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 You can generally tell that your lungs are healthy if you're able to breathe well and there's no pain or difficulty or shortness of breath.

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! You can generally tell if your heart is functioning properly and decently healthy if you've got low blood pressure, low cholesterol, normal cholesterol range, no shortness of breath, no pain.

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 You can generally tell if your joints are healthy, if you have good mobility, if there's no pain, if you can get through your day without noticing them.

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 You can generally tell that these various parts of your body are healthy by the way they function.

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 You don't have to be an expert. You don't have to be a doctor.

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 But what about our souls?

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 How do you gauge whether or not your soul is healthy in a good place?

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 If your soul were to be sick, how would you know? What would the symptoms be?

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 You know, this morning we're looking at this incredible passage in Philippians chapter 2.

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 Of course, it's Palm Sunday.

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 We're also going to, a little bit later, consider this great story of the triumphal entry that we read on the steps of the church a moment ago.

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 But we're focusing right now primarily on the New Testament reading for this morning, Philippians chapter 2.

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 This is the very heart of Paul's letter to the Philippians.

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 This passage is something that by itself we could legitimately spend weeks and weeks and weeks just unpacking all of the depth and meaning of this passage.

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 We're simply this morning going to be able to carve off a piece of it with the time that we have.

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 But we're going to consider this question of soul sickness.

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 What are the symptoms of soul sickness?

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 What's the underlying cause that we need to be aware of that Paul mentions here?

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 And then what's the cure?

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 So let's pray and then we will open God's word together.

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 Lord, we thank you for this morning, for the freedom to gather here together.

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 And we thank you for what we are remembering and celebrating.

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 Lord, the events of this triumphal entry, the beginning of the week, of your passion that ultimately leads us to the cross, to the tomb,

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 and then out of the tomb into the promise of new life for us and for the world.

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 Lord, we thank you for this journey, Lord, that we get to be on with you.

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 And we pray that as we open your word, you would guide us and direct us in our understanding.

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 And that through your Holy Spirit, we would encounter the living word, Jesus Christ.

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 For it's in his name that we pray. Amen.

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 So first of all, let's consider some of the symptoms that might lead us to wonder whether or not our souls are healthy or sick.

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 Paul is in Rome. He's sitting under house arrest.

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 He's writing this letter to a church located in a place called Philippi.

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 This is a church that Paul helped to start roughly 10 years earlier.

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 They've been around about a decade.

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 And Paul's heard some things are going on there and they're concerning to him.

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 And so he writes this letter to address some of the issues.

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 If you peruse the letter and look at the various things Paul addresses,

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 you can discern some of the things that are going on in this community.

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 There's envy and rivalry.

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 You see that in chapter 1, verse 15.

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 Envy and rivalry.

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 Some of the people there have become overly self-focused.

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 Chapter 2, verse 4.

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 They're only looking out to their own interests.

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 They don't care about the needs of the people around them.

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 They just want to make sure their own needs are met.

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 He hears about some people who are chronically grumbling and complaining.

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 Chapter 2, verse 14.

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 Just grumbling and complaining.

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 Nothing's ever good enough.

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 There's also quarreling and division happening.

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 There are these two women, Euodia and Syntyche.

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 And by the way Paul addresses and refers to these women,

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 it's very clear that these are prominent, influential leaders in the church.

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 And these women are fighting with one another.

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 And I don't have to tell you, anytime you have fighting in the church, it's a big deal.

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 But anytime you have church leaders who are fighting, that's not good.

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 That's not a good sign.

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 So these are things that Paul hears.

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 And of course, as we hear them, we say, you know,

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 well, that's not the way things are supposed to be.

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 Especially in the church.

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 You would expect the church would be different.

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 Paul longs to see unity and harmony in this church.

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 He says, if there's any encouragement in Christ,

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 any comfort from love, any participation in the spirit,

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 any affection and sympathy,

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 complete my joy by being of the same mind,

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 having the same love, being in full accord and of one mind.

