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 How many of you are familiar with the old country music singer Tom T. Hall? Raise your hand. You know, you're giving away your age, probably, but old guy.

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 Well, many years ago, he had a song that was popular. I don't know if you'd call it a hit or not. It was called I Love. It started off like this. I love little baby ducks, old pickup trucks, slow moving trains, and rain.

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 I love little country streams, sleep without dreams, Sunday school in May, and hay. And after every stanza like that, he had this little chorus, and I love you too.

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 Lisa dared me to do that.

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 And one member of this church told me, I would give good money if you would sing in church.

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 Good money is a hundred dollar bill right here when I walk out today. Okay?

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 That's a silly song, isn't it? It really is.

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 But there's a lot of truth in it.

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 Haven't you said things like he sings about, I love the mountains.

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 I love the beach.

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 I love this and that.

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 I love dogs.

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 I love whatever.

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 And then, as we talk about loving this and that, we look at our spouse, we look at someone special in our life,

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 and we gaze into their eyes and say, I love you.

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 We use that word love in a very trite, trivial way a lot of times, don't we?

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 And I guess that's okay most of the time.

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 When we hear someone, because of that, when we hear someone talk about love,

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 we don't really sit up and take notice, do we?

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 Because the word's just thrown about, talked about, sung about all the time in ways that are not really meaningful.

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 So it's okay not to pay attention when people are just talking about love in general,

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 but it's not okay when Jesus is the one talking about love.

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 When Jesus spoke about love, he was always serious.

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 Never in a trivial way do you find in the New Testament, in the Gospels,

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 where Jesus talked about love in a flippant way.

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 He was usually, or always, talking about it in the context of relationships.

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 Relationship with God.

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 And relationships with people.

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 A good example comes when Jesus answered a question on one occasion.

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 It's found in Matthew chapter 22.

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 It'll be on the screen.

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 He was asked, Teacher, which is the great commandment in the law?

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 And he said to him,

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 You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.

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 This is the great and first commandment.

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 And a second is like it.

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 You shall love your neighbor as yourself.

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 On these two commandments depend all the law and the prophets.

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 Well, the Apostle John heard Jesus say that.

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 In fact, most likely Jesus said that on more than one occasion,

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 talking about the essence of the law is to love God with all your heart, soul, mind, and strength,

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 and love your neighbor as yourself.

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 John took it to heart.

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 John wrote about the importance of love in his gospel, the gospel of John that we have in our New Testament.

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 He really talked a lot about our love for God, but especially our love for one another as Christians,

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 in his first letter, what we call 1 John in the New Testament.

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 And then John is the one, he's the only gospel writer,

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 that tells us about the new commandment to love

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 that Jesus gave them just before he was arrested and crucified.

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 It's in John chapter 13.

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 And if you would, turn in your Bible there.

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 It'll be on the screen, but it'll be something to mark in your Bible if it's not already marked.

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 The new commandment that Jesus gave, a new kind of love he's given to his followers.

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 John 13, beginning in verse 34.

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 A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another.

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 Just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another.

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 By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.

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 It may seem a little strange if you're just reading through the gospel of John, you come across this.

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 Jesus says,

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 The new commandment I give to you, that you love one another.

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 When you've probably read, you know,

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 Jesus talked about the importance of loving God and loving your neighbor.

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 But really, if you look at the context, it's not strange.

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 Jesus is about to wind up his earthly ministry.

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 Later on that night, he's going to be arrested, tried, the next day crucified.

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 What Jesus is doing is preparing his disciples for his departure.

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 And he's telling them how important it is that they, his followers, his disciples,

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 that they love one another, that they stay united.

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 They stay together.

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 You know, this is the new commandment that Jesus issued, not just to them,

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 but Jesus knew it would be recorded.

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 It's the new commandment for us as followers of Jesus to love one another.

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 And we're talking this morning about our brothers and sisters in Christ.

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 Jesus issued a new commandment about the importance of us loving one another in the church.

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 Being united to one another like a real family in our church.

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 I want us to look at these two verses at the new way Jesus calls us to love one another.

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 And as we go through this, you think, am I loving my brothers and sisters in Christ in this church?

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 Family.

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 Like Jesus did.

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 Just look first.

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 Jesus gives us a new focus for our love.

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 Our brothers and sisters in Christ.

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 That's the first phrase.

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 Love one another.

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 And he's talking to his disciples.

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 The focus of that Old Testament commandment, love your neighbor as yourself.

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 The focus was on your neighbor.

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 Now, when Jesus issued that or reminded them of that commandment,

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 as they heard it, read it from their Old Testament, from the law of Moses,

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 the Jews understood that very simply.

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 Love your neighbor means love your fellow Jews and love them only.

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 Love people who are just like us, they thought.

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 But that was never what God intended by the commandment.

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 The way we know that is because Jesus told the story about the good Samaritan.

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 And the bottom line of the story of the good Samaritan is we, as Jesus' followers, as his people,

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 we are to be a neighbor to anybody who comes across our path that has a need that we can meet.

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 Jesus told his disciples, told everybody who heard that day,

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 your neighbor is anybody in your life that has a need that you can meet.

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 And we should demonstrate neighbor love by helping them, trying to meet their need if possible.

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 But you know, it's not just Jews in the first century who thought in terms of just loving their own kind.

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 Don't we just naturally think the same way?

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 Think about it.

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 We may not say it.

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 We may not have really just dwelled on it so much.

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 But we tend, don't we, to love people who look like us, who think like us,

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 who live life the way that we live.

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 But Jesus issues a new commandment that has a new focus.

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 Love one another, meaning all you brothers and sisters in Christ.

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 Think about this.

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 When we became Christians, we became a part of the family of God.

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 That's how the church is referred to in several places throughout the New Testament.

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 We're part of the family of God.

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 And the family of God is made up of all kinds of people.

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 Male and female.

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 Rich and poor.

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 Black and white.

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 Northerners and southerners.

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 Tigers and Gamecocks.

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 Gamecocks.

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 Just look around this room.

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 We're all different, aren't we?

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 We have different opinions.

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 Different personalities.

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 Different interests.

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 Just look around.

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 Everybody's different.

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 Some people are just playing off.

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 I mean, there's some weird people in this room.

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 I know some.

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 But that's the way it is in your family, isn't it?

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 You've got to.

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 You have a big family gathering.

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 You've got some people there.

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 They're your blood kin.

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 Deep down, you love them.

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 But some of them are just as weird and odd as they can possibly be.

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 If you think, I don't know who that is in my family, you're it.

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 Because everybody has it.

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 And if you don't think anybody in this church is sort of odd, weird, or strange, then that means you are the one who is odd, weird, or strange.

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 Now, how do we develop loving relationships with all of our brothers and sisters in Christ and really be a united church family?

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 Well, we start by not focusing on our differences.

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 We don't focus on our differences.

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 We don't think about the oddness and weirdness of other people.

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 Because that will always keep us apart.

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 If you just always think about someone, about how different they are, how different they talk, where they're from, it's totally opposite of you.

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 If that's all you think about, you'll never really draw close to them, be able to.

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 What we need to do, first and foremost, is to focus on our most basic, common denominator as Christians.

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 And that should be, must be, really, our love for Jesus and our desire to please Him.

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 I mean, if you're a Christian, you love Jesus.

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 You want to please Jesus.

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 You know, I know that I don't love Him as much as I should.

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 I certainly don't please Him as I should.

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 But I do love Jesus.

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 I want to be a faithful follower of His.

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 I do want to please Him.

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 And as Christians, that is a common thing that we have.

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 That kind of love for Jesus.

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 So, in spite of our differences, if we'll first focus on that, this common love for Jesus and desire to please Him,

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 we can find some unity.

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 We can find some unity.

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 We can find that common ground.

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 And we can live together and work together and enjoy life together as one church family.

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 Let me ask you, as an individual, don't think about other people.

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 Think about you.

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 Are you enjoying that kind of love with your church family?

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 Are you as a church enjoying that kind of unity because you're bound together by your common love for Jesus?

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 Now, let's think about what this love that Jesus is talking about does not mean as well as what it does mean.

