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 Let's turn to God's Word. If you have a Bible, we're in 1 John and we're finishing chapter 2

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 and we're then diving into chapter 3. You can see it on the screen if you don't have it to hand,

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 but we're reading in 1 John chapter 2 and we're starting at 28, verse 28.

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 And now, dear children, continue in him so that when he appears, we may be confident

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 and unashamed before him at his coming. If you know that he is righteous, you know

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 that everyone who does what is right has been born of him. See what great love the Father has

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 lavished on us, that we should be called children of God. And that is what we are.

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 The reason the world does not know us is that it did not know him. Dear friends, now we are children

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 of God and what we will be has not yet been made known, but we know that when Christ

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 appears, we shall be like him for we shall see him as he is. All who have this hope in him

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 purify themselves just as he is pure. Everyone who sins breaks the law. In fact, sin is lawlessness.

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 But you know that he appeared so that he might take away our sins and in him is no sin.

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 No one who lives in him keeps on sinning. No one who continues to sin has either seen him

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 or known him. Dear children, do not let anyone lead you astray. The one who does what is right

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 is righteous just as he is righteous. The one who does what is sinful is of the devil because the

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 devil has been sinning from the beginning. The reason the Son of God appeared was to destroy the

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 devil's work. No one who is born of God's will continue to sin because God's seed remains in

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 them. They cannot go on sinning because they have been born of God. This is how we know who the

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 children of God are and who the children of the devil are. Anyone who does not do what is right is

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 not God's child, nor is anyone who does not love their brother and sister. For this is the message you

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 heard from the beginning. We should love one another. Do not be like Cain who belonged to the evil one

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 and murdered his brother. And why did he murder him? Because his own actions were evil and his

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 brothers were righteous. And let me sneak on into next week's passage, verse 16. This is how we know

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 what love is. Jesus Christ laid down his life for us and we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers

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 and sisters. And may God speak to us through his words today. There are so many different ways in which we

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 could look at this passage today. But I want to very simply look first of all at what we are

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 and what he has done, what we will be, and in the context of all those three things, what we are,

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 what he's done, what we will be. In the context of all three, think about the difference that that makes

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 to our lives today. If I were to say to you, or if the person next to you were to say to you this

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 morning, who are you, what would your answer be? Think about it. You're meeting somebody for coffee

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 afterwards and they say, who are you? What's your first answer? Is it to say, well, you give your

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 name perhaps, yeah? No, no, no, that's your name. But tell me, tell me more. Tell me what you really

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 are. Do you perhaps think about your family? Well, I come from this particular family. Or do you start

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 saying, well, I live in this particular place? Or do you start quickly? Maybe I suspect many of us

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 start saying, well, you know, I'm a teacher, or I'm a doctor, or I'm a nurse, or I'm a student,

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 or I'm looking for a job, or these are the things that I am. I wonder how many of us would say,

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 what am I? I'm a child of God. What am I? I've been adopted into God's family. What am I? I'm loved

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 by the gods of eternity. That, brothers and sisters, friends, today is what Paul, is what the writer

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 John wants us to understand as he comes and brings us this passage. He wants us to understand our

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 identity. He wants us to understand that what we are, before our human name, certainly before our

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 occupation, before any other attributes, that what we are, if we've come to know Jesus, is that we are

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 children of God. He seems as though, if you look through the passage, that he has to emphasize this

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 time and time again in many different ways, because others will contradict it. Others will not be ready

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 to remind us of the fact that we are children of God. So follow through the passage with me,

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 starting at chapter 3, verse 1. See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be

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 called children of God. This is what you are. But look at what he has to say. That is what we are. He

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 has to repeat it. You're children of God. That is what we are. I'd love it if that could be ringing in

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 our ears today. That is what we are. Maybe somebody could get the door there. We are children of God.

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 That is what we are. But he has to say it again. Verse 2, dear friends, now we are children of God,

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 and what we will be has not yet been made known. Verse 7, dear children, do not let anyone lead you

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 astray. Verse 9, no one who is born of God will continue to sin. You see, they record it again.

