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 Okay, so we're going to return to the theme of Proverbs 20.

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 Well, it's not a theme as such.

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 Well, the theme is wisdom, I guess.

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 And the first week we looked at, well, what we've been looking at is things to avoid and

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 things to seek after from this book of Proverbs, from chapter 20.

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 So we had three things we avoided in the first week, and then we had four things that we

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 were to seek after, and it was in terms of understanding ourselves, understanding others,

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 and understanding the world which we live.

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 And today we're going to look at four areas that we are to avoid again.

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 So we're going folly, wisdom, folly, and next week we'll be wisdom again, and we'll be

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 334 and four.

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 And that will cover most of the chapter, Proverbs, not all of it, but certainly most of it.

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 And can I remind you, if you've been here and if you haven't been here, this is not

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 moralism that I'm preaching.

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 I'm not preaching, do this and God will like you.

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 It's easy to take the Proverbs in that way, but we must see them in the context of grace,

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 in the context of being unable to please God in our own selves and our sinful natures.

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 But by grace, being transformed and being changed and being born again by His Spirit.

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 And so what we find in Proverbs is really the character of God for us, the kind of people

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 we should be turning into as Christians.

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 It's that ongoing journey, isn't it, the kind of people we should be turning into.

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 It's a transformative passage, really.

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 And if we can say it's like the Holy Spirit soundbites for every day.

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 It should encourage us in our spiritual disciplines, this is the kind of people we should be becoming

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 if we are Christians, because God is at work in us.

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 Rather than this is the kind of person I have to become because this is what God wants and

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 I need to do it in my own strength.

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 It doesn't work like that.

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 That's moralism, and it becomes legalism.

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 So we think we're better than others because we can tick some of the Proverbs that we've

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 done.

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 It's not like that.

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 The gospel is about our incapacity to do anything right, but our capacity when we come to Christ

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 and depend on Him and His Holy Spirit.

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 One of the devotions I was reading this week, there's a really good verse from St. Corinthians

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 10, which says, we demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against

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 the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ.

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 That's really what the Proverbs are about, about taking captive every thought and every

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 direction of our lives, making it captive to Jesus Christ.

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 It's Proverbs is God's common sense for us as we live our lives.

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 So we look for our conscience every time we come to worship, every time we read Scripture,

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 every time we're under the word that we want our conscience to be taught and moulded and

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 changed by the Holy Spirit.

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 And what we're looking for is maybe things that didn't, becoming aware of things that

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 maybe didn't used to bother us, but when we find what God wants for us, they do begin

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 to bother us and challenge us and rustle up at feeling of discontent, pushing us towards

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 Christ to become more like Him.

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 Things maybe that are acceptable in the world in which we live and in the context in which

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 we live, and that's even more challenging, isn't it?

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 We know there are certain things that everybody thinks are wrong, but increasingly in the

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 society in which we live, the standards of a world without absolute truth and without

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 the truth of God's word as a foundation, we will find ourselves in conflict.

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 So there's four things very quickly here that we're going to look at, and they're very

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 simple, remember I said at the beginning, it's the time of year when we need simple,

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 clear, easy sermons just to take with us as we go on our way.

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 The first thing that we're to avoid as Christians from a God's book of common sense is dishonesty.

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 And there's four verses that look at that.

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 Verse 10, unequal weights and unequal measures are both alike and abomination to the Lord.

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 Bad, bad, verse 14 says the buyer, but when he goes away, then he boasts.

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 Verse 17, bread gained by deceit is sweet to a man, but afterwards his mouth will be

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 full of gravel.

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 And in verse 23 is repeated, the first verse, unequal weights are an abomination to the

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 Lord and false scales are not good.

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 So dishonesty is what we are to avoid.

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 Proverbs at this level was written, or these Proverbs anyway about dishonesty are written

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 very much in the context of commerce with traders using different weights in a bartering

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 system, you know, before holes in the wall and cards and all these things.

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 So they had a bartering system and they had stones that they would use to weigh the goods

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 that they were buying or selling.

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 And they would use light ones to sell and heavy ones to buy.

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 So it was dishonest weights they were using.

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 So they would get more if they were buying and they would need to give away less if they

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 were selling.

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 And it was deception in order to get a bargain.

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 They were cheating really.

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 And then there was the bartering where you would say certain things, oh, this is a rubbish

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 deal, you can't possibly be selling me that.

