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 Good morning.

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 All right, today we're going to start with a little lesson in Anglicanism.

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 That's our tradition.

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 Church of the Advent is an Anglican church.

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 If this is your first time or first experience in an Anglican church, compared to other traditions,

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 you might notice a lot of scripture being read during this service.

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 We read three, sometimes four scripture lessons in a worship service, plus a lot of the liturgy,

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 the prayers, songs, the things we say and sing are filled with scripture.

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 So it's really Bible-based.

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 So how do we determine what scripture we read during a worship service?

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 Well, there's a three-year cycle of scripture lessons that most Anglican churches use together.

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 So if you were to tune into other live streams of Anglican worship this morning from right

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 where you're sitting, you might find at this exact moment, like the same scripture readings

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 being read as were read this morning.

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 This is called the lectionary.

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 This is the organized table of readings that we do.

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 It's three years long.

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 And each year is organized according to the liturgical calendar, which we have a representation

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 of up here.

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 So the calendar year starts on the left, the season of Advent.

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 This year, Advent starts on December 3rd.

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 It's the fourth Sunday before Christmas Day.

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 Advent lasts about four weeks.

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 It's about expecting and awaiting the birth of Jesus.

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 And then Christmas is December 25th.

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 That season lasts for 12 days, ergo, 12 days of Christmas.

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 Then there's Epiphany, which lasts until Ash Wednesday, which begins the season of Lent,

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 which you may have heard of.

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 It's a season of fasting and repenting.

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 All right.

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 How's that?

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 Lent lasts 40 days until Easter Day.

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 Easter lasts 50 days.

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 Then we have the day of Pentecost, which is about the Holy Spirit being gifted unto the

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 church and filling the world.

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 After Pentecost, we have this other six months of the year, which we call ordinary time.

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 Now, ordinary here doesn't mean, like, common or average.

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 Ordinary comes from the word ordinal.

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 In other words, like, during this time, we are marking time.

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 Now, the theme of ordinary time comes right after Pentecost.

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 It's the work of God's people in the world.

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 The Pentecost, God descends on the church.

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 The Holy Spirit descends on the church.

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 And the church now has a mission into the world to renew, restore, to proclaim the gospel.

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 Last week, you heard Tommy preach about the Holy Spirit's work through the church's sacrificial

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 generosity.

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 Today, we're going to talk about the passionate love of God.

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 We're going to talk about an obstacle we face in sharing that passionate love.

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 And we're going to talk about how to cultivate that passion.

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 So God's passionate love, obstacles we face, sharing that love, and then how to cultivate

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 that passion.

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 Before we get into that, I'm going to pray.

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 We're waiting on you, Holy Spirit.

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 Even as you are more present here than we are, we still expect you.

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 We wait on you.

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 We can do such marvelous things in our midst.

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 So we would ask, Holy Spirit, for you to unleash your power among us to encourage, to comfort,

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 to convict.

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 Holy Spirit, remind us that we are indeed sons and daughters of our Father.

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 We pray in Christ's name.

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 Amen.

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 All right.

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 So after God frees his people, Israel, from 430 years of slavery in Egypt, he brings them

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 to Mount Sinai.

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 This is in the book of Exodus.

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 At Mount Sinai, God initiates a covenant with his people.

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 And this covenant, this contract based on promises, is rooted in God's love for his people and

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 what he has done for them.

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 He says, I am the Lord your God who brought you out of Egypt.

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 And then God gives them the ten words.

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 These are ten commandments that are Israel's requirements for upholding their end of the

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 covenant.

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 We find that in Exodus chapter 20.

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 And after that, he gives them further regulations which amplify and expand those ten words.

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 What it means, as we heard in the gospel reading, to love the Lord your God with all your heart,

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 soul, mind, and strength.

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 Right?

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 And the second is love your neighbors yourself.

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 That's right.

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 We're going to focus this morning on verses 21 to 24 of chapter 22.

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 We're going to hear about loving our neighbors as ourselves.

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 I'd like to read it again for you.

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 And as I read, I'm going to ask you, what jumps out to you?

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 What jumps out to you as I read this?

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 How do you feel?

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 Think about your feelings as you read and hear.

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 How do you feel as you read and hear the thing that jumps out at you?

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 Okay?

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 Ready?

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 You shall not wrong a sojourner or oppress him, for you are sojourners in the land of Egypt.

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 You shall not mistreat any widow or fatherless child.

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 If you do mistreat them and they cry out to me, I will surely hear their cry, and my wrath

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 will burn.

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 And I will kill you with the sword, and your wives shall become widows, and your children fatherless.

