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 But I am so thankful to be here today.

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 I'm thankful for all that God is doing in this church, in this community,

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 and I'm thankful that we get to worship Him.

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 Today we will be starting the last chapter of the book of Hebrews.

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 To me, it's been a fun journey.

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 I hope you feel the same as we've looked through the book of Hebrews.

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 It's been encouraging.

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 It's been challenging at times.

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 We have tackled some pretty deep topics of the Christian faith.

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 And this final week, or actually this final chapter,

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 I was hoping it was going to be the final week,

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 but we're going to be here for one more week after this.

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 But this final chapter is no exception.

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 Chapter 13 is filled with many exhortations that will be sure to challenge us,

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 encourage us, and honestly probably offend us at some point along the way.

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 But that's okay.

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 It's all right for the Bible to rub up against some of our preconceived notions,

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 some of the things that the world tells us to believe.

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 You see, if the Bible doesn't offend us at some point,

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 then it's probably because we're not reading all of it.

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 It's probably because we're picking and choosing the parts that we want to read

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 and not taking it as a whole.

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 We're reading it as Thomas Jefferson did,

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 reading the parts that he wanted to read,

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 and then cut out everything else that he didn't want to read,

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 that he didn't agree with.

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 And so I want us to come to Scripture,

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 all of Scripture, this passage included,

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 and I want us to come understanding that we need to have open hearts,

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 open minds to what God has to say for us.

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 The author has explained over and over again through the book of Hebrews

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 that Jesus is better.

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 He's better than anything and everything in this world.

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 His ways are better than our ways.

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 And so let us come to this passage trusting that fact,

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 that Jesus is better, that he is greater,

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 that his ways are better.

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 And from that, be willing and ready to not only hear what he has to say to us,

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 but also to apply his word to our lives.

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 There's been times throughout this week and this morning,

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 especially just going over this,

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 that God has already been speaking to my heart

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 and convicting me of different areas of my life.

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 And so in this last chapter, chapter 13,

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 there's a lot of statements

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 that it can almost feel like it jumps around a little bit.

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 It almost feels like there's bullet points that the author's going through.

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 They're saying, hey, here's some other things you need to remember.

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 Remember this, remember this, remember this, do this,

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 make sure that you look out for these people,

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 make sure you do this.

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 And it almost feels like he's jumping around from place to place

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 as we're looking through this.

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 So much so that some people have said,

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 well, is this even part of Hebrews?

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 And it absolutely is, because it ties in really well.

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 One of the things that I would say is a little unfortunate

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 is the chapter break that is placed here

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 in chapter 13 from chapter 12.

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 Many of us realize that the chapters and verses

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 were not a part of the original manuscripts.

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 Those were added much later,

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 and they're incredibly helpful.

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 I'm grateful for them.

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 It helps us to be able to reference different places.

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 It helps us to understand things.

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 And in many ways, it is a benefit to us.

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 But there's some places where it kind of puts in a division,

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 where there doesn't need to be a division.

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 And I think the end of chapter 12,

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 beginning of chapter 13, is one of those places.

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 And I think it's really helpful for us to understand

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 how this next section ties in really well to chapter 12,

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 but especially going back to 1228.

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 Now, remember in chapter 12,

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 we were focusing on the fact that we serve a holy and just God.

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 And His holiness and His justice prevents us as sinful people

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 from being able to come into His presence.

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 It prevents us from being able to be in His presence

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 because He is holy, He is just, and we are not.

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 But Jesus makes a way.

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 And because He makes a way,

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 the author tells us that we begin to worship Him

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 with thankful hearts.

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 And so in verse 28, it says,

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 Therefore, let us be grateful for receiving a kingdom

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 that cannot be shaking,

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 and thus let us offer to God acceptable worship

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 with reverence and all,

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 for our God is a consuming fire.

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 And so our response to a God who makes a way,

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 who is perfect in His justice,

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 perfect in who He is,

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 He makes a way for us to be able to have a relationship with Him.

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 And so our life is to be an act of worship.

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 We began talking about this last week,

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 and the fact that worship is not just what we do when we come into this room.

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 It's not just singing songs,

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 but worship is all of our life.

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 And so now the author,

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 as we get to chapter 13,

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 begins to flesh that out for us.

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 He begins to show us how our life is to be an act of worship.

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 And so as we look at this final chapter,

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 we begin to see this.

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 The author begins to show us some examples

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 of what a life that is focused on Jesus,

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 that is seeking to worship Him,

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 what that life actually looks like.

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 Now this is not intended to be an exhaustive list,

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 but rather a great starting point to look at our lives.

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 And so as we look at this final chapter,

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 the main thing that the author is getting at

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 is for us to see a number of marks,

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 a number of characteristics of a healthy church.

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 And so the main thing that I want us to see this morning,

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 as we have this time,

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 the main idea of this sermon

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 is for us to see these marks

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 and not only examine our lives,

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 but examine our church.

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 to see if these marks are a characteristic of our life

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 and to see if they're characteristic of this church.

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 And so from this passage,

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 we're going to bring our attention

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 to seven different characteristics.

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 Now don't worry, we're not doing them all this week.

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 It's going to be this week and next week.

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 Although I was going to try to get them all in this week,

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 but it just was not possible.

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 But we're going to be looking over the next couple of weeks

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 at these seven characteristics

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 that we see very clearly presented in this passage.

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 Today, we're going to take a look at three of them,

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 but we're going to be looking at

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 how believers and churches,

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 with a focus on Jesus,

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 what their lives will look like.

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 So to begin with,

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 believers and churches with a focus on Jesus

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 will love each other well.

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 We'll love each other well.

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 We'll do a good job at loving one another.

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 Verses one through three of Hebrews 13 says this,

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 Let brotherly love continue.

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 Do not neglect to show hospitality to strangers,

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 for thereby some have entertained angels unaware.

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 Remember those who are in prison

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 as though in prison with them,

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 and those who are mistreated

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 since you also are in the body.

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 Now what a great place for us to start

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 when it comes to seeing our lives

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 and seeing our church as an act of worship.

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 What better place to start than with love?

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 And it talks about this love in several different ways.

