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 Father God, we come to you now and we be still.

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! We acknowledge that you are God, that we are here for you.

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 Thank you, Lord, for the gift of your word. We hang on every single word. We know that

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 it is living and active. So we humble ourselves beneath your word. We submit to it. We surrender

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 to it. We trust in it. So would you speak? In your name we pray. Amen.

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 On that note, can I invite you to stand for the word of God? I'm going to invite the birthday

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 girl, Mihi, to come and read it to us, just to mix up the accents a little bit. 1 Thessalonians

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 chapter 3. Is that okay?

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 1 Thessalonians chapter 3. Therefore, when we could bear it no longer, we were willing

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 to be left behind at Athens alone. And we sent Timothy, our brother and God's co-worker in

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 the gospel of Christ, to establish and exhort you in your faith that no one be moved by these

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 afflictions. For you yourselves know that we are destined for this. For when we were with

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 you, we kept telling you beforehand that we were to suffer affliction, just as it has come

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 to pass and just as you know. For this reason, when I could bear it no longer, I sent to learn

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 about your faith, for fear that somehow the tempter had tempted you and our labor would be in vain.

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 But now that Timothy has come to us from you and has brought us the good news of your faith and love

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 and reported that you always remember us kindly and long to see us as we long to see you.

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 For this reason, brothers, in all our distress and affliction, we have been comforted by you

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 through your faith. For now we live. If you are standing fast in the Lord, for what thanksgiving can

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 we return to God for you, for all the joy that we feel for your sake before God, as we pray earnestly

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 night and day that we may see you face to face and supply what is lacking in your faith. Now,

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 may our God and Father himself and our Lord Jesus direct our way to you and may the Lord make you

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 increase and abound in love for one another and for all as we do for you so that he may establish

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 your hearts blameless in holiness before our God and Father at the coming of our Lord Jesus with all

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 his saints. This is the reading of the Lord. Praise be to God. Thank you. Thank you, Mihi. Take a seat,

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 please. Thank you.

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 So just to rewind your mind and just to recap what we've been going through, we've been going through

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 the book of Thessalonians. So remember this, it's a church that's about the same age as this church

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 here. It's about two years. Paul spent about two or three months with them. We can see in Acts 17,

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 him and Silas. They head to Thessalonica and they start speaking to the Jews in the synagogues and

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 then people are just receptive. But when people are receptive, there are others who are not. And so

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 then they get into some trouble. So they get ran out of town. And so when they get ran out of town,

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 Paul just really misses this group. The church has lots of different challenges. The church in

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 Corinth has some real challenges. The church in Galatia had some entrance requirement challenges,

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 but the church in Thessalonica, Paul just seemed to have a sweet spot for. He just enjoyed them. He

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 loved them. He missed them. And he was just so proud. So the first week for chapter one,

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 I went through, this was the model church. This was as good as it gets. This is the church that

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 you wanted to imitate. And I asked you guys the question, who were you imitating? Or rather,

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 if someone imitated you, would you look more like Christ? If someone was, if we were to become more

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 like Ken, would we end up becoming more like Christ? That was the question that I asked myself. And that

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 was the question I asked you guys. Who are you imitating? When I look at you, who am I going to

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 be reminded of? That was the first. And then the second week, last week, was Paul just going, hey,

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 I've been hearing people talking rubbish about me. There's been people who were spreading rumors about

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 me, gossiping about me. And so he said, look, you know me. You know me as a leader. And he kind of

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 slammed down this manifesto of leadership saying, hey, you know my motives and you know my methods.

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 You know why I came. This isn't just for giggles. The chapter just before in Acts 16, I went to preach

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 in Philippi and I got dragged into prison and I was beaten in prison. I'm not here for my own

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 personal gain. This is not a popularity thing that I'm trying to do here. I'm here because there is a

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 good news that I must share with you. So you know why I'm here. And you also know how I lived when I

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 was here. When I was with you, I wasn't just speaking on stage and then just retreating to my room and

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 not caring about you. We lived together day and night. We did life together. Don't forget that.

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 When you hear about other people talking about me, just remember that you actually know me.

