lord and Father

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 and with it,

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 we curse people

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 who are made

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 in the likeness of God.

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 For with the same mouth

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 come both blessing

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 and cursing.

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 When it comes to our words,

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 there's this deadly irony

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 that we can bless God

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 with our mouths,

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 that we can pray to him

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 with our lips,

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 we can sing to him

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 in worship,

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 and yet with the same mouth,

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 we can slander

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 other people's reputation,

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 we can tear

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 other people's down,

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 we can spread

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 false information,

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 ruin other people's reputation.

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 And James says,

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 when we're doing this,

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 what we're doing

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 is we're actually cursing

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 other people.

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 We are cursing,

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 we are bringing a curse

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 onto someone

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 who is made

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 in the image

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 and the likeness of God.

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 And when we curse

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 someone made

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 in the image of God,

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 we are also cursing

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 God himself.

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 When is a time recently

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 when you said something

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 that you shouldn't have,

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 where you regretted it later?

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 Maybe it was gossip,

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 maybe it was boasting,

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 maybe it was

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 slightly distorting

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 the truth

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 to make yourself

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 look better,

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 maybe it was criticism

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 that wasn't completely fair

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 that hurt somebody.

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 And what these verses

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 in James

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 would lead us

00:15:29.300 --> 00:15:30.280
 to ask is this,

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 what was in your heart

00:15:32.700 --> 00:15:35.100
 that caused you

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 to say that?

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 Was it anger?

00:15:40.220 --> 00:15:41.360
 Was it bitterness?

00:15:42.960 --> 00:15:44.620
 Was it jealousy?

00:15:46.740 --> 00:15:47.340
 Insecurity?

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 Pride?

00:15:48.700 --> 00:15:49.019
 Fear?

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 See, when anger

00:15:51.420 --> 00:15:52.019
 or bitterness

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 or insecurity

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 or fear

00:15:53.940 --> 00:15:56.860
 become words,

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 especially words

00:15:58.180 --> 00:15:59.400
 that harm other people,

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 what we're doing

00:16:00.620 --> 00:16:01.759
 is that we are trying

00:16:01.759 --> 00:16:02.660
 to resolve

00:16:02.660 --> 00:16:04.980
 what's in our hearts.

00:16:05.080 --> 00:16:06.100
 We're trying to resolve

00:16:06.100 --> 00:16:08.340
 our own negative feelings

00:16:08.340 --> 00:16:10.700
 by transferring them

00:16:10.700 --> 00:16:11.600
 onto somebody else.

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 I feel angry

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 so I'm gonna talk

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 negatively about somebody else

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 so I can feel better,

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 so I can feel less angry.

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 I feel insecure

00:16:22.220 --> 00:16:24.259
 and therefore

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 I'm going to

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 tear someone else down

00:16:26.560 --> 00:16:28.759
 so I can build myself up.

00:16:30.220 --> 00:16:31.540
 What we are doing

00:16:31.540 --> 00:16:33.940
 is we are seeking

00:16:33.940 --> 00:16:34.980
 our own healing

00:16:34.980 --> 00:16:37.899
 by cursing other people,

00:16:37.980 --> 00:16:39.060
 people made in the image

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 of God.

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 And this is a deadly cycle

00:16:41.900 --> 00:16:43.560
 that all of us

00:16:43.560 --> 00:16:44.840
 perpetuate to some degree.

00:16:45.740 --> 00:16:46.600
 It's a cycle

00:16:46.600 --> 00:16:47.360
 that James says

00:16:47.360 --> 00:16:48.900
 can spread like wildfire

00:16:48.900 --> 00:16:50.700
 and destroy relationships

00:16:50.700 --> 00:16:51.480
 and workplaces

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 and communities

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 and churches.

00:16:54.820 --> 00:16:55.540
 Verse 11,

00:16:56.960 --> 00:16:57.800
 James continues

00:16:57.800 --> 00:16:59.620
 the connection

00:16:59.620 --> 00:17:00.460
 between the tongue

00:17:00.460 --> 00:17:00.900
 and the heart.

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 He says,

00:17:01.220 --> 00:17:02.060
 does a spring

00:17:02.060 --> 00:17:03.500
 pour forth

00:17:03.500 --> 00:17:04.440
 the same opening

00:17:04.440 --> 00:17:05.140
 both fresh

00:17:05.140 --> 00:17:05.920
 and salt water?

00:17:06.880 --> 00:17:07.720
 Can a fig tree,

00:17:07.799 --> 00:17:08.200
 my brothers,

00:17:08.319 --> 00:17:08.940
 bear olives

00:17:08.940 --> 00:17:10.819
 or a grapevine

00:17:10.819 --> 00:17:11.920
 produce figs?

