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 Let's go to Proverbs chapter 6. Proverbs chapter 6. And just to say that before you leave this morning, please pick up this free little booklet.

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 So as you come this morning, how do you perceive, how do you think about the people around you?

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 Well, as we begin to see the church, as Jesus looks at us today, we will see a display of his amazing grace, which will overflow in thankfulness to God for one another.

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 Let's pray and ask for God's help as we look at his word together.

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 Father, thank you for this book of Proverbs.

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 Please help us, please help us, by the power of your spirit, to take on board your word that would filter into our hearts and change us into wise people who love Jesus and love his ways.

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 Encourage us all today, we pray, in Jesus' name. Amen.

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 Amen.

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 What do you hate?

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 Or what is detestable to you?

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 I don't mean do you dislike broccoli or loathe pineapple on your pizza.

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 I mean, what do you see around you that causes outrage and disgust.

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 Well, the recent events in Northern Ireland angered and upset me.

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 To see a young, pregnant mum having her windows smashed and her living room destroyed, all because she came from a different country.

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 The scenes of communities handing out what are called non-white people was disgusting.

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 Or the daily accounts we see on our news screens of innocent children being maimed and killed angers me.

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 Bombs and bullets dropped and fired, causing devastation and heartbreak.

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 The pictures of communities being destroyed are at times unbearable to watch.

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 So what do you hate to see?

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 What is detestable to you?

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 Well, if we look at chapter 6, wisdom will tell us what is detestable.

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 Verse 16.

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 There are six things the Lord hates.

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 Seven that are detestable to him.

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 Haughty eyes.

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 A lying tongue.

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 Hands that shed innocent blood.

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 A heart that devises wicked schemes.

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 Feet that are quick to rush into evil.

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 A false witness who pours out lies.

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 And a person who stirs up conflict in the community.

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 That's a lot of things, isn't it?

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 That the Lord God hates and detests.

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 But there's one that stands out above all the rest.

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 You see, verse 16 is a way of highlighting something.

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 It's like getting your yellow highlighter and marking what is the thing that God detests the most.

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 Verse 16.

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 There are six things the Lord hates.

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 Seven that are detestable to him.

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 It's a way of saying that of everything I hate, the most detestable is the sevenths.

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 Look at the end of verse 19.

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 A person who stirs up conflict in the community.

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 God hates conflict.

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 God detests conflict.

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 In fact, we should treat conflict with the same attitude that God does.

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 Look at what God says to his church.

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 I have it written on the screen.

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 Warn a divisive person once.

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 Then warn them a second time.

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 After that have nothing to do with them.

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 You may be sure that such people are warped and sinful.

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 They are self-condemned.

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 You see, conflict is serious, isn't it?

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 It is detestable.

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 In chapter 5, wisdom taught us the dangers of sexual freedom.

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 Well, in chapter 6, wisdom teaches us the dangers of conflict.

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 Proverbs teaches us that there are campers.

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 How many people?

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 Two people.

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 There are those who go the way of wisdom and the way of folly.

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 And wisdom will show us that conflict is dangerous.

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 And those who sow seeds of peace are wise.

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 So let's look at three things about conflict.

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 How it starts.

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 How it works.

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 And how we can bring healing to conflict.

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 So first, how conflict starts.

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 Where does it begin?

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 How does it start?

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 Well, look back at verse 12.

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 A troublemaker and a villain.

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 Who goes about with a corrupt mouth.

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 Who winks maliciously with his eye.

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 Says one thing.

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 But means another.

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 Signals with his feet.

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 Leads you into thinking of going one way.

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 But is actually going another.

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 And motions with his finger.

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 Points to one course of action.

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 But is taking another.

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 Who plots evil with deceit in his heart.

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 He always stirs up conflict.

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 You see, conflict is something that rises up from inside.

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 Verse 14 tells us that deceit is in his heart.

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 He always stirs up conflict.

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 Go back to chapter 4, verse 23.

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 Chapter 4, verse 23.

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 Above all else, guard your heart.

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 For everything you do.

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 For everything you do.

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 Flows from it.

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 You see, our desires and our choices.

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 And our behaviours and our attitudes.

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 All come from within inside.

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 From the heart.

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 That's why we need to guard our hearts.

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 From sowing seeds of conflict.

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 It comes from deep within.

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 In fact, the seeds of conflict have their roots in the great conflict.

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 We know that story, that account recorded for us in Genesis 3.

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 The first conflict ever to take place.

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 The attempt to push God off his throne and overtake his rule.

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 Adam and Eve turned against God's good and loving rule.

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 And it set off a tsunami of chaos and destruction

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 that continues to flood and destroy our lives and communities.

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 That conflict with God

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 ended in conflict with everything else.

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 They suffered a conflict within themselves

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 filled with shame and guilt.

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 They suffered conflict with each other

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 as they began to blame each other

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 and try to suppress and rule one another.

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 They suffered conflict with creation itself

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 as disorder and decay set in.

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 The conflict was deep.

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 And so every generation since

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 continues to follow from our first parents.

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 The impact we see and experience

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 all around us.

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 What we see on the television.

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 Conflict between Palestine and Israel.

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 Both blaming atrocities on each other.

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 The ongoing battle between Ukraine and Russia.

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 This week it was reported

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 that over 350,000 people

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 have been killed

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 and one million have been wounded

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 in that conflict.

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 Men, women and children

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 blasted to their death

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 because of the seeds of conflict

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 that arise within the human heart.

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 But we don't have to look at the battles

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 that are out there.

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 We see it close to home, don't we?

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 Families fall out.

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 They don't speak to one another.

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 Marriages break up.

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 Friends separate.

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 People leave their churches.

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 conflict all starts

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 because of an unguarded sinful heart.

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 We're obsessed with being right,

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 taking offense,

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 getting even,

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 holding grudges.

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 It comes from within

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 and it's dangerous.

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 Proverbs reminds us

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 that a perverse person

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 stirs up conflict

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 and gossip

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 separates close friends.

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 Or this one,

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 an angry person

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 stirs up conflict

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 and a hot-tempered person

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 commits

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 many sins.

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 You see,

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 God has created

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 a good

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 and beautiful world.

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 Harmony,

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 beauty and joy.

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 A world of peace,

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 wholeness

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 and well-being.

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 God looked at it all

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 and it was good.

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 But conflict

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 has destroyed it all.

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 That's why God

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 hates conflict

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 and detests conflict

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 because it ruins nations,

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 it destroys communities

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 and it shatters families.

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 It turns upside down

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 the good

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 that God had intended.

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 So first,

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 how conflict starts.

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 It starts from

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 an unguarded heart

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 where the seeds

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 of conflict

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 begin to flow out.

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 So second,

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 how conflict

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 works.

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 How it works out

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 in day-to-day life.

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 Let's look at

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 verse 16 to 19.

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 Do you see the progression

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 there in those verses?

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 Each of the first

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 six images

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 that we have

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 all lead towards

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 the seventh

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 and final conclusion

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 which is a person

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 who stirs up

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 conflict

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 in the community.

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 You see,

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 conflict gets worked

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 out in our life

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 in many different ways.

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 Let's go through them

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 and maybe there's some

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 that we might recognize

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 in our own life.

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 first,

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 in verse 17,

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 haughty eyes.

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 It's that look

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 you receive

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 from someone

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 when you walk

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 in the room.

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 That sense

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 of superiority,

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 unspoken words

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 communicated

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 by a look

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 of dissein,

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 what are you

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 doing here?

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 It leads

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 to racial segregation

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 and class

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 division.

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 who am I

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 looking down on?

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 Or what about

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 our

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 lying tongues?

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 It's those words

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 that flow

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 so naturally

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 when I'm confronted

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 with the truth.

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 No,

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 I didn't say that.

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 I didn't do that.

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 Or promises

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 that we

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 fail to deliver on.

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 Oh,

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 of course

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 I'll do it.

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 when we have

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 no intention

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 at all.

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 It just leads

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 to distrust

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 and hurts

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 and relationship

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 breakdown.

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 What lies

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 am I telling?

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 Or third,

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 as it says

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 there in verse

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 17,

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 hands that shed

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 innocent blood,

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 violent hands,

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 a punch,

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 a slap,

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 grabbing hold

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 of your wife's

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 shoulders,

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 a wagging finger

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 in the face

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 of colleagues,

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 threatening gestures

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 to your child.

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 It leads

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 to domestic

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 abuse,

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 uncontrolled

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 anger,

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 retaliation

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 and further

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 violence.

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 How have I

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 used

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 my hands

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 this week?

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 or fourth,

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 verse 18,

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 a heart

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 that devises

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 wicked schemes,

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 wicked

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 hearts.

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 It's those

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 selfish desires

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 that pursue

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 what I want

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 regardless

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 of the effects

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 or impacts

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 on other people

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 so long

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 as the outcome

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 always suits

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 me.

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 We call it

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 emotional

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 manipulation.

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 and all it

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 does is

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 leads to

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 suffering

00:16:25.159 --> 00:16:26.079
 and heartache

00:16:26.079 --> 00:16:26.979
 for those

00:16:26.979 --> 00:16:27.299
 who are

00:16:27.299 --> 00:16:28.119
 closest to

00:16:28.119 --> 00:16:28.439
 you

00:16:28.439 --> 00:16:29.779
 as we

00:16:29.779 --> 00:16:30.239
 pursue

00:16:30.239 --> 00:16:30.759
 what

00:16:30.759 --> 00:16:32.159
 I want.

00:16:34.059 --> 00:16:34.659
 What

00:16:34.659 --> 00:16:35.439
 desires

00:16:35.439 --> 00:16:36.919
 are

00:16:36.919 --> 00:16:37.679
 festering

00:16:37.679 --> 00:16:38.899
 in my

00:16:38.899 --> 00:16:39.419
 heart?

