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 As we said, let's pray together, shall we?

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 Our gracious Father, we thank you for your word,

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 and we thank you that the Lord Jesus taught us that your word is truth.

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 And Father, we pray now that in the power of your Holy Spirit,

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 we might discern your truth,

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 and your truth would impact our lives,

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 that we might be the people you call us to be.

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 In Jesus Christ, our Lord. Amen.

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 In the book of Deuteronomy, we read these words,

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 Be careful that you do not forget the Lord your God.

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 If I think about my own life,

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 I think about the things that have gone right,

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 and there's so much that's gone right,

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 I've always regarded myself as a person who has been very blessed.

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 But then I have days when things don't feel so right,

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 and on those days, it's very easy to lose perspective.

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 Those of you who know your Bibles will know that if you read a psalm like Psalm 73,

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 you're reading about a man called Asaph.

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 And clearly Asaph, when he wrote this psalm,

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 was what we would call today clinically depressed.

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 He had lost all sense of perspective.

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 All he could do was look at the people around himself

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 and compare himself with them,

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 and he would find himself wanting, resentful, angry,

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 that even the evildoers, he said,

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 are doing better than me, Lord.

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 Of course, that's not true.

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 As Jesus said in the New Testament,

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 the rain falls on the good and bad alike.

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 But this man had lost perspective.

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 It was all about him.

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 I was feeling pretty low recently.

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 As many of you know,

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 and thank you so much for your prayers and care for us

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 during the time of Anthea's illness.

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 But I was feeling pretty low.

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 Being a primary carer is not my default position.

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 In fact, to be quite honest with you,

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 I would hate to be looked after by somebody like me.

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 Unless you particularly like baked potatoes.

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 Just saying.

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 So I was feeling pretty fed up.

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 And then somebody I've known for a long time wrote a card

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 and said to me,

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 you know, Mike, I know this is tough,

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 but you have so many things to thank God for.

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 And I was humbled

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 because I had forgotten

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 to be as thankful as I really ought to be

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 for the life that God has given to me.

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 Not every day has been great.

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 But I don't want to be one of those people.

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 You might be one of them.

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 Who just ends up being ungrateful

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 and slips into a life

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 of unrelenting bitterness.

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 And my dear friend,

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 if that's you,

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 what you need to know is

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 that people spot a bitter person

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 within about 30 seconds of meeting them.

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 It's ugly.

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 So I'm standing here this morning

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 to talk to you about gratitude.

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 The Great Gratitude Fadeout

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 is the title of the talk today.

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 That idea that actually

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 we can forget the Lord our God.

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 Forget the works of His hand upon our lives.

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 And I want to begin by saying to you

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 what I'm not talking about this morning.

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 Seems a bit weird to say that,

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 but I thought there were three ways

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 I could approach this.

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 Here's one which I'm not talking about.

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 This is not a review of the way

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 human history,

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 our view of human history

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 has changed in recent years.

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 I was born in 1949.

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 That means I'm 73 to save you the math.

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 In the 1950s,

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 whilst recognizing that the history

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 of the United Kingdom

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 had some pretty awful moments within it.

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 say awful,

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 I could say wicked moments within it.

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 But generally at that time,

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 people were thankful

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 to be British.

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 They were even patriotic.

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 A new queen had arrived on the throne

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 promising to give her life

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 in service to her subjects.

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 Not a word that many of you

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 are comfortable with.

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 But people were thankful

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 to be British.

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 Sixty years on,

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 and after what is called today

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 revisionist history,

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 many of us don't think like that anymore.

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 Today, many academics,

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 Marxists and others,

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 take the view that we need to forget

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 any allegiance whatsoever

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 to our country,

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 any allegiance in terms of patriotism,

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 and that the history

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 that we were taught

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 in the 1950s

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 needs to be retold.

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 Of course,

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 there is something in that.

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 It is pretty true

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 that actually the history

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 that most of us have been termed,

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 have been written by white men

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 for white men.

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 But actually,

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 as Professor Nigel Bigger

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 in the University of Oxford

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 wrote,

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 and got cancelled pretty well

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 within the university,

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 this is a professor

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 of moral philosophy,

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 he dared to suggest

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 that not all about colonialism

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 was terrible for the people

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 on the receiving end of it.

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 Revisionist historians

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 hate our colonial past

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 and anything to do with it.

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 Revered heroes of that history

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 are despised and cancelled,

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 written out of the history script,

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 and their statues torn down

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 and thrown into the water.

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 So let me be clear,

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 that's not what I'm talking about.

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 Neither am I talking about

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 a trend in theology.

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 I know this is a moment

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 when you might switch off.

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 A trend in theology

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 that emerged

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 during the first wave

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 of the renewal movement,

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 what we call

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 a charismatic movement

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 back in the day.

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 This movement was led

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 by an extraordinary

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 ex-military man

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 called Merlin Carruthers.

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 Merlin Carruthers

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 was an extraordinary man.

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 He'd served

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 in a very prestigious division

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 of the American Army,

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 the 82nd Airborne Division.

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 This was a man

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 who must have known

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 what it was like

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 to put himself

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 in very tight spots

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 in his life.

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 What was his theological conviction?

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 It was based

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 around a very simple idea.

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 Incidentally,

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 his book,

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 some of you may have read him,

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 his book sold 90 million copies

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 and were translated

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 into 59 different languages.

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 The most read of his books

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 was a book called

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 From Prison to Praise.

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 His theological trend

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 had a very simple idea.

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 He said this,

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 we should praise God

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 in all situations,

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 not merely in spite

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 of our problems,

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 but for our problems.

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 Can you imagine that?

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 You're going through

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 a really hard time

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 in your life

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 and Merlin Carruthers

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 is telling you,

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 praise God

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 for your situation.

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 Why?

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 Because,

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 says Merlin Carruthers,

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 when we praise God,

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 praise releases

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 the power of God

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 into situations

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 and enables us

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 and empowers us

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 and empowers us

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 to use those problems

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 and turn them

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 to God.

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 Because praise

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 involves an element

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 of gratitude,

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 it could be very relevant

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 to today's message,

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 but this is not

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 what I want to talk to you

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 about today.

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 there is something

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 in what Merlin Carruthers

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 said,

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 and I wouldn't want

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 to lose that,

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 but like most trends

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 in theology

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 or new

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 or rediscovered

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 trends in theology,

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 the case was probably

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 overstated.

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 Pastorally,

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 I would suggest to you,

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 and we know more

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 about this stuff

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 these days,

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 that to tell people

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 to praise God

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 for being sexually abused

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 seems to me

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 to be a bit

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 of a long shot,

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 or to praise God

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 for those spouses

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 who suffer from

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 extreme control

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 from their partners.

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 I ask myself

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 in those situations,

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 who is it

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 that really needs

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 to learn something?

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 Today's theme

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 is the great

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 gratitude fade-out.

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 The idea

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 that being

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 a thankful person

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 can readily

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 become stale

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 in our lives,

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 can fade out.

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 And so I want

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 to do two things

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 this morning.

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 Not saying

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 I'll achieve them,

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 but this is my desire.

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 Firstly,

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 I want to answer

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 the question,

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 why is consistency

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 in being grateful

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 important?

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 in our discipleship.

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 And secondly,

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 I want to try

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 and give you

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 some tips

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 on how you might

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 maintain

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 a consistently

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 grateful heart.

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 Recognizing

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 that this is not

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 easy

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 when life

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 is hard

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 for you.

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 And for many

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 of us in the house

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 today,

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 life is hard.