00:17:12.720 --> 00:17:14.160
 Neither can a salt pond

00:17:14.160 --> 00:17:14.920
 yield

00:17:14.920 --> 00:17:16.680
 fresh water.

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 If you're paying attention,

00:17:18.920 --> 00:17:19.759
 you notice

00:17:19.759 --> 00:17:20.660
 that there's echoes

00:17:20.660 --> 00:17:22.759
 of Jesus' words

00:17:22.759 --> 00:17:23.700
 in Matthew 12

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 where Jesus says

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 to the Pharisees

00:17:25.940 --> 00:17:27.299
 that a tree

00:17:27.299 --> 00:17:28.039
 is known

00:17:28.039 --> 00:17:30.380
 by its fruit.

00:17:31.180 --> 00:17:32.279
 For out of the abundance

00:17:32.279 --> 00:17:33.259
 of the heart,

00:17:34.100 --> 00:17:35.320
 out of the abundance

00:17:35.320 --> 00:17:35.900
 of the heart,

00:17:35.980 --> 00:17:37.480
 the mouth speaks.

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 And this is the thrust

00:17:39.039 --> 00:17:39.500
 of what James

00:17:39.500 --> 00:17:39.940
 is getting at.

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 He's getting at the heart

00:17:40.720 --> 00:17:43.100
 just as a fresh spring,

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 water spring

00:17:44.200 --> 00:17:45.059
 can only bring forth

00:17:45.059 --> 00:17:45.660
 fresh water

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 just as a fig tree

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 can only produce figs.

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 So our words

00:17:50.160 --> 00:17:51.759
 reveal who we truly are.

00:17:52.220 --> 00:17:53.220
 Our words reveal

00:17:53.220 --> 00:17:53.860
 what's truly

00:17:53.860 --> 00:17:54.559
 in our hearts.

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 You wanna know

00:17:56.960 --> 00:17:57.720
 who you truly are?

00:17:58.980 --> 00:17:59.980
 This afternoon,

00:18:01.360 --> 00:18:02.360
 hit record

00:18:02.360 --> 00:18:03.579
 on your smartphone

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 and just leave it on

00:18:05.620 --> 00:18:06.079
 all week.

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 And let it record

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 everything you say.

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 And then after a week,

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 play it back.

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 That's what's in your heart.

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 That's who you truly are.

00:18:18.640 --> 00:18:19.279
 Years ago,

00:18:19.400 --> 00:18:20.259
 Pastor Jack Miller,

00:18:20.559 --> 00:18:21.940
 who also taught

00:18:21.940 --> 00:18:22.860
 at Westminster Seminary

00:18:22.860 --> 00:18:23.620
 for another years,

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 created and taught

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 a class called Sonship.

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 And it's a class

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 that maybe a few of you

00:18:30.340 --> 00:18:30.799
 have heard of.

00:18:30.840 --> 00:18:31.759
 It's a wonderful class.

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 And one of the points

00:18:33.220 --> 00:18:34.660
 of this class

00:18:34.660 --> 00:18:35.380
 called Sonship

00:18:35.380 --> 00:18:36.120
 is to help people

00:18:36.120 --> 00:18:36.740
 understand

00:18:36.740 --> 00:18:38.519
 that how we grow

00:18:38.519 --> 00:18:39.100
 as Christians

00:18:39.100 --> 00:18:39.880
 is that we have

00:18:39.880 --> 00:18:40.740
 to understand

00:18:40.740 --> 00:18:42.420
 the gospel more deeply.

00:18:42.559 --> 00:18:43.380
 That the same gospel

00:18:43.380 --> 00:18:44.299
 that saves us

00:18:44.299 --> 00:18:45.759
 is also the same gospel

00:18:45.759 --> 00:18:46.819
 that transforms us.

00:18:47.240 --> 00:18:48.079
 And if we want to grow,

00:18:48.180 --> 00:18:48.859
 we have to continue

00:18:48.859 --> 00:18:49.440
 to understand

00:18:49.440 --> 00:18:50.099
 the greater depths

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 of the gospel.

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 That we may say

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 we believe in the gospel,

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 that we're a sinner

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 saved by grace,

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 but in practice,

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 there's actually

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 lots of ways

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 in which we actually

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 don't believe

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 and live out the gospel.

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 And so one of the exercises

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 of the Sonship class

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 is called the tongue test.

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 The tongue test.

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 And Jack Miller

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 would encourage people

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 to do these six things

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 over the course of a week.

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 He would tell the class,

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 number one,

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 for a week,

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 do not complain

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 or grumble.

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 Number two,

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 do not boast

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 about anything at all.

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 Number three,

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 do not gossip

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 or repeat bad information

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 about somebody else.