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 To begin with,

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 we are to love our spiritual family well.

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 Let brotherly love continue.

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 This Greek combines two words

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 to give us brotherly love.

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 Phileo meaning love,

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 and adelphos meaning brother.

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 Put them together,

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 you get the city of brotherly love, Philadelphia.

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 And so this is where we get this idea of brotherly love,

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 loving our family well.

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 The NIV gets to the heart of the meaning of this

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 when it says,

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 keep on loving one another as brothers and sisters.

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 Remembering that,

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 and reminding us that because of Jesus,

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 we are part of God's family.

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 If we have God as our father,

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 then that means we have many brothers and sisters in Christ,

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 and we are to love them well.

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 But next it says,

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 we are to love strangers well.

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 We love those within the family,

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 the community well,

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 but we also love strangers well.

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 It says,

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 do not neglect to show hospitality to strangers,

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 for thereby some have entertained angels unaware.

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 Hospitality is something

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 that should be characteristic of all believers.

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 It should be something that is characteristic of our lives,

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 is hospitality.

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 Now it's true for some that it just comes naturally and easy,

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 but it should be something that is characteristic of all believers.

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 In doing this,

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 it says,

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 some have entertained angels unaware.

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 Now what does this mean?

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 I'm going to be honest with you.

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 I don't exactly know what this means,

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 that we have entertained angels unaware.

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 Looking through different commentaries,

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 many commentators just skipped this section completely,

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 and just talked about loving strangers well,

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 which means that they don't know either.

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 Others have said that it is actual angels

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 that we are entertaining that have come into our paths.

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 Others talk about it as the early church missionaries

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 that were going around from place to place.

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 You didn't have email,

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 you didn't have phones,

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 you didn't have pictures with cards of them out there

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 that you can know who were missionaries that were coming around.

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 So some of these missionary travels that Paul was on,

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 that Titus was on,

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 Timothy,

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 Luke,

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 all of these people as they're traveling from place to place,

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 they didn't know who they were coming in.

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 So some believe that it could have been

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 that they were entertaining these missionaries

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 who were coming from place to place.

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 We don't exactly know.

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 But I think what does need to be addressed

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 is the fact that we don't confuse

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 biblical hospitality with simply entertaining.

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 Hospitality and entertaining are not the same thing.

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 Hospitality is not just about hosting dinner parties,

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 inviting your friends over to have a good time.

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 It's more others focused than this.

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 Oftentimes when we invite our friends over,

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 we do so for our benefit.

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 We invite people that we enjoy being around

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 and who might,

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 in our hopes,

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 return the favor one day.

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 And there's nothing wrong with this.

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 In fact,

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 I would say that we should do life with other believers

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 that we enjoy being around.

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 That will be there for us.

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 That will be there when times get difficult.

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 But I'm not sure that that's what this passage is getting at.

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 One commentator noted,

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 he says,

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 this is welcoming strangers,

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 inviting people for meals

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 or to stay with us

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 with no expectation

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 that they will or even can reciprocate.

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 This kind of hospitality

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 can be inconvenient and hard.

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 It requires a whole different level of focus

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 and effort to welcome into your home

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 those who are not already part of your social circle.

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 This concept of hospitality

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 recalibrates the way that we open up our homes.

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 It makes us think differently

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 about the motive behind

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 why we open up our homes.

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 It's no longer just for our own pleasure,

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 but rather in order to advance the kingdom of God.

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 We're opening up our homes.

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 We're showing hospitality.

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 We're doing this with purpose behind it.

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 This hospitality is intentional.

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 And finally,

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 it says we are to love prisoners.

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 Now,

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 I think it's really helpful

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 for us to understand the historical context

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 that this is being written.

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 At this time,

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 there were many Christians

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 who were being imprisoned

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 because of their faith.

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 Not because they did something actually wrong,

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 but because of their faith

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 that they were being imprisoned.

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 Now,

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 does this,

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 how does this apply to us today?

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 Should we go to prisons

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 and should we meet people there

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 and show hospitality

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 and love them well?

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 Absolutely we should.

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 But the heart of this

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 is talking about those people,

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 those brothers and sisters in Christ

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 who are being persecuted

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 because of their faith.

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 A lot of times,

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 we live in a bubble around us now

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 where we don't really think about

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 what's going on

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 in other places in the world.

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 We receive some persecution

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 from time to time.

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 Yes,

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 some inconveniences in our life,

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 but we must recognize

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 that there are brothers and sisters in Christ

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 all over the world

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 who are still being persecuted

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 for their faith,

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 who are still being imprisoned

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 for their faith.

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 What this means is that as believers,

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 we have a responsibility

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 to love our brothers and sisters

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 all over the world

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 that are experiencing persecution

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 for their faith.

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 It's really easy for us

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 to forget about this,

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 but in doing so,

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 we're failing

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 at what God has called us to do

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 in loving the prisoner here.

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 And so,

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 how do we love our family?

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 How do we love strangers?

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 How do we love prisoners well?

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 Well,

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 let me give you a few helpful things

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 to think about.

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 Loving well

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 means stepping into needs

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 and not ignoring them.

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 Loving well

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 means that we step into needs

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 and don't ignore them.

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 Sometimes,

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 love has to get in the weeds.

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 Sometimes,

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 love gets messy.

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 Sometimes,

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 love is challenging.

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 A couple of years ago,

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 Ressie had a few friends over

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 for a party that she was having,

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 a few friends from school,

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 and they were over.

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 And one of the things

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 that they wanted to do

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 was they wanted to have a bake-off.

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 They wanted to have two groups

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 that were making cakes

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 and then to see which cake,

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 and Catherine and I had to judge them

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 and see which cake was better.

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 And so,

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 they spent all of this time

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 making a pretty good-sized mess

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 and making these cakes,

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 and they put them on these plates,

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 and you're looking at the cakes,

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 and they're beautiful.

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 I mean,

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 they are covered with icing,

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 completely covered with icing.

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 They have sprinkles all over them,

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 all over the counter,

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 everywhere.

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 Sprinkles are everywhere.

