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 For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life.

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 Christ Jesus our Lord.

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 Wow, last week I felt like I was sweating up here like a, I don't know what, I think I lost 10 pounds.

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 This week I feel like I'm putting pounds on as my fat cells try to gain energy with the cold here.

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 And so it's amazing, you know, we don't know where we're going to meet every Sunday.

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 So the fact that we meet here is a blessing from the Lord and God provided this place.

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 And so each Sunday we figure out what's open and God for the last three and a half years has allowed us a place to come and worship him.

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 Which is an amazing, amazing thing and we don't ever want to take that for granted, I think.

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 If you're here for the first time or a couple times, my name is Tobin, I'm one of the pastors here.

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 I've shared before that I have some issues in my life, I have some problems, I'm very teachable.

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 I have four kids.

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 I'm still trying to learn about what that means to have four kids and not leave one of them in the store when we go home or forget where they're at.

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 And making sure that we do a head count when we leave.

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 I feel like I'm very teachable in issues of children and childhood.

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 And I think that Christina and I are learning together.

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 One of our biggest tensions or differences is just when it comes down to the idea of disciplining our kids.

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 We grew up in very different homes and we experienced different discipline and different parenting styles.

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 And so we still talk about this and dialogue with this and try to figure out what it looks like to honor the Lord as we parent our kids and discipline our kids.

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 And just recently one of our kids, I have to be very careful because my kids are actually sitting in here.

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 So I wasn't expecting that.

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 It's kind of like when I did the sex talk.

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 I did the sex talk and I wasn't expecting my kids to be here.

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 And they were here hearing their dad talk about sex.

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 But I think that's good because I need to know that the parents have sex and that's how they came about.

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 But we had this issue where one of our kids had did something that required discipline on both of our thoughts.

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 We said we need to discipline this kid.

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 And so we brought them into their room and we had the talk.

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 And when we were about to do the discipline of this certain individual who will remain nameless,

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 they yelled out,

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 Grace!

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 I need grace!

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 We talk about it all the time in church.

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 Can you give me some grace?

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 To which Christina and I looked at each other and we did this thing that parents do.

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 You know, you kind of...

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 You laugh, right?

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 But you try not to laugh because it's just so neat and precious.

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 You know, and...

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 And so we asked this person,

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 What does that mean to you?

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 And they said,

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 Well, it means you get a free pass, right?

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 It means you do something wrong and God just forgets about it.

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 He doesn't do anything about it.

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 And you just...

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 You can go on your way.

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 And you don't have to worry about it because we have grace.

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 We don't have to worry about making mistakes because it's all covered in the blood of Jesus.

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 And I'm free!

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 So I need grace.

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 To which I kind of laughed and I said,

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 Well, you know, I don't think that's exactly what God talks about when he talks about that.

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 And it certainly is not what he talks about in a parent-child relationship.

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 And so we pursue to put discipline on that kid.

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 Which, again, is something I hate doing.

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 But I know that God's called us to do it as parents in different standards and different ways.

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 That night I went back to the room and I sat down with the kid.

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 And what I find is some of the best times in parenting is right before they're going to bed

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 because our mind's unwinding and it was talking and all these things.

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 And the person said...

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 The person who we remain nameless said,

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 You know, Dad, it's really hard for me sometimes.

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 I feel like I want to do the right thing, but I can't do the right thing.

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 I know what the right thing is and I struggle with doing the right thing.

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 And it's almost as if there's this battle going on inside of me.

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 And sometimes the bad side wins and I don't do the thing that I want to do.

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 And then they looked at me and said,

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 You ever have that problem?

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 And I said,

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 All the time.

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 All the time.

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 Grace.

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 I need grace.

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 We've been in the book of Romans for a couple weeks.

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 We've taken a four-week break.

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 We're coming back to Romans 6.

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 What we've seen in Romans so far...

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 Remember, Paul is writing the book of Romans to a church.

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 The church has been going on for 25 years.

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 So it's a mature church.

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 It has a foundation.

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 It has all the things in place.

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 But he's writing this letter to give them even a firmer foundation.

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 And he's talking through what does it mean to walk with the Lord.

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 And he's gone through chapters 1, 2, and 3.

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 And he's looked at different people in the Roman culture and in the Roman world and looked at how they live.

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 And how they try to make themselves right.

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 And how they try to justify themselves.

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 And how they try to do the right thing.

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 And there's some people who don't care at all.

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 And they just do whatever they want.

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 There's some people who are mostly the Jews.

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 And they're very legalistic.

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 And they want to do the right thing.

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 And they want to know what the right thing is.

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 And they want to make sure that you see them do the right thing.

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 And then there's some people who are just kind of lost.

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 And then he talks about Christ.

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 And he talks about how God's come in there.

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 And God has given us grace.

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 And it's unlike any other religion or philosophy in the world.

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 There's nothing like it ever.

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 When you talk to people.

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 You study philosophy.

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 You're never going to hear this again.

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 Because in Christianity what it's saying is that God gives you his righteousness.

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 God saves you.

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 Every other philosophy, every other religion is going to say.

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 You do this.

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 And you do this.

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 And you do this.

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 And if you do this well enough.

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 Then God's going to go.

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 Great job.

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 I love you.

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 Come on in.

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 But Christianity isn't like that.

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 Christianity says it's a gift.

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 And people have a hard time with receiving gifts.

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 Especially in Asian cultures.

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 Don't we?

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 We always look for giving back something else.

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 And try to make it different.

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 Or try to make it right.

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 We try to change it.

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 But he says it's a gift.

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 And it's given to you.

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 And Paul continues in this talking.

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 And what he's done in every one of his books.

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 And every one of his writings.

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 Is what he does is he says.

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 He uses this teaching technique.

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 And the teaching technique is this.

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 Let's look at what God has done.

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 Now let's look at what we should be doing.

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 He never says this is what you should be doing.

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 And so God will do this.

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 But he always says this is what God has done.

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 This is what God has done for you.

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 This is what grace means.

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 This is what the gospel means.

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 This is what his son coming means.

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 This is what his death on a cross means.

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 This is what his blood shed out for you.

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 Atoning for everything you've ever done wrong.

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 And ever will do wrong.

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 And everything you have done.

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 And you shouldn't have done.

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 And you might have done.

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 And you wanted to do.

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 And everything you should have thought.

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 It just wiped out of there.

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 He says this is what grace is.

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 And in light of that.

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 Then how do we live as God's people?

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 Do we just say grace?

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 And sin doesn't matter?

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 Or does God call us to live a life that's different than everyone else around us?

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 What does it look like?

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 And we talked about that in Romans 6.

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 And we come to the passage today.

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 And I think the passage is so appropriate.

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 Because it deals with the issue of what my kids are struggling with.

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 What I'm struggling with.

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 What does it look like for this gift to be given to me?

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 What does it look like for me not to be under the law.

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 But to be under grace?

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 In Romans 6.12 it starts off.

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 He says therefore.

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 Whenever you see therefore.

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 It means what did we talk about?

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 We talked about the gospel.

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 We talked about Jesus coming.

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 We talked about the gift.

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 He says therefore because of all these things.

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 Do not let sin.

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 Do not let selfishness.

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 Do not let things that are against God's will reign.

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 Be a part of.

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 Be king of.

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 Be king of.

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 Rule completely in your mortal bodies.

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 Your parts.

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 Your eyes.

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 Your ears.

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 Who you are.

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 Tobin.

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 All of you.

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 Do not let it reign in your body.

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 So that you will obey.