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 Number four,

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 do not run somebody down

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 even a little bit.

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 Number five,

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 do not defend

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 or excuse yourself

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 no matter what.

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 Number six,

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 do always affirm

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 other people.

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 Now how many of us

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 think we could

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 pull that off this week?

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 I think I'd probably

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 fall short.

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 I think the reason why

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 if all of us

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 went home

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 and tried that this week

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 is we'd quickly find

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 it to be very difficult

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 is because there are

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 places in our hearts

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 that haven't been

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 formed yet

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 by the gospel.

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 The person who's able

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 to do all of these things

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 has a heart

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 that truly believes

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 the gospel deep down.

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 In Jesus,

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 they know they're so secure

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 they know they don't

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 need to defend themselves.

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 In Jesus,

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 they know that

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 they are already loved

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 and that's where

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 they get their identity

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 and so they don't need

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 to tear others down

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 in order to feel good

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 about themselves.

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 In Jesus,

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 they see

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 that the gospel

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 has humbled them

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 so much

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 that not only

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 should they not

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 boast,

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 but they can't boast.

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 see the ultimate

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 way

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 to heal your heart

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 and as a result

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 to use your words

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 to heal other people

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 is through worship.

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 It's through worship.

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 It's in seeing

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 the beauty

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 of Jesus Christ.

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 Jesus Christ

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 is

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 the living

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 word of God.

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 He is the very

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 speech

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 of the living God.

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 He is full of grace

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 and full of truth.

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 His words

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 always and only

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 healed people.

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 He always blessed

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 people who cursed him.

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 He always prayed

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 for people

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 who hated him

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 and more than that,

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 the one

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 who never

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 cursed anyone

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 became a curse.

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 He became a curse

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 and that's what

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 happened on the cross.

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 That's what Galatians

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 chapter 3

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 verse 13

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 says that on the cross

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 Jesus Christ

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 became a curse

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 for us

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 in our place

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 and it's because

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 Jesus became

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 a curse for us

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 that we are healed,

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 that we're forgiven,

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 that we're accepted,

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 that we're loved

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 and because of what

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 he did for us,

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 because he became

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 a curse

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 for us,

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 we can see

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 that our hearts

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 will never be healed

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 by cursing other people.

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 our hearts

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 will never be healed

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 by transferring

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 our anger,

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 our bitterness,

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 our jealousy,

00:22:07.660 --> 00:22:08.339
 our insecurity

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 onto somebody else.

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 Healing will never

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 happen that way.

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 Why?

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 Because taking

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 on a curse

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 is only something

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 that the perfect

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 word of God

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 could do.

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 It's only something

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 that Jesus Christ

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 could do.

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 He's the only one

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 who could take on

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 the curse

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 for our sin

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 and at the same time

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 bring healing

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 to the world.

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 And that is the beauty

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 of what he did

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 and that is why

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 he deserves our worship

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 and that is what

00:22:39.539 --> 00:22:40.559
 will truly heal

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 our hearts.

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 When that starts

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 to sink in,

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 it humbles us

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 because we realize

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 that we can't boast

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 about anything.

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 It makes us secure

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 and we realize

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 we don't need

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 to defend ourselves.

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 We don't need

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 to transfer our anger

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 or our insecurity

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 onto somebody else

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 because we know

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 that we're loved.

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 And because we know

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 we're loved,

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 we don't need

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 to tear others down,

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 to build ourselves up.

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 And when that starts

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 to change your heart,

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 when that starts

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 to change you,

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 that is what will lead you

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 to have mastery

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 over your tongue.

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 that is what will lead you

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 to have discipline

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 over your words.

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 It's the power

00:23:29.940 --> 00:23:30.500
 of the gospel.

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 It's the power

00:23:32.180 --> 00:23:32.839
 to heal the heart.

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 It's the power

00:23:33.420 --> 00:23:35.100
 to tame the tongue.

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 Listen,

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 do you want

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 to change the world?

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 Do you want

00:23:39.220 --> 00:23:39.980
 to change the world?

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 Practice these

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 six things

00:23:43.140 --> 00:23:44.380
 for one week.

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 Don't complain

00:23:44.980 --> 00:23:45.440
 or grumble.

00:23:46.500 --> 00:23:47.299
 Don't boast

00:23:47.299 --> 00:23:48.319
 about anything at all.

00:23:49.319 --> 00:23:50.220
 Don't gossip

00:23:50.220 --> 00:23:50.839
 or repeat

00:23:50.839 --> 00:23:51.619
 bad information

00:23:51.619 --> 00:23:52.559
 about somebody else.

00:23:53.539 --> 00:23:54.319
 Do not run

00:23:54.319 --> 00:23:55.220
 somebody down

00:23:55.220 --> 00:23:56.259
 even a little bit.

