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 Now when Job's three friends heard of all this evil that had come upon him, they came each from his own place, Eliphaz the Temanite, Bildad the Shuhite, and Zophar the Neammathite.

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 They made an appointment together to come to show him sympathy and comfort him.

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 And when they saw him from a distance, they did not recognize him.

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 And they raised their voices and wept, and they tore their robes and sprinkled dust on their heads toward heaven.

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 And they sat with him on the ground seven days and seven nights, and no one spoke a word to him, for they saw that his suffering was very great.

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 After this, Job opened his mouth and cursed the day of his birth.

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 And Job said,

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 Let it not rejoice among the days of the year.

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 Let it not come into the number of the months.

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 Behold, let that night be barren.

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 Let no joyful cry enter it.

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 Let those curse it who curse the day, who are ready to rouse up Leviathan.

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 Let the stars of its dawn be dark.

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 Let it hope for light, but have none, nor see the eyelids of the morning, because it did not shut the doors of my mother's womb, nor hide trouble from my eyes.

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 Let it not die at birth.

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 Let it not die at birth.

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 Let it not die at birth, come out from the womb and expire.

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 Why did the knees receive me?

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 Or why the breasts that I should nurse?

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 For then I would have lain down and been quiet.

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 I would have slept.

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 Then I would have been at rest.

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 With kings and counselors of the earth who rebuilt ruins for themselves.

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 Or with princes who had gold, who filled their houses with silver.

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 Or why was I not as a hidden stillborn child, as infants who never see the light?

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 There the wicked cease from troubling, and there the weary are at rest.

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 There the prisoners are at ease together.

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 They hear not the voice of the taskmaster.

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 The small and the great are there, and the slave is free from his master.

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 Why is light given to him who is in misery, and life to the bitter in soul,

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 who long for death, but it comes not, and dig for it more than for hidden treasures,

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 who rejoice exceedingly and are glad when they find the grave?

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 Why is light given to a man whose way is hidden, whom God has hedged in?

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 For my sighing comes instead of my braid, and my groanings are poured out like water.

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 For the thing that I fear comes upon me, and what I dread befalls me.

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 I am not at ease, nor am I quiet.

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 I have no rest, but trouble comes.

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 This is the word of God.

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 Great.

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 Thank you, Claire.

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 Well, good morning, everybody.

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 If you're new to Watermark, my name is Kevin, and it's great to have you with us.

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 Let me pray for us briefly as we look at this passage.

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 So, Heavenly Father, this morning, as we come to this extremely difficult passage in your word,

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 a passage which is very challenging, we pray, God, that you will speak to us.

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 As we've said so many times, we are not interested in hearing the thoughts or opinion of man.

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 Who cares what I think?

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 God, we want to hear what you have to say.

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 God, your words bring life into the darkness and bring hope into hopelessness.

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 And so, God, won't you speak to us?

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 You know, Lord, where the hearts of each one of us are at.

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 You know our pain and our distress.

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 You know our joys and our celebrations.

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 God, you know what keeps us awake at night, our tossing and turning.

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 God, won't you speak to us this morning, we pray.

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 In your good and your gracious name.

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 Amen.

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 Well, we're once again looking at the book of Job.

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 And it's a book that questions and challenges us at every turn.

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 It's a book that artists love and poets love and preachers hate.

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 Preachers love to avoid it.

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 Because it's a book that deals with so much of the deep wrestling of the soul.

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 And it's one of the reasons why the church needs artists and poets.

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 Because there are many things about the Christian faith that artists and poets can sometimes express better than preachers and pastors.

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 Now, if you're new to Watermark or you weren't here last week, the book of Job starts off.

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 And chapter 1 and 2 are extremely challenging.

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 There's this righteous man.

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 He's good.

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 He's upright.

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 He's blameless.

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 He's the best kind of man that you could picture.

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 And yet he suffers terribly.

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 Everything he has was taken from him.

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 His wealth.

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 His servants.

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 His cattle.

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 And ultimately his children.

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 And he's brought to absolute misery.

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 And he doesn't ever find out why.

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 He doesn't do it because of anything he's done wrong.

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 It's something purely that God is doing.

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 And Job questions and his questions are never answered.

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 And as we said last week that the book of Job is not just about sufferings.

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 Though suffering, of course, is a very big part of it.

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 The book of Job is designed to make us stumble over our own limitations and finitude.

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 And so it's designed to bring us to the end of ourselves.

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 And when we think, God, your ways don't make any sense.

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 What are you doing with the world?

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 It's designed to show us that we don't have all the answers to life.

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 And that we can't make life work on its own.

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 Job brings us the place where our logic and our understanding are shown to be insufficient.

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 To face the limitations and the finitude of our knowledge and our wisdom.

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 And then it asks us the question, will you still trust God?

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 Will you allow God to still be God?

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 Even when his ways don't make sense.

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 Now today we're looking at the end of chapter 2 and the whole of chapter 3.

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 And so we're going to see a couple of things in this passage.

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 And so I hope you've got a Bible or a bulletin with you.

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 We're going to look at a lot of scripture.

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 And so have it open in front of you today.

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 And so we're going to look at a couple of things.

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 The first one is this.

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 The ministry of suffering presence.

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 The ministry of suffering presence.

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 Look at the end of chapter 2 with me.

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 Let me just read it again.

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 Verse 11 to 13.

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 It says,

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 When Job's three friends heard of all this evil that had come upon him,

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 they came each from his own place.

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 Eliphaz the Temanite, Bildad the Shuite, and Zophar the Namathite.

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 They made an appointment together to come and show him sympathy and comfort.

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 And when they saw him from a distance, they did not recognize him.

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 They raised their voices.

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 They wept aloud.

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 They tore their robes and they sprinkled dust on their heads from the heavens.

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 And they sat with him on the ground seven days and seven nights.

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 Now we're going to learn a lot more about Job's friends in the coming weeks.

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 Much of the book of Job actually consists about the dialogue and the conversations that happen between Job and his friends.

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 But here they are.

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 They've heard about Job.

