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 Well, again, let me welcome you to the Brooklyn Parish.

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 If this is your first time with us, if you're normally a part of Columbia Heights, welcome.

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 If this is your first time with Advent, especially we'd like to welcome you.

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 Every now and then we get an opportunity to gather all together.

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 It's always very exciting to be in one space together for worship.

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 I want to ask you a question that may sound a bit unique.

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 A lot of times we ask, where are you right now?

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 What are you doing?

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 Or you might be on the phone with somebody and you ask, so where are you at this moment as we're talking?

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 But I want to ask a slightly different question.

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 I want to ask, when are you right now?

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 When are you?

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 Are you here?

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 You can be honest.

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 Are you here, fully present in this moment?

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 Or are you maybe still stuck somewhere in the past?

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 When I have hard conversations, sometimes I will rehearse and rehearse and rehearse and rehearse and perseverate and perseverate on those conversations.

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 So, are you still stuck in an argument you had a week ago or maybe this morning on the way to church rather than here?

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 Are you dwelling somewhere in a hypothetical future?

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 Are you anticipating all of the logistical challenges of the Thanksgiving week?

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 Are you thinking about tomorrow morning?

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 If you have a lot of work waiting for you that you have to get done?

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 Are you stuck somewhere in some hypothetical future?

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 Some people live 10, 15 years down the road in the hypothetical world where all of their worst fears have come true.

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 So, when are you right now?

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 I think if you're anything like me, you often feel not fully present here and now, but you rather feel like Bilbo Baggins who said,

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 I feel thin, sort of stretched, like butter spread over too much bread.

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 Are you open to the possibility that the reason we feel this way, the reason that we so often feel tired and overcommitted and overwhelmed and stressed out

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 is because we have a very dysfunctional relationship with time?

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 We're in a series called Stewardship as Counterculture.

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 And that's based on the truth that God owns everything and we are made to be stewards.

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 And what we're seeing every week is that when we live like owners, that results in dysfunctional relationships with God and with the people around us.

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 And that when we live in a way that honors God as being God, when we live like stewards, we experience freedom and healing and wholeness.

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 So, the question that we want to consider this morning for a little while is how can we cultivate a healthy stewardship of time,

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 a relationship with the time that God has given us.

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 And we're going to be looking at Ecclesiastes 3, 1 through 15 and Matthew 11, 25 through 30.

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 And we're going to see three things.

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 It's stewardship of time requires that we relinquish our control to God, that we rest in the Son of God,

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 and that we then restructure our lives around God.

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 So, relinquish control, rest in the Son of God, and then restructure our lives around God.

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 Let's pray.

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 Our Father in heaven, we thank you again for your word.

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 We thank you for the freedom to gather around it.

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 We pray that as we open your written word, that you would, in the power of your Spirit, reveal to us the living word, Jesus Christ.

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 Help us make good use of this time for your glory.

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 In your Son's name, amen.

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 So, the first thing we want to talk about is that stewardship of time cannot happen unless we relinquish control to God.

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 Ecclesiastes is a fascinating book.

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 If you haven't spent much time in it, it's a cynical book.

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 It's a book that very much fits with our modern culture.

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 It's essentially about the secular humanist search for meaning.

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 And it's written around a central character called the teacher, although he's much more like a seeker.

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 Because throughout the book, he's seeking the meaning of life, but he's doing it by looking only at what is under the sun.

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 That is to say, he's looking for the meaning of life apart from relationship with a personal God.

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 He's only considering what is under the sun.

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 And as you come to chapter 3, he's reflecting on the timing of different things that happen in our lives.

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 So, in verses 1 through 8, we have all of these word pairs.

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 And you think of the song from the birds, you know.

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 There's a time for birth and a time for death.

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 There's a time for planting and a time for plucking up.

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 There's a time for weeping and a time for laughter.

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 Everything has its time.

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 And in Hebrew poetry, this is a literary device that is meant to convey totality.

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 Right?

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 So, he's saying there's a time for everything that encompasses human life.

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 It all has a time.

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 And, you know, for years I read these verses.

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 And for years I thought that this was encouraging us that we needed to recognize that it is sometimes appropriate to weep.

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 That it's sometimes appropriate to laugh or to dance or to plant or to pull up and so on and so forth.

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 But that's not actually what it's saying.

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 I had a kind of insight when I was looking at this again.

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 That's not what it's saying.

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 I was inserting those words.

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 What it's actually literally saying is the time comes for these things.

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 Whether we like it or not.

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 The time comes when these things happen to us.

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 And the point of these first eight verses is simply this.

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 Life happens to us and we cannot control the timing.

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 Things happen.

