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 It's a privilege this morning to have Dr. Rob Green who is Pastor Saul's son and Peggy's son.

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! That is an actual fact.

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 Late breaking but we are thankful for the blessing of having Rob with us.

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 For some we have watched him grow up and minister in many different ways both here and other places.

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 Rob preached at Pastor Saul's ordination and very appropriately this morning as well.

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 Well thank you for the opportunity to give me to speak this morning.

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 In a stroke of irony today is not only my dad's official retirement but it's also his birthday.

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 So for those of you who hadn't realized that today is his birthday.

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 And it truly is my joy and privilege to be here.

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 Not only to celebrate this day with my parents but also as a former member of this church.

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 As Pastor Kenroyer mentioned my family actually moved here in 1985 and I joined in 1987.

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 And was here until 1997 when Stephanie and I moved off to go to seminary.

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 Now speaking of seminary I have to admit that they didn't teach me exactly how to do retirement messages.

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 Baptize a person? Yep.

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 Solemize a wedding? Yep.

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 Speak at a funeral? Yep.

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 And those skills are important. I mean after all people do not appreciate if you get them confused.

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 It's also true that if you don't handle those appropriately then you end up on America's Funniest Home Videos.

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 And so those skills certainly are important but a retirement message not exactly.

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 And so as I began to think about this particular day I found it difficult to find just the right passage.

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 I considered 2 Timothy 4-7 which says I have competed well, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith.

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 The picture is of course a runner crossing the finish line and heading for the prize.

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 It is a beautiful picture of a person's life who has lived well for Christ.

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 But you know that this passage was penned when Paul was on death row.

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 It was to our knowledge the last of his writings.

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 And so if I preached that passage it would sound like my dad is about ready for death rather than retirement.

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 No, it's certainly true that my dad is going to slow down his pace probably.

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 He's had a job since he was 14 years old.

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 But it's not true that retirement is going to mean playing shuffleboard, reminiscing about the days when men were men,

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 or discussing how he walked barefoot to school uphill both ways.

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 Right, nor is it going to mean sitting idle waiting for the curse of death to finally take its course.

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 His retirement will be an active one.

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 He will still be involved in many of the same ways in which he is involved today.

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 At the very same time he is going to allow the church to hire another man whom God will use to move the ministry forward.

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 And so, quite frankly, 2 Timothy 4, 7 just didn't quite cut it.

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 Then I considered the end of Romans 13, which says,

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 Give to honor the person to whom honor is due.

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 Or a similar passage, and certainly there would be something appropriate for that.

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 There are certainly times and places for those kinds of messages.

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 They are in the Bible, of course.

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 However, I chose not to do that purely for selfish reasons.

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 You see, I did not want my dad to fuss at me for the next 20 years telling me how I messed up his retirement message

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 because I focused too much on him.

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 So, I'll let Pastor Kenoyer do that and let my dad fuss at him.

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 So, that left me in a bit of a pickle.

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 What text could I use this morning to acknowledge the work of God and, at the same time, to encourage all of you this morning?

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 And with that in mind, I would like to invite you in your Bibles to Philippians 1, verse 1.

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 Philippians 1, verse 1.

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 I'll be reading out of the New American Standard.

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 As you remember, Philippians is a book that was written during Paul's time when he was imprisoned in Rome.

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 It meant that he had been under a house arrest type environment for a period roughly of four to five years at this point.

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 And the church in Philippi had recently sent him a gift.

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 And Paul was writing back thanking them for that particular gift.

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 Now, let me pick up the text beginning in verse 1.

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 Paul and Timothy, bondservants of Christ Jesus, to all the saints in Christ Jesus who are in Philippi, including the overseers and deacons,

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 grace to you and peace from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ.

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 I thank my God in all my remembrance of you, always offering prayer with joy in my every prayer for you all,

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 in view of your participation in the gospel from the first day until now.

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 For I am confident of this very thing, that he who began a good work in you will perfect it until the day of Christ Jesus.

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 For it is only right for me to feel this way about you all, because I have you in my heart,

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 since both in my imprisonment and in the defense and confirmation of the gospel you are all partakers of grace with me.

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 For God is my witness, how I long for you all with the affection of Christ Jesus.

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 And this I pray, that your love may abound still more and more in real knowledge and all discernment,

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 so that you may approve the things that are excellent, in order to be sincere and blameless until the day of Christ,

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 having been filled with the fruit of righteousness which comes through Jesus Christ to the glory and praise of God.