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 We spent time together. And so then he moves on to chapter three. And this is where it really

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 gets quite interesting because as he's sharing about all these things, he's like, gosh,

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 I really miss you guys. I really miss you. And I really want to come back to you. But right now,

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 I can't. I can't come back into your city because I'm going to run into some trouble. So I'm going

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 to send my disciple, Timothy. Timmy boy is going to come and visit you. And he's going to tell me

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 about you. That's what the purpose is. And then it leads us on. So if the first week was the model

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 church, the second week was the motive of the leader or the model leader. This week, he goes

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 into something else. And he talks about, actually, I warned you. Guys, we had a great time. Two years ago,

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 remember when I was here, we were just making tents together. We were doing life together. We were

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 laughing together. We were crying together. It was fun. But remember what I told you? And this is what

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 he told them in verse four. So chapter three, verse four. He says, when we were with you, we kept telling

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 you beforehand that we were to suffer affliction just as it has come to pass. And just as you know,

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 he's like, guys, it was a good time. It was a really fun time. But don't forget, do you remember

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 when I told you it was going to get messy? Do you remember when I told you that you were going to

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 run into trouble? Do you remember when I told you that coming to this church or coming to this

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 gathering would mean that it would cost you something? And then it really made me think

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 this week, what did it cost us to be here today? And I'll confess this to you. I don't know if I have

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 much authority or confidence in speaking about this topic today. Why? Because I grew up in the UK.

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 I went to church where I didn't really feel any trouble or affliction. I didn't put my life at

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 risk. I didn't put my family at risk by going to church. And I come to Hong Kong and that's the same.

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 The most danger we've had in coming to this church in more recent times is last week when the

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 renovations are happening outside. And it felt dangerous. And I'm like, are you kidding me,

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 James? That's as dangerous as it gets for you. So let me ask you, what did it cost you to be here?

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 Did it cost you anything? Dr. Alex, what did it cost you to be here today?

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 Your sleep. Man, that's so true. You don't look so beautiful without sleeping so much.

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 It cost you your sleep to be here. Rocky, what did it cost you to be here today?

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 Okay.

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 Not sure. Well, it cost me some time in the sun. That would have been nice to go out to the pool.

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 And I was literally just thinking today, oh, for those who don't work in church, you have your

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 Sundays. It's super nice. You can just wake up and you just have the whole Sunday to do whatever it

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 is that you want to do. I would have been by the pool this morning. But then I'm like, are you

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 kidding me? That's all it cost me. We live in a different time. And actually, why do you even come to

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 church? Of course, we read those statements, even though it was really fun to hear it in the

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 Australian accent. Everything in the Australian accent sounds like a joke. So it sounded humorous

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 and funny, especially when Paul says it. But why do you gather? Why do you come to church? I've heard

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 people say, I wish my kid would go to church. Why? If they go to church, they'll end up being a better

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 kid. And then they'll study better. And when they study better, they'll get into the Ivy League. And

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 when they get into the Ivy League, they'll get a good job. And then they'll get money. That's why you

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 should go to church. Why do you go to church? There's a, there's a, maybe something happening

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 worldwide is this health and wealth gospel. If you go to church, if you are a good person, I don't know

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 why bad things are happening at me. I go to church. I read my Bible. Why are bad things happening to me?

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 I think we may not actually acknowledge and confess that that's what we're thinking, but we're like,

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 when we go to church, it makes us feel better. And then we're hoping as we feel better, good things

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 will happen to us. So we will be better people that have better things. That wasn't the case.

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 Imagine a church like this, a gathering like this, it would have been, you know why you're here

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 and it costs you something. Wesley chose to come to church today. This is an example. This is not

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 true of Wesley. I don't think Wesley came to church today, but it meant actually he couldn't tell his

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 family where he was going because if he, if his family knew where he was going, he would get into

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 so much trouble. Josh came to church today, but actually it comes at a cost because in his industry,

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 people don't go to church. You have to worship all these other types of gods to be able to join these

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 other unions. And so you can join these festivals so you can get connections and business opportunities.

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 If someone found out he was here, they wouldn't give him the business opportunities that he would need.

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 What are you here for? What's the cost that you've paid? Here's the tricky thing. If you're struggling

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 to think of what it costs you to be here, there's another question that I have to ask you. How,

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 how much value is it for you to be here? If it doesn't cost you anything, is it worth anything to you?

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 If it didn't cost you anything to be here, my, my concern, my worry is actually, it's not really

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 worth that much. Church or no church. It's okay. I was a, with a pastor friend who,

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 planted lots of different kinds of churches and some of those churches were north of us here.

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 And when you go to church there, it's different. When you go to church up there, you've got to go,

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 okay, I'm going to church. It's not going to be fun. It's going to be hard. And if someone catches me,

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 and actually the police may come. And if I get found to be here, that will be a whole ton of problems.

