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 Let's pray.

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 Lord, we come to you hungry.

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 We come to you confessing our need to be nourished by your word.

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 We come realizing we haven't been in your word much this last week or month or year.

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 So we're grateful to be here together with all your people, to be nourished together.

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 So Lord, I ask that you would forgive the sins of the speaker this morning.

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 I ask that you would work through his weakness, that you, Lord, would shine, that we would see Jesus and Jesus alone.

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 And this we ask, Lord, in his name.

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 Amen.

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 So we made it.

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 We made it to the last chapter of 2 Corinthians.

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 It wasn't guaranteed that we'd finish this sermon series.

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 You know, we did a sermon series on the seven deadly sins once, and we only did six.

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 We also did a sermon series on every verse of Psalm 23 and only made it through verse 5.

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 The summer has a thing with our sermon series, but this one survived.

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 We're in chapter 13, and I'm really excited.

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 Before we begin, though, I'd like to take some time to reflect.

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 Let's take a moment of silence to meditate.

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 In the middle of this chapter of 13 of 2 Corinthians, in verse 5, you heard Caleb read,

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 Do you not realize that Christ Jesus is in you?

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 So I'd like you to think about that.

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 Ask yourself, or imagine Paul, the Apostle Paul, asking that of you, of the Church of the Advent.

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 Do you not realize that Christ Jesus is in you?

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 So take a moment to reflect on that.

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 Now reflect on this.

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 If Jesus is in you, how is that evident to those around you?

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 If Jesus is in you, how evident is that to those around you?

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 I'm going to come back to address that question and perhaps some of the answers that might be ringing around our minds.

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 In this final chapter of 2 Corinthians, we see the coming together of a couple different threads in this letter.

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 So before we look at this closing chapter, I'd like to do a review of the whole letter.

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 I'd like us to walk away with a good understanding of what Paul is saying in this letter to the Corinthians.

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 Now in Acts 18, we read how Paul founded the church in Corinth.

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 Now after Paul leaves, he gets word that everything in the church in Corinth has gone pear-shaped,

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 which prompts him to write, we believe, two letters,

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 the first of which is lost to us,

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 the second of which is the book of 1 Corinthians.

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 That letter isn't received well by some in the church,

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 and they reject Paul and his authority.

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 So then Paul returns to Corinth,

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 and later he would call this return to the city of Corinth and to the church there,

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 the painful visit.

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 And then he followed up that visit with another letter that's been lost to us.

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 Many but not all in the church respond well to that letter and to his visit.

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 And so Paul writes a fourth letter,

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 and that's the letter of 2 Corinthians.

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 He writes them that they were grieved into repenting.

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 He writes to affirm his love for them.

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 In this letter, we learn that one of the reasons that Paul was originally rejected by the church,

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 and why several still reject him,

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 is that he did not match their idea of greatness.

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 Paul was humble in appearance.

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 He was poor.

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 He made his living through manual labor.

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 He was not a very dynamic public speaker, interestingly.

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 And the Corinthians were more attracted to some speakers,

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 some Christian speakers that came later.

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 These speakers were wealthier, eloquent.

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 They were more charismatic than Paul.

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 And to the minds of the Corinthians,

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 surely this means that the power of God is in these speakers.

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 Well, Paul makes it very clear that status is not indicative of God's power.

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 Quite the opposite, Paul's job was not to be impressive,

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 but to point to the one who is, and that is King Jesus.

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 So in 2 Corinthians, Paul then several,

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 he spends several chapters unpacking the paradox of the cross.

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 Christ's glory and his kingship were on display as he suffered and was executed on the cross.

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 The cross provided salvation and revealed God's character

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 and provided the pattern for Christian living,

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 which too is paradoxical.

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 We live through dying.

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 He then challenges the Corinthian church on another matter.

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 Paul had been raising funds for the church in Jerusalem.

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 There was a famine there which had brought poverty to the Christians in Jerusalem.

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 But the church in Corinth had failed to save up enough to give to this offering.

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 So Paul cites this as another example of how the Corinthians were not getting the upside-down gospel.

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 Now, if the church understood that,

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 then surely they would give of their own wealth to help others in need.

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 Lastly, in 2 Corinthians, Paul defends himself.

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 Paul says,

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 You want a resume?

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 I'll give you a resume.

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 I'm a theological expert.

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 I'm a Pharisee, as a matter of fact.

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 I've met the risen Jesus.

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 I have actually been in his heavenly throne room.

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 Yet I don't brag about those things.

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 I boast in my weakness and my flaws.

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 Because when I am weak, then I am strong.