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 And one of them,

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 you know,

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 the layer was a little bit lopsided

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 on the top of it,

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 but they were presenting these cakes,

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 and one of the things

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 that they were going to do

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 was to tell us about their cake,

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 and so that why their cake

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 should be the winning cake.

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 And I remember,

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 I think this was back

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 when I was in third grade or so,

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 and this little third grade girl,

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 one of her friends that came over,

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 she said,

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 this cake is like love.

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 She says,

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 this cake is like love.

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 It's messy and amazing

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 all at the same time.

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 And I thought,

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 you're in third grade.

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 How many Hallmark movies

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 have you watched in your life?

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 But she says,

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 it's messy and it's amazing

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 all at the same time.

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 But she's not completely wrong with that.

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 Love that is more than pleasantries

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 will be messy at times.

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 It will require us

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 to get close to the hurting,

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 to meet people where they are,

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 but the truth is,

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 we all need this type of love

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 shown to us at times.

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 We all need people

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 who will love us this way.

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 When times get hard,

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 when it's inconvenient,

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 we need people

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 that are going to love us this way.

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 And we need to be the type of people

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 that will step into those situations

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 to get messy when it's required.

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 Also, loving well means

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 building up and not tearing down.

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 James 3, 9 through 12

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 is very convicting with this.

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 This is James talking about

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 the tongues

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 and controlling the tongue.

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 And he says,

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 With it we bless

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 our Lord and Father

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 and with it we curse people

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 who are made

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 in the likeness of God.

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 From the same mouth

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 come blessing and cursing.

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 My brothers,

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 these things ought not to be so.

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 Does a spring

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 pour from the same opening

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 both fresh and salt water?

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 Can a fig tree, my brothers,

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 bear olives

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 or a grapevine produce figs?

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 Neither can a salt pond

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 yield fresh water.

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 Our words are powerful.

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 And one of the ways

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 that we love our family,

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 one of the ways

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 that we love strangers,

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 one of the ways

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 that we love those in prison

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 are that we're careful

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 in how we use our words.

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 On the one hand,

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 there's basically two ways

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 that we can use words.

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 On the one hand,

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 with our tongues,

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 we can praise God.

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 It tells us that as believers

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 we praise God,

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 which is the highest

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 and best way

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 to use our speech.

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 What greater way

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 can we use our tongues

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 and use our speech

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 than to praise God?

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 We use our speech

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 to worship

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 and point others

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 to the source of our hope.

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 With our speech,

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 with the things that we say,

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 we praise God with.

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 And I think

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 that as believers,

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 at least some of the time,

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 we all get this right.

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 At least some of the time,

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 we all get this right.

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 But James

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 calls for consistency.

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 He calls for this

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 to be consistent.

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 He's saying

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 you can't have it both.

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 You can't praise God

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 and put people down

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 at the same time.

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 You can't claim

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 to be followers of Christ

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 and praise God

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 and then constantly

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 be talking bad

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 about people

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 either in front of them

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 or behind them.

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 James is saying

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 this should not be

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 the case.

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 But unfortunately,

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 we as believers

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 do this all the time.

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 Sometimes in the same hour.

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 Sometimes in the same minute.

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 Sometimes in the same conversation.

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 We praise God

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 and we put other people down.

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 This ought not to be the case.

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 It doesn't work with plants.

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 A fig tree

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 is never going to produce olives.

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 We get to go

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 with a small group.

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 Well, actually,

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 it wasn't a small group.

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 It was three busloads

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 of senior adults

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 to Long Creek, South Carolina

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 this past Friday.

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 And we went out to eat.

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 And Long Creek

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 is known for its apples.

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 Well, Long Creek community

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 is not going to just

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 come together this year

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 and say,

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 you know what?

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 Let's don't do apples this year.

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 Let's tell all of our trees

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 to produce oranges.

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 It's not going to happen.

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 It doesn't work that way.

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 As believers,

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 we praise God

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 with our mouths

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 and we've got to be careful

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 that we don't use them

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 to put other people down.

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 Sometimes we do this

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 and it's not necessarily

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 the words that we say

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 but the tone

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 in which we say them.

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 This is true for us

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 as parents.

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 Many times the correcting words

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 need to be said.

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 They need to be said

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 but the tone

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 in which we say them

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 does far more harm

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 than the words do good.

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 And so sometimes

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 we need to make sure

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 that we are careful

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 in our tone.

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 Sometimes it is gossip

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 that comes in the form

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 of prayer requests.

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 We try to disguise it.

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 Well, you need to be praying

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 for this person.

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 You're not going to believe

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 what they did.

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 You need to be praying

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 for them.

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 You're not going to believe

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 what happened to them.

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 And oftentimes

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 we try to disguise it.

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 And sometimes

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 we don't even try

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 to disguise it.

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 We just get a kick

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 out of somehow

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 trying to put

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 other people down

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 in order to make

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 ourselves feel better.

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 Why do we do this?

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 Why do we do this?

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 And so as we think

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 about this,

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 maybe instead of

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 looking at other people

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 and thinking

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 what they have going on,

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 maybe we need to take

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 a look in the mirror

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 and say, you know what,

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 there's some things

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 that need to change

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 about me.

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 Why is it that I need

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 to put somebody else down

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 in order to make

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 myself feel better?

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 But also loving well

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 means pointing

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 to Jesus

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 and not dragging

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 them further away.

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 A really great way

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 to look at our actions

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 to see if they are

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 loving or not

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 is to ask,

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 are my actions

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 helping people see

00:20:05.659 --> 00:20:06.679
 the heart of Christ

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 better?

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 Are my actions,

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 the way that I'm living,

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 the way that I'm loving

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 other people?

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 Am I pointing them

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 to Christ?

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 Are they able to see

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 his heart better

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 by the way that I am

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 treating them,

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 by the way that I'm

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 loving them?

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 Are they making,

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 or are they making

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 the water more cloudy

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 and more difficult

00:20:26.779 --> 00:20:27.599
 to see Jesus?

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 Next,

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 as we move in

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 through this,

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 believers and churches

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 with a focus on Jesus

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 will hold marriage

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 in honor.

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 Believers and churches

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 with a focus on Jesus

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 will hold marriage

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 in honor.

