While the ushers are finishing taking up the offering, if you're new, let me just say welcome.
If you're back, it's great to see you. Welcome back.
This morning we are looking at 1 Corinthians chapter 16, verses 13 through 24.
That's page 962 in the Pew Bible. Go ahead and turn there with me.
In your own Bible or you can turn there in the Pew Bible.
1 Corinthians 16, verses 13 through 24, page 962.
All right, let me read our text for us.
Be watchful. Stand firm in the faith. Act like men. Be strong. Let all that you do be done in love.
Now I urge you, brothers, you know that the household of Stephanus were the first converts in Achaia and that they have devoted themselves to the service of the saints.
Be subject to such as these and every fellow worker and laborer.
I rejoice at the coming of Stephanus and Fortunatus and Achaicus because they have made up for your absence, for they have refreshed my spirit as well as yours.
Give recognition to such people.
The churches of Achaia send you greetings.
Aquila and Prisca, together with the church in their house, send you hearty greetings in the Lord.
All the brothers send you greetings.
Greet one another with a holy kiss.
I, Paul, write this greeting with my own hand.
If anyone has no love for the Lord, let him be accursed.
Our Lord, come.
The grace of the Lord Jesus be with you.
My love be with you all in Christ Jesus.
Amen.
Let's pray together.
God, we're so thankful for the ways in which you're at work in our city.
God, we thank you for the mentoring program and for the men and women who make that up and for the families and for the children who are a part of it.
God, we just want to pray again for your blessing upon that ministry.
God, we pray that that would be an expression of the love of Christ for our city.
God, would you stir our hearts now as we come to your word, as we come to the end of this great book of 1 Corinthians.
God, would you open our hearts to hear this final exhortation that you have for us in this book.
God, would you come and would you be present by your spirit.
Lord, help us to hear and in hearing, to grow in our trust and love of you and so be changed for your glory.
We pray this in Jesus' name.
Amen.
Well, here we are.
We've come to the end of our series in 1 Corinthians.
1 Corinthians.
How many of you were here last September when we began our journey through this book?
Okay.
We lost half the church during that time, but more people came back.
Good.
Well, here we are.
We've come to the end and we've come to Paul's last word.
What is the one thing that we should have ringing in our ears and stirring our hearts as we come to the end?
And I think verse 14 really sums up the main thrust of Paul's conclusion.
Let all that you do be done in love.
And, you know, as I've been reflecting on that verse and as I've been sort of talking about it with Matt and Greg during the week,
I mean, hasn't that been the underlying theme for this whole book?
If you turn back all the way to chapter 1, to Paul's intro in the book, verses 1 through 9 of chapter 1,
you'll notice that as he's greeting this church in his customary way and as he's giving thanks to God for his work in their midst,
there's one thing in that greeting that's noticeably absent.
In most of the letters that we have from Paul, he begins by thanking God, among other things,
for the love that that church has for one another and for all the saints.
And yet here in 1 Corinthians, the silence is, as it were, deafening.
Paul can thank God for their gifts as he opens this letter,
but it seems at that point he cannot thank God for their love.
And hasn't that absence of love been at the root of nearly all the troubles this church was in?
We've seen kind of week in and week out that Corinth was a church that had a lot of issues.
As they were torn apart over issues of unity and holiness and worship,
under it all, it seems, was a failure of love.
John Chrysostom, the fourth century church father, put it this way, reflecting on verse 14 of our text,
and he really summarizes the main issues of the book.
He says,
There's chapters 8 through 11.
And they would not have boasted about their spiritual gifts.
There's chapters 12 through 14.
It all, it seems, comes down to love.
If love had been present.
But isn't that true for us in the church today?
It's easy to look at a church like Corinth and think,
Wow, they were really messed up.
I'm glad we're not like them.
And yet, amidst all our activity, it's easy for love to be absent.
And you know, if there's one thing that we've learned in 1 Corinthians,
it's that love is never just absent.
It's always replaced by something else.
Instead of doing all that we do in love, we let something else drive us and something else define us.
Again, think back over this journey that we've been on in 1 Corinthians.
When they were torn apart by factions, they had replaced love with eloquence.
A desire for worldly showy wisdom.