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 And recently they did have police raid their church. And then afterwards they had a, they had a time

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 with the church and go, Hey, look, who really wants to be here? And if you don't feel as though you can,

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 you should be here because you're putting your family at risk or whatever it is, then don't worry.

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 This is the time to maybe it's okay. Was what they were saying. And so a whole group of people left the

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 church together and they were like, actually, it's not for us. It's not for us because we can't put that

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 kind of risk on our families is what they're saying. And we all know that we all understand where

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 they're coming from. And then something interesting happened. He told me to this church that suddenly

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 went from this amount of people and it was cut by half. And when it was cut by half, those people

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 there were just so on fire for God. They were just so on fire. The way they would worship would be

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 different. The way they would hang on every word of scripture would be different. Why? Because they

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 counted the cost and they decided, actually, this is worth more. It is worth me taking this risk to

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 come here. I'll ask you again, what did it cost you to be here? And let's check our hearts and go,

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 if it didn't cost us anything, is it worth us? Is it worth anything to us to be here? Or is it really

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 no different? You see, it's interesting because those days, Paul knew what the cost was. He'd just come

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 from prison and was beaten in prison. You see the church in Smyrna in the book of Revelation when

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 Jesus is speaking to this church. He's saying, I know that you are going through poverty.

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 I know that you are sacrificing business opportunities to be here because now people

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 outside aren't treating you as equals. And so he knows why, but there's something else. Even though

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 there is all this cost for us, the church spread through that time. And this is why I don't know if I

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 have much authority because by whatever reason that God had, he put me in two places where actually

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 I don't fear for my life when I walk into church. I'm thinking more what breakfast I should have near

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 church. I'm like, is it today a canteen day or is it a tagalog day? Is it a, that's what I'm thinking.

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 I'm not trying to lose a trail behind me for people to see whether I'm going to come up to this lift.

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 I quite proudly tell the security guard downstairs, I'm going up to the 14th floor and that's okay.

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 But the church grew only really

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 through, you could say, persecution. Tertullian was the one who said, actually the blood of the martyrs

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 was the seed of the church.

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 Something else about cost and worth. Do you know that you sat where you are right now

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 listening to the word of God, listening to, about God,

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 did you know for you to be sat here listening to this thing, it cost someone's life

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 to be here. Someone gave up their life for you to be sat here listening to me talk about the word of

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 God. Have you ever thought about it like that? We have this book in English because people gave up

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 their lives to translate it to us. Otherwise we would have no chance in understanding what this

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 book would be about. We, some of us may have heard of the guy, William Tyndale. Tyndale was the guy who

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 translated, one of the first people to translate the Bible to English. Do you know how his life ended?

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 He was strangled to death, hung. Why? Because he opposed in England King Henry VIII, who was wanting

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 to get a divorce because he wanted many different kinds of wives. And so he disagreed with it. He said,

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 that's not what the word of God says. And so I disagree with it. And then he was martyred.

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 They got him on some, he was betrayed and then he was hung. He had a conviction. You see, sometimes

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 I worry that we don't really face any affliction because we don't really have a backbone when it

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 comes to some of our convictions. I think we look at this word, ah, this is a kind of like a

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 suggestions kind of book. This is some good advice to live your best life now. Oh, but don't worry,

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 I'm not going to die for this book. But then we remember that actually for the fact that we even

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 have this book is because people laid down their lives for it. And that's back then. And you know,

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 well, not this day and age. Everything's okay now. It's pretty safe now. Well, actually, again,

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 that is just the minority experience really that we have here. 5,000 Christians were killed last year

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 in this world because of their faith. 5,000. 15,000 churches were attacked. Buildings were attacked

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 because of the people and what they were doing inside. This is a real thing. Actually, this is

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 not normal. Often this is not normal. And then I go, well, God, why did you give us this? Why,

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 why did we deserve this? Well, I think there is something here and that's what I'm hoping to

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 apply today. Verse four says, we told you there would be affliction. We told you there would be

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 trouble. And now trouble is coming. But that trouble leads often to growth. You see, what happened is in

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 actually this start, the trouble really starts from Acts 6 and 7. Okay. So the church is growing,

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 the church is growing and there's tons of things to do. So this is what exactly what happened. I was

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 talking to my brother about this last night. So the church started growing and it started growing

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 very big. And then they were starting to run out of people. So they needed help with people. So

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 they said, you know what? We've got the pastors doing this and talking about the word of God and

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 praying. But we need people to help look after some of these other people out here. So what do they do?

