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 You are listening to a message from Southwood Presbyterian Church in Huntsville, Alabama.

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 Our passion is to experience and express grace. Join us.

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 And that was the best introduction I have ever had.

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 And I think if my mom would have been alive and here to have heard it, she would have believed it.

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 But, man, it's great to be here.

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 Gosh, two and a half years ago was the last time I was here, probably standing up here.

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 And some of you guys know, you need to know that some of you all still sit in the same place.

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 It's true. I can look at it. It's hysterical.

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 But it's great to be here.

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 The text this morning is not like a Palm Sunday text.

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 But it's out of Proverbs.

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 But in preparation for this morning, I was reading through the Palm Sunday,

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 the triumphal entry of Jesus in some of the Gospels.

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 And something stood out for me in John chapter 12.

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 And it's the part right after Jesus has come into the city.

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 And John tells of the story of some Greeks, some Gentiles that come to Philip.

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 And then Philip goes to Andrew because they want to see Jesus.

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 And they go and they tell Jesus.

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 And then Jesus answers them.

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 And he says to tell them that the hour has come.

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 The hour where the Son of Man is to be glorified has come.

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 And then he goes on to tell them this.

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 He says that,

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 And then Jesus goes on to talk about how whoever loves his life will lose it.

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 Whoever hates his life in this world will keep it for eternal life.

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 And so the message he's giving as he's come powerfully into the city,

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 he's starting to tell what's going to happen to him.

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 He is going to die.

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 And then there's going to bear much fruit.

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 Right?

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 But then he talks about us.

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 He says that if we hate our life, in this life, in this world,

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 we'll gain something greater.

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 So this idea that he's telling us is that the way up is down.

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 There's a humility that we're going to be called to.

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 Because as we go into the world,

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 it's a kind of world where things don't go the way that we want them to.

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 The unexpected things happen.

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 Our expectations are here and the reality is here.

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 There's a difference.

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 And he's preparing these Greeks, these Gentiles for this.

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 And it got me thinking in terms of my life,

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 how I face things, you know,

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 things that happen unexpectedly.

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 My expectations are here, but then reality is here.

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 What happens?

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 How do I gap?

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 How do I bridge that gap?

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 And usually what I want is a quick fix.

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 I want something to be fixed quickly.

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 In this world, things happen unexpectedly.

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 And I want a quick fix.

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 And I'm looking for a life hack most of the time.

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 Do you know what a life hack is?

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 You've heard of a life hack?

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 It's sort of just kind of a quick fix for things.

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 There's even like whole websites dedicated for a life hack.

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 And one of them that I found,

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 and it's hysterical because it was so disappointing.

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 I needed some quick fixes,

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 and I went to this whole website for a life hack.

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 And this is how they define a life hack.

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 A life hack is being,

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 it's little ways that make our lives easier.

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 Okay?

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 So when our expectations are here

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 and reality's here,

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 I need a quick fix.

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 I need my life made easier.

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 So here's a life hack.

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 And here's a few of them,

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 and they're horrible.

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 They're not going to make your life easier.

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 But listen,

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 this is supposed to make your life easier.

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 You know those binder clips,

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 those black binder clips?

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 They got like certain sizes.

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 If you take those,

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 you stick them on the back behind your desk,

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 you can organize all your cables

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 through the little loop on it.

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 Easy life.

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 That's a good one.

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 There was another one.

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 There was one that was about

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 what to do with pancake batter,

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 how to make your life easier.

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 They say to put it in a squeeze bottle,

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 you know,

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 a ketchup squeeze bottle.

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 Put your pancake batter in that.

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 Let's do the pancake batter math here for a second.

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 First,

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 first to get a ketchup bottle empty,

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 I got to get rid of the ketchup.

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 First,

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 I got to clean a squeeze bottle of ketchup.

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 Now that's done.

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 Then I've got to make my batter.

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 Then I got to get the batter into that thing.

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 And my batter will take like ketchup from now on.

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 So one last little one.

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 This one is about how to organize your keys.

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 If you got a lot of keys,

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 get fingernail polish,

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 different colors,

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 and you're supposed to paint the top of them

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 different colors.

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 And then you'll know what key is to go to what.

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 But then I think you need one of those

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 little quarterback cheat sheets

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 to tell you, you know,

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 which key goes to what.

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 Okay, so I failed with the life hacks.

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 But I still,

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 I want to figure out how to make life easy.

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 And I think this is something that marketers

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 and advertisers are really,

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 they've been leveraging for years.

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 Because we want a quick fix to stop.

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 And have you seen in the,

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 like on websites,

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 they have little advertisements.

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 And they'll tell you about one weird trick.

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 There's one weird trick out there.

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 And one of them was a weird trick

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 on how to save,

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 how to add $1,000

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 to your social security check.

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 And I love the wording of that

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 because that plays into exactly how I feel.

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 Because my expectations are here

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 and reality is here.

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 And something has happened

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 and I need a quick fix in my life.

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 I need a weird trick.

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 Because what's so cool is it's weird.

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 Like no one knows how it works.

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 It's weird.

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 And it's a trick.

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 I don't know how tricks work.

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 They just work.

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 And that's what I want.