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 Now I want you to know, brethren, that my circumstances have turned out for the greater progress of the gospel,

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 so that my imprisonment in the cause of Christ has become well known throughout the whole Praetorian Garden to everyone else,

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 and that most of the brethren, trusting in the Lord because of my imprisonment,

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 have far more courage to speak the word of God without fear.

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 Some, to be sure, are preaching Christ even from envy and strife, but some also from goodwill.

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 The latter do it out of love, knowing that I am appointed for the defense of the gospel.

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 The former proclaim Christ out of selfish ambition rather than from pure motives,

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 thinking to cause me distress in my imprisonment.

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 What then? Only in every way, whether in pretense or in truth, Christ is proclaimed,

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 And in this I will rejoice. Yes, and I will rejoice.

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 For I know that this will turn out for my deliverance through your prayers

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 and the provision of the Spirit of Jesus Christ according to my earnest expectation and hope,

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 that I will not be put to shame in anything, but that with all boldness Christ will even now, as always,

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 be exalted in my body, whether by life or by death.

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 For to me, to live is Christ and to die is gain.

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 But if I am to live on in the flesh, that will mean fruitful labor for me.

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 And I do not know which to choose.

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 But I am hard pressed from both directions, having the desire to depart and to be with Christ,

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 for that is very much better.

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 Yet to remain on in the flesh is more necessary for your sake.

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 Convinced of this, I know that I will remain and continue with you for the progress and joy in the faith,

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 so that your proud confidence in me may abound in Christ Jesus through my coming to you again.

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 Only conduct yourselves in a manner worthy of the gospel of Christ,

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 so that whether I come and see you or remain absent,

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 I will hear that you are standing firm in one spirit with one mind,

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 striving together for the faith of the gospel.

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 In no way alarmed by your opponents, which is the sign of destruction for them,

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 but of salvation for you, and that too from God.

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 For to you it has been granted for Christ's sake, not only to believe in him, but to suffer for his sake,

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 experiencing the same conflict which you saw in me, and now here to be in me.

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 I would like to suggest that in this passage we are going to find four very clear, proper responses

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 that we should have to the retirement of a faithful pastor.

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 Now this text is a little bit longer than I would normally handle,

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 but there are some wonderful ideas here that are important for every one of us.

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 So here's number one.

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 And in the bulletin is the set of notes for all of you if you want to follow along.

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 First proper response.

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 Praise God for his regular and ongoing work in the lives of people.

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 Paul's occasion for writing and for giving thanks and for praising was simply that the church had given a gift to him.

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 That he had sent some provision for him.

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 And in this he writes back and he says, praise God for you.

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 In fact, whenever I think of you, here's what I think.

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 All joy.

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 All joy.

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 I'm excited.

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 I am praiseworthy.

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 I am so thankful to God for what he has done in your life.

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 Our occasion this morning is that my dad is officially leaving the workforce after 52 years.

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 The last 15 as a pastor in this church.

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 And in both cases, the proper resultant action is a prayer of thanksgiving.

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 Thank you, Lord, for what you have done in my dad's life that has resulted in fruitful ministry over the last 15 years.

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 Thank you, Lord, for what you have done in my mom's life as a faithful companion to my dad for the last 45 years.

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 This passage provides us, in fact, some very clear expressions of where that thanks should reside.

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 Thanks to the Lord for his work in my parents' life.

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 It was a work that according to verse 5, as Paul reflects on the church, he says, here's what resulted.

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 When God worked, it resulted in you participating in the gospel.

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 Well, that's exactly what happened with my dad, too.

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 You know, when Paul visited the church, he did so about 10 years prior to the writing of the book of Philippians.

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 On his second missionary journey.

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 And he did what he often did.

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 And that was he would go search, find some people who had some knowledge of Judaism, and then go win them to Christ.

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 Explain to them how the Messiah, the long-awaited Messiah that you were waiting for.

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 Oh, by the way, he's here and his name is Jesus.

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 And you need to repent and to trust in the death, bro, and resurrection of Jesus Christ for your salvation.

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 Now, 10 years later, the church has been active.

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 Paul is imprisoned.

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 And he's writing back and he's thanking God for the reality that that labor was not in vain.

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 That when they came to Christ, it resulted in a new attitude, a new action.

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 It resulted in something different.

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 And that was a participation in the gospel from the first day all the way till that point.