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 Now,

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 I understand that it

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 feels like we're

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 jumping around.

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 This is the part

00:20:47.740 --> 00:20:48.399
 where I'm talking about

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 it feels like bullet

00:20:49.659 --> 00:20:50.679
 points that the author

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 is going through,

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 but I think they all

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 connect and to help

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 us understand what

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 it means to live a life

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 that is worshipful to God.

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 Listen to the words

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 in verse 13,

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 for let marriage

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 be held in honor

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 among all

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 and let the marriage

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 bed be undefiled

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 for God will judge

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 the sexually immoral

00:21:09.520 --> 00:21:10.880
 and adulterous.

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 You see,

00:21:12.340 --> 00:21:13.440
 marriage has always

00:21:13.440 --> 00:21:14.820
 been God's plan

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 for the family.

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 It's always been

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 His plan for the family.

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 In Genesis 2,

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 it says,

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 therefore,

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 a man shall leave

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 his father and mother

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 and hold fast

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 to his wife.

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 Well,

00:21:24.800 --> 00:21:25.620
 Genesis 2

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 comes before

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 sin has entered

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 into the world.

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 Genesis 2

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 comes before the fall.

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 So,

00:21:31.279 --> 00:21:33.720
 marriage has always

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 been God's plan

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 for the family

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 and not only does

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 He say it there

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 before the fall,

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 but He continues

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 to say it

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 after the fall

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 repeating Himself

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 that,

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 therefore,

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 a man shall leave

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 his father and mother

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 and hold fast

00:21:46.159 --> 00:21:46.680
 to his wife

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 and they shall

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 become one flesh.

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 He repeats this

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 multiple times

00:21:49.839 --> 00:21:50.480
 throughout Scripture

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 reminding us

00:21:52.000 --> 00:21:53.200
 that marriage

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 is God's plan

00:21:54.240 --> 00:21:54.819
 for the family

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 before the fall

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 and it still

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 is God's plan

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 for the family today.

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 And so,

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 we must keep

00:22:01.059 --> 00:22:01.980
 a high view

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 of marriage

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 if we claim

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 to be people

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 in churches

00:22:05.160 --> 00:22:07.019
 that have their eyes

00:22:07.019 --> 00:22:08.299
 fixed on Jesus.

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 In a culture

00:22:10.160 --> 00:22:11.620
 that looks everywhere

00:22:11.620 --> 00:22:13.380
 else to define marriage

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 and seeks to remove

00:22:15.400 --> 00:22:17.400
 God-ordained parameters

00:22:17.400 --> 00:22:18.480
 on marriage,

00:22:19.259 --> 00:22:20.700
 let us be different.

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 Let us look

00:22:22.400 --> 00:22:23.000
 to the one

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 who instituted

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 and created marriage

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 to be the one

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 to tell us

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 how it is best

00:22:28.940 --> 00:22:30.080
 to be enjoyed.

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 The passage

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 goes on to say,

00:22:32.420 --> 00:22:32.559
 he says,

00:22:32.840 --> 00:22:34.140
 let the marriage bed

00:22:34.140 --> 00:22:35.420
 be undefiled

00:22:35.420 --> 00:22:36.539
 for God will judge

00:22:36.539 --> 00:22:37.660
 the sexually immoral

00:22:37.660 --> 00:22:38.640
 and adulterous.

00:22:39.360 --> 00:22:40.900
 It may seem repetitive

00:22:40.900 --> 00:22:41.340
 to say

00:22:41.340 --> 00:22:42.019
 He'll judge

00:22:42.019 --> 00:22:43.039
 the sexually immoral

00:22:43.039 --> 00:22:44.400
 and the adulterous

00:22:44.400 --> 00:22:45.940
 but what he's getting at

00:22:45.940 --> 00:22:46.500
 is the author

00:22:46.500 --> 00:22:47.120
 is getting at

00:22:47.120 --> 00:22:48.759
 the immorality

00:22:48.759 --> 00:22:49.700
 within the marriage

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 and also

00:22:50.400 --> 00:22:51.519
 before marriage

00:22:51.519 --> 00:22:52.900
 or outside the marriage.

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 We must not look

00:22:55.059 --> 00:22:55.619
 to the world

00:22:55.619 --> 00:22:56.460
 to tell us

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 how to enjoy sex

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 and who to enjoy it with.

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 There will always be

00:23:01.679 --> 00:23:02.460
 those who are ready

00:23:02.460 --> 00:23:03.740
 to lead us astray

00:23:03.740 --> 00:23:04.399
 in this matter.

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 There will always be

00:23:05.919 --> 00:23:07.039
 plenty of scholars today

00:23:07.039 --> 00:23:07.819
 who will attempt

00:23:07.819 --> 00:23:09.159
 to redefine

00:23:09.159 --> 00:23:09.879
 the parameters

00:23:09.879 --> 00:23:10.980
 that God has given

00:23:10.980 --> 00:23:12.539
 us in Scripture.

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 This isn't something

00:23:13.759 --> 00:23:14.339
 that's new.

00:23:14.799 --> 00:23:15.619
 It is something

00:23:15.619 --> 00:23:16.740
 that is prevalent today

00:23:16.740 --> 00:23:17.819
 but it's not something

00:23:17.819 --> 00:23:18.500
 that is new.

00:23:18.799 --> 00:23:19.899
 This has been the case

00:23:19.899 --> 00:23:22.019
 for a long, long time.

00:23:22.139 --> 00:23:22.419
 In fact,

00:23:22.519 --> 00:23:23.159
 Billy Graham

00:23:23.159 --> 00:23:24.819
 talks about these teachings

00:23:24.819 --> 00:23:25.539
 from these scholars

00:23:25.539 --> 00:23:26.240
 who are attempting

00:23:26.240 --> 00:23:27.939
 to redefine marriage

00:23:27.939 --> 00:23:28.720
 and redefine

00:23:28.720 --> 00:23:29.279
 the parameters

00:23:29.279 --> 00:23:31.599
 in which we see marriage.

