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 Good morning, Watermark.

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 That was good, that was good.

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 We're awake this morning.

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 It's great to see you guys here today.

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 I'm going to grab a stool so I can put my water on it.

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 You know, some of you I know really well.

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 Some of you today is my first time ever seeing your face.

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 But regardless of who you are, I know something about you.

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 I know that you want somewhere to belong in life.

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 And I know that because that's very basic to what it means to be a human.

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 We want somewhere to belong.

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 And that desire drives so much of what we do in life.

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 It's why a five-year-old cuddles up against her father on the couch

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 because she knows that with her father in her family is a place where she belongs.

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 It's why a 15-year-old starts to rebel against their parents

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 because they know I want somewhere new to belong

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 and I need to create separation between the place I've always belonged and myself

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 so that I can begin to belong somewhere else.

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 It's why we work crazy long hours at the workplace

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 because we need to prove to our boss that they made the right choice in hiring us

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 and that we belong here.

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 It's why people get married because there's this promise

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 that there's this one person and for the rest of your lives

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 you are going to have at least one person that you will belong with forever.

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 However, this desire to belong is basic to what it means to be a human.

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 Old or young, rich or poor, all of us have this desire to belong somewhere.

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 And today, we're here to celebrate belonging.

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 When we celebrate baptism, we are celebrating the fact that we belong.

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 We're celebrating the fact that we belong in a relationship with God

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 and we're celebrating the fact that we belong in a relationship with each other.

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 So first, we're celebrating the fact that we belong in a relationship with God.

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 Now, in today's passage, in verse 6,

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 Paul talks about how there's one God and Father of all.

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 That when you have a father, you belong in the family.

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 Baptism is about the fact that we belong in God's family.

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 And if you're not a regular in church, that might seem weird.

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 Like, doesn't God just love everyone?

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 Doesn't everyone sort of belong with him?

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 Isn't he a father to everyone?

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 Well, yes and no.

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 Yes, in the sense that God created us in his image.

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 God made us for a relationship with himself.

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 That God created us all to know him.

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 So in that sense, yes.

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 However, as the creator, as the one who made everything,

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 we owe God total allegiance and obedience in everything in life.

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 And you and I, again and again and again and again,

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 fail to give God the allegiance and obedience that we owe him.

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 Silly illustration of what this looks like in my life.

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 God says don't lie.

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 In my early days in Watermark,

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 I believed that my job security

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 and my ability to belong here at the church

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 depended on how many teenagers I could get to show up at events.

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 And so we would have an event,

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 and the turnout would maybe be a little lower than I was hoping for.

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 And I'd go in for a meeting with my boss,

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 and he would say how many kids turned up the other night.

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 And I had counted while the kids were there

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 and knew that the number was, say, 13.

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 And I would always round up.

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 I would say, you know, we had about 15 to 20.

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 And I would justify it to myself by being like,

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 yeah, 13 is about 15 to 20.

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 You know, technically I'm not lying.

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 But what was I doing?

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 I was skewing the truth and misrepresenting it

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 so that I could make myself look better than I was

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 because I wanted to belong.

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 I wanted him to know that he had made the right choice in hiring me.

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 And so I misrepresented the facts to make myself look better than I was.

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 And here's what happened when I chose to lie.

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 I was looking at this situation,

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 and I was saying, you know, God says not to lie,

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 but I know better than God.

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 I know better than God what's good for me, what's best for me.

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 I don't want God to tell me what to do.

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 I can handle this myself.

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 I make a better God of my life than the God of the universe does.

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 And so I'm going to live by my way.

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 And this attitude of saying, I know better than God.

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 I'm going to do what I want is what the Bible calls sin.

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 It's this attitude that tries to replace God

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 and set myself up as God

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 rather than worship the God of the universe.

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 And it's not just lying.

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 He also says things like, don't steal.

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 Don't get angry at other people.

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 Children, he says, don't disobey your parents.

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 Over and over and over again,

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 each of us has this response of sin towards God,

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 this response of saying, don't tell me how to live my life.

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 Let me be God.