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 Loving one another does not mean that you cease to be different.

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 Loving one another does not mean that you cease to notice how you're different.

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 You can't do that.

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 There will always be, in any kind of gathering, even in your extended family, in all seriousness,

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 there's always going to be different kinds of personalities, different kinds of interests,

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 different kinds of opinions and so forth.

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 That's true of the church.

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 If we talk about loving one another, I want you to be clear.

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 Everybody in this church will not be best friends.

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 Think about this.

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 Even Jesus had an inner circle.

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 Peter, James, and John.

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 Think some of the others sort of presented that.

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 Jesus told Peter, James, and John, I want you to come with me and left the rest of them behind.

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 I mean, wouldn't you?

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 It's natural.

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 It's normal.

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 We're not going to all see everything eye to die, and that's okay.

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 Everybody's not going to be best friends.

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 Put it more bluntly, you won't have warm feelings for everyone in this church.

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 But you can love them.

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 You can accept them as your brother or sister in Christ.

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 Here's another thing.

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 When Jesus is talking about love, loving one another,

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 he's really talking more about actions than emotions.

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 Later on in this passage, this is Jesus in the upper room with the disciples.

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 John 13, 14, 15, and 16.

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 Jesus, as he talks with them, as he instructs them,

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 he's going to say things like,

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 if you love me, you'll obey me.

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 Because Jesus defined love more in terms of action than emotion.

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 There's no doubt that the disciples truly felt loving emotions toward Jesus.

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 But that was not sufficient for Jesus.

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 He said, if you love me, do what I say.

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 There's other passages he's talking about,

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 we truly love God, we'll obey him.

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 That's what God wants us to do.

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 That's how we live out our love.

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 Such love we're talking about now.

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 Action love.

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 That requires that we care about each other.

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 We're not best friends.

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 We're not just warm, fuzzy feelings for everybody in this room.

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 But we care.

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 And when we love out this,

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 we care enough to notice when people are going through a rough time.

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 Or people have certain needs.

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 And if we have the ability to step up and meet those needs,

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 love will compel us to do so.

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 Love will compel us to step in there,

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 that person that is your brother or sister in Christ.

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 You don't have a long relationship with them.

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 You don't have a very close relationship.

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 But they have a need.

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 They've got something going on in their life that you,

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 by God's grace,

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 you could help them if you would.

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 So let me just ask you this.

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 Are you allowing your differences

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 to keep you at a distance

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 from other members of this church?

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 Or

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 is your common love for Jesus

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 and your desire to please Him

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 by loving like this,

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 are you allowing that to draw you closer

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 to other people in this church?

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 Are you allowing it to draw you closer

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 as a church family?

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 Is it happening overall?

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 This passage also tells us

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 that Jesus gives us a new model for our love.

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 Love like He loves.

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 He says,

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 just as I have loved you.

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 Love one another just as I have loved you.

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 The Old Testament command

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 was to love your neighbor as yourself.

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 You were the model

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 for that love,

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 the way you love yourself.

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 By the way,

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 the Old Testament command,

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 love your neighbor as yourself,

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 is not a command to love yourself

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 because

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 we do that.

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 Normal people love themselves

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 and the idea of that,

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 we take care of ourselves.

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 We look out for ourselves.

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 We take relatively good care of our body.

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 We feed ourselves.

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 We go to work.

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 We have money.

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 We have things.

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 We buy things for ourselves.

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 What Jesus is talking about

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 or what the Old Testament law is talking about,

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 love your neighbor as yourself.

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 You care about yourself.

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 You meet yourself,

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 your own needs,

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 the best you can.

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 Do that for other people.

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 That was the idea of the Old Testament law.

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 But here,

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 Jesus says,

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 love one another

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 just as I have loved you.

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 He's the model for what our love should look like.

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 I want us to look at two ways

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 Jesus models how we can love one another

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 or should love one another.

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 Number one,

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 Jesus models a humble,

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 serving love.

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 John takes the first 20 verses

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 of chapter 13.

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 That's where we are right now.

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 The first 20 verses describe

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 Jesus' great example

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 of humble,

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 serving love.

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 He washed his disciples' feet.

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 Now notice what Jesus said

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 after he finished

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 in verse 14,

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 chapter 13.

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 If then,

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 your Lord and teacher,

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 if I then,

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 your Lord and teacher,

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 have washed your feet,

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 you also ought to wash

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 one another's feet.

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 For I have given you an example

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 that you also should do

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 just as I have done to you.

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 Jesus truly humbled himself

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 to do that, didn't he?

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 He was their Lord and teacher.

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 He was above them.

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 He was their superior,

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 yet he chose to get down

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 on his knees

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 and wash the nasty feet

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 of his disciples.

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 And keep in mind,

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 Jesus knew that within a few hours,

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 Judas would betray him.

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 Peter would deny him.

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 And all of them,

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 all of them,

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 would abandon him.

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 Jesus truly humbled himself

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 to do what he is for the disciples.

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 I mean, you think about it.

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 If Brian's nasty feet

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 really had to be washed today,

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 I would at least think about it.

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 But if I thought,

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 after this is over,

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 he's going to tell me,

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 I don't have any use for you.

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 Don't ever bother me again.

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 I ain't washing your feet.

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 That's why,

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 isn't that how you feel?

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 That's normal human nature.

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 But Jesus does not demonstrate

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 normal human nature.

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 He humbled himself

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 before these men

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 who were not going to stay with him.

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 These inferiors.

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 He washed their feet.

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 Now, if we're going to love

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 one another as Jesus loves,

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 we can't ever think of ourselves

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 as over superior to anyone

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 because we really aren't.

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 All of us,

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 all human beings

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 are created in the image of God.

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 That makes us all

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 of equal worth and value.

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 In the church,

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 we're brothers and sisters in Christ.

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 we're on the same level.

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 So we cannot ever consider ourselves

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 to be above

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 going out of our way,

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 being inconvenienced,

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 do some humble acts of service

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 for one another.

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 I want to encourage you this morning.

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 Think about beginning that

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 in your home.

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 to be in the church.

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 You know, home

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 is where we really should be

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 practicing what it means

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 to be a Christian person.

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 And I want to encourage you

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 as parents,

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 as children,

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 as brothers and sisters,

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 we're to love one another

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 as Jesus loves the church.

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 At first,

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 that means humble,

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 practical acts of service.

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 I want you to also know,

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 just real quick here,

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 Jesus met a real need.

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 He didn't just do this

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 out of the blue

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 for no reason.

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 I'm sure Brian

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 doesn't need his feet

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 washed this morning.

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 I'm sure he took a shower

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 at least two or three days ago

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 anyway,

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 if not this morning.

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 But Jesus,

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 Jesus and his disciples,

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 they wore sandals everywhere.

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 Roads were dirt.

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 At times,

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 they were dusty.

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 At times,

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 they were muddy.

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 So wherever you went,

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 when you got there,

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 your feet would be dirty.

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 Well,

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 the disciples should have

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 washed Jesus' feet

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 immediately.

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 They should have washed

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 their own feet.

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 They got ready

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 for the evening meal

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 as they were going

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 to do with Jesus.

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 But they didn't.

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 So Jesus did what needed

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 to be done.

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 He washed their feet.

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 Now,

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 if we're going to love

00:23:16.580 --> 00:23:17.040
 one another

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 as Jesus loves us,

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 we've got to get involved

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 in one another's lives

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 to the point

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 where we notice needs.

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 we can see

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 in someone's life

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 there's something

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 going on.

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 They need some help.

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 We've got to notice

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 the needs

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 and then we've got

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 to do what we need

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 to have to do

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 if we're able

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 to meet their needs.

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 So let me just ask you,

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 how observant are you

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 of the people

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 in your Sunday school class

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 or other small groups

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 you're in?

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 It's not going to happen

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 much in this kind of gathering.

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 This is a worship service.

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 We've come together

00:24:06.180 --> 00:24:08.019
 to praise God,

00:24:08.139 --> 00:24:08.799
 to pray together,

00:24:08.879 --> 00:24:09.680
 to study His Word,

00:24:09.740 --> 00:24:10.500
 but we don't really get

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 to know one another here.