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 What jumped out at you?

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 And that's probably what jumped out at me.

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 For many of you, it was the part about God's wrath.

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 Right?

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 How did you feel reading that or hearing that?

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 Uncomfortable?

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 Probably.

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 Now, why did you feel that way?

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 I bet one reason is that it doesn't square what you believe about God's character.

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 Even if you doubt God's existence, and I know there are some here that do that, and you are

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 like really welcome here, Church of the Advent.

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 Even if you were to doubt God's very existence, you believe that if there were a God, he would

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 be a loving God.

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 And love does not square with wrath.

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 Well, when we think about it, anger is tied directly with love.

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 You love something deeply, and when that something is threatened, you will rush with fury to defend

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 it.

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 Any single folks here who own and love cats?

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 You know what I mean.

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 You really love your cat.

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 Now, imagine dating someone who knew you loved cats, but they make terrible jokes about cats.

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 Terrible jokes.

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 Like, the only good cat is a stuffed cat.

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 Or, I love cats.

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 They taste like chicken.

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 Or, cats would really help me with my punting game.

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 You know what I mean?

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 I mean, you would pretty much end the relationship right there, wouldn't you?

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 Some of you have already decided to end your friendship with me.

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 Just because of that.

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 But you'd be disgusted.

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 You'd be angry, even.

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 And that relationship right then and there.

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 Parents, when your children are threatened, do you not get angry?

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 I've told this story before.

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 One of my children was on a Little League baseball team, and there'd been a lot of rain right before

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 the game.

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 And the right field was just a slab of mud.

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 And he was playing right field at the time.

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 And towards the end of the game, we're up by one or two runs.

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 Ball's hit to my son, and he misses it.

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 It's fine.

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 He misses it a lot.

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 So do other right fielders in Little League.

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 So he turns around and starts to run.

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 And he didn't realize that the ball immediately got stuck in the mud.

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 He didn't see it.

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 Partly because the ball's the same color as the mud.

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 Also because he's colorblind.

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 So everything looks the same color of brown.

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 He just zooms right past and keeps running and running and running.

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 And the coach for the other team got really excited.

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 Keep going, home run, baby.

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 And what I felt was my son's at my son's expense.

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 At my son's expense.

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 I felt like, I mean, he didn't know it, but it felt like he was taking advantage of, I

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 don't know, my son's flaw.

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 Something he had no control of.

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 And the coaches got together to decide how we're going to rule this.

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 Now, if you're a baseball fan, you know how to rule that, right?

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 It's a what?

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 Ground rule double.

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 Am I right?

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 Yeah?

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 No?

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 Come on.

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 This is the case I made with fury to this other coach after the game.

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 Because he had called it a home run.

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 Like, are you crazy?

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 So because of my love for my son, maybe because the parents brought a lot of alcohol to the

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 game that day.

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 But because of my love for my son, I went ballistic.

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 I went ballistic.

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 Now, granted, my loves are disordered.

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 And I make idols out of my children, as do a lot of parents.

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 But still, you can see how anger and love can be connected.

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 And I'm like, I'm like, I'm going to do a lot of things.

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 I'm going to do a lot of things.

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 We passionately defend the things we love.

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 The more we love them, the more furiously we defend them.

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 And in Exodus 22, God is saying, I really, really, really love the foreigner.

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 I really, really, really love the orphan.

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 And the widow.

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 And the poor.

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 I love them so much.

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 How vulnerable are these people?

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 Resident aliens at this time had no ability to own land.

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 They had no kinship network to support them.

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 Widows and orphans were especially at risk because they lacked the natural protection and

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 inclusion that come from the family.

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 Widows and orphans had no legal status.

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 Or rights.

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 But far different from the legal codes of the cultures around them.

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 And you can go online and look at them.

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 Code of Hammurabi.

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 The Middle Assyrian laws.

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 Israel was to extend care, protection, and inclusion to these vulnerable ones.

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 So do you remember feeling uncomfortable reading this?

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 God is saying, pay attention.

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 Pay attention to what I love.

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 You cannot love me without loving them.

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 You know I hate oppression.

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 You were oppressed in Egypt.

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 You know, see what I did to Egypt?

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 I will come in and rescue those you oppressed in the exact same way.

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 So my question to you is, do you love those that God loves?

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 This is a question for us as a church.

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 Do we love those whom God loves?

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 How much do we love them?

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 Or differently, is your love for them perhaps merely intellectual?

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 Like you know you should love and you know why you should love.

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 But you lack the passion, the drive to love them like you know you should.

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 To love the vulnerable among us.