00:16:39.419 --> 00:16:40.419
 feet.

00:16:40.419 --> 00:16:42.679
 Or then,

00:16:42.679 --> 00:16:44.659
 feet,

00:16:44.659 --> 00:16:45.860
 feet,

00:16:45.979 --> 00:16:46.879
 18 rather,

00:16:47.099 --> 00:16:47.699
 feet that

00:16:47.699 --> 00:16:48.159
 are quick

00:16:48.159 --> 00:16:48.699
 to rush

00:16:48.699 --> 00:16:49.539
 into evil.

00:16:50.599 --> 00:16:51.079
 It's that

00:16:51.079 --> 00:16:51.919
 intentional

00:16:51.919 --> 00:16:52.599
 decision.

00:16:52.979 --> 00:16:53.419
 You know

00:16:53.419 --> 00:16:53.879
 what it's

00:16:53.879 --> 00:16:54.659
 like to

00:16:54.659 --> 00:16:55.500
 walk across

00:16:55.500 --> 00:16:56.179
 that room

00:16:56.179 --> 00:16:57.099
 and tell

00:16:57.099 --> 00:16:57.919
 that person

00:16:57.919 --> 00:16:58.659
 what you

00:16:58.659 --> 00:16:59.740
 really think.

00:17:00.259 --> 00:17:01.059
 Just let

00:17:01.059 --> 00:17:01.439
 it all

00:17:01.439 --> 00:17:01.879
 out.

00:17:01.879 --> 00:17:04.779
 or taking

00:17:04.779 --> 00:17:05.480
 that step

00:17:05.480 --> 00:17:06.299
 back again

00:17:06.299 --> 00:17:07.119
 to your

00:17:07.119 --> 00:17:07.660
 spouse

00:17:07.660 --> 00:17:08.380
 because you

00:17:08.380 --> 00:17:09.039
 have to

00:17:09.039 --> 00:17:10.240
 have the

00:17:10.240 --> 00:17:11.619
 last word.

00:17:13.259 --> 00:17:14.140
 It leads

00:17:14.140 --> 00:17:14.880
 to hurts

00:17:14.880 --> 00:17:16.539
 and division

00:17:16.539 --> 00:17:18.380
 and long

00:17:18.380 --> 00:17:18.819
 lasting

00:17:18.819 --> 00:17:19.799
 communication

00:17:19.799 --> 00:17:20.579
 and breakdown.

00:17:22.960 --> 00:17:23.920
 Where will

00:17:23.920 --> 00:17:24.819
 my feet

00:17:24.819 --> 00:17:26.220
 take me

00:17:26.220 --> 00:17:27.220
 today?

00:17:27.220 --> 00:17:30.839
 Or

00:17:30.839 --> 00:17:31.839
 verse 19.

00:17:32.839 --> 00:17:33.420
 A false

00:17:33.420 --> 00:17:33.880
 witness

00:17:33.880 --> 00:17:34.779
 who pours

00:17:34.779 --> 00:17:35.140
 out

00:17:35.140 --> 00:17:36.240
 lies.

00:17:37.660 --> 00:17:38.460
 A false

00:17:38.460 --> 00:17:39.279
 testimony.

00:17:40.839 --> 00:17:41.400
 It's those

00:17:41.400 --> 00:17:42.740
 half-truths

00:17:42.740 --> 00:17:44.180
 or twisted

00:17:44.180 --> 00:17:44.920
 truths

00:17:44.920 --> 00:17:46.160
 that make

00:17:46.160 --> 00:17:46.960
 others look

00:17:46.960 --> 00:17:47.579
 bad

00:17:47.579 --> 00:17:48.680
 and always

00:17:48.680 --> 00:17:49.180
 seem to

00:17:49.180 --> 00:17:49.680
 make me

00:17:49.680 --> 00:17:50.460
 look wonderfully

00:17:50.460 --> 00:17:51.000
 good.

00:17:52.079 --> 00:17:52.620
 It's the

00:17:52.620 --> 00:17:53.400
 stories that

00:17:53.400 --> 00:17:54.000
 we tell.

00:17:54.400 --> 00:17:54.819
 Did you

00:17:54.819 --> 00:17:55.500
 hear about?

00:17:55.500 --> 00:17:57.599
 Wait till

00:17:57.599 --> 00:17:58.220
 I tell

00:17:58.220 --> 00:17:58.980
 you what

00:17:58.980 --> 00:17:59.759
 they did.

00:18:00.759 --> 00:18:01.359
 It leads

00:18:01.359 --> 00:18:02.000
 to gossip

00:18:02.000 --> 00:18:03.619
 and rumours

00:18:03.619 --> 00:18:04.700
 and ruins

00:18:04.700 --> 00:18:05.599
 the reputation

00:18:05.599 --> 00:18:06.299
 of others.

00:18:07.980 --> 00:18:08.539
 How am

00:18:08.539 --> 00:18:10.160
 I speaking

00:18:10.160 --> 00:18:11.279
 about others

00:18:11.279 --> 00:18:12.319
 in the

00:18:12.319 --> 00:18:12.740
 church

00:18:12.740 --> 00:18:13.359
 today?

00:18:15.859 --> 00:18:16.740
 Haughty

00:18:16.740 --> 00:18:17.299
 eyes,

00:18:18.480 --> 00:18:18.880
 lying

00:18:18.880 --> 00:18:19.599
 tongues,

00:18:21.000 --> 00:18:21.460
 violent

00:18:21.460 --> 00:18:22.160
 hearts,

00:18:22.359 --> 00:18:22.880
 hands,

00:18:23.420 --> 00:18:23.700
 wicked

00:18:23.700 --> 00:18:24.299
 hearts,

00:18:24.299 --> 00:18:25.099
 evil

00:18:25.099 --> 00:18:25.659
 feet,

00:18:26.159 --> 00:18:26.559
 false

00:18:26.559 --> 00:18:27.240
 testimony.

00:18:27.879 --> 00:18:28.119
 They're

00:18:28.119 --> 00:18:28.539
 all

00:18:28.539 --> 00:18:29.139
 symptoms

00:18:29.139 --> 00:18:29.500
 of

00:18:29.500 --> 00:18:29.980
 something

00:18:29.980 --> 00:18:30.359
 much

00:18:30.359 --> 00:18:30.740
 bigger

00:18:30.740 --> 00:18:30.980
 and

00:18:30.980 --> 00:18:31.339
 greater.

00:18:31.339 --> 00:18:32.379
 Verse 19,

00:18:32.939 --> 00:18:33.879
 a person

00:18:33.879 --> 00:18:35.559
 who stirs

00:18:35.559 --> 00:18:36.679
 up conflict

00:18:36.679 --> 00:18:38.279
 in the

00:18:38.279 --> 00:18:38.859
 community.

00:18:40.240 --> 00:18:41.179
 You see,

00:18:41.259 --> 00:18:41.819
 the seeds

00:18:41.819 --> 00:18:42.740
 of conflict

00:18:42.740 --> 00:18:44.559
 are sown

00:18:44.559 --> 00:18:45.019
 in our

00:18:45.019 --> 00:18:45.719
 everyday

00:18:45.719 --> 00:18:46.599
 words,

00:18:47.559 --> 00:18:48.059
 actions,

00:18:48.740 --> 00:18:49.659
 and thoughts.

00:18:50.459 --> 00:18:51.119
 They may

00:18:51.119 --> 00:18:51.699
 seem just

00:18:51.699 --> 00:18:52.740
 so tiny

00:18:52.740 --> 00:18:53.240
 and so

00:18:53.240 --> 00:18:53.680
 small,

00:18:54.059 --> 00:18:54.480
 innocent

00:18:54.480 --> 00:18:55.420
 and harmless.

00:18:57.059 --> 00:18:57.799
 But seeds

00:18:57.799 --> 00:18:58.400
 grow,

00:18:59.279 --> 00:18:59.740
 and when

00:18:59.740 --> 00:19:00.519
 they're fully

00:19:00.519 --> 00:19:01.120
 grown,

00:19:02.519 --> 00:19:03.079
 lead to

00:19:03.079 --> 00:19:03.819
 conflict.

00:19:05.779 --> 00:19:06.160
 You see,

00:19:06.259 --> 00:19:07.140
 conflict isn't

00:19:07.140 --> 00:19:07.980
 restricted to

00:19:07.980 --> 00:19:08.620
 bombs and

00:19:08.620 --> 00:19:09.200
 bullets on

00:19:09.200 --> 00:19:09.839
 a battlefield.

00:19:11.120 --> 00:19:11.960
 It starts

00:19:11.960 --> 00:19:12.480
 with the way

00:19:12.480 --> 00:19:13.099
 I look at

00:19:13.099 --> 00:19:13.559
 someone,

00:19:14.539 --> 00:19:15.299
 the words

00:19:15.299 --> 00:19:16.059
 I use,

00:19:16.140 --> 00:19:16.740
 a gesture

00:19:16.740 --> 00:19:17.359
 I make,

00:19:17.420 --> 00:19:18.099
 an action,

00:19:18.599 --> 00:19:19.339
 a thought.

