Locked Down Love

[0:00] Welcome. Thank you for choosing to listen to another faith-building message by Pastor David Inchie. Faith comes by hearing and by hearing the Word of God.

[0:12] May your knowledge of Jesus Christ increase as you listen. Be blessed. Lockdown Lover. Lockdown Lover.

[0:24] LL. Lockdown Lover. Lockdown Lover. Wow. What is a lockdown lover?

[0:37] You know, this lockdown has brought a lot of nice things from people and also not so nice things out of people. Because this lockdown is kind of resetting people's lives.

[0:48] What we normally do regularly, we can't, especially socializing our social lives. Can you imagine we are having Valentine's special service and you are still in your house?

[1:00] Some of you are wearing your best and yet you are not going out. You are still in your house. Isn't it beautiful? It's beautiful. It's beautiful. We love it.

[1:10] So times change. Times change and this lockdown has actually made it very difficult for some people, especially they are socialized because some of us, let's say you live with a colleague, a friend, a mother, a father, who the nature of their job is, let's say they are key workers, let's say a doctor or a nurse.

[1:35] Every evening they are gone.

[2:05] And unfortunately, some people have developed a love affair, a love relationship, new love relationship or some love relationship that are not healthy.

[2:17] But it looks okay because it's keeping you through the lockdown. Lockdown lover. It's keeping you through the lockdown, through the pandemic.

[2:28] It's a pandemic type of relationship. A pandemic-induced relationship. And sometimes when the lockdown is over, a lot of people will have a shock of their lives.

[2:44] A lot of people will be very hurt. A lot of people will be disappointed. And there will be the residue and the impact of lockdown activities. There have been a lot of activities, either phone activities, video call activities, actual meeting, face-to-face activities, breaking down all the social distancing rules, activities, because somebody is desperate to meet somebody or be with somebody.

[3:10] Or somebody is desperate for love. In Genesis chapter 2, I want to show you something. In Genesis chapter 2, verse 18, it says that, And the Lord God said, It is not good that man should be alone.

[3:24] You see? Who said? God said, Lockdown has made you. It's like you're alone. So it's a lockdown situation that it looks like God is describing here.

[3:37] People say, I feel very lonely. I just all by myself. I just be boring. I just want to talk to somebody. I want to be somewhere. I want to meet some. It's a lockdown effect.

[3:48] And God said, It's not good for man to be alone. And so once you are alone, watch this. Because it's not good for you to be alone. Once you are alone, that means you are likely to be vulnerable.

[3:59] All kinds of things will be challenges and feelings and frustrations and worries. And while thinking, you have a lot of time to think far.

[4:12] It's all kinds of things. God said, It's not good for man to be alone. So the way you are not feeling the best in the lockdown, God is with you. You are not alone. God is with you.

[4:23] God knows that it is not the best for you to be isolated, for you to be separated. So thank God for this meeting. We can even be at home. But you are not alone.

[4:34] You are hearing someone. Someone is communicating with you. And you're having some interactions. At least you can laugh and you can relax. Yeah. It's not good for man to be alone. And God said, Because it's not good for man to be alone.

[4:46] When man is alone, he will look for another mate. So God said, I will myself. I have to make him a helpmate. He doesn't need a lockdown lover, a lockdown mate.

[4:58] He needs a helpmate. A help. I will make him an helpmate for him. How does that mean?

[5:08] You can just put it. I will make him a helper comparable to him and Ivy. I will make a helper suitable.

[5:21] Meet. Comparable. Suitable. That is what is necessary to deal with this issue of loneliness. This issue of boredom.

[5:31] This issue of what's going on now. If you are going to have somebody to be your life partner, then it must be the right person. It shouldn't be verse 19.

[5:44] Some of us, you have moved because of verse 18. You have found yourself in verse 19. Verse 18 is man is alone. Man doesn't feel the best. But you have found yourself in verse 19. What happened in verse 19?

[5:55] Out of the ground. God, the Lord, oh, the Lord got from every beast of the field and every bed of the air and brought them to Adam to see.

[6:05] It's not your mate. It's just to see how you can at least help. I mean, you can handle these times. But someone has landed and is looking for a mate from the beast of the earth.

[6:19] Hey, it's a poor selection. A very bad approach. And so watch this. When you are in a certain state, your judgment can easily be flawed.

