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 Okay, so we're not looking at Romans today.

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 So I very quickly adapted something that I was going to initially be speaking at this

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 weekend down in Chelmsford, which was a church conference.

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 And they asked me, one of the things I asked me to do was to speak on the subject of keeping

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 fresh and faithful in the ministry.

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 I was just saying that he's been a minister for a long time.

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 He's an old guy.

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 He's a punt of lots of wisdom.

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 So it was going to be a very short talk.

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 So I just looked at this morning and slightly adapted it.

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 So you'll bear in mind that it was originally to be presented to a group of elders and ministers.

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 And it's not really a sermon as such, okay?

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 But you're forgiving.

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 And you will forgive me today because it was a very short notice.

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 And I believe the principles that are involved are really applicable, absolutely to us all.

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 We all need to keep fresh, don't we?

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 We all need to keep faithful.

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 I just want to read a few words again from Hebrews, this time from Hebrews chapter 10

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 and verse 19.

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 I'm not going to preach on this, but it's just applicable, I think, for us.

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 Therefore, brothers, since we have confidence to enter the holy places by the blood of Jesus,

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 by the new and living way that is open to us through the curtain, that is through his

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 flesh.

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 And since we have a great high priest over the house of God, let us draw near with a

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 true heart and full assurance of faith, with our hearts sprinkled clean from an evil conscience

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 and our bodies washed with pure water.

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 Let us hold fast the confession of our hope without wavering, for he who has promised

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 is faithful.

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 And let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good deeds, not neglecting to

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 meet together as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another and all the more, as

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 you see the day drawing near.

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 So it's kind of relevant to that passage and what I say is some of it, at least, will

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 be included in that.

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 So what I have to say is based on retrospective learning, mainly.

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 So you look back at your life, you look back at your life just under 30 years of ministry

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 or Christian life or more in terms of Christian life.

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 And we kind of learn a lot of the time, don't we, retrospectively.

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 We look back at all the mistakes we've made.

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 And we say, well, if I'd done that differently, or if I'd thought differently here, and if

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 I'd acted differently, and God in His grace enables us to learn retrospectively.

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 And so it's great, but it is great.

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 We don't need to learn retrospectively.

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 We can learn front end, and that's good, obviously, and more important.

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 We all need to be kept fresh, don't we, and we all need to be faithful.

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 And maybe in the light of new elders that we're making shortly, it's important to remember

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 that as leaders and also for all of us.

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 We're always fighting.

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 We're always fighting to remain stale.

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 To remain stale.

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 Okay, okay, keep forgiving.

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 To remain faithful and not become stale in our Christian lives.

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 Now I want very briefly to define what I mean by faithfulness.

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 You need to be, and I need to be very careful in defining faithfulness.

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 Because when I'm speaking about faithfulness, I'm not speaking about our faithfulness in

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 comparison with other people.

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 You know, oh, I'm faithful.

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 There may be not.

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 But it's in relation to our own heart, and our relationship with God.

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 I'm talking about us being faithful towards God, because very often what we compare ourselves

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 to others and say, oh, I'm doing pretty well.

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 I'm pretty faithful compared with other people.

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 But I'm not interested in that, and we need to be very careful in making that definition

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 of faithfulness.

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 I'm not going to focus on some of the very obvious things.

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 I'll maybe mention some of the more obvious things in the ones that may be less obvious.

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 So here we are.

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 Some of the things that I think we need to work at in order to remain fresh and faithful.

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 The first thing is, it's really important, and it's the first text that I have, is to

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 work on humility.

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 Proverbs 11, chapter 2, when pride comes, then comes disgrace, but with the humble is wisdom.

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 Now, this is my main point, okay, is the importance of working at humility.

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 Much of what I'm going to say is subsumed under this title of working at humility.

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 Now, interestingly, you can't manufacture it.

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 You can't say, well, I'm going to be humble today.

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 You just can't manufacture humility, and that's where the spiritual disciplines come in.

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 That's where our connection with God in a daily basis comes in.