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 And they cut down the price way down low and then you go away and say, yeah, look at the

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 great thing I got, what a bargain.

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 I cheated that guy out of what was rightfully his by saying false things about it.

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 Acquiring goods or services by getting one over another person, modern parlance, ripping

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 someone off, benefiting at their expense, not dealing honestly with them.

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 And God is saying God sees, God knows and God's standard for us is honesty as Christians.

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 And that is much broader than the kind of buying and selling of goods, isn't it?

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 But as a general principle in life, honesty should mark our lives as you should be known

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 and actually be known as honest people as Christians in our day to day affairs of life.

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 However dishonesty reveals itself here in the passage, it's in the context of greed,

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 benefiting at someone else's expense, trying to be too smart for our own boots and not

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 getting caught.

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 But it may be in lots of areas, it might be in taxes, it might be in poor business or

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 work ethics, it might be complicit as an employee in immoral practices and just saying, well,

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 I'm forced to do it, my boss has told me to do it.

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 It's not a justifiable reason before God, being untrustworthy, not dealing in the truth.

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 Now, there are ethical and difficult issues that you and I will need to deal with that.

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 But we need to recognize God's baseline for us is honesty.

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 Because often the sin behind dishonesty is either a desire for popularity, a fear of

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 what other people might say, might be greed or it might be pride.

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 And so when you go from here, and when I go from here and tomorrow we mix with the world

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 in our everyday, day to day living, it's important that we are people who are honest.

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 Because it gets to the root of our understanding of God's relationship with us, that God sees

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 our hearts, God understands exactly what our motives are and requires us to be honest

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 in confession with Him and know His forgiveness and recognize that God is truth.

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 And dishonesty, I think one of the things that the proverb speaks about here is reminding

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 us that dishonesty will always have consequences.

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 That verse that we read in 17, bread gained by the sweetest sweet to Him, but afterwards

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 His mouth will be full of gravel.

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 So if we are dishonest in our Christian lives, however that reveals itself, it sours our Christian

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 experience.

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 It distances us from God who is truth.

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 It grieves His Holy Spirit who indwells us.

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 And it may mean that we will be the recipients of dishonesty from others.

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 Because as we treat others, others will treat us.

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 And that will leave a bitter taste in our experience as we recognize that we are being

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 treated the way we have treated others.

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 So dishonesty is something that gets to the heart of our understanding of sin.

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 It's the ancient lie of sin, isn't it?

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 This is sweet.

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 This is good.

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 You don't need to do what God asks you to do as a believer because you're forgiving it.

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 Just live the way you want.

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 Speak to the taste, but once you suck the sweet and the cover of that sweet, which is

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 lovely and tasty, there's gravel there and it's destructive and unsuitable.

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 It's a veneer of happiness.

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 We have been made to live His way by grace.

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 You know, that's what grace is about.

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 It's recalibrating ourselves to live the way He designed us to live.

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 I read a good illustration about freedom, speaking about freedom and this great quest

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 for freedom in the society in which we live.

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 And there's no such thing, of course, as absolute freedom.

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 But the author was speaking about genuine freedom as when we lived the way we were intended

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 to live or anything works the way it was intended to work.

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 So you don't put a five-year-old driving a car because the car was not intended to be

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 driven by a five-year-old.

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 It intends to be driven by someone who's qualified, who has passed a test and who will drive safely

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 and is aware, can see over the steering wheel for a start.

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 And that's important, isn't it?

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 Sin keeps us from seeing over the steering wheel of life and we just think we can do

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 what we want as we accelerate away in our own strength.

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 So there are consequences.

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 That's the first thing.

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 The second one, the second characteristic to avoid is a belter, really.

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 It's gossiping, verse 19.

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 Whoever goes about slandering reveals secrets, therefore do not associate with a simple babbler.

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 The same is said in Proverbs 11 and verse 13.

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 And in the contemporary English version, which is a kind of stripped-back, simple version

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 that we read, it says, stay away from gossips.

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 They tell everything.

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 So it's a great thing to avoid in our lives and to recognize someone who deliberately

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 shares what they know not to be true or what is unverified as truth or is true but is unnecessary

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 to share other than it's really juicy and it's a scandal.

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 And God is saying, and all the songs we were singing today reminds us of the importance

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 of guarding our speech and our conversation.

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 It's such a huge area, isn't it, in all our communities.