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 The refugee, the immigrant, the disadvantaged.

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 Children living in violent environments.

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 Those spending their final days and months in a nursing home completely forgotten.

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 So we know the destination, right?

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 We know what we should do.

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 So how do we get there?

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 Now, two Sundays ago, the missions committee met together.

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 We did an exercise.

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 We thought, what would be the ideal outcome of a missions committee at Church of the Advent?

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 Of a vibrant missions ministry at our church?

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 And then we asked the question, how do we get there?

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 And Kat Bryant, she led our discussion.

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 She had us draw islands and rocks and boats.

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 And a lot of us agreed that one of these obstacles to getting to where we wanted to go is apathy.

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 And we usually put them on rocks.

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 But apathy isn't a rock, is it?

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 Apathy is a vast expanse of sun-beaten, windless sea.

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 It's not a rock to dodge.

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 Having apathy feels like we're stuck in that expanse on our sailboats.

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 The sun beating down on us, draining our energy.

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 While our sails hang limp.

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 Our boats are pointed in the right direction.

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 We know where to go.

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 But we lack the passion, energy, and dynamism to get there.

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 There's a disconnect between our head and our hearts and our hands.

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 Now, I think this describes the majority of us.

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 Because we are all products of our culture.

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 And we live in an apathetic culture.

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 One that's full of distractions.

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 It's not that we never get excited or passionate.

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 But our hearts are alive to the things that don't matter.

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 And numb to the things that do.

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 Like, I don't know about you.

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 But in season three of Lost, I stood up out of my chair and say,

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 J.J. Abrams, how dare you kill Mr. Echo?

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 He was the best.

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 He was my favorite.

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 He was only on for like a season.

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 How dare you do this?

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 My wife was there.

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 It startled her.

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 The next day, I found out an older lady from my home church had passed away.

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 And I thought, eh, it's a shame.

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 I'm not proud of that.

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 I wasn't proud of it.

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 I realized at the time, like, there is a big disconnect

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 between what I should feel passionate about and what I don't.

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 The theologian Uche Anasur puts it this way.

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 We live in a Seinfeldian society.

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 Our culture is a story about nothing.

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 We make a big deal out of trivial things

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 and are indifferent to the larger important things.

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 Sounds like any episode or any season of Seinfeld, right?

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 Sure, we'll get enraged at something unjust we see on the Internet,

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 but that's as far as we'll go to do something about it.

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 We care on some deep level, but we don't care enough to be moved.

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 We know what the good is,

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 but often do not find it very exciting or engaging.

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 We might reflect the apathy that surrounds us.

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 What causes that apathy?

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 Uche Anasur wrote a book called Overcoming Apathy,

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 and it's really helpful.

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 It was, like, Book of the Year last year at Christianity Today.

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 Highly recommended.

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 He identifies seven reasons or roots of apathy.

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 There's doubt.

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 Unresolved questions we have about God or our faith

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 can keep us from engaging our spiritual life wholeheartedly.

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 Grief.

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 Those who suffer loss live suspended

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 between a past for which they long

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 and a future for which they hope.

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 Unresolved grief can leave us numb.

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 Triviality.

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 We're bombarded by trivial information every day, all day,

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 which can move us to stop caring altogether.

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 Feelings of inadequacy.

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 We're constantly sizing ourselves up to others

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 and finding ourselves lacking.

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 And finding ourselves lacking

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 can often discourage us from doing meaningful things.

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 A lack of discipline.

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 Our minds zigzag through each day,

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 set on all kinds of things that don't matter,

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 instead of keeping our minds set ruthlessly

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 on the Holy Spirit.

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 Fragility.

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 Our fear of getting hurt

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 causes us to withdraw from people.

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 And ministry.

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 And things that matter.

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 Lastly, a lack of purpose.

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 Our daily activities feel directionless.

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 And we get carried by the winds of the day.

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 If you're like me,

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 you can name a few of those, right?

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 The good news is that in the gospel of Jesus,

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 God forgives our apathy.

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 Despite all the causes of apathy being links in a chain

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 that keep us bound and enslaved to it,

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 the gospel can set us free.

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 The Holy Spirit breathes new life and dynamism into our hearts.

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 So how might that new life grow?

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 How can passion and love for the vulnerable grow

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 where there was once the barrenness of apathy?

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 How can we share God's love for those whom he loves?

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 I'd like to suggest four things to cultivate in order to overcome apathy.

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 Four things.

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 The first is honesty.

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 Cultivate honesty.

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 This means confession.

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 Find somebody, preferably a group of people,

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 with whom you can be completely honest.