And when they despised the weak and ate meat sacrificed to idols,
they had replaced love with a concern for their rights.
And when their worship services had descended into unedifying chaos,
love had been replaced with their gifts.
But how about us?
How do we replace love today?
Sometimes I think it's our overriding desire to look good.
To win approval.
To be thought well of.
And so the church becomes a group of people where everyone hides everything
and puts on a show and tries to look good.
But the result is that we never really change.
Because it's not the real us who shows up on Sundays.
It's the, you know, my own best projection of myself.
It's a sort of holy hologram that I put out for everybody to see.
Instead of my own real honest heart that needs help and needs change.
Or maybe in our midst we replace love with a desire to have control
and to run things our own way.
And so the church as a whole or the ministries that we're involved in
end up being not embassies for the Lord Jesus,
but they end up being our own little personal fiefdoms.
My own little kingdom where I call the shots and trample on everyone else.
But you know, love isn't just replaced by these obviously problematic things
like the need for approval or control.
Love can be lost.
It can be replaced in the name of good things too.
In the name of efficiency.
We need to get more things done as a church.
Let's go, go, go, go, go.
Or we can lose love in the name of excellence.
We want to make sure everything is as best it can possibly be.
And we have this perfectionistic spirit that drives everything
and crowds out real biblical love.
Or it can even happen in the name of evangelistic effectiveness.
We want to reach people fruitfully with the gospel.
So we end up just trampling on one another and losing love.
Now all these things in themselves are good things, right?
We want to be effective and excellent and evangelistically effective.
But if we're not careful, they can squeeze out the thing that ought to characterize
and drive all that we do, which is love.
And of course, it's easy to see that love is easily replaced,
not just in our relationships at church, right?
Think of all your other relationships with your family members,
with your spouse, with your work colleagues, with your roommates.
Are not most of the troubles at root a result of the absence of real,
biblical, resilient love?
And so Paul's going to tell us three things.
Paul's going to tell us about this love as he ends this book,
which is about love.
And the first thing he's going to show us in verse 13 through 14
is that we have to fight for it.
Let all that you do be done in love is not something that just comes naturally, right?
We don't just sort of drift into it.
The tides will take us in every other direction,
into the directions of approval and control or just mere permissiveness.
We don't just drift into love.
We've got to fight for it, Paul says.
And that's why he begins by saying,
be watchful.
Stand firm in the faith.
Act like men.
Be strong.
That's what it takes to do all that you do in love.
Paul here is exhorting us like we're a group of soldiers going into battle.
He's looking at the church and he's like the coach of a football team
in the final seconds of the game.
And they're up by six.
And we're making our last stand on the one-yard line.
And there it is.
The last play of the game.
And they're coming at us with one last drive.
One last charge into our end zone.
And Paul says, you need to stand your ground.
Dig in and fight for this.
Well, let's unpack verse 13 a little bit.
How do we fight to keep love in the driver's seat of all that we do?
First, he says, be watchful.
And watchful here, not just for outside attack or things that can come in and trip you up.
Yes, that's true.
But Paul, I think, means something more.
I think he probably means here, be watchful for the Lord's return.
The same language of being watchful is used very regularly in Paul's letters of being expectant
and looking forward to Christ's coming.
The king is coming.
Victory is on the way.
That's what chapter 15, right before this, was about, right?
Keep your eyes fixed on that great day.
And it will keep you from falling prey to all these love replacements.
Because if something that great and that good is coming,
and if we're assured our place in it through the resurrection of Christ,
then friends, we don't need to worry so much about what people think of us
or whether we're calling the shots
or any of those other selfish replacements for real love.
Focus on that day in the future,
and it will keep you focused in the present, Paul says.
But then we're charged to stand firm in the faith.
Or as we might say today in our lingo,
keep your identity rooted in the gospel.
Stand firm in it.
Don't let the other prevailing winds knock you from it.
Martin Lloyd-Jones, a great 20th century preacher in London,
once said,
Have you realized that most of your unhappiness in life
is due to the fact that you are listening to yourself
instead of talking to yourself?
What he means is this.
We go through most of life
just listening to whatever our inner self happens to be saying.
I'm no good.
I'll never measure up.
No one loves me.
I'll never change.
God couldn't use someone like me.
This is just the way I am.