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 If you lived in an island, if you lived in a complete isolate, it wouldn't really matter

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 quite so much.

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 But because we are drawn and brought into community as believers, and because we live

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 as believers or not in community, then it's very important to guard how we speak so that

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 it reflects Christlikeness and our transformation.

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 It's probably one of the greatest areas of weakness in our lives and especially in the

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 church.

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 I know personally from my own heart and my own experiences how much we love to share

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 bad news about people.

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 How quick we are to share moral failure in others.

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 How quick we are to make judgmental statements about other people's lives and pass on information

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 that we've heard and we hope might be true but we're not sure, especially negative things

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 sometimes.

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 It's because it makes us feel better about ourselves, doesn't it?

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 It justifies our own failures when we hear and pass on the failures of others.

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 We're all failures together.

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 We justify it by saying.

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 Now, we're very polite and we're very cautious and careful about how we speak today.

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 It wasn't always the case, and some of our great godly fathers in the past were not quite

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 so careful about condemning these things.

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 And John Calvin, the great John Calvin, is quoted as saying when he, dealing with this

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 issue of gossip, I consider looseness with words no less of a defect than looseness of

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 the bowels.

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 Verbal diarrhea.

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 That's what we're guilty of so much of the time.

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 Speaking without thinking.

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 Being loose, not recognizing the lordship of Christ over what we speak and when we say

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 it and how we say it.

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 It's so important considering what we say to other people.

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 Or sorry, yeah, what we say about others to other people.

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 Even if we know it to be true, can we ask the question, is it helpful to pass on?

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 Is it building up the kingdom or is it building up my reputation?

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 What about the person being spoken of?

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 What will they think of what I'm saying?

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 Does this make me popular or does it make Christ honored?

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 You have the privilege, and I have the privilege of being the person who stops a gossip conversation

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 from going any further.

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 We can be the plug.

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 We can be the ones who stop it.

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 We can be the ones who don't say, don't tell anyone this, but I've been told this.

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 You can hear it, but don't tell it to anyone else.

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 Rather than saying that, we can be the ones who stop that piece of information by not

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 passing it on.

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 And if there is something negative we have to say about somebody, can we ask the question,

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 would we say it to their face as a brother and sister first in order to challenge them

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 about their behavior, maybe, and make us accountable to one another in love and humility?

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 I suspect not many of us would say that much to anyone anymore if that were the case, because

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 we're not necessarily willing to confront these issues face to face, but we are willing

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 to speak behind each other's backs.

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 So consider what we say and also consider to whom we listen and who we speak.

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 Do you have a go-to gossip?

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 Do you have somebody who will always keep you informed about things that maybe are dubious

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 in their truthfulness?

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 Stay away from them.

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 Even better challenge them in love about what they're doing, what they're saying.

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 But the Bible says, stay away from people like that.

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 That's strong language, isn't it?

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 We grade sins, particularly in the church, moral lapses, public sins are deemed a scandal,

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 and they are to be repented of and they are serious in God's eyes.

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 But I think much more damage on a day-to-day, week-to-week basis is done by gossip, by unbridled

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 tongues that are untaught and unchanged and not under the Lordship of the Holy Spirit.

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 And that's a great challenge to us all.

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 I do love Billy Graham's quote.

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 A real Christian is someone who can give his pet parrot to the town gossip.

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 Do you get that?

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 That's a really profound statement.

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 He's not afraid of what the repetitive parrot will pass on to the town gossip.

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 I wonder if that could be true of us in the privacy of our homes.

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 Third, the third thing, the last year, briefer.

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 Third thing that this chapter tells us, encourages us to avoid challenges, commands us to avoid,

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 is vindictiveness.

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 Verse 22, do not say, I will repay evil, wait for the Lord, and he will deliver you.

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 Francis Bacon, speaking on this subject of vindictiveness or revenge, says that he that

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 studies revenge keeps his wounds open.

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 It becomes a harbor for bitterness.

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 And that is absolutely true.

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 God never tells us not to do something just for the sake of it.

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 It's never just to say, because I said.

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 There's always a valid reason, and we know that vindictiveness, taking the law into our

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 own hands, usually builds within us a sense of bitterness and a sense of misunderstanding

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 of our place in this world.

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 It's important to recognize how we respond when we will suffer wrong.

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 Maybe you've come into this new week from a bad week.

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 Maybe you've suffered wrong in your work or in your home or in relationships one way or

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 another.