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 Children, you've been born of God. You're part of God's family. You're a child of God. There it is

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 again at the end of verse 9, because they have been born of God. There it is again in verse 2,

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 verse 10. This is how we know who the children of God are and who the children of the devil are.

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 Anyone who does not do what is right is not God's child. Time and time and time again,

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 in these few verses, he's telling us what we are. That our identity is not in our background. It's not

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 in our upbringing. It's not in our profession. It's not in our wealth or our lack thereof. Our identity

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 is as the beloved of God's. A child of God's. Loved by God. We could go on to say as we look at that

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 passage. A traveller. Many not recognising who we are. Passing through, looking to our ultimate

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 destination, which we believe will be so much greater than anything that we can have here.

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 But ultimately, a child of God's. I wonder what it'd be like, folks, if we were to see ourselves

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 increasingly as the beloved of God. Let me read to you just a little quote from the theologian

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 Henry Nguyen, where he encourages us not to put ourselves down and not to indulge in self-rejection,

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 as he calls it, because we're the beloved of God. And he says, and what I've found and reflected on is

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 quite a profound passage. A challenge to us listening to the voices that call us worthless

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 or unlovable. And it's when we do so that success and popularity and power can easily be seen as

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 attractive solutions. And he says this, self-rejection is the greatest enemy of the spiritual life because

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 it contradicts the sacred voice that calls us the beloved. Pause on that. The sacred voice that calls

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 us, that calls you, that calls me the beloved, that calls you a child of God, that reminds you that

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 you're someone who has had God's love lavished on us. Being the beloved constitutes the core truth of our

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 existence, he says. Let me repeat that. Being the beloved constitutes the core truth of our existence.

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 This is what we are, the beloved of God. How should that impact on how we see ourselves and

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 crucially how we see others? As the beloved of God, we have great strength to show love to others. We've seen

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 that in 1 John 1 and 2 about the love that we're expected to pour out to others. We see it again at the end of

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 our passage and we'll see it next week. As the beloved of God, we're those who are expected to be

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 extravagant in our love to others. What are you? A child of God. And Paul says, that is what you are.

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 The world doesn't know it. The world may contradict it. The world may try and give you all sorts of

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 different identities. But folks, if today we could leave saying we're a child of God, known and loved

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 by God, that is what we are. It's going to stand us in great stead for all that lies ahead this week

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 and in the days ahead. A child of God, that is what we are. What we are, what he's done.

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 Many of you have heard one of the stories which for me just captures beautifully.

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 A simple story which captures some of what God has done. Let me try and tell it to you today.

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 There's a fishing village on the coast of Denmark, off the coast of Denmark.

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 And in that village, there is a group of very pious religious individuals.

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 A small sect where they kept their eyes focused on what they felt was the greater days to come when

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 they would finally reach the heavenly shores. The leader, a very serious man, had led his little tribe

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 and then had died. And his two daughters were the ones who sought to follow in his footsteps.

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 They wore black. They felt their life should be marked by self-denial. They ate only gruel and

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 sometimes as a special treat, some boiled cod. And these two daughters, Martine and Philippa,

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 sought to lead this little group of people. But it dwindled in numbers and increasingly

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 felt struggling and pretty miserable. Martine and Philippa tried their best. But that little group

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 of only about a dozen people were riven with divisions. Two sisters refused to teach each other

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 about some feud that had gone on for years and years. Two men felt that one had cheated the other

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 over a business deal and would have nothing to do with each other. But still, Martine and Philippa,

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 who had had various friends, including a couple of men who had wanted to marry them at points and who

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 they had rejected in order that they might pursue this little work, tried to struggle on.

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 One night, in the driving rain and wind, a woman, Babette, arrives at their door and comes with a letter

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 from one of the suitors of Martine, a letter which says, please take this woman in.