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 And I only want to focus on one thing on the spiritual disciplines, that is Bible reading

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 and prayer and church and Bible studying, all these things.

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 I'm going to say, let the light of His grace shine into the darkness of your own heart.

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 That's the main thing.

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 If you can allow the light of His grace into the places of your heart that are very dark,

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 then you will understand grace for what it is, and you will be grateful to breathe every

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 day, and you will recognize how much you owe, and you'll see how undeserving you are.

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 It's a great thing to take the discipline, spiritual disciplines, and not say, I'm going

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 to be good to have read today and prayed, and God must be very happy with me, but rather

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 allow these disciplines, the light of His grace to shine in the horrible, ugly, dark

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 places that you're afraid even to go yourself, because it will help you understand how much

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 you've been forgiven and how great His grace is to you that He still loves you and cares

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 for you.

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 And I recognize that it's the only place that the preacher can be as we rely on the Holy

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 Spirit, and in our lives also that we rely constantly on His grace to enable us to live

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 the kind of life we need to live, and not on our own ability, not on our comparisons

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 with other people, righteous comparisons, comparisons of righteousness with other people,

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 or how well and faithful we may be doing.

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 So work at humility.

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 Something we can't manufacture.

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 It comes as we allow God to deal with us.

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 It's a byproduct in many ways.

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 Enables us to be not that important.

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 Remember, I'm speaking to preachers and elders, and that's one of our tendencies to think we're

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 very important.

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 And we're not that important, because true grace enables us to see that we have great

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 power at our disposal and great significance in our lives and our calling, but paradoxically

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 it enables us to be self-forgetful.

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 And that's true for all of us in our lives.

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 We're servants of Christ and of other people.

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 We're not big shots.

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 We're not big shots as Christians.

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 We might be big shots in the business that we live, that we work in, or the academy,

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 or in anything else, but under Christ we're all one, we're together, and we can be servants

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 of one another, and we can do the menial things because we do them to God's glory, and because

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 it doesn't really matter that we're given important tasks in our Christian lives.

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 We recognize and we see, and we know that giving the cup of cold water is what Jesus recognizes.

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 That's what He sees, and He loves that.

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 That's a great release for us, and it's a great release in our lives.

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 We're really not that important.

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 So you will go tomorrow, do your best as a Christian with God's help and God's wisdom

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 and the dependence on Him, with a good motive.

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 You don't need to be the best at everything.

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 We don't need to be magnificent and the best in every field of our lives, but simply do

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 what we do.

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 One of my lecturers a long time ago in the Free Church College said to me, if it's worth

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 doing, it's worth doing badly.

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 Think about that.

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 I think I know what He meant.

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 I don't think He meant that do things badly, but I think He meant just do things, serve.

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 God will give you the grace.

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 Well, I think that's what He meant anyway.

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 But it's so easy to have a Messiah complex, isn't it, as a Christian, and particularly

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 as leaders.

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 Oh, everyone needs me so much.

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 We rethrone ourselves, whether it be in terms of leadership or in any other area of our

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 lives, and we regard ourselves, even in a church context, as so important that we believe

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 the lie that it's all up to me and my gifts and my abilities.

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 God becomes a sideshow.

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 He can't possibly do things without my help, but it's enslaving, and we make very bad

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 gods.

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 We're poor gods.

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 God is a good God, and He makes a good God.

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 We're not good gods.

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 So humility is very important because it reminds us we're not that important.

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 And also, and kind of parallel to this, keeps us from taking ourselves too seriously.

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 And that's important.

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 And God has given us a sense of humor.

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 It's a great thing.

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 Just look in the mirror sometimes and have a bit of a laugh at yourself, and stop being

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 so hypersensitive that everyone is out to get us.

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 We are being treated badly.

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 Just have a laugh sometimes at ourselves and about our lives, recognize that life will

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 go on without us as soon, maybe sooner than later.

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 And God can cope.