00:19:19.339 --> 00:19:21.459
 You see,

00:19:21.939 --> 00:19:22.439
 if we

00:19:22.439 --> 00:19:23.019
 don't

00:19:23.019 --> 00:19:24.299
 guard

00:19:24.299 --> 00:19:24.659
 our

00:19:24.659 --> 00:19:25.439
 hearts,

00:19:26.480 --> 00:19:27.279
 those

00:19:27.279 --> 00:19:27.939
 seeds

00:19:27.939 --> 00:19:28.220
 will

00:19:28.220 --> 00:19:28.799
 seep

00:19:28.799 --> 00:19:29.359
 out into

00:19:29.359 --> 00:19:29.639
 our

00:19:29.639 --> 00:19:30.099
 marriages

00:19:30.099 --> 00:19:31.119
 and into

00:19:31.119 --> 00:19:31.379
 our

00:19:31.379 --> 00:19:31.859
 families

00:19:31.859 --> 00:19:32.879
 and into

00:19:32.879 --> 00:19:33.159
 our

00:19:33.159 --> 00:19:33.720
 church

00:19:33.720 --> 00:19:35.059
 and into

00:19:35.059 --> 00:19:35.559
 the wider

00:19:35.559 --> 00:19:36.299
 community.

00:19:37.859 --> 00:19:38.759
 It's

00:19:38.759 --> 00:19:39.359
 deadly.

00:19:41.240 --> 00:19:41.599
 God

00:19:41.599 --> 00:19:42.539
 detests

00:19:42.539 --> 00:19:43.000
 it.

00:19:44.959 --> 00:19:45.379
 So,

00:19:46.579 --> 00:19:47.220
 how

00:19:47.220 --> 00:19:48.399
 conflict

00:19:48.400 --> 00:19:49.180
 starts,

00:19:50.180 --> 00:19:50.500
 how

00:19:50.500 --> 00:19:51.120
 conflict

00:19:51.120 --> 00:19:51.860
 works

00:19:51.860 --> 00:19:52.220
 out

00:19:52.220 --> 00:19:52.920
 in

00:19:52.920 --> 00:19:53.600
 day-to-day

00:19:53.600 --> 00:19:54.200
 life,

00:19:54.800 --> 00:19:57.120
 and then

00:19:57.120 --> 00:19:57.519
 third,

00:19:57.660 --> 00:19:57.860
 how

00:19:57.860 --> 00:19:58.700
 conflict

00:19:58.700 --> 00:19:59.840
 can be

00:19:59.840 --> 00:20:00.280
 healed.

00:20:01.440 --> 00:20:02.040
 Look at

00:20:02.040 --> 00:20:02.220
 where

00:20:02.220 --> 00:20:02.960
 conflict

00:20:02.960 --> 00:20:03.600
 leads

00:20:03.600 --> 00:20:04.840
 for end

00:20:04.840 --> 00:20:05.180
 of verse

00:20:05.180 --> 00:20:05.860
 14,

00:20:06.500 --> 00:20:07.480
 chapter 6.

00:20:08.920 --> 00:20:09.460
 He

00:20:09.460 --> 00:20:10.019
 always

00:20:10.019 --> 00:20:10.700
 stirs up

00:20:10.700 --> 00:20:11.460
 conflict.

00:20:12.740 --> 00:20:13.360
 What's

00:20:13.360 --> 00:20:13.519
 the

00:20:13.519 --> 00:20:14.060
 consequence?

00:20:15.280 --> 00:20:15.820
 Therefore,

00:20:16.120 --> 00:20:16.860
 disaster

00:20:16.860 --> 00:20:18.019
 will overtake

00:20:18.019 --> 00:20:18.440
 him in

00:20:18.440 --> 00:20:18.680
 an

00:20:18.680 --> 00:20:19.180
 instant.

00:20:20.460 --> 00:20:20.579
 They

00:20:20.579 --> 00:20:20.799
 will

00:20:20.799 --> 00:20:21.379
 suddenly

00:20:21.379 --> 00:20:21.740
 be

00:20:21.740 --> 00:20:22.379
 destroyed

00:20:22.379 --> 00:20:23.660
 without

00:20:23.660 --> 00:20:24.299
 remedy.

00:20:25.839 --> 00:20:26.759
 Deceitful

00:20:26.759 --> 00:20:27.559
 hearts

00:20:27.559 --> 00:20:29.500
 end in

00:20:29.500 --> 00:20:30.279
 disaster

00:20:30.279 --> 00:20:31.400
 and

00:20:31.400 --> 00:20:32.059
 destruction.

00:20:33.579 --> 00:20:34.000
 End of

00:20:34.000 --> 00:20:34.779
 verse 15,

00:20:35.119 --> 00:20:35.879
 there is

00:20:35.879 --> 00:20:36.500
 no

00:20:36.500 --> 00:20:37.599
 remedy.

00:20:38.779 --> 00:20:39.019
 We

00:20:39.019 --> 00:20:39.579
 cannot

00:20:39.579 --> 00:20:40.460
 fix

00:20:40.460 --> 00:20:41.339
 our

00:20:41.339 --> 00:20:41.960
 own

00:20:41.960 --> 00:20:43.299
 hearts.

00:20:43.299 --> 00:20:44.680
 So,

00:20:44.819 --> 00:20:45.000
 where

00:20:45.000 --> 00:20:45.339
 does

00:20:45.339 --> 00:20:46.159
 healing

00:20:46.159 --> 00:20:46.659
 come

00:20:46.659 --> 00:20:47.099
 from?

00:20:47.519 --> 00:20:47.680
 Where

00:20:47.680 --> 00:20:48.059
 do we

00:20:48.059 --> 00:20:48.339
 get

00:20:48.339 --> 00:20:48.859
 healing

00:20:48.859 --> 00:20:49.680
 for all

00:20:49.680 --> 00:20:49.859
 the

00:20:49.859 --> 00:20:50.440
 conflict

00:20:50.440 --> 00:20:50.940
 in

00:20:50.940 --> 00:20:51.200
 this

00:20:51.200 --> 00:20:51.680
 world

00:20:51.680 --> 00:20:52.399
 and

00:20:52.399 --> 00:20:52.559
 in

00:20:52.559 --> 00:20:52.759
 our

00:20:52.759 --> 00:20:53.359
 lives?

00:20:54.039 --> 00:20:54.279
 Well,

00:20:54.319 --> 00:20:54.779
 as we've

00:20:54.779 --> 00:20:55.079
 seen

00:20:55.079 --> 00:20:55.579
 through our

00:20:55.579 --> 00:20:56.279
 studies in

00:20:56.279 --> 00:20:56.839
 Proverbs,

00:20:57.419 --> 00:20:57.960
 God's

00:20:57.960 --> 00:20:58.399
 wisdom

00:20:58.399 --> 00:20:59.440
 is

00:20:59.440 --> 00:21:00.000
 ultimately

00:21:00.000 --> 00:21:00.599
 worked

00:21:00.599 --> 00:21:00.940
 out

00:21:00.940 --> 00:21:01.299
 through

00:21:01.299 --> 00:21:01.619
 his

00:21:01.619 --> 00:21:02.039
 son,

00:21:02.659 --> 00:21:02.960
 Jesus

00:21:02.960 --> 00:21:03.619
 Christ.

00:21:05.079 --> 00:21:05.720
 Go

00:21:05.720 --> 00:21:06.200
 with me,

00:21:06.339 --> 00:21:06.639
 please,

00:21:06.680 --> 00:21:07.139
 as we

00:21:07.139 --> 00:21:07.740
 look at

00:21:07.740 --> 00:21:08.240
 two

00:21:08.240 --> 00:21:09.400
 examples

00:21:09.400 --> 00:21:11.559
 in

00:21:11.559 --> 00:21:12.440
 Ephesians

00:21:12.440 --> 00:21:14.500
 chapter

00:21:14.500 --> 00:21:15.019
 one

00:21:15.019 --> 00:21:18.039
 of

00:21:18.039 --> 00:21:18.319
 how

00:21:18.319 --> 00:21:18.599
 we

00:21:18.599 --> 00:21:19.000
 see

00:21:19.000 --> 00:21:20.039
 conflict

00:21:20.039 --> 00:21:21.400
 being

00:21:21.400 --> 00:21:21.960
 healed,

00:21:22.519 --> 00:21:22.799
 where

00:21:22.799 --> 00:21:23.319
 we go

00:21:23.319 --> 00:21:23.720
 to

00:21:23.720 --> 00:21:25.059
 for all

00:21:25.059 --> 00:21:25.680
 our

00:21:25.680 --> 00:21:26.220
 conflicts

00:21:26.220 --> 00:21:26.700
 and

00:21:26.700 --> 00:21:27.559
 all

00:21:27.559 --> 00:21:28.160
 our

00:21:28.160 --> 00:21:28.980
 fallouts.

00:21:33.500 --> 00:21:34.500
 Two

00:21:34.500 --> 00:21:34.839
 big

00:21:34.839 --> 00:21:35.539
 applications

00:21:35.539 --> 00:21:36.339
 for us

00:21:36.339 --> 00:21:36.640
 this

00:21:36.640 --> 00:21:37.039
 morning.

00:21:37.740 --> 00:21:39.180
 The

00:21:39.180 --> 00:21:39.579
 first

00:21:39.579 --> 00:21:40.220
 one is

00:21:40.220 --> 00:21:41.099
 the

00:21:41.099 --> 00:21:41.559
 gospel

00:21:41.559 --> 00:21:42.220
 of

00:21:42.220 --> 00:21:42.779
 Christ.

00:21:43.180 --> 00:21:43.900
 The

00:21:43.900 --> 00:21:44.359
 gospel

00:21:44.359 --> 00:21:44.680
 of

00:21:44.680 --> 00:21:45.140
 Christ

00:21:45.140 --> 00:21:45.859
 brings

00:21:45.859 --> 00:21:46.700
 healing.