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 two voices

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 from the past

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 who tell us

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 why gratitude

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 is important.

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 The first

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 is Meister

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 Eckhart,

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 who is a

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 13th century

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 German theologian.

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 He said this,

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 if the only

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 prayer you said

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 was thank you,

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 that would be

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 enough.

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 The second

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 voice

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 is that

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 of Marcus

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 Cicero,

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 a man

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 who lived

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 before Christ

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 and who

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 was a Roman

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 statesman,

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 lawyer,

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 scholar,

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 philosopher,

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 and academic,

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 all of those

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 things.

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 He said this,

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 gratitude

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 is not only

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 the greatest

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 of virtues,

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 but it is

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 the parent

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 of all

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 others.

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 Clearly,

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 whoever wrote

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 the book

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 of Deuteronomy

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 thought that

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 the risk

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 for God's

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 people,

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 you and me,

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 was that

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 they would

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 forget,

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 we would

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 forget,

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 what God

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 has done

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 for us.

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 And the

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 consequence

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 would be

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 a diminished

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 response

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 of gratitude.

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 gratitude.

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 And so

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 he pleads

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 with them

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 to remember,

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 do not

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 forget.

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 He tells

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 us that

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 three factors

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 will play

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 into our

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 fading memories.

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 The first

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 is disobedience.

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 You want

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 to live

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 your life

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 your way,

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 as per

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 Frank Sinatra,

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 then you

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 will discover

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 that one

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 of the

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 consequences

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 of that

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 is that

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 gratitude

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 will slip

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 away.

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 Isaiah

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 chapter

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 64

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 and

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 verse

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 6.

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 We read

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 these,

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 All of us,

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 said Isaiah,

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 all of us

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 have become

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 like one

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 who is

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 unclean,

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 and all

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 our righteous

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 acts are

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 like filthy

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 rags.

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 We all

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 shrivel up

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 like a leaf,

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 and like the

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 wind,

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 our sins

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 sweep us

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 away.

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 So let me

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 ask you a

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 question.

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 Would you

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 describe your

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 life as

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 shriveled,

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 less than it

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 could be?

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 Because there

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 are things

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 going on in

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 your life

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 that only

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 you,

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 or maybe

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 those who

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 are close

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 do you

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 know

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 about.

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 It's

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 difficult to

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 live a

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 thankful

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 life,

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 a life

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 of gratitude

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 if you

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 decided to

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 do life

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 your way.

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 Secondly,

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 there is

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 the resulting

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 complacency

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 that comes

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 from

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 normalizing

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 sin in

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 your life.

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 We pick

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 that up in

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 Deuteronomy,

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 don't we?

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 Where the

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 writer says

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 this,

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 I'm struck

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 again by it

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 as Suzanne

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 read it to

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 us.

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 He says

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 this,

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 be careful

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 you don't

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 forget the

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 Lord your

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 God.

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 And then

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 verse 12,

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 otherwise when

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 you eat and

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 are satisfied,

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 when you build

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 fine houses

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 and settle

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 down,

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 when your

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 herds and

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 flocks grow

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 large and

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 your silver

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 and gold

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 increase,

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 and all you

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 have is

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 multiplied,

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 then your

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 heart will

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 become proud

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 and you

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 will forget

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 what the

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 Lord your

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 God has

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 done with

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 you.

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 In the

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 book previous

00:14:41.100 --> 00:14:42.819
 to the

00:14:42.819 --> 00:14:43.279
 book of

00:14:43.279 --> 00:14:44.019
 Deuteronomy

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 is the

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 book of

00:14:45.079 --> 00:14:45.600
 Numbers,

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 where there

00:14:46.639 --> 00:14:47.079
 is the

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 most

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 unbelievable

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 scenario,

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 and it's

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 this.

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 Moses has

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 led the

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 people of

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 God out

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 of bondage

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 in Egypt,

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 a horrible

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 life,

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 a life of

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 extreme

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 violence,

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 extreme

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 work.

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 The Egyptians

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 were like

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 this,

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 right?

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 This is the

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 kind of

00:15:03.959 --> 00:15:04.759
 bosses the

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 Egyptians

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 were.

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 The task

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 was to

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 build

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 bricks,

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 but they

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 never gave

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 people enough

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 raw materials

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 to make

00:15:11.879 --> 00:15:12.419
 the bricks,

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 and then beat

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 them when

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 they didn't

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 meet their

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 quota.

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 Let me ask

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 you a

00:15:18.199 --> 00:15:18.559
 question.

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 Would you

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 like to

00:15:19.559 --> 00:15:19.860
 work for

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 an employer

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 like that?

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 Okay,

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 someone say

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 no.

00:15:24.479 --> 00:15:25.000
 No.

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 You would

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 hate that.

00:15:29.679 --> 00:15:30.159
 So

00:15:30.159 --> 00:15:31.299
 complacency

00:15:31.299 --> 00:15:32.599
 can easily

00:15:32.599 --> 00:15:33.379
 set into

00:15:33.379 --> 00:15:34.240
 our lives

00:15:34.240 --> 00:15:34.360
 peace.

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 When we

00:15:35.779 --> 00:15:36.180
 become

00:15:36.180 --> 00:15:36.960
 comfortable,

00:15:37.919 --> 00:15:38.860
 we can

00:15:38.860 --> 00:15:39.299
 forget,

00:15:40.039 --> 00:15:40.519
 says the

00:15:40.519 --> 00:15:41.039
 writer of

00:15:41.039 --> 00:15:41.460
 the book

00:15:41.460 --> 00:15:42.779
 of Deuteronomy.

00:15:44.620 --> 00:15:45.500
 And the

00:15:45.500 --> 00:15:46.360
 third reason,

00:15:47.720 --> 00:15:48.139
 and I

00:15:48.139 --> 00:15:48.720
 would imagine

00:15:48.720 --> 00:15:49.580
 the most

00:15:49.580 --> 00:15:50.120
 relevant

00:15:50.120 --> 00:15:51.180
 reason to

00:15:51.180 --> 00:15:51.700
 the people

00:15:51.700 --> 00:15:52.200
 sitting in

00:15:52.200 --> 00:15:52.620
 the house

00:15:52.620 --> 00:15:53.100
 today,

00:15:54.480 --> 00:15:54.879
 is what

00:15:54.879 --> 00:15:55.700
 theologians

00:15:55.700 --> 00:15:56.279
 call your

00:15:56.279 --> 00:15:56.899
 sit in

00:15:56.899 --> 00:15:57.419
 laban,

00:15:57.620 --> 00:15:57.980
 your

00:15:57.980 --> 00:15:59.480
 setting in

00:15:59.480 --> 00:15:59.919
 life.

00:15:59.919 --> 00:16:04.299
 I

00:16:04.299 --> 00:16:04.740
 guarantee

00:16:04.740 --> 00:16:06.899
 that if

00:16:06.899 --> 00:16:07.279
 you stand

00:16:07.279 --> 00:16:07.500
 at the

00:16:07.500 --> 00:16:07.839
 back of

00:16:07.839 --> 00:16:08.339
 the church

00:16:08.339 --> 00:16:08.939
 and people

00:16:08.939 --> 00:16:09.479
 walk out

00:16:09.479 --> 00:16:09.860
 through the

00:16:09.860 --> 00:16:10.219
 door and

00:16:10.219 --> 00:16:11.419
 somebody says

00:16:11.419 --> 00:16:11.799
 to them,

00:16:12.059 --> 00:16:12.759
 how are

00:16:12.759 --> 00:16:12.979
 you?