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 That's what I want for my life.

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 I want a weird trick.

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 I love you when they say things like,

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 here's a ridiculously easy trick

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 insurance companies don't want you to know about.

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 And so here we are.

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 I need a quick fix.

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 I need something that bridges the gap

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 between my expectations and reality.

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 But who can blame us?

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 I mean, who can blame us?

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 I mean, because life takes all kinds of turns

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 and things happen.

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 And who can blame us

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 that we would want a quick trick,

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 a weird trick to fix it.

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 Because we live in a broken world.

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 Genesis tells us the story of how that happened.

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 And then the repercussions of the fall

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 of our parents, Adam and Eve.

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 And the repercussions were that work

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 is going to be hard.

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 What we do is going to be difficult.

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 Right?

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 I mean, the economy turns

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 and we lose our jobs.

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 It's just difficult.

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 It's hard.

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 And making money and buying things is hard.

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 And then relationships are affected.

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 All of our relationships are hard.

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 When you're married, it's difficult.

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 And you're getting along with your neighbor

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 and the people at work.

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 And it's just so hard.

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 And I need a weird trick.

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 I need something to fix this.

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 I need a life hack.

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 But here's the thing.

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 The Bible is not a collection of life hacks.

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 It's not a collection of weird tricks

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 on how to avoid pain and struggle in life.

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 In fact, it's the opposite.

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 Jesus, when he was saying

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 after his triumphal entry,

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 you know, unless you die,

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 unless you die,

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 unless, see, the way up is down.

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 And so the Bible is not a collection

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 of weird tricks,

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 you know, life hacks.

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 Although,

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 it's full of resources.

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 I mean, that bring life

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 as we go through this broken world.

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 Brings perspective.

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 It brings life.

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 Resources.

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 Gospel resources.

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 That's kind of even a strange

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 sort of terminology there.

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 But here's the thing.

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 We're going to look at

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 one thing this morning.

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 It's in our passage.

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 It's one thing.

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 Just one,

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 I don't know,

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 life hack.

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 It's trust.

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 Because when

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 your expectations are here,

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 reality's here

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 and that gap in between.

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 And you,

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 you know,

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 Jesus said

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 as he rode in on the donkey,

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 I am king.

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 That's what he was saying.

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 I'm king.

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 Yet a week later,

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 a year later,

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 Caesar was still king, right?

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 But we know

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 Jesus is king

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 because when my expectations

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 are here

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 and reality is here,

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 I have to believe

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 he's king

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 even when it doesn't feel

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 like he's king.

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 And that's where trust

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 comes in.

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 Let's read the passage

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 this morning

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 and then we'll pray.

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 Proverbs 3, 5, and 6.

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 Trust in the Lord

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 with all your heart

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 and lean not

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 on your own understanding.

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 In all your ways

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 acknowledge him

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 and he will make your,

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 and he will make straight

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 your paths.

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 Let's pray.

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 Father,

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 we need to see Jesus

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 this morning

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 just as the Greeks asked.

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 Lord, show us Jesus.

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 Take us to the cross.

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 Blaze a trail

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 that so that we end up

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 before the face of Jesus

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 to look into his face.

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 And Father,

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 know that he's king

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 even when it doesn't feel like it.

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 Teach us to trust.

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 Show us that truth

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 this morning.

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 We pray in Christ's name.

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 Amen.

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 Amen.

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 All right.

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 So, very quickly again,

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 we're on a journey

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 through a broken world.

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 It's hard.

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 Things are hard now.

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 Very difficult.

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 And we're on that journey

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 through it.

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 And it goes all the way back

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 to our parents.

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 So, we're born

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 with a bent away from God.

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 We're born in sin.

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 We're sinners.

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 That's how we're born.

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 And we need to be rescued.

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 And so, everything about us

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 wants everything except God.

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 And then, even as we're transformed

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 and given new hearts,

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 that battle still rages in us.

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 We want things our way.

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 And it's difficult

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 in a broken world.

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 And so,

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 we have to go back

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 and to think on,

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 well, why were we created?

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 What picture do we have in Genesis?

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 And that picture in Genesis

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 is that God wants to be with us.

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 He wants a relationship with us.

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 And so, we read and see

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 the picture that's painted there.

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 And in fact,

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 we have the imagery

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 of God walking with us

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 in the cool of the day.

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 Right?

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 That He wants to be

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 in relationship with us.

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 And so, in places

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 like Deuteronomy,

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 we have this passage

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 in Deuteronomy 10,

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 verse 12.

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 And now, Israel,

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 what does the Lord,

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 your God,

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 require of you

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 but to fear the Lord,

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 your God,

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 to walk in all His ways,

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 to love Him,

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 to serve the Lord,

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 your God,

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 with all your heart

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 and with all your soul?

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 Another familiar passage

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 is Micah 6.8.

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 He has told you,

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 O man,

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 what is good.

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 And what does the Lord

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 require of you

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 but to do justice

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 and to love kindness

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 and to walk,

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 to walk humbly

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 with your God.

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 And then Jesus sums up

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 all the commandments.

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 He gives the greatest commandment

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 that we love God

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 with all of our hearts

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 and all of our soul

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 and mind and strength.

