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 Who is the wisest person to ever live?

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 We're going to stay here until somebody answers.

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 Solomon.

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 I heard Angie Hester say, Brian Hester.

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 You can stop laughing now.

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 Wisest person to ever live?

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 King Solomon.

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 Now, when you read what various Bible writers say about him

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 and what he personally wrote in the book of Proverbs in particular,

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 there is no doubt that he was smart and well-educated.

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 But Solomon's wisdom was due to more than just his natural intellect.

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 Solomon had a God-given wisdom that provided him with the spiritual insight to understand how God intends for life to work in this world.

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 Now, think about it.

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 Solomon was a highly intelligent individual.

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 He had a great education.

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 He had all kinds of life experiences.

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 But it was because God gave him this special endowment of wisdom that he was able to write the kind of things that he did in the book of Proverbs that deal with how we really live our lives.

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 I mean, he gave us wisdom as we've seen over the last several weeks about how God intends for us to use our tongue

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 and how he intends for us not to use it.

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 We've seen such things of how to value money, how to value money, how not to value it.

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 There's a lot that Solomon taught about having healthy relationships.

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 Having healthy relationships with people you're close to, family members, neighbors.

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 He wrote a lot about developing a strong, healthy work ethic, not being lazy.

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 Proverbs, the major wisdom writing of the Old Testament, was written by someone that God had given him something special.

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 Special insight and wisdom.

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 Now, how did that happen?

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 How did it come about that God gave this man such wisdom?

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 Well, we read about it in the book of 1 Kings.

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 I want you to turn with me, and we're going to stay there throughout this message.

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 The book of 1 Kings, chapter 3.

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 What we're going to do today and next week,

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 we're going to conclude our study of the book of Proverbs

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 by looking at Solomon.

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 We're going to look a little bit at his life,

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 do a sort of a brief character study today and next week.

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 Today, we're going to look at Solomon as a model of the kind of person God blesses with wisdom.

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 Today, this is a very positive message.

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 We're holding Solomon up as a model, as an example of the kind of person God blesses with wisdom.

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 Next week, we're going to take a totally different look at this same man.

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 Now, we need to understand here at the beginning, Solomon was unique.

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 We're not going to be little Solomons no matter what.

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 God chose him to be king over his chosen people, the people of Israel.

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 You are not going to be king.

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 You are not going to be queen in the days to come.

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 I don't want to burst anybody's bubble.

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 That's just not going to happen.

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 Solomon also was, what you might say,

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 specially endowed with God-given wisdom.

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 I mean, he was so favored by God, so gifted,

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 that he really is considered the wisest man who ever lived.

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 You nor I are ever going to acquire that kind of wisdom.

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 No one's going to ever go out and write books about your and my wisdom.

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 We're not going to be like Solomon in this respect.

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 But we can.

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 We can be wise to some degree.

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 That's why God gave us the book of Proverbs and the other 65 books of the Bible

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 God wants us to grow in our knowledge, our wisdom, our understanding of him and life

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 and how to live life in a way that pleases him.

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 I want us to look this morning in 1 Kings 3, verses 1 through 15,

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 some of the character qualities found in Solomon that were an obvious prerequisite

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 to his receiving this special wisdom from God.

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 And as we go through this,

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 we need to understand that these same character qualities

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 need to be found in our lives if we expect to receive God's wisdom

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 or grow in the development of wisdom.

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 So let's go ahead and read 1 Kings 3, verses 1 through 15.

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 Solomon made a marriage alliance with Pharaoh, king of Egypt.

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 He took Pharaoh's daughter and brought her into the city of David

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 until he had finished building his own house

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 and the house of the Lord and the wall around Jerusalem.

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 The people were sacrificing at the high places, however,

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 because no house had yet been built for the name of the Lord.

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 Solomon loved the Lord.

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 Walking in the statutes of David his father,

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 only he sacrificed and made offerings at the high places.

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 And the king went to Gibeon to sacrifice there,

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 for that was the great high place.

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 Solomon used to offer a thousand burnt offerings on that altar.

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 At Gibeon, the Lord appeared to Solomon in a dream by night,

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 and God said,

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 Ask what I shall give you.

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 In other words, ask what do you want me to give you?

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 And Solomon said,

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 You have shown great and steadfast love to your servant David, my father,

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 because he walked before you in faithfulness, in righteousness,

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 and in uprightness of heart towards you.

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 Let's just pause for a moment.

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 Most of you here are familiar with the life of David.

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 David was not a perfect model of any of those things.

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 David is known for some major moral failures in his life.

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 But David never ceased to be known as the man after God's own heart.

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 David is still considered here as one who walked in faithfulness,

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 in righteousness, and in uprightness of heart before God.

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 That should give us hope.

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 That should give us an encouragement.

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 We do fail God, but God doesn't disqualify His people when they fail,

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 if they're truly His,

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 because they'll repent.

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 They'll come back to Him.

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 They'll renew their faith and their commitment.

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 David did such things.

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 Let's read on.

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 And you have kept for Him this great and steadfast love,

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 and have given Him a son to sit on His throne this day.

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 And now, O Lord my God,

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 you have made your servant king in place of my father David,

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 in place of David my father.

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 Although I am but a little child,

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 I do not know how to go out or come in.

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 And your servant is in the midst of your people,

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 whom you have chosen a great people,

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 too many to be numbered or counted for multitude.

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 Give your servant, therefore, an understanding mind

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 to govern your people,

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 that I may discern between good and evil.

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 For who is able to govern this, your great people?

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 It pleased the Lord that Solomon had asked this.

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 And God said to him,

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 Because you have asked this,

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 and have not asked for yourself long life or riches,

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 or the life of your enemies,

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 but have asked for yourself understanding

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 to discern what is right,

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 behold, I now do according to your word.

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 Behold, I give you a wise and discerning mind,

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 so that none like you has ever been before you,

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 and none like you shall arise after you.

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 I give you also what you have not asked,

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 both riches and honor,

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 so that no other king shall compare with you all your days.

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 And if you will walk in my ways,

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 notice here,

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 there's a requirement.

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 And if you will walk in my ways,

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 keeping my statutes and my commandments,

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 as your father David walked,

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 then I will lengthen your days.

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 And Solomon awoke,

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 and behold,

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 it was a dream.

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 Then he came to Jerusalem

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 and stood before the ark of the covenant of the Lord,

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 and offered up burnt offerings and peace offerings,

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 and made a feast for all of his servants.

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 What we're going to look for in these verses

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 are the character qualities

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 that we should consider to be prerequisites

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 for receiving God's gift of wisdom.

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 Number one,

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 God's wisdom is a gift

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 given to those who love God wholeheartedly.

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 That's what we see in verses 3 through 6.

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 Look at verse 3 in particular.

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 It says that Solomon loved the Lord,

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 walking in the statutes of David, his father.

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 This is a more powerful statement

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 than it really appears to be,

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 as Philip Ryken,

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 who's now president of Wheaton College,

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 points out in his book on Solomon.

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 Look at what he's saying.

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 He's describing how Solomon loved the Lord.

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 He says,

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 this is virtually the highest praise

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 that any person could ever receive.

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 In fact,

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 Solomon is the only man in the entire Bible

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 who is said to have loved the Lord

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 in so many words.

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 He's not saying that Solomon's the only person in the Bible

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 who ever loved God,

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 who ever talked about loving God,

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 but he is saying

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 this is a unique way of describing Solomon,

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 saying that Solomon,

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 just real simply,

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 Solomon loved the Lord.

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 He's describing a genuine,

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 heartfelt love that this man had for God,

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 and it wasn't just an emotional feeling.

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 You know,

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 a lot of people have emotional feelings

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 related to God or spiritual things.

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 Something happens in their life,

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 and it causes an emotional crisis.

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 Some people maybe hear a certain song,

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 and it affects them emotionally.

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 Some people come to a worship service,

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 maybe something that's said touches them in the moment.

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 A lot of people have emotional feelings,

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 and they'll talk about their love for God

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 or their belief in God,

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 but when the emotions subside,

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 that love can't be found.

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 Those feelings don't remain.

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 Solomon had a genuine, heartfelt love for God

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 that he expressed in tangible ways.

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 Note in verse 4,

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 he is described as worshiping God,

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 and as a part of his worship,

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 he offered costly sacrifices.

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 Look at it in verse 4.

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 The king went to Gibeon to sacrifice there,

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 for that was the great high place.

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 Solomon used to offer a thousand burnt offerings

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 on that altar.

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 Now, I want you to think about this.

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 He's just been described as loving God,

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 He's now being described as worshiping God.

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 As a part of his worship,

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 he offered an extravagant, costly sacrifice,

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 or numerous sacrifices, actually.

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 I want you to think about the great expense

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 that would have been.

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 Think about how much trouble the labor involved

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 in sacrificing a thousand animals.

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 But this was intentional.

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 Solomon wanted to demonstrate his love to God

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 by offering to God something that was valuable to him,

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 something that cost him something.

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 You know, it appears that God accepted Solomon's worship

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 as an expression of genuine love

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 by the way God responds in verse 5.

