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 Now, where I'm from, north of Seattle, our typical greeting, our greeting exchange is

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 very similar to the typical greeting exchange of Scotland.

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 So you would say, how are you?

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 And I say, I'm fine.

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 I'm fine.

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 Are we fine?

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 This morning someone used the phrase in the morning service, the pandemic blues.

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 I've got a bit of a pandemic blues, to be honest with you.

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 I'm tired.

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 Drury weather, short days of daylight, lots of darkness, rain, cold.

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 I'm tired.

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 I suspect you're tired as well.

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 And when we've got the pandemic blues, what we really want is to be refreshed.

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 I wonder what comes into your mind when you think about being refreshed, a weekend on

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 a beach in Spain, or sunny days and hill walks in the highlands, or a nice hotel room with

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 Netflix and room service.

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 Those are all good.

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 And they can be very refreshing, but Paul's idea of refreshment is something entirely

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 different.

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 Now, Paul's writing this from prison, not a comfortable situation.

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 He's got worse than a case of the pandemic blues.

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 But what he longs for in being refreshed isn't beaches or hotel rooms, it's not even his

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 freedom.

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 It's Philemon's obedience.

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 He says, refresh my heart and the Lord by doing what he's asked him to do.

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 And at the beginning of the letter, he said that Philemon's gospel-shaped manner of life

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 has actually refreshed the hearts of all the saints in his church community.

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 There's something about Christian obedience that actually refreshes us and our whole community.

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 Why is that?

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 Well, it's because of a catastrophe.

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 Catastrophe is a Greek word that we've brought into English.

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 It's two Greek words combined that mean down and turn.

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 It's a downturn.

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 A catastrophe is a sudden downturn of events that leaves your life totally changed forever.

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 There's no going back to the way things were before the catastrophe.

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 It has a ripple effect on your life.

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 Years ago, I knew a man who was in a catastrophic car collision and he became a paraplegic for

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 the rest of his days.

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 His life couldn't be the same after that catastrophe.

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 For many of you, this pandemic has been a catastrophe and you may have lost loved ones

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 like stolen from you and life just won't be the same.

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 Any loss of a loved one is a catastrophe and it leaves a hole that means your life is shaped

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 differently from now on.

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 Now the reason for this letter, right?

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 The reason for the letter is in verse 17.

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 It calls writing to Philemon to say, except him as you would accept me.

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 Receive Philemon your runaway slave as if he were an apostle of Christ.

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 But the reason behind the reason is a catastrophe.

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 Not the catastrophe of a runaway slave, not a catastrophe of perhaps him fixing the books

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 or stealing something from Philemon, but the catastrophe of the crucifixion of Jesus Christ.

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 J.R.R. Tolkien, my favorite author by so far, he actually came up with a new word to

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 describe the crucifixion of Jesus.

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 He called it the eukatastrophe.

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 That's just catastrophe with the Greek prefix EU put before it and that means good, the

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 good catastrophe, the good downturn.

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 Is the crucifixion of Jesus, the gospel, the good news that Jesus died for you in your

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 place for your sins so that you might live to God is the good catastrophe.

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 It was the most tragic event in human history, but it was the most glorious event in human

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 history and the world and all of our lives can absolutely never be the same.

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 So we're going to look tonight at how the gospel, this good catastrophe demands something

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 of us.

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 It demands that our life be shaped differently now.

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 Because the gospel happened, our lives must take a new gospel shape.

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 That's why Paul's asking for Philemon's obedience.

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 What does he want him to do?

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 As I said, verse 17 is really the center of this letter.

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 It's the whole point.

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 It's the impetus for Paul writing this.

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 He says, receive him as you would receive me.

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 Paul wants to be refreshed by Philemon's obedience to this request.

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 Before we can get into discussing this refreshing obedience, then we need to deal with the gospel

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 with this good catastrophe.

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 Paul's making a gospel-shaped request for gospel-driven obedience.

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 So here are the three points.

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 I don't know how to preach a sermon.