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 So, you didn't get any say in when you were born.

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 It happened to you.

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 Likewise, you will not really get any say in when you die.

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 It will happen to you.

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 Right?

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 We don't get a say in when we weep.

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 Things happen and we weep.

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 We don't know the next time that we will be free to laugh.

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 Because we may be weeping.

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 Right?

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 It's like that old quote, life is what happens to us while we're making other plans.

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 Right?

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 We can plan the perfect wedding but then a breakup happens.

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 Didn't see it coming.

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 We can plan a great career path but then a pregnancy happens.

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 And you got to make hard choices.

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 Right?

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 We can plan to have kids but then infertility happens.

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 We can plan to go to grad school but then a rejection letter happens.

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 And now what do I do?

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 We can plan all kinds of things but then life happens to us regardless.

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 And then what's more, verse 11 says that God has made us so that we cannot comprehend

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 or understand all of his actions throughout history.

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 So it's saying in other words, we're never fully going to see the big picture of how it

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 all fits together.

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 How God weaves all of these things together for his purposes.

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 It's saying clearly we're never going to get that big picture.

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 This side of heaven.

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 So this is the first thing that we need to realize when it comes to time.

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 That we are not in control of it.

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 We don't control the times or the timing of our lives.

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 So the question then becomes, do you trust God?

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 Do you trust him enough to relinquish control of time to him?

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 Knowing that you're going to be working with limited information.

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 Do you trust him?

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 There was a play on Broadway some years ago called The Search for Intelligent Life.

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 And it starred Lily Tomlin.

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 If you know Lily Tomlin, phenomenally talented.

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 And it's a brilliantly written one-woman play.

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 And the opening monologue is Lily Tomlin plays this bag lady named Trudy.

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 And it's hysterical.

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 And Trudy goes on this whole riff about all, she says, you know, I think you should know

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 I worry a lot.

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 And I worry about this and I worry about that.

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 You know, she says, you know, if peanut oil comes from peanuts and coconut oil comes from

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 coconuts, then where does baby oil come from?

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 And she just goes on and on about all the things she worries about.

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 And at the end of this kind of, you know, list of all of her anxiety, she sort of stops

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 and she looks up and she says, I worry where today fits in the cosmic scheme of things.

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 And then she says, I wonder, I worry that there is no cosmic scheme of things.

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 And that seems to be the pinnacle of her anxiety.

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 And I think it's brilliant because it's right on.

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 That question really lies at the heart of most of the anxiety we feel.

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 Is there a great cosmic scheme of things?

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 Is there a God out there orchestrating all of this in some way that makes sense?

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 Or is it all just random and meaningless?

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 As Ecclesiastes would say, emptiness, emptiness, all is emptiness.

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 Is there a great scheme of things?

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 Is there a God in control?

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 And can we trust that God?

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 That's a foundational question.

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 So in other words, when you look at your life, do you trust God's timing or not?

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 You know what that means.

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 If you trust God's timing, it means that you thank him and you praise him even when things

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 are not going your way.

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 Because you trust his timing more than your own.

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 It means, as the serenity prayer goes, having the courage to accept the things we cannot change.

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 Because we trust God.

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 So this is the first thing we need to understand when it comes to the stewardship of time.

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 We have to relinquish control of time to God.

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 The next thing we have to do is we need to begin to learn how to rest in the Son of God.

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 To rest in the Son of God.

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 Now the reason we need to rest, the reason that you need to think more about rest in your life

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 is not just because you're tired or overcommitted or overwhelmed.

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 Underneath all of that, we need to rest because we are restless.

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 Human beings are inherently restless.

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 Think about your life for a second.

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 Think about the stress, the urgency that you constantly feel, that sense of the tyranny

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 of time always marching on, always being 10 minutes behind the next thing you need to

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 get to.

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 What are the reasons for that?

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 You know, you ask people and some people say, well, we live in a society that overvalues

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 productivity and that's why we're all stressed out.

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 Yeah, that's probably true.

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 Other people would say, well, our society rewards overachievement and so our bosses and

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 our employers, they expect more and more and more from us and if I don't want to do it,

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 there are 100 people behind me who would gladly take my job and that's why we are so stressed

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 out.

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 That's probably partly true.

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 Also, I think if we're honest, it has something to do with ego.

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 You know, being busy conveys something about you and your importance.

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 There was an interesting article from Michael Blandon in Forbes earlier this year.

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 Having no life is the new aspirational lifestyle.

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 I think he's on to something.

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 He says that displaying one's busyness operates as a visible signal of status in the eyes of

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 others.

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 Right?

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 So status symbols are all about scarcity.