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 For Christ's power is made perfect in my weakness, in my humility, and in my poverty.

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 Paul tells the Corinthians that his own weakness and humility were demonstrations of his authority.

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 And so we come to chapter 13.

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 Paul has told them that he's coming for a third time.

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 He's warning them.

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 We read in chapter 12,

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 I fear that when I come again, I may have to mourn over many of those who sinned earlier

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 and have not repented of the impurity, sexual immorality, and sensuality that they have practiced.

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 And then we read in chapter 13, verse 3,

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 that there may still be some who resist his authority.

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 So some are being immoral.

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 Some are resisting his authority.

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 And so on this visit, he says he's not going to spare them.

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 He's talking about excommunication.

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 So I thought in looking at chapter 13,

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 that one of our goals like this morning

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 could be to walk away from here with an understanding of what excommunication is.

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 Because it's not something you hear from the pulpit very often, right?

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 But it's something that we actually do practice at Church of the Advent.

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 I think we should talk about it a bit

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 because some of us grew up in churches where that was practiced.

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 Some of us grew up in churches where it wasn't practiced.

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 And perhaps the word excommunication sounds like some kind of cultural relic from the medieval church.

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 Some of us didn't grow up in church at all.

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 And this is brand new to you.

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 And it sounds actually somewhat intolerant and even hateful.

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 So let's talk through it.

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 And then we're going to observe three things about excommunication

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 as Paul exercises it.

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 And then we're just going to wrap up our sermon series on 2 Corinthians.

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 Okay?

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 So let's first define excommunication.

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 And this sounds rather, I guess, scholastic.

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 I don't know.

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 Or heady.

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 But let's pray that God could use this in our lives and in our minds this morning.

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 One could say that excommunication is the final step of a process of discipline

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 undertaken to correct sin in the life of a church member,

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 ultimately resulting in the barring of a person from receiving communion.

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 It is not shunning.

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 Excommunication isn't canceling.

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 And the goal of excommunication is repentance and restoration of a person

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 to full fellowship with the church.

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 Now, the primary thing to note is that Jesus commanded us to practice this.

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 In chapter 18, he commanded his church to exercise discipline.

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 In Matthew chapter 18, which we heard Jeff read earlier,

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 he gives his 12 disciples, his church,

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 a series of steps to undertake should one sin against another.

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 So we're just going to walk through these steps, okay?

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 Okay, the first step, as we read in chapter 18, Adam, there we go.

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 The first step is to point out the offense to the offender, one-on-one.

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 This is why, for someone to approach me or Tommy, and this happens,

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 or another clergy, and they were to say,

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 hey, such and such person I've noticed is doing this thing or that thing,

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 and I think you should talk to them.

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 And our first response will always be,

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 well, have you approached them?

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 And a lot of the time we hear, no, no.

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 But this first step is important

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 because it's not the responsibility of the clergy

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 to monitor and check the behavior of everyone in the congregation, right?

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 It's the responsibility of the whole church

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 to encourage one another,

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 to rescue one another,

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 should someone fall into sin.

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 Now, the second step,

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 if the offender refuses to repent,

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 then the offended party is to approach the offender again,

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 this time with one or two witnesses.

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 It's interesting that both Jesus in Matthew 18

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 and Paul in 2 Corinthians 13,

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 quote Deuteronomy 19.15,

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 that a matter must be established

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 by the testimony of two or three witnesses.

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 Both Jesus and Paul are invoking a courtroom principle

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 from ancient Israel.

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 Matters in the church,

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 if they are to be handled in love,

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 are to be handled with due process.

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 And they must be handled orderly and fairly.

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 Now, you may find,

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 if you are in this process

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 and you bring with yourself one or two witnesses,

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 that those witnesses are going to see things that you don't see.

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 And perhaps blame is to be shared,

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 or perhaps that other person isn't in the wrong after all,

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 and that you're being too critical.

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 But if the witnesses agree with you,

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 and if the offender is still not repenting,

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 then Jesus says the third step would be

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 to bring it to the church.

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 In our context,

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 it would mean bringing it before those who are in authority,

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 which would be the rector, Tommy,

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 the other clergy,

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 acting in concert with our parish council,

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 and if necessary,

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 with a parish response team

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 to investigate serious charges.

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 The job of the parish response team

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 is to take the personal judgment and biases of the clergy

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 out of the equation

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 to do a fair investigation

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 and to present the clergy

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 with a dispassionate assessment of the facts.

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 Now, the facts indicate

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 that there's still unrepentant sin,

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 and if the offender remains unrepentant,

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 Jesus says to let him be to you

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 as a Gentile and a tax collector.