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 Look at that.

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 At Gibeon,

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 the Lord appeared to Solomon in a dream by night,

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 and God said,

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 Ask what I shall give you.

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 Ask what you want.

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 If God was not pleased with the sacrifice Solomon has made,

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 sacrifices he's been making,

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 why would he offer such?

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 Well, Solomon continues his heartfelt worship

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 and prayer to God in verse 6.

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 Look at that.

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 And Solomon said,

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 You have shown great and steadfast love

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 to your servant David my father,

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 because he walked before you in faithfulness,

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 in righteousness,

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 and in uprightness of heart towards you.

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 And you've kept for him this great and steadfast love,

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 and have given him a son to sit on his throne this day.

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 He's talking about himself.

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 Solomon is praising God

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 for the faithful love that God has shown

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 to his father David

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 in allowing Solomon to take over,

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 in allowing Solomon to succeed his father

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 as king over all of Israel.

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 What we see in the way that Solomon declared

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 and demonstrated his love for God

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 is a model for how we should express our love for God.

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 I want you to think about

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 how you express your love to God.

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 Rehearse.

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 Think about it for a moment.

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 Do you regularly express your love to God in words?

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 Do you talk to God,

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 and do you say to him things like,

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 I love you?

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 I love you, Lord.

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 I love you, Jesus.

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 If you have a relationship with someone,

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 I mean, if you have a real relationship

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 with your spouse, your children,

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 different people,

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 don't you tell them,

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 at least every now and then,

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 that you love them?

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 Isn't it natural

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 to look at someone that you really do love,

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 you really do care about,

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 and say to them,

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 I love you.

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 You want to communicate that verbally

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 what Solomon did in his relationship with God.

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 And I think if we really and truly

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 have a relationship with our Heavenly Father,

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 with Almighty God,

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 if He is our Heavenly Father,

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 if Jesus Christ really is our Savior and our Lord,

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 it should just be natural

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 for us to want to say to the Lord Jesus,

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 to our Heavenly Father,

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 I love you.

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 Do you regularly do that?

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 If you don't,

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 why don't you?

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 Do you regularly express your love to God

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 in your actions?

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 Solomon did by the way he worshipped God.

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 He worshipped God privately.

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 He worshipped God publicly.

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 Do you?

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 I mean, we're here in a worship service.

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 Is this something that you normally do,

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 you want to do,

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 gather together with God's people

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 and join together

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 to worship and praise God

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 because you love Him?

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 Do you do this privately?

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 Get up in the morning,

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 around lunchtime,

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 at night?

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 Do you regularly

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 just get before the Lord,

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 maybe driving down the road for you

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 or walking somewhere,

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 and you just have a time of personal worship,

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 praise,

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 thanking God?

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 Do you do like Solomon?

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 Do you faithfully give to God offerings,

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 offerings that cost you something?

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 I've been in church all my life.

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 There's never been a time

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 when I didn't go to church as a kid.

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 Some of my earliest remembrances of people,

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 preachers preaching on giving,

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 I remember being,

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 hearing something like this.

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 A preacher described our giving

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 in terms of giving a tithe

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 or a tip to God.

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 For some reason,

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 it's always stuck in my mind.

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 Is your giving

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 a tithe

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 or is it a tip?

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 Which most accurately

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 describes you?

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 But I don't want you to think

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 that giving offerings

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 is the only way we can visibly

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 express our love to God.

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 It is one way,

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 but it's certainly not

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 even the

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 most primary way,

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 the most important way.

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 Jesus made it clear

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 that the most important way

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 we can express our love to God

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 is by

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 obeying Him.

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 Look with me.

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 There's three verses

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 I want to look at real quickly

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 from John chapter 14.

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 I mean,

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 how much

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 clearer

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 and forcefully

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 could He say this

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 than

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 bam, bam, bam?

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 If you love me,

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 you'll keep my commandments.

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 Whoever has my commandments

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 and keeps them,

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 he it is who loves me.

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 Jesus answered him,

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 if anyone loves me,

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 he will keep my word.

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 It's good

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 if you have a heartfelt

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 love for the Lord Jesus.

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 It's good

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 if you spend time

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 praising Him.

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 It's good

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 that you want to give

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 offerings that cost you

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 something to Him.

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 But bottom line,

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 Jesus is saying,

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 if you love me,

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 you'll make it a habit

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 of obeying me.

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 you'll make it a habit

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 of knowing

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 how I expect you

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 to live

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 which is revealed

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 in His word.

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 And it'll be your desire

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 to do God's will,

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 to put into practice

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 the things that He teaches us

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 in His word

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 that please Him,

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 that serve His purpose.

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 God's gift of wisdom

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 is given to those

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 who truly love God.

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 That was true

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 about Solomon.

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 It's true about anyone

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 who's going to experience

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 God's wisdom.

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 But we also see

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 from Solomon's

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 example that

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 God's wisdom

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 is a gift

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 given to those

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 who humbly seek it.

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 Verses 7 through 9,

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 we see that again.

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 God responded

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 to Solomon's expression

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 of love

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 and worship

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 by inviting him.

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 God invited him

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 to ask for anything.

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 Look again in verse 5.

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 Ask what I shall give you.

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 Now Solomon responded

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 with one of the most

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 well-known expressions

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 in the Bible

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 in verse 9.

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 Look at it.

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 Give your servant,

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 therefore,

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 an understanding mind

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 to govern your people

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 that I may discern

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 between good and evil.

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 For who is able

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 to govern this,

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 your great people?

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 Solomon, when asked,

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 you can have

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 whatever you want.

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 He responds here,

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 I want an understanding mind.

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 Other translations say

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 an understanding heart

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 or a discerning heart.

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 What's happening here

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 in 1 Kings 3

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 is summarized

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 in 2 Chronicles.

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 In chapter 1,

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 verse 10,

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 this statement

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 or Solomon's response

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 is summarized like this.

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 Give me now

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 wisdom

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 and knowledge.

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 That's what Solomon wanted.

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 Now understand,

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 God didn't place

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 any conditions

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 on Solomon's request.

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 God didn't tell Solomon,

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 I want you to be

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 a good little Jewish boy.

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 I want you to act

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 like a king

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 and think like a king

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 as you respond.

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 I want you to be spiritual

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 with your response.

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 It was an open-ended request.

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 Solomon could ask

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 for anything.

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 Now of course,

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 we know

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 God would not have

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 answered his prayer

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 for just anything.

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 God never acts

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 contrary to his

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 holy character.

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 God's always

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 going to be faithful

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 to be who he is.

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 He's never going to

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 violate the truth

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 of his word.

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 He's never going

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 to do anything

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 that's contrary

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 to who he is,

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 our holy God.

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 God's offer

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 to Solomon

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 was genuine.

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 But it was also

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 a test

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 of Solomon's character.

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 Now note that Solomon

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 didn't just ask God

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 for wisdom.

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 He humbly

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 acknowledged

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 his own limitations.

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 Look at verse 7.

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 And now, O Lord,

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 my God,

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 you have made

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 your servant

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 king

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 in place of my father.

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 Although I am

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 but a little child,

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 I do not know

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 how to go out

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 or come in.

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 Now Solomon's

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 not being literal

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 here.

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 He's not a little

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 child.

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 We don't know

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 exactly how old

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 he was but probably

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 around 20.

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 He's a young man.

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 Solomon is saying

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 by making this

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 kind of statement,

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 he's just letting

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 God know,

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 I know that I'm

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 inexperienced.

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 I know that I

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 do not know

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 how to be king

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 over these people.

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 Solomon's saying,

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 Lord, you have

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 entrusted me

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 an awesome

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 responsibility

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 and I'm just

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 not equipped

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 to do it.

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 I need for you

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 to provide me

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 with the wisdom

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 to enable me

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 to be a good

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 and wise

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 and faithful king

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 to these people.

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 I need for you

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 to provide me

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 with the wisdom

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 so that I'll be able

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 to discern

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 between good

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 and evil

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 and provide

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 and provide

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 good government

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 for your

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 chosen people.

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 Solomon was praying.

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 Solomon was going

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 to God

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 with genuine

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 humility.

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 He knew

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 how limited

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 he was

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 but he had confidence

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 that God

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 could meet

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 his needs.

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 That's why he asked

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 God to supply him

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 with what he needed

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 and he would

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 do this job.

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 We can learn

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 a lot from Solomon's

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 example,

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 can't we?

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 We can learn

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 to admit

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 our limitations

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 and seek

00:25:51.599 --> 00:25:52.460
 God's

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 wisdom.

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 You know,

00:25:56.440 --> 00:25:56.799
 we have been

00:25:56.799 --> 00:25:57.380
 given an awesome

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 responsibility

00:25:58.019 --> 00:25:58.779
 to live in this

00:25:58.779 --> 00:25:59.220
 world,

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 the world today

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 as God's people

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 and as Jesus said,

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 we have a responsibility

00:26:05.819 --> 00:26:06.860
 to be salt

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 and light

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 in the world today.