But instead of listening all the time,
we need to take ourselves up
and be talking to ourselves a bit more.
We need to be preaching the gospel to ourselves.
We need to be telling ourselves what's true.
That we've been bought with a price.
That we're adopted sons and daughters of God
through the Lord Jesus Christ.
That we're beloved children of the king
and ambassadors for his kingdom.
That not a single hair will fall from our heads
without the father's notice.
God's apparently been noticing me a lot
over the last few years.
Okay, three sermons in a row
and I made a bald joke every time.
I'm done.
That we're indwelt by his own spirit.
Given new hearts to love him
and serve him in the world.
That we're sealed for the day of redemption.
That we're guaranteed a place
in the new heavens and the new earth.
And not just some sort of side marginal place,
but a place with Christ
where we will see God face to face
and reign with him forever.
Paul says,
stand firm in the faith.
This is the faith.
And by the way,
just as sort of a little bit of an aside here,
this is why you need to be in a small group.
So we can help each other stand firm in the faith.
Because you can't do this by yourself.
And this is why we should read
and study the Bible regularly on our own.
So we can stand firm in the faith
because we're forgetful.
And we drift.
And we lose our footing.
We need these means of grace.
Not as tokens of our righteousness.
But we need them as means,
as engines to keep us rooted
in what's true about who we really are
and who God really is.
Lastly, we're exhorted here to act like men.
Be strong.
Or as the NIV translates it,
be courageous.
Be strong.
Now the strength here isn't the sort of strength
that some of the Corinthians thought they had
when they called themselves strong
and others weak.
That was really just self-serving pride.
Rather, as you hear this exhortation
to be courageous, be strong,
think of Joshua in the Old Testament.
The newly minted leader of God's people
standing on the verge of the promised land
being charged to lead God's people into battle.
And what does God come and say to Joshua
as he stands there fearful,
maybe even a bit overwhelmed
and paralyzed by what God is calling him to do?
God comes and says,
be strong and courageous.
Why?
For I am with you.
And I won't leave you or forsake you, Joshua.
And if that's true of Joshua then,
then friends, it's true of us today.
Because the risen Lord Jesus has promised
to be with us even to the end of the age.
And if the one who has all authority,
the Lord Jesus Christ, is with us,
then we too can be courageous and strong.
So if we're going to do everything in love,
we'll need to fight for it.
Love is not for the faint of heart.
Especially biblical love.
It's easy to be nice, isn't it?
It's easy to just let people do and be
whatever they decide to do and be
and never offer loving correction.
It's easy to merely tolerate each other
or just ignore each other,
but it's not easy to love.
And it's easy to talk about love, isn't it?
You know, the danger with such an all-encompassing command,
let all that you do be done in love.
The danger with that is that it will just remain an idea.
Some sort of high-floating ideal
that never really hits the ground and takes action.
You know, often we can think,
well, I should be loving to everyone.
And as we think about being loving to everyone,
we end up being loving to no one.
But the rest of Paul's conclusion here
won't let us off the hook so easily.
Yes, we have to fight for it.
That's the first point.
But verses 15 through 22 show us
that we have to exercise it as well.
You have to exercise it.
And where do we start?
Where do we start to let all that we do be done in love?
Start here, Paul says.
Exercise it in real ways,
in the real relationships right in front of you.
Where do we start exercising this resilient,
steadfast love?
Paul says, maybe a little uncomfortably,
first, take the true leaders in your midst,
the ones who are serving and working among you.
Verses 15 through 18 mention Stephanus
and Fortunatus and Achaicus.
These three were members of the church in Corinth
and they were now visiting Paul in Ephesus
and they were most likely the ones
who were going to come back
with this letter of 1 Corinthians
and deliver it on Paul's behalf.
And Paul says to the church,
be subject to these guys
and give recognition to them.
In other words,
start acting toward them
in genuine biblical love.
Now that's a risky thing for Paul to ask, isn't it?
The Corinthian church struggled with idolizing leaders.
And Paul doesn't want a repeat of that.
But you know, as you read between the lines here,
one gets the impression that Stephanus
wasn't a rock star public speaker like Apollos.
And we know he wasn't an apostle like Paul or Peter.