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 The word there.

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 Obey.

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 Actually means answer the door.

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 So don't give your parts over to sin.

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 So that when it knocks on the door of your life.

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 You open it up.

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 And say hey come on in.

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 He says because in light of everything that Jesus has done.

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 In light of the gospel.

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 In light of grace.

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 Do not give your parts to sin.

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 To be king of your life.

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 Do not go present.

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 To present.

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 The word means active.

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 It means continual.

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 It means to put in front.

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 It means put inside.

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 It means put beside.

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 It means come alongside.

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 It means help.

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 Don't allow your body members to help you.

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 Do sin.

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 Guilt.

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 Shame.

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 Evil.

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 Don't act as tools for unrighteousness.

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 But present.

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 Give yourself to God.

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 As those who are alive now from the dead.

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 In your members.

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 Your eyes.

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 Your ears.

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 Your hands.

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 Your heart.

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 Your words.

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 Your gifting.

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 Your talents.

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 You give all of these things as instruments to righteousness of God.

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 For sin shall not be Lord.

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 Over you.

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 For you are not under law.

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 But you're under grace.

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 For some of that means if we struggle with lust.

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 It means that we don't go down to Wan Chai.

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 To the emperor club.

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 And do your business there with your clients.

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 And watch the prostitutes come in.

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 Because as you do that you're presenting your members.

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 To sin and unrighteousness.

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 And you're struggling with that.

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 For some of us if we're struggling with lust.

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 It doesn't mean troll the internet and see how many different websites you can go to.

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 Because every time you do that.

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 What you're doing is you're opening the door.

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 And you're allowing sin to come into your life.

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 And you're allowing it to control you.

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 For some of us we struggle with just materialism.

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 And it means if we struggle with materialism.

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 It means don't present your members to materialistic things.

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 Be careful of what you look at in the internet.

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 Maybe if you struggle with the internet.

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 With the materialism.

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 It's not a good idea to be going on the websites.

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 And checking all the shopping things.

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 And all the things you should be doing.

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 And what it looks like.

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 For some of us we struggle with pride.

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 Or anger.

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 Whatever that is that you're struggling with.

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 Whatever that is that's trying to grab you.

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 To get you open the door.

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 So it can come into your life.

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 Paul's saying be careful.

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 Because if you let it in.

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 It's going to control you.

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 And by the way.

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 You're a child of God now.

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 And you're no longer in that realm.

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 That kingdom.

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 You're in a new kingdom.

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 You're in my kingdom.

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 And you have a choice.

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 Before we just walked.

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 And we were in the kingdom.

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 And we had no choice.

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 We didn't know where we were.

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 But now.

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 Because of Christ.

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 Because of grace.

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 Because of the gospel.

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 He's picked us up.

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 And he's taken us into.

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 A new kingdom.

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 In a new realm.

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 And we have a choice.

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 Who we're going to open the door up to.

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 And who we're not going to open the door up to.

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 We can choose who we let in our life.

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 And what we give our eyes.

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 And our ears.

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 And our hearts.

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 And our minds.

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 And our words.

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 And our money.

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 And our talents.

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 And our time.

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 We can choose what we give all those things to.

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 And Paul's just exhorting.

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 And exhorting.

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 And encouraging.

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 Watermark.

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 And saying.

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 God has done amazing things.

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 Give your stuff to God.

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 Because he's going to take care of you.

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 He's going to control you.

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 He's going to be there for you.

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 Romans 6.

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 14 and 15.

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 And it's almost as if Paul knows.

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 That somebody's going to ask a question.

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 He knows there's going to be a question asked.

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 Because within his church.

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 There are people struggling with different ways of life.

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 Within our lives.

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 In my heart.

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 I struggle with these things.

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 Some of us are struggling with legalism.

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 It's this chair right here.

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 You can think of Paul's congregation.

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 Most of them.

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 A lot of them were Jews.

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 They knew the law.

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 They wanted to obey the law.

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 They wanted outward things that you could see.

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 So that you could see them obeying the law.

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 They wanted you to do things that you could do outwardly.

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 So they could make sure that you were obeying the law.

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 But they never looked at the heart.

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 They never looked at why you did things.

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 And for who are you doing the things?

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 They just looked at you doing the things.

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 And then there was another group of people who were just.

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 It's really.

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 The word is licentiousness.

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 And I say it that way.

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 Because I took Latin.

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 Ninth grade.

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 Tenth grade.

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 And I had this really.

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 Kind of creepy Latin teacher.

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 And he would always go.

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 Licentiousness.

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 Which means uncontrolled.

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 That you can do whatever you want.

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 That you can just let your passions go.

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 I mean it's like the worst of the Greek and Roman cultures.

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 It's not just sex.

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 But it's everything.

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 And you have these licentious people there.

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 And they're struggling.

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 And they say no.

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 Grace.

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 Grace alone.

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 Grace is all we need.

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 Sin doesn't matter.

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 You can do sin.

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 Because God has covered your sin with grace.

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 Don't worry about it.

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 And the church is kind of swinging back and forth.

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 Pendulum.

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 And you know.

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 Some of us are also in our lives.

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 Some of us camp over here.

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 And then we become really convicted.

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 And then we come back here.

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 And then we come back here.

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 And Paul says if you have that question.

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 In chapter four.

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 In verse 14.

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 15.

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 Because he knows you're going to ask.

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 Well if there's grace.

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 Then why don't we just sin?

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 Because everything is forgiven.

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 And it doesn't really matter.

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 And I really want to do these things.

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 I really want to do these things.

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 These things are going to bring me happiness.

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 These things are going to make me excited.

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 Why can't I just do that?

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 And in the rest of the chapter.

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 Paul shares.

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 Why not do an illustration.

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 There's three things I want us to learn.

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 In this illustration.

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 The first thing we're going to look at really quickly.

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 Is what is our true identity?

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 Who are we?

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 What is our identity?

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 The second thing I want us to look at is.

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 How does our identity change?

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 Well we know this identity.

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 But there's this change that's happening in us.

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 How does that change happen?

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 And the third thing I want to briefly look at.

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 Is just in ten minutes.

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 We want to look at.

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 We want to look at.

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 What does it look like now that we've changed.

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 And how do we do these things?

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 So what's our identity?

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 How does it change?

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 And what should we look like right now?

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 Okay.

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 You ready?

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 Okay.

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 So the first thing he says here.

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 As we look at in verses 15 and on.

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 He says this is what our identity is.

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 Because remember.

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 We're talking about our identity.

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 And Paul says our identity is we're slaves.

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 Paul says that every one of us in Watermark.

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 Every one of us in the world are slaves.

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 How do you feel when I say that?

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 I mean some of us feel.

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 I mean if you watch 12 Years a Slave.

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 Or the Butler.

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 I've been watching this Civil War series by Ken Burns.

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 It's amazing.

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 But it's all about what's going on with the slaves.

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 And when we think of slavery we go.

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 Oh that's terrible.

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 That's incredibly bad.

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 But you know in Paul's day when people heard that.

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 They just thought that's just what life is.

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 It was interesting.

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 This week I was helping my kids study for a sociology test.

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 A social studies test.

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 And we did a wiki search on slavery in Rome.

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 Because that was what their test was on.

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 And if you do a wiki search on slavery in Rome.

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 You see that 30 to 40 percent of the people who lived in Rome were slaves.

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 That there were probably one slave for every three.

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 Three slaves for every one person.

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 I mean there was a majority of slaves walking around.

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 And the slavery was a lot different than we think of it.