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 They come from afar.

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 We don't know where exactly these towns are.

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 But they've traveled from afar.

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 And they've come to be with him.

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 They hear through the grapevine that he's suffering.

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 They somehow contact each other and say,

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 We need to go and be with our friend.

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 And so they travel from afar and they come to be with him.

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 And look at what verse 11 says.

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 They come to show him sympathy and comfort.

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 They come to share in his grief.

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 They come to ease some of his pain and his difficulty.

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 And here's a great example of what friendship should be like.

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 The proverb says,

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 A friend loves at all times.

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 A brother is born for adversity.

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 Many of us have companions and acquaintances.

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 But friends, who are those that are there for you in the midst of suffering?

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 Do you have friends like this?

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 Like Job's friends?

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 It's worth asking in a busy city like Hong Kong,

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 where we are very good at networking,

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 building friendships for the purpose of our jobs and our careers.

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 Do we have friends like this?

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 That really know us?

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 That can sit with us?

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 Who can be with us in a time of adversity?

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 But here we have what some authors have called the ministry of suffering presence.

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 They come to Job and they don't say a whole lot.

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 In fact, they don't say anything.

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 They don't come and give him advice.

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 They don't come and tell him what to do.

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 They simply come and they suffer with him.

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 They sit with him.

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 They don't fix his problems.

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 They simply come and let their presence be a form of ministry in his pain.

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 And look at how they share in his grief when they see him.

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 They raise their voices, but they don't say anything.

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 They just weep with him.

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 Verse 13 says,

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 They sat with him on the ground seven days and seven nights,

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 and no one spoke a word for him,

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 for they saw that his suffering was very great.

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 They don't pull out their camping chairs.

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 They don't pull out their rugs or their cushions.

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 They come from afar, but they don't book into the Marriott down the road.

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 They join him in the ashy, but in the rubbish dump.

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 And they sit with him in the dust and the ashes,

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 and they remain silent.

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 They're just there to let their presence minister to him.

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 So friends, in a world of Twitter advice and social media soundbites

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 and YouTube instructions and keep calm and carry on wisdom,

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 do we as a church know how to bring the ministry of suffering silence,

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 of suffering presence to one another?

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 Do we know how to weep with those who weep,

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 to mourn with those who mourn,

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 to cry and lament and agonize and hurt

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 with those who cry and lament and agonize and hurt themselves?

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 Being part of a church family means knowing how to enter into the grief

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 and the suffering of those of our family.

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 And can I confess, I'm not very good at this.

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 I like to be with someone for a little bit,

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 and then I've got a thousand things to do,

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 and I quickly want to move on.

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 I am not a very good friend to those that are suffering.

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 I need to get better at this.

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 And friends, Job's friends aren't perfect.

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 We're going to see in the next few weeks,

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 there are times when they speak too much.

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 And we think, can't you just stay silent?

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 Can't you go back to how you were in chapter two?

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 But at times, they have done what they should have done.

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 They keep silence.

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 Here we have the ministry of Job's friends in a most wonderful way.

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 The ministry of suffering silence.

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 And so friends, maybe I can ask you this morning,

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 how's your heart?

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 What's the condition of your heart?

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 Do you, like Job, find yourself sitting in the ash heap of despair?

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 Proverbs says that a man may have many companions,

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 but there is a friend that sits closer than a brother.

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 Do you have that kind of friend?

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 Have you opened yourself up to be vulnerable enough to let somebody else in?

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 And friends, maybe do you know how to be that friend to others that are suffering?

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 Part of being a church family is that we know how to be these kinds of friends.

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 Job two tells us about the ministry of suffering presence.

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 But just when we think that things in Job are picking up,

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 well, we get to chapter three and things go crashing down again.

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 Because in chapter three, we see the pain of suffering alone.

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 Like the natural cycle of grief, there is silence.

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 There are tears.

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 There is pain.

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 There is bargaining.

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 There is anger.

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 There is despair.

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 And in Job three, we have all of it.

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 Job chapter three has been described as one of the darkest chapters in the entire book of Job.

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 One of the darkest chapters in the entire Bible.

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 I'm not sure when Claire was reading it, if you were picking up on all the imagery.

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 But as you read it and think about it, it just gets darker and darker all the time.

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 And here we have, having watched the inexplicable sufferings of Job in chapter one and two,

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 here we get to sit with him in his sufferings,

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 in the airship, and listen to his heart.

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 And so let's read it together and grab it in front of you.

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 I hope you've got it in front of you.

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 Let's just work through it a little bit.

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 In chapters three, verse three to ten, Job curses the day that he was born.

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 And he looks back on the day of his birth, the night that he was conceived,

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 and he says, why did that day have to happen?

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 Look at what he says here.

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 Verse three.

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 Let the day perish on which I was born,

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 and the night that said, a man is conceived.

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 So he's picturing his dad at the birth,

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 and his dad is so happy because a boy has been born,

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 and he is saying, what is a day of joy for my dad is a day of misery for me.

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 Verse four.

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 Let that day be darkness.

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 May God above not seek it, nor light shine upon it.

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 Let gloom and deep darkness claim it.

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 Let the clouds dwell upon it,

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 and darkness terrify, and let the blackness of the day terrify it.

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 Job's talking about creation language.

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 Remember how God says, into the darkness, let there be light.

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 But now he's talking about it in reverse.

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 Rather than saying, let there be light, Job is saying, let there be darkness.

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 I wish the day that I was born was covered in darkness and didn't exist.

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 I wish God could uncreate the day of my creation.

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 Verse six.

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 That night, the night he was conceived, let thick darkness seize it.

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 Let it not rejoice amongst the days of the year.

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 Let it not come into the number of the months.

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 He's saying, let that night be like the 29th of February on a non-leap year, right?

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 A day that we just pass over and pretends doesn't exist.

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 I wish the day that I was born was like that day, says Job.

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 Let those who curse it curse the day that I was born.

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 Those who are ready to rouse up Leviathan.

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 Leviathan is this mythical Canaanite creature, seven heads.