[6:34] When you are in a state of desperation, you are in a state of frustration. You are in a state of worry. Your judgment might not be the best.

[6:44] So you have to be very careful. Sister, brother, the way you feel, nowadays the way you feel, you know what I'm talking about. The way you feel. The way you feel. Sometimes you feel so, so, so some way.

[6:59] There are times you pick your phone. You feel so some way. You pick your phone. I want to send him a message. I want to say, oh, no, I don't have to.

[7:12] I'll send those things. By the time you send a message, hi, what's the meaning of that? What's the meaning of that? Yes, that's true.

[7:25] And then you delete it. You send it and delete it. Now, do you know what's happening? The creatures from the beast of the ground are beginning to get your attention.

[7:38] Wow, wow. That's 19. It's getting your attention. It's getting your attention because you are moving in territories that is not for you. Some things, you have closed the chapter.

[7:50] You have ended the chapter. Don't go back there. Don't go back into some things. You know you are now a Christian. You know you've been hurt. You've been hurt before.

[8:01] You know you've made some dangerous mistakes before. But in this lockdown, it looks like you are forgetting so quickly about your mistakes, and now you are going to pick a helpmate from the beast of the field, from the fowls of the air.

[8:15] They are made from the ground, not from your body, from the beast of the field. I think I'm saying some interesting things. Somebody might be saying something.

[8:26] If you're not careful, if you're not careful, you go and choose what will hurt you. Listen, you can't go and buy a lion for a pet or a wolf for a pet.

[8:36] It might look like a dog, but it's dangerous. You want a pet, don't buy a wolf. Baby wolf, it looks like just a puppy. It looks like a baby dog.

[8:47] But this one will grow into a wolf. You don't know what you are getting yourself in for. But thank God, because of this tonight, God will spare you pain.

[8:57] He will spare you some damaging mistakes, mistakes that will affect your future. In Jesus' name. Amen. So the Bible says that God said, I'll make for him a helper suitable.

[9:09] And God, out of the earth, the ground of the earth, God brought to man everything, the beast and all that, to see what man would call them. And whatsoever Adam called the living creature, that was his name.

[9:25] So you see, God gave Adam so much. There's so much in your hands. Who you choose, that this is going to be my friend, God can don't even stop it. Once you begin to go in a certain way, God might not be able to stop you.

[9:39] So whatever Adam called the name of the beast, so it was. You are calling some people, you are, you are, what is it called? Bay.

[9:50] Is it Bay? Bay. Bay. Bay. Bay. Bay. Bay. Yeah. You're Bay. You're Bay. Bay number one. So, so the Bible says, the Bible says that, and then, but look at the verse 20.

[10:05] I like the verse 20. So Adam gave names to all the cattle and the, and the best of the, to the best of the air and every beast of the field. But for Adam, there was not found a helper suitable.

[10:18] The comparable there means suitable. Some people are not suitable for where you are going in life. Wow. Wow. Wow. They are not suitable. They are not, they are not suitable for the kind of children you want to raise.

[10:33] You don't want your children whose father. Have also got other children in different places. You don't want your children. Whose mother.

[10:44] Is so irresponsible. Doesn't like doing anything. All she does is nails. Like a tiger. All she does is nails. And doesn't like work.

[10:55] Doesn't do anything. And all is that. The children, they are crying. Doesn't do anything. Doesn't do shopping and nails. Shopping and nails and hair. And fake eyelashes.

[11:07] Yay. The whole set. The whole set. You know. And then much more seriously. Whoever you have children with.

[11:21] Your. It will determine the health of your children. Sometimes they are even. Academic. Academic. Abilities. It will determine. They are. They are.

[11:33] They are cousins. So. Who. You. So. We have to always think. Far. About. It's just. It's just fun. Fun. Can be very.

[11:43] Cost. Fun. Can be very costly. Wow. So. Anyway. There was no suitable. You need someone. Who is suitable. For your future. If you want to. Start.

[11:54] Some stuff. You have to. I'm going to show you. How do you get. A locked down. Lover. Not a lockdown. A locked down. Someone you have. You have locked down.

[12:05] For the future. Wow. Wow. How to secure. A locked down lover. You have to. Locked down. You have to. Lock it down. Locked down. We are in this thing. For life. We are in it.