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 They basically appointed some deacons. So Stephen's one of the deacons in Acts 6. I'll help. I'll help

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 distribute the bread. And what happens in chapter seven? He gets killed. He gets stoned to death. He

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 gets dragged out of the city and he gets stoned to death. Acts 8 is one of my favorite stories of

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 evangelism. It's Philip who meets the Ethiopian. Why do I love it? Because he gets transported. He just

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 gets zapped to a different city. I just love that. That's my superpower that I would love to have.

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 But why did he even have that superpower? It's because at the end of chapter seven, when they were

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 stoning Stephen, everyone had to scatter. They were like, oh my goodness. That helper that we just

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 appointed has now been killed. We have to get out of here. So Acts chapter 8, Stephen leaves Jerusalem.

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 But he doesn't leave with a fearful mindset. He leaves and he just goes into the next town and

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 starts preaching the gospel. He's saying, hey, if you won't let me preach here, I'll just go and preach

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 over there. And so he starts going and he starts preaching and then God zaps him. And then he meets the

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 Ethiopian. And it's a fantastic story that I hope you look into. Acts chapter 9, then you see the guy

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 who was witnessing the murder of Stephen now gets converted because he meets Jesus himself and he

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 gets blinded by it. Paul. Acts chapter 10 is this centurion who has a hundred people at his disposal.

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 And yet he has this vision from God. And he's like, I have to worship this God. I am a man of power,

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 but I have to worship this God. Acts chapter 12, James dies. Acts chapter 16, you see Paul

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 getting thrown into prison. They're having this dream and say, hey, leave Asia, go to Europe.

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 And actually without him responding to that dream, the gospel won't have reached Europe.

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 And I actually won't be speaking the word of God to you here in English.

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 Do you realize that the seat that you're sitting on is because someone paved the way for it?

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 Someone laid their lives down for it. We may not be a church that faces affliction,

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 but the question I have is, are we a church that gets any attention at all?

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 You see, in Acts 2, you have these believers who are also like, they're just filled with awe and wonder,

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 cut to the heart is what it says. And then people outside look and see this group of people are

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 different. So we may not have affliction, but we have to ask ourselves, do we get garner any

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 attention from the people outside at all? What that means is, are we different at all in any way?

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 Because the gospel has to continue to move. I think that's one of the biggest problems that we face as a

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 church globally, that we've picked comfort over sacrifice. That's why I love the idea that

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 the church doesn't have, our church doesn't have enough comfy seats. I know we have beanbags, but

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 I want us to feel just that urgency, that urgency to be on edge and go, this is the good news. We can't

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 keep good news to ourselves. We have to share it because it's good news. The very nature of news is

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 that we must share it out, but instead we've picked complacency over conviction.

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 Dietrich Bonhoeffer, who lost his life during the war, he said, I think the church is struggling

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 to grow is because we've given up, given into our temptations. And when you give into your

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 temptations, no, there's no really any resistance. But the problem here is this, if you don't have any

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 resistance, you won't grow. If we don't face any resistance, we won't grow.

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 I was talking to Kenneth earlier here and I put my hand on his shoulder and I felt a muscle that I

00:21:30.099 --> 00:21:36.460
 didn't know existed. I was like, what's going on there? What is that thing? Apparently it's a muscle

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 that you can work on. And apparently you work on it in this place called a gym. But it doesn't grow

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 without resistance. There's this saying, no pain, no gain. My son actually, MJ has a t-shirt today that

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 says, no rain, no rainbows. And that's cute. But it's so true. When we are a church that doesn't face any

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 kind of affliction, and literally the only problem we have is navigating the air conditioning refurbishment

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 as we leave here, how are we wondering why we're not growing? If it doesn't really cost us to be

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 here at all, then we're not really putting any worth to it. And then we complain that we're not

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 really growing and it's all just a little bit too comfortable. But what if it was a posture of the

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 heart? What if it was something inside you that, okay, this means something. So the next time I have an

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 opportunity to choose whether I follow the world or whether I follow Jesus, and I know that it might

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 cost me, which one will I choose? When I choose the likes and the public approval, when I know that God

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 wants me to go this way, and it's going to be ugly, and it's going to cost me something. Are we willing

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 to do that? So my question here is this, maybe it's not affliction we're after right now.

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 What about if it's just discomfort? Can we be a group of people who are comfortably uncomfortable?