So in other words, Stephanus and these other guys
weren't the sort of famous leaders
that the Corinthians were tempted to idolize
and create little factions and fan clubs over.
Stephanus probably didn't have a blog.
And he probably didn't have a leadership podcast
that everybody tuned into.
And he probably wasn't invited to speak at conferences.
None of those things are bad, right?
But at the end of the day,
what made Stephanus and these other guys
real leaders in the church?
It was that they had devoted themselves, Paul says,
to the service of the saints.
They were workers.
They were laborers, Paul says.
What is it that makes a real leader in Christ's church,
the ones who love Christ and his word,
who faithfully teach the scriptures
and who serve, who work,
who labor for the sake of the saints?
The old saying goes,
how do you tell who the real shepherds are?
And the answer is,
the ones that smell like sheep.
That's one of the questions we ask
when we consider new elders.
And you should prayerfully ask it too
as you think of people to nominate for the eldership.
Who's already shepherding
and laboring and discipling
even without the title?
Who's eldering already?
Who's devoted themselves to the service?
Who smells like sheep?
You know, you get close to Matt and Greg.
You hang out with James.
You get to know Jonathan and Jeff.
And I'll tell you,
they smell.
And if you want to be a leader in Christ's church,
friend, you need to smell too.
But Paul's point here is that
we should start to exercise resilient love
by loving our leaders.
And even though I'm a pastor,
this applies to me too.
I'm a member before I'm an elder.
So I need to do this as well.
And so for all of us,
we should recognize faithful servant leaders.
That is, we should encourage them.
We should honor them.
We should pray for them.
We should thank them.
Leadership can be a very discouraging role
in the church.
And Paul goes on and says,
we should be subject to faithful servant leaders.
That is, we should heed their warnings
and take to heart their encouragements
and we should seek their counsel.
No, this doesn't mean that leaders in the church
are infallible.
It doesn't mean they're above correction.
It doesn't mean they're the absolute authorities.
No, only God and God's word is that.
That's one of the beauties
of having God's authoritative word
is that it demotes every other human authority
and puts us all under the same thing.
No, church leaders aren't perfect,
but they're here for our good.
They've devoted themselves
to the service of the saints
and we should act toward them in love.
But not just leaders.
In verses 19 through 20,
as Paul is sort of sending greetings to Corinth
from the churches in Ephesus
and reminding this very self-centered,
self-elevated church
that they're not doing this on their own,
but they're a part of a worldwide network
of churches,
as he's sending those greetings,
Paul reminds the Corinthians
to start loving one another.
Exercise love with the people
right in front of you,
your living, breathing fellow church members.
Start putting flesh on the bones
of your love right there.
Where do we see that in those verses?
With the very end.
Paul says,
greet one another with a holy kiss.
Now what does that mean?
Well, if you grew up in an Italian family,
you probably get it.
No offense to Italians.
When you come home to family,
what do you get?
You get a big embrace.
You get a kiss on the cheek.
Maybe you get the double kiss on both cheeks.
You sit down,
you eat some lasagna,
whatever.
So translation,
Paul is saying that you need to greet
one another like family.
Like you actually love one another.
Now,
not everyone grew up in a big Italian family,
so not everyone is comfortable
with a literal kiss, right?
I come from a German background.
We're not big on the physical affection thing.
I'm still not so sure how to respond.
When people go in for the polite,
socially acceptable kiss on the cheek,
I get really awkward.
You know,
that's not my thing.
But,
even if we're not literally giving a holy kiss,
we can translate it, right?
What communicates the embrace
and acceptance of family here in our place
and in our time and in our church?
The holy handshake, maybe?
The holy bro hug?
The holy high five?
That's the one I give at youth group.
But, you know,
whatever we do,
friends,
it's actually a very powerful symbol,
as simple as it seems.
If we'll see it for what it is,
it's a symbolic act that says,
here in this place,
under Christ,
we're family.
Even though we come from wildly different backgrounds,
in Christ,
we are brothers and sisters,
brothers,
and I'm going to start loving you
like a brother or a sister should be loved.
Even though I have a busy schedule,
I'm going to make time for you.
I'm going to rearrange some of my priorities
so we can get to know each other
and encourage each other.
I'm going to ask how you're doing
because I really care about how you're doing,
and I want you to give me an honest answer.