[12:15] For life. Forever. Locked down. Not a lockdown. Locked down. Lover is temporal. Locked down. Lover is permanent. Yes. Locked down. Lover is temporal.

[12:26] Locked down. Lover is permanent. Wow. And what you need. Is a locked down lover. Someone. You know. Loves you genuinely. And you also love her.

[12:38] Or him. Genuinely. And you. You have. Long term plans. For the future. For the future. That's how God has made man to be. It's beautiful.

[12:48] Having to. Talk about why. You can't change your mom. And you can't change your dad. Because. The most important. Relationships in life. Are meant to be. For life.

[12:59] You can't change your sister. You can't change your brother. You can't even change your. Your cousins. So you need. So if you're going to make family. You're going to mix blood. Think about it.

[13:10] You're going to mix blood. Anytime. A man and a woman. Come together. There's mixture of blood. Not only that. I'm not talking about scientifically. I'm talking about realities in life.

[13:21] Because. When you check your blood. Your blood is made up of your mother's DNA. And your father's DNA. How did he get into it? You are mixing DNAs. You are mixing DNAs.

[13:33] You are putting your saliva in somebody's eye. You are eating somebody's DNA. This is serious. It's DNA. And sometimes you are growing. And someone's DNA is not part of you.

[13:45] It's inside you. And sometimes you are going forward. But you are not free. Satan uses that to destroy many people's future.

[13:58] But thank God. You will be an exemption. In the name of Jesus. Amen. So let's look at the text quickly. Let's look at the text quickly. And then verse 20 says that. And the Lord.

[14:10] Adam gave names. And there was no suitable partner. A suitable. A person for him. Why? Because all those ones are not right. Are not right.

[14:21] Listen. I don't see why you are in university. A young lady. You are in university. And you are going out. With someone who just stopped college. And is doing drag.

[14:32] Come on. Come on. Come on. It's not good. It's not born. It doesn't match. You will hurt yourself. You will hurt your future.

[14:43] I don't see why. A young man. You are in university. Stending to be someone. It's kind of like. And you are. You are beginning to. Go out with. A woman. Who doesn't value education.

[14:55] Left college. Didn't even finish college. Fighting. Everybody. Has been with. A, B, C. She's like an Uber driver. When it comes to relationship. Several people have come to. Uber girlfriend.

[15:09] Is that Uber girlfriend? Uber girlfriend. An Uber girlfriend. And she doesn't have any plans to change. She doesn't have any plans to.

[15:21] Sir. Please. That's. That's not your level. Don't mix. It's not comparable to where you're going. It's not comparable. It's not comparable.

[15:32] You. You. You are. A Bentley owner. You own a Bentley. And you own a driver. Why are you beginning to. Drive like an Uber driver. Hey. Who is looking for passengers.

[15:44] You are not looking for passengers. Praise God. So. Now look at verse 21. Let's see how the process went. How. Now.

[15:54] How do you. Find. How do you. Secure. A locked down lover. This is the process. Number one. The Lord. Say the Lord God.

[16:05] The Lord. The Lord God. You must learn how to trust God. Now. The Lord God. Caused a deep sleep. To fall on Adam. So. Number one. Deep sleep. Deep sleep.

[16:19] Pastor. What do you mean? What do you mean by deep sleep? Some of us. What you need. Is deep sleep. You have to be. You shut. Shut. A certain aspect of your life.

[16:29] To all the junk. All the junk. Close it. Shut it. Shut it. Go into a deep sleep. Because some of us. Are coming. From a certain background.

[16:40] And all kinds of things. Have managed. To trouble our lives. You have to. Go into a deep sleep. In that area. When it comes to that area. Some people need. A romantic deep sleep. A young lady.

[16:55] You are 15 years old. 16 years old. What do you need. A relationship for. Go to a deep sleep. Go into a deep sleep. Asap. Asap. Go into a deep sleep.

[17:09] Asap. Young man. Young man. You haven't even got to university. And there is not. There's nobody with any degree. In your family. And look at the wahala. The problem.

[17:20] The troubles in your house. Look at the hardship. The poverty in your house. And you are so academically good. You can end up in Oxford. You can end up in Cambridge.

[17:30] You can end up in some top university. And end up becoming a very big person. Chief Executive of Barclays. Why. What. Why do you want to waste. Focusing on that. Building your future.