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 You know, I show you my diamond because it's a scarce stone.

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 It shows my status because I have one.

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 Or I have a rare car that only wealthy people can afford.

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 It's all about scarcity.

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 That shows my status.

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 He says, no, no, no.

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 Now, the scarcity, the scarce resource is me.

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 I'm scarce.

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 My unavailability is a symbol of my status.

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 So I think it has something to do with ego.

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 But there's another reason why we are so profoundly restless.

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 And you see it in verse 11 of Ecclesiastes 3.

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 Just listen to these words.

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 God has put eternity into man's heart.

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 I love that verse.

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 God has put eternity into man's heart.

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 So it's saying we may not be able to comprehend it.

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 We may not be able to understand eternity.

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 If you try to explain it or map it out, it's beyond what our minds can get around.

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 And yet we long for it.

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 We long for it.

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 There's a deep yearning for something greater, something beyond all this, what you might call

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 an inconsolable longing for the eternal.

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 I've used this example before, but there was on NPR's Fresh Air, Terry Gross.

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 One time interviewed the children's book writer, Maurice Sendak.

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 And Sendak is talking about getting old and all that's changing, all that he's thinking about.

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 And then he's talking about how he's mourning the death of his brother.

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 And he sort of reflects on that.

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 And then he says this, I don't believe in an afterlife, but I still fully expect to see my brother again.

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 Isn't that interesting?

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 I don't believe in an afterlife, but I still fully expect to see my brother again.

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 And you see it right there.

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 He may not believe in eternity in his mind, but his heart still yearns for it because God has put eternity into his heart.

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 You know, Louis C.K. has made the news this week for doing some pretty awful things to women.

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 And he's sort of the latest in a string of kind of horrible revelations.

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 But if you look at Louis C.K. years ago, there was this one time when he was on the Conan O'Brien show.

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 And he said, underneath everything in your life, there's that thing, that forever empty.

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 He talked about that forever empty.

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 And, you know, I think about him saying that and the level of insight and self-awareness that he had.

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 And I look at what he has done and all these things that are coming out.

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 And I wonder maybe that's part of why he did what he did.

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 Because the truth is that deep, inconsolable longing will gnaw at you and gnaw at you and gnaw at you.

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 And some people will do just about anything to escape it for just a few moments.

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 You know, Bruce Marshall wrote, this is often misattributed to Chesterton.

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 It was actually Bruce Marshall who wrote,

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 The young man who rings the bell at the brothel is unconsciously looking for God.

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 Ringing the bell at the brothel, but actually looking for God.

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 So the question becomes, what do we do with this inconsolable longing for eternity?

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 And the teacher in Ecclesiastes, this is by the way why you have to know your context.

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 Ecclesiastes is not meant to be prescriptive.

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 He's a cynic.

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 He's essentially a secular humanist.

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 The teacher in Ecclesiastes disregards God.

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 And so he says, well, the best we can do is to just get the most out of this life while we can.

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 Let's live like there's no tomorrow.

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 Let's do what good we can, enjoy what pleasure we can, because this is it.

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 Live your best life now.

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 And many people in our culture, I think, would agree.

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 You know, one of the reasons I think that we are so overwhelmed, let's just be honest for a second.

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 I think one of the reasons that we're so overwhelmed is because we believe that it's possible to have it all in this life.

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 We want an amazing job, a great marriage, thriving kids, a healthy body, a rich spiritual life, great friends, financial security, and a sense of meaning.

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 In one lifetime.

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 And listen, we are all fighting for that.

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 We're all striving to have all of those things.

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 And we feel entitled to those things.

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 And if we're deficient in any of those categories, which, by the way, we all are, we feel like we're failing.

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 That we're not living the fullest life we can.

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 And listen, the jig is up.

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 That list is utterly impossible.

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 Something has to go off that list.

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 You cannot have a great marriage, thriving kids, a healthy body, an amazing career, a rich spiritual life, great friends, financial security, and a sense of meaning.

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 You can't have all that.

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 Too many lifetimes.

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 But I think that we are convinced that this is it.

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 Get the most we can out of life.

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 Do it all.

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 Maximize our time.

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 We also, I think, perpetually distract ourselves.

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 We fill up our times with smartphones and with social media.

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 I just want to give you one illustration of how much time we spend.

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 And there's this interesting piece written by a guy named Charles Chu on what it takes to read 200 books a year.

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 He says that he started reading 200 books a year.

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 It's changed his life.

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 How many hours do you think it takes, on average, to read 200 books?

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 Well, he calculated it 417 hours.

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 Now, if you're anything like me, you think about that and you're like, where in the world am I going to get 417 hours in a year to read 200 books?