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 My dad came to Christ in 1975.

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 And so this year represents his 40th birthday, so to speak, of his conversion.

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 And I think it's worth a couple of minutes to explain God's work in his life that has resulted in participation in the gospel.

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 One of the watershed moments was when our family moved to this side of town.

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 And in October 1985, we started attending Maranatha, who was led at that time by Bruce Schneider.

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 We were part of a small church plan and had been for many years prior to that.

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 And my dad was faithful to that and we were faithful to it.

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 But growth was quite frankly a little bit hard to come by.

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 And so for the first time in our lives, we were under the clear teaching of scripture.

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 And dad began to grow like a weed.

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 Pastor Kenoyer came shortly after that.

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 And the work that God was doing in my parents' life continued to produce fruit.

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 I can still remember.

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 Huge, three-ring binders full of my dad's daily devotions.

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 And that was very unusual.

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 Because when I was a boy, mom would be the one who was normally reading her Bible.

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 Mom was the one who was normally talking about the Bible.

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 It became obvious that God was doing something in dad's life.

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 I remember his commitment to continuing to grow as he was exposed to more and more truth.

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 In the fall of 1987, my junior year, my dad decides that our family needs to attend Sunday school.

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 I wasn't exactly all that excited about that.

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 I went to Hilliard High School back when there was only one of them.

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 And most of the kids went to school here.

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 And so I, quite frankly, was about as welcome as a snake at a frog convention.

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 But my dad was exercising spiritual leadership.

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 And whether we liked it or not, we had to recognize that God was doing a work in him.

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 I remember when he was elected as a deacon.

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 And he took that role seriously.

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 It was not just a title to hold, a status symbol, or a location of honor.

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 It was a calling.

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 It was a calling to gospel-centered ministry.

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 It was a calling that impacted Saturday morning deacons meetings.

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 It was a calling that impacted church attendance.

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 It was a calling that impacted what he did in the evening.

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 And the more time he spent doing gospel-centered ministry,

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 the less and less time he wanted to invest in other things.

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 Which is why he pursued seminary training.

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 Which is why he pursued counseling training.

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 Which is why he started meeting guys at 6.30 in the morning.

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 And if you knew my dad prior to this point in time, you'd know that's insane.

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 That is absolutely taking the God's work in his life for real.

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 I mean, my dad did not know 6.30 existed on the clock other than in theory prior to these moments.

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 And so here he was getting up at 6.30 to invest in gospel-centered ministry.

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 That was a picture of the work of God.

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 And we should praise him for that.

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 We should praise him.

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 We should praise.

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 That's exactly how Paul reflected on the church.

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 And as he thought of those 10 years, he said,

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 Man, praise God for your work and your life that has resulted in gospel-centered ministry from this point forward.

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 Well, that's happening with my dad, too.

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 And for that, we should praise God.

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 I'm not going to elaborate on all of these stories.

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 But let me just say there were a few things that I tried to change in my dad growing up.

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 And not only did he refuse those efforts, he wasn't really happy about the fact that I was even trying.

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 But when God brought about conviction, God worked in my dad's heart, things changed and never went back.

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 Friends, that's how God changes people.

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 And when you take a minute to reflect on the Lord's work in my dad's life, I hope it causes you to rejoice, to praise,

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 to thank God for choosing to work in his life so that his life was now invested in gospel-centered ministry.

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 You know, there's a couple things I really should mention about my mom here, too.

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 Because as this was going along, mom was getting a different husband.

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 And even if there were some things for the better, it was still different.

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 He was changing careers.

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 He had a nice career as an engineer.

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 And now he was spending all of the money on, like, seminary and, like, books.

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 Well, many of you know that I lead the counseling ministry at Faith.

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 And let me tell you, women are not always happy about the wonderful choices that their husbands make to love Jesus more.

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 And mom embraces that, is excited about that, wants that, encourages that.

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 My mom had to live with the fact that my dad knew a lot of things that she couldn't know, simply because of his position.

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 And that can feel a bit uncomfortable.

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 And yet she trusted dad implicitly.

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 You know, you do not have to be married to do ministry well.

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 But if you're going to be married, you have to marry well to do ministry well.

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 And dad certainly did.

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 And so thank God for his work in my parents' life.

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 Well, the text continued, not only in verse 5 where it says,

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 In other words, it's a work that continues until the day of Christ.

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 Letter B.

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 This is a hopeful promise for the future.