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 I mean,

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 you and me

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 living in today's

00:26:11.019 --> 00:26:11.259
 world,

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 we have a responsibility

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 to have a preserving

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 effect.

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 We have a responsibility

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 to add flavor.

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 We have a responsibility

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 to shine

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 the light

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 of truth,

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 God's truth

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 in this

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 spiritually

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 dark

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 world.

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 How do you

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 do that?

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 Husbands,

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 how do you love

00:26:35.539 --> 00:26:36.359
 your wife

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 as Christ loved

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 the church?

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 That's what,

00:26:38.440 --> 00:26:39.220
 as Christian men,

00:26:39.319 --> 00:26:39.819
 we're commanded

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 to do.

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 We need to ask

00:26:43.019 --> 00:26:44.180
 God to give us

00:26:44.180 --> 00:26:44.899
 the wisdom

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 to know what

00:26:46.240 --> 00:26:47.259
 that looks like

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 as we live together

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 every day.

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 Wives,

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 you are told,

00:26:51.339 --> 00:26:52.259
 this is in Ephesians

00:26:52.259 --> 00:26:53.359
 5 and Colossians

00:26:53.359 --> 00:26:53.700
 3,

00:26:53.799 --> 00:26:54.259
 both of these

00:26:54.259 --> 00:26:54.740
 statements.

00:26:56.019 --> 00:26:56.799
 You've been told

00:26:56.799 --> 00:26:57.500
 to submit to your

00:26:57.500 --> 00:26:58.900
 husband as unto

00:26:58.900 --> 00:26:59.619
 the Lord.

00:27:00.819 --> 00:27:01.519
 What does that

00:27:01.519 --> 00:27:02.279
 look like

00:27:02.279 --> 00:27:04.940
 in 2017?

00:27:07.019 --> 00:27:07.619
 Do you ever

00:27:07.619 --> 00:27:08.440
 ask God for the

00:27:08.440 --> 00:27:09.140
 wisdom to help

00:27:09.140 --> 00:27:09.640
 you to be that

00:27:09.640 --> 00:27:10.539
 kind of godly

00:27:10.539 --> 00:27:10.980
 wife?

00:27:12.279 --> 00:27:12.819
 And you know,

00:27:12.900 --> 00:27:13.599
 as parents,

00:27:15.140 --> 00:27:15.660
 Scripture's very

00:27:15.660 --> 00:27:16.599
 clear that it's

00:27:16.599 --> 00:27:17.420
 our responsibility

00:27:17.420 --> 00:27:18.279
 to be the primary

00:27:18.279 --> 00:27:19.299
 spiritual teachers

00:27:19.299 --> 00:27:20.180
 of our children?

00:27:22.019 --> 00:27:22.960
 We need help,

00:27:23.019 --> 00:27:23.339
 don't we?

00:27:24.399 --> 00:27:25.319
 We need help to

00:27:25.319 --> 00:27:25.899
 know how to

00:27:25.899 --> 00:27:27.180
 train them

00:27:27.180 --> 00:27:27.799
 according to the

00:27:27.799 --> 00:27:28.559
 way that they

00:27:28.559 --> 00:27:29.119
 should go.

00:27:29.279 --> 00:27:29.740
 There is no

00:27:29.740 --> 00:27:30.700
 cookie-cutter

00:27:30.700 --> 00:27:31.339
 approach to

00:27:31.339 --> 00:27:32.079
 training children,

00:27:32.240 --> 00:27:32.440
 is there?

00:27:32.559 --> 00:27:32.960
 They're all

00:27:32.960 --> 00:27:33.399
 different.

00:27:34.460 --> 00:27:35.099
 And we need

00:27:35.099 --> 00:27:36.119
 God to help us

00:27:36.119 --> 00:27:37.639
 to do it in a way

00:27:37.639 --> 00:27:38.220
 that's appropriate

00:27:38.220 --> 00:27:40.059
 for each child

00:27:40.059 --> 00:27:41.859
 and it's true

00:27:41.859 --> 00:27:42.700
 to His Word.

00:27:43.639 --> 00:27:44.839
 And to do it in a way

00:27:44.839 --> 00:27:45.839
 that we don't

00:27:45.839 --> 00:27:47.879
 provoke our

00:27:47.879 --> 00:27:48.819
 children to anger,

00:27:48.959 --> 00:27:49.299
 one of the

00:27:49.299 --> 00:27:50.579
 passages says.

00:27:51.759 --> 00:27:52.299
 And that's

00:27:52.299 --> 00:27:53.039
 sometimes hard to

00:27:53.039 --> 00:27:53.559
 do, isn't it?

00:27:55.099 --> 00:27:55.839
 To be the right

00:27:55.839 --> 00:27:57.500
 kind of leader

00:27:57.500 --> 00:27:58.179
 in the home

00:27:58.179 --> 00:27:59.579
 as a parent,

00:28:00.480 --> 00:28:01.240
 the right kind

00:28:01.240 --> 00:28:01.720
 of attitude,

00:28:02.779 --> 00:28:03.419
 be the right

00:28:03.419 --> 00:28:04.619
 kind of example.

00:28:06.879 --> 00:28:07.339
 And you know,

00:28:07.339 --> 00:28:09.220
 a lot of you

00:28:09.220 --> 00:28:10.079
 work in a place

00:28:10.079 --> 00:28:12.319
 where you're

00:28:12.319 --> 00:28:12.959
 expected

00:28:12.960 --> 00:28:14.799
 to keep

00:28:14.799 --> 00:28:15.680
 your,

00:28:16.500 --> 00:28:17.360
 what we'll call

00:28:17.360 --> 00:28:18.240
 religious views

00:28:18.240 --> 00:28:18.920
 to yourself.

00:28:20.940 --> 00:28:21.259
 I mean,

00:28:21.299 --> 00:28:22.160
 in this day,

00:28:23.000 --> 00:28:25.220
 it is very,

00:28:25.340 --> 00:28:25.920
 very difficult

00:28:25.920 --> 00:28:27.420
 in some settings

00:28:27.420 --> 00:28:30.160
 for us to

00:28:30.160 --> 00:28:31.539
 actually talk

00:28:31.539 --> 00:28:32.400
 about what

00:28:32.400 --> 00:28:32.779
 the Bible

00:28:32.779 --> 00:28:33.360
 teaches

00:28:33.360 --> 00:28:34.380
 concerning

00:28:34.380 --> 00:28:35.140
 morality.

00:28:36.799 --> 00:28:37.759
 There's some

00:28:37.759 --> 00:28:38.840
 settings where

00:28:38.840 --> 00:28:40.880
 we really need

00:28:40.880 --> 00:28:41.900
 God's wisdom

00:28:41.900 --> 00:28:43.340
 to know

00:28:43.340 --> 00:28:44.540
 what to say

00:28:44.540 --> 00:28:46.600
 and the way

00:28:46.600 --> 00:28:47.380
 to say it.

00:28:48.180 --> 00:28:48.880
 And there's

00:28:48.880 --> 00:28:49.440
 just a lot of

00:28:49.440 --> 00:28:49.960
 settings where

00:28:49.960 --> 00:28:50.519
 we just need

00:28:50.519 --> 00:28:51.160
 God's wisdom

00:28:51.160 --> 00:28:51.660
 to know

00:28:51.660 --> 00:28:52.660
 if we should

00:28:52.660 --> 00:28:53.440
 say anything

00:28:53.440 --> 00:28:54.280
 at all.

00:28:55.960 --> 00:28:56.120
 See,

00:28:56.180 --> 00:28:56.560
 we've got a,

00:28:56.900 --> 00:28:57.940
 there's a fine

00:28:57.940 --> 00:28:58.620
 line we've got

00:28:58.620 --> 00:28:59.380
 to balance today.

00:29:00.519 --> 00:29:01.380
 We cannot

00:29:01.380 --> 00:29:02.360
 be afraid

00:29:02.360 --> 00:29:03.460
 of people.

00:29:05.620 --> 00:29:06.500
 We cannot

00:29:06.500 --> 00:29:08.800
 deny the truth

00:29:08.799 --> 00:29:09.339
 of God.

00:29:11.200 --> 00:29:11.879
 We cannot

00:29:11.879 --> 00:29:12.639
 compromise

00:29:12.639 --> 00:29:14.119
 who we are

00:29:14.119 --> 00:29:14.819
 as God's

00:29:14.819 --> 00:29:15.180
 people.

00:29:15.740 --> 00:29:16.119
 We can't

00:29:16.119 --> 00:29:16.579
 compromise

00:29:16.579 --> 00:29:17.180
 His Word.

00:29:18.279 --> 00:29:18.779
 But at the

00:29:18.779 --> 00:29:19.680
 same time,

00:29:20.720 --> 00:29:24.240
 we've got to

00:29:24.240 --> 00:29:25.440
 be there

00:29:25.440 --> 00:29:27.299
 and be salt

00:29:27.299 --> 00:29:27.879
 and light

00:29:27.879 --> 00:29:28.680
 and have as

00:29:28.680 --> 00:29:29.480
 good an influence

00:29:29.480 --> 00:29:30.500
 as we can.