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 She has no money, but she can cook. Martine and Philippa are not at all sure about inviting this stranger

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 into their house, but with some hesitation, they invite her in. And over the next 15 years, Babette works

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 with Martine and Philippa. She asks for nothing, but what she does is learn to cook this gruel and sometimes

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 this cod for these two sisters and for this little congregation. Day after day, year after year,

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 she works for them. Twelve years later, a letter arrives to Babette one day to say, Babette,

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 someone who you knew back in Paris has been entering the lottery for you every single week

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 and your number has come up and you've just won 10,000 francs. At the same time, it's the 100th

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 anniversary of the guy who founded this little congregation in Denmark. And the sisters, Martine and

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 Philippa, I think it would be nice to celebrate it in some way. Babette speaks up. She says to Martine

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 and Philippa, for 12 years, I've worked here and I have asked you for nothing. For 12 years, all I've

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 done is make your gruel and your cod. Now, I have one request. To mark this 100th anniversary, would you

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 allow me to prepare you a feast? They think we're not too sure about this. We're quite happy with gruel and

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 with our boiled cod. But they consult and they say, no, it is true. She hasn't asked for anything. We

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 better allow her to prepare us this feast. But their consternation grows as over the next week or two,

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 they see truckload after truckload coming into their little village as they see some magnificent and

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 unusual food entering into their village, things that they've never seen before. They see boats dock

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 and out of the boats are brought animals, are brought birds, are brought fish. They see the

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 most incredible wine and indeed champagne being brought into their village and their consternation

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 grows and they say to one another, we're really not sure we should be having this worldly feast at all.

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 They conclude that it would be rude to refuse to have the feast, but what they will do throughout it all

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 is sit in absolute silence. The day comes. The day comes and Babette's work comes to fruition.

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 And the 12 villagers from that church sit there and Babette begins to bring out the food.

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 She serves the drinks. There's one man who comes to visit who shows great appreciation and who

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 struggles to understand the silence of the villagers as course after course after course of magnificent

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 food is presented before them. Something happens. Slowly, gradually, some of their hearts begin to

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 be melted. And while they do not express appreciation, they do begin to talk to one another. Some of them

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 begin to reflect on days of old. The two sisters who hadn't spoken for 12 years start exchanging words

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 and discover that actually they like one another's company. The two men who had cheated one another

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 confess it and confess it and before long they're talking and even laughing together. And at the end

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 of this story, there are two final scenes. In one scene, the little villagers go outside, their stomachs

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 full, their hearts cheered from the banquet that has been spread in front of them. And we see them dancing

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 around the fountain in the snow, singing the songs of old that for a long time they had stopped singing.

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 The other scene takes us into Babette's kitchen. And in that kitchen, we see Babette absolutely

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 exhausted, sitting in front of piles and piles and piles and piles of dirty dishes and bottles.

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 And Martine comes in to Babette and says, Babette, it was quite a nice dinner.

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 She said, Babette, we'll remember you when you go back to Paris.

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 And Babette's response is, I'll never be going back to Paris. I won that money, but you don't realize

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 I used to be a chef in the Café Anglais in Paris and that meal is what I would have made there.

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 And that meal for 12 people in the Café Anglais with those at drinks costs 10,000 francs.

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 I've spent absolutely everything I have, Martine, on that meal for you. So I'm not going back to Paris.

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 I'm staying here.

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 Just a nice story. I think there are two lessons which we need to get from that story today.

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 Babette held nothing back. She gave her all to those individuals, even though by all accounts

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 they were undeserving, they were ungrateful, they were in some ways even unwilling to receive it.

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 She allowed them to feast on the finest of food when previously they had known only gruel.

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 She treated them as her nearest and dearest, as the dearly loved, despite them not deserving in any way

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 and them offering her no thanks. Folks, we've thought about what we are and I want to use this

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 simple story to emphasize what he has done. Verse 1, he has lavished love on us. The story that I've

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 heard before that I've recounted to you came to mind through that word lavish. He has lavished his love

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 on us. He's not given us just a little. It's not been given sparingly. But a bit like Babette's feast

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 where more food was poured out than they could ever have imagined. That is the sense of what God has done

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 as he has lavished his love on us. And verse 1, he's made us his dear children. Verse 5, he has taken away

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 our sins. Those things which bound us like balls and chains. Those sins which held onto us, which have

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 caused us such misery, he threw his death on the cross, Jesus Christ, the sinless one, has taken

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 them away. Verse 8, he has destroyed the devil's work. He who is the enemy of our souls and who seek

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 to bring only destruction to us has been destroyed through Christ. Verse 9, he has given us new life and

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 new birth so that we can read that we are born of God. And verse 2, he has given us a great hope for the

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 future so that what we have and are now is as nothing compared to the hope that we have for the future.