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 In other words,

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 treat him or her as if they weren't a Christian.

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 That is, the person is to be barred from this table.

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 Now, were this to happen at Advent,

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 the person would certainly still be welcome

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 and even encouraged to come every Sunday

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 to sit under the teaching,

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 to participate in the prayers.

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 It also doesn't mean shunning.

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 That's not what we're talking about.

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 We're still called to love this person,

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 which would mean sharing meals,

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 spending time with them,

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 engaging in an honest conversation with them,

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 though that conversation would

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 and probably should look and sound a bit different

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 as before.

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 But being barred from the table

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 is a serious thing.

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 Just as baptism and communion

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 are visible signs to us

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 that we are in union with God

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 and members of God's family,

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 barring from the table

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 is also a visible sign

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 that we are outside of God's family

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 and the state of our souls

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 is in jeopardy.

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 Now, that might feel like

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 a lot of power to be wielded by the church.

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 Yes.

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 Yes, it is.

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 And Jesus commands this.

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 He goes on in chapter 18,

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 Now, many of you are familiar

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 with that last verse, right?

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 But most of us have heard it

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 taken out of context.

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 Jesus doesn't mean that

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 whenever you gather for, like,

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 a Bible study or a prayer group

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 with two or three or more,

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 then I'm going to suddenly appear

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 as if I hadn't been there before.

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 Jesus is equally there

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 as He was when you were alone.

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 What Jesus is saying here

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 is that when you as a church

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 make decisions in regard to discipline,

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 I have your back.

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 From my throne in heaven

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 and through the Holy Spirit

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 that I have sent to guide you,

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 I'm going to ratify your decisions

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 when you exercise church discipline

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 in obedience to God's Word.

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 This is the first of three things

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 that I'd like to observe

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 about Paul's discussion

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 of discipline in the church in Corinth.

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 is that the means of church discipline

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 is Christ's resurrection power.

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 So the means of discipline

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 is Christ's power.

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 This resurrection power

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 is on display in acts of discipline

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 and judgment.

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 It's this power that Paul anticipates

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 will be on display

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 when he visits the Corinthians.

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 He says,

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 you seek proof of my authority.

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 Well, I've already demonstrated it

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 with my own suffering,

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 but now I'm going to come with discipline,

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 which is the very exercise of authority

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 that Jesus gave to His church

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 and is evidence of the risen Jesus

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 acting in power among His people.

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 The second thing to observe

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 in 2 Corinthians 13

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 is the motive of church discipline,

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 which is love.

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 The means of discipline is God's power.

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 The motive of discipline is love.

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 Paul writes in chapter 2 of 2 Corinthians,

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 for I wrote to you out of much affliction

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 and anguish of heart

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 and with many tears,

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 not to cause you pain,

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 but to let you know the abundant love

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 that I have for you.

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 This love for individuals

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 and for the church

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 is what motivates Paul's discipline.

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 Now, the third thing to notice

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 about Paul's discipline

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 is the goal.

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 So the means is Christ's power.

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 The motive is love.

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 And the goal is restoration.

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 It's not ultimately punishment.

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 It's not the solidifying

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 of our insider status

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 by othering somebody else.

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 The goal is to win back

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 our brother or sister.

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 Jesus told us to engage

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 in the four steps of church discipline

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 to gain our brother.

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 James chapter 5 says,

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 My brothers,

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 if anyone among you

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 wanders from the truth

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 and someone were to bring him back,

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 let him know that

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 whoever brings back a sinner

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 from his wandering

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 will save his soul from death

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 and will cover a multitude of sins.

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 And it's why Paul concludes

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 his letter the way he does.

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 He has peace and restoration in mind

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 when he writes

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 at the end of the chapter.

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 And listen for like the rich tapestry

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 of deep connected relationships.

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 Finally, brothers, rejoice.

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 Aim for restoration.

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 Comfort one another.

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 Agree with one another.

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 Live in peace.

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 And the God of love and peace

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 will be with you.

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 Greet one another with a holy kiss.

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 All the saints greet you.

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 The grace of the Lord Jesus Christ

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 and the love of God

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 and the fellowship of the Holy Spirit

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 be with you all.

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 So that wraps up 2 Corinthians.

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 And I thought we could end

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 our study of the book

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 by meditating on its main theme,

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 which is the paradox

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 of power through weakness.

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 That paradox of power

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 through weakness

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 is demonstrated on the cross

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 as Christ is glorified

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 in his death and suffering.

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 His resurrection only happens

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 because he had to die first.

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 And those who follow Jesus

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 experience that resurrection power

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 only through dying.

