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 The thing I find most difficult and challenging about preaching is frequently there are themes

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 that I have to speak on and there are themes that I find so personally difficult and challenging

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 myself. And I often find myself, who am I to stand up and talk about this particular subject

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 when it's something that I find myself caught up with and wrestling so deeply and so personally.

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 And I want to start this morning by saying if ever there was a time when I actually feel like that, it's right now.

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 Because I'm going to ask a question in just a moment and I almost didn't put this bit in but I decided to do so.

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 And the reason why I found it's a difficult question to ask is because it's so deeply challenging.

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 It's quite personal and quite confrontational to the extent that it could even cause offence.

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 But I'm going to include it anyway.

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 I'm not going to ask you to talk to anyone else about it.

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 This is just for your heart and mind only to take away.

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 But if it helps, both the question and everything else that follows is targeted at myself as much as it is anybody else.

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 Here's the question.

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 If you were asked what stands between you and happiness and joy, what would it be?

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 Look, let me phrase it a different way.

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 If you had to fill in the gap in this following sentence, I will be happy when...

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 What would you put in that gap?

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 Now just think about that for a moment.

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 That's not actually the difficult question.

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 The sting is in the next one.

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 I will be happy when...

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 I'm going to give you a few moments to think about that.

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 It might be something to do with relationships.

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 It might be to do with health, either your own or somebody else's.

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 Perhaps it might be to do with financial security.

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 Promotion at work.

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 I'll be happy when...

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 What would it be?

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 Now here's the sting.

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 I want to ask you this question.

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 If that thing that you've just thought about, that thing you're thinking about right now,

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 if that never happens,

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 if that ship never comes in,

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 could you ever be happy?

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 I want to suggest that

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 if our answer to that question is

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 no or we're not sure,

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 then to some extent we're living in the jaws

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 of discontentment.

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 And it's to that place

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 that these words of Paul

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 are addressed.

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 Paul says,

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 I have learned to be content

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 whatever the circumstances.

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 Now if what I've just said

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 sounds quite harsh,

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 let's just break down

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 what Paul says.

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 Firstly, he says

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 that he's learned to be content

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 in all circumstances.

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 He's talking out of that own experience

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 in all circumstances,

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 including those where disappointment

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 would seem to have the upper hand.

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 That's the context.

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 That's the place

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 that he's talking about.

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 But secondly,

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 notice that he said

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 that he's had to learn

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 to be content.

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 It's not something

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 that has just come easily.

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 It's something that

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 in fact,

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 very often,

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 most of the time,

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 is counterintuitive.

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 Sometimes we've got to dig

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 really deep

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 to find out

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 what it is

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 to be content.

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 It's something

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 that we have to wrestle with

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 and we have to work on

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 to learn

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 to be content.

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 That was certainly

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 Paul's reality

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 and I suggest

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 it's probably ours too.

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 Certainly,

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 it was the reality

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 for somebody

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 called Doug McKnight.

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 Doug was 32 years old

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 when he was diagnosed

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 with a degenerative disease.

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 Over the next 16 years,

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 that condition

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 cost him

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 his career,

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 his mobility

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 and eventually

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 his life.

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 And in that time,

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 he gradually weakened

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 to the extent

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 that he could neither walk

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 nor feed himself.

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 He battled

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 with depression

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 profoundly.

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 Towards the end

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 of his life,

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 he was asked

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 by some friends

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 from church,

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 could you compile

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 a list

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 of prayer points

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 for us?

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 He thought about it

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 and he then gave them

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 a list

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 of 24 points.

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 On that list,

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 18 of them

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 were blessings

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 that he wanted

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 others to join

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 with him

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 in giving thanks

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 for.

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 Six were concerns.

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 The first thing

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 that came to his mind

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 were those

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 three times

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 as many things

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 that he knew

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 he had to be thankful

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 for.

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 He was learning

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 to be content.

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 Learning to be content

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 was also the experience

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 that was described

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 by a missionary

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 in Tobago

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 many years ago

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 or rather after

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 they came back

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 from that experience

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 of working in Tobago

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 among a community

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 of people

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 with leprosy.

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 And they were describing

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 how one day

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 they were leading

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 an act of worship

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 at a church.

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 Most of the people

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 in the congregation

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 had leprosy.

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 And a part in the service

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 they said,

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 would anybody

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 like to choose

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 a song

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 what we're going

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 to sing next?

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 Somebody put up

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 their hand.

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 They were so

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 deformed from leprosy

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 they had no ears

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 no nose

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 and no lips.

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 The arm

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 that they raised

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 had a hand

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 but it had no

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 fingers on it.

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 They said,

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 can we sing

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 count your blessings?

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 As the missionary

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 was telling this story

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 years later

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 to a friend

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 the friend said

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 I suppose you'll never

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 be able to sing

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 that song again.