00:23:31.799 --> 00:23:32.579
 He talked about

00:23:32.579 --> 00:23:33.299
 their teachings

00:23:33.299 --> 00:23:34.279
 as drippings

00:23:34.279 --> 00:23:36.319
 from a sewer drain,

00:23:36.799 --> 00:23:38.119
 drippings from a broken sewer.

00:23:38.599 --> 00:23:39.519
 Now, having seen

00:23:39.519 --> 00:23:39.980
 the drippings

00:23:39.980 --> 00:23:40.899
 from a broken sewer

00:23:40.899 --> 00:23:41.379
 in the basement

00:23:41.379 --> 00:23:42.039
 of this church

00:23:42.039 --> 00:23:42.899
 not too long ago,

00:23:43.099 --> 00:23:43.879
 you don't want anything

00:23:43.879 --> 00:23:44.599
 to do with that.

00:23:44.939 --> 00:23:45.399
 You don't want

00:23:45.399 --> 00:23:46.579
 any part of that.

00:23:47.419 --> 00:23:48.179
 And so we've got

00:23:48.179 --> 00:23:48.939
 to be careful

00:23:48.939 --> 00:23:50.779
 but at the same time,

00:23:51.460 --> 00:23:52.359
 I don't want us

00:23:52.359 --> 00:23:53.859
 to view all sex

00:23:53.859 --> 00:23:55.039
 as bad and wrong.

00:23:56.139 --> 00:23:57.579
 It is a gift from God

00:23:57.579 --> 00:23:58.639
 to be enjoyed

00:23:58.639 --> 00:24:00.000
 within the covenant

00:24:00.000 --> 00:24:00.919
 of marriage.

00:24:01.839 --> 00:24:02.779
 John MacArthur,

00:24:02.899 --> 00:24:03.639
 I love how he says,

00:24:03.719 --> 00:24:04.119
 he says,

00:24:04.579 --> 00:24:05.439
 within marriage,

00:24:05.819 --> 00:24:06.719
 sex is beautiful.

00:24:07.199 --> 00:24:08.139
 It's fulfilling.

00:24:08.919 --> 00:24:10.019
 It's creative.

00:24:11.399 --> 00:24:12.199
 Thought I might get

00:24:12.199 --> 00:24:12.979
 an amen there.

00:24:13.500 --> 00:24:14.899
 But outside of marriage,

00:24:15.000 --> 00:24:15.959
 he says this.

00:24:16.779 --> 00:24:17.179
 He says,

00:24:17.179 --> 00:24:18.319
 outside of marriage,

00:24:18.419 --> 00:24:19.059
 it is ugly.

00:24:19.240 --> 00:24:20.039
 It's destructive

00:24:20.039 --> 00:24:21.059
 and it's damning.

00:24:21.619 --> 00:24:21.899
 You see,

00:24:22.000 --> 00:24:23.059
 sex is a good gift

00:24:23.059 --> 00:24:23.980
 from a good God

00:24:23.980 --> 00:24:24.899
 to be enjoyed

00:24:24.899 --> 00:24:26.119
 and explored

00:24:26.119 --> 00:24:27.460
 within the good gift

00:24:27.460 --> 00:24:28.700
 of covenant marriage.

00:24:29.460 --> 00:24:31.000
 It is a beautiful thing.

00:24:31.500 --> 00:24:32.899
 God honored marriage

00:24:32.899 --> 00:24:34.119
 by establishing it.

00:24:34.399 --> 00:24:34.940
 God the Father

00:24:34.940 --> 00:24:35.940
 honored marriage

00:24:35.940 --> 00:24:36.960
 by establishing it.

00:24:37.319 --> 00:24:38.299
 Jesus honored marriage

00:24:38.299 --> 00:24:38.859
 by performing

00:24:38.859 --> 00:24:39.839
 his first miracle

00:24:39.839 --> 00:24:40.440
 at a wedding.

00:24:40.779 --> 00:24:41.859
 The Holy Spirit

00:24:41.859 --> 00:24:42.579
 honored marriage

00:24:42.579 --> 00:24:43.480
 by using it

00:24:43.480 --> 00:24:45.019
 to picture the church

00:24:45.019 --> 00:24:46.019
 in the New Testament.

00:24:46.500 --> 00:24:47.659
 The whole Trinity

00:24:47.659 --> 00:24:48.639
 testifies

00:24:48.640 --> 00:24:49.940
 that marriage

00:24:49.940 --> 00:24:51.259
 is honorable.

00:24:52.259 --> 00:24:53.420
 May we as believers

00:24:53.420 --> 00:24:54.380
 have our eyes

00:24:54.380 --> 00:24:55.480
 fixed on Jesus.

00:24:56.120 --> 00:24:57.500
 May we do the same thing.

00:24:58.300 --> 00:24:58.860
 Finally,

00:24:59.060 --> 00:25:00.020
 in this passage

00:25:00.020 --> 00:25:01.160
 from our time this week,

00:25:01.600 --> 00:25:02.800
 believers and churches

00:25:02.800 --> 00:25:03.780
 with a focus

00:25:03.780 --> 00:25:04.980
 on Jesus

00:25:04.980 --> 00:25:06.300
 will be content

00:25:06.300 --> 00:25:07.820
 and generous.

00:25:08.680 --> 00:25:09.680
 We'll be content

00:25:09.680 --> 00:25:11.080
 and we'll be generous.

00:25:11.740 --> 00:25:12.940
 Verses 5 and 6,

00:25:13.000 --> 00:25:13.360
 it says,

00:25:13.780 --> 00:25:14.860
 keep your life

00:25:14.860 --> 00:25:15.940
 free from the love

00:25:15.940 --> 00:25:16.420
 of money

00:25:16.420 --> 00:25:17.500
 and be content

00:25:17.500 --> 00:25:19.200
 with what you have.

00:25:19.980 --> 00:25:20.920
 For he has said,

00:25:21.200 --> 00:25:22.240
 I will never leave you

00:25:22.240 --> 00:25:23.380
 nor forsake you.

00:25:23.480 --> 00:25:25.100
 So we can confidently say,

00:25:25.220 --> 00:25:27.160
 the Lord is my helper.