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 And your natural response, our natural response is to thrash out, isn't it?

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 It's to get even.

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 It is to get, to pay back what has been done.

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 But it's a misunderstanding of our place in the scheme of justice in this world.

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 It's not for us to repay evil, and it's not for us to repay evil with evil, particularly.

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 Romans 12, 17 to 21.

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 They know an evil for evil, but give thought to what you do is honorable and the sight

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 of all if possible.

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 So far as it bends on you, live at peace with everyone.

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 Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave it to the wrath of God.

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 For it is written, vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord.

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 That's very clear.

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 On the contrary, an opposite command is given if your enemy is hungry, feed him.

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 If he's thirsty, give him something to drink.

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 By so doing, you'll heat burning coals in his head.

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 Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.

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 When you see it like that, that makes absolute sense, doesn't it?

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 But we can so quickly and so easily be vindictive.

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 The law of Moses forbade it in the Old Testament.

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 Deuteronomy chapter 32, vengeance is mine, quoted in the New Testament.

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 And recompense for the time when their foot will slip, for the day of their calamity is

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 at hand and their doom will come swiftly.

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 And the law of love reverses it.

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 We read a bit about that.

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 But also in Proverbs, it's a quote from Proverbs 25 and verse 21, if your enemy is hungry,

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 give him bread and if he is thirsty, give him water to drink.

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 So the New Testament takes these two Old Testament Proverbs and applies them to this

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 area of vindictiveness.

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 The law of love dispenses with the need to be vindictive.

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 The law of love, it rather reverses it because we recognize and see that Christ, we were

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 God's enemy and He died for us.

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 Therefore, we are to love our enemies in the way that He loves us.

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 It's all based on grace, on transformation, on understanding the cross of Jesus.

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 So the law of Moses forbade it.

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 The law of love reverses it.

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 The law of faith dispenses with it because we see and know that God can actually take

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 what is evil and bad and turn it into our good as we learn from it and wait upon the

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 Lord and trust Him through it.

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 So we see something completely radical and different.

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 I'm going to get my own back.

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 It is not what we seek to live like as believers because as enemies of God, we have been loved

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 and forgiven and renewed and given hope in life.

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 A well-known phrase, I guess, which is popular, I think, and a lot of popular culture is revenge

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 is a dish best served cold.

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 And it's lauded and appreciated as something cool and well thought through.

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 And it sounds cool, maybe, but it speaks of a bitter heart, a calculating and a simmering

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 hatred and a willingness to take the place of God in these issues for it is His place.

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 He will one day be the judge of everyone.

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 He will bring injustice to the universe, to the world, not just to our own individual

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 situations, but He will be the judge of all mankind and of all injustice and the only

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 safe haven for us to be is in Christ, covered by the righteousness of Jesus Christ, who

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 bore the vindictiveness of humanity against Himself in order to be a redeemer.

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 So it reminds us of where our place is and how we live in the light of Christ's grace

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 and goodness.

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 We live loving our enemies rather than treating them like maybe other people expect us to

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 treat them.

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 And the last thing, the fourth thing, briefly, to avoid is rash commitments, verse 25.

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 It is a snare to say, rashly, it is holy and to reflect only after making vows.

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 This again is speaking into an Old Testament practice of dedicating something, separating

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 it out to the Lord and to the Lord, setting apart as holy something to the Lord.

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 You could do that either voluntarily or it could be something that was compulsorily done,

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 but it was a mark of gratitude and worship.

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 But what Proverbs is saying is it needs to be done thoughtfully, having counted the cost

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 and being able to fulfil the cost of making that vow because once the vow was made in

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 the Old Testament, you couldn't break it.

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 And so you needed to not do it rashly or quickly or thoughtlessly.

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 It needed to be something that you could actually do and work out because you would be held

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 account for making that vow and the encouragement is not to make a vow rashly or thoughtlessly.

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 Now we don't have the same vowing system under the New Covenant, but we recognise that in

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 the New Testament we are invited to make commitments to serve the Lord Jesus Christ.

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 We are part of a community where we serve Jesus Christ together and we make commitments

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 together.

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 And so the principle is that we are to be thoughtful about our commitment to Jesus Christ and what

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 we promise we will do for Jesus Christ and not do it in a rash or a careless way.

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 That is not counting the cost or the time or the effort or the responsibility that's

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 going to be involved.