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 So the goal in our life

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 is to know God,

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 to walk with Him.

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 Roy Hessian,

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 in that great book

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 on We Would See Jesus,

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 he even says,

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 to see God

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 means to know

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 and to love

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 and to walk with Him.

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 And so that's what

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 we want to do.

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 We want to see God.

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 We want to walk with Him.

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 We want to walk with Jesus.

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 In this world

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 where our expectations

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 are here,

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 reality here,

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 we need to see Jesus.

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 We need to walk with Him.

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 We need to have

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 a relationship with Him.

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 We need to trust Him.

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 And we're to trust Him

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 with all of our heart.

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 Now, the heart,

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 imagine God is trying

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 to describe

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 how we made us.

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 And He says that,

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 you know,

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 there's all kinds

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 of parts to us.

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 And one of the ways

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 He describes the heart

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 and then we have emotions.

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 But our heart

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 and emotions

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 are different.

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 Our heart is the place

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 where our greatest

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 commitments and hopes reside.

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 That's the place

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 where all of our commitments

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 and hopes reside.

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 And so what the passage

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 in Proverbs says

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 is we're to love God

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 with all of our hearts.

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 With every ounce

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 of our being,

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 we're to love God.

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 We're to place

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 all of our hope

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 and trust in Him

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 because our emotions

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 come out of that.

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 So God is to be

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 the very center

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 of all of our commitment

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 and hope.

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 That's what we're called

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 to do.

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 Derek Kidner

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 in one of the commentaries

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 painted a picture

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 of what that word

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 trust in Hebrew

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 and there's a lot

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 of facets to the word

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 trust and we'll talk

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 about a different

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 facet later.

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 But he gave this idea

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 of trust as lying

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 face downward,

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 helpless,

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 helplessly face downward.

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 And I gotta tell you

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 and I've brought up

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 an illustration using

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 our oldest son many times

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 because Billy,

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 as a lot of you know,

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 is autistic.

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 He's an adult now.

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 I think I'll get

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 his age right.

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 He'll be 23 this year.

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 And many of you know

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 when he was 17

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 he turned violent.

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 And oh boy,

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 I know many of you here

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 know that day well.

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 And we had to place him

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 outside the home.

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 And he's in a group home

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 for a while

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 and he's still in a group home.

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 But in that first group home

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 and organization,

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 one of the ways

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 they were helping him

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 deal with his violence

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 and his lashing out

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 was they had this thing

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 called a blue mat.

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 And a blue mat was,

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 just imagine you're

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 in elementary school

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 and you're at gym

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 and the blue mat

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 would be the mats

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 you put on the ground.

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 It's that sort of foam mat.

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 And it had a little handle on it

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 and it could fold in two

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 and they would carry that

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 around with them

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 because when Billy

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 would begin to act out

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 they would have to put

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 the blue mat on the ground

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 and I watched them do this

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 a number of times.

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 They would gently put him

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 down on the blue mat

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 face down

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 and then two workers

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 would get on either side

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 of him and hold him down,

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 helplessly hold him down

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 until he stopped

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 wanting his way.

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 And thanks to my wife Sherry,

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 she brought that illustration up

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 and said that that is how

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 we are to trust

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 because typically

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 what we want is our way.

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 We want our way.

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 We want things our way.

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 Our expectations are here

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 and the reality is usually

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 down here

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 and we want our way

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 and God teaches us to trust

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 to stop wanting our way

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 and wanting his way.

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 So that's what we're called to do.

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 To trust in the Lord

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 with all your hearts,

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 not wanting your way,

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 but we're to lean on

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 and we're to put all of our weight,

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 not on our understanding,

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 but on the understanding of God.

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 In Proverbs,

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 any understanding,

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 any wisdom

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 is not true understanding

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 apart from God.

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 And so our challenge is

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 we always want to lean on

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 our little thimble full

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 of understanding

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 when we stand before

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 a vast ocean

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 of God's understanding

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 because our expectations are here

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 and what God wants

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 is usually right here

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 and there's a huge difference.

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 and if I lean on my understanding,

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 I can get bitter.

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 If I lean on my understanding,

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 I can get angry.

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 I can start to find

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 other ways out,

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 looking for a quick fix,

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 a weird trick,

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 a life hack

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 to get out of whatever mess I'm in.

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 But I have to lean on

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 how God sees it

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 and his understanding.

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 Here's a great quote.

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 If God were small enough

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 to be understood,

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 he wouldn't be big enough

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 to be worshipped.

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 Amen on that.

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 If he was small enough

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 to be understood,

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 he wouldn't be big enough

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 to be worshipped.

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 So we need to fall on our face

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 on a blue mat

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 before the vast ocean

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 of God's understanding.

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 Let me ask you this then.

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 What's next?

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 What do we do then after that?

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 How do we get up

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 off the blue mat?

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 Well, it says in the passage

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 we're to acknowledge him.

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 That simply means to know him,

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 to have a deep relationship

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 with God,

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 to know him.

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 It's a personal knowledge.

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 We're aware of the other person.

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 And it's just like

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 your relationships,

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 just like our relationships.