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 Dying to our sins.

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 Dying to our preferences.

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 Dying to our comforts.

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 So let's go back

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 to the question I asked

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 at the beginning.

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 If Jesus is in you,

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 then how evident is that

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 to those around you?

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 And I have to confess

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 it was a trick question

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 because I kind of knew

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 what you were going to think

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 or most of us were going to think.

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 And it's the thing that I think.

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 When I think,

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 how is Jesus in me?

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 Is that evident to people around me?

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 I think of either the things

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 that I did.

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 Oh, see,

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 like my excellence

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 is somehow like pointing to Jesus,

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 right,

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 and his goodness.

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 Or,

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 I think of my failures.

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 Like,

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 ah,

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 people aren't seeing Jesus

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 because of my failures.

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 The way I've messed up.

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 So no,

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 Jesus is not on display in my life.

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 Both of those outcomes

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 show that I have a long way to go.

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 That we have a long way to go

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 to understanding grace.

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 To understanding the gospel.

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 If it's true for us,

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 as it was true for Paul,

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 that Christ's power

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 is made perfect in our weakness,

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 then why do we go

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 to such extraordinary lengths

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 to hide our weaknesses?

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 To put forward

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 the best possible image of ourselves?

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 To point to our resumes?

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 To cover up our flaws?

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 I really don't meet

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 any Christian

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 who says,

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 um,

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 I think the world needs more of me

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 and less of Jesus.

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 I mean,

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 like,

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 we often, like,

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 think and act that way.

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 But, like,

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 when really oppressed,

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 no one really says that.

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 That I've met.

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 So,

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 then,

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 when we try to be excellent,

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 because we think it's our excellence

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 that people,

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 that,

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 let me back up.

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 Most Christians I know will say,

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 yes,

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 I want the world to see less of me

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 and more of Christ.

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 And then,

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 because of that,

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 we try to be excellent.

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 Because we think

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 that excellence

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 points people to Jesus.

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 And we think our weaknesses

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 get in the way of that.

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 Now,

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 how do I know that?

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 It's because of the way

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 we talk about it.

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 Like,

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 the language we use.

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 We always say stuff like,

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 God worked in spite of me.

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 Or,

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 He worked in spite of this part of my life.

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 Or,

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 He worked despite this part of me.

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 As if my weaknesses

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 were something for God to overcome.

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 Right?

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 That they were some kind of obstacle

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 that God needed to break through.

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 That God had to

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 begrudgingly trudge

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 through the muck of my flaws.

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 And listen,

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 God's omnipotent.

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 The reason He works,

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 quote unquote,

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 in spite of my weaknesses

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 is because He loves it.

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 It's His jam.

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 He's not put off by our flaws.

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 Our flaws are actually arrows

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 in His quiver.

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 Let me put it this way.

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 And this is something I heard

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 Paul Tripp say earlier.

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 My weakness

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 is the playground

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 for God's grace.

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 My weakness

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 is the playground

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 for God's grace.

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 So that's so cool.

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 If our weaknesses

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 are the playground

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 for God's grace,

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 then why are we embarrassed

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 about them?

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 Why do we try to hide them?

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 Or try to minimize them?

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 I mean,

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 it's our weakness

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 and flaws

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 that we should be putting forward,

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 right?

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 If God delights

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 in displaying His power

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 through our weaknesses,

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 shouldn't they then be

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 indirectly a source

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 of our joy?

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 We should say,

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 God,

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 you're actually

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 drawn to this part of me,

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 and I would like the world

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 to know how this part of me

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 makes me need you,

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 reliant on you.

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 I'd like the world

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 to know that I believe

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 you're crazy about me,

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 despite,

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 or with,

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 all my flaws,

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 despite my besetting sins.

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 Now hear me,

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 this is not a technique.

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 I mean,

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 I read almost every day

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 it feels like

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 a blogger

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 who has a self-deprecating

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 sense of humor,

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 blah, blah, blah.

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 This is not that.

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 This is your flaws

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 being what serves

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 as a doorway

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 to a deeper connection

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 with God,

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 and as a result,

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 others' connection

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 with God,

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 because it's those flaws

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 that God was drawn to

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 in the first place.

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 Now how exactly

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 do you do that?

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 How do you

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 display your weaknesses?

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 I think that's something

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 that you,

00:23:45.879 --> 00:23:46.439
 with wisdom,

00:23:46.899 --> 00:23:47.839
 need to work out

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 as part of,

00:23:48.359 --> 00:23:48.519
 like,

00:23:48.559 --> 00:23:49.359
 your discipleship.