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 People with whom you can completely be vulnerable

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 and find grace.

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 Forgiveness and acceptance.

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 This is how God transforms his people.

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 James 5.16 says,

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 Confess your sins to one another

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 and pray for one another that you may be healed.

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 It's natural, I think,

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 to be wary of confessing our sins and shortcomings

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 because we know that to be completely known

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 and then rejected or condemned is terrifying, right?

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 But to be completely loved without being completely known

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 really isn't true love at all, is it?

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 Superficial love.

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 But to be completely known and completely loved

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 is what every single human being craves.

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 We crave connection.

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 But deep connection doesn't happen

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 until our faults and flaws are in full view.

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 Dietrich Bonhoeffer wrote,

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 Those who remain alone with their evil

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 are left utterly alone.

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 The more lonely people become,

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 the more destructive the power of sin over them.

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 Sin wants to remain unknown,

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 but sin that has been spoken and confessed

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 has lost all of its power.

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 If we truly want to come alive to God

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 and his love for the vulnerable,

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 we must be completely honest before others.

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 Being partially honest actually hurts.

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 It doesn't help.

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 A study found that those who only partially confess

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 their faults feel worse

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 than those who fully confess or don't confess at all.

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 If in our honesty,

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 we find ourselves concealing things

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 out of a concern for self-protection,

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 we only end up hurting ourselves.

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 The road to renewal begins with honesty,

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 with confession.

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 Again, the author and theologian,

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 Uche Anazor, writes,

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 In the case of apathy,

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 confess your indifference to God,

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 but also confess how you are guilty

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 of immersing yourself in the trivial.

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 Confess your doubts,

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 your lack of hope,

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 your lack of discipline.

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 In other words,

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 confess your sinful disposition

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 and the things that contribute to it,

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 such as bad habits.

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 Generic confession is usually not really confession.

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 In the case of apathy,

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 ah, here we go,

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 I have to bring my specific contributions

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 to my malaise into the light

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 in order to experience forgiveness and healing.

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 And in enduring the pain of confessing to another,

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 I'm experiencing the discomfort

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 I should be feeling for a holy God.

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 But I'm also experiencing,

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 through the other person,

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 the mercy of a loving God.

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 Now, one way to find such people

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 at Advent is to join a core group.

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 Some core groups aren't designed

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 to be places of complete openness,

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 that's okay,

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 but core groups are doorways

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 into relationships

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 with whom you can have honest conversations

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 like this.

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 And if you're really struggling

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 to muster the courage

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 to confess to others,

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 you can confess to a pastor.

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 Yes,

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 Anglicans also have a right of confession.

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 As a matter of fact,

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 in the season of Lent in 2024,

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 we will be highly encouraging it

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 to come to a pastor and confess.

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 We'll be doing our best

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 to make it possible

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 for everyone to participate in it.

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 It's going to be awesome.

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 So to overcome apathy,

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 we can cultivate honesty.

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 Second,

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 we can also cultivate rest.

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 Living, working,

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 and perhaps raising a family in D.C.

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 is an inherently frenetic life.

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 Too often we exceed our limits.

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 We don't say no to our screens.

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 We fail to set solid boundaries.

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 Things cave into our calendar

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 out of control.

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 We avoid fencing off time

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 of stillness and rest.

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 It can only be from rest

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 that a true love

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 for the vulnerable can grow.

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 This was one of the original intents

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 of the Sabbath.

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 Justice and rest

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 are hand in hand.

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 It's in the fourth commandment

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 in the book of Deuteronomy.

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 Here we read,

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 six days you shall labor

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 and do all your work,

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 but the seventh day

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 is a Sabbath to the Lord your God.

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 On it you shall not do any work.

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 You or your son

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 or your daughter

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 or your male servant

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 or female servant

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 or your ox

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 or your donkey

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 or any of your livestock

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 or the sojourner

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 who is within your gates

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 that your male servant

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 and your female servant

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 may rest as well as you.

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 You shall remember

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 that you were a slave

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 in the land of Egypt

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 and the Lord your God

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 brought you out from there

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 with a mighty hand

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 and outstretched arm.

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 Therefore, the Lord your God

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 commanded you

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 to keep the Sabbath day.

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 All right, we cultivate

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 honesty, rest.

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 And thirdly, we can cultivate

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 sacrificial generosity.

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 If you haven't heard

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 Tommy's sermon last week

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 on generosity,

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 listen to it soon.

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 Find it online.

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 Give it a listen.

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 If you've already heard it,

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 listen to it again.

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 God says to his people,

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 put me to the test.