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 It wasn't racially oriented.

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 It was just.

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 It just happened sometimes in war and in life.

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 And people were abandoned.

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 Actually often the slaves were really educated.

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 And they were tutors.

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 The people who tutored the kids of the Greek and Roman leaders.

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 Were often slaves.

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 Very highly educated.

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 So slavery has this very different view.

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 To Paul and to the people in his church.

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 As he hears these things.

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 You know sometimes people would become slaves.

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 Because they had a debt.

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 I mean sometimes they owed large sums of money.

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 And there was no chance of them getting rid of the debt.

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 And so what they would do is they would come.

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 And they would sell themselves.

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 So if I owed E money.

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 I would come to her.

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 And I said I can't pay it.

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 But I'm going to put myself into slavery for you.

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 And let's decide how long that's going to be.

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 And maybe it's two months.

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 Maybe it's two years.

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 Maybe it's ten years.

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 But at the end of that time.

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 My debt is paid.

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 And I'm free.

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 I'm no longer a slave.

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 The interesting and the thing I often would forget.

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 Is that when I became E slave.

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 It meant that I gave up all my rights.

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 That she was in control of me totally.

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 Whatever she said I had to do.

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 Because I was now her slave.

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 I had no rights whatsoever.

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 And Paul says that we here in Watermark in the world.

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 There are only two types of people.

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 Either we're slaves to sin.

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 Which leads to death.

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 Or we're slaves to obedience.

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 Which leads to righteousness.

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 There's not any other types of people.

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 Either you're a slave to sin.

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 Which leads to death.

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 Or you're a slave to obedience.

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 Which leads to righteousness.

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 So you're working out your slavery.

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 And you're paying off your debt.

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 And you're hoping that one day you're going to be free.

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 And when I get free.

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 He signs this certificate.

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 And I'm a free person again.

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 But slavery was very common.

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 And everyone knew that in that day.

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 And everyone experienced it.

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 And Paul changes his tactic.

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 And he says we're not now just talking about physical slaves.

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 We're talking about spiritual slaves.

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 And what he's saying to us, Watermark, is that in this room right now.

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 There are only two types of people.

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 Either you're a slave to sin.

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 Which leads to death.

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 Or you're a slave to obedience.

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 Which leads to righteousness.

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 Now I have drawn this out on a piece of paper.

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 And I have in this illustration and example.

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 I'm not exaggerating probably 10,000 times in my life.

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 And whenever I draw this illustration out.

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 And I said there's only two types of people in the world.

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 There's people who are slaves to sin.

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 Which leads to death.

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 There's people who are slaves to obedience.

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 Who leads to righteousness.

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 Here's a sheet of paper.

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 Which one are you?

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 How do you think most people answer?

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 What do they say?

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 They usually say I'm in between.

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 I'm in between.

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 I mean I'm not a total slave to sin.

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 I mean I do some bad things.

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 But I'm a pretty good person.

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 And I'm not totally obeying God.

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 But sometimes I obey God.

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 I mean I obey God when I go to church on Christmas and Easter.

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 And some things like that.

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 Or I put money in that little bag when people are asking for donations.

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 So I'm not totally obeying God.

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 But I obey him a little.

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 So I'm in between.

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 And what Paul says is no.

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 You're either in here a slave to sin.

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 Or you're a slave to obedience and to righteousness.

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 So the question is.

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 Which one are we?

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 If you had to write out in your journal right now privately.

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 Which one are you?

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 What would you say?

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 I mean what would it look like?

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 I mean he uses this illustration.

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 Two types.

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 And it's not the first time.

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 He's not making up something different.

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 I mean Jesus talked that way all the time.

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 Didn't he?

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 I mean Jesus talks and he says.

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 Hey there's two builders.

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 One's wise and one's foolish.

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 There's two gates.

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 One's wide and one's narrow.

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 There's two types of trees.

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 One is good fruit and one is bad fruit.

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 You can't serve two masters.

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 You either hate the one or love the other.

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 Or you love the one or you hate the other.

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 Who is your spiritual master?

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 And Paul says something really interesting.

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 He says you're going to know your master by who you serve.

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 So the question I want to ask us is.

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 Who are you serving today?

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 Who do you serve with your hands?

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 Who do you serve with your heart?

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 Who do you serve with your mind?

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 I'm not going to ask who do we say we serve.

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 Because I've learned in my life that words often mean nothing.

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 But I watch my hands.

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 And wherever my hands go to.

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 Wherever my time goes to.

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 Paul says that's who you serve.

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 That's your master.

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 So who's your master today?

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 Who's your master today?

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 I mean think about it.

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 Every one of us in here lives for something.

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 I mean something gives us strength today.

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 Something makes us feel strong.

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 Something makes us feel valuable.

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 Something makes us feel important.

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 Something makes us in control.

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 Something makes us feel significant.

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 Something makes us feel loved.

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 What is it for you?

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 What is it that gives you significance?

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 For some of us it might be our work.

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 Or our health.

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 Or our bodies.

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 Or our family.

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 Or our friends.

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 Or our kiddos.

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 Or our money.

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 Or just security.

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 And Paul says whatever that thing is.

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 Whatever that thing that gives you happiness and security and health.

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 Whatever that thing is.

00:23:03.339 --> 00:23:05.480
 That is your God.

00:23:10.480 --> 00:23:13.460
 So what's your God today?

00:23:13.460 --> 00:23:18.120
 What is the master that you're serving?

00:23:18.279 --> 00:23:20.740
 What is it that you are a slave to?

00:23:20.980 --> 00:23:22.420
 Because we all have gods.

00:23:22.480 --> 00:23:23.960
 We all have things that control us.

00:23:25.620 --> 00:23:31.059
 We all have things that bring us happiness and hope and health and security and meaning.

00:23:31.460 --> 00:23:33.860
 What is it that ultimately does that for you today?

00:23:33.859 --> 00:23:37.419
 Maybe if I asked the question.

00:23:37.539 --> 00:23:39.219
 If we followed you around after today.

00:23:40.000 --> 00:23:42.859
 And we just watched and videotaped your life for one day.

00:23:42.979 --> 00:23:45.539
 If we watched and videotaped your life for one day.

00:23:45.679 --> 00:23:46.779
 And we looked at your life.

00:23:46.979 --> 00:23:48.519
 What would we say is your master?

00:23:50.539 --> 00:23:52.179
 What would we say that you're clinging to?

00:23:52.259 --> 00:23:53.500
 What is the thing that you're serving?

00:23:53.819 --> 00:23:55.559
 What is the thing that you're a slave to?

00:23:55.799 --> 00:23:58.000
 And Paul says you're only a slave to one of two things.

00:23:58.240 --> 00:23:59.339
 Either you're a slave to sin.

00:23:59.439 --> 00:24:01.099
 Or you're a slave to righteousness.

00:24:01.099 --> 00:24:02.319
 There's no in between.

00:24:02.659 --> 00:24:05.339
 So which one are we today?

00:24:07.439 --> 00:24:09.899
 Which one is our master?

00:24:15.079 --> 00:24:18.219
 I often find my master by asking where I spend my time.

00:24:20.559 --> 00:24:24.079
 Because usually I spend my time with the thing that masters my life.

00:24:26.299 --> 00:24:29.539
 Sometimes when I'm wandering off I ask questions like.

00:24:31.099 --> 00:24:32.279
 What makes me angry?

00:24:35.559 --> 00:24:37.279
 If something were taken away from my life.

00:24:37.319 --> 00:24:38.419
 What would make me really angry?