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 You just stay out of my way.

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 And every day, each one of us puts these barriers

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 in the way of our relationship with God,

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 so much so that in Ephesians chapter two, verse one,

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 Paul says that we were children of wrath,

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 that we were dead in our trespasses and sins,

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 that we were completely separated from God.

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 We were hopeless.

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 And so what happens?

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 How do we get from there to chapter four, verse six,

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 where it says that God is our father?

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 Well, some people think the right response of God

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 to our sin is for him to just ignore it, overlook it.

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 You know, if he really loves me,

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 then he won't get upset at me

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 for doing things that are wrong.

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 But that doesn't work.

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 Because my sin impacts other people who God loves.

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 And if God cares about these other people

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 who my sin affects,

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 then he has to do something to me because of that.

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 Think of it this way.

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 I'm married.

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 I'm walking down the street with my wife.

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 Some guy walks up to her and starts saying

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 just horribly offensive things to her and shoving her.

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 And I just stand back and I'm watching.

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 And finally, after a few minutes of this,

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 the guy walks away and my wife comes over to me

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 and she's like, what were you doing?

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 I'm like, well, you know, I was just watching.

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 She's like, why didn't you stand up for me?

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 This did not happen in real life, by the way.

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 This is just an illustration, an example.

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 She comes up and she's like, why didn't you defend me?

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 And I say to her, well, you know, I wanted to.

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 I just, I really love those guys

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 who are picking on you so much.

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 I didn't want to do anything to hurt them.

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 Now, what should her response be in that situation?

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 No, I'm not showing love for them.

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 I'm showing apathy for her when I do that, right?

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 If I say, I just really love those guys so much,

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 I didn't want to do anything to hurt them.

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 Her response should be,

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 your love for me should lead you to defend me

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 in this situation, right?

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 And in the same way,

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 if God looks at all the things that we do

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 that hurt the people that he loves

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 and he ignores it and says,

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 well, I love you too much to do anything about it,

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 then what he's really saying is not, I love you.

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 What he's really saying is, I don't care about them.

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 He's saying, they're not worthy of my love.

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 And so I'm not going to defend them.

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 I'm not going to protect them.

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 I'm not going to take care of them.

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 And so because of that, God, if he truly loves humanity,

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 he has to defend us and stand up for justice

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 against those who hurt us and attack us.

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 But here's the problem.

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 We're the ones who hurt us and attack us, right?

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 When I tell a lie or when I steal or when I get angry,

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 I'm not doing those things in a vacuum.

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 I'm lying to people that God loves,

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 typically with the goal of harming them

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 or at least getting myself an advantage at their expense.

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 When I steal, I'm stealing from people who God loves.

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 When I get angry, I'm getting angry at people who God loves,

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 which means that if God truly loves them,

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 if God truly cares about them and cares about justice,

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 his love for them requires him

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 to respond against me with justice.

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 And that means that every single one of us

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 is in a terrible, terrible situation

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 because God can't just look past our sin

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 and say, oh, well, don't worry about it.

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 But God loves us.

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 He loves us and he doesn't want to destroy us,

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 even though that's what we deserve.

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 And so what does he do?

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 He comes up with a solution.

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 He sends his son to the earth

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 who lives a perfect life that we could never live

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 and is murdered for it.

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 And here's the great irony

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 of what happened in the trial of Jesus.

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 See, every time I do something wrong,

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 it's typically with the goal of belonging.

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 I lie because I think the truth will make me not belong,

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 so I tell a lie.

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 I get angry because someone mistreated me

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 and made me feel like I don't belong.

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 And so now I want to either do something to them

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 to get them to change their mind

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 or do something to them to get them to feel

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 the same way that they made me feel.

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 And what happens with Jesus is

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 he steps into this picture.

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 He lives this perfect life.

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 He gets arrested and put on this trial

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 that just made a mockery of the judicial system of his day.

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 And at his trial, every single person there

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 except for him is acting in terrible, terrible ways

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 because they want to belong.

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 They bring in these witnesses who tell lies

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 about what they've seen him do and heard him say.