00:29:31.359 --> 00:29:31.799
 And a lot of

00:29:31.799 --> 00:29:32.339
 times that means

00:29:32.339 --> 00:29:32.879
 we don't say

00:29:32.879 --> 00:29:33.399
 everything that

00:29:33.399 --> 00:29:33.919
 we think.

00:29:33.920 --> 00:29:35.700
 it means

00:29:35.700 --> 00:29:36.300
 that we say

00:29:36.300 --> 00:29:36.920
 things

00:29:36.920 --> 00:29:39.160
 precisely,

00:29:40.740 --> 00:29:41.539
 lovingly,

00:29:42.019 --> 00:29:43.500
 trying to

00:29:43.500 --> 00:29:44.000
 convince,

00:29:44.140 --> 00:29:44.539
 not beat

00:29:44.539 --> 00:29:45.060
 somebody over

00:29:45.060 --> 00:29:45.500
 the head

00:29:45.500 --> 00:29:45.960
 with it.

00:29:47.380 --> 00:29:48.440
 We need

00:29:48.440 --> 00:29:49.880
 God's wisdom

00:29:49.880 --> 00:29:52.240
 to know

00:29:52.240 --> 00:29:52.759
 how to live

00:29:52.759 --> 00:29:53.580
 in this world

00:29:53.580 --> 00:29:54.640
 today.

00:29:57.519 --> 00:29:58.320
 And if we

00:29:58.320 --> 00:29:58.900
 want it,

00:30:00.039 --> 00:30:00.740
 we need to

00:30:00.740 --> 00:30:01.560
 just ask Him

00:30:01.560 --> 00:30:01.960
 for it.

00:30:02.320 --> 00:30:03.019
 We need to

00:30:03.019 --> 00:30:03.480
 admit to God

00:30:03.480 --> 00:30:04.299
 our inability,

00:30:04.660 --> 00:30:05.460
 our limitations,

00:30:05.700 --> 00:30:06.500
 our weaknesses,

00:30:07.259 --> 00:30:08.440
 and ask God

00:30:08.440 --> 00:30:09.200
 to give it to us

00:30:09.200 --> 00:30:10.099
 because He promises

00:30:10.099 --> 00:30:11.059
 in James chapter

00:30:11.059 --> 00:30:12.019
 1 that He will

00:30:12.019 --> 00:30:12.480
 look at it.

00:30:13.460 --> 00:30:14.000
 James says,

00:30:14.099 --> 00:30:14.519
 if any of you

00:30:14.519 --> 00:30:15.279
 lacks wisdom,

00:30:15.380 --> 00:30:16.339
 let him ask God

00:30:16.339 --> 00:30:17.220
 who gives

00:30:17.220 --> 00:30:18.779
 generously to all

00:30:18.779 --> 00:30:19.980
 without reproach

00:30:19.980 --> 00:30:20.880
 and it will be

00:30:20.880 --> 00:30:21.599
 given to him.

00:30:22.279 --> 00:30:23.140
 James says that

00:30:23.140 --> 00:30:23.880
 in the context

00:30:23.880 --> 00:30:24.380
 of talking about

00:30:24.380 --> 00:30:24.860
 how to deal

00:30:24.860 --> 00:30:25.740
 with hardships

00:30:25.740 --> 00:30:26.339
 in life,

00:30:26.519 --> 00:30:26.900
 how to live

00:30:26.900 --> 00:30:27.660
 with difficulties,

00:30:27.880 --> 00:30:28.299
 how to live

00:30:28.299 --> 00:30:29.240
 with trials,

00:30:30.759 --> 00:30:31.180
 just like what

00:30:31.180 --> 00:30:31.579
 we're talking

00:30:31.579 --> 00:30:31.819
 about.

00:30:31.819 --> 00:30:33.059
 God will give

00:30:33.059 --> 00:30:33.659
 us the wisdom

00:30:33.659 --> 00:30:34.279
 to live in this

00:30:34.279 --> 00:30:35.240
 world in the

00:30:35.240 --> 00:30:36.899
 midst of hard

00:30:36.899 --> 00:30:37.759
 situations.

00:30:39.000 --> 00:30:39.619
 We've got to

00:30:39.619 --> 00:30:40.480
 learn to ask Him.

00:30:40.779 --> 00:30:41.319
 But also,

00:30:41.639 --> 00:30:42.159
 we need to ask

00:30:42.159 --> 00:30:42.799
 God the right

00:30:42.799 --> 00:30:43.220
 way.

00:30:43.679 --> 00:30:44.579
 James goes on

00:30:44.579 --> 00:30:45.119
 in this letter,

00:30:45.500 --> 00:30:45.960
 if you go ahead

00:30:45.960 --> 00:30:46.319
 and read,

00:30:46.419 --> 00:30:46.559
 say,

00:30:46.659 --> 00:30:47.439
 chapter 4,

00:30:48.439 --> 00:30:48.980
 to point out

00:30:48.980 --> 00:30:49.599
 that God

00:30:49.599 --> 00:30:50.859
 requires that

00:30:50.859 --> 00:30:51.480
 when we ask

00:30:51.480 --> 00:30:52.000
 for wisdom

00:30:52.000 --> 00:30:52.579
 or we ask

00:30:52.579 --> 00:30:52.960
 for anything,

00:30:53.259 --> 00:30:53.859
 we ask for

00:30:53.859 --> 00:30:54.339
 the right

00:30:54.339 --> 00:30:55.059
 motives.

00:30:56.059 --> 00:30:56.899
 We ask

00:30:56.899 --> 00:30:57.599
 for the right

00:30:57.599 --> 00:30:58.259
 purposes.

00:30:58.259 --> 00:31:00.180
 James

00:31:00.180 --> 00:31:00.619
 refers

00:31:00.619 --> 00:31:01.019
 what we

00:31:01.019 --> 00:31:01.379
 see in

00:31:01.379 --> 00:31:02.200
 1 Kings.

00:31:03.259 --> 00:31:03.819
 There are

00:31:03.819 --> 00:31:04.960
 prerequisites

00:31:04.960 --> 00:31:06.180
 for receiving

00:31:06.180 --> 00:31:07.359
 God's gift

00:31:07.359 --> 00:31:07.900
 of wisdom.

00:31:08.140 --> 00:31:08.440
 Let's look

00:31:08.440 --> 00:31:08.960
 at one more

00:31:08.960 --> 00:31:09.559
 real quickly

00:31:09.559 --> 00:31:10.500
 in verse 9.

00:31:10.940 --> 00:31:11.619
 God's wisdom

00:31:11.619 --> 00:31:12.559
 is a gift

00:31:12.559 --> 00:31:13.359
 given to

00:31:13.359 --> 00:31:13.940
 those who

00:31:13.940 --> 00:31:14.400
 want to

00:31:14.400 --> 00:31:14.819
 use it

00:31:14.819 --> 00:31:15.400
 to benefit

00:31:15.400 --> 00:31:16.379
 others.

00:31:18.119 --> 00:31:18.740
 Note what

00:31:18.740 --> 00:31:19.059
 he says

00:31:19.059 --> 00:31:19.720
 in verse 9.

00:31:20.180 --> 00:31:20.660
 Give your

00:31:20.660 --> 00:31:21.180
 servant,

00:31:21.400 --> 00:31:21.660
 therefore,

00:31:21.839 --> 00:31:22.500
 an understanding

00:31:22.500 --> 00:31:23.680
 mind to

00:31:23.680 --> 00:31:24.500
 govern your

00:31:24.500 --> 00:31:24.940
 people,

00:31:25.740 --> 00:31:26.299
 that I may

00:31:26.299 --> 00:31:27.279
 discern between

00:31:27.279 --> 00:31:27.700
 good and

00:31:27.700 --> 00:31:27.960
 evil.

00:31:28.259 --> 00:31:28.920
 For who

00:31:28.920 --> 00:31:29.339
 is able

00:31:29.339 --> 00:31:30.099
 to govern

00:31:30.099 --> 00:31:30.740
 this,

00:31:30.839 --> 00:31:31.160
 your great

00:31:31.160 --> 00:31:31.480
 people?

00:31:32.680 --> 00:31:33.140
 Solomon

00:31:33.140 --> 00:31:33.839
 asked for

00:31:33.839 --> 00:31:34.420
 wisdom so

00:31:34.420 --> 00:31:34.799
 that he

00:31:34.799 --> 00:31:35.579
 could be

00:31:35.579 --> 00:31:36.420
 a benefit,

00:31:36.980 --> 00:31:37.759
 a blessing

00:31:37.759 --> 00:31:39.240
 to God's

00:31:39.240 --> 00:31:39.579
 people.