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 Because I'll tell you, as I look back on my life, the only places that I really grew are away from the

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 couch. I did not really grow whilst I was chilling, sipping on some red wine, watching a show on the

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 couch. I grew when I was out of my comfort zone. I grew when I was doing things that I didn't

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 want to do. When was the last time you did something that you didn't want to do, but you knew that God

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 was the one who was asking you to do it? I'm not saying like your mum told you to do something and

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 you don't want to do it because you hate doing laundry. It's not that. That's not the kind of

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 affliction where I'm after here. I'm after here is your friends invite you to go out to a party,

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 and you're like, you know what? I just can't because I know what you guys are wanting to do

00:24:02.299 --> 00:24:06.640
 at this party. I'm not judging you necessarily for it, but it's just not me right now and it's

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 just not what God wants me to do. And then you say, okay, I won't go. When was the last time you did

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 something like that? When was the last time you deliberately got yourself to a place that was

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 uncomfortable? My guess is that a lot of us spend most of our time in this comfortable place

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 in our spiritual walk where we're like, look, I'm just going to do my Christian thing whenever it

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 kind of works out for me and whenever I can squeeze in a little bit of time. Basically,

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 we don't ever go to the gym. And then we wonder why we don't have that muscle here that Kenneth has.

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 I have no gripes when I look at Uday because I know that he pays the cost to do what he does to

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 look this beautiful. He has to go to the gym and will pay in Hong Kong a hefty membership price to

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 join just to guilt trip you to continue going there. Don't feed the beast. But I know,

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 I know that all good things are hard. I know that growth is a cost. And this is why, and my brother

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 and I were talking about this, I don't want us to grow too fast. Because I don't think we're ready.

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 I don't think we've faced enough resistance. I don't think we've faced enough affliction.

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 And I don't think we're growing. And I don't want to be in that place where we are just a cruise ship

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 of people just floating. Do you remember like Disney film Wall E? Those people just sat in those

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 chairs just being fed and all around. That's the last thing. That's the last thing you should want.

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 That you would be that. When was the last time we took ourselves out of our comfort zone?

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 When was the last time we got attention? Chapter one talks about this attention that they got,

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 that people are hearing about this. But now Paul sends his Timmy boy to go find out how this church

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 is doing. And he just, he's, he's just relieved. He's like, oh my goodness. Timmy tells me that you

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 guys are still in love with the Lord. That even though you have all these afflictions, even though

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 it's cost you in so many different ways, you are still there. And that filled his heart. And verse,

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 verse eight, it says this, for now we live. If you are standing fast in the Lord, he said,

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 that is so life-giving for me to hear. So life-giving for me to hear that you are still standing strong

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 in the faith, despite all the costs that it costs you to be where you are.

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 So the question really is, what do we do? How do we get ourselves out of this comfort zone?

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 Or what do you need to do to get yourself out of this comfort zone? What are you, what have you

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 been doing for years? And you know, it's not really been working. You just haven't

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 got the guts to change to do something different. We may not have affliction and praise God that we

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 don't have affliction, but that can be a curse in the sense that we will also just never grow.

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 The fastest growing churches around the world are the ones who are facing affliction.

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 We may not need to go out of our way to try and find people to persecute us and to get that

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 affliction. But maybe a question for us is, do I even get any attention at all because of my faith?

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 Positive or negative? Can I put myself in an uncomfortable place so that I have to make a

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 choice? Which way do I go? Can I be different? One of the ways, and this is where really I'll come

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 to an end. I love it when Paul's writing, so this is just a letter. We're just going through a letter

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 between Paul and the people that he loves. And halfway through this letter, he just stops and

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 he just breaks out into prayer. May we be those kinds of people that we're just talking to. You

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 know what? I just can't help but pray for you. And he prays for them towards the end of this chapter

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 three. And he says this, now may our God and father himself and our Lord Jesus direct our way to you.

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 Oh, God, I so miss you. God, would you just let me go and spend time with these people? But until then,

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 may the Lord make you increase and abound in love for one another and for all as we do for you.