00:16:14.179 --> 00:16:14.539
 What are

00:16:14.539 --> 00:16:14.679
 you going

00:16:14.679 --> 00:16:15.059
 to say?

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 I'm fine,

00:16:17.099 --> 00:16:17.399
 thanks.

00:16:19.439 --> 00:16:19.959
 Listen,

00:16:20.039 --> 00:16:20.299
 you've got to

00:16:20.299 --> 00:16:20.759
 get over

00:16:20.759 --> 00:16:21.019
 it.

00:16:23.059 --> 00:16:23.740
 Many of

00:16:23.740 --> 00:16:24.079
 you in the

00:16:24.079 --> 00:16:24.699
 house today

00:16:24.699 --> 00:16:25.379
 are far

00:16:25.379 --> 00:16:26.039
 from fine

00:16:26.039 --> 00:16:26.919
 and nobody

00:16:26.919 --> 00:16:27.679
 much knows

00:16:27.679 --> 00:16:28.360
 about it.

00:16:29.919 --> 00:16:31.799
 And the

00:16:31.799 --> 00:16:32.259
 problem

00:16:32.259 --> 00:16:34.639
 with

00:16:34.639 --> 00:16:36.139
 holding

00:16:36.139 --> 00:16:37.039
 on to

00:16:37.039 --> 00:16:38.860
 the stuff

00:16:38.860 --> 00:16:39.360
 that's not

00:16:39.360 --> 00:16:40.019
 working in

00:16:40.019 --> 00:16:40.699
 your life

00:16:40.699 --> 00:16:42.579
 is that it

00:16:42.579 --> 00:16:42.979
 will grow

00:16:42.979 --> 00:16:43.479
 something

00:16:43.479 --> 00:16:44.279
 terrible in

00:16:44.279 --> 00:16:44.919
 your soul.

00:16:46.439 --> 00:16:46.899
 It will

00:16:46.899 --> 00:16:47.799
 grow a

00:16:47.799 --> 00:16:48.740
 root of

00:16:48.740 --> 00:16:49.079
 bitterness.

00:16:50.860 --> 00:16:51.719
 I'll tell you

00:16:51.719 --> 00:16:52.000
 again,

00:16:52.539 --> 00:16:53.079
 if you're a

00:16:53.079 --> 00:16:53.740
 bitter person,

00:16:53.899 --> 00:16:54.279
 people will

00:16:54.279 --> 00:16:54.799
 work it out

00:16:54.799 --> 00:16:55.299
 within about

00:16:55.299 --> 00:16:56.099
 20 minutes.

00:16:57.039 --> 00:16:57.579
 I'm not just

00:16:57.579 --> 00:16:57.980
 talking about

00:16:57.980 --> 00:16:58.559
 grumpy old

00:16:58.559 --> 00:16:58.779
 men,

00:16:58.899 --> 00:16:59.500
 incidentally.

00:16:59.919 --> 00:17:01.439
 I am.

00:17:01.839 --> 00:17:02.959
 I'm an A-level

00:17:02.959 --> 00:17:03.500
 student,

00:17:03.599 --> 00:17:03.959
 honestly.

00:17:08.339 --> 00:17:09.019
 So,

00:17:10.339 --> 00:17:11.220
 disobedience

00:17:11.220 --> 00:17:11.839
 that results

00:17:11.839 --> 00:17:12.899
 in complacency

00:17:12.899 --> 00:17:13.339
 in your

00:17:13.339 --> 00:17:14.680
 situation in

00:17:14.680 --> 00:17:15.000
 life.

00:17:16.019 --> 00:17:16.779
 Let's just

00:17:16.779 --> 00:17:17.599
 read again

00:17:17.599 --> 00:17:18.399
 what God

00:17:18.399 --> 00:17:19.039
 says about

00:17:19.039 --> 00:17:19.240
 that.

00:17:19.299 --> 00:17:19.639
 In verse

00:17:19.639 --> 00:17:20.099
 7,

00:17:20.920 --> 00:17:21.500
 God is

00:17:21.500 --> 00:17:22.099
 promising

00:17:22.099 --> 00:17:22.839
 his people

00:17:22.839 --> 00:17:23.480
 a great

00:17:23.480 --> 00:17:24.000
 life.

00:17:24.639 --> 00:17:24.879
 They're going

00:17:24.879 --> 00:17:25.139
 to come

00:17:25.139 --> 00:17:25.720
 out of

00:17:25.720 --> 00:17:26.240
 bondage

00:17:26.240 --> 00:17:27.139
 in Egypt

00:17:27.139 --> 00:17:28.059
 and enter

00:17:28.059 --> 00:17:28.500
 a land

00:17:28.500 --> 00:17:28.940
 that will

00:17:28.940 --> 00:17:29.140
 be

00:17:29.140 --> 00:17:29.859
 extremely

00:17:29.859 --> 00:17:30.480
 productive

00:17:30.480 --> 00:17:31.140
 for them.

00:17:33.299 --> 00:17:33.859
 Economically,

00:17:34.079 --> 00:17:34.680
 they're not

00:17:34.680 --> 00:17:34.880
 going to

00:17:34.880 --> 00:17:35.059
 have

00:17:35.059 --> 00:17:35.700
 problems.

00:17:35.960 --> 00:17:36.440
 In terms

00:17:36.440 --> 00:17:37.119
 of provision,

00:17:37.299 --> 00:17:37.599
 they're not

00:17:37.599 --> 00:17:37.799
 going to

00:17:37.799 --> 00:17:37.980
 have

00:17:37.980 --> 00:17:38.380
 problems,

00:17:38.380 --> 00:17:39.140
 but the

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 warning is.

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 And is

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 this a

00:17:43.259 --> 00:17:43.859
 warning for

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 21st century

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 Europeans?

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 when you

00:17:47.959 --> 00:17:48.720
 get comfy,

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 the danger

00:17:50.779 --> 00:17:51.659
 is you're

00:17:51.659 --> 00:17:51.839
 going to

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 be

00:17:52.059 --> 00:17:52.919
 complacent

00:17:52.919 --> 00:17:53.980
 and stop

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 thanking

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 God.

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 Verse 10,

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 our text,

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 the writer of

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 Deuteronomy

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 tells us,

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 don't forget

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 to thank

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 God for

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 what he

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 has given

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 you.

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 I need

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 to learn

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 that just

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 recently.

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 I've got

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 so much

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 to thank

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 God for,

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 to sit

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 in my

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 own

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 mire,

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 feeling

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 sorry for

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 myself as

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 a primary

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 carer.

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 It's not

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 particularly

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 a winsome

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 trait.

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 Somehow,

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 we've got

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 to get

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 past that.

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 Third thing

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 is,

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 verse 11,

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 there's a

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 reminder that

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 we need to

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 keep God's

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 laws and

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 commandments,

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 because this

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 was to

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 old covenant

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 people.

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 The old

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 covenant

00:18:40.539 --> 00:18:41.500
 people who

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 did not

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 receive the

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 Holy Spirit

00:18:43.079 --> 00:18:43.699
 in general,

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 but if you're

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 a Christ

00:18:45.000 --> 00:18:45.399
 follower,

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 you have

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 received the

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 Holy Spirit.

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 What the

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 Holy Spirit

00:18:48.519 --> 00:18:49.019
 is meant to

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 do in

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 your life

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 is change

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 you from

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 the inside

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 out.

