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 Okay, we're going to continue in our study of Colossians.

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 Last week, Zemir took us up through the end of chapter 3, Colossians chapter 3, up to the start of chapter 4.

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 So I'm going to do Colossians chapter 4, verses 2 through 6.

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 And in the ESV, the section header is called Further Instructions.

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 And I renamed it for this message, I'm titling it Missional Instructions, because it seems like his further instructions are very missional.

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 Which I think is great, because that's kind of what we're focused on.

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 Not kind of, this is exactly what we're focused on in Christchurch right now, being a new church plant.

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 So I think it's timely.

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 Still going? Okay, look at this.

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 I think it's timely.

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 So I think it's worth noting, this section follows a section on divine order.

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 And think of it as Paul building a house.

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 And it's fitting that his further instructions are further building on this house of divine order.

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 So, you know, last week, Zemir taught on this.

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 Right relationships in families.

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 Wives submitting to husbands.

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 Husbands loving their wives.

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 Children obeying their parents.

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 Fathers not provoking their children.

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 Honoring our earthly masters.

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 Which, you know, now it's our employers.

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 Working in a way that's pleasing to the Lord.

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 Honoring them.

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 So he lays this foundation of right relating and divine order in the church.

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 And says, this is essential.

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 This is like, this is main thing type stuff.

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 This isn't secondary thing type stuff.

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 And then he talks about evangelism.

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 I think that's meaningful.

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 You know, we want to be on mission.

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 We want to be an evangelistic church.

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 But God is jealous for his name and his character to be rightly reflected by those who are communicating this.

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 You know?

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 So I think it's noteworthy.

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 You know, this is coming.

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 This is not an evangelistic admonition out of nowhere.

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 Where it's further instructions.

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 Now we get to evangelism.

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 Alright?

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 So, it's meaningful.

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 So I'm going to read through it.

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 I'm going to share some thoughts on each passage.

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 And at the end, I have some points that are related to the things in this passage that I think are especially timely for our church.

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 So I'll have some points at the end.

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 So getting into it.

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 Colossians chapter 4, verse 2.

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 Continue steadfastly in prayer, being watchful in it with thanksgiving.

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 At the same time, pray also for us that God may open to us a door for the word to declare the mystery of Christ, on account of which I am in prison, that I may make it clear which is how I ought to speak.

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 Walk in wisdom toward outsiders, making the best use of the time.

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 Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how you ought to answer each person.

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 I'm going to start with verse 2.

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 Continue steadfastly in prayer, being watchful in it with thanksgiving.

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 The NASB says, devote yourselves to prayer, keeping alert in it with an attitude of thanksgiving.

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 Which I think is a meaningful way of rephrasing this.

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 You know, the ESV says, continue steadfastly in prayer.

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 NASB says, devote yourselves to prayer.

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 It has this connotation of devotion.

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 This is something that we as a church from the heart are giving ourselves to at a heart level.

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 You know, it's not just that we're kind of going on doing it like we're punching the prayer clock.

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 But this is something we're devoted to.

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 And I also think of this as being communicating Paul's expectation for an atmosphere of the church.

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 This is an atmosphere of a missional church.

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 A church that's devoted to prayer, keeping alert with an attitude of thanksgiving.

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 And the phrase that came to my mind was like rephrasing this a little bit.

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 Always watchful thanks praying.

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 Which kind of mixes it up a little bit.

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 That you think of praying.

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 Like I, my experience of praying is I'll get fired up on it for a season.

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 I'll pray for a bunch of stuff.

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 Forget about what I prayed for.

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 Start focusing on problems again.

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 And not even, by the time God answers the prayer, I'm just like, it doesn't even occur to me to give thanks for him.

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 But that's not, that's not the, the atmosphere that Paul is describing and exhorting here.

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 He's saying, hey, devote yourselves to prayer and keep alert.

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 Keep watching for the Lord to answer those prayers with an attitude of thanksgiving.

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 I mean, Julie was talking this morning how she has gotten into the habit more recently of actually giving thanks ahead of time for things that she knows God's going to answer.

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 Like, because it's according to his word.

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 Like, it's this, I'm praying and I'm praying not just for things I want.

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 I'm praying for things that God said he's going to give me.

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 I'm going to be thankful ahead of time, you know.

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 So anyway, this is, this is kind of the environment.

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 This is like a good fertile garden for evangelism.

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 He goes on to talk a little bit more about it.

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 But I think that's, this is the foundation.

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 This is a church who's given to prayer, praying for the Lord to open doors and being thankful ahead of time because he's going to do it.

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 You know, he's the one telling us to do it.

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 So he's going to answer it.

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 Verse three.

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 At the same time, pray also for us that God may open to us a door for the word to declare the mystery of Christ on account of which I am in prison.

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 So Paul says, pray for us.

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 Who is us?

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 You know, in this exact context, it's his coworkers.

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 So in other places, in Colossians, he lists off a number of his coworkers.

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 So Paul, Timothy, Tychicus, Onesimus, Aristarchus, Mark, Jesus or Justice, Epaphras, Luke, Demas.

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 So it's this apostolic team.

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 This is the, this is the missionary team.

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 All right.

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 This is the, the coat.

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 These are the people who are out doing the work of ministry, sharing the gospel.

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 And he's asking this church to partner with him in praying that God would open up doors for them.

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 Pray for us.

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 All right.

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 So we are an apostolic team.

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 We're a church plan.

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 So what's the application for us?

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 It's us.

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 So Philippians 1 verses 3 through 5 says,

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 I thank my God and all my remembrance of you, always in every prayer of mine for you.

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 Always in every prayer of mine for you all, making my prayer with joy because of your partnership in the gospel from the first day until now.

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 So this, this speaks of us as a team, as a church planning team, being on mission to people.

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 And our prayers should be oriented towards each other.

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 You know, we don't have like this concept of there's a evangelist and their job is to do the evangelism.

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 And so we're all going to fast and pray for, you know, Fred, the evangelist to go out and do his job.

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 You know, no, it's us.

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 It's us as a team partnering in prayer with each other, praying that the Lord would do what he's about to talk about.

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 What should we pray for?

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 What does he exhort them to pray for?

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 That God may open to us a door for the word.

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 So there's other places in the Bible that talk about this.

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 There's a few verses I'm going to share.

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 But Paul has this conception that just because he's going out and preaching the gospel doesn't mean it's just going to work.

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 All right.

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 He knows that there's doors and that unless God opens that door, it's not going to bear fruit.

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 So the thing that needs to happen is for God in sovereignty to mercifully open a door for Paul's apostolic work to have any fruit.

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 That's why it's essential.

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 We got to pray.

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 He's like, hey, guys, I'm asking you to partner with me in prayer and pray that God would open doors.

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 And unless God opens the doors, what we're doing really is in vain.

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 It doesn't really matter.

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 You know, so a few examples of this Revelation three verses seven through eight.

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 This is Jesus talking to John.

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 He writes to the church in Philadelphia, the words of the holy one, the true one who has the key of David, who opens and no one will shut, who shuts and no one opens.

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 You know how final that is.

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 This is Jesus.

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 This is this is who he is.

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 And he says to them, I know your works.

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 Behold, I have set before you an open door, which no one is able to shut.

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 Which is awesome.

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 It's the finality of Jesus Christ reigning and ruling.

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 He has authority to do this.

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 And he says he gives us a little encouragement.

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 He says, I know that you have but little power.

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 And yet you have kept my word and not denied my name.

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 That's awesome.

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 That encourages someone like me.

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 I feel like I have a little bit of power.

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 And I think back through it.

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 So like, at least I haven't denied his name yet.

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 You know.

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 And he encourages him.

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 He says, hey, like the agency isn't in you.

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 The agency is in me.

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 I opened a door and nobody can shut it.

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 That's what we're praying for.

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 We're praying for the Lord to open up doors that no one can shut.

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 And it's impossible for all hell to shut it.

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 He opens it up.

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 We walk through.

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 We share the gospel.

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 Fruit.

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 That's the Lord's way.

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 And Paul knew this.

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 He knew in his apostolic journey that everywhere he went, there were closed doors that only Jesus Christ can open.

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 And he's asking the saints, hey, partner together.

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 Pray together that the Lord opened these doors.

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 A few from his own experience.

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 Second Corinthians 2, verses 12 through 13.

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 Paul's talking about when he was in Troas.

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 He said he came to Troas to preach the gospel of Christ.