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 He's saying, as you face all these afflictions and these problems, you know what? I just pray that

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 you would love each other. And if you're wondering, hey, how can I make myself feel uncomfortable so I

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 can grow? Actually, it starts here. I guarantee you there is someone here in this room who you will find

00:28:37.839 --> 00:28:46.259
 hard to love. Guarantee you. This is where spouses are just making sure they don't look at each other

00:28:46.259 --> 00:28:54.099
 because that could be the person that is hard to love. And the church is essentially the school where

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 we practice Christian love. And what is love? Love is the agape kind of love, which is a selfless,

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 unconditional kind of love. If you're thinking, okay, I need to get myself uncomfortable so I can

00:29:08.119 --> 00:29:12.960
 start growing. It will actually just start with you identifying now. And it's quite convenient that

00:29:12.960 --> 00:29:16.180
 we're sat in a circle. You can look at someone, you're like, you know what? That person will be

00:29:16.180 --> 00:29:20.940
 really hard to love. I'm going to have nothing in common with that person. And I'm going to go talk

00:29:20.940 --> 00:29:27.640
 to that person. Maybe that's it. And honestly, that's the lowest bar. And especially for introverts,

00:29:27.640 --> 00:29:33.320
 that's already daunting. And that's already like the end game. But that's such a low bar. And he's

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 saying, may the Lord make you increase and abound in love for one another and for all. It starts with

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 just us. Have a think. Who here can you show some love to? And love here is very simple. Oh, how do I

00:29:49.960 --> 00:29:57.560
 love? Well, is it a hug or is it a weird? Just go out of your way. That's it. Would you be willing

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 to go out of your way to do something different? To speak to someone you don't want to talk to?

00:30:04.519 --> 00:30:10.659
 To take someone out for coffee when you don't have the time for them? What is the thing that we can do

00:30:10.659 --> 00:30:17.700
 to practice that love? And I'll even say, let's have a little bit of a selfish motive there. He's

00:30:17.700 --> 00:30:23.000
 like, I'm going to love you because I want to grow. I want to practice how to love someone that's really

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 hard. And I want to, Julian, let's go and have lunch together. Like, I really enjoy having lunch

00:30:29.420 --> 00:30:38.980
 with you. So let's go do that together. Find your person who you find hard to love and take them out

00:30:38.980 --> 00:30:52.319
 for lunch. Take them out for lunch. What is that for you? What is that for us? And then once you've

00:30:52.319 --> 00:30:57.079
 done it with someone within the church, it's now time to do it with someone outside of the church.

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 Someone who you've just looked across from the office and you're like, oh my goodness.

00:31:00.940 --> 00:31:08.180
 Honestly, every time you open your mouth, just garbage comes out.

00:31:10.700 --> 00:31:13.019
 That boss that you have is just like, oh my goodness.

00:31:14.660 --> 00:31:18.740
 Like, if I was allowed to punch anyone, this would be it. If all those lessons of Muay Thai

00:31:18.740 --> 00:31:21.759
 was for something, it'll be for this. It'll be for you.

00:31:24.860 --> 00:31:30.340
 Jesus says something really interesting. He says, you've got to love your enemies.

00:31:30.940 --> 00:31:35.059
 You've got to, and I know we've heard that before. Love your enemies. Pray for those who

00:31:35.059 --> 00:31:41.680
 persecute you and who bully you and who are horrible. That means you've got to look someone

00:31:41.680 --> 00:31:51.400
 in the eye who has been mistreating you and go, how can I love you? How can I go out of my way

00:31:52.779 --> 00:31:53.539
 to love you?

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 When you do that, that's when you know that you're starting to become Christ-like.

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 And you all have those people in your mind right now.

00:32:08.599 --> 00:32:10.000
 The people that you want to punch.

00:32:12.019 --> 00:32:15.379
 The people that you want to hear about a scandal from.

00:32:15.779 --> 00:32:19.420
 Like, I can't, like, when something bad happens to that person, then you feel good.

00:32:19.420 --> 00:32:26.460
 Like, Jesus says, actually, that'll be the moment.

00:32:27.400 --> 00:32:31.160
 When you can love them, when you can pray for them, that will be the moment when you are

00:32:31.160 --> 00:32:31.440
 different.

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 And it says, so that he may establish your hearts blameless in holiness.

00:32:36.259 --> 00:32:37.640
 Holiness just means that you're just different.

00:32:37.740 --> 00:32:38.440
 You're just set apart.

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 So when someone looks at you, you're like, oh.

00:32:40.460 --> 00:32:46.779
 That person just acts differently to the boss that we all hate.

00:32:47.220 --> 00:32:49.120
 Somehow, they make it work.

00:32:49.400 --> 00:32:50.200
 What is going on?

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 And I'll tell you, it's not you.

00:32:52.380 --> 00:32:55.519
 It's you opening up your hand and your heart's going, that person is hard to love.

00:32:55.600 --> 00:32:57.440
 God, I will never be able to love that person on my own.

00:32:57.660 --> 00:33:00.720
 But Christ living in me, Christ, can you love that person through me?