00:24:38.519 --> 00:24:40.399
 I mean not just angry but furious.

00:24:45.599 --> 00:24:46.519
 That's my master.

00:24:49.059 --> 00:24:50.159
 That's my God.

00:24:51.519 --> 00:24:53.000
 That's the thing I need in my life.

00:24:53.079 --> 00:24:54.000
 To keep me going.

00:24:54.139 --> 00:24:54.859
 To give me hope.

00:24:55.059 --> 00:24:56.799
 To help me walk with him.

00:24:56.799 --> 00:25:01.399
 And so Paul says what is your master today?

00:25:02.440 --> 00:25:05.480
 Because we all serve one or the other.

00:25:06.119 --> 00:25:07.779
 And it's not an in between thing.

00:25:08.819 --> 00:25:09.799
 So what is it?

00:25:12.319 --> 00:25:13.819
 And then he says something amazing.

00:25:14.039 --> 00:25:14.700
 Verse 17.

00:25:16.700 --> 00:25:18.339
 He said God comes in.

00:25:19.779 --> 00:25:21.279
 And he changes us.

00:25:21.279 --> 00:25:25.180
 He changes our hearts.

00:25:26.099 --> 00:25:27.660
 He changes our minds.

00:25:28.539 --> 00:25:30.599
 He changes our affections.

00:25:30.759 --> 00:25:32.000
 The things that we desire.

00:25:32.500 --> 00:25:33.619
 The things that we want.

00:25:33.700 --> 00:25:35.180
 The things that we strive to.

00:25:36.019 --> 00:25:39.200
 And when he opens our eyes and our minds and our mouth and our ears.

00:25:39.379 --> 00:25:41.359
 To see his son Jesus.

00:25:41.599 --> 00:25:42.899
 We fall in love with him.

00:25:43.059 --> 00:25:44.519
 And when we fall in love with him.

00:25:44.559 --> 00:25:45.740
 And we understand the gospel.

00:25:45.879 --> 00:25:47.899
 And we understand grace.

00:25:47.900 --> 00:25:51.140
 And what it costs God to give it to us.

00:25:53.180 --> 00:25:54.560
 It changes us.

00:25:56.560 --> 00:25:57.720
 We live differently.

00:25:59.759 --> 00:26:01.440
 We serve different things.

00:26:02.840 --> 00:26:04.420
 We spend our time differently.

00:26:05.680 --> 00:26:07.140
 Our words are different.

00:26:08.740 --> 00:26:10.480
 The things we read are different.

00:26:12.840 --> 00:26:15.740
 Maybe even the things we do are different.

00:26:17.900 --> 00:26:19.900
 Because we live in this new realm.

00:26:20.060 --> 00:26:22.060
 This new master has come into our life.

00:26:25.880 --> 00:26:27.640
 So the question maybe we should ask is.

00:26:27.820 --> 00:26:29.200
 How are we different now?

00:26:31.980 --> 00:26:33.519
 If you're sitting in here and you say.

00:26:33.640 --> 00:26:34.420
 Yes I'm a Christian.

00:26:34.620 --> 00:26:38.140
 I serve the obedience and righteousness.

00:26:38.380 --> 00:26:39.120
 Which comes from God.

00:26:39.200 --> 00:26:40.980
 And it's making me more like Christ every day.

00:26:41.300 --> 00:26:42.420
 And everything that Christ done.

00:26:42.560 --> 00:26:43.340
 Is coming to me.

00:26:43.400 --> 00:26:44.120
 And when God looks at me.

00:26:44.180 --> 00:26:45.100
 He looks at his son.

00:26:45.640 --> 00:26:47.019
 Because that's what happens in Romans.

00:26:47.019 --> 00:26:48.000
 We've talked about that.

00:26:48.619 --> 00:26:49.799
 There's this exchange.

00:26:51.000 --> 00:26:52.920
 And so when God looks at us now.

00:26:53.019 --> 00:26:53.819
 And we've been serving him.

00:26:53.980 --> 00:26:55.339
 How are our lives different.

00:26:57.420 --> 00:26:58.359
 Than they were before.

00:27:03.139 --> 00:27:04.259
 Tobin are you more loving?

00:27:06.519 --> 00:27:07.519
 Are you more gracious?

00:27:07.519 --> 00:27:11.339
 Are you more caring?

00:27:13.420 --> 00:27:14.440
 Are you more gentle?

00:27:16.079 --> 00:27:17.160
 Are you more kind?

00:27:18.440 --> 00:27:20.839
 Do you use your time and your money differently?

00:27:21.779 --> 00:27:23.980
 Do you invest in my kingdom now?

00:27:25.740 --> 00:27:27.940
 Or do we still build into.

00:27:29.339 --> 00:27:30.660
 The kingdom of sin.

00:27:32.299 --> 00:27:33.619
 The kingdom that I live.

00:27:33.619 --> 00:27:37.759
 Now Paul's not saying.

00:27:37.959 --> 00:27:39.859
 That once you come into this new kingdom.

00:27:40.000 --> 00:27:41.019
 That everything is perfect.

00:27:41.219 --> 00:27:42.239
 That you never sin.

00:27:42.299 --> 00:27:42.979
 You never tempted.

00:27:43.159 --> 00:27:44.419
 You never mess up.

00:27:44.579 --> 00:27:45.679
 He's not saying that.

00:27:45.719 --> 00:27:47.679
 He's not saying you become perfect Christians.

00:27:49.079 --> 00:27:50.539
 But he's saying there's a difference.

00:27:51.839 --> 00:27:53.079
 There's a change.

00:27:55.239 --> 00:27:56.639
 If I ever was going to write a book.

00:27:56.699 --> 00:27:57.239
 I've told you that.

00:27:57.319 --> 00:27:58.339
 The title of my book would be.

00:27:58.399 --> 00:27:59.599
 A turtle on a fence post.

00:27:59.599 --> 00:28:02.279
 Because you see a turtle on a fence post.

00:28:02.359 --> 00:28:02.599
 And you wonder.

00:28:02.699 --> 00:28:03.539
 Well how did that turtle get up there?

00:28:03.579 --> 00:28:04.059
 And you just know.

00:28:04.119 --> 00:28:04.859
 The only reason it got up there.

00:28:04.919 --> 00:28:06.179
 Is because somebody put it up there.

00:28:06.219 --> 00:28:07.339
 And that's my life.

00:28:07.419 --> 00:28:08.599
 God just put us there.

00:28:09.759 --> 00:28:11.000
 But chapter one of that story.

00:28:11.119 --> 00:28:11.839
 Would probably be.

00:28:12.039 --> 00:28:13.519
 The dumb things I've done in my life.

00:28:14.659 --> 00:28:16.480
 My wife is very happy.

00:28:16.579 --> 00:28:17.539
 That I've done most of them.

00:28:18.039 --> 00:28:19.039
 Before I got married.

00:28:20.339 --> 00:28:21.539
 But one of the dumbest things.

00:28:21.539 --> 00:28:22.899
 Was I decided to go with some friends.

00:28:22.980 --> 00:28:24.139
 We went into Cambodia.

00:28:24.139 --> 00:28:26.259
 When they were kind of having this civil war going on.

00:28:26.319 --> 00:28:26.740
 In 88.

00:28:26.740 --> 00:28:29.240
 And we were walking through.

00:28:30.039 --> 00:28:31.359
 Khmer Rouge territory.

00:28:31.579 --> 00:28:32.299
 And Angkor Wat.

00:28:32.420 --> 00:28:33.980
 And we were exploring all these things.