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 And when we receive criticism, and leaders receive a lot of criticism, and so maybe do

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 congregations and people in their lives, whether it be in the workplace or in the church, don't

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 be broken by it.

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 It's not an excuse to be critical from others to be critical, but recognize that that will

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 be life for us, and if we don't take ourselves so seriously, we can cope with that.

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 There's usually, even in the most severe criticism, a grain of truth somewhere.

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 Look for it.

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 Find out what might be there that we might to deal with in our own heart that others

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 might find critical.

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 But don't be precious as we are humbly under.

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 Grace is a great humbling reality and enables us to keep repenting and turning to God and

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 finding our identity in Him.

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 And it also keeps us learning.

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 We're disciples.

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 We're always disciples.

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 You know, and I think of when I came to Edinburgh 17 years ago, I knew nothing about city center

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 ministry, and you may be looking at me saying, well, you still don't know very much about

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 city center ministry, but I felt I've learned so much, things I never dreamed that I could

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 learn, and we've seen changes I could never have imagined in terms of the church and growth

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 and church planting, and it's good sometimes to admit our ignorance and to just cry out

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 for help and guidance and for God to lead us in the way He leads us.

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 So that's my main, most important thing, working at humility, and we all need to do that.

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 It's the absolute care.

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 It's the core of grace.

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 It's the core of understanding our Christian life and walk, and if we are proud, it will

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 just cause us no end of trouble in our Christian lives.

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 So humility, also work, and I guess they're all kind of related, work at honesty.

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 One Corinthians 2 verse 3, Paul says, I was with you.

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 This is the great apostle Paul, in weakness and in fear and in much trembling.

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 I think our leadership and our Christian lives should involve vulnerability.

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 Paul was willing to confess that he comes to them in fear and in much trembling.

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 Can you imagine that?

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 Can you imagine a leadership seminar today giving that kind of advice or that encouragement,

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 but there is a great sense in which we become vulnerable before our fellow Christians and

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 in leadership, not in a kind of vulnerable way, if you know what I mean, because it's

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 a vulnerability that's based on the strength of our relationship with God.

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 People need to see in our daily Christian lives and among the leadership that we struggle,

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 that there's a battle going on.

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 Now, that's a balance.

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 You can't always be saying either in leadership or in your life that everything's a battle

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 and a struggle and failing and feeling vulnerable all the time, but there's that balance where

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 we recognize, you know, how many people have you heard saying maybe to you, oh, I didn't

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 know you had any struggles in your Christian life, or I could give you hundreds of examples

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 of people who have said to me, yeah, but that doesn't apply to you.

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 You're a minister.

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 You understand.

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 All these, you don't have any battles or struggles, if only people knew, because we

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 so often just want to give the impression that everything's well, everything's good.

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 I've got it all sussed.

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 I have no problems.

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 And yet there must be that vulnerability as there was with Paul, because it's honest.

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 It's hugely honest.

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 And your life will be the most powerful sermon that people will ever hear, and that will

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 include your ability to say you're vulnerable and you're failed and you're fallen, but

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 you've gone back to the living God to be forgiven and renewed and refreshed and redeemed.

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 And that's tremendously significant.

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 Work it honesty.

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 Work it honesty in that vulnerable sense, but also in knowing what you're good at and

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 knowing what you're bad at and not trying to do everything, so that as Christians in

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 our lives, we accept that we delegate stuff to others who will do it better than us.

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 Others are very bad at that.

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 We've grown up in a model of one-man ministry, and it's difficult to break that.

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 And yet it's hugely significant and important that God has made us all to work together

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 as the body of Christ, and it means us knowing what we're not good at, delegating and also

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 others willing to serve and take on board.

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 So we have strength and courage and service, but also vulnerability and honesty.

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 If you're living your life based on living up to the expectations of others or wearing

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 a mask of decency, it will break you.

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 It will break you, because the Christian life is a matter of the heart.

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 So work it honesty.

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 And again, this is kind of similar, I'm going to cut out some bits here.

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 Work it being yourself in your Christian life.