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 Even though a door was opened for me in the Lord.

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 So he has this understanding that God opened a door.

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 He said he had no rest for his spirit.

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 And he took his leave because he didn't find his brother Titus.

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 So Paul passed on that one.

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 There's a mystery there.

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 I think it has to do with his intention for co-working and things and doing something together.

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 Not just alone.

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 But the fact of the matter is, he acknowledged that God had done a work in opening a door.

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 And that's essential for fruitful gospel ministry.

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 That's what we're praying for.

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 First Corinthians 16, verses 8 through 9.

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 Again, he says, as he's writing, he says, I will stay in Ephesus until Pentecost.

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 For a wide door for effective work has been opened to me.

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 And there are many adversaries.

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 So these doors are real.

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 God opens them.

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 They're spiritual.

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 You can say all the right words with all the right, you know, proof texts.

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 You can do it right.

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 You can walk people through Romans Road right.

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 Nothing.

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 But unless God opens that door, we're speaking to the air, you know.

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 There's closed eyes.

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 There's hard hearts.

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 And God has to open eyes and open their hearts to receive the word.

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 Just like he says to Lydia.

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 He opened her heart to understand the word.

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 That's what we're praying for.

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 You know, these are like house doors.

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 They're not some like metaphysical, weird, strange door.

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 This is doors to people's hearts.

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 You know, the God of this world has blinded the eyes of the minds of unbelievers.

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 So that they wouldn't see the glory of God in the face of Jesus Christ.

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 We're asking that God has mercy on them and opens their eyes.

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 So they can receive the word, the message that we're preaching to them.

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 So we're dependent on it.

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 And for what?

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 What is this?

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 Why do we?

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 Why is?

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 What are we preaching when this door is opened?

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 He says to declare the mystery of Christ.

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 There's a lot in this.

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 The mystery of Christ is, and we could spend a hundred years of sermons talking about what

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 the mystery of Christ is, but just a few verses here.

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 He actually talked about it earlier in Colossians, Colossians 1, verses 25 through 28.

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 He touches on what this mystery is.

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 Of which I became a minister according to the stewardship from God that was given to me for you,

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 to make the word of God fully known, the mystery, hidden for ages and generations, but now revealed

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 to his saints.

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 To them, God chose to make known how great among the Gentiles are the riches of the glory of this

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 mystery, which is Christ in you, the hope of glory.

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 Him we proclaim, warning everyone and teaching everyone with all wisdom that we may present

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 everyone mature in Christ.

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 And again, next chapter, he says, to reach all the riches of full assurance.

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 This is chapter two, verses two through three.

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 To reach all the riches of full assurance of understanding and the knowledge of God's mystery,

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 which is Christ, in whom are hidden all the treasures of wisdom of knowledge.

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 Again, first Timothy three, verse 16.

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 Great indeed, we confess, is the mystery of godliness.

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 He, Christ, was manifested in the flesh, vindicated by the spirit, seen by angels,

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 proclaimed among the nations, believed on in the world, taken up in glory.

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 This mystery is a person.

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 It's Jesus Christ.

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 We, the world has no taste, no eyes for Jesus Christ.

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 It says he has no beauty that we would desire him.

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 In the world's eyes, he's despised and rejected.

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 He's just, he's a blip on the radar.

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 You don't even, like you're, you're cruising through.

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 It's like a homeless person on the street.

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 You just don't even see him.

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 You have your blinders on, you know?

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 You just don't even see him.

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 You just don't even see him.

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 You just don't see him.

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 You just don't see him.

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 You just don't see him.

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 That's how we are naturally, specifically towards Jesus.

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 And it's a mystery.

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 It's this hidden mystery.

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 And he is who we're preaching.

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 So it's, it's even more essential that God opens a door so that we can share this mystery,

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 you know, because the world doesn't want to know about it.

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 But he is life.

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 And in this mystery is the gospel too.

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 It's not only the person of Jesus, it's the person and the work, what Jesus did for us on the cross.

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 On account of which I'm in prison.

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 So with the testimony, with this open door, with a, a deliverance of this mystery message,

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 comes prison, comes conflict.

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 I'm not going to spend too much time on this, but this is the picture throughout the whole New Testament.

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 When there's an open door for the gospel, immediately there's conflict.

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 And I just say this because that's what we should expect.

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 The devil's tactic is to give us to throw up our hands and just be like, oh my gosh, that was, that was bad.

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 You know, we preach the gospel.

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 We were expecting good things to happen and then bad things happen.

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 Well, no, actually they go together.

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 So one example is 1 Corinthians 16 verses 8 through 9.

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 Again, I just read the same one.

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 It says, he will stay in Ephesus till Pentecost for a wide door of effective work is open for me.

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 But the emphasis is, and there are many adversaries.

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 So that went along with his open door, his adversaries.

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 And this attended Paul every single place he went.

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 Open door for the gospel, soul saved, and violent adversaries persecuting him.

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 And we should expect the same thing.

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 This is not, you know, Christianity hadn't gotten better, or the world hadn't gotten better after 2,000 years.

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 You know, it's just the same.

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 So anyway, moving on from this, verse 4, pray not only for an open door, but that I may make it clear, which is how I ought to speak.

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 Prayer for clarity.

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 Like you, I'm sure you've experienced this in your life.

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 You just learned so much.

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 You learned so much Bible.

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 You learned so much about the gospel.

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 And it comes time to share it.

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 And you're just like, Jesus.

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 And, you know, and this.

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 And he died.

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 And you just kind of tell it all backwards.

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 And it's all a jumbled mess.

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 Well, it's because it's the only message that we need the Holy Spirit to actually be able to effectively communicate.

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 We can't just, like, learn good enough to be able to do it good.

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 We need to learn good.

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 We need to practice doing it good.

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 But it's the Spirit that gives life and clarity and timing and the right verses at the right time to be able to speak it clearly as we ought to.

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 Jesus says, after he ascended, he had communicated all the information that the apostles needed to do their job.

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 But he said, wait.

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 Wait.

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 In Jerusalem until what?

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 You're imbued with power from on high.

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 The Holy Spirit comes.

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 And then you will receive power to be my witnesses.

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 So the point of this one is just very simple.

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 We have to have the Holy Spirit.

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 Not only do we got to get the Holy Spirit on day one, we need the Holy Spirit regularly.

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 Pray, Lord, give me boldness.

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 Give us boldness.

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 Give us a fresh filling of the Spirit.

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 So when we do have these opportunities, when God opens the door, then it'll come out like a bunch of gobbledygook.

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 You know, we actually have urgency and clarity, a Spirit-controlled tongue that can communicate a timely word in season.

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 It's essential.

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 And again, God holds us in his hand.

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 I need him.

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 I need him to do it.

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 We all need him to do it.

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 So not any way to downplay reading God's word, studying evangelism, learning how to be a better workman.

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 We need all that.

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 And that gets refined.

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 We learn how to handle the word with maturity.

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 And we learn how to hear the Spirit's voice.

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 But we never grow out of the need to just be filled up every single day, just as much as we did the first day.

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 Apart from me, Jesus says, apart from me, you can do nothing.

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 Zilch.

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 Nothing.

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 Like, are you grown out of that?

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 No.

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 We need it.

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 Okay.

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 Moving on.

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 Verse 5.

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 Walk in wisdom toward outsiders, making the best use of the time.

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 This is where I spend most of my time in this.

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 So I'm going to try to make the best use of my time in this passage, this verse here.

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 Colossians 4, verse 5.

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 And the AASB says, conduct yourselves with wisdom towards outsiders.

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 So walk.

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 It doesn't mean just like movement forward.

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 It's like the way you conduct yourself.

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 It's how you live.

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 Conduct yourselves with wisdom towards outsiders, making the most of the opportunity.

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 Conduct is huge.

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 All right.

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 So people who aren't in our world, who we interact with, who only really know us, like we might be the only Christian they know.

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 They're reading us primarily.

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 Yeah.

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 The stuff that's coming out of our mouth, that's like the second thing they're reading.

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 The first thing they're reading is us, our conduct.

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 You know, and so we need to understand that.

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 Like we need to realize people basically don't care what we have to say.

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 They care what we communicate with our conduct.

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 Our life is the bedrock.

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 It's not just, you know, we don't want to fall.

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 There's two ditches.

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 All right.

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 So there's a ditch over here where it's just all conduct.