00:28:34.079 --> 00:28:35.380
 With this Khmer little kid.

00:28:35.440 --> 00:28:36.160
 Was showing us around.

00:28:36.539 --> 00:28:38.200
 And we walked into this area.

00:28:38.539 --> 00:28:39.039
 And all of a sudden.

00:28:39.180 --> 00:28:40.400
 I walked up to this Dutch.

00:28:40.400 --> 00:28:42.140
 Or Danish UN guy.

00:28:42.220 --> 00:28:43.160
 In a blue outfit with a hat.

00:28:43.200 --> 00:28:44.120
 And there's three Khmer guys.

00:28:44.339 --> 00:28:44.759
 And he goes.

00:28:44.799 --> 00:28:45.140
 Stop.

00:28:47.519 --> 00:28:48.099
 And I'm like.

00:28:49.319 --> 00:28:49.859
 He goes.

00:28:49.900 --> 00:28:51.779
 You are walking in a land mine field.

00:28:55.339 --> 00:28:56.160
 Stand right there.

00:28:56.740 --> 00:28:59.680
 And he came over.

00:28:59.779 --> 00:29:01.259
 And he got us out of the land mine field.

00:29:01.319 --> 00:29:02.779
 And we walked out of the land mine field.

00:29:02.980 --> 00:29:04.400
 And we walked to the safe place.

00:29:04.440 --> 00:29:05.880
 And we're talking about what he was doing.

00:29:08.940 --> 00:29:09.519
 And all of a sudden.

00:29:09.599 --> 00:29:10.539
 The walkie talkie comes on.

00:29:11.819 --> 00:29:13.740
 And they're all panicking.

00:29:13.859 --> 00:29:14.180
 Freaking out.

00:29:14.240 --> 00:29:14.339
 He goes.

00:29:14.339 --> 00:29:14.700
 What's going on?

00:29:14.720 --> 00:29:14.859
 He goes.

00:29:15.039 --> 00:29:16.160
 There's this group of Khmer Rouge.

00:29:16.220 --> 00:29:17.059
 They're coming through right now.

00:29:17.279 --> 00:29:18.819
 And they're coming in the way you came.

00:29:19.039 --> 00:29:20.140
 And so we have to go out that way.

00:29:21.940 --> 00:29:22.420
 I'm like.

00:29:22.480 --> 00:29:23.900
 So we have to go out through.

00:29:24.539 --> 00:29:25.539
 The land mine field.

00:29:25.539 --> 00:29:29.180
 You can see why it's number one in the dumb things I've done.

00:29:30.000 --> 00:29:30.339
 He said.

00:29:30.399 --> 00:29:30.700
 Yes.

00:29:31.059 --> 00:29:31.740
 Follow me.

00:29:34.920 --> 00:29:36.539
 And we step by step.

00:29:37.059 --> 00:29:39.180
 Followed him out of the land mine field.

00:29:41.279 --> 00:29:43.720
 Paul's saying that our conversion is kind of like that.

00:29:45.379 --> 00:29:47.159
 That you and I were playing in this land mine field.

00:29:47.240 --> 00:29:48.059
 We didn't know we were there.

00:29:48.159 --> 00:29:49.039
 The things that we wanted.

00:29:49.159 --> 00:29:49.899
 And we thought were cool.

00:29:49.960 --> 00:29:50.720
 And we were playing with them.

00:29:50.740 --> 00:29:51.539
 And we thought they were great.

00:29:51.839 --> 00:29:52.559
 He actually says.

00:29:52.559 --> 00:29:53.500
 Those things are going to kill us.

00:29:53.500 --> 00:29:54.079
 They're going to blow up.

00:29:54.079 --> 00:29:55.240
 And destroy our lives.

00:29:55.879 --> 00:29:57.339
 We think they're going to give us life.

00:29:57.439 --> 00:29:58.819
 But they're actually going to kill us.

00:29:59.659 --> 00:30:00.659
 And the scary thing is.

00:30:00.679 --> 00:30:01.740
 We don't even know that.

00:30:03.019 --> 00:30:03.399
 I mean.

00:30:03.419 --> 00:30:04.319
 We think it's great.

00:30:05.859 --> 00:30:06.139
 I mean.

00:30:06.679 --> 00:30:07.779
 Porn is amazing.

00:30:09.019 --> 00:30:10.359
 Having sex with whoever you want.

00:30:10.399 --> 00:30:11.119
 That's amazing.

00:30:12.460 --> 00:30:13.519
 Accumulating all these things.

00:30:13.599 --> 00:30:14.039
 Just for me.

00:30:14.079 --> 00:30:14.879
 That's amazing.

00:30:14.880 --> 00:30:16.780
 And Paul says.

00:30:16.940 --> 00:30:19.580
 You're playing with something that's going to destroy you.

00:30:20.860 --> 00:30:22.500
 That's going to kill you.

00:30:23.540 --> 00:30:25.580
 And you're blind to your blindness.

00:30:28.080 --> 00:30:29.820
 Scripture says we're blinded to our blindness.

00:30:29.900 --> 00:30:30.900
 We don't even know that.

00:30:32.800 --> 00:30:33.060
 And so.

00:30:33.400 --> 00:30:34.200
 God comes in.

00:30:34.260 --> 00:30:36.120
 And he grabs us out of this land mine field.

00:30:36.320 --> 00:30:37.920
 And he puts us in this new field.

00:30:38.080 --> 00:30:40.080
 And there's this wall between these two fields.

00:30:40.699 --> 00:30:43.079
 And we start playing around in this field here.

00:30:43.139 --> 00:30:43.799
 And we're doing life.

00:30:43.859 --> 00:30:44.339
 And we're walking.

00:30:44.439 --> 00:30:45.059
 And we're doing things.

00:30:45.339 --> 00:30:46.579
 And all of a sudden we hear this voice.

00:30:47.439 --> 00:30:47.899
 Hey Tobin.

00:30:48.139 --> 00:30:48.859
 Come back over here.

00:30:50.939 --> 00:30:52.279
 You remember all the fun we used to have?

00:30:52.519 --> 00:30:52.819
 Come on.

00:30:53.419 --> 00:30:54.119
 We're still having fun.

00:30:54.179 --> 00:30:55.359
 And we want you to come into the field.

00:30:55.419 --> 00:30:55.639
 Come on.

00:30:55.679 --> 00:30:56.259
 We need you over here.

00:30:57.699 --> 00:30:59.339
 And Paul says we have this choice now.

00:31:00.399 --> 00:31:00.960
 The choice is.

00:31:01.019 --> 00:31:01.899
 Are we going to open the door.

00:31:02.059 --> 00:31:03.139
 And walk into the field.

00:31:03.460 --> 00:31:04.779
 And start playing with the land mines.

00:31:04.779 --> 00:31:06.740
 Or are we going to say.

00:31:06.819 --> 00:31:08.619
 No that's not me anymore.

00:31:10.920 --> 00:31:12.399
 That's not who I am.

00:31:14.240 --> 00:31:14.559
 Augustine.

00:31:14.639 --> 00:31:15.720
 One of the early church writers.

00:31:15.899 --> 00:31:17.720
 Tells this amazing story in his biography.

00:31:18.180 --> 00:31:19.980
 He was just licentious.

00:31:20.339 --> 00:31:21.240
 As a young man.

00:31:21.339 --> 00:31:22.819
 And he knew every woman in the town.

00:31:22.899 --> 00:31:23.700
 And everything that happened.