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 The missionary said

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 oh, I'll sing it

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 again and again

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 but just never

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 in quite the same way.

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 Learning

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 ever so hard

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 though it can be

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 learning to be content

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 whatever the

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 circumstances

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 is the challenge

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 that we face.

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 It's not something

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 that is readily

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 encouraged in

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 western culture.

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 How often

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 do you buy a

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 product?

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 And maybe

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 let's say it's

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 something that's

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 a fairly expensive

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 thing and so

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 you do your

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 research.

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 You want to make

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 sure that you're

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 making the right

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 decision.

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 You kind of

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 go online maybe

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 and you work out

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 or maybe it's based

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 on recommendation

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 or whatever

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 but you're pretty

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 satisfied that the

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 thing that you're

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 about to buy

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 is going to

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 service every single

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 requirement that

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 you need it to.

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 And everything

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 you read about it

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 certainly the person

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 trying to sell it

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 to you, the company

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 trying to sell it

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 to you, reassures

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 you that this is

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 the very best of

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 the best of the

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 best.

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 So you buy it.

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 What pops up as

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 soon as you click

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 on that purchase?

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 To complement your

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 purchase, you might

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 also like

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 sometimes the email

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 comes a week later

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 and says that

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 others who bought

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 this also bought

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 that.

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 Hang on, a

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 moment ago you

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 were telling me

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 that this item

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 would meet every

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 single need.

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 You see it's not

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 helped perhaps by

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 the way in which

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 when we look around

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 and we compare

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 ourselves with

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 others and we

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 see what they

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 have and we see

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 what we don't

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 have.

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 There's a really

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 old story about

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 a boy who all

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 he wanted for his

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 birthday was this

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 Swiss army knife.

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 It was the latest

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 one.

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 It had all the

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 get every single

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 blade attachment

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 you could possibly

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 imagine on this

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 Swiss army knife.

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 He desperately

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 wanted it and his

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 parents knew it and

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 they got it for him.

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 He loved it.

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 He just took it

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 with him everywhere.

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 He was never to be

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 seen without this

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 tool.

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 He was always

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 bringing it out and

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 any excuse to use

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 one of the

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 attachments, he was

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 there with it.

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 He just loved this

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 thing.

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 Several months

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 later his mum

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 found him and he

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 was in floods of

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 tears.

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 She couldn't get

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 out of him what

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 was wrong.

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 He said, something

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 happened at school?

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 No.

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 Something happened

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 at home?

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 No.

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 She said, what is

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 it?

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 Then she noticed

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 he didn't seem to

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 have his knife

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 right by his

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 side.

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 She said, has

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 something happened

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 to your pen

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 knife?

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 Is it something

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 to do with that?

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 He said, well,

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 yes.

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 She said, well,

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 have you lost it?

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 He said, no.

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 Have you broken

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 it?

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 No.

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 Eventually the

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 truth came out.

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 He'd been with

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 his friend who'd

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 also just had a

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 birthday, who'd

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 also just been

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 given what was

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 almost exactly the

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 same Swiss army

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 knife.

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 Say almost, because

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 it had one extra

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 attachment.

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 And that Swiss army

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 knife principle, if I

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 may refer to it, is

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 something that

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 actually subconsciously

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 can stay with us

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 throughout our whole

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 lives.

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 We look to see not

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 so much what we

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 have, but what

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 others have, or

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 rather what we

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 don't have.

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 And we draw those

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 comparisons.

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 And rather than

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 reflecting and

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 focusing on the

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 things that we do

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 have that make us

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 feel good and

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 positive about life,

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 actually we see

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 that gap.

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 Comparisons never,

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 ever help.

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 So what does

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 contentment look like

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 practically?

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 Well, two things

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 come to mind.

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 First, I think

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 contentment has to

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 have something to

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 do with knowing

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 and loving what

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 we've already got.

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 Again, there's a

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 story that goes

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 back quite a few

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 years ago.

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 There was a man

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 who was thinking

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 about moving

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 house, putting his

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 house on the

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 market.

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 He had a number

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 of different

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 reasons, but this

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 was the days before

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 right move.

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 So he walked

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 into his estate

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 agent, explained

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 to him that he

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 wanted to move,

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 and they said,

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 oh, that's great,

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 we can help you

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 there.

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 We'd like you to

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 do two things.

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 Firstly, we'll

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 arrange for

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 someone to

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 come around,

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 take some

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 photos of the

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 house, and we'll

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 take details and

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 everything.

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 That happened.

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 He said, secondly,

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 we'd like you to

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 go home and

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 actually fill out

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 this form and

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 make a list of

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 everything that

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 would go to

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 make up a

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 perfect house

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 where you want

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 to live.

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 Location,

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 number of

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 rooms, garden,

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 everything.

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 Just try and be

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 as detailed as

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 you possibly can.