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 The Lord

00:18:52.880 --> 00:18:53.360
 tried to

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 change you

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 from the

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 outside in.

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 God had a

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 plan B,

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 and plan B

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 was God

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 is trying to

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 change you

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 from the

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 inside out.

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 You'll think

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 that having

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 the Holy Spirit

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 means you

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 might sing a

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 bit louder

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 or wave

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 your arms

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 around in

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 worship.

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 No,

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 it's the

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 tough stuff

00:19:08.640 --> 00:19:09.880
 of transformation,

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 change from

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 the inside

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 out.

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 Don't

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 forget that.

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 And verses

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 12 and

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 14, I

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 read that

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 to you.

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 Beware the

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 complacency

00:19:21.339 --> 00:19:22.519
 when you

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 try and

00:19:23.059 --> 00:19:23.460
 mix the

00:19:23.460 --> 00:19:24.000
 grace of

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 God with

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 your own

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 disobedience.

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 grace of

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 Jesus.

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 So, I

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 want to

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 close by

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 telling you,

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 suggesting to

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 you, that

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 an ungrateful

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 disciple is

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 an oxymoron.

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 Anybody who's

00:19:48.140 --> 00:19:48.980
 a disciple of

00:19:48.980 --> 00:19:50.339
 Jesus should

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 be intrinsically

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 grateful.

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 I don't think

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 you'd disagree

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 with that,

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 but the

00:19:57.119 --> 00:19:57.619
 issue is,

00:19:57.859 --> 00:19:58.220
 how can

00:19:58.220 --> 00:19:58.839
 we stay

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 thankful?

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 How can

00:20:01.039 --> 00:20:01.740
 we stop

00:20:01.740 --> 00:20:02.420
 the great

00:20:02.420 --> 00:20:02.920
 gratitude

00:20:02.920 --> 00:20:03.700
 fade out,

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 not for

00:20:05.539 --> 00:20:06.640
 all situations,

00:20:07.559 --> 00:20:08.099
 but in

00:20:08.099 --> 00:20:09.039
 all situations?

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 I realize

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 that is

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 very challenging,

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 particularly

00:20:15.740 --> 00:20:16.279
 for those

00:20:16.279 --> 00:20:16.720
 of you

00:20:16.720 --> 00:20:17.480
 who are

00:20:17.480 --> 00:20:18.480
 finding love

00:20:18.480 --> 00:20:20.279
 uncompromisingly

00:20:20.279 --> 00:20:21.359
 tough at

00:20:21.359 --> 00:20:21.879
 the moment.

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 so here

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 are five

00:20:26.740 --> 00:20:27.260
 things,

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 very briefly,

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 that you

00:20:28.920 --> 00:20:29.580
 could do to

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 try and

00:20:30.080 --> 00:20:30.680
 maintain

00:20:30.680 --> 00:20:32.220
 gratitude in

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 your life.

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 One,

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 wake up

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 thankful.

00:20:36.260 --> 00:20:37.060
 The first

00:20:37.060 --> 00:20:37.580
 thing I

00:20:37.580 --> 00:20:38.200
 suggest you

00:20:38.200 --> 00:20:38.580
 could do

00:20:38.580 --> 00:20:39.280
 every day

00:20:39.280 --> 00:20:40.340
 is to start

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 thinking about

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 what can I

00:20:41.700 --> 00:20:42.800
 say thank you

00:20:42.800 --> 00:20:43.120
 for?

00:20:43.800 --> 00:20:44.200
 Well, the

00:20:44.200 --> 00:20:44.780
 first thing you

00:20:44.780 --> 00:20:45.440
 can thank God

00:20:45.440 --> 00:20:46.300
 for is your

00:20:46.300 --> 00:20:47.140
 breathing still.

00:20:47.140 --> 00:20:54.040
 wake up

00:20:54.040 --> 00:20:54.540
 thankful.

00:20:55.259 --> 00:20:56.040
 It sets a

00:20:56.040 --> 00:20:56.900
 tone for the

00:20:56.900 --> 00:20:57.180
 day.

00:20:58.520 --> 00:20:59.380
 If you wake

00:20:59.380 --> 00:20:59.860
 up and the

00:20:59.860 --> 00:21:00.540
 first thing you

00:21:00.540 --> 00:21:01.220
 think about is

00:21:01.220 --> 00:21:01.800
 all the stuff

00:21:01.800 --> 00:21:02.500
 you really don't

00:21:02.500 --> 00:21:02.940
 want to do

00:21:02.940 --> 00:21:03.420
 today,

00:21:04.780 --> 00:21:05.220
 that's going to

00:21:05.220 --> 00:21:05.840
 have a negative

00:21:05.840 --> 00:21:06.780
 impact on the

00:21:06.780 --> 00:21:07.259
 rest of the

00:21:07.259 --> 00:21:08.060
 day as far as

00:21:08.060 --> 00:21:08.560
 I can see.

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 Wake up

00:21:09.380 --> 00:21:09.740
 thankful,

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 one.

00:21:10.380 --> 00:21:10.660
 Two,

00:21:10.980 --> 00:21:11.920
 remember the

00:21:11.920 --> 00:21:12.720
 most basic

00:21:12.720 --> 00:21:13.920
 thing that God

00:21:13.920 --> 00:21:14.820
 has done for

00:21:14.820 --> 00:21:15.120
 you.

00:21:17.140 --> 00:21:18.380
 I like to

00:21:18.380 --> 00:21:19.400
 quietly say to

00:21:19.400 --> 00:21:20.800
 myself that

00:21:20.800 --> 00:21:21.640
 verse from

00:21:21.640 --> 00:21:22.680
 William Walsham

00:21:22.680 --> 00:21:23.259
 Howe's

00:21:23.259 --> 00:21:24.320
 wonderful hymn.

00:21:26.220 --> 00:21:26.820
 It is a

00:21:26.820 --> 00:21:27.380
 thing most

00:21:27.380 --> 00:21:27.880
 wonderful.

00:21:28.040 --> 00:21:28.320
 It's a

00:21:28.320 --> 00:21:29.080
 marvelous hymn.

00:21:29.400 --> 00:21:29.940
 I sometimes

00:21:29.940 --> 00:21:30.800
 think about

00:21:30.800 --> 00:21:32.340
 the cross and

00:21:32.340 --> 00:21:33.320
 close my eyes

00:21:33.320 --> 00:21:34.020
 and try to

00:21:34.020 --> 00:21:35.340
 see the cruel

00:21:35.340 --> 00:21:36.080
 nails and

00:21:36.080 --> 00:21:36.680
 crown of

00:21:36.680 --> 00:21:37.600
 thorns and

00:21:37.600 --> 00:21:39.259
 Jesus crucified

00:21:39.259 --> 00:21:40.440
 for me.

00:21:42.220 --> 00:21:43.220
 If you're a

00:21:43.220 --> 00:21:44.020
 Christ follower

00:21:44.020 --> 00:21:45.020
 and you don't

00:21:45.020 --> 00:21:45.480
 get that,

00:21:45.560 --> 00:21:45.960
 you're probably

00:21:45.960 --> 00:21:46.620
 not a Christ

00:21:46.620 --> 00:21:47.020
 follower.

00:21:47.140 --> 00:21:48.020
 You might be

00:21:48.020 --> 00:21:48.480
 a church

00:21:48.480 --> 00:21:48.880
 goer,

00:21:49.060 --> 00:21:49.380
 but you

00:21:49.380 --> 00:21:49.840
 won't be a

00:21:49.840 --> 00:21:50.540
 Christ follower.