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 In other words, it's kind of not good enough saying, yeah, I'll serve in this way, but

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 then never really bothering.

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 Not thinking what might be involved, not thinking the cost that's required.

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 That goes to even making a profession of faith.

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 Oh yeah, I believe in Jesus and then going our merry way without realising the cost of

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 following Jesus is death to self and is coming under His Lordship.

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 And so there's this huge significant recognition of the cost of following Jesus.

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 Grace and salvation is free, but it's not cheap to use a phrase that I often use here.

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 There is a debt we owe to Jesus Christ and there is a cost to commitment.

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 Now within the church we need people.

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 We need people to be committed.

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 We need people not just to be fly by nights, to be drifting in and out of the community.

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 We need people under gifts.

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 We need what you have to serve the Lord Jesus Christ as part of this community.

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 And it's important that you see that, that you see the commitment of yourself to the

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 community of God and to Christ Himself as part of the debt you owe to Jesus Christ.

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 And then I think part of this is an encouragement therefore to give of your very best in all

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 that you do for Jesus Christ and your commitment to Him.

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 Whether it's in a workplace, whether it's in taking on extra duties in the workplace,

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 whether it's doing things on a Sunday, all the different acts of service that are involved,

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 some public, some much more private, much more unseen behind the scenes, that you do

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 it for Christ's sake.

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 So when something comes up when we're asking for people to help, then find out about the

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 task and if you can commit to that task, commit to doing it well for Jesus' sake.

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 Humbly as a debt, not for praise, not to be seen, not to get the plaudits or the position,

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 but for the sheer joy of serving Jesus Christ.

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 And it's important within that same context, so when in the church context it's easy to

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 come up with lots of great ideas of what to do as a church, I think sometimes.

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 It's not so easy to follow them through, to follow through the cost that might be involved,

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 the people that would need to be involved, the reason that we're doing it and the commitment

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 that will be needed in order to keep it going.

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 It's easy to start things and do things for a few weeks in church context and you may

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 be complained sometimes, well we don't seem to do very much in St. Columba's, well that's

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 deliberate, that's deliberate because we're primarily a church that seeks to build relationships

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 and serve through relationships, not through programs.

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 You're busy enough in your lives without adding lots and lots of programs, but there is a certain

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 amount that we need to do.

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 Doing it to the Lord, not grudgingly.

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 And our great example is the Lord Jesus Christ.

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 Another quote from that same book that I was reading this week, talking about freedom,

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 spoke about the one who gave up his freedom.

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 What could be less free than God the Son being nailed hands and foot to a tree?

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 What could be less free than that?

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 He couldn't move physically and he did that willingly on our behalf.

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 That's a great example of commitment to His people.

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 And so when we make vows, when we make commitments to serve and to do things in the church or

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 to do things in your workplace as a Christian, to do things in the family home, whatever

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 it might be, remember that you're doing them to Christ.

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 It doesn't need to be just in the church, in any context, and serve Him well.

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 These are really practical insights from God's book of common sense.

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 And I do believe, and I need to practice what I preach more, that it would be a real blessing

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 for your life if you read every single day a couple of Proverbs.

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 I don't think you would go wrong if, along with your daily devotionals, whatever, if

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 you're doing the Bible in a year or if you're doing other devotionals, as part of your spiritual

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 disciplines, that you read maybe two or three Proverbs every single day, because you will

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 learn and I will learn how the Holy Spirit wants us to be like Jesus.

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 It will teach us how to be like Jesus.

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 And that's a great thing, and it will be good for our lives and for our blessing under God.

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 Let's pray briefly.

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 Father God, we ask that you would teach us that you are a practical God, although you're

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 God of the universe and that you are transcendent.

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 You're also hugely practical for our day-to-day living, and your Proverbs reveal how much

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 you know about humanity and about our weaknesses and our sins, our failings, our destructive

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 tendencies, but also how we can be transformed by your grace.

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 And they do pray particularly for any today who might be in church who are not Christians

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 and who are wondering what it's all about, or who think this may be just a sermon about

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 moral behavior or being good people.

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 May your grace come through from what we have been saying, and may they see their need of

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 redemption because they fall so far short, as we know.

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 We fall so far short every day and need a Savior who has fully committed in life and

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 in death and in resurrection to our rescue, to our salvation, and to eternal life.

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 So Lord, help us, we pray, bless us and guide us in all that we do.

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 For Jesus' sake, amen.