00:25:27.460 --> 00:25:28.539
 I will not fear

00:25:28.539 --> 00:25:29.460
 what can man

00:25:29.460 --> 00:25:31.060
 do to me.

00:25:31.980 --> 00:25:32.320
 You see,

00:25:32.340 --> 00:25:33.120
 the love of money

00:25:33.120 --> 00:25:34.320
 is a major,

00:25:34.519 --> 00:25:35.700
 major pitfall

00:25:35.700 --> 00:25:36.840
 in the Christian life.

00:25:37.600 --> 00:25:38.600
 There's a reason

00:25:38.600 --> 00:25:39.779
 that Jesus says

00:25:39.779 --> 00:25:41.160
 how difficult it is

00:25:41.160 --> 00:25:42.759
 for those who have wealth

00:25:42.759 --> 00:25:43.980
 to enter the kingdom

00:25:43.980 --> 00:25:44.660
 of God.

00:25:45.559 --> 00:25:46.559
 For it is easier

00:25:46.559 --> 00:25:47.299
 for a camel

00:25:47.299 --> 00:25:47.819
 to go through

00:25:47.819 --> 00:25:48.799
 the eye of a needle

00:25:48.799 --> 00:25:50.059
 than for a rich person

00:25:50.059 --> 00:25:51.539
 to enter the kingdom

00:25:51.539 --> 00:25:52.480
 of God.

00:25:53.819 --> 00:25:55.640
 The reason this is

00:25:55.640 --> 00:25:56.380
 is because money

00:25:56.380 --> 00:25:56.860
 can give us

00:25:56.860 --> 00:25:57.519
 a false sense

00:25:57.519 --> 00:25:58.160
 of security.

00:25:59.319 --> 00:26:00.360
 Money is something

00:26:00.360 --> 00:26:01.279
 that can make us

00:26:01.279 --> 00:26:01.980
 feel secure

00:26:01.980 --> 00:26:02.740
 without actually

00:26:02.740 --> 00:26:03.660
 being secure

00:26:03.660 --> 00:26:04.740
 at all.

00:26:05.660 --> 00:26:06.500
 Money is something

00:26:06.500 --> 00:26:07.720
 that can cloud

00:26:07.720 --> 00:26:08.279
 our judgment.

00:26:08.420 --> 00:26:09.299
 It's hard to see

00:26:09.299 --> 00:26:10.519
 our dependence on God

00:26:10.519 --> 00:26:10.860
 to meet

00:26:10.859 --> 00:26:12.479
 all of our needs

00:26:12.479 --> 00:26:14.279
 when our bank

00:26:14.279 --> 00:26:15.240
 accounts are full.

00:26:16.519 --> 00:26:17.500
 This oftentimes

00:26:17.500 --> 00:26:18.799
 translates to

00:26:18.799 --> 00:26:20.139
 having difficulty

00:26:20.139 --> 00:26:21.219
 seeing our greatest

00:26:21.219 --> 00:26:21.740
 need,

00:26:22.099 --> 00:26:22.639
 salvation.

00:26:23.059 --> 00:26:24.119
 We get so used

00:26:24.119 --> 00:26:24.819
 to doing things

00:26:24.819 --> 00:26:25.219
 on our own,

00:26:25.279 --> 00:26:26.339
 having pantries

00:26:26.339 --> 00:26:27.240
 filled with food,

00:26:27.319 --> 00:26:28.199
 never having to wonder

00:26:28.199 --> 00:26:28.959
 where our next meal

00:26:28.959 --> 00:26:29.579
 comes from.

00:26:29.699 --> 00:26:30.819
 If we want something

00:26:30.819 --> 00:26:31.639
 or we need something

00:26:31.639 --> 00:26:32.759
 then we just go out

00:26:32.759 --> 00:26:33.500
 and get it.

00:26:33.699 --> 00:26:34.939
 It's hard to live

00:26:34.939 --> 00:26:36.279
 this life of abundance

00:26:36.279 --> 00:26:37.839
 and then realize

00:26:37.839 --> 00:26:38.740
 that there's something

00:26:38.740 --> 00:26:40.299
 that money can't buy.

00:26:40.859 --> 00:26:41.879
 There's an area

00:26:41.879 --> 00:26:42.619
 of our life

00:26:42.619 --> 00:26:43.959
 where that does us

00:26:43.959 --> 00:26:45.679
 no good whatsoever.

00:26:47.119 --> 00:26:47.839
 In fact,

00:26:47.919 --> 00:26:48.519
 the only way

00:26:48.519 --> 00:26:49.819
 to understand

00:26:49.819 --> 00:26:50.279
 the gospel

00:26:50.279 --> 00:26:51.479
 and to receive it

00:26:51.479 --> 00:26:52.500
 is to realize

00:26:52.500 --> 00:26:53.519
 that this is something

00:26:53.519 --> 00:26:54.399
 that we can't do

00:26:54.399 --> 00:26:55.259
 on our own.

00:26:55.919 --> 00:26:56.899
 The author of Hebrews

00:26:56.899 --> 00:26:57.619
 has said this

00:26:57.619 --> 00:26:58.719
 over and over again.

00:26:58.979 --> 00:26:59.619
 He's made it

00:26:59.619 --> 00:27:00.779
 abundantly clear

00:27:00.779 --> 00:27:01.979
 that we have this

00:27:01.979 --> 00:27:03.719
 incredibly great need

00:27:03.719 --> 00:27:04.859
 and that we've been

00:27:04.859 --> 00:27:06.339
 trying for a long time

00:27:06.339 --> 00:27:07.039
 to do something

00:27:07.039 --> 00:27:07.740
 about this need

00:27:07.740 --> 00:27:08.279
 on our own

00:27:08.279 --> 00:27:09.079
 but ultimately

00:27:09.079 --> 00:27:10.399
 we can't fix

00:27:10.399 --> 00:27:11.299
 this problem

00:27:11.299 --> 00:27:12.079
 that we have.

00:27:12.299 --> 00:27:13.039
 There's not enough

00:27:13.039 --> 00:27:13.939
 money to buy it.

00:27:14.000 --> 00:27:14.619
 There's not enough

00:27:14.619 --> 00:27:15.980
 things that we can do

00:27:15.980 --> 00:27:16.919
 to earn it.