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 And I fully expect dad to use his remaining years to get serious gospel ministry done.

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 And here's why.

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 Because I am confident that God promises to work all the way until the day of Christ.

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 It's not like today is the day that God shuts off his work.

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 Oh, you're retired.

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 It's now time for you to sit back, relax, and be merry.

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 Forget that.

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 It's time to just do a new stage of work.

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 Right?

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 It's a new stage of how it is that God is going to continue to work in me in order to produce God-honoring fruit.

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 So I don't expect dad's fruitful years to end.

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 His gospel-centered ministry years are not over.

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 Because God promises that he is going to work all the way until the day of Christ.

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 Not just to now.

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 It is also a work, a reason to praise God, that binds the family of Christ together.

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 Notice verse 7.

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 For it is only right for me to feel this way about you all, because I have you in my heart, since both in my imprisonment and the defense and confirmation of the gospel, you are partakers of grace with me.

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 For God is my witness, how I long for you all with the affection of Christ Jesus.

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 I love how Paul describes the relationship that he has to the church.

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 It's a very personal note that shows how much he really cares about them.

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 He has them in his heart, he says.

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 They stood with him during difficult times.

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 He longs for them with the affection of Jesus Christ.

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 Here is another work of God.

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 My dad's heart is bound to yours.

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 My parents love Maranatha.

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 This is the place where God has worked.

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 And it is obvious by their desire to stay here.

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 And to continue to bear a harvest among you, because they have an affection for you.

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 You have been there in the days of challenge as well as in days of blessing.

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 And these experiences have bound you together.

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 Now for those of you who only have known my dad for the last 20 years, you don't understand the significance of God's work in that.

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 So let me explain it just a little.

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 My dad is fiercely and always has been fiercely loyal to my mom.

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 Even before he was a Christian.

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 Even before he was saved, he was fiercely loyal to mom.

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 My dad was loyal to my sister and me.

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 Notice I took out the word fiercely.

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 He was fiercely loyal to mom.

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 He was loyal to my sister and I.

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 One little vignette about that is apparently there was a point in time where I was trying to kind of like squeeze in there and get dad to myself.

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 And he kind of picked up on that.

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 And I'll never forget the conversation we had.

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 He said, Rob, and I quote,

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 If you make me choose between your mother and you, then you will always lose.

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 Well then.

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 All right.

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 I guess I understand where the priorities are.

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 There's mom and then there's us.

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 And then here was the next priority.

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 Everybody else.

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 It was mom, my sister and I, and everybody else could take a hike.

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 That was the way it was.

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 And to hear him talk now about Maranatha is nothing short of the work of God.

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 And it's something to praise God for.

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 You see, the first proper response to a day like today is to offer praise.

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 Praise for God's work that resulted in gospel-centered participation and ministry.

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 Praise God that his work results all the way until the day and continues to the day of Christ.

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 Praise God that his work results in binding your hearts together.

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 Now, here's the second response.

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 Verse 9 to 11.

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 Pray that your love might grow so you can decide what is best.

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 See, after Paul praises the Lord for the work in the church, he turns now to a prayer request.

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 The logic of this section is so delightful.

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 And I wish I had like all afternoon to unpack this, but I don't.

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 So I'm just going to give you the short version.

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 And the short version is, notice what it results in.

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 The praise and glory of God.

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 And those of you who have been around Maranatha like forever, remember that this was one of our annual theme songs.

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 Right?

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 You guys remember that?

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 I could actually still sing it.

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 I'm not going to, but I could.

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 Here's what happens.

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 He says, here's the prayer request.

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 He says, first of all, I'm going to praise God.

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 I'm going to give thanks.

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 And then I'm going to pray that your love is characterized by knowledge and discernment.

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 And this I pray, verse 9 says, that your love may abound still more and more.

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 It will grow, continue to grow in real knowledge and discernment.

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 You see, the beginning point of his prayer is that the love granted by God would be the kind of love that is characterized by knowledge and discernment.

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 So many people think of love as a feeling.

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 It's that warm, fuzzy feeling that you get when someone walks in the room, when your heart goes pitter-patter.

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 But here's what the scripture says.

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 This kind of love is the love that we need when we look at a situation that we can properly assess it and then choose the proper course of action.

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 Let me illustrate that.

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 Let's pretend you have a married couple and one of them, let's just pretend for argument's sake, the girl is not being very lovable.

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 I realize that you just have never had that happen.

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 And so we're just going to go with it for argument's sake.