00:21:51.980 --> 00:21:52.820
 Until you

00:21:52.820 --> 00:21:53.700
 understand the

00:21:53.700 --> 00:21:54.160
 pain,

00:21:54.920 --> 00:21:55.660
 the part of

00:21:55.660 --> 00:21:56.300
 the cross,

00:21:56.680 --> 00:21:57.080
 until you

00:21:57.080 --> 00:21:57.780
 understand the

00:21:57.780 --> 00:21:58.400
 peace of the

00:21:58.400 --> 00:22:01.980
 cross,

00:22:02.259 --> 00:22:02.820
 the peace that

00:22:02.820 --> 00:22:03.540
 that brings

00:22:03.540 --> 00:22:04.540
 to sinner's

00:22:04.540 --> 00:22:04.900
 souls.

00:22:06.860 --> 00:22:07.740
 Unless you

00:22:07.740 --> 00:22:08.720
 understand that

00:22:08.720 --> 00:22:10.440
 and thank God

00:22:10.440 --> 00:22:11.160
 for it daily,

00:22:11.440 --> 00:22:12.020
 you will

00:22:12.020 --> 00:22:12.500
 struggle.

00:22:14.380 --> 00:22:14.860
 Sometimes

00:22:14.860 --> 00:22:16.460
 think about

00:22:16.460 --> 00:22:17.120
 the cross.

00:22:18.799 --> 00:22:19.380
 Maybe we

00:22:19.380 --> 00:22:20.059
 all need to

00:22:20.059 --> 00:22:20.579
 think about

00:22:20.579 --> 00:22:21.380
 that a little

00:22:21.380 --> 00:22:21.799
 more.

00:22:22.600 --> 00:22:23.380
 Third thing is

00:22:23.380 --> 00:22:24.200
 throughout the

00:22:24.200 --> 00:22:24.600
 day and

00:22:24.600 --> 00:22:25.380
 especially at

00:22:25.380 --> 00:22:25.860
 the end of

00:22:25.860 --> 00:22:26.240
 the day,

00:22:26.880 --> 00:22:27.779
 thank God for

00:22:27.779 --> 00:22:28.360
 the small

00:22:28.360 --> 00:22:29.420
 things throughout

00:22:29.420 --> 00:22:30.740
 that day that

00:22:30.740 --> 00:22:31.160
 have brought

00:22:31.160 --> 00:22:31.759
 you joy.

00:22:33.019 --> 00:22:34.519
 Be a joy

00:22:34.519 --> 00:22:35.259
 hunter.

00:22:37.579 --> 00:22:38.640
 Little things.

00:22:38.640 --> 00:22:41.500
 I am so

00:22:41.500 --> 00:22:42.520
 incompetent,

00:22:43.380 --> 00:22:44.200
 especially as a

00:22:44.200 --> 00:22:44.640
 carer,

00:22:46.080 --> 00:22:46.860
 that I thank

00:22:46.860 --> 00:22:47.500
 God when

00:22:47.500 --> 00:22:48.140
 something goes

00:22:48.140 --> 00:22:48.600
 right, it

00:22:48.600 --> 00:22:49.259
 gives me joy.

00:22:50.640 --> 00:22:51.420
 I try to

00:22:51.420 --> 00:22:51.920
 boil an egg,

00:22:52.160 --> 00:22:52.440
 can you

00:22:52.440 --> 00:22:52.960
 believe this?

00:22:53.080 --> 00:22:53.960
 It exploded.

00:22:53.960 --> 00:22:54.080
 It exploded.

00:22:54.079 --> 00:23:01.919
 Thank God for

00:23:01.919 --> 00:23:02.460
 the power of

00:23:02.460 --> 00:23:02.839
 nature.

00:23:06.259 --> 00:23:06.939
 Being

00:23:06.939 --> 00:23:08.539
 thankful for

00:23:08.539 --> 00:23:09.079
 the small

00:23:09.079 --> 00:23:09.579
 acts of

00:23:09.579 --> 00:23:11.259
 grace that

00:23:11.259 --> 00:23:11.799
 you see,

00:23:12.519 --> 00:23:13.179
 the small

00:23:13.179 --> 00:23:13.720
 acts of

00:23:13.720 --> 00:23:14.399
 mercy, the

00:23:14.399 --> 00:23:15.220
 small acts

00:23:15.220 --> 00:23:16.000
 of effort,

00:23:17.139 --> 00:23:18.119
 whatever will

00:23:18.119 --> 00:23:18.740
 help you

00:23:18.740 --> 00:23:19.259
 cultivate

00:23:19.259 --> 00:23:20.819
 gratitude for

00:23:20.819 --> 00:23:21.199
 the bigger

00:23:21.199 --> 00:23:21.679
 things.

00:23:21.680 --> 00:23:23.900
 I wonder

00:23:23.900 --> 00:23:24.440
 if this is

00:23:24.440 --> 00:23:24.700
 true.

00:23:24.799 --> 00:23:25.220
 It's not

00:23:25.220 --> 00:23:25.860
 biblical, but

00:23:25.860 --> 00:23:26.580
 it strikes me

00:23:26.580 --> 00:23:27.140
 as potentially

00:23:27.140 --> 00:23:28.039
 true, and

00:23:28.039 --> 00:23:28.560
 that is if

00:23:28.560 --> 00:23:29.140
 we're grateful

00:23:29.140 --> 00:23:29.539
 for the

00:23:29.539 --> 00:23:30.220
 small things,

00:23:30.500 --> 00:23:31.140
 maybe we'll

00:23:31.140 --> 00:23:31.620
 be grateful

00:23:31.620 --> 00:23:32.000
 for the

00:23:32.000 --> 00:23:32.640
 bigger things.

00:23:34.080 --> 00:23:34.779
 But I also

00:23:34.779 --> 00:23:35.220
 think that

00:23:35.220 --> 00:23:35.680
 works in

00:23:35.680 --> 00:23:36.880
 reverse as

00:23:36.880 --> 00:23:37.299
 well.

00:23:39.440 --> 00:23:40.180
 Fourth thing

00:23:40.180 --> 00:23:40.940
 is always

00:23:40.940 --> 00:23:41.740
 thank others

00:23:41.740 --> 00:23:42.640
 for anything

00:23:42.640 --> 00:23:43.580
 they do for

00:23:43.580 --> 00:23:44.160
 you at

00:23:44.160 --> 00:23:45.220
 work, at

00:23:45.220 --> 00:23:45.860
 school, at

00:23:45.860 --> 00:23:46.960
 home, wherever

00:23:46.960 --> 00:23:47.920
 God puts you

00:23:47.920 --> 00:23:48.420
 for the other

00:23:48.420 --> 00:23:49.299
 six days of

00:23:49.299 --> 00:23:49.759
 the week.

00:23:51.680 --> 00:23:53.000
 I think

00:23:53.000 --> 00:23:53.700
 again, if

00:23:53.700 --> 00:23:54.279
 you become

00:23:54.279 --> 00:23:54.900
 a person

00:23:54.900 --> 00:23:55.759
 who's very

00:23:55.759 --> 00:23:56.320
 happy to

00:23:56.320 --> 00:23:57.299
 express thanks

00:23:57.299 --> 00:23:57.680
 all the

00:23:57.680 --> 00:23:58.460
 time, you

00:23:58.460 --> 00:23:58.960
 are more

00:23:58.960 --> 00:23:59.500
 likely to

00:23:59.500 --> 00:24:00.160
 build a

00:24:00.160 --> 00:24:00.820
 consistently

00:24:00.820 --> 00:24:01.340
 thankful

00:24:01.340 --> 00:24:02.279
 heart in

00:24:02.279 --> 00:24:02.720
 your own

00:24:02.720 --> 00:24:03.180
 life.