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 That's what Paul desires to see in this church he loves.

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 And I would say that's what we all want.

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 Think about your family.

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 Think about your friendship, your friend group.

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 Think about the neighborhood that you live in.

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 Think about the city.

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 Think about the world.

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 This is what we all want.

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 We want to be of the same mind.

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 We want to live in peace and harmony.

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 But instead, we have polarization.

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 We have social fragmentation and decay.

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 We have poverty.

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 We have injustice.

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 We have war.

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 That's the reality of the world that we live in.

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 And we have plenty of quarreling and division.

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 And unfortunately, it's not just out there.

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 It's in here.

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 That's a reality in the church.

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 It shouldn't be that way, but it is.

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 And you will find that in every church you go to.

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 You will never find a church where these issues are not present.

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 And the reason is that there is something wrong with our souls as human beings.

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 There is a soul sickness that gives rise to these symptoms.

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 When you see things like envy and grumbling and complaining and division, those are indications like joint pain, like shortness of breath, that something is not okay with our souls.

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 And Paul actually mentions it.

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 All of these issues result from one core issue that Paul names in chapter 2, verse 3.

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 When he says the phrase selfish ambition and conceit.

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 Or we might boil that down to one word.

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 Paul is saying the core issue here, the thing that I'm most concerned about in this church, is pride.

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 It's pride.

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 Pride is at the root of everything that's wrong in our lives.

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 Pride is at the root of everything that is wrong in the world.

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 Pride is at the root of everything that is wrong in our relationship with God, with one another.

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 If you go all the way down to the core, you will find pride.

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 Now, a lot of people mistakenly think that pride is the same thing as ambition.

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 Or that pride is the same thing as arrogance.

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 Right?

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 They think of pride as somebody who's boasting and bragging about all of their accomplishments.

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 And so they think, well, I don't go around boasting and bragging, so pride must not be an issue for me.

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 Not so fast.

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 With all due respect, take another look at yourself.

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 There are many different ways that pride manifests itself.

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 One way that pride manifests itself is in the form of arrogance and boasting and bragging.

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 Yes, that is a form of pride.

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 But that's merely one form of pride.

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 And there are many ways that pride can manifest more subtly in ways that don't immediately look like pride to us or to other onlookers.

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 So, for instance, pride can manifest as a quiet judgmentalism.

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 You don't ever brag.

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 You don't ever extol your own virtues.

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 You don't tell people stories about your accomplishments.

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 You're quiet.

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 By all appearances, you seem like a very humble person.

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 But you tend to quietly look down on other people.

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 You quietly judge people's sense of taste.

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 You quietly judge people's morals.

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 You look at the way they parent their kids and you sort of quietly critique their approach to parenting.

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 They're too lax.

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 They're too strict.

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 Right?

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 You make negative assumptions about people based on what kind of car they drive or the size of their house.

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 It's either too small or it's too big depending on your angle or their clothing.

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 Right?

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 That's pride.

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 Because you're ultimately saying, I am the measure of what is good and right, what is best.

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 I'm the measure.

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 I'm the yardstick.

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 And these people fall short.

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 Pride can manifest as self-sufficiency.

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 Again, that doesn't look like pride.

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 In our country, in our culture, we love self-sufficiency.

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 We celebrate self-sufficiency and autonomy.

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 But you know, you have people, they always like to be the person that offers help, but they will never ask for help.

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 They refuse to ask for help even when they might desperately need it.

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 See, that's another form of pride.

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 Because you're saying, I should be able to do this myself.

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 I'm not the kind of person who needs help.

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 Because there's something you're inferring there about that kind of person.

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 I'm not the kind of person who needs help from anyone.

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 I should be able to do this myself.

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 That's a form of pride.

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 Pride can manifest as chronic complaining.

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 Again, it doesn't seem like pride.

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 You know, grumbling about things you don't like in your household.