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 It's going to be

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 in small groups.

00:24:15.319 --> 00:24:15.779
 It's going to be

00:24:15.779 --> 00:24:16.659
 away from the church

00:24:16.659 --> 00:24:17.819
 doing things together.

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 We've got to notice

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 we've got to care

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 and we've got to act

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 because we're going to love

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 what Jesus calls us to love.

00:24:28.360 --> 00:24:28.640
 Now,

00:24:28.860 --> 00:24:30.759
 Jesus doesn't just model

00:24:30.759 --> 00:24:32.380
 humble servant type love.

00:24:32.440 --> 00:24:33.920
 He models sacrificial love.

00:24:35.680 --> 00:24:36.900
 Jesus repeated

00:24:36.900 --> 00:24:38.480
 this new commandment

00:24:38.480 --> 00:24:41.360
 and gave the ultimate example

00:24:41.360 --> 00:24:42.400
 of sacrifice

00:24:42.400 --> 00:24:45.320
 in chapter 15 of John.

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 We're in 13.

00:24:46.540 --> 00:24:47.860
 Move over to chapter 15.

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 Look at this.

00:24:48.880 --> 00:24:50.280
 Jesus said,

00:24:50.500 --> 00:24:51.320
 This is my commandment

00:24:51.320 --> 00:24:52.400
 that you love one another

00:24:52.400 --> 00:24:53.380
 as I have loved you.

00:24:53.780 --> 00:24:54.660
 Greater love

00:24:54.660 --> 00:24:55.840
 has no one than this

00:24:55.840 --> 00:24:56.320
 than someone

00:24:56.320 --> 00:24:57.380
 to lay down his life

00:24:57.380 --> 00:24:58.200
 for his friends.

00:24:59.640 --> 00:25:00.760
 Jesus loved us

00:25:00.760 --> 00:25:01.740
 enough to lay down

00:25:01.740 --> 00:25:02.520
 his life

00:25:02.520 --> 00:25:04.600
 for us

00:25:04.600 --> 00:25:05.580
 when there was nothing

00:25:05.580 --> 00:25:07.220
 about us

00:25:07.220 --> 00:25:08.200
 that should compel him

00:25:08.200 --> 00:25:08.740
 to do that.

00:25:10.560 --> 00:25:12.260
 From motivation of love,

00:25:12.259 --> 00:25:14.420
 Jesus chose

00:25:14.420 --> 00:25:17.359
 in obedience to his heavenly Father,

00:25:18.160 --> 00:25:19.259
 but he chose

00:25:19.259 --> 00:25:20.400
 to die on the cross

00:25:20.400 --> 00:25:22.480
 as our substitute.

00:25:24.680 --> 00:25:27.759
 He suffered the wrath

00:25:27.759 --> 00:25:28.480
 of God

00:25:28.480 --> 00:25:30.359
 that we deserve

00:25:30.359 --> 00:25:31.259
 because of our sin.

00:25:33.259 --> 00:25:35.240
 Jesus died on the cross

00:25:35.240 --> 00:25:37.700
 as our substitute.

00:25:37.700 --> 00:25:39.440
 He paid the penalty

00:25:39.440 --> 00:25:41.180
 for our sins.

00:25:41.960 --> 00:25:42.980
 And by doing that,

00:25:43.680 --> 00:25:45.120
 Jesus satisfied

00:25:45.120 --> 00:25:46.240
 God's justice.

00:25:46.860 --> 00:25:47.680
 The penalty for sin

00:25:47.680 --> 00:25:48.160
 is death.

00:25:49.160 --> 00:25:50.259
 And Jesus died

00:25:50.259 --> 00:25:50.980
 for our sins.

00:25:51.019 --> 00:25:51.640
 He died so that we

00:25:51.640 --> 00:25:52.319
 wouldn't have to.

00:25:55.319 --> 00:25:59.580
 He satisfied God's justice

00:25:59.579 --> 00:26:01.039
 so that we

00:26:01.039 --> 00:26:02.139
 could experience

00:26:02.139 --> 00:26:03.039
 God's forgiveness

00:26:03.039 --> 00:26:05.220
 and know

00:26:05.220 --> 00:26:06.539
 the love of God

00:26:06.539 --> 00:26:08.000
 as our heavenly Father.

00:26:08.960 --> 00:26:10.259
 If you're not a Christian,

00:26:11.159 --> 00:26:12.460
 I want you to understand

00:26:12.460 --> 00:26:13.519
 that Jesus died

00:26:13.519 --> 00:26:14.119
 on that cross

00:26:14.119 --> 00:26:15.319
 to save you

00:26:15.319 --> 00:26:16.839
 to pay the penalty

00:26:16.839 --> 00:26:17.819
 for your sins.

00:26:19.299 --> 00:26:20.699
 And if you will

00:26:20.699 --> 00:26:23.279
 confess your sin,

00:26:24.240 --> 00:26:25.179
 repent of your sin,

00:26:25.379 --> 00:26:26.319
 turn from your sin,

00:26:26.859 --> 00:26:28.480
 and trust Jesus

00:26:28.480 --> 00:26:30.180
 that He died for you.

00:26:30.339 --> 00:26:30.960
 He paid the penalty

00:26:30.960 --> 00:26:31.559
 for your sins.

00:26:32.539 --> 00:26:33.579
 And commit your life

00:26:33.579 --> 00:26:34.019
 to Him

00:26:34.019 --> 00:26:35.180
 as your Lord.

00:26:35.440 --> 00:26:37.079
 He will save you,

00:26:37.200 --> 00:26:37.900
 forgive you,

00:26:38.160 --> 00:26:39.500
 make you a child of God.

00:26:39.740 --> 00:26:40.839
 Put the love of God

00:26:40.839 --> 00:26:42.120
 in your heart

00:26:42.120 --> 00:26:43.220
 so that you can

00:26:43.220 --> 00:26:44.920
 love other people

00:26:44.920 --> 00:26:46.000
 like Jesus loves.

00:26:46.700 --> 00:26:48.900
 If you are a Christian,

00:26:49.940 --> 00:26:51.180
 you have experienced

00:26:51.180 --> 00:26:51.700
 the benefits

00:26:51.700 --> 00:26:52.680
 of Jesus' death.

00:26:53.440 --> 00:26:54.220
 You've experienced

00:26:54.220 --> 00:26:54.740
 the benefits

00:26:54.740 --> 00:26:56.259
 of His sacrificial love.

00:26:56.940 --> 00:26:58.299
 Now Jesus calls you

00:26:58.299 --> 00:26:59.419
 demonstrated.

00:27:00.519 --> 00:27:02.440
 Do like I have done

00:27:02.440 --> 00:27:02.960
 for you.

00:27:03.720 --> 00:27:03.960
 You know,

00:27:04.000 --> 00:27:04.559
 most of us,

00:27:04.639 --> 00:27:05.619
 we're never ever

00:27:05.619 --> 00:27:06.379
 going to be called

00:27:06.379 --> 00:27:07.539
 to give our life

00:27:07.539 --> 00:27:08.180
 for another person.

00:27:09.579 --> 00:27:10.379
 Most of us.

00:27:10.700 --> 00:27:11.839
 The majority of us.

00:27:13.779 --> 00:27:14.220
 But,

00:27:14.579 --> 00:27:15.980
 we are called

00:27:15.980 --> 00:27:17.940
 to demonstrate

00:27:17.940 --> 00:27:20.079
 sacrificial love

00:27:20.079 --> 00:27:21.919
 for other people.

00:27:21.920 --> 00:27:24.440
 I want you to look

00:27:24.440 --> 00:27:24.779
 at something

00:27:24.779 --> 00:27:26.220
 that John also wrote

00:27:26.220 --> 00:27:27.740
 in his first letter

00:27:27.740 --> 00:27:29.500
 that talks about

00:27:29.500 --> 00:27:31.240
 self-sacrifice,

00:27:32.039 --> 00:27:32.940
 self-giving.

00:27:33.640 --> 00:27:35.400
 It's in 1 John chapter 3.