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 Psalm 139, 13 and 14, it's just great, Sam, of praise about the created individual.

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 You formed my inward parts, you knitted me together, my mother's womb.

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 I praise you for I'm fearfully and wonderfully made, wonderfully all your works.

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 My soul knows it full well.

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 That's you.

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 That's the individual that God has made you, and it's important to know who you are as

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 an individual.

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 You're not just a lump, a part of a lump of a Christian body, that all kind of are the

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 same.

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 You are your own individual.

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 You're not somebody else, and somebody else isn't you.

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 Stop trying to be somebody else, and stop trying to make other people you.

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 We've got a great habit of thinking everyone must be the same.

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 And everyone must be the same as me, usually, and yet he's made us different.

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 Praise God for some of the different gifts he's given to other people that may not be

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 your gifts, and don't seek to fuse everyone into one bland mass of evangelical ordinariness,

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 because we're all different.

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 And it's important that we're not to try and pretend to be someone else.

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 I said, I was going to say to these guys, don't be a groupie on the Reformed preacher

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 circuit, celebrity circuit.

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 You know, there's this great thing about, you know, preacher, and I want to be like

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 the best.

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 I want to be at conferences, and I want to be like Tim Keller.

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 I was vowed I wasn't going to say Tim Keller, because it's not me that says it.

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 It's not me.

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 It's Corey.

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 He's the one that's brought that American guy into the congregation.

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 It's not me.

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 It's Spurgeon.

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 I said, I, whoever it happens, you know, we can't be, and as preachers we can't be other

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 people.

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 We have to be ourselves.

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 I have to look at the gifts of Corey and say, he's a great theologian.

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 He's a great preacher.

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 He's a better preacher than me, but he's different.

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 And he looks at the same way, and we fuse our gifts together, and there's not a clone

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 of Christianity.

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 And there's not a clone of being a Christian in the congregation.

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 There's not a clone in your workplace.

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 You know, you're an hour to be Christ-like, but in your own unique character, and that

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 will make you the best you.

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 When you're Christ-like and you are thankful for being you and being uniquely you, work

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 at being yourself.

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 Now, I was going to say something, well, at the conference, I was going to say, because

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 it's kind of, for me, it was important, so I'll mention it.

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 I'll just mention it.

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 God-tribalism at all costs, you know?

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 I think we're bad for it.

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 We're bad for it in our Reformed and Presbyterian tradition.

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 I belong to this group.

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 This is my identity.

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 Everyone else is rubbish.

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 Now, that can happen in churches.

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 We can be narrow and judgmental, and it's often accompanied by mean-spiritedness.

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 They just don't understand the Bible properly.

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 They just don't really have the teaching that we have.

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 It's important to see the blessings and the benefits and God working in other traditions

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 the way He clearly does, and learn from them.

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 And maybe they will learn from us, and we will learn together.

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 It's not about giving up our principles or all being blandly the same, and we aren't

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 going to agree with everyone.

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 We're not going to be Christianized, we're not going to agree with everyone either.

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 But please remember the constituency of heaven is going to be far more diverse and varied

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 than we would ever understand and recognize in our own.

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 There's not going to be labels there.

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 We will just be glad to be there, won't we?

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 We'll be glad even if we're the furthest, as some famous preacher said.

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 If we're just right at the back, we'll be glad that we're there, and there'll be a diversity

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 beyond our understanding.

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 It's great to know how much we don't know, and what I think we will find out how much

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 we got wrong.

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 Last couple of things.

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 In terms of faithfulness, it's probably not related to faithfulness and freshness directly,

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 is it?

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 Maybe it is.

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 But these are just some thoughts going forward.

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 They've certainly helped, and sometimes in my failure to apply them, I've recognized

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 stillness and a lack of faithfulness.

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 So last two things, be human.

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 And I guess they're kind of related previously.

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 As Christians, we're body and soul, aren't we?

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 We're not just kind of souls not inhabiting a body.

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 Remember who we are.

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 God is made as body and soul.