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 We don't say anything.

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 Is it St. Francis of Assisi?

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 Was he like this?

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 You know, like just very hardcore, like pendulum swinging towards, you know, basically your life is the only message.

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 That's a ditch.

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 Well, there's another ditch that says we say all the things, but our life just says something a lot louder.

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 Which means I don't really believe this.

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 I don't really believe what God's saying, you know.

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 And what the Lord's saying is we need both.

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 So what's this foundation for effective witness?

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 Conduct yourself with wisdom towards outsiders.

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 There's a reason this passage here, these additional instructions are coming after an exhortation on divine order in the church.

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 Because that's what the world reads.

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 They read us.

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 They read our life.

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 Okay.

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 So 2 Corinthians 3 verses 1 through 6 has a very explicit teaching on this.

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 And Paul says in that, he says, are we beginning to commend ourselves again?

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 Or do we need, as some do, letters of recommendation to you or from you?

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 You yourselves are our letter of recommendation.

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 Written on our hearts to be known and read by all.

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 And you show that you are a letter from Christ delivered by us.

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 Written not with ink but the spirit of the living God.

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 Not on tablets of stone but on tables of human hearts.

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 And such is the confidence that we have through Christ toward God.

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 Not that we are sufficient in ourselves to claim anything is coming from us.

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 Which is an important thing.

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 Like, we can hear this whole, hey, you're the message.

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 And you're like, oh, no.

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 I do not want to be the message.

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 That is one of the most condemning things I've ever heard.

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 You know?

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 If I just look at my life and all the areas that are off.

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 And I think, I got to get that whole thing fixed before I ever share Jesus.

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 No.

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 And this is why this is encouraged.

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 This is not what he's saying.

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 He says, not that we are sufficient in ourselves to claim anything is coming from us.

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 But our sufficiency is from God.

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 Who has made us sufficient to be ministers of a new covenant.

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 Not the letter but the spirit.

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 For the letter kills but the spirit gives life.

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 The Lord's work is happening in our life.

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 If we've received Jesus, he's already doing this.

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 So the exhortation is, let him.

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 Say yes.

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 So when he's coming into life and he's putting his finger on areas of our life that we're very uncomfortable about,

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 he's writing a letter to the world through us.

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 This is his part of his letter that he's writing.

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 And it gives a foundation for being able to communicate the gospel to people in an effective way.

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 So, you know, this harkens back to that verse in the early part of Colossians where it says,

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 Christ in you is the hope of glory.

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 This is Jesus living in, he's the word made flesh, okay?

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 Jesus living inside of us through the spirit, communicating himself to other people through our conduct and through our words.

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 But we just need to recognize for a skeptical world who is predisposed to not believe what God says,

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 what they're looking at first is you.

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 Okay?

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 And we should be encouraged that we have the spirit who's up for the challenge.

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 Christ in us is the hope of glory and he's up for the challenge of displaying his glory to the world through us.

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 So, moving on a little bit.

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 So, it says, walking wisdom towards outsiders, making the best use of the time.

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 So, what does wisdom look like?

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 It means making the best use of the time.

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 Okay?

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 So, I thought about just the array of different relationships we have.

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 We have some relationships that are really long term.

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 I mean, they have a time span of 50 years, maybe.

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 You know, family.

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 Very long time span with family.

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 There's a different way I'm going to walk with family members than a cashier.

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 Okay?

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 I might see that person one time.

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 So, we need to have wisdom.

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 We need to think through these different relationships.

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 I mean, I'm a letter being written to the world.

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 Each of us is a letter of God to the world, bearing about the testimony of Jesus.

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 But the way I handle that in wisdom looks differently depending on the kind of relationship it is.

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 So, you know, you have a random person come along your path.

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 The Lord opens the door to share the gospel.

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 You need to share it.

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 You need to share the whole thing with them.

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 Like, it might not be the most comprehensive thing on the face of the world.

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 You know, it might not be like a John Piper serpent.

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 But it might be a two-minute testimony of Jesus Christ.

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 And that might be the only interaction you ever have with them.

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 So, the Lord opens the door.

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 We're praying that God would open doors.

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 The way I preach the gospel to some random person I meet is going to be different than, say, my brother.

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 Who I've had lots of conversations with.

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 And every time I see him, if I share the gospel with him every single time, it might not be the most helpful thing for a relationship to continue.

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 You know, because we've already said, okay, we were, you know, we have a certain understanding.

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 And now we're talking and we're praying for him.

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 And we're wanting to put good conduct over a long time span to give foundations to the truth that we're communicating.

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 So, we're supposed to walk in wisdom, you know.

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 And anyway, Julie had an interaction with one of our neighbors that I thought was a really good example of this.

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 And the illustration I thought of for walking in wisdom was heads up, not heads down.

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 Okay.

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 Heads down, we're just buried in our own life, our own problems, our own stuff.

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 And we're walking around like this.

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 And God's got to really do something crazy to pull our head up and get us to recognize the existence of another person.

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 Okay.

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 Well, walking in wisdom towards outsiders means we have our heads up.

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 And she had an interaction with one of our neighbors.

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 She was driving by.

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 She was out doing her gardening, you know.

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 And this is a neighbor we just have not interacted with that much.

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 And she was driving by and she just had a split second.

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 She was like, I could roll down my window and talk to this person.

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 And she didn't feel like doing it because the habit is heads down.

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 And this is both of us.

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 So I'm not, you know, throwing through the end of the bus.

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 But she didn't.

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 She rolled down the window and she talked with her.

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 And this lady was kind of like, you know, like there's people are so lonely.

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 And when we have our heads up and we just allow the Holy Spirit to say, hey, make the best use of this time that you have with this person.

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 This two minutes.

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 There can be a relationship that's established that you just never would have thought of.

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 And it feeds into this overall mission.

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 Now we can be more thoughtful about our neighbor and pray for them, you know.

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 Where before maybe out of shame or whatever, you kind of just keep that stuff down.

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 You don't even pray for them because you're embarrassed about the fact that you always, you know, blow by that, you know.

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 Well, the Holy Spirit wants to bring our heads up and give us an alertness towards the people around us so that we're making the most out of every opportunity.

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 You know, we have wisdom.

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 So, I guess moving on from that, the last verse, verse six.

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 Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer every person.

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 So that you may know how you ought to answer each person.

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 It's hard to get through that.

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 Gracious speech.

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 This is not my wheelhouse.

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 Out of all these, I think this is the one that was most convicting to me.

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 Don't be a truth bulldozer.

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 A gracious person doesn't just plow people over with the truth.

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 So much salt, a person can't taste the love.

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 You know, that was something that came to mind.

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 It's just, you know, you eat food that's just over salted.

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 I like really salty food.

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 For me, it's like the right salt level is usually a little bit too much for other people.

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 Like, oh, it's too salty.

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 But there's a salt level where I'm just like, even I don't like that.

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 I'm just like, no, that's not.

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 That's too much salt.

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 That's not edible.

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 All right.

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 If we have speech that's full of truth, but there's no graciousness to it, it's like that.

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 Like, it's food, technically.

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 But there's so much truth in it.

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 There's so much salt.

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 I just can't hear it.

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 You know, it's just off-putting.

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 1 Corinthians 13, one said,

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 This is how essential it is to have graciousness that comes from love.

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 What we're talking about is love.

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 You know, truth and love, they go together.

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 John chapter 1 says,

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 The law came through Moses.

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 Grace and truth came through Jesus Christ.

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 He was full of grace and truth.

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 He had both.

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 The law was all truth.

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 It was terrifying.

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 People heard it and they're like, I can't hear any more of them.

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 It's just too much.

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 It condemns me.

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 Jesus had all the truth.

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 He was full of grace.

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 And people beheld him.

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 He was the word made flesh.

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 They could come.

00:28:45.259 --> 00:28:45.740
 They could taste.

00:28:45.819 --> 00:28:46.380
 They could see.

00:28:47.180 --> 00:28:48.299
 And they could hear it.

00:28:48.779 --> 00:28:49.099
 You know?

00:28:49.099 --> 00:28:52.279
 And they could hear it from a way from Jesus that you just can't hear it from other people.

00:28:52.939 --> 00:28:54.139
 Well, Jesus lives in us.

00:28:54.159 --> 00:28:56.159
 So we can be the same through his spirit.

00:28:58.240 --> 00:28:59.539
 Don't treat people like a checklist.