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 Oh man,

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 I wish I could go back

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 in time now

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 because I was able to do

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 as a pastor

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 a lot of marriage counseling.

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 And those poor people

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 that I counseled early on,

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 I just want to go back

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 and like,

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 can they do a do-over?

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 Because I would think

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 I could help

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 a little better now

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 with marriage issues.

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 And here's what I would say

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 about that.

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 Here's what I would do differently.

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 And I'll put it this way.

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 If you're maybe

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 going to go into

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 marriage counseling,

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 maybe with one of the pastors here

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 or with a therapist,

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 here's what you need to do.

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 Promise me you'll do.

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 If you walk into

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 this initial meeting

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 and the first thing

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 out of that counselor

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 or pastor's mouth is,

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 and they say,

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 who wants to begin?

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 Just get up and leave.

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 Because what they're saying is,

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 who wants to start

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 complaining first?

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 That's not what you want to hear.

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 Here's what I would recommend

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 that you would try

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 to listen for.

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 And here's what I will do

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 as well if you come to me.

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 Is I will ask you,

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 before we find out

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 what's concerning you,

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 I'll ask you

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 to start talking about

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 what was it like

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 when you first met.

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 Tell me what it was like

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 when you first saw her.

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 How did you feel?

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 And then that person

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 could say,

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 well, wow.

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 First time I saw her,

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 oh, I just thought,

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 it's beautiful.

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 Then we started to talk.

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 She was so smart,

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 funny,

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 and her laugh was cute.

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 And then the wife could say,

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 oh, I remember

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 when I first saw him.

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 And yes, handsome

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 and rugged.

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 And Sherry says,

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 you know,

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 I was wearing

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 these little tight red shorts.

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 And she reminds me.

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 This is the day

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 when gym shorts were tight,

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 like that.

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 And because then

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 after that happens,

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 then the counselor can go,

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 okay, now tell me,

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 what concern has brought

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 you here today?

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 You see what's going on?

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 I mean, there's part of it

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 on a practical level.

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 You can't stay mad

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 at somebody

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 when you're remembering

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 things about them.

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 But we're to remember.

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 The way,

00:18:43.180 --> 00:18:45.220
 your relationship

00:18:45.220 --> 00:18:46.279
 will grow with each other

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 as you remember

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 how you met,

00:18:49.640 --> 00:18:50.920
 what you've been through,

00:18:51.200 --> 00:18:52.240
 all those things

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 you've got to remember.

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 That's how you develop

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 a relationship

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 just among people.

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 And one other little thing, too,

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 I would tell couples

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 you need rituals.

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 You need things

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 you do on a regular basis.

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 It could be like

00:19:02.680 --> 00:19:03.620
 a Tuesday night

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 pastry and coffee.

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 Something that you do

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 on a regular basis.

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 That's how we know God, too.

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 If you look at a lot

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 of the Psalms,

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 they begin with

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 the psalmist

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 remembering things

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 about God,

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 remembering how

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 and what he brought

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 you through.

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 Remember what he's done.

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 And so as we have

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 a relationship with God,

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 we open his word

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 and we remember

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 what he's done

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 from start to finish,

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 you know,

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 from Genesis to Revelation,

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 what he's done

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 for us,

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 how he came after,

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 how much he loved us,

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 how much his heart

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 is after us,

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 what he's done

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 to come after us.

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 That's how we develop

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 a relationship with God.

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 We remember

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 what he's done

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 and we think on it

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 and we delight in it,

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 in his word.

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 And then you have rituals

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 where, you know,

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 regular time with God,

00:19:55.339 --> 00:19:56.759
 doing that remembering,

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 regular time

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 with God and his word

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 and with his people.

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 Right?

00:20:03.220 --> 00:20:04.299
 Spending time with him,

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 spending time with others,

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 with people.

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 That's how he grows us.

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 That's how we get

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 into relationship with him.

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 So trust in the Lord

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 with all your heart.

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 Lean not on your understanding,

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 but in all your ways,

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 know him.

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 Know him.

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 All right,

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 so there you go.

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 What's the next thing

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 we're supposed to do?

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 Well,

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 if we are to trust him,

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 not ourselves,

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 we do it by knowing him.

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 The next thing that we're called

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 to do in this passage

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 is relax.

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 I don't know if you saw it in there,

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 but it's relax.

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 Because the next part of this

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 is it says,

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 he will make straight your paths.

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 There's a lot of work

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 that leads up to the relaxing.

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 You know,

00:20:46.919 --> 00:20:47.759
 you spend time in the Word,

00:20:47.819 --> 00:20:48.559
 spend time with others,

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 you think about him,

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 you remember,

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 you remember all these things,

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 but he causes us to relax.

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 Why?

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 Because he's got it.

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 There's an old Portuguese proverb

00:20:56.779 --> 00:20:57.700
 that says that

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 God writes straight

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 with a crooked line.

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 You know what that crooked line is?

00:21:03.240 --> 00:21:04.399
 It's the hardship,

00:21:04.599 --> 00:21:05.279
 it's the world,

00:21:05.339 --> 00:21:06.680
 the broken world we live in.

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 We're called to walk

00:21:08.639 --> 00:21:09.539
 that crooked path

00:21:09.539 --> 00:21:12.180
 that God has written for us.