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 This sea monster that just brings chaos on the world and brings destruction.

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 And he's saying, I wish the myth of Leviathan was true for the day that I was born.

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 I wish Leviathan really was aroused and could swallow up my conception and my birth.

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 Verse 10.

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 Because it did not shut in the days of my mother's womb, nor hide trouble from my eyes.

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 Verse 10.

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 Friends, Job's looking at the day that he was born, the night that he was conceived,

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 and he's wishing he could erase it from history.

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 And notice, contrary to what Satan said in chapter 1 and what his wife wishes he had done in chapter 2,

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 he doesn't curse God, but oh, he comes so close.

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 Right?

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 He comes pretty close to cursing God.

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 Job's saying, I wish I could go back in time and turn back the clocks and erase the day that I was brought about,

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 the day that brought my existence.

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 And look what he says in verse 11 onwards.

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 Job's lament goes from cursing to questioning.

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 Six times he says, why?

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 Why, Lord, do I keep on living?

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 Why did this happen to me?

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 Why can't I just die?

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 Why?

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 The reason Job asked this question is because in his mind, to die would be better than to carry on living.

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 Look at verse 11.

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 Why did I not die at my birth?

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 Come out from the womb and expire.

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 Why did the knees receive me or the breasts that nursed me?

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 For then I would have lain down and been quiet.

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 I would have slept.

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 I would have been at rest.

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 Verse 16.

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 Why was I not born as stillborn as infants who never see the light?

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 There the wicked cease from trouble.

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 There the weary are at rest.

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 Job is saying, I wish I'd never been born.

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 And if I was born, I wish that I had died in my earliest days.

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 And finally, verse 20 to 26.

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 Job longs for the day of his death.

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 He says, I wish it would come quickly to put me out of my misery.

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 Verse 20.

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 Why is light given to him who is in misery and life to the bitter in soul?

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 Who long for death but it does not come?

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 Who dig for it more than hidden treasure?

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 Who rejoice exceedingly and are glad when they find the grave?

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 And that's an astounding thing for the Bible to say, right?

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 Job says, I rejoice at the prospect of the day of my death like a treasure hunter rejoices when he finds treasure.

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 Verse 25.

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 For the thing that I fear comes upon me.

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 What I dread befalls me.

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 For most people what we fear is the day of our death.

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 For Job what he fears is the rising of the sun and another day where he has to live.

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 I am not at ease.

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 I am not quiet.

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 I have not rested.

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 Trouble keeps coming my way.

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 Friends, it's a dark, dark passage of Scripture in the Bible.

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 Have you ever felt like this?

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 Have you ever felt such utter despair that you know not what to do with it?

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 Makes me think of the words of the Apostle Paul in the New Testament where he writes and he says,

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 Brothers, we want you to know what happened to us, the affliction we experienced in Asia.

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 For we were so utterly burdened beyond our strength that we despaired of life itself.

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 Indeed, we had felt we received the sentence of death.

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 And though we are told at the end of chapter 2 that his friends are with him,

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 his friends make no mention in chapter 3.

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 And while actually his friends are with him, it feels that Job is all alone.

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 And that's how suffering feels, right?

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 You can be surrounded by people with you.

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 And yet when you're in the depth of despair, you can feel utterly alone.

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 Friends, the message of Job chapter 3 is that even the most faithful, God-fearing, righteous men and women,

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 those who God affirms as blameless and God-fearing and good and righteous,

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 are not immune from profound suffering and darkness and despair.

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 Because in this chapter it shows us that a man, even a man such as Job,

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 a man who's blameless and righteous and God-fearing,

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 is not exempt from the anguish and the despair that comes with profound loss and hardship.

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 And again and again, the book of Job wants to challenge us that though you may follow God,

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 don't think that that leads only to health and wealth and blessing and prosperity.

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 Job is not a perfect man, but he is a good man.

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 He's a righteous man.

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 He's a God-fearing man.

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 And yet he suffers so terribly that he gets plunged into the depths of despair.

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 And friends, the point of Job chapter 3 is to correct any ideas we may have at the end of chapter 2,

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 that Christians should just be stoic, unemotional, chin-up, carrying-on kinds of people.

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 If all you have is Job chapter 1 and 2, friends, you can easily feel judged and condemned.

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 Because how does Job end chapter 1 and 2?

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 Remember, this profound suffering comes upon him, and what does it say?

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 Why? Job worshipped, and he said,

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 The Lord gives, and the Lord takes away.

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 Blessed be the name of the Lord.

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 And you can think, if I'm a good Christian,

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 then I better be stoic, unemotional, chin-up, carry-on like Job.

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 And Job chapter 3 wants to show us that you can be God-fearing and faithful,

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 and yet still plunge into the depths of despair.

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 That it's not unchristian to go through difficulty and darkness.

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 No, friends, Job wants to correct that.

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 Mark Frohgop, that's how you'd say his name in South Africa.

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 In America, you'd probably say Rogop or something.

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 Says, lament is a prayer that is birthed in pain and agony and leads to trust.

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 Friends, do you know how to lament?

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 Do you know how to struggle?

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 Well, it's difficult to see it here, but because in Job chapter 3,

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 it seems like all Job does is throw angry phrases up at God.

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 But as we continue to read the rest of Job,

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 we'll see that Job still hangs on to God.

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 And he cries out in despair, but he cries to God.

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 For instance, chapter 19, he says,

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 Job chapter 13,

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 Job 23,

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 Friends, the book of Job shows us that worship in chapter 1,

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 agony and despair in chapter 2 and 3,

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 and trust in the rest of Job are not mutually exclusive,

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 but are able to live together.

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 And one of the great dangers of the Christian life

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 is that with the temptation just to fake it,

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 either to God himself or to the Christian community.

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 And you feel like you've got to just come to church

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 and you've got to put on that cheesy Christian smile

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 and pretend that life is all fine,

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 and you've got to act all chipper,

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 and you've got to be good to God and happy.

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 And friends, don't buy the temptation.

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 Be real.

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 Be real with God.

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 Be real with one another.