00:27:35.960 --> 00:27:36.740
 John writes,

00:27:36.740 --> 00:27:37.480
 But if anyone has

00:27:37.480 --> 00:27:38.519
 the world's goods

00:27:38.519 --> 00:27:40.640
 and sees his brother

00:27:40.640 --> 00:27:41.660
 in need,

00:27:42.740 --> 00:27:44.039
 yet closes his heart

00:27:44.039 --> 00:27:44.779
 against him,

00:27:45.500 --> 00:27:47.200
 how does God's love

00:27:47.200 --> 00:27:48.299
 abide in him?

00:27:48.799 --> 00:27:49.519
 Little children,

00:27:50.140 --> 00:27:51.000
 let us not love

00:27:51.000 --> 00:27:52.859
 in word or talk,

00:27:53.519 --> 00:27:54.859
 but in deed

00:27:54.859 --> 00:27:56.779
 and in truth.

00:27:56.779 --> 00:28:03.460
 We can't even think,

00:28:03.559 --> 00:28:04.440
 shouldn't even think

00:28:04.440 --> 00:28:04.819
 of ourselves

00:28:04.819 --> 00:28:05.799
 as loving people

00:28:05.799 --> 00:28:09.700
 if we just close our eyes

00:28:09.700 --> 00:28:11.500
 to what's going on

00:28:11.500 --> 00:28:12.160
 in their life

00:28:12.160 --> 00:28:14.099
 and refuse to get involved

00:28:14.099 --> 00:28:14.680
 when there's something

00:28:14.680 --> 00:28:15.379
 that we could do

00:28:15.379 --> 00:28:15.920
 to help them.

00:28:17.539 --> 00:28:18.480
 Following Jesus'

00:28:18.779 --> 00:28:20.099
 model of sacrificial love

00:28:20.099 --> 00:28:21.399
 will sometimes require us

00:28:21.399 --> 00:28:23.079
 to give of ourselves,

00:28:24.019 --> 00:28:25.059
 give of our money,

00:28:25.059 --> 00:28:27.919
 give of our talent,

00:28:28.039 --> 00:28:28.980
 some of the abilities

00:28:28.980 --> 00:28:29.819
 that we have

00:28:29.819 --> 00:28:31.700
 to meet the needs

00:28:31.700 --> 00:28:33.039
 of a brother or sister.

00:28:34.179 --> 00:28:35.559
 We can do that.

00:28:36.440 --> 00:28:37.460
 Are you in the habit

00:28:37.460 --> 00:28:38.539
 of demonstrating

00:28:38.539 --> 00:28:40.000
 sacrificial love

00:28:40.000 --> 00:28:41.720
 in your home,

00:28:42.859 --> 00:28:43.419
 first,

00:28:44.440 --> 00:28:45.480
 and in this church?

00:28:46.859 --> 00:28:48.639
 Are you living out

00:28:48.639 --> 00:28:49.480
 what Jesus said

00:28:49.480 --> 00:28:50.240
 when he told us

00:28:50.240 --> 00:28:51.720
 to love one another

00:28:51.720 --> 00:28:52.619
 as he loves us?

00:28:53.700 --> 00:28:54.759
 What you see next

00:28:54.759 --> 00:28:55.759
 in verse 35?

00:28:56.140 --> 00:28:56.920
 Jesus gives us

00:28:56.920 --> 00:28:57.559
 a new purpose

00:28:57.559 --> 00:28:58.180
 for our love.

00:28:58.180 --> 00:28:58.799
 He says,

00:28:59.319 --> 00:29:00.019
 and the idea

00:29:00.019 --> 00:29:01.259
 is to demonstrate

00:29:01.259 --> 00:29:02.299
 that we are Christians

00:29:02.299 --> 00:29:03.920
 and be a positive witness.

00:29:04.200 --> 00:29:05.339
 Jesus says it like this,

00:29:05.720 --> 00:29:06.579
 by this all people

00:29:06.579 --> 00:29:07.000
 will know

00:29:07.000 --> 00:29:07.879
 that you are my disciples

00:29:07.879 --> 00:29:08.900
 if you have love

00:29:08.900 --> 00:29:09.480
 for one another.

00:29:10.500 --> 00:29:11.980
 Jesus' commandment

00:29:11.980 --> 00:29:12.900
 for us to love

00:29:12.900 --> 00:29:13.519
 one another

00:29:13.519 --> 00:29:15.539
 is given

00:29:15.539 --> 00:29:16.619
 so that

00:29:16.619 --> 00:29:17.839
 if we'll do it,

00:29:19.559 --> 00:29:20.099
 it'll have

00:29:20.099 --> 00:29:21.000
 such a positive

00:29:21.000 --> 00:29:22.160
 impact on people,

00:29:22.160 --> 00:29:24.440
 it'll make a difference

00:29:24.440 --> 00:29:25.080
 in their life.

00:29:25.900 --> 00:29:27.000
 If we truly love

00:29:27.000 --> 00:29:27.940
 one another like Jesus,

00:29:28.060 --> 00:29:28.960
 people will know

00:29:28.960 --> 00:29:29.920
 that we are Christians

00:29:29.920 --> 00:29:31.480
 by our acts of love.

00:29:33.460 --> 00:29:34.080
 He's saying

00:29:34.080 --> 00:29:36.340
 that our love for him

00:29:36.340 --> 00:29:37.540
 should be attractive

00:29:37.540 --> 00:29:39.340
 to other people.

00:29:41.800 --> 00:29:42.680
 Attractive love

00:29:42.680 --> 00:29:43.779
 is used by God

00:29:43.779 --> 00:29:44.440
 to draw people

00:29:44.440 --> 00:29:45.160
 to himself,

00:29:45.860 --> 00:29:46.759
 to draw people

00:29:46.759 --> 00:29:47.320
 to churches.

00:29:47.319 --> 00:29:49.299
 You know,

00:29:49.319 --> 00:29:49.859
 when you people

00:29:49.859 --> 00:29:50.879
 come here to this church

00:29:50.879 --> 00:29:51.539
 and get involved

00:29:51.539 --> 00:29:52.460
 for a few months,

00:29:53.159 --> 00:29:55.419
 what will they observe

00:29:55.419 --> 00:29:57.980
 about how you relate

00:29:57.980 --> 00:29:58.859
 to one another

00:29:58.859 --> 00:30:02.019
 in the various

00:30:02.019 --> 00:30:02.919
 small groups

00:30:02.919 --> 00:30:03.519
 that are here?

00:30:05.159 --> 00:30:06.259
 You people come in,

00:30:06.299 --> 00:30:07.299
 they don't really know you,

00:30:07.700 --> 00:30:08.319
 but they're in your

00:30:08.319 --> 00:30:08.960
 Sunday school class,

00:30:09.019 --> 00:30:10.119
 they're in some small group.

00:30:10.480 --> 00:30:11.539
 What will they observe

00:30:11.539 --> 00:30:12.419
 over time

00:30:12.419 --> 00:30:13.700
 about your love

00:30:13.700 --> 00:30:14.399
 for one another?

00:30:15.139 --> 00:30:16.539
 Will they see evidence

00:30:16.539 --> 00:30:18.240
 tangible evidence

00:30:18.240 --> 00:30:20.680
 of what you're doing

00:30:20.680 --> 00:30:21.619
 in one another's lives,

00:30:21.680 --> 00:30:22.339
 how you're sharing

00:30:22.339 --> 00:30:23.139
 life together,

00:30:23.139 --> 00:30:25.279
 or that will they

00:30:25.279 --> 00:30:26.019
 just see a bunch

00:30:26.019 --> 00:30:26.579
 of different people

00:30:26.579 --> 00:30:27.279
 who come together

00:30:27.279 --> 00:30:28.879
 for superficial fellowship

00:30:28.879 --> 00:30:31.659
 and then just go

00:30:31.659 --> 00:30:32.259
 on their way

00:30:32.259 --> 00:30:32.960
 when they leave here

00:30:32.960 --> 00:30:33.519
 and forget about

00:30:33.519 --> 00:30:33.960
 one another?

00:30:35.299 --> 00:30:36.019
 Let's make this

00:30:36.019 --> 00:30:36.639
 more personal.