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 Or in your marriage.

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 Or in your workplace.

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 Or in the church.

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 So that's pride.

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 You're saying, you know, this thing doesn't, this isn't up to my standard.

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 But I can't be troubled to actually do anything to solve the problem.

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 I'm expecting and waiting for other people to solve the problem for me.

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 That's a form of pride.

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 Probably one of the most harmful forms of pride, I would say, is self-pity.

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 Part of the reason it's harmful is it doesn't look like pride at all.

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 Self-pity can look a lot like humility.

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 It can look a lot like weakness.

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 But in some ways, this is the most insidious form of pride.

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 Because real suffering can be involved.

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 Real pain can be involved.

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 But the difference is, instead of entrusting the pain and the injustice to the Lord.

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 And seeking to move on.

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 Self-pity wants to cling to the pain.

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 It wants to cling to the suffering.

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 It wants to nurse the grudges.

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 It inflates grievances.

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 It tends to withhold forgiveness.

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 To keep things going.

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 And see, self-pity is a form of pride.

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 Because like all forms of pride, self-pity actually keeps the focus on me.

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 It's all about my pain.

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 It's all about my pain.

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 It's all about my unfair treatment.

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 It's all about the injustice that has been perpetrated against me.

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 And so because of this, self-pity keeps us locked in this kind of victim narrative about our lives.

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 And we begin to see things through that lens.

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 And so one of the ways it does harm is that it can blind you.

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 If you're caught up in your own self-pity,

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 it can make you blind or numb to ways that you might be causing pain or hurt.

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 Right?

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 So if you try to go to a person who's caught up in their self-pity,

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 and you try to share,

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 hey, when you did this thing, when you said this thing, it really hurt me,

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 what's going to happen is they're going to tend to play the victim.

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 They're going to get angry.

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 They're going to accuse you of hurting them.

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 They're going to flip the script.

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 And instead of taking responsibility, instead of admitting their wrongs,

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 they're going to paint you as the bad guy.

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 Right?

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 And because of this, self-pity can wreak havoc in a place like a church.

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 It can cause lasting division because the church is very full of well-meaning people

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 who want to love and support each other.

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 And so people will pour on the sympathy and the love and the support,

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 not realizing that in some cases, when self-pity is at the root,

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 you're actually enabling harmful and divisive patterns.

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 Right?

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 But again, it's about me.

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 And so all of these forms of pride are not immediately recognizable as pride,

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 but they all have this one thing in common.

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 They are ways of living with yourself at the center of your own life.

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 They're ways that say, I am at the center and I matter most.

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 And because of this, pride destroys our relationships with others.

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 It ultimately destroys our relationship with God.

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 The Dutch Reformed pastor, Andrew Murray, South African pastor, said this.

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 He said, pride must die in you or nothing of heaven can live in you.

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 Pride must die in you or nothing of heaven can live in you.

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 So these are the symptoms.

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 These are the issues.

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 What's the underlying cause?

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 Why is pride such an issue?

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 Where does it come from?

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 The word that Paul uses in verse three is very illuminating.

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 The Greek word that is translated in our version in the ESV as conceit

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 is actually a compound word, kinodoxia.

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 And kinodoxia comes from two words.

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 Kino, which means empty, and doxia, which means glory.

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 Glory.

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 So it literally means glory empty or empty of glory, right?

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 So the King James translates it in the word vainglory.

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 You may have heard.

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 Empty glory, right?

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 It means glory empty.

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 In other words, it conveys this idea that inside us there is this deep, gnawing, restless, relentless hunger for glory.

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 A hunger for respect.

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 A hunger for respect.

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 A hunger for admiration.

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 A hunger for affirmation.

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 And it's always there.

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 It's an emptiness.

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 It's a longing.

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 It's a hunger for these things.

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 In other words, you might put it like this.

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 Pride is the result of a glory vacuum.

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 A glory vacuum in our souls.