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 Perhaps,

00:23:52.339 --> 00:23:52.659
 for now,

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 it's just meeting

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 with a small group

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 of friends,

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 regularly,

00:23:56.179 --> 00:23:56.959
 with whom you can

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 be completely transparent,

00:23:58.740 --> 00:23:59.519
 who will love you

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 and hold you accountable

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 and pray for you.

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 Perhaps it's making

00:24:04.539 --> 00:24:05.219
 the decision,

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 if you're a leader,

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 that instead of obscuring

00:24:08.899 --> 00:24:09.899
 your need for grace,

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 which only keeps

00:24:11.639 --> 00:24:12.279
 your followers

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 at arm's length

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 and subverts their trust

00:24:14.759 --> 00:24:15.699
 and steals their energy

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 and creativity,

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 perhaps as a leader,

00:24:17.759 --> 00:24:19.500
 you could confess

00:24:19.500 --> 00:24:20.679
 in real time

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 how much you mess up.

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 And in doing so,

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 your character

00:24:25.819 --> 00:24:27.419
 is transformed

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 and your followers

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 follow you

00:24:29.959 --> 00:24:31.500
 instead of out of fear,

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 but in creativity

00:24:33.599 --> 00:24:34.439
 and joy

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 and openness

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 and flexibility.

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 So those are two ways.

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 I'd like to share

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 something a friend

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 of mine did.

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 His name is Ted.

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 And this week,

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 he posted something

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 on CaringBridge.

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 I don't know if you know

00:24:47.360 --> 00:24:48.039
 CaringBridge.

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 It's a site where you

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 post,

00:24:50.000 --> 00:24:51.200
 like,

00:24:51.360 --> 00:24:52.460
 a very serious

00:24:52.460 --> 00:24:53.599
 medical condition.

00:24:54.220 --> 00:24:55.279
 People can follow along

00:24:55.279 --> 00:24:57.279
 and keep track

00:24:57.279 --> 00:24:58.360
 of your progress,

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 make donations,

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 et cetera.

00:25:06.220 --> 00:25:08.240
 This is what Ted did.

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 And to me,

00:25:11.099 --> 00:25:12.059
 this is a great example

00:25:12.059 --> 00:25:12.859
 of putting one's

00:25:12.859 --> 00:25:13.660
 weakness forward.

00:25:15.200 --> 00:25:16.059
 He writes,

00:25:16.119 --> 00:25:16.700
 he starts

00:25:16.700 --> 00:25:17.400
 a CaringBridge

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 for himself

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 and he writes,

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 I want to be honest.

00:25:21.519 --> 00:25:22.440
 I've been closer

00:25:22.440 --> 00:25:23.019
 to death

00:25:23.019 --> 00:25:23.920
 than I've let on.

00:25:25.200 --> 00:25:26.519
 I'm doing really well.

00:25:26.619 --> 00:25:27.500
 I'm not suicidal,

00:25:27.859 --> 00:25:28.859
 but I have been

00:25:28.859 --> 00:25:29.480
 at times

00:25:29.480 --> 00:25:30.960
 over the last three years.

00:25:32.259 --> 00:25:33.539
 Anxiety and depression

00:25:33.539 --> 00:25:34.819
 seem like opposites,

00:25:35.420 --> 00:25:36.740
 but they often

00:25:36.740 --> 00:25:37.359
 mix together

00:25:37.359 --> 00:25:38.339
 to create an empty,

00:25:38.480 --> 00:25:38.980
 nauseous,

00:25:39.420 --> 00:25:40.140
 hollow feeling

00:25:40.140 --> 00:25:40.859
 of freefall.

00:25:42.000 --> 00:25:42.220
 Now,

00:25:42.240 --> 00:25:42.799
 if you add to that

00:25:42.799 --> 00:25:43.680
 marital conflict,

00:25:44.299 --> 00:25:45.019
 a sense of failure

00:25:45.019 --> 00:25:45.660
 in parenting,

00:25:46.180 --> 00:25:47.220
 or a perfect storm

00:25:47.220 --> 00:25:48.079
 of stressors,

00:25:49.579 --> 00:25:50.420
 ending it all

00:25:50.420 --> 00:25:51.119
 can seem

00:25:51.119 --> 00:25:53.660
 surprisingly attractive.

00:25:55.799 --> 00:25:57.200
 The Apostle Paul,

00:25:57.299 --> 00:25:58.200
 this is Ted writing,

00:25:59.099 --> 00:26:00.400
 the Apostle Paul

00:26:00.400 --> 00:26:01.660
 was at times

00:26:01.660 --> 00:26:02.700
 under great pressure,

00:26:03.600 --> 00:26:04.360
 far beyond

00:26:04.360 --> 00:26:04.940
 his ability

00:26:04.940 --> 00:26:05.540
 to endure,

00:26:06.980 --> 00:26:08.460
 and despaired

00:26:08.460 --> 00:26:09.860
 even of life itself.