00:30:37.819 --> 00:30:38.480
 Do you,

00:30:38.599 --> 00:30:39.200
 as an individual,

00:30:39.339 --> 00:30:40.500
 try to help new people

00:30:40.500 --> 00:30:41.319
 feel loved

00:30:41.319 --> 00:30:42.460
 and accepted

00:30:42.460 --> 00:30:43.740
 in this church?

00:30:43.740 --> 00:30:46.700
 do you try?

00:30:47.160 --> 00:30:47.900
 Do you put forth

00:30:47.900 --> 00:30:48.359
 an effort

00:30:48.359 --> 00:30:50.019
 to help them

00:30:50.019 --> 00:30:52.180
 feel like they belong?

00:30:52.339 --> 00:30:53.059
 They're a part

00:30:53.059 --> 00:30:54.000
 of the family.

00:30:56.500 --> 00:30:57.539
 Lisa and I

00:30:57.539 --> 00:30:59.339
 have learned

00:30:59.339 --> 00:30:59.940
 what it's like

00:30:59.940 --> 00:31:01.700
 to join a new church

00:31:01.700 --> 00:31:03.339
 where you know

00:31:03.339 --> 00:31:04.519
 very few people

00:31:04.519 --> 00:31:05.200
 at all.

00:31:06.460 --> 00:31:06.900
 Prior,

00:31:07.299 --> 00:31:08.019
 for the last

00:31:08.019 --> 00:31:09.240
 40 years,

00:31:10.440 --> 00:31:11.319
 when we've gone

00:31:11.319 --> 00:31:12.139
 to a new church,

00:31:12.259 --> 00:31:13.179
 I was a pastor

00:31:13.179 --> 00:31:16.039
 and it's very easy

00:31:16.039 --> 00:31:16.980
 to get to know

00:31:16.980 --> 00:31:17.339
 people,

00:31:17.460 --> 00:31:19.139
 people want to

00:31:19.139 --> 00:31:19.919
 get to know you,

00:31:20.079 --> 00:31:20.779
 it just happens.

00:31:21.359 --> 00:31:21.740
 You don't have

00:31:21.740 --> 00:31:22.259
 to do anything.

00:31:23.279 --> 00:31:24.460
 It just happens.

00:31:26.859 --> 00:31:27.559
 But when you're

00:31:27.559 --> 00:31:28.299
 not the pastor

00:31:28.299 --> 00:31:29.200
 and you just go

00:31:29.200 --> 00:31:30.079
 into a church

00:31:30.079 --> 00:31:31.579
 where you don't

00:31:31.579 --> 00:31:32.159
 really know

00:31:32.159 --> 00:31:33.139
 anybody,

00:31:33.359 --> 00:31:34.679
 you know very few,

00:31:36.480 --> 00:31:37.200
 it's just

00:31:37.200 --> 00:31:37.720
 way hard.

00:31:39.519 --> 00:31:40.259
 You feel like

00:31:40.259 --> 00:31:40.720
 a stranger.

00:31:42.119 --> 00:31:43.359
 You are an outsider.

00:31:45.939 --> 00:31:46.679
 We know

00:31:46.679 --> 00:31:47.619
 what it feels like

00:31:47.619 --> 00:31:49.039
 to be that way.

00:31:49.119 --> 00:31:50.439
 Never really

00:31:50.439 --> 00:31:51.220
 knew

00:31:51.220 --> 00:31:52.679
 what that was like.

00:31:54.619 --> 00:31:55.419
 Being a part

00:31:55.419 --> 00:31:56.299
 of a church family

00:31:56.299 --> 00:31:58.099
 doesn't happen

00:31:58.099 --> 00:31:58.579
 quickly.

00:31:59.339 --> 00:32:00.240
 And it certainly

00:32:00.240 --> 00:32:00.960
 doesn't happen

00:32:00.960 --> 00:32:01.720
 automatically.

00:32:02.539 --> 00:32:03.159
 It takes time

00:32:03.159 --> 00:32:03.460
 and effort.

00:32:04.399 --> 00:32:05.220
 I want to say

00:32:05.220 --> 00:32:05.519
 to you,

00:32:05.579 --> 00:32:06.299
 if you're a visitor

00:32:06.299 --> 00:32:07.359
 or you're a relative

00:32:07.359 --> 00:32:08.059
 of a new member

00:32:08.059 --> 00:32:08.399
 here,

00:32:08.400 --> 00:32:10.460
 you've got to

00:32:10.460 --> 00:32:11.240
 do your part

00:32:11.240 --> 00:32:11.920
 to feel at home.

00:32:13.680 --> 00:32:14.180
 You've got to

00:32:14.180 --> 00:32:14.860
 get involved.

00:32:16.120 --> 00:32:16.720
 You will never

00:32:16.720 --> 00:32:17.240
 feel a part of

00:32:17.240 --> 00:32:17.820
 this church family

00:32:17.820 --> 00:32:18.500
 if all you come

00:32:18.500 --> 00:32:19.100
 to is the worship

00:32:19.100 --> 00:32:19.480
 service.

00:32:21.040 --> 00:32:21.540
 You've got to

00:32:21.540 --> 00:32:22.200
 get involved.

00:32:22.440 --> 00:32:23.200
 In small groups,

00:32:23.259 --> 00:32:23.460
 you've got to

00:32:23.460 --> 00:32:24.100
 even get involved

00:32:24.100 --> 00:32:24.620
 with people.

00:32:24.619 --> 00:32:26.399
 And then you've

00:32:26.399 --> 00:32:26.699
 got to be

00:32:26.699 --> 00:32:27.299
 patient

00:32:27.299 --> 00:32:29.199
 and give it

00:32:29.199 --> 00:32:29.619
 time.

00:32:30.039 --> 00:32:30.839
 Because relationships

00:32:30.839 --> 00:32:31.639
 don't just

00:32:31.639 --> 00:32:34.259
 birth and blossom

00:32:34.259 --> 00:32:34.899
 overnight.

00:32:34.900 --> 00:32:36.560
 Now, if you're

00:32:36.560 --> 00:32:37.140
 a long-time

00:32:37.140 --> 00:32:37.440
 member,

00:32:38.840 --> 00:32:39.240
 some of these

00:32:39.240 --> 00:32:40.060
 old members

00:32:40.060 --> 00:32:40.640
 I was referring

00:32:40.640 --> 00:32:41.240
 to a while ago,

00:32:42.400 --> 00:32:43.640
 I encourage you,

00:32:44.600 --> 00:32:45.840
 make a real

00:32:45.840 --> 00:32:47.519
 effort to get

00:32:47.519 --> 00:32:48.240
 to know

00:32:48.240 --> 00:32:50.400
 new members.

00:32:52.380 --> 00:32:52.900
 There's been

00:32:52.900 --> 00:32:53.380
 people at

00:32:53.380 --> 00:32:54.100
 Village Church

00:32:54.100 --> 00:32:54.759
 since we've

00:32:54.759 --> 00:32:55.160
 been there

00:32:55.160 --> 00:32:56.480
 that have come

00:32:56.480 --> 00:32:57.200
 up to us

00:32:57.200 --> 00:32:57.780
 and just

00:32:57.780 --> 00:32:58.880
 introduced

00:32:58.880 --> 00:32:59.360
 themselves,

00:32:59.480 --> 00:32:59.880
 tell us what

00:32:59.880 --> 00:33:00.440
 they do.

00:33:01.040 --> 00:33:01.620
 We've met

00:33:01.620 --> 00:33:02.420
 people who are

00:33:02.420 --> 00:33:03.660
 retired like us

00:33:03.660 --> 00:33:04.700
 and they want

00:33:04.700 --> 00:33:04.880
 to know,

00:33:04.960 --> 00:33:05.100
 you know,

00:33:05.100 --> 00:33:05.620
 where are you

00:33:05.620 --> 00:33:06.180
 from?

00:33:06.279 --> 00:33:07.040
 And they tell

00:33:07.040 --> 00:33:07.300
 us about

00:33:07.300 --> 00:33:07.800
 themselves.

00:33:08.060 --> 00:33:08.759
 They make

00:33:08.759 --> 00:33:09.300
 it a point.