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 It's a spiritual void.

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 And like all vacuums, it is constantly pulling at everything around it, trying to fill itself up.

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 You know, this is essentially how St. Augustine describes pride, if you read his confessions or his City of God.

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 You know, pride isn't just an attitude.

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 He says that pride is actually a spiritual curvature of the soul.

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 It is a curving inward of the soul.

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 Homo incurvatus in say, man turned in on himself.

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 See, that's what a vacuum does.

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 It pulls everything around it into itself.

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 Everything curves inward because the vacuum is there.

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 So St. Augustine would say, instead of having a properly ordered and oriented love,

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 while we are focused outward, loving one another, loving our neighbors, loving God,

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 this spiritual glory vacuum turns us inward.

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 We're aimed in on ourselves.

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 He says that's the fundamental problem with human beings.

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 And so because of this, we become self-absorbed.

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 We become self-defining.

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 We become self-glorifying.

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 In curvatus in say.

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 And the only way to be rid of this is to understand why the glory vacuum exists.

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 Why is there this hole?

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 And the reason is because God made us to live with Him at the center.

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 To live filled by His glory.

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 We're not made to radiate the light like the sun.

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 We are made to be like the moon, reflecting the light.

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 Our glory comes from the light that shines on us and in us and through us.

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 It's nothing that we generate.

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 But the moment human beings started living for ourselves,

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 the moment we displaced God and put ourselves at the center of our lives,

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 that vacuum was created.

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 And instead of being filled with the glory of God, we are glory hungry.

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 We are glory starved.

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 In his book, Love Within Limits, Lewis Smedes writes this.

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 He says,

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 Pride is the arrogant refusal to let God be God.

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 It is to grab God's status for oneself.

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 Pride is turning down God's invitation to join the dance of life as a creature in his garden

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 and wishing instead to be the creator, independent, reliant on one's own resources.

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 Pride is the grand illusion, the fantasy of fantasies, the cosmic put on, he says.

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 The fantasy that we can make it as little gods leaves us empty at the center.

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 It's what he's talking about, the glory vacuum.

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 So we learn what?

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 We learn to swagger.

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 We learn to bluff.

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 We learn to use symbols to cover up our fears that we lack substance.

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 We force other people to act as buttresses for the shaky ego that pride created by emptying our soul of God.

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 We'll say that last sentence one more time.

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 I want you to think about this.

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 A person who is controlled by pride will find it almost impossible to truly love other people.

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 Because love is ultimately a self-giving posture.

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 Right?

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 You're primarily concerning yourself with their well-being.

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 But if your well-being, the well-being of your fragile ego, is tied to that person,

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 you're never going to be free to love them because you're going to need them too much.

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 You're going to need them to prop up your own shaky ego.

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 And you can't, by definition, love someone if you're using them at the same time.

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 And this glory vacuum of pride doesn't just hurt our individual relationships.

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 It sits behind a whole array of global, you know, social and political ills as well.

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 There's a wonderful, famous commencement speech given in 1995 at Harvard by the former president of the Czech Republic,

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 Václav Havel, where he observes that all of the problems we face in the modern West

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 result from the fact that we have displaced God and put ourselves at the center.

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 And he says because of this spiritual void in our collective heart,

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 in the heart of Western civilization, that has led to a kind of collective pride.

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 We have forgotten our own creatureliness.

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 We have forgotten our own limitations.

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 It's a kind of functional atheism that leads to forms of pride

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 that are ultimately horribly destructive to the world that we live in.

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 So he talks about this sitting behind things like environmental degradation.

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 Because without God, people don't see the world as a beautifully ordered creation and a cosmos.

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 They simply see resources that can be exploited.

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 Right?

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 Right?

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 Causing environmental crises such as pollution, deforestation, climate change.

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 It leads to consumeristic greed.

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 Because instead of God at the center, because of that void, people try to fill the void with wealth and accumulation.