00:26:10.000 --> 00:26:10.360
 That's from

00:26:10.360 --> 00:26:11.200
 2 Corinthians.

00:26:13.240 --> 00:26:14.200
 He endured

00:26:14.200 --> 00:26:15.340
 far worse suffering

00:26:15.340 --> 00:26:16.100
 than I have,

00:26:16.540 --> 00:26:17.500
 including beatings

00:26:17.500 --> 00:26:18.280
 and imprisonment,

00:26:18.519 --> 00:26:19.380
 hunger and thirst

00:26:19.380 --> 00:26:19.960
 in the desert,

00:26:20.440 --> 00:26:21.420
 and shivering cold

00:26:21.420 --> 00:26:22.280
 while shipwrecked

00:26:22.280 --> 00:26:23.120
 on the open seas.

00:26:23.420 --> 00:26:24.680
 I wonder if it was

00:26:24.680 --> 00:26:25.460
 while clinging

00:26:25.460 --> 00:26:26.400
 to driftwood

00:26:26.400 --> 00:26:26.960
 all night

00:26:26.960 --> 00:26:27.740
 in the Mediterranean

00:26:27.740 --> 00:26:29.480
 that he despaired

00:26:29.480 --> 00:26:29.980
 of life

00:26:29.980 --> 00:26:31.599
 and contemplated

00:26:31.599 --> 00:26:32.460
 just letting go.

00:26:34.579 --> 00:26:35.539
 I wanted to share

00:26:35.539 --> 00:26:36.339
 my health status

00:26:36.339 --> 00:26:37.259
 because it is good

00:26:37.259 --> 00:26:37.819
 for me,

00:26:37.900 --> 00:26:39.019
 and it also may

00:26:39.019 --> 00:26:39.859
 encourage others

00:26:39.859 --> 00:26:40.539
 to know they are

00:26:40.539 --> 00:26:41.099
 not alone.

00:26:41.960 --> 00:26:42.839
 I wanted to share

00:26:42.839 --> 00:26:43.880
 through Caring Bridge

00:26:43.880 --> 00:26:45.120
 to remind others

00:26:45.120 --> 00:26:45.880
 that mental health

00:26:45.880 --> 00:26:46.920
 struggles are as real

00:26:46.920 --> 00:26:47.539
 as cancer,

00:26:47.940 --> 00:26:48.319
 dementia,

00:26:48.839 --> 00:26:49.620
 or kidney failure.

00:26:50.720 --> 00:26:51.799
 As cancer can come

00:26:51.799 --> 00:26:52.380
 out of remission,

00:26:52.519 --> 00:26:53.220
 so too can the

00:26:53.220 --> 00:26:54.200
 darkness of depression.

00:26:55.559 --> 00:26:56.339
 It can overwhelm

00:26:56.339 --> 00:26:56.919
 one's thoughts

00:26:56.919 --> 00:26:57.859
 and blot out

00:26:57.859 --> 00:26:58.759
 any ray of hope.

00:26:59.240 --> 00:27:00.000
 But the main reason

00:27:00.000 --> 00:27:00.740
 I want to share

00:27:00.740 --> 00:27:01.459
 is to testify

00:27:01.459 --> 00:27:02.519
 to God's kindness

00:27:02.519 --> 00:27:03.539
 and loving grace.

00:27:04.679 --> 00:27:05.980
 The very next verse

00:27:05.980 --> 00:27:06.899
 in Paul's letter

00:27:06.899 --> 00:27:08.779
 is one of my favorites.

00:27:09.379 --> 00:27:12.079
 It's 2 Corinthians 1.9.

00:27:13.399 --> 00:27:14.599
 But this happened

00:27:14.599 --> 00:27:15.939
 that we might not

00:27:15.939 --> 00:27:17.019
 rely on ourselves,

00:27:17.339 --> 00:27:18.379
 but on God

00:27:18.379 --> 00:27:19.639
 who raises the dead.

00:27:20.720 --> 00:27:21.679
 One reason churches

00:27:21.679 --> 00:27:22.539
 are so weak today

00:27:22.539 --> 00:27:23.179
 is because most

00:27:23.179 --> 00:27:23.939
 American Christians

00:27:23.939 --> 00:27:25.299
 simply don't need

00:27:25.299 --> 00:27:26.179
 to rely on God.