00:24:04.660 --> 00:24:04.920
 And

00:24:04.920 --> 00:24:05.700
 surprisingly,

00:24:06.299 --> 00:24:07.620
 a lot of

00:24:07.620 --> 00:24:08.039
 people aren't

00:24:08.039 --> 00:24:08.660
 very good at

00:24:08.660 --> 00:24:09.019
 this.

00:24:10.340 --> 00:24:10.620
 And

00:24:10.620 --> 00:24:11.279
 surprisingly,

00:24:11.539 --> 00:24:12.140
 even more

00:24:12.140 --> 00:24:13.160
 surprising is,

00:24:13.700 --> 00:24:14.160
 a lot of

00:24:14.160 --> 00:24:14.660
 people in

00:24:14.660 --> 00:24:15.240
 churches are

00:24:15.240 --> 00:24:15.640
 not very

00:24:15.640 --> 00:24:16.560
 good at

00:24:16.560 --> 00:24:16.880
 this.

00:24:16.880 --> 00:24:20.860
 there are

00:24:20.860 --> 00:24:21.320
 not many

00:24:21.320 --> 00:24:22.260
 churches that

00:24:22.260 --> 00:24:22.800
 will do

00:24:22.800 --> 00:24:23.480
 what we

00:24:23.480 --> 00:24:23.800
 have done

00:24:23.800 --> 00:24:24.420
 this morning.

00:24:25.980 --> 00:24:26.660
 And that

00:24:26.660 --> 00:24:27.180
 is, ask

00:24:27.180 --> 00:24:27.640
 people to

00:24:27.640 --> 00:24:28.480
 stand up

00:24:28.480 --> 00:24:29.020
 who are

00:24:29.020 --> 00:24:29.540
 involved in

00:24:29.540 --> 00:24:30.080
 a particular

00:24:30.080 --> 00:24:30.680
 area of

00:24:30.680 --> 00:24:31.760
 ministry so

00:24:31.760 --> 00:24:32.400
 we can thank

00:24:32.400 --> 00:24:32.900
 God for

00:24:32.900 --> 00:24:33.360
 them and

00:24:33.360 --> 00:24:34.080
 honor them.

00:24:38.600 --> 00:24:39.460
 I have a

00:24:39.460 --> 00:24:40.180
 friend who

00:24:40.180 --> 00:24:43.420
 was very,

00:24:43.680 --> 00:24:44.720
 very involved

00:24:44.720 --> 00:24:45.420
 in his

00:24:45.420 --> 00:24:46.080
 church in

00:24:46.079 --> 00:24:46.559
 France.

00:24:47.639 --> 00:24:48.240
 He even

00:24:48.240 --> 00:24:48.759
 bought a

00:24:48.759 --> 00:24:49.359
 house that

00:24:49.359 --> 00:24:50.199
 would facilitate

00:24:50.199 --> 00:24:51.480
 a congregation

00:24:51.480 --> 00:24:52.119
 on a Sunday

00:24:52.119 --> 00:24:52.480
 morning.

00:24:52.579 --> 00:24:53.099
 It had a

00:24:53.099 --> 00:24:54.799
 massive room

00:24:54.799 --> 00:24:55.079
 in it.

00:24:56.139 --> 00:24:56.720
 He bought

00:24:56.720 --> 00:24:57.460
 chairs so

00:24:57.460 --> 00:24:57.839
 that people

00:24:57.839 --> 00:24:58.299
 could sit

00:24:58.299 --> 00:24:59.399
 down, all

00:24:59.399 --> 00:25:00.079
 that stuff.

00:25:01.639 --> 00:25:02.099
 You know

00:25:02.099 --> 00:25:02.379
 what, he

00:25:02.379 --> 00:25:02.819
 doesn't even

00:25:02.819 --> 00:25:03.439
 go to the

00:25:03.439 --> 00:25:03.819
 Church of

00:25:03.819 --> 00:25:04.480
 England anymore

00:25:04.480 --> 00:25:05.079
 because when

00:25:05.079 --> 00:25:05.639
 he left,

00:25:06.599 --> 00:25:07.199
 not one

00:25:07.199 --> 00:25:07.980
 person said

00:25:07.980 --> 00:25:08.559
 thank you.

00:25:10.759 --> 00:25:11.199
 That's a

00:25:11.199 --> 00:25:11.740
 church for

00:25:11.740 --> 00:25:12.259
 crying out

00:25:12.259 --> 00:25:12.599
 loud.

00:25:14.939 --> 00:25:15.679
 We should

00:25:15.680 --> 00:25:16.360
 be honoring

00:25:16.360 --> 00:25:16.860
 people,

00:25:17.100 --> 00:25:17.460
 thanking

00:25:17.460 --> 00:25:19.420
 them for

00:25:19.420 --> 00:25:20.180
 their dramatic

00:25:20.180 --> 00:25:22.740
 and undramatic

00:25:22.740 --> 00:25:24.279
 and menial

00:25:24.279 --> 00:25:26.160
 acts of

00:25:26.160 --> 00:25:27.120
 giving.

00:25:28.160 --> 00:25:28.960
 They're just

00:25:28.960 --> 00:25:30.019
 talking about

00:25:30.019 --> 00:25:30.560
 money, we've

00:25:30.560 --> 00:25:31.000
 done that.

00:25:35.519 --> 00:25:36.420
 And the

00:25:36.420 --> 00:25:37.240
 final thing is

00:25:37.240 --> 00:25:37.720
 this.

00:25:38.960 --> 00:25:39.660
 Remind

00:25:39.660 --> 00:25:40.779
 yourself every

00:25:40.779 --> 00:25:42.200
 day that

00:25:42.200 --> 00:25:43.139
 everything you

00:25:43.139 --> 00:25:43.480
 are,

00:25:45.019 --> 00:25:45.859
 everything you

00:25:45.859 --> 00:25:46.440
 ever will

00:25:46.440 --> 00:25:46.759
 be,

00:25:48.079 --> 00:25:49.119
 everything you

00:25:49.119 --> 00:25:51.160
 have is a

00:25:51.160 --> 00:25:51.519
 gift from

00:25:51.519 --> 00:25:51.819
 God.

00:25:53.799 --> 00:25:54.799
 We're losing

00:25:54.799 --> 00:25:55.720
 that sense in

00:25:55.720 --> 00:25:56.399
 our secular

00:25:56.399 --> 00:25:57.480
 society, aren't

00:25:57.480 --> 00:25:57.680
 we?

00:25:59.660 --> 00:26:00.539
 Sometimes I

00:26:00.539 --> 00:26:01.680
 worry that we

00:26:01.680 --> 00:26:02.160
 don't see

00:26:02.160 --> 00:26:03.039
 children as a

00:26:03.039 --> 00:26:03.819
 gift anymore,

00:26:04.879 --> 00:26:05.960
 we just see

00:26:05.960 --> 00:26:06.420
 them as an

00:26:06.420 --> 00:26:08.279
 acquisition to

00:26:08.279 --> 00:26:08.779
 manage.

00:26:13.180 --> 00:26:13.700
 Everything

00:26:13.700 --> 00:26:15.359
 you are,

00:26:15.539 --> 00:26:16.299
 everything you

00:26:16.299 --> 00:26:17.399
 will ever be

00:26:17.399 --> 00:26:18.180
 is a gift

00:26:18.180 --> 00:26:18.740
 of God.