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 Consumption.

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 And of course, that fosters all kinds of social divisions and inequality and injustice.

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 He says without God at the center, we have social fragmentation.

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 People lose a sense of a higher collective shared identity and purpose.

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 There's no longer, he says, any shared concept of values that transcend us.

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 And so people increasingly feel isolated and balkanized and disconnected from community and tradition.

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 And that leads to social and communal unrest and depression and psychological disorders.

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 And loneliness is labeled as pathological, a clinically significant issue leading to death for many people.

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 It leads, of course, to political cynicism.

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 Because without God as an ultimate source of accountability, a source of authority that sits above every human authority,

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 our leaders are guided solely by pragmatic self-interest.

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 So they promote politics marked by corruption and deception.

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 And over time, they lose trust among their citizens.

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 So the root of everything that is wrong in our lives and everything that's wrong in the world is pride.

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 It's the glory vacuum at the center of our souls.

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 So what can we do about this?

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 Where does Paul bring us from here?

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 What's the cure?

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 The short answer is we need to become humble.

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 But there's a kind of, well, several issues with telling a room full of people like us,

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 we need to become more humble.

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 The surest sign of health in your heart, I would say, is humility.

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 Now, you might say, isn't it love?

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 Yes, it's love.

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 But you need to understand humility is what gives you the capacity to love.

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 Humility is what gives you the capacity to stop using people, to stop using God for your own ego.

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 And instead, to actually truly give yourself away to other people and to God, to truly love, as we were created to do.

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 The surest sign of a healthy soul is humility.

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 Here's Andrew Murray again.

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 Humility is perfect quietness of heart.

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 Just think about this and think about your own heart, your own life.

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 Humility is perfect quietness of heart.

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 It is to be at rest when nobody praises me and when I am blamed or despised.

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 It is to have a blessed home in the Lord where I can go and shut the door and kneel to my father in secret

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 and am at peace as in a deep sea of calmness when all around and above is trouble.

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 Now, I read that.

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 I don't know about you, but that's exactly what I want for my own heart.

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 And it leads us to ask, how is that possible?

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 And I would say, number one, religion is not the answer.

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 I know I look like I might not say that, but religion is not the answer.

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 And in fact, some of you know this already from experience.

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 You've seen this happen.

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 Religion can be like pouring miracle grow on your pride.

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 Religion creates all of the greenhouse conditions necessary for pride to grow from this little weed in your heart to this massive tree.

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 Religion furnishes us with all kinds of reasons to feel superior and better than other people.

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 So religion is not the answer.

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 Related to this, this is really the paradox of humility.

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 Paradox is this.

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 If your focus is to become more humble, you write in your journal, you know, it's December 29th.

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 You're writing your resolutions for the new year.

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 You say, I want to become more humble.

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 You make that your goal.

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 What's going to happen?

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 You're going to focus on trying to be more humble.

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 And then you're going to make progress.

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 Maybe.

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 And then what happens if you make progress?

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 Then you're going to feel really proud of yourself for making progress.

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 And then you're going to need to undo that pride.

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 Right?

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 And it becomes this vicious cycle.

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 The more you focus on being humble, the more at risk you are of feeling prideful about your humility.

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 You'll be so proud of how humble you are.

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 But what's more, even if that's not an issue for you, still, where's the focus in all of that?

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 The focus is still on you.

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 It's on your heart.

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 It's on your progress.

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 It's on your goals.

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 Right?

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 So even if you're not bragging about how humble you are, the spotlight is still right where it always was.

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 It's still on you.

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 So this is the trouble with humility.

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 You cannot become more humble by deciding that you want to become more humble.

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 I'm sorry.

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 It's not that easy.

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 I wish it were.

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 But you can't get it by aiming at it.

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 If you aim at humility, you're never going to become humble.

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 You're probably just going to become more proud.

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 So you can't aim at it.

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 The best you will achieve is the appearance of humility.