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 It's not a three-point sermon I'm discovering, but it makes it easy for me.

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 Here's three points then.

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 Number one, Jesus is building a family that the world can't explain.

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 Number two, family obedience isn't optional.

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 And number three, Jesus is more committed to your obedience than you are.

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 So number one, Jesus is building a family that the world cannot explain.

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 Receive him as you would receive me.

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 That doesn't make any sense without the gospel.

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 What could possibly form a community, a family, where a slave and a thief is received with

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 the same honor and dignity as a messenger sent from the risen Christ?

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 The world has no way to explain that.

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 Without Christ, the world's and our natural, sinful bent is toward social hierarchy, toward

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 the rich and powerful getting honor and the weak and poor and oppressed getting shame.

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 Darwin's theory of natural selection, the survival of the fittest, is the sinful posture

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 of all of our hearts without Christ toward everyone else, survival of the fittest.

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 It's cutthroat.

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 But Jesus is building a family so completely counter-cultural to that cutthroat survival

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 of the fittest, worldly culture that we all know so well.

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 The gospel is the good news that Jesus died in your place for your sins so that we can

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 have life to God together.

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 As we've all sinned and were only bought, were redeemed from that slavery to sin by

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 the blood of Christ, then in the family of God, there's no room for classism or racism

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 or favoritism or I'm better than you ism.

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 The blood of Christ is the great equalizer of humanity.

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 That's why in Galatians Paul can say, there's neither Jew nor Greek, there's neither slave

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 nor free, there's no male and no female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus.

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 Through the gospel then, Jesus is building a family that the world can't explain, a

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 family marked by showing each other radical honor, a family marked by dignifying each

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 other as children of the king of the universe, a family marked by lifting up our brothers

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 and sisters by encouragement, by forgiveness, grace.

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 In verse 16 Paul says to Philemon, now you can have an usmous back, not as a slave but

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 as a brother, both in the flesh and in the Lord.

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 Don't overlook that language of family.

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 It's easy to, especially in the south and the states where I've spent the last four

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 or five years, you walk into church and everyone's, hey brother, everyone's brother, right, or

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 sister.

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 It's not bad at all, it's a good thing actually.

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 But it's easy to make it almost flippant, isn't it?

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 We read over the language of brother and sister in the New Testament.

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 But Paul's actually saying this family tie, this brotherhood, it doesn't just extend to

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 the privileged and the noble and the rich, etc.

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 That's counter-cultural.

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 The world knows nothing of that.

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 The poor, the weak, the unprivileged, the working class, the oppressed, in Christ, we

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 are all more truly than your brothers and sisters.

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 We're brothers and sisters in Christ.

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 That's amazing.

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 But not only that, this new family that Jesus is building is an eternal family.

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 It's a forever family.

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 Look at verse 15.

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 For this perhaps is why he was parted from you for a while, that you might have him back

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 forever.

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 No longer as a bond servant but more than a bond servant as a beloved brother.

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 Through the gospel, Jesus is building a family that the world can't explain.

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 But you might say, okay, hold on.

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 I haven't actually seen Paul deal with the gospel in Philemon.

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 We see its kind of effects, but is the gospel in there?

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 It is.

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 Look at verse 3.

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 I love this.

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 Verse 3, grace to you in peace from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ.

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 Every email I think I've received in the last nine months has started with something like,

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 you know, hi John, hope you're doing well in these unprecedented times.

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 That's not what Paul's doing.

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 When he says grace to you in peace from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ, that's

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 not just a customary greeting.

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 It's the gospel.

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 It's the foundation for everything Paul's about to say.

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 Let's just look at it for a minute, kind of phrase by phrase.

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 Grace to you from God.

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 God himself loves you.

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 When he gave you the gift of salvation by sending his son to pay the price for your

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 sins, grace and peace.

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 What do we get from the free gift?

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 We get the very peace of God.

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 Jesus reconciled us sinners to the holy God whom we have offended.

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 But not only do we get peace with God, we, because of that great equalizer of humanity

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 that is the blood of Jesus, we get peace with each other now too.