[17:41] And you are now. Focusing so much on. Lava. Lava. Lava. Lava. Romance. Romance. Romance. Go into a deep sleep. For now. Sleep. Sleep. Girl. Sleep. Boy.

[17:51] Sleep. Sleep. What you need is not a boy. What you need is a sense. Sense to secure your future. Lady. What you need. Brother. What you need is not a girl. Girls are always.

[18:03] And they will remain pretty. Lady. Nowadays. I don't even see why a lady should. Should wait for a man. To come and make you important. Oh. Hey. You're fine.

[18:13] You are fine. Girl. Maybe no one told you. You must know you are fine already. You are fine. When someone. A guy comes and said. Oh girl. When I saw you. I felt like.

[18:24] Oh. Where the. Look at him. And say in your head. Look at this guy. This guy. A boy. He's a boy. Don't mind. Say thank you. And just move on. Don't put it in your head. You know you are fine already.

[18:36] If they tell you. You're so pretty. Say yeah. No. Thank you. Move on. Hear it. Move on. That's how they start. We are so pretty. For three. For three weeks. I haven't been able to sleep.

[18:46] When I saw you. He's lying. He's lying. If someone hasn't been able to sleep. For three weeks. When you see me. You know. So. I'm tired. I'm tired.

[18:57] He's lying. He's lying. So. Number one. How to secure. A true destiny.

[19:08] Partner. Destiny lover. Go to bed. If you expose yourself prematurely. It will help you. So. A deep sleep. My phone on you. And you must sleep. Sleep. And sometimes.

[19:18] When you come to church. God himself. Will put you to sleep. Some of you. God is putting you to sleep. But you don't want to sleep. You don't. You are waking up. God is putting you to sleep. You are waking up. Every time.

[19:28] On your phone. With some people. You sleep. Sleep. Because there's a lot of junk. That has happened in your past. Or your friends are telling you. Oh. You also need somebody.

[19:38] Oh. You don't need. You need sleep. Sleep. Sleep. God is putting you to sleep. You. Everybody must have a season. In your life. Where you are not into. All kinds of. Intense relationships.

[19:50] When you are not married yet. You need that season. In your life. Especially. When you. When. When you turn. 16. There must be a season. In your life. Where you really feel. You want.

[20:01] You want. Bible said. God said it. Saw it. Man needs somebody. But. He put him to sleep. Because until. God puts you to sleep. He. Take off. Some things.

[20:11] That must go out of you. So he can make something. Out of you. So number two. Number two. Bible says that. God put. God. Caused a deep sleep. To fall on man. And God took one rib.

[20:23] One of his ribs. And closed up the flesh. In his bed. God has a way of doing surgery. And you will feel it. Have you ever seen a man. Who is. Who is short of ribs.

[20:34] No. So how did he. Did God take it. He did. But he has a way of doing it. Such that. After he's done it. You don't feel the effect. But there are things. That God must take.

[20:44] Must take out of your life. He must take out of your life. Some guy who left you. That lady who went. Is God who took her out. God who took him out.

[20:55] Wow. God must take some things. Some of us. I'm about to say something. How many of you would like to. If. If you're going to. You would like to marry. A very. Selfish. And naughty.

[21:06] And arrogant. And bad character person. Bad behavior. Behaved person. Yeah. You don't want it. But some of us. We are also like that. So who wants you.

[21:18] Most of the time. What you don't want in others. You can also be like that. So don't you think. God has to put you to sleep. To remove that thing out of you. God has to take out. Some things out of you.

[21:29] Other than that. The one you are looking for. Will not like you. Wow. By the time. Eve shows up. He said. No. I don't like this guy. It's not my type. Because his character. It's bad.

[21:40] He doesn't know how to talk to women. He doesn't know how to respect women. He doesn't know how to talk to men. He doesn't know how to treat men. So. Eve has come. Adam has come.

[21:50] But no. No. No. No. No. I can't take this one. So God has to prepare you for Adam. God has to prepare you. For Eve. You need to sleep.

[22:01] God has to put you to sleep. And don't worry. It will take a process. Some of you in church. You can feel. Sometimes you feel so lonely. Especially at this lockdown. You remember them days.

[22:12] You could go somewhere. But now you can feel it. It's good. It's good. God is taking out a rib. He has to take some things out. He has to pull some things out.