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 Be real with the one who knows you better

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 than you know yourself

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 and loves you still.

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 And so in his book, Dark Clouds of Deep Mercy,

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 Mark Frohgop says this.

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 Let me read this quote to us.

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 He says, prayerful lament, that honest cry,

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 the candid expression of grief from a hurting heart,

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 wrestling with the paradox of pain on the one hand

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 and the promise of God's goodness.

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 Prayerful lament is better than silence.

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 Many people are afraid of lament.

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 We find it too honest, too open, too risky.

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 But there's something far worse,

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 silent despair or fake resolution.

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 Friends, despair lives under the hopeless resignation

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 that God doesn't care, he does not hear,

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 nothing is ever going to change.

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 Silent, hopeless despair eats away and kills our souls.

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 And so throughout the Bible,

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 God calls us to bring our grief,

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 to bring our pain,

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 to bring our feelings of despair to him.

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 As we read earlier, the Apostle Paul,

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 he writes, he says,

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 we were so utterly burdened beyond our strength

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 that we despaired of life itself.

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 We felt that we had been given the sentence of death.

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 Yet, that was to make us rely not on ourselves,

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 but on God who raises the dead.

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 He delivered us from such a deadly peril,

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 and he will deliver us.

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 On him we have set our hopes.

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 Friends, let me ask you this morning,

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 if you're not a Christian this morning,

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 where is your hope?

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 Upon which do you bank your hope?

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 What gives you the hope for a new day

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 when darkness comes your way?

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 Friends, if you are youth this morning in high school,

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 where is your hope?

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 When darkness comes your way,

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 what are you going to bank your life upon?

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 Where is your hope?

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 Again, Mark Prochropp says,

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 lament is how you live between the poles

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 of a hard life and trusting in God.

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 It's bringing our sorrow to God.

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 Without it, we don't know how to process pain.

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 Now, before we get to our third and final point,

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 let me, friends, just say something

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 about the very difficult subject of death by suicide.

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 And I know that even just mentioning that

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 is very difficult for some.

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 For some of us, maybe we've lost loved ones,

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 family members in that way.

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 Some of us ourselves have grappled and thought

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 and had these thoughts.

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 And the reason I bring that up

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 is because when we read Job 3,

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 it seems that Job is grappling

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 with suicidal ideation and thoughts.

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 It seems like he longs for the day

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 when he no longer needs to live on this earth.

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 Friends, for some people,

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 living in such despair and such feelings of guilt,

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 maybe such intensity of pain

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 by a tragic situation in our life,

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 means the temptation to think

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 that life is not worth living

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 and that maybe to die would be better

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 than to carry on living.

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 Friends, can I say those feelings

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 feel so real

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 and yet suicidal ideation and temptation

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 is built on a network of falsehoods,

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 built on a network of things that are not true.

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 And so for some of us,

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 maybe that have thought that

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 or have loved ones that have had these thoughts,

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 the feeling is so real.

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 We feel sometimes that there's no way out

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 of the pain or the guilt that we feel

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 or the despair that we feel.

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 Friends, some people may feel

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 that nobody understands me.

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 Nobody knows what it's like to go through

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 what I've gone through.

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 Friends, some people may feel

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 that failure will define us

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 and define our future

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 and that there is no other option.

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 Friends, some people may feel

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 that the way we feel now

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 is the way that we will always feel

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 and there's never an option

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 for hope or joy

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 in front of us.

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 Friends, those feelings feel so real

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 but can I say they're not the ultimate truth.

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 They are built on falsehoods.

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 And we see this again

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 in the book of Job.

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 Here Job,

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 notice the way that he describes death.

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 He's got a skewed version of death.

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 And the way that Job describes death here

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 is not the way that the Bible describes death.

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 Job in his pain

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 seems to see death as a release,

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 as a way of rest,

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 a way of getting away from hardship

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 and that if he were to die,

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 everything would be okay.

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 Friends, that's not the way

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 the Bible describes death.

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 The Bible says that if you are in Christ,

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 yes, we will be more alive

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 than we are now.

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 Death removes the veil

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 that hides the reality.

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 But friends, if you're not a Christian,

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 don't believe the trite sayings

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 about being in a better place

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 or on a bunch of clouds in the sky.

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 Friends, if you're not a Christian,

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 death is agony.

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 It is not rest.

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 It is not peace.

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 You will come face to face

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 with the God who made you

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 to know him and love him,

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 the God that you may have rejected.

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 And so friends,

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 God in his word

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 has given us promise after promise,

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 truth after truth

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 to counter the falsehoods

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 that we feel

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 in the midst of suffering and despair,

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 to give us hope

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 even as it feels hopeless,

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 in a world that feels hopeless.

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 Friends, your life is precious.

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 It's precious to God

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 and it's precious to those around you.

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 And so I wanna say

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 that those feelings

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 as real as they feel

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 are not the whole truth.

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 There is a God who loves you

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 and your future can consist

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 of real hope

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 because there's a living God

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 who knows you

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 and made you

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 and came so that you might know him.

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 Friends, part of the problem

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 that Job faces

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 is that he feels so alone

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 and suffering does that.

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 And even if you're surrounded

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 by people who love you,

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 you can feel so alone.

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 Friends, I can ask you,

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 if you're struggling,

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 don't struggle alone.

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 There are people in this church

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 who love you

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 and will lay down their lives for you.

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 Friends, there are Christian counselors

00:29:00.360 --> 00:29:00.940
 in this church

00:29:00.940 --> 00:29:02.440
 that we will love to point you to

00:29:02.440 --> 00:29:03.480
 that'll help you walk

00:29:03.480 --> 00:29:04.360
 and talk and process.

00:29:05.320 --> 00:29:06.100
 Talk to the elders.

00:29:06.940 --> 00:29:08.160
 Don't suffer alone.