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 So grace and peace to you from God our Father.

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 No longer is he merely the deity whom we have offended.

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 We've been given the spirit of adoption in Christ and are counted as sons and daughters

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 of God.

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 We get to call him Father and the Lord Jesus Christ.

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 We don't just get a big brother in Jesus though we do get that.

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 We get a Lord.

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 We get a master.

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 We get an anointed eternal King.

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 And that is the gospel.

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 Paul opens his letter with that remarkable greeting because it's the basis for everything

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 that he's about to say.

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 And just like this church, the church that met in Philemon's house only existed because

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 of that gospel.

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 The gospel was the good catastrophe that gave birth to the church as it were.

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 So if you're a Christian, grace and peace is your objective reality.

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 Whether you feel that or not, as a Christian, grace and peace is your objective reality.

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 In Christ we have grace.

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 In Christ we have peace with God and we can have peace with others.

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 But how does that grace and peace?

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 How does that objective reality enter into our experience subjectively?

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 We'll only experience grace and peace with God and with each other and in our hearts

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 when our lives conform to the shape of the gospel through obedience to Christ.

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 That's how it works.

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 Without gospel obedience, we won't experience grace.

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 It'll feel like toil.

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 Without gospel obedience, we won't experience peace.

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 It'll leave us weary.

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 This gospel, this grace and peace from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ is the

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 means of Jesus building a family that the world can't explain.

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 What a privilege to be a part of that family, isn't it?

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 Now, point number two, family obedience isn't optional.

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 Now, when it comes to Christian obedience, I think we can all tend toward two ends of

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 a spectrum.

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 On the one end we say, here's my duty.

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 Even though I don't feel like it, I'm just going to do the right thing because it's

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 the right thing to do but I don't want to, but I'm going to.

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 On the other end of the spectrum we say, well, real love is really from the heart and so

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 I'm not going to do the thing that is good until I really can feel it from the heart.

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 We all know both ends of these spectrum.

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 Think about reading your Bible.

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 We all know it's the right thing to do.

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 We need to spend time with God through His word.

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 Sometimes we do it like a duty and it's just ticking a box and our heart's not in it.

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 Sometimes we might say, well, I don't want to do it until my heart's really in it and

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 we don't do it.

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 Now, hear this, that's me on almost a daily basis is one end of that spectrum or the other.

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 I struggle with this.

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 It's a real struggle for us but this is sub-Christian.

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 Both of those ends of the spectrum are sub-Christian.

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 There is a gospel third way.

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 Thomas Chalmers called it the expulsive power of a greater affection.

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 When the gospel comes to us in the old language, when we apprehend the mercy of God in Christ

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 and when we're overwhelmed by the love of Christ, we do our duty both because our Lord

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 commands it and because we delight to obey our Lord and to please Him.

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 Paul calls that in Romans 12, transformation.

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 It's what the gospel does to us at the heart level.

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 It transforms us into a gospel-shaped manner of life.

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 Paul acknowledges this reality in verse 14 in Philemon.

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 He says, I prefer to do nothing without your consent in order that your goodness might

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 not be by compulsion but of your own accord.

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 Paul is using all of his persuasive skills in this letter and you'll see he goes from

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 being less direct to more direct as the letter goes.

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 He says, I'm just going to appeal to you but did I mention I'm an old man in prison

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 and he's becoming persuasive and by the end he says, confident of your obedience, sincerely

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 Paul.

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 He gets more direct.

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 He's using all of his persuasive skills to compel Philemon's obedience of his own accord.

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 He wants Philemon to obey from the heart but to actually obey.

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 In the gospel, Jesus says to us, I require obedience of you and I'm giving you a love

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 for me so great that you'll delight in obedience and you'll find it refreshing.

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 We saw that last week worked out in Derek's sermon, Philemon.

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 Paul could say, receive him as you would receive me because in Christ the Father received us

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 as if we were Christ himself.