[22:23] To reset you. To the person you have to be. Because Satan has injected so much into your life. Some of us have not actually been in any relationship. But. There are kind of things you've been exposed to.

[22:35] Or there's a personality. A personality trait. That may not help you. So God will learn. Will teach you. How to tone down. And work on you. Everybody must have this mindset.

[22:46] God work on me. God work on me. If you don't let God work on you. And you go for anything. You will be praying. That God work on him. Or work on her. And it will work. But when God works on you.

[23:00] It works for you. When God works on you. It works for your future. Amen. Amen. Okay. I'm giving you six points. So that's. So number one. Deep sleep. Number two. A rape must be taken out of you.

[23:12] To form. And God will bring it back to you. Number three. Let God work for you. Okay. Trust God. He's doing something. You. Trust him. Trust him.

[23:23] If you walk with God. You will never be put to shame. All right. You'll be okay. You. Especially. I. Some of you. I actually. I. Can I say I actually. Envy you in a certain way.

[23:35] Not too much. In a certain way. Because. Some of you are. Young enough. To allow God to start working on you. Yeah. I.

[23:46] Some of you. Are younger. Younger than when God started working on me. On me. He started working on me. At the age of 17. Some of you might be 16. Some of you are also old.

[23:57] You might be in your 40s. You might be. You are an auntie. Might be in your 30s. But still. God can still work on you. Anytime you are ready. He will come.

[24:07] When you don't give him the chance. He watches you. He will never force himself on anybody. But God needs to work on us. Someone say. God. Work on me. God. Work on me.

[24:19] He will work on your character. He will work on your attitude. He will work on your. Your strengths. And your weaknesses. He will polish you. He will never punish you.

[24:30] He will polish you. To become. What you have to be. So. Trust God. To work on you. He's working something out for you. And then. Let's look at. The fourth point. Verse 23. The point number four.

[24:42] Verse 23. Quickly. Verse 23. What does it say? It says that. And Adam. Said. This now is the bone of my bone. And flesh. Of my flesh. She shall be called woman.

[24:53] Because she was taken out of man. There is this suitability. There's this suitability. You can feed. Listen. How do you know.

[25:03] That somebody is wrong for your. For marriage. One of the biggest. Things that when you see the person. Never go out with that person. Is when they are very selfish. When they are selfish.

[25:17] Number two. When they are violent. Either verbal violence. Or physical violence. Stay away from such a person. It's not suitable for your future.

[25:28] Stay away. I just like him so much. When I see his bracelet. Six pack. Every woman will like. Hey. You are not every woman. You are not every woman. Every man will like this size.

[25:40] This type of girl. When you see her. She's so pretty. Listen. Never commit your future. To. Pretty. No. No. No.

[25:50] No. No. No. Pretty. Some of you. Some of you. Your. Mom committed. Or your dad. Your auntie. Your uncle. Committed his future.

[26:02] To prettiness. And he regretted it. You call. Jezebel is such a pretty woman. Jezebel. Oh. Jezebel is Tish.

[26:14] Is. And you see her. You might forget your middle name. Kadama. You might bite your tongue.

[26:28] She is pretty. Guys. And ladies. Please. In our generation. In these days. It's all about looks. But that's a facade. You can buy looks.

[26:39] You can buy looks. Many of the ladies understand exactly what I mean. You can buy looks. And gentlemen. You. What you need is beyond the look. You have to look beyond the looks.

[26:51] The real person is beyond. Is behind the curtain. The looks is a curtain. The looks. A lot of. A lot of people you see. A lot of guys who look very cool.

[27:03] And very. Valentine's Day. They know how to sweep a woman off their feet. It. Those are just pretense. And. Presentation. So don't say. Oh.

[27:13] It's okay. It's so good. You are getting yourself into trouble. It's you. And you wouldn't. You wouldn't like it. She will hurt you. And you wouldn't like it.

[27:24] So. Number. Number four. Is. You need someone. You have to be able to. Identify the person suitable. For where you are going. So. How can you identify someone suitable.

[27:35] For where you are going. If you don't know where you are going. How can you know which bus. You are supposed to join. Which route. Bus route you are supposed to join. If you actually don't know where you're going. So first of all.

[27:46] That's why you have to focus on. Developing your life. So you know where you are going. And when you know where you are going. Anyone who comes in your life. You have to check them. With where you are going. If it's compatible.