00:33:12.380 --> 00:33:13.080
 And they've

00:33:13.080 --> 00:33:13.700
 helped us

00:33:13.700 --> 00:33:15.540
 to get to

00:33:15.540 --> 00:33:16.140
 know them,

00:33:17.279 --> 00:33:17.820
 break down

00:33:17.820 --> 00:33:18.540
 some barriers,

00:33:18.720 --> 00:33:19.560
 some fears.

00:33:21.560 --> 00:33:22.019
 I want to

00:33:22.019 --> 00:33:22.519
 encourage you,

00:33:22.580 --> 00:33:22.980
 long-time

00:33:22.980 --> 00:33:23.320
 members,

00:33:24.240 --> 00:33:24.860
 you have a

00:33:24.860 --> 00:33:25.480
 responsibility

00:33:25.480 --> 00:33:26.519
 before God

00:33:26.519 --> 00:33:28.940
 to welcome

00:33:28.940 --> 00:33:30.000
 new members

00:33:30.000 --> 00:33:30.820
 into this

00:33:30.820 --> 00:33:32.040
 church and

00:33:32.040 --> 00:33:32.840
 to help

00:33:32.840 --> 00:33:33.420
 them.

00:33:33.660 --> 00:33:35.680
 belong.

00:33:36.640 --> 00:33:37.340
 Feel like

00:33:37.340 --> 00:33:39.019
 this is my

00:33:39.019 --> 00:33:40.240
 church family.

00:33:41.620 --> 00:33:41.940
 Now,

00:33:42.740 --> 00:33:43.640
 loving one

00:33:43.640 --> 00:33:44.040
 another like

00:33:44.040 --> 00:33:45.640
 Jesus is

00:33:45.640 --> 00:33:46.200
 not something

00:33:46.200 --> 00:33:46.519
 that comes

00:33:46.519 --> 00:33:47.460
 naturally to

00:33:47.460 --> 00:33:49.019
 us and

00:33:49.019 --> 00:33:49.360
 it's not

00:33:49.360 --> 00:33:49.680
 easy.

00:33:50.759 --> 00:33:51.420
 The last

00:33:51.420 --> 00:33:51.759
 thing we're

00:33:51.759 --> 00:33:51.820
 going to

00:33:51.820 --> 00:33:52.279
 look at is

00:33:52.279 --> 00:33:53.140
 Jesus promises

00:33:53.140 --> 00:33:53.680
 that God

00:33:53.680 --> 00:33:54.060
 will give us

00:33:54.060 --> 00:33:54.640
 what we need

00:33:54.640 --> 00:33:55.140
 to do.

00:33:55.580 --> 00:33:56.480
 We can love

00:33:56.480 --> 00:33:56.860
 one another

00:33:56.860 --> 00:33:57.320
 as he loves

00:33:57.320 --> 00:33:57.660
 us.

00:33:58.600 --> 00:33:58.779
 Fourth,

00:33:59.240 --> 00:34:00.140
 Jesus promises

00:34:00.140 --> 00:34:01.300
 us new power

00:34:01.300 --> 00:34:01.820
 to love,

00:34:02.140 --> 00:34:02.759
 the power of

00:34:02.759 --> 00:34:03.380
 the Holy Spirit.

00:34:04.259 --> 00:34:04.960
 Jesus went

00:34:04.960 --> 00:34:05.360
 on that

00:34:05.360 --> 00:34:06.060
 same night,

00:34:06.240 --> 00:34:06.820
 John chapter

00:34:06.820 --> 00:34:07.460
 14,

00:34:07.580 --> 00:34:08.019
 beginning in

00:34:08.019 --> 00:34:08.500
 verse 15,

00:34:08.559 --> 00:34:08.920
 he says

00:34:08.920 --> 00:34:09.180
 this,

00:34:09.519 --> 00:34:09.900
 if you

00:34:09.900 --> 00:34:10.539
 love me,

00:34:10.980 --> 00:34:11.440
 you will

00:34:11.440 --> 00:34:11.900
 keep my

00:34:11.900 --> 00:34:12.440
 commandments

00:34:12.440 --> 00:34:13.700
 and I

00:34:13.700 --> 00:34:14.099
 will ask

00:34:14.099 --> 00:34:14.619
 the Father

00:34:14.619 --> 00:34:15.220
 and he

00:34:15.220 --> 00:34:15.579
 will give

00:34:15.579 --> 00:34:16.099
 you another

00:34:16.099 --> 00:34:16.659
 helper to

00:34:16.659 --> 00:34:17.059
 be with you

00:34:17.059 --> 00:34:17.360
 forever.

00:34:17.720 --> 00:34:18.280
 Even the

00:34:18.280 --> 00:34:18.880
 spirit of

00:34:18.880 --> 00:34:19.280
 truth,

00:34:19.639 --> 00:34:20.180
 whom the

00:34:20.180 --> 00:34:20.740
 world cannot

00:34:20.740 --> 00:34:21.280
 receive,

00:34:21.519 --> 00:34:22.000
 because it

00:34:22.000 --> 00:34:22.539
 neither sees

00:34:22.539 --> 00:34:22.920
 him or

00:34:22.920 --> 00:34:23.440
 knows him,

00:34:23.700 --> 00:34:24.119
 you know

00:34:24.119 --> 00:34:24.480
 him for

00:34:24.480 --> 00:34:25.039
 he dwells

00:34:25.039 --> 00:34:25.480
 with you

00:34:25.480 --> 00:34:25.980
 and will

00:34:25.980 --> 00:34:26.619
 be in you.

00:34:26.619 --> 00:34:28.579
 ever since

00:34:28.579 --> 00:34:28.880
 the day

00:34:28.880 --> 00:34:29.519
 of Pentecost,

00:34:29.579 --> 00:34:29.759
 you read

00:34:29.759 --> 00:34:30.259
 about Acts

00:34:30.259 --> 00:34:30.539
 2,

00:34:30.739 --> 00:34:31.119
 when a

00:34:31.119 --> 00:34:31.659
 person becomes

00:34:31.659 --> 00:34:32.039
 a Christian,

00:34:32.159 --> 00:34:32.539
 the spirit

00:34:32.539 --> 00:34:32.940
 of God

00:34:32.940 --> 00:34:33.460
 comes to

00:34:33.460 --> 00:34:34.420
 live within

00:34:34.420 --> 00:34:34.699
 them.

00:34:34.859 --> 00:34:35.219
 The spirit

00:34:35.219 --> 00:34:35.539
 of God

00:34:35.539 --> 00:34:35.960
 lives in

00:34:35.960 --> 00:34:36.219
 you and

00:34:36.219 --> 00:34:36.579
 me if

00:34:36.579 --> 00:34:36.679
 we're

00:34:36.679 --> 00:34:37.119
 Christians.

00:34:38.019 --> 00:34:38.619
 Now Paul

00:34:38.619 --> 00:34:39.380
 explains how

00:34:39.380 --> 00:34:40.019
 we're empowered

00:34:40.019 --> 00:34:40.500
 by the Holy

00:34:40.500 --> 00:34:40.799
 Spirit.

00:34:41.059 --> 00:34:41.739
 He says this

00:34:41.739 --> 00:34:42.579
 in Romans 5,

00:34:42.879 --> 00:34:43.299
 he says,

00:34:43.379 --> 00:34:44.079
 God's love

00:34:44.079 --> 00:34:44.739
 has been poured

00:34:44.739 --> 00:34:46.059
 into our

00:34:46.059 --> 00:34:47.099
 hearts through

00:34:47.099 --> 00:34:47.459
 the Holy

00:34:47.459 --> 00:34:49.019
 Spirit who

00:34:49.019 --> 00:34:49.299
 has been

00:34:49.299 --> 00:34:50.419
 given to

00:34:50.419 --> 00:34:50.819
 us.

00:34:52.219 --> 00:34:53.059
 God's love

00:34:53.059 --> 00:34:53.619
 has been poured

00:34:53.619 --> 00:34:54.059
 into our

00:34:54.059 --> 00:34:54.879
 hearts through

00:34:54.879 --> 00:34:55.279
 the Holy

00:34:55.279 --> 00:34:57.199
 Spirit who

00:34:57.199 --> 00:34:57.399
 has been

00:34:57.399 --> 00:34:57.819
 given to

00:34:57.819 --> 00:34:58.139
 us.