00:31:24.259 --> 00:31:25.660
 And he had this conversion experience.

00:31:25.720 --> 00:31:26.519
 It was pretty amazing.

00:31:26.940 --> 00:31:28.480
 And he's walking down in the middle of town.

00:31:28.559 --> 00:31:29.460
 And he sees this woman.

00:31:29.619 --> 00:31:30.519
 Who was a courtesan.

00:31:30.579 --> 00:31:31.799
 Who had been with him for many years.

00:31:31.799 --> 00:31:33.139
 And she was just.

00:31:33.359 --> 00:31:34.440
 And she saw him.

00:31:34.480 --> 00:31:35.839
 And she wanted to be with him.

00:31:36.139 --> 00:31:37.460
 And it started up a fling again.

00:31:38.440 --> 00:31:39.019
 And he said.

00:31:39.059 --> 00:31:39.240
 Hey.

00:31:39.299 --> 00:31:39.700
 How are you?

00:31:39.740 --> 00:31:39.919
 She goes.

00:31:39.919 --> 00:31:40.779
 I want to be with you.

00:31:40.899 --> 00:31:41.220
 And he goes.

00:31:41.240 --> 00:31:41.980
 Thank you so much.

00:31:42.000 --> 00:31:42.879
 I really appreciate that.

00:31:42.919 --> 00:31:44.299
 But I'm sorry.

00:31:44.339 --> 00:31:45.200
 I'm not really interested.

00:31:45.980 --> 00:31:47.119
 And he walks away.

00:31:47.299 --> 00:31:48.519
 And she's thinking in her mind.

00:31:48.559 --> 00:31:49.720
 Well maybe he doesn't recognize me.

00:31:49.779 --> 00:31:50.899
 Maybe he doesn't know who I am.

00:31:51.899 --> 00:31:52.839
 And so she yells out.

00:31:53.000 --> 00:31:53.319
 Augustine.

00:31:54.379 --> 00:31:55.000
 It's me.

00:31:55.960 --> 00:31:56.599
 It's me.

00:31:58.000 --> 00:31:58.779
 And he looks at her.

00:31:58.779 --> 00:31:59.180
 And he goes.

00:31:59.700 --> 00:32:00.159
 I know.

00:32:01.799 --> 00:32:02.779
 But it's not me.

00:32:05.299 --> 00:32:06.139
 It's not me.

00:32:08.299 --> 00:32:09.139
 I'm different.

00:32:11.139 --> 00:32:12.059
 I've changed.

00:32:13.859 --> 00:32:14.740
 And Paul says.

00:32:14.839 --> 00:32:16.339
 You and I are going to be playing in these fields.

00:32:16.440 --> 00:32:19.240
 And these voices are going to continually beckoning us back into the fields.

00:32:19.500 --> 00:32:20.579
 And now we have a choice.

00:32:20.619 --> 00:32:21.799
 Because before we didn't have a choice.

00:32:21.839 --> 00:32:23.200
 We were just playing with the landmines.

00:32:24.639 --> 00:32:25.859
 But now we're free.

00:32:28.039 --> 00:32:29.500
 Now we can choose life.

00:32:29.500 --> 00:32:33.700
 Now we can choose things that aren't going to kill us and destroy us.

00:32:35.680 --> 00:32:38.359
 Now we can choose the good things that God wants for us.

00:32:40.240 --> 00:32:41.440
 And the question is.

00:32:43.720 --> 00:32:44.279
 Will we?

00:32:47.880 --> 00:32:48.900
 Do we want that?

00:32:48.900 --> 00:32:54.460
 To be honest.

00:32:54.519 --> 00:32:55.680
 Sometimes I hear this voice.

00:32:55.759 --> 00:32:56.259
 And it says.

00:32:57.220 --> 00:32:59.200
 You can have more fun doing these things.

00:33:01.240 --> 00:33:03.700
 You can have more fun going back into the line of mine field.

00:33:05.519 --> 00:33:07.800
 I always struggle in myself.

00:33:07.900 --> 00:33:10.180
 And I wonder why it's so hard for me.

00:33:11.180 --> 00:33:12.759
 To give my life to God.

00:33:12.759 --> 00:33:18.779
 I mean it's one of the things that offends people the most in church.

00:33:19.799 --> 00:33:21.160
 If I'm going to offend you today.

00:33:21.220 --> 00:33:23.019
 And I probably offended you multiple times.

00:33:23.940 --> 00:33:25.279
 One of the ways I'm going to offend you.

00:33:25.339 --> 00:33:25.740
 Is I'm going to say.

00:33:25.859 --> 00:33:27.079
 You know God has called us.

00:33:27.440 --> 00:33:28.379
 As his people.

00:33:28.519 --> 00:33:29.460
 And to becoming his people.

00:33:29.539 --> 00:33:31.099
 To give all of our life to him.

00:33:32.920 --> 00:33:33.759
 And to most people.

00:33:33.859 --> 00:33:35.500
 That's really really offensive.

00:33:36.779 --> 00:33:37.680
 Because they don't know.

00:33:37.759 --> 00:33:38.779
 If they can trust God.

00:33:38.779 --> 00:33:42.259
 They don't know if God is good.

00:33:42.379 --> 00:33:44.000
 Is God this electric octopus.

00:33:44.200 --> 00:33:45.019
 That's going to shock them.

00:33:45.200 --> 00:33:46.119
 And cling on to them.

00:33:46.139 --> 00:33:47.119
 As they grab on to him.

00:33:47.720 --> 00:33:49.079
 Or is he going to be good for them.

00:33:49.119 --> 00:33:49.700
 And help them.

00:33:49.839 --> 00:33:51.799
 And want the best things for them.

00:33:51.839 --> 00:33:52.480
 They don't know that.

00:33:52.519 --> 00:33:53.559
 We don't know that.

00:33:56.680 --> 00:33:58.279
 It's because we don't realize who we are.

00:33:59.839 --> 00:34:02.079
 We don't realize the change that's happened in us.

00:34:04.700 --> 00:34:05.700
 I love sports.

00:34:07.220 --> 00:34:08.300
 I agree with Alfie.

00:34:09.019 --> 00:34:10.200
 Soccer is for girls.

00:34:13.140 --> 00:34:14.519
 Growing up in a military family.

00:34:14.620 --> 00:34:15.460
 My dad always told me.

00:34:15.560 --> 00:34:16.920
 That soccer was a communist sport.

00:34:19.160 --> 00:34:21.200
 He said Americans use Boy Scouts.

00:34:21.380 --> 00:34:21.800
 And soccers.

00:34:22.040 --> 00:34:23.240
 And communists use soccer.

00:34:23.600 --> 00:34:24.519
 So don't ever do soccer.

00:34:25.680 --> 00:34:26.940
 I'm still trying to get over that.

00:34:27.000 --> 00:34:27.200
 Right.

00:34:28.260 --> 00:34:29.340
 But I love baseball.

00:34:29.440 --> 00:34:30.800
 And I played 16 years of baseball.

00:34:30.960 --> 00:34:31.760
 I think it's one of the things.

00:34:31.840 --> 00:34:32.740
 Probably people keep saying.

00:34:32.780 --> 00:34:33.760
 You're really gifted in baseball.

00:34:33.880 --> 00:34:35.000
 You're really excellent in baseball.

00:34:35.720 --> 00:34:36.500
 And I remember.

00:34:36.700 --> 00:34:38.100
 After about my fifth or sixth year.

00:34:38.099 --> 00:34:39.440
 We had this new coach.