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 Put me to the test,

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 says the Lord,

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 and see if I will not

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 open the windows of heaven

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 for you

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 and pour down for you

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 a blessing

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 until there is no more need.

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 If you want to come alive

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 to God's purposes

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 in the world

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 or to put it extremely

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 crap,

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 if you want to come alive

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 to God's purposes

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 in the world,

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 to put it extremely

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 crassly,

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 crassly,

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 it's not even a word.

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 English matrix?

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 Yeah, good, thanks.

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 In a crass way.

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 You gotta put all your chips in, right?

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 You gotta put all your chips in.

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 Which means to be so generous

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 that you can really feel it.

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 Arthur Brooks looks to studies

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 and sees that

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 charity transforms givers,

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 helping them become more humane.

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 Charity also provides

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 a sense of meaning

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 by orienting life

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 around a purpose

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 outside ourselves.

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 One survey of Americans

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 shows that those

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 who give money to charity

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 are 43% more likely

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 to say they are very happy

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 than non-givers.

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 You see how generosity

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 and coming out of apathy

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 into life

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 are linked?

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 In fact,

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 non-givers are three and a half times

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 more likely than givers

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 to say they are not happy at all.

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 Givers are 25% more likely

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 than non-givers

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 to say that their health

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 is excellent or very good.

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 While non-givers are twice

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 as likely to say

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 that their health

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 is poor or fair.

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 In biblical categories,

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 those willing to lose

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 their life

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 will gain it.

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 Those willing to lose

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 their life,

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 their life

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 will gain it.

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 That's Luke chapter nine.

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 Now, before we move on,

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 does it matter

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 what charity I choose?

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 I would say,

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 yes, yes it does.

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 If you're a part

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 of Church of the Advent,

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 this means you should be giving

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 to Church of the Advent.

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 The church is the primary means

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 that God uses

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 to bring about healing

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 and renewal to the world

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 through the authoritative

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 proclamation

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 of the good news

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 of the gospel

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 of Jesus Christ.

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 The church is the body

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 of Christ,

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 the body

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 with its hands

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 and its feet

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 going into the world

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 to embrace

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 and welcome

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 the vulnerable.

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 Last,

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 cultivate affection.

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 Cultivate affection.

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 Now, I'd suggest

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 two ways of doing this.

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 We're almost done.

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 Two ways

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 of cultivating affection.

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 The first,

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 choose to spend time

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 with passionate people.

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 We're profoundly shaped

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 by the company we keep.

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 One group of people

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 I'd recommend you

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 spend time with

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 is those who are

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 in our refugee ministry.

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 These folks

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 are passionate

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 about loving

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 two particular families

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 that our church has adopted.

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 Let me tell you

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 how passionate they are,

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 the things

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 these people have done.

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 They've supported

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 the process

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 for our families

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 to secure

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 permanent resident status

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 in their new home country,

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 United States.

00:27:24.840 --> 00:27:26.340
 They organized rent support

00:27:26.340 --> 00:27:27.539
 that you gave

00:27:27.539 --> 00:27:29.500
 with your sacrificial generosity

00:27:29.500 --> 00:27:30.519
 that prevented

00:27:30.519 --> 00:27:31.340
 one of our families

00:27:31.340 --> 00:27:32.320
 from being evicted.

00:27:32.420 --> 00:27:33.360
 And that family said,

00:27:33.500 --> 00:27:34.740
 were it not for your support,

00:27:34.960 --> 00:27:35.500
 they would have gone

00:27:35.500 --> 00:27:36.160
 back to Afghanistan.

00:27:40.600 --> 00:27:41.400
 Our ministry

00:27:41.400 --> 00:27:42.480
 recently persuaded

00:27:42.480 --> 00:27:43.640
 this family's landlord.

00:27:43.820 --> 00:27:44.500
 They went directly

00:27:44.500 --> 00:27:45.340
 to the landlord

00:27:45.340 --> 00:27:46.580
 to allow them

00:27:46.580 --> 00:27:47.600
 to move from their apartment

00:27:47.600 --> 00:27:48.220
 with mold

00:27:48.220 --> 00:27:49.140
 and flooding problems

00:27:49.140 --> 00:27:50.019
 into a new,

00:27:50.660 --> 00:27:51.300
 clean apartment.

00:27:54.120 --> 00:27:54.900
 Our volunteers

00:27:54.900 --> 00:27:56.120
 spent many hours

00:27:56.120 --> 00:27:57.160
 buying a car

00:27:57.160 --> 00:27:58.019
 for the mother

00:27:58.019 --> 00:27:58.779
 of the other family.