00:35:00.139 --> 00:35:00.859
 If you're

00:35:00.859 --> 00:35:01.279
 a Christian,

00:35:02.459 --> 00:35:03.339
 you can love

00:35:03.339 --> 00:35:03.939
 others as

00:35:03.939 --> 00:35:04.759
 Jesus loves

00:35:04.759 --> 00:35:05.500
 you because

00:35:05.500 --> 00:35:05.899
 the Holy

00:35:05.899 --> 00:35:06.239
 Spirit,

00:35:06.339 --> 00:35:06.719
 the spirit

00:35:06.719 --> 00:35:07.199
 of God,

00:35:07.519 --> 00:35:07.859
 the spirit

00:35:07.859 --> 00:35:08.519
 of Christ

00:35:08.519 --> 00:35:11.059
 will enable

00:35:11.059 --> 00:35:11.399
 you.

00:35:11.739 --> 00:35:12.779
 I love

00:35:12.779 --> 00:35:13.219
 what Paul

00:35:13.219 --> 00:35:13.619
 says in

00:35:13.619 --> 00:35:13.979
 Philippians

00:35:13.979 --> 00:35:14.219
 2,

00:35:14.279 --> 00:35:16.039
 13 about

00:35:16.039 --> 00:35:16.619
 God giving

00:35:16.619 --> 00:35:17.059
 us the

00:35:17.059 --> 00:35:17.639
 desire and

00:35:17.639 --> 00:35:18.159
 the ability

00:35:18.159 --> 00:35:18.639
 to please

00:35:18.639 --> 00:35:18.839
 him.

00:35:18.939 --> 00:35:19.139
 I want you

00:35:19.139 --> 00:35:19.399
 to look at

00:35:19.399 --> 00:35:19.619
 this.

00:35:20.639 --> 00:35:21.059
 For it is

00:35:21.059 --> 00:35:21.519
 God who

00:35:21.519 --> 00:35:21.959
 works in

00:35:21.959 --> 00:35:22.619
 you both

00:35:22.619 --> 00:35:23.399
 to will,

00:35:23.579 --> 00:35:24.139
 to want,

00:35:24.259 --> 00:35:24.959
 to desire,

00:35:25.379 --> 00:35:26.119
 and to

00:35:26.119 --> 00:35:28.079
 work for

00:35:28.079 --> 00:35:28.719
 his good

00:35:28.719 --> 00:35:29.159
 pleasure.

00:35:29.959 --> 00:35:30.739
 We can

00:35:30.739 --> 00:35:31.419
 love one

00:35:31.419 --> 00:35:31.879
 another in

00:35:31.879 --> 00:35:32.279
 our church

00:35:32.279 --> 00:35:33.979
 family if

00:35:33.979 --> 00:35:34.439
 we want

00:35:34.439 --> 00:35:36.619
 to because

00:35:36.619 --> 00:35:36.959
 the Holy

00:35:36.959 --> 00:35:37.639
 Spirit living

00:35:37.639 --> 00:35:38.579
 within us

00:35:38.579 --> 00:35:40.339
 will help

00:35:40.339 --> 00:35:40.739
 us.

00:35:41.739 --> 00:35:42.039
 He'll give

00:35:42.039 --> 00:35:42.359
 us the

00:35:42.359 --> 00:35:43.099
 desire to

00:35:43.099 --> 00:35:43.379
 love.

00:35:44.819 --> 00:35:45.439
 He'll give

00:35:45.439 --> 00:35:45.699
 us the

00:35:45.699 --> 00:35:46.319
 ability to

00:35:46.319 --> 00:35:47.039
 do things

00:35:47.039 --> 00:35:47.659
 to demonstrate

00:35:47.659 --> 00:35:48.399
 our love

00:35:48.399 --> 00:35:51.079
 if we'll

00:35:51.079 --> 00:35:51.679
 obey him.

00:35:53.500 --> 00:35:54.039
 You know,

00:35:54.079 --> 00:35:54.459
 we're never

00:35:54.459 --> 00:35:54.899
 going to love

00:35:54.899 --> 00:35:55.319
 one another

00:35:55.319 --> 00:35:56.959
 perfectly like

00:35:56.959 --> 00:35:57.739
 Jesus loves

00:35:57.739 --> 00:35:58.139
 us.

00:35:59.519 --> 00:36:00.339
 No one can

00:36:00.339 --> 00:36:00.799
 love like

00:36:00.799 --> 00:36:01.379
 he loves

00:36:01.379 --> 00:36:01.919
 exactly.

00:36:02.919 --> 00:36:03.599
 But if we

00:36:03.599 --> 00:36:04.239
 make it our

00:36:04.239 --> 00:36:04.839
 goal, our

00:36:04.839 --> 00:36:05.579
 desire, we

00:36:05.579 --> 00:36:06.159
 pray, we

00:36:06.159 --> 00:36:06.699
 ask God to

00:36:06.699 --> 00:36:07.099
 help us, we

00:36:07.099 --> 00:36:07.500
 put forth

00:36:07.500 --> 00:36:08.500
 effort, we

00:36:08.500 --> 00:36:09.299
 can love

00:36:09.300 --> 00:36:09.780
 one another

00:36:09.780 --> 00:36:10.240
 by the

00:36:10.240 --> 00:36:10.620
 power of

00:36:10.620 --> 00:36:10.840
 the Holy

00:36:10.840 --> 00:36:12.860
 Spirit to

00:36:12.860 --> 00:36:13.539
 some degree.

00:36:14.700 --> 00:36:15.340
 All of

00:36:15.340 --> 00:36:15.720
 us.

00:36:16.760 --> 00:36:16.960
 And I

00:36:16.960 --> 00:36:17.260
 want to ask

00:36:17.260 --> 00:36:17.440
 you now,

00:36:17.480 --> 00:36:17.860
 will you make

00:36:17.860 --> 00:36:18.280
 that commitment

00:36:18.280 --> 00:36:18.740
 this morning?

00:36:19.860 --> 00:36:20.240
 Will you

00:36:20.240 --> 00:36:20.960
 ask God to

00:36:20.960 --> 00:36:22.400
 help you to

00:36:22.400 --> 00:36:22.920
 love your

00:36:22.920 --> 00:36:23.519
 brothers and

00:36:23.519 --> 00:36:24.039
 sisters in

00:36:24.039 --> 00:36:24.860
 Christ first

00:36:24.860 --> 00:36:25.300
 in this

00:36:25.300 --> 00:36:25.780
 church?

00:36:27.039 --> 00:36:28.039
 To love

00:36:28.039 --> 00:36:29.900
 that Jesus

00:36:29.900 --> 00:36:30.400
 has shown

00:36:30.400 --> 00:36:30.660
 you.

00:36:32.420 --> 00:36:33.019
 Will you

00:36:33.019 --> 00:36:33.920
 also ask God

00:36:33.920 --> 00:36:34.300
 to help you

00:36:34.300 --> 00:36:34.860
 to love

00:36:34.860 --> 00:36:35.539
 the people

00:36:35.539 --> 00:36:35.840
 in your

00:36:35.840 --> 00:36:37.180
 house, in

00:36:37.180 --> 00:36:37.640
 your home?

00:36:38.500 --> 00:36:39.120
 That same

00:36:39.120 --> 00:36:40.140
 kind of love,

00:36:42.039 --> 00:36:42.740
 a sacrificial

00:36:42.740 --> 00:36:44.000
 love, a

00:36:44.000 --> 00:36:44.640
 serving love.

00:36:45.480 --> 00:36:45.820
 I want to

00:36:45.820 --> 00:36:46.539
 close by

00:36:46.539 --> 00:36:48.240
 reading the

00:36:48.240 --> 00:36:48.860
 best description

00:36:48.860 --> 00:36:49.200
 of Christian

00:36:49.200 --> 00:36:49.900
 love ever

00:36:49.900 --> 00:36:50.760
 written.