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 There's no way.

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 I'm way too busy.

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 And then he says, well, average Americans actually spend 608 hours on social media.

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 So you wouldn't even need to give it up entirely.

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 You could just reduce the amount of time by a little over 400 hours.

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 You could read 200 books and still have 200 hours left over for Facebook and Instagram.

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 That's how long it takes.

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 He says we watch 1,642 hours of TV a year.

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 So if you total all that up, social media and television, that's 2,250 hours that we spend doing those kinds of things.

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 And if we applied all of those hours to reading instead, you could read 1,000 books a year.

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 If you gave up TV and social media and spent all that time reading.

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 And by the way, reading is, I would strongly encourage that to you.

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 This is beside the point.

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 But I would strongly encourage you read.

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 And I know that sounds funny, but fewer and fewer people are reading long format anything anymore.

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 And we're forgetting, I think, how to think.

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 And we're forgetting and we're losing the ability to have sustained attention.

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 The only way I'm able to read anything is to put books everywhere.

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 I have books in my bag, in my office, next to my bed, in the bathroom.

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 I have books in my car for when I'm just sitting in the car, not while I'm driving.

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 But like if I'm waiting to pick our kids up at school, I have books in the car.

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 And I'm constantly listening to audio books.

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 You know, podcasts are great.

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 But there's something different about a long format book.

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 I would strongly encourage that.

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 But it requires rethinking how we use our time.

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 So no matter how much we try, though, if we come back to our question,

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 none of these things, distracting ourselves, trying to have it all,

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 they're not actually going to satisfy that inconsolable longing for eternity.

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 And the reason is simple.

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 Our hearts have the capacity to fit eternity.

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 Physically, it's small.

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 But spiritually, it's vast.

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 And if it has the capacity to fit eternity,

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 the only thing that will fill it is something that is eternal,

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 something that is infinite.

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 In Matthew 11, Jesus issues his famous invitation.

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 Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden,

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 and I will give you rest.

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 Take my yoke upon you and learn from me,

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 for I am gentle and lowly in heart,

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 and you will find rest for your souls.

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 For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.

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 You've got to understand, he's talking to Greeks who are exhausted

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 over their endless search for philosophical truth

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 that had gone on for years and years and years without resolution.

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 And then the Jews, their religion had become this endless effort

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 to live up to innumerable regulations and standards.

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 And then you have us.

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 We live in a culture where it's an endless race to fill that void within.

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 And to all of us, Jesus offers the same invitation.

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 Come to me and I will give you rest.

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 I will give you rest.

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 Through his death on the cross, Jesus makes it possible to give us

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 what we cannot find on our own because of sin,

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 which is a relationship with the infinite God of the universe,

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 the one for whom our hearts were made.

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 But here's something I want to point out.

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 A lot of times we read that verse and we say,

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 come to Jesus, pray the sinner's prayer,

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 and I will give you rest.

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 And you pray, Jesus, please forgive me.

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 I want to be a Christian.

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 And then no rest.

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 And sort of wait.

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 Because we think it maybe is some kind of divine peace

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 that should just settle into our hearts.

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 And that's not, in fact, what he's saying.

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 He's not saying, come to me, and the minute you believe in me,

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 bam, rest, you're never going to be stressed again.

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 He says, come to me, all who are weary and heavy laden,

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 and I will give you rest.

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 And then he goes on.

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 He says, the rest comes when we take on his yoke

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 and when we learn from him.

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 So in other words, he says, when we follow him

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 and emulate him and allow his teachings to shape our lives,

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 that is what will begin to enable us to experience

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 the rest that he offers.

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 So the rest is something that has to be learned.

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 It has to be worked into our lives.

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 It has to be, it's the fruit of obedience and following Jesus.

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 So this brings us to the third and final point.

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 Stewardship of time means relinquishing control.

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 It means resting in the Son of God.

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 And finally, it means restructuring our lives around God.

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 So following Jesus is much bigger than our time,

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 but it involves and includes rethinking

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 how we use all of our time

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 so that our lives revolve around God.

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 And we see this modeled in the way Jesus lived his life.

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 And I just want to give you three quick examples

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 of how we see Jesus showing us

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 how to steward our time better.

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 The first thing we see is the most crucial one.

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 Jesus kept the Sabbath.

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 He kept the Sabbath.

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 I mean, he declared in the passage that we read,

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 Jesus declared that he was Lord of the Sabbath.

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 And he soundly rejected

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 all of the regulations around Sabbath keeping.

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 And yet at the same time,

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 he taught that the Sabbath was made by God

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 to bless human beings for our benefit.