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 And they tell these lies

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 because they want the crowds to like them.

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 They have these crowds of people shouting out,

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 crucify him, crucify him, kill him.

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 And these exact same crowds a week before

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 were standing in the city welcoming him,

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 saying, save us.

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 What happens to change you from shouting out,

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 save us one week to shouting out, kill him the next week?

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 You have a desire to belong and realize that

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 you have to change your tune if you want to belong.

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 Pilate, the guy who was in charge of giving the sentence for Jesus

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 and making a judgment about whether he was innocent or guilty,

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 he stood up in front of the entire crowd and he said,

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 I find no guilt in this man.

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 He's innocent.

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 He should go free.

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 And then someone reminds him,

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 you know, if you have that type of attitude,

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 you might not belong in government too much more.

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 Your boss might take you out of power.

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 And so Pilate says, fine, you do what you want.

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 My hands are clean, but you do what you want.

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 And they took him away to kill him.

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 And it's not just people who are against Jesus.

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 Peter, one of his best friends,

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 he's there watching this whole trial.

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 And he lies about the fact that he's ever even met Jesus

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 because he doesn't want to stick out from a crowd

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 in a way that's going to get him hurt or maybe even killed.

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 And in all of this,

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 everyone is doing these things to try and get themselves to belong

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 with the crowd around them.

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 And in the process is murdering God.

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 And in the midst of this whole thing,

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 Jesus is the only one who's focused on belonging with God,

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 not the crowd.

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 And he gets killed for it.

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 But what the Bible tells us is that in that process,

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 Jesus was rejected on our behalf.

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 All of the rejection,

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 all of the alienation that we have deserved

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 for everything we've ever done wrong,

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 he took on himself in that moment.

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 And to prove that that's true,

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 God raised him from the dead three days later

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 so that we can have forgiveness,

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 so that we can have a place to belong with God forever.

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 And so Jesus purchases our belonging with God

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 despite everything we've ever done

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 to alienate ourselves from him.

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 And the Bible says that this forgiveness from God

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 is available to all of us who believe in him.

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 In this passage in Ephesians chapter four,

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 when it says there's one faith,

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 what that's saying is,

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 the one thing that all Christians have in common

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 is our belief,

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 our faith that Jesus rescues us,

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 that Jesus forgives us,

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 and he gives us a place to belong with God.

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 And so if you're here today,

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 God is offering you a chance to belong with him.

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 And that's what we're celebrating in the baptism

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 of these seven people today,

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 is the fact that God has given them a place

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 to belong with him forever.

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 And that is worth celebrating.

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 So that's the first thing we're celebrating in baptism,

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 the fact that they have a place to belong with God forever.

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 But it's not just celebrating

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 that they have a place to belong with God.

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 It's also celebrating that they have a place

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 to belong with God's people.

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 See, this passage in Ephesians four,

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 it's all about interpersonal relationships.

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 He talks about how we're supposed to bear with one another

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 in love, maintain unity,

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 how there's one body, one spirit,

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 one hope, one Lord, one faith,

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 one baptism, one God, one Father of all.

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 He's talking about unity.

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 He's talking about connection

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 between us and one another.

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 And that connection is something

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 that is purchased for us by Jesus on the cross.

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 And this connection that Jesus offers us

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 is very different than any type of connection

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 or belonging that we typically get in the world,

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 which is really good news for us.

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 Because typically in the world,

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 if I want to belong somewhere,

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 I have to prove that I belong there.

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 So in high school,

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 I wanted to belong on the baseball team.

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 And what it took to belong on the baseball team

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 is you have to go to tryouts,

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 you have to play really hard,

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 and you have to convince the coach

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 that you're one of the 15 or 20 best players there.

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 And then he'll tell you you belong.

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 So I wanted to belong on the baseball team.

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 I went to the tryouts,

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 and the coach said,

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 Eric, you don't belong.

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 And that's what it takes to belong in our world.

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 You have to prove yourself.

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 We want to belong in a workplace.

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 So we build up our CV for our entire career

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 so we can prove that we belong.