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 Paul could say, if he owes you anything charged that to my account I will pay it because Christ

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 has said to the Father as it were, if he or she owes me anything charged that to my account

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 I have paid it.

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 That's how the gospel shapes us.

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 In other words, gospel doctrine always leads to gospel culture.

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 The truth of Jesus Christ dying in our place for our sins forms and shapes us into the

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 kind of people who can extend that kind of grace and love to those around us even when

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 forgiveness is costly.

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 What I want us to see is that the gospel does actually require obedience from us.

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 It really does.

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 Paul ultimately isn't saying to Philemon obey me.

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 He's not saying obey Paul ultimately.

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 What he's saying is obey the gospel.

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 Live like the gospel is true, Philemon.

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 Let the gospel doctrine lead to gospel culture.

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 Look with me at verses 8 and 9.

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 Accordingly, though I am bold enough in Christ to command you to do what is required, yet

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 for love's sake I prefer to appeal to you.

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 Now there's one little word I want us to pay attention to here.

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 It's the word required.

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 Keep bold enough in Christ to command you to do what is required.

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 There is something required of us.

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 Gospel doctrine must lead to gospel culture.

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 We must live like the gospel is true.

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 Otherwise, what was it all for?

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 Now we see this in the parable that Jesus told of the unforgiving servant.

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 Do you remember that?

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 This servant owed his master a great debt and he went and pleaded and the master forgave

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 this massive debt, unbelievable debt, unpayable.

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 The master wiped the slate clean.

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 Then that same forgiven servant went and started choking some guy who owed him just a little

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 bit of money.

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 Do you remember what the master said to this unforgiving servant?

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 He said, you wicked servant, I forgave you all that debt because you pleaded with me.

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 And should you not have had mercy on your fellow servant as I had mercy on you?

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 Gospel doctrine must lead to gospel culture.

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 If we have been forgiven, we must now forgive.

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 We forgive because we're forgiven to say it another way around.

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 We humble ourselves for others because the Lord of heaven and earth humbled himself for

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 you.

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 We honor and dignify others because the most glorious person in the universe honors and

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 dignifies us.

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 In other words, the family that Jesus is building will only preach Jesus to the watching world

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 if we actually live like a forgiven bloodbought family.

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 The gospel requires our obedience.

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 Now I need to say here before we move on, we're not saved because of our obedience.

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 It's really important, and I hope you don't hear me saying that.

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 We're saved because of Christ's obedience.

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 So when I say the gospel requires our obedience, I don't mean you obey to get saved.

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 I mean we obey because we have been saved.

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 And that's freeing.

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 I wonder, and I don't know, otherwise I'd get more specific, but I wonder what new green

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 pastures of obedience Christ is calling you to today.

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 Take that step.

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 Take that step of obedience, just gazing at the gospel in faith, waiting for that transformation,

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 and take the step.

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 His grace will be sufficient for you.

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 It may be hard, but it will refresh your heart, and it will refresh the heart of the saints

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 around you.

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 Now at this point, some of you might be squirming, and I know this because when I was preparing

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 the sermon, I was squirming a little bit inside.

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 Facing the reality that the gospel demands a response of obedience means also facing

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 the reality of how disobedient we can be to the gospel.

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 If you're feeling unworthy today, if you're hyper aware of your own disobedience, or if

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 you're feeling discouraged because you want to obey the gospel, you want to grow in holiness,

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 but you just can't seem to get better, then this is really important.

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 Jesus is more committed to your obedience than you are.

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 That's our third point.

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 Jesus is more committed to your growth in holiness than you are.

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 Jesus is more committed to your sanctification, to your becoming more like Jesus than you

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 are.

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 How can I say that?

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 Well, look at verse 20.

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 Yes, brother, I want some benefit from you in the Lord.

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 Refresh my heart in Christ.

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 There's a tiny little preposition used twice there, the word in.

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 There's a world of glory in the word in.

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 Benefit from you in the Lord.

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 Refresh my heart in Christ.

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 Because our locations are located in Christ.

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 We are so united to Christ by the Spirit that it's as if we've had an address change.