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 It's meant to be a blessing.

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 And I'll tell you this right now,

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 just even from my own experience.

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 When it comes to the stewardship of time,

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 the single most important decision

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 that you can make in your life

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 is to begin keeping a 24-hour Sabbath every week.

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 It's the most important thing that you can do.

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 By Sabbath, I literally mean a 24-hour period,

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 not because you have to, Jesus has fulfilled the law,

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 but because this is a blessing.

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 And we've seen God's people do it over the centuries.

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 Even Jesus honored and kept the Sabbath,

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 went to synagogue to worship and to teach.

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 If you can't do a full 24-hour day,

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 figure out some way to break it up in half.

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 Half a day here, half a day there.

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 I don't think that it has to be on Sunday or Saturday.

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 Ours, mine is sometimes on a Saturday,

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 and it's sometimes on a Monday,

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 depending on how the week is going.

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 But by Sabbath, I mean it's a time to focus

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 on your relationship with God,

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 on your friends, on your family,

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 on recreation, on creativity, on rest,

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 whatever rejuvenates you.

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 If you have young kids,

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 it's not going to be perfect.

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 You have to get creative.

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 Do the best that you can.

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 I'll tell you this.

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 I mean, when we're able to keep our Sabbath,

00:26:14.480 --> 00:26:15.799
 which begins on Friday night,

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 begins Friday night.

00:26:18.299 --> 00:26:18.639
 Whoa.

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 Sorry about that.

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 Begins Friday night,

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 and it begins with family movie night.

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 And we sit down, we order pizza,

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 get something that's totally easy to eat,

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 and it requires no preparation on our part.

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 And then we pick out some movie

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 that our kids can watch,

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 and our kids love it.

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 And then we go to bed,

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 and we sleep in as much as we can.

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 Normally, the boys let us sleep in

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 until about 7.15.

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 And we sleep in,

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 and then we get up,

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 and we make pancakes,

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 and we have kind of a long,

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 leisurely breakfast.

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 And then we try to go and do something together

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 as a family.

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 And, you know, something outside,

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 something away from the house,

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 something away from our devices.

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 I would strongly encourage you,

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 if you keep a Sabbath,

00:27:01.440 --> 00:27:04.340
 to rigorously enforce a no-device rule.

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 And I say rigorously,

00:27:05.740 --> 00:27:07.039
 because from my own experience,

00:27:07.139 --> 00:27:09.139
 it's incredibly difficult to do.

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 No devices on the Sabbath.

00:27:12.419 --> 00:27:15.199
 Make it a time for human connection and interaction.

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 And what you'll find that,

00:27:17.859 --> 00:27:20.439
 if you make Sabbath a non-negotiable thing,

00:27:20.899 --> 00:27:22.659
 that actually requires you to rethink

00:27:22.659 --> 00:27:24.779
 and restructure all of the rest of your week.

00:27:25.159 --> 00:27:26.439
 You have to rethink everything

00:27:26.439 --> 00:27:28.059
 about how you spend all of your time

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 to make Sabbath possible.

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 Because everything you've got to get done,

00:27:30.699 --> 00:27:31.779
 you've got to get done in six days.

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 So that's the first thing.

00:27:34.720 --> 00:27:35.579
 Keeping the Sabbath.

00:27:36.139 --> 00:27:36.859
 Stewardship of time.

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 It's the cornerstone of good stewardship of time,

00:27:39.359 --> 00:27:39.799
 in my opinion.

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 The next thing we see in Jesus' life

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 is a regular rhythm of engagement and withdrawal.

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 Engagement and withdrawal.

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 If you read the Gospels,

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 they show this clear pattern

00:27:51.599 --> 00:27:54.420
 that Jesus would be fully engaged

00:27:54.420 --> 00:27:56.879
 with the needs and the demands around him.

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 But then regularly, periodically,

00:27:58.899 --> 00:28:00.039
 he would fully withdraw.

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 And he would go away to be by himself,

00:28:02.899 --> 00:28:04.859
 to pray, to spend time with his father,

00:28:04.940 --> 00:28:07.159
 to get re-centered in his identity in the father.

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 And then he would engage.

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 And then he would withdraw.

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 And sometimes he did it at very inconvenient times.

00:28:13.259 --> 00:28:14.659
 But it was a priority for him.

00:28:15.619 --> 00:28:17.059
 I think the problem for us

00:28:17.059 --> 00:28:20.200
 is that we never fully engage

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 because we never fully withdraw.

00:28:23.819 --> 00:28:25.899
 In other words, the boundaries are so blurred.

00:28:26.099 --> 00:28:28.960
 And smartphones and devices make this way harder.