00:29:00.000 --> 00:29:02.079
 I treat people like a checklist or like a to-do list.

00:29:02.379 --> 00:29:02.659
 All right?

00:29:03.179 --> 00:29:04.199
 I see problems.

00:29:05.119 --> 00:29:06.879
 They're now, they're in a person.

00:29:06.980 --> 00:29:08.279
 That person's now on my to-do list.

00:29:08.619 --> 00:29:10.019
 I got to work through my to-do list.

00:29:10.099 --> 00:29:10.899
 I got to check it off.

00:29:10.939 --> 00:29:12.819
 I got to address the truth problem.

00:29:12.819 --> 00:29:13.659
 And then we're going to move on.

00:29:14.139 --> 00:29:16.119
 You know, this is not like people feel that.

00:29:16.119 --> 00:29:22.699
 I know that's the effect that I've had when I'm not walking with graciousness, with a heart full of the love of the Lord.

00:29:24.459 --> 00:29:27.219
 And anyway, so that's one extreme.

00:29:28.379 --> 00:29:31.639
 Gracious speech is essential so that we're not just bulldozing people with the truth.

00:29:31.640 --> 00:29:36.340
 On the other side, it's not just gracious speech.

00:29:37.100 --> 00:29:40.540
 It's let your speech be always gracious, seasoned with salt.

00:29:41.480 --> 00:29:43.160
 Don't be so sweet you don't share the truth.

00:29:44.100 --> 00:29:49.280
 There's a way of just trying to build relationship and build relationship and build capital and build trust.

00:29:49.320 --> 00:29:51.020
 And you're building, you're building, you're building, you're building.

00:29:52.580 --> 00:29:53.380
 Are you really building?

00:29:54.380 --> 00:29:55.520
 Are you sharing the truth?

00:29:55.519 --> 00:30:00.740
 Are you allowing the salt of Jesus Christ to pervade that relationship?

00:30:01.819 --> 00:30:04.019
 It's like food that has no taste in it.

00:30:05.319 --> 00:30:06.740
 Matthew 5.13 says,

00:30:06.859 --> 00:30:12.279
 You are the salt of the earth, but if the salt has lost its taste, how shall its saltiness be restored?

00:30:12.839 --> 00:30:16.299
 It's no good for anything except to be thrown out and trampled under people's feet.

00:30:16.299 --> 00:30:24.960
 So we think naturally that if I err on grace, I'm going to build street cred with them.

00:30:25.720 --> 00:30:31.079
 I'm going to earn myself a seat at the table so I can finally, someday, share the truth.

00:30:31.339 --> 00:30:35.940
 And man, when I do, they're going to trust me so much, they're going to have to say, yes, that's the truth and I receive it.

00:30:37.299 --> 00:30:41.839
 And we think that we're going to kind of be their bestie that way.

00:30:43.980 --> 00:30:44.759
 But it's not true.

00:30:45.299 --> 00:30:46.180
 People don't work that way.

00:30:47.220 --> 00:30:48.799
 It says in Proverbs 28.23,

00:30:49.039 --> 00:30:53.220
 Whoever rebukes a man will afterward find more favor than he who flatters with his tongue.

00:30:54.319 --> 00:30:58.240
 That kind of graciousness is not actually graciousness.

00:30:58.299 --> 00:30:59.000
 It's flattery.

00:30:59.779 --> 00:30:59.940
 Okay.

00:31:00.579 --> 00:31:07.460
 And that way of interacting with people is like salt that's lost its saltiness.

00:31:07.460 --> 00:31:10.539
 That's good for nothing to be thrown out and trampled under people's feet.

00:31:11.019 --> 00:31:11.639
 And people do it.

00:31:11.659 --> 00:31:12.259
 You see it in the world.

00:31:12.759 --> 00:31:16.119
 You see someone who's just constantly trying to like earn trust,

00:31:16.119 --> 00:31:17.379
 earn favor, earn trust.

00:31:17.619 --> 00:31:20.439
 And they're so scared of the reproach of Jesus Christ.

00:31:20.639 --> 00:31:23.339
 And they're so embarrassed about what the Bible actually says.

00:31:23.399 --> 00:31:24.259
 They never share it with them.

00:31:26.379 --> 00:31:27.219
 It's despicable.

00:31:27.339 --> 00:31:30.219
 It's kind of something that makes you feel like you can't respect somebody like that.

00:31:30.220 --> 00:31:31.940
 Because you're two-faced.

00:31:32.720 --> 00:31:34.100
 You're not being honest.

00:31:34.259 --> 00:31:35.100
 You're not being genuine.

00:31:36.100 --> 00:31:36.960
 Jesus does both.

00:31:37.600 --> 00:31:41.240
 There's graciousness and there's truth together.

00:31:41.240 --> 00:31:47.779
 And that's what our orientation towards people ought to be.

00:31:47.779 --> 00:31:48.579
 Full grace.

00:31:48.779 --> 00:31:50.120
 You know, gracious speech.

00:31:50.680 --> 00:31:51.400
 Season with salt.

00:31:51.500 --> 00:31:51.819
 It's done.

00:31:53.960 --> 00:31:54.859
 And it says,

00:31:54.859 --> 00:31:57.099
 So that you may know how to answer each person.

00:31:57.519 --> 00:31:57.799
 Each.

00:31:58.799 --> 00:32:03.319
 So that you may know how to answer each person.

00:32:07.459 --> 00:32:10.159
 There's one way of thinking about this that says,

00:32:10.160 --> 00:32:13.620
 While we are communicating with unbelievers,

00:32:13.860 --> 00:32:17.259
 we need to have gracious speech that's seasoned with salt.

00:32:17.700 --> 00:32:18.620
 And that's true.

00:32:19.580 --> 00:32:22.580
 But this actually colors it in a little bit different of a lens.

00:32:22.660 --> 00:32:23.019
 It says,

00:32:23.920 --> 00:32:27.680
 Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt.

00:32:28.019 --> 00:32:30.460
 So that you may know how to answer each person.

00:32:31.100 --> 00:32:31.820
 It's a lifestyle.

00:32:31.819 --> 00:32:34.879
 A lot of times,

00:32:35.460 --> 00:32:36.480
 we try to turn it on.

00:32:37.500 --> 00:32:38.500
 When you get a mission opportunity,

00:32:38.599 --> 00:32:38.839
 it's like,

00:32:38.899 --> 00:32:39.240
 Oh, wait.

00:32:39.659 --> 00:32:39.799
 Okay.

00:32:41.200 --> 00:32:42.119
 Time to share the gospel.

00:32:42.619 --> 00:32:44.200
 I need to have gracious speech,

00:32:44.480 --> 00:32:45.240
 seasoned with salt.

00:32:45.960 --> 00:32:47.379
 And you try to just turn it on then.

00:32:48.200 --> 00:32:52.179
 But you don't have this as your way of being

00:32:52.179 --> 00:32:54.859
 throughout all of your life as a Christian.

00:32:55.379 --> 00:32:56.319
 So it's unnatural.

00:32:56.460 --> 00:32:57.079
 And you're not ready.

00:32:58.240 --> 00:32:58.460
 You know?

00:32:58.559 --> 00:33:00.679
 So if our speech,

00:33:00.680 --> 00:33:02.519
 our speech is very important to the Lord.

00:33:03.120 --> 00:33:03.320
 You know,

00:33:03.340 --> 00:33:04.180
 it says in James,

00:33:04.700 --> 00:33:04.880
 Hey,

00:33:05.620 --> 00:33:09.600
 how can bitter water and sweet water come out of the same well?

00:33:09.960 --> 00:33:10.720
 It doesn't.

00:33:11.380 --> 00:33:12.259
 It doesn't.

00:33:13.500 --> 00:33:15.580
 The tongue is so important to the Lord.

00:33:15.660 --> 00:33:16.720
 It's a sacred place.

00:33:17.360 --> 00:33:18.960
 We're trying to use our tongue.

00:33:19.019 --> 00:33:22.720
 We want our tongue to be enlivened by the Holy Spirit.

00:33:22.820 --> 00:33:24.420
 A place where the Holy Spirit is like,

00:33:24.580 --> 00:33:25.640
 that's my house.

00:33:26.840 --> 00:33:30.019
 Our mouths are where the Holy Spirit lives.