00:31:40.440 --> 00:31:40.859
 He wanted

00:31:40.859 --> 00:31:41.359
 to be a

00:31:41.359 --> 00:31:42.400
 wise and

00:31:42.400 --> 00:31:43.440
 godly leader

00:31:43.440 --> 00:31:44.160
 for the

00:31:44.160 --> 00:31:44.420
 good of

00:31:44.420 --> 00:31:45.039
 his country,

00:31:45.539 --> 00:31:45.839
 for the

00:31:45.839 --> 00:31:46.200
 good of

00:31:46.200 --> 00:31:46.759
 God's

00:31:46.759 --> 00:31:47.160
 people,

00:31:47.779 --> 00:31:48.079
 for the

00:31:48.079 --> 00:31:48.420
 good of

00:31:48.420 --> 00:31:49.039
 families

00:31:49.039 --> 00:31:49.539
 that he

00:31:49.539 --> 00:31:50.599
 was responsible

00:31:50.599 --> 00:31:50.940
 for,

00:31:51.460 --> 00:31:52.059
 for the

00:31:52.059 --> 00:31:52.379
 good of

00:31:52.379 --> 00:31:53.019
 individuals.

00:31:54.339 --> 00:31:54.660
 Solomon

00:31:54.660 --> 00:31:55.039
 did not

00:31:55.039 --> 00:31:55.440
 ask for

00:31:55.440 --> 00:31:56.420
 wisdom so

00:31:56.420 --> 00:31:56.579
 that he

00:31:56.579 --> 00:31:56.879
 could become

00:31:56.879 --> 00:31:57.299
 a famous

00:31:57.299 --> 00:31:58.079
 wise man.

00:31:58.259 --> 00:32:00.299
 I want

00:32:00.299 --> 00:32:00.440
 you to

00:32:00.440 --> 00:32:00.720
 understand

00:32:00.720 --> 00:32:01.000
 that.

00:32:02.359 --> 00:32:02.920
 What's

00:32:02.920 --> 00:32:03.440
 happening in

00:32:03.440 --> 00:32:04.440
 1 Kings 3

00:32:04.440 --> 00:32:05.420
 has nothing

00:32:05.420 --> 00:32:06.140
 to do with

00:32:06.140 --> 00:32:07.240
 Solomon seeking

00:32:07.240 --> 00:32:08.059
 anything for

00:32:08.059 --> 00:32:08.700
 himself.

00:32:09.879 --> 00:32:10.500
 It's all

00:32:10.500 --> 00:32:10.859
 about the

00:32:10.859 --> 00:32:11.319
 glory of

00:32:11.319 --> 00:32:11.720
 God and

00:32:11.720 --> 00:32:12.220
 the good

00:32:12.220 --> 00:32:13.000
 of others.

00:32:13.000 --> 00:32:13.180
 God's.

00:32:16.460 --> 00:32:17.079
 What are

00:32:17.079 --> 00:32:17.819
 your prayers

00:32:17.819 --> 00:32:18.599
 focused on?

00:32:22.000 --> 00:32:22.740
 The glory

00:32:22.740 --> 00:32:23.400
 of God and

00:32:23.400 --> 00:32:23.859
 the good of

00:32:23.859 --> 00:32:25.579
 others like

00:32:25.579 --> 00:32:26.099
 Solomon.

00:32:28.000 --> 00:32:28.660
 Now this

00:32:28.660 --> 00:32:29.559
 does not mean

00:32:29.559 --> 00:32:30.200
 we can't pray

00:32:30.200 --> 00:32:30.880
 for ourselves.

00:32:31.259 --> 00:32:31.980
 Solomon in

00:32:31.980 --> 00:32:32.619
 doing all of

00:32:32.619 --> 00:32:33.759
 this, he was

00:32:33.759 --> 00:32:34.299
 praying for

00:32:34.299 --> 00:32:35.099
 himself but

00:32:35.099 --> 00:32:36.059
 he was not

00:32:36.059 --> 00:32:37.819
 being selfish.

00:32:38.539 --> 00:32:39.079
 He wasn't

00:32:39.079 --> 00:32:39.859
 being greedy.

00:32:40.539 --> 00:32:40.980
 He wasn't

00:32:40.980 --> 00:32:41.759
 being worldly

00:32:41.759 --> 00:32:42.180
 with his

00:32:42.180 --> 00:32:42.700
 request.

00:32:43.440 --> 00:32:43.819
 He was

00:32:43.819 --> 00:32:44.460
 asking God

00:32:44.460 --> 00:32:44.879
 to make

00:32:44.879 --> 00:32:45.359
 him a

00:32:45.359 --> 00:32:46.319
 wise leader

00:32:46.319 --> 00:32:48.240
 so that

00:32:48.240 --> 00:32:48.660
 God would

00:32:48.660 --> 00:32:49.220
 be honored.

00:32:50.119 --> 00:32:50.480
 So that

00:32:50.480 --> 00:32:51.359
 God's people

00:32:51.359 --> 00:32:51.720
 would be

00:32:51.720 --> 00:32:52.460
 taken care

00:32:52.460 --> 00:32:53.980
 of for

00:32:53.980 --> 00:32:54.640
 the good

00:32:54.640 --> 00:32:56.099
 of other

00:32:56.099 --> 00:32:56.460
 people.

00:32:56.680 --> 00:32:57.059
 That's what he

00:32:57.059 --> 00:32:57.460
 was praying

00:32:57.460 --> 00:32:57.680
 for.

00:32:58.480 --> 00:32:58.879
 We need to

00:32:58.879 --> 00:32:59.299
 learn to pray

00:32:59.299 --> 00:33:00.019
 like Solomon.

00:33:00.980 --> 00:33:01.740
 Openly admit

00:33:01.740 --> 00:33:02.599
 our limitations

00:33:02.599 --> 00:33:03.720
 and our needs

00:33:03.720 --> 00:33:05.559
 needs and

00:33:05.559 --> 00:33:05.980
 then ask

00:33:05.980 --> 00:33:06.700
 God to

00:33:06.700 --> 00:33:08.120
 meet those

00:33:08.120 --> 00:33:08.880
 needs in

00:33:08.880 --> 00:33:09.680
 a way that

00:33:09.680 --> 00:33:10.779
 will please

00:33:10.779 --> 00:33:13.240
 him and

00:33:13.240 --> 00:33:14.039
 be of benefit

00:33:14.039 --> 00:33:14.680
 to the people

00:33:14.680 --> 00:33:15.559
 around us

00:33:15.559 --> 00:33:15.960
 that God

00:33:15.960 --> 00:33:16.680
 has put in

00:33:16.680 --> 00:33:17.299
 our lives.

00:33:18.980 --> 00:33:19.160
 You know

00:33:19.160 --> 00:33:19.660
 after giving

00:33:19.660 --> 00:33:20.400
 Solomon this

00:33:20.400 --> 00:33:21.140
 wisdom, God

00:33:21.140 --> 00:33:21.839
 proceeded to

00:33:21.839 --> 00:33:22.319
 give him

00:33:22.319 --> 00:33:23.420
 even more

00:33:23.420 --> 00:33:24.000
 than he

00:33:24.000 --> 00:33:25.000
 asked for

00:33:25.000 --> 00:33:25.700
 or could

00:33:25.700 --> 00:33:26.519
 have imagined.

00:33:26.519 --> 00:33:27.079
 Look at

00:33:27.079 --> 00:33:27.660
 verses 13

00:33:27.660 --> 00:33:28.140
 and 14.

00:33:29.600 --> 00:33:29.960
 He says,

00:33:29.960 --> 00:33:30.579
 I give you

00:33:30.579 --> 00:33:31.620
 also what

00:33:31.620 --> 00:33:32.039
 you have

00:33:32.039 --> 00:33:33.019
 not asked,

00:33:33.559 --> 00:33:34.559
 both riches

00:33:34.559 --> 00:33:35.860
 and honor,

00:33:36.380 --> 00:33:36.900
 so that no

00:33:36.900 --> 00:33:37.600
 other king

00:33:37.600 --> 00:33:38.420
 shall compare

00:33:38.420 --> 00:33:39.180
 with you

00:33:39.180 --> 00:33:39.819
 all your

00:33:39.819 --> 00:33:40.420
 days.

00:33:41.160 --> 00:33:41.840
 And if you

00:33:41.840 --> 00:33:42.620
 will walk

00:33:42.620 --> 00:33:43.680
 in my ways,

00:33:44.240 --> 00:33:44.880
 keeping my

00:33:44.880 --> 00:33:45.600
 statutes

00:33:45.600 --> 00:33:46.340
 and my

00:33:46.340 --> 00:33:46.819
 commandments

00:33:46.819 --> 00:33:47.360
 as your

00:33:47.360 --> 00:33:48.100
 father David

00:33:48.100 --> 00:33:48.600
 walked,

00:33:49.100 --> 00:33:49.920
 then I

00:33:49.920 --> 00:33:50.840
 will lengthen

00:33:50.840 --> 00:33:51.840
 your days.

00:33:54.480 --> 00:33:55.440
 God just

00:33:55.440 --> 00:33:56.100
 blessed him.