00:26:20.859 --> 00:26:21.359
 It might

00:26:21.359 --> 00:26:21.920
 not be a

00:26:21.920 --> 00:26:22.420
 bad thing

00:26:22.420 --> 00:26:23.200
 for you as

00:26:23.200 --> 00:26:24.180
 you get

00:26:24.180 --> 00:26:24.720
 into bed

00:26:24.720 --> 00:26:25.059
 tonight,

00:26:25.059 --> 00:26:25.799
 just to do

00:26:25.799 --> 00:26:27.200
 a very brief

00:26:27.200 --> 00:26:28.240
 self-audit

00:26:28.240 --> 00:26:30.319
 to establish

00:26:30.319 --> 00:26:31.639
 why it

00:26:31.639 --> 00:26:32.259
 might be

00:26:32.259 --> 00:26:33.420
 that you're

00:26:33.420 --> 00:26:33.759
 not as

00:26:33.759 --> 00:26:34.460
 grateful as

00:26:34.460 --> 00:26:34.879
 you might

00:26:34.879 --> 00:26:35.139
 be.

00:26:35.140 --> 00:26:37.160
 So let

00:26:37.160 --> 00:26:37.580
 me close,

00:26:37.660 --> 00:26:38.060
 I want to

00:26:38.060 --> 00:26:38.520
 speak to

00:26:38.520 --> 00:26:38.960
 you today,

00:26:39.080 --> 00:26:39.520
 to those

00:26:39.520 --> 00:26:40.160
 of you who

00:26:40.160 --> 00:26:40.920
 know full

00:26:40.920 --> 00:26:41.900
 well that

00:26:41.900 --> 00:26:42.700
 sin and

00:26:42.700 --> 00:26:43.880
 complacency has

00:26:43.880 --> 00:26:44.860
 overtaken your

00:26:44.860 --> 00:26:45.880
 life and

00:26:45.880 --> 00:26:46.320
 you've been

00:26:46.320 --> 00:26:47.340
 overtaken by

00:26:47.340 --> 00:26:48.820
 and obsessed

00:26:48.820 --> 00:26:50.400
 with self-gratification.

00:26:54.020 --> 00:26:54.940
 Not being

00:26:54.940 --> 00:26:55.600
 thankful to

00:26:55.600 --> 00:26:58.520
 God, but

00:26:58.520 --> 00:26:59.220
 just seeking

00:26:59.220 --> 00:27:00.360
 to gratify

00:27:00.360 --> 00:27:01.420
 your own

00:27:01.420 --> 00:27:01.960
 desires.

00:27:03.580 --> 00:27:04.700
 Second, I

00:27:04.700 --> 00:27:04.960
 want to

00:27:04.960 --> 00:27:05.600
 speak clearly

00:27:05.600 --> 00:27:06.080
 to those

00:27:06.080 --> 00:27:06.519
 of you who

00:27:06.519 --> 00:27:07.380
 know that

00:27:07.380 --> 00:27:08.000
 a root of

00:27:08.000 --> 00:27:08.340
 bitterness

00:27:08.340 --> 00:27:09.299
 dominates

00:27:09.299 --> 00:27:10.059
 your life

00:27:10.059 --> 00:27:11.580
 and has

00:27:11.580 --> 00:27:12.039
 robbed you

00:27:12.039 --> 00:27:12.360
 of the

00:27:12.360 --> 00:27:13.759
 joy of

00:27:13.759 --> 00:27:14.180
 being a

00:27:14.180 --> 00:27:14.480
 grateful

00:27:14.480 --> 00:27:15.120
 person.

00:27:16.559 --> 00:27:17.019
 And finally,

00:27:17.100 --> 00:27:17.420
 I want to

00:27:17.420 --> 00:27:17.819
 speak to

00:27:17.819 --> 00:27:18.299
 those of

00:27:18.299 --> 00:27:19.200
 you who

00:27:19.200 --> 00:27:19.519
 have

00:27:19.519 --> 00:27:20.440
 effectively

00:27:20.440 --> 00:27:22.080
 discounted

00:27:22.080 --> 00:27:22.779
 the cost

00:27:22.779 --> 00:27:23.360
 of what

00:27:23.360 --> 00:27:23.840
 it cost

00:27:23.840 --> 00:27:25.460
 God to

00:27:25.460 --> 00:27:26.059
 forgive you

00:27:26.059 --> 00:27:26.860
 your sins.

00:27:28.440 --> 00:27:29.039
 Maybe it

00:27:29.039 --> 00:27:29.480
 was a time

00:27:29.480 --> 00:27:29.819
 when you

00:27:29.819 --> 00:27:30.299
 were hot

00:27:30.299 --> 00:27:30.700
 for that,

00:27:30.799 --> 00:27:31.319
 but now

00:27:31.319 --> 00:27:33.500
 it's

00:27:33.500 --> 00:27:33.980
 barely a

00:27:33.980 --> 00:27:34.919
 flicker in

00:27:34.919 --> 00:27:35.679
 your remembrance

00:27:35.679 --> 00:27:36.559
 of what

00:27:36.559 --> 00:27:37.139
 God has

00:27:37.139 --> 00:27:37.619
 done to

00:27:37.619 --> 00:27:37.839
 you.

00:27:38.839 --> 00:27:39.599
 The power

00:27:39.599 --> 00:27:40.139
 of God's

00:27:40.139 --> 00:27:41.119
 love left

00:27:41.119 --> 00:27:41.879
 you behind

00:27:41.879 --> 00:27:42.700
 years ago

00:27:42.700 --> 00:27:44.599
 and maybe

00:27:44.599 --> 00:27:45.159
 coming to

00:27:45.159 --> 00:27:46.139
 church is

00:27:46.139 --> 00:27:46.700
 born of

00:27:46.700 --> 00:27:47.460
 habit now

00:27:47.460 --> 00:27:48.939
 rather than

00:27:48.939 --> 00:27:49.379
 born of

00:27:49.379 --> 00:27:49.960
 conviction.

00:27:49.960 --> 00:27:50.059
 salvation.

00:27:56.220 --> 00:27:57.240
 I'm praying

00:27:57.240 --> 00:27:59.880
 that right

00:27:59.880 --> 00:28:00.579
 now God

00:28:00.579 --> 00:28:01.920
 is speaking

00:28:01.920 --> 00:28:04.779
 directly

00:28:04.779 --> 00:28:05.640
 into your

00:28:05.640 --> 00:28:06.019
 heart.

00:28:07.720 --> 00:28:08.579
 Forget me,

00:28:08.640 --> 00:28:09.039
 it's about

00:28:09.039 --> 00:28:09.700
 what God

00:28:09.700 --> 00:28:10.240
 wants to

00:28:10.240 --> 00:28:10.700
 say to

00:28:10.700 --> 00:28:10.960
 you.

00:28:13.039 --> 00:28:13.860
 And those

00:28:13.860 --> 00:28:14.120
 of you who

00:28:14.120 --> 00:28:14.279
 have got

00:28:14.279 --> 00:28:14.980
 ungrateful

00:28:14.980 --> 00:28:15.519
 hearts are

00:28:15.519 --> 00:28:15.759
 going to

00:28:15.759 --> 00:28:16.240
 find it

00:28:16.240 --> 00:28:16.940
 harder to

00:28:16.940 --> 00:28:17.720
 listen than

00:28:17.720 --> 00:28:18.180
 those of

00:28:18.180 --> 00:28:18.600
 you who

00:28:18.600 --> 00:28:18.920
 have

00:28:18.920 --> 00:28:19.340
 grateful

00:28:19.340 --> 00:28:19.900
 hearts.