00:28:00.880 --> 00:28:01.480
 Her husband

00:28:01.480 --> 00:28:02.220
 is still overseas,

00:28:02.820 --> 00:28:03.700
 so she's here alone.

00:28:04.040 --> 00:28:05.220
 They helped her buy a car

00:28:05.220 --> 00:28:07.040
 that opened up

00:28:07.040 --> 00:28:07.620
 new employment

00:28:07.620 --> 00:28:08.580
 and family opportunities.

00:28:08.680 --> 00:28:09.460
 As a matter of fact,

00:28:09.560 --> 00:28:09.900
 they helped her

00:28:09.900 --> 00:28:10.360
 get her license.

00:28:11.320 --> 00:28:12.180
 And for those of you

00:28:12.180 --> 00:28:14.060
 who will someday

00:28:14.060 --> 00:28:15.400
 be taking a teenager

00:28:15.400 --> 00:28:18.840
 through the horrible process

00:28:18.840 --> 00:28:19.060
 of,

00:28:19.480 --> 00:28:20.600
 a terrifying process,

00:28:20.900 --> 00:28:21.800
 getting them a license,

00:28:21.799 --> 00:28:22.059
 you know,

00:28:22.119 --> 00:28:23.000
 that's 60 hours

00:28:23.000 --> 00:28:24.980
 that our people spent

00:28:24.980 --> 00:28:27.000
 with this mother

00:28:27.000 --> 00:28:29.399
 getting driving experience.

00:28:31.319 --> 00:28:32.559
 They helped negotiate

00:28:32.559 --> 00:28:33.319
 a medical bill

00:28:33.319 --> 00:28:35.159
 for an emergency

00:28:35.159 --> 00:28:37.759
 that one child had.

00:28:37.759 --> 00:28:39.879
 they were in the hole

00:28:39.879 --> 00:28:41.000
 for tens of thousands

00:28:41.000 --> 00:28:41.579
 of dollars.

00:28:42.559 --> 00:28:42.700
 Like,

00:28:42.759 --> 00:28:43.480
 they took care of it.

00:28:43.519 --> 00:28:44.059
 They advocated

00:28:44.059 --> 00:28:44.579
 for this family

00:28:44.579 --> 00:28:45.379
 and got it wiped clean.

00:28:48.019 --> 00:28:48.400
 Lastly,

00:28:48.500 --> 00:28:49.240
 they're organizing

00:28:49.240 --> 00:28:50.059
 a coat drive

00:28:50.059 --> 00:28:50.920
 and it's gonna take place

00:28:50.920 --> 00:28:51.960
 next month,

00:28:52.700 --> 00:28:54.140
 November 12th and 19th.

00:28:54.299 --> 00:28:55.160
 They're looking for new

00:28:55.160 --> 00:28:56.359
 and like new coats

00:28:56.359 --> 00:28:57.319
 that can be brought here

00:28:57.319 --> 00:28:57.740
 to worship

00:28:57.740 --> 00:28:58.879
 where they will be collected

00:28:58.879 --> 00:28:59.460
 and donated

00:28:59.460 --> 00:29:00.400
 to refugee families.

00:29:01.019 --> 00:29:01.119
 Now,

00:29:01.119 --> 00:29:01.900
 do you hear how passionate

00:29:01.900 --> 00:29:02.319
 they are?

00:29:02.740 --> 00:29:03.519
 You should hang out

00:29:03.519 --> 00:29:05.740
 and maybe help them.

00:29:05.740 --> 00:29:08.279
 Our refugee ministry's

00:29:08.279 --> 00:29:08.980
 love for the stranger

00:29:08.980 --> 00:29:09.700
 is infectious

00:29:09.700 --> 00:29:10.539
 and they'd love you

00:29:10.539 --> 00:29:11.059
 to join them.

00:29:11.519 --> 00:29:12.299
 We also have folks

00:29:12.299 --> 00:29:14.660
 that work with DC 127

00:29:14.660 --> 00:29:16.140
 and Little Lights.

00:29:16.240 --> 00:29:17.180
 These are ministries

00:29:17.180 --> 00:29:19.460
 that support at-risk

00:29:19.460 --> 00:29:20.299
 families and children.

00:29:20.839 --> 00:29:21.480
 They'd love you

00:29:21.480 --> 00:29:22.380
 to join them as well

00:29:22.380 --> 00:29:23.220
 and catch their passion.