00:33:57.680 --> 00:33:58.240
 Solomon

00:33:58.240 --> 00:33:59.019
 serves here

00:33:59.019 --> 00:33:59.400
 as an

00:33:59.400 --> 00:33:59.920
 example

00:33:59.920 --> 00:34:01.480
 of an

00:34:01.480 --> 00:34:01.940
 important

00:34:01.940 --> 00:34:02.460
 principle

00:34:02.460 --> 00:34:03.080
 that Jesus

00:34:03.080 --> 00:34:03.980
 stressed in

00:34:03.980 --> 00:34:04.400
 the Sermon

00:34:04.400 --> 00:34:04.660
 on the

00:34:04.660 --> 00:34:05.400
 Mount in

00:34:05.400 --> 00:34:06.140
 Matthew 6.

00:34:06.240 --> 00:34:06.539
 Look at

00:34:06.539 --> 00:34:06.680
 it.

00:34:07.500 --> 00:34:08.039
 Jesus said,

00:34:08.340 --> 00:34:08.720
 seek first

00:34:08.720 --> 00:34:09.139
 the kingdom

00:34:09.139 --> 00:34:09.639
 of God

00:34:09.639 --> 00:34:10.059
 and his

00:34:10.059 --> 00:34:10.680
 righteousness

00:34:10.680 --> 00:34:12.240
 and all

00:34:12.240 --> 00:34:13.000
 these things

00:34:13.000 --> 00:34:13.360
 will be

00:34:13.360 --> 00:34:13.920
 added to

00:34:13.920 --> 00:34:14.240
 you.

00:34:15.579 --> 00:34:16.240
 That's what

00:34:16.240 --> 00:34:17.000
 Solomon did.

00:34:18.340 --> 00:34:18.720
 Now as I

00:34:18.720 --> 00:34:19.059
 said at the

00:34:19.059 --> 00:34:19.400
 beginning of

00:34:19.400 --> 00:34:19.960
 this message,

00:34:20.940 --> 00:34:21.619
 Solomon is

00:34:21.619 --> 00:34:22.220
 unique.

00:34:24.920 --> 00:34:25.720
 Solomon is

00:34:25.720 --> 00:34:26.039
 totally

00:34:26.039 --> 00:34:26.720
 different than

00:34:26.720 --> 00:34:27.000
 you and

00:34:27.000 --> 00:34:27.220
 me.

00:34:28.720 --> 00:34:29.320
 We should

00:34:29.320 --> 00:34:30.400
 not expect

00:34:30.400 --> 00:34:31.580
 God to

00:34:31.580 --> 00:34:32.140
 make us

00:34:32.140 --> 00:34:32.980
 the wisest

00:34:32.980 --> 00:34:33.740
 and wealthiest

00:34:33.740 --> 00:34:35.600
 person in

00:34:35.600 --> 00:34:35.900
 Pickens

00:34:35.900 --> 00:34:36.260
 County.

00:34:37.760 --> 00:34:38.500
 That is

00:34:38.500 --> 00:34:39.140
 never a

00:34:39.140 --> 00:34:39.620
 request,

00:34:39.780 --> 00:34:40.200
 a proper

00:34:40.200 --> 00:34:40.780
 request.

00:34:41.780 --> 00:34:42.580
 It was just

00:34:42.580 --> 00:34:43.740
 a byproduct

00:34:43.740 --> 00:34:44.559
 in Solomon's

00:34:44.559 --> 00:34:44.960
 life of

00:34:44.960 --> 00:34:45.940
 God's grace.

00:34:45.940 --> 00:34:46.940
 God's grace.

00:34:46.940 --> 00:34:48.800
 But here's

00:34:48.800 --> 00:34:49.159
 what you need

00:34:49.159 --> 00:34:49.500
 to think.

00:34:49.880 --> 00:34:50.280
 God is

00:34:50.280 --> 00:34:50.760
 able to

00:34:50.760 --> 00:34:51.440
 surprise us

00:34:51.440 --> 00:34:51.700
 with his

00:34:51.700 --> 00:34:52.179
 generosity.

00:34:52.840 --> 00:34:53.700
 Even us

00:34:53.700 --> 00:34:56.119
 writing much,

00:34:56.260 --> 00:34:56.700
 much later

00:34:56.700 --> 00:34:58.000
 to the

00:34:58.000 --> 00:34:58.480
 church in

00:34:58.480 --> 00:34:58.900
 Ephesus.

00:34:59.440 --> 00:35:00.820
 Paul said

00:35:00.820 --> 00:35:01.380
 this.

00:35:01.599 --> 00:35:01.780
 It's in

00:35:01.780 --> 00:35:02.139
 Ephesians

00:35:02.139 --> 00:35:02.740
 chapter 3

00:35:02.740 --> 00:35:03.260
 verse 20.

00:35:03.539 --> 00:35:04.059
 It's really

00:35:04.059 --> 00:35:04.920
 an expression

00:35:04.920 --> 00:35:05.980
 of praise

00:35:05.980 --> 00:35:07.099
 worshiping

00:35:07.099 --> 00:35:07.539
 God.

00:35:08.200 --> 00:35:09.039
 A doxology.

00:35:09.980 --> 00:35:10.340
 He says,

00:35:10.340 --> 00:35:10.960
 now to

00:35:10.960 --> 00:35:11.480
 him who

00:35:11.480 --> 00:35:11.900
 is able

00:35:11.900 --> 00:35:12.240
 to do

00:35:12.240 --> 00:35:13.440
 far more

00:35:13.440 --> 00:35:14.220
 abundantly

00:35:14.220 --> 00:35:15.059
 than all

00:35:15.059 --> 00:35:15.840
 we ask

00:35:15.840 --> 00:35:16.500
 or think,

00:35:16.680 --> 00:35:17.340
 some translations

00:35:17.340 --> 00:35:17.680
 say,

00:35:17.800 --> 00:35:18.480
 or imagine,

00:35:19.860 --> 00:35:20.539
 according to

00:35:20.539 --> 00:35:21.140
 the power

00:35:21.140 --> 00:35:21.820
 at work

00:35:21.820 --> 00:35:22.720
 within us.

00:35:25.720 --> 00:35:26.220
 Paul,

00:35:26.320 --> 00:35:26.460
 as he

00:35:26.460 --> 00:35:26.840
 thought about

00:35:26.840 --> 00:35:27.079
 God,

00:35:27.140 --> 00:35:27.360
 as he

00:35:27.360 --> 00:35:27.720
 prayed,

00:35:27.780 --> 00:35:28.059
 he thought

00:35:28.059 --> 00:35:28.480
 about God

00:35:28.480 --> 00:35:28.860
 as being

00:35:28.860 --> 00:35:29.559
 able to do

00:35:29.559 --> 00:35:30.039
 far more

00:35:30.039 --> 00:35:30.480
 abundantly

00:35:30.480 --> 00:35:30.940
 than all

00:35:30.940 --> 00:35:31.620
 we ask

00:35:31.620 --> 00:35:32.480
 or imagine.

00:35:32.480 --> 00:35:36.340
 you know,

00:35:36.400 --> 00:35:36.719
 the best

00:35:36.719 --> 00:35:37.260
 way for us

00:35:37.260 --> 00:35:37.579
 to follow

00:35:37.579 --> 00:35:38.159
 Solomon's

00:35:38.159 --> 00:35:38.639
 example

00:35:38.639 --> 00:35:39.360
 is to

00:35:39.360 --> 00:35:39.960
 seek the

00:35:39.960 --> 00:35:40.679
 wisdom of

00:35:40.679 --> 00:35:41.260
 God in

00:35:41.260 --> 00:35:41.940
 its highest

00:35:41.940 --> 00:35:42.559
 form,

00:35:43.320 --> 00:35:44.139
 which is

00:35:44.139 --> 00:35:44.559
 the person

00:35:44.559 --> 00:35:44.940
 of Jesus

00:35:44.940 --> 00:35:45.460
 Christ.

00:35:46.740 --> 00:35:47.760
 As wise

00:35:47.760 --> 00:35:48.400
 as Solomon

00:35:48.400 --> 00:35:49.159
 was,

00:35:50.380 --> 00:35:50.800
 the Lord

00:35:50.800 --> 00:35:51.719
 Jesus Christ

00:35:51.719 --> 00:35:52.960
 is far

00:35:52.960 --> 00:35:53.599
 wiser,

00:35:54.260 --> 00:35:54.880
 for he is

00:35:54.880 --> 00:35:55.260
 the Son

00:35:55.260 --> 00:35:55.780
 of God.

00:35:56.980 --> 00:35:57.719
 The wisest

00:35:57.719 --> 00:35:58.300
 thing that

00:35:58.300 --> 00:35:59.240
 any person

00:35:59.240 --> 00:35:59.679
 can ever

00:35:59.679 --> 00:36:01.559
 do is to

00:36:01.559 --> 00:36:02.000
 give their

00:36:02.000 --> 00:36:02.460
 life,

00:36:02.480 --> 00:36:02.900
 to Jesus

00:36:02.900 --> 00:36:03.460
 Christ,

00:36:04.099 --> 00:36:04.659
 in total

00:36:04.659 --> 00:36:05.240
 surrender,

00:36:06.320 --> 00:36:07.099
 trusting him

00:36:07.099 --> 00:36:08.039
 as Savior

00:36:08.039 --> 00:36:09.119
 and Lord.