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 We're to believe

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 and to trust him

00:21:15.159 --> 00:21:16.180
 in that time,

00:21:16.259 --> 00:21:17.259
 whatever he's called us to.

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 Your expectations are here,

00:21:18.539 --> 00:21:19.480
 reality's down here.

00:21:20.419 --> 00:21:20.960
 Trust him.

00:21:21.779 --> 00:21:22.220
 Relax.

00:21:23.460 --> 00:21:24.359
 It's hard to do,

00:21:24.419 --> 00:21:25.559
 but it's what he calls us to do.

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 Relax.

00:21:26.180 --> 00:21:26.620
 Okay.

00:21:31.440 --> 00:21:32.700
 Why is trust

00:21:32.700 --> 00:21:34.440
 a life hack

00:21:34.440 --> 00:21:35.140
 or a weird trick?

00:21:35.259 --> 00:21:36.140
 Why is trust?

00:21:36.500 --> 00:21:37.259
 Why do we need it?

00:21:41.340 --> 00:21:42.140
 Very often,

00:21:42.299 --> 00:21:43.400
 the broken creation,

00:21:45.180 --> 00:21:46.980
 especially with fallen people like us,

00:21:47.019 --> 00:21:48.220
 we get to that place

00:21:48.220 --> 00:21:49.440
 where we wonder

00:21:49.440 --> 00:21:50.380
 where God is.

00:21:52.960 --> 00:21:53.720
 Listen, y'all,

00:21:54.140 --> 00:21:55.360
 since leaving here,

00:21:55.359 --> 00:21:56.719
 the past two and a half years

00:21:56.719 --> 00:21:58.039
 has been hard.

00:21:58.539 --> 00:21:59.579
 It's been one of the hardest things

00:21:59.579 --> 00:22:00.319
 that Sherry and I

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 have ever walked through.

00:22:01.079 --> 00:22:02.079
 I never thought

00:22:02.079 --> 00:22:02.959
 I would not,

00:22:03.639 --> 00:22:04.500
 I'm going to do a double negative.

00:22:04.939 --> 00:22:05.939
 I always thought

00:22:05.939 --> 00:22:06.639
 I'd be in ministry

00:22:06.639 --> 00:22:08.159
 from always from on,

00:22:08.519 --> 00:22:09.439
 from the time

00:22:09.439 --> 00:22:10.339
 I went off the seminary

00:22:10.339 --> 00:22:11.039
 until I wasn't,

00:22:11.699 --> 00:22:12.839
 until I went on to glory.

00:22:13.319 --> 00:22:13.939
 I always thought

00:22:13.939 --> 00:22:14.659
 I'd be in ministry.

00:22:16.279 --> 00:22:17.319
 And boom,

00:22:17.479 --> 00:22:18.279
 all of a sudden I wasn't.

00:22:19.240 --> 00:22:21.439
 And I can tell you

00:22:21.439 --> 00:22:22.740
 I needed a quick fix.

00:22:22.799 --> 00:22:23.799
 I needed a life hack.

00:22:23.799 --> 00:22:24.819
 I needed a weird trick.

00:22:24.879 --> 00:22:25.799
 I needed some button

00:22:25.799 --> 00:22:26.399
 I could push

00:22:26.399 --> 00:22:27.839
 to fix it.

00:22:29.159 --> 00:22:30.720
 But what God gave me

00:22:30.720 --> 00:22:31.279
 was Him.

00:22:32.359 --> 00:22:33.259
 Every day,

00:22:33.700 --> 00:22:34.220
 trusting Him.

00:22:34.319 --> 00:22:34.819
 Every day,

00:22:34.899 --> 00:22:36.079
 believing that He is

00:22:36.079 --> 00:22:37.399
 writing straight lines,

00:22:37.460 --> 00:22:38.480
 even though it looks crooked

00:22:38.480 --> 00:22:39.579
 from my vantage point.

00:22:40.159 --> 00:22:40.759
 I'm telling you,

00:22:40.839 --> 00:22:41.879
 there's life there.

00:22:42.319 --> 00:22:43.200
 And if any of you

00:22:43.200 --> 00:22:43.779
 are going through

00:22:43.779 --> 00:22:44.639
 whatever it is,

00:22:44.680 --> 00:22:45.279
 you just wonder,

00:22:45.419 --> 00:22:46.359
 is God king?

00:22:46.460 --> 00:22:47.319
 Is Jesus king?

00:22:48.099 --> 00:22:49.259
 Doesn't feel like He is,

00:22:49.259 --> 00:22:49.960
 but He is.

00:22:51.779 --> 00:22:53.240
 Trust is a call

00:22:53.240 --> 00:22:53.839
 on our lives

00:22:53.839 --> 00:22:54.720
 to believe Him,

00:22:55.099 --> 00:22:56.180
 to be face down

00:22:56.180 --> 00:22:57.279
 and not won our way

00:22:57.279 --> 00:22:58.160
 on the blue map.

00:22:59.740 --> 00:23:00.879
 There's life there,

00:23:00.900 --> 00:23:01.579
 I can tell you.