00:21:47.900 --> 00:21:48.279
 In

00:21:48.279 --> 00:21:48.579
 chapter

00:21:48.579 --> 00:21:49.059
 one of

00:21:49.059 --> 00:21:49.559
 Ephesians

00:21:49.559 --> 00:21:50.039
 we see

00:21:50.039 --> 00:21:50.539
 God's

00:21:50.539 --> 00:21:50.940
 plan

00:21:50.940 --> 00:21:51.180
 and

00:21:51.180 --> 00:21:51.740
 purpose

00:21:51.740 --> 00:21:52.279
 for

00:21:52.279 --> 00:21:52.500
 the

00:21:52.500 --> 00:21:53.000
 nations,

00:21:53.539 --> 00:21:53.660
 the

00:21:53.660 --> 00:21:54.299
 communities

00:21:54.299 --> 00:21:55.039
 and

00:21:55.039 --> 00:21:55.259
 the

00:21:55.259 --> 00:21:55.759
 families

00:21:55.759 --> 00:21:56.420
 of

00:21:56.420 --> 00:21:56.559
 the

00:21:56.559 --> 00:21:56.940
 world.

00:21:57.120 --> 00:21:57.299
 Look

00:21:57.299 --> 00:21:57.400
 at

00:21:57.400 --> 00:21:57.539
 the

00:21:57.539 --> 00:21:57.779
 end

00:21:57.779 --> 00:21:57.920
 of

00:21:57.920 --> 00:21:58.160
 verse

00:21:58.160 --> 00:21:58.559
 10.

00:22:02.240 --> 00:22:03.039
 His

00:22:03.039 --> 00:22:03.680
 purpose

00:22:03.680 --> 00:22:04.160
 in

00:22:04.160 --> 00:22:04.680
 Christ,

00:22:04.799 --> 00:22:05.039
 this

00:22:05.039 --> 00:22:05.200
 is

00:22:05.200 --> 00:22:05.660
 God's

00:22:05.660 --> 00:22:06.000
 purpose

00:22:06.000 --> 00:22:06.279
 in

00:22:06.279 --> 00:22:06.740
 Christ,

00:22:06.740 --> 00:22:08.620
 is to

00:22:08.620 --> 00:22:08.960
 bring

00:22:08.960 --> 00:22:09.680
 unity

00:22:09.680 --> 00:22:11.559
 to

00:22:11.559 --> 00:22:12.420
 all

00:22:12.420 --> 00:22:13.240
 things

00:22:13.240 --> 00:22:14.160
 in

00:22:14.160 --> 00:22:14.500
 heaven

00:22:14.500 --> 00:22:15.240
 and on

00:22:15.240 --> 00:22:15.599
 earth

00:22:15.599 --> 00:22:16.640
 under

00:22:16.640 --> 00:22:17.220
 Christ.

00:22:18.180 --> 00:22:18.579
 This

00:22:18.579 --> 00:22:19.259
 is God's

00:22:19.259 --> 00:22:19.960
 plan and

00:22:19.960 --> 00:22:20.500
 purpose

00:22:20.500 --> 00:22:21.819
 for the

00:22:21.819 --> 00:22:22.299
 nations,

00:22:22.299 --> 00:22:22.960
 to bring

00:22:22.960 --> 00:22:23.799
 all

00:22:23.799 --> 00:22:24.400
 people,

00:22:24.980 --> 00:22:25.440
 all

00:22:25.440 --> 00:22:26.180
 things,

00:22:26.740 --> 00:22:27.180
 to

00:22:27.180 --> 00:22:27.859
 restore

00:22:27.859 --> 00:22:28.279
 them

00:22:28.279 --> 00:22:28.940
 under

00:22:28.940 --> 00:22:29.220
 the

00:22:29.220 --> 00:22:29.859
 loving

00:22:29.859 --> 00:22:31.099
 rule

00:22:31.099 --> 00:22:31.579
 of

00:22:31.579 --> 00:22:32.079
 God's

00:22:32.079 --> 00:22:32.519
 King,

00:22:33.099 --> 00:22:33.400
 Jesus

00:22:33.400 --> 00:22:34.060
 Christ.

00:22:35.180 --> 00:22:35.640
 Remember

00:22:35.640 --> 00:22:35.960
 how

00:22:35.960 --> 00:22:36.440
 Genesis

00:22:36.440 --> 00:22:36.880
 brought

00:22:36.880 --> 00:22:37.160
 that

00:22:37.160 --> 00:22:37.759
 conflict

00:22:37.759 --> 00:22:38.620
 and

00:22:38.620 --> 00:22:39.600
 separated

00:22:39.600 --> 00:22:40.040
 them,

00:22:40.900 --> 00:22:41.340
 put them

00:22:41.340 --> 00:22:41.920
 against

00:22:41.920 --> 00:22:42.460
 God?

00:22:43.440 --> 00:22:43.680
 Well,

00:22:43.740 --> 00:22:43.920
 his

00:22:43.920 --> 00:22:44.340
 purpose

00:22:44.340 --> 00:22:44.980
 is to

00:22:44.980 --> 00:22:45.660
 unite

00:22:45.660 --> 00:22:46.540
 all

00:22:46.540 --> 00:22:47.040
 again

00:22:47.040 --> 00:22:47.940
 under

00:22:47.940 --> 00:22:48.180
 the

00:22:48.180 --> 00:22:48.640
 rule

00:22:48.640 --> 00:22:49.360
 of

00:22:49.360 --> 00:22:49.880
 God's

00:22:49.880 --> 00:22:50.140
 Son.

00:22:51.040 --> 00:22:51.320
 His

00:22:51.320 --> 00:22:51.720
 purpose

00:22:51.720 --> 00:22:52.180
 is to

00:22:52.180 --> 00:22:52.380
 bring

00:22:52.380 --> 00:22:52.780
 an end

00:22:52.780 --> 00:22:53.040
 to

00:22:53.040 --> 00:22:53.480
 all

00:22:53.480 --> 00:22:54.080
 conflict,

00:22:54.080 --> 00:22:54.780
 to

00:22:54.780 --> 00:22:55.340
 unite

00:22:55.340 --> 00:22:55.900
 people

00:22:55.900 --> 00:22:56.420
 together,

00:22:56.620 --> 00:22:56.980
 to

00:22:56.980 --> 00:22:57.700
 restore

00:22:57.700 --> 00:22:58.040
 where

00:22:58.040 --> 00:22:58.300
 there's

00:22:58.300 --> 00:22:58.500
 been

00:22:58.500 --> 00:22:59.180
 hostility

00:22:59.180 --> 00:22:59.900
 and

00:22:59.900 --> 00:23:00.140
 to

00:23:00.140 --> 00:23:00.640
 heal

00:23:00.640 --> 00:23:01.380
 where

00:23:01.380 --> 00:23:01.640
 there's

00:23:01.640 --> 00:23:01.860
 been

00:23:01.860 --> 00:23:02.380
 division.

00:23:04.140 --> 00:23:04.700
 So

00:23:04.700 --> 00:23:05.100
 think

00:23:05.100 --> 00:23:05.400
 about

00:23:05.400 --> 00:23:05.640
 a

00:23:05.640 --> 00:23:06.060
 conflict

00:23:06.060 --> 00:23:07.200
 in

00:23:07.200 --> 00:23:07.480
 your

00:23:07.480 --> 00:23:07.980
 life.

00:23:09.680 --> 00:23:10.100
 Think

00:23:10.100 --> 00:23:10.420
 about

00:23:10.420 --> 00:23:10.600
 a

00:23:10.600 --> 00:23:11.259
 relationship

00:23:11.259 --> 00:23:11.660
 that

00:23:11.660 --> 00:23:11.820
 has

00:23:11.820 --> 00:23:12.080
 maybe

00:23:12.080 --> 00:23:12.540
 broken

00:23:12.540 --> 00:23:13.060
 down,

00:23:13.820 --> 00:23:14.220
 where

00:23:14.220 --> 00:23:14.620
 hurt

00:23:14.620 --> 00:23:14.840
 has

00:23:14.840 --> 00:23:15.060
 been

00:23:15.060 --> 00:23:15.700
 replaced

00:23:15.700 --> 00:23:18.300
 with

00:23:18.300 --> 00:23:18.980
 trust.

00:23:20.480 --> 00:23:20.759
 Can

00:23:20.759 --> 00:23:21.160
 God

00:23:21.160 --> 00:23:21.560
 bring

00:23:21.560 --> 00:23:22.020
 healing?

00:23:23.540 --> 00:23:23.820
 Can

00:23:23.820 --> 00:23:24.180
 God

00:23:24.180 --> 00:23:24.520
 bring

00:23:24.520 --> 00:23:25.100
 restoration?

00:23:26.580 --> 00:23:27.020
 Yes,

00:23:27.140 --> 00:23:27.280
 he

00:23:27.280 --> 00:23:27.720
 can.

00:23:28.500 --> 00:23:28.780
 How

00:23:28.780 --> 00:23:29.120
 can he

00:23:29.120 --> 00:23:29.560
 do it?

00:23:30.000 --> 00:23:30.300
 Well,

00:23:30.299 --> 00:23:30.899
 go to

00:23:30.899 --> 00:23:31.240
 chapter

00:23:31.240 --> 00:23:31.659
 two

00:23:31.659 --> 00:23:31.859
 of

00:23:31.859 --> 00:23:32.579
 Ephesians.

00:23:33.980 --> 00:23:34.639
 The

00:23:34.639 --> 00:23:35.159
 context

00:23:35.159 --> 00:23:35.759
 here in

00:23:35.759 --> 00:23:36.059
 chapter

00:23:36.059 --> 00:23:36.419
 two

00:23:36.419 --> 00:23:36.779
 is of

00:23:36.779 --> 00:23:37.000
 a

00:23:37.000 --> 00:23:37.339
 deeply

00:23:37.339 --> 00:23:37.980
 divided

00:23:37.980 --> 00:23:38.599
 community.