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 But here's what happens.

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 She's just not being very lovable at that particular moment.

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 So what is the husband going to do?

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 You see, the kind of love that is prayed for right here is the kind of love where the husband takes a step back and he thinks maybe one of the reasons she's not being very lovable right now is because she's had to deal with some really hard things.

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 And instead of move in with harshness and instead of move in with confrontation, he decides to move in with grace, with mercy, and with compassion.

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 Instead of being confronting and being tempted to just say, well, you know what, she just needs an attitude adjustment right now.

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 Instead, he decides that the pathway to that confrontation is not aggressive confrontation, but instead mercy, grace, compassion, and leaving room for the work of God to bring about conviction.

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 You see, that's the kind of love that is based on knowledge and discernment.

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 Not just a warm, fuzzy feeling.

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 It's the kind of love that is able to look at circumstances and decide what is best about them.

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 That's what verse 10 says.

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 When you have this kind of love, you may approve the things that are excellent.

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 That is, you can determine what is best.

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 Now, I'll just tell you, I have no interest in living my life thinking solely about what I'm doing.

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 Thinking solely about what is right and what is wrong.

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 I want to live my life in the world of deciding what is good versus what is best.

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 And the only way that I can do that is if my heart is full of love and is characterized by knowledge and discernment.

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 You know, that's true for my dad.

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 And it's true for you.

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 And I am sure that my dad will enjoy a little slower pace.

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 I know that freeing a salary for the church will put you in a wonderful position because you get his service and you get another pastor.

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 That's a two for one deal in my book.

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 But I know this.

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 He is going to need, you are going to need, love characterized by knowledge and discernment in order to do productive, gospel-centered ministry in his retirement.

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 That's what it's going to take.

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 And you're going to need the kind of love that is built on knowledge and discernment not to waste the productive years of your life either.

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 Where you're stuck merely between the right and the wrong instead of moving to the good and the best.

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 Many of you know, I'll just give you some practical illustrations of this.

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 Many of you know I am a graduate of Ohio State.

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 My blood, sweat, tears, as well as my parents' money were given to Ohio State.

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 And I am, to this day, a loyal fan.

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 I live 15 minutes from Purdue University.

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 But I'm still a loyal fan.

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 And so when the national championship game was on, we had a party at our house.

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 We invited all our friends.

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 But one of the lessons I had to learn was this.

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 There are some things a whole lot more important than that.

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 Saturdays used to be given to football.

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 Now they're given to a lot of things.

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 Why?

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 Because I needed love characterized by knowledge and discernment.

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 So that I could approve the things that are not simply okay, but the things that are excellent.

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 I carry a fairly heavy ministry load at faith.

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 And one person once told me I have three jobs all wrapped into one.

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 I think that's an exaggeration.

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 But I do carry a load.

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 But some of that is my fault.

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 I am not assigned everything I do.

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 Some of it I volunteer to do.

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 And I volunteer because I understand that every waking moment needs to be focused on accomplishing something for Christ.

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 Maybe it's preparing a message.

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 Maybe it's teaching.

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 Maybe it's counseling.

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 Maybe it's teaching counseling.

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 Maybe it's spending time with the family.

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 Maybe it's having special time with Stephanie.

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 Maybe it's playing games with folks from our adult Bible fellowships.

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 I recognize that I am much more tempted to sin when I am idle than when I have a plan.

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 But I'm only going to do this.

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 I'm only going to invest like this if my heart is full of love characterized by knowledge and discernment.

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 Now what about you?

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 Let me make a few suggestions.

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 Some of you guys aren't really loving your wife like you should.

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 And you aren't because your love is not characterized by the right thing.

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 It's not characterized by this love associated with knowledge and discernment.

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 And instead it's wait, wait, what's in this for me?

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 What's in it for me?

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 What's in it for me?

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 What's in it for me?

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 Love that results that Paul is praying for.

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 He says here's what the church is to be having.

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 This is the kind of love we as a church body need to have.

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 Is knowledge and discernment.

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 Parents, are you loving your children like you should?

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 Are they loved based on knowledge and discernment?

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 Are you looking for ways to use every square inch of this beautiful property?

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 I was walking around earlier this morning.

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 And just thinking, oh my goodness.

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 I wonder what we could do.

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 Just walk around the yard.

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 Now wouldn't it be amazing if every square inch of the grass was used for gospel centered ministry?