00:23:02.220 --> 00:23:03.079
 There's life there.

00:23:03.960 --> 00:23:05.079
 That's what we need.

00:23:06.079 --> 00:23:06.920
 And so our response

00:23:06.920 --> 00:23:07.720
 is always to be

00:23:07.720 --> 00:23:08.720
 to trust Him.

00:23:09.379 --> 00:23:10.220
 Jesus is king.

00:23:10.980 --> 00:23:12.440
 May not feel like He's king.

00:23:12.640 --> 00:23:13.220
 He's king.

00:23:13.680 --> 00:23:14.099
 He's bringing,

00:23:14.240 --> 00:23:15.539
 making all things new.

00:23:15.960 --> 00:23:16.940
 And we can believe that.

00:23:16.980 --> 00:23:17.779
 We can trust it.

00:23:18.960 --> 00:23:20.480
 And so we're to work

00:23:20.480 --> 00:23:21.480
 on our relationship with God.

00:23:21.539 --> 00:23:22.220
 That's what we're called to do.

00:23:22.259 --> 00:23:23.019
 That's what this passage says.

00:23:23.100 --> 00:23:23.860
 Trust in the Lord

00:23:23.860 --> 00:23:24.519
 with all your heart.

00:23:24.640 --> 00:23:25.500
 Everything about you.

00:23:25.559 --> 00:23:26.100
 Work on it.

00:23:27.019 --> 00:23:27.920
 Really know Him.

00:23:28.420 --> 00:23:29.480
 And then we're called to relax,

00:23:29.500 --> 00:23:30.820
 to trust the Lord.

00:23:31.299 --> 00:23:32.120
 But here's the problem,

00:23:32.240 --> 00:23:33.460
 and I'm going to close with this.

00:23:33.920 --> 00:23:34.980
 There's a problem here.

00:23:35.900 --> 00:23:37.240
 And the problem is this.

00:23:37.840 --> 00:23:39.620
 We can't trust Him like that.

00:23:40.220 --> 00:23:41.539
 Now the type A's in the room,

00:23:41.740 --> 00:23:43.559
 you can go a lot longer than I can.

00:23:44.160 --> 00:23:45.279
 If I were just to tell you,

00:23:45.380 --> 00:23:46.340
 now go trust Jesus.

00:23:46.339 --> 00:23:47.039
 Now we're going to give you

00:23:47.039 --> 00:23:47.799
 a rah-rah speech,

00:23:47.839 --> 00:23:49.179
 and we run out of here.

00:23:49.799 --> 00:23:50.859
 The type A's are going to be able

00:23:50.859 --> 00:23:51.759
 to trust Him way longer

00:23:51.759 --> 00:23:53.019
 than the type F's like me

00:23:53.019 --> 00:23:55.179
 or whatever the worst type there is.

00:23:57.299 --> 00:23:59.359
 Because the challenge really is

00:23:59.359 --> 00:24:01.619
 there was only one who did trust,

00:24:02.619 --> 00:24:04.459
 like Proverbs calls it to.

00:24:05.619 --> 00:24:07.899
 There was only one who trusted like this.

00:24:08.939 --> 00:24:09.980
 Because here's the challenge.

00:24:10.039 --> 00:24:11.399
 Even in a church

00:24:11.399 --> 00:24:13.179
 where you can feel like

00:24:13.179 --> 00:24:14.339
 we're all shiny, happy people,

00:24:14.399 --> 00:24:14.919
 everything's good,

00:24:14.920 --> 00:24:15.720
 everything's going great.

00:24:16.800 --> 00:24:18.000
 It's just not the truth.

00:24:19.080 --> 00:24:20.680
 And you can hear from somebody

00:24:20.680 --> 00:24:22.420
 to say, well, remember what Bill said,

00:24:22.500 --> 00:24:23.360
 just trust the Lord,

00:24:23.400 --> 00:24:24.380
 and it can sound trite.

00:24:26.100 --> 00:24:28.160
 Unless, unless,

00:24:29.460 --> 00:24:30.539
 we also say,

00:24:30.620 --> 00:24:32.300
 but remember that Jesus

00:24:32.300 --> 00:24:33.519
 is the one who trusted,

00:24:34.300 --> 00:24:35.300
 who truly trusted.

00:24:35.380 --> 00:24:36.220
 You're called to trust.

00:24:36.300 --> 00:24:37.519
 You and I are called to trust.

00:24:38.420 --> 00:24:39.100
 No doubt.

00:24:39.099 --> 00:24:41.299
 But we have to remember

00:24:41.299 --> 00:24:42.959
 Jesus is the one who trusted

00:24:42.959 --> 00:24:44.879
 like we were supposed to have.

00:24:46.919 --> 00:24:48.899
 There is a one facet

00:24:48.899 --> 00:24:50.980
 of the word trust in Hebrew.

00:24:52.639 --> 00:24:54.719
 The root word has all these derivatives

00:24:54.719 --> 00:24:56.879
 that are the opposite of trust.