I'm going to pray for you,
and I'm going to say,
I'll pray for you,
not just as a way of ending our conversation.
I'll pray for you,
over and out.
No.
I'm going to take time to actually serve you
and meet some of your needs
when I have the opportunity,
even when it's inconvenient.
I'm going to seek forgiveness and reconciliation
when there's a rift between us
or when there's an offense.
I'm not going to sweep stuff under the rug
and hope it goes away.
I'm going to address it in the right way
at the right time.
I'm going to see you as a brother or sister,
and I'm going to treat you accordingly.
And again,
this is where practically getting involved
in a group that's smaller
than our gathering on Sundays
is so critical,
whether it's a small group
or whether it's serving on a ministry team together,
you need to get to know
your fellow church members well enough
so you can actually start to serve them
and love them
and encourage them
in personal and real ways.
The ideal of loving one another,
of doing all that we do in love,
can't just remain an ideal.
It has to be put into practice.
And in order for that to happen,
we have to actually get to know each other.
And we've got to find the times
and the places
and make the sacrifice
to make that happen.
But you know,
at the end of the day,
it's not just love for our leaders
or for our fellow church members.
In verses 21 through 22,
as Paul takes up the pen
from his scribe
and scribbles a few words
in his own hand,
he shows us that our love,
above all,
must be for the Lord Jesus.
He states this principle
in a negative way in verse 22.
If anyone has no love for the Lord,
let him be accursed.
In other words,
what's the necessary mark
of a Christian?
How do you know
someone has saving faith
in the Lord Jesus?
Well, one of the ways you know
is because they love the Lord.
They see Jesus
not just as a means to some end,
but he is the end.
He's not just their savior
who brings them good things,
but he's their treasure.
Paul prays at the end of verse 22,
our Lord, come.
That's the cry of a heart
that loves the Lord.
And it's actually
one of the most ancient prayers
that's come down to us
from the early church.
We want him to come
to make things right,
to complete the victory
that he's won
through his death and resurrection.
We want him to come
and put an end to sin and death.
We want him to come
and we want to be with him,
the one who loved me
and gave himself for me.
We want him to come
so we can see his glory on display,
not just by faith,
but by sight,
so we pray with hearts
that love the Lord.
Come, Lord Jesus.
Let all that you do
be done in love.
First, it's something
we have to fight for.
We won't just drift into it,
but second,
it's something we have to exercise.
We've got to put it
into practice
in concrete ways.
We can't let it
just be a nice idea.
But of course,
as soon as we start
fighting for it,
and definitely
when we start exercising it
with real people,
we realize how hard it is,
don't we?
We realize how costly it is
to let all that you do
be done in love.
And if we try to attempt this
on our own strength,
friends,
I guarantee you,
we will fail.
What Paul has been
laying out here
is impossible
if it just came down to us.
Because we'll fall back
into our old habits
too often.
Our old motivations
will constantly dominate.
And we'll do all that we do
for approval
or for control
or we'll do all that we do
for comfort
or for pleasure.
So we need something
to change us
and we need something
to keep on changing us.
And as Paul puts
the final words
onto this lengthy letter,
he comes back again
to the only thing
that will radically change us.
The thing that we need
to keep coming back to
in order to really do this.
And what is it?
It's the grace
of the Lord Jesus Christ.
Christ.
That's what Paul reminds them
of in verse 23.
And in verse 24,
he sends them his love,
not just generally,
but he says,
my love to you
in Christ Jesus.
It's in him.
So he's telling us again,
he's reminding us again
that real love
flows from our status,
not just of being people
who resolve to be loving,
but from people
who are in Christ.
If we're in Christ,
if we're experiencing
his grace,
if we're in Christ,
then more and more
all that we do
will be done in love.
You see?
Because here's the reality,
and this is the third
and final point
we need to make this morning.
We can't really fight for it
and we can't really exercise it
until we've received it
in a real,
radical,
personal way.
And that's why,
again and again
in this letter,
no matter what the problem
or the issue has been,
whether it's unity
or whether it's holiness
or whether it's
how they care about
weaker members
in their church
or whether it's
how they conduct themselves
in worship,
again and again
and again,
Paul has brought
their sights
back to the gospel.