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 What if every square inch of every piece under roof was used for gospel centered ministry?

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 Not just one day a week.

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 Seven days a week.

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 Thinking about what could we possibly do?

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 There's an amazing kitchen.

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 Talk about the towel.

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 Right?

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 The kitchen?

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 I mean it's sweet.

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 So how can you use the kitchen?

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 To get gospel centered ministry done?

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 As often as possible.

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 As regularly as possible.

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 Now some of you might say, but Rob, that's a ton of work.

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 It's a ton of time.

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 That may mean that I have to use part of my time and part of my energy and part of my efforts to do stuff like that.

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 Let me suggest to you that's exactly what Paul's praying for.

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 He's praying that that's exactly what would happen.

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 That your love would be full of knowledge and discernment so that you could approve the things that are excellent.

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 Many of you know that I'm in charge of the biblical counseling training conference at Faith.

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 Some of you have been there.

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 And because of the size of the conference, our school cannot be in session.

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 And so everybody is off that week.

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 And guess what?

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 All of my kids' friends, here's where they are.

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 Disney World.

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 So they're getting Facebook posts and Instagram pictures of, you know, like I'm hanging out with Mickey.

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 And guess what my kids are doing?

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 My kids are serving in the conference.

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 My kids are serving in the conference.

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 And they work.

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 Like their spring break is work.

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 And they start early and they end late.

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 Every day.

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 And there was that one point where I just kind of reflected on that thought, you know, am I really being fair?

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 Am I really handling this right?

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 I mean, boy, I kind of feel bad for my kids that everybody else's kids are going to Disney World and my kids are here.

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 And then I decided, what am I talking about?

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 I mean, I need to smack myself.

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 I mean, that's what the palm of your hand is for, right?

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 Sometimes you just got to whack yourself in the head, right?

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 Every once in a while when you're thinking crazy, you just got to go wham, you know, and start thinking differently.

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 And so I thought, wait a minute, what am I talking about?

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 In fact, they have the privilege of serving pastors from all over the country, all over the world.

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 Many of them who are coming after getting beat up all year long.

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 They're looking for some encouragement and some little cute girl hands them a drink.

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 Praise God for that.

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 Someone works over and delivers all the lunches.

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 Great. Praise God for that.

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 So what did I do?

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 I signed them up for more work.

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 Isn't that right?

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 I mean, absolutely.

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 What are they going to do instead?

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 I'm not trying to set directions for anybody.

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 I'm just simply suggesting that a love characterized by knowledge and discernment results in things that are excellent.

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 Now, the text continues with the result.

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 Here's what happens when you approve the things that are excellent.

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 Something else happens.

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 You get to be sincere and blameless until the day of Christ.

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 And I would hope that's what we would want to be.

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 That we would want to be sincere and blameless until the day of Christ.

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 So we've covered two responses so far.

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 Praise God for his work in my mom and dad's life.

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 To make it gospel centered.

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 That he's going to continue to work all the way to the end.

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 That his work resulted in binding your hearts together.

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 Number two, that we pray.

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 That we pray that our love would grow in knowledge and discernment so that we are able to focus on the right things.

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 To determine not simply between what is right and what is wrong, but between what is good and what is best.

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 Now, here's the third response.

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 Emulate the positive examples of gospel centered thinking.

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 In verses 12 to 26, most people don't connect this to the prayer.

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 I think it's intently connected to the prayer.

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 In other words, what does it look like for a person to actually do this?

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 What does it look like for a person to approve the things that are excellent?

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 And Paul does that right here in verses 12 to 26.

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 Paul makes three judgments in these verses based on gospel priorities that are in turn characterized by knowledgeable and discerning love.

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 Let me just take one minute to talk about each one of them.

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 Here's number one.

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 Progress of the gospel is more important than Paul's personal freedom.

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 If you were in prison for four years, would you write,

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 Now I want you to know, brethren, that my circumstances have turned out for the greater progress of the gospel.

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 You'd be thinking, I'd really like to get out of here.

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 I would like to be released.

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 But Paul has a love that is based on knowledge and discernment.

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 And so he is able to say, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.

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 Wait a minute.

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 I realize that when I'm church planning, I get a church done every three weeks.

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 Okay, I get that.

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 And if you read the book of Acts, that's about what it is.

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 But God has designed this particular time in prison, four years plus, for the greater progress of the gospel.

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 You say, what is that greater progress?

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 Well, the whole praetorian guard has heard about Christ.