00:33:30.680 --> 00:33:34.180
 And if we're going around our normal life,

00:33:34.279 --> 00:33:35.440
 our non-mission life,

00:33:35.539 --> 00:33:36.480
 which there really isn't one,

00:33:36.539 --> 00:33:37.600
 but the way we think of it is like,

00:33:37.660 --> 00:33:37.799
 okay,

00:33:37.840 --> 00:33:38.860
 our non-mission life,

00:33:39.360 --> 00:33:40.460
 and we're backbiting,

00:33:40.600 --> 00:33:41.279
 we're backbiting,

00:33:41.600 --> 00:33:42.779
 we're grumbling,

00:33:43.240 --> 00:33:44.220
 we're complaining,

00:33:44.620 --> 00:33:46.019
 we're slandering.

00:33:46.019 --> 00:33:50.940
 this is a mouth that's not ready.

00:33:52.379 --> 00:33:54.099
 When those interactions come,

00:33:54.579 --> 00:33:55.139
 we're not ready.

00:33:56.720 --> 00:34:00.579
 Our mouth is to be under the control of the Holy Spirit,

00:34:00.759 --> 00:34:01.700
 set apart for Jesus,

00:34:01.819 --> 00:34:02.460
 for his glory,

00:34:02.579 --> 00:34:03.660
 no matter where we are.

00:34:04.420 --> 00:34:05.819
 And it's this mouth,

00:34:05.960 --> 00:34:07.619
 this gracious speech,

00:34:08.000 --> 00:34:09.800
 always seasoned with salt,

00:34:09.940 --> 00:34:13.039
 that makes us ready when those opportunities come.

00:34:13.039 --> 00:34:14.320
 We're praying for opportunities.

00:34:15.159 --> 00:34:18.000
 Are we praying to be ready for those opportunities?

00:34:19.900 --> 00:34:21.179
 So this is also,

00:34:21.480 --> 00:34:22.980
 this is what it means to walk by the Spirit.

00:34:23.500 --> 00:34:26.759
 I love that the Holy Spirit's referred to often as the Spirit of Christ,

00:34:27.039 --> 00:34:32.679
 which is kind of an interesting way of framing the ministry of the Holy Spirit.

00:34:32.679 --> 00:34:34.940
 There's the Trinity,

00:34:35.059 --> 00:34:35.399
 the Father,

00:34:35.539 --> 00:34:35.719
 Son,

00:34:35.819 --> 00:34:36.199
 Holy Spirit,

00:34:36.319 --> 00:34:36.739
 distinct.

00:34:37.659 --> 00:34:39.500
 Each has a unique ministry though,

00:34:39.579 --> 00:34:43.059
 and the Spirit has a ministry of Christ.

00:34:43.179 --> 00:34:46.359
 It communicates Christ into our hearts,

00:34:46.619 --> 00:34:48.759
 that Christ would dwell in your hearts through faith.

00:34:48.859 --> 00:34:51.159
 So when we talk about Jesus living inside of us,

00:34:51.219 --> 00:34:53.859
 what we're talking about is the Holy Spirit living inside of us.

00:34:54.359 --> 00:34:56.000
 But the Holy Spirit is the Spirit of Christ.

00:34:56.099 --> 00:34:59.719
 He's communicating the personhood of Jesus into our hearts,

00:35:00.159 --> 00:35:01.779
 and expressing his character.

00:35:01.780 --> 00:35:05.780
 Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and forever.

00:35:05.920 --> 00:35:08.019
 And so when the Holy Spirit comes and lives in our hearts,

00:35:08.320 --> 00:35:12.519
 he's making a home for Jesus to express himself.

00:35:13.320 --> 00:35:15.200
 And he's the same as he always is.

00:35:15.540 --> 00:35:15.640
 You know,

00:35:15.680 --> 00:35:19.300
 so I shouldn't expect the Spirit inside of me to be different than Jesus.

00:35:19.740 --> 00:35:20.840
 When I read about Jesus,

00:35:20.980 --> 00:35:22.000
 it's just that.

00:35:22.420 --> 00:35:23.620
 That should be my expectation.

00:35:23.740 --> 00:35:24.880
 So we ask to be filled with the Holy Spirit.

00:35:25.120 --> 00:35:29.140
 We're asking for Jesus to come and have his home and reign and rule in our life.

00:35:29.139 --> 00:35:30.480
 It's a little bit of an aside,

00:35:30.639 --> 00:35:34.239
 but this does have bearing on this whole being ready thing,

00:35:34.779 --> 00:35:35.960
 having gracious speech.

00:35:36.559 --> 00:35:39.099
 First Peter 3 verse 15 says,

00:35:39.339 --> 00:35:41.559
 sanctify Christ as Lord in your hearts.

00:35:43.139 --> 00:35:48.359
 Always being ready to make a defense to everyone who asks you to give an account for the hope that's in you,

00:35:48.579 --> 00:35:50.059
 yet with gentleness and reverence.

00:35:50.400 --> 00:35:50.960
 Parallel passage.

00:35:51.279 --> 00:35:51.699
 Same thing.

00:35:51.920 --> 00:35:52.519
 Same message.

00:35:52.519 --> 00:35:53.159
 Okay.

00:35:53.780 --> 00:35:55.619
 But his message to them then is say,

00:35:55.739 --> 00:35:55.900
 Hey,

00:35:56.840 --> 00:35:57.519
 sanctify,

00:35:57.739 --> 00:35:58.380
 set aside.

00:35:58.559 --> 00:35:58.719
 Lord,

00:35:58.920 --> 00:36:01.119
 the Lord Jesus is holy in your hearts.

00:36:01.179 --> 00:36:02.159
 That's what sanctify means.

00:36:02.619 --> 00:36:04.320
 He's living inside of you through the Spirit.

00:36:04.980 --> 00:36:05.800
 Treat him as holy.

00:36:06.579 --> 00:36:11.460
 So that you can be ready to make a defense to anybody at any time.

00:36:11.659 --> 00:36:11.980
 Always.

00:36:13.000 --> 00:36:16.460
 And thing I love about Jesus is you look at his example.

00:36:16.699 --> 00:36:18.159
 He always knew what to say to anybody,

00:36:18.460 --> 00:36:19.679
 everybody in every situation,

00:36:19.679 --> 00:36:20.399
 no matter what,

00:36:20.639 --> 00:36:21.659
 no matter how different it was,

00:36:21.739 --> 00:36:24.019
 no matter how like out of left field it was,

00:36:24.119 --> 00:36:25.960
 over and over and over again,

00:36:26.039 --> 00:36:27.399
 Jesus always knew what to say.

00:36:28.480 --> 00:36:29.339
 The Bible says,

00:36:29.440 --> 00:36:31.919
 Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and forever.

00:36:32.399 --> 00:36:34.359
 He's the same Jesus who lives in our hearts.

00:36:34.599 --> 00:36:35.779
 So he's always ready.

00:36:36.339 --> 00:36:38.940
 The reason we can be ready is because he's always ready.

00:36:39.579 --> 00:36:39.719
 So,

00:36:39.839 --> 00:36:40.039
 you know,

00:36:40.379 --> 00:36:40.919
 women at the well,

00:36:41.059 --> 00:36:41.659
 Nicodemus,

00:36:42.159 --> 00:36:43.039
 how he talked to Peter,

00:36:43.139 --> 00:36:44.139
 how he talked to the disciples,

00:36:44.419 --> 00:36:45.259
 the rich young ruler,

00:36:45.819 --> 00:36:46.699
 Pharisees,

00:36:46.859 --> 00:36:47.440
 Sadducees,

00:36:47.599 --> 00:36:48.019
 crowds,

00:36:48.659 --> 00:36:48.839
 you know,

00:36:48.840 --> 00:36:51.220
 a random Syrophoenician woman.

00:36:51.320 --> 00:36:51.620
 He just,

00:36:52.260 --> 00:36:53.340
 no matter what,

00:36:54.260 --> 00:36:55.600
 he had the right words to share.

00:36:57.100 --> 00:36:58.240
 He's the same.

00:36:58.720 --> 00:36:59.720
 He lives in our hearts.

00:37:00.500 --> 00:37:02.460
 We need to realize and have our,

00:37:02.559 --> 00:37:03.160
 we need to ask the Lord,

00:37:03.240 --> 00:37:03.380
 Lord,

00:37:03.480 --> 00:37:05.579
 open my eyes to the fact that you actually live inside of me.

00:37:05.640 --> 00:37:06.340
 I'm your house.