00:28:19.960 --> 00:28:23.299
 is this

00:28:23.299 --> 00:28:23.940
 your moment?

00:28:25.620 --> 00:28:26.460
 Is this

00:28:26.460 --> 00:28:27.039
 your moment

00:28:27.039 --> 00:28:27.799
 to stop

00:28:27.799 --> 00:28:28.539
 being bitter?

00:28:29.819 --> 00:28:30.700
 To stop

00:28:30.700 --> 00:28:31.680
 being willfully

00:28:31.680 --> 00:28:32.640
 disobedient

00:28:32.640 --> 00:28:33.819
 to the

00:28:33.819 --> 00:28:34.740
 call of

00:28:34.740 --> 00:28:35.220
 the life

00:28:35.220 --> 00:28:35.640
 that God

00:28:35.640 --> 00:28:36.400
 has for

00:28:36.400 --> 00:28:36.700
 you?

00:28:39.700 --> 00:28:40.579
 Is this

00:28:40.579 --> 00:28:41.140
 your moment?

00:28:43.079 --> 00:28:43.779
 Let's

00:28:43.779 --> 00:28:44.059
 pray.

00:28:46.920 --> 00:28:47.640
 Father,

00:28:47.640 --> 00:28:47.759
 Father,

00:28:47.759 --> 00:28:49.900
 we are

00:28:49.900 --> 00:28:50.599
 so

00:28:50.599 --> 00:28:54.839
 inconsistent

00:28:54.839 --> 00:28:55.799
 somehow

00:28:55.799 --> 00:28:56.420
 in our

00:28:56.420 --> 00:28:57.440
 discipleship.

00:28:58.059 --> 00:28:58.539
 And Lord,

00:28:58.619 --> 00:28:59.420
 maybe when

00:28:59.420 --> 00:28:59.839
 this

00:28:59.839 --> 00:29:01.019
 consistently

00:29:01.019 --> 00:29:02.500
 and

00:29:02.500 --> 00:29:03.259
 persistently

00:29:03.259 --> 00:29:03.960
 comes to

00:29:03.960 --> 00:29:04.740
 being people

00:29:04.740 --> 00:29:06.420
 who are

00:29:06.420 --> 00:29:06.859
 thankful.

00:29:09.420 --> 00:29:10.099
 Lord,

00:29:10.180 --> 00:29:10.640
 for those

00:29:10.640 --> 00:29:11.180
 of us who

00:29:11.180 --> 00:29:11.920
 know full

00:29:11.920 --> 00:29:12.720
 well today

00:29:12.720 --> 00:29:13.640
 that gratitude

00:29:13.640 --> 00:29:14.619
 has faded

00:29:14.619 --> 00:29:15.359
 out in our

00:29:15.359 --> 00:29:15.660
 lives,

00:29:15.660 --> 00:29:16.160
 we pray,

00:29:16.160 --> 00:29:16.500
 Lord,

00:29:17.740 --> 00:29:18.259
 that you

00:29:18.259 --> 00:29:18.660
 give us

00:29:18.660 --> 00:29:19.220
 the courage

00:29:19.220 --> 00:29:19.840
 today to

00:29:19.840 --> 00:29:20.500
 do something

00:29:20.500 --> 00:29:21.100
 about it

00:29:21.100 --> 00:29:21.640
 and turn

00:29:21.640 --> 00:29:21.980
 up the

00:29:21.980 --> 00:29:22.380
 volume

00:29:22.380 --> 00:29:25.580
 that we

00:29:25.580 --> 00:29:26.200
 might have

00:29:26.200 --> 00:29:26.779
 thankful

00:29:26.779 --> 00:29:27.440
 hearts.

00:29:29.640 --> 00:29:30.200
 Lord,

00:29:30.279 --> 00:29:30.800
 let that

00:29:30.800 --> 00:29:31.800
 begin now.

00:29:33.700 --> 00:29:34.440
 Maybe even

00:29:34.440 --> 00:29:35.060
 at the end

00:29:35.060 --> 00:29:35.640
 of the service

00:29:35.640 --> 00:29:36.200
 we need to

00:29:36.200 --> 00:29:36.600
 go to

00:29:36.600 --> 00:29:37.259
 somebody and

00:29:37.259 --> 00:29:37.920
 thank them

00:29:37.920 --> 00:29:38.660
 for some

00:29:38.660 --> 00:29:39.120
 small,

00:29:39.220 --> 00:29:40.180
 maybe undramatic,

00:29:40.180 --> 00:29:40.539
 take a

00:29:40.539 --> 00:29:41.400
 menial act

00:29:41.400 --> 00:29:42.180
 of service

00:29:42.180 --> 00:29:43.860
 that they

00:29:43.860 --> 00:29:44.279
 have done.

00:29:47.799 --> 00:29:48.120
 Lord,

00:29:48.180 --> 00:29:48.860
 maybe we

00:29:48.860 --> 00:29:49.420
 need to be

00:29:49.420 --> 00:29:49.860
 thankful,

00:29:50.019 --> 00:29:50.680
 more thankful

00:29:50.680 --> 00:29:51.380
 to the

00:29:51.380 --> 00:29:51.960
 staff of

00:29:51.960 --> 00:29:52.680
 this church

00:29:52.680 --> 00:29:54.920
 who seek

00:29:54.920 --> 00:29:56.840
 to bring

00:29:56.840 --> 00:29:57.259
 the good

00:29:57.259 --> 00:29:57.759
 news of

00:29:57.759 --> 00:29:58.360
 the gospel,

00:29:59.360 --> 00:29:59.920
 what God

00:29:59.920 --> 00:30:00.480
 has done

00:30:00.480 --> 00:30:02.420
 in Jesus

00:30:02.420 --> 00:30:04.700
 to us

00:30:04.700 --> 00:30:05.380
 and to the

00:30:05.380 --> 00:30:06.279
 wider world.

00:30:06.279 --> 00:30:07.279
 God,

00:30:07.279 --> 00:30:12.399
 we pray

00:30:12.399 --> 00:30:13.119
 your forgiveness

00:30:13.119 --> 00:30:13.779
 if we've

00:30:13.779 --> 00:30:14.720
 discounted the

00:30:14.720 --> 00:30:16.240
 cost of

00:30:16.240 --> 00:30:16.619
 what you

00:30:16.619 --> 00:30:17.299
 did for us

00:30:17.299 --> 00:30:17.599
 on the

00:30:17.599 --> 00:30:18.119
 cross of

00:30:18.119 --> 00:30:18.660
 Calvary.

00:30:20.420 --> 00:30:21.559
 Sometimes I

00:30:21.559 --> 00:30:22.240
 think about

00:30:22.240 --> 00:30:22.920
 the cross

00:30:22.920 --> 00:30:24.000
 and close

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 my eyes

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 and try

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 to see

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 the cruel

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 nails

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 and crown

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 of thorns

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 and Jesus

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 crucified

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 for me.

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 Holy Spirit,

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 would you

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 burnish

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 that act

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 of history

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 in our

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 hearts

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 that we

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 might be

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 truly grateful

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 people.

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 And we

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 pray these

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 things in

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 Jesus' name

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 and the

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 people who

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 agreed

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 said together

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 emphatically,

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 Amen.