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 And that most of the brethren, because of his imprisonment, have far more courage to speak the word of God without fear.

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 He says, praise God for that.

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 Praise God.

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 There's actually more gospel work getting done now because of my imprisonment than would have gotten done if I had been released.

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 He also praises God and shows his discerning love.

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 Love characterized by knowledge and discernment.

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 By saying that proclamation of Christ is more important than silencing the fakers.

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 In verses 15 to 18, he says, hey, look, there are some people who are preaching who do it out of love.

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 They do it for the right reasons.

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 And then there are other people who do it essentially to say to me, you know, hey, look, you know, I hope you're enjoying your house arrest because I'm out here preaching the gospel.

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 Is that okay with you?

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 You know, kind of harming him, kind of like, you know, jabbing him a little bit.

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 And he says, I don't care about that.

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 I don't care about that.

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 Here's what I care about.

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 I care that in every corner of this planet, I care that every square inch of ground there is somebody talking about Jesus.

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 Because, quite frankly, either people repent of their sin or they suffer the consequences of that sin in eternal hell.

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 Those are the only choices.

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 They either repent and they believe in the death, burial, and resurrection of Jesus Christ for their salvation only, or they suffer eternally in hell forever.

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 That's it.

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 That's it.

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 And he says, hey, look, I'm not so much worried about the motivation of the fakers.

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 I'll let God deal with that.

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 Here's what I'm excited about.

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 I'm excited that there's another corner of God's earth where Jesus Christ is proclaimed.

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 That's what I'm for.

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 And he even says this in verses 19 to 26, that serving others is actually more important than enjoying the glories of Christ.

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 I find this to be an amazing choice.

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 I mean, sometimes when I think about heaven, of course, I am excited about that.

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 But on the other hand, I want to provide for my wife.

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 I still want to help raise our kids.

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 I want to ensure, to the degree that I can, that none of my kids marry a goofball.

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 Right?

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 I'm in all for that.

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 However, the Apostle Paul, here's what he says.

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 He's doing this for all the churches.

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 He values that for the churches.

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 When I read the text, did you hear his heart?

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 He says, hey, it would be better for me to enjoy the glories of Christ, but it's better for you if I remain.

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 In other words, he's able to discern between what is good and what is best.

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 And I'm encouraging you to emulate that.

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 Emulate those positive examples.

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 That's why Paul prays.

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 So, how's that profitable for you and me?

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 Well, I want to encourage you to follow the example of the Apostle Paul and those who have walked in his footsteps.

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 And we are celebrating today the Lord's work in my dad's life.

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 Because I believe there is a track record.

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 Especially the last 25 years of gospel priorities.

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 And I think this passage encourages mom and dad to continue to function that way.

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 I think they should not become like Demas who left for the cares of this world, even in retirement.

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 But this passage is also for us.

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 It's a clarion call for us to look at our own lives.

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 To discern where we are giving time and effort and energy.

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 And to decide whether or not that is really about proclaiming Christ or if it's really about something else.

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 For Paul, he just simply has this attitude.

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 Hey, look.

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 I'm excited.

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 I'm in prison.

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 But I'm excited.

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 And I'm excited.

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 My life is characterized by joy because my life is centered on one thing.

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 I've got a mission.

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 I've got a purpose.

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 That gets to the final point that we're going to think about this morning.

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 And that is to contend for the gospel.

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 Let me just read verse 27.

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 It says,

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 Only.

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 Only.

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 Only.

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 Only.

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 Only.

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 Only.

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 Only.

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 Only.

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 Got it?

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 Only.

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 Conduct yourself in a manner worthy of the gospel.

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 If you have been saved by grace, only conduct yourself in a manner worthy of the gospel.

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 There's nothing else worth living for.

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 That's what is worth living for.

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 As we were singing those songs.

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 As we were reflecting.

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 On before the throne of God, I have a perfect plea.

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 A great high priest whose name is love.

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 Whoever pleads for me.

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 Who is that?

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 Jesus.

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 Who is it?

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 Jesus.

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 I have an intercessor.

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 Praise God for that.

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 And so therefore, where is my life focus?

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 Where is my life mission?

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 What am I trying to accomplish?

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 He says this.

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 Only.

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 Conduct yourself in a manner worthy of the gospel.

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 Gives us purpose here.

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 And friends, if there's someone here.

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 You just decided to come for this day.

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 You know my dad.

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 And you have never come to the place where you have repented of your sin.