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 So it doesn't require you to kind of grit your teeth to spend time with someone who you

00:33:06.519 --> 00:33:07.279
 find hard to love.

00:33:08.640 --> 00:33:09.600
 I'm just going to sit here.

00:33:09.599 --> 00:33:11.919
 Christ, can you just love them through me?

00:33:12.399 --> 00:33:13.039
 I empty myself.

00:33:13.199 --> 00:33:17.879
 I surrender so that I can be a little bit of you to them.

00:33:20.459 --> 00:33:23.299
 That's really what this passage is about.

00:33:24.839 --> 00:33:25.519
 It's funny.

00:33:25.759 --> 00:33:28.119
 Acts 17, that talks about the beginning of this church.

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 So they get all this attention.

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 And then there are some jealous Jews that start complaining, that start making stuff up about

00:33:34.619 --> 00:33:36.259
 this group of people that are gathering.

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 And do you know what they're saying?

00:33:37.380 --> 00:33:39.700
 These guys are turning the world upside down.

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 I mean, actually, I want to find it because I think it's, of course, it's a little bit

00:33:45.000 --> 00:33:47.040
 of hyperbole and they're exaggerating a little bit.

00:33:47.039 --> 00:33:51.220
 But it's just the way they say it is just so encouraging.

00:33:51.220 --> 00:33:51.920
 And he says this.

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 So they drag this.

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 Acts chapter 17, verse six.

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 And when they could not find them, they dragged Jason and some of the other brothers before

00:33:58.579 --> 00:34:02.819
 the city authorities shouting, these men who have turned the world upside down have come

00:34:02.819 --> 00:34:03.379
 here also.

00:34:03.599 --> 00:34:05.099
 And Jason has received them.

00:34:05.099 --> 00:34:08.920
 And they are all acting against the decrees of Caesar saying that there is another king,

00:34:09.319 --> 00:34:09.579
 Jesus.

00:34:10.259 --> 00:34:13.539
 And the people of the city authorities were disturbed when they heard these things.

00:34:14.440 --> 00:34:15.759
 So they get dragged out.

00:34:16.099 --> 00:34:19.519
 They go, these people, they're turning the world upside down.

00:34:19.579 --> 00:34:20.719
 They're causing revolt.

00:34:20.819 --> 00:34:21.000
 Why?

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 Because they're saying there is someone who is king who isn't Caesar.

00:34:24.780 --> 00:34:28.860
 And of course, they're just kind of exaggerating because they're just jealous and they just

00:34:28.860 --> 00:34:29.900
 want to get rid of these people.

00:34:30.240 --> 00:34:35.320
 But how beautiful to be described as a group of people who are turning the world upside down.

00:34:37.500 --> 00:34:39.100
 The enemy was exaggerating.

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 But how good would it be if we truly were a group of people as we scatter from here that

00:34:44.780 --> 00:34:49.760
 we truly do turn the world upside down so that you respond in exactly the opposite way to

00:34:49.760 --> 00:34:51.920
 your colleagues when something bad happens.

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 And that we completely turn it on its head and we do not conform to the patterns of this

00:34:57.800 --> 00:35:01.579
 world, but we renew our minds to live in a different way.

00:35:02.440 --> 00:35:03.800
 What would that be like?

00:35:04.720 --> 00:35:07.000
 That we would be that kind of church.

00:35:07.159 --> 00:35:08.519
 We would be that kind of people.

00:35:09.860 --> 00:35:12.119
 And of course, you don't have to make it up as you go along.

00:35:13.440 --> 00:35:16.300
 The truth is, Christ already showed us the way.

00:35:17.500 --> 00:35:21.059
 Christ already suffered for us.

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 And so let's not be afraid of suffering.

00:35:25.599 --> 00:35:27.099
 Let's not be afraid of affliction.

00:35:27.920 --> 00:35:35.079
 Romans 5 says, suffering leads to endurance, which leads to character and leads to hope.

00:35:36.200 --> 00:35:43.780
 Let us be people who lean in to suffering, who lean in to affliction, who lean in to negative

00:35:43.780 --> 00:35:44.260
 attention.

00:35:44.579 --> 00:35:44.760
 Why?

00:35:44.760 --> 00:35:46.440
 Because it's what our Christ did for us.

00:35:46.640 --> 00:35:50.760
 At the beginning of Acts 17, at the beginning of this church, they said this,

00:35:50.760 --> 00:35:52.260
 And Paul went in, as was his custom.