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 So the man

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 went home and

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 did this.

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 He got quite

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 excited as he

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 wrote an

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 extensive list.

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 He more than

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 filled out the

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 form.

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 He needed extra

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 bits of paper

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 to write down

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 everything that he

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 was looking for

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 that would make

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 the perfect

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 home.

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 Put it in an

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 envelope, took it

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 into the estate

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 agent.

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 When he went to

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 the estate agent,

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 it was a different

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 person serving him

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 this time.

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 He handed over

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 his envelope and

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 the estate agent

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 took the envelope

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 out, had a quick

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 look at it and

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 said, actually,

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 I've got something

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 that I think you

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 might be interested

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 in.

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 He went to get a

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 file.

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 He said it matches

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 the description

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 pretty well.

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 He said, I'll tell

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 you what, take

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 this home with

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 you.

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 I was really

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 quite excited to

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 have found what

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 possibly might be

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 the answer to

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 everything he was

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 looking for.

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 He got home, he

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 opened up the

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 envelope, read the

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 description of this

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 place that was just

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 about to come onto

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 the market.

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 There were no

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 photos yet.

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 Didn't even say the

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 address, but he

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 thought, this is

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 absolutely amazing.

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 Gone on the phone,

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 phoned, you can see

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 what's coming,

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 can't you?

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 Phoned the estate

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 agent and yes,

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 they said, it's

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 your house.

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 Perhaps the

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 most important

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 things to us are

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 things that are

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 already there, and

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 yet we just don't

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 see it.

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 Perhaps learning to

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 be content involves

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 seeing the obvious,

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 which perhaps is not

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 always obvious.

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 But the other

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 thing, and I think

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 this is at the

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 core of the

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 challenge facing

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 us as followers

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 of Jesus, is

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 that the daily

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 challenge of

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 learning to be

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 content means

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 knowing, really

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 knowing that

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 Jesus is enough.

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 The late John

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 Stott, that great

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 evangelical Anglican

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 theologian, wrote

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 this, contentment

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 is the secret of

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 inward peace.

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 It remembers the

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 stark truth that

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 we brought nothing

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 into the world, and

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 we can take nothing

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 out of it.

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 Life, in fact, is a

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 pilgrimage from one

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 moment of nakedness

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 to another.

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 So we should travel

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 light and live

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 simply.

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 Our battle cry is

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 not nothing, but

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 enough.

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 Paul wrote, I

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 can do everything

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 through Christ who

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 strengthens me.

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 Now when

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 Paul said that,

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 that you can do

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 anything through

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 Christ, he's not

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 talking about some

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 kind of mystical,

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 magical powers that

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 when you become a

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 believer you suddenly

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 have.

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 It's not like you

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 believe in Jesus and

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 suddenly you can

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 teach cows how to

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 milk themselves or

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 make things explode by

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 wiggling your

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 eyebrows.

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 It doesn't work

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 like that.

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 simply means that

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 Jesus is enough.

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 Jesus is enough.

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 Contentment has

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 learned and is

00:14:41.039 --> 00:14:43.919
 about learning that

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 Jesus is enough.

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 if you know Jesus,

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 you have a God who

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 hears you.

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 You have the power of

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 love behind you.

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 You have the Holy

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 Spirit within you and

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 you have all of heaven

00:15:02.160 --> 00:15:02.879
 ahead of you.

00:15:05.260 --> 00:15:06.660
 If you have Jesus,

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 you have grace for

00:15:09.080 --> 00:15:09.760
 every sin.

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 You have direction for

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 every turn.

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 You have a candle for

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 every corner and an

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 anchor for everything

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 you need.

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 Let's learn to be

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 content.

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 Let's pray.

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 In our prayers, let's

00:15:34.580 --> 00:15:35.519
 just revisit that

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 question that started

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 with.

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 Where we were each

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 invited to just bring

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 to our minds and to

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 our hearts.

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 that thing that we

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 feel would bring us

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 happiness.

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 Lord, you know

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 those things that

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 we pursue, those

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 things that mean so

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 much to us.

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 And those things

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 that would stand,

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 we think, stand

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 between us and

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 happiness.

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 Lord, reality may

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 tell a different

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 story.

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 help us, whether we

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 have much or whether

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 we have little.

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 Whether we reach

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 those things and

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 receive those things

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 that we've thought

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 of.

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 Help us, regardless

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 or not, to know

00:16:30.799 --> 00:16:32.159
 that with you that

00:16:32.159 --> 00:16:32.680
 is enough.

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 Help us in that

00:16:35.039 --> 00:16:36.120
 daily challenge to

00:16:36.120 --> 00:16:37.240
 learn to be

00:16:37.240 --> 00:16:37.740
 content.

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 and so to respond

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 with lives of

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 gratitude.

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 In Jesus' name

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 we pray.

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 Amen.

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 Amen.