00:24:57.219 --> 00:24:58.219
 It means that you're sort of,

00:24:59.179 --> 00:24:59.699
 the root,

00:24:59.779 --> 00:25:01.039
 some of the words that are derived from it

00:25:01.039 --> 00:25:02.119
 have this idea that

00:25:02.119 --> 00:25:03.679
 the person that you're trusting

00:25:03.679 --> 00:25:04.399
 is deceitful.

00:25:05.100 --> 00:25:05.940
 And I love that imagery

00:25:05.940 --> 00:25:07.960
 because there's only one place

00:25:07.960 --> 00:25:09.259
 we should put all of our trust.

00:25:09.700 --> 00:25:10.980
 Our heart should only have,

00:25:11.060 --> 00:25:12.759
 be putting our trust in one place,

00:25:12.780 --> 00:25:13.720
 not anywhere else.

00:25:14.100 --> 00:25:15.120
 Not in our jobs,

00:25:15.500 --> 00:25:16.900
 not in ministry positions,

00:25:17.800 --> 00:25:19.700
 not in anything else.

00:25:20.480 --> 00:25:22.259
 But it's only in Jesus.

00:25:22.500 --> 00:25:23.140
 And that's what we,

00:25:23.320 --> 00:25:24.019
 we're like the Greeks.

00:25:24.340 --> 00:25:25.100
 Let us see Jesus.

00:25:25.240 --> 00:25:26.000
 Show us Jesus.

00:25:26.960 --> 00:25:27.700
 Let's do that.

00:25:27.700 --> 00:25:30.759
 Because the question we want to ask

00:25:30.759 --> 00:25:32.180
 when our expectations are here

00:25:32.180 --> 00:25:33.380
 and reality's here

00:25:33.380 --> 00:25:34.240
 and we're scared

00:25:34.240 --> 00:25:35.519
 and we don't know

00:25:35.519 --> 00:25:36.440
 what's going to happen next.

00:25:36.480 --> 00:25:37.220
 We don't know if we're going to,

00:25:37.299 --> 00:25:38.799
 if marriage is going to make it.

00:25:39.039 --> 00:25:39.920
 We don't know if,

00:25:40.059 --> 00:25:41.759
 man, my job's going to last any longer.

00:25:42.279 --> 00:25:43.420
 We're scared.

00:25:43.980 --> 00:25:44.799
 We're afraid.

00:25:45.100 --> 00:25:46.259
 Because life is hard

00:25:46.259 --> 00:25:47.539
 and our relationships are affected

00:25:47.539 --> 00:25:47.920
 and we don't know

00:25:47.920 --> 00:25:49.140
 how we're going to fix those.

00:25:49.539 --> 00:25:50.440
 And the weird tricks

00:25:50.440 --> 00:25:51.779
 are all been worked through.

00:25:52.720 --> 00:25:53.019
 Right?

00:25:53.920 --> 00:25:54.819
 What do we do?

00:25:55.519 --> 00:25:56.980
 Can we believe that God's there?

00:25:56.980 --> 00:25:57.980
 Can we believe Him?

00:26:00.559 --> 00:26:01.000
 Yes.

00:26:01.339 --> 00:26:02.900
 Because we see Jesus trusting.

00:26:03.940 --> 00:26:05.099
 Later on this week, right?

00:26:05.680 --> 00:26:06.460
 On Thursday night,

00:26:06.539 --> 00:26:07.360
 I got my nights right.

00:26:07.720 --> 00:26:08.500
 He's in the garden.

00:26:08.599 --> 00:26:09.039
 He's praying.

00:26:09.299 --> 00:26:10.519
 We see Jesus trusting there

00:26:10.519 --> 00:26:11.319
 because here's the deal.

00:26:11.440 --> 00:26:14.279
 Jesus lived the perfect life of trust

00:26:14.279 --> 00:26:16.180
 that you and I could never live

00:26:16.180 --> 00:26:17.799
 given a million opportunities.

00:26:18.839 --> 00:26:20.519
 He lived that perfect life.

00:26:20.880 --> 00:26:21.900
 He died the death

00:26:21.900 --> 00:26:23.099
 that you and I deserved.

00:26:24.240 --> 00:26:25.059
 And as He,

00:26:25.860 --> 00:26:26.799
 on the night before,

00:26:26.980 --> 00:26:28.259
 He was betrayed

00:26:28.259 --> 00:26:30.059
 and knowing what was before Him.

00:26:31.680 --> 00:26:32.660
 It says this.

00:26:32.839 --> 00:26:33.980
 And Jesus knew

00:26:33.980 --> 00:26:35.620
 He was going to drink the cup

00:26:35.620 --> 00:26:38.099
 of His Father's wrath.

00:26:38.360 --> 00:26:39.339
 The wrath that was deserved,

00:26:39.460 --> 00:26:39.940
 you and me.

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 Jesus knew He was going to drink this.

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 And He knew that it meant

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 that He was going to be sent

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 from the Father's presence

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 and experience pain,

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 the depths of pain,

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 you and I can only barely imagine.

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 And this is what it says

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 in Matthew 26.

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 And going a little further,

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 He fell on His face

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 and prayed,

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 saying,

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 Father,

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 if it be possible,

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 let this cup pass from me.

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 Nevertheless,

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 there it is.

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 I don't know.

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 Is this heretical?