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 And I think that there's probably a lot of us and a lot of people in the world who are really good at appearing humble.

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 Again, religion encourages that.

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 We learn how to talk and act.

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 You know, you win a huge award or you amass 100,000 followers.

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 I'm so humbled by this award.

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 I'm so humbled by my million followers.

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 I'm so humbled by my promotion.

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 But we don't really sound that humble when we say it.

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 That's hashtag humility.

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 It's not the real thing.

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 You know, the quote, I can't remember who first said it.

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 Humility is not thinking less of yourself.

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 It's thinking of yourself less.

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 So how do you become the kind of person who simply doesn't think about yourself all that often?

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 There's only one way to do it.

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 And that is to stop focusing on yourself entirely by focusing on someone else.

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 That's the only way it's going to happen.

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 Instead of focusing on our own hearts, on our own souls, on our own need for humility,

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 we have to focus on the glory of another.

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 That's the only way to fill that glory vacuum.

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 And if we look at the last half of this passage in Philippians 2,

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 commentators agree that verses 6 through 10 are actually a hymn.

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 You know, this is most likely a hymn that had been composed

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 about the nature of Jesus Christ and his incarnation,

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 his sacrifice, his death, and resurrection.

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 What we're celebrating this week.

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 Right?

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 This was a hymn that had been composed so that the church could sing it.

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 Because the church needed a way of focusing on glory outside of themselves.

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 And I would say if ever there was a passage worth memorizing in the Bible,

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 in the New Testament, it would be this passage.

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 Because this is meant to ignite in us,

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 not a sense of our own glory and importance,

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 but to fill us with a sense of the glory of Jesus Christ

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 and what he has done, what he has accomplished.

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 What does it say?

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 Look, Christ Jesus, though he was in the form of God,

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 did not count equality with God a thing to be grasped,

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 but emptied himself.

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 Same word.

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 Kino, he emptied himself

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 by taking the form of a servant.

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 It holds out before us in this great hymn,

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 he in every way was equal with God,

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 part of the divine eternal dance of the Trinity.

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 And he thought that not a thing to be grasped or clinged to or held on to,

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 but he emptied himself.

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 Of what?

00:28:56.539 --> 00:28:57.359
 Of his glory.

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 He emptied himself of his glory.

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 And he became a servant.

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 He became a slave.

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 He humbled himself.

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 Think of the triumphal entry that we celebrate today.

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 This amazing moment

00:29:12.759 --> 00:29:16.559
 where the true king of the world enters in,

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 but immediately we see that this king is unlike any king we've ever seen.

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 And therefore, this kingdom is unlike any earthly kingdom

00:29:24.679 --> 00:29:27.099
 we have ever seen or will ever see.

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 There are clues that something very different is happening.

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 He's not riding in on a great war horse.

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 He's riding in on the colt of a donkey.

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 He's not riding in to go and ultimately take the throne.

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 He's riding in to ultimately, in a few days' time,

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 be nailed to the cross.

00:29:43.700 --> 00:29:44.700
 Right?

00:29:45.740 --> 00:29:47.980
 His coronation is his crucifixion.

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 Something very different is happening.

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 And we already see it.

00:29:55.240 --> 00:29:56.080
 Therefore, it says,

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 God has highly exalted him

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 and bestowed on him the name that is above every name.

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 So at the name of Jesus,

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 every knee should bow in heaven and on earth

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 and under the earth.

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 And every tongue confess

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 that Jesus Christ is Lord to the glory of the Father.

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 Here's the gospel.

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 Jesus emptied himself

00:30:14.100 --> 00:30:16.259
 so that we might become full.

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 It's the only way to fill up that glory vacuum

00:30:21.059 --> 00:30:23.519
 is the glory of the cross,

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 the glory of the death,

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 the glory of the resurrection,

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 the glory of the victory over sin and death,

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 the glory over the renewal of creation.

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 That's the glory that we're meant to be filled with.