00:36:10.400 --> 00:36:10.820
 Have you

00:36:10.820 --> 00:36:11.380
 done that?

00:36:12.380 --> 00:36:13.039
 If you

00:36:13.039 --> 00:36:13.380
 haven't,

00:36:13.440 --> 00:36:13.760
 would you

00:36:13.760 --> 00:36:14.559
 like to?

00:36:17.199 --> 00:36:18.219
 You can,

00:36:18.320 --> 00:36:18.679
 if you will

00:36:18.679 --> 00:36:19.079
 do like

00:36:19.079 --> 00:36:19.980
 Solomon there

00:36:19.980 --> 00:36:20.940
 and admit

00:36:20.940 --> 00:36:21.820
 your need,

00:36:22.940 --> 00:36:23.619
 admit your

00:36:23.619 --> 00:36:24.260
 sin,

00:36:25.880 --> 00:36:26.500
 turn from

00:36:26.500 --> 00:36:26.659
 that,

00:36:26.740 --> 00:36:27.199
 change your

00:36:27.199 --> 00:36:27.699
 mind about

00:36:27.699 --> 00:36:28.300
 living that

00:36:28.300 --> 00:36:28.579
 way.

00:36:29.780 --> 00:36:30.460
 Put your

00:36:30.460 --> 00:36:30.920
 faith in

00:36:30.920 --> 00:36:31.340
 Jesus,

00:36:31.800 --> 00:36:32.079
 that as

00:36:32.079 --> 00:36:32.579
 God's

00:36:32.579 --> 00:36:32.819
 Son,

00:36:32.880 --> 00:36:33.219
 he came

00:36:33.219 --> 00:36:33.619
 into this

00:36:33.619 --> 00:36:34.019
 world,

00:36:34.460 --> 00:36:34.819
 lived a

00:36:34.819 --> 00:36:35.159
 perfect

00:36:35.159 --> 00:36:35.739
 life,

00:36:36.340 --> 00:36:37.480
 obeyed God

00:36:37.480 --> 00:36:38.880
 with no

00:36:38.880 --> 00:36:39.460
 flaws.

00:36:41.039 --> 00:36:41.579
 Then he

00:36:41.579 --> 00:36:42.099
 died on the

00:36:42.099 --> 00:36:42.559
 cross,

00:36:43.000 --> 00:36:44.139
 according to

00:36:44.139 --> 00:36:45.900
 God's purpose

00:36:45.900 --> 00:36:46.219
 from the

00:36:46.219 --> 00:36:46.759
 foundation of

00:36:46.759 --> 00:36:47.139
 the world,

00:36:47.719 --> 00:36:48.219
 he died on

00:36:48.219 --> 00:36:48.860
 the cross to

00:36:48.860 --> 00:36:49.099
 pay the

00:36:49.099 --> 00:36:49.799
 penalty for

00:36:49.799 --> 00:36:50.480
 your sins

00:36:50.480 --> 00:36:50.819
 if you'll

00:36:50.819 --> 00:36:51.299
 trust him.

00:36:52.460 --> 00:36:53.340
 Think about

00:36:53.340 --> 00:36:54.159
 him dying as

00:36:54.159 --> 00:36:55.380
 your substitute,

00:36:56.259 --> 00:36:56.739
 taking your

00:36:56.739 --> 00:36:57.119
 sin upon

00:36:57.119 --> 00:36:57.539
 himself,

00:36:57.980 --> 00:36:58.539
 experiencing the

00:36:58.539 --> 00:36:59.079
 punishment you

00:36:59.079 --> 00:36:59.400
 should have

00:36:59.400 --> 00:37:00.079
 experienced.

00:37:00.619 --> 00:37:01.279
 If you'll

00:37:01.279 --> 00:37:02.579
 trust him

00:37:02.579 --> 00:37:03.940
 and what he

00:37:03.940 --> 00:37:04.319
 did that

00:37:04.319 --> 00:37:05.659
 way and

00:37:05.659 --> 00:37:06.079
 call upon

00:37:06.079 --> 00:37:06.500
 him to

00:37:06.500 --> 00:37:06.980
 save you,

00:37:07.219 --> 00:37:07.860
 he will.

00:37:08.759 --> 00:37:09.239
 God will

00:37:09.239 --> 00:37:09.779
 forgive you

00:37:09.779 --> 00:37:10.219
 because the

00:37:10.219 --> 00:37:10.539
 penalty for

00:37:10.539 --> 00:37:10.880
 your sins

00:37:10.880 --> 00:37:11.079
 has been

00:37:11.079 --> 00:37:11.539
 paid in

00:37:11.539 --> 00:37:11.779
 Jesus.

00:37:12.440 --> 00:37:12.980
 God will

00:37:12.980 --> 00:37:13.739
 see you as

00:37:13.739 --> 00:37:14.539
 completely

00:37:14.539 --> 00:37:15.279
 right with

00:37:15.279 --> 00:37:15.880
 him because

00:37:15.880 --> 00:37:16.380
 of the

00:37:16.380 --> 00:37:16.799
 righteousness

00:37:16.799 --> 00:37:17.519
 of Jesus.

00:37:19.519 --> 00:37:20.019
 If you

00:37:20.019 --> 00:37:20.360
 don't know

00:37:20.360 --> 00:37:20.599
 him as

00:37:20.599 --> 00:37:20.900
 your Lord

00:37:20.900 --> 00:37:21.259
 and Savior,

00:37:21.420 --> 00:37:22.059
 I encourage

00:37:22.059 --> 00:37:22.319
 you,

00:37:23.199 --> 00:37:23.699
 right now,

00:37:23.779 --> 00:37:24.460
 the wisest

00:37:24.460 --> 00:37:24.960
 thing that

00:37:24.960 --> 00:37:25.299
 you could

00:37:25.299 --> 00:37:26.900
 do would

00:37:26.900 --> 00:37:27.360
 be to

00:37:27.360 --> 00:37:28.240
 call upon

00:37:28.240 --> 00:37:28.840
 Jesus for

00:37:28.840 --> 00:37:29.539
 your salvation.

00:37:30.900 --> 00:37:31.180
 But I

00:37:31.180 --> 00:37:31.420
 know that

00:37:31.420 --> 00:37:32.119
 Jesus Christ

00:37:32.119 --> 00:37:32.539
 is the

00:37:32.539 --> 00:37:32.940
 Lord and

00:37:32.940 --> 00:37:33.579
 Savior of

00:37:33.579 --> 00:37:35.059
 most people

00:37:35.059 --> 00:37:35.400
 in this

00:37:35.400 --> 00:37:35.680
 room,

00:37:36.680 --> 00:37:37.760
 but what I

00:37:37.760 --> 00:37:38.180
 want to ask

00:37:38.180 --> 00:37:38.700
 you is,

00:37:39.440 --> 00:37:39.880
 are you

00:37:39.880 --> 00:37:40.440
 looking to

00:37:40.440 --> 00:37:41.280
 him seriously

00:37:41.280 --> 00:37:43.019
 day by

00:37:43.019 --> 00:37:44.800
 day and

00:37:44.800 --> 00:37:45.500
 asking him

00:37:45.500 --> 00:37:45.920
 to give you

00:37:45.920 --> 00:37:46.460
 the wisdom

00:37:46.460 --> 00:37:46.840
 that you

00:37:46.840 --> 00:37:49.200
 need for

00:37:49.200 --> 00:37:49.700
 the day,

00:37:50.340 --> 00:37:51.220
 for the

00:37:51.220 --> 00:37:51.680
 family,

00:37:52.240 --> 00:37:53.019
 for the

00:37:53.019 --> 00:37:53.400
 workplace,

00:37:53.639 --> 00:37:54.360
 for school?

00:37:55.539 --> 00:37:55.840
 Are you

00:37:55.840 --> 00:37:56.320
 looking to

00:37:56.320 --> 00:37:56.740
 him to give

00:37:56.739 --> 00:37:56.959
 you the

00:37:56.959 --> 00:37:57.419
 wisdom you

00:37:57.419 --> 00:37:58.199
 need to

00:37:58.199 --> 00:37:58.979
 live like

00:37:58.979 --> 00:38:00.399
 a child

00:38:00.399 --> 00:38:00.979
 of God

00:38:00.979 --> 00:38:03.079
 in a

00:38:03.079 --> 00:38:04.179
 hard world

00:38:04.179 --> 00:38:06.399
 and really

00:38:06.399 --> 00:38:07.559
 be salt

00:38:07.559 --> 00:38:08.839
 and light?

00:38:09.559 --> 00:38:10.259
 If you're

00:38:10.259 --> 00:38:10.839
 not asking

00:38:10.839 --> 00:38:11.159
 him,

00:38:11.659 --> 00:38:12.879
 why not?