00:35:52.380 --> 00:35:56.380
 And on three Sabbath days, he reasoned with them from the scriptures, explaining and proving

00:35:56.380 --> 00:36:00.700
 that it was necessary for the Christ to suffer and to rise from the dead.

00:36:01.540 --> 00:36:05.000
 And saying, this Jesus whom I proclaim to you is the Christ, is the Messiah.

00:36:05.340 --> 00:36:10.480
 It was necessary for Jesus to suffer so that he could then rise from the dead.

00:36:10.480 --> 00:36:14.860
 But it is necessary for us to die to ourselves in order for us to live this life that is abundant

00:36:14.860 --> 00:36:15.740
 life.

00:36:16.059 --> 00:36:24.280
 So whatever suffering you're going through, may the Lord use it to create endurance, character,

00:36:25.039 --> 00:36:25.320
 hope.

00:36:26.659 --> 00:36:29.539
 The pains that you're going through, may they be growth pains.

00:36:29.539 --> 00:36:36.019
 May we have the backbone and the conviction to even draw attention to ourselves and for people

00:36:36.019 --> 00:36:38.199
 to look at us and go, that person's different.

00:36:39.619 --> 00:36:43.800
 That Christianity is simply too real, too good.

00:36:45.019 --> 00:36:51.340
 Let us not just be the same because our Christ, our Savior, was not the same.

00:36:51.980 --> 00:36:55.559
 He was a king who came down and emptied himself.

00:36:55.559 --> 00:37:00.019
 And he turned things completely upside down.

00:37:01.159 --> 00:37:02.299
 Would we do the same?

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 Let us spend time now, and this is where we'll finish, is let's remember that Christ suffered

00:37:11.420 --> 00:37:11.940
 for us.

00:37:14.219 --> 00:37:18.820
 And so we weren't, he didn't suffer for us so that we would have this beautiful life here

00:37:18.820 --> 00:37:19.400
 on earth.

00:37:20.440 --> 00:37:25.099
 There's a theologian who said, our Lord took on a crown of thorns.

00:37:25.099 --> 00:37:28.079
 What makes us think that we should have a crown of roses?

00:37:29.639 --> 00:37:31.619
 Our Lord took on a crown of thorns for us.

00:37:31.639 --> 00:37:34.839
 What makes us think that we're entitled to a crown of roses?

00:37:35.759 --> 00:37:38.440
 And then we're shocked when something bad happens to us.

00:37:38.940 --> 00:37:45.779
 Like, yeah, the kind of the guy that you said you'd follow, he did things in an upside down

00:37:45.779 --> 00:37:46.219
 kind of way.

00:37:46.699 --> 00:37:48.719
 So don't be surprised at the trials that you face.

00:37:49.659 --> 00:37:51.819
 Don't be surprised that people look at you negatively.

00:37:51.820 --> 00:37:55.140
 Because they looked at him negatively first.

00:37:56.019 --> 00:37:56.400
 Why?

00:37:57.180 --> 00:37:57.960
 He didn't have to.

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 But for us, he did.

00:38:00.880 --> 00:38:06.440
 I'm going to invite Johnny up here to lead us in a time of communion, where as a people

00:38:06.440 --> 00:38:09.780
 who forget easily, we always forget.

00:38:09.780 --> 00:38:15.180
 We remember that Christ suffered for us.

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 And through that, we get to live.

00:38:19.519 --> 00:38:19.660
 Johnny.

00:38:24.460 --> 00:38:27.380
 Jesus, that is the one thing that we ask, one thing that we seek.

00:38:27.380 --> 00:38:37.460
 The only thing that we would dwell in your house all the days of our lives, to gaze upon

00:38:37.460 --> 00:38:39.240
 your beauty.

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 And when that beauty is in full focus, everything else fades away.

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 Any suffering.

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 Any pain.

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 Any tears.

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 Any anxieties.

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 We pray that that beauty would

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 turn this world upside down.

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 And that we would reflect, we would emit some of that beauty

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 to this world around us.

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 We know the costs you paid.

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 We know the costs that others have paid for us to be here.

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 Some gave their lives.

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 You gave your life.

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 So we

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 seek to give you our lives.

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 We surrender.

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 Help us to be

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 people that embrace and lean in to discomfort.

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 That we would truly be comfortably uncomfortable

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 on the edge of our seats as we

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 pursue you,

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 wait for you,

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 yearn for you.

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 Thank you, Lord.

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 Thank you, Lord.

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 We love you.

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 We worship you.

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 It's in your name we pray.

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 Amen.