00:37:07.420 --> 00:37:09.180
 And let me treat you as holy.

00:37:10.760 --> 00:37:14.840
 You're not going to let me act one way to my wife

00:37:14.840 --> 00:37:19.940
 or speak one way about brothers and sisters in the Lord who Christ died for.

00:37:21.220 --> 00:37:24.920
 And then turn around and talk like totally different to some random stranger

00:37:24.920 --> 00:37:26.039
 I'm trying to share the gospel to.

00:37:26.920 --> 00:37:27.320
 Continuity.

00:37:27.700 --> 00:37:28.579
 He's the same.

00:37:29.720 --> 00:37:29.860
 So,

00:37:30.539 --> 00:37:31.680
 and that should give us an encouragement.

00:37:31.679 --> 00:37:34.119
 If we're insecure about having a word to share,

00:37:35.299 --> 00:37:35.500
 he's,

00:37:35.539 --> 00:37:36.139
 he's got it.

00:37:36.460 --> 00:37:37.379
 He's always got it.

00:37:37.639 --> 00:37:39.139
 Just set him aside as Lord,

00:37:39.259 --> 00:37:39.759
 trust him.

00:37:40.519 --> 00:37:41.739
 And through the spirit,

00:37:42.159 --> 00:37:43.919
 he always gives the right words to speak.

00:37:44.960 --> 00:37:45.639
 So anyway,

00:37:45.739 --> 00:37:46.099
 that's,

00:37:46.239 --> 00:37:48.239
 that's all I have in the commentary on the verses.

00:37:48.419 --> 00:37:50.039
 I did have a few points I wanted to pull out.

00:37:50.279 --> 00:37:51.319
 Some of these are repeats.

00:37:51.740 --> 00:37:54.260
 I think these are the things when I pray about Christ church,

00:37:54.340 --> 00:37:55.600
 when I think about Christ church,

00:37:56.080 --> 00:37:58.080
 some of these is just like myself because I'm in Christ.

00:37:58.980 --> 00:38:01.039
 These are the things that stand out to me as being pertinent.

00:38:01.840 --> 00:38:02.480
 Number one,

00:38:03.880 --> 00:38:09.360
 God has given each of us a personal responsibility in gospel ministry.

00:38:09.780 --> 00:38:12.240
 So we speak a lot of doing this together,

00:38:12.460 --> 00:38:13.820
 which is awesome.

00:38:14.480 --> 00:38:15.140
 It's awesome.

00:38:15.139 --> 00:38:18.039
 But there's a,

00:38:18.219 --> 00:38:21.139
 there's an order of operations in that togetherness.

00:38:22.539 --> 00:38:25.839
 There are people in each of our circles that only we know.

00:38:27.000 --> 00:38:34.359
 And God has ordained that we have a personal responsibility to be a first point of contact

00:38:34.359 --> 00:38:39.799
 and gospel witness with those people that no one else in this room or in this church or in the world has.

00:38:40.400 --> 00:38:41.219
 Only you do.

00:38:42.219 --> 00:38:44.279
 We need to own it in faith.

00:38:44.280 --> 00:38:47.580
 We don't need to be insecure about this or in fear about this,

00:38:47.580 --> 00:38:51.920
 but we need to own it because you are the letter that they're reading.

00:38:52.740 --> 00:38:54.620
 They don't care about what church you go to.

00:38:55.100 --> 00:38:56.500
 They don't care about your small group.

00:38:56.740 --> 00:38:58.480
 They don't care about your gospel message.

00:38:58.640 --> 00:39:00.460
 They care about you.

00:39:01.920 --> 00:39:08.260
 We have been given everything we need to fulfill that ministry through the power of the Holy Spirit and to own it.

00:39:08.260 --> 00:39:10.360
 That's why Paul's not saying,

00:39:10.840 --> 00:39:12.060
 hey,

00:39:12.940 --> 00:39:19.320
 let's go as a mass group on mission to every single person.

00:39:19.320 --> 00:39:21.700
 As a gigantic group.

00:39:21.700 --> 00:39:23.080
 And we're going to be on mission together.

00:39:23.079 --> 00:39:29.400
 And we're going to co-preach to every single person in each one of our individual circles.

00:39:29.500 --> 00:39:30.219
 That's not how it works.

00:39:30.719 --> 00:39:31.279
 There's an order.

00:39:31.719 --> 00:39:37.619
 He sends them out individually in two by two to share the gospel.

00:39:37.619 --> 00:39:39.799
 There might be some fruit.

00:39:40.099 --> 00:39:41.400
 We bring them in.

00:39:41.639 --> 00:39:42.960
 We expose them to other believers.

00:39:43.099 --> 00:39:44.380
 We pray and we get on mission together.

00:39:45.000 --> 00:39:45.900
 They become a Christian.

00:39:46.019 --> 00:39:47.299
 They're plugged into the whole body.

00:39:47.440 --> 00:39:48.779
 They're built up with the discipleship.

00:39:49.119 --> 00:39:50.440
 But this is how it works.

00:39:50.579 --> 00:39:53.319
 He scatters and he sends the disciples out.

00:39:53.380 --> 00:39:56.799
 He sent the 72 out two by two to do the work of ministry.

00:39:57.159 --> 00:39:59.779
 Well, in our immediate circles right now, that's actually happening.

00:40:00.199 --> 00:40:00.819
 There are people,

00:40:01.259 --> 00:40:03.119
 and I've heard a lot of examples of this,

00:40:03.119 --> 00:40:04.880
 but there's people that only we know,

00:40:05.659 --> 00:40:09.699
 and then there's this initial gospel work that the Lord wants to accomplish.

00:40:10.339 --> 00:40:13.699
 So the exhortation I have is for all of us, myself included, just own it.

00:40:14.299 --> 00:40:14.460
 Okay?

00:40:15.199 --> 00:40:17.739
 Own that personal mission that we have.

00:40:19.619 --> 00:40:23.339
 I like the analogy of a movie and previews.

00:40:24.299 --> 00:40:25.960
 If people don't like the preview to a movie,

00:40:26.039 --> 00:40:26.859
 they're not going to go see the movie.

00:40:27.920 --> 00:40:28.659
 We're the preview.

00:40:29.779 --> 00:40:31.380
 The people that only you know,

00:40:31.380 --> 00:40:33.180
 you are the preview to.

00:40:33.960 --> 00:40:35.320
 And if they don't like the preview,

00:40:35.599 --> 00:40:36.820
 they're not going to watch the movie.

00:40:37.740 --> 00:40:38.680
 So, like,

00:40:39.280 --> 00:40:43.140
 don't succumb to the temptation to try to get them to jump over the preview

00:40:43.140 --> 00:40:43.920
 and go see the movie.

00:40:44.860 --> 00:40:45.500
 Own your task.

00:40:45.559 --> 00:40:46.059
 Hey, I'm a letter.

00:40:46.480 --> 00:40:47.900
 I have a mission task here

00:40:47.900 --> 00:40:50.680
 to give them a good preview of the gospel

00:40:50.680 --> 00:40:54.119
 and what the glory of Christ in the body of Christ looks like.

00:40:55.519 --> 00:40:56.160
 I love it.

00:40:56.240 --> 00:40:58.380
 The end of Colossians,

00:40:58.980 --> 00:41:00.500
 Paul singles out one person.

00:41:00.500 --> 00:41:02.159
 He says,

00:41:02.539 --> 00:41:03.539
 Colossians 4, 17,

00:41:04.119 --> 00:41:06.139
 Say to Archippus,

00:41:06.579 --> 00:41:10.820
 See that you fulfill the ministry that you have received in the Lord.

00:41:11.019 --> 00:41:11.260
 You.

00:41:12.420 --> 00:41:13.860
 I think it's an awesome challenge.

00:41:14.260 --> 00:41:15.619
 Each one of us has this,

00:41:15.780 --> 00:41:17.380
 directly from Jesus Christ.

00:41:17.719 --> 00:41:20.880
 And when each of us individually are owning that mission,

00:41:21.440 --> 00:41:22.360
 together,

00:41:22.559 --> 00:41:23.780
 and we're praying for each other,

00:41:23.780 --> 00:41:25.060
 Lord,

00:41:25.060 --> 00:41:25.100
 Lord,

00:41:25.660 --> 00:41:30.140
 help us individually own the mission that we've received in Jesus.