00:29:09.400 --> 00:29:10.380
 Friends, part of the reason

00:29:10.380 --> 00:29:11.520
 why Job chapter three

00:29:11.520 --> 00:29:12.259
 is in the Bible

00:29:12.259 --> 00:29:14.620
 is because God has put it here

00:29:14.620 --> 00:29:15.360
 to show us

00:29:15.360 --> 00:29:16.980
 that despair and darkness

00:29:16.980 --> 00:29:17.680
 and agony

00:29:17.680 --> 00:29:19.759
 is not the final part

00:29:19.759 --> 00:29:20.740
 of Job's story

00:29:20.740 --> 00:29:21.839
 and it's not the final point

00:29:21.839 --> 00:29:22.640
 of your story.

00:29:23.460 --> 00:29:24.579
 That though these are painful

00:29:24.579 --> 00:29:25.859
 and despairing moments,

00:29:26.299 --> 00:29:27.079
 God knows

00:29:27.079 --> 00:29:28.279
 and he understands.

00:29:29.339 --> 00:29:30.279
 Wouldn't it be so bad

00:29:30.279 --> 00:29:30.759
 if the Bible

00:29:30.759 --> 00:29:31.920
 didn't talk about these things?

00:29:32.000 --> 00:29:32.500
 If the Bible

00:29:32.500 --> 00:29:33.640
 was always just chipper

00:29:33.640 --> 00:29:34.940
 and good and wonderful?

00:29:35.779 --> 00:29:37.099
 God puts us in the Bible

00:29:37.099 --> 00:29:38.579
 to know that he understands

00:29:38.579 --> 00:29:39.359
 how we feel.

00:29:40.039 --> 00:29:41.160
 But it's not the end

00:29:41.160 --> 00:29:41.720
 of the story.

00:29:43.120 --> 00:29:44.720
 So how does the story end?

00:29:45.660 --> 00:29:46.539
 Well, we've spoken about

00:29:46.539 --> 00:29:47.859
 the ministry of suffering,

00:29:48.120 --> 00:29:48.519
 silence,

00:29:48.620 --> 00:29:49.039
 and suffering,

00:29:49.160 --> 00:29:49.460
 presence,

00:29:49.460 --> 00:29:50.940
 the misery of suffering alone,

00:29:51.600 --> 00:29:52.360
 thirdly and finally,

00:29:52.480 --> 00:29:53.039
 the ministry

00:29:53.039 --> 00:29:54.960
 of the suffering Savior.

00:29:56.220 --> 00:29:57.240
 In the first section

00:29:57.240 --> 00:29:57.840
 of our passage,

00:29:57.940 --> 00:29:58.759
 we saw the ministry

00:29:58.759 --> 00:29:59.880
 of suffering presence,

00:30:00.500 --> 00:30:01.240
 friends who come

00:30:01.240 --> 00:30:02.059
 to be with us.

00:30:02.680 --> 00:30:03.460
 And yet sometimes

00:30:03.460 --> 00:30:04.900
 even the very best friends

00:30:04.900 --> 00:30:05.759
 are not enough.

00:30:06.860 --> 00:30:07.400
 Last week,

00:30:07.460 --> 00:30:09.100
 we saw how Job's suffering

00:30:09.100 --> 00:30:10.640
 anticipates in some ways

00:30:10.640 --> 00:30:11.360
 the sufferings

00:30:11.360 --> 00:30:12.259
 of Jesus Christ

00:30:12.259 --> 00:30:13.039
 upon the cross.

00:30:13.940 --> 00:30:14.100
 Friends,

00:30:14.319 --> 00:30:15.920
 Job suffered alone

00:30:15.920 --> 00:30:16.819
 and in ignorance.

00:30:16.819 --> 00:30:17.799
 He's unaware

00:30:17.799 --> 00:30:18.779
 of the conversation

00:30:18.779 --> 00:30:19.439
 that's happening

00:30:19.439 --> 00:30:20.379
 in heaven

00:30:20.379 --> 00:30:21.099
 between God

00:30:21.099 --> 00:30:21.619
 and the Satan.

00:30:22.359 --> 00:30:23.500
 Jesus suffered,

00:30:23.960 --> 00:30:25.240
 but Jesus suffered

00:30:25.240 --> 00:30:26.059
 not in ignorance,

00:30:26.179 --> 00:30:27.379
 he suffered intentionally

00:30:27.379 --> 00:30:28.179
 and deliberately.

00:30:29.079 --> 00:30:30.079
 Jesus suffers

00:30:30.079 --> 00:30:31.539
 also because of a conversation

00:30:31.539 --> 00:30:32.419
 that happens in heaven,

00:30:32.519 --> 00:30:33.379
 not between God

00:30:33.379 --> 00:30:33.799
 and Satan,

00:30:34.179 --> 00:30:35.419
 but between God the Father

00:30:35.419 --> 00:30:35.960
 and Christ

00:30:35.960 --> 00:30:36.819
 and the Holy Spirit.

00:30:37.700 --> 00:30:38.659
 Jesus is part

00:30:38.659 --> 00:30:39.480
 of the conversation

00:30:39.480 --> 00:30:40.579
 that leads him

00:30:40.579 --> 00:30:41.099
 to earth.

00:30:41.980 --> 00:30:42.779
 Jesus suffered

00:30:42.779 --> 00:30:43.679
 not in ignorance,

00:30:43.680 --> 00:30:44.720
 but intentionally

00:30:44.720 --> 00:30:46.160
 because he came

00:30:46.160 --> 00:30:46.700
 with a plan

00:30:46.700 --> 00:30:47.460
 to bring hope

00:30:47.460 --> 00:30:48.900
 to our broken world.

00:30:49.560 --> 00:30:49.779
 Friends,

00:30:49.880 --> 00:30:50.900
 Job wished that his life

00:30:50.900 --> 00:30:51.259
 was over

00:30:51.259 --> 00:30:52.500
 because he saw no hope

00:30:52.500 --> 00:30:53.180
 in front of him.

00:30:53.980 --> 00:30:54.660
 Jesus came

00:30:54.660 --> 00:30:56.180
 and gave up his life.