00:23:39.139 --> 00:23:39.339
 He's

00:23:39.339 --> 00:23:39.720
 writing

00:23:39.720 --> 00:23:40.019
 to

00:23:40.019 --> 00:23:40.259
 a

00:23:40.259 --> 00:23:40.819
 church.

00:23:42.579 --> 00:23:43.240
 Jews

00:23:43.240 --> 00:23:43.940
 and

00:23:43.940 --> 00:23:45.019
 Gentiles,

00:23:45.419 --> 00:23:45.720
 people

00:23:45.720 --> 00:23:46.039
 from

00:23:46.039 --> 00:23:46.519
 Israel,

00:23:46.720 --> 00:23:46.980
 people

00:23:46.980 --> 00:23:47.279
 from

00:23:47.279 --> 00:23:47.859
 Palestine.

00:23:49.059 --> 00:23:49.279
 But

00:23:49.279 --> 00:23:49.599
 in a

00:23:49.599 --> 00:23:49.919
 sense,

00:23:50.019 --> 00:23:50.119
 it

00:23:50.119 --> 00:23:50.279
 can

00:23:50.279 --> 00:23:50.659
 apply

00:23:50.659 --> 00:23:51.079
 to

00:23:51.079 --> 00:23:52.000
 all

00:23:52.000 --> 00:23:52.639
 divisions

00:23:52.639 --> 00:23:53.059
 of

00:23:53.059 --> 00:23:53.460
 people.

00:23:54.460 --> 00:23:54.720
 And

00:23:54.720 --> 00:23:54.919
 look

00:23:54.919 --> 00:23:55.119
 how

00:23:55.119 --> 00:23:55.500
 God

00:23:55.500 --> 00:23:55.740
 will

00:23:55.740 --> 00:23:56.000
 bring

00:23:56.000 --> 00:23:56.279
 about

00:23:56.279 --> 00:23:56.879
 unity

00:23:56.879 --> 00:23:57.680
 in

00:23:57.680 --> 00:23:57.839
 the

00:23:57.839 --> 00:23:58.500
 conflict.

00:23:59.500 --> 00:23:59.759
 Chapter

00:23:59.759 --> 00:24:00.160
 two,

00:24:00.279 --> 00:24:00.379
 the

00:24:00.379 --> 00:24:00.640
 end

00:24:00.640 --> 00:24:00.779
 of

00:24:00.779 --> 00:24:01.000
 verse

00:24:01.000 --> 00:24:01.640
 15.

00:24:01.640 --> 00:24:03.960
 End

00:24:03.960 --> 00:24:06.160
 of

00:24:06.160 --> 00:24:10.440
 verse

00:24:10.440 --> 00:24:11.059
 15.

00:24:12.700 --> 00:24:13.819
 His

00:24:13.819 --> 00:24:14.539
 purpose,

00:24:14.920 --> 00:24:15.359
 God's

00:24:15.359 --> 00:24:15.920
 purpose,

00:24:16.920 --> 00:24:17.379
 was to

00:24:17.379 --> 00:24:17.960
 create

00:24:17.960 --> 00:24:18.379
 in

00:24:18.379 --> 00:24:19.079
 himself

00:24:19.079 --> 00:24:20.720
 one

00:24:20.720 --> 00:24:21.539
 new

00:24:21.539 --> 00:24:22.299
 humanity

00:24:22.299 --> 00:24:23.099
 out of

00:24:23.099 --> 00:24:23.279
 the

00:24:23.279 --> 00:24:23.640
 two,

00:24:24.640 --> 00:24:24.980
 thus

00:24:24.980 --> 00:24:25.480
 making

00:24:25.480 --> 00:24:26.119
 peace.

00:24:26.119 --> 00:24:26.199
 peace.

00:24:27.399 --> 00:24:27.859
 And

00:24:27.859 --> 00:24:28.079
 in

00:24:28.079 --> 00:24:28.439
 one

00:24:28.439 --> 00:24:28.939
 body,

00:24:29.219 --> 00:24:29.359
 the

00:24:29.359 --> 00:24:29.679
 body

00:24:29.679 --> 00:24:29.899
 of

00:24:29.899 --> 00:24:30.319
 Christ,

00:24:30.439 --> 00:24:30.599
 to

00:24:30.599 --> 00:24:31.159
 reconcile

00:24:31.159 --> 00:24:32.399
 both

00:24:32.399 --> 00:24:32.679
 of

00:24:32.679 --> 00:24:33.000
 them

00:24:33.000 --> 00:24:33.519
 to

00:24:33.519 --> 00:24:34.059
 God

00:24:34.059 --> 00:24:35.079
 through

00:24:35.079 --> 00:24:35.379
 the

00:24:35.379 --> 00:24:35.879
 cross

00:24:35.879 --> 00:24:37.259
 by

00:24:37.259 --> 00:24:37.579
 which

00:24:37.579 --> 00:24:37.739
 he

00:24:37.739 --> 00:24:37.959
 put

00:24:37.959 --> 00:24:38.199
 to

00:24:38.199 --> 00:24:38.639
 death

00:24:38.639 --> 00:24:39.659
 their

00:24:39.659 --> 00:24:40.519
 hostility.

00:24:41.899 --> 00:24:42.339
 At

00:24:42.339 --> 00:24:42.579
 the

00:24:42.579 --> 00:24:43.139
 cross,

00:24:43.839 --> 00:24:44.319
 as

00:24:44.319 --> 00:24:44.759
 Jesus

00:24:44.759 --> 00:24:45.500
 dies,

00:24:46.000 --> 00:24:46.219
 he

00:24:46.219 --> 00:24:46.779
 steps

00:24:46.779 --> 00:24:47.239
 in

00:24:47.239 --> 00:24:47.959
 as

00:24:47.959 --> 00:24:48.279
 the

00:24:48.279 --> 00:24:49.139
 ultimate

00:24:49.139 --> 00:24:50.519
 mediator.

00:24:51.639 --> 00:24:52.159
 Someone

00:24:52.159 --> 00:24:52.979
 has to

00:24:52.979 --> 00:24:53.419
 pay

00:24:53.420 --> 00:24:54.060
 for

00:24:54.060 --> 00:24:54.360
 all

00:24:54.360 --> 00:24:54.539
 the

00:24:54.539 --> 00:24:55.200
 conflict.

00:24:56.420 --> 00:24:57.080
 Either

00:24:57.080 --> 00:24:57.460
 we

00:24:57.460 --> 00:24:57.920
 die

00:24:57.920 --> 00:24:58.700
 or

00:24:58.700 --> 00:24:59.180
 Christ

00:24:59.180 --> 00:24:59.539
 dies.

00:24:59.700 --> 00:24:59.800
 So

00:24:59.800 --> 00:25:00.440
 God,

00:25:00.880 --> 00:25:00.960
 in

00:25:00.960 --> 00:25:01.180
 his

00:25:01.180 --> 00:25:01.539
 goodness

00:25:01.539 --> 00:25:01.860
 and

00:25:01.860 --> 00:25:02.000
 in

00:25:02.000 --> 00:25:02.200
 his

00:25:02.200 --> 00:25:02.600
 grace,

00:25:03.080 --> 00:25:03.440
 sends

00:25:03.440 --> 00:25:03.680
 his

00:25:03.680 --> 00:25:03.900
 son

00:25:03.900 --> 00:25:04.259
 Jesus

00:25:04.259 --> 00:25:04.800
 Christ

00:25:04.800 --> 00:25:05.320
 to

00:25:05.320 --> 00:25:05.820
 take

00:25:05.820 --> 00:25:06.320
 the

00:25:06.320 --> 00:25:07.500
 consequences

00:25:07.500 --> 00:25:08.160
 of

00:25:08.160 --> 00:25:08.560
 our

00:25:08.560 --> 00:25:09.320
 conflicts

00:25:09.320 --> 00:25:09.620
 on

00:25:09.620 --> 00:25:10.100
 himself.

00:25:10.900 --> 00:25:11.220
 In

00:25:11.220 --> 00:25:11.400
 the

00:25:11.400 --> 00:25:11.880
 context

00:25:11.880 --> 00:25:12.300
 here

00:25:12.300 --> 00:25:12.480
 in

00:25:12.480 --> 00:25:13.000
 Ephesians

00:25:13.000 --> 00:25:13.360
 2,

00:25:13.779 --> 00:25:13.900
 he

00:25:13.900 --> 00:25:14.259
 takes

00:25:14.259 --> 00:25:14.480
 the

00:25:14.480 --> 00:25:14.800
 sin

00:25:14.800 --> 00:25:14.980
 of

00:25:14.980 --> 00:25:15.180
 the

00:25:15.180 --> 00:25:15.600
 Jew

00:25:15.600 --> 00:25:16.700
 in

00:25:16.700 --> 00:25:17.000
 one

00:25:17.000 --> 00:25:17.500
 hand,

00:25:17.779 --> 00:25:18.140
 the

00:25:18.140 --> 00:25:18.400
 sin

00:25:18.400 --> 00:25:18.560
 of

00:25:18.560 --> 00:25:18.779
 the

00:25:18.779 --> 00:25:19.500
 Gentile

00:25:19.500 --> 00:25:20.100
 in

00:25:20.100 --> 00:25:20.279
 the

00:25:20.279 --> 00:25:20.519
 other

00:25:20.519 --> 00:25:21.000
 hand,

00:25:21.340 --> 00:25:21.580
 and

00:25:21.580 --> 00:25:21.759
 he

00:25:21.759 --> 00:25:22.420
 dies

00:25:22.420 --> 00:25:23.000
 in

00:25:23.000 --> 00:25:23.259
 their

00:25:23.259 --> 00:25:24.000
 place.