00:36:51.460 --> 00:36:51.740
 It's in

00:36:51.740 --> 00:36:52.260
 1 Corinthians

00:36:52.260 --> 00:36:53.320
 13, beginning

00:36:53.320 --> 00:36:54.120
 in verse 4.

00:36:54.760 --> 00:36:55.720
 Paul writes,

00:36:56.340 --> 00:36:56.780
 love is

00:36:56.780 --> 00:36:58.120
 patient and

00:36:58.120 --> 00:36:58.640
 kind.

00:36:59.039 --> 00:36:59.460
 Love does

00:36:59.460 --> 00:37:00.019
 not envy

00:37:00.019 --> 00:37:00.660
 or boast.

00:37:01.000 --> 00:37:01.460
 It is not

00:37:01.460 --> 00:37:02.480
 arrogant or

00:37:02.480 --> 00:37:02.860
 rude.

00:37:03.160 --> 00:37:03.700
 It does not

00:37:03.700 --> 00:37:04.280
 insist on

00:37:04.280 --> 00:37:04.700
 its own

00:37:04.700 --> 00:37:05.060
 way.

00:37:05.340 --> 00:37:05.900
 It is not

00:37:05.900 --> 00:37:07.080
 irritable or

00:37:07.080 --> 00:37:07.740
 resentful.

00:37:07.980 --> 00:37:08.540
 It does not

00:37:08.540 --> 00:37:09.240
 rejoice at

00:37:09.240 --> 00:37:09.820
 wrongdoing,

00:37:10.000 --> 00:37:10.800
 but rejoices

00:37:10.800 --> 00:37:11.300
 with the

00:37:11.300 --> 00:37:11.640
 truth.

00:37:12.260 --> 00:37:13.140
 Love bears

00:37:13.140 --> 00:37:14.000
 all things,

00:37:14.360 --> 00:37:15.200
 believes all

00:37:15.200 --> 00:37:15.640
 things,

00:37:15.940 --> 00:37:16.640
 hopes all

00:37:16.640 --> 00:37:17.060
 things,

00:37:17.420 --> 00:37:18.360
 endures all

00:37:18.360 --> 00:37:18.800
 things.

00:37:19.160 --> 00:37:20.160
 Love never

00:37:20.160 --> 00:37:20.980
 ends.

00:37:21.320 --> 00:37:21.820
 That's how

00:37:21.820 --> 00:37:22.540
 Jesus loves

00:37:22.540 --> 00:37:22.860
 us.

00:37:24.580 --> 00:37:25.180
 I encourage

00:37:25.180 --> 00:37:25.500
 you now,

00:37:25.580 --> 00:37:26.260
 ask God to

00:37:26.260 --> 00:37:26.820
 help you

00:37:26.820 --> 00:37:28.180
 to show

00:37:28.180 --> 00:37:28.800
 that kind

00:37:28.800 --> 00:37:29.240
 of love

00:37:29.240 --> 00:37:29.620
 to your

00:37:29.620 --> 00:37:30.940
 family and

00:37:30.940 --> 00:37:31.500
 your church

00:37:31.500 --> 00:37:32.880
 family every

00:37:32.880 --> 00:37:33.300
 day.

00:37:33.300 --> 00:37:34.300
 let's pray

00:37:34.300 --> 00:37:34.580
 together.

00:37:35.220 --> 00:37:35.740
 Father,

00:37:36.460 --> 00:37:37.900
 we need

00:37:37.900 --> 00:37:39.000
 help to

00:37:39.000 --> 00:37:39.480
 love like

00:37:39.480 --> 00:37:39.840
 Jesus

00:37:39.840 --> 00:37:40.660
 loved.

00:37:41.519 --> 00:37:41.980
 But we

00:37:41.980 --> 00:37:42.480
 know from

00:37:42.480 --> 00:37:43.120
 the promise

00:37:43.120 --> 00:37:43.500
 of your

00:37:43.500 --> 00:37:44.100
 word that

00:37:44.100 --> 00:37:44.480
 you have

00:37:44.480 --> 00:37:45.060
 given us

00:37:45.060 --> 00:37:45.460
 all we

00:37:45.460 --> 00:37:45.920
 need in

00:37:45.920 --> 00:37:46.039
 the

00:37:46.039 --> 00:37:46.420
 indwelling

00:37:46.420 --> 00:37:47.079
 Holy Spirit.

00:37:48.300 --> 00:37:49.000
 You have

00:37:49.000 --> 00:37:49.519
 poured your

00:37:49.519 --> 00:37:50.139
 love into

00:37:50.139 --> 00:37:50.800
 us through

00:37:50.800 --> 00:37:51.119
 him.

00:37:52.159 --> 00:37:52.539
 So we

00:37:52.539 --> 00:37:53.079
 pray now,

00:37:53.159 --> 00:37:53.440
 Father,

00:37:54.280 --> 00:37:55.340
 convict us

00:37:55.340 --> 00:37:55.619
 of our

00:37:55.619 --> 00:37:55.900
 sin.

00:37:57.760 --> 00:37:58.440
 Help us

00:37:58.440 --> 00:37:58.780
 to be

00:37:58.780 --> 00:37:59.039
 truly

00:37:59.039 --> 00:37:59.800
 repentant of

00:37:59.800 --> 00:38:00.420
 indifference,

00:38:00.539 --> 00:38:01.180
 of unconcern,

00:38:01.280 --> 00:38:01.720
 of a lack

00:38:01.720 --> 00:38:02.180
 of love.

00:38:03.440 --> 00:38:04.119
 Help us,

00:38:04.320 --> 00:38:04.500
 Father, to

00:38:04.500 --> 00:38:04.860
 make the

00:38:04.860 --> 00:38:05.599
 commitment that

00:38:05.599 --> 00:38:06.340
 by your

00:38:06.340 --> 00:38:07.260
 grace, by

00:38:07.260 --> 00:38:07.860
 the power of

00:38:07.860 --> 00:38:08.340
 your Spirit,

00:38:08.780 --> 00:38:09.340
 we will put

00:38:09.340 --> 00:38:09.800
 forth the

00:38:09.800 --> 00:38:10.480
 effort to

00:38:10.480 --> 00:38:11.280
 love, to

00:38:11.280 --> 00:38:12.180
 meet needs,

00:38:12.179 --> 00:38:13.159
 and really

00:38:13.159 --> 00:38:14.259
 work on

00:38:14.259 --> 00:38:14.739
 doing what

00:38:14.739 --> 00:38:15.619
 we can to

00:38:15.619 --> 00:38:16.119
 make this

00:38:16.119 --> 00:38:17.599
 one church

00:38:17.599 --> 00:38:18.619
 family,

00:38:18.859 --> 00:38:20.000
 brothers and

00:38:20.000 --> 00:38:21.159
 sisters in

00:38:21.159 --> 00:38:21.659
 Christ.

00:38:23.039 --> 00:38:23.940
 Show us all

00:38:23.940 --> 00:38:24.440
 how we should

00:38:24.440 --> 00:38:25.139
 respond to

00:38:25.139 --> 00:38:25.539
 you.

00:38:27.019 --> 00:38:27.819
 Help us not

00:38:27.819 --> 00:38:28.219
 to put it

00:38:28.219 --> 00:38:28.699
 off, but

00:38:28.699 --> 00:38:29.739
 to respond

00:38:29.739 --> 00:38:30.859
 to you now

00:38:30.859 --> 00:38:31.779
 in obedience

00:38:31.779 --> 00:38:33.219
 and go all

00:38:33.219 --> 00:38:33.579
 and put it

00:38:33.579 --> 00:38:34.259
 into practice.

00:38:35.159 --> 00:38:35.960
 Put it into

00:38:35.960 --> 00:38:36.940
 practice in our

00:38:36.940 --> 00:38:37.659
 church family as

00:38:37.659 --> 00:38:37.899
 well.

00:38:38.819 --> 00:38:39.279
 It's in Jesus'

00:38:39.440 --> 00:38:39.819
 name that we

00:38:39.819 --> 00:38:40.159
 pray.

00:38:40.839 --> 00:38:41.159
 Amen.