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 We go in and we spend the interview

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 convincing the boss that we're brilliant

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 so we can prove that we belong.

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 And then we get hired,

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 and we can't sit back and relax.

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 We have to prove day in, day out,

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 every single moment

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 that we continue to belong

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 because we've achieved it,

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 because we've put in the effort,

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 and we've made it work.

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 And here's the thing about belonging

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 with God's people.

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 There's nothing we can do to achieve it.

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 The standard is perfection.

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 We all fall short of that.

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 What we deserve is separation,

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 alienation, exile.

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 And yet God looks down at us,

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 he loves us,

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 he rescues us,

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 and he gives us a place to belong

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 with his people forever.

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 Not because of anything that we've achieved,

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 but because of what Jesus

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 has accomplished for us on the cross.

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 The fact that he purchased for us

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 belonging with God

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 and with his people.

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 And so we don't belong in the church

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 because we've passed this

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 moral achievement test.

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 We don't belong in the church

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 because we got an A in Sunday school.

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 No, actually, to belong in the church

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 requires us to admit

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 that we're broken and messed up people.

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 But we're broken and messed up people

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 who have received an incredible love

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 and been given a place to belong by God.

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 And the fact that we're broken

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 and messed up people

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 means that we're going to make mistakes a lot.

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 But the fact that we're here

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 because we've been rescued by a God

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 who loved us when we didn't deserve it

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 means that we now have power and strength

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 to love one another

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 and forgive one another

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 and walk with one another

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 when the people around us

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 also don't deserve it.

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 That's the nature of what this family is

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 that God has brought us into

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 and given us a place to belong in.

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 So today we're celebrating

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 the fact that these baptism candidates

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 have a place to belong with God.

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 We're celebrating that they have a place

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 to belong with us.

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 And I want to give a couple challenges here

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 in closing

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 to some different groups of people

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 that we have with us today.

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 First off,

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 if you're one of the people

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 getting baptized today,

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 my challenge to you,

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 celebrate this day.

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 This is an awesome day.

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 We're celebrating the fact

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 that you've gone from being alienated

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 from God to belonging with God,

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 from being alienated from God's people

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 to belonging with God's people.

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 And it's not because you've done anything great,

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 but because God looked at you

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 and he loved you

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 and he rescued you

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 and he did something great for you.

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 That deserves to be celebrated.

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 So celebrate that today.

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 Next up,

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 if you're here today

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 and you're a Christian

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 and you've been baptized already,

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 my challenge for you,

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 celebrate this day.

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 This is awesome.

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 We have new people

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 coming into our family.

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 This is,

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 if there's ever a reason to celebrate,

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 this is it.

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 God has rescued them.

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 God has made them

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 our brothers and sisters.

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 God has brought us together

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 and given us all a place

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 to belong with him.

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 And today

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 is an awesome opportunity

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 for you to remember your baptism,

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 to remember what God did in your life,

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 how he rescued you,

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 how he brought you in.

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 And made you part of his people as well.

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 Baptism isn't just something

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 we should do once

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 and then forget about it.

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 It's something we should remind ourselves of

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 again and again and again

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 and celebrate what God has done for us.

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 And today is an awesome day

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 for you to do that.

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 Third up,

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 if you're here today

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 and you're not a Christian,

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 I don't know why you came here today.

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 I don't know whether

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 you got dragged along by someone,

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 whether you got invited for the baptism,

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 whether you just rolled out of bed

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 and we're like,

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 I wonder what church is like.

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 I guess I'll go check it out today.

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 But I believe

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 that God has you here

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 because he wants you to hear

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 about what he has done for you

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 and about the acceptance

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 that he is offering to you today.

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 You know,

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 as you hear about this,

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 this opportunity to belong with God

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 and his people

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 and about baptism

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 and the celebration,

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 I don't know what your response is.

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 I think a common response

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 in our culture is like,

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 oh, that's nice for you,

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 but it's not really my thing.

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 That's a terrible response.

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 And here's why.