00:25:25.039 --> 00:25:25.359
 End

00:25:25.359 --> 00:25:25.500
 of

00:25:25.500 --> 00:25:25.720
 verse

00:25:25.720 --> 00:25:26.339
 15,

00:25:27.140 --> 00:25:27.420
 his

00:25:27.420 --> 00:25:27.900
 purpose

00:25:27.900 --> 00:25:28.619
 was to

00:25:28.619 --> 00:25:29.180
 create

00:25:29.180 --> 00:25:29.440
 in

00:25:29.440 --> 00:25:30.059
 himself

00:25:30.059 --> 00:25:31.180
 one

00:25:31.180 --> 00:25:32.279
 new

00:25:32.279 --> 00:25:33.140
 humanity

00:25:33.140 --> 00:25:34.619
 out of

00:25:34.619 --> 00:25:34.779
 the

00:25:34.779 --> 00:25:35.180
 two,

00:25:36.079 --> 00:25:36.379
 thus

00:25:36.379 --> 00:25:36.980
 making

00:25:36.980 --> 00:25:38.119
 peace.

00:25:39.279 --> 00:25:39.720
 Now

00:25:39.720 --> 00:25:40.299
 what God

00:25:40.299 --> 00:25:40.799
 has done

00:25:40.799 --> 00:25:42.440
 then is

00:25:42.440 --> 00:25:42.980
 wonderfully

00:25:42.980 --> 00:25:43.759
 true for

00:25:43.759 --> 00:25:44.740
 us today.

00:25:45.859 --> 00:25:46.460
 Christ's

00:25:46.460 --> 00:25:46.859
 death on

00:25:46.859 --> 00:25:47.319
 the cross

00:25:47.319 --> 00:25:47.740
 brings

00:25:47.740 --> 00:25:48.299
 peace

00:25:48.299 --> 00:25:49.099
 and ends

00:25:49.099 --> 00:25:49.879
 hostility

00:25:49.879 --> 00:25:50.559
 as

00:25:50.559 --> 00:25:51.240
 divided

00:25:51.240 --> 00:25:51.980
 parties

00:25:51.980 --> 00:25:53.119
 come to

00:25:53.119 --> 00:25:53.799
 Christ

00:25:53.799 --> 00:25:55.459
 so

00:25:55.459 --> 00:25:55.919
 healing

00:25:55.919 --> 00:25:56.439
 can

00:25:56.439 --> 00:25:56.959
 begin.

00:25:58.299 --> 00:25:58.559
 But of

00:25:58.559 --> 00:25:59.059
 course if

00:25:59.059 --> 00:25:59.719
 Christ is

00:25:59.719 --> 00:26:00.539
 refused

00:26:00.539 --> 00:26:02.019
 then as

00:26:02.019 --> 00:26:02.479
 we saw

00:26:02.479 --> 00:26:02.699
 in

00:26:02.699 --> 00:26:03.339
 Proverbs

00:26:03.339 --> 00:26:04.679
 disaster

00:26:04.679 --> 00:26:05.099
 will

00:26:05.099 --> 00:26:05.679
 overcome

00:26:05.679 --> 00:26:06.039
 them,

00:26:06.539 --> 00:26:06.899
 there will

00:26:06.899 --> 00:26:07.959
 be no

00:26:07.959 --> 00:26:08.519
 remedy

00:26:08.519 --> 00:26:09.439
 outside

00:26:09.439 --> 00:26:09.859
 of

00:26:09.859 --> 00:26:10.319
 Christ.

00:26:11.539 --> 00:26:12.059
 Judgment

00:26:12.059 --> 00:26:12.699
 will be

00:26:12.699 --> 00:26:12.959
 their

00:26:12.959 --> 00:26:13.579
 reward.

00:26:16.579 --> 00:26:17.539
 But if

00:26:17.539 --> 00:26:18.139
 we come

00:26:18.139 --> 00:26:18.879
 to Christ

00:26:18.879 --> 00:26:19.159
 in

00:26:19.159 --> 00:26:19.659
 faith,

00:26:19.660 --> 00:26:20.759
 we

00:26:20.759 --> 00:26:21.000
 are

00:26:21.000 --> 00:26:21.680
 restored,

00:26:21.940 --> 00:26:22.040
 we

00:26:22.040 --> 00:26:22.240
 are

00:26:22.240 --> 00:26:23.140
 reconciled,

00:26:23.460 --> 00:26:23.580
 we

00:26:23.580 --> 00:26:23.980
 become

00:26:23.980 --> 00:26:24.600
 part of

00:26:24.600 --> 00:26:25.019
 God's

00:26:25.019 --> 00:26:25.440
 family.

00:26:25.900 --> 00:26:26.080
 Verse

00:26:26.080 --> 00:26:26.519
 15,

00:26:26.620 --> 00:26:27.060
 we become

00:26:27.060 --> 00:26:27.600
 part of

00:26:27.600 --> 00:26:28.160
 a new

00:26:28.160 --> 00:26:28.880
 humanity,

00:26:29.400 --> 00:26:30.019
 we receive

00:26:30.019 --> 00:26:30.640
 a new

00:26:30.640 --> 00:26:31.460
 identity,

00:26:32.019 --> 00:26:32.540
 we become

00:26:32.540 --> 00:26:33.440
 brothers and

00:26:33.440 --> 00:26:34.140
 sisters in

00:26:34.140 --> 00:26:34.580
 the Lord

00:26:34.580 --> 00:26:35.080
 Jesus.

00:26:36.360 --> 00:26:37.279
 We become

00:26:37.279 --> 00:26:38.420
 God's

00:26:38.420 --> 00:26:39.400
 very own

00:26:39.400 --> 00:26:39.980
 people,

00:26:40.460 --> 00:26:41.300
 the church.

00:26:42.420 --> 00:26:43.120
 We become

00:26:43.120 --> 00:26:43.779
 one big

00:26:43.779 --> 00:26:45.000
 family where

00:26:45.000 --> 00:26:45.779
 love and

00:26:45.779 --> 00:26:46.840
 compassion are

00:26:46.840 --> 00:26:47.259
 found.

00:26:47.259 --> 00:26:49.059
 You see,

00:26:49.200 --> 00:26:49.680
 in the

00:26:49.680 --> 00:26:50.160
 church,

00:26:51.059 --> 00:26:51.400
 this

00:26:51.400 --> 00:26:51.940
 gathered

00:26:51.940 --> 00:26:52.759
 people here

00:26:52.759 --> 00:26:54.299
 today becomes

00:26:54.299 --> 00:26:55.019
 a living

00:26:55.019 --> 00:26:56.680
 example of

00:26:56.680 --> 00:26:57.460
 a community

00:26:57.460 --> 00:26:58.240
 where

00:26:58.240 --> 00:26:58.980
 conflicts

00:26:58.980 --> 00:27:00.259
 end and

00:27:00.259 --> 00:27:00.799
 peace

00:27:00.799 --> 00:27:01.799
 rules.

00:27:02.759 --> 00:27:03.480
 Look at

00:27:03.480 --> 00:27:04.319
 chapter 3,

00:27:05.059 --> 00:27:06.279
 verse 10.

00:27:08.379 --> 00:27:09.279
 Chapter 3,

00:27:09.339 --> 00:27:09.799
 verse 10.

00:27:09.900 --> 00:27:10.420
 Why did

00:27:10.420 --> 00:27:11.079
 God do

00:27:11.079 --> 00:27:12.359
 this work

00:27:12.359 --> 00:27:12.680
 of

00:27:12.680 --> 00:27:13.839
 reconciliation

00:27:13.839 --> 00:27:14.720
 and bringing

00:27:14.720 --> 00:27:15.400
 peace?

00:27:15.400 --> 00:27:17.160
 verse 10,

00:27:17.259 --> 00:27:18.180
 his intent

00:27:18.180 --> 00:27:19.259
 was that

00:27:19.259 --> 00:27:19.759
 now,

00:27:20.259 --> 00:27:21.320
 through the

00:27:21.320 --> 00:27:21.920
 church,

00:27:22.960 --> 00:27:23.860
 the manifold

00:27:23.860 --> 00:27:24.800
 wisdom of

00:27:24.800 --> 00:27:26.019
 God should

00:27:26.019 --> 00:27:26.580
 be made

00:27:26.580 --> 00:27:27.220
 known to

00:27:27.220 --> 00:27:27.800
 the rulers

00:27:27.800 --> 00:27:28.320
 and the

00:27:28.320 --> 00:27:28.900
 authorities

00:27:28.900 --> 00:27:29.360
 in the

00:27:29.360 --> 00:27:29.660
 heavenly

00:27:29.660 --> 00:27:30.140
 realms

00:27:30.140 --> 00:27:31.500
 according to

00:27:31.500 --> 00:27:32.580
 his eternal

00:27:32.580 --> 00:27:34.040
 purpose that

00:27:34.040 --> 00:27:34.900
 he accomplished

00:27:34.900 --> 00:27:35.759
 in Christ

00:27:35.759 --> 00:27:37.200
 Jesus our

00:27:37.200 --> 00:27:37.700
 Lord.

00:27:38.640 --> 00:27:39.440
 God's

00:27:39.440 --> 00:27:39.980
 wisdom

00:27:39.980 --> 00:27:41.660
 is to

00:27:41.660 --> 00:27:41.980
 bring

00:27:41.980 --> 00:27:42.820
 healing

00:27:42.819 --> 00:27:44.960
 to

00:27:44.960 --> 00:27:45.319
 his

00:27:45.319 --> 00:27:45.839
 people

00:27:45.839 --> 00:27:47.200
 and that

00:27:47.200 --> 00:27:47.899
 healing is

00:27:47.899 --> 00:27:49.019
 experienced at

00:27:49.019 --> 00:27:49.579
 the cross

00:27:49.579 --> 00:27:50.659
 and is now

00:27:50.659 --> 00:27:52.339
 displayed in

00:27:52.339 --> 00:27:53.039
 the church.