00:34:39.519 --> 00:34:40.739
 And this coach was.

00:34:42.599 --> 00:34:44.139
 He was like the coach from hell.

00:34:46.139 --> 00:34:47.119
 Coach Kilgore.

00:34:47.659 --> 00:34:49.279
 I'm going to go back and strike his name off.

00:34:49.339 --> 00:34:50.339
 So I don't want anybody calling him.

00:34:50.340 --> 00:34:53.280
 But he was the worst coach.

00:34:53.579 --> 00:34:54.539
 He was mean.

00:34:54.800 --> 00:34:56.280
 He was terrible.

00:34:56.579 --> 00:34:57.500
 He was strict.

00:34:57.720 --> 00:34:58.579
 He cussed.

00:34:58.800 --> 00:34:59.960
 He yelled at everybody.

00:35:00.220 --> 00:35:01.640
 He made the athletes cry.

00:35:01.860 --> 00:35:03.360
 He made the parents cry.

00:35:03.800 --> 00:35:09.940
 He was just the meanest, orneriest coach and leader and master I've ever had in my whole life.

00:35:09.940 --> 00:35:11.980
 Four months.

00:35:12.519 --> 00:35:14.760
 I played baseball under this guy.

00:35:14.860 --> 00:35:17.320
 And I just couldn't wait to get off and get out of that season.

00:35:18.220 --> 00:35:20.760
 The next season, he wasn't my coach anymore.

00:35:20.840 --> 00:35:21.679
 I had a new team.

00:35:22.019 --> 00:35:23.480
 I had a new coach come up to me.

00:35:23.639 --> 00:35:24.920
 And we're talking about that.

00:35:25.280 --> 00:35:26.240
 And it was just, oh, wow.

00:35:26.579 --> 00:35:28.480
 But all of a sudden, Coach Kilgore walks up.

00:35:28.480 --> 00:35:31.539
 What did I feel?

00:35:34.260 --> 00:35:36.219
 I mean, I'm like, yes, sir.

00:35:36.300 --> 00:35:36.820
 Yes, sir.

00:35:38.440 --> 00:35:42.119
 And if he said drop and give me 20 push-ups, I probably would have given myself 20 push-ups.

00:35:43.920 --> 00:35:44.320
 Why?

00:35:46.820 --> 00:35:48.659
 Because I forgot whose team I was on.

00:35:50.480 --> 00:35:52.360
 I forgot which coach I had.

00:35:52.360 --> 00:36:00.099
 Now, what if you had a coach Kilgore for 25 years, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week?

00:36:07.180 --> 00:36:07.579
 Sin.

00:36:09.700 --> 00:36:10.059
 Death.

00:36:14.360 --> 00:36:19.599
 And praise be to God who comes in and he changes our life and he shows us Jesus Christ.

00:36:19.740 --> 00:36:20.640
 And we see gospel.

00:36:20.780 --> 00:36:21.380
 We see the grace.

00:36:21.480 --> 00:36:22.160
 We see our need.

00:36:22.360 --> 00:36:23.640
 We repent of our sins.

00:36:23.760 --> 00:36:25.240
 We turn around and we follow him.

00:36:28.620 --> 00:36:31.180
 Do our actions change right away?

00:36:37.660 --> 00:36:39.680
 I mean, our position changes right away.

00:36:40.160 --> 00:36:41.099
 We're in this new kingdom.

00:36:41.340 --> 00:36:42.160
 We're in this new realm.

00:36:42.280 --> 00:36:43.880
 We have this new king who controls everything.

00:36:43.880 --> 00:36:45.900
 But do our actions change right away?

00:36:47.860 --> 00:36:52.019
 They must not because Paul is writing Romans to a church that's 25 years old.

00:36:52.579 --> 00:36:54.239
 And Paul talks about it even in his life.

00:36:54.300 --> 00:36:55.239
 I'm still trying to learn.

00:36:55.360 --> 00:36:56.780
 I'm still going forward.

00:36:56.900 --> 00:36:57.659
 I'm still struggling.

00:36:59.000 --> 00:37:00.239
 It takes time.

00:37:01.239 --> 00:37:03.960
 It takes us reminding each other who we are.

00:37:04.840 --> 00:37:05.679
 Whose we are.

00:37:05.679 --> 00:37:06.679
 Who's in control?

00:37:06.679 --> 00:37:07.279
 Who's in control?

00:37:07.279 --> 00:37:08.779
 Who's our God?

00:37:09.059 --> 00:37:10.199
 What's our God like?

00:37:10.419 --> 00:37:11.719
 What does God want for us?

00:37:14.339 --> 00:37:15.599
 That's why we come to church.

00:37:15.599 --> 00:37:20.099
 That's why we worship him every Sunday.

00:37:20.239 --> 00:37:22.420
 We worship him because he's the only one worthy of our worship.

00:37:22.819 --> 00:37:24.759
 But we come together to encourage each other.

00:37:24.760 --> 00:37:29.960
 So Paul ends this whole chapter and he says, be careful.

00:37:31.920 --> 00:37:33.360
 Be careful who you're serving.

00:37:35.100 --> 00:37:39.920
 Because if you go back to that old life, Romans 6.23 is a very interesting verse.

00:37:40.280 --> 00:37:41.360
 We quote it sometimes.

00:37:41.440 --> 00:37:42.840
 We talk about the wages of sin is death.

00:37:43.240 --> 00:37:47.380
 The wage, that word, actually isn't like a lifetime going to hell type of thing.

00:37:47.380 --> 00:37:50.400
 It actually, in Greek, it means your day's pay.

00:37:51.300 --> 00:37:54.260
 So you work a day and it actually means your fish wages.

00:37:54.400 --> 00:37:55.840
 So Roman soldiers were paid in fish.

00:37:56.019 --> 00:37:56.740
 They work a day.

00:37:56.820 --> 00:37:57.940
 They get paid fish to eat.

00:37:59.019 --> 00:38:03.559
 And he says, so the wages, your daily wage for sin is death.

00:38:03.720 --> 00:38:07.599
 He's saying that you didn't die physically when you sin at that moment.

00:38:07.720 --> 00:38:10.500
 But you're building death into your life.

00:38:10.599 --> 00:38:12.099
 You're playing with the landmines.

00:38:12.800 --> 00:38:14.660
 You're touching things that are going to destroy you.

00:38:15.039 --> 00:38:16.780
 You're going to touch things that are going to kill you.

00:38:18.000 --> 00:38:19.800
 And Paul says, don't do it.

00:38:21.980 --> 00:38:23.360
 Because you have a new master now.

00:38:25.160 --> 00:38:29.840
 And this new master is good and he's kind and he's gentle and he's fair and he's loving and he's gracious.

00:38:30.780 --> 00:38:33.039
 And he's giving you a gift that you can never earn.

00:38:34.539 --> 00:38:41.800
 I've often thought about that in the very beginning when we said, I owed a debt to E and however long it took for me to pay off my debt, that's how long I had to work for E.

00:38:44.420 --> 00:38:46.960
 How long do you think it would take us to pay off our debt to E, O God?

00:38:47.380 --> 00:38:59.760
 We can never do it.

00:39:00.000 --> 00:39:00.140
 We can never do it.

00:39:04.140 --> 00:39:05.280
 But he pays it off.

00:39:07.660 --> 00:39:08.920
 His son pays it off.

00:39:08.920 --> 00:39:16.200
 Paul's saying as we go through the journey of life, we're going to have struggles.

00:39:17.940 --> 00:39:18.780
 Who's your master?