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 So I say to all of you, work hard for Christ.

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 Consider your motive, certainly.

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 It's good to work hard to be exhausted for Jesus.

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 That's fine as a Christian, to work hard in your workplace.

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 Do your very best.

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 Give of your best, physically, in whatever way you can.

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 Be the best you can be as a teacher, as a lawyer, as a joiner, an electrician.

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 It doesn't mean you will be the best, but make every effort to be the best person in

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 that environment.

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 And also then, when you work hard, play hard.

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 Play hard.

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 Enjoy life because God has given us that balance that we need to take.

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 Stop thinking that the world will not go round if you stop working.

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 It's not good for us to have that complex.

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 Take time off.

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 Take days off.

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 Take proper holidays.

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 Play hard, but play righteous.

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 But do something with... You can see I'm speaking to preachers at this point, can't

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 you?

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 Do something mindless.

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 On your day off, don't read Spurgeon Sermons.

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 Do something practical.

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 Do something fun.

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 Laugh again.

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 Please keep laughing.

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 It's terrible, isn't it?

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 The older you get, this is a rule of life.

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 The older you get, the less you laugh.

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 That's true.

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 The older you get, the less you laugh.

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 My children, when they were wee, they'd just laughed all the time, and we laughed with

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 them.

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 But when you get older, the way of the world, your kids growing up, Royal Bank of Mother

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 and Father, all these things, and he stopped laughing.

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 We don't laugh as much.

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 We think it's childish, it's not childish, God made laughter, and it's one of the great

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 releases for us.

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 So work.

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 Be human.

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 Be human.

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 And work, having non-Christian friends.

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 And again, maybe this specifically for people in... or geared towards people working in

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 a Christian environment.

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 But it's important that we keep non-people that aren't Christians as our friends.

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 Remember, our calling is to reach out to people who don't know Jesus.

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 How will we?

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 How will we do that?

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 Are we just expecting like a magnet to come towards us and just be willing to hear everything

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 we have to say as we splurge out to them?

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 Generally not.

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 We need to be committed in friendship and in faithfulness and in grace and in humility

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 towards them.

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 And it sharpens who we are and also keep great Christian friends inside and outside of the

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 church, of your local church.

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 So last thing, be human.

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 The last thing is, I think it's important to work constantly at being realistic in our

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 Christian life.

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 If we're going to be fresh and if we're going to be faithful, we need to work at being realistic.

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 Ephesians 6, 12.

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 We do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, authorities, cosmic

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 powers over this present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in heavenly places.

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 Now, we've said this a lot, haven't we?

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 That probably is, if humility is the most significant thing, this is the most important

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 thing to finish with, to recognize that our Christian life is a battle.

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 And that's where we will get to the place of renewed freshness and faithfulness.

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 Most of us will be plowing a battle in our Christian lives.

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 We will be envious and think that everyone else has it much better.

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 It'd be great to be in a Christian church in China or in different parts of Asia or

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 in South America or in Africa where hundreds of people are coming to faith and churches

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 are bursting at the seams.

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 Wouldn't that be great?

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 It's naive, isn't it?

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 And it's idealistic.

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 That is the life that we have.

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 It's a life where we need to realize that we have an enemy, far stronger, far more knowledgeable

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 than we will ever be, who often comes as an angel of light, who knows that Bible better

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 than you will ever know it, who probably knows your own heart better than you know it, knows

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 your sensitivities, knows your idols, knows our particular genetic makeup, and he will

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 attack on all of these fronts in our lives.

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 He knows the weak point in our lives, and he will go at that again and again and again,

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 whether maybe it's popularity.

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 Maybe it's a feeling of being isolated and rejected.

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 Maybe it's social media.

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 Maybe it's pornography.

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 Maybe it's the imagination.

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 Maybe it's your marriage.

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 Maybe it's your family.

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 But most often, I think, most often he will attack through our fellow Christian.

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 That will often be the case.

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 He will attack in all these areas, but in the place where we should be safest, the Christian

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 community, that's off.