00:27:53.639 --> 00:27:54.079
 God is

00:27:54.079 --> 00:27:54.460
 saying,

00:27:55.119 --> 00:27:55.639
 look what

00:27:55.639 --> 00:27:56.419
 wisdom has

00:27:56.419 --> 00:27:56.799
 done.

00:27:57.879 --> 00:27:58.559
 Look at the

00:27:58.559 --> 00:27:59.500
 local church

00:27:59.500 --> 00:28:00.240
 in the local

00:28:00.240 --> 00:28:00.859
 community.

00:28:01.559 --> 00:28:01.939
 Look how

00:28:01.939 --> 00:28:02.619
 people have

00:28:02.619 --> 00:28:03.519
 been restored

00:28:03.519 --> 00:28:04.079
 and been

00:28:04.079 --> 00:28:04.559
 forgiven

00:28:04.559 --> 00:28:05.539
 and how

00:28:05.539 --> 00:28:06.200
 peace

00:28:06.200 --> 00:28:07.799
 now reigns.

00:28:07.799 --> 00:28:10.200
 so if we

00:28:10.200 --> 00:28:10.659
 want to

00:28:10.659 --> 00:28:11.419
 experience

00:28:11.419 --> 00:28:11.919
 healing,

00:28:12.619 --> 00:28:13.759
 let us

00:28:13.759 --> 00:28:14.240
 go to

00:28:14.240 --> 00:28:14.940
 the cross,

00:28:15.839 --> 00:28:16.440
 see what

00:28:16.440 --> 00:28:17.180
 Christ has

00:28:17.180 --> 00:28:18.119
 done and

00:28:18.119 --> 00:28:18.879
 experience

00:28:18.879 --> 00:28:20.559
 peace in

00:28:20.559 --> 00:28:21.259
 our life.

00:28:22.779 --> 00:28:23.839
 So first,

00:28:24.000 --> 00:28:24.759
 the way to

00:28:24.759 --> 00:28:26.039
 healing is

00:28:26.039 --> 00:28:26.680
 the gospel

00:28:26.680 --> 00:28:27.399
 of Christ

00:28:27.399 --> 00:28:29.180
 and as

00:28:29.180 --> 00:28:29.960
 we're seeing,

00:28:30.680 --> 00:28:31.200
 secondly,

00:28:32.099 --> 00:28:32.940
 healing comes

00:28:32.940 --> 00:28:33.399
 through the

00:28:33.399 --> 00:28:33.940
 church of

00:28:33.940 --> 00:28:34.399
 Christ.

00:28:35.259 --> 00:28:35.680
 You see,

00:28:35.759 --> 00:28:36.059
 if the

00:28:36.059 --> 00:28:37.000
 church is a

00:28:37.000 --> 00:28:38.519
 display of

00:28:38.519 --> 00:28:39.440
 God-ending

00:28:39.440 --> 00:28:40.339
 hostility,

00:28:40.779 --> 00:28:41.640
 then we

00:28:41.640 --> 00:28:42.019
 are to

00:28:42.019 --> 00:28:42.680
 live out

00:28:42.680 --> 00:28:43.500
 that unity

00:28:43.500 --> 00:28:44.579
 to a

00:28:44.579 --> 00:28:45.599
 world that

00:28:45.599 --> 00:28:46.059
 has their

00:28:46.059 --> 00:28:46.839
 eyes fixed

00:28:46.839 --> 00:28:47.279
 on us

00:28:47.279 --> 00:28:47.619
 saying,

00:28:48.259 --> 00:28:48.579
 look at

00:28:48.579 --> 00:28:48.940
 them.

00:28:49.940 --> 00:28:50.339
 Look at

00:28:50.339 --> 00:28:51.059
 chapter 4

00:28:51.059 --> 00:28:51.819
 verse 2.

00:28:54.299 --> 00:28:55.019
 Ephesians

00:28:55.019 --> 00:28:55.799
 chapter 4

00:28:55.799 --> 00:28:56.380
 verse 2.

00:28:56.859 --> 00:28:57.000
 Be

00:28:57.000 --> 00:28:57.819
 completely

00:28:57.819 --> 00:28:58.579
 humble

00:28:58.579 --> 00:28:59.579
 and gentle.

00:29:00.619 --> 00:29:00.759
 Be

00:29:00.759 --> 00:29:01.599
 patient,

00:29:02.380 --> 00:29:02.740
 bearing

00:29:02.740 --> 00:29:03.359
 with one

00:29:03.359 --> 00:29:04.019
 another in

00:29:04.019 --> 00:29:04.440
 love.

00:29:05.660 --> 00:29:05.940
 Make

00:29:05.940 --> 00:29:07.299
 every effort

00:29:07.299 --> 00:29:07.920
 to keep

00:29:07.920 --> 00:29:08.700
 the unity

00:29:08.700 --> 00:29:09.220
 of the

00:29:09.220 --> 00:29:09.559
 spirit

00:29:09.559 --> 00:29:10.059
 through the

00:29:10.059 --> 00:29:10.600
 bond of

00:29:10.600 --> 00:29:10.980
 peace.

00:29:11.480 --> 00:29:12.059
 So wisdom,

00:29:12.220 --> 00:29:12.500
 are we

00:29:12.500 --> 00:29:13.000
 going to

00:29:13.000 --> 00:29:13.660
 sow seeds

00:29:13.660 --> 00:29:14.440
 of peace

00:29:14.440 --> 00:29:16.940
 or are we

00:29:16.940 --> 00:29:17.380
 going to

00:29:17.380 --> 00:29:18.200
 sow seeds

00:29:18.200 --> 00:29:19.039
 of discord?

00:29:20.620 --> 00:29:21.519
 How do we

00:29:21.519 --> 00:29:22.039
 keep the

00:29:22.039 --> 00:29:22.420
 unity?

00:29:23.460 --> 00:29:23.840
 Well, he

00:29:23.840 --> 00:29:24.440
 goes on to

00:29:24.440 --> 00:29:24.840
 tell us,

00:29:24.920 --> 00:29:25.600
 chapter 4

00:29:25.600 --> 00:29:26.640
 verse 25.

00:29:28.519 --> 00:29:29.220
 It's all

00:29:29.220 --> 00:29:29.820
 about how

00:29:29.820 --> 00:29:30.380
 we live.

00:29:30.380 --> 00:29:31.180
 Therefore,

00:29:31.460 --> 00:29:32.120
 each of you

00:29:32.120 --> 00:29:32.920
 must put off

00:29:32.920 --> 00:29:33.660
 falsehood.

00:29:34.340 --> 00:29:34.720
 Speak

00:29:34.720 --> 00:29:35.560
 truthfully

00:29:35.560 --> 00:29:36.060
 to your

00:29:36.060 --> 00:29:36.460
 neighbour,

00:29:37.380 --> 00:29:37.900
 for we

00:29:37.900 --> 00:29:38.680
 are all

00:29:38.680 --> 00:29:39.740
 members of

00:29:39.740 --> 00:29:41.180
 one body.

00:29:42.380 --> 00:29:43.720
 Verse 29.

00:29:45.779 --> 00:29:46.340
 Do not

00:29:46.340 --> 00:29:46.940
 let any

00:29:46.940 --> 00:29:47.940
 unwholesome

00:29:47.940 --> 00:29:48.880
 talk come

00:29:48.880 --> 00:29:49.259
 out of

00:29:49.259 --> 00:29:49.960
 your mouths,

00:29:50.740 --> 00:29:51.759
 but only

00:29:51.759 --> 00:29:52.320
 what is

00:29:52.320 --> 00:29:53.380
 helpful for

00:29:53.380 --> 00:29:54.400
 building others

00:29:54.400 --> 00:29:55.680
 up according

00:29:55.680 --> 00:29:56.240
 to their

00:29:56.240 --> 00:29:56.800
 needs,

00:29:57.519 --> 00:29:57.940
 that it

00:29:57.940 --> 00:29:59.000
 may benefit

00:29:59.000 --> 00:30:00.560
 those who

00:30:00.560 --> 00:30:01.080
 listen.

00:30:01.079 --> 00:30:02.759
 or verse

00:30:02.759 --> 00:30:03.419
 31.

00:30:04.599 --> 00:30:05.279
 Get rid

00:30:05.279 --> 00:30:05.759
 of all

00:30:05.759 --> 00:30:06.240
 bitterness,

00:30:06.699 --> 00:30:07.460
 rage and

00:30:07.460 --> 00:30:07.980
 anger,

00:30:08.500 --> 00:30:09.259
 brawling and

00:30:09.259 --> 00:30:09.839
 slander,

00:30:10.240 --> 00:30:10.779
 along with

00:30:10.779 --> 00:30:11.720
 every form

00:30:11.720 --> 00:30:12.519
 of malice.

00:30:14.039 --> 00:30:15.079
 Be kind

00:30:15.079 --> 00:30:16.539
 and

00:30:16.539 --> 00:30:17.259
 compassionate

00:30:17.259 --> 00:30:17.879
 to one

00:30:17.879 --> 00:30:18.299
 another,

00:30:19.519 --> 00:30:19.980
 forgiving

00:30:19.980 --> 00:30:20.839
 each other,

00:30:21.899 --> 00:30:22.759
 just as

00:30:22.759 --> 00:30:23.539
 in Christ

00:30:23.539 --> 00:30:24.619
 God

00:30:24.619 --> 00:30:25.439
 forgave

00:30:25.439 --> 00:30:26.539
 you.