[27:57] And you can see where you can go. You go together. You are a Christian. Why are you going out. With someone. Who doesn't have plans for Christianity. That is not interested in Christianity. It's going to hurt you. Because your entire value system.

[28:09] Is built around your relationship with God. His value system. Or her value system. Is built around something else. And the only common grounds you have. Is because you like each other. For how you look.

[28:20] How long. Even when you watch a movie. You need different scenes. For the movie to be exciting. If they keep the same scene. For a long time. It's boring. Yep. So.

[28:31] If someone is pretty. Someone is handsome. And always looks a certain way. And you keep watching him. Watching her. Watching him. How long will you keep doing that? What. Have you ever seen people.

[28:42] Who are living in their house. And they are gazing. At each other. At you. That's all you are doing. No. It's not real. When you get home.

[28:52] You don't gaze. When you get home. You live. So you need someone. You can live with. Not someone. You can be watching. They are not movies. They are not TVs. They are not mannequins. They are real human beings.

[29:03] And you have to have a real relationship. So if you know. This person is not ready. For the kind of relationship you want. Please run for your dear life. It might be a lockdown lover.

[29:15] And can never be a locked down lover. Wow. A lockdown. It's just 10 problems. And lockdown lovers are very dangerous. Because they will hurt you. They will hurt you.

[29:26] Whether knowingly or unknowingly. Because there's a chunk of you that is gone. Number five. Quickly. Oh. I like number five. Verse 24. Verse 24. Bible says that.

[29:37] Therefore a man shall. Oh. Therefore a man shall. A man shall what? Leave his. Leave his. Man shall what? Leave his. Leave his. Leave his. Some people.

[29:49] When they come into your life. They want to change your life. But they don't want to change you. They want to change you. You have to change who you are. Change so many. They want to change you. And bring you.

[30:00] Into their. Space. But he said that. Don't. Don't go off with someone. Who doesn't want to live. Their life. To start. A future with you.

[30:13] Leave. Leave. Leave. Now. So that you must be willing. You must be ready to check what they want you to live. Because if they want you to live your studies.

[30:24] You say. I don't think we are compatible. Because I want to continue my. I want to finish my master's. I want to finish my degree. And you don't respect education. So I don't think we are compatible.

[30:35] They want you to live. And you want them to also. Live a certain lifestyle. And they don't want to live. But they want you to live. You don't want them to live.

[30:45] But they want you to live. And you have to be very careful. That's. I'm talking about fishness. Selfishness. When you see signs of. You have to look out. Don't look out for signs of.

[30:57] How. Pretty. She is. How. Nice. He is. Sometimes. Because they want you. Especially. Ladies. Listen to this. Anytime. A man wants you. He really wants you.

[31:09] He will be so nice. He's the nicest guy in the world. He's so nice. Before you could think of coughing. He has rang you from there. I said. I feel you're about to cough.

[31:20] I feel you're about to cough. And you'll be. Six. Wow. You'll be blown up. Wow. You go on internet. Look for different types of. The kind of things you like.

[31:31] And before you could say. Jack. A special courier. This is not DPG. A special courier. Will come with a motorbike. And come and deliver. And you'll be. Ah. Oh.

[31:42] Hey. Hey. Listen. It's not real. It's not real. Don't mind. I don't know. It's not real. It's not real. Check. If that's what he does for his mom. If that's what he does for his sisters.

[31:54] Check. If that's what he's been doing for his friends. Then that's how it is. But he doesn't do it for anyone. The only one he's doing for you. It's not him. It's not him. It's not him. Yeah.

[32:04] I hope you get what I'm talking about. So it's very important to identify. Who they are. And watch out against selfishness. And the last point. Number six. So number one. Deep sleep.

[32:15] Number two. The rape will be taken out. Okay. So took his rape. Number three. Let God work for you. Allow God. Don't say.

[32:26] How can I find somebody. Who will suitable for my future? Wow. The way Pastor David found his own. I found my wife. And she's the best thing that has ever happened to me.

[32:38] Besides Jesus Christ. In my life. My wife is the best thing. We have been married this year. In the next two months. We'll be 18 years in marriage. And she's the best thing. Wow. All these events that I'm preaching.