00:29:24.660 --> 00:29:25.299
 The second way

00:29:25.299 --> 00:29:26.200
 to cultivate affection,

00:29:27.299 --> 00:29:28.319
 this is where we're closing,

00:29:29.279 --> 00:29:30.660
 is to remember

00:29:30.660 --> 00:29:31.640
 the profound truth

00:29:31.640 --> 00:29:32.299
 that was found

00:29:32.299 --> 00:29:33.460
 in Exodus 22,

00:29:33.579 --> 00:29:34.180
 verse 21.

00:29:35.740 --> 00:29:36.980
 You shall not wrong

00:29:36.980 --> 00:29:37.720
 a sojourner

00:29:37.720 --> 00:29:38.660
 or oppress him

00:29:38.660 --> 00:29:41.200
 for you are sojourners

00:29:41.200 --> 00:29:42.900
 in the land of Egypt.

00:29:44.420 --> 00:29:46.140
 God's people know firsthand

00:29:46.140 --> 00:29:46.720
 what it means

00:29:46.720 --> 00:29:47.299
 to be a foreigner.

00:29:48.720 --> 00:29:49.559
 They must access

00:29:49.559 --> 00:29:50.660
 their collective memory

00:29:50.660 --> 00:29:51.400
 of the bitter taste

00:29:51.400 --> 00:29:52.579
 of oppression in Egypt

00:29:52.579 --> 00:29:53.940
 and God's gracious

00:29:53.940 --> 00:29:54.880
 deliverance from it.

00:29:55.620 --> 00:29:56.940
 Their past experience

00:29:56.940 --> 00:29:58.599
 shapes their present response

00:29:58.599 --> 00:29:59.940
 towards outsiders.

00:29:59.940 --> 00:30:01.840
 So this means

00:30:01.840 --> 00:30:03.400
 placing ourselves

00:30:03.400 --> 00:30:06.320
 within the story of God.

00:30:08.279 --> 00:30:09.160
 Did you hear in the psalm

00:30:09.160 --> 00:30:10.180
 that we read today

00:30:10.180 --> 00:30:12.200
 about what it means

00:30:12.200 --> 00:30:13.600
 to be immersed in Scripture?

00:30:13.720 --> 00:30:14.580
 It's like a tree

00:30:14.580 --> 00:30:15.880
 by the streams of water.

00:30:17.180 --> 00:30:18.519
 Being immersed in Scripture,

00:30:19.200 --> 00:30:21.059
 remembering our own deliverance.

00:30:21.500 --> 00:30:22.860
 This is the fuel

00:30:22.860 --> 00:30:24.620
 for loving as God loves.

00:30:26.620 --> 00:30:27.880
 Brendan Manning writes,

00:30:27.880 --> 00:30:31.060
 next slide,

00:30:31.900 --> 00:30:33.520
 the recovery of passion

00:30:33.520 --> 00:30:35.660
 begins with the recovery

00:30:35.660 --> 00:30:37.440
 of my true self

00:30:37.440 --> 00:30:38.640
 as the beloved.

00:30:38.780 --> 00:30:39.680
 Can we read that together?

00:30:40.640 --> 00:30:42.260
 The recovery of passion

00:30:42.260 --> 00:30:44.160
 begins with the recovery

00:30:44.160 --> 00:30:46.000
 of my true self

00:30:46.000 --> 00:30:47.040
 as the beloved.

00:30:47.380 --> 00:30:47.900
 Beloved,

00:30:48.040 --> 00:30:49.620
 you were at one time

00:30:49.620 --> 00:30:51.560
 strangers and aliens.

00:30:52.360 --> 00:30:53.340
 Without hope,

00:30:54.200 --> 00:30:54.880
 without help,

00:30:54.880 --> 00:30:58.160
 until God called you

00:30:58.160 --> 00:30:59.460
 out of darkness

00:30:59.460 --> 00:31:01.540
 and into His marvelous light.

00:31:04.440 --> 00:31:05.960
 More than just strangers

00:31:05.960 --> 00:31:06.560
 and foreigners,

00:31:06.860 --> 00:31:09.380
 you were declared rebels,

00:31:10.600 --> 00:31:11.680
 adversaries of God,

00:31:11.820 --> 00:31:12.900
 fully deserving

00:31:12.900 --> 00:31:14.240
 of His wrath.

00:31:14.640 --> 00:31:16.200
 But God shows His love

00:31:16.200 --> 00:31:17.160
 for us in this,

00:31:17.240 --> 00:31:18.660
 that while we were still sinners,

00:31:19.240 --> 00:31:20.500
 Christ died for us.