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 But I picture Jesus

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 on the blue mat

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 saying,

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 I don't want my way.

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 I can trust you, Father.

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 I will walk this horrible path

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 because of the joy set before me.

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 I'll do it.

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 And here's the deal.

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 He had your life

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 and my life in mind.

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 And He still did it.

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 That's crazy.

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 He did that for me

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 and He knew what a mess

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 I would make of my life.

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 He still did it.

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 He's trusting the Father.

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 He's trusting the Father

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 to raise Him.

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 He's trusting the Father

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 that this will be enough.

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 It'll be finished.

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 There is the trust.

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 And He did it for you and me.

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 He can be trusted.

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 The life that God

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 is scribbling for you,

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 it looks like crooked lines.

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 And He asks you to walk it.

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 And it's painful

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 and it hurts

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 and you wonder,

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 are you king or not?

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 And He asks you to walk it.

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 We just need to remember

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 and look at Jesus

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 how He trusted

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 and know

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 it's worth it.

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 It's going to be okay.

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 He's got it.

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 We can trust

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 because Jesus knew the Father.

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 He knew the Father.

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 With a love

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 so great as this

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 that Jesus had for the Father

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 and the Father had for Jesus,

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 we see it.

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 We see what Jesus did for us.

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 We remember.

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 We lean on that.

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 We trust in that.

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 We don't want our way.

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 We want Jesus' way.

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 We want the Father's way.

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 With love so great as this,

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 that Jesus would lay down

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 His life for us.

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 With such great love

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 between the Father

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 and the Son,

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 that trust flowed so deep

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 from the heart of Jesus.

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 How can we not trust

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 the Father

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 to make

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 your crooked path straight?

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 the pain

00:29:00.199 --> 00:29:01.099
 that you're walking through,

00:29:01.159 --> 00:29:01.679
 the hardship

00:29:01.679 --> 00:29:02.500
 that you're in,

00:29:02.779 --> 00:29:03.379
 the difficulty.

00:29:03.519 --> 00:29:04.399
 He can make it straight

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 and He's making it straight.

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 He can be trusted.

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 And so we can get up

00:29:08.799 --> 00:29:09.539
 off the blue mat

00:29:09.539 --> 00:29:10.299
 and start walking

00:29:10.299 --> 00:29:10.719
 with Him

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 on that crooked path

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 with hope.

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 Absolute hope.

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 He will direct your paths.

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 Relax.

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 He will make them

00:29:22.799 --> 00:29:23.679
 straight and smooth.

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 So trust,

00:29:24.899 --> 00:29:25.319
 remember,

00:29:25.659 --> 00:29:26.119
 relax.

00:29:27.039 --> 00:29:27.539
 Trust,

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 it's not a weird trick.

00:29:31.179 --> 00:29:32.639
 It's not a life hack.

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 Trust is a person.

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 It's the gospel.

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 It's Jesus.

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 Amen?

00:29:41.959 --> 00:29:42.659
 Let's pray.

00:29:44.859 --> 00:29:45.839
 Heavenly Father,

00:29:46.199 --> 00:29:49.059
 my expectations

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 in reality,

00:29:52.399 --> 00:29:54.039
 they hardly ever match up.

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 And so,

00:29:56.439 --> 00:29:56.579
 Father,

00:29:56.859 --> 00:29:59.659
 thank You for that.

00:30:01.019 --> 00:30:02.059
 I thank You

00:30:02.059 --> 00:30:02.759
 for the past

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 two and a half years.

00:30:03.679 --> 00:30:03.799
 Lord,

00:30:03.859 --> 00:30:04.279
 thank You.

00:30:05.919 --> 00:30:07.559
 The straight path

00:30:07.559 --> 00:30:09.459
 that You're working out.

00:30:09.500 --> 00:30:10.439
 It looks crooked to me,

00:30:10.519 --> 00:30:10.959
 but Father,

00:30:11.240 --> 00:30:12.159
 I look to Jesus

00:30:12.159 --> 00:30:13.219
 and I see

00:30:13.220 --> 00:30:15.440
 the glory.

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 I see Your glory

00:30:16.480 --> 00:30:17.420
 in His face.

00:30:18.720 --> 00:30:19.019
 Father,

00:30:19.460 --> 00:30:20.640
 take me

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 no further than the cross

00:30:22.000 --> 00:30:23.240
 and no higher than His feet ever.

00:30:26.220 --> 00:30:27.400
 Continue to teach me,

00:30:27.519 --> 00:30:27.980
 teach us,

00:30:28.039 --> 00:30:28.660
 to trust You,

00:30:28.740 --> 00:30:29.539
 to place our hope

00:30:29.539 --> 00:30:30.620
 only in You,

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 the author and finisher

00:30:32.200 --> 00:30:32.940
 of our faith.

00:30:33.500 --> 00:30:33.740
 Lord,

00:30:34.140 --> 00:30:34.960
 we thank You

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 for this message.

00:30:35.860 --> 00:30:35.940
 Lord,

00:30:35.980 --> 00:30:36.819
 we thank You

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 for the message

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 of the gospel of grace.

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 In Christ's name,

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 Amen.

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00:30:46.299 --> 00:30:47.220
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