00:41:30.800 --> 00:41:31.640
 It's fruitful.

00:41:32.620 --> 00:41:32.800
 You know?

00:41:33.260 --> 00:41:33.800
 So, anyway,

00:41:34.440 --> 00:41:36.519
 that's an exhortation to have is

00:41:36.519 --> 00:41:39.920
 own the personal responsibility each one of us has

00:41:39.920 --> 00:41:41.040
 to be a letter,

00:41:41.680 --> 00:41:42.740
 to be an emissary,

00:41:43.160 --> 00:41:44.500
 to give people a hearing

00:41:44.500 --> 00:41:48.220
 that no one else in this room has opportunity to give.

00:41:48.219 --> 00:41:48.699
 Second,

00:41:50.959 --> 00:41:54.259
 be devoted to praying for each other in this ministry for open gospel doors.

00:41:55.199 --> 00:41:58.980
 Each of our individual missions fail unless the Lord opens the door.

00:41:59.539 --> 00:42:01.059
 This is the first stage partnership.

00:42:01.219 --> 00:42:02.199
 This is how we partner together.

00:42:02.699 --> 00:42:02.879
 You know?

00:42:03.259 --> 00:42:04.980
 The kingdom of God and all of life together.

00:42:05.259 --> 00:42:06.199
 That's our mission.

00:42:06.899 --> 00:42:08.500
 This is how we partner together in the gospel.

00:42:09.299 --> 00:42:12.039
 Letting each other know about these relationships and praying.

00:42:12.360 --> 00:42:12.639
 Lord,

00:42:13.719 --> 00:42:14.000
 like,

00:42:14.440 --> 00:42:15.360
 make an open door.

00:42:16.519 --> 00:42:16.739
 You know?

00:42:17.039 --> 00:42:18.119
 Sam's talking to his buddy,

00:42:18.199 --> 00:42:18.920
 taking him out to dinner.

00:42:19.380 --> 00:42:19.699
 Lord,

00:42:20.759 --> 00:42:22.099
 open a door for the gospel.

00:42:22.239 --> 00:42:23.119
 Let this land.

00:42:24.219 --> 00:42:25.079
 And at the right time,

00:42:25.119 --> 00:42:27.159
 if there's enough of that landing and open door,

00:42:27.320 --> 00:42:28.219
 fruitful work of the ministry,

00:42:28.599 --> 00:42:29.759
 we enter into it with him.

00:42:29.759 --> 00:42:30.079
 You know?

00:42:30.159 --> 00:42:32.659
 And the Spirit will lead us at the right times for that.

00:42:32.739 --> 00:42:33.940
 But we pray together

00:42:33.940 --> 00:42:36.159
 with thankfulness.

00:42:37.519 --> 00:42:39.860
 Not a glass half empty mentality.

00:42:40.559 --> 00:42:41.420
 The glass is full.

00:42:42.039 --> 00:42:42.679
 You know?

00:42:44.079 --> 00:42:45.019
 It's just essential.

00:42:45.259 --> 00:42:46.039
 So moving a little bit quicker.

00:42:46.139 --> 00:42:47.159
 I know we got crying kids.

00:42:47.820 --> 00:42:49.139
 Always be ready with the confidence

00:42:49.139 --> 00:42:50.139
 that comes from the Holy Spirit.

00:42:50.659 --> 00:42:52.639
 Jesus is the same yesterday and today and forever.

00:42:52.739 --> 00:42:53.400
 He lives in us.

00:42:53.659 --> 00:42:55.400
 That gives us great boldness and confidence

00:42:55.400 --> 00:42:56.159
 wherever we go.

00:42:56.619 --> 00:42:57.320
 He's with us.

00:42:57.920 --> 00:42:58.679
 Can you imagine, like,

00:42:59.500 --> 00:43:03.139
 the problem with this challenge of personal ownership is

00:43:03.139 --> 00:43:05.099
 it makes you feel scared.

00:43:05.440 --> 00:43:06.360
 It makes you feel insecure.

00:43:08.019 --> 00:43:09.099
 Because it's just you.

00:43:09.460 --> 00:43:09.800
 You know, it's like,

00:43:09.800 --> 00:43:11.260
 where's my, you know,

00:43:11.340 --> 00:43:12.660
 person who's going to go with me

00:43:12.660 --> 00:43:13.140
 and, you know,

00:43:13.200 --> 00:43:13.840
 I can lean on.

00:43:13.920 --> 00:43:14.960
 Well, Jesus is with you.

00:43:16.260 --> 00:43:17.260
 Wherever he goes,

00:43:17.480 --> 00:43:18.780
 he knows the right thing to say.

00:43:19.019 --> 00:43:20.380
 We can have boldness and confidence.

00:43:20.780 --> 00:43:21.280
 Actually, Carrie,

00:43:21.340 --> 00:43:22.539
 I loved your story

00:43:22.539 --> 00:43:23.420
 just about your day

00:43:23.420 --> 00:43:24.160
 the other day

00:43:24.160 --> 00:43:25.519
 where you just had all these open doors

00:43:25.519 --> 00:43:28.260
 for these awesome Holy Spirit interactions

00:43:28.260 --> 00:43:29.320
 and you were so encouraged.

00:43:30.620 --> 00:43:31.420
 That's just awesome.

00:43:32.260 --> 00:43:32.780
 That's like,

00:43:32.860 --> 00:43:34.440
 that's like a miniature snapshot

00:43:34.440 --> 00:43:36.539
 of what Jesus' life just was all the time.

00:43:36.639 --> 00:43:38.099
 Well, that's what our life is like.

00:43:38.579 --> 00:43:39.800
 We pray to be filled with the Holy Spirit.

00:43:39.900 --> 00:43:41.039
 We're praying for these open doors.

00:43:41.940 --> 00:43:44.880
 And there should be a regular experience of,

00:43:44.960 --> 00:43:46.980
 man, the Lord's just opening doors, you know?

00:43:47.519 --> 00:43:48.079
 So, anyway.

00:43:50.360 --> 00:43:51.619
 Gracious seasoned speech.

00:43:51.719 --> 00:43:52.719
 We've talked about that a lot.

00:43:54.159 --> 00:43:55.239
 I think it's essential.

00:43:55.500 --> 00:43:57.059
 The main part being

00:43:57.059 --> 00:43:59.659
 in all of the time,

00:43:59.920 --> 00:44:00.920
 in all of life.

00:44:01.139 --> 00:44:02.779
 I'm personally convicted about this one.

00:44:02.780 --> 00:44:06.160
 I want to be careful with how I talk.

00:44:06.519 --> 00:44:07.720
 Even about real things.

00:44:07.760 --> 00:44:08.620
 Even about problems.

00:44:09.380 --> 00:44:10.840
 The Lord is there.

00:44:11.660 --> 00:44:13.540
 And he cares about how I talk.

00:44:13.940 --> 00:44:15.440
 And he's living inside of me.

00:44:15.500 --> 00:44:17.600
 And he's using my tongue for other things.

00:44:18.100 --> 00:44:20.260
 I should not be using my tongue

00:44:20.260 --> 00:44:21.880
 on the one hand to praise God.

00:44:22.400 --> 00:44:23.140
 On the other hand,

00:44:23.160 --> 00:44:24.560
 to tear down my brother or sister

00:44:24.560 --> 00:44:26.040
 who's made the image of God, you know?

00:44:28.019 --> 00:44:30.260
 And the last is making the best use of the time.

00:44:30.260 --> 00:44:33.920
 I had an excerpt to read,

00:44:34.000 --> 00:44:34.560
 but I'm not going to.

00:44:34.620 --> 00:44:35.440
 I'm just going to summarize it.

00:44:37.120 --> 00:44:38.720
 D.L. Moody was a famous evangelist

00:44:38.720 --> 00:44:39.620
 back in the 1800s.

00:44:40.560 --> 00:44:44.720
 And he had a thought

00:44:44.720 --> 00:44:47.600
 on making the best use of the time.

00:44:48.400 --> 00:44:50.200
 He had an experience in Chicago.

00:44:50.540 --> 00:44:52.820
 He preached to a huge congregation

00:44:52.820 --> 00:44:54.080
 at the time.

00:44:54.300 --> 00:44:55.780
 Wide open door for ministry.

00:44:56.240 --> 00:44:56.980
 Preached in the gospel.

00:44:57.120 --> 00:44:57.760
 Huge crowds.