00:28:28.960 --> 00:28:32.140
 You know, even when I'm disengaged,

00:28:32.240 --> 00:28:33.220
 I'm still connected.

00:28:33.720 --> 00:28:35.000
 I never fully disconnect.

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 And so I never fully engage.

00:28:37.120 --> 00:28:39.559
 We always kind of live partially distracted.

00:28:39.700 --> 00:28:41.600
 Never fully off, but never fully on.

00:28:43.120 --> 00:28:45.160
 And that wears you down over time.

00:28:46.680 --> 00:28:48.259
 So I would strongly encourage you

00:28:48.259 --> 00:28:49.940
 to think of the stewardship of time

00:28:49.940 --> 00:28:55.059
 as by prioritizing setting rhythms

00:28:55.059 --> 00:28:56.900
 of engagement and withdrawal.

00:28:56.900 --> 00:28:59.460
 Clear boundaries so when you're at work,

00:28:59.660 --> 00:29:01.640
 you're fully there.

00:29:01.740 --> 00:29:03.519
 When you're with your kids, you're fully there.

00:29:04.380 --> 00:29:06.220
 But also take time to regularly withdraw

00:29:06.220 --> 00:29:07.740
 and re-center yourself

00:29:07.740 --> 00:29:10.180
 in the gospel rest of Jesus Christ.

00:29:11.320 --> 00:29:13.240
 Fully engage, fully withdraw.

00:29:14.060 --> 00:29:15.040
 You know, Mother Teresa,

00:29:15.480 --> 00:29:16.400
 people ask, you know,

00:29:16.440 --> 00:29:18.580
 how did this, you know, white girl spend,

00:29:18.800 --> 00:29:20.160
 you know, survive all those years

00:29:20.160 --> 00:29:21.780
 in this, you know,

00:29:21.820 --> 00:29:23.019
 dealing with the kinds of issues

00:29:23.019 --> 00:29:24.060
 that she dealt with

00:29:24.060 --> 00:29:25.320
 given where she was from?

00:29:25.319 --> 00:29:26.379
 And how's that possible?

00:29:28.339 --> 00:29:29.559
 Well, it's because of her rhythm

00:29:29.559 --> 00:29:31.519
 of withdrawal and engagement.

00:29:32.819 --> 00:29:34.000
 You know, she says she would take,

00:29:34.059 --> 00:29:34.679
 she and her team,

00:29:34.740 --> 00:29:36.059
 they would take a day every week

00:29:36.059 --> 00:29:37.119
 to totally withdraw.

00:29:38.139 --> 00:29:40.740
 They would take a week every month.

00:29:41.759 --> 00:29:44.119
 And then they would take a month every year.

00:29:45.119 --> 00:29:46.439
 And that enabled them,

00:29:46.639 --> 00:29:47.480
 when they did engage,

00:29:47.539 --> 00:29:48.399
 to be fully there.

00:29:49.179 --> 00:29:50.359
 So engagement withdrawal.

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 And the last thing,

00:29:52.719 --> 00:29:55.059
 the last aspect of stewardship of time

00:29:55.059 --> 00:29:56.719
 that I think we see in Jesus' life

00:29:56.719 --> 00:29:59.059
 is clarity of purpose.

00:30:00.039 --> 00:30:01.000
 Clarity of purpose.

00:30:01.639 --> 00:30:02.979
 I've always been fascinated

00:30:02.979 --> 00:30:04.299
 with the end of Mark 1

00:30:04.299 --> 00:30:05.899
 when Simon comes

00:30:05.899 --> 00:30:08.679
 and he finds Jesus praying by himself

00:30:08.679 --> 00:30:09.899
 and he says to Jesus,

00:30:10.159 --> 00:30:11.179
 Jesus, you gotta come back.

00:30:11.259 --> 00:30:12.039
 There are all these people,

00:30:12.159 --> 00:30:12.500
 they're sick,

00:30:12.579 --> 00:30:13.199
 they're demon-possessed.

00:30:13.399 --> 00:30:14.299
 All these people are waiting,

00:30:14.379 --> 00:30:15.319
 they've been waiting for hours.

00:30:15.559 --> 00:30:16.059
 Where are you?

00:30:16.159 --> 00:30:16.679
 Come on back.

00:30:16.859 --> 00:30:17.619
 You got work to do.

00:30:18.479 --> 00:30:19.459
 And what does Jesus say?

00:30:20.419 --> 00:30:21.239
 He says, no.

00:30:22.539 --> 00:30:24.199
 No, we gotta go to the next town

00:30:24.199 --> 00:30:26.279
 because I need to go there

00:30:26.279 --> 00:30:27.359
 and preach the gospel

00:30:27.359 --> 00:30:29.799
 because that's the reason that I came.