00:30:28.799 --> 00:30:29.759
 You see,

00:30:29.879 --> 00:30:30.419
 the reality

00:30:30.420 --> 00:30:31.080
 is we

00:30:31.080 --> 00:30:31.680
 can all

00:30:31.680 --> 00:30:32.300
 sow seeds

00:30:32.300 --> 00:30:33.060
 of conflict

00:30:33.060 --> 00:30:34.060
 when we

00:30:34.060 --> 00:30:34.680
 don't guard

00:30:34.680 --> 00:30:35.480
 our hearts.

00:30:36.300 --> 00:30:36.900
 But we

00:30:36.900 --> 00:30:37.400
 can,

00:30:37.539 --> 00:30:38.120
 because of

00:30:38.120 --> 00:30:38.800
 Christ and

00:30:38.800 --> 00:30:39.440
 his spirit

00:30:39.440 --> 00:30:39.880
 at work

00:30:39.880 --> 00:30:40.500
 within us,

00:30:40.960 --> 00:30:41.640
 sow seeds

00:30:41.640 --> 00:30:42.360
 of peace.

00:30:43.400 --> 00:30:43.660
 No,

00:30:43.720 --> 00:30:44.200
 the church

00:30:44.200 --> 00:30:44.680
 is not

00:30:44.680 --> 00:30:45.360
 perfect,

00:30:46.360 --> 00:30:46.840
 but the

00:30:46.840 --> 00:30:47.480
 church is

00:30:47.480 --> 00:30:47.980
 God's

00:30:47.980 --> 00:30:48.980
 display model

00:30:48.980 --> 00:30:49.480
 to a

00:30:49.480 --> 00:30:49.840
 watching

00:30:49.840 --> 00:30:51.620
 world of

00:30:51.620 --> 00:30:52.200
 how we

00:30:52.200 --> 00:30:53.180
 resolve

00:30:53.180 --> 00:30:54.259
 conflict.

00:30:55.600 --> 00:30:55.940
 Do you

00:30:55.940 --> 00:30:56.259
 see it

00:30:56.259 --> 00:30:56.480
 there,

00:30:56.580 --> 00:30:57.360
 chapter 5,

00:30:57.400 --> 00:30:58.000
 verse 1?

00:30:58.000 --> 00:31:00.799
 we follow

00:31:00.799 --> 00:31:01.420
 God's

00:31:01.420 --> 00:31:02.039
 example

00:31:02.039 --> 00:31:03.920
 as dearly

00:31:03.920 --> 00:31:04.200
 loved

00:31:04.200 --> 00:31:04.779
 children

00:31:04.779 --> 00:31:06.599
 and live

00:31:06.599 --> 00:31:07.240
 a life

00:31:07.240 --> 00:31:08.319
 of love

00:31:08.319 --> 00:31:10.400
 just as

00:31:10.400 --> 00:31:10.940
 Christ

00:31:10.940 --> 00:31:12.119
 loved us

00:31:12.119 --> 00:31:13.700
 and gave

00:31:13.700 --> 00:31:14.539
 himself up

00:31:14.539 --> 00:31:15.119
 for us

00:31:15.119 --> 00:31:15.500
 as a

00:31:15.500 --> 00:31:15.980
 fragrant

00:31:15.980 --> 00:31:16.660
 offering

00:31:16.660 --> 00:31:18.119
 and sacrifice

00:31:18.119 --> 00:31:19.039
 to God.

00:31:19.039 --> 00:31:22.159
 You see,

00:31:22.240 --> 00:31:22.659
 as we

00:31:22.659 --> 00:31:23.279
 gather as

00:31:23.279 --> 00:31:23.680
 God's

00:31:23.680 --> 00:31:24.099
 people,

00:31:24.619 --> 00:31:25.700
 we are

00:31:25.700 --> 00:31:26.180
 to bring

00:31:26.180 --> 00:31:26.720
 each other

00:31:26.720 --> 00:31:27.299
 back to

00:31:27.299 --> 00:31:27.920
 the cross

00:31:27.920 --> 00:31:28.980
 and see

00:31:28.980 --> 00:31:29.539
 what he

00:31:29.539 --> 00:31:30.119
 has done

00:31:30.119 --> 00:31:30.839
 for us

00:31:30.839 --> 00:31:31.599
 where we

00:31:31.599 --> 00:31:32.319
 choose

00:31:32.319 --> 00:31:33.420
 not to

00:31:33.420 --> 00:31:34.000
 hold on

00:31:34.000 --> 00:31:34.720
 to hurts

00:31:34.720 --> 00:31:36.659
 or seek

00:31:36.659 --> 00:31:37.500
 revenge

00:31:37.500 --> 00:31:39.319
 or withhold

00:31:39.319 --> 00:31:40.000
 forgiveness.

00:31:41.119 --> 00:31:41.700
 Instead,

00:31:41.960 --> 00:31:42.539
 we follow

00:31:42.539 --> 00:31:43.759
 the Lord's

00:31:43.759 --> 00:31:44.319
 example.

00:31:45.379 --> 00:31:45.920
 We sow

00:31:45.920 --> 00:31:46.779
 seeds of

00:31:46.779 --> 00:31:47.259
 peace.

00:31:47.259 --> 00:31:48.279
 we show

00:31:48.279 --> 00:31:49.039
 acts of

00:31:49.039 --> 00:31:49.420
 love

00:31:49.420 --> 00:31:50.200
 and compassion.

00:31:50.859 --> 00:31:51.500
 We share

00:31:51.500 --> 00:31:52.240
 the gospel

00:31:52.240 --> 00:31:53.019
 of Christ

00:31:53.019 --> 00:31:53.839
 and we

00:31:53.839 --> 00:31:54.339
 welcome

00:31:54.339 --> 00:31:55.039
 a hurting

00:31:55.039 --> 00:31:56.299
 and broken

00:31:56.299 --> 00:31:56.960
 people

00:31:56.960 --> 00:31:58.379
 to come

00:31:58.379 --> 00:31:59.200
 to Christ

00:31:59.200 --> 00:32:01.059
 and to

00:32:01.059 --> 00:32:01.819
 know peace

00:32:01.819 --> 00:32:02.599
 and healing

00:32:02.599 --> 00:32:03.640
 within.

00:32:05.640 --> 00:32:06.759
 The way

00:32:06.759 --> 00:32:07.379
 of wisdom

00:32:07.379 --> 00:32:09.319
 is the way

00:32:09.319 --> 00:32:10.019
 of healing

00:32:10.019 --> 00:32:11.379
 for all

00:32:11.379 --> 00:32:11.740
 of our

00:32:11.740 --> 00:32:12.559
 relationships.

00:32:13.400 --> 00:32:13.759
 Our

00:32:13.759 --> 00:32:14.359
 relationships

00:32:14.359 --> 00:32:15.240
 to God

00:32:15.240 --> 00:32:17.000
 and our

00:32:17.000 --> 00:32:17.640
 relationships

00:32:17.640 --> 00:32:19.460
 with one

00:32:19.460 --> 00:32:19.859
 another.

00:32:22.220 --> 00:32:23.019
 Let's just

00:32:23.019 --> 00:32:23.480
 take a

00:32:23.480 --> 00:32:23.920
 moment

00:32:23.920 --> 00:32:25.420
 to reflect

00:32:25.420 --> 00:32:25.940
 and think

00:32:25.940 --> 00:32:26.299
 of these

00:32:26.299 --> 00:32:26.880
 things as

00:32:26.880 --> 00:32:27.319
 we pray

00:32:27.319 --> 00:32:27.839
 together.

00:32:27.839 --> 00:32:27.919
 there.

00:32:27.920 --> 00:32:33.920
 Amen.

00:32:33.920 --> 00:32:34.560
 Amen.

00:32:55.880 --> 00:33:01.940
 Lord God, would you please give us a heart and an attitude

00:33:01.940 --> 00:33:09.860
 that hates conflict and detests division?

00:33:13.700 --> 00:33:18.700
 Would you give us a heart that will continually run to Christ

00:33:18.700 --> 00:33:23.180
 and know forgiveness where we need it?

00:33:25.240 --> 00:33:30.580
 The help of your Spirit to sow seeds of peace

00:33:30.579 --> 00:33:38.659
 through our words, through our actions, and through our thoughts.

00:33:40.500 --> 00:33:43.819
 Would you help us to be a community

00:33:43.819 --> 00:33:47.359
 that reflects the beauty and the wisdom

00:33:47.359 --> 00:33:53.460
 of a God who ends hostility and brings peace?

00:33:53.460 --> 00:33:58.980
 Help us by your Spirit that we would be a welcoming community

00:33:58.980 --> 00:34:04.000
 to those who are hurt and broken by conflict,

00:34:04.539 --> 00:34:09.039
 that they may receive love and compassion.

00:34:09.039 --> 00:34:13.219
 Thank you, Father, for this church.

00:34:14.480 --> 00:34:16.019
 Thank you for one another.

00:34:17.320 --> 00:34:19.960
 Thank you for your grace to us in our life.

00:34:19.960 --> 00:34:25.800
 And thank you for the work you are doing in our lives

00:34:25.800 --> 00:34:32.840
 in mending and bringing us back to you time and time again.

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 Thank you, Lord.

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 Please send us now with your Spirit

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 to be those who sow peace

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 and stay clear of conflict.

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 In Jesus' name.

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 Amen.

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 We're going to sing together

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 how great the chasm that lay between us,

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 how high the mountain I could not climb,

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 how we run to Christ

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 for all of our needs.

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 Let's sing this

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 and sing it in a way

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 that encourages us

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 as we start into a new week

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 to go as God's people

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 into his world.

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 Let's stand together

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 if we're able to

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 and we'll sing.