00:39:19.980 --> 00:39:20.860
 Who's your God?

00:39:20.860 --> 00:39:22.840
 What are you serving?

00:39:23.559 --> 00:39:24.880
 What brings you life?

00:39:25.519 --> 00:39:26.660
 What brings you hope?

00:39:27.360 --> 00:39:28.920
 What makes your life worth living?

00:39:30.019 --> 00:39:36.820
 And he's saying that anything besides God is going to ultimately destroy you.

00:39:36.820 --> 00:39:49.740
 Any choice besides obedience and righteousness is going to kill us.

00:39:56.740 --> 00:39:57.780
 Who are you serving today?

00:40:00.440 --> 00:40:01.300
 Who's your master?

00:40:01.300 --> 00:40:05.519
 What kingdom are you in?

00:40:09.680 --> 00:40:11.460
 Who are you opening the door for in your life?

00:40:15.460 --> 00:40:17.039
 That's what Romans 6 is all about.

00:40:18.260 --> 00:40:19.640
 Father, we thank you for this day.

00:40:19.740 --> 00:40:22.000
 We thank you for your goodness and your mercy in our life.

00:40:22.000 --> 00:40:27.079
 We thank you for your word which is living and active and never changes.

00:40:27.400 --> 00:40:29.840
 And it hits us differently each time we read it.

00:40:30.320 --> 00:40:32.480
 But it presents the message of your son Jesus.

00:40:33.780 --> 00:40:38.059
 Who is more loving and beautiful than we could ever imagine.

00:40:39.340 --> 00:40:46.340
 Who pays a debt that we could never, ever even comprehend or pay out.

00:40:46.340 --> 00:40:50.200
 Who gives it to us as a gift.

00:40:52.760 --> 00:40:57.900
 Who now encourages us to walk in a way that is worthy of that.

00:40:58.140 --> 00:40:58.760
 It's his people.

00:41:01.100 --> 00:41:05.320
 We're not asked to walk in a way worthy of it before we get the gift because that would be impossible.

00:41:05.519 --> 00:41:13.240
 But we're asked to walk in a way that shows how much we love God for all that he's given us.

00:41:13.239 --> 00:41:19.339
 Father, I pray for this church, your church, the people in here.

00:41:20.399 --> 00:41:22.939
 I know that we're all at different stages of life on the journey.

00:41:23.059 --> 00:41:23.939
 We're all at different places.

00:41:25.279 --> 00:41:27.719
 There's some of us in here who are still playing in a landmine field.

00:41:27.779 --> 00:41:28.839
 And we're picking up landmines.

00:41:28.899 --> 00:41:29.579
 And they're blowing up.

00:41:29.619 --> 00:41:30.639
 But we say it's not that bad.

00:41:30.779 --> 00:41:31.519
 It'll get better.

00:41:31.879 --> 00:41:35.939
 And we don't realize that we're sowing death daily into our lives.

00:41:36.000 --> 00:41:39.119
 We're paying a wage that will never be able to be paid back.

00:41:39.119 --> 00:41:44.980
 And I pray for them, those of us in here who are there, that we would, you would open their eyes.

00:41:45.440 --> 00:41:51.519
 Verse 17, that you would come into their life and that they would be just presented to you face to face.

00:41:51.599 --> 00:41:53.679
 And they would have to make this decision.

00:41:53.819 --> 00:41:59.599
 And the decision is a no-brainer as they see who you are and their need for you.

00:41:59.599 --> 00:42:03.900
 And I pray that they would invite you into their life.

00:42:04.000 --> 00:42:10.500
 They would surrender our lives and ask you to be the Lord of their life and the King of their life and their God.

00:42:12.779 --> 00:42:17.239
 Lord, I know there's some of us in here who, like me, we abuse your grace.

00:42:17.360 --> 00:42:18.579
 We abuse your mercy.

00:42:18.719 --> 00:42:20.960
 We abuse your love and your justice.

00:42:21.239 --> 00:42:25.199
 And we just, we enter into the field again and again.

00:42:25.199 --> 00:42:27.899
 And we just think, well, it doesn't really matter.

00:42:28.299 --> 00:42:29.500
 But it does matter.

00:42:30.859 --> 00:42:33.339
 It shows us that we don't really understand what you've done.

00:42:33.960 --> 00:42:35.219
 We don't understand grace.

00:42:35.299 --> 00:42:36.319
 We don't understand mercy.

00:42:36.439 --> 00:42:38.079
 If we ask, why not?

00:42:39.659 --> 00:42:40.659
 Lord, help us.

00:42:40.939 --> 00:42:45.239
 I just confess for us as a church, we need you.

00:42:46.819 --> 00:42:50.759
 We're so thankful that you are the God of second chances and that you change us.

00:42:50.760 --> 00:42:58.520
 And as we sing over and over again, you don't give up on us as your children because you've pursued us from eternity.

00:43:00.380 --> 00:43:06.540
 Lord, help us to encourage each other and speak the words of affirmation of who is our King and who are we as slaves to.

00:43:06.880 --> 00:43:09.600
 And what does that mean to be slaves to the righteous King of Heaven?

00:43:12.020 --> 00:43:14.020
 Help us to encourage each other in that way.

00:43:15.920 --> 00:43:17.600
 And Lord, I pray for us as a church.

00:43:17.720 --> 00:43:18.760
 I pray for Watermark.

00:43:18.760 --> 00:43:19.320
 Watermark.

00:43:19.400 --> 00:43:24.860
 We're not here just to come together and encourage each other and get our needs met and go away.

00:43:24.900 --> 00:43:31.940
 But we're here to present your son to people who don't know him yet, to people who are walking in the landmine field, to people who are getting blown up.

00:43:34.500 --> 00:43:35.920
 Help us to realize that.

00:43:37.020 --> 00:43:38.400
 That the church isn't about us.

00:43:38.460 --> 00:43:40.700
 The church is about your son and about you.

00:43:40.780 --> 00:43:42.100
 And you're the hero of the church.

00:43:42.140 --> 00:43:43.320
 And you're the hero of the story.

00:43:43.320 --> 00:43:45.740
 And you've grafted us into this story.

00:43:45.860 --> 00:43:48.620
 And you've done amazing things in us and through us.

00:43:48.660 --> 00:43:49.740
 And now we're your children.

00:43:50.860 --> 00:43:52.039
 Help us not to go back.

00:43:52.160 --> 00:43:53.820
 Help us not to open the door and let things in.

00:43:53.880 --> 00:43:57.680
 Help us to show us what it means to walk with you in your mercy and your grace.

00:43:59.180 --> 00:44:03.940
 Help us be a church that invites people to church and invites people to community and invites people to our home.

00:44:04.340 --> 00:44:06.980
 And shares with them and just are friends with them.

00:44:06.980 --> 00:44:11.420
 Help us to be intentional with people who don't know you.

00:44:15.880 --> 00:44:21.340
 Help us to make this part of Hong Kong different, not through our efforts, but through your efforts living through us.

00:44:22.980 --> 00:44:25.619
 So Father, we thank you for this day and we love you.

00:44:27.679 --> 00:44:29.679
 We desperately, desperately need you.

00:44:33.400 --> 00:44:36.400
 Thank you that you are the good master.

00:44:36.980 --> 00:44:39.480
 The good God.

00:44:41.480 --> 00:44:42.579
 Our Lord and Savior.

00:44:44.300 --> 00:44:45.960
 In your son Jesus' name we pray.

00:44:46.199 --> 00:44:46.519
 Amen.