00:30:56.779 --> 00:30:57.259
 He died,

00:30:57.340 --> 00:30:58.060
 but he rose again

00:30:58.060 --> 00:30:58.759
 so that even

00:30:58.759 --> 00:31:00.120
 in our deepest despair

00:31:00.120 --> 00:31:00.560
 and agony,

00:31:00.779 --> 00:31:01.840
 we can live with hope.

00:31:02.840 --> 00:31:03.200
 So friends,

00:31:03.240 --> 00:31:04.080
 I want to say to us,

00:31:04.560 --> 00:31:06.039
 if all we have before us

00:31:06.039 --> 00:31:06.600
 in the Bible

00:31:06.600 --> 00:31:07.840
 is Job,

00:31:08.060 --> 00:31:09.539
 what hope do we have?

00:31:10.320 --> 00:31:11.320
 But God didn't

00:31:11.320 --> 00:31:12.100
 just give us Job,

00:31:12.180 --> 00:31:13.200
 he gave us Jesus.

00:31:14.019 --> 00:31:15.220
 That in our darkness

00:31:15.220 --> 00:31:16.560
 we might have hope.

00:31:17.580 --> 00:31:17.820
 Friends,

00:31:17.920 --> 00:31:18.840
 Job 3 is full

00:31:18.840 --> 00:31:19.799
 of why questions.

00:31:19.940 --> 00:31:20.759
 Why must I live?

00:31:20.840 --> 00:31:21.700
 Why was I born?

00:31:21.880 --> 00:31:22.560
 Why do I have to

00:31:22.560 --> 00:31:23.120
 put up with this?

00:31:23.220 --> 00:31:24.360
 Why, why, why?

00:31:26.539 --> 00:31:27.400
 The evangelists,

00:31:27.519 --> 00:31:28.140
 the gospel writers

00:31:28.140 --> 00:31:28.700
 tell us that

00:31:28.700 --> 00:31:29.500
 as Jesus hangs

00:31:29.500 --> 00:31:30.080
 on the cross,

00:31:30.920 --> 00:31:31.860
 there's a why question

00:31:31.860 --> 00:31:32.900
 that comes from his mouth.

00:31:33.779 --> 00:31:34.900
 My God, my God,

00:31:35.000 --> 00:31:36.620
 why have you forsaken me?

00:31:37.940 --> 00:31:39.000
 Jesus didn't ask

00:31:39.000 --> 00:31:40.140
 that question in ignorance

00:31:40.140 --> 00:31:40.680
 because he didn't

00:31:40.680 --> 00:31:41.320
 know the answer.

00:31:42.200 --> 00:31:43.039
 He knew the answer.

00:31:43.039 --> 00:31:43.980
 Jesus was part

00:31:43.980 --> 00:31:44.740
 of the conversation

00:31:44.740 --> 00:31:45.299
 that put him

00:31:45.299 --> 00:31:45.819
 on the cross.

00:31:46.940 --> 00:31:48.440
 Jesus bursts out

00:31:48.440 --> 00:31:48.879
 this cry,

00:31:49.019 --> 00:31:50.000
 why, my God,

00:31:50.039 --> 00:31:50.819
 have you forsaken me?

00:31:50.879 --> 00:31:51.639
 Because he's quoting

00:31:51.639 --> 00:31:52.460
 Psalm 22.

00:31:53.159 --> 00:31:53.740
 In agony

00:31:53.740 --> 00:31:55.019
 and in darkness

00:31:55.019 --> 00:31:55.579
 of despair,

00:31:55.659 --> 00:31:56.779
 he quotes Psalm 22.

00:31:58.019 --> 00:31:58.659
 Psalm 22

00:31:58.659 --> 00:31:59.420
 is a psalm

00:31:59.420 --> 00:31:59.980
 of lament

00:31:59.980 --> 00:32:01.440
 that starts in agony

00:32:01.440 --> 00:32:02.819
 and ends in hope.

00:32:02.899 --> 00:32:03.359
 Let me read

00:32:03.359 --> 00:32:04.639
 some of it to us.

00:32:05.279 --> 00:32:05.779
 My God,

00:32:05.859 --> 00:32:06.339
 my God,

00:32:06.379 --> 00:32:07.779
 why have you forsaken me?

00:32:07.819 --> 00:32:08.319
 Verse 1.

00:32:08.319 --> 00:32:09.500
 Why are you so far

00:32:09.500 --> 00:32:10.460
 from saving me

00:32:10.460 --> 00:32:11.539
 from the words

00:32:11.539 --> 00:32:12.299
 of my groaning?

00:32:12.779 --> 00:32:14.039
 I cry by day

00:32:14.039 --> 00:32:15.059
 but you do not answer.

00:32:15.220 --> 00:32:15.720
 By night

00:32:15.720 --> 00:32:17.279
 but I find no rest.

00:32:18.579 --> 00:32:19.240
 But Psalm 22

00:32:19.240 --> 00:32:19.960
 doesn't end there.

00:32:20.039 --> 00:32:20.460
 It ends

00:32:20.460 --> 00:32:21.539
 with great hope.

00:32:22.419 --> 00:32:23.000
 Verse 22.

00:32:23.179 --> 00:32:23.899
 I will tell

00:32:23.899 --> 00:32:24.419
 of your name

00:32:24.419 --> 00:32:25.039
 to my brothers

00:32:25.039 --> 00:32:25.579
 and sisters.

00:32:25.700 --> 00:32:26.139
 In the midst

00:32:26.139 --> 00:32:26.779
 of the congregation

00:32:26.779 --> 00:32:28.119
 I will praise you.

00:32:28.799 --> 00:32:30.119
 God has not despised

00:32:30.119 --> 00:32:30.759
 the affliction

00:32:30.759 --> 00:32:31.720
 of the afflicted.

00:32:32.359 --> 00:32:33.099
 He has not

00:32:33.099 --> 00:32:33.740
 hidden his face

00:32:33.740 --> 00:32:34.119
 from him

00:32:34.119 --> 00:32:35.559
 when he cried to him.

00:32:35.559 --> 00:32:36.539
 The afflicted

00:32:36.539 --> 00:32:37.079
 shall eat

00:32:37.079 --> 00:32:37.579
 and they shall

00:32:37.579 --> 00:32:38.319
 be satisfied.