00:30:31.259 --> 00:30:32.459
 And you can imagine Simon saying,

00:30:32.539 --> 00:30:33.339
 well, you got all these people,

00:30:33.439 --> 00:30:33.939
 all these needs,

00:30:34.039 --> 00:30:34.979
 everybody wants to see you.

00:30:35.019 --> 00:30:35.659
 And Jesus says, no.

00:30:36.439 --> 00:30:37.779
 This is my purpose.

00:30:38.739 --> 00:30:40.799
 He has a strong clarity of purpose.

00:30:41.459 --> 00:30:43.179
 He knows what God has called him to do.

00:30:43.179 --> 00:30:45.079
 He knows what his priorities are.

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 And he doesn't waver from them.

00:30:48.139 --> 00:30:50.079
 He sticks to that clarity of purpose.

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 And this is the key,

00:30:51.539 --> 00:30:53.220
 even if it means disappointing people.

00:30:55.319 --> 00:30:56.279
 If you're honest

00:30:56.279 --> 00:30:57.199
 and you think about your own life,

00:30:57.439 --> 00:30:59.220
 how much of the chaos in our lives,

00:30:59.399 --> 00:31:00.199
 the overcommitment,

00:31:00.279 --> 00:31:00.839
 the exhaustion,

00:31:01.359 --> 00:31:02.879
 is the direct result

00:31:02.879 --> 00:31:03.679
 of our attempts

00:31:03.679 --> 00:31:05.539
 to keep everybody happy,

00:31:06.359 --> 00:31:07.939
 to do everything

00:31:07.939 --> 00:31:09.259
 that is expected of us,

00:31:10.099 --> 00:31:12.779
 to be unwilling to disappoint

00:31:12.779 --> 00:31:13.799
 or let people down,

00:31:13.799 --> 00:31:17.680
 almost every day of your life,

00:31:18.099 --> 00:31:19.339
 if you are being clear

00:31:19.339 --> 00:31:21.240
 and focused

00:31:21.240 --> 00:31:22.099
 on what you believe

00:31:22.099 --> 00:31:23.119
 God has called you to do,

00:31:23.919 --> 00:31:25.440
 you will disappoint somebody.

00:31:26.480 --> 00:31:27.319
 So you might as well

00:31:27.319 --> 00:31:28.019
 get up in the morning,

00:31:28.500 --> 00:31:29.039
 look in the mirror

00:31:29.039 --> 00:31:31.419
 and say some advice

00:31:31.419 --> 00:31:32.539
 that I was given years ago.

00:31:33.659 --> 00:31:34.279
 Look in the mirror

00:31:34.279 --> 00:31:34.559
 and you say,

00:31:34.639 --> 00:31:35.759
 who am I going to disappoint today?

00:31:38.299 --> 00:31:39.019
 Who's it going to be?

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 And that you pray

00:31:40.919 --> 00:31:41.680
 that when you do it,

00:31:41.680 --> 00:31:42.560
 you do it with grace

00:31:42.560 --> 00:31:44.100
 and gentleness

00:31:44.100 --> 00:31:45.400
 and humility,

00:31:46.100 --> 00:31:46.860
 trusting in the Lord

00:31:46.860 --> 00:31:48.820
 because it's going to happen.

00:31:49.820 --> 00:31:51.120
 And if you live your life

00:31:51.120 --> 00:31:52.220
 trying to prevent that

00:31:52.220 --> 00:31:52.759
 from happening,

00:31:53.400 --> 00:31:54.680
 you're going to be

00:31:54.680 --> 00:31:55.299
 a nervous wreck.

00:31:56.960 --> 00:31:58.140
 So learning to steward

00:31:58.140 --> 00:31:58.900
 our time well,

00:32:00.480 --> 00:32:01.299
 learning to rest

00:32:01.299 --> 00:32:01.860
 in a culture

00:32:01.860 --> 00:32:03.200
 that rushes continually,

00:32:03.460 --> 00:32:04.680
 I think is among

00:32:04.680 --> 00:32:06.860
 the most countercultural things

00:32:06.860 --> 00:32:07.640
 that we can do

00:32:07.640 --> 00:32:08.640
 as a community.

00:32:09.080 --> 00:32:09.220
 You know,

00:32:09.220 --> 00:32:10.160
 last week we talked about

00:32:10.160 --> 00:32:11.620
 our bodies and sex and gender.