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 And suddenly when we look at this, we realize that that little story pales into insignificance

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 because what he has done is lavished on us his grace, his love, and his mercy.

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 Brunsfield, verse 16 says, this is how we know what love is. Jesus Christ laid down his life for us.

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 And in the coming weeks, we're going to read so many other verses that remind us of the fact

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 that what we are is children of God and what he's done is poured out extravagant love and grace into

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 our lives. Chapter 4, verse 9, this is how God showed his love among us. He sent his one and only son

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 into the world that we might live through him. Chapter 4, verse 19, we love because he first loved us.

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 This week and in the weeks ahead, we're going to hear it again and again and again. We're going to

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 hear that we're God's dearly loved, that he's lavished his grace and goodness into our lives. And I wonder

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 if we'll let it really sink in and if we'll allow it to change us. When we're inclined to negativity,

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 to envy, to hatred, to sin, will we come back to the truth that we are people who have been

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 recipients of God's lavish love? Will we stay close to that truth? Will we remain in it? Will we abide

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 in him? Will we not move away from the fact that our identity is as people loved by God?

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 Ephesians chapter 3, verse 17, Paul prayed for the Ephesians that they would be rooted and established

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 in love. In the New Living Translation, it says, may your roots go down deep into the soil of God's

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 marvelous love. I absolutely love that phrase. Can you imagine it being a gardener and trying to

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 just really dig, dig, dig down deep so that that plant that you've got is going to really flourish

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 and blossom? That's the sense that all of us, if we are going to flourish, our roots need to be going

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 down deep into the soil of God's marvelous love, absolutely confident that that is what we are,

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 those who are loved by God. But the same way as being children of God is mentioned about

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 eight times in the passage, so is the word sin mentioned a lot. In fact, it's there about 10 times

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 if you cast your eye over the second part of chapter 3. And again, for me, the little story

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 about Babette that I've told you just perhaps captures some of the thrust of the challenge that

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 we are given in this passage about the incongruity of being children of God, dearly loved by God,

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 and yet people who at the same time think that it's okay to continue in sin and in rebellion against

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 God. Isn't it odd? Isn't it odd that those villagers at that feast wanted to sit in silence

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 while an abundance of food and a feast was being presented to them? Wouldn't it be odd if they had

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 sat and said, we'd much rather the gruel than this wonderful fare that has been presented to them?

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 I think we need to see that continuing in sin is a bit like saying, no thank you, we'll just have

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 the gruel despite the feast that is made available to us. I've been struck this way. Isn't it easy when

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 we read verses like these ones? Verse 6, no one who lives in him keeps on sinning. No one who continues

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 to sin has either seen him or known him. Verse 9, no one who's born of God will continue to sin. That somehow

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 or other it's seen as telling us that we must try really hard to deny stuff that's really good.

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 Do you get that slight sense? You know, we need to really try hard to put aside all of these

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 temptations which, you know, yes, are very attractive, but we want to put them to one side.

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 But look at the context and look at what we're told.

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 Verse 5, he appeared so that he might take away our sins. Our sins are not good things. Our sins are

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 the things that stop us from being the people that God wants us to be and ultimately, if not dealt with

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 through Jesus, are the things that stop us realizing that eternal destiny of being in heaven with Christ.