00:27:17.339 --> 00:27:18.720
 We have this problem.

00:27:18.939 --> 00:27:19.879
 It's called sin.

00:27:20.059 --> 00:27:20.779
 It's destroyed

00:27:20.779 --> 00:27:21.539
 our relationship

00:27:21.539 --> 00:27:22.199
 with God

00:27:22.199 --> 00:27:23.039
 and there's nothing

00:27:23.039 --> 00:27:24.299
 we can do about it.

00:27:25.779 --> 00:27:27.460
 And money sometimes,

00:27:27.980 --> 00:27:28.939
 money can fix

00:27:28.939 --> 00:27:30.559
 a lot of things.

00:27:30.619 --> 00:27:30.960
 It can cause

00:27:30.960 --> 00:27:31.679
 a lot of problems

00:27:31.679 --> 00:27:33.000
 but it can make you

00:27:33.000 --> 00:27:33.399
 where you're not

00:27:33.399 --> 00:27:34.199
 worried about food.

00:27:34.599 --> 00:27:35.179
 It can make you

00:27:35.179 --> 00:27:36.359
 where you feel like

00:27:36.359 --> 00:27:36.979
 you can do

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 things on your own.

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 You can just get

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 something else

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 and it'll fix

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 whatever it is

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 that you're going on

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 in your life.

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 It can give you

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 a false sense

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 of security.

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 But the passage

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 is reminding us

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 to guard ourself

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 with that.

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 To make sure

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 that we're not

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 putting too much

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 of an emphasis

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 on that

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 because we'll do so

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 at the expense

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 of seeing

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 our greatest need.

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 You see,

00:28:02.639 --> 00:28:03.419
 Jesus starts

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 the Sermon on the Mount

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 with this.

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 Blessed are the

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 poor in spirit.

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 When you look

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 at this,

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 especially in the Greek,

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 you'll begin

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 to see and understand

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 what Jesus is getting at.

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 Blessed are the

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 poor in spirit.

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 What he's ultimately

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 saying is blessed

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 are the beggarly

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 in spirit.

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 Blessed are those

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 who are coming

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 before God

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 with nothing

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 begging

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 to receive

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 his mercy.

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 Realizing that

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 they have nothing

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 to offer this.

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 Well,

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 they're only there

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 just asking

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 to receive

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 from God.

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 Blessed are those

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 for theirs

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 is the kingdom.

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 Blessed are those

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 who understand

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 their need

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 that they can't

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 do anything

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 about it

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 and that they

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 must be dependent

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 on God

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 to meet their need.

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 So we must

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 for the sake

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 of our souls,

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 the souls of our

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 children and those

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 around us,

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 we must keep

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 our lives

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 free

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 from the love

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 of money.

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 Augustine wrote

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 a book that

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 some of you

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 may have heard

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 of before

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 called the

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 City of God.

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 It's a little

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 background.

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 Before coming

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 to faith in

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 Christ,

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 Augustine

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 lived a very

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 sexually promiscuous

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 life.

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 We won't go

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 into the details

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 there but just

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 understand that

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 he lived a very

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 sexually promiscuous

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 life.

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 And in this work

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 he notes the

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 contrast of the

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 life of that

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 of believers

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 and of unbelievers

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 in this world.

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 He said this,

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 he says,

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 people in the

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 world are

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 promiscuous with

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 their beds

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 and stingy

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 with their money.

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 People in the

00:29:37.440 --> 00:29:37.900
 world are

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 promiscuous with

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 their beds

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 and stingy

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 with their money.

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 Christians,

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 on the other

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 hand,

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 are stingy

00:29:44.920 --> 00:29:45.900
 with their beds

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 but promiscuous

00:29:47.220 --> 00:29:47.880
 with their money.

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 Christians,

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 on the other

00:29:50.720 --> 00:29:50.920
 hand,

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 as opposed

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 to this world

00:29:52.259 --> 00:29:53.980
 are stingy

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 with their beds

00:29:54.559 --> 00:29:55.519
 but promiscuous

00:29:55.519 --> 00:29:56.079
 with their money.

00:29:56.519 --> 00:29:57.160
 The world

00:29:57.160 --> 00:29:57.900
 is generous

00:29:57.900 --> 00:29:58.519
 with sex

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 and guarded

00:29:59.039 --> 00:30:05.159
 with money. Believers are guarded with sex and generous with money. This is going to set us at

00:30:05.159 --> 00:30:10.899
 odds with the world. But if we do this well and clearly show to the world that Christ is our

00:30:10.899 --> 00:30:16.399
 greatest treasure, then doors will be open for the gospel. We'll see lives change and this will

00:30:16.399 --> 00:30:23.139
 be a part of what it means to live a life that is worshipful to God. Being intentional and generous

00:30:23.140 --> 00:30:30.259
 with the way that we spend our resources is also a great way to direct our lives to worship.

00:30:30.780 --> 00:30:36.680
 It's a great way to point our lives to worship. One of the most fruitful and challenging verses for me

00:30:36.680 --> 00:30:43.240
 to apply in my life over and over again is Matthew 6 21. It says, for where your treasure is there your

00:30:43.240 --> 00:30:50.860
 heart will be also. For where your treasure is there your heart will be also. And so what it's

00:30:50.859 --> 00:30:58.719
 telling us is looking at our treasure is a great indicator of where our heart is. It's a great way

00:30:58.719 --> 00:31:06.939
 to show us what we love, what we are affectionate for. But Jesus also takes it another step. He says,

00:31:07.079 --> 00:31:14.179
 where your treasure is there your heart will be also. And so what we realize is how we use our finances,

00:31:14.179 --> 00:31:20.159
 how we use what God has given us is a great way to direct our heart towards worship.