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 And trusted in the death, bread, and resurrection of Jesus Christ.

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 You know, one of the songs that we sang this morning reminded us.

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 That we don't bring anything.

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 Our hands are raised and what they're full of is just filthy rags.

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 That's all we bring.

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 That's all we've got.

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 But by God's grace, he made a way.

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 He offered something.

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 And those filthy rags are then turned and exchanged for the clothing of the righteousness of Christ.

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 And friends, if you have not ever repented of your sin.

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 Seen your sin as an offense against God.

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 And I want to encourage you to see it today.

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 I want to encourage you to repent.

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 To acknowledge your sin for what it is.

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 And to believe in the death, bread, and resurrection of Jesus Christ as your only hope of salvation.

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 And so when you are standing before the judge of God.

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 And he says, why should I let you into my heaven?

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 You're not giving the answer of, well, I was a really nice person.

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 Yeah, I was really good.

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 You know, I've done a whole lot of good stuff rather than bad.

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 It's here's the answer.

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 I got nothing other than the death, bread, and resurrection of Jesus Christ.

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 It's all I got.

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 And if that's not good enough, I'm not good enough.

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 I want to encourage you.

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 It's either the death, bread, and resurrection of Jesus Christ or nothing.

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 And so for those of us who know Christ.

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 And we know that it's only the death, bread, and resurrection of Jesus Christ or it's nothing.

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 It gives us mission.

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 It gives us purpose.

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 It gives us energy.

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 It gives us a reason to wake up in the morning.

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 It gives us a reason to stand up and fight.

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 To contend.

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 So I'm going to encourage you to be united in your gospel priorities.

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 Even if you face difficulties.

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 That's what Paul says.

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 He says, hey, look, only conduct yourselves in a manner worthy.

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 And don't be worried about your opponents.

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 Don't be worried about suffering.

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 Because if God in his grace chooses to bring about suffering, then he is going to allow that to result in his praise and glory.

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 Assuming you seek to continue to contend for the gospel in the midst of it.

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 I hope a year from now to hear that there are so many servants contending for the gospel that the ministry here is just flourishing.

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 You know, when Jack said, you know, pray for the deacons to cover all of Pastor Saul's work.

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 I couldn't help but think, well, why not pray for everybody?

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 Pray for everybody.

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 Not just the deacons.

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 Everybody.

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 Everybody has to do something.

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 If you're going to contend for the gospel, everybody has to do something.

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 I hope that a year from now, Maranatha is a brighter light in this community and known far and wide as being a gospel-centered place.

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 You want to know where to learn about Jesus?

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 Show up on Treby Road.

00:42:38.320 --> 00:42:43.500
 You want to know what it looks like to develop love based on knowledge and discernment?

00:42:43.600 --> 00:42:44.940
 Show up on Treby Road.

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 And I hope to hear that you've hired a replacement for my dad who will serve as one of the generals.

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 He's marching into war.

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 Fully armed with both the armor and power of God.

00:42:59.440 --> 00:43:04.400
 Now, let me just conclude by offering a word of thanks to you on behalf of my wife and I.

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 Thank you for being a wonderful church family.

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 Yesterday was special because it was the culmination of 30 years of really ministry involvement here.

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 So thank you for doing that.

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 Thank you for being an instrument of growth in his life over the past 30 years.

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 He's not the person that he was 30 years ago.

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 Thank you for accepting his ministry and seeking to learn from it.

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 Paul prayed that when he ministered, he prayed that the people would accept that ministry.

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 So thank you for doing that.

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 Thank you for being financially generous with him and mom so that they could devote their lives to gospel-centered vocational ministry.

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 We appreciate that as his kids.

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 Thank you for giving him the opportunity to continue to serve around here so that he can remain gospel-centered.

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 And then finally, thank you for giving me the chance to speak about God's work in his life and the opportunity to encourage and challenge you.

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 Let's pray.

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 Father, thank you for your amazing work.

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 Thank you that you take us and you accept us as sinners.

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 And you say that you demonstrated your love for us while we were sinners, while we were rebels.

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 And Lord, we thank you for that wonderful privilege.

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 And Lord, as we sang that before the throne of God, we have a perfect high priest whose name is love, whoever intercedes for us.

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 Thank you for that.

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 And Lord, I'm asking now that you would help us to respond to a day like today with praise, with prayer, with emulation, and with focus.

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 In Jesus' name, amen.