00:27:26.339 --> 00:27:27.359
 I know I didn't.

00:27:27.679 --> 00:27:28.439
 We can take care

00:27:28.439 --> 00:27:29.579
 of ourselves just fine

00:27:29.579 --> 00:27:31.139
 through prideful self-reliance,

00:27:31.539 --> 00:27:32.679
 distract through entertainment,

00:27:33.099 --> 00:27:33.939
 cushioned with comfort,

00:27:34.500 --> 00:27:35.619
 only we really can't.

00:27:35.980 --> 00:27:37.220
 When we rely on ourselves

00:27:37.220 --> 00:27:38.039
 or other gods

00:27:38.039 --> 00:27:38.639
 of this world,

00:27:39.059 --> 00:27:40.019
 if we are honest,

00:27:40.379 --> 00:27:41.259
 we end up eventually

00:27:41.259 --> 00:27:42.339
 with broken dreams,

00:27:42.839 --> 00:27:43.619
 disillusionment,

00:27:44.059 --> 00:27:44.839
 and even despair.

00:27:46.399 --> 00:27:47.919
 But it is surprisingly

00:27:47.919 --> 00:27:49.659
 God's loving kindness

00:27:49.659 --> 00:27:50.419
 that leads us

00:27:50.419 --> 00:27:51.500
 to turn from trusting

00:27:51.500 --> 00:27:52.720
 in ourselves or others

00:27:52.720 --> 00:27:54.700
 and turn to Him

00:27:54.700 --> 00:27:56.140
 desperately for rescue.

00:27:57.059 --> 00:27:59.059
 That is when God shows up

00:27:59.059 --> 00:28:00.799
 in exciting ways

00:28:00.799 --> 00:28:02.519
 with a refreshing forgiveness

00:28:02.519 --> 00:28:03.539
 through Jesus Christ.

00:28:04.380 --> 00:28:04.900
 Living for Him

00:28:04.900 --> 00:28:06.100
 is so much more exciting

00:28:06.100 --> 00:28:06.960
 than living for me.

00:28:07.600 --> 00:28:08.339
 Many of my goals

00:28:08.339 --> 00:28:08.819
 for my life

00:28:08.819 --> 00:28:09.339
 were pitiful,

00:28:09.759 --> 00:28:10.420
 but His mission

00:28:10.420 --> 00:28:11.160
 and purpose for me

00:28:11.160 --> 00:28:11.799
 are fulfilling

00:28:11.799 --> 00:28:12.839
 and full of hope.

00:28:13.360 --> 00:28:14.360
 My theme of living

00:28:14.360 --> 00:28:15.059
 for eternity

00:28:15.059 --> 00:28:16.380
 is a very real part

00:28:16.380 --> 00:28:16.860
 of that hope

00:28:16.860 --> 00:28:17.600
 and as a result,

00:28:17.700 --> 00:28:18.120
 my health.

00:28:18.119 --> 00:28:19.399
 So no,

00:28:19.479 --> 00:28:20.000
 mental health

00:28:20.000 --> 00:28:21.259
 is not a traditional disease

00:28:21.259 --> 00:28:21.859
 you will find

00:28:21.859 --> 00:28:22.679
 on Caring Bridge,

00:28:23.099 --> 00:28:24.399
 but it can be equally deadly

00:28:24.399 --> 00:28:24.799
 nonetheless.

00:28:25.659 --> 00:28:26.939
 Perhaps this may become

00:28:26.939 --> 00:28:28.599
 an acceptable place

00:28:28.599 --> 00:28:30.319
 for others to open up

00:28:30.319 --> 00:28:31.899
 and share similar struggles.

00:28:32.739 --> 00:28:33.619
 And even if one person

00:28:33.619 --> 00:28:34.099
 does this,

00:28:34.199 --> 00:28:34.819
 my sharing

00:28:34.819 --> 00:28:36.959
 will have been worth it.

00:28:40.059 --> 00:28:41.179
 Do you hear

00:28:41.179 --> 00:28:43.099
 His weakness

00:28:43.099 --> 00:28:44.639
 pointing to Jesus?

00:28:45.759 --> 00:28:47.839
 Do you hear His flaws

00:28:47.839 --> 00:28:48.819
 and His confession

00:28:48.819 --> 00:28:50.980
 pointing to the greatness

00:28:50.980 --> 00:28:51.500
 of Jesus

00:28:51.500 --> 00:28:53.059
 who brings resurrection life?