[32:50] She organized everything with a team. I just came and preached. They just showed me the program outline. I came. She's such a brainy person.

[33:00] God lover. Sometimes she tells me. Please. You are a pastor. Take time away. I'll take the care of the children for school. It's hard. But I want to do it. As long as you are going to seek God.

[33:11] As long as you can seek God. I need you to love God more. As long as. It's God. Say okay. Just have. Just go for God. Go for God.

[33:22] Sometimes she. She gets me to do more for God. Sometimes when some friends do something that hurts me. And I'm about to. She don't react in a certain way. She reminds me. You're a godly person.

[33:33] Don't do that. She's been such an enormous help for me. And in my life. Pastor. How did you find her? I found her busy doing God.

[33:44] I was busy for God. Wow. And I found her in the same thing. Busy for God. You want a good man. But you are not busy. Most of the good men and good women. Are actually God men and God women.

[33:56] Hmm. Wow. Yeah. So. Please. Trust God. Do God. Do it God's way. Do it God's way. Do God's way. And God will take care of you.

[34:08] Everybody. All the people who are married. Pastors who are married. They are all busy doing God's work. And God has settled them. Hmm. So. So. Please. Do God's way. Pastor. I.

[34:19] I saw her. I was. I developed an interest in her when she was 19. Wow. Wow. But what's what? She was busy. She was busy doing God's work. That's early.

[34:30] Busy doing God's work. Busy doing God's work. Always singing. Always serving. Always singing. No wonder. No wonder she's married to somebody like me.

[34:40] And it wasn't when she was 38. It was when she was 19. She was busy. Focus on God. When I developed an interest in her. She didn't know. I saw her.

[34:51] Whoa. This looks like a bone of my bone. My bone. Bless you. Wow. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes.

[35:02] All right. So. I think. Get busy with God. And allow God. Number three. Number four. Identify the suitable one for you. Number five. Move away from selfishness. And watch out against selfishness.

[35:15] And then the last point is. And number. The last point is. Let's look at verse 25. And. Adam and Eve all happened. And they both were.

[35:25] Uh oh. They both. You see where nakedness comes. Last. Last. Cover your tummy. Cover your cleavage. Yep.

[35:38] Legs properly. Don't sell yourself cheap. That's all. They. They. They. And they were both naked. The man.

[35:48] And there is not only the woman. Is the man. And the woman. After. A process has gone through. They have discovered who they are. They were no. Both naked. That's when. You can get.

[35:58] Set to come. After the right thing has been done. You want. A locked. Down. Future. Secured. Lover. Do it right. Because.

[36:09] If you put. Naked. Before. The process. You will be ashamed. Wow. You will be ashamed. Wow.

[36:19] You open up. Your life. To somebody. Who else. You have been. Taking through. A certain. A certain. Veting process. You are dealing with your life.

[36:31] Yeah. For. Goodness sake. It's your life. It's even more. It's bigger than just your studies. It's your life. Your life.

[36:43] Someone is coming. Inside your life. And you'll. Vetch the person. If you are going to buy a car. Won't you check. The specs of the car. Mm-hmm.

[36:53] Won't you make sure. That this car is good. It can. You want to use it for. Maybe. Some racing. Is it good for racing. You have to check. Yes. So it's important. Don't just.

[37:03] Oh. This car makes noise. That's it. No, no, no. There are other things. You might never know. Mm-hmm. So. Do not choose. A future. Partner. Based on lockdown feelings.

[37:14] I feel. I feel. You waste your future. You waste your future. It's not feeling. You have to. Think. Use. The right. Right. Procedure. And then he said. They were naked. And not ashamed.

[37:24] In other words. They got intimate. They knew each other. And they were secure for the future. They were secure. You see where it started from. It started from lockdown. Man was.

[37:35] It was no good. Man was alone. The lockdown is preparing you. For a glorious future. Nakedness. Amen. But cows will come. Beasts of the field will come.

[37:46] Dogs will come. Monkeys will come. Tigers will come. Don't choose them. No. Don't choose them. Wait. Wait. For someone who you know. You check a few things.

[37:57] And works for your future. And that is when you can lock the person down. And after you guys are locked down. It becomes a long journey. Of a glorious life.

[38:08] In Jesus name. Thank you for listening. To hear more from David Entry. Follow him on Facebook. Instagram. Twitter.

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