00:32:39.000 --> 00:32:39.919
 Those who seek him

00:32:39.919 --> 00:32:41.019
 shall praise the Lord.

00:32:42.019 --> 00:32:42.299
 Friends,

00:32:42.359 --> 00:32:43.019
 as we continue

00:32:43.019 --> 00:32:43.819
 to read the book

00:32:43.819 --> 00:32:44.419
 of Job,

00:32:44.759 --> 00:32:45.559
 we see that

00:32:45.559 --> 00:32:46.839
 that's Job's story too.

00:32:46.960 --> 00:32:48.220
 It starts in despair

00:32:48.220 --> 00:32:49.079
 and it ends

00:32:49.079 --> 00:32:50.059
 in hope.

00:32:50.919 --> 00:32:51.440
 As we read

00:32:51.440 --> 00:32:53.200
 in Job chapter 19,

00:32:53.440 --> 00:32:54.059
 I know that

00:32:54.059 --> 00:32:55.000
 my Redeemer lives

00:32:55.000 --> 00:32:56.000
 and he will one day

00:32:56.000 --> 00:32:57.059
 walk upon the earth.

00:32:58.299 --> 00:32:59.059
 Many, many,

00:32:59.200 --> 00:32:59.539
 hundreds,

00:32:59.819 --> 00:33:00.779
 thousands of years later,

00:33:01.059 --> 00:33:01.839
 Job's Redeemer,

00:33:02.019 --> 00:33:02.639
 Jesus Christ,

00:33:02.700 --> 00:33:03.779
 did walk upon the earth.

00:33:04.940 --> 00:33:05.259
 Jesus,

00:33:05.259 --> 00:33:06.539
 the true friend

00:33:06.539 --> 00:33:07.299
 that sticks closer

00:33:07.299 --> 00:33:07.859
 than a brother.

00:33:08.879 --> 00:33:09.140
 Jesus,

00:33:09.240 --> 00:33:10.180
 the true Redeemer

00:33:10.180 --> 00:33:11.480
 who came to die

00:33:11.480 --> 00:33:12.420
 and rise again

00:33:12.420 --> 00:33:13.740
 to turn back

00:33:13.740 --> 00:33:14.259
 the curse

00:33:14.259 --> 00:33:14.960
 and the brokenness

00:33:14.960 --> 00:33:15.519
 of this world.

00:33:16.339 --> 00:33:16.619
 And friends,

00:33:16.700 --> 00:33:17.900
 because Jesus lived

00:33:17.900 --> 00:33:18.579
 as he did

00:33:18.579 --> 00:33:20.019
 and died as he did,

00:33:20.579 --> 00:33:21.819
 we can look at death

00:33:21.819 --> 00:33:22.440
 and suffering

00:33:22.440 --> 00:33:23.559
 and despair differently.

00:33:24.440 --> 00:33:24.619
 Friends,

00:33:24.660 --> 00:33:25.299
 if you're a Christian

00:33:25.299 --> 00:33:25.839
 this morning,

00:33:25.960 --> 00:33:27.299
 you have the Redeemer's

00:33:27.299 --> 00:33:28.859
 spirit inside of you.

00:33:29.660 --> 00:33:30.720
 And so even as we go

00:33:30.720 --> 00:33:31.240
 through the most

00:33:31.240 --> 00:33:32.299
 severe trials,

00:33:32.440 --> 00:33:33.879
 he has not abandoned us.

00:33:33.880 --> 00:33:35.200
 If you're a Christian

00:33:35.200 --> 00:33:35.820
 this morning,

00:33:36.040 --> 00:33:37.600
 you need never suffer

00:33:37.600 --> 00:33:38.280
 alone

00:33:38.280 --> 00:33:39.940
 because the spirit

00:33:39.940 --> 00:33:41.120
 of the living Lord

00:33:41.120 --> 00:33:41.900
 Jesus Christ

00:33:41.900 --> 00:33:42.900
 resides in you

00:33:42.900 --> 00:33:44.080
 and comforts you

00:33:44.080 --> 00:33:45.200
 and prays with you

00:33:45.200 --> 00:33:46.240
 and prays for you

00:33:46.240 --> 00:33:47.320
 and assures you

00:33:47.320 --> 00:33:47.980
 of God's love

00:33:47.980 --> 00:33:48.700
 and assures you

00:33:48.700 --> 00:33:49.580
 of God's presence.

00:33:50.580 --> 00:33:50.800
 Friends,

00:33:51.040 --> 00:33:52.280
 while Jesus' death

00:33:52.280 --> 00:33:53.840
 doesn't take away

00:33:53.840 --> 00:33:54.600
 all the questions,

00:33:54.720 --> 00:33:55.500
 what it does do

00:33:55.500 --> 00:33:56.020
 is it means

00:33:56.020 --> 00:33:57.420
 we can trust him.

00:33:57.420 --> 00:33:59.019
 And so Jesus

00:33:59.019 --> 00:34:00.360
 overcame the hopelessness

00:34:00.360 --> 00:34:00.960
 of the cross

00:34:00.960 --> 00:34:03.880
 because he is God

00:34:03.880 --> 00:34:04.900
 and death and evil

00:34:04.900 --> 00:34:05.920
 have no hold on him.

00:34:06.900 --> 00:34:07.259
 Friends,

00:34:07.340 --> 00:34:08.019
 now we too

00:34:08.019 --> 00:34:08.619
 can overcome

00:34:08.619 --> 00:34:09.619
 our hopelessness

00:34:09.619 --> 00:34:11.400
 because Jesus is God

00:34:11.400 --> 00:34:12.200
 and we can hold

00:34:12.200 --> 00:34:13.260
 on to him.

00:34:14.320 --> 00:34:15.019
 And so don't try

00:34:15.019 --> 00:34:15.680
 and beat despair

00:34:15.680 --> 00:34:16.240
 on your own.