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 Because if what we're talking about here

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 is anything less than absolutely true,

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 you should not be celebrating

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 or cheering these other people on

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 as they get baptized.

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 You should be pitying them

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 and trying to convince them to stop.

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 Because what they're doing

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 is they're throwing away their lives,

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 chasing after a lie.

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 And you should not celebrate that.

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 However,

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 if this message is absolutely true,

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 then there's no room for you

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 to stand on the sideline as a bystander.

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 The only appropriate response,

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 if this is true,

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 is for you to join,

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 to become a Christian,

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 to commit your life

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 to following Jesus as well.

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 There's a man named C.S. Lewis.

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 You probably have heard

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 of the Chronicles of Narnia series.

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 He said,

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 Christianity,

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 if false,

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 is of no importance.

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 And if true,

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 of infinite importance.

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 The only thing it cannot be

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 is moderately important.

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 So my challenge for you is this.

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 Examine the claims of Christianity.

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 Examine Jesus.

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 Look at who he is.

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 Look at what he claimed to be.

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 And when you discover that it's true,

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 yes, I said when,

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 because I'm very confident

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 that if you take the time to look,

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 you will find that it's true.

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 Commit your life to following him.

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 And the final group

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 I want to challenge today

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 is if you're here today

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 and you say that you're a Christian

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 but you haven't been baptized yet,

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 I want to challenge you

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 to get baptized.

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 Because baptism is the way

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 that we say to ourselves,

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 to the world,

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 to God,

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 that we belong in his family.

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 Baptism is an awesome privilege

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 that God gives to his people.

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 And if you're saying

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 that you belong to God's people

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 but you don't want

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 to acknowledge that publicly,

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 I think you have to ask yourself why.

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 You know, being baptized

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 doesn't make you a Christian,

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 but if you're not willing

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 to get baptized,

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 you should really take a step back

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 and examine whether you are a Christian.

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 At the very least,

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 if you're not willing to get baptized,

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 you shouldn't be taking communion.

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 I heard a story recently

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 about this guy.

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 He'd been dating a girl

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 for several months.

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 And there were some issues

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 in the relationship,

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 but he said the thing that happened

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 that was like the last straw

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 is there was a picture

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 of the two of them.

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 He wanted her to put it online

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 so everyone could see

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 that they were together

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 and they were happy

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 and she didn't want

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 to put it online.

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 She didn't actually want

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 any evidence online

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 of the fact that the two of them

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 were together.

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 She said,

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 I'm happy to be in a relationship

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 with you,

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 but I don't want the world

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 to know about it.

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 And do you know how he responded?

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 He broke up with her.

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 Guys,

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 don't be like that girl

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 in your relationship with Jesus.

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 If this is something

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 that you say

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 is important enough

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 that you're going to trust in him,

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 then it's something

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 that's important enough

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 that you should be willing

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 to let others know

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 that you're trusting in him

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 as well.

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 So if you haven't been baptized yet,

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 my challenge to you

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 is get baptized.

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 I know it's a big commitment.

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 I know that it may cost you,

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 but guys,

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 it costs God his life.

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 To give you an opportunity

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 to belong with him.

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 Any sacrifice

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 we have to make in comparison

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 is going to be small.

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 And it's going to be

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 absolutely worth it.

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 Let's pray.

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 Father,

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 we thank you for your love.

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 We thank you

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 that you are a God

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 who looks at us

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 when we are at our worst

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 and doesn't wait

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 for us to change,

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 doesn't wait for us

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 to prove ourselves,

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 doesn't wait for us

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 to earn your love,

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 but who reaches out

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 to us in love

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 and rescues us

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 despite everything

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 we've done wrong.

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 God,

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 we thank you

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 for giving us a place

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 to belong with you

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 and with your people.

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 We pray that

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 today would be

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 an awesome day

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 to celebrate

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 what you have done,

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 to celebrate

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 the new life

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 that you've given

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 to these people.

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 We pray that we would be

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 a supportive community,

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 a loving community,

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 a community

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 that points each other

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 towards you.

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 In Jesus' name,

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 Amen.