He's brought before
our eyes again
the Lord Jesus.
Jesus who lived
a life of perfect love,
the life that we couldn't
possibly hope to live
and who in love
went to the cross for us
where Christ exchanged
places with us,
the unrighteous
and the unloving
for the righteous,
the loving one
to bring us to God,
1 Peter will say.
Christ exchanged places
with us on the cross
and then God raised him
from the dead
on the third day
as Lord and as King
so that all who trust in him,
so that all who come
to him in faith
receive a new life
and a new heart
and forgiveness
of sins
and then in a relationship
with him,
seeing that our sins
have been taken away
and he's done all that
for me,
we begin to start living
a life of genuine love.
Because you see friends,
to be sure,
love is costly
and to do all that you do
in love is very costly.
It will cost your time
and your energy
and your resources
but when you live
in light of what Christ
has done for you,
that he's bought you
with a price,
that he's bought you
from sin and death
with the price
of his own life
given as a sacrifice,
when he's expended
and lavished on you
that cost
because he loves you,
and when you're united
to him by faith,
when you're in Christ Jesus,
the implication,
as Paul points to here,
is that there's no question
then of loving
in return.
I mean,
isn't it amazing
that Paul ends this letter
by saying,
my love be with you all
in Christ Jesus?
Corinth was a mess.
It was a total mess.
They were defaming
the name of Christ
left and right
in their life together
and Paul still turns
to them and says,
I love you guys.
Certainly,
nothing in Paul's
human makeup
would have driven him
to say that.
But Paul knew
that he was a sinner
saved by radical grace.
And if that was true
of him,
then how could he not
look out at others
and love them
just the same?
let all that you do
be done in love.
Friends,
as we conclude,
I wonder when people
think about us
as a church,
if they spend time
with us,
if they are in our
sort of orbit
for any length of time,
what is it that we want
them to see?
What is it we want
them to go away with?
The church of Corinth
was a very gifted church,
a very vibrant church,
a very culturally
and socially connected church.
But what Paul wanted
was that they become
a loving church.
Without love,
we are nothing,
as Paul says
so memorably
in 1 Corinthians 13.
Without love,
we're nothing.
Because without love,
our life together
as a church
will produce
no lasting fruit.
Converts will be few.
Disciples will be
malnourished.
But even more tragically,
without love,
we're nothing
because our life
together
will reflect
nothing of the glory
of God
without love.
Because the glory
of God
is displayed
supremely
at the cross
where God
in grace
poured out
his love
upon undeserving
sinners
like you and me.
But the good news
is that Christ
has not left us
devoid of love.
He's not left us
to our own resources.
He has lavished it on us
that we've done
nothing to deserve it.
So friends,
as we seek
as a church
to foster
a movement
of the gospel
here in New Haven,
as we seek
to see God's glory
resound
more and more
and more
in our neighborhoods
and on our campuses
and in our workplaces
and in our friendships
and in our playgroups
on the playgrounds,
as we want to see
Christ exalted
and made much of
and have it roll
like ocean tides
throughout our city,
as we seek
to see God glorified
here in our place
and our time,
the good news
is that as we stay
close to Christ
and as the Spirit
keeps kindling
that fire
of His grace
in our hearts,
then we will do
all that we do
in love.
It will begin
to flow
and our fruit
will last
and God's name
will be praised.
Let's pray.
Lord Jesus,
we do ask
that as we begun
this service,
as we begun
by praying
that You would
open the eyes
of our hearts
to see how wide
and long
and high
and deep
is Your love
for us.
As we begun
by praying
for strength
to grasp
how deep
Your love
is for us,
Lord Jesus,
that's how we end
this morning,
that You would
help us
to get hold
of it
in fresh ways
this morning.
Oh Lord,
break through
our calloused hearts.
Lord,
break through
the familiarity
and help us
to see it anew.
And Lord,
as we launch
out on a new
season,
Lord,
as the fall
begins
and as we
come back
to school
or as we
re-engage
our workplaces,
God,
we pray,
oh,
we pray
that You would
let us
do all
that we do
in love.
And may the world
see it.
And may their
hunger for You
grow
until they
come to
confess Jesus
as Savior
and Lord.
We pray
in His name,
Father.
Amen.