00:38:13.139 --> 00:38:13.619
 And what

00:38:13.619 --> 00:38:13.939
 would you

00:38:13.939 --> 00:38:14.319
 need to

00:38:14.319 --> 00:38:14.959
 change in

00:38:14.959 --> 00:38:15.500
 order to

00:38:15.500 --> 00:38:16.599
 start asking

00:38:16.599 --> 00:38:16.919
 him?

00:38:18.359 --> 00:38:18.939
 You know,

00:38:18.979 --> 00:38:19.319
 if there's

00:38:19.319 --> 00:38:19.879
 sin in your

00:38:19.879 --> 00:38:20.199
 life,

00:38:20.239 --> 00:38:20.599
 if there's

00:38:20.599 --> 00:38:21.199
 something in

00:38:21.199 --> 00:38:21.599
 your life

00:38:21.599 --> 00:38:21.939
 that you're

00:38:21.939 --> 00:38:23.119
 just bowing

00:38:23.119 --> 00:38:23.379
 up,

00:38:23.500 --> 00:38:23.779
 rebelling

00:38:23.779 --> 00:38:24.479
 against God

00:38:24.479 --> 00:38:25.659
 about before

00:38:25.659 --> 00:38:26.239
 anything ever

00:38:26.239 --> 00:38:26.699
 changes,

00:38:26.879 --> 00:38:27.299
 you've got to

00:38:27.299 --> 00:38:28.019
 confess that,

00:38:28.319 --> 00:38:28.759
 you've got to

00:38:28.759 --> 00:38:29.219
 repent of

00:38:29.219 --> 00:38:29.500
 that.

00:38:29.779 --> 00:38:30.159
 If there's

00:38:30.159 --> 00:38:30.679
 some priorities

00:38:30.679 --> 00:38:31.059
 in your

00:38:31.059 --> 00:38:31.479
 life that

00:38:31.479 --> 00:38:31.759
 you know

00:38:31.759 --> 00:38:32.079
 are not

00:38:32.079 --> 00:38:32.500
 right,

00:38:34.059 --> 00:38:35.199
 you've got to

00:38:35.199 --> 00:38:35.819
 admit that to

00:38:35.819 --> 00:38:36.359
 God and ask

00:38:36.359 --> 00:38:36.799
 him to help

00:38:36.799 --> 00:38:37.059
 you to

00:38:37.059 --> 00:38:37.779
 rearrange those

00:38:37.779 --> 00:38:38.319
 priorities.

00:38:39.919 --> 00:38:40.619
 But I want

00:38:40.619 --> 00:38:40.979
 to encourage

00:38:40.979 --> 00:38:41.559
 you now,

00:38:43.559 --> 00:38:44.299
 respond to

00:38:44.299 --> 00:38:45.459
 God in

00:38:45.459 --> 00:38:46.079
 loving

00:38:46.079 --> 00:38:48.759
 obedience as

00:38:48.759 --> 00:38:49.319
 he shows

00:38:49.319 --> 00:38:50.839
 you how he

00:38:50.839 --> 00:38:51.559
 wants you to

00:38:51.559 --> 00:38:53.579
 respond to

00:38:53.579 --> 00:38:54.139
 this message

00:38:54.139 --> 00:38:56.179
 about developing

00:38:56.179 --> 00:38:56.860
 the kind of

00:38:56.860 --> 00:38:59.039
 wisdom that

00:38:59.039 --> 00:38:59.679
 Solomon did.

00:39:00.099 --> 00:39:00.559
 Would you

00:39:00.559 --> 00:39:01.099
 pray with me?

00:39:01.719 --> 00:39:02.179
 Dear God,

00:39:03.699 --> 00:39:06.779
 help us to

00:39:06.779 --> 00:39:07.219
 see in

00:39:07.219 --> 00:39:07.639
 Solomon,

00:39:07.799 --> 00:39:08.539
 not someone

00:39:08.539 --> 00:39:08.980
 that we're

00:39:08.980 --> 00:39:09.480
 ever going

00:39:09.480 --> 00:39:10.059
 to be,

00:39:12.559 --> 00:39:13.239
 but help us

00:39:13.239 --> 00:39:13.759
 to see in

00:39:13.759 --> 00:39:14.019
 him,

00:39:14.420 --> 00:39:14.699
 Father,

00:39:16.699 --> 00:39:17.659
 someone who

00:39:17.659 --> 00:39:20.880
 had the

00:39:20.880 --> 00:39:21.319
 kind of

00:39:21.320 --> 00:39:21.920
 character,

00:39:22.559 --> 00:39:22.960
 the kind

00:39:22.960 --> 00:39:23.640
 of heart

00:39:23.640 --> 00:39:26.920
 that enabled

00:39:26.920 --> 00:39:27.880
 him to see

00:39:27.880 --> 00:39:28.720
 his need for

00:39:28.720 --> 00:39:30.640
 wisdom and

00:39:30.640 --> 00:39:31.720
 ask for it

00:39:31.720 --> 00:39:33.420
 so that he

00:39:33.420 --> 00:39:34.260
 could use it

00:39:34.260 --> 00:39:35.800
 in a way that

00:39:35.800 --> 00:39:36.420
 would please

00:39:36.420 --> 00:39:37.640
 you and help

00:39:37.640 --> 00:39:38.059
 people.

00:39:40.420 --> 00:39:41.200
 Help us to

00:39:41.200 --> 00:39:41.800
 see, dear God,

00:39:41.880 --> 00:39:44.220
 that we need

00:39:44.220 --> 00:39:44.640
 to be people

00:39:44.640 --> 00:39:45.580
 who love you

00:39:45.580 --> 00:39:46.600
 with all of

00:39:46.600 --> 00:39:47.160
 our heart,

00:39:47.480 --> 00:39:47.860
 soul,

00:39:48.100 --> 00:39:48.480
 mind,

00:39:48.519 --> 00:39:49.200
 and strength.

00:39:51.320 --> 00:39:52.900
 Help us to

00:39:52.900 --> 00:39:53.240
 see that

00:39:53.240 --> 00:39:53.760
 wisdom,

00:39:54.039 --> 00:39:54.400
 like what

00:39:54.400 --> 00:39:54.840
 we're talking

00:39:54.840 --> 00:39:55.180
 about,

00:39:56.300 --> 00:39:56.960
 this gift

00:39:56.960 --> 00:39:57.600
 from you

00:39:57.600 --> 00:39:59.100
 is something

00:39:59.100 --> 00:39:59.440
 that you

00:39:59.440 --> 00:39:59.900
 give to

00:39:59.900 --> 00:40:00.700
 your children.

00:40:02.840 --> 00:40:03.480
 It's a

00:40:03.480 --> 00:40:04.220
 loving gift.

00:40:06.460 --> 00:40:07.080
 Help us,

00:40:07.280 --> 00:40:07.340
 Father,

00:40:07.460 --> 00:40:09.039
 to desire it,

00:40:09.440 --> 00:40:10.300
 to ask for

00:40:10.300 --> 00:40:10.519
 it.

00:40:11.559 --> 00:40:12.180
 Help us,

00:40:12.300 --> 00:40:12.400
 Father,

00:40:12.500 --> 00:40:13.340
 to desire it

00:40:13.340 --> 00:40:13.920
 and ask for

00:40:13.920 --> 00:40:14.480
 it because we

00:40:14.480 --> 00:40:15.300
 want to please

00:40:15.300 --> 00:40:15.900
 you in how

00:40:15.900 --> 00:40:16.559
 we use it,

00:40:16.780 --> 00:40:17.200
 and we want

00:40:17.200 --> 00:40:17.880
 to be a

00:40:17.880 --> 00:40:18.320
 value.

00:40:19.440 --> 00:40:20.160
 We want to

00:40:20.159 --> 00:40:21.099
 be a

00:40:21.099 --> 00:40:21.759
 blessing to

00:40:21.759 --> 00:40:23.139
 people by

00:40:23.139 --> 00:40:23.500
 the way that

00:40:23.500 --> 00:40:24.239
 we use it.

00:40:26.940 --> 00:40:27.759
 In attitude of

00:40:27.759 --> 00:40:27.940
 prayer,

00:40:28.039 --> 00:40:28.500
 you just listen

00:40:28.500 --> 00:40:28.779
 to the Lord

00:40:28.779 --> 00:40:29.440
 and respond to

00:40:29.440 --> 00:40:29.639
 Him.

00:40:30.679 --> 00:40:31.420
 If I could pray

00:40:31.420 --> 00:40:31.940
 for you during

00:40:31.940 --> 00:40:32.279
 this time,

00:40:32.339 --> 00:40:32.719
 I'll be here at

00:40:32.719 --> 00:40:33.099
 the front and

00:40:33.099 --> 00:40:33.659
 be happy to do

00:40:33.659 --> 00:40:33.920
 that.

00:40:35.259 --> 00:40:35.799
 Let's just be

00:40:35.799 --> 00:40:36.519
 still and quiet

00:40:36.519 --> 00:40:37.079
 before the Lord

00:40:37.079 --> 00:40:38.159
 and then respond

00:40:38.159 --> 00:40:38.480
 to Him.