00:31:20.160 --> 00:31:26.519
 If we want our heart to be in something and not somewhere else, then let's start investing our

00:31:26.519 --> 00:31:33.300
 resources in this and not somewhere else. It's a great way to direct our hearts. And just before

00:31:33.300 --> 00:31:40.080
 this verse, Jesus says, do not lay up for yourselves treasures here on earth. Why? Because moth and rust,

00:31:40.180 --> 00:31:45.800
 they'll destroy them. This world is temporary. Don't lay up your treasures here. Rather lay up your

00:31:45.799 --> 00:31:51.399
 treasures in heaven where neither moth nor rust can destroy them, where nothing will be able to

00:31:51.399 --> 00:31:56.159
 destroy them. Think of it like this. Has anybody in here ever gone to a different country where you

00:31:56.159 --> 00:32:01.200
 had to exchange currency before you went? Where you had to change some? A lot of us have done that.

00:32:01.539 --> 00:32:06.240
 You know, it's pretty simple. You can go to the bank and ask them and tell them, hey, I'm traveling

00:32:06.240 --> 00:32:12.659
 to this place. Can you order some currency for me as I get ready to go? But I want you to think

00:32:12.660 --> 00:32:18.680
 about the craziness of the situation. If you were into that bank and say, hey, I'm getting ready to go

00:32:18.680 --> 00:32:25.279
 to Europe for a week. And so I need to get some euros. So here's what I want you to do. I want to

00:32:25.279 --> 00:32:30.320
 be there for a week. So I want you to empty my bank account. I want you to pull all of my savings,

00:32:30.759 --> 00:32:36.160
 everything that I have in my checking account, all the CDs, cash, all of those things out. I want you to

00:32:36.160 --> 00:32:42.460
 pull all of that together and give me as many euros as you can possibly give me because I'm going to

00:32:42.460 --> 00:32:49.059
 Europe for a week. The teller would probably look at you like you're crazy. But why would you take

00:32:49.059 --> 00:32:56.700
 everything for something that is so temporary? Why would you use all of your resources for something

00:32:56.700 --> 00:33:05.579
 that is only going to be for a week? That'll be over like that. This is what the Bible tells us

00:33:05.579 --> 00:33:13.599
 over and over again as well. Why would we use all of our resources on ourselves in this life

00:33:13.599 --> 00:33:23.240
 for something that's just a vapor, that's here today, gone tomorrow. Instead, we must use them well.

00:33:23.819 --> 00:33:30.299
 For us, accumulating vast earthly treasure without kingdom-minded generosity and in light of all of

00:33:30.299 --> 00:33:37.539
 eternity is equivalent to stockpiling a foreign currency for a short-term visit. It's not just

00:33:37.539 --> 00:33:45.500
 wrong, but it's crazy. And so if we want to see our lives as an act of worship, and I think this passage

00:33:45.500 --> 00:33:51.819
 is a great starting point of examining our lives, then we must recognize how this applies to us

00:33:51.819 --> 00:33:58.779
 personally could look different for every single person in here. How this applies, now the meaning and

00:33:58.779 --> 00:34:04.319
 the explanation of the text is going to be the same for us, the meanings there, but how this applies

00:34:04.319 --> 00:34:12.480
 to us is and probably will be very different for each and every one of us. So I want to close this

00:34:12.480 --> 00:34:18.739
 message out a little differently today. There are so many things that this passage hits on. There's a

00:34:18.739 --> 00:34:25.699
 real good chance that one of these things is something that speaks to you. I know that it has spoken to my

00:34:25.699 --> 00:34:32.419
 heart this week and this morning and thinking through it. That maybe God is convicting you

00:34:32.419 --> 00:34:39.099
 of something that you just need to talk with him about. And you can absolutely, of course, talk to

00:34:39.099 --> 00:34:44.739
 God right where you are. In just a moment when we stand and we sing together, you can just stay seated

00:34:44.739 --> 00:34:50.500
 and you can pray and you can talk to God there as well as you can anywhere. But maybe today,

00:34:50.500 --> 00:34:54.739
 you want to take a step out and say, you know what, I want to take this serious.

00:34:55.760 --> 00:35:00.579
 And I know there's nothing special about the front of this stage. I know there's nothing special about

00:35:00.579 --> 00:35:05.480
 stepping out there, but maybe it's a way of saying, you know what, God, I'm serious about this.

00:35:06.099 --> 00:35:09.440
 This is something that I need to talk to you about. This is something I need to pray about.

00:35:09.659 --> 00:35:15.039
 And this step out is going to be kind of that first step in moving in a different direction

00:35:15.039 --> 00:35:20.679
 of reorienting my life to worship you with everything that I have. Maybe you want to come

00:35:20.679 --> 00:35:25.159
 pray with me. You don't have to come down here and start confessing. You can just say, hey, Brett,

00:35:25.300 --> 00:35:31.880
 would you pray with me? I'll pray with you. I know a lot of times we see this time as a time where

00:35:31.880 --> 00:35:37.380
 people join the church and there's a good chance that may happen today. But this is also a time of

00:35:37.380 --> 00:35:46.579
 response. And so I'm much more concerned that you do respond to God's word than where or how.

00:35:47.360 --> 00:35:53.180
 But I do want you to respond in a way that is obedient and honoring to the Lord. So let's go

00:35:53.180 --> 00:35:59.760
 to the Lord in prayer. Father, we thank you so very much for who you are. We thank you for what you do

00:35:59.760 --> 00:36:06.619
 for us. Lord, we thank you for the book of Hebrews that Lord is coming to a close in some difficult,

00:36:06.619 --> 00:36:14.480
 passages that are challenging to us, that speak to our hearts, that pull us closer to you. And so,

00:36:14.679 --> 00:36:23.380
 Lord, I pray that as we seek to honor you, that as we seek to live lives that are worshipful to you,

00:36:23.659 --> 00:36:30.219
 to give our lives over to you, Lord, that you would open our eyes, open our hearts to your word,

00:36:30.539 --> 00:36:36.359
 and not just seeing it on a page, but applying it to our life. And so, Lord, I pray that you give us

00:36:36.360 --> 00:36:42.940
 the boldness and the courage to respond in a way that brings your name, honor, and glory. And we ask

00:36:42.940 --> 00:36:48.320
 all this in Jesus' name. Amen. I want to invite you to stand. We're going to sing a song of invitation.

00:36:48.880 --> 00:36:51.780
 The Lord is speaking to you. Won't you respond as we stand together and sing?