00:34:16.800 --> 00:34:17.480
 Don't hold on

00:34:17.480 --> 00:34:18.240
 to it on your own.

00:34:19.000 --> 00:34:19.320
 Friends,

00:34:19.400 --> 00:34:20.240
 can you look

00:34:20.240 --> 00:34:21.139
 to Jesus,

00:34:22.019 --> 00:34:23.220
 the man of sorrows

00:34:23.220 --> 00:34:24.500
 who suffered

00:34:24.500 --> 00:34:25.579
 for us?

00:34:25.579 --> 00:34:27.059
 Let me close

00:34:27.059 --> 00:34:27.659
 with these words

00:34:27.659 --> 00:34:28.500
 from my friend

00:34:28.500 --> 00:34:29.599
 Douglas O'Donnell.

00:34:31.099 --> 00:34:31.279
 He says,

00:34:31.340 --> 00:34:31.840
 Job thought

00:34:31.840 --> 00:34:32.659
 that he was forsaken

00:34:32.659 --> 00:34:33.360
 by God

00:34:33.360 --> 00:34:34.860
 but he was not.

00:34:35.840 --> 00:34:36.679
 God's silence

00:34:36.679 --> 00:34:37.360
 did not mean

00:34:37.360 --> 00:34:38.440
 his forsakenness.

00:34:39.319 --> 00:34:39.639
 Jesus,

00:34:39.840 --> 00:34:40.099
 however,

00:34:40.239 --> 00:34:41.139
 was forsaken.

00:34:41.719 --> 00:34:42.480
 He was forsaken

00:34:42.480 --> 00:34:43.319
 that we might not

00:34:43.319 --> 00:34:44.739
 suffer eternal silence

00:34:44.739 --> 00:34:45.440
 and separation

00:34:45.440 --> 00:34:46.099
 from God.

00:34:46.779 --> 00:34:47.559
 Why is not

00:34:47.559 --> 00:34:48.480
 the ultimate question

00:34:48.480 --> 00:34:49.400
 of the book of Job

00:34:49.400 --> 00:34:50.719
 but Jesus'

00:34:50.960 --> 00:34:52.420
 why have you forsaken me

00:34:52.420 --> 00:34:53.199
 is the ultimate

00:34:53.199 --> 00:34:54.319
 and the most foundational

00:34:54.319 --> 00:34:55.420
 question in the Bible.

00:34:56.139 --> 00:34:56.900
 Without Jesus'

00:34:57.059 --> 00:34:57.779
 death on the cross

00:34:57.779 --> 00:34:58.619
 we absolutely

00:34:58.619 --> 00:34:59.599
 are hopeless

00:34:59.599 --> 00:35:00.840
 having no hope

00:35:00.840 --> 00:35:01.819
 of eternal life,

00:35:02.319 --> 00:35:03.059
 eternal joy,

00:35:03.599 --> 00:35:04.420
 eternal fellowship

00:35:04.420 --> 00:35:05.179
 with the wise

00:35:05.179 --> 00:35:05.679
 and just

00:35:05.679 --> 00:35:06.460
 and loving God.

00:35:07.059 --> 00:35:08.139
 So as we read

00:35:08.139 --> 00:35:09.219
 this distressing poem

00:35:09.219 --> 00:35:10.279
 of Job chapter 3,

00:35:10.799 --> 00:35:11.699
 let us thank God

00:35:11.699 --> 00:35:12.659
 for Job's honesty

00:35:12.659 --> 00:35:14.119
 but oh let us

00:35:14.119 --> 00:35:14.960
 also thank God

00:35:14.960 --> 00:35:15.579
 for the gospel

00:35:15.579 --> 00:35:17.319
 for our great redeemer

00:35:17.319 --> 00:35:18.719
 who in his death

00:35:18.719 --> 00:35:19.599
 redeemed us

00:35:19.599 --> 00:35:21.159
 saving us from sin,

00:35:21.960 --> 00:35:22.360
 Satan,

00:35:23.139 --> 00:35:23.500
 death,

00:35:23.500 --> 00:35:24.519
 and came

00:35:24.519 --> 00:35:26.000
 to give us life.

00:35:26.960 --> 00:35:27.280
 Friends,

00:35:27.320 --> 00:35:28.199
 let's pray together.

00:35:31.900 --> 00:35:32.659
 Father God,

00:35:32.739 --> 00:35:33.679
 if we had written

00:35:33.679 --> 00:35:34.119
 the Bible

00:35:34.119 --> 00:35:34.820
 we would not

00:35:34.820 --> 00:35:35.500
 have included

00:35:35.500 --> 00:35:36.420
 such a chapter

00:35:36.420 --> 00:35:37.579
 as Job chapter 3.

00:35:38.539 --> 00:35:39.219
 We would have

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 included chapters

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 like Psalm 23,

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 the Lord is my shepherd,

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 he leads me

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 beside still waters.

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 But God,

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 thank you

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 that even those chapters

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 include verses

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 like you lead us

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 through the valley

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 of the shadow

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 of death.

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 But you lead us,

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 you don't abandon us.

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 Father,

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 we are not

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 unaware of the fact

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 that in this room

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 many of us,

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 God,

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 either have

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 or currently

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 are walking

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 what feels like

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 the valley

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 of the shadow

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 of death.

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 God,

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 I pray

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 that the living God

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 and the spirit

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 of the living Christ

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 will come

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 and minister

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 to our needs.

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 Lord,

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 deep from sorrows

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 we cry,

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 but we cry out

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 to you.

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 Won't you come

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 and be with us

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 like you came,

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 Jesus,

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 to walk upon the earth?

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 Won't you come

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 and walk with us

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 today

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 and tomorrow

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 and the next day?

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 And God,

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 lift our eyes again,

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 I pray,

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 and help us

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 to lament,

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 to cry from deep

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 within us

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 but to cry to you.

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 Jesus,

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 this morning

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 we get on our knees

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 and we say,

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 we need you.

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 Lord,

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 we need you.

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 Every hour,

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 God,

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 we need you.

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 Come and have your way,

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 we pray.

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 Amen.