00:32:12.100 --> 00:32:12.779
 If there's anything

00:32:12.779 --> 00:32:14.180
 that is more countercultural

00:32:14.180 --> 00:32:15.300
 than the Christian view

00:32:15.300 --> 00:32:15.940
 of sexuality,

00:32:16.200 --> 00:32:17.540
 it's the Christian view of time.

00:32:18.600 --> 00:32:19.440
 I think it's among

00:32:19.440 --> 00:32:20.920
 the most countercultural things

00:32:20.920 --> 00:32:22.259
 that we have to offer

00:32:22.259 --> 00:32:22.900
 this world

00:32:22.900 --> 00:32:25.040
 because it says loudly

00:32:25.040 --> 00:32:25.620
 and clearly

00:32:25.620 --> 00:32:27.140
 that we are not bound

00:32:27.140 --> 00:32:28.240
 and enslaved

00:32:28.240 --> 00:32:30.000
 to the tyranny of time

00:32:30.000 --> 00:32:32.160
 because we actually serve

00:32:32.160 --> 00:32:33.259
 the Lord of time,

00:32:33.820 --> 00:32:34.779
 the Lord of Sabbath,

00:32:35.320 --> 00:32:36.380
 the Lord of rest,

00:32:36.920 --> 00:32:37.980
 the God who was

00:32:37.980 --> 00:32:39.740
 and is and is to come.

00:32:40.860 --> 00:32:41.500
 Let's pray.

00:32:43.700 --> 00:32:44.319
 Our Father,

00:32:44.400 --> 00:32:45.700
 we thank you for your word

00:32:45.700 --> 00:32:46.620
 and we thank you

00:32:46.620 --> 00:32:48.420
 for the fact

00:32:48.420 --> 00:32:49.039
 that you not only

00:32:49.039 --> 00:32:50.039
 created time

00:32:50.039 --> 00:32:51.059
 and established

00:32:51.059 --> 00:32:51.860
 the rhythms

00:32:51.860 --> 00:32:52.759
 of day and night,

00:32:53.759 --> 00:32:54.839
 the revolutions

00:32:54.839 --> 00:32:55.559
 of the planets,

00:32:56.559 --> 00:32:58.200
 but rather, Lord,

00:32:58.339 --> 00:32:59.819
 you also give us

00:32:59.819 --> 00:33:00.880
 a way to steward

00:33:00.880 --> 00:33:01.400
 that time,

00:33:01.500 --> 00:33:02.000
 to recognize

00:33:02.000 --> 00:33:03.180
 that it is all a gift

00:33:03.180 --> 00:33:05.099
 and you show us

00:33:05.099 --> 00:33:06.000
 in Jesus Christ

00:33:06.000 --> 00:33:07.759
 how to live our lives

00:33:07.759 --> 00:33:09.099
 and structure our time

00:33:09.099 --> 00:33:10.980
 in ways that are centered

00:33:10.980 --> 00:33:11.599
 on you,

00:33:11.900 --> 00:33:12.700
 that make you

00:33:12.700 --> 00:33:14.339
 the priority

00:33:14.339 --> 00:33:15.279
 and the object

00:33:15.279 --> 00:33:17.240
 of our lives.

00:33:17.819 --> 00:33:18.740
 We pray that you would

00:33:18.740 --> 00:33:19.460
 instill this truth

00:33:19.460 --> 00:33:20.200
 deeply in us,

00:33:20.240 --> 00:33:21.240
 that we would be enabled

00:33:21.240 --> 00:33:22.500
 and free to be

00:33:22.500 --> 00:33:23.240
 such a community.

00:33:24.099 --> 00:33:25.000
 We pray this in your

00:33:25.000 --> 00:33:25.720
 son's holy name.

00:33:25.920 --> 00:33:26.099
 Amen.

00:33:26.099 --> 00:33:26.220
 Amen.

00:33:26.220 --> 00:33:26.259
 Amen.

00:33:26.259 --> 00:33:26.279
 Amen.

00:33:26.279 --> 00:33:26.299
 Amen.

00:33:26.299 --> 00:33:26.319
 Amen.

00:33:26.319 --> 00:33:26.339
 Amen.

00:33:26.339 --> 00:33:26.359
 Amen.

00:33:26.359 --> 00:33:28.259
 Amen.

00:33:28.259 --> 00:33:28.299
 Amen.

00:33:28.299 --> 00:33:28.359
 Amen.

00:33:28.359 --> 00:33:28.380
 Amen.

00:33:28.380 --> 00:33:28.400
 Amen.

00:33:28.400 --> 00:33:28.420
 Amen.

00:33:28.420 --> 00:33:28.440
 Amen.

00:33:28.440 --> 00:33:28.460
 Amen.