00:44:57.760 --> 00:44:58.880
 And one evening,

00:44:59.080 --> 00:45:01.260
 he presented the gospel.

00:45:01.720 --> 00:45:03.120
 And then he gave everyone a challenge

00:45:03.120 --> 00:45:03.500
 and said,

00:45:04.020 --> 00:45:05.260
 consider what you're going to do

00:45:05.260 --> 00:45:07.140
 this week with this Jesus of Nazareth.

00:45:07.580 --> 00:45:08.940
 And come back next Sunday

00:45:08.940 --> 00:45:09.520
 with your answer.

00:45:10.000 --> 00:45:10.260
 All right?

00:45:10.420 --> 00:45:11.020
 And they adjourned.

00:45:11.060 --> 00:45:11.640
 They sang a song

00:45:11.640 --> 00:45:12.380
 and they adjourned the meeting.

00:45:13.020 --> 00:45:13.640
 That night,

00:45:13.720 --> 00:45:14.880
 the Chicago fire broke out.

00:45:15.560 --> 00:45:16.540
 Hundreds of people died.

00:45:17.300 --> 00:45:18.600
 Huge sections of the city

00:45:18.600 --> 00:45:19.180
 was wiped out.

00:45:19.260 --> 00:45:20.240
 The church was wiped out.

00:45:20.720 --> 00:45:21.520
 And he said he never saw

00:45:21.520 --> 00:45:22.300
 that congregation again.

00:45:23.180 --> 00:45:24.000
 People either died

00:45:24.000 --> 00:45:25.520
 or were displaced.

00:45:25.519 --> 00:45:28.519
 And there wasn't a next Sunday.

00:45:28.980 --> 00:45:29.420
 It was gone.

00:45:31.059 --> 00:45:33.320
 And he said he would never again

00:45:33.320 --> 00:45:35.940
 waste an opportunity

00:45:35.940 --> 00:45:37.759
 when he's preaching the gospel

00:45:37.759 --> 00:45:38.960
 to share it all the way

00:45:38.960 --> 00:45:40.780
 and to challenge people.

00:45:40.840 --> 00:45:42.219
 Hey, you might only have today.

00:45:42.920 --> 00:45:43.840
 So when we talk about

00:45:43.840 --> 00:45:45.099
 making the best use of the time,

00:45:45.199 --> 00:45:46.759
 we need to have that in our minds.

00:45:46.840 --> 00:45:48.019
 The people that we're seeing

00:45:48.019 --> 00:45:49.039
 and interacting with,

00:45:49.900 --> 00:45:51.400
 you don't know how much time you got.

00:45:51.400 --> 00:45:53.680
 So that's a big asterisk

00:45:53.680 --> 00:45:54.340
 on the whole,

00:45:55.420 --> 00:45:55.700
 you know,

00:45:55.780 --> 00:45:56.840
 use wisdom with like

00:45:56.840 --> 00:45:57.680
 how you interact

00:45:57.680 --> 00:45:58.460
 with family members

00:45:58.460 --> 00:45:59.139
 versus not.

00:45:59.860 --> 00:46:00.579
 Here's an interaction

00:46:00.579 --> 00:46:01.780
 that's the same no matter what.

00:46:02.220 --> 00:46:03.320
 We need to share the gospel with them.

00:46:04.039 --> 00:46:04.860
 We don't save people.

00:46:05.240 --> 00:46:06.039
 God saves people.

00:46:06.820 --> 00:46:08.360
 But don't be deluded

00:46:08.360 --> 00:46:10.039
 that you might have

00:46:10.039 --> 00:46:11.180
 tons of time with people

00:46:11.180 --> 00:46:13.039
 and let that lure you

00:46:13.039 --> 00:46:14.440
 into a false sense of

00:46:14.440 --> 00:46:15.980
 security,

00:46:16.680 --> 00:46:17.460
 complacency.

00:46:17.460 --> 00:46:20.880
 The Bible guarantees us today.

00:46:21.579 --> 00:46:22.780
 Today, if you hear his voice,

00:46:22.860 --> 00:46:23.619
 don't harden your heart.

00:46:24.559 --> 00:46:25.519
 And this is the same with sin.

00:46:25.840 --> 00:46:26.720
 Lord's putting our finger,

00:46:26.860 --> 00:46:27.720
 his finger on sin.

00:46:28.179 --> 00:46:29.119
 There isn't a,

00:46:29.320 --> 00:46:30.159
 I'm going to repent tomorrow

00:46:30.159 --> 00:46:30.800
 for anything.

00:46:31.240 --> 00:46:32.000
 You might die.

00:46:32.440 --> 00:46:33.159
 This might be it.

00:46:34.340 --> 00:46:35.920
 So that's,

00:46:36.320 --> 00:46:37.420
 when we think of

00:46:37.420 --> 00:46:40.220
 walking in wisdom

00:46:40.220 --> 00:46:42.679
 and having

00:46:42.679 --> 00:46:45.460
 wisdom with how we

00:46:45.460 --> 00:46:46.760
 make a best use of the time,

00:46:46.760 --> 00:46:48.940
 let's trust the Lord

00:46:48.940 --> 00:46:50.280
 for the ability

00:46:50.280 --> 00:46:51.080
 to share the truth

00:46:51.080 --> 00:46:51.460
 with people,

00:46:52.060 --> 00:46:52.380
 you know,

00:46:52.860 --> 00:46:53.960
 and do it soon.

00:46:54.540 --> 00:46:55.600
 Don't wait for

00:46:55.600 --> 00:46:57.280
 years to pass

00:46:57.280 --> 00:46:58.660
 and building up

00:46:58.660 --> 00:46:59.360
 tons and tons

00:46:59.360 --> 00:47:00.540
 of street credit with people.

00:47:00.960 --> 00:47:01.900
 That's a deception.

00:47:02.420 --> 00:47:03.520
 That's not how Jesus

00:47:03.520 --> 00:47:04.440
 interacted with anybody.

00:47:04.940 --> 00:47:06.360
 He used different words.

00:47:06.460 --> 00:47:06.820
 He would share

00:47:06.820 --> 00:47:07.880
 different aspects of the truth

00:47:07.880 --> 00:47:08.700
 according to the spirit.

00:47:09.760 --> 00:47:11.580
 But he didn't act

00:47:11.580 --> 00:47:12.780
 like the evangelists

00:47:12.780 --> 00:47:13.460
 today do

00:47:13.460 --> 00:47:15.200
 who are ashamed

00:47:15.200 --> 00:47:16.300
 of the testimony of Jesus.

00:47:16.300 --> 00:47:17.300
 Let us not be ashamed.

00:47:17.820 --> 00:47:19.100
 Let us be faithful stewards

00:47:19.100 --> 00:47:19.840
 of God's word.

00:47:20.280 --> 00:47:20.900
 Let's not use

00:47:20.900 --> 00:47:21.940
 underhanded ways

00:47:21.940 --> 00:47:22.920
 with how we deal with people.

00:47:23.480 --> 00:47:24.640
 But like Paul said,

00:47:24.720 --> 00:47:25.400
 by the open,

00:47:25.480 --> 00:47:26.440
 open proclamation

00:47:26.440 --> 00:47:27.460
 of the truth,

00:47:27.940 --> 00:47:28.720
 commended themselves

00:47:28.720 --> 00:47:29.680
 to everyone's conscience

00:47:29.680 --> 00:47:30.500
 in the sight of God.

00:47:31.039 --> 00:47:31.920
 Let God deal with

00:47:31.920 --> 00:47:32.480
 whether or not

00:47:32.480 --> 00:47:34.039
 he opens their eyes

00:47:34.039 --> 00:47:34.320
 or not.

00:47:34.360 --> 00:47:34.860
 That's his deal.

00:47:35.860 --> 00:47:36.039
 You know,

00:47:36.120 --> 00:47:37.800
 that's Jesus' job.

00:47:38.740 --> 00:47:39.260
 So anyway,

00:47:39.260 --> 00:47:41.440
 that's all I have.

00:47:41.440 --> 00:47:41.520
 Yeah.

00:47:41.520 --> 00:47:41.800
 Thank you.

00:47:41.800 --> 00:47:42.120
 Thank you.

00:47:42.120 --> 00:47:42.620
 Thank you.

00:47:42.620 --> 00:47:42.760
 Thank you.

00:47:42.760 --> 00:47:42.800
 Thank you.