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 Christ. And Jesus appears and puts away our sins. He appears and takes them away and instead offers

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 us all these great things. And the author comes and says, in light of that, in light of the fact that he

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 has taken them away, why would we want them back? He's taken them away. Why do we want to grasp them

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 and grab them and hold them back near to us? Now, of course, we know from the context from 1 John 1 that

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 sin will still be possible, that indeed we will still continue to sin at times. But as those loved

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 by God, as those rooted and grounded in God's love, isn't it the case, folks, that we should increasingly

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 be disgusted by that sin? Drawn to God rather than to the devil. And having tasted the feast, we say,

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 no, I don't want the gruel having been lavished with love and grace. We don't want to return to a

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 life that's marked by just guilt and sin and hatred. Can we allow the love and generosity and grace of God

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 this morning to draw us to him, to cause us to rejoice in him, to cling to him, and indeed to look

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 forward to what we will be, rather than to hark back to what was ultimately the days where we knew

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 only grew. What we will be, sorry, what we are, what he's done, and what we will be. It's good now,

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 it's good to be people who live as children of God, loved by him, and yet the amazing thing is we're told

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 at the start of this passage that, dear friends, now we are children of God, verse 2, but what we

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 will be has not yet been made known. But we know that when Christ appears, we shall be like him,

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 for we shall see him as he is. What we will be has not yet been made known. I wonder which of us,

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 if we decided to go on a holiday, let's say down to Windsor, and we'd hope to see Windsor Castle,

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 because we'd heard it was a splendid castle. And as we drove, we saw a little signpost,

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 you know the little brown signs, with a little picture of a castle, and it said Windsor Castle,

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 and there was an arrow to it. And we looked at that sign, and we looked at that picture,

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 you know the ones, and we thought that is a beautiful picture of Windsor Castle.

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 We can go home now. We've seen the sign, we've seen the image, it says Windsor Castle this way,

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 it's brown, it's white, there's a little cross in the middle of it. Fantastic. I think there's a

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 little bit of a sense of this in this passage. We're on a journey, God is bestowing us with so

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 many great things, but you know, to be content with only this is a bit like being content with just the

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 signpost to the castle, when actually the castle, when we see it itself in all its glory, will be as

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 nothing compared to what is ultimately just a silly little signpost that is pointing to the real

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 thing. What we will be has not yet been made known, but we know that when Christ appears,

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 we shall be like him, for we shall see him as he is. This is our great hope, that one day we will be

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 like Jesus. And we come back to the challenge of this reality. The challenge is that now if you've

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 got this hope, we purify ourselves just as he is pure. We're out of time and we need to finish.

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 But I learned something this week. I learned from a psychologist from the University of Michigan.

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 Who knows whether it's true or not, but this is what he said. He said that he studied people's faces,

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 faces, in particular the faces of people who have lived together for many, many, many years.

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 And did you know that apparently if you live with someone and particularly if you are happily

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 living with someone for many, many years, your faces will start to resemble each other.

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 Aileen's looking particularly worried about this reality. Maybe some others are also particularly

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 considered, but no, you love each other. You gaze at their face day in, day out. You do so for years.

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 You will start to copy their expressions and your face will change and your face will start to look

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 more like that person you love. Let's not get too caught up with whether that's true or not.

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 But let's take the point, shall we? And let's come back to 1 John, to this promise that one day

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 we will look on Jesus and incredibly, incredibly, we will be like him. We've thought of all that he's

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 done. We've thought of his boundless love and generosity. We've thought of how he gave absolutely

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 all. And we're told here, one day you'll look at him and you will be like him. For you will see him

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 as he is. And the challenge in the here and now, the challenge for while we remain travelers here,

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 is to increasingly in the here and now gaze upon his face, look upon his characteristics,

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 think of all that he has done. In the words of verse 4, purify ourselves as he is pure. And maybe

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 even now we will increasingly be like our Lord Jesus Christ. Isn't that something to aim for?

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 Isn't that a great goal? That his characteristics will increasingly be marked on our faces, on our lives,

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 and on our hearts as we pour out our lives in love for others. Let's pray.

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 We thank you, Lord Jesus, that through your love and grace,

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 those of us who simply say yes to you, know what it is to be loved by God and to be children of God.

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 Lord, that is what we are. May that fact transform us this day and in the days ahead, we pray.

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 Amen.