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 This should be the place of grace and kindness, shouldn't it?

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 Am I right?

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 Shouldn't this be the place of grace and kindness?

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 Place where there's a community reflection of Jesus Christ that we're all corporately

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 responsible for?

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 Don't point the finger at others if it's not happening.

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 We all are responsible for that.

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 But isn't it so often that the church is the place where it's like Siberia for the Christian?

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 It's cold.

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 It's distant.

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 We're isolated.

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 We're misunderstood.

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 Where have I been hurt most in my Christian life?

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 Has it been down the pub?

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 Has it been watching football matches?

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 Has it been with my non-Christian friends from school?

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 No.

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 It's been from my fellow Christians, from my fellow ministers.

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 And I've probably hurt them as much as they have hurt me at different levels.

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 It's the judgmentalness.

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 It's the dismissal.

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 It's the religious mafia that pull us apart and that destroy us.

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 And that can be true for all of us in the church.

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 It can be a bleak place.

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 Isn't that tragic?

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 Isn't it sad that the legacy of the Presbyterian church in Scotland is that we split every

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 few years and become smaller and smaller and smaller and more insignificant and more narrow-minded

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 and more judgmental and more bigoted and more sectarian?

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 Isn't that bad?

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 And yet that's for some bizarre reason the experience that most of us have had at one

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 level or another.

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 So it's important for us to be prepared in being realistic, not being prepared for splits

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 or battles, but working with all our heart and soul to avoid them.

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 Remembering the unity of the people of God that we celebrate the Lord's Supper tonight.

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 Remembering the significance and importance of that there is one body.

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 But we do, in our Christian lives, because of being realistic, I think, need to develop

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 a gracious, if this is not paradoxical, a gracious thick skin.

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 It's a good thing to do, is to have a gracious thick skin so we can cope with the battles

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 and cope with the attacks and not take them so personally that we can say sorry and we

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 can also accept that there's something behind the opposition, very often a spiritual battle,

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 an enemy of our souls.

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 So we want to be fresh and we want to be faithful.

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 Really the only place that we can do that is at the foot of the cross and continuing

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 to learn.

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 The only way, I think, that I've survived in ministry is by, I think, beginning to understand

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 what Paul said in 2 Corinthians 12 verse 9 where he says, My grace is sufficient for

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 you, My power is made perfect in weakness, therefore I will boast all the more gladly

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 of my weaknesses so that the power of Christ may rest on me.

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 That's a great key that we recognize His grace is sufficient for us.

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 When you battle today at staleness and at being faithless, which we all battle to greater

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 or lesser degrees, maybe that you see His grace is sufficient for you and His grace

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 as it's worked out in community together that we support one another and help one another

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 and build one another up and refresh one another and seek to encourage each other to be faithful.

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 That would be a great thing.

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 Let's bow our heads in prayer.

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 Another God, we recognize our own staleness so often, the very routine of church, the

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 very routine of the service, maybe sometimes we think it's easy to go through the motions

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 and forgive us when we make the routine more important than the truth that we share.

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 Help us to recognize the good things in routine and recognize the disciplines that you encourage

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 us to have, that you say to us, Don't give up meeting together, as is the habit of some.

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 We know sometimes we drag ourselves out to fellowship and to friendship.

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 We drag ourselves to the place of opening our Bible where we would far rather watch

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 something on Netflix.

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 Give us when we just find it so difficult, but give us honesty and reality and that great

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 dependence on your grace to know and to see and to understand that our hope and our humility

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 and our lives of freshness and faithfulness, our gifts from you as we seek to live our

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 lives in your shadow, which is light indeed and freedom and life to the full.

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 So help us we pray.

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 And if there are any here today who don't know you and who are content with simply

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 knowing about you, may they reach out to you in faith today and cry for forgiveness and

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 for that knowledge of you, which is eternal life and which alone can supply the freshness

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 of true life for us.

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 So help us we pray in Jesus' name.

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 Amen.