00:23:57.220 --> 00:23:58.179
 Don't defend

00:23:58.179 --> 00:23:59.259
 or excuse yourself

00:23:59.259 --> 00:24:00.019
 no matter what.

00:24:00.939 --> 00:24:01.919
 And do always

00:24:01.919 --> 00:24:02.959
 affirm other people.

00:24:03.699 --> 00:24:05.079
 And when you fall short,

00:24:05.139 --> 00:24:06.339
 and you will fall short,

00:24:07.059 --> 00:24:08.720
 let it lead you

00:24:08.720 --> 00:24:09.539
 to examine

00:24:09.539 --> 00:24:10.939
 what's in your heart,

00:24:11.019 --> 00:24:11.679
 what's going on

00:24:11.679 --> 00:24:12.179
 in your heart.

00:24:13.179 --> 00:24:14.259
 Let it lead you

00:24:14.259 --> 00:24:14.779
 to examine

00:24:14.779 --> 00:24:15.759
 how your tongue

00:24:15.759 --> 00:24:16.859
 is truly connected

00:24:16.859 --> 00:24:18.359
 to what is going

00:24:18.359 --> 00:24:18.939
 on underneath.

00:24:20.719 --> 00:24:21.539
 And as you

00:24:21.539 --> 00:24:22.899
 examine your heart

00:24:22.899 --> 00:24:25.159
 and bring your heart

00:24:25.159 --> 00:24:25.879
 before God,

00:24:26.919 --> 00:24:28.119
 let it lead you

00:24:28.119 --> 00:24:29.519
 to worship Jesus,

00:24:30.279 --> 00:24:30.919
 the true

00:24:30.919 --> 00:24:31.639
 and perfect

00:24:31.639 --> 00:24:32.839
 word of God.

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 Let's pray.

00:24:37.599 --> 00:24:38.539
 Father in heaven,

00:24:39.159 --> 00:24:40.539
 we praise you

00:24:40.539 --> 00:24:41.039
 and thank you

00:24:41.039 --> 00:24:41.579
 that you

00:24:41.579 --> 00:24:43.259
 are the word of God

00:24:43.259 --> 00:24:44.179
 who came down

00:24:44.179 --> 00:24:44.619
 from heaven

00:24:44.619 --> 00:24:46.699
 to bring healing

00:24:46.699 --> 00:24:48.359
 to the world

00:24:48.359 --> 00:24:49.199
 by becoming a curse

00:24:49.199 --> 00:24:49.579
 for us.

00:24:49.659 --> 00:24:49.859
 And Lord,

00:24:49.899 --> 00:24:50.679
 I pray that

00:24:50.679 --> 00:24:52.539
 you would do

00:24:52.539 --> 00:24:53.659
 your work in us

00:24:53.659 --> 00:24:55.559
 to heal

00:24:55.559 --> 00:24:56.079
 the places

00:24:56.079 --> 00:24:56.859
 in our hearts

00:24:56.859 --> 00:25:00.039
 where there's anger

00:25:00.039 --> 00:25:00.579
 or bitterness

00:25:00.579 --> 00:25:01.519
 or insecurity

00:25:01.519 --> 00:25:02.259
 or pride

00:25:02.259 --> 00:25:02.779
 or jealousy,

00:25:03.039 --> 00:25:03.159
 Lord.

00:25:04.479 --> 00:25:05.079
 And I pray,

00:25:05.199 --> 00:25:05.259
 Lord,

00:25:05.299 --> 00:25:06.459
 that would bring forth

00:25:06.459 --> 00:25:08.539
 fresh spring water

00:25:08.539 --> 00:25:11.359
 that out of the abundance

00:25:11.359 --> 00:25:12.059
 of our hearts

00:25:12.059 --> 00:25:13.179
 our mouths would speak

00:25:13.179 --> 00:25:13.799
 and that we,

00:25:13.799 --> 00:25:14.779
 through our words,

00:25:15.440 --> 00:25:16.680
 would bring life

00:25:16.680 --> 00:25:18.639
 and encouragement

00:25:18.639 --> 00:25:19.519
 and hope

00:25:19.519 --> 00:25:19.960
 and healing

00:25:19.960 --> 00:25:22.180
 to a lost

00:25:22.180 --> 00:25:23.079
 and broken world.

00:25:23.919 --> 00:25:24.740
 And we pray this

00:25:24.740 --> 00:25:25.480
 in the name of the Father

00:25:25.480 --> 00:25:26.119
 and the Son

00:25:26.119 --> 00:25:27.399
 and the Holy Spirit.

00:25:28.059 --> 00:25:28.359
 Amen.