00:31:20.500 --> 00:31:23.339
 since therefore,

00:31:24.779 --> 00:31:25.740
 this is Romans 5,

00:31:26.339 --> 00:31:27.279
 since therefore

00:31:27.279 --> 00:31:28.460
 we have now been justified

00:31:28.460 --> 00:31:29.279
 by His blood,

00:31:29.559 --> 00:31:30.200
 much more

00:31:30.200 --> 00:31:31.819
 shall we be saved

00:31:31.819 --> 00:31:32.420
 by Him

00:31:32.420 --> 00:31:33.519
 from the wrath of God.

00:31:33.680 --> 00:31:34.859
 For if while we were enemies,

00:31:34.980 --> 00:31:36.160
 we were reconciled to God

00:31:36.160 --> 00:31:37.140
 by the death of His Son,

00:31:37.339 --> 00:31:37.900
 much more,

00:31:38.019 --> 00:31:39.119
 now that we are reconciled,

00:31:39.359 --> 00:31:40.480
 shall we be saved

00:31:40.480 --> 00:31:41.420
 by His life.

00:31:42.900 --> 00:31:43.420
 And so now,

00:31:43.500 --> 00:31:44.240
 instead of being orphans,

00:31:44.319 --> 00:31:45.359
 the Father has adopted you.

00:31:45.640 --> 00:31:46.940
 And you are His sons

00:31:46.940 --> 00:31:47.680
 and His daughters.

00:31:47.680 --> 00:31:51.360
 Are you ready to emerge

00:31:51.360 --> 00:31:52.519
 from apathy

00:31:52.519 --> 00:31:53.820
 into passion?

00:31:55.240 --> 00:31:56.440
 Do you want to grow

00:31:56.440 --> 00:31:57.400
 in your love

00:31:57.400 --> 00:31:58.400
 for the vulnerable?

00:31:59.980 --> 00:32:00.519
 Do you want to grow

00:32:00.519 --> 00:32:01.000
 in your love?

00:32:03.060 --> 00:32:03.940
 Do you want to grow?

00:32:06.440 --> 00:32:07.080
 Confess.

00:32:08.900 --> 00:32:09.480
 Rest.

00:32:11.140 --> 00:32:11.580
 Give.

00:32:13.360 --> 00:32:15.279
 I know that you are beloved.

00:32:15.279 --> 00:32:18.379
 And in knowing the love of God,

00:32:18.519 --> 00:32:19.180
 experience

00:32:19.180 --> 00:32:21.960
 the wind of the Holy Spirit

00:32:21.960 --> 00:32:23.740
 filling your sails.

00:32:24.220 --> 00:32:25.180
 In the name of the Father

00:32:25.180 --> 00:32:25.839
 and of the Son

00:32:25.839 --> 00:32:27.139
 and of the Holy Spirit.

00:32:27.639 --> 00:32:27.940
 Amen.

00:32:28.160 --> 00:32:28.519
 Let's pray.

00:32:30.660 --> 00:32:31.440
 Holy Spirit,

00:32:32.119 --> 00:32:33.019
 this is what we ask.

00:32:33.480 --> 00:32:34.339
 For you to fill the wind

00:32:34.339 --> 00:32:35.039
 in our sails.

00:32:35.599 --> 00:32:36.460
 For you to move us

00:32:36.460 --> 00:32:37.319
 and shake us.

00:32:39.519 --> 00:32:41.039
 Lord, give us a deep love

00:32:41.039 --> 00:32:43.559
 for the vulnerable around us,

00:32:43.559 --> 00:32:45.079
 for those within our congregation,

00:32:45.240 --> 00:32:46.240
 for those without.

00:32:49.119 --> 00:32:50.139
 Help us to remember

00:32:50.139 --> 00:32:51.139
 how much you love us.

00:32:51.240 --> 00:32:52.639
 Lord, as we come to this table,

00:32:53.399 --> 00:32:54.419
 we receive the bread

00:32:54.419 --> 00:32:54.819
 and the wine,

00:32:54.879 --> 00:32:55.759
 we taste it.

00:32:57.200 --> 00:32:58.419
 Remind us of the grace

00:32:58.419 --> 00:32:59.359
 you're filling us with.

00:33:00.579 --> 00:33:01.399
 Remind us that we are

00:33:01.399 --> 00:33:02.200
 sons and daughters.

00:33:03.879 --> 00:33:05.000
 In Jesus' name, amen.

00:33:05.000 --> 00:33:05.099
 Amen.

00:33:05.099 --> 00:33:05.139
 Amen.

00:33:05.139 --> 00:33:05.179
 Amen.

00:33:05.179 --> 00:33:05.220
 Amen.