00:28:54.459 --> 00:28:56.599
 So let this question

00:28:56.599 --> 00:28:58.740
 be a question

00:28:58.740 --> 00:28:59.639
 we meditate on

00:28:59.639 --> 00:29:01.179
 for the rest of the summer

00:29:01.179 --> 00:29:02.179
 coming out of this book

00:29:02.179 --> 00:29:03.000
 of 2 Corinthians.

00:29:04.559 --> 00:29:07.139
 Not how does my excellence

00:29:07.139 --> 00:29:08.679
 display Jesus,

00:29:09.679 --> 00:29:11.500
 but how are my weaknesses

00:29:11.500 --> 00:29:12.859
 a playground

00:29:12.859 --> 00:29:14.000
 for God's grace?

00:29:14.879 --> 00:29:16.459
 How are my weaknesses

00:29:16.460 --> 00:29:18.200
 a playground

00:29:18.200 --> 00:29:19.380
 for God's grace?

00:29:19.819 --> 00:29:20.600
 In the name of the Father

00:29:20.600 --> 00:29:21.500
 and of the Son

00:29:21.500 --> 00:29:22.500
 and of the Holy Spirit.

00:29:23.019 --> 00:29:23.340
 Amen.

00:29:24.000 --> 00:29:24.680
 Let's pray.

00:29:30.180 --> 00:29:30.620
 Lord,

00:29:30.680 --> 00:29:32.100
 as we contemplate

00:29:32.100 --> 00:29:33.360
 Paul

00:29:33.360 --> 00:29:34.460
 and his example

00:29:34.460 --> 00:29:39.640
 and his admonishment,

00:29:39.640 --> 00:29:44.240
 we confess

00:29:44.240 --> 00:29:45.680
 we need help,

00:29:45.840 --> 00:29:46.640
 we need wisdom

00:29:46.640 --> 00:29:49.780
 on how to

00:29:49.780 --> 00:29:51.660
 live with our weaknesses

00:29:51.660 --> 00:29:52.460
 on display.

00:29:54.800 --> 00:29:56.259
 We need courage

00:29:56.259 --> 00:30:01.200
 and ultimately,

00:30:01.720 --> 00:30:02.299
 Lord,

00:30:04.059 --> 00:30:04.940
 inflame

00:30:04.940 --> 00:30:05.980
 our desire,

00:30:06.240 --> 00:30:07.000
 increase our hunger,

00:30:07.440 --> 00:30:07.660
 Jesus,

00:30:07.819 --> 00:30:09.019
 for you to be displayed

00:30:09.019 --> 00:30:10.700
 in our lives

00:30:10.700 --> 00:30:11.579
 through our weakness,

00:30:11.779 --> 00:30:11.920
 Lord.

00:30:12.740 --> 00:30:14.079
 We would seek many

00:30:14.079 --> 00:30:16.240
 to see you,

00:30:16.299 --> 00:30:16.460
 Jesus,

00:30:16.579 --> 00:30:17.319
 to know you,

00:30:18.420 --> 00:30:19.440
 to follow you,

00:30:19.920 --> 00:30:21.640
 to experience you

00:30:21.640 --> 00:30:23.000
 and your saving grace

00:30:23.000 --> 00:30:24.900
 and your love.

00:30:26.799 --> 00:30:27.579
 Make us,

00:30:27.740 --> 00:30:27.839
 Lord,

00:30:27.920 --> 00:30:28.400
 as individuals

00:30:28.400 --> 00:30:29.259
 and as a church,

00:30:30.160 --> 00:30:31.259
 that vehicle

00:30:31.259 --> 00:30:32.119
 for displaying

00:30:32.119 --> 00:30:33.240
 your power

00:30:33.240 --> 00:30:33.740
 and grace.

00:30:34.559 --> 00:30:35.839
 We pray in Jesus' name.

00:30:35.900 --> 00:30:36.079
 Amen.

00:30:36.079 --> 00:30:36.180
 Amen.

00:30:38.740 --> 00:30:39.180
 Amen.

00:30:39.180 --> 00:30:39.240
 Amen.

00:30:39.240 --> 00:30:39.319
 Amen.

00:30:39.319 --> 00:30:39.359
 Amen.

00:30:39.359 --> 00:30:39.380
 Amen.

00:30:39.380 --> 00:30:39.460
 Amen.

00:30:39.460 --> 00:30:39.539
 Amen.

00:30:39.539 --> 00:30:39.619
 Amen.

00:30:39.619 --> 00:30:39.680
 Amen.

00:30:39.680 --> 00:30:39.779
 Amen.

00:30:39.779 --> 00:30:39.880
 Amen.

00:30:39.880 --> 00:30:39.980
 Amen.