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 Not a glory that looks inward,

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 but a glory that looks outward and upward.

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 The only way to become truly humble

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 is to keep our eyes fixed firmly on the cross.

00:30:50.099 --> 00:30:51.519
 That is the only way.

00:30:52.839 --> 00:30:54.720
 To quote Murray one more time,

00:30:55.799 --> 00:30:58.660
 here is the path to the higher life.

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 Down.

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 Lower down.

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 And he uses the metaphor of water.

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 He says,

00:31:06.379 --> 00:31:10.240
 just as water always seeks to fill the lowest place,

00:31:11.179 --> 00:31:16.659
 the more we lower ourselves before the cross,

00:31:16.859 --> 00:31:21.220
 the more God's glory and power flow in to fill us up.

00:31:22.039 --> 00:31:23.299
 I love that image.

00:31:23.299 --> 00:31:27.440
 So for those of us who are soul sick with pride,

00:31:28.259 --> 00:31:30.240
 look to the cross.

00:31:31.359 --> 00:31:35.039
 This is a week where we will journey with Jesus Christ

00:31:35.039 --> 00:31:36.919
 through his passion,

00:31:37.519 --> 00:31:40.619
 through the last supper on Monday, Thursday,

00:31:40.879 --> 00:31:41.720
 and the new commandment,

00:31:42.559 --> 00:31:45.539
 through the horrific events of Good Friday

00:31:45.539 --> 00:31:46.539
 and the crucifixion,

00:31:47.259 --> 00:31:52.240
 through the ambiguity, uncertainty, confusion, failure,

00:31:52.240 --> 00:31:54.099
 of the tomb,

00:31:55.099 --> 00:31:57.240
 and ultimately to the unexpected,

00:31:57.539 --> 00:31:59.980
 world-changing hope of the resurrection.

00:32:01.099 --> 00:32:03.740
 It is a week where we're invited to look firmly

00:32:03.740 --> 00:32:07.920
 and fully at the cross and what it means for us

00:32:07.920 --> 00:32:11.019
 and to recognize that Jesus has ushered in

00:32:11.019 --> 00:32:13.680
 a completely new way of being human,

00:32:13.819 --> 00:32:16.680
 an upside-down, right-side-up reality

00:32:16.680 --> 00:32:21.000
 where true glory is found by seeking the glory of another.

00:32:22.240 --> 00:32:26.279
 Where the way to lead and to rule is to serve.

00:32:27.380 --> 00:32:29.900
 Where the way into abundant life

00:32:29.900 --> 00:32:32.220
 is to be willing to lay down your life

00:32:32.220 --> 00:32:35.220
 for the sake of those whom you love.

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 This is the invitation to becoming fully and truly human.

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 Let's pray.

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 Lord, we are hopeless if these are mere ideas.

00:32:50.639 --> 00:32:53.459
 And yet we know that you are here with us now,

00:32:53.579 --> 00:32:54.759
 that you have power

00:32:54.759 --> 00:32:58.099
 to be present with us,

00:32:58.159 --> 00:32:59.919
 to speak to us in our hearts.

00:33:01.199 --> 00:33:03.659
 Whereas human words can only reach our ears,

00:33:04.000 --> 00:33:05.240
 you can speak to the heart.

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 And Lord, we know that it's only in your power

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 and through your glory,

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 that we can be filled with your glory,

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 that we can become more truly

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 the people we have created to be.

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 To truly love you and others

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 in true humility.

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 Lord, we need your Holy Spirit

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 to make that possible in us.

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 We pray that as we continue in the prayers

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 and the singing as we come around our table,

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 that Lord, as we encounter you,

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 that we can be filled by your glory.

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 And that that would right-size

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 our opinion of ourselves,

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 that it would right-size the attitude that we have,

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 that it would put everything back into proportion

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 and set us free to love.

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 And we pray this in your Son's holy name.

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 Amen.