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 So maybe I used to be John on Blackford Avenue, now I'm John in Christ.

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 There's something more real about your location in Christ than your physical geographic location

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 on earth.

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 The Bible, the New Testament is full of this in Christ language.

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 Here's just a flyover.

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 If you're a Christian, your life is in Christ.

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 Your life is in Christ.

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 Paul says that in Colossians.

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 In his first letter, Peter says that our hope is in Christ.

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 Ephesians 2, Paul says we were newly created in Christ.

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 We read that this evening for our call to worship.

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 Romans 8 says we are free in Christ.

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 Romans 8, 39 says we have and experience the love of God in Christ.

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 Paul says elsewhere that Christ is the head and we are Christ's body.

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 That's how in Christ we are.

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 That's how united to Christ we are.

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 Is that we form the one person as it were.

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 Our obedience is in Christ because we are united to Christ.

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 We're so united to Christ that when the Father looks at you, he sees Jesus.

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 He doesn't see your sin, he sees Jesus's obedience.

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 We're so united to Christ that his obedience is counted as our obedience and our obedience

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 is just counted as the glory of God.

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 Like that's Christ in you working.

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 We're so united to Christ that his good is our good and our good is his good.

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 In other words, Jesus is more committed to your obedience than you are because he's more

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 committed to your good than you are.

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 We tend to be pretty self-destructive as people.

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 We do all sorts of things physically and spiritually that are harmful to us and are destructive.

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 But Jesus loves us more than we could ever love ourselves.

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 Jesus is more committed to our good than we are.

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 So friends, if you're discouraged by your own lack of obedience, your own lack of growth

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 in the faith, your own lack of spiritual maturity, your lack of holiness, please hear this.

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 Jesus is determined to see you in heaven.

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 He'll get you there.

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 As you take that next step in obedience, you may know what that is, then let that truth

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 as you take that step sink into your heart.

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 Emmanuel, God with us, is more real than we know.

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 He's with us.

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 If you can't say that you are located in Christ this evening, you can be.

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 Just receive what he's done for you.

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 The only thing you have to bring is nothing.

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 You just open your hands, as it were.

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 The empty hands of faith are all that we bring to Christ.

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 And the truth of the gospel will transform you from the inside out.

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 It's that gospel-driven transformation that brings refreshment to your weary bones, and

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 it refreshes the community, the whole family of God as well.

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 That kind of obeying because we love Jesus so much, obedience is life-giving.

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 It's deeply refreshing.

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 It's a joy to experience, and it's a joy to see in our brothers and sisters, isn't it?

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 So he says, refresh my heart in Christ.

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 Well, this is the end of our series, and it's the end of my sermon.

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 So we've done four weeks in Philemon.

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 The tiny, tiny letter, four weeks is a lot to do on that.

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 But I couldn't help but wondering, what happened to Inesimus?

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 What happened?

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 Did Paul said receive him as he would receive me?

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 He implies he wants him to free him and consider him as a brother in Christ and equal in the

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 faith.

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 What happened, though?

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 Did Philemon obey?

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 Well, we can't know for certain, but around 115 AD, Ignatius of Antioch, an early church

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 father, a pastor, a theologian, he actually wrote that Onesimus, this Onesimus was the

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 bishop of Ephesus, that Philemon freed him and he succeeded Timothy as bishop and pastor

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 of the churches for the Ephesians.

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 In fact, some have said that Onesimus was the one, this freed slave was the one who

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 actually compiled and collected all of Paul's letters and preserved them for future generations.

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 Maybe.

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 I really like to hope that that's true.

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 I really do.

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 But either way, this amazing little letter declares to us the story of our freedom in

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 Christ and of his marvelous family-building, community-shaping, world-changing love for

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 us.

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 So let's pray and thank him for that love now.

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 Lord Christ, we are moved, moved by your goodness, moved by your kindness.

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 Moved by the privilege of not only calling you our older brother in the faith as it were,

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 but our Lord, our King.

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 Thank you for including us in your family.

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 Amen.